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Speaker 1: you filthy whorse. Your husband's gone and we've got books

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Speaker 2: It's Hollywood, it's books, it's gossip.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure it's memoir.

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Speaker 3: It's Martini.

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Speaker 2: Celebrity Poop Club.

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Speaker 4: Read it while it's hot.

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Speaker 2: Celebrity poop Club. I'll tell your secrets. We won't talk

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Speaker 1: No, boys are a loud celet book say it Loud

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Speaker 2: Buzz me in. I brought the queer Foe. Hey, hey,

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Speaker 1: Oh are you this fine summer afternoon?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I'm actually really good. How are you?

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Speaker 1: Thank you? No, I'm finding my groove in summer. I'm

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Speaker 2: Yes, I've been hydrating a lot of lemon water, lemon water.

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Speaker 1: I've been starving myself, as you know, to try and

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Speaker 2: I think they're coming to have you been having what

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Speaker 2: we're calling girl girl because I was really inspired by

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Speaker 2: you being Carbliss and this weekend, we were at a

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Speaker 1: I know. And then I did have to get off

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Speaker 1: there exactly. It's okay and you don't have to beat

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Speaker 2: Past two nights, I've had lettuce wraps.

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Speaker 1: Iconic. Yeah, I've been making this iconic dinner lately where

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Speaker 1: I make fresh wild caught tuna from Vietnam that I got.

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Speaker 1: So I do that. I'll like just kind of saute that,

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Speaker 1: And and then for my boyfriend, I'll make him a

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Speaker 2: I've been doing something so carp free in the past

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Speaker 2: already made a TikTok about it, so people should check

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Speaker 2: it out. In front of the pod. Daniel brought multiple

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Speaker 2: And I've been chopping up all the deli meat and

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Speaker 2: It's literally pizza delicacy, like a pizza shop in your

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Speaker 2: I know you just think about portions. Anyway, what is

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Speaker 2: your summer diet? Throw in the comments message us but first.

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Speaker 1: So we wanted to let you guys know it's summer.

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Speaker 2: If Stephen doesn't panic book a trip to Europe a

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Speaker 2: Okay, I want you to ay listen to old episodes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Call your mom, call your mom, touch the proverbial grass,

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Speaker 1: go to the beach.

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Speaker 2: Go to the beach. Turn the podcast, listen to new music.

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Speaker 1: How about no screens, how about read a book, vinyl, take.

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Speaker 2: Violin lessons, Oh my god, have a fiddle session, an

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Speaker 1: but we will still have new Patreon episodes every Friday.

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Speaker 1: So if you are desperado to hear our beautiful voices,

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Speaker 2: And they're gonna be locked and loaded with really fun.

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Speaker 1: Fun, really amazing content over there. You don't want to

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Speaker 2: So again, that's no episodes. If you're mestering us saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I want to be like I'm taking a break.

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Speaker 2: we recap our summers and Steven's like, Lily, I went

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Speaker 1: But first of all, we have the club kid hotline

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Speaker 7: W there, I am, hello, Hello.

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Speaker 2: What calls we have in store for us?

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Speaker 7: Well, we have several, and we probably don't have time

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Speaker 7: for all of them, okay, but I tried to pick

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Speaker 2: Darby, and I don't know, there could be another episode.

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Speaker 7: Okay, here's the first one.

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Speaker 3: Hie you to Crazy Cats and Kittens.

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Speaker 1: I've never spoken to any of these people ever. Again,

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Speaker 1: Boots, Boots, good luck. Let us know how it goes.

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Speaker 8: Hi, this is Katie from Durham, North Carolina, originally from Massachusetts.

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Speaker 8: I just discovered your podcast and I'm loving it. I

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Speaker 2: eighties workout star. Huh okay, watched one half of this that.

441
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Speaker 2: I was like, has anyone else we're in such a

442
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Speaker 2: crazy like pilates Like, yeah.

443
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Speaker 1: It's it is crazy because it just seems so far

444
00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 1: from where we are, like we're still in soul cycle

445
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 1: territory and like Equinize territory and just like fitness is

446
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,400
Speaker 1: lifestyle Haley Beeber smoothie and it's like there's no sense

447
00:22:11,440 --> 00:22:12,520
Speaker 1: of humor about it at all.

448
00:22:12,920 --> 00:22:15,280
Speaker 2: No, but it's funny because in like restaurant culture, I

449
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 2: would say, we're so in this like.

450
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,040
Speaker 1: Retro, but it's not cookie retro.

451
00:22:20,119 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 2: It's it's fifties.

452
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:25,360
Speaker 1: It's more fifteties. Yeah, and then like elevated fifties and

453
00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:27,560
Speaker 1: like what if it were the fifties but now, but

454
00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,560
Speaker 1: that kind of like cookiness.

455
00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, of like the legwarmers size.

456
00:22:33,720 --> 00:22:35,919
Speaker 1: I wonder if part of her idea here is that

457
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: it's like what we need is almost a counterbalance on

458
00:22:40,000 --> 00:22:41,160
Speaker 1: is the fun right, because.

459
00:22:40,960 --> 00:22:42,880
Speaker 2: There's zoomba, but people see that as like.

460
00:22:43,160 --> 00:22:45,080
Speaker 1: For old people, well, and it's coded as feminine and

461
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:47,159
Speaker 1: coded as old. Do you think Rtried Simmons And you

462
00:22:47,160 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 1: also think what it's very anti is very apple watch

463
00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 1: because exercise now is about efficiency, right, It's like what's

464
00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:56,440
Speaker 1: the best exercise, the best things to do to get

465
00:22:56,440 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 1: the exact body you want. Like, I don't want to

466
00:22:58,560 --> 00:23:01,119
Speaker 1: waste time. I'm not at the gym. I have fun.

467
00:23:01,160 --> 00:23:02,760
Speaker 1: I'm here to like look good at the past.

468
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,239
Speaker 2: Well, and if you do have fun, it's with like

469
00:23:05,359 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 2: a cult peloton instructor, ye, like soul cycle instructor that

470
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:11,120
Speaker 2: people are like, oh my god, he's like hilarious, He's

471
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: my god. Yeah, but it's still like you're laughing at

472
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 2: his like joke about housewives.

473
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:19,280
Speaker 1: But because it just seems like it's not going to

474
00:23:19,480 --> 00:23:23,679
Speaker 1: be powerful enough or like results oriented enough for people

475
00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 1: to want to adopt it in our extremely results driven.

476
00:23:27,240 --> 00:23:32,399
Speaker 2: Culture, I would go to one like it's like a

477
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 2: Golden Girl's theme jazzer sized glass. Yeah, but I honestly,

478
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 2: I just don't think it's taking off.

479
00:23:37,760 --> 00:23:39,640
Speaker 1: But maybe it's going to take off in a way

480
00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,639
Speaker 1: that like day raves take off for like sober people,

481
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:43,440
Speaker 1: and it's more.

482
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:46,800
Speaker 2: Like writing you go and everyone gets it's like certain

483
00:23:47,200 --> 00:23:48,240
Speaker 2: like windbreakers.

484
00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: The reason why I do think that maybe there's some

485
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:53,880
Speaker 1: grister argument is like I think about the eighties body

486
00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:57,199
Speaker 1: the high High High.

487
00:23:56,720 --> 00:23:58,679
Speaker 2: Which is the bathing stace. But all the girls.

488
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Speaker 1: I just love that, you know, the Jane found a

489
00:24:00,960 --> 00:24:04,400
Speaker 1: body like that is like a desirable body that is hot.

490
00:24:04,720 --> 00:24:07,840
Speaker 1: Maybe it's just about like not being so Haley Bieber's

491
00:24:07,880 --> 00:24:10,240
Speaker 1: boothing protein powder. I could see it maybe for women.

492
00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:13,080
Speaker 1: I don't see it going in the male workout space, no,

493
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 1: like is just only about getting like thicker and thicker

494
00:24:16,760 --> 00:24:17,280
Speaker 1: and thicker.

495
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 10: All.

496
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Speaker 2: I'm envisioning this kind of like community space, new wave

497
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 2: themed biking class. I don't think that's going viral.

498
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:29,720
Speaker 1: Okay, jury is out, Katie, but I'm upset.

499
00:24:29,760 --> 00:24:32,120
Speaker 2: I'll take one. I'm just saying, I don't know if

500
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 2: it's Yeah, we'll see, but I could maybe see it.

501
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,800
Speaker 2: It would have to be branded in this like specifically, like.

502
00:24:38,960 --> 00:24:41,440
Speaker 1: Maybe if it was Brandon is super chic like way,

503
00:24:41,600 --> 00:24:42,919
Speaker 1: and I think it would have to come from like

504
00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 1: the PILATEUS space, you know what I'm saying, because like

505
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:47,760
Speaker 1: Pilates is more about like tonin.

506
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 2: I think it would be like this retro hotel opening

507
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:55,200
Speaker 2: up a kind of like a Dollywood Golden Girls hotel. Yeah,

508
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,960
Speaker 2: and it's like the lighting is really specific in there,

509
00:24:58,280 --> 00:24:59,760
Speaker 2: and it's warm.

510
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's warm, and it's globe lamps and it is

511
00:25:02,119 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: like Fiddley fig and thigh Master. Yeah. Okay, so it's

512
00:25:05,320 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 1: Happy to the Ace Hotel. Maybe yes.

513
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,280
Speaker 2: And there's all these vintage Ordia trucks all.

514
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:13,760
Speaker 1: Right, maybe maybe we're believing. Okatie, Okay, sure he's still out,

515
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: jury is still loud. We'll check in in a year. Okay,

516
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: next call.

