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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all? Is your girl lexp And it's your

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Speaker 1: girls raying the call and you.

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Speaker 2: Are tuned in to another episode of Poor Mine.

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Speaker 1: We're a drunk mind speaks sober, but we gotta guess today.

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Speaker 1: We gotta guess today.

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Speaker 2: And y'all the ladies, y'all don't thank me for this one, right,

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Speaker 2: they've been waiting on news because they have been requesting you.

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Speaker 2: They have the girls been waiting to see you. So

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Speaker 2: we got a right to amy and a better.

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Speaker 3: Thank you for joining us. We've been talking about this

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Speaker 3: for a while.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we finally making it happy.

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Speaker 2: So how are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm blessed, I'm happy, I'm healthy.

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Speaker 5: This year has been a breakthrough year mentally food, so

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Speaker 5: I feel like a lot of growth is happening, you

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Speaker 5: know what I mean. So I'm just getting more in

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Speaker 3: So I'm good. But how are you? How are you?

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Speaker 1: You know? And I'm like, how abudy ever?

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Speaker 3: Thank you?

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Speaker 1: They look today? I feel the same way.

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Speaker 4: I feel blessed. I feel, you know, so grateful God

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Speaker 4: his brother. So far with this show. I know the

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Speaker 4: people who've been watching for a long time know how

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Speaker 4: far we came. So I'm just grateful to be in

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Speaker 4: the space that I'm in. We have an amazing team here,

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Speaker 4: you know, I'm glad we finally got.

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Speaker 1: I feel good.

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Speaker 2: You know, like this is like a full circle moment

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Speaker 2: for me a lot of times because the guests that

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Speaker 2: we've had this year have it's been beyond amazing. So

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Speaker 2: for me, it's like being somebody like I'm a fan

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Speaker 2: of your music, I'm a fan of your work, and

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Speaker 2: being like okay, now like you on my couch, like

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Speaker 2: we're thinking it. So these moments, like they mean a

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Speaker 1: So it's good.

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Speaker 3: I love that. I love that, I love I love it.

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Speaker 4: Maybe I used to love you on power Yes, and

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Speaker 4: we gonna we definitely gonna get whatever you want to.

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Speaker 1: Know, y'all to get into the Power tea.

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Speaker 2: But from the beginning, so talk about like how you

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Speaker 2: got into acting into music, Like is this something that

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Speaker 2: you just always knew? Was it just kind of like

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Speaker 5: Okay, So I'll start with music because music happened first.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: So I'm first generation Nigerian, one hundred percent Nigerian, right.

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Speaker 5: So my mom is a prayer warrior.

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Speaker 5: So when my mom had me, when she was pregnant

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Speaker 5: with me, she says she had a dream that Bob

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Speaker 5: Marley came to and said that your son is going

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Speaker 5: to finish my legacy.

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Speaker 5: So anybody knows African culture, they don't really rock with

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Speaker 5: So like you gotta like I only have five options.

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Speaker 3: But you know, my mom had the dream, and when

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Speaker 5: we have to nurture this gift wild. So then she

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Speaker 5: So when I was fourteen years old, I did the

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Speaker 5: And then my sophomore year, jay Z his nephews moved

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Speaker 5: So we're sixteen years old taking it, taking a bus

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Speaker 5: So when I'm getting that critique, I'm learning from him.

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Speaker 5: And so it was like, oh, wow, you really you

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Speaker 5: I'm a poor artist and this is where acting comes in.

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Speaker 3: I was like, all right, cool, but I.

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Speaker 5: Have no resume or acting. He's like, yeah, just go

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Speaker 3: Just we will make something up.

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Speaker 5: No one took me because I had no resume except

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Speaker 5: a small boutique agency called Great Talent only because her

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Speaker 5: Mindra didn't know anything about acting, so she was like,

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Speaker 3: Don't think you're gonna get the role.

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Speaker 5: Don't think you're gonna get this job only because I'm

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Speaker 3: But the role is taken. Don't worry about I said, ry. Cool.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, and he's like, Northwestern is one of the

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Speaker 3: I'm like, no, no, this is this is my first day.

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Speaker 5: So two weeks two days later, two days later they

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Speaker 2: So you took somebody's jobaling people's jobs.

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Speaker 1: I do know that.

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Speaker 5: Effect is it? It don't matter what edge, baby, it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, get paid.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's like a good That's just a testament

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Speaker 1: I love like black cinema.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna watch everything, all the Tooby movies, all everything.

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Speaker 2: But when I tell you, you can tell me nothing

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Speaker 1: For that baby.

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Speaker 4: But see, I always feel like black acting be of

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Speaker 1: Like and they be acting like people that we know,

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Speaker 4: I mean, it's not part to the white people because

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Speaker 5: But you know what, I realized how important the editing is.

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Speaker 2: It's crazy that you said that because I was watching

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Speaker 2: he's silly, he funny, but like I felt like everybody

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Speaker 2: I was like, but I was like, what's helping them

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Speaker 2: is like you said, they got expensive care quality quality

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Speaker 5: And you know, for me, like I learned that, Like okay,

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Speaker 3: We all was like, no name a Mari has been

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Speaker 5: But he was always like I've seen that, Like you

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Speaker 3: The row no, it was. It was fun, man like.

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Speaker 5: It was one of those things where you knew you

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Speaker 1: But that's one thing I really liked about the Power Universe.

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Speaker 4: I was just saying, that's one thing I love actually

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Speaker 1: He was like, nah, we gotta keep them.

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Speaker 2: And also, I feel like one thing I loved about

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Speaker 5: So at first, at first, I was a new guy,

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Speaker 5: And I had to prove myself to everybody, you know,

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Speaker 5: People will remember this character. So that was that was

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Speaker 2: Because I always felt like, I know, things go on

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Speaker 2: So was there any of that that was going on?

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Speaker 3: Nah, I'll tell you one.

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Speaker 3: A week and a half.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so love rhythm, all of that, you know what

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Speaker 5: So during that time, fifty was like, yo, bro, I

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Speaker 5: He was like, I'm gonna tell the world you owe

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Speaker 5: This is what we're gonna do is gonna make them.

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Speaker 5: But what I'm gonna do is. I'm gonna say you

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Speaker 5: Literally three minutes later, shave theom re turn me own

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Speaker 5: But like again, that made my records Love Rhythm and

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Speaker 1: And it was everywhere. It was everywhere at me. What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 5: Yes right, like yesterday, Yes right, So let me tell

461
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Speaker 5: you so yesterday, I'm literally I'm chilling. We had the spa,

462
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Speaker 5: Me and my girl at the spa and she's like, Yo,

463
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Speaker 5: stand up and walk.

464
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Speaker 3: The light is on you right now. Just walk.

465
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Speaker 5: I'm gonna put it in slow motion. Do this vibe everything.

466
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Speaker 5: I'm like, I just do a baby. I promise it's

467
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Speaker 5: gonna be crazy. I'm like, all right, cool, I get up,

468
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Speaker 5: do it. I'm really not on social media, like my

469
00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 5: team runs my social media, but I like to unplugged.

470
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Speaker 5: I don't really care for all that, right, So I'm

471
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Speaker 5: all right, cool man, So I do it. Send it

472
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Speaker 5: to my team. They put a caption this morning yesterday morning, driving.

473
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Speaker 3: I'm going about to go play ball, chilling.

474
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Speaker 5: My man's comes in the car. He's like, Yo, you

475
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Speaker 5: know you're in a shade room right. I'm like what

476
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Speaker 5: he's like, Yo, they're going at you, nigger. I'm like

477
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Speaker 5: what he's like, Yo, they're talking about you. You know

478
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Speaker 5: you should be Why are you walking in slow motion?

479
00:21:55,160 --> 00:21:58,560
Speaker 5: But the fact that it was like you can manipulate anything,

480
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Speaker 5: Like what is it about me walking in slow motion?

481
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Speaker 3: That's so crazy? What is it about?

482
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Speaker 5: Like if they only knew this is my girl orchestrated

483
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Speaker 5: the whole thing, Like why would like, well, I'll tell

484
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Speaker 5: you sexy because of the way I'm in my bull leggedness.

485
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Speaker 2: Tell you this though, your team was smart because the

486
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Speaker 2: caption it was satire off of a guy that had

487
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Speaker 2: went viral a few months ago. He was walking through

488
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Speaker 2: Target and he was like, what would you do if

489
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Speaker 2: you see me walking through Target?

490
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Speaker 1: But it was serious and.

491
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Speaker 2: They were we were dragging him for fields because it

492
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Speaker 2: was like nigga, nobody everybody started making these videos like

493
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Speaker 2: what would you do if you saw me? So it

494
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,800
Speaker 2: was like when I first saw the video, I was

495
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Speaker 2: laughing and then I went to the comments, I'm like,

496
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Speaker 2: y'all completely missed the mark, Like everybody completely.

497
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Speaker 1: Missed the joke. Yeah, I was like, you team did

498
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Speaker 1: a good job. One thing about it.

499
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Speaker 2: It's like, if you're like unplugging, you're not on social media,

500
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Speaker 2: you're not gonna know. But I always say all of

501
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Speaker 2: the platforms are wholly different worlds. Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, Facebook,

502
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Speaker 2: those are four different worlds.

503
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Speaker 1: You can be.

504
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Speaker 2: The greatest person on TikTok and you're go on Instagram

505
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Speaker 2: and they will laugh at you.

506
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Speaker 1: You flop on Twitter because with Twitter, I feel like

507
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Speaker 1: it's all about Yeah, yeah.

508
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Speaker 4: You actually typing it out like it's not a video.

509
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Speaker 4: It's not you acting something or reciting something like you

510
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Speaker 4: have to be witty with your words.

511
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Speaker 3: Yeah now, but it's it's again.

512
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Speaker 5: All publicity is cool, right, It's just funny how just

513
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Speaker 5: the littlest things that you don't think it's again, it's

514
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Speaker 5: all beautiful.

515
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Speaker 2: Not even knowing that you were with your wife, Yeah,

516
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Speaker 2: recording what I'm like, I'm like, look at you.

517
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Speaker 3: She's like I love that time.

518
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Speaker 5: Yeah, yes baby, Yes.

519
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Speaker 1: It's always the things though, that you never think are

520
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Speaker 1: gonna go viral, They always going viral.

521
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Speaker 3: Yo, me and my me and my brother.

522
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Speaker 5: Punch was like yo, he was like, yo, brog if

523
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Speaker 5: if this is not performing the way we thought it

524
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Speaker 5: would when we first put it on, it's going slow.

525
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Speaker 5: And then literally seventeen hours punching me like, yo, bro,

526
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Speaker 5: you're in share room.

527
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Speaker 3: I'm listening to gospel music in the I'm a good

528
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Speaker 3: day brother.

529
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Speaker 6: You know.

530
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Speaker 5: He's like, you want a shame room. Oh see you

531
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Speaker 5: get out, man, That's why I'm off this now. But

532
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Speaker 5: you love it, you enjoy it.

533
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Speaker 1: You know.

534
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Speaker 3: That's my brother, that's my man's man for life.

535
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Speaker 1: So speaking of your girl, how is man?

536
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Speaker 3: Oh? To be honest, it's a it's an everlasting, every

537
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Speaker 3: day growing moment. So you learn so much about yourself. Right.

538
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Speaker 5: Luckily, I was in a situation where my woman, she

539
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Speaker 5: she was an artist as well. He was like the

540
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Speaker 5: Rihanna of East Africa. But she's seen everything. She understands

541
00:24:48,560 --> 00:24:52,359
Speaker 5: my lifestyle. But she's also a spiritual and prayer for woman,

542
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 5: so she knows that the industry that I'm in is

543
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Speaker 5: a demonic industry.

544
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Speaker 3: Let's keep it one hundred.

545
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Speaker 5: So the that we have, it's like it made us

546
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Speaker 5: stronger because a lot of the fights we have, we're

547
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Speaker 5: not fighting each other with fighting.

548
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Speaker 3: Spirits, you know what I mean.

549
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:10,040
Speaker 5: We know that, so it makes us more of a team.

550
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:14,159
Speaker 5: So having that backbone, it makes you, you know, it

551
00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:18,200
Speaker 5: makes you, It holds you accountable, like it puts a

552
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Speaker 5: mirror to you. So it's like, Yo, how compassionate am

553
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Speaker 5: I as a man?

554
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:22,280
Speaker 1: How?

555
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 5: How well do I communicate as a man? How empathetic

556
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Speaker 5: am I? How selfless am I? If you don't feel

557
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Speaker 5: like being sexual some days? But I know she own it? Okay, nigga,

558
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Speaker 5: come on get it, you know what I mean? Like

559
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Speaker 5: it's the give and take. You know, like the more

560
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Speaker 5: successful relationship is is when you think of the person

561
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Speaker 5: before you think of yourself. So that's made me a

562
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Speaker 5: better man in general, you know, like in my twenties,

563
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Speaker 5: like I was.

564
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Speaker 3: A wild boy, you know what I mean. I was

565
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Speaker 3: out here, He's us, Halen Louis him kind of us.

566
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Speaker 5: I know, I was going wild, like, but I realized

567
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Speaker 5: how empty I was, you know what I mean. So

568
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Speaker 5: it was like, you know, you start messing around fifteen, yeah, fifteen, sixteen, seventy, eighteen, ninety.

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Speaker 3: Twenty in the game Oh yeah, are you twenty? Oh okay,

570
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Speaker 3: is there?

571
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Speaker 5: So when you were fifteen, we're gonna lie.

572
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Speaker 1: I didn't say a lot of fifteen.

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Speaker 3: It's crazy crazy. Can you elaborate please.

574
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Speaker 1: You know what. I'll just say this.

575
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Speaker 2: My hometown remembers me, and I was saying, hey, I

576
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Speaker 2: was quiet, safe, was crazy you would yeah. I mean

577
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Speaker 2: it's true though, but I love the fact that we

578
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Speaker 2: are saying. I feel like one thing I can say

579
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Speaker 2: is even us as with this platform, we gave into

580
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Speaker 2: like those gender wars at one point, and I hated

581
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Speaker 2: I hate it now because I mean I was young.

582
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:09,440
Speaker 2: Of course I was getting my heart broken. So I'm

583
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Speaker 2: on my platform, you know, spewing in.

584
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Speaker 1: Professional and bad life.

585
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:16,480
Speaker 2: So I do spend my time to making sure on

586
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Speaker 2: my platform, like we promote love and relationships, because you

587
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Speaker 2: have to get back to that.

588
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,679
Speaker 5: But what changed, Like what made you say I'm not

589
00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 5: as angry no more? Like what was it like a

590
00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:27,360
Speaker 5: relationship with I don't.

591
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Speaker 1: Think it was anything specific.

592
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Speaker 2: I think it was my experiences altogether, because for me,

593
00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 2: it was more so up. I had to take accountability

594
00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:36,880
Speaker 2: what I was doing in these relationships as well, because I.

595
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Speaker 1: Kept looking at it like, oh, niggas, ain't she girl?

596
00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 2: He ain't shit, But I'm like, bitch, fact she was

597
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,840
Speaker 2: out here cutting up too, which is okay. I was

598
00:27:45,880 --> 00:27:47,240
Speaker 2: in my twenties and I was doing that. But I

599
00:27:47,280 --> 00:27:48,760
Speaker 2: was like, you know what, as I've become a woman

600
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Speaker 2: and I'm growing in my career, I'm growing in all

601
00:27:51,920 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 2: these different spaces. I'm growing as a friend. I'm like,

602
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Speaker 2: but I have to grow as a woman too. If

603
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Speaker 2: I want to be somebody's partner, if I want to

604
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Speaker 2: be somebody's wife, and I want to be somebody's mother,

605
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Speaker 2: I have to do the work on myself right. And

606
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Speaker 2: although there are a lot of women out there who

607
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Speaker 2: necessarily don't want marriage or don't want children, that's okay.

608
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Speaker 1: But for the people who.

609
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Speaker 2: Still want the marriage and the kids, I think there's

610
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Speaker 2: a space where we can all exist to where we don't.

611
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Speaker 1: Have to bash each other. It's okay for different people

612
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Speaker 1: to be into different things. Yes, for sure.

613
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Speaker 4: I feel like for me, what really kind of changed

614
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Speaker 4: me was when I was younger, I actually was liked it,

615
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Speaker 4: like I didn't care about marriage.

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Speaker 1: I thought that I didn't really it.

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Speaker 4: Wasn't something that was important to me, when in reality,

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Speaker 4: it's not that it wasn't important to me. I just

619
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Speaker 4: hadn't found a man that I wanted that with that

620
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Speaker 4: made me want to be in that space.

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Speaker 5: Yes, And that's what my what my woman says visus

622
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Speaker 5: like yo, because she against she was the top of

623
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Speaker 5: the charge right everything, alpha female ran everything, and she

624
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Speaker 5: was like, yo, I didn't think about math, laughed at

625
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Speaker 5: people who wanted to get married. I didn't want to kids.

