1
00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:03,920
Speaker 1: It's too am.

2
00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:06,519
Speaker 2: I'm just getting me in about to check my message.

3
00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:11,200
Speaker 2: Nor it's called but my homies had some real collectors

4
00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,400
Speaker 2: say you love bring somebody and wants the bar of

5
00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,360
Speaker 2: money too with her. She don't hit me back something

6
00:00:18,480 --> 00:00:21,360
Speaker 2: it's funny. So I called her mother's house.

7
00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:24,880
Speaker 3: And pissa had she seen my baby? Rulled my six

8
00:00:25,040 --> 00:00:29,080
Speaker 3: around looking for the missing Later got back.

9
00:00:28,920 --> 00:00:32,840
Speaker 1: In, turn a TV on and called the news, you know, put.

10
00:00:32,840 --> 00:00:37,280
Speaker 3: My hand on my head, caught some soul confuts and

11
00:00:37,320 --> 00:00:44,320
Speaker 3: then I turned the TV down.

12
00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:45,400
Speaker 1: I thought, I welcome back.

13
00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:50,080
Speaker 4: Good mom's uh prince advisory, good mom's bad choices.

14
00:00:50,280 --> 00:00:55,880
Speaker 5: I'm Erica, I'm Mila, and today we have special special guests, y'all.

15
00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:00,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, girl, we got the Thick Podcast with us. Hey

16
00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:04,160
Speaker 4: introduced yourself. My name is Tabria Majors.

17
00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:07,480
Speaker 6: I'm Mindy. You can follow me at at. I go

18
00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:09,160
Speaker 6: by Mindy on all platforms.

19
00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:11,720
Speaker 1: Thank you. Get my followers up appreciated like that ship,

20
00:01:11,880 --> 00:01:12,360
Speaker 1: like that ship.

21
00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,600
Speaker 6: Oh and the Thick Podcast is our podcast and our

22
00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:18,000
Speaker 6: handle across all social media plat.

23
00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:18,760
Speaker 1: All of them.

24
00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:26,000
Speaker 6: Listen, our podcast page is more followers than my personal podcast.

25
00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:27,360
Speaker 1: Yeah.

26
00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:32,160
Speaker 4: Well thanks for joining us, of course, we're excited. It's

27
00:01:32,200 --> 00:01:34,959
Speaker 4: like it's like a fun crossover because you guys are Yes.

28
00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, we had.

29
00:01:37,520 --> 00:01:39,640
Speaker 7: So much fun yesterday too, bro, I was so high.

30
00:01:39,959 --> 00:01:42,160
Speaker 1: You know, we got fucked up, like too much too,

31
00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,560
Speaker 1: like a little sheds me.

32
00:01:44,640 --> 00:01:47,360
Speaker 4: The I was like when we started talking about black

33
00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:49,200
Speaker 4: history and I was like, what the am I talking about?

34
00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:56,360
Speaker 1: Well in Sebbuary anyway? I was like Eric, she'd.

35
00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:02,720
Speaker 8: Why try to dedicate one dot anyway?

36
00:02:02,840 --> 00:02:03,680
Speaker 5: Just like them?

37
00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:08,120
Speaker 1: No, I love thinking like I judge myself so hard.

38
00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:13,440
Speaker 9: I was like, retract that statement now too.

39
00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:18,080
Speaker 4: Marijuana okay, but it's okay because we have more. But yay,

40
00:02:18,919 --> 00:02:19,800
Speaker 4: that's just how we roll.

41
00:02:19,960 --> 00:02:21,520
Speaker 1: You're not that we makes me forget a lot.

42
00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:26,000
Speaker 4: I know I try usually like before, but I've got

43
00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:26,800
Speaker 4: a long day.

44
00:02:27,040 --> 00:02:29,000
Speaker 1: I didn't want to be an embarrassment on your podcast

45
00:02:29,080 --> 00:02:31,440
Speaker 1: yes day. So I was fucking really hard, like, don't.

46
00:02:31,240 --> 00:02:34,000
Speaker 9: Forget what you're gonna say just because.

47
00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:35,359
Speaker 1: You know, you know whatever.

48
00:02:35,400 --> 00:02:35,640
Speaker 10: Girl.

49
00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:38,320
Speaker 1: We all did great feedback.

50
00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:39,960
Speaker 7: Good.

51
00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,280
Speaker 1: I'm glad you guys are here. Yay, so are we?

52
00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,080
Speaker 1: Your house is beautiful. I'm so cute.

53
00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:47,400
Speaker 7: I wish you guys could see it.

54
00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:51,239
Speaker 1: It's like, I mean, they are oh so do you

55
00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:52,400
Speaker 1: don't post these videos?

56
00:02:52,600 --> 00:02:54,960
Speaker 7: We've posted like small clips like on stories.

57
00:02:55,600 --> 00:02:57,840
Speaker 1: But I heard now that on YouTube there's like a

58
00:02:57,960 --> 00:03:00,760
Speaker 1: content discretion. Oh no, no, no, well I think I think

59
00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:02,280
Speaker 1: we're too explicit. I think they should we talk.

60
00:03:02,320 --> 00:03:06,160
Speaker 6: We can't be on YouTube, they won't, they wouldn't advertising,

61
00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:07,679
Speaker 6: Ye can't monetize.

62
00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:08,640
Speaker 1: You still put it up there.

63
00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:08,880
Speaker 3: Yeah.

64
00:03:08,960 --> 00:03:10,320
Speaker 4: I just had a lot of people ask me if

65
00:03:10,360 --> 00:03:13,920
Speaker 4: we record, and I was like, should we be every week?

66
00:03:14,040 --> 00:03:16,760
Speaker 1: And we have yet it's really hard for residenting together.

67
00:03:16,840 --> 00:03:19,880
Speaker 5: Usually it's like we're barely making it here with our pajamas,

68
00:03:19,919 --> 00:03:20,480
Speaker 5: no makeup.

69
00:03:20,639 --> 00:03:23,160
Speaker 7: So but as you can see, we're baby free today.

70
00:03:23,200 --> 00:03:25,320
Speaker 4: This is like, actually this might be our first episode

71
00:03:25,360 --> 00:03:26,919
Speaker 4: we've ever recorded without our kids.

72
00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,519
Speaker 9: Really No, oh no, that's true because they came and

73
00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,160
Speaker 9: fillyos are.

74
00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:30,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, this is our.

75
00:03:30,760 --> 00:03:34,400
Speaker 6: First did I see with you guys?

76
00:03:33,800 --> 00:03:36,840
Speaker 1: They play in here and then we do like and.

77
00:03:38,880 --> 00:03:43,080
Speaker 4: That they make appearances all the time.

78
00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:44,480
Speaker 1: That's so cute.

79
00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:48,680
Speaker 9: Sometimes sometimes it's very much.

80
00:03:48,680 --> 00:03:52,000
Speaker 1: I have a headache. My own is so deep jumping jacks.

81
00:03:52,480 --> 00:03:54,400
Speaker 1: You know, we should have let them when day you

82
00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:58,600
Speaker 1: guys be able to take them. I didn't forget about

83
00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,280
Speaker 1: that request again, I can take Yeah.

84
00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:06,000
Speaker 5: I second, girl, girls don't get don't get a twict

85
00:04:06,040 --> 00:04:06,760
Speaker 5: because we'll go out.

86
00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:09,600
Speaker 1: What what are we doing? What are we doing? One

87
00:04:09,640 --> 00:04:11,080
Speaker 1: thing we do every time we have a chance to

88
00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:12,800
Speaker 1: go out.

89
00:04:12,640 --> 00:04:17,120
Speaker 5: Or that's awesome an option or Virgil. But we didn't

90
00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:18,520
Speaker 5: need to go to Sam's because we didn't go the

91
00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:19,000
Speaker 5: last time.

92
00:04:19,040 --> 00:04:20,880
Speaker 1: So you guys do mom stuff when you were without

93
00:04:20,880 --> 00:04:21,279
Speaker 1: the kids.

94
00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:24,120
Speaker 5: I don't know if the ship cubs considered moms fans club.

95
00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:30,800
Speaker 4: No, I knew they were talking about Sam's Club, and

96
00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:31,919
Speaker 4: I don't.

97
00:04:31,520 --> 00:04:37,320
Speaker 5: Know that Sam said the fir club, the book club club, like,

98
00:04:37,640 --> 00:04:39,880
Speaker 5: oh my god, Now can you imagine us taking a

99
00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:41,800
Speaker 5: day together the sandwich club?

100
00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:43,920
Speaker 1: Do we come off with that type.

101
00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:51,080
Speaker 11: Where she said Sam, oh Sam, foh my.

102
00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:54,040
Speaker 9: Foe dropped the heavy after you ready to go to

103
00:04:54,120 --> 00:04:56,120
Speaker 9: stas girl, we're.

104
00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:56,440
Speaker 10: Free and.

105
00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:03,120
Speaker 6: Eating the frozen food as Oh my gosh, Sam samples

106
00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:03,560
Speaker 6: aren't good.

107
00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,599
Speaker 5: I haven't been a Sam in like fifteen years.

108
00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:11,080
Speaker 6: Food for let's goal because the street because I was

109
00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,920
Speaker 6: just thinking if the roles were reversed, Tori and I

110
00:05:13,960 --> 00:05:17,080
Speaker 6: would take off from the kids and go to Sam's Club.

111
00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:19,960
Speaker 6: That I believe that that.

112
00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:28,040
Speaker 12: Finally No, we're going to Sam the strip.

113
00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:30,000
Speaker 1: Just waited until you guys are parents.

114
00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:34,320
Speaker 4: You'll be at Sam Steal nothing a non experience, a

115
00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,400
Speaker 4: SAP like you know what, my life is a PG

116
00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:36,960
Speaker 4: too much?

117
00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:39,400
Speaker 1: My little pony. I need to see someone ride.

118
00:05:39,640 --> 00:05:49,279
Speaker 13: Yeah, exactly, genuine yes, speaking of riding ponies, I'm gonna

119
00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:49,800
Speaker 13: ride Michael B.

120
00:05:49,920 --> 00:05:50,640
Speaker 1: Jordan's pony.

121
00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:55,640
Speaker 4: Oh so yesterday I got really I don't know what

122
00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:58,839
Speaker 4: I was thinking and damn, oh my god, she.

123
00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:00,560
Speaker 1: Sent any text like I don't know if she told

124
00:06:00,600 --> 00:06:02,240
Speaker 1: me like yeah, I just sent into Michael B. John's

125
00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:03,320
Speaker 1: Damn we.

126
00:06:03,160 --> 00:06:08,360
Speaker 4: Respond not yet knows like four hundred thousand the time.

127
00:06:08,400 --> 00:06:09,760
Speaker 6: You got to wait a couple of months because that

128
00:06:09,880 --> 00:06:13,279
Speaker 6: one girl did it, and I know everybody's doing it.

129
00:06:13,400 --> 00:06:14,120
Speaker 1: You have to wait.

130
00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,800
Speaker 14: You know what about that?

131
00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:20,080
Speaker 1: Would you like me to read? Read it? If you must, please?

132
00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:22,320
Speaker 1: I can't this bitch anything I thought. That was what

133
00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:24,760
Speaker 1: I thought. This was every part of that. I like it.

134
00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:25,440
Speaker 10: Please.

135
00:06:25,880 --> 00:06:28,920
Speaker 15: I was getting a new passport today and I still

136
00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:29,359
Speaker 15: reading it.

137
00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:29,839
Speaker 1: She said to me.

138
00:06:29,880 --> 00:06:31,040
Speaker 5: First of all, she told me this last week, and

139
00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:32,800
Speaker 5: I forgot to say, let me see a copy of that.

140
00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:34,440
Speaker 5: And I was hoping she did it. From the Good

141
00:06:34,440 --> 00:06:36,480
Speaker 5: Mom's Bad Choices, so it could be like a double.

142
00:06:36,240 --> 00:06:37,080
Speaker 1: Team, but she didn't.

143
00:06:37,520 --> 00:06:40,200
Speaker 9: They just tried to like scheme this person I like

144
00:06:40,480 --> 00:06:40,800
Speaker 9: to watch.

145
00:06:40,920 --> 00:06:44,400
Speaker 5: Erica was like, but I can maybe I can hold

146
00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,440
Speaker 5: somebody's legs. So I started reading it, and I really

147
00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,120
Speaker 5: laughed out loud because at first I thought it was

148
00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:52,880
Speaker 5: like someone writing to us but also named Erica.

149
00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,200
Speaker 1: But no, it's Erica to Michael B.

150
00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:58,479
Speaker 5: Jordan, And it was a little hunting like this, Hi

151
00:06:59,240 --> 00:07:02,600
Speaker 5: super long that you're actually read this. My name is

152
00:07:02,760 --> 00:07:13,280
Speaker 5: Erica and you've got my name is Erica, and I

153
00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,040
Speaker 5: never in all caps do this.

154
00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:18,640
Speaker 1: However, I woke up.

155
00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:24,040
Speaker 11: From that it's getting good dream, She's getting teap.

156
00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:24,880
Speaker 9: Are you guys ready for them?

157
00:07:25,640 --> 00:07:28,600
Speaker 5: However, I woke up from a dream this morning then

158
00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:31,400
Speaker 5: you were in and everything said I need to reach out,

159
00:07:31,560 --> 00:07:33,640
Speaker 5: and I'm all about going with what moves these days?

160
00:07:34,040 --> 00:07:38,040
Speaker 1: This emoji? No, what moves me?

161
00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:42,000
Speaker 9: What moves me these days? Sorry, Erica?

162
00:07:42,040 --> 00:07:44,239
Speaker 10: That was her live grammar.

163
00:07:44,960 --> 00:07:52,960
Speaker 9: Aside from being attractive and all that, yeah, we're not dead.

164
00:07:53,120 --> 00:07:54,560
Speaker 1: There's there's something about your.

165
00:07:54,440 --> 00:07:57,480
Speaker 5: Aura from what I've seen superficially and usually never tells

166
00:07:57,520 --> 00:07:58,200
Speaker 5: the full picture.

167
00:07:58,560 --> 00:07:59,960
Speaker 1: That makes me fit.

168
00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:03,640
Speaker 7: We get through this.

169
00:08:04,680 --> 00:08:08,200
Speaker 5: That makes me feel I mean, listen, that makes me

170
00:08:08,240 --> 00:08:10,200
Speaker 5: feel I should know you in some capacity.

171
00:08:10,480 --> 00:08:16,280
Speaker 1: Jesus, I sound like a creep. Ha ha, there's something.

172
00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:18,720
Speaker 9: In my head.

173
00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:22,240
Speaker 5: This sounded a lot smother loll laugh out loud anyway,

174
00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:25,679
Speaker 5: I said, Lol, don't judgment anyway. I'm just a woman

175
00:08:25,760 --> 00:08:29,280
Speaker 5: with a lot of passion, goalspice that intelligence that would

176
00:08:29,400 --> 00:08:30,240
Speaker 5: love fact.

177
00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:32,120
Speaker 9: Those are all facts, baby.

178
00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,040
Speaker 5: It's okay, intelligence that would love to take you to

179
00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,440
Speaker 5: coffee one day, not dinner, just coffee, because that's all

180
00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,160
Speaker 5: I pay for a nigga. I'll I know you all

181
00:08:40,200 --> 00:08:45,160
Speaker 5: on something else. If this never happens. Cool, but you

182
00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:46,680
Speaker 5: missed one hundred percent of the shots.

183
00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:50,640
Speaker 1: You don't shoot right, have a wonderful week. Heart emoji

184
00:08:51,640 --> 00:08:52,280
Speaker 1: the pink one.

185
00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:55,280
Speaker 5: I mean, honestly, it was so funny that it in

186
00:08:55,280 --> 00:08:57,920
Speaker 5: my head. I thought, who's on my list? I haven't

187
00:08:57,960 --> 00:08:59,520
Speaker 5: I tried my shot yet?

188
00:09:00,000 --> 00:09:00,640
Speaker 1: Shoot my shots?

189
00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:06,559
Speaker 6: When I shoot my shot, I keep it shorty. But

190
00:09:08,000 --> 00:09:10,040
Speaker 6: it's just no, It's just like a damn fine or

191
00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,640
Speaker 6: can't I bree your out? It's just something simple. Can't

192
00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:14,400
Speaker 6: I grew yourself?

193
00:09:14,559 --> 00:09:17,439
Speaker 1: I've done it. I'm creating a list.

194
00:09:17,640 --> 00:09:19,480
Speaker 7: I think now I feel like I should.

195
00:09:19,840 --> 00:09:22,680
Speaker 1: I should. It was great, it's do it again.

196
00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:27,280
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you can send messages.

197
00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:29,199
Speaker 1: That's amazing.

198
00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:32,760
Speaker 5: I be I feel like Instagram honestly know the six

199
00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,360
Speaker 5: degrees of separations all I think it's just like now,

200
00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:38,319
Speaker 5: it's like one anybody you've ever thought of, Like I'd

201
00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:40,319
Speaker 5: be like, okay, who's see listed? I can maybe like

202
00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:44,160
Speaker 5: have a chance with everybody is reaching their dams, but

203
00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:45,040
Speaker 5: it's it's doable.

204
00:09:45,040 --> 00:09:47,760
Speaker 6: Like that might be like you'd be surprised who reads

205
00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:51,079
Speaker 6: I've been successful doing that ship with people with like

206
00:09:51,520 --> 00:09:52,680
Speaker 6: millions of followers.

207
00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:55,959
Speaker 1: I'm not, but you.

208
00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:59,360
Speaker 6: Have a lot of followers back in the day, and

209
00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:03,000
Speaker 6: I not verified, So I don't know why they chose

210
00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:04,439
Speaker 6: to read my message.

211
00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:06,280
Speaker 1: Everybody reads through.

212
00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:08,760
Speaker 6: All of them, they read through all of that. They

213
00:10:08,840 --> 00:10:11,560
Speaker 6: don't respond. It's because it's not enticing enough or they're

214
00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:13,920
Speaker 6: just not pop what's.

215
00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:15,959
Speaker 5: A good enticing one? Like I would say, hey, there,

216
00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:20,640
Speaker 5: but that's it's just just damn fine. But I feel

217
00:10:21,800 --> 00:10:23,520
Speaker 5: all the time. I feel like that all the time

218
00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:25,480
Speaker 5: they don't want something else, like well.

219
00:10:25,280 --> 00:10:26,960
Speaker 6: No, because the thing is, I don't think men care

220
00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:30,679
Speaker 6: about how welly you are, unless you're like ha belly

221
00:10:30,760 --> 00:10:32,280
Speaker 6: laughs funny. I think it's just like.