517
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Speaker 4: My best friends. This is Riley, longtime listener, first time caller.

518
00:25:23,080 --> 00:25:26,040
Speaker 4: One of my favorite running bits on the show has

519
00:25:26,080 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 4: recently heard in the Elliott Page episode is your impression

520
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:34,080
Speaker 4: of spoken word poetry. And it absolutely kills me because

521
00:25:34,119 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 4: I think it's very, very spot on, and myself, being

522
00:25:38,720 --> 00:25:43,639
Speaker 4: a big spoken word hater, I do have the question

523
00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:49,520
Speaker 4: of can it be good? Can spoken word poetry ever

524
00:25:49,640 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 4: be good?

525
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Speaker 1: In your opinion, I mean, it comes from a place

526
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:57,159
Speaker 1: of love, and I'm moved by it. Although I am

527
00:25:57,280 --> 00:25:58,080
Speaker 1: laughing at it.

528
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Speaker 2: I'm it's funny you say the word move because to

529
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:04,399
Speaker 2: take it on back, I would say the reason I

530
00:26:04,440 --> 00:26:08,880
Speaker 2: think we do so much spoken word roast is because

531
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 2: it's actually kind of like a nineties joke to make

532
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:12,600
Speaker 2: fun of a spoken word, because it's like, not that

533
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,280
Speaker 2: many people actually do it that much anymore. But Steve

534
00:26:15,320 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 2: and I would use our fake IDs to go to

535
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Speaker 2: a spoken word poetry night in Cambridge, mass that the

536
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: now defunct can't have a lounge, And yeah, was it ridiculous?

537
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 2: Was I still getting chills? Yes? Is there a poem

538
00:26:28,560 --> 00:26:32,200
Speaker 2: on an episode of Deaf Poetry Jam from nineteen ninety

539
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Speaker 2: seven about heroin addiction that changed my life called move? Yes?

540
00:26:37,280 --> 00:26:38,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean we listened to a city called the

541
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,080
Speaker 1: United States of Poetry that my brother had found at

542
00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:43,800
Speaker 1: the bottom of a lake and we listened to that

543
00:26:44,040 --> 00:26:47,439
Speaker 1: CD for years and it completely defined our personalities. And

544
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:51,119
Speaker 1: there's there's a lot on there that's super fun. I

545
00:26:51,119 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 1: think it's about contact and there's like some fun sound

546
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:54,880
Speaker 1: designs on those pieces.

547
00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:55,440
Speaker 5: Yeah.

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00:26:55,640 --> 00:26:58,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, really, there's like the old Jewish guy who is

549
00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 1: and his poem is like about New York and he's

550
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:05,080
Speaker 1: like New Yorkers, I have dropped things and you have

551
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: told me, sir, you dropped something, And there's like sounds

552
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 1: of taxicabs in the back. Like I like when there

553
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,919
Speaker 1: is a real melding of personality and art and the

554
00:27:17,000 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 1: content like comes out of that. But then of course,

555
00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:20,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's like when we listened to Lena del

556
00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 1: Ray's poetry book, like you're laughing because it is very

557
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 1: her but it's also ridiculous. It's hard to take seriously.

558
00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:29,560
Speaker 1: I mean, what's funny about that. Why I like that

559
00:27:29,640 --> 00:27:31,840
Speaker 1: see so much is because it's a compilation. I almost

560
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:35,120
Speaker 1: feel like spoken word is almost two on the nose

561
00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: and two revealings. So when you hear a lot of

562
00:27:37,000 --> 00:27:39,280
Speaker 1: it from the same person, it starts to just.

563
00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:42,159
Speaker 2: Be like totally agree, You're like, okay, I get it

564
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 2: when it's being like I went to the corner, yeah,

565
00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:47,400
Speaker 2: and an oh Man looked at me.

566
00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:49,840
Speaker 1: And frankly, when people are more of a comedian and

567
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:51,560
Speaker 1: they're funnier, like then it's better.

568
00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:54,680
Speaker 2: Yes, Like poetry can be funny, which is how also

569
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,000
Speaker 2: on that you know she's poetry just to shout out

570
00:27:57,480 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 2: my favorite writer, our favorite writer, I would say that's lestic.

571
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,960
Speaker 2: It's very hilarious and is a writer but started out

572
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 2: doing kind of sister spit poetry in like nineties SF.

573
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 2: So it's called alternative comedy. Okay, Yeah, you can do

574
00:28:12,920 --> 00:28:13,960
Speaker 2: poetry as comedy.

575
00:28:14,119 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I also think it's perfectly fine to laugh

576
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,320
Speaker 1: at the vast majority of spoken word because it does

577
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 1: take itself too seriously and maybe.

578
00:28:23,000 --> 00:28:24,640
Speaker 2: Just the general intonation of it.

579
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, and as Jacquelyn Novak once said, being a poetry

580
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:29,639
Speaker 1: major is very it's a bit much.

581
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Speaker 6: Next cal Hay, Stephen Lily. This is Cole from Seattle.

582
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:37,960
Speaker 6: I'm a twenty three year old gay man.

583
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:38,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

584
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Speaker 6: I aren't calling because I'm having a problem with cannabis. Oh,

585
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,440
Speaker 6: cannabis or basically sometimes in the pandemic. When I was

586
00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 6: in online school, we'd stops making me happy and now

587
00:28:49,240 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 6: only sends me into a psychotic, dark anxiety. It makes

588
00:28:53,000 --> 00:28:53,560
Speaker 6: me feel.

589
00:28:53,320 --> 00:28:54,479
Speaker 12: Weird around other people.

590
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Speaker 6: I feel like I'm saying the dumbest shit when I

591
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:00,320
Speaker 6: smoke weed. If I'm alone, it makes me mentally recountred

592
00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 6: thing I've done that week. It's just a bad time,

593
00:29:03,080 --> 00:29:06,280
Speaker 6: and I would just stop smoking, and indeed I largely have.

594
00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 6: But all the people I'm intimate with, like my partner,

595
00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:14,480
Speaker 6: my lesbian millennial friends, my housemates, they are all moderate stoners.

596
00:29:15,080 --> 00:29:17,760
Speaker 6: What gets me is that it makes them less anxious.

597
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 6: And what really gets me is it used to the

598
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 6: same for me. So I guess I'm wondering how do

599
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:25,240
Speaker 6: I deal with that? Does we'd talk to me because

600
00:29:25,240 --> 00:29:28,640
Speaker 6: I'm a bad person? What's going on. Any advice on

601
00:29:28,720 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 6: this is greatly appreciated. Thanks Chica's best.

602
00:29:37,520 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: You know who. This reminds me of our dear friends. Oh,

603
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:50,640
Speaker 1: I was going to say a dear friend Jackson Galaxy out. Yeah,

604
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: I mean no, because he had like roommates who smoked

605
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:55,000
Speaker 1: after like he was trying to.

606
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 2: Kind of down and social thing that you get into.

607
00:29:59,000 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 2: You guys, all sit down, someone rolls the jay. It

608
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,720
Speaker 2: passed along, you know. I have to say I used

609
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,880
Speaker 2: to smoke a lot more and smoking weed in high school.

610
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 2: I mean the laughs I had, oh yeah, giggle, giggle

611
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,200
Speaker 2: to the boots over here, and then I feel like

612
00:30:16,720 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: smoking in college. I don't know if it actually ever

613
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,480
Speaker 2: made me less anxious, but it didn't make me anxious.

614
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:28,200
Speaker 2: But I'll say, now weed, I know what you mean.

615
00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 2: The mind just starts racing. You think it's gonna relax you,

616
00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:35,000
Speaker 2: and then you're like, huh now I'm like randomly like tired,

617
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,480
Speaker 2: but up in my mind is racing. I don't know.

618
00:30:37,520 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 2: The only advice I have is like stop smoking weed

619
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 2: or buy this stuff dad grass, which is like lower.

620
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 2: I don't know, drink drink more.

621
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Speaker 1: I definite would say drink more. Now you know, I

622
00:30:48,000 --> 00:30:50,240
Speaker 1: smoked weed throughout my entire twenties. I was a total

623
00:30:50,520 --> 00:30:53,960
Speaker 1: weedhead and I was always like rolling joints and I

624
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: just love, love, love weed, and it would just make

625
00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: me feel great. I would go to the office high,

626
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 1: like I could just do everything high. And then sometime

627
00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:05,040
Speaker 1: around thirty, I just completely stopped having a taste for it.

628
00:31:05,040 --> 00:31:06,840
Speaker 1: It did make me feel anxious, it did make me

629
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:09,280
Speaker 1: feel two in my head. I didn't enjoy it anymore,

630
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:11,720
Speaker 1: and I largely stopped. I don't smoke anymore. And I

631
00:31:11,720 --> 00:31:15,040
Speaker 1: think it wasn't that hard, because that's kind of a

632
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 1: natural time, I think, to kind of get out of weed.

633
00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: And a lot of people, with my friends, they were

634
00:31:19,600 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 1: already like smoking less and we were moving into you know,

635
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,520
Speaker 1: our more adult face and like a more cocktail driven

636
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:27,480
Speaker 1: like extill.

637
00:31:27,040 --> 00:31:28,960
Speaker 2: We in our drinking area.

638
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:32,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so I do see your issue being twenty three,

639
00:31:32,880 --> 00:31:34,760
Speaker 1: where you're like, wait, it feels a little bit young

640
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: to get off the weed train. Everyone else is still

641
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,480
Speaker 1: sort of in potland, and I empathize with that struggle.

