WEBVTT - Second Date Update Classic: Dopple-B

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<v Speaker 1>The second day. You know, sometimes in order to find

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<v Speaker 1>the right person, you have to kiss a few frogs first.

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<v Speaker 1>That explains why I'm banned from the amphibian exhibit at

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<v Speaker 1>the aquarium.

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<v Speaker 2>But it very literally.

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<v Speaker 1>You have heard the phrase though, sometimes you got to

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<v Speaker 1>kiss a few frogs before you find your prince or

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<v Speaker 1>your mister.

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<v Speaker 3>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, one of our listeners says that happened to her recently,

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<v Speaker 1>and now she needs our help. So let's welcome to

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<v Speaker 1>the show, Carolyn. What's up, Carolyn?

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<v Speaker 4>Even second face with some reptiles, Carolyn, Amphibians, that's what

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<v Speaker 4>they are. Yeah, that reptile is a different Sorry, reptiles,

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<v Speaker 4>any small slimy animal.

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<v Speaker 1>Come on over, Yeah, what happened? Why? Why did you

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<v Speaker 1>say that you were kissing frogs?

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<v Speaker 5>So I had a friend, sicks me up and she

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<v Speaker 5>says she had a great guy for me. She thought

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<v Speaker 5>we'd got along great.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that work out for you?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 2>No, I don't think it ever does.

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<v Speaker 5>I show up at the date, first of all, looks

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<v Speaker 5>from not everything. But I walk over and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 5>this is who my friend is to scept with. Maybe

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<v Speaker 5>he's got this amazing person. He's really funny, amazing personality.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you weren't initially attracted to him on first.

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<v Speaker 6>I was not, but I'm trying to keep an open

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<v Speaker 6>mind because my friends dicks me up for a reason,

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<v Speaker 6>and then we start the date and I do not

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<v Speaker 6>He did not say a word, but he's silent.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, Like I would ask questions and it would be like

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<v Speaker 5>one word answers.

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<v Speaker 1>He was quiet and he listened to you. God, what

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<v Speaker 1>a joy.

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<v Speaker 3>He was not listening at all.

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<v Speaker 5>She didn't talk at all. It didn't ask me anything

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<v Speaker 5>about myself. I'm like asking about him. He's giving me

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<v Speaker 5>these one word answers.

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<v Speaker 6>So uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 5>I've never eaten so fast in my life.

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<v Speaker 2>Were you like texting your friend under the table, like

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<v Speaker 2>what the hell?

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<v Speaker 5>No, because I was too busy shoving food in my

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<v Speaker 5>face because I wanted to get out of there.

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<v Speaker 1>I see a girl finish her food fast. Now I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be very self.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>She immediately asked for it to go.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, wait, why are you on for a second date

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<v Speaker 4>update with a guy you didn't like?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh, here's the thing. So I had that horrible date

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<v Speaker 5>with my friends that my friend sicked me up with it,

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<v Speaker 5>and so I thought I'm not gonna let my friend

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<v Speaker 5>or anyone else pick me up. I'm gonna try this

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<v Speaker 5>on my own because nothing can be worse than that date.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you've taken dating into your own hands now.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So then I went to online dating because at least

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<v Speaker 5>then I can go by I find this person attractive, at.

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<v Speaker 6>Least in their pictures.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeahah, So there was a guy that we had been

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<v Speaker 5>texting and he seemed to be like cool. Name is Scott,

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<v Speaker 5>and we were Scott, Yeah, I we're saying like a

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<v Speaker 5>fun banter with the tech.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Scott, Yeah hot, Scott. I like it. Hose would

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<v Speaker 2>you guys end up doing on a date?

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<v Speaker 5>So mine grabbed a bit tea and it was, honestly

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<v Speaker 5>like the universe was like, we know you had that

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<v Speaker 5>crappy date, and now we are thing you've got like

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<v Speaker 5>it magical, Like thea was blowing. He was asking me questions.

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<v Speaker 6>I was asking him.

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<v Speaker 5>Questions, like I kept ordering for food because I didn't

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<v Speaker 5>want the date to end.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because it was your third entree that turned him off.

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<v Speaker 1>Or maybe it was because your last day before set

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<v Speaker 1>the bar so low for you. Oh yeah, thats just

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<v Speaker 1>an average to below average guy was good enough.

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<v Speaker 2>That's just all dating in general.

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<v Speaker 8>Yea, how can he asked one question and you're like,

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<v Speaker 8>oh my god.

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<v Speaker 2>That's sweet, though, I mean, how did the date end

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<v Speaker 2>for you guys?

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<v Speaker 5>You know, he walked me to my car. We had

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<v Speaker 5>a sweet kish. Yeah. So I was really hopeful. And

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<v Speaker 5>now it's been over a week and I haven't heard

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<v Speaker 5>anything that.

