WEBVTT - It Gets Sticky FT. Big Sexy 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.960 Niggas is literally the easiest thing to get. It's not 0:00:03.120 --> 0:00:05.920 hard to get. It's not hard to get a niggas 0:00:06.240 --> 0:00:09.760 if somebody and believe it ain't because it's hard for 0:00:09.800 --> 0:00:10.440 her to get one. 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:15.360 So it's so easy. Like even if you got your 0:00:15.480 --> 0:00:18.800 own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you, it's 0:00:18.840 --> 0:00:21.160 so easy to get your men to not mad as 0:00:21.200 --> 0:00:23.280 you are, to get your man back or whatever the case. 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.360 Men are just easy. They they are, so they are. 0:00:26.520 --> 0:00:30.600 It's so easy, especially when you look lip gloss head done. 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:35.159 It looks like pop get fifteen numbers and I'm fifteen men. 0:00:35.280 --> 0:00:37.240 Yeah, the quality is probably two good ones. 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:40.760 But it's so that is easy, That's what I'm saying. 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:43.120 Like, if women are single, it is not because they 0:00:43.159 --> 0:00:45.720 can't get a mean people gotta start projecting it. 0:00:45.920 --> 0:01:10.800 Uh huh, what's up, Y'all's your girl Alex p? 0:01:11.640 --> 0:01:12.360 And is your girl? 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:14.800 Dre and the call and you are tuned in to 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:16.880 another episode of Poor. 0:01:16.720 --> 0:01:19.600 Mine, whereas drunk Mind speaks sober but. 0:01:20.120 --> 0:01:27.160 We gotta guess today. We gotta guess today. So if 0:01:27.200 --> 0:01:31.240 you are on social media, you know who this person? 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:36.520 Social media influencer, a meme god I got like six 0:01:36.600 --> 0:01:40.760 means of you and my phone. I know, okay, and 0:01:40.920 --> 0:01:42.520 I don't know if you call you, but you're a 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:53.520 comedian to me as hell. We have the one and only. 0:01:53.600 --> 0:01:55.600 I'm good, I'm good, God is good. 0:01:55.600 --> 0:01:58.400 I'm actually on the this y'all reached out to me. 0:01:58.800 --> 0:01:59.360 We love you. 0:01:59.480 --> 0:02:02.000 I'm thinking this experience, I'll be so honored now I 0:02:02.040 --> 0:02:04.280 know who I am. I'm very confident in who I am, 0:02:04.280 --> 0:02:06.640 but I be so honored in this experience like that 0:02:06.720 --> 0:02:09.440 people love me because I've been this way for so 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:12.000 long of my life, right, So it's just now to 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:15.160 have people gravitate to me. I can't go any well 0:02:15.240 --> 0:02:18.440 without people knowing me and loving me and recognizing me. 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:21.120 It's just like mind blowing to me because I'm just 0:02:21.200 --> 0:02:24.959 I'm still myself. Yeah, So it's just like I'm thankful. 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:25.360 Yeah. 0:02:25.520 --> 0:02:28.239 It's the amazing feeling when people start gravitating to you 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:29.840 just for you being who you are. 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.360 Correct. I went to the strip club the other day, 0:02:32.600 --> 0:02:35.800 the girls went crazy. I'm like, it's so mind blowing 0:02:35.840 --> 0:02:38.040 to me because I've always lived this experience is me 0:02:38.120 --> 0:02:40.239 being myself, right, So it's. 0:02:40.160 --> 0:02:44.080 Just like, what the fuck energy. 0:02:43.880 --> 0:02:48.040 About you that's just it's very gravitating. It's like, I 0:02:48.040 --> 0:02:51.160 don't know, you know, people say that it factor and 0:02:51.360 --> 0:02:53.440 you don't know what it is. You can't explain it, 0:02:53.440 --> 0:02:56.919 but some people just have it. Yeah god it Okay, 0:02:58.639 --> 0:03:03.440 how it was so funny. But I want to start 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:10.800 from the beginning. So you're from Savannah, so talk research. 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:15.840 So I want to talk about like beginning because I'm 0:03:15.880 --> 0:03:19.480 from a small town too. So did you always feel like, Okay, 0:03:19.639 --> 0:03:21.400 I got to move, I gotta get out of Savannah, 0:03:21.480 --> 0:03:23.720 like talk about growing up in a small town and 0:03:23.800 --> 0:03:25.400 just having such a big personality. 0:03:25.800 --> 0:03:28.320 So initially I was born in the Bronx, New York, Okay, Okay. 0:03:28.480 --> 0:03:30.440 Then I migrated to Savannah, Georgia when I was eleven 0:03:30.520 --> 0:03:33.520 years old. So I represent Savannah a lot because I 0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:35.680 grew up there. I went to middle school, high school, 0:03:35.680 --> 0:03:37.960 I graduated from high school there. I went to a 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:40.520 little bit of college there. So I say I'm from Savannah, 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:43.400 but I was originally from the Bronx. So it's always 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.480 and this is the thing, and I'm tying this into 0:03:45.680 --> 0:03:49.720 just kind of what I said earlier. I've been out, kay, 0:03:50.000 --> 0:03:52.600 since I was about ten or eleven. 0:03:52.360 --> 0:03:55.680 Years are you serious, No, Lie, I know that's right. 0:03:55.760 --> 0:03:58.040 I was one of my mother's fur coats and pocketbooks 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:00.480 to school and I was just talking her the other day. 0:04:00.560 --> 0:04:01.840 She was like, I can't wait you come out with 0:04:01.840 --> 0:04:05.920 a documentary so I can actually tell people that you 0:04:06.240 --> 0:04:09.440 always had this personality. You always was a preacher, you 0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:12.680 always was passionate. You have always been the same person, 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.440 so in that it has been a struggle because you 0:04:16.480 --> 0:04:18.560 got to think about it. So I went from New 0:04:18.640 --> 0:04:23.599 York being fat, black and feminine. Then I migrated to Savannah, Georgia, 0:04:23.640 --> 0:04:26.520 which was even more of a small demographics, a smaller town, 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:28.839 different culture, different way. 0:04:28.760 --> 0:04:30.560 People operate and think and move. 0:04:31.200 --> 0:04:32.599 So I went through it in New York and I 0:04:32.640 --> 0:04:35.520 went through it in Savannah. But I've always had a 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:38.720 big personality, so I always just knew. 0:04:38.720 --> 0:04:40.599 And you know how people say, I always thought I 0:04:40.640 --> 0:04:41.280 was going to be a star. 0:04:41.360 --> 0:04:42.839 I always thought I was going to be popular, but 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:45.880 they never really knew that for themselves. I always know 0:04:45.960 --> 0:04:49.080 it was going to be something there. I always knew 0:04:49.080 --> 0:04:51.840 that because I always was the gay guy and middle 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:53.960 school and high school that would come in there. Bengo 0:04:54.000 --> 0:05:00.960 earring Zone, I was a mad I was young. 0:05:01.080 --> 0:05:02.479 Literally, I've always knew who I was. 0:05:02.560 --> 0:05:06.120 Uh huh oh yeah, So like I was gonna ask 0:05:06.160 --> 0:05:08.919 you because people are always going back and forth about 0:05:08.920 --> 0:05:11.240 these online, you know, like some people will say that 0:05:11.279 --> 0:05:14.880 they feel like children aren't necessarily gay when they're kids, 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:18.080 it's about the environment that they're in. Personally, I do 0:05:18.120 --> 0:05:20.240 feel like my mom always told me because I have 0:05:20.279 --> 0:05:23.159 a cousin similar to you who was always the same 0:05:23.160 --> 0:05:25.159 way his whole life, and she was like, we knew 0:05:25.200 --> 0:05:27.200 since he was like three or four. I feel like 0:05:27.320 --> 0:05:29.800 kids know at a very young age. So how do 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:30.640 you feel about this. 0:05:30.560 --> 0:05:35.279 Who I always knew? As an adult, I love black 0:05:35.680 --> 0:05:40.200 handsome men. Yeah, it is like chocolate to me. And 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:45.080 so literally I remember as being a young boy walking 0:05:45.120 --> 0:05:47.280 and this is why I love and adore my mother, 0:05:47.920 --> 0:05:50.520 and the day that God takes us, if it happens 0:05:50.560 --> 0:05:53.440 to be before me call and check on me, I 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:57.200 would never take away because even though she is very 0:05:57.360 --> 0:06:00.240 base in her morals and religion, and she wants me 0:06:00.279 --> 0:06:03.839 to have a wife and kids badly, she still never 0:06:03.920 --> 0:06:05.680 ostracized me as a little boys. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:07.880 And so that's why as. 0:06:07.760 --> 0:06:10.680 An adult, people don't understand the flamboyantness and the loudness 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:12.880 and the excellnists. And it was because I was always 0:06:12.920 --> 0:06:17.279 giving that leadway to be myself. She never, even though 0:06:17.400 --> 0:06:20.760 I knew that in her mind, she may have felt 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:23.880 how she felt, because it's inevitable. As parents, you want 0:06:23.880 --> 0:06:26.640 certain things for your children. You want a certain lifestyle. 0:06:26.880 --> 0:06:29.400 Sometimes you lead in your selfishness of what you want 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.880 for them, which is not always wrong, just how you 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:36.080 envision your children. That you want your son with a wife, 0:06:36.080 --> 0:06:38.039 you want your daughter with a right, and that is 0:06:38.080 --> 0:06:39.520 just what you're envisit for your family. 0:06:39.720 --> 0:06:40.440 So I get it. 0:06:40.600 --> 0:06:42.800 But young, when I tell you, she will all I 0:06:42.800 --> 0:06:44.480 could play with Barbie dolls. 0:06:44.320 --> 0:06:47.600 And you will im liar and she has to attest 0:06:47.640 --> 0:06:47.800 to it. 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:50.040 She will let me play with Bobbie dolls, she will 0:06:50.080 --> 0:06:52.400 let me wear her pocketbook, she will let me wear 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:54.040 her hot So I have to even tell her as 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:57.720 an adult, girl is your fault? 0:06:58.000 --> 0:06:58.760 Appreciate it? 0:06:58.800 --> 0:07:01.160 But it gets on hunderd because girl, you let me 0:07:01.240 --> 0:07:02.920 just be who I was, So I. 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:08.159 Have no I don't know how to bat tracking. 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:08.840 It is because it's just made me who I am. 0:07:08.880 --> 0:07:11.480 But I think everybody experience is different, and so I 0:07:11.520 --> 0:07:14.239 think as people we have to understand that two things 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:16.840 can be right at the same time, and so everybody 0:07:16.920 --> 0:07:19.520 experience is different. As far as me, I only can 0:07:19.560 --> 0:07:21.920 speak for my experience. I've always known what I like. 0:07:22.720 --> 0:07:25.440 Now I do get on another spectrum that there are 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:28.760 different things that trigger people, different experiences that they may 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.440 have had in their life that has made them turn 0:07:31.440 --> 0:07:34.680 into that type of person. But for me and who 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:39.000 I am, I've always been. I've never touched, licked, kissed 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:39.920 a woman in my life. 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:44.680 Never in my life. 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:50.160 You couldn't. That's how when I love my girls like 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:58.240 God love his children, I have never kissed a woman 0:07:58.480 --> 0:07:58.680 like you. 0:07:58.720 --> 0:07:59.840 Gotta really think about that. 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:02.640 And this is how I also know every man is 0:08:02.640 --> 0:08:04.480 not gay, contrary to popular belief. 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.600 I don't. I hate when people say that. 0:08:06.520 --> 0:08:09.400 It's not true, and I say it is as people, 0:08:09.440 --> 0:08:12.280 because we're living that life, we experience those things we 0:08:12.320 --> 0:08:13.880 did like to project onto other. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.280 People in their experiences. 0:08:15.280 --> 0:08:18.600 All men are not gay because you're talking to a 0:08:18.640 --> 0:08:22.520 gay man that has never even kissed a woman. I've 0:08:22.560 --> 0:08:25.800 never touched a vagina. I've never looked. I've never seen 0:08:25.840 --> 0:08:28.360 it outside of the strip club, outside of my mother. 0:08:28.720 --> 0:08:29.520 I've never seen it. 0:08:29.560 --> 0:08:31.960 In that context of me making love or touching or 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:33.640 so I know that there are men out there who 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:36.440 don't desire another man. Because I'm a gay man who 0:08:36.440 --> 0:08:38.920 does not desire a woman. I see the beauty in her, 0:08:39.240 --> 0:08:41.320 just like another man can see the beauty in another man, 0:08:41.640 --> 0:08:44.000 but he may not be sexually attracted to him in 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:46.360 that way. And it's possible for a man not to 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:49.040 be sexually attracted to another man because I'm not sexually 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:51.040 attracted to women, so I've always. 0:08:50.800 --> 0:08:53.600 Known who I was with that That's a good point 0:08:53.640 --> 0:08:56.280 because I feel like people say that about women too, 0:08:56.400 --> 0:08:59.560 Like everybody be saying, oh, every girl like girls, But 0:08:59.600 --> 0:09:02.040 then do y'all feel about the girls? Because going back 0:09:02.080 --> 0:09:03.320 to what we were just talking about, how do y'all 0:09:03.320 --> 0:09:05.400 feel about the girls that go and date women? 0:09:05.520 --> 0:09:07.000 Because she don't be working out. 0:09:06.880 --> 0:09:08.320 With men and. 0:09:10.040 --> 0:09:11.520 I'm talking to some girls too, And then all they 0:09:11.559 --> 0:09:15.679 realize it's the same experience women who are now emulating 0:09:15.679 --> 0:09:18.319 a man how he operates, how he thinks, how he maneuvers, 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:21.240 and he's and she's getting the same experience. But I 0:09:21.280 --> 0:09:24.160 do I think, I think why those conversations do come up, right, 0:09:24.200 --> 0:09:28.640 because they could get very sticky because I think, especially 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:31.280 as gay people, we've experienced a lot of DL men. 0:09:32.520 --> 0:09:34.840 And so then what happens is we did to start, 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:39.680 we start grouping people because we said to ourselves, you 0:09:39.720 --> 0:09:41.839 know what, I gave him the benefit of the doubt 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:44.440 he was gay. I gave I've seen it all too. 0:09:44.640 --> 0:09:46.760 But I still because even when you do a pregnancy test, 0:09:46.760 --> 0:09:48.480 even when you do a DNA test, nothing is one 0:09:48.559 --> 0:09:52.080 und So I can never just say all men are 0:09:52.120 --> 0:09:55.000 by curious, all men are gay. You can't do that. 0:09:55.600 --> 0:09:58.560 But you do have a lot of men who are bisexual. 0:09:59.080 --> 0:10:01.320 But you know, in our community is tabu and the 0:10:01.360 --> 0:10:05.400 Black community is table to talk about bisexuality because we 0:10:05.440 --> 0:10:06.560 feel like it's not real. 0:10:06.640 --> 0:10:08.680 You are either gay or you are straight. It's no 0:10:08.800 --> 0:10:09.319 in between. 0:10:09.720 --> 0:10:11.560 But I think what a lot of people have to 0:10:11.559 --> 0:10:14.040 start realizing that they are bisexual men. And as some 0:10:14.120 --> 0:10:16.720 preachers say, preacher to myself too, because I'm a realist, 0:10:16.920 --> 0:10:18.640 because I have certain ds, I'm like, no, it's no 0:10:18.679 --> 0:10:20.600 such thing as a man being bisexual, either like men 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:22.720 or you like women. But when I really have those 0:10:22.760 --> 0:10:25.560 cathartic moments to myself, I'm like, you know what, I 0:10:25.559 --> 0:10:28.720 can see how somebody could like a man and a woman. 0:10:29.200 --> 0:10:32.440 It may not necessarily make sense to me, right, but 0:10:32.520 --> 0:10:33.920 I can see how it could be possible. 0:10:33.920 --> 0:10:35.880 What you think, do you think a man could be vibe? 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:39.760 I believe. I feel like if a woman can be 0:10:39.960 --> 0:10:42.160 I believe a man because I think it's more so 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:45.599 of human traits. I think in my younger years I 0:10:45.720 --> 0:10:48.800 used to try to separate people, like obviously there's differences 0:10:48.840 --> 0:10:51.320 of how women think versus how men think, but there's 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:54.920 certain things that are just human traits. If a woman 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:58.959 can like a woman and a man, a man can too. 0:10:59.040 --> 0:11:01.800 I think that's human name to sometimes be attracted to 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.720 both and as me as like. Have I been with 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:05.320 a woman before? 0:11:05.360 --> 0:11:05.560 Yes? 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:07.280 But do I like it? Absolutely not, and I will 0:11:07.360 --> 0:11:09.560 never do it again. There's nothing about it women that 0:11:09.640 --> 0:11:13.040 I just don't But I know I have friends women 0:11:13.280 --> 0:11:15.640 that are bisexual. Yeah. I have a friend that is 0:11:15.640 --> 0:11:19.240 bisexual and she only dates bisexual men. So I feel 0:11:19.240 --> 0:11:23.160 like it's very possible to like both. I agree. 0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:25.120 I think it's possible too, because I mean, when I 0:11:25.160 --> 0:11:27.240 was younger, I dady. I used to date women when 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:33.280 I was younger. As I've gotten older, though, I've realized 0:11:33.360 --> 0:11:36.480 a little too much estrogen for me in one household, 0:11:36.640 --> 0:11:38.840 So it's just not for me, and I will prefer 0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:41.520 to stick with men. But I definitely think you could 0:11:41.559 --> 0:11:44.520 like both, because even still now that I don't necessarily 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:46.319 deal with women anymore, I see women all the time 0:11:46.360 --> 0:11:47.559 and I be like, damn, she fine? 0:11:47.559 --> 0:11:49.520 Is hell? You know that cool? 0:11:49.800 --> 0:11:55.120 I don't because I never really you know, adult, And 0:11:55.120 --> 0:11:57.959 that's how I know. I wasn't really like BOUTI for real, 0:11:58.000 --> 0:12:01.880 because I was never their ends to eating coochie man when. 0:12:01.720 --> 0:12:04.160 I tell you, I don't starting. 0:12:06.200 --> 0:12:10.480 But kna are the most beautiful, precious, amazing thing that 0:12:10.520 --> 0:12:11.520 God has ever created. 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:16.720 On this nothing. 