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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: I don't join jo. You gotta turn you, you gotta

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Speaker 1: turn to turn them out. Turn. You got to turn

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Speaker 1: on your thing. Uh huh, I shall will a good

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, come on, dig

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Speaker 1: me now? Want it only? Steve Harvey got a radio show. Um.

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Speaker 1: Five things that I know successful people have to do

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Speaker 1: to be successful. The principles are the same. You can

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Speaker 1: apply it to anything, you know, if you want to

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Speaker 1: be happily married, you know, whatever it is. The principles

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Speaker 1: of success are the same. There are a series of

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Speaker 1: things that you have to do. You cannot skip the

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Speaker 1: steps of success. If you do, you're going to have

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Speaker 1: here's here's here's a part man that I want you

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Speaker 1: all to understand about me and and and and about

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Speaker 1: how to look at it. You know, you cannot underestimate

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Speaker 1: faith and prayer, You just can't. You cannot underestimate the

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Speaker 1: power of faith and the power of prayer. See for me.

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Speaker 1: This is just for me. Now, this ain't in the

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Speaker 1: scripture nowhere. This is just something I discovered. What prayer

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Speaker 1: did for me was was it tied me to my creator.

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Speaker 1: It gave me a sense and I'm describing it this way,

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Speaker 1: but I'm telling you it's deeper than this. But it

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Speaker 1: gave me a sense that I wasn't alone and an actuality.

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Speaker 1: I wasn't. But prayer helped connect me to the power

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Speaker 1: whether it was just a period I stretched, I had

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Speaker 1: prayer gave me a decided advantage, especially oh, here we go,

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Speaker 1: Especially over my enemies. Now, the majority of people in

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Speaker 1: my life that were my enemies. I didn't want them

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Speaker 1: through the thing called life, some things went down. Some

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Speaker 1: But you know, life goes on, man. It happens from

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Speaker 1: time to time. Some people just won't let it go.

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Speaker 1: My partners that I grew up with that used to

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Speaker 1: And when I was watching Bishop Jakes, he preached this sermon.

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Speaker 1: He's always available, And the best way to tap into

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Speaker 1: has changed my life. Prayer can change your life. You

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, man, have your undivided attention. Please thank

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Wait hold on one second, I

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Speaker 1: Welcome everybody, Welcome one, welcome all, we are here. Hold

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show, and this is how we

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Speaker 1: chose to do it this morning, the creative of reality radio.

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Speaker 1: And it don't get no more. Really what hold on? Wait,

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Speaker 1: get off his damn radio. You just wait. Welcome to

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Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Shirley Strawberry, Hey, good morning.

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Speaker 1: Going on over there? I ain't nothing happening right here.

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Speaker 1: We're just being real with it, you know, call it

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Speaker 1: for real, I mean, keeping it real. What's going on? Stevens? You, Mama, nephew, Tommy,

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Speaker 1: I'm in the building, top top, Janthony Brown? What up,

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Speaker 1: mister Harvey? What's going on? Man? What is happening? Ain't nothing? Man?

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Speaker 1: Everybody good? Yeah? Y oh, I'm I'm in good shape, man,

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Speaker 1: Wait did you just say happy? Yeah? Really happy? Static?

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Speaker 1: Listen to me, over joy. The key is I'm not feeling.

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Speaker 1: Let nobody steal my joy? Brother? You know what I'm saying. Yeah, again.

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Speaker 1: Joy Deeves out there, the joy thieves are out there.

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Speaker 1: them and it's just gonna be free. Well, I'm here

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Speaker 1: what yeah, stay on now, Suish Shining. Well, I'm like

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Speaker 1: you're happy, Steve. I'm glad for that myself. Always good

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Speaker 1: and a good weekend. Play some golf this weekend, play good.

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Speaker 1: But you know it's just once a couple of them swings,

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Speaker 1: You're listening to morning show right now. The Nephew is

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Speaker 1: here with today's praying phone call. What you got for

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Speaker 1: let's go cat down. Hello. Hello, I'm trying to reach Russell. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: this is Russell. However, Russell, I'm Isaiah. I'm a a

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, I'm I'm calling the right house. I'm not

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Speaker 1: quite sure. Are you West Dixie Road? Uh? Yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: how many square feetures your house? If you don't mind

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Speaker 1: me asking. Uh, it's about thirty five square feet. I

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Speaker 1: What's this about? Okay, if you don't mind me, Russell,

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Speaker 1: how long have you lived there? Yeah? Man, I've already

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Speaker 1: like I said, I'm a realator and I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: get ahead of some things that's going on, and you're well,

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Speaker 1: it's been brought to my attention that your house is

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Speaker 1: going to be it's going into foreclosure. It's gonna be

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Speaker 1: sure you got the wrong house. My my, my, my

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Speaker 1: house is not going and foreclosure. I'm up to date.

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Speaker 1: I'm good. So you got you definitely got the wrong house. Okay,

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Speaker 1: hang on so West Dixie Road, and like you said,

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Speaker 1: square feet this is a two car garage, right. I

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Speaker 1: the wrong information on the right house, whatever it is.

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Speaker 1: But this is not My house is definitely not going

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Speaker 1: in the foreclosure. My bills, like it's my woman, you

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Speaker 1: I don't even know why you're calling. My house is

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Speaker 1: definitely not for sale. It's now or not on for

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Speaker 1: going to foreclosure. I'm not behind all my bills, Sir,

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Speaker 1: he said, hey, man, hey, hey, hey man. He hold on,

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Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Time to ask the clo chief love

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Speaker 1: Treasure writes, I'm twenty nine years old and my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: That's special. Yeah, because dude's gonna come back. It's sadday. No,

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Speaker 1: are you Harvey? You mister Strawberry, mister Miles, thank you

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00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:23,000
Speaker 1: for having me such an opportunity. All right, So, mister Harvy,

421
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Speaker 1: let's get start. I wanted to ask you what exactly, um,

422
00:29:25,600 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: what makes you qualify for this job? Well, having had

423
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: several jobs before that gave me the experience of the

424
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:36,520
Speaker 1: exact thing that you folks are looking for just pretty

425
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: much made me qualified. And you know, everybody that I've

426
00:29:42,080 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 1: ever worked with have always said I was really just

427
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:52,240
Speaker 1: over qualified. Here, Um, let me ask you something, mister Harvey.

428
00:29:53,120 --> 00:30:01,200
Speaker 1: Why did you leave your last job? Oh? God, huh

429
00:30:03,440 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: just so difficult that you bought this up? Yeah? Oh god,

430
00:30:11,880 --> 00:30:15,840
Speaker 1: do you need a mom? I was I was there

431
00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 1: for sixteen years and no really. Uh, you know, they

432
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 1: just came in and they just closed it. I mean

433
00:30:28,920 --> 00:30:34,760
Speaker 1: they just shut it, shut the doors. Well, let me

434
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: I was in the parking lot when it had happened.

435
00:30:39,440 --> 00:30:53,160
Speaker 1: I was standing there, Jane, Jane the joint crying, mister Harvey. No, no, no,

436
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:57,960
Speaker 1: I'm not. It was just so traumatic. Jane doing interview.

437
00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:04,720
Speaker 1: Let me jump in here, Okay. Just before they were

438
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:12,560
Speaker 1: all in there, I wanted to ask you, mister Harvey. Uh,

439
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:15,200
Speaker 1: you know, a job like this, you're gonna be working

440
00:31:15,200 --> 00:31:16,960
Speaker 1: with a lot of people. You're gonna be doing a

441
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: lot of interacting. Uh, you know, how do you do

442
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:23,240
Speaker 1: you have the skill set to actually interact with other people? Yeah,

443
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:29,400
Speaker 1: excuse me, Yeah, I'm interacted quick. Damn, I'm sorry. Doesn't

444
00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:35,800
Speaker 1: take much. We see. Oh yeah, I interact with people

445
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: from time to time. You's just talking about it sort

446
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,920
Speaker 1: of gets me. No, no, no, I'm fun, fun with

447
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 1: other people. Well, um, mister Harvey, this is a sales

448
00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:52,480
Speaker 1: position we're um looking to hire you for and we

449
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 1: just want to make sure that you're the right person.

450
00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:59,280
Speaker 1: As Thomas mentioned earlier, you have the right qualifications for

451
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:03,000
Speaker 1: this position. You have to interact with people, you have

452
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:08,000
Speaker 1: to sell our product. And you know, people buy you

453
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: first before they even buy the product. So I just

454
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: want to make sure that that, um, you know, this

455
00:32:15,560 --> 00:32:19,600
Speaker 1: little crying thing I hear, um, it's it's not really

456
00:32:22,600 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: I just I don't cry. I got a question for you.

457
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:31,240
Speaker 1: I don't just cry. You know all this time sounds

458
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: like you do. I'm out of work. I'm crying because yeah,

459
00:32:37,720 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: there's no crying at work. I don't want I'm not

460
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:54,719
Speaker 1: hear yet. Can stop you cry? Two of you? One?

461
00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: What are your strengths? Let's talk about something positive. One

462
00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:09,000
Speaker 1: of my strengths is I can absolutlutely pull it together.

463
00:33:10,680 --> 00:33:13,400
Speaker 1: That's one of my stroke. I promise you I care

464
00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: if you just hiring me, you just give me a job.

