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Speaker 1: We will on Friday tell you about what's on our weekend.

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Speaker 1: Watch this that's a long way away. Mine is still

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Speaker 1: that John Ham show. I also started something else she

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Speaker 1: runs together. I think it's the The Mobster Show that's

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Speaker 1: gonna be all You with Piers Brosne. I can't remember

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Speaker 1: the names or where I see them, but we did

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Speaker 1: watch the White Lotus sets on Max. Season three is over.

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Speaker 1: If you haven't seen it, won't spoil it. Season four

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Speaker 1: rumbored to be in several different places, from Morocco to

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Speaker 1: the south of France. Not quite sure where yet. He

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Speaker 1: think it's to be a warm destination. Mobland was the

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Speaker 1: show Thank You that I'm talking about. But Amy lou

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Speaker 1: would she played Chelsea British, the British actress right, yes.

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Speaker 2: And people know her. She has these amazing teeth and

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Speaker 2: I feel like she was one of the biggest standouts

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Speaker 2: from this season. But people are really honing in on

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Speaker 2: something that she said during an interview with GQ. She said,

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Speaker 2: someone told me how much Mike White, who is the

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Speaker 2: creator of the show, had fought for me. They said,

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Speaker 2: it has to be you. No matter what HBO said,

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Speaker 2: she remembered. So it was honestly from the nicest place.

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Speaker 2: But my little head goes, HBO didn't want me, And

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Speaker 2: I know why HBO didn't want me. It's because I'm ugly.

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Speaker 2: Mike had to say, please let me have the ugly girl.

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Speaker 2: And people are really resonating with this because everyone, I

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Speaker 2: feel like, has had an experience where you find yourself

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Speaker 2: kind of jumping to conclusions and tearing yourself down. You know.

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Speaker 2: She took that saying Mike White had to fight for

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Speaker 2: me no matter what HBO said, and she took it

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Speaker 2: as oh, it's because I'm ugly, which obviously was not

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Speaker 2: ever said, but like that's what we kind of internalized

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Speaker 2: those things. And I remember actually when I got this job,

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Speaker 2: they were telling me Ryan really thought for you, and

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Speaker 2: so I was like, oh, so who in management didn't

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Speaker 2: think that I belonged to here? Like that's how I

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Speaker 2: heard it, you know what I mean, Like, Oh, somebody

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Speaker 2: doesn't think I belong that Ryan had to fight for me.

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Speaker 2: And so it's like I just really resonated with what

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Speaker 2: she said, and people are like really giving her a

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Speaker 2: lot of love because I feel like everybody has been

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Speaker 2: there and done that, and like we always tear ourselves down,

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Speaker 2: which is like really sad.

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Speaker 1: I don't remember the pushback on you. I just remember

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Speaker 1: telling everyone that you do a great job and you

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Speaker 1: should be part of this family in the morning, and

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Speaker 1: don't call me otherwise.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: There was bad to them.

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Speaker 2: There was pushback, but I appreciate that.

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Speaker 1: But I kind of understand and relate to this because

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Speaker 1: when we read our comments or we're told something, all

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Speaker 1: we think about, all this stands out is the negative one.

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Speaker 1: That's all we can focus on, like what's wrong versus

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Speaker 1: Like when you go through your course of your day,

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Speaker 1: like at the end of the day, somebody says, how

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Speaker 1: was your day? It's the one thing that sucked that

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Speaker 1: you want that you do end up saying how your

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Speaker 1: day was, not the five other things that actually went well. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we have a natural some of us. Why in your

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Speaker 1: narrative to focus on the negative? Does it feel like

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Speaker 1: we're bragging if we go on and on about all

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Speaker 1: the good in our life? I think it was hard

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Speaker 1: on ourselves. Yeah, hard on myself.

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Speaker 2: And you know they say like if you if you give,

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Speaker 2: if you're like gratitude, you practice gratitude every single day,

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Speaker 2: that it really changes your mindset. I think that's why,

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Speaker 2: because I feel like it's your natural instinct to focus

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Speaker 2: on like the negative, and if you like reprogram your

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Speaker 2: head to be grateful and focus on the positive, it

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Speaker 2: can like really have a huge impact.

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Speaker 1: Kelly Ripper used to always say after the Live with

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Speaker 1: Kelly and Ryan show at the time, now it's Mark,

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Speaker 1: but she used to always say, I would go, well,

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Speaker 1: you know when first started, how was that was that show?

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Speaker 1: How was that show? How do you think that show was?

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Speaker 1: And she'd go, It's never as good as you think

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Speaker 1: or as bad as you think. And I thought those

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Speaker 1: words to live by. Yeah, I'm never as good as

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Speaker 1: I think I am. Maybe never as bad as I

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Speaker 1: think I am. E right for sure?

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Speaker 2: There, Yeah,