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:19.600 If you pay me a million dollars, I wouldn't even 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:23.280 know where to start. Va Donna, I wouldn't want to 0:12:23.320 --> 0:12:26.160 taste it, kiss it, liquid, bigger it, be with it, 0:12:26.480 --> 0:12:28.920 with it, not that this like she's gonna tell me 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:31.000 one that's about. Oh you're so handsome, you need some 0:12:31.040 --> 0:12:33.040 ponani in your life. I was at start Buys said 0:12:33.160 --> 0:12:37.720 WHAT'SI now? You know you's just so fine, you just 0:12:37.760 --> 0:12:39.439 so big and so all you need some I. 0:12:39.360 --> 0:12:42.880 Said, what is po nani? She said, stop playing? 0:12:42.880 --> 0:12:44.360 But Janna, I said, I don't want none of it, 0:12:46.320 --> 0:12:49.080 and I don't need none of that. Baby. I'm strictly 0:12:49.160 --> 0:12:55.000 dicky meat, sausage, ribs. I'm a barbecue. I'm a barbecue baby. 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:56.280 I need meat some on this grind. 0:12:56.720 --> 0:13:00.360 I don't know, y'all. 0:13:00.520 --> 0:13:03.600 I love, I have to sometime I have to say God, please, 0:13:03.760 --> 0:13:07.600 and don't. Oh, I just be craving them so bad 0:13:07.800 --> 0:13:09.959 every time. I'm just Oh, I think it's an addiction. 0:13:10.520 --> 0:13:19.320 I'm not getting fine. Oh, the social media. So I 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:21.280 want to talk about in the beginning, like when you 0:13:21.320 --> 0:13:29.400 because you and Jada used to be friends. Correct, So 0:13:30.440 --> 0:13:40.280 about friendship and how that came about? You know, my girl? 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:42.240 He says that you know why you gag me too, 0:13:42.280 --> 0:13:44.839 because I'm not ashamed of anything because I love Jada. 0:13:45.400 --> 0:13:48.040 But a lot of people only know me now for 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:48.920 the things that I do. 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:49.320 Now. 0:13:50.000 --> 0:13:52.120 It's a small perciage of people that be like, I 0:13:52.200 --> 0:13:54.920 remember you were friends with Jada, and I be gagging, like, 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:58.960 excuse me, because you know what's so crazy? Me just 0:13:58.960 --> 0:14:03.720 being a realist. That whole situation. When I think about 0:14:03.760 --> 0:14:05.559 it now as an adult, Oh, I just wish everything 0:14:05.559 --> 0:14:08.040 would have went so different because I just know, even 0:14:08.040 --> 0:14:10.120 though everything is a line how it's supposed to be, 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:13.240 of course, but I know that things. If things would 0:14:13.240 --> 0:14:16.319 have went different, we would have been such a powerhouse 0:14:16.960 --> 0:14:22.680 friendship because I learned so much from her and what 0:14:22.840 --> 0:14:26.760 people don't understand. She has always been a boss and young. 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:28.520 I'm talking about sitting in a car showing us on 0:14:28.560 --> 0:14:31.920 her phone a sell. She makes seventy bands period at 0:14:31.960 --> 0:14:34.080 seventeen years old. So that even when I hear people 0:14:34.120 --> 0:14:37.680 say little babies, baby mama, no, no, no, her name is Jada, 0:14:37.760 --> 0:14:39.640 because I don't care if he is on a different 0:14:39.760 --> 0:14:42.200 level of where she is now. My girl has always 0:14:42.240 --> 0:14:44.720 had her own She's not one of those girls that 0:14:44.800 --> 0:14:46.400 has only just been attached to a guy. 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:46.840 Yeah. 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:48.640 And so now I think the only times. 0:14:48.400 --> 0:14:50.080 That I have moments of damn, I wish I was 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:52.760 connecting to my girls when I see her son, Oh, 0:14:52.800 --> 0:14:58.600 I would have been like his yeah, goes on. Everything 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:00.760 was aligned for a reason. I think it was meant 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:02.600 for me to be in her life for that season, 0:15:02.880 --> 0:15:04.440 for her to be able to teach me different things, 0:15:04.480 --> 0:15:06.760 help me build my platform where I'm at now in 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.320 my life, and I can see things reconnecting later on 0:15:09.360 --> 0:15:10.000 in life. 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:11.440 God is still good. 0:15:11.720 --> 0:15:11.920 Yes. 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:15.800 If so, God is still good yes, And so yeah. 0:15:15.640 --> 0:15:20.200 It was good. But I'm glad to hear that because 0:15:20.240 --> 0:15:21.720 you know a lot of times you talk to people 0:15:21.760 --> 0:15:24.080 and they be like, oh, I don't care, they didn't 0:15:24.080 --> 0:15:26.400 make me, And so it's good to see that you 0:15:26.480 --> 0:15:29.520 are still able to talk highly about her and y'all's friendship. 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:31.840 Yeah, that's one. I have a lot of people who 0:15:31.840 --> 0:15:34.200 I don't deal with a damn it's nothing I want 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:36.480 to talk to them about. But Jada's one person who 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.600 I will be open to having a conversation with outside 0:15:38.600 --> 0:15:42.160 of her platform, outside of who she is. Because I 0:15:42.240 --> 0:15:44.920 watched this clip the other day and Tyler Perry posted 0:15:45.840 --> 0:15:49.800 that Kerry Washington had interrupted the BC Awards thank him, 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.080 and in the capture he says he has changed lives 0:15:52.120 --> 0:15:53.360 and he rarely gets to thank you. 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:55.200 And so when I was looking at it, I'm like, 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:57.600 what the fuck that's do. 0:15:57.480 --> 0:15:59.760 You not know how many million dollar deals Tyler Perry 0:15:59.800 --> 0:16:03.200 has giving outright? And for him to say that little 0:16:03.240 --> 0:16:06.400 clip moved him because people don't say thank you. 0:16:06.480 --> 0:16:08.960 It is mind blowing when you really dissect it. 0:16:09.480 --> 0:16:11.560 And so for me with her, I could never be 0:16:11.640 --> 0:16:15.480 that person that doesn't give her accolades because Jada was 0:16:15.520 --> 0:16:17.880 doing for her family when she was seventeen. It was 0:16:17.920 --> 0:16:21.200 times Jada, just stay here, post yourself on my Instagram 0:16:21.480 --> 0:16:24.160 and it'll run. I follow us up six thousand numbers 0:16:24.160 --> 0:16:26.560 at the time. But it just was unfortunate how things ended. 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:30.000 And I'm this type of person because we were linked 0:16:30.040 --> 0:16:32.120 in with another person who is very special to me 0:16:33.480 --> 0:16:35.800 and he's my brother for life. I had to ride 0:16:35.840 --> 0:16:39.160 with him, and that's just what it was. I picked 0:16:39.600 --> 0:16:46.920 oh girl, okay, so without just giving look at much 0:16:47.240 --> 0:16:48.960 because I don't want to open up no old wood. 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:52.080 But it was a situation that happened with somebody who 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:54.080 she was dealing with. They end up getting into it 0:16:54.160 --> 0:16:56.920 and things just didn't get reconciled the right way. I 0:16:57.000 --> 0:16:59.600 end up calling her to check her about it, and 0:16:59.600 --> 0:17:01.560 she got upset with me and she blocked me. 0:17:01.720 --> 0:17:02.600 Okay, right. 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:05.679 We went on me and my friend because I can 0:17:05.720 --> 0:17:08.280 take accountability in anything that I do. We went on 0:17:08.320 --> 0:17:10.520 Instagram and side of throwing shade. This was years ago, 0:17:10.640 --> 0:17:11.080 just being. 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:12.960 A young yeah right right. 0:17:13.000 --> 0:17:14.919 And that's why as an adult now thirty years old, 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:17.399 when I tell you, it's so many different ways of 0:17:17.520 --> 0:17:18.920 things that I did when I was young that I 0:17:18.960 --> 0:17:21.880 would never do now because I see that it gets 0:17:21.880 --> 0:17:22.640 you nowhere. 0:17:23.119 --> 0:17:24.760 It puts a halt in what you're doing. 0:17:25.200 --> 0:17:28.440 And so us being upset, Yeah, because that's what happens 0:17:28.600 --> 0:17:32.040 in relationships and friendships when people pay you dust. Right, 0:17:32.680 --> 0:17:34.960 us being upset. We went on Instagram throwing shade, saying 0:17:34.960 --> 0:17:38.080 different things. So that's what really put a halt in 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:41.119 things of never being able to be reconciled again. And 0:17:41.160 --> 0:17:43.919 I get it. I'm so real to understand if she 0:17:44.080 --> 0:17:46.000 never wanted to talk to me again in life, I'm good. 0:17:46.280 --> 0:17:48.439 I get it because people who do me like that 0:17:48.520 --> 0:17:50.280 now it's nothing for us to ever talk about it. 0:17:50.720 --> 0:17:51.880 I love you from a distance. 0:17:52.280 --> 0:17:55.879 You can be sincerely apologizing to me, and I accept it, 0:17:55.880 --> 0:17:58.240 but we will never be the same. It'll never be 0:17:58.320 --> 0:18:00.960 that again. It's nothing for us to talk about. I 0:18:01.000 --> 0:18:03.280 don't wish you any hate, harm or danger, but it's 0:18:03.320 --> 0:18:04.400 nothing for us to reconcilee. 0:18:04.640 --> 0:18:05.400 So I get it. 0:18:05.520 --> 0:18:08.080 I have to be understanding and understand both sides. 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:09.120 But I'm ever thankful. 0:18:09.280 --> 0:18:11.639 Yeah, people have to boundaries. 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:14.720 I like you said, you understand where she coming from 0:18:15.040 --> 0:18:16.400 one hundred percent. 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:16.959 I get it. 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:19.280 I love the accountability always. 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:21.760 I think one of my pet pieces of people that's 0:18:21.800 --> 0:18:25.760 victimized people me either, people like that they have to 0:18:25.760 --> 0:18:27.040 get the fuck from around me. 0:18:27.240 --> 0:18:29.879 Same because it's like what you do, what. 0:18:31.680 --> 0:18:32.000 You do. 0:18:32.119 --> 0:18:33.800 I have a person who always try to make it 0:18:33.880 --> 0:18:35.479 seem like everybody else the problem. 0:18:36.160 --> 0:18:40.720 You get my last I don't know why a little bit. 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:41.560 Some people may agree and. 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:41.919 They may not. 0:18:42.000 --> 0:18:44.240 I love a person that's the villain because I love 0:18:44.240 --> 0:18:45.520 a person that just can own. 0:18:45.320 --> 0:18:48.680 It everybody somebody's stories, and. 0:18:48.640 --> 0:18:50.560 I think I love people that's able to say what 0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:52.960 they did wrong in some situation. If I'm talking to 0:18:53.000 --> 0:18:55.000 you and it's a hundred stories and you're never wrong. 0:18:55.280 --> 0:18:57.000 It's something that you do. Oh yeah. Yeah. 0:18:57.040 --> 0:18:59.120 Even when you ask a person what's your toxic trait? 0:18:59.200 --> 0:19:04.800 I'm too loving? No, no, no, always say that you can change, 0:19:04.960 --> 0:19:06.360 that you can do better as a part. 0:19:06.840 --> 0:19:07.040 Yeah. 0:19:07.359 --> 0:19:08.760 If I talk to you and it sounds like you're 0:19:08.800 --> 0:19:11.159 doing a job interview, like, oh, what's the bad thing 0:19:11.160 --> 0:19:14.159 about you? As an employee? I I like to get 0:19:14.200 --> 0:19:16.919 to work so early, yeah, and work off the cloth. 0:19:17.080 --> 0:19:20.880 Yeah nerves. 0:19:20.880 --> 0:19:22.680 Well, you be on Instagram. 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.920 Sprawl and it's gonna be very much. 0:19:24.960 --> 0:19:27.120 Well this, I'm a great worker. 0:19:26.840 --> 0:19:29.440 I'm very loyal all but sometimes I like to check 0:19:29.440 --> 0:19:29.879 my phone. 0:19:29.920 --> 0:19:30.520 I can take that. 0:19:30.720 --> 0:19:34.840 Yeah, we all have about shortcoming. Everybody has their flaws. 0:19:35.000 --> 0:19:38.040 Everybody had their shortcoming to life. So what would yours be? 0:19:38.080 --> 0:19:39.840 And what would yours be? I'm gonna leave. I think 0:19:39.920 --> 0:19:45.800 mines would be. I'm very passionate, I'm very loyal. I 0:19:45.880 --> 0:19:48.320 just have to work on how things I said. Because 0:19:48.520 --> 0:19:51.440 as an adult, I'm realizing that everybody doesn't take well 0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:54.840 to aggressiveness. But that's just who I am. Sometimes I 0:19:54.840 --> 0:19:56.840 can't help it. I realized once they come out. 0:19:56.680 --> 0:19:57.080 Of my mouth. 0:19:57.400 --> 0:19:58.960 You know how you think about things that you say, 0:19:59.000 --> 0:20:01.440 and it is like you hear your it being came 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:03.040 out in the two seconds and I'm like, damn, that 0:20:03.040 --> 0:20:05.600 came out wrong. But I'm just so used to speaking 0:20:05.640 --> 0:20:07.960 my truth. Yeah, because since I was young, if I 0:20:08.000 --> 0:20:10.680 wanted to say, ooh that shit is nasty, my mother 0:20:10.680 --> 0:20:11.720 gave me leadway to say that. 0:20:11.760 --> 0:20:13.680 I didn't get in trouble for saying things like that. 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:15.800 Yeah, So now as an adult, I can't help it. 0:20:15.840 --> 0:20:17.880 If I don't like something, I don't like it. Yeah, 0:20:18.160 --> 0:20:20.160 if I want to address something I'm addressing it right now. 0:20:20.200 --> 0:20:21.639 If I want to speak my mind, I'm gonna do that. 0:20:21.680 --> 0:20:22.960 So what's your toxic traits? 0:20:23.160 --> 0:20:23.440 Oh? 0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:26.520 I feel like I always got to stay what's on 0:20:26.600 --> 0:20:30.840 my mind. I always got to stay with on my mind, 0:20:30.880 --> 0:20:32.680 Like if it's on my chest, I'm gonna get it 0:20:32.720 --> 0:20:34.640 off my cheese. I got to let you know what's 0:20:34.640 --> 0:20:36.760 going on. So I think that's the toxic trade. And 0:20:36.800 --> 0:20:43.399 then also just not Sometimes it's hard for me to 0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.200 put myself in other people's shoes because I be feeling 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:49.040 like people Oh why, because I think people be stupid 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:51.159 a lot of the time, and it's not right to 0:20:51.280 --> 0:20:53.040 necessarily look at people like that. 0:20:53.160 --> 0:20:54.440 I feel like God made me. 0:20:54.440 --> 0:20:58.320 Really strong and resilient, and everybody is not that way. 0:20:58.480 --> 0:21:01.679 Everybody was not blessed without traite. So sometimes you have 0:21:01.760 --> 0:21:03.359 to look at the shit that people do and be 0:21:03.440 --> 0:21:05.400 like it's okay that they might not have the same 0:21:05.480 --> 0:21:09.840 level of confidence or realize that something is not okay 0:21:09.840 --> 0:21:12.560 and stand up for theyself. That doesn't necessarily make them stupid. 0:21:12.640 --> 0:21:14.600 You just different, you know what I mean? 0:21:14.640 --> 0:21:15.960 You just stronger than the person. 0:21:16.000 --> 0:21:17.359 And I feel like I used to always kind of 0:21:17.400 --> 0:21:19.520 look at people and be like, oh, that's dumb, you know, 0:21:19.960 --> 0:21:23.040 and not really and not care to have an understanding, 0:21:23.160 --> 0:21:24.520 just looking at them like they're stupid. 0:21:24.520 --> 0:21:26.120 I wouldn't ever do that, you know what I mean. 0:21:26.200 --> 0:21:29.200 So I think that's probably. 0:21:29.800 --> 0:21:32.680 I think the worst thing about me is I am 0:21:32.760 --> 0:21:35.199 extremely sensitive by but I have the nerve to be 0:21:35.240 --> 0:21:41.000 a bitch, like like I am sensitive as fuck, but 0:21:41.040 --> 0:21:44.439 I'm a bitch, like I am extremely bitchy. And I 0:21:44.560 --> 0:21:46.760 used to always like I feel like people got to 0:21:46.800 --> 0:21:48.119 be soft with me, but I don't want to be 0:21:48.119 --> 0:21:51.480 soft with people. And I think another thing is like 0:21:51.600 --> 0:21:55.639 when I shut down, I shut down, like I don't 0:21:55.640 --> 0:21:59.960 do confrontation well, like if I need to let tom 0:22:00.160 --> 0:22:01.760 go by, like if me and you get into it, 0:22:02.000 --> 0:22:03.720 I need to have like two or three days and 0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:05.480 then I want to talk, you know what I'm saying. 0:22:06.000 --> 0:22:09.720 But I also feel like I do need to calm down. 0:22:09.760 --> 0:22:12.440 But I also don't need to procrastinate, because honestly, I'll 0:22:12.480 --> 0:22:15.000 let shit go to like two three weeks and I'm like, okay, 0:22:15.160 --> 0:22:17.439 we can talk now, I guess, but I be thinking 0:22:17.480 --> 0:22:20.199 like let's just let's just move on. And I know 0:22:20.359 --> 0:22:23.440 now like I pride myself on being a great communicator, 0:22:23.480 --> 0:22:26.640 but I'm really not as good as a communicator as 0:22:26.640 --> 0:22:28.639 I like to say I am. I be wanting to 0:22:28.680 --> 0:22:31.000 talk about the things that I want to talk about. Yeah, 0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:34.080 when somebody else want to talk about something, I'd be like, 0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:37.800 you know what I'm saying. And so those are like 0:22:37.840 --> 0:22:39.760 the main two things I need to work on. I'm 0:22:39.920 --> 0:22:42.159 very I don't like to you know what, let me 0:22:42.200 --> 0:22:46.240 not say a bitch. I'm very assertive, and I think 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.879 sometimes it's taken the wrong way. So I need to expect. 0:22:50.880 --> 0:22:52.680 But I need to learn how to take that too. 0:22:52.800 --> 0:22:55.000 And I think somebody's being bitchy towards me, they could 0:22:55.000 --> 0:22:57.560 just be assertive and saying what they mean, you know, 0:22:58.040 --> 0:22:59.600 So I got to learn how to dish it in 0:22:59.720 --> 0:23:06.760 take it. So yeah, I'm working on so so sensitive. 0:23:07.000 --> 0:23:08.960 You know, I'm not really sensitive. 0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:09.600 I'm not either. 0:23:09.720 --> 0:23:12.720 If you see me crying, I gotta be devastated about something. 0:23:12.720 --> 0:23:18.880 I cry because I'm like, she very sensitive. 0:23:18.880 --> 0:23:21.680 And that's where we're like so opposite, because she's very 0:23:21.720 --> 0:23:24.439 sensitive and I'm not. And just like she said, like 0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:26.879 you know, she's not really confrontational. So a lot of 0:23:26.880 --> 0:23:29.800 the time it's been times in our relationship where like 0:23:29.880 --> 0:23:32.760 I want to talk about she right now, and she 0:23:32.840 --> 0:23:39.280 don't want to talk about it. Yeah, my phone, I'm 0:23:40.119 --> 0:23:45.120 trying to avoid me. And what's up? Let's talk about 0:23:45.160 --> 0:23:47.399 what happened last week? Because you know, I'll let you 0:23:47.480 --> 0:23:49.320 make it for a week. But let's talk about I 0:23:49.320 --> 0:23:50.760 didn't you always. 0:23:50.400 --> 0:23:52.199 Say that that's all? 0:23:52.680 --> 0:23:55.320 What's up? What's up? 0:23:55.760 --> 0:23:58.720 Could get jiggy with tourists because what I noticed with 0:23:58.800 --> 0:24:01.480 a lot of tourist peopeople, even two of my good 0:24:01.520 --> 0:24:04.040 torrst friends, Yeah, they don't mind saying this is how 0:24:04.080 --> 0:24:06.119 I feel, this is what's on my mind, or and 0:24:06.720 --> 0:24:09.679 the people like that I could take because my response, 0:24:09.720 --> 0:24:11.080 so this is this is how I feel. 0:24:11.240 --> 0:24:12.080 And so we could talk. 0:24:12.280 --> 0:24:13.920 But it's so crazy that you said that, because that's 0:24:13.920 --> 0:24:16.080 what I be telling Lex. I'd be like, if I 0:24:16.240 --> 0:24:18.399 tell you that something that's wrong, She'd be like, well, 0:24:18.440 --> 0:24:21.000 I don't be wanting to argue, but that's your opportunity 0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:22.200 to tell me how you feel. 0:24:22.600 --> 0:24:25.280 It's not an argument turn into an argument. 