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Speaker 2: So it's so easy. Like even if you got your

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Speaker 2: so easy to get your men to not mad as

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Speaker 2: Men are just easy. They they are, so they are.

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Speaker 3: It's so easy, especially when you look lip gloss head done.

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Speaker 3: It looks like pop get fifteen numbers and I'm fifteen men.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the quality is probably two good ones.

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Speaker 2: But it's so that is easy, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Like, if women are single, it is not because they

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, what's up, Y'all's your girl Alex p?

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Speaker 5: And is your girl?

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Speaker 2: Dre and the call and you are tuned in to

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Speaker 2: another episode of Poor.

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Speaker 5: Mine, whereas drunk Mind speaks sober but.

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Speaker 2: We gotta guess today. We gotta guess today. So if

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Speaker 2: you are on social media, you know who this person?

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Speaker 2: Social media influencer, a meme god I got like six

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Speaker 2: means of you and my phone. I know, okay, and

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you call you, but you're a

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Speaker 2: comedian to me as hell. We have the one and only.

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Speaker 4: I'm good, I'm good, God is good.

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Speaker 3: I'm actually on the this y'all reached out to me.

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Speaker 2: We love you.

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Speaker 3: I'm thinking this experience, I'll be so honored now I

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Speaker 3: It's just like mind blowing to me because I'm just

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Speaker 1: It's the amazing feeling when people start gravitating to you

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Speaker 3: Correct. I went to the strip club the other day,

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Speaker 4: Just like, what the fuck energy.

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Speaker 2: About you that's just it's very gravitating. It's like, I

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Speaker 2: from the beginning. So you're from Savannah, so talk research.

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Speaker 3: So initially I was born in the Bronx, New York, Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 3: Then I migrated to Savannah, Georgia when I was eleven

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Speaker 3: I was one of my mother's fur coats and pocketbooks

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Speaker 3: Who I always knew? As an adult, I love black

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Speaker 3: She will let me play with Bobbie dolls, she will

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Speaker 4: But it gets on hunderd because girl, you let me

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Speaker 4: It is because it's just made me who I am.

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Speaker 3: But I think everybody experience is different, and so I

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Speaker 3: Now I do get on another spectrum that there are

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Speaker 4: Never in my life.

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Speaker 3: You couldn't. That's how when I love my girls like

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Speaker 4: Gotta really think about that.

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Speaker 3: And this is how I also know every man is

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Speaker 3: All men are not gay because you're talking to a

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Speaker 3: But you do have a lot of men who are bisexual.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: God is still good.

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Speaker 3: at the time. But it just was unfortunate how things ended.

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Speaker 3: But it was a situation that happened with somebody who

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Speaker 3: We went on me and my friend because I can

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Speaker 4: It puts a halt in what you're doing.

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Speaker 3: And so us being upset, Yeah, because that's what happens

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Speaker 3: I get it because people who do me like that

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Speaker 4: I love you from a distance.

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Speaker 3: You can be sincerely apologizing to me, and I accept it,

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Speaker 3: but we will never be the same. It'll never be

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Speaker 3: that again. It's nothing for us to talk about. I

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Speaker 4: So I get it.

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Speaker 3: I have to be understanding and understand both sides.

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Speaker 4: But I'm ever thankful.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, people have to boundaries.

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Speaker 1: I like you said, you understand where she coming from

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 2: I love the accountability always.

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Speaker 3: I think one of my pet pieces of people that's

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Speaker 1: Same because it's like what you do, what.

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Speaker 6: You do.

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Speaker 1: I have a person who always try to make it

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Speaker 3: You get my last I don't know why a little bit.

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Speaker 3: Some people may agree and.

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Speaker 3: I love a person that's the villain because I love

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Speaker 2: It everybody somebody's stories, and.

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Speaker 3: I think I love people that's able to say what

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: If I talk to you and it sounds like you're

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Speaker 2: about you? As an employee? I I like to get

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Speaker 3: Yeah nerves.

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Speaker 2: Well, you be on Instagram.

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Speaker 3: Sprawl and it's gonna be very much.

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Speaker 4: Well this, I'm a great worker.

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Speaker 3: I'm very loyal all but sometimes I like to check

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Speaker 2: I can take that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we all have about shortcoming. Everybody has their flaws.

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Speaker 3: Everybody had their shortcoming to life. So what would yours be?

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Speaker 3: And what would yours be? I'm gonna leave. I think

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Speaker 3: You know how you think about things that you say,

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Speaker 4: I didn't get in trouble for saying things like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So now as an adult, I can't help it.

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Speaker 3: If I don't like something, I don't like it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I feel like I always got to stay what's on

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Speaker 1: then also just not Sometimes it's hard for me to

443
00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:46,200
Speaker 1: put myself in other people's shoes because I be feeling

444
00:20:46,240 --> 00:20:49,040
Speaker 1: like people Oh why, because I think people be stupid

445
00:20:49,119 --> 00:20:51,159
Speaker 1: a lot of the time, and it's not right to

446
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 1: necessarily look at people like that.

447
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:54,440
Speaker 2: I feel like God made me.

448
00:20:54,440 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 1: Really strong and resilient, and everybody is not that way.

449
00:20:58,480 --> 00:21:01,679
Speaker 1: Everybody was not blessed without traite. So sometimes you have

450
00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:03,359
Speaker 1: to look at the shit that people do and be

451
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:05,400
Speaker 1: like it's okay that they might not have the same

452
00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 1: level of confidence or realize that something is not okay

453
00:21:09,840 --> 00:21:12,560
Speaker 1: and stand up for theyself. That doesn't necessarily make them stupid.

454
00:21:12,640 --> 00:21:14,600
Speaker 2: You just different, you know what I mean?

455
00:21:14,640 --> 00:21:15,960
Speaker 5: You just stronger than the person.

456
00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:17,359
Speaker 1: And I feel like I used to always kind of

457
00:21:17,400 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 1: look at people and be like, oh, that's dumb, you know,

458
00:21:19,960 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 1: and not really and not care to have an understanding,

459
00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 1: just looking at them like they're stupid.

460
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,120
Speaker 2: I wouldn't ever do that, you know what I mean.

461
00:21:26,200 --> 00:21:29,200
Speaker 1: So I think that's probably.

462
00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:32,680
Speaker 2: I think the worst thing about me is I am

463
00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:35,199
Speaker 2: extremely sensitive by but I have the nerve to be

464
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:41,000
Speaker 2: a bitch, like like I am sensitive as fuck, but

465
00:21:41,040 --> 00:21:44,439
Speaker 2: I'm a bitch, like I am extremely bitchy. And I

466
00:21:44,560 --> 00:21:46,760
Speaker 2: used to always like I feel like people got to

467
00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,119
Speaker 2: be soft with me, but I don't want to be

468
00:21:48,119 --> 00:21:51,480
Speaker 2: soft with people. And I think another thing is like

469
00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:55,639
Speaker 2: when I shut down, I shut down, like I don't

470
00:21:55,640 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 2: do confrontation well, like if I need to let tom

471
00:22:00,160 --> 00:22:01,760
Speaker 2: go by, like if me and you get into it,

472
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:03,720
Speaker 2: I need to have like two or three days and

473
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 2: then I want to talk, you know what I'm saying.

474
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:09,720
Speaker 2: But I also feel like I do need to calm down.