642
00:31:40,680 --> 00:31:42,880
Speaker 1: I will say though, that you do have to listen

643
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,840
Speaker 1: to your body, and if you can't really smoke weed,

644
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 1: you know, because it doesn't you don't like the way

645
00:31:46,800 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 1: it makes you feel, then yeah, just find other ways

646
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:52,680
Speaker 1: to get that place. You know, there can be a

647
00:31:52,720 --> 00:31:55,200
Speaker 1: real power And I'm going back to Elizabeth Taylor here

648
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:59,080
Speaker 1: in let the no thank yous fall like rain. You know,

649
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:02,000
Speaker 1: there can be a real self satisfaction and saying I'm good,

650
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,600
Speaker 1: you know, and then yeah, maybe you can't have a

651
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:06,440
Speaker 1: gen and tonic and maybe this is where your casual

652
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,840
Speaker 1: alcoholism developed. So I think that you can, you know,

653
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:10,800
Speaker 1: just related a bit, but I think you can find

654
00:32:10,800 --> 00:32:14,320
Speaker 1: a power and satisfaction in not smoking weed if it

655
00:32:14,320 --> 00:32:17,560
Speaker 1: doesn't make you feel great. And maybe one day you'll

656
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:19,360
Speaker 1: get to a point, you know where like, oh, if

657
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: you've had a few drinks, maybe you can have a

658
00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: puff of a joint and you don't feel nice if

659
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 1: you're in an environment where you feel comfortable. But I

660
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,200
Speaker 1: do think you really do just have to listen to

661
00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,440
Speaker 1: the old ticker on this one.

662
00:32:29,760 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, you put it perfectly. I would also say you'll

663
00:32:32,360 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 2: probably realize when you're saying no, if it's the pure

664
00:32:36,520 --> 00:32:39,320
Speaker 2: pressure vibe like your friends actually really are not going

665
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,680
Speaker 2: to care, it's probably the weed you're smoking right now.

666
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 2: That's making you anxious that they are going to care

667
00:32:45,800 --> 00:32:48,200
Speaker 2: that you don't want to smoke, and that's just you.

668
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:50,000
Speaker 1: Being anxious exactly.

669
00:32:50,560 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 2: And I don't think they care that much.

670
00:32:52,120 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: No, they don't. No one cares as much as you do.

671
00:32:55,120 --> 00:32:59,479
Speaker 10: Yeah, next call I Wily and Stephen. I was going

672
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 10: to call you the morning for some time sensitive advice

673
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 10: about how to get a cat out of a tree,

674
00:33:05,840 --> 00:33:07,920
Speaker 10: but that has actually been resolved.

675
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 13: My partner and.

676
00:33:10,360 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 5: I live in a small town in Maine, and we.

677
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:17,560
Speaker 14: Have two cats, and one cat got stuck like thirty

678
00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 14: five feet up a tree and the fire department wouldn't come,

679
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 14: animal control wouldn't come. But then you know, all the

680
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 14: neighbors are gathering and eventually a sort of blustering former

681
00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 14: athlete old man decides he's going to climb up this

682
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:35,880
Speaker 14: extremely unsteady ladder and then climb up a tree to

683
00:33:35,920 --> 00:33:40,000
Speaker 14: rescue our cat, which he did, but he almost lost

684
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,760
Speaker 14: his life in the process. He's the harbor master of

685
00:33:42,800 --> 00:33:43,480
Speaker 14: our small town.

686
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:48,800
Speaker 10: And so you know, we can keep tuned for headlines

687
00:33:48,880 --> 00:33:52,720
Speaker 10: of local harbor masters, the cat of local lesbians.

688
00:33:53,600 --> 00:33:57,840
Speaker 2: Wow, wait, no questions now, just the best story ever.

689
00:33:58,200 --> 00:33:59,960
Speaker 1: That's kind of yeah, I mean leave it to the

690
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 1: have a massa, you know what I mean, everyone else

691
00:34:02,560 --> 00:34:03,400
Speaker 1: is too afraid.

692
00:34:04,720 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 2: Homophobia. I'm also gathering if it's you're in a harbor town,

693
00:34:08,200 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 2: there's not that many fires. I don't know, because.

694
00:34:14,360 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: That's with that logic. They could just take some of

695
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,800
Speaker 1: the sea to throw it on, throw it on the

696
00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:24,200
Speaker 1: burning houses, right, So you think, like, what are they

697
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:26,360
Speaker 1: doing if not saving cats from trees?

698
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:31,799
Speaker 2: Literally? So one time my cat or so, I was like,

699
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: let her out in the yard because I was like,

700
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 2: that'd be fun for you. Instantly she climbed from an

701
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:42,880
Speaker 2: outdoor shower to the roof and it was a whole hullaballoo.

702
00:34:42,640 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 1: And then she was crying and couldn't get down.

703
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:47,480
Speaker 2: She was actually freaking chilling. She was fine.

704
00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: So what was the hullabaloo?

705
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:50,959
Speaker 2: Well, I was like, I can't just have my cat

706
00:34:51,040 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 2: on the roof.

707
00:34:51,960 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 1: Why not?

708
00:34:53,080 --> 00:34:55,319
Speaker 2: I mean, now that you say that, I guess like,

709
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,719
Speaker 2: why not? Because like I had other stuff to do.

710
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:02,400
Speaker 2: It's my anxiety And if she got further on the root.

711
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:03,640
Speaker 1: You need to smoke a little week.

712
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:05,160
Speaker 2: If she got further.

713
00:35:05,040 --> 00:35:09,640
Speaker 1: To many lesbian roommates, it doesn't sound like your cat

714
00:35:09,640 --> 00:35:11,960
Speaker 1: had anxiety, but it does sound like this main lesbian's

715
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 1: cat freaking out, and of course, you know, classically cat

716
00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:16,400
Speaker 1: through this thing. And then they start me now and

717
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,640
Speaker 1: we've all seen it, like I've seen, you know, cats

718
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 1: that I've had get up on high ledges and then

719
00:35:20,360 --> 00:35:23,279
Speaker 1: they go oh, and it's kind of like, Babe, what

720
00:35:23,360 --> 00:35:25,239
Speaker 1: did you think was gonna happen? What if you went

721
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,160
Speaker 1: back the way you came? But they can't put two

722
00:35:27,160 --> 00:35:29,200
Speaker 1: and two together because they's their cats.

723
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,520
Speaker 2: Their raids are small. I'm curious, do you think this

724
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:37,440
Speaker 2: person's more Augusta Portland Greater outer hour outside of Portland

725
00:35:37,520 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 2: on the coast.

726
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think they're an hour from Portland for sure,

727
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 1: and of course three of our coasts harbor master, yeah,

728
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:48,000
Speaker 1: the harbor clues. I mean, it's funny the bluster. You know,

729
00:35:48,120 --> 00:35:51,560
Speaker 1: it's like everyone wants to sit around and say, how

730
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: can we do this ethically? But at the end of

731
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,720
Speaker 1: the day, you need someone with balls to just say,

732
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 1: you know what, let's just fucking go get the goddamn cat.

733
00:36:00,239 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 2: Isn't more ethical to call the fire department than ask

734
00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:04,320
Speaker 2: your neighbors that what you're saying.

735
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:06,360
Speaker 1: Everyone was trying to be ethical and I wasn't working

736
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,080
Speaker 1: and you just needed somebody to say, you know what,

737
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:09,040
Speaker 1: fuck it, I'm gonna do it.

738
00:36:09,120 --> 00:36:10,960
Speaker 2: A former athlete. Okay, next call.

739
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,719
Speaker 1: Also, I'm just dying a description.

740
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:20,680
Speaker 12: Hey Lily, Hey Stephen. I wish to remain anonymous. And

741
00:36:20,719 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 12: this is not a question, but just like a little

742
00:36:22,960 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 12: fun story I heard years and years ago, a best

743
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:33,440
Speaker 12: friend of a best friend fucked Matthew McConaughey, and right

744
00:36:33,480 --> 00:36:37,359
Speaker 12: after he finished, he rolled over and clapped his hands

745
00:36:37,400 --> 00:36:41,600
Speaker 12: and was like, ooh, let's go get some tacos. And

746
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:44,920
Speaker 12: my friend's friend was like, okay, I didn't know we

747
00:36:44,920 --> 00:36:49,680
Speaker 12: were done, but yeah, okay, I love you all.

748
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:53,640
Speaker 1: Thank you for that great story.

749
00:36:53,800 --> 00:36:57,439
Speaker 2: I have no idea what gay guy this is. That's

750
00:36:57,680 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 2: so Matthew McConaughey. He is so like one, like I

751
00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 2: feel like, never knowing if a girl comes, nor does

752
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 2: he care.

753
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: Absolutely no idea.

754
00:37:06,320 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 2: No idea. It's like, oh, let's get some fish tacos.

755
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:17,719
Speaker 1: He loves tax max yeah and fish clearly not enough,

756
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:21,840
Speaker 1: though you know, it's fun, just as high five too five?

757
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:23,520
Speaker 2: Have you ever been high five?

758
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:23,920
Speaker 10: Or no?

759
00:37:24,000 --> 00:37:26,839
Speaker 1: Maybe I think he slapped his own hands together. Let's

760
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 1: get tacos.

761
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 2: Oh, yeah, Taco Tom.

762
00:37:29,800 --> 00:37:33,000
Speaker 1: No, I've never high five to anyone after sex. Same,

763
00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: and I don't know if anyone's ever clapped after I

764
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:40,520
Speaker 1: would never clap like a Blaine. Yeah.

765
00:37:40,640 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 2: I know a friend of ours who has been high

766
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,600
Speaker 2: fived after sex now with my mcgonnay though.