0:24:25.440 --> 0:24:28.160 Everythink don't have to be an argument. I do get 0:24:28.400 --> 0:24:31.000 and that's another toxic way that I have too. I 0:24:31.040 --> 0:24:33.560 wouldn't say that. I'm I think like, if you really 0:24:33.600 --> 0:24:37.280 ask my friends. I could be confrontational, like I don't 0:24:37.359 --> 0:24:40.200 mind confrontation, I mean an argument, and I don't mind 0:24:40.200 --> 0:24:42.440 going back and forth. I don't mind debating because I'm 0:24:42.440 --> 0:24:43.120 a passionate person. 0:24:43.400 --> 0:24:45.600 They don't have to say. But with that, y'all gotta 0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:46.480 watch y'all tone. 0:24:46.760 --> 0:24:49.240 Yeah, and I do. I have to work on that. 0:24:49.240 --> 0:24:51.399 That's fair because I feel like maybe I do be 0:24:51.440 --> 0:24:54.240 having to watch my tone sometimes. But the thing about me, 0:24:54.680 --> 0:24:57.719 my tone only get bad with people. I gotta be written, 0:24:57.720 --> 0:24:59.600 you gotta have me real fucked up. Though for my 0:24:59.680 --> 0:25:03.560 pne yes you do, Yes, you do. Anybody in this 0:25:03.680 --> 0:25:06.280 room will agree my tone never get crazy with none 0:25:06.320 --> 0:25:06.600 of them. 0:25:06.880 --> 0:25:07.680 With none of them. 0:25:08.040 --> 0:25:14.879 I have just said, you gotta have me world point 0:25:14.960 --> 0:25:17.600 proven because she doesn't have me real fucked up a 0:25:17.600 --> 0:25:20.639 lot of time, a lot of times everyone else in 0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:22.800 this room has not, which was the point I was 0:25:22.800 --> 0:25:23.159 getting it. 0:25:23.240 --> 0:25:25.720 But no. But what I'm saying is I just feel 0:25:25.720 --> 0:25:29.600 like it's certain situations, Like like I said, but that's 0:25:29.640 --> 0:25:31.480 something I need to work on because I be having 0:25:31.520 --> 0:25:33.920 the nerves because everybody this room career. I will walk 0:25:33.960 --> 0:25:35.719 in and be like, what the fuck yo? 0:25:36.480 --> 0:25:36.640 Right? 0:25:36.800 --> 0:25:42.119 The cameras is cracking up with everybody. My phone be 0:25:42.200 --> 0:25:44.680 fucked up with selective select. 0:25:45.520 --> 0:25:47.080 Lee y'o leo. 0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:52.560 Controlling when it comes to my business. It when it 0:25:52.600 --> 0:25:55.960 comes to my business, this is our baby. I don't 0:25:55.960 --> 0:25:57.800 play when it comes to this ship. And I know 0:25:57.880 --> 0:25:59.840 what the vision I have for it. So I think 0:25:59.840 --> 0:26:03.320 it's the business world. I am a little more probably strict, 0:26:03.359 --> 0:26:05.920 and I don't mind having confrontation when it comes to 0:26:05.920 --> 0:26:08.920 business cause it's not necessarily it's not personal. It's business. 0:26:08.880 --> 0:26:12.440 I'm right done so with business, I don't mind saying 0:26:12.480 --> 0:26:13.960 what I got to say and what's on my mind. 0:26:14.160 --> 0:26:15.840 We need to talk about this ship because it's money 0:26:15.840 --> 0:26:16.120 to make. 0:26:16.240 --> 0:26:21.919 Yeah, friendship, it's okay because literally friendships is like relationiouships, Yeah, 0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:23.560 just without the intimacy. 0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:25.480 Because if you be broken falling. 0:26:25.280 --> 0:26:26.800 Out with your friends, just like it was your man 0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:28.000 or your or. 0:26:27.960 --> 0:26:29.960 Your and home boys go through, you could be gay. 0:26:30.000 --> 0:26:32.480 You can be strapping femail when you go through with 0:26:32.560 --> 0:26:34.120 your friends, even if you ain't talking to your friend 0:26:34.160 --> 0:26:34.960 for a couple of weeks. 0:26:35.200 --> 0:26:36.680 Yeah, everythings you be wanting. 0:26:36.520 --> 0:26:38.680 To talk about with them and you can't because y'all 0:26:38.680 --> 0:26:39.320 mad at each other. 0:26:41.920 --> 0:26:44.200 Yeah, it's not talking with you right now. 0:26:44.440 --> 0:26:46.840 It's sad weasted in each other some ship. 0:26:46.880 --> 0:26:48.200 Because that's me I canhold. 0:26:48.320 --> 0:26:50.960 I see you on my front. You are ill hold 0:26:50.960 --> 0:26:52.520 a GRUDGTI then I go to the grave. 0:26:53.359 --> 0:26:54.800 I'm not really a grud childer. 0:26:54.840 --> 0:26:56.639 I'll be letting stuff go because I just feel like 0:26:56.720 --> 0:26:59.119 after a certain period of time, I don't it's too. 0:26:59.000 --> 0:27:01.159 Much energy, Like it take too much energy to care. 0:27:01.760 --> 0:27:05.440 That's why, because I just want to get it over with, 0:27:05.720 --> 0:27:07.200 Like I just want to talk about it and even 0:27:07.240 --> 0:27:07.880 be over it. 0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:10.040 And until the torrests talk about it. 0:27:10.080 --> 0:27:12.440 Then you want to hold a grudge, but I don't 0:27:12.160 --> 0:27:13.119 want you talk about it. 0:27:13.119 --> 0:27:14.080 You'll be good after that. 0:27:14.600 --> 0:27:17.000 Yeah, I mean maybe I feel like I don't care 0:27:17.040 --> 0:27:18.720 a lot about a lot of shit. That's why it's 0:27:18.720 --> 0:27:20.720 hard for me to hold grudges because I really don't 0:27:20.760 --> 0:27:23.240 give a fu enough to the grudge. 0:27:23.400 --> 0:27:24.760 It just depends on what's done. 0:27:27.080 --> 0:27:29.399 Dreda's not a grudge holder because I've seen where like 0:27:30.040 --> 0:27:32.040 you and a friend stop being friends. Someone When I 0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:35.520 tell you when Drea is done, i mean she will 0:27:35.560 --> 0:27:38.560 act like you are dead. You never like never. 0:27:39.119 --> 0:27:40.680 That signs ship is so. 0:27:42.240 --> 0:27:45.480 Real. And the thing with tourists who kissing nobody's ass. 0:27:45.480 --> 0:27:48.280 Oh yeah, but you guys will always be open to 0:27:48.359 --> 0:27:51.960 talk about it. Yeah, that's signed and ship it could 0:27:52.000 --> 0:27:53.600 be too much later. If you're ready to talk, now, 0:27:53.640 --> 0:27:55.199 we can talk, so we can hand it out. But 0:27:55.320 --> 0:27:56.680 kissing nobody's. 0:27:56.200 --> 0:27:58.640 Ass, because I feel like that's the key to any 0:27:58.680 --> 0:28:01.560 healthy relationship, Like you have to be able to talk 0:28:01.640 --> 0:28:03.560 to people about stuff. And that's coming from a place 0:28:03.600 --> 0:28:06.120 of when I was younger, Lex Can of his cities. 0:28:06.160 --> 0:28:07.720 I used to be the type of person. 0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:10.160 Who I would just cut people off and not talk 0:28:10.200 --> 0:28:13.000 to you about stuff. But that's not conducive to having 0:28:13.040 --> 0:28:16.040 a healthy, long lasting relationship with anybody. Where there is 0:28:16.040 --> 0:28:18.800 a romantic relationship, where there is a friendship, where there 0:28:18.880 --> 0:28:21.320 is a relationship with your family, you have to be 0:28:21.480 --> 0:28:23.000 open to talking to people about it. 0:28:23.040 --> 0:28:25.360 And cutting people off every time somebody. 0:28:25.080 --> 0:28:26.800 Do some fucked up she to you or have you 0:28:26.840 --> 0:28:30.560 fucked up is not always the answer because sometimes what 0:28:30.600 --> 0:28:34.040 they did doesn't necessarily warrant something so dramatic as you 0:28:34.280 --> 0:28:36.359 not even talking to them again. But I used to 0:28:36.840 --> 0:28:39.160 everything was their series, like I'm not fucking with you. 0:28:39.280 --> 0:28:41.920 I gotta work on that one, because it just depend 0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:45.200 and that's something you really preaches to me, because that's 0:28:45.240 --> 0:28:47.520 something that I and I've had people like my older sister, 0:28:47.520 --> 0:28:49.120 who I get a lot of guidance from it. Well, 0:28:49.760 --> 0:28:51.560 tell me that that's a fucked up track too, because 0:28:51.560 --> 0:28:54.280 you don't do people like that. Yeah, But for me, 0:28:54.400 --> 0:28:56.920 it just depends on what's done, because I'll be feeling 0:28:56.960 --> 0:28:59.960 like you shouldn't know better. And one of my things 0:29:00.040 --> 0:29:03.000 that I take as a pride and as a friendship 0:29:03.800 --> 0:29:06.640 is I'm not a chatter. If you sit here tell 0:29:06.680 --> 0:29:09.160 me some vulnerable ship about yourself and you tell me 0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:11.760 to not say anything, I'm taking it to the motherfucking grace. 0:29:12.440 --> 0:29:14.040 So I expect the same thing from you. If I 0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:16.440 hear you doing a lot of chat about my ship 0:29:16.560 --> 0:29:18.120 like that, you get caught off at the head. I 0:29:18.200 --> 0:29:21.520 would prefer, I promise you, people don't. People have told 0:29:21.520 --> 0:29:23.959 me I sound crazy when I give this example. I 0:29:24.000 --> 0:29:27.120 would prefer if you was using my goddamn Devik card 0:29:27.240 --> 0:29:30.800 and I didn't know and you came and told me, oh, Saxy, 0:29:30.840 --> 0:29:34.960 I was hungry, I fucked up opposed to the streets 0:29:35.000 --> 0:29:37.800 coming back and saying she said this I know this 0:29:37.960 --> 0:29:40.400 about I would take that over that I don't play 0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:46.640 when because people like that just it's like I can't 0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:49.400 stand it because I have seen people do that, say oh, 0:29:49.400 --> 0:29:50.880 this is my homegirl, and as soon as she leaves 0:29:50.880 --> 0:29:52.840 the room, why do I know that she's been evicted 0:29:52.920 --> 0:29:53.280 last week? 0:29:53.320 --> 0:29:54.640 That's not my business. 0:29:55.200 --> 0:29:57.400 You gotta side on people like that because, like you said, 0:29:57.440 --> 0:30:00.880 because if you're saying it about a hug about me 0:30:01.000 --> 0:30:02.760 when I'm not in the room, you be doing the same. 0:30:02.960 --> 0:30:05.200 You cannot convince me that a person that will go 0:30:05.280 --> 0:30:07.960 and tell other people their friends business do not tell 0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:10.040 other people your business when you're not around. 0:30:10.040 --> 0:30:10.120 This. 0:30:10.520 --> 0:30:13.000 Instantly I'd be like, oh, I don't. 0:30:12.840 --> 0:30:15.760 Like this, especially like when people fall out, because that's 0:30:15.760 --> 0:30:16.400 when people. 0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:19.080 Are the most vulnerable and sangry. And yeah, so if 0:30:19.120 --> 0:30:21.240 you get your feelings and you and a friends start 0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:24.440 being friends and you start spelling all that, that says 0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.280 a lot about your character because I don't care if 0:30:27.320 --> 0:30:29.800 me and you never talk again. I'm not going to 0:30:29.840 --> 0:30:30.960 go around telling your secrets. 0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:33.400 Yeah, and people get upset, and guess what, it's inevitable 0:30:33.400 --> 0:30:36.320 as humans, we're gonna talk. We're gonna be like fuck that, bitchy. 0:30:37.320 --> 0:30:40.000 But it's just a certain level of where you go. 0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.880 I should not know personal shit that y'all went through. Yeah, 0:30:42.920 --> 0:30:44.520 you can come and tell me she did it, that 0:30:44.640 --> 0:30:47.000 was fucked up. I'm not fucking with her. Yeah, that's 0:30:47.160 --> 0:30:49.240 because you're human. We get upset. That's just what we 0:30:49.320 --> 0:30:51.240 do as people. But it's a degree on how you 0:30:51.280 --> 0:30:52.040 go about doing things. 0:30:52.040 --> 0:30:54.360 Because, like you said, what's her car getting repold? Gotta 0:30:54.360 --> 0:30:55.880 do what any knowing? Why are you telling me that? 0:30:56.160 --> 0:30:57.640 Oh my god, I don't know that. 0:30:58.160 --> 0:30:59.640 Or she had a BV that they gave for. 0:31:01.480 --> 0:31:05.560 An abortion. Trust Yeah, yeah, I do not trust them 0:31:06.440 --> 0:31:10.520 away from Yeah. Okay, So before we get into the topics, 0:31:10.920 --> 0:31:13.280 my girls time. What we drinking down today? 0:31:17.120 --> 0:31:20.040 So in honor of our guests, mister Big Sexy, this 0:31:20.160 --> 0:31:24.160 one is called the Unshakable Walk. Okay, and so with 0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:26.280 this one, this one is a mock tail for him. 0:31:26.400 --> 0:31:28.400 Lets does have some vodka and hers me Andre are 0:31:28.400 --> 0:31:29.160 still going strong. 0:31:29.280 --> 0:31:29.640 We are. 0:31:29.960 --> 0:31:34.840 So this one has some leechee, some BlackBerry, some raspberry, 0:31:34.920 --> 0:31:36.960 a little bit of lemon, a little bit of simple 0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:40.320 syrup in there and some time and then as a garnish, 0:31:40.760 --> 0:31:43.560 I used a leachye I put a dehydrated raspberry in 0:31:43.640 --> 0:31:45.320 there and then added some time just to give it 0:31:45.360 --> 0:31:48.120 a little cuteness for the spring that's approaching down here. 0:31:48.560 --> 0:31:50.440 And then we tapped it off with a little guava 0:31:50.680 --> 0:31:57.360 sparkling water. Okay, cheers where they. 0:31:57.280 --> 0:31:59.800 Can find the calendar? 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Must be an active subscriber to receive free 0:34:22.280 --> 0:34:24.760 What's up y'all as your girl XP and it's Sugarl 0:34:24.840 --> 0:34:28.560 Drain the call, And we have a very exciting announcement today. 0:34:28.680 --> 0:34:31.480 We have a brand new show dropping. Yes, we have 0:34:31.520 --> 0:34:34.319 a brand new shower dropping y'all on Patreon. It's gonna 0:34:34.320 --> 0:34:37.080 air on September second, and it's called Poor Chronicles. We're 0:34:37.080 --> 0:34:39.080 gonna be doing so much stuff on there. We're gonna 0:34:39.080 --> 0:34:42.520 be doing challenges. If you can't go to Bella Dache, 0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:43.880 where the hell could you go? 0:34:45.080 --> 0:34:47.880 If you can't go to Bella Noche, what the hell 0:34:48.880 --> 0:34:51.600 we're gonna be doing? Talk to me, chit chat with me. 0:34:51.719 --> 0:34:54.959 We're gonna be spelling a little little tea. Oh my god, 0:34:56.360 --> 0:34:57.120 no you didn't. 0:34:59.400 --> 0:35:02.200 God, everything y'all been wanting to see, We're gonna be 0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:04.240 doing it right here on Patreon. 0:35:04.440 --> 0:35:06.839 Yes, y'all ask us for so much. Well, we've been 0:35:06.920 --> 0:35:10.399 to give it to y'all every single Monday, and it's 0:35:10.400 --> 0:35:13.239 gonna be a time. Y'all know, Poor Minds has grown 0:35:13.520 --> 0:35:15.960 into its own little entity when we're gonna have a 0:35:16.080 --> 0:35:19.960 lot of fun still over here at Poor Chronicles. So 0:35:20.080 --> 0:35:23.399 make sure y'all tune in September second it's going down. 0:35:23.719 --> 0:35:32.279 Thanks the first topic. 0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:33.920 For the first topic, we really wanted to talk to 0:35:34.000 --> 0:35:37.600 you about gay men being straight women's prius because we 0:35:37.760 --> 0:35:41.560 saw where you talked about this before recently. You were saying, 0:35:41.640 --> 0:35:43.400 how you know, you feel like you have been in 0:35:43.520 --> 0:35:45.440 that position in a lot of situations or a lot 0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:47.759 of relationships and friendships that you've been in. So we 0:35:47.840 --> 0:35:50.200 definitely wanted to get into that because I agree with you. 0:35:50.800 --> 0:35:54.080 But and it's the thing it goes I think, and 0:35:54.160 --> 0:35:57.759 I'm saying black because I'm black back. It goes hand 0:35:57.800 --> 0:36:00.640 in hand though, right, because I do get how in 0:36:00.840 --> 0:36:03.440 certain areas, as black gaying, we can't be props. I 0:36:03.600 --> 0:36:06.000 understand that because we contribute a lot. I was slang, 0:36:06.040 --> 0:36:09.399 I would fashion our mindset, our loyalty. We love the girls, 0:36:09.440 --> 0:36:12.560 and the girls love us, and we're amazing we're innovators, 0:36:12.600 --> 0:36:14.160 we're thinkers, we're creative, we're. 0:36:14.040 --> 0:36:15.719 Smart as gay people, right. 0:36:16.120 --> 0:36:18.279 But I think our biggest allies, especially for me in 0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:20.760 my life as a black gay man, has been black women. 0:36:21.400 --> 0:36:24.520 So in a sense, a prop is subjective. 0:36:25.000 --> 0:36:28.480 It's what a prop is to you, because for me, 0:36:29.160 --> 0:36:32.600 my biggest allies has been black women. So sometimes even 0:36:32.640 --> 0:36:35.680 when people think that I'm baiting or I'm saying certain 0:36:35.719 --> 0:36:38.680 things to just get on the good side of a woman, 0:36:39.120 --> 0:36:42.279 a lot of things I feel for real because when 0:36:42.320 --> 0:36:46.160 I was experiencing my bullying, when I was experiencing my hardships, 0:36:46.520 --> 0:36:47.719 it was women. 0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:48.160 That was there for me. 0:36:48.520 --> 0:36:51.200 I mean, the first woman was your mom, was my mother. 0:36:52.440 --> 0:36:54.000 And that's why when people tell me I'm trying to 0:36:54.040 --> 0:36:55.520 be like this person, I'm trying to be like my mom. 0:36:55.680 --> 0:36:59.239 I emulate my mother, I think and operate like my mother. 0:36:59.719 --> 0:37:03.160 But for me, women have saved me, so I have 0:37:03.280 --> 0:37:06.200 a different connection with them. But I do get that 0:37:06.360 --> 0:37:09.080 sometimes we can be props. And what happens is I 0:37:09.200 --> 0:37:12.320 was talking about this on another podcast because I was 0:37:12.360 --> 0:37:14.120 just trying to speak lifely to this young man, right 0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:16.280 who had his perspective on being messy. 0:37:16.719 --> 0:37:24.440 I said, Oh he's spicy. I sad. I said, oh 0:37:24.440 --> 0:37:25.520 he getting spicy. 0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:28.080 Yeah, no, you ain't say. That was the fight work 0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:32.800 for me, and that was the light work there. Somebody 0:37:32.880 --> 0:37:34.920 called me up and said, hey, yeah, we gotta get 0:37:34.960 --> 0:37:36.920 somebody on here that could take you because you're a lot. 0:37:37.280 --> 0:37:40.680 Yeah I am in real life because I'm very assertive 0:37:40.719 --> 0:37:42.560 and I know what I'm talking about. I don't know 0:37:42.560 --> 0:37:44.440 what I'm talking about. I'm gonna wing that bit. And 0:37:44.520 --> 0:37:47.200 you want to think I know what I'm talking about it, 0:37:47.600 --> 0:37:49.960 I'm gonna wing it down and you're never gonna box me. 0:37:50.000 --> 0:37:52.839 I'm gonna always have a response. But I think it's 0:37:52.960 --> 0:37:54.759 it's a two way street, right, because what I wanted 0:37:54.800 --> 0:38:00.160 him to understand was you can be that stereotype of 0:38:00.520 --> 0:38:04.440 mess that they see gay men to be right, because 0:38:04.560 --> 0:38:07.160 all they're gonna do is amp You would say, yeah, 0:38:07.200 --> 0:38:09.920 spill t yeah, stand on it. Yeah say that, and 0:38:10.040 --> 0:38:11.560 guess what, as soon as they are business is on 0:38:11.640 --> 0:38:14.319 the line, then you're gonna be a sissy and then 0:38:14.719 --> 0:38:16.359 you're going to be seen as their prop that they 0:38:16.480 --> 0:38:19.239 just throw to the side because it's no fun until 0:38:19.239 --> 0:38:21.040 the cat got the gun. So you can sit there 0:38:21.040 --> 0:38:23.120 and laugh at another woman's pain and laugh at her 0:38:23.160 --> 0:38:25.200 business when another gay man is talking about it. But 0:38:25.280 --> 0:38:29.080 as soon as your business is on the line again, yes, 0:38:30.080 --> 0:38:33.000 that's when the prop is in play. And so that's 0:38:33.040 --> 0:38:35.160 why I can understand how people will say a lot 0:38:35.200 --> 0:38:37.560 of times we just props because when things go wrong, 0:38:37.600 --> 0:38:39.520 when things go left, a lot of times, a lot 0:38:39.560 --> 0:38:41.360 of gay men, when you talk to them, it's a 0:38:41.440 --> 0:38:44.399 thing in our community, it's don't trust fish, fish got 0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:49.080 bone because a lot of gay men have experienced being 0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:52.080 that loyal person to women, being that rider, and when 0:38:52.120 --> 0:38:54.600 things go left, they're thrown to the side. They have 0:38:54.840 --> 0:38:57.480 been the manager, they have been the person riding. They've 0:38:57.520 --> 0:38:59.759 been the person showing up when your man was a 0:39:00.120 --> 0:39:02.399 doing you in in the house, affusing you. You've been 0:39:02.480 --> 0:39:05.000 that person, that older brother, that friend figure, and then 0:39:05.000 --> 0:39:07.359 when things go left, you'll forgive him, but you'll throw. 