465
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 1: See it, It's like instant if one of just say

466
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:29,440
Speaker 1: you're hired, begin to show you the city. The eighteenth interviews,

467
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 1: this is the third level. This is supposed to be it.

468
00:33:33,680 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: I was told by your supervisor that it wouldn't we

469
00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't even be here to here I am, and we're

470
00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:48,480
Speaker 1: still talking a job. Well, this is that's why it's

471
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:54,720
Speaker 1: called a process. Mister Harvey O. Pross. Yeah, oh, the

472
00:33:54,880 --> 00:34:09,040
Speaker 1: interview process suffer Jesus, Um, he'll stop. Please. Well, let's

473
00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:12,080
Speaker 1: let's evaluate Miss Shirley Strawberry and Colin. Do you think

474
00:34:12,080 --> 00:34:15,680
Speaker 1: we have the right person for the job. Well, how

475
00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:19,000
Speaker 1: about we let this person sell themselves in thirty seconds

476
00:34:19,040 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: to us. Okay, yeah, sounds good. Mister Harvey, could you

477
00:34:22,800 --> 00:34:28,239
Speaker 1: sell yourself for thirty seconds to us? Please? Okay, you

478
00:34:28,239 --> 00:34:33,320
Speaker 1: need a moment you want to go out, let me know. Okay, okay,

479
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: and you can start now and now. And I believe

480
00:34:37,680 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: that I'm extremely qualified for this position due to the

481
00:34:41,200 --> 00:34:44,560
Speaker 1: fact that I'm probably the most experienced candidate that you'll

482
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,960
Speaker 1: meet from time to time. I've also discovered that I

483
00:34:48,000 --> 00:34:50,879
Speaker 1: have several traits that this company's lacking, and I can

484
00:34:50,960 --> 00:34:56,919
Speaker 1: be a most fulfilling factor in developing the app loot

485
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,960
Speaker 1: direction of your firm and your company. I will be

486
00:35:00,200 --> 00:35:03,719
Speaker 1: nothing but an asset, and that is why I think

487
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 1: I should have the job. Okay, all right, he said

488
00:35:08,239 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 1: a mouth right there, no tears. Okay. If you're asking me,

489
00:35:13,000 --> 00:35:20,239
Speaker 1: I would say he's hired. Oh god, you're listening to

490
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 1: show all right? Time now for would you rather would

491
00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:30,200
Speaker 1: you rather take care of your friend's baby or your

492
00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: friend's dog. Give me that dog. Give me that dog. Man, Yeah,

493
00:35:36,200 --> 00:35:37,879
Speaker 1: I got that dog. I ain't got that. I ain't

494
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,880
Speaker 1: got the rock that. I ain't got the burpad dog,

495
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: and your dog can't tell on me. So give me

496
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:48,920
Speaker 1: the dog. The dog, because I'm studying your damn dog.

497
00:35:48,920 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: I'm gonna let his ass go. Literally, little baby, I

498
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,719
Speaker 1: forgot your baby. You'll be looking for your dog. At

499
00:35:57,800 --> 00:35:59,640
Speaker 1: least I can feed the dog, and dog will do

500
00:35:59,680 --> 00:36:01,440
Speaker 1: what he got to do. Well, I'm gonna tell you

501
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:08,520
Speaker 1: right now, I'm not gonna I'm going to forget your dog. Yeah,

502
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,399
Speaker 1: but were you were you? Were you at least will

503
00:36:11,440 --> 00:36:13,279
Speaker 1: you at least feed the dog? Will you at least

504
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:16,040
Speaker 1: do that? Oh? Yeah, yeah, I don't abuse animals, you

505
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:19,960
Speaker 1: know exactly at all. I'm gonna get to feed that base.

506
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:25,920
Speaker 1: I don't know I am though. Okay, the dog and

507
00:36:26,000 --> 00:36:27,680
Speaker 1: you fall in the swimming pool. You need to get

508
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: dog petty. They don't know they can pedal. Did they

509
00:36:32,560 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 1: get in there? They don't know they can know what

510
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:38,279
Speaker 1: they get in there. We're moving on. Would you rather

511
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:42,120
Speaker 1: the painful truth? The painful truth? Or would you rather

512
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:47,160
Speaker 1: a comforting lie? God? Yeah, I'm gonna take that lie.

513
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 1: But I'm always for the comforting line. You need it, right,

514
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 1: You don't want to know the truth? Man? Yeah, a

515
00:36:57,200 --> 00:37:00,640
Speaker 1: good comforting lie. I appreciate the effort. What do you

516
00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:04,279
Speaker 1: want to know? All three comedians on this show, We're

517
00:37:04,320 --> 00:37:08,600
Speaker 1: cool with lie, We're cool with much Rather another truth? Wow,

518
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:13,960
Speaker 1: the truth? If you can really lie to me and

519
00:37:14,080 --> 00:37:17,919
Speaker 1: make me feel good about it. I oh, I'm gonna

520
00:37:17,960 --> 00:37:23,000
Speaker 1: figure something out. Don't worry about that. Wow. But the

521
00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:26,120
Speaker 1: fact that you tried, see lie, lets me know you tried.

522
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:31,960
Speaker 1: You know the pain for truth. Let's let's delay that

523
00:37:32,080 --> 00:37:36,279
Speaker 1: pain as long as Pump can't hear it and get

524
00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 1: it over with, all right, all right? Would you rather

525
00:37:40,800 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 1: a dirty kitchen or a dirty bathroom? Oh? God, now,

526
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:54,040
Speaker 1: I'll take a dirty, dirty kitchen for dirty bathroom because

527
00:37:54,080 --> 00:37:56,560
Speaker 1: the kitchen, let me know, you put your effort in.

528
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:01,920
Speaker 1: But that bathroom, your ass is ast you is nasty.

529
00:38:02,120 --> 00:38:10,719
Speaker 1: I'm so funny about bathrooms. Yes, Junior from you? Yeah, yeah,

530
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,920
Speaker 1: all right? Would you rather have massive success by accident

531
00:38:20,760 --> 00:38:26,960
Speaker 1: or a modest success on purpose? A massive accidental success,

532
00:38:28,760 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 1: massive massive lucky? We want to I want abundance. You're

533
00:38:37,840 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 1: listening to show? All right, Jay, it is time for

534
00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: comedy roulette. It's just the insults. Every week you test

535
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 1: out comedy ability. Tell you what to do? Take five, sup,

536
00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:55,480
Speaker 1: put them on a wheel, spinning a wheel. Whit stop,

537
00:38:56,000 --> 00:38:58,920
Speaker 1: We'll do the damn thing. What you got? All right,

538
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 1: here we go. I have the kind of stories. Let's

539
00:39:02,320 --> 00:39:05,360
Speaker 1: spend I mean, let's get ready. All right? She she

540
00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:08,960
Speaker 1: hasn't she has an invisible boyfriend. Oh everybody knows somebody

541
00:39:09,040 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: like that. All right, that's number one. Number two? Stop

542
00:39:13,640 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 1: lying you're staying at your mama's house? Was number three?

543
00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,680
Speaker 1: What are you going to get that back too? Fig

544
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: You know people like this right back? Number four? You

545
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:34,040
Speaker 1: know they repo that car at number five. I don't

546
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,360
Speaker 1: know how to tell you this, but she's singing, somebody,

547
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: all of these are good a cat. I'm on that too.

548
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:52,800
Speaker 1: Come on to come on im five boyfriend, lend it

549
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:56,160
Speaker 1: a number two. Stop lying you staying at your mama's house.

550
00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 1: You know how I know you staying at your mama house.

551
00:39:59,440 --> 00:40:02,520
Speaker 1: He had club. I hear you on the phone say hey,

552
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: I'll be there in the minute. Mama need a key

553
00:40:04,640 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: under the door and your mama out. I know you

554
00:40:12,600 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: stand at your mama house I know you'd be trying

555
00:40:15,120 --> 00:40:23,520
Speaker 1: to hide, but all your clothes got creasing. You don't

556
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:27,760
Speaker 1: that well, you know iron that your clothes gotta even crease.

557
00:40:28,440 --> 00:40:34,640
Speaker 1: Run back on. You stand at your standing at your

558
00:40:34,680 --> 00:40:36,560
Speaker 1: mama house. When you got a lunch bag with your

559
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:40,200
Speaker 1: name on it in the car, No Mama made that

560
00:40:40,360 --> 00:40:48,520
Speaker 1: for you. When you when when you on your cell

561
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 1: phone talking and we can hit the washing machine in

562
00:40:52,640 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 1: the bathroom mama house. You know you know, I know

563
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:05,719
Speaker 1: you stand at your mama house. You ain't got your

564
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:09,360
Speaker 1: own key, and any key you got is around your neck. Fooling,

565
00:41:09,440 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 1: fool you. You ain't fooling no damn body. You keep

566
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:19,319
Speaker 1: blowing ass man. I know you stay at your mama house.

567
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 1: When I come to your mama house on family functions,

568
00:41:22,719 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 1: you the first one. Now you the first one here.

569
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 1: We know you staying at your mama How when you

570
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:38,840
Speaker 1: you only invite us over doing prayer meeting, Mama gonna

571
00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 1: church tonight we can come through. Yeah, I know you

572
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:46,799
Speaker 1: at your mama's. This is how I know you live

573
00:41:46,880 --> 00:41:55,200
Speaker 1: at your mama's house. You always smell damn the smell

574
00:41:55,400 --> 00:41:59,720
Speaker 1: like the face. You know, I know you're just smelled

575
00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:06,040
Speaker 1: everything I know you standing at your mama house every day,

576
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:09,520
Speaker 1: you coming in talking about a gospel show you watch.