475
00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:12,440
Speaker 2: But I also don't need to procrastinate, because honestly, I'll

476
00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:15,000
Speaker 2: let shit go to like two three weeks and I'm like, okay,

477
00:22:15,160 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 2: we can talk now, I guess, but I be thinking

478
00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,199
Speaker 2: like let's just let's just move on. And I know

479
00:22:20,359 --> 00:22:23,440
Speaker 2: now like I pride myself on being a great communicator,

480
00:22:23,480 --> 00:22:26,640
Speaker 2: but I'm really not as good as a communicator as

481
00:22:26,640 --> 00:22:28,639
Speaker 2: I like to say I am. I be wanting to

482
00:22:28,680 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 2: talk about the things that I want to talk about. Yeah,

483
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,080
Speaker 2: when somebody else want to talk about something, I'd be like,

484
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:37,800
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. And so those are like

485
00:22:37,840 --> 00:22:39,760
Speaker 2: the main two things I need to work on. I'm

486
00:22:39,920 --> 00:22:42,159
Speaker 2: very I don't like to you know what, let me

487
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 2: not say a bitch. I'm very assertive, and I think

488
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,879
Speaker 2: sometimes it's taken the wrong way. So I need to expect.

489
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,680
Speaker 2: But I need to learn how to take that too.

490
00:22:52,800 --> 00:22:55,000
Speaker 2: And I think somebody's being bitchy towards me, they could

491
00:22:55,000 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 2: just be assertive and saying what they mean, you know,

492
00:22:58,040 --> 00:22:59,600
Speaker 2: So I got to learn how to dish it in

493
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 2: take it. So yeah, I'm working on so so sensitive.

494
00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:08,960
Speaker 4: You know, I'm not really sensitive.

495
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 2: I'm not either.

496
00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,720
Speaker 3: If you see me crying, I gotta be devastated about something.

497
00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:18,880
Speaker 2: I cry because I'm like, she very sensitive.

498
00:23:18,880 --> 00:23:21,680
Speaker 1: And that's where we're like so opposite, because she's very

499
00:23:21,720 --> 00:23:24,439
Speaker 1: sensitive and I'm not. And just like she said, like

500
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:26,879
Speaker 1: you know, she's not really confrontational. So a lot of

501
00:23:26,880 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 1: the time it's been times in our relationship where like

502
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:32,760
Speaker 1: I want to talk about she right now, and she

503
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:39,280
Speaker 1: don't want to talk about it. Yeah, my phone, I'm

504
00:23:40,119 --> 00:23:45,120
Speaker 1: trying to avoid me. And what's up? Let's talk about

505
00:23:45,160 --> 00:23:47,399
Speaker 1: what happened last week? Because you know, I'll let you

506
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:49,320
Speaker 1: make it for a week. But let's talk about I

507
00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:50,760
Speaker 1: didn't you always.

508
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,199
Speaker 4: Say that that's all?

509
00:23:52,680 --> 00:23:55,320
Speaker 2: What's up? What's up?

510
00:23:55,760 --> 00:23:58,720
Speaker 3: Could get jiggy with tourists because what I noticed with

511
00:23:58,800 --> 00:24:01,480
Speaker 3: a lot of tourist peopeople, even two of my good

512
00:24:01,520 --> 00:24:04,040
Speaker 3: torrst friends, Yeah, they don't mind saying this is how

513
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:06,119
Speaker 3: I feel, this is what's on my mind, or and

514
00:24:06,720 --> 00:24:09,679
Speaker 3: the people like that I could take because my response,

515
00:24:09,720 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 3: so this is this is how I feel.

516
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:12,080
Speaker 4: And so we could talk.

517
00:24:12,280 --> 00:24:13,920
Speaker 1: But it's so crazy that you said that, because that's

518
00:24:13,920 --> 00:24:16,080
Speaker 1: what I be telling Lex. I'd be like, if I

519
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:18,399
Speaker 1: tell you that something that's wrong, She'd be like, well,

520
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:21,000
Speaker 1: I don't be wanting to argue, but that's your opportunity

521
00:24:21,000 --> 00:24:22,200
Speaker 1: to tell me how you feel.

522
00:24:22,600 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: It's not an argument turn into an argument.

523
00:24:25,440 --> 00:24:28,160
Speaker 3: Everythink don't have to be an argument. I do get

524
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 3: and that's another toxic way that I have too. I

525
00:24:31,040 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 3: wouldn't say that. I'm I think like, if you really

526
00:24:33,600 --> 00:24:37,280
Speaker 3: ask my friends. I could be confrontational, like I don't

527
00:24:37,359 --> 00:24:40,200
Speaker 3: mind confrontation, I mean an argument, and I don't mind

528
00:24:40,200 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 3: going back and forth. I don't mind debating because I'm

529
00:24:42,440 --> 00:24:43,120
Speaker 3: a passionate person.

530
00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,600
Speaker 2: They don't have to say. But with that, y'all gotta

531
00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: watch y'all tone.

532
00:24:46,760 --> 00:24:49,240
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I do. I have to work on that.

533
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:51,399
Speaker 1: That's fair because I feel like maybe I do be

534
00:24:51,440 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 1: having to watch my tone sometimes. But the thing about me,

535
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:57,719
Speaker 1: my tone only get bad with people. I gotta be written,

536
00:24:57,720 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 1: you gotta have me real fucked up. Though for my

537
00:24:59,680 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 1: pne yes you do, Yes, you do. Anybody in this

538
00:25:03,680 --> 00:25:06,280
Speaker 1: room will agree my tone never get crazy with none

539
00:25:06,320 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 1: of them.

540
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:07,680
Speaker 2: With none of them.

541
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: I have just said, you gotta have me world point

542
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 1: proven because she doesn't have me real fucked up a

543
00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: lot of time, a lot of times everyone else in

544
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,800
Speaker 1: this room has not, which was the point I was

545
00:25:22,800 --> 00:25:23,159
Speaker 1: getting it.

546
00:25:23,240 --> 00:25:25,720
Speaker 2: But no. But what I'm saying is I just feel

547
00:25:25,720 --> 00:25:29,600
Speaker 2: like it's certain situations, Like like I said, but that's

548
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:31,480
Speaker 2: something I need to work on because I be having

549
00:25:31,520 --> 00:25:33,920
Speaker 2: the nerves because everybody this room career. I will walk

550
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,719
Speaker 2: in and be like, what the fuck yo?

551
00:25:36,480 --> 00:25:36,640
Speaker 3: Right?

552
00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:42,119
Speaker 2: The cameras is cracking up with everybody. My phone be

553
00:25:42,200 --> 00:25:44,680
Speaker 2: fucked up with selective select.

554
00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:47,080
Speaker 4: Lee y'o leo.

555
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 2: Controlling when it comes to my business. It when it

556
00:25:52,600 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 2: comes to my business, this is our baby. I don't

557
00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 2: play when it comes to this ship. And I know

558
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 2: what the vision I have for it. So I think

559
00:25:59,840 --> 00:26:03,320
Speaker 2: it's the business world. I am a little more probably strict,

560
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:05,920
Speaker 2: and I don't mind having confrontation when it comes to

561
00:26:05,920 --> 00:26:08,920
Speaker 2: business cause it's not necessarily it's not personal. It's business.

562
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 2: I'm right done so with business, I don't mind saying

563
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:13,960
Speaker 2: what I got to say and what's on my mind.

564
00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 2: We need to talk about this ship because it's money

565
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:16,120
Speaker 2: to make.