0:39:07.239 --> 0:39:08.160 Your gay friends at the time. 0:39:08.520 --> 0:39:11.400 So I can get why that dynamic is very speaky 0:39:11.440 --> 0:39:12.160 and very tricky. 0:39:12.440 --> 0:39:15.279 But as for me, and my experienced women have saved me. 0:39:15.840 --> 0:39:17.840 And see, when I think of it, I'll more so 0:39:18.520 --> 0:39:20.839 be thinking from a standpoint of like, you know how 0:39:20.880 --> 0:39:23.080 you'll be talking to some women and they'll be like, well, 0:39:23.080 --> 0:39:23.480 I need to. 0:39:23.480 --> 0:39:25.120 Give me a gay meal friend. I hate that. 0:39:25.320 --> 0:39:27.680 I think that's like to me, that's more so trying 0:39:27.760 --> 0:39:29.880 to use a person as a pride, because why are 0:39:29.920 --> 0:39:32.360 you so specific in the type of friend that you 0:39:32.480 --> 0:39:32.840 need to. 0:39:32.880 --> 0:39:35.359 Buyd I don't see nothing wrong with it, But well, 0:39:35.440 --> 0:39:37.120 let me ask you this too, though, because I think 0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:40.320 it's a little weird on both sides. Yeah, because I 0:39:40.480 --> 0:39:42.800 have a gay friend that I'm really really close to, 0:39:42.920 --> 0:39:44.640 Like we've recently gotten really close and I love him 0:39:44.640 --> 0:39:46.680 down shout out to Clay. Hey, Clay, I talked to 0:39:46.760 --> 0:39:51.160 Clay so much. But we became friends organic. Yeah, Like 0:39:51.280 --> 0:39:54.800 it wasn't like, oh, I'm searching for him or for me, 0:39:55.040 --> 0:39:57.680 or it was like we really became organic friends. But 0:39:57.920 --> 0:40:01.680 what I have noticed is I feel like sometimes a 0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:03.640 lot of the gay men in the community, and I 0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:05.399 don't want to feed anybody, say y'all, please don't eat 0:40:05.400 --> 0:40:07.960 me up. This is just honest. Sometimes just like I 0:40:08.040 --> 0:40:09.920 feel like women want to be our friends because of 0:40:10.000 --> 0:40:11.879 who we are. I think a lot of gay men 0:40:11.960 --> 0:40:13.839 be trying to come into my life because they feel like, oh, 0:40:13.880 --> 0:40:16.239 I would love to be Lex's friend, or I want 0:40:16.280 --> 0:40:18.200 to be that one gay guy in her life. That 0:40:18.520 --> 0:40:21.080 that's why I'm so cool with Clay because it was genuine. 0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:23.239 But sometimes I feel like a lot of the gay 0:40:23.280 --> 0:40:25.680 boys be trying to you know, they just want to 0:40:25.760 --> 0:40:27.400 be a prog. Yes, they do. 0:40:28.800 --> 0:40:31.640 They ways. Yeah, it goes both ways. 0:40:31.840 --> 0:40:34.040 And the thing is we give a lot of confidence 0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:36.600 and tips, and we teach a lot of things because 0:40:36.600 --> 0:40:39.520 we do. We innovate us and we're very creative. But 0:40:39.680 --> 0:40:42.399 the same way women give it to us, they feed. 0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:45.279 I couldn't imagine a world of me living here without women. 0:40:45.280 --> 0:40:48.160 I probably would have been off myself. I'm just being serious. 0:40:48.480 --> 0:40:51.240 I could even when it comes to my own motherfucking community, 0:40:51.600 --> 0:40:54.399 I could not imagine this earth of me here, even 0:40:54.440 --> 0:40:57.239 if it was an LGBTQ community with just men. In 0:40:57.320 --> 0:41:00.440 a world with just men, I would then have gone. 0:41:01.080 --> 0:41:04.880 I'm talking about upstairs with God hanging out. It's women 0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:07.399 that keep me so grinded who I am. They give 0:41:07.440 --> 0:41:09.959 me so much confidence, they give me so much genuine love. 0:41:10.840 --> 0:41:12.839 I'm able to create my own table in my own 0:41:12.920 --> 0:41:15.200 lane because of women. Even with my own motherfucking community, 0:41:15.200 --> 0:41:18.160 I couldn't imagine having to kiss they motherfucking Yeah, because 0:41:18.200 --> 0:41:20.680 there'd be a lot of them too that's so rooted 0:41:20.760 --> 0:41:23.880 in hate and jealousy. So it does go both ways. 0:41:24.640 --> 0:41:26.200 You guys give us a lot and we give you 0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:29.040 a lot. But I think that it just gets sticky sometimes. 0:41:29.080 --> 0:41:32.640 But the different things that go on, and so you 0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:35.240 gotta just so you gotta just let things happen organically, 0:41:35.320 --> 0:41:38.120 like you said, But me personally, I don't mind. I 0:41:38.160 --> 0:41:39.680 don't mind a girl saying that because we. 0:41:41.160 --> 0:41:43.360 But you don't feel like it might be like some 0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:45.080 weird motives there. 0:41:45.360 --> 0:41:47.520 Or like somebody trying to use I think some girls 0:41:47.560 --> 0:41:49.280 they enjoy gay men more than girls. 0:41:49.920 --> 0:41:51.160 I think sometimes. 0:41:55.320 --> 0:41:57.279 If you don't get along with women and you feel like, oh, well, 0:41:57.320 --> 0:42:00.760 I need some gay friends, you probably a little weirdo yourself. 0:42:00.880 --> 0:42:03.759 Any woman that be like, oh, I'm not saying you 0:42:03.800 --> 0:42:05.800 got to be a girl's girl, But I hate a 0:42:05.880 --> 0:42:08.000 woman that's like, oh, I got more guy friends, or 0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:09.439 I don't want to hang out with the gay guys 0:42:09.440 --> 0:42:11.640 all the time. That'd be weird too, because, like I said, 0:42:11.680 --> 0:42:13.480 as much as I feel like it's on both sides, 0:42:13.880 --> 0:42:16.920 the women who seek out a gay friend just because 0:42:16.920 --> 0:42:19.440 he's a male and he's gay. To me, it gives 0:42:19.560 --> 0:42:21.640 like you don't want to hang around women because you 0:42:21.800 --> 0:42:24.359 feel like it's competition. So you feel like, of course 0:42:24.680 --> 0:42:29.320 that's true. Like if I don't want to be friends 0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:31.719 with Drea because Drea goes out and Drea gets all 0:42:31.760 --> 0:42:33.600 the attention, well I'm gonna go out with being sexy 0:42:33.680 --> 0:42:35.680 because obviously the men don't want me because he's a man. 0:42:36.160 --> 0:42:38.080 That's the kind of energy that gang is. They might 0:42:38.160 --> 0:42:38.520 want him. 0:42:38.600 --> 0:42:40.480 But guess what, you know what that's so true? 0:42:40.520 --> 0:42:42.520 How you just broke that down because I think about 0:42:42.520 --> 0:42:44.640 that with gay men, if you're a gay man and 0:42:44.719 --> 0:42:47.480 you have no gay homeboys. Because it's just like I 0:42:47.600 --> 0:42:49.640 spoke about on the other podcasts, it's things. Yeah, you 0:42:49.680 --> 0:42:51.319 can love me as a gay man. It is things 0:42:51.480 --> 0:42:53.560 that I can give you, but it's still certain things 0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:55.320 that you and her can relate on that I know 0:42:55.440 --> 0:42:57.880 nothing about it. So as a gay black man, I 0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:00.920 got to have at least one gay black men that 0:43:01.080 --> 0:43:04.080 lived this experience with me. Yeah, if I don't have 0:43:04.160 --> 0:43:07.160 at least one gay black man that I can relate to, 0:43:07.280 --> 0:43:10.160 we've been through the SAE. We have different backgrounds and upbringers, 0:43:10.200 --> 0:43:11.480 but it's a lot of things that's me being a 0:43:11.520 --> 0:43:13.640 black gay man that you can relate to eighty percent 0:43:13.680 --> 0:43:17.319 of the time, whether it's sometimes being ostracized, people judging us, 0:43:17.560 --> 0:43:19.480 people judging us because of what we like. So you're 0:43:19.520 --> 0:43:22.319 absolutely right, because there's certain things that women can get 0:43:22.360 --> 0:43:24.239 from each other that you can't get from a gay man. 0:43:24.760 --> 0:43:26.080 Yeah. I may be comfort for you. 0:43:26.560 --> 0:43:28.400 You may like to hang around me because I may 0:43:28.480 --> 0:43:30.560 encourage you in a different way than your homegirl. But 0:43:30.640 --> 0:43:33.120 if you're telling me you have no good homegirls, right, 0:43:33.480 --> 0:43:35.640 no good female friends, that is and. 0:43:35.719 --> 0:43:38.719 I say it hearing your motives there. Yeah, And I 0:43:38.760 --> 0:43:41.120 think we're also in a time where people see relationships 0:43:41.280 --> 0:43:47.880 like Santana and Kresha and everybody want everybody wants that dynamic. 0:43:48.000 --> 0:43:49.520 So they'd be like, oh, you see what Santana and 0:43:49.560 --> 0:43:51.200 Karsha do, I want to do that. So it's like, 0:43:51.480 --> 0:43:53.400 are y'all are you really genuine friends with him? Are 0:43:53.440 --> 0:43:55.279 you trying to have like an arrogant a ari type 0:43:55.320 --> 0:43:57.279 of situation? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I 0:43:57.560 --> 0:43:59.480 think a lot of times, like I said, it's not 0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:02.759 that genia in connection women be seeing they'd be like, 0:44:03.320 --> 0:44:05.359 I need a prop I need that accessory. They want 0:44:05.400 --> 0:44:07.560 somebody that's gonna come over and do their heir, boo 0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:10.560 them yeah, and hype them up. So that's why I said, 0:44:10.760 --> 0:44:13.560 it can get really get you know what. 0:44:13.760 --> 0:44:15.880 So sometimes to be fair, even though I don't live 0:44:15.920 --> 0:44:19.480 a woman's experience, sometimes though two women genuinely just have 0:44:19.600 --> 0:44:23.239 a cattiness. Yeah, So sometimes you it's a lot of 0:44:23.320 --> 0:44:27.399 girls that have tried, They've tried to be a girl's girl. 0:44:27.680 --> 0:44:29.320 They've tried to get along with other girls. 0:44:29.680 --> 0:44:32.440 But it's sometimes the gay boy will be more of 0:44:32.480 --> 0:44:35.160 a cheerleader when you walk out the room. Oh girl, honey, 0:44:35.200 --> 0:44:37.680 yes you look good. Sometimes you don't get that from 0:44:37.760 --> 0:44:38.440 other females. 0:44:38.840 --> 0:44:39.760 Wow, ladies. 0:44:39.920 --> 0:44:42.879 I feel like if that's the case, you just keep 0:44:42.960 --> 0:44:45.879 attracting the wrong type of friends, and then that's more 0:44:45.920 --> 0:44:48.320 of a you problem seas because why you keep attracting 0:44:48.360 --> 0:44:51.320 them type of women. Granted, I have been in situations 0:44:51.360 --> 0:44:53.880 where I have been friends with girls and they definitely 0:44:53.960 --> 0:44:56.440 were weird and was doing weird, shady shit or hating. 0:44:56.760 --> 0:44:59.759 But every single relationship that I've had with women has 0:44:59.800 --> 0:45:02.080 no being like this. So I feel like if those 0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:04.200 are the only type of girls you come across, you 0:45:04.400 --> 0:45:07.040 probably a little shrinking a little shelf. You probably be 0:45:07.160 --> 0:45:09.000 hating too, you know what I mean, And you can't 0:45:09.040 --> 0:45:12.160 take what you say. But you can't take because. 0:45:11.920 --> 0:45:14.640 One thing about me. I hype my friends up me. 0:45:14.800 --> 0:45:19.320 So I don't care if picture whatever, I am hyping 0:45:19.400 --> 0:45:21.239 you up. So I feel like if you are a 0:45:21.360 --> 0:45:24.799 girl and you don't have one girlfriend, at least one 0:45:25.160 --> 0:45:27.960 probably not hating on you, but they probably feel like, well, 0:45:27.960 --> 0:45:30.600 I'm always complimenting her, but she never say nothing to me. 0:45:31.080 --> 0:45:33.120 Sometimes shit will start feeling one sided. 0:45:33.360 --> 0:45:37.000 God, and like, even like I'm the type of friend, 0:45:37.080 --> 0:45:40.080 it's nothing that my friend posted, I'm not liking me personally. 0:45:40.719 --> 0:45:43.400 It could be some bullshit, it could be edited wrong me. 0:45:43.640 --> 0:45:46.000 I'm gonna steal picture. 0:45:46.239 --> 0:45:49.839 I'm gonna drag every fucking photo what likes that, I'm 0:45:49.960 --> 0:45:51.239 going to like it. 0:45:51.520 --> 0:45:54.080 That's just because I'm not until a day and I 0:45:54.160 --> 0:45:56.960 know that that might sound arrogant and pumps, but I'm 0:45:57.160 --> 0:46:01.360 so comfortable contrary to what people make food. Yeah, contraary 0:46:01.360 --> 0:46:04.440 with people think they may see. I'm so comfortable in myself, 0:46:04.440 --> 0:46:06.920 and a lot of that attests to my girls. Because 0:46:07.000 --> 0:46:10.880 I could have ten handsome, aesthetically pleasing gay friends that 0:46:10.920 --> 0:46:13.440 I'm around, and none of them are still me, And 0:46:13.560 --> 0:46:16.319 I mean that in an arrogant way because they are 0:46:16.400 --> 0:46:18.360 their own perfect and I can't be them right and 0:46:18.400 --> 0:46:21.120 they probably could get every that I probably want in 0:46:21.280 --> 0:46:23.399 my heart. But I still know when I walk into 0:46:23.400 --> 0:46:25.160 a room with my girls, they're going up for me. 0:46:25.400 --> 0:46:28.399 I'm in the land of my I'm in the land 0:46:28.440 --> 0:46:30.000 of my own. You can't do it like when you 0:46:30.080 --> 0:46:32.120 can't walk, like when you can't move. So when you 0:46:32.280 --> 0:46:33.680 comfortable in yourself. 0:46:33.480 --> 0:46:36.680 When you have your own lane. Yeah, that's why I 0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:39.080 don't mind hyping none of my friends up, because Drea 0:46:39.160 --> 0:46:41.799 has this lane that she dominates in and that ain't 0:46:41.840 --> 0:46:44.440 got shit to do with me what I got going on, 0:46:44.640 --> 0:46:47.120 because this line is what I'm dominating, So it doesn't 0:46:47.480 --> 0:46:49.680 take away, it does not take away from me to 0:46:49.760 --> 0:46:52.080 hype her up, or to hype Tigh up, or to 0:46:52.200 --> 0:46:54.480 hype my My other friend has a podcast as well, 0:46:54.480 --> 0:46:56.720 and I hype that ship up because that don't affect 0:46:56.760 --> 0:46:59.640 poor mind's baby. It don't because you not you. To 0:46:59.760 --> 0:47:02.960 get this flavor, you got to come to Drea and 0:47:03.040 --> 0:47:05.919 Nicole and Lexpi Mary for mine. 0:47:07.600 --> 0:47:10.080 So I just feel like I don't buy that but 0:47:10.160 --> 0:47:14.000 women like I ain't tried, Yeah, really try, Like you 0:47:14.239 --> 0:47:16.759 not really probably a good friend? Yosel If you don't 0:47:16.760 --> 0:47:19.560 have at least one solid homegirl that you've been down 0:47:19.640 --> 0:47:21.799 with for a long time, it's hot. 0:47:22.080 --> 0:47:22.520 It's you the. 0:47:22.560 --> 0:47:25.120 Probably think that you can teach a person how to 0:47:25.160 --> 0:47:25.600 be a friend. 0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.560 He'll know. Oh, I think you can teach somebody how 0:47:28.600 --> 0:47:33.040 to love properly and be it. Well, I'm saying, think 0:47:33.080 --> 0:47:36.440 about our relationship and how much we grew together and 0:47:36.560 --> 0:47:39.439 I learned. Okay, well, Drea likes this, Dre, I can't 0:47:39.520 --> 0:47:43.359 treat Drea how I treat or Lauren like that's fair. 0:47:43.480 --> 0:47:46.080 But to me, that's more specific to a person. Like 0:47:46.239 --> 0:47:48.440 being friends with a person for a long period of time, 0:47:48.760 --> 0:47:51.000 you get to really you start to realize I need 0:47:51.080 --> 0:47:52.719 to be this way with them because this is what 0:47:52.840 --> 0:47:53.640 they respond to. 0:47:54.239 --> 0:47:54.520 I don't. 0:47:54.960 --> 0:47:55.480 You don't. 0:47:55.680 --> 0:47:56.000 I don't know. 0:47:56.440 --> 0:47:59.680 You can teach somebody how to be a good friend. Though. 0:48:00.280 --> 0:48:02.960 Either you're a good person and you have that shit 0:48:03.040 --> 0:48:05.479 in you to be a good friend, or you do not. Okay, 0:48:05.719 --> 0:48:08.360 I feel like people who are just bad friends. You 0:48:08.520 --> 0:48:12.040 probably a bad person. I'm probably not really a good It's. 0:48:11.960 --> 0:48:12.759 It's so important too. 0:48:13.040 --> 0:48:15.680 I think in order to have longevity in a friendship, 0:48:15.719 --> 0:48:18.520 you have to learn a person, so sometimes you're not 0:48:18.640 --> 0:48:23.360 hurting your own feelings. And for example, like I, I 0:48:23.520 --> 0:48:25.440 already know when my friend don't want to be bothered 0:48:26.160 --> 0:48:28.200 in the tone, I could tell when he don't want company. 0:48:28.560 --> 0:48:31.239 So why even hurt my feelings of saying I'm about 0:48:31.239 --> 0:48:32.560 to come over there when I know you don't want 0:48:32.600 --> 0:48:34.640 company right now? Yeah, you have to learn a person. 0:48:34.920 --> 0:48:36.640 I be wanting people to understand I'm the type of 0:48:36.640 --> 0:48:38.960 person if I don't deal with you, don't. 0:48:38.800 --> 0:48:40.320 Invite me nowhere where you're located. 0:48:40.880 --> 0:48:42.799 So as a friend, you should already know that, because 0:48:42.840 --> 0:48:44.320 now you're going to be offended when I say. 0:48:44.320 --> 0:48:47.080 Stop asking me that shit? Are you stupid? Yeah? Yeah, 0:48:47.200 --> 0:48:47.520 learn me. 0:48:48.080 --> 0:48:49.400 No, I don't want to be in nowhere, And that's 0:48:49.400 --> 0:48:51.600 a comference of where another person is at. So you 0:48:51.760 --> 0:48:55.000 have to learn a person that you're around so that 0:48:55.680 --> 0:48:58.040 certain times you're not hurt, because that's what happens sometimes. 0:48:58.560 --> 0:49:00.960 Now you think you're a friend is something personal to 0:49:01.040 --> 0:49:01.440 you and it's not. 0:49:01.520 --> 0:49:05.279 They're just not having I'm learning that more because I'm 0:49:05.280 --> 0:49:08.200 a person that wakes up on ten. I'll say, probably 0:49:08.360 --> 0:49:10.960 five days out of the week. Yeah, I'm good and 0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:14.200 so growing up it would offend me if I call 0:49:14.280 --> 0:49:17.400 you and you're like, what's up? I don't even want 0:49:17.400 --> 0:49:19.319 to be around you. Now, I feel like it's something 0:49:19.360 --> 0:49:21.640 that I did, but I had to realize and what 0:49:21.800 --> 0:49:24.520 my sister taught me, sometimes it's people being selfish. 0:49:24.520 --> 0:49:26.840 It's not about you today, baby, has nothing. 0:49:26.600 --> 0:49:28.719 To do with you. I'm having my own problems, my 0:49:28.800 --> 0:49:30.680 own issuestes. It has nothing to do with you. So 0:49:30.800 --> 0:49:32.480 I think it's important to learn people. 