577
00:42:11,840 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 1: When you start watching old Steam, I have experience in

578
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 1: this area. That's I know you staying at your mama

579
00:42:21,640 --> 00:42:25,680
Speaker 1: house when you always into it with her boyfriend? How

580
00:42:25,719 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: came you with? You know like nothing else? Like you

581
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: know you staying at your mama howk you're lotion? You

582
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 1: will smell like a yeah, when are you coming to watch?

583
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: Smelling like white diamond? What is that about? Come on

584
00:42:53,680 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 1: closing out? This is how you know you live with

585
00:42:58,000 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 1: your mama's house called the car? Are you driving? Got

586
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 1: a Bible on the dashboard? And Jesus all right, we'll

587
00:43:22,080 --> 00:43:25,920
Speaker 1: be back with it. We not do it, you guys

588
00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:29,640
Speaker 1: get it. We'll be back with you. Timmy's prank phone

589
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:36,919
Speaker 1: call after this you're listening, coming up at the top

590
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,400
Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my

591
00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:43,439
Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today. The subject should I love him

592
00:43:43,600 --> 00:43:47,480
Speaker 1: or leave him? Is the subject? Okay, right now, nephew

593
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:50,520
Speaker 1: in the building with today's prank phone call. What you

594
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:52,719
Speaker 1: got for us? After this? Right here, y'all, this is

595
00:43:52,800 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: called Jezebel spirit. Uh huh Jezebel Spirit, take your time. Hello. Hello,

596
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:11,920
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a sister Alicia. Alright, alright, alright,

597
00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:13,360
Speaker 1: you may not know my voice, but I'm sure you

598
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:15,439
Speaker 1: probably know me if you saw me. But I'm brother

599
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:19,000
Speaker 1: Greg at the church. Okay, all right, how are you doing.

600
00:44:19,680 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 1: I'm good, I'm good. I'm sorry to disturb your evening.

601
00:44:22,760 --> 00:44:26,719
Speaker 1: I wanted to reach out to you the uh, you know,

602
00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:29,040
Speaker 1: the workers at the church. We we had a meeting.

603
00:44:30,040 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 1: Uh a lot of the deacons and the sisters at

604
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 1: the church they have come to had a meeting, and

605
00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:45,080
Speaker 1: I wanted to give you a call. Melanie, Melanie, that's

606
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:50,359
Speaker 1: that's that's your sister, right, yeah, that's my sister. Okay,

607
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:54,240
Speaker 1: all right, well now we got a bit of a problem,

608
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:58,279
Speaker 1: but uh uh uh. They felt that it would be

609
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:02,120
Speaker 1: best for me to call you and discussion with you

610
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:05,759
Speaker 1: and and let you know what the uh you know

611
00:45:05,920 --> 00:45:08,800
Speaker 1: what they have agreed upon. I'm just basically the messenger

612
00:45:08,840 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 1: and I'm just calling you to give you the word

613
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:17,400
Speaker 1: of what's going on. Okay, um right, yeah, brother Gregg.

614
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:24,920
Speaker 1: H your wife is an a choir, right, uh yeah, yeah, life, yeah, okay, okay,

615
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:31,319
Speaker 1: I know I think I know, yeah, okay, okay, all right, Um, well,

616
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,520
Speaker 1: like I said, Sister Alicia, what the officials of the

617
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:39,439
Speaker 1: church are saying is that they they're saying that they

618
00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: have reason to believe that your sister has been having

619
00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: an affair with with pastors and uh, my sister, your

620
00:45:51,280 --> 00:45:54,680
Speaker 1: sister Melanie. They saying she's having it and having a

621
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:59,480
Speaker 1: fair with having an affair with pastor. Now and I'm,

622
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:03,600
Speaker 1: like I said, I'm just the messenger. Okay, So why

623
00:46:03,600 --> 00:46:08,040
Speaker 1: are y'all calling me about something Melany doing well to

624
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:11,760
Speaker 1: do with me? Like I say, the officials had a meeting,

625
00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:16,640
Speaker 1: and what they're saying is this is nothing but a

626
00:46:16,800 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: jezzer bear spirit. And what they are not wait, wait,

627
00:46:21,239 --> 00:46:23,440
Speaker 1: wait a minute now, now you being rude. Now come on,

628
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:28,320
Speaker 1: and oh okay, I'm gonna hear yet now you're just

629
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 1: hear me out. Now. They're saying that this is a

630
00:46:31,160 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 1: jezzer bear spirit and they would rather all of the

631
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:45,040
Speaker 1: family not be welcome at the church anymore. Okay, First

632
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:48,200
Speaker 1: of all, why are you delivering a message to me

633
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:51,560
Speaker 1: about my sister. If you have a problem with my sister,

634
00:46:52,440 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: seems like you would be calling my sister. Now we

635
00:46:55,320 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 1: shot step for people. So why are you calling me

636
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:02,440
Speaker 1: about my sister of out of rumor? And now you

637
00:47:02,560 --> 00:47:05,759
Speaker 1: say y'all don't want me in the church? Is that?

638
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: Is that what you're saying? Brother? Some family? So if

639
00:47:12,320 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: you got some brothers sisters on team, they want because

640
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:19,440
Speaker 1: they ever deadly. All of the ladies in the comfort

641
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: fact must have some type of Jezebell's spirit of no

642
00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: nobody and they don't want to Wait wait, wait, wait

643
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:28,160
Speaker 1: a minute, now you just like I said, now, be

644
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:31,600
Speaker 1: be mindful who you're speaking to, calling somebody or Jezebel.

645
00:47:34,360 --> 00:47:37,400
Speaker 1: I know what you can't do is called somebody and

646
00:47:37,440 --> 00:47:40,600
Speaker 1: accuse somebody and then call them a derogatory word. Come on,

647
00:47:40,719 --> 00:47:44,239
Speaker 1: somebody a Jezebel and a Jezebel. Now you being rude, sir.

648
00:47:46,440 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: It's a Jezebel's spirit, is what they were saying. Okay,

649
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:53,080
Speaker 1: they's got to be the most asternine, foolish and that

650
00:47:53,400 --> 00:47:56,239
Speaker 1: has ever heard of my life? Who done that? Who

651
00:47:56,320 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: are you to call me? Don't ask me no that

652
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:03,000
Speaker 1: you're calling me all like some hoosh like, who who

653
00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,160
Speaker 1: the hell cost my day? I got a Jezebel? Sis,

654
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:06,960
Speaker 1: that's gonna calling somebody? Kids? I'm like, you got a

655
00:48:07,040 --> 00:48:10,359
Speaker 1: bad ass kid? Does your mama have a Jezebel spid? Wait,

656
00:48:10,400 --> 00:48:13,839
Speaker 1: wait a minute, I'm just did your mama? Does your

657
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,200
Speaker 1: red little sit wearing wife out of Jezebel's spirit? So

658
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: I'm asking you and the whoop your ass. That's what's

659
00:48:20,800 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: gonna happen. You're gonna mess around and get your ass

660
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:25,640
Speaker 1: up and get drawn through the damn pool, pitch around

661
00:48:25,680 --> 00:48:28,840
Speaker 1: with the top well as a right now, the family

662
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:31,719
Speaker 1: can't come to the church. You think we want to

663
00:48:31,760 --> 00:48:34,440
Speaker 1: be around a church that got people call asking me,

664
00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:37,439
Speaker 1: I sholl damn I do I have a Jezebel? Still

665
00:48:39,719 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: you never answered the question do you have one? I

666
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 1: might have a rain had spirit? Now you know she

667
00:48:46,160 --> 00:48:48,560
Speaker 1: was a good man of Bible. Now I've been amember

668
00:48:48,640 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 1: this damn church for the last eight year, and I

669
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:52,800
Speaker 1: don't say plenty of tides to this damned church and

670
00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:56,560
Speaker 1: its attack the fable with me? You help that have

671
00:48:56,680 --> 00:49:02,239
Speaker 1: a problem with me? Just Alicia? Yeah, let me say

672
00:49:02,320 --> 00:49:04,400
Speaker 1: this and I'm gonna be go ahead. First of all,

673
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,239
Speaker 1: before you see another damn work, you need to apologize

674
00:49:07,560 --> 00:49:10,359
Speaker 1: and think, look like you got something. Just okay, Can

675
00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:16,080
Speaker 1: I say this go ahead, go ahead, I apologize, Okay,

676
00:49:16,239 --> 00:49:20,279
Speaker 1: I apologize because this is nephew Tommy from the Steve

677
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:23,319
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show, and you just got franked by your

678
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: sister Melanie. I'm gonna was right. If I was, I was.