566
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:21,919
Speaker 3: Yeah, friendship, it's okay because literally friendships is like relationiouships, Yeah,

567
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 3: just without the intimacy.

568
00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:25,480
Speaker 2: Because if you be broken falling.

569
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,800
Speaker 3: Out with your friends, just like it was your man

570
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:28,000
Speaker 3: or your or.

571
00:26:27,960 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 4: Your and home boys go through, you could be gay.

572
00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,480
Speaker 3: You can be strapping femail when you go through with

573
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 3: your friends, even if you ain't talking to your friend

574
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 3: for a couple of weeks.

575
00:26:35,200 --> 00:26:36,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, everythings you be wanting.

576
00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,680
Speaker 3: To talk about with them and you can't because y'all

577
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:39,320
Speaker 3: mad at each other.

578
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:44,200
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's not talking with you right now.

579
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,840
Speaker 1: It's sad weasted in each other some ship.

580
00:26:46,880 --> 00:26:48,200
Speaker 4: Because that's me I canhold.

581
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:50,960
Speaker 3: I see you on my front. You are ill hold

582
00:26:50,960 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 3: a GRUDGTI then I go to the grave.

583
00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:54,800
Speaker 2: I'm not really a grud childer.

584
00:26:54,840 --> 00:26:56,639
Speaker 1: I'll be letting stuff go because I just feel like

585
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,119
Speaker 1: after a certain period of time, I don't it's too.

586
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:01,159
Speaker 2: Much energy, Like it take too much energy to care.

587
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:05,440
Speaker 1: That's why, because I just want to get it over with,

588
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,200
Speaker 1: Like I just want to talk about it and even

589
00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:07,880
Speaker 1: be over it.

590
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 4: And until the torrests talk about it.

591
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,440
Speaker 3: Then you want to hold a grudge, but I don't

592
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:13,119
Speaker 3: want you talk about it.

593
00:27:13,119 --> 00:27:14,080
Speaker 4: You'll be good after that.

594
00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean maybe I feel like I don't care

595
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,720
Speaker 1: a lot about a lot of shit. That's why it's

596
00:27:18,720 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: hard for me to hold grudges because I really don't

597
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: give a fu enough to the grudge.

598
00:27:23,400 --> 00:27:24,760
Speaker 4: It just depends on what's done.

599
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,399
Speaker 2: Dreda's not a grudge holder because I've seen where like

600
00:27:30,040 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 2: you and a friend stop being friends. Someone When I

601
00:27:32,080 --> 00:27:35,520
Speaker 2: tell you when Drea is done, i mean she will

602
00:27:35,560 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 2: act like you are dead. You never like never.

603
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,680
Speaker 4: That signs ship is so.

604
00:27:42,240 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 3: Real. And the thing with tourists who kissing nobody's ass.

605
00:27:45,480 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, but you guys will always be open to

606
00:27:48,359 --> 00:27:51,960
Speaker 3: talk about it. Yeah, that's signed and ship it could

607
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 3: be too much later. If you're ready to talk, now,

608
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:55,199
Speaker 3: we can talk, so we can hand it out. But

609
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,680
Speaker 3: kissing nobody's.

610
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,640
Speaker 1: Ass, because I feel like that's the key to any

611
00:27:58,680 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: healthy relationship, Like you have to be able to talk

612
00:28:01,640 --> 00:28:03,560
Speaker 1: to people about stuff. And that's coming from a place

613
00:28:03,600 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 1: of when I was younger, Lex Can of his cities.

614
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:07,720
Speaker 5: I used to be the type of person.

615
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:10,160
Speaker 1: Who I would just cut people off and not talk

616
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: to you about stuff. But that's not conducive to having

617
00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:16,040
Speaker 1: a healthy, long lasting relationship with anybody. Where there is

618
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: a romantic relationship, where there is a friendship, where there

619
00:28:18,880 --> 00:28:21,320
Speaker 1: is a relationship with your family, you have to be

620
00:28:21,480 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: open to talking to people about it.

621
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:25,360
Speaker 5: And cutting people off every time somebody.

622
00:28:25,080 --> 00:28:26,800
Speaker 1: Do some fucked up she to you or have you

623
00:28:26,840 --> 00:28:30,560
Speaker 1: fucked up is not always the answer because sometimes what

624
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:34,040
Speaker 1: they did doesn't necessarily warrant something so dramatic as you

625
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:36,359
Speaker 1: not even talking to them again. But I used to

626
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,160
Speaker 1: everything was their series, like I'm not fucking with you.

627
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:41,920
Speaker 3: I gotta work on that one, because it just depend

628
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,200
Speaker 3: and that's something you really preaches to me, because that's

629
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:47,520
Speaker 3: something that I and I've had people like my older sister,

630
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:49,120
Speaker 3: who I get a lot of guidance from it. Well,

631
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:51,560
Speaker 3: tell me that that's a fucked up track too, because

632
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 3: you don't do people like that. Yeah, But for me,

633
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,920
Speaker 3: it just depends on what's done, because I'll be feeling

634
00:28:56,960 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 3: like you shouldn't know better. And one of my things

635
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:03,000
Speaker 3: that I take as a pride and as a friendship

636
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 3: is I'm not a chatter. If you sit here tell

637
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 3: me some vulnerable ship about yourself and you tell me

638
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 3: to not say anything, I'm taking it to the motherfucking grace.

639
00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:14,040
Speaker 3: So I expect the same thing from you. If I

640
00:29:14,040 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: hear you doing a lot of chat about my ship

641
00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 3: like that, you get caught off at the head. I

642
00:29:18,200 --> 00:29:21,520
Speaker 3: would prefer, I promise you, people don't. People have told

643
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:23,959
Speaker 3: me I sound crazy when I give this example. I

644
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:27,120
Speaker 3: would prefer if you was using my goddamn Devik card

645
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 3: and I didn't know and you came and told me, oh, Saxy,

646
00:29:30,840 --> 00:29:34,960
Speaker 3: I was hungry, I fucked up opposed to the streets

647
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: coming back and saying she said this I know this

648
00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 3: about I would take that over that I don't play

649
00:29:40,440 --> 00:29:46,640
Speaker 3: when because people like that just it's like I can't

650
00:29:46,680 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 3: stand it because I have seen people do that, say oh,

651
00:29:49,400 --> 00:29:50,880
Speaker 3: this is my homegirl, and as soon as she leaves

652
00:29:50,880 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 3: the room, why do I know that she's been evicted

653
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:53,280
Speaker 3: last week?

654
00:29:53,320 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 4: That's not my business.

655
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:57,400
Speaker 1: You gotta side on people like that because, like you said,

656
00:29:57,440 --> 00:30:00,880
Speaker 1: because if you're saying it about a hug about me

657
00:30:01,000 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: when I'm not in the room, you be doing the same.

658
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: You cannot convince me that a person that will go

659
00:30:05,280 --> 00:30:07,960
Speaker 1: and tell other people their friends business do not tell

660
00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:10,040
Speaker 1: other people your business when you're not around.

661
00:30:10,040 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 3: This.

662
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 4: Instantly I'd be like, oh, I don't.

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Speaker 1: Like this, especially like when people fall out, because that's

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Speaker 2: Are the most vulnerable and sangry. And yeah, so if

666
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Speaker 2: you get your feelings and you and a friends start

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Speaker 2: being friends and you start spelling all that, that says

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Speaker 2: a lot about your character because I don't care if

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Speaker 2: go around telling your secrets.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and people get upset, and guess what, it's inevitable

672
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Speaker 3: as humans, we're gonna talk. We're gonna be like fuck that, bitchy.