767
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:46,080
Speaker 1: Wow.

768
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:46,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

769
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: And I know a friend of ours who I would

770
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:55,240
Speaker 1: suspect does not know if women come same. Okay, next call.

771
00:37:56,280 --> 00:38:00,359
Speaker 5: Steven Lily, my partner. I've been together for like ten years.

772
00:38:00,719 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 5: We recently got married. We had our honeymoon in February.

773
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:09,799
Speaker 5: And it used to be, you know, early in the relationship,

774
00:38:09,880 --> 00:38:12,600
Speaker 5: we'd go out, go to a couple of bars, go

775
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:15,640
Speaker 5: out to dinner, make a night of it. And now

776
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 5: if we go out somewhere, I'm like, oh, let's go

777
00:38:19,200 --> 00:38:22,120
Speaker 5: somewhere after, let's make a night of it. And he

778
00:38:22,200 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 5: just wants to go home. He wants to be comfy,

779
00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 5: he wants to like hang out on the couch or whatever.

780
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 5: It's like normally not a problem. But we go on

781
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 5: our honeymoon. We're on this little island, We're at a resort,

782
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 5: we have dinner and then I'm like, oh, let's get

783
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 5: drinks afterwards. He's like I want to go back to

784
00:38:40,440 --> 00:38:43,040
Speaker 5: the room, and I was like, well, the honeymoon is

785
00:38:43,080 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 5: like the time to live it up. The question is

786
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 5: how do I make him want to like have a

787
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 5: night out and not just drink a little, but like

788
00:38:52,239 --> 00:38:55,000
Speaker 5: kind of go to a second location. I think in

789
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 5: his head he's like, I'm down with the first location.

790
00:38:57,400 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 5: I'm not down with a second location. Also, we live

791
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 5: an Amish country, so we're city, so going out as

792
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:06,919
Speaker 5: like a bigger deal now, So I think I want

793
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 5: to make more of a thing when we do do it.

794
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,560
Speaker 2: Well congrats. First, I think it's about like kind of

795
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:17,920
Speaker 2: just like doming the sitch, not just like, oh, do

796
00:39:18,000 --> 00:39:22,160
Speaker 2: you want to like get drinks after Yeah, it's kind

797
00:39:22,160 --> 00:39:25,000
Speaker 2: of just like be sexy, be like Okay.

798
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:25,560
Speaker 1: We're getting drinks.

799
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:29,359
Speaker 2: We're getting drinks, We're going somewhere. Follow me. Yeah, I'm

800
00:39:29,360 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 2: not telling you.

801
00:39:30,719 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: Yeah. I do think you have to kind of dominit

802
00:39:32,760 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: because once you get into the realm of should we

803
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: should we not? What do you want to do? You're

804
00:39:38,680 --> 00:39:40,759
Speaker 1: already just it's all right, where's.

805
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:43,240
Speaker 2: It gonna be? And then you're thinking, oh it's ten minutes.

806
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, then you're already weighing options and you've got him

807
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:49,279
Speaker 1: weighing pros and cons, and then everybody's just like it

808
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:51,440
Speaker 1: becomes very easy at that point to just give up

809
00:39:51,480 --> 00:39:53,000
Speaker 1: and say let's not take the risk.

810
00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 2: I feel like I've been on both sides of the

811
00:39:56,000 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 2: sword in my relationship. If that's a phrase where you

812
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:01,640
Speaker 2: because you've been dating for so long, you do have

813
00:40:01,680 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 2: a home together, and you're kind of like maybe the

814
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,799
Speaker 2: day before you had a conversation about budgeting and then

815
00:40:07,840 --> 00:40:11,040
Speaker 2: you're like, well, I could just make us cocktal at home.

816
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 2: Should we go and get like more seventeen dollars cocktails?

817
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,280
Speaker 1: Yeah? I mean I think it's like there's the special

818
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:19,839
Speaker 1: occasion of it. I mean, on the honeymoon large I

819
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:22,279
Speaker 1: totally empathize with you because of course that's when you

820
00:40:22,320 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: want to be living it up and go out in

821
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:24,640
Speaker 1: the hotel.

822
00:40:24,719 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 2: It's like the honeymoon, the experience, you know, get more pinas.

823
00:40:29,360 --> 00:40:32,279
Speaker 1: And I think also now you know, living in a

824
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 1: more remote area, you're like, okay, then there's even more

825
00:40:35,080 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 1: pressure when we do do these things. So I think

826
00:40:37,120 --> 00:40:40,600
Speaker 1: like that can also be a double edged sword to

827
00:40:40,719 --> 00:40:44,320
Speaker 1: piggyback off a sword metaphor and just to sort of

828
00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:46,040
Speaker 1: use the classic one, because it's just kind of like

829
00:40:46,400 --> 00:40:48,760
Speaker 1: that can like start to make it maybe a little

830
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 1: bit too high pressure.

831
00:40:51,000 --> 00:40:52,520
Speaker 2: You're like, it's the big night out.

832
00:40:52,800 --> 00:40:58,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, and so I almost wonder if it's about being

833
00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:02,800
Speaker 1: more experiment meal at the home.

834
00:41:03,000 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 2: It's funny because I was actually already thinking maybe you

835
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 2: should be a little more like we're setting up this

836
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:09,719
Speaker 2: bar outside.

837
00:41:09,960 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 1: Okay, that's cutting insane. I was thinking more just like,

838
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,399
Speaker 1: you know, if you're always being town up, this can chill.

839
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,520
Speaker 1: Like what if one night you're like we're playing.

840
00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 2: Chess, Yes, it's chess and chill. The other night it's

841
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:24,799
Speaker 2: like chess and cocktails. Right, my girlfriend I played Gin,

842
00:41:24,920 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 2: Rummy and cocktails. Yeah, turn off the TV.

843
00:41:29,160 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I love that.

844
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:33,440
Speaker 2: Cards. You do the crossword with your word.

845
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:36,480
Speaker 1: We do the crosswords and cocktails cocktails we do we

846
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:40,560
Speaker 1: research and Gin the American Idol season three card game,

847
00:41:40,719 --> 00:41:42,479
Speaker 1: which we probably won't be playing again.

848
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:44,880
Speaker 2: But it's like you did, and you can be like

849
00:41:45,040 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 2: that was such a hilarious.

850
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,880
Speaker 1: So we love to playing Orlog, which is a fictional

851
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:50,320
Speaker 1: game from medieval England.

852
00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,520
Speaker 2: Right, Or you could do like a thematic movie night thing,

853
00:41:54,400 --> 00:41:55,400
Speaker 2: or maybe.

854
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:58,680
Speaker 1: If he's so like where you watch like.

855
00:41:58,640 --> 00:42:02,959
Speaker 2: You're like playing the Godfather and like making boloonnaise, right.

856
00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:07,279
Speaker 1: We're watching the Interpreter and then we're having like Zimbabwe

857
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:07,719
Speaker 1: s due.

858
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,080
Speaker 2: Also, if it's about like getting sleepy, maybe it's about

859
00:42:11,120 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 2: like being a little more like early stuff. So it's

860
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:19,600
Speaker 2: like you're kayaking, getting like four pm bers, then an

861
00:42:19,640 --> 00:42:23,080
Speaker 2: appetizer somewhere and then dinner. Yeah, if he's so like

862
00:42:23,239 --> 00:42:24,120
Speaker 2: dinner zumed.

863
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: But let me also just say this, like what you're

864
00:42:27,920 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 1: asking for is not a lot, and it makes sense

865
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:32,440
Speaker 1: and like you should have that and that's fun. And

866
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,239
Speaker 1: I think that there's also the classic like have the

867
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:38,400
Speaker 1: conversation when it's not in that moment. So true, you know,

868
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,719
Speaker 1: this is very dense savage advice. But it's like when

869
00:42:40,760 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: it's two pm on a Tuesday and you're like both

870
00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:44,919
Speaker 1: working from home or something, or if it's like lunch

871
00:42:44,960 --> 00:42:47,360
Speaker 1: or something like, that's when you're like, i'd love to

872
00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: like go out more and be more like drinks after

873
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: dinner and be more jazz or like be more random

874
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,759
Speaker 1: bar and random club. And so it puts in his

875
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,120
Speaker 1: mind and then at that moment, he's not feeling like, oh,

876
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: I have to like go do this thing right now

877
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,760
Speaker 1: when I'd rather go home. You're just putting your desire

878
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 1: out there so that when he's like confronted with the

879
00:43:05,400 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: choice later, he can be like, oh, yeah, this is

880
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,400
Speaker 1: an opportunity to make her happy and like for us

881
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: both to have an exciting thing that maybe we weren't.

882
00:43:12,520 --> 00:43:12,680
Speaker 13: Wow.

883
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:15,440
Speaker 2: I couldn't agree more doing beautiful rather than being the

884
00:43:15,480 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 2: grumpy fight in the car exactly.

885
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,000
Speaker 1: But yeah, good luck and I think it'll work out.

886
00:43:20,120 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 2: I think it will work out. And I think it's

887
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:23,799
Speaker 2: just showing, yeah, what makes you happy, not just like

888
00:43:23,880 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 2: this desire to like I want to stay out. It's

889
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,840
Speaker 2: like about having fun together. And I think put that

890
00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,120
Speaker 2: emphasis of like, I have so much fun with you. Yes,

891
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 2: when we do ab.

892
00:43:33,120 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 1: It's exactly I love it. Yes, And it's about adventure

893
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: and exploration and sharing experiences together. Yeah, I'm sure you're

894
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:39,960
Speaker 1: figuring outage counselors.