679
00:49:37,680 --> 00:49:41,760
Speaker 1: That was a good for you. Yeah, got Melanie asked

680
00:49:41,840 --> 00:49:44,960
Speaker 1: for that. I don't know who the lady is in

681
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:48,120
Speaker 1: the quired with the realist sticker one day. I have

682
00:49:48,320 --> 00:49:54,680
Speaker 1: no idea, all right, no je a bell spirits, none

683
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,680
Speaker 1: of that. We all right, maybe maybe your ray half,

684
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,560
Speaker 1: like I said, baby, your gray half, because even more

685
00:50:00,640 --> 00:50:03,360
Speaker 1: than one Bible, she did good work for the kingdom,

686
00:50:03,400 --> 00:50:05,960
Speaker 1: because you know I was working for the kingdom. Now,

687
00:50:06,000 --> 00:50:09,919
Speaker 1: I said, I have been. I've been a long time.

688
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:18,080
Speaker 1: Now wait you know what, Oh church people. I love

689
00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:20,880
Speaker 1: church people. Hey, let me ask yourself, what is the

690
00:50:21,000 --> 00:50:30,839
Speaker 1: baddest radio show with the law? Say what I think

691
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:37,399
Speaker 1: she's yeah, yeah, long, I have been wanting a long time,

692
00:50:37,520 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: long time. Everybody has a pass. You know. My favorite

693
00:50:44,160 --> 00:50:54,319
Speaker 1: is your mama have just a bit? Yes? Well, all right,

694
00:50:54,760 --> 00:50:57,719
Speaker 1: all right, nephew, thank you, thank you. Coming up next

695
00:50:57,760 --> 00:51:00,440
Speaker 1: Strawberry letters, subject should I love him or leave him?

696
00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:03,920
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this you're listening to

697
00:51:04,160 --> 00:51:09,280
Speaker 1: the morning show. All right, guys, time now for today's

698
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:13,360
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex,

699
00:51:13,480 --> 00:51:17,280
Speaker 1: parenting and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve

700
00:51:17,360 --> 00:51:22,080
Speaker 1: HARVEYFM dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could

701
00:51:22,120 --> 00:51:24,080
Speaker 1: be reading your letter live on the air, just like

702
00:51:24,440 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna read this one right here, right now. Margat

703
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: appinhold on tight, We got it. Paul you here. It

704
00:51:29,440 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. Thank you nephew. Subject Should I

705
00:51:33,560 --> 00:51:36,920
Speaker 1: love him or leave him? Dear Stephen Shirley. I met

706
00:51:36,960 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: an older guy and I was attracted to him, but

707
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:42,680
Speaker 1: played hard to get. He begged me for a first

708
00:51:42,800 --> 00:51:45,560
Speaker 1: date and I eventually agreed to go out with him.

709
00:51:45,920 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: He asked me to pick him up, and I didn't

710
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: think much about it since his house was on the

711
00:51:49,640 --> 00:51:52,680
Speaker 1: way to the restaurant. When I got to the house,

712
00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,440
Speaker 1: he came out, and so did a much older lady.

713
00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 1: He got in my car and told me that was

714
00:51:58,800 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 1: his mother. That was his mom, and that he lived

715
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:03,759
Speaker 1: with her. At this point I had an opportunity to

716
00:52:03,880 --> 00:52:06,400
Speaker 1: tell him that I was not interested, but I went

717
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,319
Speaker 1: out to dinner with him. Anyway, at dinner, he told

718
00:52:09,360 --> 00:52:12,080
Speaker 1: me that he's a convicted felon, but that was years

719
00:52:12,120 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: ago and he's got a great job and a new

720
00:52:14,719 --> 00:52:18,080
Speaker 1: life now. I kept seeing this man and eventually went

721
00:52:18,160 --> 00:52:21,960
Speaker 1: to his home, well his mom's house, and saw how

722
00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: filthy his room was. And I also noticed that his

723
00:52:25,800 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: mom's yard was unkept and there was trash lying around

724
00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:32,719
Speaker 1: the driveway and porch. There. These were red flags, and

725
00:52:32,880 --> 00:52:36,000
Speaker 1: I told him he should do better at helping his

726
00:52:36,160 --> 00:52:39,360
Speaker 1: mom out around the house. Then I invited him to

727
00:52:39,520 --> 00:52:42,320
Speaker 1: my house to meet my two children. I know he

728
00:52:42,480 --> 00:52:45,040
Speaker 1: talks really hood and street, but I thought he would

729
00:52:45,080 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 1: do better when he met my children. He did not,

730
00:52:48,239 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: and my kids asked him why he was talking like

731
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:55,399
Speaker 1: a rapper. He kept commenting on how nice I kept

732
00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:58,880
Speaker 1: my house, and after the visit, his conversations turned to

733
00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,480
Speaker 1: us making a commitment. He suggested moving in with me

734
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:05,000
Speaker 1: so we could be closer and he could help me

735
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 1: out around the house. I was excited at first because

736
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:11,880
Speaker 1: I really like this man, but then I thought I

737
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,680
Speaker 1: was being naive and he could just be using me.

738
00:53:15,160 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 1: Although he has some character flaws. Could I work on

739
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:21,200
Speaker 1: this fixer upper and be happy, or should I leave

740
00:53:21,320 --> 00:53:26,439
Speaker 1: this man at his mama's house. Please advise, run, run,

741
00:53:27,200 --> 00:53:30,080
Speaker 1: run as far away from this man as you possibly can.

742
00:53:30,640 --> 00:53:33,080
Speaker 1: I mean, you got to leave this man alone. Please.

743
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:36,600
Speaker 1: I mean, when you see red flags, don't ignore them.

744
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:40,359
Speaker 1: That's what red flags are. Four. Okay, let's go through him.

745
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 1: He lives with his mom, all right. The yard is nasty,

746
00:53:47,120 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 1: his room is nasty, He has no car, He doesn't

747
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:52,560
Speaker 1: know how to be a good role model in front

748
00:53:52,600 --> 00:53:55,720
Speaker 1: of your children. And if he's got such a nice job,

749
00:53:56,120 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 1: in a great job and all this stuff like you

750
00:53:58,000 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: see in the letter, why doesn't he save his money

751
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:03,560
Speaker 1: and get an apartment. There was no discussion about that

752
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: in this letter. And you know it wasn't until after

753
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,160
Speaker 1: he saw your place, after he came over there, that

754
00:54:10,400 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 1: he started, you know, like kind of pressuring you to

755
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:16,520
Speaker 1: move in and to be committed. He said he would

756
00:54:16,520 --> 00:54:20,040
Speaker 1: help you around the house. Oh really, you would help her,

757
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 1: but you're not. He'll help you, but he's not going

758
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:24,359
Speaker 1: to help his own mom around the house. He could

759
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 1: at least clean up the yard, and what about his room?

760
00:54:27,280 --> 00:54:30,839
Speaker 1: Come on, I don't get this. I say, don't let

761
00:54:30,960 --> 00:54:34,400
Speaker 1: him in your house in this kind of a way.

762
00:54:34,480 --> 00:54:37,319
Speaker 1: Don't let him move in. Please, this is not how

763
00:54:37,400 --> 00:54:39,920
Speaker 1: you want to live. You have two kids to think about.

764
00:54:40,239 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: I think if he was and you didn't mention you know,

765
00:54:42,880 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: what he was incarcerated for or anything like that, you

766
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:47,840
Speaker 1: just said he's out. That was years ago, and he

767
00:54:47,920 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: has a great job in a new life now. But

768
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:53,200
Speaker 1: it just doesn't look like it or seem like it.

769
00:54:53,560 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 1: You know. Yeah, he could be using you, but I

770
00:54:55,840 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: say no, it's too soon to move in. Don't let

771
00:54:58,239 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 1: him do it. Steve, I'm I'm confused. I really am

772
00:55:06,480 --> 00:55:10,919
Speaker 1: uh huh about Why? Why is she writing us? Yeah?

773
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: What what is the purpose of this letter? I don't

774
00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:17,080
Speaker 1: even know why? Why are we? Why are we talking

775
00:55:17,120 --> 00:55:22,719
Speaker 1: to her about? Who? Who are we talking about? That?

776
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:30,840
Speaker 1: Everything in this letter screams what? Yeah, I mean, the

777
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: whole damn letter. Let's start. I met an older guy

778
00:55:39,800 --> 00:55:44,560
Speaker 1: right down and use attracted to him, but you played

779
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:49,160
Speaker 1: hard to get Okay, you know, older guy. He begged

780
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:51,480
Speaker 1: me for a first date. I agree with brother. He

781
00:55:51,640 --> 00:55:54,760
Speaker 1: asked me to pick him up. Right now, let's stop,

782
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:59,759
Speaker 1: let's let's go. Let's listen. Just listen. You met her

783
00:55:59,800 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 1: older guy, he asked me to pick him up. I

784
00:56:04,120 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: ain't think nothing about it, since his house was on

785
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:09,399
Speaker 1: the way to the restaurant. When I got to the house,

786
00:56:10,040 --> 00:56:15,400
Speaker 1: he came out, and so did a much older lady.

787
00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:19,080
Speaker 1: Let's circle this. Let's just go for what we got

788
00:56:19,160 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: so far. Matter older guy, he asked you to pick

789
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: him up. He come out of the house with an

790
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:27,840
Speaker 1: old ass lady. He got in my car and told

791
00:56:27,920 --> 00:56:33,719
Speaker 1: me this was his mom and he lived with her.

792
00:56:34,239 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: Let's circle that. At this point I had the opportunity

793
00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:39,279
Speaker 1: to tell him I was not interested. But I went

794
00:56:39,320 --> 00:56:47,279
Speaker 1: out to dinner with him anyway for what why? Let

795
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: me circle that. I went out to dinner with him anyway.