673
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Speaker 3: But it's just a certain level of where you go.

674
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Speaker 3: I should not know personal shit that y'all went through. Yeah,

675
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Speaker 3: you can come and tell me she did it, that

676
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677
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679
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Speaker 1: Because, like you said, what's her car getting repold? Gotta

681
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Speaker 1: do what any knowing? Why are you telling me that?

682
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Speaker 2: Oh my god, I don't know that.

683
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Speaker 4: Or she had a BV that they gave for.

684
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Speaker 2: An abortion. Trust Yeah, yeah, I do not trust them

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Speaker 2: away from Yeah. Okay, So before we get into the topics,

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Speaker 2: my girls time. What we drinking down today?

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Speaker 5: Thanks the first topic.

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Speaker 1: For the first topic, we really wanted to talk to

770
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Speaker 1: you about gay men being straight women's prius because we

771
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Speaker 1: saw where you talked about this before recently. You were saying,

772
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Speaker 1: how you know, you feel like you have been in

773
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Speaker 1: that position in a lot of situations or a lot

774
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Speaker 1: of relationships and friendships that you've been in. So we

775
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Speaker 1: definitely wanted to get into that because I agree with you.

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Speaker 3: But and it's the thing it goes I think, and

777
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Speaker 3: I'm saying black because I'm black back. It goes hand

778
00:35:57,800 --> 00:36:00,640
Speaker 3: in hand though, right, because I do get how in

779
00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,440
Speaker 3: certain areas, as black gaying, we can't be props. I

780
00:36:03,600 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 3: understand that because we contribute a lot. I was slang,

781
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Speaker 3: I would fashion our mindset, our loyalty. We love the girls,

782
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Speaker 3: and the girls love us, and we're amazing we're innovators,

783
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Speaker 3: we're thinkers, we're creative, we're.

784
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Speaker 4: Smart as gay people, right.

785
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:18,279
Speaker 3: But I think our biggest allies, especially for me in

786
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,760
Speaker 3: my life as a black gay man, has been black women.

787
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Speaker 4: So in a sense, a prop is subjective.

788
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Speaker 3: It's what a prop is to you, because for me,

789
00:36:29,160 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 3: my biggest allies has been black women. So sometimes even

790
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Speaker 3: when people think that I'm baiting or I'm saying certain

791
00:36:35,719 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: things to just get on the good side of a woman,

792
00:36:39,120 --> 00:36:42,279
Speaker 3: a lot of things I feel for real because when

793
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Speaker 3: I was experiencing my bullying, when I was experiencing my hardships,

794
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 3: it was women.

795
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Speaker 4: That was there for me.

796
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Speaker 2: I mean, the first woman was your mom, was my mother.

797
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Speaker 3: And that's why when people tell me I'm trying to

798
00:36:54,040 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 3: be like this person, I'm trying to be like my mom.

799
00:36:55,680 --> 00:36:59,239
Speaker 3: I emulate my mother, I think and operate like my mother.

800
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Speaker 3: But for me, women have saved me, so I have

801
00:37:03,280 --> 00:37:06,200
Speaker 3: a different connection with them. But I do get that

802
00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 3: sometimes we can be props. And what happens is I

803
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 3: was talking about this on another podcast because I was

804
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 3: just trying to speak lifely to this young man, right

805
00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,280
Speaker 3: who had his perspective on being messy.

806
00:37:16,719 --> 00:37:24,440
Speaker 2: I said, Oh he's spicy. I sad. I said, oh

807
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Speaker 2: he getting spicy.

808
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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, you ain't say. That was the fight work

809
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:32,800
Speaker 3: for me, and that was the light work there. Somebody

810
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 3: called me up and said, hey, yeah, we gotta get

811
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Speaker 3: somebody on here that could take you because you're a lot.

812
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:40,680
Speaker 3: Yeah I am in real life because I'm very assertive

813
00:37:40,719 --> 00:37:42,560
Speaker 3: and I know what I'm talking about. I don't know

814
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,440
Speaker 3: what I'm talking about. I'm gonna wing that bit. And

815
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Speaker 3: you want to think I know what I'm talking about it,

816
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna wing it down and you're never gonna box me.

817
00:37:50,000 --> 00:37:52,839
Speaker 3: I'm gonna always have a response. But I think it's

818
00:37:52,960 --> 00:37:54,759
Speaker 3: it's a two way street, right, because what I wanted

819
00:37:54,800 --> 00:38:00,160
Speaker 3: him to understand was you can be that stereotype of

820
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:04,440
Speaker 3: mess that they see gay men to be right, because

821
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,160
Speaker 3: all they're gonna do is amp You would say, yeah,

822
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Speaker 3: spill t yeah, stand on it. Yeah say that, and

823
00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:11,560
Speaker 3: guess what, as soon as they are business is on

824
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Speaker 3: the line, then you're gonna be a sissy and then

825
00:38:14,719 --> 00:38:16,359
Speaker 3: you're going to be seen as their prop that they

826
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Speaker 3: just throw to the side because it's no fun until

827
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Speaker 3: the cat got the gun. So you can sit there

828
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,120
Speaker 3: and laugh at another woman's pain and laugh at her

829
00:38:23,160 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 3: business when another gay man is talking about it. But

830
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Speaker 3: as soon as your business is on the line again, yes,

831
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Speaker 3: that's when the prop is in play. And so that's

832
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Speaker 3: why I can understand how people will say a lot

833
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Speaker 3: of times we just props because when things go wrong,

834
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:39,520
Speaker 3: when things go left, a lot of times, a lot

835
00:38:39,560 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 3: of gay men, when you talk to them, it's a

836
00:38:41,440 --> 00:38:44,399
Speaker 3: thing in our community, it's don't trust fish, fish got

837
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Speaker 3: bone because a lot of gay men have experienced being

838
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:52,080
Speaker 3: that loyal person to women, being that rider, and when

839
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:54,600
Speaker 3: things go left, they're thrown to the side. They have

840
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:57,480
Speaker 3: been the manager, they have been the person riding. They've

841
00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 3: been the person showing up when your man was a

842
00:39:00,120 --> 00:39:02,399
Speaker 3: doing you in in the house, affusing you. You've been

843
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: that person, that older brother, that friend figure, and then

844
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 3: when things go left, you'll forgive him, but you'll throw.

845
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Speaker 4: Your gay friends at the time.

846
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 3: So I can get why that dynamic is very speaky

847
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 3: and very tricky.

848
00:39:12,440 --> 00:39:15,279
Speaker 4: But as for me, and my experienced women have saved me.

849
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Speaker 1: And see, when I think of it, I'll more so

850
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Speaker 1: be thinking from a standpoint of like, you know how

851
00:39:20,880 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: you'll be talking to some women and they'll be like, well,

852
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Speaker 1: I need to.

853
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:25,120
Speaker 2: Give me a gay meal friend. I hate that.

854
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,680
Speaker 1: I think that's like to me, that's more so trying

855
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:29,880
Speaker 1: to use a person as a pride, because why are

856
00:39:29,920 --> 00:39:32,360
Speaker 1: you so specific in the type of friend that you

857
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 1: need to.