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<v Speaker 1>Seems weird if it went as well as you said.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, looking back on the night, was there anything

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<v Speaker 1>that was awkward or any any moment that could have

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<v Speaker 1>stood out as something that could have been a red flag?

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<v Speaker 6>Okay?

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<v Speaker 5>Maybe, but to me, it's like a little red flag.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, what I had ordered.

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<v Speaker 5>The chicken letuce wraps as an aptizer. Remember they're talking

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<v Speaker 5>for so long, and then I ordered them again later

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<v Speaker 5>forgetting that I had ordered them before. Oh my god, No,

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<v Speaker 5>so he might, I don't. I mean, that's the only

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<v Speaker 5>thing I can think of. I feel like you said anything,

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<v Speaker 5>and I tried to play it off like.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't make fun of you in that moment.

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<v Speaker 4>I would have probably made fun of you, like, man,

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<v Speaker 4>you loved these lettuce wraps.

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<v Speaker 5>He was kind of like, you know, you just had those,

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<v Speaker 5>and I was like, oh my, oh my gosh, I

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<v Speaker 5>totally did, but I'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Having so much fun when you you forgot that. You like,

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<v Speaker 1>how many things did you order in between?

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<v Speaker 3>Then?

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<v Speaker 7>Well, not a.

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<v Speaker 4>Lot, But I think the better question is how many

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<v Speaker 4>drinks did you have between them?

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<v Speaker 5>Or god, we'll just say a lot of time in

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<v Speaker 5>the past. So to me, it wasn't weird because.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's weird, but it's not a reason not to

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<v Speaker 2>call something back.

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<v Speaker 1>Right right, Yeah, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Maybe let us be a no go for you.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like too healthy for me. Oh that's all singing.

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<v Speaker 2>It could be like a diet might not get a

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<v Speaker 2>dessert or something.

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<v Speaker 6>You know.

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<v Speaker 5>Honestly, it was probably adrenaline of like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 5>this guy's not a total bill. Maybe I was a

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<v Speaker 5>little over anxious.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or maybe you're over eager and that could be a.

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<v Speaker 1>Turn, but you might not think that.

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<v Speaker 2>So well, he's not calling her back, so he's thinking something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, let's find out what he is thinking. I wish

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<v Speaker 1>that we had the power to just tap into his mind,

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<v Speaker 1>but we have to call him first, so.

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<v Speaker 8>That'd be a cool segment.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we're working on that technology till then they'll

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<v Speaker 1>just do it the old fashioned way with a second

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<v Speaker 1>date update. Get it done right after this. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we're in the middle of your second date update with Carolyn, who,

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<v Speaker 1>after being set up on a horrible date by her

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<v Speaker 1>good friend, was really to match online with a great

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<v Speaker 1>guy named Scott. Hot Scott Hot. Scott was good looking,

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<v Speaker 1>he knew how to actually talk and ask questions, phenomenal

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<v Speaker 1>kiss her. And now we're in the middle of your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update with Carolyn, who, after being set up

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<v Speaker 1>on a terrible date by her good friend, was relieved

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<v Speaker 1>to match online. Oh did I say the exact same

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<v Speaker 1>thing twice in the same segment, because Carolyn ordered the

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<v Speaker 1>same appetizer twice without realizing it and thought maybe her

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<v Speaker 1>memory could have come into question, or maybe Scott would

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<v Speaker 1>have thought that was weird, or maybe.

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<v Speaker 2>Her passion for lettuce Raps is just that strong.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you should have said to him, Carolyn.

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<v Speaker 4>Right, Yeah, that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe he hasn't called you back at all.

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<v Speaker 3>No.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just do you feel like maybe it was

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<v Speaker 2>too good to be true?

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<v Speaker 7>No?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I like that you're holding onto hold.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't tell you how many people have come on

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<v Speaker 1>the show and been like the date was too good.

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<v Speaker 1>There's got to be a reason for this. Let's find out.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call him right now.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, great, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Hey is a Scott?

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<v Speaker 3>It is who is calling?

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<v Speaker 1>Good questions? Scott? I heard that you were good at

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<v Speaker 1>listening and asking questions right off. We're proud of you, man.

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse yeah, you tell them who we are.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, we're brooking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Not as good as listening.

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<v Speaker 1>No, we're a radio show.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, all right, I'm sorry, I'm a little confused.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to make you the star of this segment

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<v Speaker 1>called second Date Update. Congratulations, Second date Update.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you heard of those before?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>And honestly, I don't really have time.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, well we'll make we'll make it really fast. We'll

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<v Speaker 1>make it really fast. So you went you went out

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<v Speaker 1>recently with one of our listeners named Carolyn. She told

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<v Speaker 1>us she had a great time at dinner.