222
00:10:32,280 --> 00:10:34,079
Speaker 5: I think the guys care about if he's a smart

223
00:10:34,120 --> 00:10:34,920
Speaker 5: ey smart eyes.

224
00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:36,640
Speaker 1: I don't think it matters. I think what matters is

225
00:10:36,679 --> 00:10:38,800
Speaker 1: what you look like. You can literally.

226
00:10:41,480 --> 00:10:44,840
Speaker 7: Totally they're totally like based off your looks period.

227
00:10:46,000 --> 00:10:48,120
Speaker 9: It's shallow.

228
00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:51,720
Speaker 6: I think I just said, hey, I think you're amazing

229
00:10:51,760 --> 00:10:53,160
Speaker 6: and I hope you have a wonderful day.

230
00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:55,240
Speaker 5: Corny is no, but you know what, I think I

231
00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,400
Speaker 5: did that. What's what's a big football player? They're like,

232
00:10:57,480 --> 00:11:02,240
Speaker 5: who is big in the black community? Marshall lens Okay Kirkpatrick.

233
00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:09,079
Speaker 6: Married, married, married, stating that girl.

234
00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:19,319
Speaker 14: He's married, sorry to learn named yeah the Resa radio host, Yeah,

235
00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:21,480
Speaker 14: oh no, yeah married.

236
00:11:21,559 --> 00:11:24,880
Speaker 1: That's why you even respond girl, I'm sorry. It was

237
00:11:25,040 --> 00:11:26,120
Speaker 1: more like long lines.

238
00:11:26,200 --> 00:11:27,960
Speaker 5: I was like, I really appreciate what you're doing in

239
00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,480
Speaker 5: the community, hoping it was a reach, but like, sorry,

240
00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:31,520
Speaker 5: I don't know you're married in that way.

241
00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:32,840
Speaker 1: You know, I'm still a compliments.

242
00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:36,719
Speaker 6: He probably doesn't read yeah, and if he does, he

243
00:11:37,160 --> 00:11:38,240
Speaker 6: probably reads the delete.

244
00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,960
Speaker 5: There's this guy Ricky you and I'm sure nobody else is.

245
00:11:40,960 --> 00:11:42,719
Speaker 5: Really I'm gonna try. I met him one time, and

246
00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:44,080
Speaker 5: I feel like it was a match.

247
00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:48,000
Speaker 1: Miss. So he's the fast, furious. He's the fast and furious.

248
00:11:48,040 --> 00:11:51,640
Speaker 1: He's fine. Heals Asian guy. You know who's there. I'm

249
00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:56,679
Speaker 1: gonna slip in. Yeah, y guard. Yeah he's also baby

250
00:11:56,760 --> 00:12:01,640
Speaker 1: Daddy said, I don't really want to slip into Dnna's

251
00:12:01,800 --> 00:12:09,840
Speaker 1: d m J then actually has a tribe of girlfriend Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah,

252
00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,400
Speaker 1: I know as we speak, yeah, I kind of love it.

253
00:12:13,559 --> 00:12:17,719
Speaker 1: But he respond, yeah, I'm gonna post like four really

254
00:12:17,760 --> 00:12:21,200
Speaker 1: hot pictures and then it's already really hot. It's fine

255
00:12:21,559 --> 00:12:22,000
Speaker 1: for sure.

256
00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:26,880
Speaker 6: This is my shot because now that I know, listen

257
00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:30,040
Speaker 6: and make it funny, make it cute, like I'm not African,

258
00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:30,960
Speaker 6: but I'll make you some food.

259
00:12:33,520 --> 00:12:33,720
Speaker 14: F you.

260
00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:36,760
Speaker 16: J O l l O M.

261
00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,840
Speaker 1: But I can't tell. I spent eight.

262
00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:42,000
Speaker 6: Hours researching how to make the right, how to make

263
00:12:45,360 --> 00:12:49,320
Speaker 6: what I had to dream about you, Aura, I can

264
00:12:49,400 --> 00:12:49,800
Speaker 6: tell that we.

265
00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:56,480
Speaker 7: Right now the message right, I can't let this, you can't.

266
00:12:56,360 --> 00:13:00,280
Speaker 1: Let this a girlfriend. He's a girlfriend. Yeah, girlfriend, she's white.

267
00:13:04,160 --> 00:13:07,360
Speaker 5: I was gonna do it off air like I were

268
00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:10,920
Speaker 5: taping sometimes my white friends. Like when Idris got married,

269
00:13:10,960 --> 00:13:12,520
Speaker 5: she was like Oh my god, I just got a gage.

270
00:13:12,800 --> 00:13:14,200
Speaker 5: She's white dates only black guys.

271
00:13:14,240 --> 00:13:19,160
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm like, well the picture, I delete it.

272
00:13:20,920 --> 00:13:22,120
Speaker 6: You have to hit are you show?

273
00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:24,719
Speaker 4: Are you sure it's like the same girlfriend? Because he

274
00:13:25,040 --> 00:13:26,240
Speaker 4: had a white girl from a long time ago.

275
00:13:26,440 --> 00:13:29,840
Speaker 6: No, this this is he like after the Wakanda madness.

276
00:13:29,920 --> 00:13:32,079
Speaker 6: She's been with him at all the parties and even.

277
00:13:32,280 --> 00:13:34,240
Speaker 1: I think I think I think he likes this is girl.

278
00:13:34,360 --> 00:13:42,319
Speaker 1: Good girl. Delete them right, please her up, herry up? Okay,

279
00:13:43,679 --> 00:13:45,400
Speaker 1: it uncends.

280
00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:53,559
Speaker 12: Oh my god, stars, y'all geese. I was in the

281
00:13:53,679 --> 00:14:00,280
Speaker 12: DMV you know, early in the morning that I don't

282
00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:02,640
Speaker 12: know what the This was like a dissertation.

283
00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:05,959
Speaker 1: Girl.

284
00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:09,679
Speaker 7: For those of you care, I'll be posting the I

285
00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:12,559
Speaker 7: was like, I'm gonna post like you put in your story.

286
00:14:13,280 --> 00:14:16,800
Speaker 1: I have it still, so I am gonna I'm gonna

287
00:14:16,800 --> 00:14:18,079
Speaker 1: say things you don't do.

288
00:14:18,520 --> 00:14:20,600
Speaker 9: Yeah, shoot your shots, not like this, but.

289
00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:23,840
Speaker 1: You have to find like a two sentence or like

290
00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,720
Speaker 1: oh yeah, and then you leave you know something shot.

291
00:14:26,840 --> 00:14:28,720
Speaker 4: I'm going to do exactly what she said. I think

292
00:14:28,760 --> 00:14:31,840
Speaker 4: you're amazing to have a wonderful day. Yeah, I think strong.

293
00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:35,320
Speaker 6: You know it's strong because because it's like you you

294
00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,920
Speaker 6: shoot the shot and then you walk off the exactly

295
00:14:38,120 --> 00:14:40,320
Speaker 6: and so it's like if you like, yeah, you're not

296
00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:41,480
Speaker 6: like sitting there waiting.

297
00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:43,560
Speaker 1: You shoot the shot and you go home.

298
00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:46,520
Speaker 4: I can't believe that there's damn etiquette, Like there's like actual,

299
00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:49,640
Speaker 4: Like do you want someone needs to write a book

300
00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:50,960
Speaker 4: how to slide into the damns?

301
00:14:52,080 --> 00:14:57,120
Speaker 6: Someone already Brittany is doing that. A bundle of Brittany.

302
00:14:57,240 --> 00:15:01,960
Speaker 6: The girl is always like posing and like moving around, energetic.

303
00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,240
Speaker 6: She's a cheerleading She looks like mm hmm. I was

304
00:15:06,240 --> 00:15:07,920
Speaker 6: gonna say that she used to be one. I know

305
00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,120
Speaker 6: she played soccer, but she's like this I G girl

306
00:15:11,560 --> 00:15:14,280
Speaker 6: and she's she's not writing a book on like how

307
00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:16,120
Speaker 6: to slide and dance, but she's writing a book on.

308
00:15:16,240 --> 00:15:17,200
Speaker 1: Like who she's been with.

309
00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:23,000
Speaker 6: Yeah sort of, but she became big off of Instagram

310
00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:25,000
Speaker 6: alone and like she was dating a little UZI for

311
00:15:25,080 --> 00:15:26,360
Speaker 6: a little bit after we broke.

312
00:15:26,320 --> 00:15:31,440
Speaker 1: Up with such a nice guy. He seems like just

313
00:15:31,560 --> 00:15:34,720
Speaker 1: like like I would. I wouldn't funk with him with him,

314
00:15:34,760 --> 00:15:36,720
Speaker 1: but I would love to be friends with him. He

315
00:15:36,720 --> 00:15:41,840
Speaker 1: would go shocking together, amazing, it would be He's like

316
00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:47,280
Speaker 1: the bad bits aspire to be. She's like a work girl.

317
00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:51,280
Speaker 1: I think she sold a fitness plan. But it's really

318
00:15:51,360 --> 00:15:55,320
Speaker 1: but I think so, I think I know.

319
00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:05,240
Speaker 4: That's sorry, Okay, I'm gonna close that. No, I thought

320
00:16:05,280 --> 00:16:07,040
Speaker 4: she didn't have a door on. It looks like no,

321
00:16:07,360 --> 00:16:08,560
Speaker 4: let me, wasn't wearing anything.

322
00:16:08,600 --> 00:16:16,600
Speaker 1: I was like, whoa, what does look like? Damn right,

323
00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:17,440
Speaker 1: that's that's quite.

324
00:16:18,080 --> 00:16:20,360
Speaker 6: That's why this has so many views because people thought

325
00:16:20,440 --> 00:16:22,840
Speaker 6: she was naked. Yeah, they're like, wait, hold on, what's

326
00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,320
Speaker 6: going on right, because.

327
00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:31,600
Speaker 1: It's not that tomboy. Yeah, it looks like that's her ass.

328
00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:35,640
Speaker 1: Yeah okay, oh yeah, I don't know. It might be

329
00:16:35,720 --> 00:16:37,440
Speaker 1: I know her booths. I think her both a fake.

330
00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,520
Speaker 1: I mean, you can't even but she's really good at

331
00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:44,000
Speaker 1: like getting people's attention. Yeah, because it's controversial.

332
00:16:45,280 --> 00:16:48,000
Speaker 6: Yeah, you have to watch her video. I don't want to,

333
00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:49,800
Speaker 6: like what do I want to play them right now

334
00:16:49,800 --> 00:16:52,560
Speaker 6: because we're recording. But when we get off the air, definitely,

335
00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,200
Speaker 6: because she's like, like, you know, Nicki Minaj be like,

336
00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,280
Speaker 6: because she's like, you know, what's the gircy store day?

337
00:17:00,520 --> 00:17:03,800
Speaker 6: And then a sudden that was just like literally and

338
00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,359
Speaker 6: knocking down up and down. You don't know what to expect.

339
00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:09,280
Speaker 6: She's kind of scary. It's a it's a life that's pretty,

340
00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,760
Speaker 6: it's weird. Yeah, but she's the ultimate thirst trap and

341
00:17:12,800 --> 00:17:16,840
Speaker 6: she's writing a book about all the rappers and like athletes.

342
00:17:16,880 --> 00:17:20,520
Speaker 6: She's successfully trapped and she's talking about their like wrapped.

343
00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:22,720
Speaker 1: Like god just as Yeah.

344
00:17:24,600 --> 00:17:28,440
Speaker 4: Well, speaking of her and just marriage and monogamy and

345
00:17:28,640 --> 00:17:31,920
Speaker 4: fucking people in general, I wanted to talk about what

346
00:17:32,160 --> 00:17:35,080
Speaker 4: you guys, how you guys do you believe in monogamy

347
00:17:35,200 --> 00:17:36,280
Speaker 4: or what do you believe?

348
00:17:36,680 --> 00:17:41,600
Speaker 1: What's your definition of monogamy? I'm sorry, I'm just looking

349
00:17:41,640 --> 00:17:42,400
Speaker 1: at this, buddy.

350
00:17:47,000 --> 00:17:47,439
Speaker 14: It's a.

351
00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:50,160
Speaker 1: Are you sure?

352
00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:50,600
Speaker 10: Yeah?

353
00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:57,800
Speaker 6: Okay, they just make noises that make me nervous, know you,

354
00:17:58,080 --> 00:18:00,120
Speaker 6: Maria can't handle it from the South.

355
00:18:02,240 --> 00:18:02,720
Speaker 1: On hand.

356
00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:08,840
Speaker 6: So monogamy, I'm a little old school when it comes

357
00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:10,920
Speaker 6: to it. I want it to just be me and you.

358
00:18:11,320 --> 00:18:13,240
Speaker 6: I think it might because I'm a cancer too, but

359
00:18:13,520 --> 00:18:17,240
Speaker 6: I just don't. I don't fuck with the extras. If

360
00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:20,120
Speaker 6: we're not in a relationship or we're like in a situationship,

361
00:18:20,480 --> 00:18:22,360
Speaker 6: and then you know you want to do certain things,

362
00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:24,680
Speaker 6: that's cool. You know this your play plate, that's fine,

363
00:18:24,760 --> 00:18:26,600
Speaker 6: do what you want to do. But the minute it's like,

364
00:18:26,680 --> 00:18:29,320
Speaker 6: oh no, like we're doing this together, then it's just

365
00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,320
Speaker 6: me and you, And if you want somebody else, it

366
00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:33,440
Speaker 6: means I'm not good enough, and bitch, I'm good enough

367
00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:34,560
Speaker 6: and I am enough.

368
00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:36,600
Speaker 1: So if you feel like you want to deal with

369
00:18:36,680 --> 00:18:38,680
Speaker 1: somebody else and you go do that, but I just

370
00:18:38,720 --> 00:18:41,119
Speaker 1: won't be a bitcher. That's just me though, m h

371
00:18:42,040 --> 00:18:46,159
Speaker 1: how about you. I think I have a more flexible

372
00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:48,080
Speaker 1: definition of monogamy.

373
00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:51,600
Speaker 6: I think as long as we are committed to one

374
00:18:51,640 --> 00:18:53,760
Speaker 6: another and we are both on the same page and

375
00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,840
Speaker 6: our relationship, then that's what monogamy is to me.

376
00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,720
Speaker 1: I've never been in and open a relationship or anything

377
00:19:01,880 --> 00:19:06,280
Speaker 1: like that, but I am open to it. I just

378
00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:12,120
Speaker 1: never met someone who is as well. So yeah, exactly,

379
00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm a mature guy.

380
00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:15,840
Speaker 6: But do you think that you emotionally would be able

381
00:19:15,880 --> 00:19:17,680
Speaker 6: to deal with it? Because that's my issue. I know

382
00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:20,320
Speaker 6: that if I were to said, okay, well let's try

383
00:19:20,359 --> 00:19:22,960
Speaker 6: it out. If I know that you're leaving the house

384
00:19:23,000 --> 00:19:25,480
Speaker 6: tonight to go meet up with some chick who's like

385
00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:27,960
Speaker 6: who I've stopped already and I know she's bad as fuck,

386
00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:32,400
Speaker 6: I'm gonna be hellims like I'm gonna be in my feelings.

387
00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:34,960
Speaker 6: You might come home to me and I could do

388
00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:36,960
Speaker 6: that whole. Well, he's still mine. I got the ring

389
00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:39,200
Speaker 6: on my finger. But at the same time, I know

390
00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:41,399
Speaker 6: that she's cute than me, and you fucked her last night,

391
00:19:41,760 --> 00:19:42,760
Speaker 6: and now I have a problem.

392
00:19:44,280 --> 00:19:46,359
Speaker 1: But what do you think, Erica?

393
00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:50,399
Speaker 4: I think that monogamy isn't real and that it doesn't

394
00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:53,399
Speaker 4: truly exist, which is why people are always set up

395
00:19:53,440 --> 00:19:56,480
Speaker 4: to get disappointed, because in human nature, we're not meant.

396
00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:58,879
Speaker 1: It's just not we're not meant to.

397
00:20:00,359 --> 00:20:04,960
Speaker 4: See I feel like our natural desires, and I think,

398
00:20:05,320 --> 00:20:06,560
Speaker 4: I mean, that's just my opinion.

399
00:20:06,600 --> 00:20:07,280
Speaker 1: I think that we've been.

400
00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 7: Trained to feel like we own people one another.

401
00:20:10,880 --> 00:20:13,840
Speaker 4: It's like so much deeper than it's owning people, owning things,

402
00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 4: owning so many things.

403
00:20:15,720 --> 00:20:19,040
Speaker 1: My problem with well, I don't have a problem. You

404
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:20,119
Speaker 1: either monogamous or you're not.

405
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,119
Speaker 4: I was in a monogamous relationship, so well, I was

406
00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 4: monogamous in a relationship, and that's why I don't And

407
00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,040
Speaker 4: that's what I don't like. It's just like, Okay, I

408
00:20:28,119 --> 00:20:29,280
Speaker 4: don't even really want to be in this.

409
00:20:29,400 --> 00:20:29,880
Speaker 1: I don't mind.

410
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:31,840
Speaker 4: I chose to be in a monogamous relationship because I

411
00:20:31,920 --> 00:20:33,119
Speaker 4: was like, you know what, that's what we're going to

412
00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:35,480
Speaker 4: share together. That's what we've decided to do for this.

413
00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 4: But I always then I wanted to be in an

414
00:20:37,800 --> 00:20:40,359
Speaker 4: open relationship, and it was just like, oh no, no,

415
00:20:40,480 --> 00:20:40,680
Speaker 4: we're not.

416
00:20:40,920 --> 00:20:42,640
Speaker 1: No, we're not in an open relationship like you said,

417
00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,040
Speaker 1: most men, because that's the ownership aspect of it.

418
00:20:45,240 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 4: But I've seen non monogamous relationships work so well, so well,

419
00:20:52,320 --> 00:20:53,280
Speaker 4: especially if it's.

420
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,520
Speaker 1: Like it's really true and like true through the communication

421
00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:58,200
Speaker 1: is like one.

422
00:20:59,560 --> 00:21:02,960
Speaker 6: I think that just has to do with compatibility, because

423
00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:05,640
Speaker 6: I like what you said. I don't think that everyone

424
00:21:05,720 --> 00:21:07,600
Speaker 6: is meant to be monogamous, but there are people who

425
00:21:07,680 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 6: are just like built that way and they thrivenogamously. But

426
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 6: I think that that monogamy is like a spectrum, the

427
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,639
Speaker 6: same way like you know, gender or like sexuality is

428
00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:20,120
Speaker 6: a spectrum where there are people at.

