Speaker 1: The second day. You know, sometimes in order to find
Speaker 1: the right person, you have to kiss a few frogs first.
Speaker 1: That explains why I'm banned from the amphibian exhibit at
Speaker 1: the aquarium.
Speaker 2: But it very literally.
Speaker 1: You have heard the phrase though, sometimes you got to
Speaker 1: kiss a few frogs before you find your prince or
Speaker 1: your mister.
Speaker 3: Right.
Speaker 1: Well, one of our listeners says that happened to her recently,
Speaker 1: and now she needs our help. So let's welcome to
Speaker 1: the show, Carolyn. What's up, Carolyn?
Speaker 4: Even second face with some reptiles, Carolyn, Amphibians, that's what
Speaker 4: they are. Yeah, that reptile is a different Sorry, reptiles,
Speaker 4: any small slimy animal.
Speaker 1: Come on over, Yeah, what happened? Why? Why did you
Speaker 1: say that you were kissing frogs?
Speaker 5: So I had a friend, sicks me up and she
Speaker 5: says she had a great guy for me. She thought
Speaker 5: we'd got along great.
Speaker 2: Did that work out for you?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 2: No, I don't think it ever does.
Speaker 5: I show up at the date, first of all, looks
Speaker 5: from not everything. But I walk over and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 5: this is who my friend is to scept with. Maybe
Speaker 5: he's got this amazing person. He's really funny, amazing personality.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you weren't initially attracted to him on first.
Speaker 6: I was not, but I'm trying to keep an open
Speaker 6: mind because my friends dicks me up for a reason,
Speaker 6: and then we start the date and I do not
Speaker 6: He did not say a word, but he's silent.
Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I would ask questions and it would be like
Speaker 5: one word answers.
Speaker 1: He was quiet and he listened to you. God, what
Speaker 1: a joy.
Speaker 3: He was not listening at all.
Speaker 5: She didn't talk at all. It didn't ask me anything
Speaker 5: about myself. I'm like asking about him. He's giving me
Speaker 5: these one word answers.
Speaker 6: So uncomfortable.
Speaker 5: I've never eaten so fast in my life.
Speaker 2: Were you like texting your friend under the table, like
Speaker 2: what the hell?
Speaker 5: No, because I was too busy shoving food in my
Speaker 5: face because I wanted to get out of there.
Speaker 1: I see a girl finish her food fast. Now I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be very self.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: She immediately asked for it to go.
Speaker 4: Okay, wait, why are you on for a second date
Speaker 4: update with a guy you didn't like?
Speaker 5: Oh, here's the thing. So I had that horrible date
Speaker 5: with my friends that my friend sicked me up with it,
Speaker 5: and so I thought I'm not gonna let my friend
Speaker 5: or anyone else pick me up. I'm gonna try this
Speaker 5: on my own because nothing can be worse than that date.
Speaker 1: Okay, you've taken dating into your own hands now.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 5: So then I went to online dating because at least
Speaker 5: then I can go by I find this person attractive, at.
Speaker 6: Least in their pictures.
Speaker 5: Yeahah, So there was a guy that we had been
Speaker 5: texting and he seemed to be like cool. Name is Scott,
Speaker 5: and we were Scott, Yeah, I we're saying like a
Speaker 5: fun banter with the tech.
Speaker 2: Okay, Scott, Yeah hot, Scott. I like it. Hose would
Speaker 2: you guys end up doing on a date?
Speaker 5: So mine grabbed a bit tea and it was, honestly
Speaker 5: like the universe was like, we know you had that
Speaker 5: crappy date, and now we are thing you've got like
Speaker 5: it magical, Like thea was blowing. He was asking me questions.
Speaker 6: I was asking him.
Speaker 5: Questions, like I kept ordering for food because I didn't
Speaker 5: want the date to end.
Speaker 4: Yeah, because it was your third entree that turned him off.
Speaker 1: Or maybe it was because your last day before set
Speaker 1: the bar so low for you. Oh yeah, thats just
Speaker 1: an average to below average guy was good enough.
Speaker 2: That's just all dating in general.
Speaker 8: Yea, how can he asked one question and you're like,
Speaker 8: oh my god.
Speaker 2: That's sweet, though, I mean, how did the date end
Speaker 2: for you guys?
Speaker 5: You know, he walked me to my car. We had
Speaker 5: a sweet kish. Yeah. So I was really hopeful. And
Speaker 5: now it's been over a week and I haven't heard
Speaker 5: anything that.
Speaker 1: Seems weird if it went as well as you said.
Speaker 1: I mean, looking back on the night, was there anything
Speaker 1: that was awkward or any any moment that could have
Speaker 1: stood out as something that could have been a red flag?