626
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Speaker 5: I was not about that life at all. And she

627
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Speaker 5: said it just took the right person for sure. Oh,

628
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Speaker 5: I got this backwards because we also supposed to have somebody,

629
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Speaker 5: you know what I'm saying. But a lot of people

630
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Speaker 5: like you said, you said the key word, like accountability

631
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:10,360
Speaker 5: is this generation, this mindset were in your there's no accountability.

632
00:29:10,960 --> 00:29:13,600
Speaker 5: It's you your fault, your fault, your fault, your fault.

633
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Speaker 5: And the misconception of you know, of friendship and even

634
00:29:18,240 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 5: just love, right, is that people think you're supposed to

635
00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 5: go into a relationship being fifty to fifty and we

636
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 5: make each other whole. No, you're supposed to go in

637
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Speaker 5: there as close to a hundred within yourself as possible

638
00:29:32,560 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 5: to be the best version of yourself, and then you

639
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Speaker 5: tweak the rest with each other. And that's where a

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00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:40,680
Speaker 5: man at seventy five percent ready a woman at twenty

641
00:29:40,680 --> 00:29:43,680
Speaker 5: five he fills me up, like you're gonna drain this

642
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Speaker 5: man literally, you know what I'm saying, vice versa word,

643
00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:50,040
Speaker 5: and that's why it don't work. And again, accountability taking

644
00:29:50,960 --> 00:29:53,720
Speaker 5: stock of who they are. Everybody running away from.

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Speaker 3: That, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So I think that's a good point that you made too,

647
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Speaker 2: because it's like, how can you make somebody else happy

648
00:29:58,320 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 2: if you don't even know how to make yourself? Like

649
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 2: if you wake up in the morning and like, you know,

650
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,640
Speaker 2: your man or your woman maybe having a busy day,

651
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Speaker 2: and if you don't talk to them all.

652
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Speaker 1: Day, your day is ruined. It should be like that.

653
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Speaker 4: So have so many other things that make you happy

654
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Speaker 4: and make you feel fulfilled than that person. I think

655
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Speaker 4: that is what a lot of people are looking for,

656
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Speaker 4: Like they looking for that person that's gonna make them feel.

657
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Speaker 3: Hard to be a crutch, you know what I mean.

658
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Speaker 2: I seen a girl this morning and she made a

659
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Speaker 2: go fund me so she could hire a matchmaker. She's

660
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Speaker 2: asking for eight thousand dollars. I saw that so she

661
00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:38,520
Speaker 2: can find a matchmaker. Yeah, now, mind you. I done

662
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 2: talked about this girl on the show before. She probably like, bitch,

663
00:30:41,000 --> 00:30:45,040
Speaker 2: why are you coming to me again? Because again, this

664
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 2: is a person that I feel like I've watched a

665
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:50,000
Speaker 2: few of her tiktoks. I've seen the first time that

666
00:30:50,040 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 2: she went viral over certain things, and it's just like, again,

667
00:30:53,160 --> 00:30:56,400
Speaker 2: where's the accountability, where's the work on self? Because one

668
00:30:56,400 --> 00:30:58,160
Speaker 2: thing that she said in the video that stuck out

669
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 2: to me was like she was like, I live in Atlanta,

670
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:04,640
Speaker 2: It's hard to find somebody who is taking things serious

671
00:31:04,760 --> 00:31:08,080
Speaker 2: and who's financially stable. It's like, but you want somebody

672
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:11,320
Speaker 2: who's financially stable, and I believe in bringing things to

673
00:31:11,400 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 2: the table and being equally yoke to a certain extent.

674
00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,560
Speaker 2: So if you want somebody to be financially stable, shouldn't

675
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:19,400
Speaker 2: you be financially stable as well to a certain extent.

676
00:31:19,440 --> 00:31:21,120
Speaker 2: So it came off to me like she was looking

677
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:25,000
Speaker 2: for somebody to take care of her versus looking for love.

678
00:31:25,120 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 2: Like I want somebody because I'm a great communicator. I

679
00:31:27,600 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 2: want somebody who's a great communicator, right, you know, Like

680
00:31:29,920 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: I'm somebody who you know I like to be sexually active.

681
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:36,920
Speaker 2: I want me in the sexual department. I'm financially stable.

682
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,400
Speaker 2: I want somebody who's financially stable. So I feel like,

683
00:31:39,480 --> 00:31:42,080
Speaker 2: if you want to be to have a good partner,

684
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,640
Speaker 2: you have to be the person you want to be with. Essentially,

685
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 2: that's how you're a good friend. That's how you can

686
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:50,080
Speaker 2: be a good partner in anything. So it was given like, girl,

687
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:51,560
Speaker 2: you need somebody to pay your rent?

688
00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get it.

689
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:56,600
Speaker 5: I think it's and everything you said was right. The

690
00:31:56,640 --> 00:31:58,640
Speaker 5: one thing I think that could be a little different

691
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:02,640
Speaker 5: in perspective is that for a man who's successful, we

692
00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,320
Speaker 5: don't necessarily need a woman who's financially stable.

693
00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:08,280
Speaker 3: We need you to be able to bring different things.

694
00:32:08,880 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 5: So if it's a spiritual covenant, if it's an incredible communication,

695
00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 5: if it's support, if it's just giving love and the

696
00:32:19,560 --> 00:32:24,080
Speaker 5: mental stability that you give, like bro niggas who got bred,

697
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,240
Speaker 5: we don't care about that, right, you know what I mean?

698
00:32:26,280 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 5: Because because we want to that we can take care of.

699
00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:32,959
Speaker 5: Is the the person fulfillment.

700
00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:34,160
Speaker 1: Right that as well?

701
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: But I think that also you don't want somebody who

702
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:39,880
Speaker 2: is coming to the table like the first day you're talking.

703
00:32:39,680 --> 00:32:41,120
Speaker 1: About, oh how much money you made?

704
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:42,960
Speaker 3: Oh no, no, no, no, I don't know.

705
00:32:45,200 --> 00:32:45,360
Speaker 1: Yo.

706
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Speaker 5: That happened to me when I was twenty yeah, twenty seventeen.

707
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:51,000
Speaker 5: She's like, I'm gonna just get this out the way.

708
00:32:51,120 --> 00:32:53,680
Speaker 5: So look, I know you got money. I know, shit,

709
00:32:53,880 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 5: I saw it.

710
00:32:55,160 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 3: I respect it.

711
00:32:55,680 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 5: Because she like she ain't lie. Yeah, he gave me

712
00:32:58,000 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 5: the opportunity to be like, yo, you rocking or not.

713
00:33:00,840 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 5: I went and looked at your networth?

714
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 3: Okay, good? All right? So that.

715
00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:08,160
Speaker 5: She was like, yeah, so if you want to fuk

716
00:33:08,280 --> 00:33:11,640
Speaker 5: like my bills, my this, my dad, my dad, I said,

717
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 5: okay check please please, right, you know what I mean?

718
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 5: But that mindset so I get what you're saying. But yeah,

719
00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:21,800
Speaker 5: but overall, nah, I think it's it's the person fulfillming,

720
00:33:22,440 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 5: you know, and it's more of just like just being

721
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:25,920
Speaker 5: a backbone man.

722
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,080
Speaker 3: A woman came from the rib, like the woman came

723
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:30,520
Speaker 3: from the rib.

724
00:33:30,640 --> 00:33:33,520
Speaker 5: So if that's what you do, and we give our

725
00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 5: love and respect, you know, we want love back. So

726
00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:38,160
Speaker 5: a man is supposed to give his respect biblically and

727
00:33:38,200 --> 00:33:39,520
Speaker 5: a woman, you know, give the love.

728
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 3: So it's like that.

729
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 4: You a better bring back love thinking of that, because

730
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 4: we was just talking about finances, so that's the first topic.

731
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 3: That was a good segue.

732
00:33:53,880 --> 00:33:56,120
Speaker 4: The topic we definitely wanted to talk to you about

733
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:57,600
Speaker 4: because we were just talking about you and your wife

734
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 4: and just talking about finances. Keep money from your spouse,

735
00:34:01,320 --> 00:34:03,600
Speaker 4: hiding money from your spouse, How do you feel about that?

736
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:05,840
Speaker 4: It was actually something on social media recently. It was

737
00:34:05,880 --> 00:34:07,920
Speaker 4: like a few weeks ago. It had came out to

738
00:34:08,000 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 4: this woman and she was like hiding like fifty thousand

739
00:34:10,560 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 4: dollars from her husband and he had no idea and

740
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,920
Speaker 4: I guess she had been saving it over a prolonged

741
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:15,640
Speaker 4: period of time.

742
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 5: That means you in the wrong relationship and the get

743
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 5: go yeah, I think if you got to hide anything,

744
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:24,080
Speaker 5: you're in the wrong relationship. Look, I agree, So for me,

745
00:34:24,280 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 5: like my accounts is her accounts, Right, I got with

746
00:34:29,000 --> 00:34:31,880
Speaker 5: you because I trust you. I got with you because

747
00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:36,080
Speaker 5: even if you're not financially intelligent at first, I'm going

748
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,960
Speaker 5: to get you to the money intelligent so that you

749
00:34:39,080 --> 00:34:40,080
Speaker 5: make the right decision.

750
00:34:40,200 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 3: Right, if you.

751
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:43,840
Speaker 5: Want your own account, open up your own account and

752
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:44,799
Speaker 5: put the money.

753
00:34:44,520 --> 00:34:46,719
Speaker 3: That's in your account that I know that's there.

754
00:34:47,400 --> 00:34:49,160
Speaker 5: You get what I'm saying. But if it's like I

755
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:52,200
Speaker 5: gotta what are you preparing for? Right, you got to

756
00:34:52,239 --> 00:34:54,800
Speaker 5: ask yourself, like why do I have to hide fifty thousand?

757
00:34:54,960 --> 00:34:57,919
Speaker 5: So no, if my millions her millions, If my house

758
00:34:58,000 --> 00:35:00,560
Speaker 5: is her houses, my dis MyD that because that's a union,

759
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 5: and that's how I.

760
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: Feel about it.

761
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,839
Speaker 4: Typically, it's like you hot in money because you think

762
00:35:04,880 --> 00:35:06,400
Speaker 4: you were a dude who's gonna leave you for this.

763
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 4: You think I'm serious that, I mean, you think that

764
00:35:10,239 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 4: he just go up and leave you with nothing. So

765
00:35:12,239 --> 00:35:14,640
Speaker 4: you like, okay, while we married, just in case something

766
00:35:14,680 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 4: do go wrong, because things have probably already been going wrong.

767
00:35:17,880 --> 00:35:20,600
Speaker 4: You just preparing for the day. But you don't have

768
00:35:20,600 --> 00:35:22,560
Speaker 4: to prepare for that. If you're with the right person.

769
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,120
Speaker 3: Person try to figure out.

770
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:26,520
Speaker 5: Listen, I feel like we at the end of the line,

771
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:28,719
Speaker 5: got to figure something out.

772
00:35:28,800 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, I just think it's sneaky.

773
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:31,600
Speaker 3: Oh it's horrible.

774
00:35:31,760 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 1: Now.

775
00:35:32,000 --> 00:35:35,800
Speaker 2: I do think, like, like you said, there should be clarity.

776
00:35:35,880 --> 00:35:37,640
Speaker 2: I need to know what money is gonna wear. It's

777
00:35:37,640 --> 00:35:40,359
Speaker 2: okay that you have your own accounts. So I do

778
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,480
Speaker 2: think that there can be a joint account, but we

779
00:35:42,520 --> 00:35:44,360
Speaker 2: still need to have our separate accounts.

780
00:35:44,440 --> 00:35:44,880
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

781
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:49,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely now because I'm not preparing for things to

782
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: go bad, but like, just in case they do, I

783
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 2: don't want it to be to where it's like, oh

784
00:35:53,360 --> 00:35:54,959
Speaker 2: I need help, I need you know what I'm saying.

785
00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:58,480
Speaker 1: Or absolute Absolutely, So I do believe that still have

786
00:35:58,600 --> 00:36:00,080
Speaker 1: your own your own thing.

787
00:36:00,120 --> 00:36:04,920
Speaker 3: Absolutely, but yeah, hiding it.

788
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,360
Speaker 2: I saw a situation of a girl I went to

789
00:36:07,440 --> 00:36:10,640
Speaker 2: school with. She married a millionaire and he was a wild,

790
00:36:10,719 --> 00:36:15,080
Speaker 2: wild boy yeah more a long time, never stopped, and

791
00:36:15,160 --> 00:36:17,800
Speaker 2: it was like when they divorced, you know, her lifestyle

792
00:36:17,840 --> 00:36:21,200
Speaker 2: stayed the same and she was still and everybody was like,

793
00:36:21,239 --> 00:36:23,200
Speaker 2: what the fuck how I was like, Everybody's like, man,

794
00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 2: she was so smart with them. Yeah, find out she

795
00:36:26,320 --> 00:36:29,400
Speaker 2: was like she was doing but it was like she

796
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,719
Speaker 2: was preparing for that. And to me, it's like on

797
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:34,600
Speaker 2: one end, it's like, okay, cool, you know, at least

798
00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 2: you were smart enough to put money to the side.

799
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,120
Speaker 2: But at the same time, it's like, so you went

800
00:36:38,160 --> 00:36:41,400
Speaker 2: in the situation, you had a plan from the get go,

801
00:36:41,600 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 2: So that's like conniving to me, not saying that what

802
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,880
Speaker 2: he did is used, but it's like why are we

803
00:36:48,000 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 2: even getting married in the first.

804
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:51,640
Speaker 3: Place, and to go off of that.

805
00:36:51,760 --> 00:36:54,400
Speaker 5: Like for me with her, it's like she has her

806
00:36:54,440 --> 00:36:57,080
Speaker 5: own account that she has her own money that she makes.

807
00:36:57,719 --> 00:37:01,200
Speaker 5: So everything that you do, I'm aware of the account,

808
00:37:01,280 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 5: but that's your account. You put the money that you make,

809
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:07,279
Speaker 5: you build yourself, do what you want, and if you

810
00:37:07,280 --> 00:37:10,319
Speaker 5: have questions about how you want to handle whatever, I'm here,

811
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 5: you know. That's that's again. And then financially, like being smart,

812
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 5: you're not supposed to put just one account money into account.

813
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:20,040
Speaker 5: So she has hers, I have, we have this, I

814
00:37:20,080 --> 00:37:21,200
Speaker 5: have one that protects us.

815
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 3: She knows about that, you know. So it's all about again,

816
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:25,200
Speaker 3: it's a union, right.

817
00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,680
Speaker 2: Why do I think money is so uncomfortable to talk

818
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:28,600
Speaker 2: about a relationship?

819
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 4: Though, Lie, I think people a lot of people don't

820
00:37:31,000 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 4: know how to manage it properly.

821
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's why they're uncomfortable.

822
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:36,400
Speaker 5: To absolutely, I agree. I think a lot of people

823
00:37:36,440 --> 00:37:39,240
Speaker 5: don't know how to handle it. I think some.

824
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:40,239
Speaker 3: People idolize it.

825
00:37:40,360 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think other people are careless and reckless.

826
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:45,040
Speaker 4: You know.

827
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 5: But I think again, you're talking about in a relationship, Yeah,

828
00:37:48,640 --> 00:37:49,320
Speaker 5: like in a marriage.

829
00:37:49,320 --> 00:37:51,760
Speaker 4: In a relationship, I think people lie about the financial

830
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 4: situations a lot of the time, even when they get married. Yes,

831
00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,480
Speaker 4: it's like people be having and I know this was

832
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,440
Speaker 4: a sitcom, right, but y'all remember like girlfriends and today

833
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:02,440
Speaker 4: and then Tony had married that man there was a

834
00:38:02,480 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 4: doctor and need something to find out he was like

835
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:07,000
Speaker 4: one hundred and fifty thousand dollars in dead from his

836
00:38:07,040 --> 00:38:09,480
Speaker 4: student loans and she had no idea. But I think

837
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 4: people really get into situations like that all the time

838
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 4: on a daily basis because they feel uncomfortable talking to

839
00:38:15,080 --> 00:38:17,719
Speaker 4: their person about their finances. They don't want you to

840
00:38:17,719 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 4: know or judge them because they don't have their sheets to.

841
00:38:20,080 --> 00:38:23,520
Speaker 5: Get there again, Yo, I feel like that goes back

842
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,239
Speaker 5: to the basis of transparency. You gotta be transparent you

843
00:38:27,280 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 5: gotta be in a relationship that should be no pride.

844
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 3: There's no ego. Yo. It don't work, Yo, it don't healthy.

845
00:38:36,080 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 5: Pride and ego is supposed to be with each other,

846
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:40,839
Speaker 5: not against each other.