429
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:23,280
Speaker 1: The like you know, extreme ends who have to be

430
00:21:23,640 --> 00:21:24,679
Speaker 1: in one on one.

431
00:21:24,680 --> 00:21:26,920
Speaker 6: Monogamous relationships, and there are people on the extreme ends

432
00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,640
Speaker 6: who just cannot be in a monogamous relationship, and there

433
00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:32,159
Speaker 6: are people in between who can you know, sway to

434
00:21:32,200 --> 00:21:34,120
Speaker 6: it from one end to another end, and you can

435
00:21:34,200 --> 00:21:36,760
Speaker 6: thrive in that situation or in that one, but you

436
00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:37,920
Speaker 6: just have a preference.

437
00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:38,359
Speaker 14: You know.

438
00:21:39,200 --> 00:21:41,639
Speaker 5: I read a book once and I had something that

439
00:21:41,720 --> 00:21:43,119
Speaker 5: made a lot of sense to me, and it was like,

440
00:21:44,000 --> 00:21:48,080
Speaker 5: basically about ownership. We have this like these expectations first

441
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:50,840
Speaker 5: of all socially conditioned in us, and then there's like

442
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,280
Speaker 5: anybody's you know, kind of like ownership, like if your

443
00:21:53,359 --> 00:21:56,480
Speaker 5: mind your mine. So the book basically says that if

444
00:21:56,560 --> 00:22:01,320
Speaker 5: I love you, and once you experience love at the

445
00:22:01,400 --> 00:22:04,359
Speaker 5: highest level, you know, throughout your life, like when we

446
00:22:05,040 --> 00:22:08,560
Speaker 5: condition ourselves to say, like I only love just you,

447
00:22:08,960 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 5: and I cut off other feelings of because like even

448
00:22:12,119 --> 00:22:15,439
Speaker 5: love like that, like love is attraction. There's like all

449
00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 5: these different things that what love really is. Like it

450
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 5: could be physical, it could be just an energy or whatever.

451
00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,399
Speaker 5: But like if we cut like cutting it off and

452
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,399
Speaker 5: like making you say you only love me romantically, you

453
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:28,240
Speaker 5: cannot be attracted to this this and that cuts it off.

454
00:22:28,359 --> 00:22:31,200
Speaker 5: And so it says that basically in doing that, it

455
00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:36,880
Speaker 5: limits our levels our ability to love because we're trying

456
00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:39,160
Speaker 5: to put it in like these small boxes. But that's

457
00:22:39,200 --> 00:22:41,439
Speaker 5: not how we're supposed to dwell as like human beings

458
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:43,680
Speaker 5: as like that, like our souls we're supposed to, like

459
00:22:43,720 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 5: you know, have.

460
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:46,640
Speaker 1: Right experience.

461
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,720
Speaker 5: People experience conversations without limits, without Oh she's going to

462
00:22:49,760 --> 00:22:52,520
Speaker 5: think that I'm attracted or in love with this person

463
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 5: and it's immediately a threat to you and to me.

464
00:22:55,160 --> 00:22:56,760
Speaker 5: That made a lot of sense, you know, like just

465
00:22:56,840 --> 00:23:00,520
Speaker 5: not limiting and limiting it and having this specific expectation.

466
00:23:00,640 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 5: But a lot of times I feel like when you

467
00:23:02,200 --> 00:23:04,359
Speaker 5: give you your partner the freedom to like do it

468
00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:05,520
Speaker 5: like whatever, you know.

469
00:23:05,640 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 1: Like I know you love me, I'm not questioning that.

470
00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 9: I think a lot of times they find themselves that

471
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:11,040
Speaker 9: they're not they don't even want to do it.

472
00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:14,520
Speaker 4: It's not exactly because it's so open that they're like, well,

473
00:23:14,880 --> 00:23:15,280
Speaker 4: it's not like.

474
00:23:16,800 --> 00:23:18,879
Speaker 5: There's always gonna be new pussy and new deck and

475
00:23:18,920 --> 00:23:20,760
Speaker 5: it's always gonna be fun because it's new. Yeah, And

476
00:23:20,800 --> 00:23:22,280
Speaker 5: you know, you find a new and you're like, oh, yes,

477
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:24,280
Speaker 5: it's fun, and like after three times you're like, eh.

478
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 1: I don't even like you as a friend. And I

479
00:23:33,640 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: agree with that.

480
00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:36,920
Speaker 6: I do because I think about it in terms I

481
00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,920
Speaker 6: think we spoke about this and I have had a

482
00:23:38,960 --> 00:23:42,479
Speaker 6: conversation about this before where like, I get the idea

483
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:45,280
Speaker 6: of how ridiculous it sounds to dedicate your life to

484
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 6: one person and expecting to do the same thing for you,

485
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,760
Speaker 6: because relationships are nothing but friendships with sex included. So

486
00:23:51,960 --> 00:23:54,239
Speaker 6: I wouldn't have Liketerrea's my friend. I'm not gonna tell

487
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:56,560
Speaker 6: her you can't have any other friends other than me

488
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 6: just because her friends. She can have all the friendship

489
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,919
Speaker 6: that you want. It doesn't matter, and that doesn't affect

490
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:04,760
Speaker 6: our friendship. You know, our scienceship is still our friendship,

491
00:24:05,040 --> 00:24:07,640
Speaker 6: but for some reason its stone is like sex is involved,

492
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 6: then it's like a fuck out of here.

493
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 1: You no like your mind, do not make out with

494
00:24:13,000 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: that bitch over there.

495
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:17,239
Speaker 4: I don't care, you know, Like our body parts are

496
00:24:17,280 --> 00:24:21,360
Speaker 4: so like like it's almost like they're like a part

497
00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 4: like that's thou or something like once you've crossed.

498
00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 9: Connected, but it is you feel those feelings immediately.

499
00:24:28,240 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: But it's not only that you have a spiritual connection

500
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:31,480
Speaker 1: with the people that you have sex with.

501
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,880
Speaker 6: Of course, it's a deeper Like me, Tabria has a friend,

502
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:37,920
Speaker 6: she might talk to his friend may like confide in

503
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:40,159
Speaker 6: this person, whatever the case may be, but it doesn't

504
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:43,520
Speaker 6: really shatter what we have if I were in a

505
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 6: relationship with someone and I know that we have this

506
00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:48,920
Speaker 6: like connection, we have sex, you know, we were like bonded,

507
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:51,760
Speaker 6: and I can you can kind of feel it that

508
00:24:51,880 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 6: they're doing the same thing with other people.

509
00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: It's like sacrilegious in a way where it's like, yeah,

510
00:24:58,280 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: like it's a ruin and what you have.

511
00:25:02,720 --> 00:25:04,720
Speaker 4: It does in some ways, but then at the same

512
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 4: time somebody else, Yeah, you're an unbeknownst to you.

513
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I've never been a satued in this situation

514
00:25:12,680 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 6: where I didn't know about it and it was okay

515
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:16,880
Speaker 6: with it. So in all the situations I've been where

516
00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:18,800
Speaker 6: the person I was in a relationship with or having

517
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:21,440
Speaker 6: sex with started having sex with someone else, it just

518
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,120
Speaker 6: it it kind of put like a damper on things

519
00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 6: for like an emotional damper.

520
00:25:25,920 --> 00:25:28,320
Speaker 1: What what if right now, like in your dating, what

521
00:25:28,400 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: if you met someone like, for instance, I know you're

522
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:32,280
Speaker 1: seeing somebody whatever and.

523
00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,920
Speaker 5: He you guys are just seeing each other and it's

524
00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 5: like you guys like each other, but he's like honest

525
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 5: with you about yeah I am saying some other girl,

526
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 5: Like it's so you can't handle that even Oh no.

527
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,119
Speaker 6: That's fine with me because I haven't emotionally bonded with

528
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:50,600
Speaker 6: him to the point where like like your mind, you know,

529
00:25:50,720 --> 00:25:54,400
Speaker 6: like we're not that deep yet, like we get end today,

530
00:25:54,560 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 6: and I wouldn't be pissed about it.

531
00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 1: It's just like, okay, whatever it is, what it is.

532
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:01,719
Speaker 6: So I already automatically soon outside of relationship than if

533
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 6: I'm talking to you're fucking other people automatically, and it

534
00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:06,680
Speaker 6: would be naive of you to think that I'm not

535
00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 6: fucking other people, you know. So that doesn't affect me

536
00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:10,439
Speaker 6: at all.

537
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 1: I don't care. It's more so about like the commitment thing.

538
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,680
Speaker 4: The thing about so the thing about my view on

539
00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:20,360
Speaker 4: this is that I still I'm still a jealous person though,

540
00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:22,760
Speaker 4: So I'm in conflict with this idea all the time

541
00:26:22,880 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 4: because I do believe that monogomy is a natural.

542
00:26:25,560 --> 00:26:27,640
Speaker 7: But then there is that part of me that I'm

543
00:26:27,720 --> 00:26:28,800
Speaker 7: just possessive.

544
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: And like, but it has to be on my terms.

545
00:26:31,160 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 4: I could I know, I couldn't be in like a

546
00:26:32,640 --> 00:26:37,800
Speaker 4: polyamorous relationship where my partner goes and has sex outside of.

547
00:26:38,720 --> 00:26:43,399
Speaker 7: Of us to hell the fuck now. And that's I mean,

548
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:43,960
Speaker 7: I don't know if that.

549
00:26:44,119 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 4: I mean me being condition it probably is but at

550
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,359
Speaker 4: the same time, it's like, I don't know, I do

551
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,840
Speaker 4: what There is something special that you share with that person.

552
00:26:51,880 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 4: Even if you're sharing within with some you're you've allowed

553
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:58,439
Speaker 4: and you both decided to bring somebody else into the relationship.

554
00:26:58,480 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 4: And that's so different than.

555
00:26:59,680 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 1: Like, because it's different that you guys having an experience together.

556
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,639
Speaker 1: It's like you guys going in traveling together. You know,

557
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:09,080
Speaker 1: like we have something we've done. It's actually heightening our age.

558
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: It's something that beyond this moment.

559
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:12,800
Speaker 6: We can talk about it, we can bond about it,

560
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,600
Speaker 6: we can share these memories about it, and it's something

561
00:27:15,640 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 6: that brings us closer together. Now, if you go out

562
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:19,560
Speaker 6: and you do your thing and I do my thing,

563
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:22,200
Speaker 6: we meet in the middle, that's doing nothing to help

564
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:23,840
Speaker 6: our relationship because.

565
00:27:24,080 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 5: I mean, I'm saying, let's keep in mind, I've never

566
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,840
Speaker 5: actually been in love with someone and I've done any

567
00:27:28,880 --> 00:27:31,000
Speaker 5: of this shit I'm talking. It makes sense, But like

568
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:33,679
Speaker 5: I said, like there's jealousy, there's always other human natures.

569
00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: And emotions don't make sense. Yeah, it's like at all,

570
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: it's nothing logical about them.

571
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 10: But for some couples, you know, like.

572
00:27:40,520 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 5: They encourage their wife to like go get like boned

573
00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,920
Speaker 5: by somebody else because they and men like go to

574
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 5: the strip cup because they come back hot and heavier,

575
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,879
Speaker 5: like more turned on, more aroused. So I guess I

576
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:53,480
Speaker 5: mean that, you know, there's just different things that work

577
00:27:53,520 --> 00:27:54,200
Speaker 5: for different people.

578
00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:56,440
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, like because I hear the

579
00:27:56,520 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 6: thing is because I feel like if you can't get

580
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:00,280
Speaker 6: me wet, then why are we together?

581
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,600
Speaker 1: Like if I have to get my engine started. That's

582
00:28:04,600 --> 00:28:05,040
Speaker 1: not the point.

583
00:28:05,960 --> 00:28:08,160
Speaker 5: It's just like news. It's like a shiny thing. It's

584
00:28:08,160 --> 00:28:10,679
Speaker 5: a shiny thing syndrome. It's something new, it's something different.

585
00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:12,840
Speaker 5: You know, we've been having sex for us amount of time.

586
00:28:12,760 --> 00:28:15,960
Speaker 4: Like, well, that s situation polyamorous. You're not fucking somebody

587
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 4: else because you're not being satisfied here. A lot of

588
00:28:18,280 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 4: times you're being satisfied here, but you also want to

589
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,440
Speaker 4: be satisfied here because that's different. You come back and

590
00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 4: you're even more satisfied here. It's like almost like a

591
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 4: I don't want to say it's like if you can

592
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,199
Speaker 4: fetishize it, but.

593
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:30,919
Speaker 8: As I'm saying, when it comes to sex, they's somewhere

594
00:28:31,119 --> 00:28:34,080
Speaker 8: ship y'all, Like there's like you can never understand how

595
00:28:34,200 --> 00:28:36,600
Speaker 8: someone else is sexually driven, you know, like it's some

596
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 8: other whole different equations that like it could.

597
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 5: Be a totally nor person and it's a really weird

598
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 5: freaky ship. So like how we love and how we feel,

599
00:28:43,800 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 5: you know, like it's all so different.

600
00:28:45,800 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 7: Have you how many times have you cheated? Or have

601
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:47,920
Speaker 7: you cheated?

602
00:28:48,400 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 10: Cheated?

603
00:28:48,840 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 5: Yeah?

604
00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 14: You have? You?

605
00:28:49,840 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 7: Would you label yourself a cheater? Have you cheated on

606
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,160
Speaker 7: every person you've ever been with?

607
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:55,760
Speaker 2: No?

608
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:00,200
Speaker 9: I haven't cheated on every person I've ever been us.

609
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 9: I haven't, like, but you every single persons.

610
00:29:09,400 --> 00:29:12,040
Speaker 7: Because they cheated on me, So then I know that

611
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:13,520
Speaker 7: account doesn't count.

612
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:14,800
Speaker 1: I don't know that.

613
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 7: I don't know when I first became like whenst I

614
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:22,520
Speaker 7: started dating, like you know, I was young and stupid.

615
00:29:22,560 --> 00:29:24,520
Speaker 4: I didn't know like what a relationship was. I know,

616
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:27,960
Speaker 4: you're made it, yeah you know dick falls in now.

617
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:31,080
Speaker 1: High school.

618
00:29:31,120 --> 00:29:32,760
Speaker 7: I wanted to know what that was like real quick,

619
00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 7: you know. And it's just but I think I know

620
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 7: that I'm.

621
00:29:36,880 --> 00:29:39,080
Speaker 4: Capable of monogamy because I was going to marry someone

622
00:29:39,160 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 4: and I was down for like monogamy for.

623
00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:45,240
Speaker 1: You know, I know I could be monogamous. I would

624
00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,040
Speaker 1: I I would. I want to, but I think that.

625
00:29:48,040 --> 00:29:50,120
Speaker 4: Would be happier not being monogamous, is what I'm saying.

626
00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,520
Speaker 4: But I could be monogamous and be happy, but I'd

627
00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:53,040
Speaker 4: be happier.

628
00:29:54,440 --> 00:30:00,240
Speaker 1: You because you're jealous, I know. But yes, if they

629
00:30:00,360 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: bring no.

630
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:06,000
Speaker 6: So you don't you don't need an open relationship.

631
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:11,160
Speaker 1: No, I don't think.

632
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:15,160
Speaker 7: You're opening your relationship up.

633
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,640
Speaker 6: Yeah, but that's typically when one person or each person

634
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 6: can go out and do whatever and then come back

635
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 6: like it's open. Like I'm not like committed only to

636
00:30:24,200 --> 00:30:26,200
Speaker 6: this person. I can still like go to the bar

637
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 6: and meet someone, take their number down and come home

638
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 6: and be fine. But like what you're talking about is

639
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 6: more like you guys are just like, well, I think

640
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:34,640
Speaker 6: I have.

641
00:30:34,800 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 7: To eventually be open because I'm not.

642
00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:39,600
Speaker 1: I don't have it.

643
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 4: I'm thinking about, like my man is not going to

644
00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 4: be well, I know, whatever man I end up with this,

645
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,640
Speaker 4: probably not. I don't really want to do this, bring

646
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 4: another man into them and it only I'm a woman,

647
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 4: but I'm actually I'm gonna want to other dick.

648
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:55,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, so like it's gonna the woman isn't going to

649
00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:56,600
Speaker 1: be it for me all the time.

650
00:30:56,680 --> 00:30:59,160
Speaker 7: So I think I probably graduated to.

651
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,560
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, you'd have to find someone that's okay with

652
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:08,320
Speaker 6: like the end results and then work your way there.

653
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:11,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what I say, because work that together,

654
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: I just pushing along them.

655
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:17,040
Speaker 17: I feel like if I'm someone that you really really

656
00:31:17,120 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 17: really really really really really really fuck with, Like if

657
00:31:19,680 --> 00:31:21,880
Speaker 17: it's like the movies where it's like you just know

658
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,360
Speaker 17: and then you know they love you so hard and

659
00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,440
Speaker 17: they understand you and you get them, they don't just

660
00:31:25,560 --> 00:31:27,600
Speaker 17: be that easy, you know what I'm saying, Like you

661
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 17: don't even think twice, like if if you're gonna leave

662
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 17: me for someone else, But I guess.

663
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 9: That's always there no matter what, because I could always

664
00:31:34,200 --> 00:31:34,959
Speaker 9: be a possibility.

665
00:31:35,600 --> 00:31:38,400
Speaker 6: I would I would be constantly afraid of that because

666
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:42,000
Speaker 6: because with like new things, if you like those new things,

667
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 6: you know, so imagine like you're at home and your

668
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:47,080
Speaker 6: man is just like in his phone just smiling at

669
00:31:47,120 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 6: a text, like there's limits, there's boundaries. You know, it

670
00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 6: could just be tonight text and if you'd be smiling.

671
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 9: A quick glance because you know, women be knowing that's true,

672
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:58,520
Speaker 9: and that would that.

673
00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 1: Would ruin me, like ruin me. But he could do

674
00:32:01,160 --> 00:32:01,720
Speaker 1: that anyway.

675
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:02,800
Speaker 4: No, I know.

676
00:32:03,120 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 6: But the thing is, if you're doing it and you're

677
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,240
Speaker 6: cheating on me, I didn't condone this, so I can

678
00:32:07,280 --> 00:32:11,880
Speaker 6: be upset. I upset if I told you like that,

679
00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 6: that would suck me up like completely.

680
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,280
Speaker 4: But so what if that person loved you to death

681
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:17,880
Speaker 4: wanted to be with you, but that was just that

682
00:32:18,040 --> 00:32:20,480
Speaker 4: one thing, Like there's no bending that you'd pass up

683
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,240
Speaker 4: on your soulmate because you have to have this type

684
00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:23,600
Speaker 4: of love.