Speaker 6: Okay?
Speaker 5: Maybe, but to me, it's like a little red flag.
Speaker 7: Okay, what I had ordered.
Speaker 5: The chicken letuce wraps as an aptizer. Remember they're talking
Speaker 5: for so long, and then I ordered them again later
Speaker 5: forgetting that I had ordered them before. Oh my god, No,
Speaker 5: so he might, I don't. I mean, that's the only
Speaker 5: thing I can think of. I feel like you said anything,
Speaker 5: and I tried to play it off like.
Speaker 2: He didn't make fun of you in that moment.
Speaker 4: I would have probably made fun of you, like, man,
Speaker 4: you loved these lettuce wraps.
Speaker 5: He was kind of like, you know, you just had those,
Speaker 5: and I was like, oh my, oh my gosh, I
Speaker 5: totally did, but I'm.
Speaker 1: Having so much fun when you you forgot that. You like,
Speaker 1: how many things did you order in between?
Speaker 3: Then?
Speaker 7: Well, not a.
Speaker 4: Lot, But I think the better question is how many
Speaker 4: drinks did you have between them?
Speaker 5: Or god, we'll just say a lot of time in
Speaker 5: the past. So to me, it wasn't weird because.
Speaker 2: It's it's weird, but it's not a reason not to
Speaker 2: call something back.
Speaker 1: Right right, Yeah, I don't know.
Speaker 2: Maybe let us be a no go for you.
Speaker 1: You're like too healthy for me. Oh that's all singing.
Speaker 2: It could be like a diet might not get a
Speaker 2: dessert or something.
Speaker 6: You know.
Speaker 5: Honestly, it was probably adrenaline of like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 5: this guy's not a total bill. Maybe I was a
Speaker 5: little over anxious.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or maybe you're over eager and that could be a.
Speaker 1: Turn, but you might not think that.
Speaker 2: So well, he's not calling her back, so he's thinking something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's find out what he is thinking. I wish
Speaker 1: that we had the power to just tap into his mind,
Speaker 1: but we have to call him first, so.
Speaker 8: That'd be a cool segment.
Speaker 1: I know we're working on that technology till then they'll
Speaker 1: just do it the old fashioned way with a second
Speaker 1: date update. Get it done right after this. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: we're in the middle of your second date update with Carolyn, who,
Speaker 1: after being set up on a horrible date by her
Speaker 1: good friend, was really to match online with a great
Speaker 1: guy named Scott. Hot Scott Hot. Scott was good looking,
Speaker 1: he knew how to actually talk and ask questions, phenomenal
Speaker 1: kiss her. And now we're in the middle of your
Speaker 1: second date update with Carolyn, who, after being set up
Speaker 1: on a terrible date by her good friend, was relieved
Speaker 1: to match online. Oh did I say the exact same
Speaker 1: thing twice in the same segment, because Carolyn ordered the
Speaker 1: same appetizer twice without realizing it and thought maybe her
Speaker 1: memory could have come into question, or maybe Scott would
Speaker 1: have thought that was weird, or maybe.
Speaker 2: Her passion for lettuce Raps is just that strong.
Speaker 1: That's what you should have said to him, Carolyn.
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, that's so funny.
Speaker 2: I can't believe he hasn't called you back at all.
Speaker 3: No.
Speaker 2: I was just do you feel like maybe it was
Speaker 2: too good to be true?
Speaker 7: No?
Speaker 2: Okay, I like that you're holding onto hold.
Speaker 1: I can't tell you how many people have come on
Speaker 1: the show and been like the date was too good.
Speaker 1: There's got to be a reason for this. Let's find out.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call him right now.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, great, here we go.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is a Scott?
Speaker 3: It is who is calling?
Speaker 1: Good questions? Scott? I heard that you were good at
Speaker 1: listening and asking questions right off. We're proud of you, man.
Speaker 2: Excuse yeah, you tell them who we are.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Not as good as listening.
Speaker 1: No, we're a radio show.
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I'm sorry, I'm a little confused.
Speaker 1: We want to make you the star of this segment
Speaker 1: called second Date Update. Congratulations, Second date Update.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Have you heard of those before?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: And honestly, I don't really have time.
Speaker 1: Okay, well we'll make we'll make it really fast. We'll
Speaker 1: make it really fast. So you went you went out
Speaker 1: recently with one of our listeners named Carolyn. She told
Speaker 1: us she had a great time at dinner.
Speaker 3: With you, and then okay, yeah, yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh okay, So cutting me off there, that's a little
Speaker 1: bit rude. But you know what, I'm gonna give you
Speaker 1: the benefit of doubt because the time thing.
Speaker 3: Sorry, this is just kind of super weird.