847
00:38:41,040 --> 00:38:41,239
Speaker 4: You know.

848
00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:44,719
Speaker 3: It's again, everything I'm saying is sounds easy, but it's not.

849
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:46,719
Speaker 3: Oh for sure, It's really hard to do. But you

850
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 3: gotta be mindful of it.

851
00:38:48,239 --> 00:38:51,160
Speaker 5: So when it comes down to money and stuff, the

852
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,440
Speaker 5: more transparent, you know you got the right partner. If

853
00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:57,080
Speaker 5: she's like, yo, honestly, let's make this money together, Let's

854
00:38:57,080 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 5: figure it out.

855
00:38:58,280 --> 00:38:58,480
Speaker 4: You know.

856
00:38:58,680 --> 00:38:59,799
Speaker 3: So that kind of thing.

857
00:39:00,080 --> 00:39:00,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, because you.

858
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 2: Seeing a lot of women get married, end up paying

859
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:04,120
Speaker 2: their husband child support.

860
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:08,560
Speaker 1: End up coming out of day. It does happening, he'll

861
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 1: back child support. You don't know. Now you're taking care

862
00:39:10,760 --> 00:39:11,280
Speaker 1: of a little.

863
00:39:11,160 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 2: Layer, little Larry shit gets crazy in the feet like that.

864
00:39:26,200 --> 00:39:26,839
Speaker 1: What's up, y'all?

865
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Speaker 2: Is your girl lex pe and is Sugarl Dray and

866
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,120
Speaker 2: the color Hey y'all, those summer is around the corner,

867
00:39:31,160 --> 00:39:32,239
Speaker 2: and that's the busy time.

868
00:39:32,280 --> 00:39:33,399
Speaker 1: I don't know about y'all, but it.

869
00:39:33,400 --> 00:39:36,399
Speaker 4: Is for us. Absolutely. Look one thing about me. I'm

870
00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 4: not like going to the grocery store. I love the

871
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:41,920
Speaker 4: convenience of being able to have my groceries delivered right

872
00:39:42,000 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 4: to my doorstep. And I love that the recipes are

873
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 4: pre porscheing so you don't have to do any guesswork.

874
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:50,160
Speaker 2: Yes, they have meals that are six hundred and fifty

875
00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,440
Speaker 2: calories and under. So y'all know we're trying to get

876
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:54,880
Speaker 2: our summer bodies right, so this is the time to

877
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:58,960
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890
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,239
Speaker 2: Okay, we're gonna move home, Okay, okay, okay, So I

891
00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 2: want to talk.

892
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:32,440
Speaker 1: About this too.

893
00:40:33,719 --> 00:40:35,440
Speaker 2: They ate me up on Twitter for this the other

894
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: day because I said, I think it's crazy like at

895
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 2: a certain age, No, I said, to be partying in

896
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:46,680
Speaker 2: your city every week is crazy to me. If you

897
00:40:46,760 --> 00:40:49,360
Speaker 2: in the club every week, Like, if I see you

898
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,439
Speaker 2: at the club every week in Atlanta, I'm like, hey,

899
00:40:51,560 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: is everything okay? Like as I used to bartend in

900
00:40:54,239 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 2: my twenties, I bartend and I would see the same niggas,

901
00:40:57,239 --> 00:40:57,839
Speaker 2: the same women.

902
00:40:57,880 --> 00:40:59,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, what are you looking for? You want to claw?

903
00:41:00,520 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 7: Like?

904
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:05,120
Speaker 1: So I think it's weird to club every week. I do.

905
00:41:05,200 --> 00:41:07,719
Speaker 2: I think it's absolutely unhinged. I think you need help.

906
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 2: I think you need to see what what are you

907
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:11,319
Speaker 2: looking for at the club? So do y'all agree at

908
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:15,040
Speaker 2: a certain age should like clubbing not be a priority anymore?

909
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:15,760
Speaker 3: In general?

910
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:16,799
Speaker 1: Yeah? Like in general?

911
00:41:16,840 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: Well I'll say this too to add context. When I

912
00:41:19,560 --> 00:41:21,320
Speaker 2: go on vacation, I'm outside.

913
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:23,439
Speaker 3: You're just saying clubbing every week.

914
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 2: If you want to see me in Atlanta, you might

915
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:28,879
Speaker 2: need to go eat somewhere in a little nice happy hour.

916
00:41:28,920 --> 00:41:30,359
Speaker 2: But you're not going to catch me at the club

917
00:41:30,360 --> 00:41:30,840
Speaker 2: in Atlanta.

918
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:31,760
Speaker 1: You're not okay?

919
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 3: Okay?

920
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:33,960
Speaker 1: Oh?

921
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:37,680
Speaker 4: I agree, because I definitely want you.

922
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:44,160
Speaker 5: No, I think dang, I'm torn, yo, Because everybody has

923
00:41:44,200 --> 00:41:45,319
Speaker 5: their thing that they like to do.

924
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:45,719
Speaker 1: Yeah.

925
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:52,439
Speaker 3: Right, So it's would I do it? No?

926
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:53,319
Speaker 4: Right?

927
00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:53,600
Speaker 1: Right?

928
00:41:53,680 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 3: Would I do it? No? But I think some people

929
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:01,080
Speaker 3: people that's there, that's yo.

930
00:42:01,200 --> 00:42:03,480
Speaker 5: There might be a hard week and they just like, yo,

931
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:07,160
Speaker 5: this is I brought something back last week. I keep

932
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,560
Speaker 5: bringing something back this week. I don't you know what

933
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 5: I'm saying. Is it something I would do? Is it

934
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:13,960
Speaker 5: something I advised my friend?

935
00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:14,399
Speaker 3: No?

936
00:42:14,440 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 5: Bro right, nigga, if you're going to do this, like,

937
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:20,040
Speaker 5: let's go bring it to your crib. I'm with it,

938
00:42:20,080 --> 00:42:22,800
Speaker 5: but I feel like a lot of people struggling.

939
00:42:23,040 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's like there, you know what I'm saying.

940
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,960
Speaker 5: It might be there one night to relieve I don't.

941
00:42:28,160 --> 00:42:31,399
Speaker 5: You just don't know, yo, true, I get it, though,

942
00:42:31,520 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 5: I get it.

943
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:32,640
Speaker 3: I'm with you.

944
00:42:32,640 --> 00:42:36,399
Speaker 2: You're so looking at what comes with the club. You're

945
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:40,840
Speaker 2: drinking fair enough, you're smoking hookah around.

946
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 1: So it's like, I agree. I know. It was a

947
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:46,520
Speaker 1: time in my life.

948
00:42:46,560 --> 00:42:47,000
Speaker 3: I get it.

949
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:48,879
Speaker 2: Me and my friends would buy a bottle of the rock.

950
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 2: This is when we used to drink the rock. We

951
00:42:50,880 --> 00:42:52,440
Speaker 2: would buy a bottle of the rock and we will

952
00:42:52,480 --> 00:42:54,640
Speaker 2: put it in water bottles around like because we would

953
00:42:54,640 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: be at work, we would finish the bottle in a day.

954
00:42:57,440 --> 00:42:59,440
Speaker 2: We would have to buy one bottle for Friday, one

955
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 2: bottle for Saturday. It got to the point where I

956
00:43:01,520 --> 00:43:03,560
Speaker 2: was so drunk. I'm waking up grabbing bottles of water.

957
00:43:03,560 --> 00:43:05,600
Speaker 2: I'm drinking to Rob. Yeah, at the bottle is I

958
00:43:05,600 --> 00:43:06,560
Speaker 2: think it's a bottle of water.

959
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:09,840
Speaker 1: And I'm like, Okay, what you need to really in?

960
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 2: Right?

961
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:14,719
Speaker 1: Really in? So I feel like that you look into

962
00:43:14,760 --> 00:43:15,240
Speaker 1: the bottle.

963
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:17,080
Speaker 2: So if you had a hard day at work, you

964
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,760
Speaker 2: know what, sometimes baby channeling into something healthy.

965
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,279
Speaker 4: That's what I was gonna say for sure, because I

966
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:24,560
Speaker 4: just feel like in life and you have to have.

967
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:28,000
Speaker 1: Seasons for everything, agreed, Like everything you have in season,

968
00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 1: you know what I mean.

969
00:43:28,840 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 4: Like you gotta show seasons to celebrate, to get because

970
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:35,040
Speaker 4: you got things to celebrate for. Yeah, by seasons where

971
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:36,400
Speaker 4: you need to be a little more focused and a

972
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 4: little more discipline. I just feel like it's no way

973
00:43:38,560 --> 00:43:41,239
Speaker 4: to be a disciplined, focused person if you're in the

974
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:42,800
Speaker 4: club that aspect.

975
00:43:42,920 --> 00:43:46,440
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, I agree with that, because if you're drinking, smoking,

976
00:43:46,520 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 5: doing this everything, and you're doing this and in your

977
00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:50,360
Speaker 5: thirty at this point.

978
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,200
Speaker 3: I agree, like, yo, how much growth?

979
00:43:52,680 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, right, And I get it. We all like to

980
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 1: let louse. I like to let my little wig back.

981
00:43:58,520 --> 00:44:01,480
Speaker 3: You know what I'm saying, you gotta all it's seasons. Yeah,

982
00:44:01,560 --> 00:44:02,480
Speaker 3: I agree, and that's.

983
00:44:02,400 --> 00:44:02,839
Speaker 1: What I said.

984
00:44:02,880 --> 00:44:05,640
Speaker 2: I feel like every week now, every now and then,

985
00:44:05,680 --> 00:44:06,200
Speaker 2: it's cool.

986
00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:07,880
Speaker 1: But I feel like if you in the club every

987
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:09,399
Speaker 1: every week, I get that.

988
00:44:09,360 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 2: Right, that's a little excessive. I don't even want to

989
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:12,839
Speaker 2: date somebody like I used to date.

990
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:14,560
Speaker 1: Like. I was talking to this guy a few years ago,

991
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 1: and it.

992
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,719
Speaker 2: Was like, every time he wanted to hang out or

993
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,880
Speaker 2: do anything, he wanted to be at the club, we

994
00:44:19,920 --> 00:44:20,759
Speaker 2: would go on a date.

995
00:44:20,800 --> 00:44:22,359
Speaker 1: And I'm thinking, were having a good date night.

996
00:44:22,400 --> 00:44:25,480
Speaker 2: We're finna go back to the crib, watch a little movie,

997
00:44:27,920 --> 00:44:28,600
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

998
00:44:29,040 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: He like, oh my homeboys at the club, let's go.

999
00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh brother, I get after a while, you know

1000
00:44:34,760 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 5: what I'm saying, we gotta do something else else.

1001
00:44:37,800 --> 00:44:41,120
Speaker 2: I need more arranged for me. Yeah, and I get it.

1002
00:44:41,160 --> 00:44:42,960
Speaker 2: I lived in Houston for ten years. I've been in

1003
00:44:43,000 --> 00:44:45,279
Speaker 2: Atlanta for a minute. Like, I definitely get it. It'd

1004
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 2: be fun outside. I like people that have.

1005
00:44:47,960 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 5: A little bit of balance. I think the sexiest thing

1006
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,920
Speaker 5: is growth. Yeah, I think sex the sexiest thing is.

1007
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 3: Is growth and self awareness. Like if you know that?

1008
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:57,400
Speaker 3: Like yo, Like, I'm tired.

1009
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,560
Speaker 5: I've been doing this and it's been breeding the same

1010
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:04,719
Speaker 5: results and you don't change, right, Oh man, you gotta

1011
00:45:04,719 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 5: go somewhere.

1012
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, like our younger listeners like, if you win your twenties,

1013
00:45:08,719 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 2: go to the club. Girl, niggas be outside. So if

1014
00:45:12,600 --> 00:45:15,959
Speaker 2: you're y'all twenties, definitely for sure. And I'm not saying

1015
00:45:15,960 --> 00:45:17,640
Speaker 2: even for people in their thirties. You know, you can

1016
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 2: still enjoy yourself. But like I said, if it's like.

1017
00:45:19,800 --> 00:45:22,160
Speaker 4: An every week thing, I just think you need to

1018
00:45:22,239 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 4: expand your you know, activity or look deeper and figure

1019
00:45:27,440 --> 00:45:29,120
Speaker 4: out why is it that you want to be in

1020
00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:33,040
Speaker 4: the club every weekend and maybe channel that into something else.

1021
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:42,000
Speaker 2: Awareness they being not looking for they do. That's why

1022
00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:45,280
Speaker 2: you gotta start, Like go fund You said, boogloo ain't working.

1023
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:49,120
Speaker 1: Bit I just sat on this swing for three weeks.

1024
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:52,319
Speaker 1: I didn't go to it. Ain't found nobody. Y'all gonna

1025
00:45:52,360 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: have a matchmaker.

1026
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:55,719
Speaker 2: If you can't find a man at boogloo. You real

1027
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:00,520
Speaker 2: niggas don't go at boogloo. But they are y'all found

1028
00:46:00,520 --> 00:46:01,960
Speaker 2: me a couple back in the day.

1029
00:46:04,960 --> 00:46:06,839
Speaker 1: Larry, Okay, Larry, I.

1030
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 4: Don't want to know too soon. A nigga swinging on

1031
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 4: the swing is not for me. Want to see at

1032
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:24,200
Speaker 4: the park with his child? Maybe absolutely nice?

1033
00:46:24,520 --> 00:46:26,200
Speaker 5: So what would you ask this question for you? So

1034
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:30,440
Speaker 5: what would you consider three things that are fun? Like

1035
00:46:30,680 --> 00:46:31,879
Speaker 5: activity is just fun?

1036
00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 1: Okay. So one thing, okay.

1037
00:46:34,840 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 2: One thing I definitely like to do is I like

1038
00:46:37,600 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 2: intimate concerts.

1039
00:46:38,840 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 3: Okay.

1040
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 2: So I'm not talking about like we don't gotta go

1041
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 2: to Beyonce concerts, but I like finding like local bands

1042
00:46:44,120 --> 00:46:46,799
Speaker 2: or like music night, you know when they have like

1043
00:46:46,840 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 2: the live bands come through and stuff like. I love

1044
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:53,560
Speaker 2: live music. So one live music too. I like to travel.

1045
00:46:53,920 --> 00:46:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm not saying we necessarily gotta go to Greece or

1046
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,840
Speaker 2: like if we're gonna find like a cute little cabin,

1047
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:02,160
Speaker 2: it's like two hours out out in Atlanta, or you

1048
00:47:02,200 --> 00:47:04,319
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying, go hiking somewhere, like maybe take

1049
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 2: a trip to Utah something like that. I like doing

1050
00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:12,320
Speaker 2: stuff like that. I'm a foodie. Let's go find somewhere

1051
00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,959
Speaker 2: to eat, Let's go try some different food, Like let's

1052
00:47:16,000 --> 00:47:17,879
Speaker 2: go try something we would never try. I'm not saying

1053
00:47:17,920 --> 00:47:19,880
Speaker 2: we got to eat all the time because I'm not necessarily,

1054
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:21,359
Speaker 2: but it's like, if you want to put me on, like,

1055
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,840
Speaker 2: oh I found this restaurant, let's go try it.

1056
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:24,520
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying.

1057
00:47:24,520 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's that's like my list of fun things

1058
00:47:26,560 --> 00:47:27,160
Speaker 2: that I like to do.

1059
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:30,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I'm not gonna lie. I love traveling

1060
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:33,680
Speaker 4: as well and I love eating. So if some somebody

1061
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 4: put me on a new restaurant, I love it. That's

1062
00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 4: like a love language for me. I'm a tourist. I

1063
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,960
Speaker 4: just like tourists love food like I love food. Do

1064
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:44,080
Speaker 4: we love cooking all of that, So I would definitely

1065
00:47:44,120 --> 00:47:46,880
Speaker 4: save food. And also I really like documentaries, like I

1066
00:47:46,920 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 4: like to like watch documentary with my men.

1067
00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I love stuff like that, and I.

1068
00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,760
Speaker 3: Love so which was my camera? Which was my camera?

1069
00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:58,360
Speaker 1: Oh it's one six y bet I'm talking about to fellus.

1070
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 5: You just heard two beautiful women just give you six

1071
00:48:02,560 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 5: different ways to spend your bread instead of going to

1072
00:48:07,400 --> 00:48:08,520
Speaker 5: the club every week.

1073
00:48:08,760 --> 00:48:12,200
Speaker 3: Yes, you'll spend three thousand dollars on a.

1074
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:14,560
Speaker 5: Bottle, But you have a woman that say, I just

1075
00:48:14,600 --> 00:48:15,960
Speaker 5: want to go to nice restaurants.

1076
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,880
Speaker 3: Just get a nice airbnb two hours away. Do you

1077
00:48:18,920 --> 00:48:19,479
Speaker 3: know how fly?