0:49:32.880 --> 0:49:34.520 I agree with that because I feel like I'm kind 0:49:34.560 --> 0:49:37.960 of like that too. Like when I call people if 0:49:38.000 --> 0:49:41.040 they got like a weird energy, Oh, I'd be like, 0:49:41.160 --> 0:49:41.920 what's wrong with you? 0:49:42.120 --> 0:49:42.279 You know? 0:49:42.400 --> 0:49:44.440 But then you be having to realize it's not about you. 0:49:44.560 --> 0:49:46.480 So then I just learned to like give people they 0:49:46.600 --> 0:49:49.880 dc me. I'm not really the type of person that 0:49:49.960 --> 0:49:52.920 will just let stuff affect my day, you know what 0:49:53.000 --> 0:49:55.480 I mean. It's like, even if some shit happened, i 0:49:55.600 --> 0:49:57.480 might be in a bad move for a little bit, 0:49:57.560 --> 0:49:59.600 but I'm not gonna just be walking open around the 0:49:59.680 --> 0:50:01.719 hall day or for like days at a time. 0:50:02.200 --> 0:50:06.640 Some people they need to go through it to get Oh, yeah, 0:50:06.840 --> 0:50:09.480 I'm a moper. But I also don't bring other people 0:50:09.560 --> 0:50:12.279 in it. So if you call me i'm not in 0:50:12.320 --> 0:50:14.600 a good mood, I'll let you know, hey, I'm not 0:50:14.680 --> 0:50:19.080 feeling it today and deal with those y'all are that's 0:50:19.120 --> 0:50:22.840 my friends, father people, And that's. 0:50:22.719 --> 0:50:25.160 Fine because you're human. But I love people that's not 0:50:25.320 --> 0:50:26.560 They're not going to take it out on you. They 0:50:26.680 --> 0:50:28.000 just not having a good day. They're going to be 0:50:28.080 --> 0:50:30.440 vocal about it and they need the space. But I 0:50:30.520 --> 0:50:32.680 can't stand a person that come and on purpose want 0:50:32.719 --> 0:50:36.640 to ruin the ass. Oh, because you're human and I 0:50:36.760 --> 0:50:39.600 had to. I'm still learning that. That is one thing 0:50:39.640 --> 0:50:42.200 that I'm still learning with people. You're human and sometimes 0:50:42.239 --> 0:50:45.040 it's nothing to do with me, and I guess people 0:50:45.080 --> 0:50:45.920 we take it personally. 0:50:45.920 --> 0:50:47.680 It's not about you today. 0:50:47.440 --> 0:50:49.839 Because you know you said you wake up on ten. Oh, 0:50:49.880 --> 0:50:51.680 I wake up on one every day, So I'll be 0:50:51.760 --> 0:50:52.040 having to. 0:50:53.360 --> 0:50:55.920 And I have to understand it that I didn't do 0:50:56.040 --> 0:50:58.920 anything to you know what type of way that it's 0:50:59.000 --> 0:51:00.960 just you in your mind to it has nothing to 0:51:01.080 --> 0:51:03.400 do with me, and as people, we be ready to 0:51:03.520 --> 0:51:05.759 take it so personal. It's like it has nothing to 0:51:05.880 --> 0:51:07.600 do with you. That's like vocal people do. 0:51:07.880 --> 0:51:10.560 Yeah, just express that and then I just go about life. 0:51:10.760 --> 0:51:12.080 Yeah, just say something, you know. 0:51:12.200 --> 0:51:13.600 I feel like a lot of the time people just 0:51:13.680 --> 0:51:16.319 be having like that weird energy around them and then 0:51:16.320 --> 0:51:19.440 they don't say anything. So then as a human, your 0:51:19.520 --> 0:51:21.480 mind gets a wondering and you can't help but think. 0:51:21.360 --> 0:51:22.760 Okay, like what's the problem. 0:51:22.920 --> 0:51:23.120 Yeah. 0:51:23.360 --> 0:51:25.080 I can't stand with people who walk in the room. 0:51:25.120 --> 0:51:30.399 They just want everybody to feel their wrath. I cannot stand. Now, 0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:34.040 that's something that I hate. If you got something going to, 0:51:34.160 --> 0:51:37.399 leave that ship at the door, leave it at the door. 0:51:37.680 --> 0:51:40.640 I'm not saying that I don't care, but we all 0:51:40.760 --> 0:51:43.520 got life going on. Yes, no, I think I read 0:51:43.600 --> 0:51:45.960 the room. Read the room. I hate when people have 0:51:46.200 --> 0:51:49.320 the oppression Olympics, like, oh, this has happened to me. 0:51:50.360 --> 0:51:53.839 I cannot believe. 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Oh, 0:54:45.800 --> 0:54:47.040 you're getting all the easy ones. 0:54:47.280 --> 0:54:49.719 It ain't even no, not really because I know you, 0:54:49.880 --> 0:54:50.960 I knew all of yours. 0:54:51.200 --> 0:54:53.200 Know what I'm saying, is this one is easy? Is 0:54:53.239 --> 0:55:01.759 it by Felicia oh Friday? The next time? It's just 0:55:01.840 --> 0:55:04.399 so funny because me Andre, I know, we both grew 0:55:04.520 --> 0:55:06.879 up with parents like my god, so I would talk 0:55:06.880 --> 0:55:11.719 about growing up with naked parents. So anoke guy, it's 0:55:11.800 --> 0:55:14.440 somebody who is just like a nudist at home, Like 0:55:14.600 --> 0:55:17.959 you have to make sure when your friends come over, Mamma, 0:55:18.000 --> 0:55:20.600 you got some clothes on, you gotta make sure they 0:55:20.680 --> 0:55:24.000 are covered up. Because one thing about me, my mom 0:55:24.200 --> 0:55:28.400 was always walking around the house naked. And I'm not 0:55:28.520 --> 0:55:31.120 talking about like oh Winnie the Poo style with a 0:55:31.160 --> 0:55:33.399 T shirt and no panties on and no bottoms. I'm 0:55:33.440 --> 0:55:36.200 talking about but booty hole from the root of to 0:55:36.320 --> 0:55:41.520 the too a newist. I mean, it was so. 0:55:41.680 --> 0:55:43.880 Awkward too, because then my dad would be there and 0:55:44.080 --> 0:55:46.080 he would be like foaming at the mouse. 0:55:46.160 --> 0:55:52.000 And I know that's daddy around when I was growing up. 0:55:58.760 --> 0:56:01.759 He used to make even more weird because yes, because 0:56:01.800 --> 0:56:03.120 it was me and my mama and my daddy in 0:56:03.160 --> 0:56:05.560 the house and she would just be walking around naked 0:56:05.840 --> 0:56:08.520 all the time. Like I'm talking about doing everything naked 0:56:09.080 --> 0:56:11.920 looking cleaning, I'd be like, damn, you ain't scared of 0:56:11.920 --> 0:56:13.440 the grease gone pop yo titty. 0:56:17.760 --> 0:56:18.239 Growing up. 0:56:18.960 --> 0:56:22.440 So I have a mom that will walking around with 0:56:22.480 --> 0:56:25.960 a taboo like that, but just butt naked. 0:56:27.320 --> 0:56:28.640 I ain't have no butt naked mom. 0:56:28.840 --> 0:56:33.920 Yeah, because you know, even though you were, you know, gay, 0:56:34.080 --> 0:56:36.560 but you're still a boy. So I do think, like, 0:56:36.640 --> 0:56:40.120 how would y'all feel about, like a mom working walking 0:56:40.120 --> 0:56:42.160 around naked and she has a son, Like, how do 0:56:42.280 --> 0:56:44.080 y'all feel about that? Because I think it is a 0:56:44.120 --> 0:56:46.600 little different to walk around in the nude and you 0:56:46.719 --> 0:56:49.480 have a little girl having a little boy. I think 0:56:49.520 --> 0:56:51.400 it's the same thing with men if you have a 0:56:51.480 --> 0:56:54.160 son and you're walking around naked, Like but I think 0:56:54.160 --> 0:56:56.040 about a man walking around the house naked with his 0:56:56.120 --> 0:57:01.560 little girl. Oh it does. But I think it's the 0:57:01.719 --> 0:57:05.120 same thing when child is young, and I feel like 0:57:05.239 --> 0:57:06.279 it's different with. 0:57:06.680 --> 0:57:10.040 How do y'all because I feel like you can't out. 0:57:09.960 --> 0:57:11.239 Your mama vagina? 0:57:11.920 --> 0:57:13.719 Yeah I did, but I don't want to see it. 0:57:14.440 --> 0:57:16.040 I at it that day and I don't want to 0:57:16.080 --> 0:57:17.440 see it for the rest of my life. 0:57:18.040 --> 0:57:20.560 Yeah, and I get it, but it's like it's I 0:57:20.640 --> 0:57:23.360 don't know what, Joe. It's like you literally lived in 0:57:23.480 --> 0:57:26.800 her body, like you came out between her legs. 0:57:27.000 --> 0:57:29.960 It's like this. It more so got on my nerves. 0:57:30.360 --> 0:57:32.360 But it wasn't like something I was like, oh oh 0:57:32.480 --> 0:57:35.160 my god, discovery. It was just like, girl, put some 0:57:35.240 --> 0:57:38.520 damn clothes on. But now it's so crazy because as 0:57:38.560 --> 0:57:42.040 I get older. I'm thirty five now, and literally everything 0:57:42.120 --> 0:57:47.040 I do, I'm like, I am my mother's tea, being 0:57:47.120 --> 0:57:50.040 at home all the time, just wanting to be left alone, 0:57:50.640 --> 0:57:54.040 watching TV, the way I eat, the way I act, 0:57:54.160 --> 0:57:57.280 I'm literally turning it. I'm naked all the time at 0:57:57.320 --> 0:58:00.880 my house all the time. I am too, but by myself. 0:58:01.080 --> 0:58:03.240 I feel like once I have kids, I cannot see 0:58:03.240 --> 0:58:05.760 even with a little girl, like maybe as a like 0:58:05.960 --> 0:58:08.240 maybe as like a two year old or something, but 0:58:08.440 --> 0:58:11.160 like once you get to like grade school, I am 0:58:11.240 --> 0:58:13.240 not about to be walking around naked in front. 0:58:13.080 --> 0:58:16.120 Of my daughter. That's just me though, I don't see 0:58:16.200 --> 0:58:16.640 the point. 0:58:17.520 --> 0:58:19.720 Growing panty cool, like you said your mom used to 0:58:19.760 --> 0:58:22.439 walk around in her panties, cool, but like just walk 0:58:22.520 --> 0:58:25.360 around but ass naked in front of my kid where 0:58:25.480 --> 0:58:26.080 is your role? 0:58:27.640 --> 0:58:28.680 School? Where's your school? 0:58:28.720 --> 0:58:28.840 Though? 0:58:29.040 --> 0:58:30.760 That's how you have to feel about my mama, girl, 0:58:30.800 --> 0:58:31.880 Where is your role? 0:58:32.920 --> 0:58:34.800 And I get that, but I do. 0:58:34.920 --> 0:58:38.080 Feel like, like I said, it's not nothing that's nasty 0:58:38.280 --> 0:58:41.320 or weird to me, so nasty, but it's more annoying. 0:58:42.040 --> 0:58:44.120 Like if you're a woman and you have a daughter 0:58:44.240 --> 0:58:46.080 she's in grade school, you walk around naked. It probably 0:58:46.120 --> 0:58:48.440 just gets on her nerves. But now I do think 0:58:48.440 --> 0:58:49.800 it's weird if you're a woman and you have a 0:58:49.880 --> 0:58:52.520 son and he's in grade school and you're walking around naked. 0:58:53.400 --> 0:58:54.880 But like I said, if it's a man and his 0:58:55.000 --> 0:58:57.040 son and they living together, he like gets out the 0:58:57.120 --> 0:58:59.200 shower and goes and runs and grabs some shorts or whatever, 0:58:59.760 --> 0:59:02.520 that's normal because it's like a locker room. But again, 0:59:02.560 --> 0:59:04.720 if a man has a daughter in grade school he's 0:59:04.720 --> 0:59:06.760 walking around naked, that's weird to me. 0:59:07.240 --> 0:59:07.480 I know. 0:59:07.600 --> 0:59:10.200 I think it's like if it's same gender, it's okay 0:59:10.320 --> 0:59:12.080 because I look at it like a locker room, a 0:59:12.160 --> 0:59:16.800 gym when you go spa, and it's nothing weird, you 0:59:16.840 --> 0:59:18.320 know what I'm saying. But I do think it's like 0:59:18.400 --> 0:59:21.520 when you have a different gender for your child. That's 0:59:21.560 --> 0:59:25.160 when things can get a little stick a little sticky sticky. Yeah, 0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:26.960 because I've never seen my daddy naked. 0:59:27.560 --> 0:59:29.840 Yeah, that's only vain, I see it was my mom, 0:59:30.440 --> 0:59:31.600 that's the only Yeah. 0:59:33.440 --> 0:59:36.040 Any of my sisters just maybe like busting in the bathroom, 0:59:36.040 --> 0:59:37.640 they're not that context. 0:59:37.760 --> 0:59:37.920 Yeah. 0:59:37.960 --> 0:59:43.680 But outside of that, do you want kids? I'm a 0:59:43.800 --> 0:59:50.000 god dad. I have two beautiful nieces and Lisa, But no, 0:59:50.240 --> 0:59:56.240 I was like, kids is a lot. They're beautiful, they're adorable. 0:59:56.560 --> 0:59:59.600 But I never have baby fever ever in my life. 1:00:00.000 --> 1:00:03.880 I've never went through a phase of being like, oh 1:00:03.960 --> 1:00:09.280 I want kids. Yeah, I love my freedom. Y. I 1:00:09.520 --> 1:00:12.000 love to be able to move and do what I want. 1:00:12.120 --> 1:00:15.040 Not to say that mothers who have kids don't have freedom, 1:00:15.360 --> 1:00:17.040 because you get to a certain point of your life 1:00:17.040 --> 1:00:19.040 where you still live in your best life. You got 1:00:19.080 --> 1:00:21.000 your kids to exactly the age they need to be 1:00:21.120 --> 1:00:23.160 with where they able to do for theirself and move 1:00:23.240 --> 1:00:25.600 and operate and feed themselfs Now, my girls be back 1:00:25.600 --> 1:00:28.480 outside because I've seen it have to over and over 1:00:28.480 --> 1:00:31.360 and over again. But as far as me, I don't 1:00:31.400 --> 1:00:32.560 desire your children ever. 1:00:32.800 --> 1:00:37.360 Yeah, Yeah, I feel like kids for me has always 1:00:37.400 --> 1:00:40.880 been a thing, like I do want children, but I 1:00:40.960 --> 1:00:43.240 want to make sure. I know people say, no matter 1:00:43.320 --> 1:00:45.680 how much money you make, you will never be prepared 1:00:45.760 --> 1:00:48.120 for a child or whatever. But I just have to 1:00:48.160 --> 1:00:50.080 get to a point in life where I can afford 1:00:50.160 --> 1:00:53.800 a nanny. I do, like I know because I love working, 1:00:54.120 --> 1:00:57.840 like I love just having a job and being busy, 1:00:57.960 --> 1:01:00.840 and I know, like I see like the single moms 1:01:00.880 --> 1:01:02.360 out there, and I'm not preparing to be a single 1:01:02.400 --> 1:01:04.640 mother at all. But when I do decide to have 1:01:04.680 --> 1:01:07.200 a child, I know whoever I'm married, he's gonna be 1:01:07.240 --> 1:01:10.440 a busy person and I'm gonna be a busy person 1:01:10.520 --> 1:01:12.080 and I'm not gonna be just staying at home and 1:01:12.360 --> 1:01:14.040 I'm not giving up my dream to stay at home 1:01:14.080 --> 1:01:15.840 with a child. So I know I am gonna need 1:01:15.960 --> 1:01:18.360 that help, whether it's a family member that I have 1:01:18.520 --> 1:01:20.400 moved in with me, but I'm gonna need to be 1:01:20.520 --> 1:01:23.919 in a position to where I have I have some help. 1:01:24.080 --> 1:01:25.800 And you saying, because I'm pretty sure you can afford 1:01:25.800 --> 1:01:28.800 a nanny now, but you're talking about like a full 1:01:29.600 --> 1:01:33.400 they're getting a six figure paycheck can afford. 1:01:34.120 --> 1:01:35.760 And I need to be in a house because I 1:01:35.760 --> 1:01:38.760 wouldn't mind having like a living nanny something like that, 1:01:39.120 --> 1:01:41.880 like cause you know, we be torn. You know, some 1:01:42.080 --> 1:01:45.080 days it's like it's just a lot. So I feel 1:01:45.240 --> 1:01:47.960 like that's what motherhood looks like to me, Like I'm 1:01:48.000 --> 1:01:50.040 gonna be an amazing mother, yes, but I'm gonna need 1:01:50.120 --> 1:01:51.720 some help because my say and daddy gonna be busy. 1:01:53.480 --> 1:01:56.680 Yes, but I be saying the same thing, like I 1:01:56.800 --> 1:01:59.480 definitely need a nanny. And then my mom he's retired, 1:01:59.520 --> 1:02:02.520 so girl, come home out come living in this house 1:02:02.560 --> 1:02:06.200 with us, and you know, ready. 1:02:07.000 --> 1:02:10.640 They're gonna give it all everything to come and do that. 1:02:10.760 --> 1:02:12.880 That's their dream, their desires. 1:02:12.960 --> 1:02:13.640 She can't wait. 1:02:15.080 --> 1:02:17.400 But you got you a good mama and a good relationship. 1:02:17.480 --> 1:02:22.320 Yeah, yes, she gonna want to come. Oh for sure. 1:02:22.480 --> 1:02:24.560 She already be putting it in my ears. 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Okay, all right, so now it's time to 1:04:45.360 --> 1:04:54.760 get into the bed the bi bow. You know, it's 1:04:54.880 --> 1:04:59.720 time to get time having a ball. I am too. 1:05:00.040 --> 1:05:02.080 I love when we have guests who are yappers. 1:05:02.360 --> 1:05:05.080 Oh I'm a yeah, I live the. 1:05:07.000 --> 1:05:09.120 I'm having a ball. Let's get it to this bed. 1:05:12.360 --> 1:05:17.040 Okay, talk about dirty talk dudes and dons, because again, 1:05:17.240 --> 1:05:21.680 you know, we did our little research and you are 1:05:21.800 --> 1:05:27.400 sillyby well, abstiny. I feel about because you have yes, 1:05:27.880 --> 1:05:30.400 but you're abstiny. You're not having six right now. No, 1:05:30.680 --> 1:05:32.080 so how did you make that decision? 1:05:33.240 --> 1:05:34.880 I'm just when I tell you, on this course of 1:05:34.960 --> 1:05:37.440 my life, I'm just so focused on what I'm doing now. 1:05:37.840 --> 1:05:39.120 It's just down there. Yeah. 1:05:39.360 --> 1:05:42.400 Sometimes but I just go ahead and it's it, and 1:05:42.520 --> 1:05:45.640 I just all about my business. But at this journey 1:05:45.680 --> 1:05:47.080 where I'm at in my life right now, I gotta 1:05:47.120 --> 1:05:50.080 be focused. Nobody's entering my body. That's not even up 1:05:50.120 --> 1:05:52.760 for debate, and I'm not allowing. I'm even at a 1:05:52.760 --> 1:05:54.600 place in my life because I like trade. Trade is 1:05:54.720 --> 1:05:57.600 like I wouldn'tssary say hood dudes, but they. 1:05:57.480 --> 1:05:59.680 Would be more on this, like you can't like you 1:05:59.720 --> 1:06:00.360 would think. 1:06:01.920 --> 1:06:02.120 Yes. 1:06:02.280 --> 1:06:04.040 And I'm even at a place in my life. Trey 1:06:04.080 --> 1:06:06.960 can't even come to my house because I'm so focused 1:06:07.040 --> 1:06:10.200 on this journey. I'm so close that everything that it 1:06:10.320 --> 1:06:13.320 is that I desire to want and have been desiring 1:06:13.440 --> 1:06:17.080 for for years, and so I have to be real 1:06:17.240 --> 1:06:20.320 particular about who I'm letting in my house, around me 1:06:20.520 --> 1:06:23.280 and my body. So while I've been on this journey, 1:06:23.400 --> 1:06:25.760 I've been celebrating even when I be that's my too. 1:06:25.840 --> 1:06:29.080 I like to just oh, I can't say that because 1:06:29.120 --> 1:06:32.040 I was about to say, oh, I can't say that 1:06:32.160 --> 1:06:33.200 one bless oh. 1:06:33.320 --> 1:06:33.840 Bless, that's all. 1:06:33.840 --> 1:06:35.560 I gotta work over that, because it'll be about to 1:06:35.600 --> 1:06:40.960 slip out, O me afraid. So that's why I like, 1:06:41.200 --> 1:06:44.880 oh shit, oh bless that one on a slipped out. 1:06:45.600 --> 1:06:49.560 That's why I like to meet my people in the clubs. 1:06:49.760 --> 1:06:54.000 I'll just say that because I be wanting to meet 1:06:54.040 --> 1:06:55.520 people who don't know who the hell I am, so 1:06:55.640 --> 1:06:57.840 I could get in and get out. I'm at a 1:06:57.880 --> 1:07:01.960 place in my life I couldn't see how sometimes when 1:07:02.000 --> 1:07:05.600 you reach the level of superstardom, that you may stay 1:07:05.680 --> 1:07:07.480 with a person even though a person is doing you 1:07:07.560 --> 1:07:12.360 wrong because you're comfortable and dem you already know their motives. 1:07:13.000 --> 1:07:14.920 I think what I'm learning now is a lot of 1:07:15.000 --> 1:07:17.680 dudes I've been in contact with comes with like motives. 1:07:17.760 --> 1:07:20.320 I hate now when people know who I am, it 1:07:20.480 --> 1:07:23.520 curns me off because I'm like, oh god, okay, so 1:07:23.560 --> 1:07:24.120 it's some motive. 1:07:24.400 --> 1:07:25.000 That's what it is. 1:07:25.760 --> 1:07:27.200 When you come up and say, you know me, it's 1:07:27.240 --> 1:07:28.200 some older don't want it. 1:07:28.280 --> 1:07:30.320 It's that bad now because I just feel like it's 1:07:30.360 --> 1:07:32.080 the arterior motive behind what it is that you want 1:07:32.080 --> 1:07:32.360 out of me. 1:07:33.080 --> 1:07:36.560 But y'all, I been celibate five years. But the celibate 1:07:36.960 --> 1:07:38.560 the celibate to y'all mean no sucking. 1:07:39.840 --> 1:07:40.040 Yeah. 1:07:40.120 --> 1:07:42.200 When I think of celibacy or when I think of 1:07:42.280 --> 1:07:46.959 being abstinate, I think of like no type of sexual interest. 1:07:49.400 --> 1:07:53.120 Saying you gotta be sucking at masturbating. 1:07:54.000 --> 1:07:56.080 A masturbating is okay, I will. 1:07:56.080 --> 1:07:56.880 Stay with this shrimp. 1:07:57.440 --> 1:08:01.440 One thing about it, play with. 1:08:01.520 --> 1:08:07.640 The shrimp is crazy, he said. I don't know if 1:08:07.680 --> 1:08:16.080 I could stop all that. I feel like it needs 1:08:16.120 --> 1:08:19.320 to be like, you're not doing anything sexual with another person. 1:08:19.520 --> 1:08:21.519 I know my little thing, be like stop scratching me. 1:08:22.479 --> 1:08:25.960 I'm sorry anything done to you, but you was just 1:08:26.080 --> 1:08:26.600 doing stuff to. 1:08:29.760 --> 1:08:31.800 I'm not interested in that. Like if a god said 1:08:31.800 --> 1:08:33.320 he want to go down on me, I'm not interested. 1:08:33.520 --> 1:08:39.120 No, you don't like him no girl. I'm a light 1:08:41.479 --> 1:08:43.000 light but I like a little. 1:08:47.920 --> 1:08:51.080 Talk to a dude and he not interested. 1:08:52.960 --> 1:08:54.439 Yes, I'm the girl. 1:08:55.439 --> 1:08:57.920 I'm sorry. I don't like it if a boy. 1:08:57.800 --> 1:09:00.000 If a boy wanted to get in, I'm not interested. 1:09:00.439 --> 1:09:05.560 Okay, And that's why you like, that's why you like, depending. 1:09:05.280 --> 1:09:05.680 On who it is. 1:09:07.680 --> 1:09:09.400 But it's some trade out there who don't. And I'm 1:09:09.439 --> 1:09:13.240 the ones I like. Like I say, predominantly, I like those. 