796
00:56:53,160 --> 00:56:58,240
Speaker 1: Then at dinner, he told me he's a convicted feeling.

797
00:56:58,560 --> 00:57:03,600
Speaker 1: Let's circle that twice. But that was years ago, and

798
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 1: he got a good job and got a new life.

799
00:57:06,040 --> 00:57:10,600
Speaker 1: Now I kept seeing this man and eventually went to

800
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:14,080
Speaker 1: his house, well, his mama's house. Okay, let's cuckle that,

801
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 1: because now were you why are you still talking to

802
00:57:16,960 --> 00:57:19,680
Speaker 1: his answer? After this? I don't know, but you went

803
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:23,000
Speaker 1: back to his mama's house. And then this older man

804
00:57:23,240 --> 00:57:28,200
Speaker 1: you met. You saw how filthy his room was. You know,

805
00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 1: the last time I had a room, I was seventeen. Yeah,

806
00:57:37,120 --> 00:57:40,600
Speaker 1: and last time I took somebody to my room other

807
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 1: than a dormitory in college. Yeah, all right, how filthy

808
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:49,880
Speaker 1: his room was. Let's stop down or to be right

809
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 1: at twenty three after the hour, A subject of Today's

810
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:57,520
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letters, Should I Love him or leave him? We'll

811
00:57:57,560 --> 00:58:03,720
Speaker 1: be back right after this. You're listening, all right, Steve,

812
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: Come on, let's recap Today's My recap can just be

813
00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:14,080
Speaker 1: a continuation because as I continue, I'll explain it. I'm

814
00:58:14,120 --> 00:58:16,520
Speaker 1: gonna show you everything that's wrong with this letter. This

815
00:58:16,800 --> 00:58:20,360
Speaker 1: letter is should I Love him? Or leave him? Stephen Shirley.

816
00:58:20,480 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: I met an older guy. I circled that I was

817
00:58:25,400 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 1: attracting him, but I played hard to get. He begged

818
00:58:28,000 --> 00:58:29,960
Speaker 1: me for a first date. I eventually agreed to go

819
00:58:30,080 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 1: out with him. He asked me to pick him up.

820
00:58:33,040 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: I circled that everything I circled is screaming what. I

821
00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:42,200
Speaker 1: ain't think much about it, since his house was on

822
00:58:42,280 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: the way to the restaurant. When I got to the

823
00:58:43,840 --> 00:58:47,640
Speaker 1: house and he came out, and so did a much

824
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:52,360
Speaker 1: older lady, I circled that, who is this old ass lady?

825
00:58:54,560 --> 00:58:56,880
Speaker 1: He got in my car and told me that this

826
00:58:57,120 --> 00:59:01,560
Speaker 1: was his mom and he lived with her. I circled that,

827
00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:05,880
Speaker 1: let's go back, older guy, you had to pick him up.

828
00:59:06,280 --> 00:59:09,640
Speaker 1: He's this old lady stay there and you found out

829
00:59:09,680 --> 00:59:12,680
Speaker 1: his mama. At this point, I had an opportunity to

830
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 1: tell him I was not interested, but I went out

831
00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:19,280
Speaker 1: to dinner with him. Anyway. I circled that. The question

832
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:22,560
Speaker 1: I'm begging everybody to ask yourself is why is you

833
00:59:22,720 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 1: at dinner with this old ass man to stay at

834
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 1: the house with his mama that you had to pick up.

835
00:59:27,520 --> 00:59:31,320
Speaker 1: That's all I'm ask At dinner, he told me he

836
00:59:31,480 --> 00:59:35,520
Speaker 1: was a convicted fellon. This whole letter is going to hell.

837
00:59:37,200 --> 00:59:43,560
Speaker 1: But I kept seeing the man. Why Eventually I went

838
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:46,600
Speaker 1: to his house where his mom's house. So I circle

839
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: that because it took you two visits to get it.

840
00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:52,080
Speaker 1: The first time you pulled up. Next time you went

841
00:59:52,120 --> 00:59:53,760
Speaker 1: to the damn house and found out it was a

842
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 1: mama's house. Yet all in blue plates leaning up against

843
00:59:56,840 --> 00:59:59,680
Speaker 1: the wall on the fireplaces, and had that big wooden

844
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:02,840
Speaker 1: and spoon and fox set hanging on the damn wall,

845
01:00:03,040 --> 01:00:07,120
Speaker 1: that picture the white Jesus, mar Luther King and John F. Kennedy.

846
01:00:09,040 --> 01:00:11,840
Speaker 1: And I noticed that his mom's yard was unkept, and

847
01:00:11,920 --> 01:00:16,520
Speaker 1: it was trash laying around. I circled that he don't

848
01:00:16,560 --> 01:00:19,880
Speaker 1: give a damn bout his mama. Trash laying around the

849
01:00:20,080 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 1: driveway and the porch that's where he eats. These were

850
01:00:25,120 --> 01:00:27,680
Speaker 1: all red flags, and I told him he should do

851
01:00:27,800 --> 01:00:31,000
Speaker 1: better helping out his mom around out. You know what

852
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:33,640
Speaker 1: Judge Lynn told her told me one time on the show,

853
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:43,200
Speaker 1: she said women should stop collecting red flags. Yep, women

854
01:00:43,680 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: should stop collecting red flags time. I'm gonna let you

855
01:00:47,160 --> 01:00:53,120
Speaker 1: use that already for love this year, women should stop

856
01:00:53,320 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 1: collecting red flags. I told him he should do better

857
01:00:57,200 --> 01:00:59,960
Speaker 1: helping his mom out around the house. Then I invite

858
01:01:00,000 --> 01:01:01,920
Speaker 1: to him to my house to meet my two children.

859
01:01:02,240 --> 01:01:07,000
Speaker 1: I circled this, Why is he meeting your damn kids?

860
01:01:08,600 --> 01:01:13,960
Speaker 1: What redeeming quality has he exhibited? Where you think it's

861
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:18,040
Speaker 1: time for him to meet your damn kids? Now he

862
01:01:18,200 --> 01:01:23,760
Speaker 1: talks real hood in street. I circled that he stayed

863
01:01:23,760 --> 01:01:26,240
Speaker 1: at home with his mama. Is mama old? You had

864
01:01:26,280 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 1: to pick him up? He lived with his mama. You

865
01:01:28,840 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 1: went out to dinner anyway, he a convicted felling. You

866
01:01:31,640 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 1: went to his mama's house. His room is filtered. It's

867
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:38,040
Speaker 1: translating around the driveway in the porch. I invited him

868
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:40,000
Speaker 1: to your house to meet the two kids, and he

869
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:43,080
Speaker 1: talked real hood in street. This whole letter is just

870
01:01:43,200 --> 01:01:45,360
Speaker 1: going to hell. But I thought he would do better

871
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:48,760
Speaker 1: when he met my children. He did not, And your

872
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: kids asked him why was he talking like a rapper?

873
01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 1: You know why, because your kids know his whole ass

874
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 1: should be talking better than one of their damn piers.

875
01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: Your kids know that, but you don't. So I circled that.

876
01:02:09,320 --> 01:02:12,360
Speaker 1: He kept commenting on how nice I kept my house.

877
01:02:12,440 --> 01:02:16,880
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, questions wople to break the laws just described

878
01:02:16,960 --> 01:02:23,000
Speaker 1: in Mama's house. And after the visit, his conversations turned

879
01:02:23,080 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 1: to us making a commitment, a commitment to what he suggested,

880
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:32,040
Speaker 1: moving in with me so he could be closer and

881
01:02:32,160 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: he could help out round the house. He don't help

882
01:02:34,600 --> 01:02:38,560
Speaker 1: out round the house. He don't help out round the house.

883
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 1: He don't help out in his filth ass room. He

884
01:02:41,440 --> 01:02:43,800
Speaker 1: don't help out with nothing on the poach, He don't

885
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,320
Speaker 1: help out with nothing with the driveway. Where do he

886
01:02:46,480 --> 01:02:51,640
Speaker 1: clean up at? So he fitn't help you. Well. I

887
01:02:51,840 --> 01:02:55,840
Speaker 1: was excited at first because I really liked this man.

888
01:02:56,200 --> 01:02:58,800
Speaker 1: What is it you like? You ain't saying nothing in

889
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:02,680
Speaker 1: the letter you like your your whole letter is you

890
01:03:02,880 --> 01:03:06,120
Speaker 1: just disappointed? You on this man? Then you sound really

891
01:03:06,200 --> 01:03:08,919
Speaker 1: like him. You like what you must not. You ain't

892
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:12,760
Speaker 1: never handled man before, you never had a good man before.

893
01:03:14,000 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: Because if this is what you like, I show what

894
01:03:16,960 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: hate to see the one you got rid of, the

895
01:03:20,160 --> 01:03:23,760
Speaker 1: one you had them two kids. By lady, you need

896
01:03:23,800 --> 01:03:26,480
Speaker 1: to up your up your game. I really like this man,

897
01:03:26,880 --> 01:03:29,320
Speaker 1: But then I have thought I was being you naive

898
01:03:29,360 --> 01:03:34,240
Speaker 1: and he could be using me. Although he had some

899
01:03:34,440 --> 01:03:42,720
Speaker 1: character flawed character flaw. He old his hell. That ain't

900
01:03:42,720 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: a cafter flaw. He ain't got a car. That ain't

901
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:48,640
Speaker 1: a cafter flaw. He stayed with his mama. That ain't

902
01:03:48,680 --> 01:03:52,320
Speaker 1: a character flaw. He's a convicted felon. That ain't a

903
01:03:52,400 --> 01:03:56,200
Speaker 1: character flaw. His room is filtered, That ain't a character flaw.