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Speaker 2: Buyd I don't see nothing wrong with it, But well,

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Speaker 2: let me ask you this too, though, because I think

860
00:39:37,160 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 2: it's a little weird on both sides. Yeah, because I

861
00:39:40,480 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 2: have a gay friend that I'm really really close to,

862
00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: Like we've recently gotten really close and I love him

863
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: down shout out to Clay. Hey, Clay, I talked to

864
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:51,160
Speaker 2: Clay so much. But we became friends organic. Yeah, Like

865
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,800
Speaker 2: it wasn't like, oh, I'm searching for him or for me,

866
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 2: or it was like we really became organic friends. But

867
00:39:57,920 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 2: what I have noticed is I feel like sometimes a

868
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,640
Speaker 2: lot of the gay men in the community, and I

869
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:05,399
Speaker 2: don't want to feed anybody, say y'all, please don't eat

870
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 2: me up. This is just honest. Sometimes just like I

871
00:40:08,040 --> 00:40:09,920
Speaker 2: feel like women want to be our friends because of

872
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:11,879
Speaker 2: who we are. I think a lot of gay men

873
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:13,839
Speaker 2: be trying to come into my life because they feel like, oh,

874
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,239
Speaker 2: I would love to be Lex's friend, or I want

875
00:40:16,280 --> 00:40:18,200
Speaker 2: to be that one gay guy in her life. That

876
00:40:18,520 --> 00:40:21,080
Speaker 2: that's why I'm so cool with Clay because it was genuine.

877
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:23,239
Speaker 2: But sometimes I feel like a lot of the gay

878
00:40:23,280 --> 00:40:25,680
Speaker 2: boys be trying to you know, they just want to

879
00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:27,400
Speaker 2: be a prog. Yes, they do.

880
00:40:28,800 --> 00:40:31,640
Speaker 4: They ways. Yeah, it goes both ways.

881
00:40:31,840 --> 00:40:34,040
Speaker 3: And the thing is we give a lot of confidence

882
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,600
Speaker 3: and tips, and we teach a lot of things because

883
00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 3: we do. We innovate us and we're very creative. But

884
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,399
Speaker 3: the same way women give it to us, they feed.

885
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:45,279
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine a world of me living here without women.

886
00:40:45,280 --> 00:40:48,160
Speaker 3: I probably would have been off myself. I'm just being serious.

887
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,240
Speaker 3: I could even when it comes to my own motherfucking community,

888
00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,399
Speaker 3: I could not imagine this earth of me here, even

889
00:40:54,440 --> 00:40:57,239
Speaker 3: if it was an LGBTQ community with just men. In

890
00:40:57,320 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 3: a world with just men, I would then have gone.

891
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 3: I'm talking about upstairs with God hanging out. It's women

892
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,399
Speaker 3: that keep me so grinded who I am. They give

893
00:41:07,440 --> 00:41:09,959
Speaker 3: me so much confidence, they give me so much genuine love.

894
00:41:10,840 --> 00:41:12,839
Speaker 3: I'm able to create my own table in my own

895
00:41:12,920 --> 00:41:15,200
Speaker 3: lane because of women. Even with my own motherfucking community,

896
00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,160
Speaker 3: I couldn't imagine having to kiss they motherfucking Yeah, because

897
00:41:18,200 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 3: there'd be a lot of them too that's so rooted

898
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:23,880
Speaker 3: in hate and jealousy. So it does go both ways.

899
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 3: You guys give us a lot and we give you

900
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 3: a lot. But I think that it just gets sticky sometimes.

901
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:32,640
Speaker 3: But the different things that go on, and so you

902
00:41:32,719 --> 00:41:35,240
Speaker 3: gotta just so you gotta just let things happen organically,

903
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,120
Speaker 3: like you said, But me personally, I don't mind. I

904
00:41:38,160 --> 00:41:39,680
Speaker 3: don't mind a girl saying that because we.

905
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 2: But you don't feel like it might be like some

906
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 2: weird motives there.

907
00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:47,520
Speaker 3: Or like somebody trying to use I think some girls

908
00:41:47,560 --> 00:41:49,280
Speaker 3: they enjoy gay men more than girls.

909
00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:51,160
Speaker 4: I think sometimes.

910
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 2: If you don't get along with women and you feel like, oh, well,

911
00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,760
Speaker 2: I need some gay friends, you probably a little weirdo yourself.

912
00:42:00,880 --> 00:42:03,759
Speaker 2: Any woman that be like, oh, I'm not saying you

913
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,800
Speaker 2: got to be a girl's girl, But I hate a

914
00:42:05,880 --> 00:42:08,000
Speaker 2: woman that's like, oh, I got more guy friends, or

915
00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:09,439
Speaker 2: I don't want to hang out with the gay guys

916
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:11,640
Speaker 2: all the time. That'd be weird too, because, like I said,

917
00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:13,480
Speaker 2: as much as I feel like it's on both sides,

918
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,920
Speaker 2: the women who seek out a gay friend just because

919
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,440
Speaker 2: he's a male and he's gay. To me, it gives

920
00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:21,640
Speaker 2: like you don't want to hang around women because you

921
00:42:21,800 --> 00:42:24,359
Speaker 2: feel like it's competition. So you feel like, of course

922
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 2: that's true. Like if I don't want to be friends

923
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:31,719
Speaker 2: with Drea because Drea goes out and Drea gets all

924
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: the attention, well I'm gonna go out with being sexy

925
00:42:33,680 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 2: because obviously the men don't want me because he's a man.

926
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 2: That's the kind of energy that gang is. They might

927
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:38,520
Speaker 2: want him.

928
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:40,480
Speaker 4: But guess what, you know what that's so true?

929
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:42,520
Speaker 3: How you just broke that down because I think about

930
00:42:42,520 --> 00:42:44,640
Speaker 3: that with gay men, if you're a gay man and

931
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 3: you have no gay homeboys. Because it's just like I

932
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:49,640
Speaker 3: spoke about on the other podcasts, it's things. Yeah, you

933
00:42:49,680 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 3: can love me as a gay man. It is things

934
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 3: that I can give you, but it's still certain things

935
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,320
Speaker 3: that you and her can relate on that I know

936
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,880
Speaker 3: nothing about it. So as a gay black man, I

937
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,920
Speaker 3: got to have at least one gay black men that

938
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:04,080
Speaker 3: lived this experience with me. Yeah, if I don't have

939
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 3: at least one gay black man that I can relate to,

940
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 3: we've been through the SAE. We have different backgrounds and upbringers,

941
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:11,480
Speaker 3: but it's a lot of things that's me being a

942
00:43:11,520 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 3: black gay man that you can relate to eighty percent

943
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:17,319
Speaker 3: of the time, whether it's sometimes being ostracized, people judging us,

944
00:43:17,560 --> 00:43:19,480
Speaker 3: people judging us because of what we like. So you're

945
00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 3: absolutely right, because there's certain things that women can get

946
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,239
Speaker 3: from each other that you can't get from a gay man.

947
00:43:24,760 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 4: Yeah. I may be comfort for you.

948
00:43:26,560 --> 00:43:28,400
Speaker 3: You may like to hang around me because I may

949
00:43:28,480 --> 00:43:30,560
Speaker 3: encourage you in a different way than your homegirl. But

950
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,120
Speaker 3: if you're telling me you have no good homegirls, right,

951
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 3: no good female friends, that is and.

952
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,719
Speaker 2: I say it hearing your motives there. Yeah, And I

953
00:43:38,760 --> 00:43:41,120
Speaker 2: think we're also in a time where people see relationships

954
00:43:41,280 --> 00:43:47,880
Speaker 2: like Santana and Kresha and everybody want everybody wants that dynamic.

