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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't believe that to be aggressive, Yes.

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Speaker 1: Got to be aggressive and get kind of lucky with it,

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Speaker 2: I didn't block the handicapped parking spot.

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Speaker 1: So that's how thoughtful point is. Finding good men not easy,

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Speaker 1: and that's why our listener Laura says she had to

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Speaker 1: and apparently she came up with one. So Laura, welcome

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Speaker 3: Hi.

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Speaker 4: Is it bad that I'm hoping that your strategy also

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Speaker 4: helps me in the Costco parking.

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Speaker 5: Lot at all?

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Speaker 1: Tell us about this guy that you met and the

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Speaker 5: So first, let me start by saying, and I'm sure

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Speaker 5: everyone can relate to this, that I have met so

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Speaker 5: many people that were duds on both both on the

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Speaker 5: APT and in person.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Problem is is we think we're catches of us are awful?

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, So a while back I was listening to

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Speaker 5: this podcast and this girl was giving some really fabulous

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Speaker 4: Oh my god was it a Lexus on our Brook

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Speaker 1: Why what did she say?

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Speaker 5: Well, she said that women are in general having a

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Speaker 1: Which is different than women who are perfect right away.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, it's a two way street.

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Speaker 5: I'll admit it's a two way street.

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Speaker 2: So what was the solution?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so you're gonna love this girl to go to

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Speaker 5: the gym at nine am on a Saturday? Uh huh okay,

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Speaker 5: and the reason being because most guys who are let's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not just on a Saturday early. Like ever, I'm

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I get it, but I think even earlier

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Speaker 1: Have a buddy who literally works out to get rid

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Speaker 2: If there are people who party, they can manage it.

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Speaker 5: Shockingly, a lot of really cute, well put together man.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Jack putt Okay?

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Speaker 5: What I had my pick? I got like all decked

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Speaker 5: I met a guy named Franklin.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and I'm not gonna I'm not gonna lie. I

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Speaker 1: How yeh? What did you do?

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Speaker 5: This is not porn, hob take it easy over there

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Speaker 5: No, I just kind of was like, I can't lift

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Speaker 2: I need a big strong man to help me rescue me.

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Speaker 5: I had never been there, so I was really excited.

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Speaker 5: It was amazing. We had a really good time. We

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Speaker 1: Least liked before. Yeah, did you play the damsel in

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Speaker 5: We ended the night with a hug, and I assumed

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Speaker 5: Okay, so I reached out to him just one time.

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Speaker 5: I didn't want to see meaty, and no, I never

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Speaker 2: Don't think that guys put that much thought into where

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Speaker 1: No, I'm not even gonna put very much thought into

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Speaker 1: second date update. Who knew nine am on Saturday was

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Speaker 2: Everybody knows, No, it's going to be slimmed.

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Speaker 1: that's where she met hunky and responsible Franklin. He showed

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Speaker 4: It finger sushi sushi hit good.

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Speaker 2: I don't know, I just see a chip of a

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Speaker 3: It's hitting Brook.

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Speaker 1: What do you think is going on?

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Speaker 4: Mean dating's just so hard and people have so many options,

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Speaker 2: It's just it could not be you at all.

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Speaker 1: Could be literally anything.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I mean everything you describe sounded perfect.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but like the hand sushi, did you explain why

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Speaker 2: You know, just do it?

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Speaker 1: You weren't feeding each other sushi with your hands, right,

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Speaker 1: That's how you get banned from nob forever. But let's

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Speaker 3: Downing it right now, thank you? All right? Hold on, hello?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Is this Franklin?

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Speaker 3: Uh? Yeah, who's speaking?

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Speaker 2: Man? I knew he didn't answer and be put together

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Speaker 2: right now?

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Speaker 1: He does not put together. My name is jeff and

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Speaker 1: you're actually on a radio show right now called Brook

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Speaker 3: Why am I on a radio show right now? What's

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Speaker 1: Well? One of our listeners asked us to reach out

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Speaker 3: Oh god, Laura.

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Speaker 2: Is such a fun show.

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Speaker 1: So you liked her? It sounds I like it.

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Speaker 2: I like, let's let's sake that. God, yeah, Laura, is

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Speaker 2: that how you meant it? Franklin?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, I normally don't misread people.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that is so crazy, Like what a disconnect between

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Speaker 1: She loved the date?

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Speaker 3: All right? Yeah? Is that Is that all you need

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Speaker 1: No, we uh so there's more to this. We're doing

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, I don't I don't know, man, I'm I'm

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Speaker 2: Why.

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Speaker 3: Even so, hold slow, slow down, guys, we're that was

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Speaker 4: What she told us, it was your idea, and she

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Speaker 2: It's too expensive.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no. We were kind of tossing ideas back

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Speaker 2: Agreed to it, I mean different place.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't want to seem too difficult, So I

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Speaker 1: Oh god, you didn't. You didn't know.

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Speaker 2: You didn't know.

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Speaker 4: Nobody's like this high end, super expensive restaurant.

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, I'm a Chick fil a kind of guy. Like, well, I.

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Speaker 1: Mean that's what one tier below pretty close.