1:09:14.000 --> 1:09:16.720 Those are the ones I like predominantly. Now, I'm not 1:09:16.840 --> 1:09:19.400 saying I've never encountered one that like to do linking too, 1:09:20.160 --> 1:09:23.360 But if I could choose, I don't want my licking. 1:09:24.040 --> 1:09:26.400 I'm just not into that because then you're going to 1:09:26.479 --> 1:09:27.240 desire to lick on me. 1:09:27.320 --> 1:09:28.000 I'm not into that. 1:09:28.200 --> 1:09:34.120 Yeah, okay, so but let me ask you what started 1:09:34.160 --> 1:09:37.040 the sell? Was it like a bad relationship or somebody 1:09:37.200 --> 1:09:39.800 hurt you that made you decide to be in. 1:09:39.800 --> 1:09:42.960 A relationship In my life okay, three years old, I 1:09:42.960 --> 1:09:44.639 have never been in a relationship in my life. I've 1:09:44.640 --> 1:09:47.560 had little friends, but nothing serious. Like me and you 1:09:47.800 --> 1:09:52.280 we together, we like now, I've never ever, Wow, I 1:09:52.520 --> 1:09:56.519 just reached a certain point of just I think I 1:09:56.600 --> 1:09:58.360 think that I've been I know this may sound crazy 1:09:58.400 --> 1:09:59.960 to some people, but I think I've been scarred through 1:10:00.000 --> 1:10:03.519 a lot of other people experiences and seeing a lot 1:10:03.640 --> 1:10:05.720 of my female friends get hurt and a lot of 1:10:05.840 --> 1:10:10.639 my gay male friends get hurt worn. That's why I'm 1:10:10.640 --> 1:10:12.960 even at a place in my life I want no relationship. 1:10:13.840 --> 1:10:16.000 Where I'm at in my life none. I don't want 1:10:16.160 --> 1:10:19.360 no relationship. I want to tap and go because I've 1:10:19.520 --> 1:10:23.720 seen so many relationships and I've seen so many men 1:10:24.320 --> 1:10:27.160 come into good girls' lives that have so much shit 1:10:27.280 --> 1:10:33.400 going on. And and when I say it happens every 1:10:34.120 --> 1:10:36.160 child I've only seen and I have to be real. 1:10:37.320 --> 1:10:39.120 And as a gay black man, I've seen my friend 1:10:39.200 --> 1:10:42.919 flex successful in his relationship. Yes they have issues and problems, 1:10:43.840 --> 1:10:46.360 but they still have a camaraderie, they still have a relationship. 1:10:46.560 --> 1:10:50.439 They're going five years strong. That's very weird. In our community. 1:10:50.720 --> 1:10:52.639 We don't see a lot of relationships that stay down. 1:10:52.800 --> 1:10:54.960 But they have a different dynamic of a relationship. They're 1:10:55.320 --> 1:10:58.280 very open and raw with each other. But for me, 1:10:58.600 --> 1:11:01.360 I've seen guys come into girls lives. 1:11:01.240 --> 1:11:03.720 And throwing them their life up. 1:11:04.479 --> 1:11:07.800 And she was right there and getting her degree. It's 1:11:07.880 --> 1:11:10.240 one of my friends. I think that will hurt me 1:11:10.320 --> 1:11:12.240 until I'm like eighty and you know eighty and movies 1:11:12.240 --> 1:11:15.000 they looking back on their life. Yeah, she was supposed 1:11:15.040 --> 1:11:19.000 to be a doctor. She stopped God and he knew 1:11:19.240 --> 1:11:21.960 what the fuck he was doing. He knew what he 1:11:22.200 --> 1:11:24.559 was doing, and she allowed him to get in her 1:11:24.640 --> 1:11:28.000 fucking mind and fuck her up from getting her doctor's degree. 1:11:28.560 --> 1:11:32.760 I always use this as an example because depending on 1:11:32.880 --> 1:11:36.519 the man you choose can really affect the trajectory of 1:11:36.600 --> 1:11:40.120 your life. Wendy Williams, I truly believe that that man 1:11:40.200 --> 1:11:43.240 that she married. Everybody said it was the downfall of her, 1:11:43.360 --> 1:11:46.000 and I'm a Wendy Williams staying love her now. But 1:11:46.080 --> 1:11:48.040 a lot of times when you look at these women 1:11:48.120 --> 1:11:50.640 and the man that they involved their selves with, like, 1:11:51.120 --> 1:11:53.920 for example, it's so it's somebody else. I feel like 1:11:54.800 --> 1:11:57.080 Mary had did an interview the other day with Drew Barrymore. 1:11:57.120 --> 1:11:59.599 I see that and she was saying, like everybody always 1:11:59.600 --> 1:12:01.679 be like, oh, what's wrong with Halle and what's wrong 1:12:01.760 --> 1:12:03.400 with her? And She's like, why something gotta be wrong 1:12:03.479 --> 1:12:05.840 with me? And it was so many men in the 1:12:05.920 --> 1:12:08.240 comments like, oh, Halle, I don't care how fine, you 1:12:08.320 --> 1:12:10.320 are you sixty and single? Something is wrong with you? 1:12:10.520 --> 1:12:10.720 Something? 1:12:10.840 --> 1:12:13.320 I mean, it was so many comments, just being so nasty. 1:12:13.760 --> 1:12:17.320 But I need to say something to the straight men 1:12:17.439 --> 1:12:20.600 who date women and watch this. I need y'all to 1:12:20.840 --> 1:12:25.760 understand that some women truly believe it is better to 1:12:25.960 --> 1:12:26.679 be single. 1:12:27.000 --> 1:12:27.040 Me. 1:12:28.160 --> 1:12:31.320 It is better to be single than struggling with me. 1:12:31.520 --> 1:12:35.040 Y'all ask me, because sometimes when I look at the 1:12:35.080 --> 1:12:39.000 women like a like a Taraji or not a sonarilate 1:12:39.080 --> 1:12:43.479 than or or Dane, what's Tracy Ellis Ross, I'm like, 1:12:44.160 --> 1:12:47.040 they look like they having a great time. They like, 1:12:47.120 --> 1:12:50.240 what's wrong with them? Nothing is wrong with something. If 1:12:50.320 --> 1:12:53.240 you're blessed enough to find a great man that loves you, 1:12:53.720 --> 1:12:57.120 who honors you, who is loyal, y'all have a partnership, 1:12:57.120 --> 1:13:01.200 and y'all are really building something that is amazing. Yeah, 1:13:01.240 --> 1:13:03.439 but when I tell you, it is very rare to 1:13:03.680 --> 1:13:06.320 find that connection. And it is a blessing literally from 1:13:06.360 --> 1:13:10.800 God hisself. That's not on everybody's card. People are not 1:13:10.920 --> 1:13:11.439 led by God. 1:13:11.479 --> 1:13:14.439 Is let by Yes, people don't be letting God lead them. 1:13:14.680 --> 1:13:17.519 They be thinking that that's a God led situation, is not. 1:13:18.120 --> 1:13:19.759 Its like a lot of people say they have words 1:13:19.760 --> 1:13:22.080 from God, and they down't. It's their own thoughts and 1:13:22.160 --> 1:13:24.560 their own bullshit that they feed they stuff. 1:13:24.280 --> 1:13:24.720 In their head. 1:13:24.920 --> 1:13:27.640 People be leaded by LUs. You sit here and you 1:13:27.760 --> 1:13:30.240 think that it's a love at first sight, that's bullshit. 1:13:30.240 --> 1:13:32.800 It's not not saying that it can't be, because it can, 1:13:33.240 --> 1:13:35.560 because I know it's gonna be stories out there people say, no, 1:13:35.680 --> 1:13:37.360 I found love at first sight, and I get that, 1:13:37.840 --> 1:13:40.760 but ninety percent of the time it's lost. And when 1:13:40.840 --> 1:13:43.240 you go through real shit, because I'm a believer in that, 1:13:43.360 --> 1:13:45.320 that's how we all know it's love or not. When 1:13:45.520 --> 1:13:49.000 real shit starts to happen. Even with friendships, yep, I 1:13:49.160 --> 1:13:51.720 seen it. My friend was hanging out with a group 1:13:51.760 --> 1:13:53.479 of friends and he went to go do time and 1:13:53.600 --> 1:13:55.840 he heard from none of them one and the one 1:13:55.920 --> 1:13:59.240 with me. So when shit get real with people, you 1:13:59.280 --> 1:14:04.759 can say all that, yeah, that's like and when shit. 1:14:04.720 --> 1:14:07.519 Get real, I feel like it's a mixture though. 1:14:07.600 --> 1:14:10.000 I feel like sometimes he's led by lust and then 1:14:10.080 --> 1:14:15.040 sometimes people be led by loneliness. Because yeah, because she 1:14:15.160 --> 1:14:17.439 said that in the interview too, she was just like, 1:14:17.920 --> 1:14:19.960 it's nothing wrong with me. I'm just not staying with 1:14:20.080 --> 1:14:22.080 a man who I know is not the right one. 1:14:22.479 --> 1:14:24.560 But then I actually left the comedy on there what 1:14:24.720 --> 1:14:28.479 you saying? I leave it coming Sometimes you gotta catch you. 1:14:29.360 --> 1:14:31.960 But I was just like, yeah, I was like, it's 1:14:32.000 --> 1:14:33.960 a lot of women. I was like, it's nothing wrong 1:14:34.000 --> 1:14:36.120 with that, but it actually is. It's a lot of 1:14:36.200 --> 1:14:38.840 women who stay in situations because they don't want to 1:14:38.880 --> 1:14:40.960 be single, Like they cool with having the wrong men 1:14:41.200 --> 1:14:43.439 because they feel like that's better than not having no men. 1:14:44.120 --> 1:14:46.160 And I'm just like, yeah, when Betty Wright say it 1:14:46.240 --> 1:14:49.080 that I skipped that part of the girl having a 1:14:49.120 --> 1:14:52.080 piece of a man is not better then having no men. 1:14:52.720 --> 1:14:59.200 That because that's what it is, Because no, absolutely not. Yeah, 1:15:00.000 --> 1:15:05.200 so many people that are literally settling because they don't 1:15:05.240 --> 1:15:07.880 want to be along. Yeah, And then you look at me, 1:15:08.640 --> 1:15:10.920 you look at me, and then when I say that, 1:15:11.080 --> 1:15:14.080 people think that I'm tripping something wrong, exagerating, or it's 1:15:14.080 --> 1:15:16.840 something wrong with me, and it's not. Yeah, it's I 1:15:16.880 --> 1:15:18.960 am just at a journey in my life where I. 1:15:19.160 --> 1:15:21.320 Know what I want and I don't believe it's struggle 1:15:21.400 --> 1:15:23.680 love either. Believe that you you gotta go through things 1:15:23.720 --> 1:15:25.320 in a relationship, but it shouldn't be to the point 1:15:25.320 --> 1:15:27.920 to where I'm depressed, I'm losing weight, I'm unhappy, I'm 1:15:27.960 --> 1:15:31.120 crying every day. It shouldn't be that much of a struggle. 1:15:31.120 --> 1:15:32.920 I don't believe in that. I feel like, if you 1:15:33.000 --> 1:15:36.160 have two people who love each other, who are, you know, 1:15:36.560 --> 1:15:39.000 sure where they're at in life, they are healed. Yeah, 1:15:39.040 --> 1:15:41.200 we can come together and make something great and they 1:15:41.240 --> 1:15:44.439 ain't gotta be no struggle all because it's a struggle. 1:15:44.520 --> 1:15:48.320 I feel like that's not necessarily struggle. That's incompatibility exactly, 1:15:48.439 --> 1:15:49.400 y'all not competitive. 1:15:49.520 --> 1:15:49.920 Exactly. 1:15:50.160 --> 1:15:52.479 If you and a person is always at each other 1:15:52.640 --> 1:15:56.240 nick ninety percent of the time, y'all just not compatible. 1:15:56.400 --> 1:15:57.280 It's not struggle. 1:15:58.360 --> 1:16:00.200 But people do be trying to convince they so we 1:16:00.360 --> 1:16:02.200 just going through a rough patch, y'all been like this 1:16:02.400 --> 1:16:03.400 for the past year. 1:16:04.800 --> 1:16:06.519 Hey, but you know what's crazy on the other end 1:16:06.560 --> 1:16:08.160 of it. I always say that, do y'all remember when 1:16:08.400 --> 1:16:11.519 Michelle Obama that interview said her and Barack were in 1:16:11.560 --> 1:16:14.719 a rough patch for eight She did, but they were married. 1:16:15.240 --> 1:16:18.560 Yeah, But I think I hear the marriage is what 1:16:18.720 --> 1:16:20.760 you deal with in a marriage and what you're willing 1:16:20.840 --> 1:16:22.280 to try to work through with your partner. 1:16:22.360 --> 1:16:22.960 In a marriage. 1:16:23.240 --> 1:16:24.639 To me, that's completely different from. 1:16:24.560 --> 1:16:29.519 Boyfriend girlfriend boyfriend boyfriend girlfriend girlfriend. It's completely different because 1:16:29.520 --> 1:16:32.439 you made a vow to this person you know and 1:16:32.560 --> 1:16:35.320 if you truly do know them and you know the 1:16:35.439 --> 1:16:37.640 potential of your relationship or you know what it was, 1:16:37.720 --> 1:16:40.400 and that y'all truly are just going through a trying time. 1:16:40.800 --> 1:16:42.680 It's okay to stay there and work through that with 1:16:42.800 --> 1:16:45.360 your partner. But if you are in a relationship with 1:16:45.479 --> 1:16:48.640 somebody and majority of the relationship has been bad and 1:16:48.880 --> 1:16:51.160 the smaller part of the relationship has been good, you 1:16:51.320 --> 1:16:52.000 just need to leave that. 1:16:52.080 --> 1:16:56.479 And also your is not Barack at all. So that's 1:16:56.520 --> 1:16:56.920 a good. 1:17:02.200 --> 1:17:04.320 Thirty one years. And they tell me, if you've ever 1:17:04.400 --> 1:17:06.840 been in a long term marriage, if you always say 1:17:06.920 --> 1:17:09.479 that you've always been in love, it's a lot not 1:17:09.640 --> 1:17:12.240 true because you go through different hurdles and different points 1:17:12.280 --> 1:17:14.400 in your relationships. Sometimes you got to create love again. 1:17:14.720 --> 1:17:17.280 Sometimes you got to create those times. And my parents 1:17:17.360 --> 1:17:19.280 been together thirty one years and I've seen a lot 1:17:19.320 --> 1:17:22.000 of amazing moments with them, but I've seen times where 1:17:22.000 --> 1:17:24.800 they wantn't getting along. I've seen times of walking by 1:17:24.840 --> 1:17:25.839 each other in the house because. 1:17:25.640 --> 1:17:26.680 That relationship be a lot. 1:17:26.760 --> 1:17:31.560 So yes, it's so beautiful, it's so amazing, it's so 1:17:31.720 --> 1:17:35.720 a gope, it's so cute, but it be real times too, 1:17:36.080 --> 1:17:38.759 and people who have been in relationships they can attest 1:17:38.760 --> 1:17:39.720 to that it's a lot of. 1:17:39.800 --> 1:17:41.960 Work because you gotta be willing to put that work in. 1:17:42.200 --> 1:17:44.840 And that's why I think sometimes some women like calle 1:17:44.920 --> 1:17:47.080 Berry be like you not what. I'm actually cool on 1:17:47.200 --> 1:17:49.040 these because I feel like I can find something else 1:17:49.080 --> 1:17:50.840 where I don't have to put up with all of 1:17:50.920 --> 1:17:54.120 these struggle of and all of these dramas to stay 1:17:54.200 --> 1:17:56.760 in a healthy relationship or be in a healthy relationship. 1:17:57.200 --> 1:17:59.000 That is so true, and that's why for me too. 1:17:59.280 --> 1:18:01.640 I love my Flo, I love my j Los, I 1:18:01.720 --> 1:18:02.519 love my Holly Bed. 1:18:05.640 --> 1:18:09.400 I said, I love that about you because so just 1:18:09.439 --> 1:18:10.280 get another one. 1:18:10.640 --> 1:18:12.320 Get another and over and over again. 1:18:15.439 --> 1:18:18.240 When I tell you I love girls, so I think 1:18:18.280 --> 1:18:21.479 it's so bad because I be so buying and I 1:18:21.720 --> 1:18:22.719 love my girls. 1:18:23.400 --> 1:18:25.320 I don't know what I would do without women. So 1:18:25.520 --> 1:18:28.000 I live to see a girl, new one. 1:18:29.360 --> 1:18:30.200 I love girls. 1:18:30.200 --> 1:18:34.040 Who yeh another one because I got her friend. Her 1:18:34.080 --> 1:18:37.080 name is Alexis. Let me say somebody, alexis good girl, amazing, 1:18:37.200 --> 1:18:40.280 got her own business. She's a boss, so pretty. She'd 1:18:40.320 --> 1:18:42.800 be hurt and devastated, but she know how to move on. 1:18:43.640 --> 1:18:48.160 She go through, but she's not staying getting just dead mistreated. 1:18:48.400 --> 1:18:50.800 You know, some girls are literally with stating I'm talking 1:18:50.800 --> 1:18:53.760 about getting mistreated to the court. They don't speak up, 1:18:53.840 --> 1:18:59.320 they don't leave baby, and she's gonna be devastated. But 1:18:59.400 --> 1:19:01.200 in another two months, my girl be good. 1:19:01.800 --> 1:19:02.280 Outside. 1:19:04.920 --> 1:19:06.640 I'd be sad, but I'd be like, you know what, 1:19:07.200 --> 1:19:10.519 maybe it's reiny, it's time to exist that. 1:19:10.840 --> 1:19:13.680 I live for girls like that, especially when you and 1:19:13.760 --> 1:19:16.479 your like y'all in y'all prime people be thinking like, 1:19:16.560 --> 1:19:18.519 twenties is your prome. No, thirties is really your prom 1:19:19.280 --> 1:19:21.479 Twenties is yeah, you outside you having fun. I think 1:19:21.520 --> 1:19:24.040 twenties you're supposed to be making your mistakes, living in 1:19:24.240 --> 1:19:27.800 holess fun. Thirties is really your prime of creating who 1:19:27.800 --> 1:19:30.560 you're going to be in your forties. Yep, thirties is 1:19:30.600 --> 1:19:32.720 your prime. And I see so many girls in the 1:19:32.920 --> 1:19:36.360 thirties waste the good fucking years. I see it over 1:19:36.960 --> 1:19:41.519 and over again, not treated right, not respect and not 1:19:41.720 --> 1:19:42.200 support it. 1:19:42.479 --> 1:19:44.280 And then you wake up and you sixty years old, 1:19:44.280 --> 1:19:45.839 and be like, what the fuck. 1:19:45.840 --> 1:19:48.320 Where did the time go? Because I'm not gonna lie me. 1:19:48.640 --> 1:19:51.640 At thirty five, I am making the most money I 1:19:51.680 --> 1:19:54.759 ever made. I'm the finest I've ever been, the most confident. 1:19:54.800 --> 1:19:57.240 I'm just so sure of myself, and I feel like 1:19:57.520 --> 1:19:59.080 where I'm at at this point in my life. Like 1:19:59.160 --> 1:20:01.760 I said, yeah, it be hurt when you get your 1:20:01.840 --> 1:20:03.960 heart broke, but it's also like, I know what I 1:20:04.080 --> 1:20:06.400 have to offer, but I'm also surrounded by like and 1:20:06.600 --> 1:20:09.560 I have an amazing community, like between my family and 1:20:09.680 --> 1:20:12.800 my friends. Like I be straight with a man or without. 1:20:13.080 --> 1:20:14.960 If a man leave me, the quality of my life 1:20:15.000 --> 1:20:18.280 does not change because I'm that girl, still gonna be 1:20:18.400 --> 1:20:21.360 in my high ride, still gonna be traveling, Still very 1:20:21.439 --> 1:20:24.559 much that girl. So I think that that just comes 1:20:24.640 --> 1:20:27.400 with time and maturity and knowing who you are, because 1:20:27.439 --> 1:20:29.000 I think a lot of times women are scared to 1:20:29.120 --> 1:20:30.920 be leave a relationship because they don't know who they 1:20:30.960 --> 1:20:34.519 are without this man. They have created their identity within 1:20:34.680 --> 1:20:37.840 that man. So it's kind of like, well, who am 1:20:37.880 --> 1:20:38.519 I without him? 1:20:38.600 --> 1:20:38.800 Baby? 1:20:38.840 --> 1:20:39.439 I'm everything? 1:20:40.200 --> 1:20:42.160 Ooh you, I gotta make a video to that. 1:20:43.320 --> 1:20:52.080 You ain't that that was a I'm that comes with like, 1:20:52.200 --> 1:20:54.559 like I said, time immaturity, because when I seen Halle 1:20:54.640 --> 1:20:57.160 Berry talking, I was like, Okay, I feel her. I 1:20:57.240 --> 1:20:59.360 feel for her. When I see her, I don't look 1:20:59.439 --> 1:21:02.000 I don't look at like, oh my god, she's sixty. Yeah, 1:21:02.360 --> 1:21:04.839 I'd be like, hey, do what makes you happy. 1:21:04.640 --> 1:21:08.599 And do what works rich successful, and it ain't no time. 1:21:08.720 --> 1:21:11.080 Let me on getting married. If she want to get married, 1:21:11.120 --> 1:21:13.120 she can get married a sixty five people. 1:21:12.960 --> 1:21:13.760 Do it all. 1:21:13.960 --> 1:21:17.320 You know how easy it is for get a man, right, 1:21:18.880 --> 1:21:20.560 she got a mean exactly what she's saying. Do you 1:21:20.720 --> 1:21:22.720 not know how easy it would be for her to 1:21:22.720 --> 1:21:24.960 get a man, and a man that probably would genuinely 1:21:25.040 --> 1:21:28.120 love her. She's just probably very calculated on how she moved. 1:21:28.160 --> 1:21:30.360 She could get a man in two point five seconds. 1:21:30.840 --> 1:21:32.840 The producers that were at the show that was filming 1:21:32.880 --> 1:21:34.560 that segment that day. She could have one to be 1:21:34.640 --> 1:21:35.559 her husband tomorrow. 1:21:35.600 --> 1:21:37.320 Tomorrow, she won't. 1:21:39.640 --> 1:21:43.639 Number you feel the essence of you is beautiful. You've 1:21:43.720 --> 1:21:47.120 rich successful, So it's just not that. 1:21:47.760 --> 1:21:50.080 And I hate when men say that stuff too, like 1:21:50.200 --> 1:21:52.040 try to make it seem like something is wrong with 1:21:52.120 --> 1:21:55.400 the woman. Because niggas is literally the easiest thing to get. 1:21:55.680 --> 1:21:58.400 It's not hard to get. It's not hard to get 1:21:58.400 --> 1:22:02.439 a nigga if somebody and believe it ain't because it's 1:22:02.479 --> 1:22:03.479 hard for her to get one. 1:22:05.040 --> 1:22:08.400 So it's so easy. Like even if you got your 1:22:08.560 --> 1:22:11.840 own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you, it's 1:22:11.920 --> 1:22:14.360 so easy to get your bed not mad if you 1:22:14.439 --> 1:22:16.360 are to get your man back or whatever the came. 1:22:16.439 --> 1:22:19.400 Men are just easy, Dan, they are, they are. 1:22:19.600 --> 1:22:23.160 It's so easy, especially when you look good lip gloss 1:22:23.240 --> 1:22:26.559 had done. It looked like gloss pop and get fifteen 1:22:26.640 --> 1:22:28.200 numbers and I'm fifteen men. 1:22:28.360 --> 1:22:30.920 Yeah, the quality is probably two good ones. But it's 1:22:31.000 --> 1:22:32.799 so that is easy. 1:22:33.000 --> 1:22:35.240 That's what I'm saying. Like if women are single, it 1:22:35.360 --> 1:22:37.800 is not because they can't get a mean people got 1:22:37.920 --> 1:22:40.479 to stop projecting it. Huh, y'all, we ain't even talking 1:22:40.479 --> 1:22:41.320 about the big topic. 