Speaker 4: I mean, she just really liked you and you weren't
Speaker 4: calling her back, so she just wanted to know if
Speaker 4: she did something wrong.
Speaker 1: Okay, And she did tell us a little bit about
Speaker 1: your guys this night together, going to dinner and ordering
Speaker 1: a bunch of food and having a lot in common. Yeah,
Speaker 1: pretty vague, I know, but kind of what we do.
Speaker 3: We had a good time, you know, we do have
Speaker 3: a lot in common.
Speaker 2: Okay. That was her review of the night too. Was
Speaker 2: a kiss at the end of the night.
Speaker 7: Lovely.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we made out a little bit. It felt
Speaker 3: really nice and things are going great.
Speaker 1: That sounds good. I mean usually when we do these, though,
Speaker 1: there is something that was a little bit off, something wrong.
Speaker 2: Yep, there was to answer on all this.
Speaker 1: You mean, like the date, there was something off.
Speaker 3: No, it's just kind of uh embarrassing. It turned out
Speaker 3: that we had a little more in common than I
Speaker 3: would have liked to know.
Speaker 1: I sought.
Speaker 3: We had a great time. We did have a great time. Okay,
Speaker 3: she's she's a wonderful girl. She was kind of naturally hilarious.
Speaker 3: She ordered the same rap twice without realizing it. Yeah,
Speaker 3: that she let me have it like it was delicious.
Speaker 3: So I mean, I I totally get it.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, what's the part that weirded you out?
Speaker 3: So I got home and I was talking to my
Speaker 3: roommate about the date and that went great, and he's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 3: show me this girl. So I bring a profile and
Speaker 3: I show him, and I mean it's like his eyes
Speaker 3: just went wide his saucers and I was like wow.
Speaker 3: He was like, dude, he knew her. No, no, he
Speaker 3: didn't know her. It was kind of word I wish
Speaker 3: he had known her. But he was like, dude, do
Speaker 3: you not see it? Like she's your dopple bank and banger?
Speaker 2: Is that a doppel ganger that you bang?
Speaker 3: I was like, what what is a doppel banger? And
Speaker 3: he was like, bro, she looks exactly like you, Like
Speaker 3: you'd be banging yourself if you, I.
Speaker 4: Know, couples like that, Blonde couples look like blonde.
Speaker 1: Yea attracted to yourself.
Speaker 3: That's kind of what weird to be out at first.
Speaker 3: Was that put me in this self reflective mode, which
Speaker 3: was a little scary. But he was like, no, seriously,
Speaker 3: like put your your picture right next to hers. And
Speaker 3: I I put him side by side in like a
Speaker 3: pig stitchap and it was like a Twilight Zone episode
Speaker 3: that was so freaked out. But she's so nice. I
Speaker 3: didn't know how to be like, hey, so you're my
Speaker 3: long loft twin, so I can't date you.
Speaker 4: But I've heard that it's just like evolution, like people
Speaker 4: want to be attracted to people who look like them
Speaker 4: simply because they want their babies to look like them,
Speaker 4: you know.
Speaker 1: Like it's yeah, that's family what she's attracted.
Speaker 8: My husband does not look like me, but bro, if
Speaker 8: you think about it, she's also very big headed because
Speaker 8: she told us she thought you were hot.
Speaker 3: She's beautiful.
Speaker 2: Oh so you would make a lovely woman then, Scott.
Speaker 3: I mean, I've been told that I have nice lashes.
Speaker 2: I think you can still make this work if you
Speaker 2: can get over the I don't know.
Speaker 3: It's one of those things. At first, I would have
Speaker 3: been like, no, you're wrong, it's fine, we're gonna keep dating.
Speaker 3: But after seeing it side by side, I cannot unsee it.
Speaker 3: It's like a psychological trip. Man.
Speaker 1: I'm sure you guys look alike. That's one obstacle. I'm
Speaker 1: curious if you guys sound alike and we can compare
Speaker 1: voices right now because she's on the other line wanting
Speaker 1: to talk to you.
Speaker 3: Hi kidding me, Scott?
Speaker 7: Is this some type of joke? Like this is a joke.
Speaker 5: I don't I don't get it.
Speaker 3: It's not. I'm sorry, Look if you don't believe me, Like,
Speaker 3: are you serious? We take our pictures and right now
Speaker 3: each other send her the picture? You sorry?
Speaker 7: Uh huh. Here's the thing. I have friends that have
Speaker 7: look alike and you put in a picture and they
Speaker 7: look like But when you're actually in life, they don't
Speaker 7: look alike because there are personalities, they're animation. The way
Speaker 7: they talk is so different, and so I don't understand.
Speaker 3: I know, I know.