1078
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,080
Speaker 1: That is? Brother? A good time?

1079
00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 3: Listen, understand, you just got to put on free game man.

1080
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:25,759
Speaker 1: Okay, so what are the things that they like? If

1081
00:48:25,800 --> 00:48:26,279
Speaker 1: you were still?

1082
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:28,000
Speaker 2: Are things that you and your wife do that's like

1083
00:48:28,120 --> 00:48:29,080
Speaker 2: outside of the norm?

1084
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 3: Okay, outside of the norm. Well, outside of the norm. Again,

1085
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,279
Speaker 3: we travel. It's not outside of the norm, but it.

1086
00:48:36,280 --> 00:48:38,120
Speaker 2: Is, though it depends on what you do when you travel.

1087
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:42,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, yes, we travel without kids sometimes just get away.

1088
00:48:43,680 --> 00:48:45,840
Speaker 3: We love binge watching TV shows.

1089
00:48:46,840 --> 00:48:48,920
Speaker 1: What do you watch the conversations?

1090
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah yeah.

1091
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 5: And now she's she's a professional breakdown actors movements. Yeah,

1092
00:48:55,600 --> 00:49:00,560
Speaker 5: so she's's dope. We're watching uh things. A new show

1093
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,439
Speaker 5: on Apple called The Apple Doesn't Fall.

1094
00:49:03,800 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: Okay.

1095
00:49:08,400 --> 00:49:11,000
Speaker 3: It's about a family that the mom dies and they

1096
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:14,040
Speaker 3: don't know who killed the mom. Murder a mini series

1097
00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:14,640
Speaker 3: Murder Missions.

1098
00:49:16,280 --> 00:49:19,040
Speaker 5: It's fire, so like that and then again for us

1099
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:23,719
Speaker 5: because we got two kids, so we literally like really

1100
00:49:23,840 --> 00:49:26,960
Speaker 5: just enjoy our quiet time and we make a lot

1101
00:49:27,000 --> 00:49:29,239
Speaker 5: of our time going a lot of our fun time.

1102
00:49:29,560 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 3: Actually go we go to church a lot too, you

1103
00:49:32,040 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 3: know what I mean.

1104
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:37,520
Speaker 5: So in a business that is so loud and demanding,

1105
00:49:37,600 --> 00:49:40,360
Speaker 5: and I gotta give so much of myself to people.

1106
00:49:41,239 --> 00:49:44,840
Speaker 5: The quiet things and the beautiful things. It's what's most important,

1107
00:49:45,320 --> 00:49:47,560
Speaker 5: you know what I mean? Because again, like outside, like

1108
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 5: we gotta go film something me and you gotta go

1109
00:49:49,960 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 5: film something right after this and do this and shake

1110
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 5: hands and just this and.

1111
00:49:52,520 --> 00:49:56,040
Speaker 3: This is the beauty is like can we just watch something,

1112
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,520
Speaker 3: you know, ordering amazing food?

1113
00:49:58,840 --> 00:50:00,640
Speaker 2: And I think that's good though that you say, like

1114
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,960
Speaker 2: being at home is like your peace, because that's why

1115
00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 2: a lot of y'all niggas and y'all wives don't be

1116
00:50:07,239 --> 00:50:11,880
Speaker 2: at home because I thought she was gonna say that

1117
00:50:11,960 --> 00:50:12,799
Speaker 2: they don't got home.

1118
00:50:13,360 --> 00:50:18,400
Speaker 3: Well, you said it on me, you said it, not me.

1119
00:50:18,719 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: I did listen.

1120
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:25,040
Speaker 2: To. But I feel like creating a safe space, Like

1121
00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 2: I know when I go home, it's peaceful for me.

1122
00:50:29,080 --> 00:50:31,640
Speaker 1: So if I do, you know, get in a relationship with.

1123
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:34,000
Speaker 2: Someone or I get married, I want that to be

1124
00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:37,720
Speaker 2: like I'm rushing home to you because I feel peaceful,

1125
00:50:37,760 --> 00:50:39,759
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And I think that's very

1126
00:50:39,880 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 2: very important. Like everybody hates that saying, oh be his peace,

1127
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:43,239
Speaker 2: be her piece.

1128
00:50:43,400 --> 00:50:44,840
Speaker 1: It's like, yeah, like it'd be.

1129
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 2: Sometimes I'm going through it and I know, like, oh,

1130
00:50:46,800 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 2: I need to call Drea because she's gonna make me

1131
00:50:48,480 --> 00:50:50,880
Speaker 2: feel better. So I think you should look for the

1132
00:50:51,080 --> 00:50:54,799
Speaker 2: friendship and your romantic partners, you.

1133
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:55,279
Speaker 1: Know what I mean.

1134
00:50:55,800 --> 00:50:56,880
Speaker 3: That's more important.

1135
00:50:57,160 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 5: The friendship was going to keep you in longety right,

1136
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,640
Speaker 5: you gotta be like you gotta be able to talk

1137
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:06,320
Speaker 5: about the uncomfortable things like, yo, sexually, I'm not there, Sexually,

1138
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 5: I'm here.

1139
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:10,520
Speaker 3: Money is that that makes you go like this?

1140
00:51:11,040 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 5: It's like, if you care about somebody, you're gonna try

1141
00:51:13,080 --> 00:51:14,560
Speaker 5: to look out for them, you know what I mean.

1142
00:51:14,680 --> 00:51:17,359
Speaker 3: So it's again so for me, like like we were saying,

1143
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 3: like I'll be.

1144
00:51:18,040 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 5: On the road and it's just like, man, I just

1145
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 5: wish I could just go go home, you know, and

1146
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,200
Speaker 5: just unplug for three days. And the best thing, one

1147
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:27,640
Speaker 5: of the best things I ever did again free game.

1148
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:33,200
Speaker 5: Take breaks from social media, mentally, take breaks from social media,

1149
00:51:33,400 --> 00:51:34,000
Speaker 5: you know what I mean.

1150
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:38,360
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Speaker 1: So now we're gonna move on. Now we're gonna get

1170
00:52:39,239 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: into the bi bow Bow Bow Bow Bow Bow. So

1171
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:46,800
Speaker 1: let me first say this.

1172
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:48,680
Speaker 2: Got y'all know I always got a storytime for everything.

1173
00:52:48,719 --> 00:52:49,080
Speaker 3: I love it.

1174
00:52:49,800 --> 00:52:53,640
Speaker 2: So when I went to Dubai, it was I got

1175
00:52:53,680 --> 00:52:59,239
Speaker 2: Fluid out twenty seventeen, right should But I remember this

1176
00:52:59,400 --> 00:53:01,200
Speaker 2: is when I was like, first, put onto your music

1177
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 2: because every morning I was waking up that nigga. Every morning,

1178
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 2: I said, what song is this? Because you've been playing it.

1179
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:11,959
Speaker 2: I mean he was playing it every morning. It would

1180
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:13,080
Speaker 2: go over, start it over.

1181
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:14,520
Speaker 1: I don't say to.

1182
00:53:16,200 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 2: Oh fucking trip. That's how I got put onto your

1183
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:20,600
Speaker 2: I was like, bro, what is this nigga? Listen and

1184
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 2: he was like, oh, this is what's I said, Oh,

1185
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:25,399
Speaker 2: that's what's his name? From power? I had no because

1186
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 2: I was introduced to you as an actor with Dre.

1187
00:53:29,160 --> 00:53:30,480
Speaker 2: So that was the first time I saw you and

1188
00:53:30,560 --> 00:53:34,399
Speaker 2: I said, oh my god, like it was a time

1189
00:53:34,480 --> 00:53:34,719
Speaker 2: when I.

1190
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 3: Lived that song.

1191
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:39,439
Speaker 1: I think about my Dubai Trip, like was my song

1192
00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: yes with Walle And then you got the tag. I

1193
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:47,800
Speaker 1: feel like the tag is so like we know it's you.

1194
00:53:51,000 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 1: They know you're coming in. So that that was my

1195
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:55,279
Speaker 1: introduction to the bed because I had a wild time

1196
00:53:55,360 --> 00:53:57,759
Speaker 1: that week. But get them.

1197
00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:02,800
Speaker 5: That's why I say, first day in Jubai, did you

1198
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,880
Speaker 5: did you busted open forga?

1199
00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:11,200
Speaker 1: But you know what's crazy? This is old so but

1200
00:54:11,560 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 1: he's right.

1201
00:54:13,360 --> 00:54:17,799
Speaker 2: I'm saying sorry, So he's background, so I know it's

1202
00:54:17,840 --> 00:54:19,319
Speaker 2: time to get up. And you know what I'm saying,

1203
00:54:19,400 --> 00:54:21,879
Speaker 2: You was me and my man, I was you was there?

1204
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:23,560
Speaker 4: He was there.

1205
00:54:24,040 --> 00:54:29,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, but let me tell you this nigga, like he

1206
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: had the talk about this. So like I was waking

1207
00:54:33,719 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 1: on my mi. Oh my god, this is the pillow,

1208
00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:37,480
Speaker 1: like we stayed in a nice ass hotel.

1209
00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 2: What is it?

1210
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:40,880
Speaker 1: The baby?

1211
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:53,239
Speaker 3: Oh god, I can't ben gay French. Well he was not.

1212
00:54:53,440 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: Jerrying, okay, but anyways, he had the uh the baby Beijing.

1213
00:55:01,320 --> 00:55:02,520
Speaker 1: I remember this thought. Okay.

1214
00:55:02,719 --> 00:55:05,719
Speaker 2: So anyways, I'm waking up and I'm thinking, oh my god,

1215
00:55:05,880 --> 00:55:07,960
Speaker 2: like I'm getting this bed dirty with my makeup, Like

1216
00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:11,359
Speaker 2: I'm like I got mask, carro on every ever. I mean,

1217
00:55:11,400 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 2: it's all over everywhere. And I'm just like so embarrassed.

1218
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,279
Speaker 2: And I was like, I was like, okay, let me

1219
00:55:16,320 --> 00:55:18,799
Speaker 2: make sure I washed my face. Washed my face. I'm

1220
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:20,799
Speaker 2: not getting on it in the morning. So we wake

1221
00:55:20,880 --> 00:55:24,320
Speaker 2: up the next morning. I wake up right earlier.

1222
00:55:24,400 --> 00:55:29,240
Speaker 1: I said, hold on, it's still here. I looked hairline gone.

1223
00:55:30,920 --> 00:55:34,360
Speaker 1: I said, that was you. And every morning I was

1224
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:37,120
Speaker 1: there lying waking me up, you know, and he would

1225
00:55:37,200 --> 00:55:39,200
Speaker 1: leave the room for like an hour and he was

1226
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:42,600
Speaker 1: being nice and let me have leave go to the bathroom.

1227
00:55:43,480 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 1: He was leaving to go keep his fighting ship. He

1228
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:47,880
Speaker 1: was bright his ship back on, bitch. But how you

1229
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:54,719
Speaker 1: caught him there because woke me up? Bitch, walked me up.

1230
00:55:55,040 --> 00:56:00,000
Speaker 1: I see, I said, I would have been scared. Yeah, yeah, niggas,

1231
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:01,960
Speaker 1: you looking like different people when they ain't got their hair.

1232
00:56:02,040 --> 00:56:03,680
Speaker 1: Let you know what, I'll say this if they had

1233
00:56:03,719 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 1: it first.

1234
00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:06,680
Speaker 2: I ran into him because it was cool, like we

1235
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:08,480
Speaker 2: were dating for a little minute. But I actually ran

1236
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 2: into him when I was in London. Oh yeah, yeah,

1237
00:56:13,480 --> 00:56:16,080
Speaker 2: this is years, like a few ago. I went to

1238
00:56:16,160 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 2: London in December and I ran in him. I hadn't

1239
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:19,560
Speaker 2: seen him in a long time because he lives in

1240
00:56:19,640 --> 00:56:21,759
Speaker 2: London and I had ran into him.

1241
00:56:22,000 --> 00:56:22,960
Speaker 1: And he's bad now.

1242
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:31,360
Speaker 3: He gave it up, smart man. The job, baby, But.

1243
00:56:31,560 --> 00:56:35,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna get in. What's the topics for the bed today? Okay,

1244
00:56:35,360 --> 00:56:36,680
Speaker 1: some of the toping for the bed today.

1245
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 4: I definitely wanted to talk about, like I wanted to

1246
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:42,759
Speaker 4: talk about monogamy and like keeping sick spicy in a

1247
00:56:42,880 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 4: monogamy relationship. So I know, because I know you're in

1248
00:56:47,400 --> 00:56:50,360
Speaker 4: a monogamous relationship right now, Knowlex?

1249
00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:53,200
Speaker 1: Okay, it is it is does he know that it

1250
00:56:53,280 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 1: is not? I'm playing.

1251
00:56:57,040 --> 00:57:03,719
Speaker 3: Get on Tuesday. On Tuesdays, she is nuice you in.

1252
00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:07,720
Speaker 4: A monogamous relationship. I am too, And then obviously you're married,

1253
00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 4: so I definitely want to talk about, like how do

1254
00:57:09,719 --> 00:57:12,160
Speaker 4: you keep it spicy in a monogamous relationship? But I

1255
00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:13,960
Speaker 4: guess this is more a question for you because you've

1256
00:57:14,000 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 4: been in your relationship much longer than we've been out.

1257
00:57:16,200 --> 00:57:16,360
Speaker 4: You know.

1258
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,439
Speaker 5: I think it's number one is and that's a fire question.

1259
00:57:20,560 --> 00:57:24,120
Speaker 5: I think number one is just freedom of sexual freedom,

1260
00:57:24,560 --> 00:57:26,480
Speaker 5: like between each other, you know what I mean, Like.

1261
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:28,640
Speaker 3: Obviously there's some things I won't do.

1262
00:57:28,720 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 5: Obviously there's certain things she you know, but freedom of

1263
00:57:32,240 --> 00:57:35,560
Speaker 5: just feeling like, okay, this is not embarrassing.

1264
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:41,880
Speaker 3: This is this, Yeah, I mean also communication on okay.

1265
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:44,160
Speaker 3: So this is where people burn out people. I don't

1266
00:57:44,200 --> 00:57:44,400
Speaker 3: know how.

1267
00:57:44,560 --> 00:57:46,920
Speaker 5: Maybe I'm different, but we don't try to do it

1268
00:57:47,000 --> 00:57:50,240
Speaker 5: every day, not everything. If I'm going to be with

1269
00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:53,400
Speaker 5: you for the rest of my life. What made me

1270
00:57:53,600 --> 00:57:57,440
Speaker 5: want a woman back in the day was the chase. Okay,

1271
00:57:57,760 --> 00:58:01,360
Speaker 5: the thought of damn, I'm not gonna get that. I

1272
00:58:01,440 --> 00:58:04,720
Speaker 5: gotta figure out how to get that. So why not

1273
00:58:05,120 --> 00:58:08,840
Speaker 5: add that into my relationship where it's like no, I'm good,

1274
00:58:09,000 --> 00:58:12,520
Speaker 5: you know, or she's good, or just mentally like, I

1275
00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:15,880
Speaker 5: know I can, but you gotta trick your mind to

1276
00:58:16,000 --> 00:58:18,280
Speaker 5: be like, oh, I can't have that right now, or

1277
00:58:18,280 --> 00:58:20,000
Speaker 5: I gotta earn this, so I gotta.

1278
00:58:19,840 --> 00:58:20,520
Speaker 3: Do these things.

1279
00:58:20,600 --> 00:58:23,400
Speaker 5: So like, and then obviously obviously having a conversation of

1280
00:58:23,560 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 5: just like, we don't have to do it frequently because

1281
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,800
Speaker 5: we're gonna be doing this for the rest of the

1282
00:58:31,960 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 5: build up is actually better than the actual because then

1283
00:58:35,000 --> 00:58:38,360
Speaker 5: it feels like a new thing with the same person.

1284
00:58:38,520 --> 00:58:43,920
Speaker 5: So again, but then also this isn't sex, but having

1285
00:58:44,200 --> 00:58:49,040
Speaker 5: incredible conversations can then fulfill a lot of the sexual needs.

1286
00:58:49,920 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 3: It could take the space out of that, you know

1287
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:52,840
Speaker 3: what I mean.

1288
00:58:53,480 --> 00:58:57,320
Speaker 5: Affection can be shown in different ways where it's like, yo, like, man,

1289
00:58:57,400 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 5: let's just lay up today, I just wanna lay ut,

1290
00:59:00,120 --> 00:59:03,120
Speaker 5: wanna kick it, And then you just gotta make it

1291
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:04,160
Speaker 5: where it's surprising.

1292
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 3: It's not on Wednesday seven forty five. I need you

1293
00:59:07,160 --> 00:59:07,800
Speaker 3: to bust that.

1294
00:59:09,280 --> 00:59:10,680
Speaker 1: I think it gets a routine.