1:22:41.479 --> 1:22:42.160 It was dirty. 1:22:42.360 --> 1:22:43.320 It was dirty talk. 1:22:43.640 --> 1:22:48.000 Oh oh oh, we did it because I was gonna say, 1:22:48.240 --> 1:22:51.160 with you being celebate, do you do like phone city 1:22:51.680 --> 1:22:53.080 dirty baby? 1:22:53.400 --> 1:22:57.200 Okay, weird because I can see that I had a 1:22:57.280 --> 1:22:58.439 man and were doing phones that. 1:22:58.520 --> 1:22:59.160 Then it's not weird. 1:22:59.240 --> 1:23:00.960 But like what a little like the face time you 1:23:01.040 --> 1:23:04.400 know you're playing with yourself. No, you don't be starting 1:23:04.439 --> 1:23:05.479 the shrimp to a lof star. 1:23:07.040 --> 1:23:07.880 You gotta come see that. 1:23:09.720 --> 1:23:10.240 In person. 1:23:11.040 --> 1:23:12.719 You gotta come see that seaple boy. 1:23:12.640 --> 1:23:13.320 Your birth. 1:23:15.680 --> 1:23:17.880 Excuse me, Juicy Crawd. 1:23:17.760 --> 1:23:19.360 You don't get to see that on the face time. 1:23:19.439 --> 1:23:22.360 You won't record me, I said, I think when I 1:23:22.439 --> 1:23:25.240 got in my car accident, I said, ooh, bitch, you famous, 1:23:25.640 --> 1:23:28.600 because I like, I'll just be operating like myself. So 1:23:28.720 --> 1:23:31.040 when I get on my phone that day I seen 1:23:31.160 --> 1:23:34.920 the shave room poster, I said it literally, y'all gaged 1:23:34.960 --> 1:23:36.920 the funk out of you. Yeah. 1:23:36.960 --> 1:23:37.559 I don't know why. 1:23:37.840 --> 1:23:40.840 I said, yeah, yeah, bitch, you gotta watch how you 1:23:40.960 --> 1:23:41.400 moving there. 1:23:41.479 --> 1:23:45.720 Yeah, because now you gotta be careful. I'm not gonna lie. 1:23:45.760 --> 1:23:49.240 I really don't like send pictures and stuff like oh 1:23:49.800 --> 1:23:51.600 like I used to like, I feel like when I 1:23:51.720 --> 1:23:54.200 used to like start talking to a guy like I 1:23:54.240 --> 1:23:56.759 wouldn't care. I'm like, I'm fine. But because I always 1:23:56.840 --> 1:23:58.720 used to feel like, Okay, if my news lead, my 1:23:58.800 --> 1:24:01.600 ship lives, so matter anyway. But now I just feel like, 1:24:02.080 --> 1:24:03.760 not that I would be horrified, but i'd be like 1:24:04.000 --> 1:24:07.439 I just don't want that to be y'all don't want yeah, 1:24:07.680 --> 1:24:09.360 like I just don't want that to be out there. 1:24:09.439 --> 1:24:11.760 So I get it. I get But that's why you 1:24:11.800 --> 1:24:14.320 gotta know that's okay. Yeah, but you gotta deal with 1:24:14.439 --> 1:24:18.080 men who have something to lose too. I think ninety 1:24:18.320 --> 1:24:20.000 percent of the time when we see men doing that 1:24:20.120 --> 1:24:22.280 revenge porn, they posting a woman's because they don't got 1:24:22.280 --> 1:24:23.559 shit to lose, and they be wanting the cloud. 1:24:23.720 --> 1:24:25.759 Yeah, I want the cloud because they be so rooted 1:24:25.800 --> 1:24:26.400 in that cloud. 1:24:26.640 --> 1:24:30.320 Yes, yeah, child, do y'all be a long time ago 1:24:30.479 --> 1:24:33.160 when Black China was dating that guy and he was 1:24:33.240 --> 1:24:36.439 like taking pictures and robs rolled like. 1:24:36.600 --> 1:24:39.679 All in her house the internet. Remember that was yeah 1:24:40.520 --> 1:24:41.280 the interer. 1:24:41.920 --> 1:24:45.280 Now I remember all you've seen down your Twitter time 1:24:45.320 --> 1:24:48.960 I was Black China, remember, like it was her revenge for. 1:24:50.720 --> 1:24:54.000 I remember. It was just so crazy. But that's how 1:24:54.040 --> 1:24:55.200 it would be most of the time when you see 1:24:55.240 --> 1:24:57.240 because he was really fine. I remember him being really, 1:24:57.280 --> 1:24:59.320 really fun. But it was like most of the time 1:24:59.360 --> 1:25:02.000 when you see like a fine dude or something, they 1:25:02.120 --> 1:25:05.000 be chasing after us. Yeah, and they be wanting to 1:25:05.600 --> 1:25:08.080 big themselves off of us. Uh huh. So that's why 1:25:08.120 --> 1:25:10.000 I was like getting the man then, ain't faking or the. 1:25:10.120 --> 1:25:11.760 Dudes that chase you, chase you, chase you, chase, you, 1:25:11.880 --> 1:25:12.760 chase you chase, you chase you. 1:25:12.800 --> 1:25:15.519 Then when you get it, ass a chance your face 1:25:16.000 --> 1:25:17.240 and it's like you wanted me? 1:25:17.960 --> 1:25:20.440 Did you forget? They forgetting? 1:25:20.520 --> 1:25:22.719 They do be forgetting, they be having, they be thinking, 1:25:22.760 --> 1:25:23.719 they be good in the program. 1:25:24.000 --> 1:25:25.559 I'm seeing that happen so many times. 1:25:25.680 --> 1:25:29.160 Chased her damn bed Yeah trachnically, Then would she give 1:25:29.200 --> 1:25:29.759 you a chance? 1:25:30.320 --> 1:25:32.800 I had on the car chase me down for three 1:25:33.160 --> 1:25:35.960 years and I finally decided to and I was just 1:25:36.080 --> 1:25:41.280 like you, I will beat your ass. I will beat 1:25:41.320 --> 1:25:45.639 your motherfucking ass like you, is you serious? 1:25:45.880 --> 1:25:46.479 Is you cool? 1:25:47.040 --> 1:25:50.439 Bra? When I think about that ship, I'll be like what, Yeah, 1:25:50.880 --> 1:25:53.360 he chased you for three years. I mean when I 1:25:53.439 --> 1:25:55.439 went back to our first DM, he had been to 1:25:55.479 --> 1:25:57.160 my dms for three years, and I was always just 1:25:57.240 --> 1:25:59.559 playing and like not you know, But. 1:25:59.600 --> 1:26:02.240 I always they say when you do it, be them niggas, 1:26:02.280 --> 1:26:04.840 that be they be having a vendetta against you, like 1:26:04.960 --> 1:26:06.680 if you carved them for a long time. 1:26:06.760 --> 1:26:08.120 Don't never deal with no nigga. 1:26:09.680 --> 1:26:12.680 Yes, I truly believe that, don't ever deal with a 1:26:12.760 --> 1:26:14.559 man who've been trying to holler at you and you've 1:26:14.600 --> 1:26:17.240 been carving him for years because he is going to 1:26:17.320 --> 1:26:20.240 make it his personal mission to her trophy. 1:26:20.280 --> 1:26:23.080 That's why I went ba my like my last relationship. 1:26:23.320 --> 1:26:25.320 I mean, I won't say last because it's kind of still, 1:26:25.479 --> 1:26:28.080 but I use my old school thing. You know, you 1:26:28.160 --> 1:26:30.400 go through and like they pictures and follow them and 1:26:30.400 --> 1:26:32.360 they be like, ooh, she fine, that's my new thing 1:26:32.520 --> 1:26:34.559 I like to do. That's how I pick them. That's 1:26:34.600 --> 1:26:37.200 how I'd rather do the choosing. Now I'm not doing 1:26:37.280 --> 1:26:40.400 somebody who trying to. So that's how it was my 1:26:40.520 --> 1:26:45.479 last picture. Oh. I followed him. I liked a few pictures, 1:26:45.479 --> 1:26:48.760 and then I posted a fine ass video on my 1:26:48.920 --> 1:26:53.000 story and he fell right into my truck. Go so 1:26:53.280 --> 1:26:55.599 may be easy. I was like, it was funny because 1:26:55.600 --> 1:26:57.200 I screenshoted his page and I said this to my 1:26:57.240 --> 1:26:58.519 best friend. I said, oh, I want him. 1:26:58.600 --> 1:27:00.400 Do y'all have an exit to give a you a 1:27:01.040 --> 1:27:02.439 no aflutely. 1:27:03.200 --> 1:27:05.120 If it's over, baby, it's over for a reason. 1:27:05.200 --> 1:27:05.519 Let it go. 1:27:05.840 --> 1:27:08.240 I used to do that, but now no, Like, when 1:27:08.280 --> 1:27:11.000 I'm done done, I'm really done with you, Like if 1:27:11.000 --> 1:27:14.479 we in limbo, then that's different. I am out really 1:27:14.640 --> 1:27:17.000 being done with somebody, like we broke up. I haven't 1:27:17.040 --> 1:27:19.040 talked to you for six months. I haven't talked to 1:27:19.080 --> 1:27:19.639 you for a year. 1:27:19.880 --> 1:27:22.080 No, it's because about. 1:27:23.800 --> 1:27:27.960 Yeah, And I think you just gotta always keep. 1:27:27.800 --> 1:27:29.680 In mind why did y'all break right? 1:27:29.800 --> 1:27:31.439 A lot of the time, I think that if people 1:27:31.640 --> 1:27:33.920 sit and they reflect on why it didn't work out 1:27:34.000 --> 1:27:37.200 the first time, then you realize it's not worth revisiting. 1:27:37.840 --> 1:27:39.560 And I think a man two and an X and 1:27:39.600 --> 1:27:41.599 then y'all broken up for a long time. Now, sometimes 1:27:41.640 --> 1:27:43.559 it does work out, but most of the time they 1:27:43.640 --> 1:27:47.360 coming just to waste time. Whatever situation that they were 1:27:47.360 --> 1:27:50.040 dealing with, y'all broke up didn't work out, so they're 1:27:50.080 --> 1:27:52.240 just coming back to something that they know that's comfortable 1:27:52.320 --> 1:27:55.240 until they find something else. They finish playing your face again, 1:27:55.479 --> 1:27:58.400 always always. I've learned that every time that I used 1:27:58.400 --> 1:27:59.880 to go back with my ex, it was just so 1:28:00.040 --> 1:28:01.760 he could play in my face again. It was it 1:28:01.880 --> 1:28:04.160 was comfortable. We didn't have to start from square one. Yeah, 1:28:04.240 --> 1:28:06.120 it wasn't the getting to know each other face. It 1:28:06.200 --> 1:28:08.080 was like we could just go in and we fucking already. 1:28:08.120 --> 1:28:11.280 We get to skip all the books. Yeah, so I 1:28:11.439 --> 1:28:14.080 just maybe just trying to get a shortcut, and it's 1:28:14.160 --> 1:28:17.240 something fun to do. There's something to do until the 1:28:17.320 --> 1:28:19.840 girl that they was messing with come back around or 1:28:19.920 --> 1:28:21.760 they find somebody that they really really want. 1:28:22.000 --> 1:28:23.280 How you feel about dating? 1:28:24.080 --> 1:28:26.920 No, I don't have an axe. Yeah, I don't have 1:28:26.960 --> 1:28:29.080 an ex. I have little fleas that have little relationships, 1:28:29.120 --> 1:28:30.680 but I don't have an ax like a real ex. 1:28:30.760 --> 1:28:33.200 Like I said, that's I don't play. 1:28:33.479 --> 1:28:35.320 Yeah, so you don't spend the block. 1:28:35.280 --> 1:28:38.960 When I tell you I don't play, I have it bad. Yeah, 1:28:39.040 --> 1:28:40.400 you don't even talk to me too loud? 1:28:40.439 --> 1:28:42.920 You can leave? Yeah, yeah you can go out, baby, 1:28:42.960 --> 1:28:43.200 you can. 1:28:43.680 --> 1:28:44.160 Don't need it. 1:28:44.520 --> 1:28:48.000 I'm telling you, I really be at peace with myself 1:28:48.120 --> 1:28:49.400 and my life. Now. 1:28:49.560 --> 1:28:51.400 Do I want to be in love, Yes, of course. 1:28:51.479 --> 1:28:54.240 Do I want a relationship, yes, But right now in 1:28:54.320 --> 1:28:55.080 this season. 1:28:54.880 --> 1:28:55.800 I'm I be good. 1:28:55.960 --> 1:28:56.160 Yeah. 1:28:56.640 --> 1:29:00.400 I I eat my own food, I chill, put my 1:29:00.439 --> 1:29:01.840 air conditioned on, cut my teet. 1:29:01.840 --> 1:29:04.519 I'll be good. When I want a nibble, I have 1:29:04.640 --> 1:29:07.280 a nibble. But I want you to leave. 1:29:07.360 --> 1:29:07.600 You be. 1:29:09.160 --> 1:29:10.800 Be peaceful, going to sleep, and you ain't got to 1:29:10.800 --> 1:29:12.960 worry about what a nigga doing. You ain't got a 1:29:13.080 --> 1:29:14.240 check in because it do. 1:29:14.400 --> 1:29:21.040 Be like that told me that. My sister just said that. 1:29:21.360 --> 1:29:24.639 She was like, that is one of the most peaceful things. 1:29:25.320 --> 1:29:27.880 You can move and do what you want. He's not all, 1:29:28.040 --> 1:29:29.479 while you got this long? Why are you going to? 1:29:30.160 --> 1:29:30.800 Where you going? 1:29:30.880 --> 1:29:35.280 While you It's like, when the relationship be good, it'd 1:29:35.320 --> 1:29:37.280 be fun, it'd be a good time. But once you 1:29:37.360 --> 1:29:38.840 get to that point to where you worried about what 1:29:38.920 --> 1:29:40.760 he doing, he worried about what you're doing, y'all at 1:29:40.800 --> 1:29:43.479 odds all the time, that's when stuff gets stressful. 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We love to support a small business man. 1:31:26.840 --> 1:31:34.360 And a black business at that, but I mean abominated. 1:31:33.200 --> 1:31:34.479 Any businesses welcome. 1:31:34.880 --> 1:31:47.320 So now it's time to get into the box. So 1:31:48.160 --> 1:31:50.160 the box of the weeks. Like whatever song you've been 1:31:50.240 --> 1:31:52.559 listening to this week, what's on your playlist, what you've 1:31:52.560 --> 1:31:55.560 been riding to gym and so. So I'm an R 1:31:55.640 --> 1:31:57.800 and B girl, y'all know. I love to find like 1:31:57.960 --> 1:31:59.920 new artists that nobody ever heard of, y'all. This is 1:32:00.080 --> 1:32:02.759 such a good song. I love when I find good stuff. 1:32:03.120 --> 1:32:07.920 So his name is Sink Money c I N q 1:32:08.120 --> 1:32:10.040 U E M A n I and he have a song. 1:32:10.120 --> 1:32:12.120 He has a song called give You My Love. It's 1:32:12.200 --> 1:32:15.680 so soulful. I love a good love record, you know 1:32:15.720 --> 1:32:22.240 what I'm saying. Yeah, So, what's yourp of the week. 1:32:22.280 --> 1:32:25.760 What's your the week? Pull it up? What you got 1:32:25.880 --> 1:32:29.000 for us? I thought you'd be jamming it gets that 1:32:29.080 --> 1:32:30.599 you be in the mirror like twarking cut. 1:32:34.840 --> 1:32:38.200 My B of the week is my sister say, says Tannah. Okay, 1:32:38.360 --> 1:32:41.600 oh yes, that's like. 1:32:44.240 --> 1:32:45.200 On the show We Love Him. 1:32:45.320 --> 1:32:48.920 That's I love Santana. Now that video of y'all walking 1:32:48.960 --> 1:32:50.840 down the street, why you had that T shirt all 1:32:50.920 --> 1:32:51.800 like that cutting up? 1:32:54.800 --> 1:32:58.040 That's like God, And people don't even understand how much 1:32:58.080 --> 1:32:58.599 she loves. 1:32:59.200 --> 1:33:03.559 She loves and I love my girl since the day 1:33:03.600 --> 1:33:05.599 we met. You ever had a friend that she don't 1:33:05.640 --> 1:33:06.439 talk to every day? 1:33:06.640 --> 1:33:10.120 Yeah? Him every day, But every time y'all see each other. 1:33:10.160 --> 1:33:11.519 It's what's the. 1:33:13.040 --> 1:33:14.439 It could be some ship that go on and y'all 1:33:14.439 --> 1:33:16.479 can pick up the phone and be like, girl, but 1:33:16.600 --> 1:33:19.640 y'all don't talk every single day. That's my girl. But 1:33:19.800 --> 1:33:23.880 I would say the song is he got some bob 1:33:24.000 --> 1:33:26.040 So he just came up with the song. It's called 1:33:26.760 --> 1:33:27.800 I'm not gonna play it right or. 1:33:28.400 --> 1:33:29.240 You don't have to play you don't. 1:33:29.960 --> 1:33:31.280 It's called free band Titty. 1:33:31.720 --> 1:33:36.040 Yes, I love. 1:33:38.560 --> 1:33:43.439 Yes funny. He is so funny. Y'all need to do 1:33:43.560 --> 1:33:44.479 some more stuff together. 1:33:44.600 --> 1:33:48.280 We are like, yeah we are. It's so crazy because 1:33:48.720 --> 1:33:50.360 like people mistake him for me. 1:33:50.640 --> 1:33:51.760 Yeah, I can hear that. 1:33:53.800 --> 1:33:58.080 Look alike and only doing it to me. 1:33:58.360 --> 1:34:00.840 So I stayd One day, I said cause it'll be 1:34:00.920 --> 1:34:03.839 people like and then they'd be like, no, you'll be safety. 1:34:04.080 --> 1:34:04.280 Yeah. 1:34:04.720 --> 1:34:06.839 So I asked someone, I said, do people be mistaking 1:34:07.040 --> 1:34:10.080 you for me? He said, yes, girl, this lady just 1:34:10.160 --> 1:34:13.559 did it the day air. I said really, He said yeah, 1:34:13.600 --> 1:34:14.439 that was the first time. 1:34:14.479 --> 1:34:14.840 He said. 1:34:15.120 --> 1:34:18.160 The lady said big saxy, And I said, baby, I'm 1:34:18.200 --> 1:34:19.160 not good. 1:34:19.760 --> 1:34:22.760 Especially like if y'all got the shades on or something like, 1:34:22.920 --> 1:34:23.439 I can see that. 1:34:23.760 --> 1:34:24.080 Really. 1:34:24.680 --> 1:34:26.240 I think maybe it's like the aesthetic like. 1:34:28.560 --> 1:34:31.160 In the face, but like how y'all walk and talk 1:34:31.280 --> 1:34:33.240 and the mannerisms, like I can see that. I can 1:34:33.320 --> 1:34:33.920 see why people. 1:34:35.680 --> 1:34:38.200 Okay, what's your bob dre Okay, so my bop is 1:34:38.320 --> 1:34:41.320 this song called Barkee by shift G. 1:34:41.640 --> 1:34:42.759 He like a New York repper. 1:34:43.200 --> 1:34:46.560 You know, I really used to like pop Smoke r 1:34:46.560 --> 1:34:46.800 I P. 1:34:49.000 --> 1:34:52.000 RP pop Smoke, But I was devastating when pop Smoke 1:34:52.120 --> 1:34:54.560 died because I felt like he was really like on 1:34:54.720 --> 1:34:57.320 the brink of having a huge career, like it was 1:34:57.400 --> 1:35:00.400 so so it was over so the South, but he 1:35:00.520 --> 1:35:02.519 really used to make his and like, I don't know, 1:35:02.680 --> 1:35:05.559 I just love the way New York niggas make music. 1:35:05.720 --> 1:35:08.040 I love they little I would shake the room. I 1:35:08.120 --> 1:35:09.639 love the room. 1:35:11.560 --> 1:35:15.000 I know he has so many good songs. 1:35:15.000 --> 1:35:19.400 So yeah, okay, so it's called Brokie Boy Chef. I'm 1:35:19.400 --> 1:35:20.400 gonna have to check that out. 1:35:20.640 --> 1:35:21.599 You gotta shake his music. 1:35:22.920 --> 1:35:24.800 Yes, let me ask you all question. What do y'all 1:35:24.800 --> 1:35:26.720 think about that new that new wrapper up the white 1:35:26.760 --> 1:35:31.720 girl Georgiana? What do y'all think about her? Yeah? About her? 1:35:31.840 --> 1:35:32.760 I like that song? 1:35:32.920 --> 1:35:33.880 Yeah, I gotta get it. 1:35:34.360 --> 1:35:36.200 She's new, so I gotta get into her. I gotta 1:35:36.240 --> 1:35:38.439 get more of a feel of her in her music. 1:35:38.720 --> 1:35:40.800 But I like that song called my sister Gloria. 1:35:42.720 --> 1:35:45.519 Heard the song. I wasn't liking it, but with Gorilla verse, 1:35:46.000 --> 1:35:47.080 I was like, I hear. 1:35:47.000 --> 1:35:48.960 It now, Yeah, Lorela just rap? 1:35:51.360 --> 1:35:53.320 Is that the only song that she has? 1:35:53.400 --> 1:35:55.960 And I mean she has more, but I've never listened 1:35:56.000 --> 1:36:00.920 to it. Yeah, that's like the hot song, right, Yeah? Yeah, 1:36:01.360 --> 1:36:03.799 she said something the glos said she like her. Nigga's 1:36:03.840 --> 1:36:07.400 medium ugly Duke Dennis I said, he said she wouldn't 1:36:07.400 --> 1:36:12.719 talk about he is he he's a cute little Wiian. 1:36:13.280 --> 1:36:17.040 You know that's a little Waifian. Will he'd be considered 1:36:17.080 --> 1:36:20.040 a Wiian. I'm just old. That's what's a waian a 1:36:20.160 --> 1:36:25.479 young dude, But I feel like I know no. Seven 1:36:25.560 --> 1:36:27.400 twenty eight yea, I thought he was like thirty. 1:36:28.040 --> 1:36:31.800 Yeah, why is is nineteen twenty okay, okay, give it 1:36:32.200 --> 1:36:35.040 se twenty eight, twenty nine thirty you're not whyyan okay? 1:36:35.120 --> 1:36:36.880 So yeah, I don't know exactly how old is dude, 1:36:36.880 --> 1:36:43.519 Dennis y'all his early when do you think he's Definitely 1:36:44.120 --> 1:36:45.160 he's like late twenties. 1:36:47.360 --> 1:36:51.000 No wine him a poor looking man? 1:36:51.200 --> 1:36:54.400 Yeah, well, yeah he is. That's a grown man that 1:36:54.720 --> 1:36:55.960 I know. That's right, dude. 1:36:58.360 --> 1:37:01.600 Let me stop y'all celebrity No I do. 1:37:01.760 --> 1:37:05.360 You can ask me who is my celebrity craze? Oh 1:37:05.439 --> 1:37:05.840 you know who? 1:37:05.920 --> 1:37:06.320 I like? 1:37:07.680 --> 1:37:12.040 What's that basketball player that was then? Kendrick Lamar video? 1:37:13.080 --> 1:37:15.080 The Not Like Us video? What's his name? 1:37:15.600 --> 1:37:15.920 Lamar? 