895
00:43:40,040 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 15: Yeah, okay, next call.

896
00:43:50,960 --> 00:43:55,160
Speaker 13: I'm literally so nervouslyating this message, like chill out, Emma. Anyways,

897
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 13: I'm doing a thing this summer where I'm trying to

898
00:43:57,040 --> 00:43:58,600
Speaker 13: not have a lot of food on my fridge, but

899
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 13: I'm not going to eat sometime specifically for recipes and

900
00:44:03,040 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 13: it's been the real adventure. I think you're both low

901
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,440
Speaker 13: key fruities in a way that you don't acknowledge that much.

902
00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:09,840
Speaker 9: On the pod.

903
00:44:10,640 --> 00:44:13,920
Speaker 13: So my question is, when you're cooking, do you do

904
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 13: the thing where you're out here, like looking up recipes,

905
00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:21,560
Speaker 13: purchasing things for those recipes, and like budgeting, And if so,

906
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,800
Speaker 13: I would love to know a few of your favorite

907
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:27,759
Speaker 13: recipes or like sites or blogs or websites that you

908
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:30,719
Speaker 13: like to go to to get a good recipe. And

909
00:44:30,800 --> 00:44:33,879
Speaker 13: also like if there are any recipes you've literally come

910
00:44:33,960 --> 00:44:38,080
Speaker 13: up with all a mild glock anyways, please let me know.

911
00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:40,000
Speaker 13: Loved all the souls on board.

912
00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:49,360
Speaker 1: Okay, well this obsessed with you are like like what

913
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:53,040
Speaker 1: the fuck? Well, the answer to that is absolutely not.

914
00:44:54,040 --> 00:44:57,480
Speaker 2: I would say no, I don't have a spreadsheet out,

915
00:44:57,520 --> 00:44:58,920
Speaker 2: but I will say like.

916
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: You are more like I bought these greens that I

917
00:45:02,000 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 1: bought these carrots, and I'm doing like a larb on Thursday.

918
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,319
Speaker 1: You're you are more like I'm a.

919
00:45:06,280 --> 00:45:09,920
Speaker 2: Little more like week plan are just like okay, boys,

920
00:45:10,239 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, I got a chicken. So if I'm doing

921
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,000
Speaker 2: roast chicken, we're doing that, and then we're turning it

922
00:45:15,040 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 2: into a Vermicelli Vietnamese salad on Tuesday, and then a

923
00:45:19,239 --> 00:45:21,640
Speaker 2: little bit chicken salad for lunches on Wednesday.

924
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:23,920
Speaker 1: I'm a little more like getting the idea to do

925
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 1: this alice in room and meatballs at seven and then

926
00:45:26,480 --> 00:45:29,439
Speaker 1: going to the supermarket and buying like so much shit,

927
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:32,359
Speaker 1: and then we're eating at eleven thirty and then I

928
00:45:32,400 --> 00:45:34,440
Speaker 1: have left for meatballs, and then I have leftover dill.

929
00:45:34,480 --> 00:45:36,640
Speaker 1: And then two days later I'm like, Okay, now I'm

930
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:38,680
Speaker 1: making a pesta with the deal, and then I'm going

931
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:40,440
Speaker 1: out and like buying more shit to put in the

932
00:45:40,480 --> 00:45:42,920
Speaker 1: pesta with the leftover. So it's just kind of like

933
00:45:42,960 --> 00:45:43,960
Speaker 1: a it's a weird cycle.

934
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 2: But I would say you're a very union square farmer's

935
00:45:46,400 --> 00:45:49,400
Speaker 2: market and that I will push, not say you like

936
00:45:49,600 --> 00:45:52,640
Speaker 2: need to hear it, but away to cook what's actually

937
00:45:52,640 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 2: in your fridge is like just go to farmers market

938
00:45:55,239 --> 00:45:56,280
Speaker 2: and see what's there.

939
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: And get inspired, because like I'll see garlic skips and

940
00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 1: be like, oh, these are fab I'm obsessed with escapes,

941
00:46:01,000 --> 00:46:02,239
Speaker 1: like let me get them, and then I think what

942
00:46:02,280 --> 00:46:05,480
Speaker 1: can I do with escapes? And then I think pasto.

943
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,600
Speaker 1: A lot of pasto pasto based. So I get excited

944
00:46:08,600 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: by the quizinar because I'm like it literally just turns

945
00:46:10,719 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: anything into liquid and christ into like nobody anything you

946
00:46:13,960 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: have for like what can I do with this? It's

947
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,359
Speaker 1: like Quisinart, Bam, you have an incredible top and nod

948
00:46:18,440 --> 00:46:19,720
Speaker 1: pesto sauce soup.

949
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:22,960
Speaker 2: Like it's just like, actually get a mini queisnert. I

950
00:46:23,000 --> 00:46:26,879
Speaker 2: want you to make a pasto, yes, and maybe one week,

951
00:46:27,040 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 2: the next week a ramesco, and then the third week

952
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:33,319
Speaker 2: maybe like a peanut sauce or something like that, and

953
00:46:33,360 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: then have these like sauces in your fridge and maybe

954
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 2: like do stuff around those.

955
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,239
Speaker 1: Yes, And You're like I'm doing pasta one night, I'm

956
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:42,160
Speaker 1: doing a meat with the sauce. The next night like

957
00:46:42,239 --> 00:46:45,320
Speaker 1: I'm doing roasta egg plant and then like a side

958
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:48,640
Speaker 1: solid with and just like let that sauce inspire you.

959
00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:51,200
Speaker 2: And I think some of my go tos for honestly

960
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:54,759
Speaker 2: like not that many ingredients. I'm obsessed with making these

961
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 2: Vietnamese meatballs that I literally did find the recipe on

962
00:46:57,520 --> 00:47:00,240
Speaker 2: one of those like budget mombites dot com.

963
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,319
Speaker 1: I'm always going to just a healthy Greek mom dott

964
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: that and it's like you're reading the longest story about

965
00:47:06,080 --> 00:47:09,440
Speaker 1: how she went on a honeymoon with her husband and

966
00:47:09,480 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 1: like they had they.

967
00:47:10,520 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 2: Took a kicking class, and it is you can really

968
00:47:13,160 --> 00:47:15,919
Speaker 2: funk it up. And basically it's just like any type

969
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:21,560
Speaker 2: of ground meat, ginger, garlic, chili, garlic, sauce, scallions, herbs,

970
00:47:22,320 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 2: throw it in there, blended up done.

971
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:26,799
Speaker 1: My classic unique is like I want to do something

972
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:30,440
Speaker 1: with peas. I have like lemon, and I have ricotta

973
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:33,319
Speaker 1: in the fridge, and then I just google lemon Pea's

974
00:47:33,400 --> 00:47:36,040
Speaker 1: ricotta recipe and like, see what comes up, and there's

975
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 1: no shame in that. Oh, I'll share with your recipe.

976
00:47:38,440 --> 00:47:41,080
Speaker 1: I kind of mentioned earlier the torn herbs, not the

977
00:47:41,120 --> 00:47:42,840
Speaker 1: torn rbs, not the Melissa Clark that I did it

978
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,800
Speaker 1: and tucket. But I was thinking my own personal recipe,

979
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,440
Speaker 1: which is the MoMA fuku chili crunch sauce h and

980
00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:53,400
Speaker 1: then honey and then raw garlic and that with green

981
00:47:53,440 --> 00:47:56,480
Speaker 1: beans and then salt, and it's just so all the things.

982
00:47:56,520 --> 00:47:59,840
Speaker 1: It's like salty sweet and it's like super mommy and

983
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: crazy tasty, and you can do that with anything. I

984
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: think it works great with green meats. And then I

985
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 1: put in tomatoes with that. But like I would honestly

986
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,880
Speaker 1: add that to a tomato sauce even that I was making,

987
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,520
Speaker 1: Like it's like the sweetest and tomatoes, it really all

988
00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: comes out, makes it super super intense. But I could

989
00:48:16,560 --> 00:48:19,320
Speaker 1: see that sauce working with like any honestly green vegetable.

990
00:48:19,920 --> 00:48:22,680
Speaker 2: By the way, thanks for the intro. We're getting into

991
00:48:22,800 --> 00:48:27,040
Speaker 2: tomato season. Yeah, So once we're in tomato season, I mean.

992
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:27,719
Speaker 1: You cannot go wrong.

993
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:31,200
Speaker 2: You can't go wrong. Just get some fucking tomatoes, torn herbs,

994
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:37,360
Speaker 2: get some mozzarella, done a bad gat literally all you need. Steak,

995
00:48:37,960 --> 00:48:40,840
Speaker 2: literally one thing. It takes seven minutes.

996
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:43,120
Speaker 1: And I think the steak is great for summer because

997
00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,840
Speaker 1: your stove is on for five minutes. You're not spending

998
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,600
Speaker 1: an hour with the oven heating up the house. So

999
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:51,720
Speaker 1: I do think, yeah, and t get.

1000
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:55,120
Speaker 2: It insanely hot, malden salt.

1001
00:48:55,360 --> 00:48:57,520
Speaker 1: Bam and see it and then you're done.

1002
00:48:57,440 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 2: Done, do let it rest and then you're done, and

1003
00:48:59,680 --> 00:49:02,319
Speaker 2: then it's yeah, and then people are so impressed because

1004
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:02,759
Speaker 2: it's steak.

1005
00:49:02,960 --> 00:49:06,240
Speaker 1: Yeah. Chicken breast is also pretty easy to cook quickly.