1295
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,040
Speaker 5: Yeah, a lot of people do that because a lot

1296
00:59:15,080 --> 00:59:17,720
Speaker 5: of people don't realize that yo, Like, if you're in

1297
00:59:17,720 --> 00:59:22,840
Speaker 5: a real relationship, it's forever figure out the good just

1298
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:25,720
Speaker 5: because let's go three just because let's go three weeks

1299
00:59:25,800 --> 00:59:28,440
Speaker 5: and see how we feel. Yeah, why not, Let's just

1300
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 5: see and then she might be feenish, she's feeling like

1301
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:33,200
Speaker 5: I can't go another But you've built that.

1302
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:35,320
Speaker 1: That's what I've never heard of.

1303
00:59:35,480 --> 00:59:41,240
Speaker 4: Like, but that's a very yeah, because I feel like

1304
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:44,000
Speaker 4: most people make you feel like once you're married, like

1305
00:59:44,080 --> 00:59:46,640
Speaker 4: if you're not having sex with your partner, like especially

1306
00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:48,720
Speaker 4: as women, if you're not having sex with your partner

1307
00:59:48,840 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 4: every day, then you're not fulfilling your marital duties, for

1308
00:59:51,520 --> 00:59:53,520
Speaker 4: your duties as a wife. But I'm kind of with

1309
00:59:53,680 --> 00:59:56,000
Speaker 4: you on that because even now getting into my thirties,

1310
00:59:56,040 --> 00:59:58,800
Speaker 4: I'd be like, look, I ain't trying to have sex

1311
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,280
Speaker 4: every day. I'm just that's why I'm When I was

1312
01:00:02,320 --> 01:00:04,200
Speaker 4: in my twenties, I'd be like, how was I doing

1313
01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:05,800
Speaker 4: that with my boyfriend all the time?

1314
01:00:06,480 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 5: Because I think, really, that's really most of the time creation.

1315
01:00:09,760 --> 01:00:11,200
Speaker 5: But most of the time, that's really what all we

1316
01:00:11,280 --> 01:00:14,280
Speaker 5: could offer people. Yeah, yeah, all you really is is

1317
01:00:14,320 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 5: sexual attraction. You really know too much about the person,

1318
01:00:16,800 --> 01:00:19,560
Speaker 5: You really know the right questions to ask, you don't

1319
01:00:19,600 --> 01:00:22,919
Speaker 5: even know yourself, so all you can do is bank

1320
01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,080
Speaker 5: on that. But when you really with somebody, that's like, yo,

1321
01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:27,960
Speaker 5: like let's just go do something. And then and then

1322
01:00:28,040 --> 01:00:29,960
Speaker 5: if you do something you like, you start looking at

1323
01:00:30,000 --> 01:00:34,480
Speaker 5: them differently, like damn, been over real quick, right?

1324
01:00:34,800 --> 01:00:45,360
Speaker 3: You know what I mean exactly, But let's goutch it.

1325
01:00:45,440 --> 01:00:46,280
Speaker 3: That's a nigga.

1326
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:53,840
Speaker 1: Because but I do think that should be fun.

1327
01:00:54,080 --> 01:00:54,560
Speaker 3: Absolutely.

1328
01:00:54,560 --> 01:00:57,160
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times I got caught in this.

1329
01:00:57,320 --> 01:00:59,160
Speaker 2: In my last relationship, I was on and off with

1330
01:00:59,240 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 2: somebody for seven years, and it kind of felt it

1331
01:01:00,880 --> 01:01:03,200
Speaker 2: started to feel like a job, like I had to

1332
01:01:03,320 --> 01:01:06,040
Speaker 2: do it. And I think like sex should always be

1333
01:01:06,280 --> 01:01:08,320
Speaker 2: like fun, Like it doesn't always have to be like oh,

1334
01:01:08,440 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 2: let me bend over, and it's like we should be

1335
01:01:10,680 --> 01:01:13,840
Speaker 2: having fun, like it should be things that we are enjoying,

1336
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:18,440
Speaker 2: like let's just try something, why not? Like yeah, So

1337
01:01:18,680 --> 01:01:20,840
Speaker 2: I definitely agree with that, and and like you said,

1338
01:01:20,920 --> 01:01:23,560
Speaker 2: like sometimes it's okay to take a break from sex,

1339
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 2: like if you don't want to have sex today, just community.

1340
01:01:26,040 --> 01:01:28,600
Speaker 2: You should be able to communic pay that and your part.

1341
01:01:28,640 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 2: You shouldn't feel like, oh, he's gonna go fuck somebody else.

1342
01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,400
Speaker 1: Are he gonna go the wrong relations to that.

1343
01:01:34,600 --> 01:01:36,840
Speaker 4: Yes, And I feel like sex is only good when

1344
01:01:36,920 --> 01:01:39,920
Speaker 4: both people want to have Like, if one person want

1345
01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 4: to have it and the other person don't really want

1346
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:43,560
Speaker 4: to have it, it's not gonna be that great because

1347
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:44,680
Speaker 4: one person not in the mood.

1348
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,280
Speaker 1: But when y'all both in the mood, that's what it's because.

1349
01:01:47,040 --> 01:01:48,520
Speaker 2: That's how my mind frame used to be. I used

1350
01:01:48,520 --> 01:01:50,720
Speaker 2: to be like, if I don't drain him, somebody else

1351
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:53,200
Speaker 2: gonna do it. And this and that girl somebody was

1352
01:01:53,240 --> 01:01:53,480
Speaker 2: doing it.

1353
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:53,880
Speaker 1: Anyway.

1354
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:56,920
Speaker 2: You can drain that nigga all you want. He's still

1355
01:01:57,000 --> 01:01:58,600
Speaker 2: gonna go outside. If that's what you want to do.

1356
01:01:58,880 --> 01:02:02,120
Speaker 5: Yeah, there's nothing Yeah nobody, Yo. So you just gotta

1357
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:05,720
Speaker 5: do the best of your ability. But yes, and communication,

1358
01:02:06,000 --> 01:02:08,919
Speaker 5: talk it out. You don't gotta have it's best sometimes Again,

1359
01:02:08,960 --> 01:02:11,640
Speaker 5: if you're in a serious relationship, right, it's best to

1360
01:02:11,880 --> 01:02:13,920
Speaker 5: starve it out because you trust that person. You know,

1361
01:02:14,840 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 5: starve it out sometimes and just see how it feels, like.

1362
01:02:18,920 --> 01:02:32,400
Speaker 3: Oh my god, wow, it's you know, and whoas I

1363
01:02:32,520 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 3: love it?

1364
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,520
Speaker 4: I love it, But no, I mean it's all about

1365
01:02:35,600 --> 01:02:38,720
Speaker 4: like being open minded too, because I think I definitely

1366
01:02:38,800 --> 01:02:40,080
Speaker 4: feel like it's some things.

1367
01:02:40,920 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: There are things where.

1368
01:02:42,040 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 4: When I first got into my relationship, I definitely like

1369
01:02:44,720 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 4: was like, oh I'm not interested in it or I.

1370
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:47,040
Speaker 1: Wouldn't try that.

1371
01:02:47,160 --> 01:02:49,600
Speaker 4: But then once I started dating the person that I

1372
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:50,720
Speaker 4: really started liking.

1373
01:02:50,560 --> 01:02:52,800
Speaker 1: Him, I was like, okay, like what I would.

1374
01:03:03,040 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 3: It's segment two?

1375
01:03:05,280 --> 01:03:06,560
Speaker 1: Why would you move the on the spot?

1376
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:06,720
Speaker 4: No?

1377
01:03:07,080 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 3: No, it's a great spot to be.

1378
01:03:09,160 --> 01:03:11,400
Speaker 1: Let's uh, let's let's stay on the spot to talk

1379
01:03:11,440 --> 01:03:12,200
Speaker 1: about me and my man.

1380
01:03:13,760 --> 01:03:15,880
Speaker 4: That wasn't nothing, and you don't talk about that, like

1381
01:03:16,000 --> 01:03:17,800
Speaker 4: fifty times scarred.

1382
01:03:18,440 --> 01:03:21,960
Speaker 1: Every time I hear your voice, I think about that. Okay,

1383
01:03:22,000 --> 01:03:22,600
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on.

1384
01:03:22,640 --> 01:03:27,000
Speaker 2: We're gonna let you slide, all right, So now it's

1385
01:03:27,120 --> 01:03:29,520
Speaker 2: time to get into the bop.

1386
01:03:29,960 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: Okay about ow about wow about? Let me just say

1387
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:37,880
Speaker 1: I'm having an amazing time. I love and we have

1388
01:03:38,000 --> 01:03:38,600
Speaker 1: fun gas.

1389
01:03:39,080 --> 01:03:41,400
Speaker 2: Because sometimes I'll be having to put my Oprah Winfrey

1390
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:45,680
Speaker 2: on that professional be able to I just be feeling

1391
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:47,960
Speaker 2: sorry for them, Like what did I get myself into.

1392
01:03:48,400 --> 01:03:49,840
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people have sat on this

1393
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:52,200
Speaker 2: couch and felt like they had to clutch their parl.

1394
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:53,720
Speaker 3: Crazy.

1395
01:03:54,160 --> 01:03:57,480
Speaker 2: No, not that, I think our personalities just are a

1396
01:03:57,560 --> 01:03:59,320
Speaker 2: lot so I like people that can hang with it.

1397
01:03:59,400 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, I'm having there is okay. So BAP

1398
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:05,280
Speaker 2: of the Week is like the songs that we've been

1399
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:08,520
Speaker 2: jamming this week. So I had to let this song

1400
01:04:08,600 --> 01:04:10,640
Speaker 2: grow me a little bit. Sometimes you gotta hear shit

1401
01:04:10,720 --> 01:04:12,680
Speaker 2: in the club, which is funny. I'm talking about the

1402
01:04:12,720 --> 01:04:14,720
Speaker 2: club because I just said I don't go to the club.

1403
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:17,400
Speaker 2: I had to go to the club though, because my

1404
01:04:17,520 --> 01:04:19,600
Speaker 2: friend was in town and she drug us to the club.

1405
01:04:19,640 --> 01:04:21,200
Speaker 2: But we went to Cheetah. And if you've ever been

1406
01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:25,320
Speaker 2: a cheatah that if you're gonna bute me to Cheetah,

1407
01:04:25,600 --> 01:04:26,960
Speaker 2: that's maybe where you can catch me.

1408
01:04:27,320 --> 01:04:31,880
Speaker 1: Cause that chicken fried chicken. We had a good burger too,

1409
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:34,240
Speaker 1: like that Patty Mel burger. It was good. The Lamptops

1410
01:04:34,320 --> 01:04:36,200
Speaker 1: was good too. But anyways, so I.

1411
01:04:36,240 --> 01:04:37,720
Speaker 2: Went to the club and I heard this song for

1412
01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:38,800
Speaker 2: the first time in the club, and I.

1413
01:04:38,840 --> 01:04:41,360
Speaker 1: Said, okay, I hear it. Now. I feel what the

1414
01:04:41,400 --> 01:04:46,080
Speaker 1: people feeling enough by Cardi b I don't like to.

1415
01:04:46,120 --> 01:04:48,760
Speaker 2: Think pieces that people do about Cardi and they feel

1416
01:04:48,760 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 2: like she's supposed to be that. Carty said this to us.

1417
01:04:50,840 --> 01:04:53,280
Speaker 2: She said, I'm not here to be a Kendrick Lamar.

1418
01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 2: I'm not here to be a jay call. I'm here

1419
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:55,960
Speaker 2: to turn y'all a.

1420
01:04:56,000 --> 01:04:58,560
Speaker 1: Fuck up and have y'all bitch popping some pussy.

1421
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 2: And that's the music that she makes, and that's okay.

1422
01:05:01,960 --> 01:05:04,040
Speaker 2: When I listen to a Cardi song, I'm not trying

1423
01:05:04,080 --> 01:05:05,800
Speaker 2: to be like, you know, uplifting my.

1424
01:05:05,880 --> 01:05:07,800
Speaker 1: Spirits and I'm trying to pop it.

1425
01:05:08,000 --> 01:05:11,160
Speaker 2: Yes, you know, I think she makes good music for

1426
01:05:11,280 --> 01:05:13,320
Speaker 2: the club, turn up, have a good time. So when

1427
01:05:13,360 --> 01:05:15,360
Speaker 2: I heard Enough in the club, I was like, Okay,

1428
01:05:15,560 --> 01:05:18,439
Speaker 2: this is a banger and I like it. So shout

1429
01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:20,320
Speaker 2: out to Cardi b Enough, that's my bop of the week.

1430
01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: What you been listening to?

1431
01:05:22,680 --> 01:05:22,919
Speaker 3: Girl?

1432
01:05:23,120 --> 01:05:25,200
Speaker 4: So I've been listening to us So Party next Door

1433
01:05:25,280 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 4: got a new song called real Woman.

1434
01:05:27,400 --> 01:05:29,480
Speaker 1: Okay, and I really like it.

1435
01:05:29,560 --> 01:05:31,360
Speaker 4: But I used to be a big Party next Door

1436
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 4: fan back in the day, so like, I actually been

1437
01:05:33,440 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 4: kind of sad that for the past few years, he

1438
01:05:35,200 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 4: don't really be coming out with that much music, Like

1439
01:05:36,920 --> 01:05:38,680
Speaker 4: he'll come out with a few songs here and there.

1440
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,120
Speaker 4: But I really really like this song. He's super sixy

1441
01:05:42,920 --> 01:05:44,600
Speaker 4: and I feel like, you know, we get you in

1442
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,440
Speaker 4: the mood and it's like og party next door.

1443
01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:54,960
Speaker 5: Okay, okay, So this is not a plug and nothing,

1444
01:05:55,160 --> 01:05:56,960
Speaker 5: but this is like we're finishing up the album.

1445
01:05:57,440 --> 01:05:59,360
Speaker 1: I'm ready, but go ahead, plug you.

1446
01:06:00,080 --> 01:06:01,720
Speaker 5: Okay, you know, I just don't just make sure you

1447
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:04,760
Speaker 5: understand it's real. So we got a song called Birthday

1448
01:06:05,720 --> 01:06:09,160
Speaker 5: and it's a turn up record but it's sexy. But

1449
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:13,440
Speaker 5: it's like, actually, I'm just actually, I would love for

1450
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,720
Speaker 5: y'all to be the girls, the two girls in the

1451
01:06:15,760 --> 01:06:17,520
Speaker 5: beginning because it's get in the beginning of the song,

1452
01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:19,919
Speaker 5: I'm gonna play for you afternoon. If y'all are gonna

1453
01:06:20,000 --> 01:06:21,720
Speaker 5: love it, some.

1454
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:22,800
Speaker 1: Videos be phone now.

1455
01:06:31,080 --> 01:06:33,120
Speaker 3: Listen, I got you, I got you, I got you.

1456
01:06:33,280 --> 01:06:36,120
Speaker 3: So we're gonna have a time. That would be a dream.

1457
01:06:37,600 --> 01:06:40,360
Speaker 3: But the record, but the record, the record is called Birthday.

1458
01:06:40,040 --> 01:06:42,000
Speaker 5: Is not out yet, but it's it's coming out on

1459
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:45,840
Speaker 5: my album, and I'm so excited because it gives me

1460
01:06:45,960 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 5: the time to be in a club, being a car

1461
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:50,880
Speaker 5: for people, being the crib, women, feel sexy, getting ready.

1462
01:06:51,360 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 5: It's just a mashup of a great, great record. I

1463
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:57,960
Speaker 5: cannot wait for y'all hear it and then what y'all

1464
01:06:58,000 --> 01:07:00,240
Speaker 5: bring to it. Beca'ses gonna be a cool little storyline.

1465
01:07:00,120 --> 01:07:07,280
Speaker 1: Right Love, I didn't need it to be done, so

1466
01:07:07,400 --> 01:07:08,000
Speaker 1: I'm ready.

1467
01:07:08,560 --> 01:07:11,760
Speaker 2: No, I'm a big fan of your music, so yeah,

1468
01:07:11,920 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 2: so I know whatever you've got to drop release is

1469
01:07:14,560 --> 01:07:15,160
Speaker 2: gonna be fire.

1470
01:07:15,280 --> 01:07:17,240
Speaker 5: You know we're gonna support it, you know absolutely. And

1471
01:07:17,520 --> 01:07:21,920
Speaker 5: we actually have a new record out called Okay. It's

1472
01:07:21,960 --> 01:07:24,680
Speaker 5: an Afro I'm a piano vibe. I'm a huge fan

1473
01:07:24,840 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 5: Okay in real life, Like she's Nigerian as well, so

1474
01:07:29,320 --> 01:07:30,880
Speaker 5: it's like original.

1475
01:07:30,560 --> 01:07:32,400
Speaker 1: I didn't know that you did. I did not know that.