1:37:16.600 --> 1:37:21.600 What's his name? Themar DeRozan? Okay, I like him? He 1:37:21.760 --> 1:37:26.240 real quiet. He talks about like mental health. I love that. 1:37:26.520 --> 1:37:31.240 I love us. Emotionally intelligent man. Oh yeah, he's thirty five. 1:37:31.320 --> 1:37:35.000 He don't be You know how you always see athletes 1:37:35.040 --> 1:37:38.080 that always be dating the I G. He is just 1:37:38.240 --> 1:37:40.320 not like that. He's very mature. He talks about mental 1:37:40.360 --> 1:37:43.639 health a lot. He wrote a book. The way he'd 1:37:43.640 --> 1:37:46.280 be out, the way he'd be out. I love a 1:37:46.360 --> 1:37:55.719 man that's the way, very mature, I said. The harball 1:37:56.560 --> 1:37:58.720 is like, I. 1:37:58.880 --> 1:38:03.519 Do love reality. Yeah, I love his personality. He is 1:38:03.600 --> 1:38:05.240 South for a me, like he seemed like he's such 1:38:05.280 --> 1:38:05.719 a good. 1:38:05.640 --> 1:38:09.360 Time around every time I see, Yeah, I do. What's 1:38:09.360 --> 1:38:12.040 who y'all? Celebrity crush? I don't know. I don't even 1:38:12.080 --> 1:38:15.519 think I have one that I'm just like, oh, he 1:38:15.840 --> 1:38:21.000 just you like his wife. Hmmm. I think it's more 1:38:21.000 --> 1:38:22.760 about a vibe though, because I'm not a girl that's 1:38:22.760 --> 1:38:24.479 like into like looks looks like that. I just like 1:38:24.560 --> 1:38:28.240 people vibe. Yeah, So it don't necessarily gotta be somebody 1:38:28.240 --> 1:38:30.080 who you think is like fine, You just probably like 1:38:30.280 --> 1:38:31.920 how they carry themselves. Yeah, I don't know. 1:38:32.000 --> 1:38:33.479 I feel like I would have to sit and think 1:38:33.520 --> 1:38:35.400 about it, like for real, no, y'all, Like I'm really 1:38:35.439 --> 1:38:37.879 trying to think, and I'm nobody's coming to the forefront 1:38:37.920 --> 1:38:39.799 of my mind because the person I used. 1:38:39.600 --> 1:38:44.439 To have a celebrity crush on like this, I okay, no, 1:38:44.920 --> 1:38:47.240 just you are so annoying. I wanted to make the 1:38:47.320 --> 1:38:48.080 face to see if he. 1:38:48.120 --> 1:38:59.400 Knew tell you when the camp turn off shoot. 1:38:59.240 --> 1:39:01.920 Out a fucking I keep from making that fucking faith 1:39:02.200 --> 1:39:03.280 that he doing. 1:39:03.520 --> 1:39:19.400 Okay, no, what, okay, We're gonna tell you after. Oh 1:39:19.520 --> 1:39:27.680 my live for this, y'all. Do it's me? No, this 1:39:28.680 --> 1:39:36.400 just taking the hold on me for sure. Ever since 1:39:36.439 --> 1:39:39.799 I was a little girl, I've loved being on camera, 1:39:41.439 --> 1:39:45.799 entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts 1:39:45.920 --> 1:39:51.040 and opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years, 1:39:51.240 --> 1:39:58.519 I've heard your requests. But now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all, 1:39:58.720 --> 1:40:09.880 let's get into the te with love Lex PM tasty. Okay, Okay, okay. 1:40:09.960 --> 1:40:14.280 Now let's favorite segment, let's poor of your Heart out segment. 1:40:14.520 --> 1:40:16.160 If you want your question answered on the show, and 1:40:16.240 --> 1:40:18.200 make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at 1:40:18.280 --> 1:40:20.479 gmail dot com. If you are a Patreon, remember you 1:40:20.520 --> 1:40:21.880 get to skip the line, so make sure you put 1:40:21.880 --> 1:40:24.240 that in the header. And do you give good advice? 1:40:24.520 --> 1:40:24.680 Yes? 1:40:24.800 --> 1:40:27.040 I do, I think you you can tell I think okay, 1:40:27.120 --> 1:40:29.120 So go ahead, Drea, we got a question number one. 1:40:29.520 --> 1:40:33.439 Okay, Hey Lex Andrea, I have been binge watching y'all, 1:40:33.720 --> 1:40:36.280 and now why I need my favorite unteased advice I'm 1:40:36.320 --> 1:40:38.560 a gay male if that matters, and the glue of 1:40:38.680 --> 1:40:41.600 my friend group the one who keeps everyone connected. My 1:40:41.720 --> 1:40:44.559 friends always come to me for advice and comfort. Twenty 1:40:44.600 --> 1:40:47.360 twenty three was rough. I left Atlanta, moved back to Florida, 1:40:47.479 --> 1:40:49.640 and took a break from my content creator life to 1:40:49.680 --> 1:40:50.840 focus on my mental health. 1:40:51.240 --> 1:40:53.160 Since then, two friends have been DC. 1:40:53.680 --> 1:40:56.080 One has a whole new crew, and the other ignores 1:40:56.160 --> 1:40:59.240 me but stays out with others ps. She's boy crazy 1:40:59.320 --> 1:41:02.640 and throwing shape jabs. Lately, Am I overthinking it? Or 1:41:02.680 --> 1:41:04.519 have we just outgrown each other now that I'm no 1:41:04.640 --> 1:41:08.040 longer their comfort sours? He is, Drea, don't let Lys 1:41:08.080 --> 1:41:13.080 answer everything, all. 1:41:13.080 --> 1:41:22.479 Right, bitch, I'll won't say nothing. What you think sexy? 1:41:27.479 --> 1:41:30.599 And I love your pump them is cute. 1:41:31.520 --> 1:41:36.120 I think sometimes, oh, that's a hard one friend, I know, 1:41:37.120 --> 1:41:39.760 because it'd be so unfortunate that when it's like out 1:41:39.760 --> 1:41:42.200 of side, out of mind some when you're not around 1:41:42.240 --> 1:41:45.240 a person, then you see everybody true colors and true 1:41:45.280 --> 1:41:48.400 feelings because you're not convenient to what they have going on. 1:41:49.040 --> 1:41:50.960 But I think that it's important to know that who's 1:41:50.960 --> 1:41:52.160 supposed to be in your life is going to be 1:41:52.160 --> 1:41:54.800 in your life, and I think it's important for people 1:41:54.880 --> 1:41:57.519 to show their true colors so that you can paint 1:41:57.560 --> 1:41:59.880 it out to be what it is that is in 1:42:00.080 --> 1:42:02.000 front of you and not try to see it for 1:42:02.120 --> 1:42:04.439 something else. So I think you just have to take 1:42:04.560 --> 1:42:06.479 that for what it is. I know it may be hurtful, 1:42:06.920 --> 1:42:09.080 and I know it may be unfortunate, it may bring 1:42:09.200 --> 1:42:14.000 discomfort to know that you were only used for conveniencing. However, 1:42:14.479 --> 1:42:15.920 you have to take it for what it is. I'm 1:42:15.960 --> 1:42:18.200 a person that lives in the truth of the now, 1:42:18.640 --> 1:42:20.479 and so when a person is showing you who they are, 1:42:21.000 --> 1:42:23.519 you have to believe it. And so I feel like, 1:42:24.040 --> 1:42:27.360 try and rekindle, try and reach out, but if you 1:42:27.600 --> 1:42:30.200 are extending more than they are giving back to you, 1:42:30.280 --> 1:42:32.800 I think that it's important to just close that door 1:42:32.960 --> 1:42:33.960 and take it for what it is. 1:42:35.080 --> 1:42:37.760 Take on the hurt, feel it, and move on and 1:42:37.960 --> 1:42:39.640 understand that. You know, it's a. 1:42:39.640 --> 1:42:42.320 Different position that people play in everybody life, and your 1:42:42.439 --> 1:42:44.719 journey may be up with them in that moment. 1:42:45.200 --> 1:42:45.759 I agree. 1:42:46.160 --> 1:42:48.920 I feel like you definitely probably have just outgrown them, 1:42:48.960 --> 1:42:50.479 and you do have to. You have to pay attention 1:42:50.600 --> 1:42:52.799 to like who check on you when you going through stuff. 1:42:53.080 --> 1:42:55.280 If both of those people were really decent while you 1:42:55.400 --> 1:42:57.479 was going through your roof patch, do you really want 1:42:57.600 --> 1:42:59.519 to be that cool with them like that? 1:42:59.680 --> 1:42:59.840 You know? 1:43:00.080 --> 1:43:02.240 I mean, because they have proven themselves to not be 1:43:02.360 --> 1:43:04.920 people that's there that you can depend. 1:43:04.680 --> 1:43:06.200 On when life get rough. 1:43:06.320 --> 1:43:08.240 It seems like maybe they're the type of friends where 1:43:08.320 --> 1:43:10.479 like when everything is all good and y'all having fun, 1:43:11.000 --> 1:43:12.800 they there and they down for the ride, but then 1:43:12.840 --> 1:43:14.439 as soon as you got some real shit going on, 1:43:14.600 --> 1:43:17.000 they be in dcent. So I wouldn't even want those 1:43:17.040 --> 1:43:19.080 type of friends souse. As you get older in life, 1:43:19.120 --> 1:43:22.160 you start to realize those are not people that are 1:43:22.360 --> 1:43:25.519 sustainable to be your friends for the long term anyway. 1:43:25.680 --> 1:43:29.680 So yeah, I would just keep it moving personally. But 1:43:29.960 --> 1:43:32.520 I get it sometimes you've put a lot into relationships 1:43:32.560 --> 1:43:34.400 and you want to try to see if you can rekindle. 1:43:34.800 --> 1:43:38.840 So I do think Big Sexy is right. You can't see, Yeah, 1:43:39.600 --> 1:43:41.519 but I think they kind of have showed you who 1:43:41.600 --> 1:43:48.320 they are when you was going through something. Yeah, word, okay, 1:43:48.520 --> 1:43:52.320 question them to what's the number two? Hey, Alexandrea, I'm 1:43:52.360 --> 1:43:55.120 a thirty eight year old lesbian with the child. His 1:43:55.280 --> 1:43:58.160 other parent is also in the community, and he identifies 1:43:58.320 --> 1:44:01.760 as pan sexual. I fully don't get what that means, 1:44:01.840 --> 1:44:04.400 so I just say bisexual. We were never in a 1:44:04.479 --> 1:44:08.760 real relationship, just a lavender marriage. Since turning thirty three, 1:44:08.920 --> 1:44:11.559 things have changed for me. I had a serious breakup 1:44:11.600 --> 1:44:13.960 with someone I thought i'd married, but she wasn't on 1:44:14.040 --> 1:44:17.360 the same page. Now years later, she suddenly wants everything 1:44:17.439 --> 1:44:20.439 I wanted back then, but with someone else. It used 1:44:20.479 --> 1:44:22.560 to her, But now I don't feel the same, and 1:44:22.640 --> 1:44:25.040 I don't know why. I'm in a new relationship with 1:44:25.120 --> 1:44:28.160 a woman. And while her head game is phenomenal, we 1:44:28.320 --> 1:44:30.880 go months without sex. When we do have it, she 1:44:31.040 --> 1:44:34.479 focuses mostly on giving me head not complaining. But my 1:44:34.560 --> 1:44:39.040 body is changing. Mavajina keeps jumping like it's craving. 1:44:39.800 --> 1:44:42.799 Now, my girl, we're all over the place. Go ahead 1:44:42.800 --> 1:44:44.080 and finish, Baba. 1:44:44.160 --> 1:44:49.720 Johanna keeps jumping like it's craving something inside, fingers, hands, straps, 1:44:49.800 --> 1:44:53.559 bigger toys. Nothing feels like enough. My friends straight up, 1:44:53.640 --> 1:44:56.120 tell me, girl, your pussy is throbbing because it wants 1:44:56.160 --> 1:44:58.920 a real dick. I love my girl and I don't 1:44:58.920 --> 1:45:02.040 want to leave her, but I feel unhappier than usual. Lately, 1:45:02.080 --> 1:45:05.640 when men flirt with me, I actually blush, something I 1:45:05.880 --> 1:45:08.760 never used to do. It's making me uncomfortable and I 1:45:08.880 --> 1:45:11.639 don't know what to do. Can y'all are listeners help 1:45:11.720 --> 1:45:18.040 me figure this out? We both known't neither. I don't know. 1:45:19.760 --> 1:45:21.880 You need to go and get what you desire, baby, 1:45:22.479 --> 1:45:24.559 because you're never going to be happy moving forward when 1:45:24.600 --> 1:45:26.720 you're just pretending and thinking and being with somebody just 1:45:26.800 --> 1:45:29.240 because you feel like that's the convenient thing or the 1:45:29.360 --> 1:45:30.280 comfortable thing to do. 1:45:30.680 --> 1:45:32.400 Maybe go and get with your heart's desire. 1:45:32.520 --> 1:45:35.759 Is nothing wrong with that, because you're craving somebody, tingling 1:45:35.800 --> 1:45:38.040 an echin down there, and that is never going to 1:45:38.080 --> 1:45:38.840 be fulfilled with. 1:45:41.600 --> 1:45:45.400 It's craving something inside, fingers, handstraps, bigger toys. So why 1:45:45.439 --> 1:45:49.080 don't you try that with your partner first, because it's 1:45:49.200 --> 1:45:52.320 craving something. I think it's so crazy when people are 1:45:52.360 --> 1:45:54.640 in relationships and they don't speak up about what they 1:45:54.720 --> 1:45:57.640 want sexually. If this is somebody that you love, and 1:45:57.720 --> 1:45:59.360 you love your girl, you want to be with her, 1:45:59.720 --> 1:46:03.160 have conversations. Hey, this is not working for me sexually. 1:46:03.280 --> 1:46:05.240 I'm feeling like I want to so can we try 1:46:05.320 --> 1:46:08.160 this in the bedroom. So I think it deserves your 1:46:08.320 --> 1:46:11.360 your partner deserves to have a conversation and maybe see 1:46:11.400 --> 1:46:13.439 you might not be craving Dig. You might just be 1:46:13.520 --> 1:46:20.120 craving a toy or something. So, yeah, something inside boom so. 1:46:20.360 --> 1:46:22.800 And I think that when you're flirting with men and 1:46:22.920 --> 1:46:25.960 you're actually blushing, I think it's more so because you're 1:46:26.040 --> 1:46:28.439 wanting that attention that maybe you're not getting at home. 1:46:28.920 --> 1:46:31.680 A lot of times people confuse certain feelings for other 1:46:31.840 --> 1:46:35.040 things that's not really what's there and what's happening. So 1:46:35.200 --> 1:46:37.840 I think maybe have a conversation with your partner and 1:46:37.920 --> 1:46:40.320 see what y'all can figure out in the bedroom between y'all, 1:46:40.720 --> 1:46:43.040 and then if y'all are trying different things and you're 1:46:43.080 --> 1:46:45.920 still not satisfied, that's when you can be like, Okay, 1:46:46.120 --> 1:46:47.479 something else is going on here. 1:46:48.360 --> 1:46:48.800 That's true. 1:46:50.000 --> 1:46:53.400 I feel like, yeah, maybe you just be wanting it Dig, 1:46:53.600 --> 1:46:55.439 That's what I think. I think. 1:46:55.840 --> 1:46:58.719 I think she just really won't it Dig? I really 1:46:58.800 --> 1:47:02.240 did that, And I think you should scratch it. 1:47:02.720 --> 1:47:12.560 That scratch it just scratched fingers toys and yeah, scratch it. 1:47:12.880 --> 1:47:13.320 I don't know. 1:47:13.600 --> 1:47:15.559 I just feel like she kept saying all of these 1:47:15.720 --> 1:47:17.880 nice things about the girl. But then it was a 1:47:17.920 --> 1:47:20.760 lot of butts. But but but I feel like if 1:47:20.800 --> 1:47:23.560 it's that many butts, you just ain't really happy in 1:47:23.640 --> 1:47:24.240 that situation. 1:47:24.439 --> 1:47:25.080 You're not happy. 1:47:26.000 --> 1:47:28.560 Yeah, you're not happy sexually. So and she said that 1:47:28.680 --> 1:47:30.960 go months without six And that's what I'm saying. Who 1:47:31.360 --> 1:47:35.160 trying to do that in a relationship. In a relationship? 1:47:35.680 --> 1:47:37.320 Girl, you want something? 1:47:37.600 --> 1:47:41.320 Yeah, god speed and good luck. Like if you have 1:47:41.520 --> 1:47:44.120 been through a lot of your child got a part 1:47:44.240 --> 1:47:46.519 sexual daddy and a lavender mad girl. I don't know 1:47:46.600 --> 1:47:48.479 what none of them. I don't even know what paying 1:47:48.520 --> 1:47:49.280 sexual means. 1:47:49.360 --> 1:47:52.240 I think it's like I like it for people. 1:47:52.360 --> 1:47:55.280 Yeah, okay, you're not attracted to a gender, They're attracted 1:47:55.360 --> 1:47:57.240 to people. Yeah okay, so. 1:47:59.400 --> 1:48:03.840 Energy trends. You could be white, yeah, Puerto Rican, Mexican. 1:48:03.840 --> 1:48:09.400 Got it? Wo man, man, I like big sexy. Let 1:48:09.479 --> 1:48:11.400 the people know what you got coming up. 1:48:15.080 --> 1:48:17.439 So I'm gonna be on some networks coming up. 1:48:18.080 --> 1:48:21.000 I can't wait for you guys to see Baddi's Africa audishes. 1:48:22.439 --> 1:48:25.599 It was amazing. It was so lit, it was soul turned. 1:48:25.800 --> 1:48:26.600 They took care of me. 1:48:26.680 --> 1:48:29.360 I'm gonna also be on a couple of episodes of 1:48:29.439 --> 1:48:32.400 love and hip hop that also is an amazing experience. 1:48:32.479 --> 1:48:36.000 I have a huge birthday fashion show that's coming up 1:48:36.640 --> 1:48:43.400 this year that I do annually every year that my 1:48:43.479 --> 1:48:45.720 supporters come from all over the world to have a 1:48:45.760 --> 1:48:47.680 good time. That year it was like four I think 1:48:47.680 --> 1:48:49.720 it's like four or five thousand people show O my God, 1:48:50.280 --> 1:48:53.120 and everybody comes up and from all over the place 1:48:53.120 --> 1:48:54.320 and having a wonderful time. 1:48:54.640 --> 1:48:57.560 I have amazing content on the way. Y'all have to 1:48:57.600 --> 1:49:02.080 come to a wall, and we know, y'all free lit. 1:49:02.320 --> 1:49:04.840 Oh, I feel like we're gonna do it. Yeah, that's 1:49:04.840 --> 1:49:05.120 gonna be. 1:49:05.160 --> 1:49:06.760 We got a new one because that's gonna go up. 1:49:07.040 --> 1:49:09.040 We got the week and make sure it's the week, 1:49:09.080 --> 1:49:10.120 the episode episode. 1:49:10.320 --> 1:49:13.400 I'm serious, y'all, me too. Let's go ahead lock that in. Yeah, okay, 1:49:13.560 --> 1:49:15.840 because that's gonna be sick me. Yes, and I have 1:49:15.960 --> 1:49:18.880 a different concept like one could go up first post, 1:49:19.200 --> 1:49:21.960 then you go up pos and y'all rot together. Okay, 1:49:22.439 --> 1:49:24.360 I think that'll be sick. Go ahead and do that 1:49:24.439 --> 1:49:27.120 a stop. Amazing content on the way, Stay tuned and 1:49:27.160 --> 1:49:32.320 wait till y'all see who I got comment. Oh, y'all, 1:49:35.479 --> 1:49:38.720 I'm honored I can't wait until y'all reached out to me. 1:49:38.960 --> 1:49:40.240 Yeah, you know what's coming. 1:49:40.479 --> 1:49:42.519 Well, we definitely been one of you on the show 1:49:42.640 --> 1:49:44.400 for a while. I'm glad we made it happy. 1:49:44.640 --> 1:49:49.559 Thank y'all, love you so much, and we'll sell bye y'all. Y'all, 1:49:49.640 --> 1:49:54.360 make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all 1:49:54.400 --> 1:49:55.920 that good stuff. And let me say this before we 1:49:56.000 --> 1:50:00.479 close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that connected 1:50:00.520 --> 1:50:04.479 to poor Minds. It's p oh you are underscore in 1:50:04.640 --> 1:50:08.080 my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page. 1:50:08.400 --> 1:50:10.880 If you see at poor Minds with no underscore, that 1:50:11.000 --> 1:50:13.240 is at fake page, do not follow that page. Okay, 1:50:13.640 --> 1:50:17.000 they blocked me Andrea and the poor Minds page on 1:50:17.080 --> 1:50:22.519 both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one 1:50:22.680 --> 1:50:26.360 TikTok it. It's p oh, you are underscore in my nds, 1:50:26.479 --> 1:50:27.880 all right, and we got. 1:50:27.960 --> 1:50:31.320 Hell a fake Facebook page on the Facebook pages it's 1:50:31.680 --> 1:50:34.719 our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually 1:50:34.800 --> 1:50:37.439 have the least amount of file. So if you're on Facebook, 1:50:37.439 --> 1:50:40.200 one that's ours got the least amount of file, but 1:50:40.280 --> 1:50:42.800 one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty 1:50:43.840 --> 1:50:45.559 to make if you actually look at the content because 1:50:45.560 --> 1:50:48.240 the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English, 1:50:48.520 --> 1:50:51.280 because their catches are like mumba clad should men? 1:50:51.439 --> 1:50:54.760 Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill? 1:50:54.920 --> 1:50:55.080 Yes? 1:50:55.200 --> 1:51:02.360 No? Check answer below block block Like that's literally with 1:51:02.479 --> 1:51:05.840 the captions. I'm like you, what that DG is? Bumba claud. 1:51:07.400 --> 1:51:10.920 I put your pisture on my Mira flash when somebody 1:51:11.040 --> 1:51:11.519 says your. 1:51:11.560 --> 1:51:16.400 Name in my stomach, in my stomach that going up 1:51:16.520 --> 1:51:18.120 the way, I. 1:51:18.240 --> 1:51:21.360 Have to stettle on the speed to stand by my 1:51:21.479 --> 1:51:22.240 knees going. 1:51:23.800 --> 1:51:24.880 What's happening to me? 1:51:25.800 --> 1:51:28.080 Anybody? Can you tell me what it means? 1:51:29.000 --> 1:51:35.479 I let my head on the pi's gonna stop for 1:51:35.640 --> 1:51:38.160 a sign where the read. 1:51:40.479 --> 1:51:41.519 Always on my mind? 1:51:43.800 --> 1:51:50.240 Baby, when I see you, see you, when I might 1:51:50.400 --> 1:51:54.639 walk by right on time, when I see. 1:51:54.640 --> 1:52:04.040 You, know my nobirl checking how my hair with my nails, 1:52:04.120 --> 1:52:06.880 and I'm fee there's something that is on and I 1:52:07.040 --> 1:52:09.280 nervous when your call, so I say I'm not. I'll 1:52:09.280 --> 1:52:10.599 say I'm here. 1:52:10.800 --> 1:52:13.559 My favorite soul said. 1:52:17.800 --> 1:52:20.320 I wonder if you know I do the other clue? 1:52:22.520 --> 1:52:35.080 Yeah, okay, wait, what's the reason why you always hey 1:52:35.280 --> 1:52:36.520 sexy boy. 1:52:40.120 --> 1:52:40.880 Hey baby? 1:52:45.320 --> 1:52:45.519 Oh? 1:52:45.800 --> 1:53:01.439 When I see you when sing now takeing out he can't. Yeah, yeah, yeah, 1:53:02.400 --> 1:53:03.639 I'm going around. 1:53:04.080 --> 1:53:07.439 I'm just understand here is. 1:53:10.240 --> 1:53:16.280 Whoa whoa Yeah, let me my baby. 1:53:17.720 --> 1:53:22.400 Shy who when I'm so sexy boll. 1:53:25.280 --> 1:53:32.920 Yeah bug about this is so chaotic. It was. 1:53:33.320 --> 1:53:35.240 It was my shots. That was my bad, y'all. Y'all 1:53:35.280 --> 1:53:37.599 know i'd be off me. What's me y'all? Next week? 1:53:37.960 --> 1:53:38.240 Whoa