685
00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 1: I'm passing upon a nig who won't eat me out. Yes,

686
00:32:28,520 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 1: that's the way.

687
00:32:30,960 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 6: To me, then, fucking head like, yeah, no, I would

688
00:32:36,000 --> 00:32:38,320
Speaker 6: pass hard pass How about you, girl?

689
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:41,800
Speaker 1: No, I don't think so. I like, I want to

690
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,920
Speaker 1: try it. Like I said, I just haven't met anybody

691
00:32:43,960 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: who's down and it.

692
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,040
Speaker 5: Makes you feel like you can trust them enough to

693
00:32:47,120 --> 00:32:49,080
Speaker 5: be honest, I think it really comes Like for women,

694
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,200
Speaker 5: I think it has to really be somebody that makes

695
00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:54,920
Speaker 5: you trust them enough, like like we're so such good

696
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 5: friends that you don't have to lie to me and

697
00:32:56,880 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 5: I don't have to lie to you, and you're gonna

698
00:32:58,280 --> 00:32:59,560
Speaker 5: love and respect me regardless.

699
00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:00,920
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, And tell me how you feel.

700
00:33:00,960 --> 00:33:02,640
Speaker 1: In X, Y and Z but for a woman that

701
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: really you really have to feel that.

702
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:05,200
Speaker 14: Like.

703
00:33:07,240 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 7: Right, because men and women are so different.

704
00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 4: Men we know, we know men are dumber and they're

705
00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 4: driven by their dicks. We can have our ship in check,

706
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 4: we can control our ship if we want to, and

707
00:33:17,280 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 4: we know that men can't. And that's why it's so important. Unfortunately,

708
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:23,440
Speaker 4: we feel that we need the man to, you know,

709
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:27,160
Speaker 4: show us that he can be trusted because historically.

710
00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 6: I've like I've looked up these types of relationships before

711
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,000
Speaker 6: we did research for one of the episodes that we

712
00:33:36,080 --> 00:33:38,720
Speaker 6: did on this, and one of the things I saw

713
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:42,320
Speaker 6: consistently for open relationships is that they had rules because

714
00:33:42,360 --> 00:33:44,200
Speaker 6: you need you need to have rules so that things

715
00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,680
Speaker 6: don't get out of hand, because like one of the

716
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,560
Speaker 6: rules I saw was you can't see someone for more

717
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 6: than a month, and so if you see them for

718
00:33:52,280 --> 00:33:55,240
Speaker 6: longer than that, that's when emotions start to come into play,

719
00:33:55,600 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 6: and emotions, you can't be emotionally bonded with someone else.

720
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:02,160
Speaker 6: Some people have that rule. Other people they don't care.

721
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,960
Speaker 6: You can see someone for a year, two years, three years,

722
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 6: it doesn't matter to them. Would you guys want to

723
00:34:07,720 --> 00:34:11,279
Speaker 6: set rules, of course, and would those would that be

724
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:13,120
Speaker 6: a rule of yours where it's like you can't see

725
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 6: the same person more than four times, or you can't

726
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,279
Speaker 6: you know, whatever the case may.

727
00:34:17,239 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: Be, so that you hib it the you know, the attachment.

728
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:22,920
Speaker 4: Well, I think if you have that rule in place,

729
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 4: then that your partner is gonna really think long and

730
00:34:25,440 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 4: hard about who he wants to share that openness with,

731
00:34:30,160 --> 00:34:32,080
Speaker 4: and so it probably won't happen as much.

732
00:34:32,680 --> 00:34:34,600
Speaker 1: Or if you say, like only one night's thing, can.

733
00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,040
Speaker 4: You imagine like yeah, I mean, could you imagine just

734
00:34:37,200 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 4: like having like one month connections with people like consecutively,

735
00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 4: like twenty one month connections.

736
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:49,280
Speaker 7: I mean, actually, would you be doing it? Sounds sad?

737
00:34:49,680 --> 00:34:50,480
Speaker 1: Would you be doing it that?

738
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 4: I just I'm not saying me personally. I just mean,

739
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,040
Speaker 4: like if that was the case and you are, I mean,

740
00:34:55,080 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 4: if you're in a lifelong relationship, life forever is a

741
00:34:59,280 --> 00:35:02,120
Speaker 4: long time, you're more than like three or four. I

742
00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 4: would have more than three or four if I.

743
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 6: Was in an open relationship. No, for like the length

744
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:08,279
Speaker 6: of a relationship. Yeah, but like I feel like it

745
00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 6: would be you know, maybe once or like one or

746
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:13,200
Speaker 6: two people a year.

747
00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 1: Maybe no more than that. More like how we how

748
00:35:18,960 --> 00:35:21,680
Speaker 1: many like what is the frequency, the year, the year idea?

749
00:35:23,320 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 1: I can't. I can't mean until I'm in it, honestly,

750
00:35:25,920 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: you know, but.

751
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 6: Ideally for you, like if you were, because you know

752
00:35:28,920 --> 00:35:30,799
Speaker 6: what it feels like to be in a long term relationship.

753
00:35:31,040 --> 00:35:32,839
Speaker 1: You know, you know what it feels like to love

754
00:35:32,920 --> 00:35:34,480
Speaker 1: that person. You're in a long term relationship?

755
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:35,000
Speaker 14: Is what what?

756
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 7: It just really depends what we want at that time.

757
00:35:38,360 --> 00:35:39,920
Speaker 7: I mean, it could be one person a year, It

758
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 7: could be no person a year. It could be four

759
00:35:42,440 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 7: people a year.

760
00:35:43,440 --> 00:35:45,400
Speaker 1: It could be like you know, I don't know.

761
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,560
Speaker 4: It's just hard to it's hard to say. I can't

762
00:35:47,560 --> 00:35:52,560
Speaker 4: give a definitive, definitive, definitive answer, but enough that it

763
00:35:52,560 --> 00:35:54,800
Speaker 4: wouldn't be an interference into my relationship.

764
00:35:54,800 --> 00:35:56,680
Speaker 7: If it's hard to interfere my relationship, then.

765
00:35:56,680 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, would you tell that person that you're dating that

766
00:35:58,719 --> 00:35:59,920
Speaker 1: you're married, Yeah, you have.

767
00:36:03,640 --> 00:36:05,880
Speaker 5: Everything has to be on the table. This is probably

768
00:36:05,920 --> 00:36:07,560
Speaker 5: not gonna be part. Yeah, all that has to be

769
00:36:07,680 --> 00:36:10,400
Speaker 5: on the table. But also I was thinking on reversed

770
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 5: as if you have a relationship with your husband, you

771
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,239
Speaker 5: might be.

772
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:15,200
Speaker 1: A little bit more.

773
00:36:16,560 --> 00:36:19,320
Speaker 5: On your toes looking cute and you know, like putting

774
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 5: an effort into your relationship and making it be fun

775
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 5: and romantic and sexy because you're like, Okay, there's like

776
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:28,319
Speaker 5: a green light to do want so like stepping up,

777
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,400
Speaker 5: try some new ship, and that can also be like

778
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:33,880
Speaker 5: fun for the relationship.

779
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,080
Speaker 7: That's probably the reason a lot of people will do it,

780
00:36:36,480 --> 00:36:37,879
Speaker 7: you know, to keep their relationship.

781
00:36:39,760 --> 00:36:39,920
Speaker 14: Yeah.

782
00:36:40,560 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, do people get bored that fucking fast? I thought

783
00:36:44,000 --> 00:36:47,760
Speaker 1: about boredom. I mean I could have when you're together

784
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 1: for years. I want to make it for seven years.

785
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,799
Speaker 9: Yeah, I mean I had consistently you weren't board.

786
00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:55,920
Speaker 1: One time, you weren't like you didn't look out and

787
00:36:56,040 --> 00:37:00,360
Speaker 1: say like that. Well yeah, but I was happy, and

788
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,080
Speaker 1: relationship was tried. It was.

789
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 4: It wasn't happy all the time, but happy. Sometimes I

790
00:37:10,880 --> 00:37:14,200
Speaker 4: was happy. Sometimes I was happy, ignorant.

791
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,440
Speaker 1: Yeah that's what it was.

792
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:17,120
Speaker 9: It happened to the best of us.

793
00:37:17,719 --> 00:37:23,240
Speaker 7: Yeah, I'll experience that he's gonna do better. Yeah that's different.

794
00:37:23,600 --> 00:37:23,799
Speaker 4: Yeah.

795
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 6: I think for me, that's why I want to try

796
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,920
Speaker 6: it because I only have seen one successful.

797
00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 9: Relationship in my life regular style.

798
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:36,480
Speaker 6: I've seen people married for decades and get divorced and

799
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:40,799
Speaker 6: I found out they were just living in sadness, look like.

800
00:37:42,600 --> 00:37:43,800
Speaker 1: That you that was successful?

801
00:37:43,880 --> 00:37:46,480
Speaker 7: What was their secret? What was the difference in their relationship?

802
00:37:47,800 --> 00:37:48,480
Speaker 7: Was there a difference?

803
00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:52,000
Speaker 1: They say that they're best friends. That's what they say.

804
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:56,080
Speaker 6: So my my parents, I think they're the only relationship

805
00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 6: that because I know people who are together. But you know,

806
00:37:58,120 --> 00:38:00,560
Speaker 6: it's less than ten years. I don't I'm not calling

807
00:38:00,600 --> 00:38:01,600
Speaker 6: it yet, you know, but.

808
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:06,480
Speaker 1: Listen to how are your parents functioning? As I getting there?

809
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:16,719
Speaker 1: So so, oh my god, So my dad he shut up.

810
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:21,160
Speaker 6: My dad he runs a school and a clinic out

811
00:38:21,200 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 6: of the country and like on an on island in

812
00:38:24,000 --> 00:38:26,279
Speaker 6: the Caribbean, y'all need to know where I'm from, and

813
00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 6: he basically runs both of these. So he spends three

814
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,960
Speaker 6: months in the States, two months on the island, three

815
00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 6: months in the States, two months on the island, like consistently.

816
00:38:38,400 --> 00:38:40,799
Speaker 6: I'm twenty eight years old. I've never seen my dad

817
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,000
Speaker 6: for longer than three months. Before I was born, he

818
00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 6: was on the schedule. Wow, So they consistently miss each other.

819
00:38:48,040 --> 00:38:51,480
Speaker 6: What was well, three months, two months, three months and

820
00:38:51,520 --> 00:38:54,720
Speaker 6: two months. So they consistently miss each other because he's.

821
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: Always gone, and then when he's here, he's here, but

822
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: it's three months. You don't get tired of it.

823
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,640
Speaker 6: It's just like when you start getting exactly and then

824
00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:06,040
Speaker 6: when he leaves, they're on the phone like for hours,

825
00:39:06,120 --> 00:39:09,480
Speaker 6: like yeah, and so they I don't think they've ever

826
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:10,600
Speaker 6: gotten tired of each other.

827
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 5: You know what.

828
00:39:12,360 --> 00:39:15,120
Speaker 1: I have to distance. It does make the hard.

829
00:39:16,600 --> 00:39:18,880
Speaker 4: My relationship with my baby daddy, Like he was on

830
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 4: tour all the time, working, and I think that's how

831
00:39:22,000 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 4: seven years flew by.

832
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 1: We didn't have problems all the time.

833
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:27,560
Speaker 7: We actually had a great relationship for the most part.

834
00:39:28,000 --> 00:39:30,520
Speaker 4: And I think because I was always missing him, you know,

835
00:39:31,320 --> 00:39:33,759
Speaker 4: that's kind of fucked up, you know what happened. I think,

836
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 4: you know, No, it's not fucked up because I think

837
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:39,440
Speaker 4: we I think we need our space and we always

838
00:39:39,680 --> 00:39:42,000
Speaker 4: like feel like we need to have something next to us.

839
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,759
Speaker 4: Oh no, we thrive in space. At least I drive

840
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 4: in space. I don't need a lot of people around

841
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 4: me all the time.

842
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:50,080
Speaker 5: And I noticed like being a relationship because I wasn't

843
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,439
Speaker 5: relationship with the labor who's like very clingy and wanted

844
00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:52,600
Speaker 5: to be.

845
00:39:52,640 --> 00:39:54,440
Speaker 1: With all the time.

846
00:39:54,880 --> 00:39:58,120
Speaker 5: And it like to the point I couldn't shower and

847
00:39:58,560 --> 00:40:00,520
Speaker 5: if I wanted to shower alone, and it was like,

848
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:02,800
Speaker 5: why are you taking a shower alone?

849
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: Now? What are you doing in there?

850
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 10: Yeah?

851
00:40:07,280 --> 00:40:08,640
Speaker 1: Or like you're using the bath and he's just like

852
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: standing in there to talk in the doorway. I want

853
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:14,480
Speaker 1: to go somewhere.

854
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:17,200
Speaker 10: For rell.

855
00:40:17,320 --> 00:40:21,400
Speaker 1: So I become so so extra.

856
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,719
Speaker 5: I became so accustomed to that type of company all

857
00:40:25,800 --> 00:40:27,719
Speaker 5: the time. And even though I was like low key

858
00:40:27,800 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 5: miserable and like losing my mind, like I wish I

859
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,520
Speaker 5: could go on you would shut the fuck up about it,

860
00:40:32,640 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 5: But like at the same time, I find myself now

861
00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,760
Speaker 5: because it was such a such a like a cycle.

862
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 5: First of all, I wasn't all the way developed as

863
00:40:39,480 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 5: a human yet, and I'm still working on myself and

864
00:40:41,920 --> 00:40:45,400
Speaker 5: he definitely wasn't. Which happens. I would just feel myself

865
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:48,360
Speaker 5: like dwindling away into the wind. And my dad told me,

866
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 5: because he was my dad and my mom have been

867
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 5: married forever and like they're both have people like working

868
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 5: on like still teenagers, and he was like, don't you

869
00:40:56,640 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 5: will turn into somebody you're not living, you know, cutting

870
00:41:01,000 --> 00:41:02,240
Speaker 5: yourself off and being.

871
00:41:02,160 --> 00:41:04,440
Speaker 1: With somebody for kids, you will become you.

872
00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 5: I don't even know who I am anymore, he said

873
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:09,640
Speaker 5: to me, And it hurt me because you know, like

874
00:41:09,840 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 5: you know, old school and stuff styles stay when I

875
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 5: make it work, but like it hurt so Like.

876
00:41:13,719 --> 00:41:16,120
Speaker 1: The truth is, like what does really make you happy? Like, yeah,

877
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:18,920
Speaker 1: new Dick makes me happy. Sometimes I'm not gonna lie.

878
00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 9: You know, and sometimes if you I'm satisfied and you're

879
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,239
Speaker 9: treating me well.

880
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:23,959
Speaker 1: Nine women are loyal people.

881
00:41:24,040 --> 00:41:29,120
Speaker 5: But like, I don't believe in like limiting limiting ourselves

882
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 5: because that shit is scary at fuck.

883
00:41:31,360 --> 00:41:34,239
Speaker 6: Well, if it gets to the point where you want this,

884
00:41:35,280 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 6: then you should always do what makes you happy. I

885
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:41,600
Speaker 6: just have never had the urge to be like, Okay,

886
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 6: well I want you and other people. If I feel

887
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:47,239
Speaker 6: like I want to date other people in my mind,

888
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:48,960
Speaker 6: I feel like the relationship is dead.

889
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:52,000
Speaker 1: Like I've never been happy and been like I still

890
00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:52,560
Speaker 1: want to dick.

891
00:41:53,440 --> 00:41:53,840
Speaker 5: Is that so?

892
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 7: Is cheating a deal breaker for you if.

893
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:59,759
Speaker 6: They cheat on me? I wish I could say yes,

894
00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:03,440
Speaker 6: but I've been shut up. But I've been I've been

895
00:42:03,520 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 6: cheated on so many times that if I said that,

896
00:42:06,160 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 6: it'd be a lot.

897
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,200
Speaker 4: Because of that, Because you've been cheated on so many

898
00:42:11,239 --> 00:42:14,160
Speaker 4: times your words, that that's why you hold on to

899
00:42:14,280 --> 00:42:17,640
Speaker 4: this idea of like this dreamlike not dreamlike that. So

900
00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,880
Speaker 4: many people think, like have the same opinion as you

901
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,600
Speaker 4: of this, like you know, very traditional form of what

902
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:25,080
Speaker 4: a relationship.

903
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,200
Speaker 1: Is supposed to look.

904
00:42:25,280 --> 00:42:27,239
Speaker 6: Well, no, because I was in a long term relationship

905
00:42:27,280 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 6: before that one, or actually in between that one, and

906
00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 6: I was with him. I was this other guy for

907
00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:36,719
Speaker 6: like two and a half years, and we actually had

908
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 6: that conversation because he a scorpio. He had gotten to

909
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 6: the point where he was like he wanted some new pussy,

910
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 6: so he tried to convince me to have a thing

911
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 6: sum with him because he's like, you know, because I

912
00:42:49,960 --> 00:42:52,920
Speaker 6: don't want to cheat on you, and I don't want to.

913
00:42:53,480 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 6: He didn't, like, he's like dating as trash. I don't

914
00:42:55,719 --> 00:42:57,360
Speaker 6: want to date. I don't want to spend money on

915
00:42:57,400 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 6: another bitch. I don't want to do that because I

916
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 6: don't care about these holes. I just want some new pussy.

917
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,440
Speaker 6: And it was conflicting for me because I was like,

918
00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 6: but mine is here and it's functioning very well.

919
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:10,840
Speaker 5: I was.

920
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:15,359
Speaker 6: Like, I don't understand why you want this. I didn't

921
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:17,200
Speaker 6: get it, but I didn't get mad at him because

922
00:43:17,239 --> 00:43:18,640
Speaker 6: he broke it down to me like quite.

923
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: Honestly, like, guse you appreciate the honesty.

924
00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:20,920
Speaker 5: No, I did.

925
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 6: I appreciate the honesty and actually tried to like a

926
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 6: little bit like we we were like looking through like

927
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,839
Speaker 6: it was my face look trying to pick off.

928
00:43:29,760 --> 00:43:32,239
Speaker 1: People like on Facebook, picking like his exes and the

929
00:43:32,280 --> 00:43:37,600
Speaker 1: freaks hen and was like, what about her? What about her?

930
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 1: And it was just it was just too much.

931
00:43:39,080 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 9: Men't meet her, he can't pick her. It can't be

932
00:43:42,040 --> 00:43:44,359
Speaker 9: before And we had rules.

933
00:43:44,080 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: Too, so I told him like, it can't it can't

934
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:46,959
Speaker 1: be someone.

935
00:43:47,000 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 6: And the thing is he had had a very like

936
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 6: crazy sexual history, so he had already done all these

937
00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:54,920
Speaker 6: things and I was still in college.