1006
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 1: I do recommend a meat thermometer if you're cooking white

1007
00:49:09,000 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 1: meat because you want it to be just like right

1008
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:12,879
Speaker 1: at that right temperature to cook even meat through. And

1009
00:49:12,960 --> 00:49:14,880
Speaker 1: you can get a cheap meat thermometer on fucking.

1010
00:49:14,680 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 2: Amazon literally anywhere. Another game changer for me as someone

1011
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,400
Speaker 2: who grew up in the nineties and the chicken breast

1012
00:49:19,640 --> 00:49:22,839
Speaker 2: dominated world. It is a healthy mom like when I

1013
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:25,359
Speaker 2: learned about like chicken thighs, change the game.

1014
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: See I'm so nineties. I'm still breast because I love

1015
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:32,040
Speaker 1: to like slice the breast, you know what I mean.

1016
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:34,839
Speaker 1: And it's like stuff isuse. I'm trying to copy the

1017
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:37,120
Speaker 1: picture that I saw on Healthy Greekmoms dot com, and

1018
00:49:37,480 --> 00:49:40,840
Speaker 1: it's always just like the sliced breast, like laid over

1019
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,280
Speaker 1: the beans and the pasta or whatever.

1020
00:49:43,320 --> 00:49:45,880
Speaker 2: There's one for you. With your chili gar like sauce.

1021
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 2: You're taking the chicken thigh, you're patting it dry, You're

1022
00:49:48,520 --> 00:49:51,360
Speaker 2: putting its skin side down on the cast iron cold,

1023
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:54,960
Speaker 2: You're letting that render for fifteen minutes. We need a

1024
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 2: cast or whatever. You're trying it over, putting in the oven.

1025
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 2: Then you're mixing honey and chili crunch. You're drizzling and it's.

1026
00:50:02,280 --> 00:50:06,240
Speaker 1: Done, okay, is it? Just satan and oil or better, actually.

1027
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:08,319
Speaker 2: Get this. The chicken fat is so much from the

1028
00:50:08,360 --> 00:50:10,239
Speaker 2: skin of the thigh. You can put it in the

1029
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:13,080
Speaker 2: cast iron no oil. Wow, and then the fat will

1030
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:13,760
Speaker 2: start to render.

1031
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:14,000
Speaker 1: Wow.

1032
00:50:14,040 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 2: And you can do a little bit. You do a

1033
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 2: ton of salt and pepper, you can do some oil,

1034
00:50:17,840 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 2: but like so much fat will happen.

1035
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: Wow, and then fat.

1036
00:50:21,080 --> 00:50:23,800
Speaker 2: And then fat happened. Emma, I hope this helps.

1037
00:50:23,920 --> 00:50:24,080
Speaker 9: Yeah.

1038
00:50:24,160 --> 00:50:24,319
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1039
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 2: Also just like Alison Roman dot com.

1040
00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:28,399
Speaker 1: Yeah dot com, Like I don't know, there's no wrong

1041
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:30,399
Speaker 1: way to cook. It sounds like you're figuring it out. No,

1042
00:50:30,400 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 1: no one has figured it out. No one else budgeting,

1043
00:50:32,920 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 1: no one's doing weight is hell yeah, and it always

1044
00:50:36,640 --> 00:50:39,040
Speaker 1: takes forever and it's like always so expensive. Also though,

1045
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,360
Speaker 1: and like this is gonna sound stupid, but like do

1046
00:50:41,480 --> 00:50:44,200
Speaker 1: shop the deals like I do. Just like look when

1047
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:46,800
Speaker 1: they're like they're always reduced with meat. I know it

1048
00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,919
Speaker 1: sounds like shady, but it's like, yeah, they're reducing meat

1049
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: and blueberries and tomatoes all the time. Is going to

1050
00:50:50,960 --> 00:50:52,600
Speaker 1: get rid of it, So just like play their game,

1051
00:50:52,800 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 1: like get the cheap tomatoes because all that shit adds up, and.

1052
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:58,239
Speaker 2: Then find a friend and be like, wait, do you

1053
00:50:58,280 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 2: have a Costco card? Then you do this ridiculous trip

1054
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:05,160
Speaker 2: to Costco you buy tons of wings. You're a ning

1055
00:51:05,239 --> 00:51:07,200
Speaker 2: wings for the next month. Okay, we have to get

1056
00:51:07,239 --> 00:51:07,839
Speaker 2: to the next call.

1057
00:51:08,080 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 8: Oday.

1058
00:51:08,480 --> 00:51:11,600
Speaker 10: This is Kid Robin from Central Square, Cambridge.

1059
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:13,040
Speaker 6: This question is for Lily.

1060
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:15,240
Speaker 5: I'm looking for the tea on you and Maya.

1061
00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 11: How did you guys.

1062
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 14: Meeting to put a ring on it?

1063
00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:22,200
Speaker 5: We fans want to know. Thanks a lot by the friends.

1064
00:51:23,120 --> 00:51:28,160
Speaker 1: Okay, wow, hey, are you proposing, Wendy Williams.

1065
00:51:28,960 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 2: What's the tea? I'll just step back, Yeah, what's the tea?

1066
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 2: So it's funny because we actually met in a doing

1067
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: a web series that Stephen and I just filled the

1068
00:51:40,320 --> 00:51:46,280
Speaker 2: seven year reunion special for So. I played a character

1069
00:51:46,360 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 2: named Crachel. Anyway, it was a cookie web series. We

1070
00:51:48,600 --> 00:51:51,120
Speaker 2: met during it. We met during in costume. We actually

1071
00:51:51,160 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 2: didn't really like talk so much that weekend, like it

1072
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 2: was kind of this crazy improv weekend and she played

1073
00:51:56,840 --> 00:51:59,680
Speaker 2: this like sexy goth character and I played this like

1074
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,879
Speaker 2: producer with white dreads. Anyway, we started seeing each other

1075
00:52:03,920 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 2: at the events of this web series and then there

1076
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:12,400
Speaker 2: was like flirtation. Then I did get out of a relationship,

1077
00:52:13,120 --> 00:52:18,239
Speaker 2: flirtation amped up, and then the flirting really happened when

1078
00:52:18,239 --> 00:52:20,680
Speaker 2: we were like watching cuts of this web series like

1079
00:52:21,080 --> 00:52:24,480
Speaker 2: a year later, and then ultimately we did hook up

1080
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:28,279
Speaker 2: the day I moved into a Busherk mansion that is

1081
00:52:28,400 --> 00:52:32,040
Speaker 2: now being threatened to being torn down. So that's kind

1082
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 2: of the tea of our meeting story.

1083
00:52:34,360 --> 00:52:37,000
Speaker 1: I hear the tea about when you're looking to propose,

1084
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:39,040
Speaker 1: it seems like you're maybe it's giving over that part

1085
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:41,200
Speaker 1: of the question. So just want to make sure that

1086
00:52:41,280 --> 00:52:42,120
Speaker 1: you're really that.

1087
00:52:42,160 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 2: I'm getting to that. So that's a little Patreon tier.

1088
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, Okay, Patreon comes to CBC the pod.

1089
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,840
Speaker 2: But also yeah, honestly, yeah, joined the Patreon and.

1090
00:52:54,200 --> 00:52:55,919
Speaker 1: Then you'll get the exact date.

1091
00:52:56,320 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, you'll get the exact date time. I'm gonna do tickets.

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00:53:00,040 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: You need to show up with the telephoto lens.

1093
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 2: I do wonder And actually, now I'll just kind of

1094
00:53:05,000 --> 00:53:06,400
Speaker 2: spitball engagement stuff.

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00:53:06,680 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: Oh sure, yeah, you know.

1096
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:12,200
Speaker 2: Its sometimes it's like you want to do such a plan.

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00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:14,879
Speaker 1: Right, but it's always then it's so romantic when it's

1098
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 1: just like we were just having lunch at our favorite spot.

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00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,239
Speaker 1: I mean there's no way to do it that isn't cliche. No,

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00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:22,080
Speaker 1: I know, it's a cliche to like do it on

1101
00:53:22,120 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: the subway, like it's cliche to like do it at

1102
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:27,000
Speaker 1: your favorite coffee shop, like well, like nothing's going on.

1103
00:53:27,040 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: It's cliche to do at the top of the Effel Tower.

1104
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,680
Speaker 1: It's cliche to do on a vacation. It's cliche to

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00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:32,520
Speaker 1: do it in front of the parents, like at the

1106
00:53:32,560 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: weekend upstate. You know, I know it is like shada

1107
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 1: fucking there's no way to do it's a cliche.

1108
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,719
Speaker 2: And then if it's just like home, it's so like

1109
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 2: we were just at home at our home. But but

1110
00:53:46,320 --> 00:53:48,600
Speaker 2: then it's like I do it out of the house,

1111
00:53:48,640 --> 00:53:50,680
Speaker 2: out of place. Do I have to be so radio

1112
00:53:50,719 --> 00:53:54,000
Speaker 2: station about it? And you are hiring a photographer from

1113
00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 2: a say, across a bay.

1114
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: You know, I think it should be in a place

1115
00:53:58,680 --> 00:54:02,400
Speaker 1: that doesn't feel so like not you guys.

1116
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 2: You know, it would be a place. And again this

1117
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,600
Speaker 2: is hypothetical, and I'm actually going to you for vice.

1118
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,560
Speaker 2: It would be a place. I'll just say this that

1119
00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:13,040
Speaker 2: is very us. No one there except would I hire

1120
00:54:13,120 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 2: a photographer, secret photographer.

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00:54:16,440 --> 00:54:17,840
Speaker 1: An empty restaurant?