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Speaker 2: The only time I've been is with my agent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, instead of a nice little Chick fil a

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Speaker 6: Oh no, I feel bad for you, dude, I bet okay,

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Speaker 6: But honestly, like she thought that you were up for it,

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Speaker 1: She wassed you were in it together.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, not quite. It was definitely her suggestion, and that

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Speaker 3: And then she started talking about expensive things like skydiving

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Speaker 6: Okay, people talk about fun things that are expensively.

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Speaker 3: Oh gosh, you got to set up.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, it's international phone call.

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Speaker 3: She charging.

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Speaker 4: The good news is usually really wealthy people don't call

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you knows.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, Laura talked to Franklin.

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Speaker 5: Hey, Franklin, Laura, what are you?

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Speaker 3: What are you doing put me on this radio show? Like,

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Speaker 5: What are you doing being a typical jerk and disappearing

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Speaker 2: What the heck?

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Speaker 1: Where did that come from?

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Speaker 5: She's well, two weeks, dude, two weeks. I thought we

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Speaker 1: He says it was yours.

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Speaker 2: He didn't even know what it was. How could he

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Speaker 5: Like, yeah, maybe maybe I brought it up, but he

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Speaker 1: It was well, Franklin, he did mess up there, So y'at.

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Speaker 3: Admit that or I didn't want to be difficult or anything, right,

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Speaker 3: I just kind of went with the idea and I

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Speaker 3: I had I had no idea what was going on.

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Speaker 1: He didn't know he was signing up.

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Speaker 2: I mean, do you feel like some empathy towards him?

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Speaker 3: Now?

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Speaker 5: He probably he probably googled a coupon for Nobu before.

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Speaker 3: We went out, now that I'm hearing all this, Listen,

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Speaker 2: Of course that's okay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well, there's nothing wrong with going to on a

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Speaker 1: Sorry, no, but you hear what he's saying, right, Like

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Speaker 1: he thinks that you are like probably wanting to too

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Speaker 5: Like I'm not looking to take his money. I make

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Speaker 5: money too.

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Speaker 3: It's not about that.

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Speaker 5: There's nothing wrong with living extravagantly totally.

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Speaker 2: I think Jeffrey explained it wrong.

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Speaker 4: He just thinks that maybe your lifestyle and his lifestyle

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, I mean I didn't. I didn't realize

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Speaker 3: I mean.

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Speaker 5: The theater, what did you say, I said, I realized

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, there's a dollar theater.

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Speaker 3: Okay, all right, Well, now we're getting I didn't know

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Speaker 3: you were this rude. The SERI turn off every time

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Speaker 1: Oh, I don't.

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Speaker 5: Even get it. It's not about rude. We were just

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Speaker 5: It seems like you were agreeing with everything with me,

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Speaker 5: so obviously you're not being your authentic stuff on dates. Wow,

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Speaker 5: you probably asked Charity if they have a happy hour

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Speaker 3: God, no, wonder you were single.

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Speaker 1: Franklin, he's gone.

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Speaker 5: He goesed you.

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Speaker 1: Too, all right, frank All right, Well Franklin decided he

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Speaker 4: Oh man, just for the record, it's not bad to

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Speaker 1: It's I've definitely been there. I think we all agree

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Speaker 5: Honestly, it's not that it's expensive. It's usually just stale.

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Speaker 5: But that's the size the point.

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Speaker 4: Okay, all right, popcorn, I guess no more.

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Speaker 2: Gym at nine am.

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Speaker 1: Huh yeah, no, all right, Well we don't even get

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Speaker 1: a chance to ask for another day. But yeah, you

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Speaker 5: You should find a more exclusive Jim Richard. Maybe I

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Speaker 2: I thought you wanted somebody who was rich.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh yeah, nook Jeffrey in the morning. There's a

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Speaker 1: lot of texts coming in at seven eight, five nine

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Speaker 1: two from our listeners asking what is Nobu? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: misspelled multiple ways.

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Speaker 2: That does that hurt your little privileged heart?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, those are listeners, but that's why we love them.

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Speaker 1: By the way, if you don't know, google Nobu n

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Speaker 1: O b U sushi restaurant, very very high end.

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Speaker 4: It's actually a chain though, which is a funny to me,

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Speaker 4: but it is like so expensive.

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Speaker 1: Sushi for people that want to pay triple.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I've never been there, but I know. Brooks sends pictures

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Speaker 1: of herself dining there to her sponsored children in third

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Speaker 1: world's countries, saying, Hi and Dari, I met Nobu again

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Speaker 1: third time this week. Sorry to hear your dad lost

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Speaker 1: his fishing job and has to go back to the cannery.

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Speaker 1: I'll text you next week, all right, Brooke starting.

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Speaker 2: To believe that this stuff is actually real.

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Speaker 1: Jeff Yeah, he may s have some class a little bit, Brooke,

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Speaker 1: you evil so unsuccessful second date, We are going to

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Speaker 1: try again tomorrow, though with a new couple. Make sure

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Speaker 1: you email the show if you want some help with

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Speaker 1: your love life. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 1: you back and go. Check out all of our second

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Speaker 1: dates wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and

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Speaker 4: Jeffrey, Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,