Speaker 7: I was like, maybe give it another chance to see
Speaker 7: and then maybe if we can't get past it. But
Speaker 7: I think when we're with each other in person, you'll
Speaker 7: see that the way that we act is different.
Speaker 1: I mean, we you have good chemistry. Is it because
Speaker 1: you're twins?
Speaker 2: No?
Speaker 1: What are you really worried about, Scott? Like, what's the
Speaker 1: worst thing that could possibly happen if you go out
Speaker 1: with Carolyn?
Speaker 3: People are gonna think that I make it out my sister,
Speaker 3: Like we'll be in the park.
Speaker 1: Now that might be a treat for some people, though
Speaker 1: I don't think of only the people that aren't gonna
Speaker 1: like it. Then there's people that will like it.
Speaker 8: Depends on what area of the country you're in.
Speaker 4: Scott All you have to do, listen, all you have
Speaker 4: to do is change your hair color. Yeah, I mean honestly,
Speaker 4: like people always say my husband looks like Jeffrey, and
Speaker 4: they don't look anything alike when they're in person.
Speaker 2: Sometimes their pictures look similar.
Speaker 4: But if one of them were to dye their hair blond,
Speaker 4: nobody would know it any different.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 1: I think this is the first time we've ever asked
Speaker 1: a listener to change their hair color on a date,
Speaker 1: just so that they could get another chance. Why stop there,
Speaker 1: Let's do cosmetic surgery too. How about a chin lift?
Speaker 3: We have had a lot more people.
Speaker 1: Yeah, true, we have a plastic surgeon.
Speaker 7: Maybe maybe then. I just think it's a shame to wait.
Speaker 7: That's good chemistry, because you just don't meet people you
Speaker 7: connect with like that, And if you're willing to just
Speaker 7: let that go because of a perceived stopple banger, then
Speaker 7: maybe you're not the person I thought you were.
Speaker 2: That's a challenge I hear a challenge right there.
Speaker 3: I am happy to continue our relationship, but like on
Speaker 3: a family level.
Speaker 1: You've never heard that before on the show. What does
Speaker 1: that mean?
Speaker 3: I would love to continue our relationship like as a friends,
Speaker 3: so that I could just bring you home to meet
Speaker 3: my parents because it will blow their minds.
Speaker 1: Wow, he wants you to meet the parents on day two.
Speaker 7: That's gonna be a hard pass. So I'm just gonna say,
Speaker 7: I guess I dodged the bullet and you're not. I
Speaker 7: thought you were.
Speaker 8: Imagine the first and our parents are like, Scott, did
Speaker 8: you make a life decision and tell it?
Speaker 1: Sounds like a sibling rivalry is happening.
Speaker 2: Okay, you are making it worse.
Speaker 7: Clearly, I'm not going to come out on top of this,
Speaker 7: so I'm just gonna just bow out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm sorry, Carolyn.
Speaker 1: That sucks.
Speaker 7: Thank you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, maybe next time, don't call a radio stations the
Speaker 3: figure things ou.
Speaker 7: Don't let your roommates who you were based on a picture.
Speaker 2: I think wins that burden.
Speaker 7: Thank you, Thank you.
Speaker 1: Is it too late to ask if you guys want
Speaker 1: to go out on a second date, we'll pay for it?
Speaker 1: Is that too late? Your family looking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know, people always tell me this show is an
Speaker 1: educational People say, you don't learn anything. We learned, Well,
Speaker 1: we just learned a new word today, doppel band.
Speaker 2: I could already apply it to a couple couples that
Speaker 2: I know.
Speaker 1: It's a little thing that actually happens where people hook
Speaker 1: up with someone because they look like the other gendered
Speaker 1: version of yourself.
Speaker 8: Version of yourself to me, Yeah, I wonder what female
Speaker 8: Jose looks like and how much they talk.
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't need two of you.
Speaker 1: But you know, it's kind of funny that he didn't
Speaker 1: realize it until his buddy told him. He didn't. He
Speaker 1: would never have noticed until somebody else pointed it out.
Speaker 6: You do.
Speaker 8: You can't get it out of your head.
Speaker 1: Yeah, And if you think about it, it actually is kind
Speaker 1: of good that his friend told him, because it's better
Speaker 1: to find out that now than later on down the road,
Speaker 1: Like as she's walking down the aisle and you're up
Speaker 1: on the altar and you're thinking, wait a second, am
Speaker 1: I walking towards myself an address?
Speaker 2: And I like it. I could still be a magical moment. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he missed out.
Speaker 1: Well, the bottom line, it didn't work out, but it
Speaker 1: doesn't mean it can't work out for you. You can
Speaker 1: always email the show. We'll call that person who isn't
Speaker 1: calling you back. You can hear all of our second
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