1122
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:21,200
Speaker 2: No I'm not flailing the location because that's going to

1123
00:54:21,239 --> 00:54:21,920
Speaker 2: be the Patreon.

1124
00:54:22,120 --> 00:54:24,400
Speaker 1: I kind of like the idea for like me that

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00:54:24,440 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: it's like somewhere where it's like, oh, it's like we're

1126
00:54:26,520 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 1: out on the town and it's like fun, but it's

1127
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: not being so we're at Machu Picchu, but it's also

1128
00:54:32,360 --> 00:54:36,040
Speaker 1: not so like we're at home. But also like I

1129
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 1: don't want it to be in a restaurant, like I'm

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00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:39,200
Speaker 1: not restaurant.

1131
00:54:39,239 --> 00:54:41,000
Speaker 2: I think she would actually like kill me. I once

1132
00:54:41,080 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 2: gave her earrings at that Italian restaurant, the Conda Verde

1133
00:54:46,760 --> 00:54:50,000
Speaker 2: and Fort Green, Okay, for Christmas, and she was so

1134
00:54:50,920 --> 00:54:54,759
Speaker 2: random and awkward about it. She put them down and

1135
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 2: I was like, so you hate them, and she was

1136
00:54:56,440 --> 00:55:03,480
Speaker 2: like what, No, Pasta's great and that could not handle

1137
00:55:03,520 --> 00:55:05,560
Speaker 2: getting a gift in a restaurant. So I wouldn't do

1138
00:55:05,640 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 2: it at a restaurant.

1139
00:55:06,960 --> 00:55:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, the restaurant's a little weird.

1140
00:55:09,200 --> 00:55:12,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm thinking it would be somewhere outside.

1141
00:55:12,840 --> 00:55:14,759
Speaker 1: I mean then I think about Carrie and Aiden and

1142
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 1: him like in the middle of her street like that

1143
00:55:16,760 --> 00:55:17,680
Speaker 1: was kind of cute.

1144
00:55:17,840 --> 00:55:20,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so just like right in front of our deli.

1145
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:21,839
Speaker 2: There's so much.

1146
00:55:21,880 --> 00:55:25,080
Speaker 1: Trash, but she knew it was wrong. Yeah. I mean,

1147
00:55:25,120 --> 00:55:26,279
Speaker 1: if you live in the West Village for me, do

1148
00:55:26,320 --> 00:55:28,040
Speaker 1: it on your street? Yeah?

1149
00:55:28,040 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 2: Well no, there are better streets and demos.

1150
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:31,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's some beautiful streets. You could do it at

1151
00:55:31,800 --> 00:55:36,480
Speaker 1: her parents' house. Yeah, there's no great way to do it,

1152
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 1: but that means that there's no bad way to do it.

1153
00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:39,240
Speaker 2: That's true.

1154
00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:41,240
Speaker 1: But I don't think you need to be so Tampa

1155
00:55:41,239 --> 00:55:46,359
Speaker 1: baysed and like getting some Amazon pillows.

1156
00:55:43,239 --> 00:55:49,040
Speaker 2: That love like beach shairs. Yeah. I think it's somewhere

1157
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 2: between Amazon pillows and at our home, not at a restaurant. Okay, well,

1158
00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:58,319
Speaker 2: I'm actually asking all the listeners. How should I appropose?

1159
00:55:59,440 --> 00:56:01,359
Speaker 1: Please? Calm? Okay, nice call.

1160
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:04,480
Speaker 7: It sounds like there's a lot of things in the

1161
00:56:04,520 --> 00:56:04,879
Speaker 7: works there.

1162
00:56:05,280 --> 00:56:07,919
Speaker 2: I didn't know that here.

1163
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 7: Also, this is not one of the questions from the callers,

1164
00:56:13,400 --> 00:56:15,960
Speaker 7: but Stephen, what about you? Do you want to share

1165
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:17,680
Speaker 7: your team your relationship?

1166
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 5: Oh?

1167
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:23,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay again Wendy Williams here, Yeah, how did you

1168
00:56:23,520 --> 00:56:26,680
Speaker 1: choose me? You know, it's funny, Darby, because we met

1169
00:56:26,719 --> 00:56:30,200
Speaker 1: in Boston over Thanksgiving like a year and a half ago,

1170
00:56:30,200 --> 00:56:32,759
Speaker 1: almost two years ago. Now we met you know, through

1171
00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 1: the phone in a way, but we had already kind

1172
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:38,520
Speaker 1: of we'd seen each other before on the phone, but

1173
00:56:39,160 --> 00:56:41,080
Speaker 1: he happened to be in Boston. Was kind of random,

1174
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:43,319
Speaker 1: and so then we met up at this bar and

1175
00:56:43,320 --> 00:56:44,799
Speaker 1: we went on to this date and he was living

1176
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: in Tounch of Massachusetts at the time, and they had

1177
00:56:47,120 --> 00:56:49,640
Speaker 1: to take a train back that night, but then he

1178
00:56:49,680 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 1: came back two days later to see me again because

1179
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,279
Speaker 1: it's a great date. So then we started this kind

1180
00:56:54,280 --> 00:56:56,080
Speaker 1: of long medium distance as I called it, because he

1181
00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 1: was living in mass and I was in New York.

1182
00:56:58,280 --> 00:57:00,359
Speaker 1: And then he ended up like being on nantuck it

1183
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,000
Speaker 1: and like working there, and so I went out to

1184
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,520
Speaker 1: visit my parents for a couple of weeks, but actually

1185
00:57:05,680 --> 00:57:08,200
Speaker 1: was kind of visiting him while he was there. But

1186
00:57:08,680 --> 00:57:12,440
Speaker 1: our last call in episode that we did last February

1187
00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:15,719
Speaker 1: before we started with iHeart, he was actually one of

1188
00:57:15,719 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 1: the callers and we had just started seeing each other

1189
00:57:18,680 --> 00:57:22,000
Speaker 1: and I didn't know. And then while we were recording

1190
00:57:22,000 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: the episode, like our producer at the time like played

1191
00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 1: one of the voicemails and it was from him, and it.

1192
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 2: Was really that's so cute.

1193
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,840
Speaker 1: It was very very cute. I was actually just realistening

1194
00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: at the episode the other day, just like remembering the format,

1195
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:37,440
Speaker 1: and yeah, I was like, oh god, he's so romantic.

1196
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 7: You were in tears.

1197
00:57:38,920 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 1: I was not in tears, so I was. It just

1198
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 1: reminded me that he's extremely romantic, and it was very cute.

1199
00:57:45,520 --> 00:57:48,320
Speaker 1: He had this question. He was like, I've been seeing

1200
00:57:48,360 --> 00:57:50,680
Speaker 1: this guy who's kind of like very public of how

1201
00:57:50,720 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 1: he likes massages, and now I'm kind of addicted to

1202
00:57:52,880 --> 00:57:55,240
Speaker 1: massaging him and like, is not an issue, but I

1203
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: would very much tell it was him, and it was cute.

1204
00:57:57,280 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 1: And then he asked if it was okay to make

1205
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:04,480
Speaker 1: a mixtape, and I was like, I love that. Yeah.

1206
00:58:04,520 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 1: So it was kind of this cute thing where it's like,

1207
00:58:06,000 --> 00:58:07,560
Speaker 1: I wait, I didn't totally reveal that was him on

1208
00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: the episode, but like, I.

1209
00:58:09,200 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 2: Know, we know, Oh that's so lovely.

1210
00:58:11,440 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1211
00:58:11,920 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 2: It was sweet.

1212
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:15,160
Speaker 1: Okay, and now he's moving in, so there's your real

1213
00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,400
Speaker 1: ty Darby. Yeah I love that.

1214
00:58:17,760 --> 00:58:22,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, congratulations, Okay, are you ready for the last question?

1215
00:58:22,280 --> 00:58:22,520
Speaker 1: Yes?

1216
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:27,160
Speaker 5: Hey, best friends. We all are the two scientists people

1217
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:29,160
Speaker 5: I listen to every week.

1218
00:58:29,440 --> 00:58:32,920
Speaker 8: I'm curious if y'all were to.

1219
00:58:32,880 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 3: Ever leave New York, where would y'all have.

1220
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 15: To live either of us or a broad wherever.

1221
00:58:39,840 --> 00:58:41,680
Speaker 3: I'm a New Orleans love kid. I would of course

1222
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,040
Speaker 3: love if y'all ever just New Orleans, or if y'all

1223
00:58:44,080 --> 00:58:44,520
Speaker 3: just want to.

1224
00:58:44,440 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 8: Come and do an episode here.

1225
00:58:46,400 --> 00:58:47,880
Speaker 5: I love love hearing.

1226
00:58:48,080 --> 00:58:50,400
Speaker 11: Stevens talked about what he did New Orleans and about

1227
00:58:50,400 --> 00:58:52,920
Speaker 11: the who will Hear and pulled tee sham.

1228
00:58:53,120 --> 00:58:56,160
Speaker 5: That really made me a wel Yeah, she's just curious

1229
00:58:56,240 --> 00:59:03,520
Speaker 5: or all New York for life or thinking everyone I've.

1230
00:59:03,600 --> 00:59:08,760
Speaker 2: Heard I sixty seconds okay, drink every time she says y'all.

1231
00:59:08,800 --> 00:59:10,800
Speaker 2: I mean, since I've literally never been to No Orleans,

1232
00:59:10,880 --> 00:59:14,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, well I'm moving to New Orleans.