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<v Speaker 3>With you, and then okay, yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh okay, So cutting me off there, that's a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit rude. But you know what, I'm gonna give you

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<v Speaker 1>the benefit of doubt because the time thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Sorry, this is just kind of super weird.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, she just really liked you and you weren't

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<v Speaker 4>calling her back, so she just wanted to know if

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<v Speaker 4>she did something wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And she did tell us a little bit about

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<v Speaker 1>your guys this night together, going to dinner and ordering

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of food and having a lot in common. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>pretty vague, I know, but kind of what we do.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a good time, you know, we do have

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<v Speaker 3>a lot in common.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay. That was her review of the night too. Was

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<v Speaker 2>a kiss at the end of the night.

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<v Speaker 7>Lovely.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, we made out a little bit. It felt

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<v Speaker 3>really nice and things are going great.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds good. I mean usually when we do these, though,

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<v Speaker 1>there is something that was a little bit off, something wrong.

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<v Speaker 2>Yep, there was to answer on all this.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, like the date, there was something off.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it's just kind of uh embarrassing. It turned out

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<v Speaker 3>that we had a little more in common than I

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<v Speaker 3>would have liked to know.

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<v Speaker 1>I sought.

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<v Speaker 3>We had a great time. We did have a great time. Okay,

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<v Speaker 3>she's she's a wonderful girl. She was kind of naturally hilarious.

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<v Speaker 3>She ordered the same rap twice without realizing it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>that she let me have it like it was delicious.

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<v Speaker 3>So I mean, I I totally get it.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Well, what's the part that weirded you out?

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<v Speaker 3>So I got home and I was talking to my

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<v Speaker 3>roommate about the date and that went great, and he's like, oh, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>show me this girl. So I bring a profile and

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<v Speaker 3>I show him, and I mean it's like his eyes

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<v Speaker 3>just went wide his saucers and I was like wow.

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<v Speaker 3>He was like, dude, he knew her. No, no, he

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know her. It was kind of word I wish

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<v Speaker 3>he had known her. But he was like, dude, do

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<v Speaker 3>you not see it? Like she's your dopple bank and banger?

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<v Speaker 2>Is that a doppel ganger that you bang?

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, what what is a doppel banger? And

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<v Speaker 3>he was like, bro, she looks exactly like you, Like

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<v Speaker 3>you'd be banging yourself if you, I.

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<v Speaker 4>Know, couples like that, Blonde couples look like blonde.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea attracted to yourself.

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<v Speaker 3>That's kind of what weird to be out at first.

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<v Speaker 3>Was that put me in this self reflective mode, which

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<v Speaker 3>was a little scary. But he was like, no, seriously,

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<v Speaker 3>like put your your picture right next to hers. And

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<v Speaker 3>I I put him side by side in like a

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<v Speaker 3>pig stitchap and it was like a Twilight Zone episode

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<v Speaker 3>that was so freaked out. But she's so nice. I

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<v Speaker 3>didn't know how to be like, hey, so you're my

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<v Speaker 3>long loft twin, so I can't date you.

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<v Speaker 4>But I've heard that it's just like evolution, like people

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<v Speaker 4>want to be attracted to people who look like them

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<v Speaker 4>simply because they want their babies to look like them,

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<v Speaker 4>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Like it's yeah, that's family what she's attracted.

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<v Speaker 8>My husband does not look like me, but bro, if

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<v Speaker 8>you think about it, she's also very big headed because

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<v Speaker 8>she told us she thought you were hot.

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<v Speaker 3>She's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh so you would make a lovely woman then, Scott.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I've been told that I have nice lashes.

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<v Speaker 2>I think you can still make this work if you

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<v Speaker 2>can get over the I don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>It's one of those things. At first, I would have

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<v Speaker 3>been like, no, you're wrong, it's fine, we're gonna keep dating.

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<v Speaker 3>But after seeing it side by side, I cannot unsee it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like a psychological trip. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you guys look alike. That's one obstacle. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>curious if you guys sound alike and we can compare

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<v Speaker 1>voices right now because she's on the other line wanting

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Hi kidding me, Scott?

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<v Speaker 7>Is this some type of joke? Like this is a joke.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't I don't get it.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not. I'm sorry, Look if you don't believe me, Like,

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<v Speaker 3>are you serious? We take our pictures and right now

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<v Speaker 3>each other send her the picture? You sorry?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh huh. Here's the thing. I have friends that have

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<v Speaker 7>look alike and you put in a picture and they

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<v Speaker 7>look like But when you're actually in life, they don't

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<v Speaker 7>look alike because there are personalities, they're animation. The way

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<v Speaker 7>they talk is so different, and so I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I know.