1476
01:07:33,120 --> 01:07:35,760
Speaker 1: I didn't know that, Queen. I did not know that

1477
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:36,840
Speaker 1: absolutely okay.

1478
01:07:37,080 --> 01:07:39,120
Speaker 3: So we got a record out with mad Con and

1479
01:07:39,200 --> 01:07:40,160
Speaker 3: Nasty Sea right now.

1480
01:07:40,280 --> 01:07:45,480
Speaker 5: That's that's actually top five in West Africa, that's beautiful,

1481
01:07:45,520 --> 01:07:47,880
Speaker 5: and top five in London as well, so it's growing.

1482
01:07:48,080 --> 01:07:51,120
Speaker 2: How do you feel about like the afrobeats takeover like

1483
01:07:51,240 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 2: everywhere now? Now, Like I say this all the time

1484
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 2: because Usher has a brown talking about where the accent

1485
01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:03,040
Speaker 2: came from. I don't know where accident came from, but you.

1486
01:08:07,120 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 3: I did a remix of his record too, that was

1487
01:08:08,840 --> 01:08:09,320
Speaker 3: kind of crazy.

1488
01:08:09,600 --> 01:08:11,560
Speaker 1: So how do you feel about the afrobeats takeover?

1489
01:08:12,440 --> 01:08:12,720
Speaker 3: Okay.

1490
01:08:13,240 --> 01:08:17,760
Speaker 5: I feel like one is beautiful because it shows how

1491
01:08:17,880 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 5: talented my people are. However, in my experience for me

1492
01:08:22,760 --> 01:08:24,920
Speaker 5: and I hold this high like I feel like I

1493
01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:30,520
Speaker 5: was the first in the States to really bring afrobeats

1494
01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 5: to America, you know what I mean? Within my bed

1495
01:08:33,479 --> 01:08:36,880
Speaker 5: love rhythm like people. I remember going to the radio

1496
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 5: stations and people being like, yo, I can't even get

1497
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:42,759
Speaker 5: this rhythm, Like how do we get this rhythm? Because

1498
01:08:42,800 --> 01:08:45,800
Speaker 5: it was so foreign you couldn't catch the beat. So

1499
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,120
Speaker 5: love rhythm in my bed those records, I feel like

1500
01:08:48,160 --> 01:08:51,920
Speaker 5: it was a great bridge to what's happening now. Then

1501
01:08:52,000 --> 01:08:54,840
Speaker 5: the Veto and whiz Kid and everybody was then coming in.

1502
01:08:55,040 --> 01:08:56,680
Speaker 5: But I feel like I did what I had to do.

1503
01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,639
Speaker 1: You did, like you could not turn on the radio

1504
01:08:59,680 --> 01:08:59,880
Speaker 1: and not.

1505
01:09:01,000 --> 01:09:02,280
Speaker 5: You get what I'm saying that was, and that was

1506
01:09:02,320 --> 01:09:05,519
Speaker 5: wetting people's ears to afro beat. Now you can hear

1507
01:09:05,600 --> 01:09:09,200
Speaker 5: we're now ushers doing you know, so like it's cool

1508
01:09:09,240 --> 01:09:12,400
Speaker 5: and so everybody. So I felt like I was the

1509
01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:14,080
Speaker 5: bridge and then you know, the things that we have

1510
01:09:14,240 --> 01:09:16,480
Speaker 5: next is just gonna amplify.

1511
01:09:16,000 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 3: It even more.

1512
01:09:16,520 --> 01:09:17,600
Speaker 1: Yes, I love to go.

1513
01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:19,640
Speaker 3: You're gonna love it.

1514
01:09:19,680 --> 01:09:20,240
Speaker 5: You're gonna love it.

1515
01:09:20,360 --> 01:09:22,000
Speaker 2: Okay, So now we're gonna talk about the item of

1516
01:09:22,040 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 2: the wings and you brought us yes, yes, yes.

1517
01:09:28,080 --> 01:09:30,040
Speaker 4: He definitely brought us some gifts. So I'm gonna let

1518
01:09:30,040 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 4: you can talk about your skin here link.

1519
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:34,639
Speaker 3: Can I want to explain this from from the beginning.

1520
01:09:34,760 --> 01:09:35,080
Speaker 1: Okay.

1521
01:09:35,640 --> 01:09:39,280
Speaker 5: So it was COVID and I was breaking out crazy

1522
01:09:39,439 --> 01:09:41,720
Speaker 5: right because it was just stressful, eat you in the

1523
01:09:41,800 --> 01:09:44,519
Speaker 5: house and eating bad so everything was messing my face up.

1524
01:09:45,360 --> 01:09:49,840
Speaker 3: And then also I was using products that had all

1525
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:51,479
Speaker 3: this medicine in it and all this.

1526
01:09:51,680 --> 01:09:56,759
Speaker 5: Like not real chemicals, big chemical chemicals, harsh chemical, harsh chemicals,

1527
01:09:56,880 --> 01:09:57,599
Speaker 5: harsh chemicals.

1528
01:09:58,080 --> 01:10:00,519
Speaker 3: So I get a call this is how God so good.

1529
01:10:00,560 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 5: I get a call from Andy hill Figure, who's Tommy

1530
01:10:03,479 --> 01:10:06,360
Speaker 5: hill Figure's brother, and he's like, yo, I keep seeing

1531
01:10:06,400 --> 01:10:10,280
Speaker 5: this butterscotch character when I put the face mask, and

1532
01:10:10,360 --> 01:10:12,080
Speaker 5: he was like, do you have an endorsement deal?

1533
01:10:12,200 --> 01:10:12,880
Speaker 1: Do you have a this?

1534
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:13,839
Speaker 3: Do you have anything?

1535
01:10:13,880 --> 01:10:16,920
Speaker 5: And I said for your face creaming all that? I said, no,

1536
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:18,439
Speaker 5: I've been using this other brand.

1537
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:19,800
Speaker 3: He said no.

1538
01:10:20,000 --> 01:10:20,160
Speaker 1: Man.

1539
01:10:20,520 --> 01:10:22,640
Speaker 5: I said, well hold on, bro, I don't want to

1540
01:10:22,880 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 5: endorse anything. I want to own something. And he was like, yeah,

1541
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 5: let's let's go into partnership. Andy for real. He was like, yeah,

1542
01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:35,240
Speaker 5: I gotta. I got a company out in Israel. Sorry,

1543
01:10:35,640 --> 01:10:39,280
Speaker 5: you don't sound like you should do sound like that.

1544
01:10:39,960 --> 01:10:40,320
Speaker 3: I'm sorry.

1545
01:10:40,840 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 5: So I got a company out in Israel and listen,

1546
01:10:44,560 --> 01:10:46,839
Speaker 5: just flying you guys out come see the warehouse.

1547
01:10:47,040 --> 01:10:50,200
Speaker 3: We'll build it together. And it's minerals from the Dead Sea.

1548
01:10:50,479 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 5: So a lot of people don't understand that people all

1549
01:10:53,000 --> 01:10:54,720
Speaker 5: over the world will go to the Dead Sea and

1550
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,080
Speaker 5: it's a spiritual thing. But people all over the world

1551
01:10:57,080 --> 01:10:58,960
Speaker 5: will go to the Dead Sea and they swimming it

1552
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 5: to heal skin cancer, psoriasis, ezema, all of these things

1553
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,800
Speaker 5: are being cured from just swimming in this sea. That's

1554
01:11:08,920 --> 01:11:12,439
Speaker 5: just the source of healing. So he was like, bro,

1555
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:14,720
Speaker 5: and I said, I said, honestly, I don't want to know.

1556
01:11:14,840 --> 01:11:16,680
Speaker 5: I want men and women to be able to use it.

1557
01:11:17,280 --> 01:11:19,439
Speaker 5: I don't want nothing in it. I want to straight

1558
01:11:20,320 --> 01:11:22,719
Speaker 5: one hundred percent menuals from the dead seat. No preserved

1559
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:25,800
Speaker 5: is nothing. He said, we can do that, and we

1560
01:11:25,960 --> 01:11:27,080
Speaker 5: put it. He was like, what do you have a

1561
01:11:27,200 --> 01:11:28,519
Speaker 5: name for it? I said, I want to call it

1562
01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:32,960
Speaker 5: favor because I feel like with helping people with their

1563
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:36,120
Speaker 5: skin and giving them that love. A lot of people

1564
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:38,240
Speaker 5: suffer from a lot of insecurity because of their skin,

1565
01:11:38,960 --> 01:11:41,160
Speaker 5: and so if I can help give you that favor

1566
01:11:41,280 --> 01:11:43,920
Speaker 5: and my product clean a lot of things from you,

1567
01:11:44,400 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 5: then I've done. I've done my job as a Christian.

1568
01:11:47,240 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 1: That's beautiful.

1569
01:11:49,439 --> 01:11:50,720
Speaker 5: So I said, let's do it. So I was the

1570
01:11:50,760 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 5: first test, dummy. I'm like, let me put myself through this.

1571
01:11:53,360 --> 01:11:55,599
Speaker 5: You know, at the time I was, I was bad.

1572
01:11:55,840 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 5: So I was like, this is a perfect canvas what happens.

1573
01:11:59,439 --> 01:12:01,880
Speaker 5: And in three weeks I was what you see now.

1574
01:12:03,520 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 2: Right here.

1575
01:12:03,800 --> 01:12:05,559
Speaker 1: And that's why when when you walked up, I didn't

1576
01:12:05,560 --> 01:12:07,320
Speaker 1: even know what was in the bag, and I was like, OK,

1577
01:12:08,360 --> 01:12:10,280
Speaker 1: very moisture, very much.

1578
01:12:10,400 --> 01:12:15,160
Speaker 5: So yeah, so this is this is what has been.

1579
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:17,639
Speaker 5: It's changed my life. So we've been we've been out

1580
01:12:17,680 --> 01:12:21,519
Speaker 5: for about a year and it's been globally moving. We're

1581
01:12:21,520 --> 01:12:24,240
Speaker 5: about to be in Target HSN we're doing in a

1582
01:12:24,320 --> 01:12:26,839
Speaker 5: couple of months. So it's just it's just a beautiful

1583
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:30,040
Speaker 5: product that's one hundred percent natural for men and women.

1584
01:12:30,160 --> 01:12:32,200
Speaker 5: And the people that are writing about what it has

1585
01:12:32,280 --> 01:12:35,599
Speaker 5: done for their skin after two weeks, wow, like damn,

1586
01:12:35,680 --> 01:12:37,439
Speaker 5: Like yo, you really did something for people.

1587
01:12:37,680 --> 01:12:41,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's I love it. I stand by I'm a

1588
01:12:41,640 --> 01:12:44,320
Speaker 3: walking billboard for period favorite.

1589
01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:47,280
Speaker 1: So that's what I said. So one of the three

1590
01:12:47,320 --> 01:12:48,120
Speaker 1: products that we have.

1591
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:50,680
Speaker 5: So this is the Dead Sea Mineral mass, but this

1592
01:12:50,800 --> 01:12:54,479
Speaker 5: is literally minerals the nutrients from the dead.

1593
01:12:54,360 --> 01:12:55,559
Speaker 3: Sea that you put on your face.

1594
01:12:55,720 --> 01:12:58,200
Speaker 1: Okay, So and then this is the This is.

1595
01:12:58,360 --> 01:13:01,200
Speaker 3: The charcoal cleanser. So it's a charcoal.

1596
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:03,960
Speaker 5: We prefer this because it goes into the poorest faster

1597
01:13:04,120 --> 01:13:07,760
Speaker 5: and it lasts longer. The anti fatigued I cream. Like

1598
01:13:07,880 --> 01:13:11,000
Speaker 5: after a long day, you literally put this under your

1599
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:13,439
Speaker 5: eyes and you hydrate your eyes to keep keep it

1600
01:13:13,479 --> 01:13:16,320
Speaker 5: from being black, you know, dark under it. Yeah, you'll

1601
01:13:16,360 --> 01:13:19,600
Speaker 5: start realizing for women, you don't need makeup, you know

1602
01:13:19,640 --> 01:13:21,519
Speaker 5: what I mean. So it all in and it smells

1603
01:13:21,560 --> 01:13:25,160
Speaker 5: really good. It's on the table the moisturizer as well,

1604
01:13:25,840 --> 01:13:28,120
Speaker 5: so it's just all inclusion.

1605
01:13:27,800 --> 01:13:33,120
Speaker 1: And oh it's a I think this is the the

1606
01:13:33,280 --> 01:13:37,680
Speaker 1: mass to Yeah, yeah, okay.

1607
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,120
Speaker 5: The's folier and rub again. After you use the cleanser

1608
01:13:40,280 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 5: put it on, it scrapes and takes all the dirt away.

1609
01:13:43,880 --> 01:13:47,080
Speaker 5: So it's it's it's it's a dream product, man, And

1610
01:13:47,120 --> 01:13:48,720
Speaker 5: I'm happy it's mine, you know what I mean.

1611
01:13:48,880 --> 01:13:52,400
Speaker 3: And we're gonna make a discount cold and you're gonna have.

1612
01:13:52,439 --> 01:13:54,160
Speaker 5: To you have to you don't have to do you

1613
01:13:54,240 --> 01:13:57,560
Speaker 5: have to type in poor minds period get a discount

1614
01:13:58,280 --> 01:13:58,839
Speaker 5: of favor.

1615
01:13:59,160 --> 01:13:59,360
Speaker 3: Yes.

1616
01:13:59,520 --> 01:14:02,400
Speaker 1: And the packaging. I'm a packaging Yeah, I love the packaging.

1617
01:14:02,479 --> 01:14:03,599
Speaker 1: He's so packaging.

1618
01:14:03,800 --> 01:14:06,360
Speaker 2: Because I'm a girl, like I'm a bathroom I'm a

1619
01:14:06,400 --> 01:14:08,479
Speaker 2: skincare girl first of all. So I like to have

1620
01:14:08,600 --> 01:14:10,960
Speaker 2: products in my bathroom that actually look good too, like

1621
01:14:11,200 --> 01:14:12,799
Speaker 2: that I use because it kind of makes your bathroom

1622
01:14:12,800 --> 01:14:13,479
Speaker 2: because that's.

1623
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:14,400
Speaker 3: Fall up exactly.

1624
01:14:14,520 --> 01:14:17,480
Speaker 1: But this is definitely given that spall upgraded.

1625
01:14:17,800 --> 01:14:18,040
Speaker 5: You know.

1626
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:20,880
Speaker 1: Look, and you know I always tell people this.

1627
01:14:21,040 --> 01:14:24,120
Speaker 2: When you go into the business of like skincare stuff,

1628
01:14:24,280 --> 01:14:26,920
Speaker 2: like that's the outside of you know, you're really doing

1629
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:27,479
Speaker 2: something good.

1630
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:29,439
Speaker 1: That's a big bag there because once you get into

1631
01:14:29,479 --> 01:14:30,120
Speaker 1: the where like what.

1632
01:14:30,400 --> 01:14:33,280
Speaker 2: Hotels included, and you got to think about it when

1633
01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:34,719
Speaker 2: you can sign that hotel deal.

1634
01:14:36,479 --> 01:14:38,960
Speaker 1: Every so you own.

1635
01:14:38,920 --> 01:14:42,720
Speaker 5: Something, listen, like first we had to make sure it's excellent. Yeah,

1636
01:14:43,120 --> 01:14:44,960
Speaker 5: I didn't want my name on it, I didn't want nothing. No,

1637
01:14:45,439 --> 01:14:48,120
Speaker 5: make sure this is excellent, make sure I stand by it.

1638
01:14:48,280 --> 01:14:50,760
Speaker 5: Make sure that like anyone who sees me sees that

1639
01:14:50,880 --> 01:14:53,240
Speaker 5: this is what it, this is what did it. Then

1640
01:14:53,320 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 5: you can get to the business side of like, okay,

1641
01:14:55,520 --> 01:14:58,160
Speaker 5: now we're ready for target. You build your clientele. Now

1642
01:14:58,200 --> 01:15:01,479
Speaker 5: we got two thousand people saying this worked for my skin.

1643
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:05,920
Speaker 5: But again, as a businessman, once people see that it

1644
01:15:06,040 --> 01:15:08,560
Speaker 5: helps them, they gonna keep coming back, right you know.

1645
01:15:08,800 --> 01:15:12,599
Speaker 5: So it's two hundred through whatever, consistent and everybody wins.

1646
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:13,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what I mean.

1647
01:15:13,800 --> 01:15:14,960
Speaker 1: So beautiful Again.

1648
01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:18,800
Speaker 5: Another thing, yo, Yes, endorsements are cool, but try to

1649
01:15:18,880 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 5: own your businesses.

1650
01:15:20,320 --> 01:15:20,439
Speaker 2: Yo.

