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Speaker 1: because she committed the worst crime imaginable.

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Speaker 2: I mean, did she have her bridesmaids wearing different colors

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Speaker 1: Of the bride'smaids wore white and the only way to

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Speaker 1: fix that is to make that dress red with murder.

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Speaker 2: Let's get let's get the SWAT team in on this one.

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Speaker 2: Let's like really shut it down.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like we're gonna shut it down.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna shut it down style national squat every wedding

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Speaker 1: there we go, yeah.

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Speaker 3: Oh there's a bomb thread at the sow and Zoe's wedding, Oh, swatty.

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Speaker 1: And then the swat comes and it's like I met,

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Speaker 1: this party is the ball.

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Speaker 3: And then the swat seems like, my god, a great joke.

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Speaker 3: Everyone dies.

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Speaker 1: I female thirty two. Lost my mom when I was

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Speaker 1: twenty three. I love how we go from that.

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Speaker 3: Just sit this my good is of this show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was by far the most traumatic loss I

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Speaker 1: had experienced. I just couldn't and didn't want to accept

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Speaker 1: her death. It was unfair, untimely, and preventable, dang and preventable.

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Speaker 1: It's acually wonder what happened.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I got in therapy and was doing better, but I

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Speaker 1: had issues with my dad's new wife and her daughter

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Speaker 2: I mean, you know, stepmom isn't always the best thing

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Speaker 2: to throw in those situations. You know, it makes it

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Speaker 2: a little. They're not world renowned for Yeah, it making me.

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Speaker 1: Has taught me anything is to distrust all step things.

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Speaker 2: They've really just sown, sown the distrust into your psyche.

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Speaker 1: Disney has told me to distrust the steps, and porn

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Speaker 1: has told me to be around the steps because things

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Speaker 1: can happen mixed signals. We do not have a close relationship,

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Speaker 1: but we were cordial enough to sit at dinner tables.

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Speaker 1: My stepsister treats me as a relative and was very

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Speaker 1: though she's always visiting. When I moved in to help

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Speaker 1: my ex, so I returned home just in time. I

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Speaker 1: brought with me all of my mom's belongings, and my

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Speaker 1: stepsister showed interest in my mom's necklace hmmm, and asked.

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Speaker 3: Her she could borrow it to wear at her wedding. Oh,

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna borrow it. Yeah, it looks cute.

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Speaker 1: It looks cute and might be haunted, so it's fun

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Speaker 1: for my Halloween themed wedding. Yeah, trying to. I just

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Speaker 1: want to bring your mom into the wedding.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, I'm really being selfless here to be inclusive.

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Speaker 2: I want to include your mother's jewelry into my possessions so.

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Speaker 3: Exactly, and I want her to possess me. Yeah, there

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Speaker 3: we go.

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Speaker 1: I refused, and she tried every method in the book

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Speaker 1: to get me. It's me to the point where I

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Speaker 1: had to put it in a place where I thought

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Speaker 1: it would be safe after my stepmother got involved.

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Speaker 3: Wow, I mean that is that's egregious, Like, yeah, it's her.

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Speaker 1: It's it's op's mom's property. Put to try to take

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Speaker 3: Mom stuff from her insanity. It's like, but it looks

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Speaker 3: so good. I love it so much.

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Speaker 1: It's antique.

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Speaker 3: I need it, please.

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Speaker 2: It's incredible. How that just like, but it just looks

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Speaker 3: How they just lean on it, like, bro, just it's

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Speaker 3: it's my mom, it's my dead mom's jewelry. You just

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Speaker 3: have it. Could I at least have that? Please?

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Speaker 1: As the wedding approached, they both kept convincing me to

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Speaker 1: let my stepsister have it. She bragged about affording a

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Speaker 3: Yikes, geez. I stood my.

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Speaker 1: Ground and told them how serious I was, so then

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Speaker 1: they backed off. Okay, I didn't attend the wedding to

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Speaker 1: stay with my dad. I remember wanting to change. I

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Speaker 2: Why Why do the people of his stories always do this?

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Speaker 1: After searching for hours, I called my step mom and

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Speaker 1: she said not to worry. My stepsister took it and

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Speaker 2: So first off, you have to worry. You have the

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Speaker 2: you have the audacity first to steal it, period. Then

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Speaker 2: you have the the the extra extra you know, drizzle

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Speaker 2: of audacity sauce. On top of that, She's like, no,

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Speaker 2: she's taking it for the whole honeymoon. Well, yeah, what

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Speaker 2: are you doing going on the beach, Like I need

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Speaker 2: the diamonds to reflect son on me and give me

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Speaker 1: And also, how does this logic work anywhere? Like you

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Speaker 2: I'll give it back later, yeah, my wedding, and then

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna keep it on my honeymoon.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm gonna get back though.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, go to McDonald's. Oh, I'm gonna take this sandwich,

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Speaker 1: but not to worry. I'm gonna return it later. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna love the forum. It's gonna be Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: let's just say, I'm gonna do some of my own

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Speaker 1: processing and give you.

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Speaker 3: The product all dump it back on you. That you will.

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Speaker 1: I screamed at her to return it, but she argued

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Speaker 1: saying she'd have to keep me out for wanting to

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Speaker 1: make a scene. Maybe you shouldn't have stolen her family

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you ever think of that? That never crossed

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Speaker 1: I called the police and explain to them what was happening.