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<v Speaker 7>I was like, maybe give it another chance to see

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<v Speaker 7>and then maybe if we can't get past it. But

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<v Speaker 7>I think when we're with each other in person, you'll

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<v Speaker 7>see that the way that we act is different.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we you have good chemistry. Is it because

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<v Speaker 1>you're twins?

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<v Speaker 2>No?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you really worried about, Scott? Like, what's the

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<v Speaker 1>worst thing that could possibly happen if you go out

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<v Speaker 1>with Carolyn?

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<v Speaker 3>People are gonna think that I make it out my sister,

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<v Speaker 3>Like we'll be in the park.

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<v Speaker 1>Now that might be a treat for some people, though

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think of only the people that aren't gonna

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<v Speaker 1>like it. Then there's people that will like it.

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<v Speaker 8>Depends on what area of the country you're in.

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<v Speaker 4>Scott All you have to do, listen, all you have

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<v Speaker 4>to do is change your hair color. Yeah, I mean honestly,

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<v Speaker 4>like people always say my husband looks like Jeffrey, and

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<v Speaker 4>they don't look anything alike when they're in person.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes their pictures look similar.

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<v Speaker 4>But if one of them were to dye their hair blond,

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<v Speaker 4>nobody would know it any different.

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<v Speaker 3>You know.

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is the first time we've ever asked

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<v Speaker 1>a listener to change their hair color on a date,

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<v Speaker 1>just so that they could get another chance. Why stop there,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's do cosmetic surgery too. How about a chin lift?

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<v Speaker 3>We have had a lot more people.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, true, we have a plastic surgeon.

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe maybe then. I just think it's a shame to wait.

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<v Speaker 7>That's good chemistry, because you just don't meet people you

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<v Speaker 7>connect with like that, And if you're willing to just

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<v Speaker 7>let that go because of a perceived stopple banger, then

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<v Speaker 7>maybe you're not the person I thought you were.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a challenge I hear a challenge right there.

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<v Speaker 3>I am happy to continue our relationship, but like on

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<v Speaker 3>a family level.

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<v Speaker 1>You've never heard that before on the show. What does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean?

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<v Speaker 3>I would love to continue our relationship like as a friends,

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<v Speaker 3>so that I could just bring you home to meet

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<v Speaker 3>my parents because it will blow their minds.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, he wants you to meet the parents on day two.

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<v Speaker 7>That's gonna be a hard pass. So I'm just gonna say,

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<v Speaker 7>I guess I dodged the bullet and you're not. I

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<v Speaker 7>thought you were.

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<v Speaker 8>Imagine the first and our parents are like, Scott, did

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<v Speaker 8>you make a life decision and tell it?

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<v Speaker 1>Sounds like a sibling rivalry is happening.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you are making it worse.

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<v Speaker 7>Clearly, I'm not going to come out on top of this,

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<v Speaker 7>so I'm just gonna just bow out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm sorry, Carolyn.

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<v Speaker 1>That sucks.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, maybe next time, don't call a radio stations the

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<v Speaker 3>figure things ou.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't let your roommates who you were based on a picture.

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<v Speaker 2>I think wins that burden.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you, Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it too late to ask if you guys want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out on a second date, we'll pay for it?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that too late? Your family looking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, people always tell me this show is an

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<v Speaker 1>educational People say, you don't learn anything. We learned, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we just learned a new word today, doppel band.

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<v Speaker 2>I could already apply it to a couple couples that

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<v Speaker 2>I know.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little thing that actually happens where people hook

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<v Speaker 1>up with someone because they look like the other gendered

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<v Speaker 1>version of yourself.

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<v Speaker 8>Version of yourself to me, Yeah, I wonder what female

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<v Speaker 8>Jose looks like and how much they talk.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't need two of you.

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, it's kind of funny that he didn't

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<v Speaker 1>realize it until his buddy told him. He didn't. He

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<v Speaker 1>would never have noticed until somebody else pointed it out.

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<v Speaker 6>You do.

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<v Speaker 8>You can't get it out of your head.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, And if you think about it, it actually is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of good that his friend told him, because it's better

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<v Speaker 1>to find out that now than later on down the road,

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<v Speaker 1>Like as she's walking down the aisle and you're up

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<v Speaker 1>on the altar and you're thinking, wait a second, am

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<v Speaker 1>I walking towards myself an address?

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<v Speaker 2>And I like it. I could still be a magical moment. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>he missed out.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, the bottom line, it didn't work out, but it

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't mean it can't work out for you. You can

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<v Speaker 1>always email the show. We'll call that person who isn't

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. You can hear all of our second

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