904
01:03:56,480 --> 01:03:59,040
Speaker 1: It's chanced on the driveway in the ports. That ain't

905
01:03:59,040 --> 01:04:01,840
Speaker 1: a charthter flaw. He wants to move in with you

906
01:04:02,040 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 1: so he can help out round the house here. Damn

907
01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:11,959
Speaker 1: run all right, Steve, run post you're coming on today.

908
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:15,040
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter on Instagram at Steve Harvey FM dot com

909
01:04:15,160 --> 01:04:18,680
Speaker 1: and check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. You're

910
01:04:18,760 --> 01:04:27,320
Speaker 1: listening to show all right every Monday. Poland's oldest djuh

911
01:04:27,680 --> 01:04:31,320
Speaker 1: Virginia Schmidt. I don't know how to pronounce her name

912
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:36,160
Speaker 1: s z m yt. We're just gonna say Schmidt packs

913
01:04:36,200 --> 01:04:42,680
Speaker 1: her CDs. She packs her CDs, her her mixer and laptop,

914
01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:46,040
Speaker 1: and heads off to Spin for a packed dance floor

915
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:49,560
Speaker 1: of maidenly senior citizens. I love, I Love who it

916
01:04:49,760 --> 01:04:55,600
Speaker 1: wasn't Yes wicked WICKI. She entertains about a thousand people

917
01:04:56,040 --> 01:05:01,160
Speaker 1: at the Hula Coola Club, smashing starry types and empowering

918
01:05:01,400 --> 01:05:05,560
Speaker 1: seniors as she plays everything from disco and rock to

919
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: samba and ballads. She says, I do not fit the

920
01:05:09,400 --> 01:05:12,439
Speaker 1: stereotype of an elderly person. I don't see any reason

921
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,280
Speaker 1: why my age should determine why my age should determine

922
01:05:15,360 --> 01:05:19,000
Speaker 1: my life norms. So I think that's interesting. So here's

923
01:05:19,000 --> 01:05:21,640
Speaker 1: a question for the guys. What part of your job

924
01:05:21,840 --> 01:05:25,280
Speaker 1: keeps you young? Or what job would you want to

925
01:05:25,440 --> 01:05:27,680
Speaker 1: keep you young? I can tell you definitely what keeps

926
01:05:27,760 --> 01:05:31,080
Speaker 1: me you. You fellas want to start first? Oh, go ahead,

927
01:05:31,200 --> 01:05:34,400
Speaker 1: go ahead, you're young all my jobs, man, I love

928
01:05:34,440 --> 01:05:37,600
Speaker 1: all my job laughing, all the laughing I get to

929
01:05:37,680 --> 01:05:40,320
Speaker 1: do all day long, man telling Joe laughing, that's what

930
01:05:40,520 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: keep me young. Good answer, good answer. Stupidity, being able

931
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 1: to just be stupid, just just you know, just letting

932
01:05:48,880 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 1: it go. Oh yes, you're strong with that, with that,

933
01:05:52,520 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 1: because you you would think you would want to mature.

934
01:05:54,720 --> 01:06:04,600
Speaker 1: But don't be silly, Carlo. I want this stupid right here.

935
01:06:04,680 --> 01:06:07,840
Speaker 1: I won't when you got it. You got all of that, anybody,

936
01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:14,680
Speaker 1: that's all you boo? All right, Steve, what keeps you going?

937
01:06:16,600 --> 01:06:23,880
Speaker 1: Fine off and ignorance in order? Fine off and ignorance.

938
01:06:24,240 --> 01:06:26,880
Speaker 1: When I first met you used to say that I

939
01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:29,000
Speaker 1: love it. I let it out. I don't have high

940
01:06:29,040 --> 01:06:32,080
Speaker 1: blood pressure, I don't have stress, dog to do all that.

941
01:06:32,120 --> 01:06:36,080
Speaker 1: I ain't had no ulcers and all that. Oh we cussing, okay, cool.

942
01:06:36,640 --> 01:06:39,600
Speaker 1: I agree with Junior though, the laughter of it all,

943
01:06:39,760 --> 01:06:43,440
Speaker 1: I mean, laughter is it? Yeah? You know? But I

944
01:06:43,520 --> 01:06:45,560
Speaker 1: mean you know, we gotta give different answers, Sirley, we

945
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:49,920
Speaker 1: can't all say laughter. So what you're not do is

946
01:06:50,040 --> 01:06:52,800
Speaker 1: make us think that Junior is the most brilliant three

947
01:06:52,840 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 1: of us. That's not what you well with that question.

948
01:06:55,560 --> 01:06:57,800
Speaker 1: I know he tried. I saw him because he didn't

949
01:06:57,840 --> 01:07:00,040
Speaker 1: have that answer. First day he won. He was on

950
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 1: that round Junior one, that round Steve. Okay, we had it.

951
01:07:05,000 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 1: That keeps We'll keep yalling. Yeah. Yeah, and he is

952
01:07:09,320 --> 01:07:14,000
Speaker 1: the king of that the ladies. Yeah. I mean, like

953
01:07:14,120 --> 01:07:18,080
Speaker 1: I said, I agree with you. Laughter, playing music, just

954
01:07:18,520 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 1: keeping up with what's going on. That keeps you young. Yeah,

955
01:07:21,520 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 1: being able to being able to wear whatever you want

956
01:07:24,720 --> 01:07:27,360
Speaker 1: to wear to work and stuff. It's cool. You know

957
01:07:27,480 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 1: you could dress anywhere you want to dress. Fly. You

958
01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:35,160
Speaker 1: know you don't have to Sure what Tommy you heard,

959
01:07:36,200 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 1: let's say a quarterba six sex don't keeping you Okay,

960
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: we gotta job. Yeah, we'll do it at the job.

961
01:07:43,320 --> 01:07:52,560
Speaker 1: I'm just saying, you're listening. It's coffing season, guys. So

962
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:55,000
Speaker 1: the question is are you trying to find someone to

963
01:07:55,080 --> 01:07:58,120
Speaker 1: spend the upcoming cold weather months with? Well, if you

964
01:07:58,160 --> 01:08:01,280
Speaker 1: don't know what coffing season is, let's explained. See, during

965
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,360
Speaker 1: the fall and winter months, people who would normally rather

966
01:08:04,480 --> 01:08:08,160
Speaker 1: be single or promiscuous find themselves desiring to be cuffed

967
01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:13,240
Speaker 1: or tied down in a serious relationship. Get it. The

968
01:08:13,360 --> 01:08:17,599
Speaker 1: cold weather and prolonged indoor activities. Uh, they caused singles

969
01:08:17,640 --> 01:08:20,920
Speaker 1: to become lonely and desperate to be cuffed. So when

970
01:08:21,000 --> 01:08:24,519
Speaker 1: you guys were single, gotta ask the guys this was

971
01:08:24,640 --> 01:08:26,880
Speaker 1: this the case for you? And of course, Junior, you

972
01:08:27,080 --> 01:08:30,880
Speaker 1: are single, so do you will? We'll start with you. Uh.

973
01:08:31,040 --> 01:08:33,040
Speaker 1: Do you find you're trying to find love in the

974
01:08:33,120 --> 01:08:37,320
Speaker 1: fall in winter months? No? No, I ain't coffing. No,

975
01:08:37,439 --> 01:08:39,200
Speaker 1: if I'm coming out for the relationship, right, we're gonna

976
01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:41,479
Speaker 1: covering to be together because it's cold. Oh yeah, well

977
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:45,200
Speaker 1: then she can't eat racket? What? Yeah? All my women

978
01:08:45,240 --> 01:08:50,320
Speaker 1: got to eat meat? Why? Why? Oh? Okay, yeah, I

979
01:08:50,439 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 1: mean it might be that app no vegans. What did

980
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:02,320
Speaker 1: you say, Steve Junior need heat? So he don't have

981
01:09:02,439 --> 01:09:08,920
Speaker 1: a Christian Yeah? Mess around you? You too thin? I

982
01:09:09,040 --> 01:09:15,760
Speaker 1: might ask in the hospital. I need to wrap a

983
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:19,479
Speaker 1: fire around me. So okay, So that's what you're going

984
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:22,920
Speaker 1: to be looking for a dream. All right, all right,

985
01:09:23,000 --> 01:09:24,760
Speaker 1: see its to toss up. I don't know who to go.

986
01:09:25,320 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go with you, Steve to me safe. Come on,

987
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:34,360
Speaker 1: see all right, let's go, nephew. What's the question? The

988
01:09:34,520 --> 01:09:38,960
Speaker 1: question is? I mean, you're you're when you were single.