938
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,480
Speaker 1: I was like a baby and I didn't know.

939
00:43:56,800 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 6: First off, he had a Prince Alberto and like to me,

940
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:03,640
Speaker 6: I was like, people can pierce that.

941
00:44:04,440 --> 00:44:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, crazy should have ever seen in my life. It's

942
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:09,359
Speaker 1: the piercing that goes right.

943
00:44:09,320 --> 00:44:14,640
Speaker 9: Through the head of your dick, right, yeah that like this, Yeah,

944
00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:19,320
Speaker 9: isn't like he was a freak, I knew.

945
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 6: But literally like he was just he was very open,

946
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:24,759
Speaker 6: which I appreciated. It was one of really I feel

947
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:30,880
Speaker 6: like the doesn't feel any different like it you.

948
00:44:31,239 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 1: You do feel it because it protrudes out so you

949
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,840
Speaker 1: can feel it. It just it hurts.

950
00:44:36,120 --> 00:44:40,359
Speaker 6: It sounds painful because the ends around it like a ball,

951
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:42,400
Speaker 6: like a metal ball, but it's like a large like

952
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,759
Speaker 6: the piercing is large, the ring itself. And he had

953
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:48,000
Speaker 6: the circular one. It looks like a cow bell thing.

954
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:51,080
Speaker 6: And he had like the bar one too, but you

955
00:44:51,280 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 6: typically wore like the circular one. And yeah, it was

956
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,360
Speaker 6: it look intense. They even had attachment to them, like

957
00:44:57,400 --> 00:45:00,720
Speaker 6: a vibrating attachment you can put on. It was nasty

958
00:45:00,760 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 6: as fun, vibrating attachment because I don't need my olds,

959
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,440
Speaker 6: don't need to be gyrating, like she is not going

960
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:12,440
Speaker 6: to be on the outside.

961
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,200
Speaker 1: It's going in too much.

962
00:45:16,080 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 6: But he was just he was just all around freak

963
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,680
Speaker 6: like he had three sons, ran trains, all kinds of

964
00:45:21,000 --> 00:45:24,000
Speaker 6: even double daggered a bit with is like old roommate.

965
00:45:23,719 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 11: Like, yeah, they put a pillow in between. Wait, but

966
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 11: what was that last thing?

967
00:45:34,280 --> 00:45:34,680
Speaker 1: They asked?

968
00:45:34,840 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 6: They because he double daggered a girl with his old

969
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:39,960
Speaker 6: roommate and they put a pillow in between so that

970
00:45:40,000 --> 00:45:40,799
Speaker 6: it wouldn't be gay.

971
00:45:41,080 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 9: Wait, okay, we can't laugh.

972
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:47,120
Speaker 1: This is a good question because.

973
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,240
Speaker 9: Double dagger as.

974
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 5: I always in my mind thought that like running trains,

975
00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 5: et cetera, et cetera, which is really like popular, the

976
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:01,279
Speaker 5: valley was kind of gay.

977
00:46:02,120 --> 00:46:02,279
Speaker 10: Oh.

978
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:04,719
Speaker 1: I always thought it was suspect to like, you don't think.

979
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:06,400
Speaker 9: Like just mathematically it doesn't.

980
00:46:08,000 --> 00:46:10,120
Speaker 6: So he explained it to me why it isn't gay

981
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 6: because the way they would do it is if it

982
00:46:13,640 --> 00:46:16,000
Speaker 6: was in one if it was like in a basement,

983
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 6: or because it was either a basement or someone's room

984
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 6: basement situation, because it's the South, everybody, yeah, basically, so

985
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 6: they would all like line up against the wall just

986
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,840
Speaker 6: be chilling, and then like one tack and so no

987
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 6: one's touching the girl at the same time. You guys

988
00:46:32,680 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 6: just going one after the other and the room. One

989
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 6: goes in, the room, one goes out the room. They

990
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:43,279
Speaker 6: have like they would you, right, I have questions too,

991
00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,480
Speaker 6: I know all the answers that I've asked, all the questions.

992
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 1: So many questions like imagining a lineup, Well.

993
00:46:48,560 --> 00:46:52,160
Speaker 6: Typically they find like the neighborhood or like the high school,

994
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:56,160
Speaker 6: like slut or girl he was high school, beyond.

995
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,480
Speaker 7: He was no morals you want to be accept you

996
00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:01,480
Speaker 7: just named off this call.

997
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:04,120
Speaker 5: There was a.

998
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:06,680
Speaker 9: I couldn't want to go.

999
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:14,479
Speaker 1: Slow down, shut up. It was a muscle, she said.

1000
00:47:14,560 --> 00:47:19,680
Speaker 1: They even went, but yeah, he was a free Hey

1001
00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:21,719
Speaker 1: want another pussy? I didn't want to the pussy so

1002
00:47:21,960 --> 00:47:24,720
Speaker 1: oh and then he didn't want me fucking other names problem,

1003
00:47:24,960 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: that's yeah, No, it is kind of gay. It's okay,

1004
00:47:34,760 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: you could.

1005
00:47:35,960 --> 00:47:40,000
Speaker 5: I appreciate your different nasty sex views and your fetishes.

1006
00:47:40,200 --> 00:47:45,640
Speaker 6: But yes, explaining the double dagger anything, okay, because okay,

1007
00:47:45,800 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 6: can you explain to tell because they were both on

1008
00:47:49,120 --> 00:47:55,080
Speaker 6: their knees upright right, so she couldn't be Yeah, so

1009
00:47:55,239 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 6: she couldn't be upright because it'd be too much.

1010
00:47:57,920 --> 00:47:58,440
Speaker 1: And like it's just.

1011
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:04,960
Speaker 6: Laid down no, you know side and they were upright,

1012
00:48:05,280 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 6: yes they were. They put a pillow in between each

1013
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 6: other's chest. They wouldn't touch each other.

1014
00:48:11,040 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 1: Wait wait, wait, so he was in the back like yes,

1015
00:48:14,719 --> 00:48:18,000
Speaker 1: like yes, like yeah in the bathroom.

1016
00:48:17,880 --> 00:48:20,800
Speaker 9: Yes, but they're laid down, they're.

1017
00:48:19,880 --> 00:48:20,480
Speaker 1: Not laid down.

1018
00:48:20,640 --> 00:48:23,840
Speaker 6: Well, they twitched it up when at one point they

1019
00:48:23,880 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 6: were both on their knees upright and that's when they

1020
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 6: put the pillow in between them because they don't want

1021
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 6: their chest to touch.

1022
00:48:29,480 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: There so many questions as these questions could diagnose. I

1023
00:48:34,719 --> 00:48:37,760
Speaker 1: have so many questions. It was answer my question.

1024
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:41,319
Speaker 7: Is it is it cheating or is it.

1025
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:46,640
Speaker 6: Like when I'm like like I can't yeah, is it monogamy?

1026
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:56,720
Speaker 6: Hypography is crazy for me. It's any kind of abuse

1027
00:48:56,760 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 6: comes into play, emotional abuse, verbal beast, all that stuff,

1028
00:49:00,080 --> 00:49:03,040
Speaker 6: and like fuck that. I'm more forgiving when it comes

1029
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 6: to cheating, only because I understand how quick that shit

1030
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 6: can happen, you know, I understand especially I have a

1031
00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:12,200
Speaker 6: weakness for niggas who like are creatives and work in

1032
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:14,720
Speaker 6: like certain industries where pussy is just thrown around galore.

1033
00:49:15,120 --> 00:49:17,320
Speaker 6: So I understand how you can go from just like

1034
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 6: smoking and drinking and all of a sudden the bit

1035
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,560
Speaker 6: just topping you off. Like, I get that because I

1036
00:49:21,719 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 6: see no scause I've seen that happen.

1037
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: So if everything else was.

1038
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 4: In line, and but he just couldn't be monogamous, that

1039
00:49:27,600 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 4: would be if you consistently No, what about you? What's

1040
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 4: what's your monogamous? Is it is monogamally your deal breaker?

1041
00:49:34,239 --> 00:49:36,120
Speaker 1: Or I don't know.

1042
00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:39,759
Speaker 6: I'm in my first relationship, So if you're in your

1043
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:40,920
Speaker 6: first relationship, yeah, like.

1044
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:43,680
Speaker 1: First official boyfriend, every other dude I've just been like

1045
00:49:43,800 --> 00:49:44,200
Speaker 1: talking to.

1046
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:46,840
Speaker 6: Well, you know, she had one like situationship that was

1047
00:49:46,920 --> 00:49:48,400
Speaker 6: basically a relationship without.

1048
00:49:48,160 --> 00:49:51,479
Speaker 1: The tirely but I knew, I knew he was sucking

1049
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: other girl. I was to you also talking to other people,

1050
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:55,520
Speaker 1: so that.

1051
00:49:57,480 --> 00:50:00,360
Speaker 4: This relationship, if you chosen, sorry, that one getting basically

1052
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:01,800
Speaker 4: totally anamous.

1053
00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:04,560
Speaker 7: Yes, okay, And it's a conversation you had or is

1054
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:05,880
Speaker 7: it just unspoken.

1055
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: We have the conversation. It was almost a deal breaker

1056
00:50:11,520 --> 00:50:13,399
Speaker 1: for us because of him.

1057
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 6: He was like, yeah, because of just like my ideas

1058
00:50:17,880 --> 00:50:21,240
Speaker 6: of like long term relationships.

1059
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 4: Because you don't necessarily believe in monogamy. Well, it was

1060
00:50:25,719 --> 00:50:28,399
Speaker 4: more so about marriage. Do you believe do you want

1061
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:29,000
Speaker 4: to be married or.

1062
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,840
Speaker 1: I don't know anymore. I don't either. Yeah, it's like

1063
00:50:33,960 --> 00:50:36,959
Speaker 1: it's not necessary. Yeah, and it wasn't.

1064
00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:40,400
Speaker 6: It wasn't marriage itself. It was just being with the

1065
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:42,280
Speaker 6: same person for the rest of my life.

1066
00:50:42,360 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: I I don't know. I can't say so early, honest. Yeah,

1067
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:51,879
Speaker 1: So I'm sure this will come back again.

1068
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:57,680
Speaker 4: Definitely your thoughts and you can change any moment, Yeah,

1069
00:50:58,160 --> 00:50:59,920
Speaker 4: your relationship for.

1070
00:51:00,080 --> 00:51:02,200
Speaker 6: But you also shouldn't feel guilty for the way that

1071
00:51:02,280 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 6: you feel you should have just change the way that

1072
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,160
Speaker 6: you feel, because then that's when you end up unhappy

1073
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:08,680
Speaker 6: in the long run, because then if you know, if

1074
00:51:08,719 --> 00:51:10,279
Speaker 6: you're in a situation like that and he decides to

1075
00:51:10,280 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 6: pop the question and you don't want to let him down,

1076
00:51:11,960 --> 00:51:13,480
Speaker 6: and you know, not stuck in a marriage you never

1077
00:51:13,520 --> 00:51:15,359
Speaker 6: agree to it I want to be part of, then

1078
00:51:15,440 --> 00:51:16,799
Speaker 6: it's gonna be worse for him.

1079
00:51:17,880 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 10: Ego.

1080
00:51:18,440 --> 00:51:20,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, but but I don't see the problem with just

1081
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:23,520
Speaker 6: accepting the fact that, like, I love you, I want

1082
00:51:23,520 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 6: to be with you. Why can't we just focus on that,

1083
00:51:27,239 --> 00:51:30,120
Speaker 6: you know? But I get not wanting to deal with

1084
00:51:30,200 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 6: anybody and have an expiration day. But you're not saying

1085
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:35,000
Speaker 6: there's an expiation day. It's just that I don't want

1086
00:51:35,000 --> 00:51:38,200
Speaker 6: to think about five fucking years from now, Like, let's

1087
00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 6: just be happy and just like enjoy each other.

1088
00:51:41,560 --> 00:51:42,560
Speaker 1: I don't think I would.

1089
00:51:42,640 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 7: I don't think I think I'm good on marriage too.

1090
00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:46,680
Speaker 4: I don't know, like it's not it's not a necessity

1091
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 4: because in my relationship, I never really wanted marriage, and

1092
00:51:51,840 --> 00:51:54,160
Speaker 4: then at some point, like I was convinced I should

1093
00:51:54,160 --> 00:51:57,200
Speaker 4: have I should and then I got really excited about it,

1094
00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 4: and I was like, oh, I'm good.

1095
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:01,280
Speaker 7: Yeah, let's get married, like, let's it's fun, it's a party.

1096
00:52:01,480 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 10: Yeah yeah.

1097
00:52:02,680 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 4: And I was planning my wedding and then now that

1098
00:52:06,000 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 4: I'm not no longer with that person and that didn't happen,

1099
00:52:09,200 --> 00:52:12,319
Speaker 4: like I'm back to like feeling like I don't think.

1100
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,480
Speaker 7: Neither one of my parents are married. All my grandparents

1101
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:16,520
Speaker 7: have been divorced.

1102
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:19,439
Speaker 4: My mom has been with her partner for over twenty

1103
00:52:19,520 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 4: years and they're not married legally, and they seem perfectly happy.

1104
00:52:23,960 --> 00:52:25,719
Speaker 1: You know, my kids got married when I was eleven,

1105
00:52:25,760 --> 00:52:29,319
Speaker 1: and they did this to my dad, did have his papers. Yeah,

1106
00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: they seem happy over there, kicking on the phone. And

1107
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:34,239
Speaker 1: every year I'm.

1108
00:52:34,160 --> 00:52:36,840
Speaker 6: Saying it's insane because the thing is they have the monogamy,

1109
00:52:37,160 --> 00:52:38,920
Speaker 6: like they're committed to one another.

1110
00:52:39,080 --> 00:52:43,359
Speaker 1: Do you just do you merrily? Dad's faithful. I feel

1111
00:52:43,440 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 1: like no Caribbean man is faithful.

1112
00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,800
Speaker 6: So I feel like I swear I know in my

1113
00:52:48,000 --> 00:52:50,759
Speaker 6: heart that maybe not now because he's an old man

1114
00:52:50,840 --> 00:52:53,479
Speaker 6: right now, but back in like his like golden days

1115
00:52:53,480 --> 00:52:57,000
Speaker 6: and stuff, he was probably definitely like you know, deep

1116
00:52:57,080 --> 00:53:01,440
Speaker 6: dick and sun bitch on the island, But I he

1117
00:53:01,680 --> 00:53:05,960
Speaker 6: it never it never interfered with our life. Ever, he

1118
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:09,320
Speaker 6: still called exactly like on times before call her, I

1119
00:53:09,400 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 6: D and ship, so like you would tell my mom

1120
00:53:10,680 --> 00:53:13,000
Speaker 6: exactly what I was gonna call, and you call on time.

1121
00:53:13,200 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 6: He would send he my mother has a suitcase full

1122
00:53:16,719 --> 00:53:19,719
Speaker 6: of little cassette tapes. He would send her love like

1123
00:53:20,600 --> 00:53:23,879
Speaker 6: like recording every fucking month.

1124
00:53:23,960 --> 00:53:26,560
Speaker 1: I mean, man, like your father, you know what I mean.

1125
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:31,759
Speaker 1: He probably was out here fucking but it doesn't matter. Yeah,

1126
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:37,360
Speaker 1: and he was whole family, like we were to unlock whatever.

1127
00:53:38,960 --> 00:53:40,239
Speaker 9: I used to feel. Like if I don't feel it,

1128
00:53:40,280 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 9: see it, or if you know here touch you can't

1129
00:53:42,280 --> 00:53:43,080
Speaker 9: smell it, don't care.

1130
00:53:43,239 --> 00:53:43,440
Speaker 14: I mean.

1131
00:53:43,680 --> 00:53:46,719
Speaker 1: Ignorance is like if you're taking care of home, like

1132
00:53:46,760 --> 00:53:49,000
Speaker 1: you're not spending no money. I'm noticing out of this

1133
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:51,239
Speaker 1: no food coming out of.

1134
00:53:51,280 --> 00:53:53,920
Speaker 16: My my family household, Like if you're got it, if

1135
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,600
Speaker 16: you're holding it down, I'm honestly, and you're calling showing

1136
00:53:56,719 --> 00:53:58,640
Speaker 16: up and you're not smiling at text messages by mistake,

1137
00:54:00,520 --> 00:54:02,799
Speaker 16: I'm going to not I don't really give a fuck.

1138
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:07,600
Speaker 1: That's I swear because I just remember that niggas fakes, like.

1139
00:54:09,160 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 2: You know what I.

1140
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:14,040
Speaker 7: Feel like, if you're gonna go you're gonna find I

1141
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 7: don't know. I don't know why I ever looked.

1142
00:54:15,640 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: I'm not a looker either.

1143
00:54:16,760 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 7: To a fault, probably would have found out. I probably

1144
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 7: would have been out of my relationship sooner.

1145
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:23,360
Speaker 1: Oh my god, did you have a feeling that you

1146
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 1: should look and you ignored that feeling?

1147
00:54:25,000 --> 00:54:27,720
Speaker 9: Because I look after I ask.

1148
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:30,399
Speaker 5: You first, are you fucking somebody? Are you saying someone?

1149
00:54:30,480 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 5: Are you doing some weird ship? Because it's feeling like it.

1150
00:54:32,680 --> 00:54:34,320
Speaker 1: And if you lie, and I'm a psychic and I

1151
00:54:34,360 --> 00:54:36,440
Speaker 1: know you're fucking lying, then I'm gonna go look to confirm.

1152
00:54:36,600 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: Don't play me. I'm sitting here because I feel like

1153
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: I'm intuitive as fun a psychic.

1154
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,600
Speaker 6: So I literally I've gone through phones and I always

1155
00:54:44,680 --> 00:54:47,640
Speaker 6: find what I assume or I expected, So you're always

1156
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,080
Speaker 6: always going to nob it'scistic. It's like it's like, oh wait,

1157
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,839
Speaker 6: this bach like the artist that you're working with, Oh

1158
00:54:54,880 --> 00:54:59,960
Speaker 6: you're fucking her? And I would and you'd be like, no, like.

1159
00:55:00,160 --> 00:55:02,400
Speaker 1: His artists or rapper or fucky whatever the let you

1160
00:55:02,480 --> 00:55:03,000
Speaker 1: do ship?

1161
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 5: So speak unfortunately, speaking of monogamy and just sex in

1162
00:55:08,520 --> 00:55:11,520
Speaker 5: general and free sex or whatever, like as women, you know,

1163
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,960
Speaker 5: there's like all this social bullshit that comes with it.

1164
00:55:14,080 --> 00:55:15,920
Speaker 10: But what did like for you?