955
00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 2: So they'd be like, oh, you see what Santana and

956
00:43:49,560 --> 00:43:51,200
Speaker 2: Karsha do, I want to do that. So it's like,

957
00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,400
Speaker 2: are y'all are you really genuine friends with him? Are

958
00:43:53,440 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 2: you trying to have like an arrogant a ari type

959
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 2: of situation? Yeah, you know what I'm saying. So I

960
00:43:57,560 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 2: think a lot of times, like I said, it's not

961
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:02,759
Speaker 2: that genia in connection women be seeing they'd be like,

962
00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:05,359
Speaker 2: I need a prop I need that accessory. They want

963
00:44:05,400 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 2: somebody that's gonna come over and do their heir, boo

964
00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:10,560
Speaker 2: them yeah, and hype them up. So that's why I said,

965
00:44:10,760 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 2: it can get really get you know what.

966
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 3: So sometimes to be fair, even though I don't live

967
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:19,480
Speaker 3: a woman's experience, sometimes though two women genuinely just have

968
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:23,239
Speaker 3: a cattiness. Yeah, So sometimes you it's a lot of

969
00:44:23,320 --> 00:44:27,399
Speaker 3: girls that have tried, They've tried to be a girl's girl.

970
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:29,320
Speaker 4: They've tried to get along with other girls.

971
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 3: But it's sometimes the gay boy will be more of

972
00:44:32,480 --> 00:44:35,160
Speaker 3: a cheerleader when you walk out the room. Oh girl, honey,

973
00:44:35,200 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 3: yes you look good. Sometimes you don't get that from

974
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 3: other females.

975
00:44:38,840 --> 00:44:39,760
Speaker 2: Wow, ladies.

976
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:42,879
Speaker 1: I feel like if that's the case, you just keep

977
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:45,879
Speaker 1: attracting the wrong type of friends, and then that's more

978
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:48,320
Speaker 1: of a you problem seas because why you keep attracting

979
00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:51,320
Speaker 1: them type of women. Granted, I have been in situations

980
00:44:51,360 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 1: where I have been friends with girls and they definitely

981
00:44:53,960 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 1: were weird and was doing weird, shady shit or hating.

982
00:44:56,760 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 1: But every single relationship that I've had with women has

983
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,080
Speaker 1: no being like this. So I feel like if those

984
00:45:02,080 --> 00:45:04,200
Speaker 1: are the only type of girls you come across, you

985
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 1: probably a little shrinking a little shelf. You probably be

986
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,000
Speaker 1: hating too, you know what I mean, And you can't

987
00:45:09,040 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: take what you say. But you can't take because.

988
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,640
Speaker 2: One thing about me. I hype my friends up me.

989
00:45:14,800 --> 00:45:19,320
Speaker 2: So I don't care if picture whatever, I am hyping

990
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 2: you up. So I feel like if you are a

991
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,799
Speaker 2: girl and you don't have one girlfriend, at least one

992
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:27,960
Speaker 2: probably not hating on you, but they probably feel like, well,

993
00:45:27,960 --> 00:45:30,600
Speaker 2: I'm always complimenting her, but she never say nothing to me.

994
00:45:31,080 --> 00:45:33,120
Speaker 2: Sometimes shit will start feeling one sided.

995
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: God, and like, even like I'm the type of friend,

996
00:45:37,080 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 3: it's nothing that my friend posted, I'm not liking me personally.

997
00:45:40,719 --> 00:45:43,400
Speaker 3: It could be some bullshit, it could be edited wrong me.

998
00:45:43,640 --> 00:45:46,000
Speaker 3: I'm gonna steal picture.

999
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 2: I'm gonna drag every fucking photo what likes that, I'm

1000
00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,239
Speaker 2: going to like it.

1001
00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 3: That's just because I'm not until a day and I

1002
00:45:54,160 --> 00:45:56,960
Speaker 3: know that that might sound arrogant and pumps, but I'm

1003
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 3: so comfortable contrary to what people make food. Yeah, contraary

1004
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 3: with people think they may see. I'm so comfortable in myself,

1005
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 3: and a lot of that attests to my girls. Because

1006
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:10,880
Speaker 3: I could have ten handsome, aesthetically pleasing gay friends that

1007
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,440
Speaker 3: I'm around, and none of them are still me, And

1008
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,319
Speaker 3: I mean that in an arrogant way because they are

1009
00:46:16,400 --> 00:46:18,360
Speaker 3: their own perfect and I can't be them right and

1010
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,120
Speaker 3: they probably could get every that I probably want in

1011
00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:23,399
Speaker 3: my heart. But I still know when I walk into

1012
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:25,160
Speaker 3: a room with my girls, they're going up for me.

1013
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 3: I'm in the land of my I'm in the land

1014
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,000
Speaker 3: of my own. You can't do it like when you

1015
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,120
Speaker 3: can't walk, like when you can't move. So when you

1016
00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:33,680
Speaker 3: comfortable in yourself.

1017
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 2: When you have your own lane. Yeah, that's why I

1018
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:39,080
Speaker 2: don't mind hyping none of my friends up, because Drea

1019
00:46:39,160 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 2: has this lane that she dominates in and that ain't

1020
00:46:41,840 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 2: got shit to do with me what I got going on,

1021
00:46:44,640 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 2: because this line is what I'm dominating, So it doesn't

1022
00:46:47,480 --> 00:46:49,680
Speaker 2: take away, it does not take away from me to

1023
00:46:49,760 --> 00:46:52,080
Speaker 2: hype her up, or to hype Tigh up, or to

1024
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,480
Speaker 2: hype my My other friend has a podcast as well,

1025
00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:56,720
Speaker 2: and I hype that ship up because that don't affect

1026
00:46:56,760 --> 00:46:59,640
Speaker 2: poor mind's baby. It don't because you not you. To

1027
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:02,960
Speaker 2: get this flavor, you got to come to Drea and

1028
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 2: Nicole and Lexpi Mary for mine.

1029
00:47:07,600 --> 00:47:10,080
Speaker 1: So I just feel like I don't buy that but

1030
00:47:10,160 --> 00:47:14,000
Speaker 1: women like I ain't tried, Yeah, really try, Like you

1031
00:47:14,239 --> 00:47:16,759
Speaker 1: not really probably a good friend? Yosel If you don't

1032
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:19,560
Speaker 1: have at least one solid homegirl that you've been down

1033
00:47:19,640 --> 00:47:21,799
Speaker 1: with for a long time, it's hot.

1034
00:47:22,080 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 2: It's you the.

1035
00:47:22,560 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 4: Probably think that you can teach a person how to

1036
00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 4: be a friend.

1037
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,560
Speaker 2: He'll know. Oh, I think you can teach somebody how

1038
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 2: to love properly and be it. Well, I'm saying, think

1039
00:47:33,080 --> 00:47:36,440
Speaker 2: about our relationship and how much we grew together and

1040
00:47:36,560 --> 00:47:39,439
Speaker 2: I learned. Okay, well, Drea likes this, Dre, I can't

1041
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:43,359
Speaker 2: treat Drea how I treat or Lauren like that's fair.