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Speaker 1: I informed them my stepsister intended to leave for her

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Speaker 2: It's getting dicey now, I mean yo calling the cop

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Speaker 3: I now pronounce you man, and put your hand to

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Speaker 3: the sky where I can see the freeze. Take all

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Speaker 1: The police were sent to where the wedding was being held,

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Speaker 1: Stepmom returned home and kept shouting at me, calling me

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Speaker 1: She was screaming at my sick dad, telling him to

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Speaker 1: I defended myself, saying I only wanted an item that

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Speaker 1: and said that she considers.

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Speaker 3: Me dead after this.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, she said stuff I can't mention here,

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Speaker 1: but all I can say is it was a bad night.

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Speaker 1: I might have overreacted by getting the police involved, but

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Speaker 1: I have had that experience with them in the past,

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Speaker 3: Return it. Am I the A hole?

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Speaker 1: I want to know who you think is the a

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Speaker 1: hole in this story and what you would have done

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Speaker 1: if someone stole like a priceless heirloom from you and said, oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna return it later, but took it without the permission?

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Speaker 3: What would you do?

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Speaker 1: Put your answers in the comments write this freaking second.

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Speaker 1: But while you're doing that, John, what do you think?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 2: Okay, I think we do have the obvious a hole

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Speaker 2: move of sealing the necklace pretty plain cut, right?

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That the stepsister deserves this treatment. I would probably go

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Speaker 2: I'll give you, and I'll tell I'll tell her like

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Speaker 2: I gave you the grace of not like I could

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Speaker 2: have called the cops on you, yeah and done that,

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Speaker 3: But I'm here right now. You got to give it

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Speaker 1: Just make sure that Op gets it back before the

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Speaker 1: wedding's over, exactly, And like if you don't, I if

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Speaker 1: there's no guarantee that Op's going to get it back.

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Speaker 2: True, But if I would say like I would say,

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Speaker 2: like I'm here, pulled up as soon as she goes

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Speaker 2: put it back on her court. Yeah, I get I

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Speaker 2: gave you the option of a smooth like literally, no

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Speaker 1: I mean I think OPI went a little overboard, like

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Speaker 2: Have Yes, it was super clear, and it's they obviously

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Speaker 1: So I think op is a little bit of the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I mean obvious a hole is the stepsister

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Speaker 3: The entitlement is just off the charts. The steps man,

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Speaker 3: the steps they can be evil or they can be fun,

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Speaker 3: but never both or maybe both hmmm sexy maybe Anyway,

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Speaker 3: let me know what you would do. Put your answers

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Speaker 3: to the comments and we'll see you soon. Okay.

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Speaker 2: Grandparents deserve a vote in baby names. Okay, let's hold

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Speaker 2: the vote.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, hold that vote, kid democracy, democracy in action for

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Speaker 2: Bro. When I was pregnant, my mother in law asked

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Speaker 2: My husband and I had decided on a name, which

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Speaker 2: started in on me again. I asked her why her

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Speaker 2: she said they aren't. I just think grandparents deserve a

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Speaker 2: vault of all.

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Speaker 1: Right, let's just have the grandparents vote and then or

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Speaker 1: like the grandma vote, and then the two parents vote,

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Speaker 1: and then oh, you're all voted.

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Speaker 2: I am sure. She said this because she knew my

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Speaker 2: husband was going to take her side, but her brain

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Speaker 2: didn't realize that she's not the only grandpa. I told

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Speaker 2: her I would think about it and we could regroup

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Speaker 2: at the next week's dinner.

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Speaker 3: She was absolutely giddy. She like, now I would have

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Speaker 3: my democracy in action.

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Speaker 1: Ha ha.

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Speaker 2: I let my parents know the situation, and then I

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Speaker 2: called my father in law divorced from my mother in

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Speaker 2: law and let him know the situation too. I let

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Speaker 2: my mother in law and husband know I'd like to

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Speaker 2: do a grandparents dinner at our home where we could

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Speaker 2: talk about the baby and our plans for the labor delivery,

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Speaker 2: et cetera, really including all the grandparents, counsel of elders.

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Speaker 2: For sure, this baby shall be At dinner, we discussed

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Speaker 2: some of the logistics. I announced that there was a

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Speaker 2: name that we had picked and a name that mother

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Speaker 2: grandparents deserve a vote.

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Speaker 3: So let's do a vote right now. I freaking now,

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Speaker 3: baby do. The change in her facial expression was amazing.

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Speaker 3: I relish that moment's relish.

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Speaker 2: I first asked, any other names you want to throw

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Speaker 2: in the ring? No, no one did.

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Speaker 3: That's right, I said, raise your hand for mother in

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Speaker 3: law's name.

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Speaker 2: My mother in law and husband raised their hands looking

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Speaker 2: like eyre the husband.

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Speaker 3: My husband signed with the mom dude, that's not okay.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I guess it's it's his mom. Yeah, but

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Speaker 3: it's like that's also his baby, like his child. So like,

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Speaker 3: I mean, maybe he liked the name and guess what happened?

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Speaker 2: What obviously four to two wins. Isn't democracy beautiful?

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Speaker 3: I wonder what the name was or oh it was no.

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Speaker 2: No, she just said to you, or so I thought

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Speaker 2: it was for a split second when I was reading

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Speaker 2: it back.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, that'll be funny though, that would be hilarious.