989
01:09:39,000 --> 01:09:41,000
Speaker 1: You're married now. But when you were single, are you

990
01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:44,200
Speaker 1: looking for someone to cuff up with during the cold

991
01:09:44,280 --> 01:09:47,400
Speaker 1: winter months? And what about the holidays? Yeah? Well air night,

992
01:09:47,840 --> 01:09:53,639
Speaker 1: air holiday. What Yeah, somebody will keep you warm then

993
01:09:53,720 --> 01:09:56,880
Speaker 1: from person? Oh not the same person. That ain't no

994
01:09:57,000 --> 01:09:59,280
Speaker 1: good coffing. When you say we cuff last night, that

995
01:09:59,320 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 1: ain't good. Gotta have somebody you want a different cuff

996
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:04,320
Speaker 1: the next night. You know what I'm saying. You don't

997
01:10:04,360 --> 01:10:07,960
Speaker 1: see that, No, I mean once you cuddle up with

998
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,080
Speaker 1: one on Monday Tuesday. I want to cuff up with

999
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,640
Speaker 1: huggy and windy. I you know, wow, I want to

1000
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:17,160
Speaker 1: feel something different. You know what I'm saying. Yeah, yeah,

1001
01:10:17,720 --> 01:10:19,880
Speaker 1: see I was thinking take him last, Steve, so we

1002
01:10:19,960 --> 01:10:23,639
Speaker 1: could go out after him, so wouldn't have to linger.

1003
01:10:23,840 --> 01:10:27,720
Speaker 1: Now you probably gonna want to get it, okay when

1004
01:10:27,800 --> 01:10:31,639
Speaker 1: you were single, get ready everyone. When you were single, Steve,

1005
01:10:31,880 --> 01:10:34,880
Speaker 1: were you looking for someone to cuff up with? No?

1006
01:10:35,160 --> 01:10:41,800
Speaker 1: I didn't date for coffing. I dated for holly. I

1007
01:10:41,960 --> 01:10:45,599
Speaker 1: wanted somebody to do something to me to make me holly.

1008
01:10:45,640 --> 01:10:47,600
Speaker 1: I didn't give a damn about coffin. I won't go

1009
01:10:47,760 --> 01:10:51,960
Speaker 1: home anyway. You just wanted to holler and get out

1010
01:10:52,760 --> 01:10:57,800
Speaker 1: like what like that? You know he liked you know? No, no,

1011
01:10:58,000 --> 01:11:02,839
Speaker 1: not do it again? Sure like like that. No hollering,

1012
01:11:02,960 --> 01:11:17,559
Speaker 1: that's hollering. No no that girl, girl, girl, get cat girl.

1013
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:26,120
Speaker 1: You I like the girl. You're gonna get a call

1014
01:11:29,880 --> 01:11:33,160
Speaker 1: a car car. That's that's what I dated for. I

1015
01:11:33,320 --> 01:11:35,960
Speaker 1: dated for holland. I didn't kid about no damn coffee.

1016
01:11:36,280 --> 01:11:40,760
Speaker 1: I won't stay with you none of that. Single. Yeah,

1017
01:11:41,880 --> 01:11:46,160
Speaker 1: and to be single wise, we staying together. So Junior

1018
01:11:46,280 --> 01:11:48,599
Speaker 1: is the only one that's true when he's single, because

1019
01:11:48,720 --> 01:11:52,559
Speaker 1: Tommy had a different one every other day, and you, Steve,

1020
01:11:53,200 --> 01:11:55,800
Speaker 1: I didn't have a different the day. But I didn't

1021
01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:58,000
Speaker 1: want to stay with you though, Oh you wanted to

1022
01:11:58,040 --> 01:12:00,479
Speaker 1: go to your own house. Well, I'm through, I'm hot,

1023
01:12:00,800 --> 01:12:06,719
Speaker 1: so what Okay, I'm hot. See, women like to cuddle,

1024
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:11,280
Speaker 1: got all that, but yeah, but can we cuddle after

1025
01:12:11,320 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 1: I cool down? We got a hot flask. I ain't

1026
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,680
Speaker 1: gonna hot flask. I didn't got all the furnaces and

1027
01:12:20,320 --> 01:12:23,800
Speaker 1: pistons is pumping and never thing. I gotta shut this down.

1028
01:12:24,000 --> 01:12:28,160
Speaker 1: Furnace all holler, all right, coming out. More music more

1029
01:12:28,240 --> 01:12:30,519
Speaker 1: trending news on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll be

1030
01:12:30,600 --> 01:12:32,920
Speaker 1: back at twenty minutes after the hour. Right after this,

1031
01:12:33,640 --> 01:13:01,440
Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. Let in your devotion.

1032
01:13:02,200 --> 01:13:05,599
Speaker 1: We started out his friend, his friend. It's more than

1033
01:13:05,760 --> 01:13:10,280
Speaker 1: I was hoping. I'm glad you let me in. You

1034
01:13:10,479 --> 01:13:14,639
Speaker 1: with me, baby, day night. I never write your side

1035
01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:18,519
Speaker 1: when I'm not with you. You're texting me all night,

1036
01:13:20,400 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 1: sending it out a pictures of your breast, on your

1037
01:13:24,640 --> 01:13:30,360
Speaker 1: behind and self everything net. You keep blowing up my name,

1038
01:13:30,600 --> 01:13:34,639
Speaker 1: my night. It is clear to break up you its mother,

1039
01:13:35,040 --> 01:13:39,799
Speaker 1: any guy, I'm gonna tell the truth. Prepare yourself to cry.

1040
01:13:41,360 --> 01:13:48,640
Speaker 1: You text me fire, but sad in it away. I

1041
01:13:48,800 --> 01:13:57,640
Speaker 1: gotta SAMs gag you text me said, but sad in

1042
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:22,040
Speaker 1: it away. I gotta say set away. I say, you're

1043
01:14:22,080 --> 01:14:25,960
Speaker 1: listening to the morning show all right time now? For

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01:14:26,080 --> 01:14:30,559
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather take care of your

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01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:35,280
Speaker 1: friend's baby or your friend's dog? Give me that dog?

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01:14:35,800 --> 01:14:38,320
Speaker 1: Give me that dog? Man, Yeah, I got that dog.

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Speaker 1: I ain't got that. I ain't got the rock that dog.

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01:14:40,760 --> 01:14:44,320
Speaker 1: I ain't got the burp that dog. Ye and your

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01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 1: dog can't tell on me, So give me the dog, dog,

1050
01:14:48,520 --> 01:14:50,920
Speaker 1: because I'm studying your damn dog. I'm gonna let his

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Speaker 1: ass go. Literally, little baby, I beat him, beat it.

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01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:58,960
Speaker 1: Forgot your baby. You'll be looking for your We both dog.

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01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:00,760
Speaker 1: At least I can feed the dog, and the dog

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Speaker 1: will do what he got to do. Well, I'm gonna

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01:15:02,600 --> 01:15:05,960
Speaker 1: tell you right now, I'm not I'm going to forget

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01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:11,160
Speaker 1: your dog. Yeah, but will you will you? Will you

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01:15:11,200 --> 01:15:13,360
Speaker 1: at least will you at least feed the dog? Will

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01:15:13,360 --> 01:15:15,519
Speaker 1: you at least do that? Oh? Yeah, yeah, I don't

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01:15:15,560 --> 01:15:20,479
Speaker 1: abuse animals at all. I'm gonna get to feed that base.

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01:15:20,560 --> 01:15:26,880
Speaker 1: I don't know. I am okay, dog and you fall

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Speaker 1: in the swimming pool. You need to get dog pedaling.

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01:15:31,640 --> 01:15:33,439
Speaker 1: They don't know they can pedal. Did they get in there?

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01:15:33,479 --> 01:15:34,840
Speaker 1: They don't know they can know it? Did they get

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01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:39,920
Speaker 1: in there? We're moving on. Would you rather the painful truth?

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01:15:40,080 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 1: The painful truth? Or would you rather a comforting lie? God, Yeah,

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01:15:46,200 --> 01:15:48,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take that, lie be. I'm always for the

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01:15:48,680 --> 01:15:53,719
Speaker 1: comforting line. You need. You don't want to know the truth,

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01:15:55,200 --> 01:15:59,559
Speaker 1: lie me man, Yeah, a good comforting lie. I appreciate

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01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:03,360
Speaker 1: the effort. What do you want to know? All three

1070
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Speaker 1: comedians on this show. We're cool with lying. We're cool

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01:16:06,360 --> 01:16:12,559
Speaker 1: with much rather than the truth. Wow, the truth if

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01:16:12,640 --> 01:16:15,439
Speaker 1: you can really lie to me and make me feel

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Speaker 1: good about it. Oh, I'm gonna figure something out. Don't

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01:16:19,560 --> 01:16:22,639
Speaker 1: worry about that. Wow. But the fact that you tried,

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01:16:22,760 --> 01:16:25,519
Speaker 1: see lied, lets me know you tried. You know what?

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01:16:27,360 --> 01:16:31,160
Speaker 1: The pain for truth. Let's let's delay that pain as

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01:16:31,240 --> 01:16:35,439
Speaker 1: long as post hear it and get it over with.

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01:16:35,720 --> 01:16:40,360
Speaker 1: All right? All right? Would you rather a dirty kitchen

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01:16:40,760 --> 01:16:46,880
Speaker 1: or a dirty bathroom? Oh? God, girl, Now I'll take

1080
01:16:46,920 --> 01:16:52,599
Speaker 1: a dirty kitchen, dirty kitchen, Ye for dirty bathroom because

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01:16:52,680 --> 01:16:55,160
Speaker 1: the kitchen, let me know you put your effort in.