1042
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: But to me, that's more specific to a person. Like

1043
00:47:46,239 --> 00:47:48,440
Speaker 1: being friends with a person for a long period of time,

1044
00:47:48,760 --> 00:47:51,000
Speaker 1: you get to really you start to realize I need

1045
00:47:51,080 --> 00:47:52,719
Speaker 1: to be this way with them because this is what

1046
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: they respond to.

1047
00:47:54,239 --> 00:47:54,520
Speaker 6: I don't.

1048
00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:55,480
Speaker 4: You don't.

1049
00:47:55,680 --> 00:47:56,000
Speaker 3: I don't know.

1050
00:47:56,440 --> 00:47:59,680
Speaker 2: You can teach somebody how to be a good friend. Though.

1051
00:48:00,280 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: Either you're a good person and you have that shit

1052
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,479
Speaker 1: in you to be a good friend, or you do not. Okay,

1053
00:48:05,719 --> 00:48:08,360
Speaker 1: I feel like people who are just bad friends. You

1054
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 1: probably a bad person. I'm probably not really a good It's.

1055
00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:12,759
Speaker 4: It's so important too.

1056
00:48:13,040 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 3: I think in order to have longevity in a friendship,

1057
00:48:15,719 --> 00:48:18,520
Speaker 3: you have to learn a person, so sometimes you're not

1058
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:23,360
Speaker 3: hurting your own feelings. And for example, like I, I

1059
00:48:23,520 --> 00:48:25,440
Speaker 3: already know when my friend don't want to be bothered

1060
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 3: in the tone, I could tell when he don't want company.

1061
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,239
Speaker 3: So why even hurt my feelings of saying I'm about

1062
00:48:31,239 --> 00:48:32,560
Speaker 3: to come over there when I know you don't want

1063
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,640
Speaker 3: company right now? Yeah, you have to learn a person.

1064
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 3: I be wanting people to understand I'm the type of

1065
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 3: person if I don't deal with you, don't.

1066
00:48:38,800 --> 00:48:40,320
Speaker 4: Invite me nowhere where you're located.

1067
00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 3: So as a friend, you should already know that, because

1068
00:48:42,840 --> 00:48:44,320
Speaker 3: now you're going to be offended when I say.

1069
00:48:44,320 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: Stop asking me that shit? Are you stupid? Yeah? Yeah,

1070
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 2: learn me.

1071
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 3: No, I don't want to be in nowhere, And that's

1072
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:51,600
Speaker 3: a comference of where another person is at. So you

1073
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:55,000
Speaker 3: have to learn a person that you're around so that

1074
00:48:55,680 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 3: certain times you're not hurt, because that's what happens sometimes.

1075
00:48:58,560 --> 00:49:00,960
Speaker 4: Now you think you're a friend is something personal to

1076
00:49:01,040 --> 00:49:01,440
Speaker 4: you and it's not.

1077
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:05,279
Speaker 3: They're just not having I'm learning that more because I'm

1078
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,200
Speaker 3: a person that wakes up on ten. I'll say, probably

1079
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:10,960
Speaker 3: five days out of the week. Yeah, I'm good and

1080
00:49:11,160 --> 00:49:14,200
Speaker 3: so growing up it would offend me if I call

1081
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:17,400
Speaker 3: you and you're like, what's up? I don't even want

1082
00:49:17,400 --> 00:49:19,319
Speaker 3: to be around you. Now, I feel like it's something

1083
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 3: that I did, but I had to realize and what

1084
00:49:21,800 --> 00:49:24,520
Speaker 3: my sister taught me, sometimes it's people being selfish.

1085
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,840
Speaker 4: It's not about you today, baby, has nothing.

1086
00:49:26,600 --> 00:49:28,719
Speaker 3: To do with you. I'm having my own problems, my

1087
00:49:28,800 --> 00:49:30,680
Speaker 3: own issuestes. It has nothing to do with you. So

1088
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 3: I think it's important to learn people.

1089
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,520
Speaker 1: I agree with that because I feel like I'm kind

1090
00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: of like that too. Like when I call people if

1091
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Speaker 1: they got like a weird energy, Oh, I'd be like,

1092
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Speaker 1: what's wrong with you?

1093
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:42,279
Speaker 2: You know?

1094
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Speaker 1: But then you be having to realize it's not about you.

1095
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,480
Speaker 1: So then I just learned to like give people they

1096
00:49:46,600 --> 00:49:49,880
Speaker 1: dc me. I'm not really the type of person that

1097
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Speaker 1: will just let stuff affect my day, you know what

1098
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Speaker 1: I mean. It's like, even if some shit happened, i

1099
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Speaker 1: might be in a bad move for a little bit,

1100
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Speaker 1: but I'm not gonna just be walking open around the

1101
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Speaker 1: hall day or for like days at a time.

1102
00:50:02,200 --> 00:50:06,640
Speaker 2: Some people they need to go through it to get Oh, yeah,

1103
00:50:06,840 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 2: I'm a moper. But I also don't bring other people

1104
00:50:09,560 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 2: in it. So if you call me i'm not in

1105
00:50:12,320 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 2: a good mood, I'll let you know, hey, I'm not

1106
00:50:14,680 --> 00:50:19,080
Speaker 2: feeling it today and deal with those y'all are that's

1107
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:22,840
Speaker 2: my friends, father people, And that's.

1108
00:50:22,719 --> 00:50:25,160
Speaker 3: Fine because you're human. But I love people that's not

1109
00:50:25,320 --> 00:50:26,560
Speaker 3: They're not going to take it out on you. They

1110
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 3: just not having a good day. They're going to be

1111
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 3: vocal about it and they need the space. But I

1112
00:50:30,520 --> 00:50:32,680
Speaker 3: can't stand a person that come and on purpose want

1113
00:50:32,719 --> 00:50:36,640
Speaker 3: to ruin the ass. Oh, because you're human and I

1114
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:39,600
Speaker 3: had to. I'm still learning that. That is one thing

1115
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,200
Speaker 3: that I'm still learning with people. You're human and sometimes

1116
00:50:42,239 --> 00:50:45,040
Speaker 3: it's nothing to do with me, and I guess people

1117
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:45,920
Speaker 3: we take it personally.

1118
00:50:45,920 --> 00:50:47,680
Speaker 4: It's not about you today.

1119
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:49,839
Speaker 2: Because you know you said you wake up on ten. Oh,

1120
00:50:49,880 --> 00:50:51,680
Speaker 2: I wake up on one every day, So I'll be

1121
00:50:51,760 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 2: having to.

1122
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:55,920
Speaker 3: And I have to understand it that I didn't do

1123
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 3: anything to you know what type of way that it's

1124
00:50:59,000 --> 00:51:00,960
Speaker 3: just you in your mind to it has nothing to

1125
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:03,400
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1126
00:51:03,520 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 3: take it so personal. It's like it has nothing to

1127
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:07,600
Speaker 3: do with you. That's like vocal people do.

1128
00:51:07,880 --> 00:51:10,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, just express that and then I just go about life.

1129
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, just say something, you know.

1130
00:51:12,200 --> 00:51:13,600
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of the time people just

1131
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,319
Speaker 1: be having like that weird energy around them and then

1132
00:51:16,320 --> 00:51:19,440
Speaker 1: they don't say anything. So then as a human, your

1133
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,480
Speaker 1: mind gets a wondering and you can't help but think.

1134
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:22,760
Speaker 2: Okay, like what's the problem.

1135
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:23,120
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1136
00:51:23,360 --> 00:51:25,080
Speaker 2: I can't stand with people who walk in the room.