1651
01:15:20,840 --> 01:15:24,240
Speaker 5: For to own your businesses, investing is Endorsements is cool.

1652
01:15:24,400 --> 01:15:25,800
Speaker 5: Somebody else's brand is cool.

1653
01:15:26,040 --> 01:15:28,360
Speaker 2: On your own thing, man, That's very That's very I

1654
01:15:28,520 --> 01:15:31,240
Speaker 2: was you know we was talking about that yesterday. Was

1655
01:15:31,280 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 2: that you all talking about with about Florader and his

1656
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:37,000
Speaker 2: settlement that he wanted with Yeah, because he had he

1657
01:15:37,080 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 2: won eighty million dollars play him. Yeah, And they showed

1658
01:15:40,880 --> 01:15:42,320
Speaker 2: a clip of them in the courtroom because they was

1659
01:15:42,400 --> 01:15:45,200
Speaker 2: playing his music and he was like bobbing his head.

1660
01:15:45,560 --> 01:15:47,960
Speaker 1: It was like it was just so funny because Colorada

1661
01:15:48,000 --> 01:15:50,840
Speaker 1: had a run. Yeah, what he had a great run.

1662
01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:53,360
Speaker 2: Incredible people don't like to put him up there when

1663
01:15:53,400 --> 01:15:54,400
Speaker 2: people had that had.

1664
01:15:54,320 --> 01:15:56,920
Speaker 1: Good runs, incredible, but he had an incredible run.

1665
01:15:57,000 --> 01:15:58,800
Speaker 2: But outside of that, it was basically because you know,

1666
01:15:58,920 --> 01:16:01,240
Speaker 2: Selcia's had blew up and they were supposed to give

1667
01:16:01,320 --> 01:16:04,240
Speaker 2: him partial like ownership and stocks and things, and he

1668
01:16:04,439 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 2: was like, I want my ship. So that's good that

1669
01:16:07,200 --> 01:16:08,479
Speaker 2: you said that, because I think a lot of people

1670
01:16:08,520 --> 01:16:11,360
Speaker 2: want to be the face of a brand versus building something.

1671
01:16:14,960 --> 01:16:15,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1672
01:16:15,439 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 1: Absolutely.

1673
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:19,200
Speaker 2: I think about what's her name to the housewive, Bethany Frankel.

1674
01:16:19,400 --> 01:16:20,880
Speaker 2: A lot of people don't know that she started the

1675
01:16:20,920 --> 01:16:23,680
Speaker 2: skinny all the skinny stuff when you see Skinny Margarita's,

1676
01:16:23,920 --> 01:16:24,920
Speaker 2: Skinny Pop.

1677
01:16:25,240 --> 01:16:25,880
Speaker 3: All that stuff.

1678
01:16:26,600 --> 01:16:28,040
Speaker 1: He did that and she sold it.

1679
01:16:29,080 --> 01:16:31,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, So it's like stuff like that is really really

1680
01:16:31,439 --> 01:16:33,120
Speaker 2: important to start because I know a lot of people

1681
01:16:33,240 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 2: laugh at everybody that tries to like go into a

1682
01:16:37,040 --> 01:16:39,160
Speaker 2: different business, Like they see you for like an actor

1683
01:16:39,160 --> 01:16:39,960
Speaker 2: and like, oh, why are.

1684
01:16:39,840 --> 01:16:40,960
Speaker 1: You doing skincare somebody?

1685
01:16:41,040 --> 01:16:44,080
Speaker 2: But it's like when you're passionate about something and you

1686
01:16:44,160 --> 01:16:45,559
Speaker 2: know you can make it into a business that can

1687
01:16:45,640 --> 01:16:47,800
Speaker 2: not only help other people, but you know you can

1688
01:16:47,880 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 2: have a stake in it.

1689
01:16:49,439 --> 01:16:51,760
Speaker 1: No, we have to build wealth in our community free

1690
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:52,280
Speaker 1: for sure.

1691
01:16:52,360 --> 01:16:53,640
Speaker 4: I mean cause I feel like I got a lot

1692
01:16:53,680 --> 01:16:56,240
Speaker 4: of that backlass because I actually have a cosmetics brand

1693
01:16:57,040 --> 01:16:59,599
Speaker 4: and I have Loop Gloss, these lip liners, Loop Oil's

1694
01:16:59,600 --> 01:17:02,200
Speaker 4: all of that stuff. And when I first it's called

1695
01:17:02,280 --> 01:17:04,240
Speaker 4: music beauty. We always talk about it on the show

1696
01:17:05,680 --> 01:17:08,320
Speaker 4: Beauty Collection dot Com. I actually have it on it

1697
01:17:08,520 --> 01:17:11,800
Speaker 4: right now. But yes, So like when I first started it,

1698
01:17:11,920 --> 01:17:14,880
Speaker 4: I just got so many negative comments from people that

1699
01:17:15,000 --> 01:17:16,880
Speaker 4: I guess, you know, watch the podcast, follow us on

1700
01:17:16,920 --> 01:17:18,519
Speaker 4: social media. They were like, why are you starting another

1701
01:17:18,520 --> 01:17:21,200
Speaker 4: beauty brand? So many people have beauty brands already, and

1702
01:17:21,280 --> 01:17:23,360
Speaker 4: that's true, so many people do have. I feel like

1703
01:17:23,439 --> 01:17:25,600
Speaker 4: it's not really anything you can start these days for

1704
01:17:25,720 --> 01:17:28,479
Speaker 4: real that someone else hasn't already done. But it's not

1705
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:30,680
Speaker 4: about the fact that other people have doing it, I

1706
01:17:30,760 --> 01:17:33,240
Speaker 4: mean have done it. They're not doing what you're doing. Absolutely,

1707
01:17:33,439 --> 01:17:35,599
Speaker 4: And like you said, it's generational will.

1708
01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:37,280
Speaker 1: It's like you're trying to build something for your kids,

1709
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: for your legs and for me, so.

1710
01:17:39,240 --> 01:17:39,800
Speaker 3: I cut you off.

1711
01:17:39,840 --> 01:17:41,720
Speaker 5: But like for me, it was like if I'm gonna

1712
01:17:41,760 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 5: have a if I'm a skincare line, I'm going to

1713
01:17:44,080 --> 01:17:45,120
Speaker 5: the source.

1714
01:17:45,080 --> 01:17:47,600
Speaker 3: Of what heals right, yep.

1715
01:17:47,840 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 5: No one else in the States has the Dead Sea

1716
01:17:50,520 --> 01:17:53,599
Speaker 5: connect right exactly. So when you have it out here,

1717
01:17:53,680 --> 01:17:59,919
Speaker 5: you're bringing Israel, the spiritual Holy Land and great minerals

1718
01:18:00,200 --> 01:18:01,960
Speaker 5: to the States and abroad.

1719
01:18:02,080 --> 01:18:05,960
Speaker 3: So yeah, that was like, what's the difference. What makes

1720
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:06,320
Speaker 3: it different?

1721
01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:08,920
Speaker 2: Because you're tapping into an audience that like things that

1722
01:18:09,000 --> 01:18:12,280
Speaker 2: people probably care about that other brands don't pay attention to.

1723
01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:16,000
Speaker 2: Because I always say, I always tell Drea this, just

1724
01:18:16,080 --> 01:18:18,760
Speaker 2: because there's a McDonald's right here, they're still gonna be

1725
01:18:18,760 --> 01:18:21,400
Speaker 2: able to chick for late next door because these people

1726
01:18:21,439 --> 01:18:23,599
Speaker 2: want chicken nuggas, but these people want a chicken sandwich.

1727
01:18:24,240 --> 01:18:27,800
Speaker 2: There's an audience and a lane for everybody. So shout

1728
01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:30,120
Speaker 2: out to Favor. I'm gonna try it. I give an

1729
01:18:30,160 --> 01:18:33,640
Speaker 2: honest review please right now.

1730
01:18:33,800 --> 01:18:35,360
Speaker 1: I'm excited to try to I Cream.

1731
01:18:36,520 --> 01:18:40,559
Speaker 3: Anybody go to Favor skin f A v R skin

1732
01:18:41,000 --> 01:18:41,439
Speaker 3: dot com.

1733
01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:43,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're gonna put the link in the bio

1734
01:18:43,320 --> 01:18:45,439
Speaker 1: for y'all. Okay, so now we're gonna do you give

1735
01:18:45,479 --> 01:18:48,360
Speaker 1: good advice? I mean what yeah, you had you do

1736
01:18:48,479 --> 01:18:48,760
Speaker 1: get good.

1737
01:18:49,520 --> 01:18:51,840
Speaker 2: So we're gonna get into our favorite segment of the week.

1738
01:18:52,040 --> 01:18:54,680
Speaker 2: Make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

1739
01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:57,840
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. If you want your question answered on

1740
01:18:57,920 --> 01:18:59,600
Speaker 2: the show. If you're a Patreon member, make sure you

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Speaker 2: just put that in the subject line. You can skip

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Speaker 2: the line or whatever like that. And we're gonna get

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Speaker 2: into these questions today. All right, thank youre you got

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Speaker 2: question number one. Yes, let's see what we got today.

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Speaker 4: Okay, question number one. Hey, pretty ladies, I'm gonna make

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Speaker 4: this as quick as possible. I first want to say

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Speaker 4: I love y'all.

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Speaker 1: Down y'all not only make me laugh but help me

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Speaker 1: focus when I'm doing my work.

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Speaker 4: I'm currently in college and listening to y'all talk is

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01:19:26,760 --> 01:19:28,840
Speaker 4: so soothing to me and really gets me in the

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01:19:28,880 --> 01:19:31,560
Speaker 4: mood to be on my shit. Moving past that, I

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Speaker 4: want y'all's advice on a little something I have going

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Speaker 4: on internally. I personally don't feel pretty in my skin

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Speaker 4: in all aspects face, body, etc. And it's not because

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Speaker 4: I think I'm ugly. I mean, I've never had a

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Speaker 4: problem getting me in let alone anybody I've ever liked,

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Speaker 4: not in a cocky way at all, and I've always

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Speaker 4: gotten called pretty, you know, but I've never truly felt pretty,

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Speaker 4: Like truly pretty.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I think you could have something to do with my

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01:19:56,880 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 4: idea of pretty or however, I could use y'all as

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Speaker 4: use y'all's advice on what I should do in terms

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Speaker 4: of growing my self esteem, because I know low self

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01:20:05,280 --> 01:20:09,240
Speaker 4: esteem can bleed through leaving anybody and everybody to see better.

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Speaker 4: Yet dudes to pray on it.

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Speaker 1: Plus I want to give genuine bad bitch energy like

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Speaker 1: y'all and feel like I'm her and whatever. So what

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01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:21,320
Speaker 1: should I do? PS? I love y'all and live for y'all. Okay,

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Speaker 1: I think for.

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Speaker 2: Me, I love speaking on this topic because I think

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01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:28,479
Speaker 2: that's something that I used to struggle with. I talk

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Speaker 2: about it on the show all the time. But I

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01:20:30,479 --> 01:20:32,840
Speaker 2: think for me, you really have to pour into yourself

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Speaker 2: and believe it. But I know that a lot of

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Speaker 2: my bad bitches, my bad bitchness quote unquote, doesn't even

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Speaker 2: come from what's on the outside on the physical, like

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Speaker 2: it comes from within me and how I truly feel

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Speaker 2: about myself, Like I know the beauty of me within

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Speaker 2: spills out. So it's just kind of like me looking

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01:20:50,760 --> 01:20:52,760
Speaker 2: this good is just icing on the cake. So I

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01:20:52,800 --> 01:20:54,360
Speaker 2: think you have to look in the mirror and really

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Speaker 2: love yourself, like you have to love yourself because if

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Speaker 2: you don't really feel oh, I think I'm pretty. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I think people can see that, you know, like I'm

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Speaker 2: not being funny. Whether I'm dressed down or dressed up.

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Speaker 2: You cannot tell me I'm not the bad exhibision the world,

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01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:11,599
Speaker 2: Like I promise you you cannot. You really can't convince

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Speaker 2: me that I look anything else other than good. But

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Speaker 2: I truly believe that now because I tell myself that,

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Speaker 2: and I'm not just telling myself that, I really believe it.

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Speaker 2: And like I said, I pour into myself and who

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Speaker 2: I am as a human. So I think we have

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Speaker 2: to go beyond of like how you feel about yourself,

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01:21:27,479 --> 01:21:30,120
Speaker 2: because I think when you love yourself truly outside of

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01:21:30,160 --> 01:21:32,960
Speaker 2: your looks, that's gonna spill over into the confidence of

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Speaker 2: your looks.

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Speaker 3: So what did you like?

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Speaker 5: You know this because it's a lot I think a

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01:21:35,560 --> 01:21:38,040
Speaker 5: lot of I think a lot of women and men

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01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:41,040
Speaker 5: deal with this issue. Ye, So like for you, like,

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01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:47,439
Speaker 5: what did you consciously do to keep loving yourself?

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Speaker 2: I think for me, well, I think one one thing

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01:21:50,160 --> 01:21:52,160
Speaker 2: that helped me is like when I was surrounded by

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Speaker 2: a lot of my friends who would like be like, girl,

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01:21:54,840 --> 01:21:56,920
Speaker 2: you tripping and they would see how hard I was

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Speaker 2: on myself. So you have to be around people who

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Speaker 2: pour into you as well, but you can't depend on that.

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Speaker 2: So I think for me, like I said, I started

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Speaker 2: doing things to make me feel better about myself, going

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Speaker 2: to the gym, eating healthier, writing in my journal, like

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Speaker 2: little things support into myself, and I'm like going to therapy.

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Speaker 1: I journal every day.

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Speaker 2: I told Dre to start journaling and she was like, man,

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Speaker 2: I really like this is amazing because journaling let me

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Speaker 2: know how much I'm growing as a person, so I

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Speaker 2: don't even care. I look at my journal from last

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Speaker 2: year to now, and I was like, looking in the

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Speaker 2: mirror the other day, I'm like, girl, look at you

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Speaker 2: like cause even though I may look the same physically,

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01:22:36,439 --> 01:22:37,519
Speaker 2: I don't feel the same.

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Speaker 1: So in the mirror I'm seeing a different person. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not even gonna.

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Speaker 2: Lie se y'all, I swear to God, hand up to God.

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Speaker 2: I did my makeup this morning, and I said, oh,

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Speaker 2: you ate that like I do.

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Speaker 1: Like, sometimes you really got to look at yourself in

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Speaker 1: the mirror and be like, damn, bitch, you look good.

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Speaker 2: I always speak life in to myself like I speak,

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01:22:57,200 --> 01:22:59,599
Speaker 2: I talk to myself in the mirror and I speak

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Speaker 2: life to myself like like I said, can't nobody tell

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Speaker 2: me I'm not that girl? So I think that's important

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Speaker 2: to really speak life into yourself and surround yourself the

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Speaker 2: people who don't make you feel less than.

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Speaker 5: That's a big, big because there's a lot of jealousy

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01:23:13,280 --> 01:23:16,240
Speaker 5: that you don't know that people going through because they

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01:23:16,320 --> 01:23:17,840
Speaker 5: mad at their own life, you know.

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Speaker 3: So you got to have discernment for friendship well, because

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Speaker 3: absolutely the.

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Speaker 5: First three, the closest three people to you are the

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Speaker 5: people that affect your life the most and the most

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01:23:28,040 --> 01:23:30,200
Speaker 5: you grow from. And then to piggyback of all the

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Speaker 5: dope things you said, like also spiritually, like spend time

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01:23:35,200 --> 01:23:37,160
Speaker 5: again And it's not for everybody, but I hope it

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01:23:37,200 --> 01:23:40,160
Speaker 5: will be. But spend time with God, you know, like

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01:23:40,840 --> 01:23:44,920
Speaker 5: if it's read like for me, reading the Bible and

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Speaker 5: simplifying it in a way that I can read it

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01:23:47,240 --> 01:23:49,720
Speaker 5: like a book has changed my life and added a

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Speaker 5: certain type of piece before everything. And then on top

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01:23:53,720 --> 01:23:57,000
Speaker 5: of that, everything you said, everything you're saying, because it

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01:23:57,120 --> 01:23:59,200
Speaker 5: starts with that source. Man, like a lot of us

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01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:02,719
Speaker 5: are so discant acted because a lot of peace lies

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01:24:03,000 --> 01:24:05,280
Speaker 5: with God, you know, genuinely, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 2: So, and just to add a little bit, because I

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01:24:08,320 --> 01:24:10,800
Speaker 2: think a lot of times it'll be a woman that

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01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 2: she probably thinks is a bad bitch. You talk to

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01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:17,000
Speaker 2: them and they are so empty they don't even feel

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01:24:17,080 --> 01:24:18,960
Speaker 2: this way being a bad bitch.

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Speaker 1: More is like an aura.