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01:16:55,880 --> 01:17:00,439
Speaker 1: But that bathroom your ass is nashed, you is nest

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01:17:00,720 --> 01:17:14,559
Speaker 1: I'm so funny about bathrooms. Yes, Junior from yeah, all right?

1084
01:17:15,439 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 1: Would you rather have massive success by accident or a

1085
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:32,680
Speaker 1: modest success on purpose? A massive accidental success, massive, massive, lucky? Want?

1086
01:17:33,120 --> 01:17:37,320
Speaker 1: I want abundance? All right? Coming up at forty nine

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hour, we'll have some closing remarks from

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey, and it's our last break of the day.

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Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to show. All right, here

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Speaker 1: we are, last break of the day. It's been a

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01:17:49,840 --> 01:17:54,360
Speaker 1: good day as usual. You're alright, Steve, did you because

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01:17:54,400 --> 01:17:57,840
Speaker 1: we started the show off talking about attention. Well, you know,

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01:17:58,040 --> 01:18:00,840
Speaker 1: it's been one of those days me. I will admit

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01:18:00,960 --> 01:18:03,839
Speaker 1: that so far, but it's gonna get better. I always

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01:18:04,080 --> 01:18:08,240
Speaker 1: keep my head up, you know, which could lead into

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01:18:08,280 --> 01:18:10,519
Speaker 1: these closing remark because I might as well talk about

1097
01:18:10,560 --> 01:18:14,360
Speaker 1: something that I was dealing with. You know, I was

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Speaker 1: in a Jamaica over the weekend, and every morning I

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Speaker 1: have a little meditation that I do with daily inspiration

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01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:25,920
Speaker 1: that I read my Bible and a journal that I

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Speaker 1: take notes in. And I started it doing this taking

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Speaker 1: these notes. The first July seventh was my first day

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01:18:33,960 --> 01:18:37,640
Speaker 1: doing it, and I have notes for practically every single day.

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Speaker 1: I've only missed like three days from taking notes, just three.

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Speaker 1: And so it's something I've learned to do and it

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Speaker 1: starts my day off a really, really well because it

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Speaker 1: gives me a weaponry till god, it gives the evil

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Speaker 1: principalities of the world. You know, there's so much stimulation

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01:18:57,120 --> 01:19:02,960
Speaker 1: out here with social media and technology and cyberspace and

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Speaker 1: phone calls and messages and texts that you know, even

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01:19:07,920 --> 01:19:09,880
Speaker 1: if you're having a great day of so much stuff

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Speaker 1: out there that can throw you off if you're not

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Speaker 1: if you haven't stabilized yourself spiritually. And Sunday, when I

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Speaker 1: woke up, I was in Jamaica. I was just about

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Speaker 1: to open up my journal and my daily inspiration. But

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Speaker 1: I had left the TV on the night four in

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Speaker 1: the living room. And so I went into the living

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Speaker 1: room and I was about to sit out with my books,

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01:19:37,400 --> 01:19:39,280
Speaker 1: and I said, man, let me, let me cut this

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Speaker 1: TV off. And I went over there and I hit it.

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Speaker 1: It didn't go off for some reason, and I said, man,

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Speaker 1: what's the deal. And I tried to hit it and

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Speaker 1: didn't go off, and I just hit the channel and

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Speaker 1: I hit the channel one time. Now I'm in Jamaica. Now,

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Speaker 1: I hit the channel one time and up pops Joel Oldstein.

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Speaker 1: And so I was instead of me opening up my

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Speaker 1: journal in my daily inspiration, I sat down and cut

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Speaker 1: the volume up. I went, Okay, this must be for me.

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Speaker 1: Maybe he wants me to get this. And oh my god,

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Speaker 1: oh my goodness, was he correct. Now I can't tell

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Speaker 1: you exactly what he said, so I'm a paraphrase it

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Speaker 1: a bit. He was talking about people who have given

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Speaker 1: up on their dreams. Now that didn't apply to me,

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Speaker 1: but he said, this is for people who've given up

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Speaker 1: on your dreams. This is for people who've been waiting

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Speaker 1: on something for God for a while and it hasn't

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01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:43,960
Speaker 1: gotten there yet, and you're starting to feel like maybe

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Speaker 1: it ain't for you all you're thinking about giving up

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Speaker 1: on it. I wasn't quite in that part of it,

1140
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Speaker 1: but I've been a little discouraged about the fact that

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Speaker 1: something I had been wanting for a while had happened.

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Speaker 1: A lot of people fall into that bracket. But a

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Speaker 1: lot of people have fallen into the they waited so

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Speaker 1: long they just decided it wasn't for them and they stopped,

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Speaker 1: or they gave up on their dreams and their visions.

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01:21:11,760 --> 01:21:15,800
Speaker 1: And he was talking about he said, what you don't

1147
01:21:15,880 --> 01:21:20,840
Speaker 1: realize is that when you ask God for something, that

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01:21:21,040 --> 01:21:24,679
Speaker 1: God is working on it behind the scenes. He's doing

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01:21:24,760 --> 01:21:27,320
Speaker 1: some stuff and orchestrating some stuff, and putting some stuff

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01:21:27,360 --> 01:21:29,760
Speaker 1: into play for you that you may very well not

1151
01:21:29,920 --> 01:21:33,799
Speaker 1: even be aware of. But if you give up hope,

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01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:39,679
Speaker 1: if you stop looking for it, if you lose the faith,

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Speaker 1: you then stop the process. Because God don't give you

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Speaker 1: what you want all the time. He gives you what

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01:21:49,600 --> 01:21:54,360
Speaker 1: you believe all the time. See, you don't always get

1156
01:21:54,400 --> 01:21:56,680
Speaker 1: what you want because what you want may not be

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01:21:56,880 --> 01:21:59,560
Speaker 1: best for you or something like that. But if you

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01:22:00,280 --> 01:22:04,360
Speaker 1: believe God to give you something and he has it

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Speaker 1: for you, he's going to give it to you. But

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Speaker 1: some people just give up hoping for it looking for it.

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Speaker 1: He said. If you've gotten at the point in your

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Speaker 1: life where you've given up on your dreams, or you

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Speaker 1: think it ain't coming and you're starting to fade, he said,

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Speaker 1: I want you to do something. He said, I want

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Speaker 1: you to look again. And that caught my attention. He said,

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Speaker 1: I want you to look again. He said, if you

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Speaker 1: look again and you don't see the blessing coming, or

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Speaker 1: you don't see the blessing right there, he said, I

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01:22:38,040 --> 01:22:41,599
Speaker 1: want you to look again, he said in it. If

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Speaker 1: you still don't see it, he said, listen to me

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01:22:44,479 --> 01:22:48,960
Speaker 1: real close. I want you to look again. And that

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Speaker 1: was the thing that I needed to hear yesterday, because sometimes, y'all,

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01:22:55,439 --> 01:22:57,559
Speaker 1: when you ask God for something that it don't come

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01:22:57,640 --> 01:22:59,840
Speaker 1: in the time frame that you want it to come,

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01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:04,040
Speaker 1: you got to stay patient, you got to stay watchful,

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01:23:04,720 --> 01:23:07,240
Speaker 1: and you got to do like Joel Olstein, said, you

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Speaker 1: got to look again. And if you look over there

1178
01:23:10,360 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 1: and you still don't see it, stay patient, but look again,

1179
01:23:15,439 --> 01:23:18,479
Speaker 1: and man on, man on, man, I can't tell you

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Speaker 1: how I needed that yesterday. I can't tell you how

1181
01:23:21,600 --> 01:23:24,960
Speaker 1: I need it today. I can't tell you how often

1182
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:28,320
Speaker 1: I need that because so many times, man, so many

1183
01:23:28,400 --> 01:23:30,600
Speaker 1: things go counter to the way you wanted to go

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01:23:30,760 --> 01:23:33,160
Speaker 1: or what you thought it was gonna be, that you

1185
01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:36,560
Speaker 1: end up and you start feeling just a little bit discourage.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you just flat out I can't take it no more,

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01:23:39,720 --> 01:23:42,960
Speaker 1: and I quit. But I very rarely get that way,

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01:23:43,040 --> 01:23:45,000
Speaker 1: but I do get I'm human, you know, so I

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01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:50,760
Speaker 1: get moments when I'm man, this is exhausting because what

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Speaker 1: I'm attempting to do is exhausting. What you're attempting to

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01:23:54,640 --> 01:23:57,640
Speaker 1: do or become, or to point you're trying to get to,

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01:23:58,280 --> 01:24:03,160
Speaker 1: it's exhausting. But if you exhausted and you don't feel

1193
01:24:03,200 --> 01:24:06,599
Speaker 1: like it's happening fast enough, do like Joel Oldstein said,

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01:24:06,680 --> 01:24:12,120
Speaker 1: y'all look again, just look again. He's probably doing something

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01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:14,920
Speaker 1: on your behalf that you're not aware of. Those are

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Speaker 1: my closing remarks that really helped me. So you know

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Speaker 1: what I'm doing right now. I'm looking at it. I'm

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Speaker 1: looking again. Y'all have a great weekend. For all Steve

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Speaker 1: Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void ware prohibited. Participants must

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Speaker 1: be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, unless

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