1165
00:55:16,680 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: What does it mean to be a hop Like we

1166
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:21,360
Speaker 1: we did a whole upisode on this.

1167
00:55:21,440 --> 00:55:23,719
Speaker 6: We have a down path to a side definition like this,

1168
00:55:26,200 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 6: you have no standards any and everything, no standards.

1169
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:34,319
Speaker 1: What's not morals, it's just standards period. I like having sex.

1170
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: I'll have sex with you if I like, if I

1171
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 1: think you're attractive.

1172
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 6: If you know you might fit an aesthetic that I'm

1173
00:55:39,560 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 6: going with this month, whatever the case may be, Like

1174
00:55:41,719 --> 00:55:44,640
Speaker 6: I like you a whole will fuck just because it's

1175
00:55:44,719 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 6: fucking time, you know, like like, oh he talked to me,

1176
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,000
Speaker 6: he bought me a drink, I'm gonna suck his dick

1177
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,239
Speaker 6: in the back just because you know, Like there's no

1178
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:57,640
Speaker 6: levels the whole.

1179
00:55:57,719 --> 00:56:00,440
Speaker 1: You don't think there's layers of whoness. I think the.

1180
00:56:02,239 --> 00:56:05,520
Speaker 4: Defining fast found that might be the foundation. You know,

1181
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:07,880
Speaker 4: there's more you cannot that's not gonna be a picky

1182
00:56:07,920 --> 00:56:08,399
Speaker 4: hole too.

1183
00:56:08,520 --> 00:56:12,600
Speaker 1: Not just like a dick. No, I don't, I don't care.

1184
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:17,879
Speaker 6: I'm not talking about you have to sug dick behind

1185
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:20,759
Speaker 6: like bathroom saws or anything like that. But it's the

1186
00:56:20,880 --> 00:56:23,600
Speaker 6: standard listing where it's like, it doesn't matter who it is.

1187
00:56:23,880 --> 00:56:25,880
Speaker 6: He has a penis and he wants to fuck me,

1188
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 6: I'm gonna fuck him.

1189
00:56:27,200 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it's easier to attribute that definition to

1190
00:56:30,160 --> 00:56:32,560
Speaker 1: the men, and then once you do that you can

1191
00:56:32,680 --> 00:56:34,960
Speaker 1: understand it. But yeah, woman's perspective.

1192
00:56:35,440 --> 00:56:39,440
Speaker 5: I think that how and it's a negative cognoitation to that, right,

1193
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:41,840
Speaker 5: It's about how you carry.

1194
00:56:43,160 --> 00:56:47,560
Speaker 1: Cognitation. But it was close enough. Its sounded like I

1195
00:56:47,600 --> 00:56:48,319
Speaker 1: spelled it right.

1196
00:56:50,200 --> 00:56:52,320
Speaker 5: I feel like it's how you carry it yourself, because

1197
00:56:52,760 --> 00:56:54,360
Speaker 5: like someone can say, if you're from my sperience, so

1198
00:56:54,400 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 5: you've done this, if you fucked two guys in twenty faults,

1199
00:56:57,520 --> 00:56:59,000
Speaker 5: or if you've accepted money.

1200
00:56:58,800 --> 00:57:01,040
Speaker 1: For the first you're a house that.

1201
00:57:01,160 --> 00:57:03,439
Speaker 5: I think all in all, it's about how you carry

1202
00:57:03,480 --> 00:57:05,560
Speaker 5: yourself and how you can if someone can't look.

1203
00:57:05,400 --> 00:57:06,480
Speaker 1: You up in the line up and be like that

1204
00:57:06,640 --> 00:57:07,720
Speaker 1: one right, there's the home.

1205
00:57:12,040 --> 00:57:14,120
Speaker 4: Song is gonna come for you because that's you know,

1206
00:57:14,280 --> 00:57:17,320
Speaker 4: slut shaming, and because I know people who look like,

1207
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 4: oh wait, paus pas.

1208
00:57:20,600 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 9: I love Gucci gear number one, number one Hoochi gear supporter.

1209
00:57:27,120 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 5: It might could be topless most of the time, I

1210
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:32,240
Speaker 5: would like see through no brawl, no panties, all that ship.

1211
00:57:32,280 --> 00:57:33,040
Speaker 1: I'm here for it.

1212
00:57:33,640 --> 00:57:35,960
Speaker 5: I don't mean like your outfits per se, but like

1213
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:39,960
Speaker 5: your demeanor, that the respect that you demand from my nigga,

1214
00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 5: Like I can fuck up, I want to fuck, but

1215
00:57:41,520 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 5: like there's a there's a there's a respect that you demand,

1216
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:46,760
Speaker 5: and there's like a difference between a whole. It's just

1217
00:57:46,840 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 5: like down for anything. Anything goes like a nigga.

1218
00:57:50,400 --> 00:57:52,200
Speaker 15: I don't know, like I think a hose that I

1219
00:57:52,240 --> 00:57:55,200
Speaker 15: think a whoe is an action, Like it's not a

1220
00:57:55,280 --> 00:57:59,120
Speaker 15: feeling and a vibe, it's it's right now. The person

1221
00:57:59,200 --> 00:58:02,360
Speaker 15: that a lot of people just because you know what

1222
00:58:02,440 --> 00:58:05,240
Speaker 15: I mean, like not not just because, but like four

1223
00:58:05,360 --> 00:58:08,560
Speaker 15: things and just has no morals for me and he

1224
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:09,360
Speaker 15: has no standards.

1225
00:58:09,640 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 7: I think morals is definitely plays a part.

1226
00:58:12,240 --> 00:58:15,240
Speaker 1: In being a whole. Hotels don't have morals, but there

1227
00:58:15,320 --> 00:58:20,200
Speaker 1: are times where you you know this guy, but you

1228
00:58:20,400 --> 00:58:21,680
Speaker 1: might have a few morals.

1229
00:58:21,720 --> 00:58:24,760
Speaker 6: I'm not they're not moral less because I think I

1230
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:27,400
Speaker 6: feel like every woman goes to a whole phase or

1231
00:58:27,560 --> 00:58:29,920
Speaker 6: for like those six to nine months, maybe two to

1232
00:58:30,000 --> 00:58:31,959
Speaker 6: three years, you are a bona fide hope.

1233
00:58:32,480 --> 00:58:36,320
Speaker 1: You have morals, you know, you have morals, but.

1234
00:58:36,760 --> 00:58:39,040
Speaker 4: There you know, a whole, then you're not really a hole.

1235
00:58:39,080 --> 00:58:41,840
Speaker 4: You're just being a whole for the moment, but at

1236
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 4: that moment you're a home. Yeah, I mean I don't know.

1237
00:58:47,920 --> 00:58:49,960
Speaker 7: The real never changes her wholeish way.

1238
00:58:50,120 --> 00:58:53,400
Speaker 6: Well, no, like there are forty three year old hosy thirteen.

1239
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: You could delete it. Though you delete yours, you don't.

1240
00:58:59,240 --> 00:59:02,240
Speaker 1: You can delete your home. Was like your credit after

1241
00:59:02,320 --> 00:59:03,360
Speaker 1: seven years it drops off.

1242
00:59:05,560 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 5: And I would like to publicly agree I'm.

1243
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:10,280
Speaker 9: Totally going, but.

1244
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 5: Now Eric, go put my pen in. Oh, I was

1245
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:20,920
Speaker 5: gonna say, sorry, I'm high. There is a female that

1246
00:59:21,040 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 5: I know and this is for sure bonafide. She's like

1247
00:59:26,760 --> 00:59:30,520
Speaker 5: she like there's been times there was like five dudes

1248
00:59:30,560 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 5: at my house and she had literally pulled all of them.

1249
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: It was like one of those things like when.

1250
00:59:34,760 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 5: Somebody could tap her on the shoulder say come outside,

1251
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:38,640
Speaker 5: and I later I'd find out like, yeah, she's talk

1252
00:59:38,640 --> 00:59:39,320
Speaker 5: with my dick in the park.

1253
00:59:39,720 --> 00:59:40,880
Speaker 1: I had a friend just like that, and.

1254
00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:44,400
Speaker 5: No, this is this is some real ship and this

1255
00:59:44,560 --> 00:59:46,320
Speaker 5: is sad, Like I felt I felt bad for her

1256
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,680
Speaker 5: because she was also speaking of the earlier conversation the

1257
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:51,560
Speaker 5: girl in high school who would let people run trains

1258
00:59:51,600 --> 00:59:53,720
Speaker 5: on her and I saw like videos in the fawn.

1259
00:59:53,800 --> 00:59:55,560
Speaker 5: This is before I knew her or she had been

1260
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 5: like around like that, because she ended up living in

1261
00:59:57,240 --> 00:59:59,480
Speaker 5: my building later and even in high school.

1262
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:01,160
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's really sad.

1263
01:00:01,240 --> 01:00:03,919
Speaker 5: She means she's going through something. You guys are taking

1264
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:06,600
Speaker 5: advantage of her. It's how I felt, you know, Like

1265
01:00:06,760 --> 01:00:08,200
Speaker 5: that was as a woman. That was my initial like

1266
01:00:08,240 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 5: something's wrong here. Strash forward like ten years later, she's

1267
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:16,360
Speaker 5: still like to the core, to the gritty.

1268
01:00:15,680 --> 01:00:17,960
Speaker 9: Like she's like, oh, it's so and so over.

1269
01:00:18,080 --> 01:00:19,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, calm.

1270
01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 14: Made.

1271
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:23,919
Speaker 5: We made the mistake of taking her to the club

1272
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:25,880
Speaker 5: right now one time, and this is what I remember,

1273
01:00:25,960 --> 01:00:26,760
Speaker 5: Like it was how.

1274
01:00:26,720 --> 01:00:28,960
Speaker 9: She dressed, it was how she carried herself, it was everything.

1275
01:00:29,120 --> 01:00:32,680
Speaker 5: And somebody asked the guy who was my baby daddy,

1276
01:00:32,760 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 5: like are they like are you basically a house?

1277
01:00:38,760 --> 01:00:38,960
Speaker 1: Yeah?

1278
01:00:38,960 --> 01:00:40,800
Speaker 5: And I was like you gotta go off western or

1279
01:00:40,880 --> 01:00:42,280
Speaker 5: like if we were for sale, and I was like,

1280
01:00:42,320 --> 01:00:44,080
Speaker 5: oh my god, I'm never bringing this bitch out anyway.

1281
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:45,320
Speaker 1: Like when she came out of the house, I was like,

1282
01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:51,240
Speaker 1: oh no, but there is like an air but like

1283
01:00:51,800 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 1: she's smart.

1284
01:00:52,520 --> 01:00:54,920
Speaker 6: I don't know because my my friend who were my

1285
01:00:55,040 --> 01:00:57,760
Speaker 6: old friend who was a bonafide hole. When I say bonafide,

1286
01:00:57,800 --> 01:01:00,560
Speaker 6: I mean like that same situation where I took her

1287
01:01:00,600 --> 01:01:02,720
Speaker 6: to a party and my homeboy walked.

1288
01:01:02,520 --> 01:01:03,760
Speaker 1: Up to me and was like, yo, she just tried

1289
01:01:03,760 --> 01:01:06,400
Speaker 1: to suck my dick in a bathroom like it. Didn't

1290
01:01:06,480 --> 01:01:08,120
Speaker 1: know him, didn't know.

1291
01:01:08,200 --> 01:01:09,520
Speaker 9: But she didn't look didn't appear to.

1292
01:01:09,520 --> 01:01:13,400
Speaker 6: Be a no, you would never tell. She looks like

1293
01:01:13,520 --> 01:01:16,880
Speaker 6: a very like nice, nice girl. She's a very like sweet,

1294
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,320
Speaker 6: like baby voice. You would never know.

1295
01:01:19,560 --> 01:01:21,320
Speaker 5: Some people were sex adicts, but then some people have

1296
01:01:21,560 --> 01:01:25,240
Speaker 5: had childhood experiences like abuse that I think trigger certain

1297
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:26,960
Speaker 5: things and it's a serious thing. Like I'm not saying

1298
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:30,720
Speaker 5: for everybody, because I've done some questionable things. Yeah, and

1299
01:01:31,560 --> 01:01:34,840
Speaker 5: so far, I don't remember any trauma that's like direct

1300
01:01:34,880 --> 01:01:36,920
Speaker 5: I could blame it on unfortunately, But.

1301
01:01:40,160 --> 01:01:41,080
Speaker 1: Are you sure.

1302
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:45,280
Speaker 5: He was there?

1303
01:01:48,840 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 1: Seriously?

1304
01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:52,040
Speaker 5: Like she she had issues and I'm sure it was

1305
01:01:52,160 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 5: like deeper and she would tell you in like a

1306
01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:54,920
Speaker 5: drop of diamond. She did not have to know you,

1307
01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:58,200
Speaker 5: and she's like, yeah, my mom's ex husband tried to

1308
01:01:59,040 --> 01:02:02,040
Speaker 5: like have sex with me, like but it was almost

1309
01:02:02,080 --> 01:02:03,000
Speaker 5: like did you do it.

1310
01:02:05,360 --> 01:02:06,760
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I could tell.

1311
01:02:06,920 --> 01:02:08,840
Speaker 5: All I'm saying is my psychic ability told me it

1312
01:02:08,920 --> 01:02:10,640
Speaker 5: was something much deeper. So I feel like even though

1313
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:12,960
Speaker 5: we jokingly he use the word ho, the term like

1314
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 5: as like, you know, actrective and like to describe some

1315
01:02:15,920 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 5: of our actions.

1316
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:18,760
Speaker 1: But sometimes you know, but all.

1317
01:02:18,720 --> 01:02:20,680
Speaker 5: In all, I think it's actually a very sad word

1318
01:02:20,800 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 5: that just you know, describes someone like that particular girl.

1319
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if I call her a hope she

1320
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 1: had like some trauma or like, you know, oh no,

1321
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:34,120
Speaker 1: but she was a hope. Let me all have trauma. Yeah,

1322
01:02:34,800 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: you blame. I mean, I get it. I get that.

1323
01:02:36,960 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, when you learn a lesson, you know, I know,

1324
01:02:39,720 --> 01:02:41,200
Speaker 6: just the term hole doesn't make me go.

1325
01:02:43,080 --> 01:02:47,160
Speaker 1: Like that story made me go, oh my god. I know.

1326
01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:49,320
Speaker 6: So I can't call her a hoe just because I'm

1327
01:02:49,400 --> 01:02:51,560
Speaker 6: just like, oh, but you not baby, You just her,

1328
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 6: you just her little angel.

1329
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,520
Speaker 1: Yeah. Right, at the end of the day, we're still

1330
01:02:56,680 --> 01:02:57,960
Speaker 1: choosing to we are.

1331
01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:01,240
Speaker 6: No, it's true, I mean, but I don't know. I

1332
01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:02,720
Speaker 6: don't know, because I wouldn't wish that on the worst

1333
01:03:02,800 --> 01:03:03,760
Speaker 6: enemy to be Like, you.

1334
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:08,280
Speaker 5: Know, sometimes trauma makes you confuse love for physicality and

1335
01:03:08,720 --> 01:03:10,680
Speaker 5: even for me, I had to ask myself, like after

1336
01:03:11,480 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 5: a stunt in my like college years, like am I

1337
01:03:14,920 --> 01:03:15,600
Speaker 5: looking for love?

1338
01:03:15,880 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 1: Like do I need.

1339
01:03:18,680 --> 01:03:18,720
Speaker 14: You?

1340
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 1: You're compensating for something that and that's all it is.

1341
01:03:22,440 --> 01:03:24,280
Speaker 5: I mean, but at least I'm like adult enough and

1342
01:03:24,400 --> 01:03:26,440
Speaker 5: human enough and real enough to do like there was

1343
01:03:26,440 --> 01:03:26,720
Speaker 5: a boy.

1344
01:03:27,200 --> 01:03:27,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know what.

1345
01:03:27,760 --> 01:03:28,080
Speaker 4: I don't know.

1346
01:03:29,480 --> 01:03:30,720
Speaker 1: We've all been there, girl.

1347
01:03:31,080 --> 01:03:35,880
Speaker 7: Yeah, so you know, I know we were in your show.

1348
01:03:36,440 --> 01:03:37,840
Speaker 4: I don't know if we were the first, the first

1349
01:03:37,880 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 4: moms on your show. Yeah, well we've never had to

1350
01:03:43,720 --> 01:03:49,240
Speaker 4: childless people. Wait, you know how long it took me

1351
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:50,160
Speaker 4: to come up with that word?

1352
01:03:50,160 --> 01:03:50,600
Speaker 1: And that's like.

1353
01:03:52,720 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 4: Momless not momless, Like I was trying to figure out

1354
01:03:56,160 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 4: what was the what's the correct word for some child?

1355
01:04:01,240 --> 01:04:03,080
Speaker 1: We we women without children.

1356
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:06,680
Speaker 6: You know, we may not have babes, but I think

1357
01:04:06,760 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 6: we've raised enough niggas considered if you've even been successful.

1358
01:04:13,040 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 1: Okay, I'm raising a couple right now. Listen, Yes, I've

1359
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:21,640
Speaker 1: raised great niki Mi naj But do you.

1360
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:25,880
Speaker 4: Think like do you think that, like what would you

1361
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:29,240
Speaker 4: define like what is what is like something a mom

1362
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:33,120
Speaker 4: in your opinion, like shouldn't what is a bad mom basically,

1363
01:04:33,440 --> 01:04:36,320
Speaker 4: you know, what would you consider a bad mom? Oh yeah,

1364
01:04:36,440 --> 01:04:38,600
Speaker 4: but I mean like as far as just like on

1365
01:04:39,000 --> 01:04:41,439
Speaker 4: every spectrum, Just like I know you asked us last

1366
01:04:41,720 --> 01:04:43,880
Speaker 4: last night about Kim Kardashian and the way she dresses,

1367
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 4: Like is that considered?

1368
01:04:45,400 --> 01:04:47,040
Speaker 7: Like what spectrum?

1369
01:04:47,120 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 5: Once you become on be thinking, Oh no, I'm gonna

1370
01:04:48,800 --> 01:04:49,800
Speaker 5: have I'm gonna definitely come.

1371
01:04:49,880 --> 01:04:51,480
Speaker 1: What do you think you're guys, like, what do you think?

1372
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:53,880
Speaker 4: Do you have an idea of what kind of mother

1373
01:04:53,960 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 4: you're going to be in your head and what you

1374
01:04:56,400 --> 01:04:57,560
Speaker 4: define as a good mom.