1233
00:59:15,160 --> 00:59:17,800
Speaker 1: I mean, I was loving the vibe down there, and

1234
00:59:17,880 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: I love the space. As I famously said, everything is

1235
00:59:21,480 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 1: a house. I would love like having a house down there,

1236
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:28,600
Speaker 1: Like that's cute? Am I gonna live there? I'm alcohol driven,

1237
00:59:28,680 --> 00:59:31,040
Speaker 1: but No Orleans seems so alcohol driven?

1238
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 10: Right?

1239
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:34,200
Speaker 2: You need to be in such an alcohol driven.

1240
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah environment, I feel like it could be detrimental to

1241
00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:39,280
Speaker 1: my liver. I don't know. I mean, I hope I

1242
00:59:39,280 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: don't live in New York forever.

1243
00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:42,120
Speaker 2: Jesus Christ you always say that.

1244
00:59:42,080 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, and yet here I am.

1245
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:47,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm not like I mean ideal, obviously, I feel like,

1246
00:59:47,360 --> 00:59:50,160
Speaker 2: because I want to be by coastal, I want a

1247
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,320
Speaker 2: stunning house in California.

1248
00:59:52,440 --> 00:59:53,560
Speaker 1: You love La for sure?

1249
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, I do love La and like, honestly, to

1250
00:59:56,600 --> 00:59:59,960
Speaker 2: be perfectly honest, like I would absolutely have an industrial

1251
01:00:00,200 --> 01:00:01,040
Speaker 2: loft in Chicago.

1252
01:00:01,200 --> 01:00:03,560
Speaker 1: Oh that's really brave of you. Yeah, I don't want

1253
01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:05,280
Speaker 1: to live in Chicago, even though I every time I

1254
01:00:05,280 --> 01:00:06,840
Speaker 1: go to any city, I'm like, I'm moving here. I

1255
01:00:06,880 --> 01:00:09,400
Speaker 1: love it, I think ultimately, for me, I do feel

1256
01:00:09,440 --> 01:00:11,760
Speaker 1: like when we split the summer there, like I just

1257
01:00:11,760 --> 01:00:13,800
Speaker 1: start to feel a little bit trapped in a place

1258
01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:15,840
Speaker 1: that's so landlocked. I know it's on a gordonous no way.

1259
01:00:15,840 --> 01:00:17,760
Speaker 2: I agree, And that's why I think I'm not saying

1260
01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:19,960
Speaker 2: like all the time, I think I do want a loft.

1261
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:21,040
Speaker 2: I can go there.

1262
01:00:21,240 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 1: I okay, I'll say this. I mean New Orleans, honey.

1263
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,440
Speaker 1: Climate change, like, that's going to be tough to continue

1264
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,600
Speaker 1: living in New Orleans forever. Like, and I do think

1265
01:00:29,640 --> 01:00:31,800
Speaker 1: we are going to see a lot of people moving

1266
01:00:31,840 --> 01:00:34,160
Speaker 1: north over the next couple decades. And so I think

1267
01:00:34,200 --> 01:00:36,400
Speaker 1: about a place like Montreal, which will become more and

1268
01:00:36,400 --> 01:00:38,880
Speaker 1: more temperate, like even though the winters are so cold,

1269
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: maybe they won't be so cold in ten years. And

1270
01:00:41,560 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: Montreal is fun and cute and French, so I could

1271
01:00:46,160 --> 01:00:47,920
Speaker 1: spep something in there. And I want to move back

1272
01:00:47,920 --> 01:00:50,440
Speaker 1: to Europe and I would tie I live in Paris

1273
01:00:50,440 --> 01:00:52,360
Speaker 1: again or Berlin, where I never lived.

1274
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:54,320
Speaker 2: I see more prayers for you want.

1275
01:00:54,360 --> 01:00:57,000
Speaker 1: Paris, though, is it is like it's a little cramped,

1276
01:00:57,040 --> 01:01:00,720
Speaker 1: and Berlin is so's like there's space spread out. It's

1277
01:01:00,760 --> 01:01:03,880
Speaker 1: like German people are just like so whatever and like

1278
01:01:04,360 --> 01:01:07,680
Speaker 1: sure like go through your sex club, like it's just

1279
01:01:07,720 --> 01:01:09,720
Speaker 1: like all parks. It just feels like you can really

1280
01:01:09,800 --> 01:01:12,160
Speaker 1: like breathe and move around. There doesn't feel like there's everyone.

1281
01:01:13,440 --> 01:01:15,800
Speaker 2: You're like walking through a tiny bakery.

1282
01:01:15,880 --> 01:01:16,520
Speaker 1: You're scratch.

1283
01:01:16,640 --> 01:01:19,680
Speaker 2: You're walking in your tiny apartment with your tiny little bed.

1284
01:01:19,840 --> 01:01:22,000
Speaker 2: Cree creek creek wee wee wee.

1285
01:01:21,800 --> 01:01:23,080
Speaker 1: Head, little scrange.

1286
01:01:23,680 --> 01:01:25,600
Speaker 2: I would live seeking climate change. I feel like I

1287
01:01:25,600 --> 01:01:29,120
Speaker 2: would live in Dublin talking about that for your liver.

1288
01:01:29,840 --> 01:01:31,680
Speaker 2: But it's like I don't know, you're also in your

1289
01:01:31,760 --> 01:01:34,120
Speaker 2: like nature, like yes, it is soapa, but I also

1290
01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:37,280
Speaker 2: feel like you're kind of having one drink, one drink Lily,

1291
01:01:37,400 --> 01:01:40,360
Speaker 2: one drink Lily. And I have a talk show on

1292
01:01:40,480 --> 01:01:41,760
Speaker 2: like ice TV for.

1293
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:44,360
Speaker 1: Well See, that makes me think that I would actually

1294
01:01:44,360 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 1: want to move to Auckland or Wellington, even maybe Auckland,

1295
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,320
Speaker 1: because can't you see me moving to New Zealand and

1296
01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,520
Speaker 1: having a cooking show and it is so random and

1297
01:01:53,560 --> 01:01:56,240
Speaker 1: it's even launch to cook staving cooks and it's just

1298
01:01:56,320 --> 01:01:59,120
Speaker 1: kind of like I am making like chicken breast and

1299
01:01:59,160 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 1: it's kind of just like anything plas down there, and

1300
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:03,400
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, you're they are impressed by chicken breasts.

1301
01:02:03,240 --> 01:02:06,360
Speaker 2: Yet you're making literally just saute chicken breast on like

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Speaker 2: a rigel Ray stainless pan, nonstick pan.

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Speaker 1: And likes so beautiful down there, and you have a

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Speaker 1: Salt Mountains farmland, Like it's such a fun variety.

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Speaker 2: Of climate Auckland, Dublin done.

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Speaker 1: And I would move back to Marseille a heartbeat because

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Speaker 1: it has everything you could want. Heay, guys beach, Okay, guys,

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Speaker 1: rocky beach chick.

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Speaker 6: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I know.

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Speaker 2: I was like, yes, I am so New York, but

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Speaker 2: I don't want to just be also like so like

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Speaker 2: seventy in New York.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be like Andrea Martin or just

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Speaker 1: like whatever. I don't want to be nor Ephron like,

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Speaker 1: but I.

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Speaker 2: Also do want to be nor If I am seventy

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Speaker 2: in New York, I want, like my fifties to have

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Speaker 2: been somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, And I do think fifties is about being so

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Speaker 1: like Costa Rica and you're.

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Speaker 2: So like you're so divorced, ten leathery tendrils, big, like awkward, yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I'm just like, and this is my dream. And

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Speaker 1: you build your dream hut like in the rainforest, you're

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Speaker 1: there for ten years.

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Speaker 2: And you're like, get dumped, divorce, go back to now You're.

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Speaker 1: Like, I actually have three hundred thousand dollars in and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to move back to Boston.

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Speaker 2: RN is really high there, but I think it'll work.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, long story, Shirt, We're moving anywhere and everywhere,

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Speaker 1: but also in New York.

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Speaker 2: That we die, Darby, is that it? Or is there

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Speaker 2: any more? I'm addicted?

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Speaker 1: That is it? Okay?

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Speaker 15: Wow?

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Speaker 7: I mean there are other ones, but it is time

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Speaker 7: to wrap up.

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Speaker 1: You're like, I'm I'm done right, Derby. Thank you so much,

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Speaker 1: so much, journey, Thank you to all our beautiful callers.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that was so fun. I mean, from cats stuck

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Speaker 2: in lesbian trees in Maine to the We'd Gay.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, to cooking advice and relationship advice. We really ran

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Speaker 1: the gamut, and it shows that you guys run the

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Speaker 1: gamut because your rainbow and you're beautiful.

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Speaker 2: You're so beautiful in the summer, cook, go out, don't

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Speaker 2: smoke weed.

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Speaker 1: Do smoke weedies, move, don't move. Be honest with your boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: Find your local harbor master. That's the biggest takeaway for me.

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Speaker 1: Smoke weed with your local harbor masters.

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Speaker 2: Seriously. Then see what you have in your fridge and

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Speaker 2: make a budget friendly dinner. Best Hello, this is Doctor Lily.

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Speaker 2: This episode of Celebrity book Club was produced by Darby Masters,

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Speaker 2: Executive produced by Christina Everett, Supervising producer Abu Zafar. The

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Speaker 2: music Stephen Philips Hours. The artwork Teddy Blake's Ultimately Yes

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Speaker 2: It's True. We created this podcast with Prellou Projects. Thanks

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Speaker 2: to them. Rate us on iTunes. I saw a few

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Speaker 2: new reviews I like when I see keep them coming.

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Speaker 2: Rate us review, Follow us at CPC.

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Speaker 11: The pod