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01:24:21,080 --> 01:24:23,160
Speaker 2: How many beautiful women that you're probably looking at on

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Speaker 2: Instagram got it together?

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Speaker 1: I tell you? Life falling apart?

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Speaker 3: Yes that's yeah. Yeah, And what makes it worse? We

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Speaker 3: gotta kill comparison.

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Speaker 5: Yes, that's what I was gonna say, God, comparison, oldest

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01:24:42,000 --> 01:24:44,120
Speaker 5: person got this amount of following this, this, this, she

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Speaker 5: got a new back.

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Speaker 3: But he Yo, that is the road to destruction.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely.

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Speaker 5: And they'll make you feel like it makes you feel

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Speaker 5: like like everything you're doing, no matter when you're doing

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01:24:56,320 --> 01:24:58,720
Speaker 5: dope things yourself exactly, you know what I mean. So

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01:24:59,240 --> 01:25:03,920
Speaker 5: I feel like foremo is counterproductive, yo. Like that thing

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01:25:04,120 --> 01:25:07,080
Speaker 5: is deadly to people because it makes you not appreciate

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Speaker 5: the moment.

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Speaker 3: It makes you not appreciate where you are.

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Speaker 5: It makes you fearful of I'm never gonna get That

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01:25:15,160 --> 01:25:18,240
Speaker 5: makes you doubt the validity of how lit you are.

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Speaker 3: So once we kill that too, that's a big thing. Fact.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure. I just think that to piggyback off

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Speaker 1: of what you just said, comparison is the thief of joy.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And like, once you comes to terms with the

1885
01:25:30,840 --> 01:25:34,880
Speaker 4: fact that you're never gonna be anybody but you, you

1886
01:25:35,000 --> 01:25:36,720
Speaker 4: can't be anybody else like you're you.

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01:25:36,880 --> 01:25:38,840
Speaker 1: That's who you're gonna be until you leave this earth.

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01:25:38,960 --> 01:25:41,640
Speaker 4: So you might as well pour into yourself and do

1889
01:25:41,840 --> 01:25:44,160
Speaker 4: things that are going to make you a better person.

1890
01:25:44,200 --> 01:25:46,600
Speaker 1: If you're unhappy with the way you look, work on that,

1891
01:25:47,200 --> 01:25:47,880
Speaker 1: go to the gym.

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01:25:48,240 --> 01:25:50,200
Speaker 4: I know a lot of people aren't advocates for surgery,

1893
01:25:50,240 --> 01:25:51,560
Speaker 4: but I feel like, if that's what you want to do,

1894
01:25:51,640 --> 01:25:52,439
Speaker 4: if that's what's going to.

1895
01:25:52,479 --> 01:25:53,560
Speaker 1: Make you feel better, do that.

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01:25:54,120 --> 01:25:56,719
Speaker 4: If you feel like you need to get more spiritually connected,

1897
01:25:56,920 --> 01:25:59,280
Speaker 4: get more spiritually connects it, start going to church, start

1898
01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:01,880
Speaker 4: praying more like LEXI was staying writing your journal. Start

1899
01:26:01,920 --> 01:26:04,479
Speaker 4: working on yourself on the inside too, because the outside

1900
01:26:04,600 --> 01:26:05,040
Speaker 4: is only a.

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01:26:05,160 --> 01:26:06,240
Speaker 1: Small portion.

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Speaker 4: And now nobody really gives the fuck for real, Like,

1903
01:26:10,439 --> 01:26:12,680
Speaker 4: if people meet you and you beautiful, people might be

1904
01:26:12,800 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 4: excited to see you on the internet and be like,

1905
01:26:14,360 --> 01:26:16,120
Speaker 4: oh my gosh, she's so beautiful. But then they meet

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01:26:16,120 --> 01:26:18,519
Speaker 4: you in person and you have no substance, You don't

1907
01:26:18,520 --> 01:26:19,519
Speaker 4: have shit to talk about.

1908
01:26:19,920 --> 01:26:21,479
Speaker 1: You boring as fuck? Are you mean?

1909
01:26:21,600 --> 01:26:26,719
Speaker 4: You got a bad Nobody cares how cute you are anymore?

1910
01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:28,600
Speaker 4: This shit doesn't really matter. You need to work on

1911
01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:32,240
Speaker 4: yourself internally and realize you cannot be anybody else, So

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01:26:32,360 --> 01:26:33,360
Speaker 4: why not love on me?

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01:26:33,720 --> 01:26:38,320
Speaker 1: You know you better preach preacher, you know, mean poor

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01:26:38,520 --> 01:26:39,519
Speaker 1: to the people. Y'all?

1915
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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, So question number two it says, hey, y'all

1916
01:26:44,040 --> 01:26:46,479
Speaker 2: very happy to see ts Madison on the show. I

1917
01:26:46,560 --> 01:26:48,400
Speaker 2: know we comment all the time who we want to

1918
01:26:48,439 --> 01:26:51,160
Speaker 2: see on the couch, but who is one person y'all

1919
01:26:51,240 --> 01:26:51,880
Speaker 2: really want.

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Speaker 1: As a guest? Meg and Beyonce?

1921
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Speaker 2: You know what, I'm gonna get a little deeper into

1922
01:26:59,040 --> 01:27:02,240
Speaker 2: this question just because, like I said, for me, I

1923
01:27:02,360 --> 01:27:06,400
Speaker 2: always have full circle moments. So I think one thing

1924
01:27:06,520 --> 01:27:09,439
Speaker 2: I praised me and you for is like we was like, Okay,

1925
01:27:09,520 --> 01:27:11,840
Speaker 2: we're not touring this year and we're focused on getting

1926
01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:14,080
Speaker 2: the guests that we want, and you are a person

1927
01:27:14,120 --> 01:27:16,080
Speaker 2: that we brought up in conversations, like we got to

1928
01:27:16,080 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 2: get roal Teemy Wiz Khalif and we had Wiz a.

1929
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Speaker 1: Few weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: And I told a story on my Live last night

1931
01:27:23,320 --> 01:27:25,479
Speaker 2: and they asked me the same question. They were like,

1932
01:27:25,520 --> 01:27:27,040
Speaker 2: who do you want? I said the same thing. I said,

1933
01:27:27,080 --> 01:27:29,920
Speaker 2: I want Meg. I would love to have Solune. Yeah,

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01:27:29,960 --> 01:27:32,040
Speaker 2: I would love to have I said eventually one day, Yes,

1935
01:27:32,080 --> 01:27:33,960
Speaker 2: I want to have like an Angela bassett. I want

1936
01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:36,599
Speaker 2: to have a viola because I think a lot of times,

1937
01:27:36,680 --> 01:27:38,599
Speaker 2: one thing about the poor Mine's couch is like, y'all

1938
01:27:38,600 --> 01:27:41,760
Speaker 2: are real people. So it's like we want to hear

1939
01:27:41,840 --> 01:27:43,639
Speaker 2: y'all story for real. Thata like I learned a lot

1940
01:27:43,680 --> 01:27:46,160
Speaker 2: about you today that you probably wouldn't talk about another

1941
01:27:46,240 --> 01:27:49,000
Speaker 2: platform work, you know what I'm saying. So I feel

1942
01:27:49,040 --> 01:27:51,439
Speaker 2: like one thing that me and Drea are blessed with

1943
01:27:51,640 --> 01:27:53,040
Speaker 2: is like we made people feel comfortable.

1944
01:27:53,320 --> 01:27:54,760
Speaker 1: We're not trying to get you on our couch to

1945
01:27:55,120 --> 01:27:56,840
Speaker 1: be mess to be besty. I don't want to talk

1946
01:27:56,880 --> 01:27:59,680
Speaker 1: about no tea. We ain't doing it. We're trying to

1947
01:27:59,680 --> 01:28:00,320
Speaker 1: have a good time.

1948
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Speaker 2: So I was telling a story about how I said

1949
01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:06,559
Speaker 2: angela basket and somebody was like, be for real, why

1950
01:28:06,560 --> 01:28:08,800
Speaker 2: would Angela basket, come on, poor minds. I said, that's

1951
01:28:08,840 --> 01:28:10,720
Speaker 2: crazy that you said that, because three years ago I

1952
01:28:10,800 --> 01:28:12,120
Speaker 2: told somebody I was like, man, I would love to

1953
01:28:12,160 --> 01:28:13,920
Speaker 2: have tea paint on my couch, and it was like,

1954
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:15,360
Speaker 2: why would tea paint come on your couch?

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01:28:15,760 --> 01:28:18,240
Speaker 1: T paint sat on my couch. I watched the interview too, Bud,

1956
01:28:18,800 --> 01:28:19,439
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying.

1957
01:28:20,680 --> 01:28:20,880
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1958
01:28:21,760 --> 01:28:23,880
Speaker 2: Again, That's why I say, even like a year ago

1959
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:26,679
Speaker 2: when we was when we started having conversations about Avenue

1960
01:28:26,720 --> 01:28:28,560
Speaker 2: on the show Bro team, He's on my couch, like,

1961
01:28:28,720 --> 01:28:29,439
Speaker 2: not playing with me.

1962
01:28:30,000 --> 01:28:32,280
Speaker 1: So I feel like it's a lot of people.

1963
01:28:32,120 --> 01:28:33,680
Speaker 2: We want to have on the poor my couch and

1964
01:28:33,720 --> 01:28:35,759
Speaker 2: it's all attainable, like it's possible.

1965
01:28:35,880 --> 01:28:36,680
Speaker 1: This episode was a.

1966
01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:39,920
Speaker 3: Testament to that absolutely, and to piggyback off of y'all. Man,

1967
01:28:40,040 --> 01:28:40,559
Speaker 3: we waited.

1968
01:28:40,800 --> 01:28:45,320
Speaker 5: I haven't done any podcasts in the last seven eight months. Wow, Yeah,

1969
01:28:45,320 --> 01:28:48,280
Speaker 5: because I wanted to wait to do it right with y'all. Yeah,

1970
01:28:48,479 --> 01:28:50,439
Speaker 5: and start the whole thing and make sure it was

1971
01:28:50,520 --> 01:28:53,200
Speaker 5: perfect with y'all because I love the content, I love

1972
01:28:53,280 --> 01:28:53,759
Speaker 5: your vibe.

1973
01:28:53,840 --> 01:28:56,360
Speaker 1: Thank you really appreciate that.

1974
01:28:57,400 --> 01:28:59,320
Speaker 4: So I know that you're that you were telling us

1975
01:28:59,360 --> 01:29:01,599
Speaker 4: what you're working on with your music? Are you working

1976
01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:02,839
Speaker 4: on anything with acting?

1977
01:29:03,200 --> 01:29:03,400
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1978
01:29:03,600 --> 01:29:10,080
Speaker 3: So okay, okay, legally I can't say I'm gonna tell

1979
01:29:10,080 --> 01:29:10,360
Speaker 3: you that.

1980
01:29:14,439 --> 01:29:14,879
Speaker 1: Exciting.

1981
01:29:15,640 --> 01:29:20,599
Speaker 5: I'm back on TV. We actually filmed my first episode

1982
01:29:20,680 --> 01:29:24,759
Speaker 5: back last week, and I'm excited.

1983
01:29:24,800 --> 01:29:24,920
Speaker 4: Man.

1984
01:29:24,960 --> 01:29:26,800
Speaker 3: I wanted to wait for the right time, you know.

1985
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:27,880
Speaker 3: And plus I wanted to.

1986
01:29:27,920 --> 01:29:31,920
Speaker 5: Give a little time so people could just take a

1987
01:29:32,000 --> 01:29:34,320
Speaker 5: back seat to Dre a little bit. I would have

1988
01:29:34,400 --> 01:29:36,960
Speaker 5: went into anything right away and be like, oh yeah,

1989
01:29:37,040 --> 01:29:40,720
Speaker 5: look on TV. I was like, let me sacrifice a

1990
01:29:40,840 --> 01:29:43,600
Speaker 5: couple even years if it needs to be, to just

1991
01:29:43,720 --> 01:29:46,960
Speaker 5: build the music, build the music, build the brand, build

1992
01:29:47,000 --> 01:29:49,720
Speaker 5: everything out, and then when it's the right time, then

1993
01:29:49,840 --> 01:29:52,400
Speaker 5: go back into it with fresh ears, fresh everything, you know.

1994
01:29:52,479 --> 01:29:57,720
Speaker 5: And so decided to sign up to to definitely get

1995
01:29:57,800 --> 01:30:01,680
Speaker 5: it going, uh this year and towards the end of

1996
01:30:01,720 --> 01:30:04,240
Speaker 5: this year, okay, And I'm excited, you know. And it

1997
01:30:04,320 --> 01:30:08,639
Speaker 5: goes and coordinates perfectly because when people see the reveal

1998
01:30:08,720 --> 01:30:11,720
Speaker 5: to my character on this show, it's like, I think,

1999
01:30:11,840 --> 01:30:16,760
Speaker 5: like two weeks before my album, my double album comes out.

2000
01:30:16,880 --> 01:30:17,880
Speaker 1: Oh it's perfect.

2001
01:30:18,000 --> 01:30:20,400
Speaker 5: Yeah, So it comes out in July, Okay, so it's

2002
01:30:20,479 --> 01:30:24,599
Speaker 5: perfect time in that, you know, revealed double album in July.

2003
01:30:25,200 --> 01:30:28,320
Speaker 1: You know perfect, no good, I wade. I can't wait

2004
01:30:28,320 --> 01:30:29,280
Speaker 1: to see you make on the scoreen.

2005
01:30:29,280 --> 01:30:30,519
Speaker 3: You're gonna love it, man, You're gonna love it.

2006
01:30:30,680 --> 01:30:33,360
Speaker 5: I'm excited if I didn't realize how much I love

2007
01:30:33,479 --> 01:30:35,240
Speaker 5: being on set like that because it's been such a

2008
01:30:35,320 --> 01:30:37,160
Speaker 5: long time consistently.

2009
01:30:37,400 --> 01:30:40,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, but when y'all see it, you're gonna love it.

2010
01:30:40,080 --> 01:30:40,240
Speaker 5: Man.

2011
01:30:40,439 --> 01:30:43,320
Speaker 1: Okay, well we ready. Yeah, we like a little tea.

2012
01:30:43,479 --> 01:30:46,200
Speaker 2: So thank you so much for saying on that count

2013
01:30:46,360 --> 01:30:49,000
Speaker 2: with us today. Y'all make sure y'all follow them on

2014
01:30:49,040 --> 01:30:51,320
Speaker 2: all platforms. As I said, y'all can find the link

2015
01:30:51,680 --> 01:30:56,000
Speaker 2: the favor below following Routini on all platforms, and we'll

2016
01:30:56,040 --> 01:30:56,920
Speaker 2: see y'all next week.

2017
01:30:57,520 --> 01:31:01,800
Speaker 1: By y'all be he lives.

2018
01:31:02,960 --> 01:31:10,240
Speaker 6: Can't wait to take yourr skill baby, No, no, no, no, indeed,

2019
01:31:11,400 --> 01:31:15,240
Speaker 6: I hide. Can't wait to see your.

2020
01:31:15,360 --> 01:31:25,599
Speaker 1: Ground baby, Jos. Leave my love, just leve my lover

2021
01:31:26,040 --> 01:31:31,439
Speaker 1: doing you please, baby, you gotta know.

2022
01:31:33,439 --> 01:31:39,639
Speaker 7: You gotta you know that I gotta join you your baby,

2023
01:31:40,479 --> 01:31:43,759
Speaker 7: Oh baby speak.

2024
01:31:45,800 --> 01:31:55,599
Speaker 1: We'll always for a texture, yeah, lady and the my high.

2025
01:31:56,600 --> 01:32:06,479
Speaker 1: Oh live neglect you hell babe and try break us down.

2026
01:32:07,600 --> 01:32:13,639
Speaker 1: Don't let that effect us. No, Babby, you just gotta

2027
01:32:13,720 --> 01:32:19,519
Speaker 1: let my love, let my love. Let my love is

2028
01:32:19,640 --> 01:32:28,800
Speaker 1: one hair lett it lit. You gotta know, you gotta nerve.

2029
01:32:29,560 --> 01:32:39,600
Speaker 1: You know that your doial just beaby Hey, I just

2030
01:32:39,840 --> 01:32:45,120
Speaker 1: let my love do you ho ass nigga? Yeah? Hell

2031
01:32:45,840 --> 01:32:49,120
Speaker 1: let me love, let my love.

2032
01:32:56,200 --> 01:33:03,160
Speaker 7: Hairt my love is one bay yeah baby.

2033
01:33:04,160 --> 01:33:08,439
Speaker 1: Period the same way at the start. Oh no, Shine,

2034
01:33:10,280 --> 01:33:12,439
Speaker 1: I don't know the words, y'all.

2035
01:33:12,520 --> 01:33:12,920
Speaker 5: Love y'all