1375
01:04:58,760 --> 01:05:03,160
Speaker 6: I'm so scared motherhood only because we have a dog

1376
01:05:03,480 --> 01:05:07,160
Speaker 6: and I'm so mean to him. It makes me fear

1377
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:13,560
Speaker 6: how I like, my hat is so is so short

1378
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,800
Speaker 6: with him that when I go the fuck off, I'm

1379
01:05:15,840 --> 01:05:18,080
Speaker 6: just like, Jess, I'm just like, I go to this

1380
01:05:18,200 --> 01:05:18,880
Speaker 6: to my baby.

1381
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:21,120
Speaker 5: Oh my god.

1382
01:05:22,240 --> 01:05:22,439
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1383
01:05:22,440 --> 01:05:26,280
Speaker 6: So I'm like, but now I'm like making a conscious

1384
01:05:26,320 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 6: decision to be nicer to the pets because I don't

1385
01:05:29,400 --> 01:05:32,600
Speaker 6: want that to become my default when dealing with someone

1386
01:05:32,640 --> 01:05:34,720
Speaker 6: that I have power over or like, you know, especially

1387
01:05:34,760 --> 01:05:36,440
Speaker 6: like a pet or child or whatever the case may be.

1388
01:05:36,800 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 6: Because it's so easy to just be like the fuck.

1389
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:41,919
Speaker 6: I don't want to be that mom.

1390
01:05:42,320 --> 01:05:44,200
Speaker 1: I want to be like the fun mom. You know

1391
01:05:44,880 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm a cool mom.

1392
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, well not even the cool mom. I just want

1393
01:05:48,120 --> 01:05:51,000
Speaker 6: to be like I want to be fun but still strict.

1394
01:05:51,560 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 6: I want us to have a good time together. I

1395
01:05:53,040 --> 01:05:55,320
Speaker 6: want to do like arts and crafts and ship. But

1396
01:05:55,400 --> 01:05:57,000
Speaker 6: I also want you to know that, bitch, I'm not

1397
01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 6: the one. Would you have ever smoke in front of

1398
01:05:58,800 --> 01:05:59,160
Speaker 6: your child?

1399
01:06:00,360 --> 01:06:00,520
Speaker 14: Mm?

1400
01:06:01,760 --> 01:06:06,920
Speaker 1: Probably not? Probably not, probably not. I'll probably like.

1401
01:06:07,200 --> 01:06:09,959
Speaker 6: I'll either edible, maybe smoke when they go to bed,

1402
01:06:10,400 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 6: but I'm not finna like spark up in front of

1403
01:06:12,440 --> 01:06:14,200
Speaker 6: my bad you know, because then they'll they're gonna be like,

1404
01:06:14,840 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 6: Mommy is smoking funny cigarettes again today? And that funny this?

1405
01:06:21,360 --> 01:06:21,520
Speaker 14: Right?

1406
01:06:22,520 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 1: No?

1407
01:06:22,720 --> 01:06:24,920
Speaker 7: I don't know, Like, is there anything you're like, you're

1408
01:06:25,080 --> 01:06:25,320
Speaker 7: you do.

1409
01:06:25,440 --> 01:06:27,920
Speaker 1: Now that you wouldn't do? You think you would have

1410
01:06:28,080 --> 01:06:40,640
Speaker 1: to end with your child? Like will you win it's

1411
01:06:40,640 --> 01:06:45,720
Speaker 1: a glass of water? Water? I don't think so.

1412
01:06:45,920 --> 01:06:48,919
Speaker 6: I honestly, I hate the idea that when you become

1413
01:06:48,960 --> 01:06:52,080
Speaker 6: a mom you have to change who you are. I

1414
01:06:52,120 --> 01:06:54,400
Speaker 6: don't like that concept, and I feel like it's just

1415
01:06:54,520 --> 01:06:56,479
Speaker 6: it's dumb. It's like when people say, when you get married,

1416
01:06:56,480 --> 01:06:58,080
Speaker 6: you have to like change your behavior to.

1417
01:06:58,680 --> 01:07:02,800
Speaker 1: Bullshit to get your marriage. Yeah, like you're a married woman,

1418
01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:04,440
Speaker 1: now you're a mom.

1419
01:07:04,800 --> 01:07:07,959
Speaker 6: Your titties are out. I know those are no longer

1420
01:07:08,080 --> 01:07:10,520
Speaker 6: for eye pleasure. Those are milk bads. Put them away.

1421
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:16,680
Speaker 6: You're showing your daughter's lunch. Nomm Yeah, I'm pretty I'm

1422
01:07:16,680 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 6: going to be the same.

1423
01:07:17,640 --> 01:07:20,160
Speaker 1: I think when I have children and that stops sucking

1424
01:07:20,200 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 1: your fingers, no, because but then get my teeth.

1425
01:07:28,760 --> 01:07:37,280
Speaker 6: So I was like, oh, yeah, been sucking them right, Okay,

1426
01:07:39,680 --> 01:07:43,080
Speaker 6: my cousin she sucks her two fingers and her daughter

1427
01:07:43,560 --> 01:07:44,040
Speaker 6: saw her.

1428
01:07:44,000 --> 01:07:46,240
Speaker 1: Doing it and started doing it. So her daughter sucks

1429
01:07:46,240 --> 01:07:46,800
Speaker 1: her two fingers.

1430
01:07:46,840 --> 01:07:49,240
Speaker 6: Now twoth fingers are different than the thumb though, because

1431
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:50,439
Speaker 6: you'll get buck teeth quick.

1432
01:07:50,640 --> 01:07:52,760
Speaker 1: But but she doesn't. So my cousin does. She has

1433
01:07:52,800 --> 01:07:54,160
Speaker 1: perfect teeth too. It's the strange.

1434
01:07:54,920 --> 01:07:57,840
Speaker 6: But she sucks to me, and her daughter does it too.

1435
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:00,960
Speaker 6: And I remember my aunt she was like yelling at

1436
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:03,959
Speaker 6: her like the first year of like my little cousin's life,

1437
01:08:04,160 --> 01:08:05,720
Speaker 6: like you need to stop because she will pick up

1438
01:08:05,760 --> 01:08:07,840
Speaker 6: the habit if she never did and her daughter picked

1439
01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:13,760
Speaker 6: it up. Yeah, my mom didn't raise me. But that's

1440
01:08:13,800 --> 01:08:15,680
Speaker 6: who I got it from. She still sucks her thumb

1441
01:08:15,720 --> 01:08:20,360
Speaker 6: to this. I just inherited. You don't think you saw

1442
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:21,920
Speaker 6: her do it and started doing it or was it

1443
01:08:22,040 --> 01:08:26,040
Speaker 6: like you just I mean maybe as like as a boy.

1444
01:08:26,960 --> 01:08:30,280
Speaker 1: But yeah, is like not when I could actually like

1445
01:08:30,400 --> 01:08:33,639
Speaker 1: recount memories. You know, maybe it is genetic.

1446
01:08:34,320 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 6: Maybe I don't know, because literally her daughter does it

1447
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:39,280
Speaker 6: no matter what, she'll just be like snacktown be over

1448
01:08:39,640 --> 01:08:40,120
Speaker 6: and she'll be.

1449
01:08:40,200 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 1: Like done.

1450
01:08:46,120 --> 01:08:46,360
Speaker 4: Away.

1451
01:08:46,720 --> 01:08:48,400
Speaker 1: She had like two little bumps from second.

1452
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 14: No.

1453
01:08:49,520 --> 01:08:51,960
Speaker 6: It's literally like if she's not doing something with her hands,

1454
01:08:52,040 --> 01:08:52,920
Speaker 6: her hands are in her mouth.

1455
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:54,879
Speaker 1: It's like an oral fixation.

1456
01:08:56,320 --> 01:09:00,080
Speaker 7: Speaking of oral fixations, I would love to hear I

1457
01:09:00,160 --> 01:09:00,639
Speaker 7: think it's.

1458
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:10,559
Speaker 10: Time for a horr oh yeah, and a horror story.

1459
01:09:10,920 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 5: And now that we have guests, it'd be nice to

1460
01:09:13,720 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 5: put somebody else's business out there, either.

1461
01:09:19,240 --> 01:09:22,640
Speaker 7: One both, whatever you go first, do you have a

1462
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:23,800
Speaker 7: whore you would like to share?

1463
01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:25,559
Speaker 1: We don't judge her. This is no judgment.

1464
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:26,960
Speaker 9: So it could be like a level one.

1465
01:09:27,200 --> 01:09:29,160
Speaker 6: It could be yeah, I know, but I don't even

1466
01:09:29,920 --> 01:09:33,000
Speaker 6: I don't know what the levels of horness are.

1467
01:09:33,800 --> 01:09:36,000
Speaker 1: When you do you need like something that goes that

1468
01:09:36,120 --> 01:09:38,720
Speaker 1: makes you go like what the fuck, or like just

1469
01:09:38,800 --> 01:09:39,439
Speaker 1: something that's.

1470
01:09:39,360 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 5: Like, okay, bitch, it could be level three, it could

1471
01:09:44,560 --> 01:09:46,439
Speaker 5: be level tens up to you. It depends on how

1472
01:09:46,479 --> 01:09:47,160
Speaker 5: you're feeling.

1473
01:09:48,520 --> 01:09:48,800
Speaker 1: Range.

1474
01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:56,920
Speaker 6: I mean, my my hoe days were really just me

1475
01:09:57,880 --> 01:10:02,439
Speaker 6: being with multiple guys within the span of a week

1476
01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 6: or something like that.

1477
01:10:03,600 --> 01:10:06,720
Speaker 1: It was never that's it. That's what That's what my

1478
01:10:06,920 --> 01:10:08,439
Speaker 1: being a who was? I mean, but that is what

1479
01:10:09,000 --> 01:10:13,000
Speaker 1: I know. But that's well, I mean, you're just a

1480
01:10:13,120 --> 01:10:13,439
Speaker 1: bunch of.

1481
01:10:15,800 --> 01:10:19,360
Speaker 6: A bunch of people. It's just like one week. No, no, no,

1482
01:10:19,720 --> 01:10:23,080
Speaker 6: she's just not like been seven days fucking four people.

1483
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:26,400
Speaker 6: That's that's peak hot in my world.

1484
01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:30,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's you're just juggling those four you know.

1485
01:10:33,640 --> 01:10:36,880
Speaker 6: I mean I've been guys like during those days, I

1486
01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:40,400
Speaker 6: was with guys who had girlfriends, and like I knew

1487
01:10:40,479 --> 01:10:41,600
Speaker 6: those girls.

1488
01:10:45,240 --> 01:10:51,680
Speaker 1: Friends. I know all about You're like, yeah hard like

1489
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:52,600
Speaker 1: you know about that.

1490
01:10:56,200 --> 01:10:58,400
Speaker 9: I have situations like that. I mean, only one I

1491
01:10:58,439 --> 01:10:58,880
Speaker 9: could think of.

1492
01:10:59,080 --> 01:11:00,880
Speaker 1: I've never been in that. She wanted to before. I

1493
01:11:00,960 --> 01:11:06,840
Speaker 1: haven't either. I've been cheat I've been cheated on me neither,

1494
01:11:07,160 --> 01:11:10,840
Speaker 1: at least my knowledge. I contacted the other woman and

1495
01:11:10,920 --> 01:11:12,320
Speaker 1: then she didn't know she was the other woman, and

1496
01:11:12,439 --> 01:11:16,200
Speaker 1: we both ganged up on his ask how did you

1497
01:11:16,320 --> 01:11:19,240
Speaker 1: not know? This was my biggest I was living with

1498
01:11:19,439 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: him and he would invite him to the house. I

1499
01:11:21,560 --> 01:11:27,840
Speaker 1: was at work. She didn't know that I risky eggs

1500
01:11:29,920 --> 01:11:31,200
Speaker 1: he's a risk taker because.

1501
01:11:31,080 --> 01:11:32,320
Speaker 3: She know it was his ex.

1502
01:11:32,479 --> 01:11:37,560
Speaker 6: So she like, I moved into his place, so she

1503
01:11:37,760 --> 01:11:42,960
Speaker 6: was so she was they had broken up, we got together.

1504
01:11:43,280 --> 01:11:47,120
Speaker 6: I moved in and he like reconnected with her and

1505
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:50,360
Speaker 6: she would come over. But to her, the place looks.

1506
01:11:50,160 --> 01:11:50,880
Speaker 1: The same like.

1507
01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:55,320
Speaker 7: Time anyway, it was exactly, and so like she just

1508
01:11:55,400 --> 01:11:55,760
Speaker 7: didn't know.

1509
01:11:56,040 --> 01:11:58,640
Speaker 1: And I found her asked and was like, did I

1510
01:11:58,840 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 1: live with him? And she's like, oh, girls, shut the

1511
01:12:01,000 --> 01:12:03,800
Speaker 1: fuck up. I was just there last Thursday. I'm so sorry.

1512
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:05,400
Speaker 1: I said, you didn't know about me.

1513
01:12:05,520 --> 01:12:07,560
Speaker 6: She's like, no, I would never and I was just like, O,

1514
01:12:07,800 --> 01:12:13,439
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, like ready to go the fuck off, and

1515
01:12:13,600 --> 01:12:15,040
Speaker 6: she was like, I'm so sorry.

1516
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: I swear to god, I didn't know and had lunch. No, no,

1517
01:12:21,400 --> 01:12:23,559
Speaker 1: I like I thought him when he got home. Yeah

1518
01:12:23,720 --> 01:12:29,880
Speaker 1: that happened that massive it's not Okay's but that was

1519
01:12:29,960 --> 01:12:32,240
Speaker 1: some violence that night. But yeah, it was not Okay,

1520
01:12:34,479 --> 01:12:36,639
Speaker 1: what's yours? Okay, you said, Wenna.

1521
01:12:36,760 --> 01:12:39,720
Speaker 6: I'm gonna condense this one because it's rather along. Met

1522
01:12:39,840 --> 01:12:44,599
Speaker 6: this guy off of the Tender We Loved last year.

1523
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,320
Speaker 6: I didn't talk to him though, up until like a

1524
01:12:48,400 --> 01:12:53,479
Speaker 6: couple two three weeks ago, because when I first started

1525
01:12:53,479 --> 01:12:55,960
Speaker 6: talking to him, he just sounded really pretentious and he

1526
01:12:56,080 --> 01:12:58,800
Speaker 6: was asking me these questions that like he it was

1527
01:12:58,840 --> 01:13:00,960
Speaker 6: like I was filling out like and then indeed application

1528
01:13:01,080 --> 01:13:02,479
Speaker 6: like he was asking me, when'd.

1529
01:13:02,240 --> 01:13:02,759
Speaker 1: You go to school?

1530
01:13:02,880 --> 01:13:03,280
Speaker 10: What do you do?

1531
01:13:03,520 --> 01:13:05,040
Speaker 1: How much do you get? Babe? Would you tell me

1532
01:13:05,320 --> 01:13:07,439
Speaker 1: all this ship? And I was just like yeah, And

1533
01:13:07,479 --> 01:13:08,920
Speaker 1: I was just like, what the fuck? I don't like this.

1534
01:13:09,000 --> 01:13:10,760
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk to you anymore. So the

1535
01:13:10,840 --> 01:13:11,960
Speaker 1: other day I was lonely.

1536
01:13:12,560 --> 01:13:14,760
Speaker 6: I was sad because the man winning my pussy, uh

1537
01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:18,960
Speaker 6: Sara wasn't around then. Mercedes was gone to and I

1538
01:13:19,080 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 6: was at the home at the house and bord as

1539
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:22,000
Speaker 6: fuck and he hit me up like hey, what are

1540
01:13:22,040 --> 01:13:24,519
Speaker 6: you doing? So I said, fuck it, I'm gonna respond nothing.

1541
01:13:24,880 --> 01:13:26,280
Speaker 1: All right, I'm in.

1542
01:13:26,439 --> 01:13:30,160
Speaker 6: Sen Manica meet me here. So I'm like, fine, dun't

1543
01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:33,240
Speaker 6: don't do this. I don't know this man went to

1544
01:13:33,320 --> 01:13:33,719
Speaker 6: his house.

1545
01:13:34,040 --> 01:13:37,160
Speaker 1: Okay, you can't do the house first, he dropped the pin.

1546
01:13:37,360 --> 01:13:38,040
Speaker 17: I just went.

1547
01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:43,840
Speaker 10: Oh.

1548
01:13:44,040 --> 01:13:47,439
Speaker 1: So she was like knocked and like already boot ups.

1549
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 1: I knew it didn't matter. I did like this clamor friends,

1550
01:13:55,240 --> 01:13:56,519
Speaker 1: and I liked my friend.

1551
01:13:58,400 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 6: So I I did drop my location though, but to

1552
01:14:01,439 --> 01:14:03,479
Speaker 6: Mercedes because I knew like idea honor.

1553
01:14:05,200 --> 01:14:09,320
Speaker 1: So so he ended up showing up late and drunk

1554
01:14:09,840 --> 01:14:11,360
Speaker 1: and to his own house.

1555
01:14:14,960 --> 01:14:18,080
Speaker 6: Yep, and I almost left, and I felt like God

1556
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:19,600
Speaker 6: was telling me to go, but I was like, I

1557
01:14:19,760 --> 01:14:22,120
Speaker 6: never going to see what's happening here because I'm intrigued

1558
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:23,840
Speaker 6: because he seems like he has money.

1559
01:14:24,360 --> 01:14:27,400
Speaker 1: This was beautiful. Turns off, Nigga had money.

1560
01:14:27,720 --> 01:14:29,720
Speaker 6: He showed up in like the nicest car I've ever

1561
01:14:29,800 --> 01:14:33,360
Speaker 6: been in my life, his place, nicest fu Floridas, seiling windows,

1562
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:36,240
Speaker 6: it was like on like the thirteenth floor of this building.

1563
01:14:36,360 --> 01:14:39,760
Speaker 1: Like it was just insane, and in Santa Monica, right right,

1564
01:14:40,000 --> 01:14:40,439
Speaker 1: right right.

1565
01:14:40,800 --> 01:14:41,439
Speaker 6: So we go out.

1566
01:14:41,520 --> 01:14:43,880
Speaker 1: We go to this bar that.

1567
01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 6: Turns this like a lounge club night and he literally

1568
01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 6: buys out a section and it's just us sitting in

1569
01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:51,200
Speaker 6: the VIP section and we're just sitting there talking. But

1570
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:53,120
Speaker 6: he's throwing his money in my face, like just like

1571
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 6: saying shit to like throw the money in my face.

1572
01:14:55,760 --> 01:14:56,280
Speaker 1: We're talking.

1573
01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:58,000
Speaker 6: We get to a point where he explains to me

1574
01:14:58,120 --> 01:15:00,880
Speaker 6: that his last name is in his real last name,

1575
01:15:00,920 --> 01:15:03,479
Speaker 6: he changed it just for ships and giggles.

1576
01:15:03,520 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 1: And I was like, this nigga is crazy. This is crazy.

1577
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:13,240
Speaker 6: Okay, So we leave, We go back to his place,

1578
01:15:13,439 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 6: and we pulled him to the parking lot and I

1579
01:15:14,960 --> 01:15:15,880
Speaker 6: was like, I'm gonna go home.

1580
01:15:15,960 --> 01:15:16,960
Speaker 1: He's like why.

1581
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:19,760
Speaker 6: I said, because I'm already kind of drunk. I'm gonna

1582
01:15:19,800 --> 01:15:21,680
Speaker 6: go home. I just don't want to go upstairs. He's like,

1583
01:15:22,240 --> 01:15:23,840
Speaker 6: why don't you want to go upstairs? I said, because

1584
01:15:23,840 --> 01:15:26,479
Speaker 6: I know myself. I don't have very good self for

1585
01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 6: strengths and said that but I did because I was drunk.

1586
01:15:29,760 --> 01:15:31,839
Speaker 6: And he's like he's like, he's.

1587
01:15:31,680 --> 01:15:33,400
Speaker 1: Like, well, why are you being such a baby about it?

1588
01:15:33,439 --> 01:15:35,040
Speaker 6: Then if you know what it is, what it is,

1589
01:15:35,080 --> 01:15:37,160
Speaker 6: and let's just make it happen then, and I said,

1590
01:15:37,520 --> 01:15:43,920
Speaker 6: don't you fucking challenge me? So go upstairs. Things start happening.

1591
01:15:44,920 --> 01:15:48,360
Speaker 6: He starts talking to me like excited. He like he's

1592
01:15:48,400 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 6: a talker, so.

1593
01:15:49,000 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 1: He's like, god, oh, yeah.

1594
01:15:53,000 --> 01:15:56,000
Speaker 6: Oh, and I'm just like, okay, just is on my

1595
01:15:56,080 --> 01:15:59,000
Speaker 6: because I don't like the talking. But I've been there before,

1596
01:15:59,160 --> 01:16:02,519
Speaker 6: you have been in the situations whatever. So we're fucking

1597
01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:07,120
Speaker 6: and the talking just gets louder and more frequent, and

1598
01:16:07,479 --> 01:16:10,320
Speaker 6: he starts smacking my ass and then he started saying

1599
01:16:10,360 --> 01:16:13,120
Speaker 6: it yeah, and then he starts saying ship like you

1600
01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:14,719
Speaker 6: dirty little bitch.

1601
01:16:15,320 --> 01:16:19,320
Speaker 1: Daddy's a little dirty bitch smacking me at the same time,

1602
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:26,080
Speaker 1: and just like Daddy's dirty little and he's just like,

1603
01:16:26,200 --> 01:16:27,240
Speaker 1: smack on your face.

1604
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:30,400
Speaker 6: No, my ass, but like the heart as hell, I'm

1605
01:16:30,479 --> 01:16:32,360
Speaker 6: just like calling me Daddy's dirty little bitch.

1606
01:16:32,520 --> 01:16:35,160
Speaker 1: And he's like say it, say dirty little bitch.

1607
01:16:35,360 --> 01:16:36,000
Speaker 5: And I was like.

1608
01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:45,240
Speaker 1: Wat his name and tender. So I'm just like, okay,

1609
01:16:45,320 --> 01:16:48,720
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna go along with everything that happens. Of

1610
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,720
Speaker 1: course what to do, like excuse me?

1611
01:16:51,800 --> 01:16:52,960
Speaker 10: Can you can?

1612
01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:53,040
Speaker 1: We?

1613
01:16:53,840 --> 01:16:57,040
Speaker 6: But then but then he just stopped listen. So then

1614
01:16:57,080 --> 01:17:00,960
Speaker 6: he just stops, right, wasn't wasn't all like right, He

1615
01:17:01,000 --> 01:17:02,120
Speaker 6: felt like he didn't come or anything.

1616
01:17:02,160 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 1: He just stopped. Then he walks to the bathroom.

1617
01:17:03,920 --> 01:17:06,920
Speaker 6: So I'm like, what the fuck, What the fuck is

1618
01:17:06,960 --> 01:17:09,200
Speaker 6: going on? And I said, are you good, like what's

1619
01:17:09,240 --> 01:17:12,280
Speaker 6: going on? You don't respond, and I'm like, did you come? Like,

1620
01:17:12,400 --> 01:17:14,120
Speaker 6: I don't know understand what's ever?

1621
01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:16,840
Speaker 1: And he walks out when it's like the coom in

1622
01:17:16,880 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 1: his hand and he says, you're bleeding. So I said,

1623
01:17:22,360 --> 01:17:24,400
Speaker 1: is believing If it's not me, b what are you

1624
01:17:24,439 --> 01:17:25,880
Speaker 1: talking about? But it wasn't me?

1625
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:28,680
Speaker 14: What wait?

1626
01:17:28,840 --> 01:17:29,320
Speaker 10: It was he?

1627
01:17:29,479 --> 01:17:29,800
Speaker 14: It was.

1628
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:35,200
Speaker 1: What's the kicker? I wasn't denial. I was like, it

1629
01:17:35,280 --> 01:17:36,960
Speaker 1: wasn't me. I don't know what you're talking about? Did

1630
01:17:37,000 --> 01:17:37,679
Speaker 1: you did you tonight?

1631
01:17:38,360 --> 01:17:38,559
Speaker 14: Yes?

1632
01:17:40,680 --> 01:17:45,040
Speaker 6: Until he literally like hadad that's blood excited about that.

1633
01:17:45,560 --> 01:17:47,560
Speaker 1: So I was like, going on, I'm so sorry. He

1634
01:17:47,680 --> 01:17:48,560
Speaker 1: like lays down next to me.

1635
01:17:48,640 --> 01:17:51,120
Speaker 6: We're chit chatting, and you know, he's like showing me

1636
01:17:51,120 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 6: his tattoos and explain the tattoos to.

1637
01:17:52,960 --> 01:17:54,519
Speaker 1: Me, and she's like, what is his ag dream?

1638
01:17:54,880 --> 01:17:58,000
Speaker 6: He's a twenty nine I think, and so he's like tech,

1639
01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 6: so he has money. So while we're laying there whatever

1640
01:18:02,840 --> 01:18:04,519
Speaker 6: he liked, he's like looking at me. I'm just like

1641
01:18:04,600 --> 01:18:06,160
Speaker 6: laying on the bed like my mom, I'm so sorry

1642
01:18:06,800 --> 01:18:11,000
Speaker 6: he's black sheets. I didn't give a fuck, and he.

1643
01:18:11,160 --> 01:18:19,400
Speaker 1: Literally looks at me. He's like, m yes. I was like, yeah,

1644
01:18:19,640 --> 01:18:20,840
Speaker 1: you know, yeah, they're here.

1645
01:18:22,800 --> 01:18:22,960
Speaker 10: Yeah.

1646
01:18:23,040 --> 01:18:24,479
Speaker 1: He's like turn.

1647
01:18:25,240 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 6: I said, excuse me. He was said, you're gonna fuck

1648
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,320
Speaker 6: me again. I'm still bleeding. He's like, I don't care,

1649
01:18:30,520 --> 01:18:32,360
Speaker 6: grabs him kind of fucks me again.

1650
01:18:32,920 --> 01:18:39,000
Speaker 1: You guys don't give at get pretend. I'm like, I'm

1651
01:18:39,000 --> 01:18:44,600
Speaker 1: not even do this, my baby. I really didn't like it. No,

1652
01:18:44,800 --> 01:18:48,040
Speaker 1: some men don't. This nigga did not give up. They

1653
01:18:48,120 --> 01:18:49,800
Speaker 1: still you don't have to like it. You'll still do

1654
01:18:49,880 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: it and you'll like it. And he claimed you didn't

1655
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:56,560
Speaker 1: like it either, but then we eventually started doing it.

1656
01:18:56,760 --> 01:18:59,680
Speaker 1: But like a few years then because why not?

1657
01:19:00,479 --> 01:19:07,479
Speaker 7: I mean, you know what, like, right should I'm a woman,

1658
01:19:07,720 --> 01:19:08,360
Speaker 7: should happens?

1659
01:19:08,360 --> 01:19:11,080
Speaker 1: I'm bleeding? I built people, So what do you do?

1660
01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:17,240
Speaker 1: So I was I read this argument on Instagram was

1661
01:19:17,320 --> 01:19:18,120
Speaker 1: just hilarious.

1662
01:19:18,439 --> 01:19:21,439
Speaker 6: This woman basically was talking about uncircumcised penises and this

1663
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:25,240
Speaker 6: girl responding to comments and she was like, listen, I

1664
01:19:25,360 --> 01:19:28,280
Speaker 6: don't want to peel back your skin and find crumbs

1665
01:19:28,400 --> 01:19:32,960
Speaker 6: and nuggets. So she said, I rebuke all uncircumcised pleas,

1666
01:19:33,720 --> 01:19:36,800
Speaker 6: so but listen. So then guys were like going in

1667
01:19:37,120 --> 01:19:39,680
Speaker 6: and the guys were like, that's some bullshit. First of all,

1668
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:42,240
Speaker 6: if you fuck with a dude who has ship underneath

1669
01:19:42,280 --> 01:19:44,800
Speaker 6: his foreskin, he's nasty, stopped fucking him.

1670
01:19:44,960 --> 01:19:48,280
Speaker 1: But you can't just review all uncircumcised niggas. I'm cleaned.

1671
01:19:48,560 --> 01:19:49,680
Speaker 1: I'm uncircumcised.

1672
01:19:50,560 --> 01:19:52,240
Speaker 6: And so they were going back and forth, and he

1673
01:19:52,400 --> 01:19:54,559
Speaker 6: was like, that's some dumb that's some bullshit because y'all

1674
01:19:54,560 --> 01:19:57,320
Speaker 6: expect us to fuck pussy's they got discharged and blood

1675
01:19:57,360 --> 01:19:59,240
Speaker 6: coming out of it, and you want us to eat

1676
01:19:59,280 --> 01:20:01,639
Speaker 6: it out too, But you can't like blow a couple

1677
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:02,320
Speaker 6: of crumbs away.

1678
01:20:02,479 --> 01:20:06,160
Speaker 1: I agree. I agree, I'm not blowing away a crumbs,

1679
01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:06,760
Speaker 1: but I.

1680
01:20:08,479 --> 01:20:13,000
Speaker 4: Mean we should, you know, like you find lint, it's

1681
01:20:13,040 --> 01:20:16,040
Speaker 4: like that. I prefer I prefer circumcised. But I was

1682
01:20:16,120 --> 01:20:18,000
Speaker 4: with someone who was uncircumcised for three and did you

1683
01:20:18,040 --> 01:20:18,559
Speaker 4: find crumbs?

1684
01:20:18,600 --> 01:20:20,559
Speaker 7: And like I never found no fucking crumbs or nuggets?

1685
01:20:20,600 --> 01:20:22,679
Speaker 1: And it was fine. I mean, it was extra skin

1686
01:20:22,800 --> 01:20:25,800
Speaker 1: that I just wasn't used to. Well, I got used

1687
01:20:25,840 --> 01:20:26,040
Speaker 1: to it.

1688
01:20:26,240 --> 01:20:26,960
Speaker 7: I got used to it.

1689
01:20:27,080 --> 01:20:28,840
Speaker 1: But if I could, if I had.

1690
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,400
Speaker 7: My choice and penis it would I would probably choose.

1691
01:20:31,240 --> 01:20:37,360
Speaker 1: Something base rag and cut. I said, round, But I'm

1692
01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:42,680
Speaker 1: at sick. The sick girth is important longer think about it.

1693
01:20:43,360 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 7: Circumcis is so fucked up. It's literally it's literally body mutilation.

1694
01:20:46,960 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but I'm used to it now.

1695
01:20:52,240 --> 01:20:53,800
Speaker 7: Too, but it's like it's fucked up.

1696
01:20:54,040 --> 01:20:56,600
Speaker 1: But like I mean, I've been with a guy who's uncircumcised,

1697
01:20:56,600 --> 01:21:00,479
Speaker 1: and yeah, did the same things to it, but you know,

1698
01:21:00,560 --> 01:21:02,720
Speaker 1: an extra step, but the same.

1699
01:21:03,640 --> 01:21:05,600
Speaker 6: My longest relationship, he was uncircumcised.

1700
01:21:05,920 --> 01:21:08,040
Speaker 1: Was he from the Islands or something? He was a

1701
01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:12,880
Speaker 1: country boy? Yeah, like my little islander. Actually, oh yeah,

1702
01:21:14,240 --> 01:21:18,360
Speaker 1: he cut most a lot of Haitian that aren't you

1703
01:21:18,760 --> 01:21:21,120
Speaker 1: talked about it that way? Did you have to cut?

1704
01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:24,519
Speaker 1: Sounds very well, you know.

1705
01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:26,799
Speaker 6: I bet you men are just really like self conscious

1706
01:21:26,800 --> 01:21:29,120
Speaker 6: about that, the ones who aren't, because we're in America,

1707
01:21:29,760 --> 01:21:33,200
Speaker 6: mm hmm, and America we like him cut cut.

1708
01:21:34,000 --> 01:21:36,439
Speaker 1: Have you ever seen a soft uncircumcised.

1709
01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:45,880
Speaker 6: Yea, she puts the literally it looks like like a turtleneck,

1710
01:21:46,040 --> 01:21:47,080
Speaker 6: just like being above your head.

1711
01:21:48,479 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 1: It's interesting.

1712
01:21:50,280 --> 01:21:52,479
Speaker 6: Oh imagine, like I'm not gonna We're not doing this

1713
01:21:52,640 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 6: right now. No, because I was like thinking back, like

1714
01:21:56,320 --> 01:21:58,080
Speaker 6: when I would want to do cute things like oh,

1715
01:21:58,200 --> 01:22:00,759
Speaker 6: surprising with morning head and then it's like this flaccid

1716
01:22:00,800 --> 01:22:04,200
Speaker 6: little thing and wake it up.

1717
01:22:05,520 --> 01:22:08,040
Speaker 7: Though, I just I really hate a soft dick.

1718
01:22:08,760 --> 01:22:09,400
Speaker 10: I like to grow.

1719
01:22:09,800 --> 01:22:13,559
Speaker 7: I don't like that come to me when it's comes

1720
01:22:13,560 --> 01:22:13,720
Speaker 7: to me.

1721
01:22:13,960 --> 01:22:17,240
Speaker 1: At least mid you want to chow, I don't at

1722
01:22:17,360 --> 01:22:19,040
Speaker 1: least a little bit hard before I have.

1723
01:22:19,439 --> 01:22:19,680
Speaker 14: I don't.

1724
01:22:19,720 --> 01:22:24,360
Speaker 7: I hate having a flascy day, but at least it's

1725
01:22:24,400 --> 01:22:25,080
Speaker 7: the worst part of it.

1726
01:22:25,760 --> 01:22:33,240
Speaker 6: We're just gonna pet it to like siga. Yeah, well,

1727
01:22:33,479 --> 01:22:34,519
Speaker 6: what our whole stories.

1728
01:22:36,520 --> 01:22:38,160
Speaker 9: We're gonna maybe if you come back and you just

1729
01:22:38,200 --> 01:22:41,200
Speaker 9: stepped it up a little, but that will do you.

1730
01:22:43,200 --> 01:22:44,880
Speaker 1: Good. You're good. I'm totally joking.

1731
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:48,120
Speaker 9: Thank you for coming. We totally appreciate you hanging out

1732
01:22:48,160 --> 01:22:48,479
Speaker 9: with us.

1733
01:22:49,160 --> 01:22:54,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, I had so much. I have to come over.

1734
01:22:54,200 --> 01:22:55,400
Speaker 7: I barbecue in the summertime.

1735
01:22:55,560 --> 01:22:58,719
Speaker 1: Go, I want to perform when you and your friend perform,

1736
01:22:59,680 --> 01:23:02,920
Speaker 1: schedule your me too. Yes, I mean I haven't.

1737
01:23:03,240 --> 01:23:04,360
Speaker 7: That was many years ago, but.

1738
01:23:06,560 --> 01:23:10,240
Speaker 1: Up here I'm with it. Karaoke. I got a couple

1739
01:23:10,280 --> 01:23:14,120
Speaker 1: of talents. Oh, I just several. I'm ready. What's your talent?

1740
01:23:14,160 --> 01:23:16,000
Speaker 1: When did you hit your house with the I know?

1741
01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:21,760
Speaker 1: Ye she was smoke around that pole. I was like

1742
01:23:21,960 --> 01:23:22,559
Speaker 1: you've been named for.

1743
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:24,599
Speaker 6: Any guys.

1744
01:23:25,040 --> 01:23:27,280
Speaker 7: Well, thank you guys for coming and thank you for

1745
01:23:27,439 --> 01:23:30,320
Speaker 7: joining in. Guys, make sure to check out their podcast, I.

1746
01:23:30,360 --> 01:23:36,040
Speaker 1: Have to Think podcast. Yeah everywhere, I'm Mindy, I'm Tabria.

1747
01:23:36,520 --> 01:23:39,839
Speaker 15: I'm Erica, and I'm Nila and this is good MoMA

1748
01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:41,840
Speaker 15: Niga at my house.

1749
01:23:44,400 --> 01:23:51,720
Speaker 1: When I reached nig you babe and nothing for nothing

1750
01:23:54,120 --> 01:24:04,640
Speaker 1: diesels and diesels and yeah yeah, black guy read a

1751
01:24:04,720 --> 01:24:07,720
Speaker 1: big book. Did you bad bitch skits up.

1752
01:24:09,600 --> 01:24:10,720
Speaker 5: Him in this club ring?

1753
01:24:10,840 --> 01:24:12,920
Speaker 6: We bot know her?

1754
01:24:14,080 --> 01:24:16,200
Speaker 1: Did you prim in this bitch with your man?

1755
01:24:16,840 --> 01:24:20,720
Speaker 4: I said no, no girls, money any hones.

1756
01:24:20,800 --> 01:24:21,599
Speaker 3: So you dad.

1757
01:24:23,640 --> 01:24:28,280
Speaker 1: Just got rich, took a broke nigga bitch. Can maga

1758
01:24:28,360 --> 01:24:29,240
Speaker 1: broke bitch rich?

1759
01:24:30,320 --> 01:24:31,320
Speaker 10: What about

1760
01:24:33,479 --> 01:24:33,719
Speaker 4: Nigg