1137
00:51:25,120 --> 00:51:30,399
Speaker 2: They just want everybody to feel their wrath. I cannot stand. Now,

1138
00:51:30,560 --> 00:51:34,040
Speaker 2: that's something that I hate. If you got something going to,

1139
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 2: leave that ship at the door, leave it at the door.

1140
00:51:37,680 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 2: I'm not saying that I don't care, but we all

1141
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:43,520
Speaker 2: got life going on. Yes, no, I think I read

1142
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1144
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Speaker 2: I cannot believe. And it's like, okay, babe, were all

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1181
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1182
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1183
00:53:52,280 --> 00:53:52,839
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Speaker 2: it's not it's not Friday. It's not Friday. It's it's

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Speaker 2: because I can hear it. Yeah, I don't know, y'all

1189
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1190
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Speaker 7: Yeah?

1191
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 2: Oh so it just yes? Do I remember with her

1192
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:45,200
Speaker 2: braids and she was trying to be funny, give up. Oh,

1193
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,040
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1194
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Speaker 1: It ain't even no, not really because I know you,

1195
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Speaker 1: I knew all of yours.

1196
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Speaker 2: Know what I'm saying, is this one is easy? Is

1197
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Speaker 2: it by Felicia oh Friday? The next time? It's just

1198
00:55:01,840 --> 00:55:04,399
Speaker 2: so funny because me Andre, I know, we both grew

1199
00:55:04,520 --> 00:55:06,879
Speaker 2: up with parents like my god, so I would talk

1200
00:55:06,880 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 2: about growing up with naked parents. So anoke guy, it's

1201
00:55:11,800 --> 00:55:14,440
Speaker 2: somebody who is just like a nudist at home, Like

1202
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,959
Speaker 2: you have to make sure when your friends come over, Mamma,

1203
00:55:18,000 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 2: you got some clothes on, you gotta make sure they

1204
00:55:20,680 --> 00:55:24,000
Speaker 2: are covered up. Because one thing about me, my mom

1205
00:55:24,200 --> 00:55:28,400
Speaker 2: was always walking around the house naked. And I'm not

1206
00:55:28,520 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 2: talking about like oh Winnie the Poo style with a

1207
00:55:31,160 --> 00:55:33,399
Speaker 2: T shirt and no panties on and no bottoms. I'm

1208
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,200
Speaker 2: talking about but booty hole from the root of to

1209
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 2: the too a newist. I mean, it was so.

1210
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:43,880
Speaker 1: Awkward too, because then my dad would be there and

1211
00:55:44,080 --> 00:55:46,080
Speaker 1: he would be like foaming at the mouse.

1212
00:55:46,160 --> 00:55:52,000
Speaker 2: And I know that's daddy around when I was growing up.

1213
00:55:58,760 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 1: He used to make even more weird because yes, because

1214
00:56:01,800 --> 00:56:03,120
Speaker 1: it was me and my mama and my daddy in

1215
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: the house and she would just be walking around naked

1216
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:08,520
Speaker 1: all the time. Like I'm talking about doing everything naked

1217
00:56:09,080 --> 00:56:11,920
Speaker 1: looking cleaning, I'd be like, damn, you ain't scared of

1218
00:56:11,920 --> 00:56:13,440
Speaker 1: the grease gone pop yo titty.

1219
00:56:17,760 --> 00:56:18,239
Speaker 2: Growing up.

1220
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,440
Speaker 3: So I have a mom that will walking around with

1221
00:56:22,480 --> 00:56:25,960
Speaker 3: a taboo like that, but just butt naked.

1222
00:56:27,320 --> 00:56:28,640
Speaker 4: I ain't have no butt naked mom.

1223
00:56:28,840 --> 00:56:33,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, because you know, even though you were, you know, gay,

1224
00:56:34,080 --> 00:56:36,560
Speaker 2: but you're still a boy. So I do think, like,

1225
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:40,120
Speaker 2: how would y'all feel about, like a mom working walking

1226
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: around naked and she has a son, Like, how do

1227
00:56:42,280 --> 00:56:44,080
Speaker 2: y'all feel about that? Because I think it is a

1228
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,600
Speaker 2: little different to walk around in the nude and you

1229
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 2: have a little girl having a little boy. I think

1230
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:51,400
Speaker 2: it's the same thing with men if you have a

1231
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 2: son and you're walking around naked, Like but I think

1232
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 2: about a man walking around the house naked with his

1233
00:56:56,120 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: little girl. Oh it does. But I think it's the

1234
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:05,120
Speaker 2: same thing when child is young, and I feel like

1235
00:57:05,239 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 2: it's different with.

1236
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 3: How do y'all because I feel like you can't out.

1237
00:57:09,960 --> 00:57:11,239
Speaker 4: Your mama vagina?

1238
00:57:11,920 --> 00:57:13,719
Speaker 2: Yeah I did, but I don't want to see it.

1239
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:16,040
Speaker 2: I at it that day and I don't want to

1240
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:17,440
Speaker 2: see it for the rest of my life.

1241
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I get it, but it's like it's I

1242
00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 3: don't know what, Joe. It's like you literally lived in

1243
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 3: her body, like you came out between her legs.

1244
00:57:27,000 --> 00:57:29,960
Speaker 2: It's like this. It more so got on my nerves.

1245
00:57:30,360 --> 00:57:32,360
Speaker 2: But it wasn't like something I was like, oh oh

1246
00:57:32,480 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 2: my god, discovery. It was just like, girl, put some

1247
00:57:35,240 --> 00:57:38,520
Speaker 2: damn clothes on. But now it's so crazy because as

1248
00:57:38,560 --> 00:57:42,040
Speaker 2: I get older. I'm thirty five now, and literally everything

1249
00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:47,040
Speaker 2: I do, I'm like, I am my mother's tea, being

1250
00:57:47,120 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 2: at home all the time, just wanting to be left alone,

1251
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:54,040
Speaker 2: watching TV, the way I eat, the way I act,

1252
00:57:54,160 --> 00:57:57,280
Speaker 2: I'm literally turning it. I'm naked all the time at

1253
00:57:57,320 --> 00:58:00,880
Speaker 2: my house all the time. I am too, but by myself.

1254
00:58:01,080 --> 00:58:03,240
Speaker 1: I feel like once I have kids, I cannot see

1255
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: even with a little girl, like maybe as a like

1256
00:58:05,960 --> 00:58:08,240
Speaker 1: maybe as like a two year old or something, but

1257
00:58:08,440 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: like once you get to like grade school, I am

1258
00:58:11,240 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 1: not about to be walking around naked in front.

1259
00:58:13,080 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 2: Of my daughter. That's just me though, I don't see

1260
00:58:16,200 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 2: the point.

1261
00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: Growing panty cool, like you said your mom used to

1262
00:58:19,760 --> 00:58:22,439
Speaker 1: walk around in her panties, cool, but like just walk

1263
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,360
Speaker 1: around but ass naked in front of my kid where

1264
00:58:25,480 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: is your role?

1265
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:28,680
Speaker 2: School? Where's your school?

1266
00:58:28,720 --> 00:58:28,840
Speaker 3: Though?

1267
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:30,760
Speaker 2: That's how you have to feel about my mama, girl,

1268
00:58:30,800 --> 00:58:31,880
Speaker 2: Where is your role?

1269
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:34,800
Speaker 4: And I get that, but I do.

1270
00:58:34,920 --> 00:58:38,080
Speaker 2: Feel like, like I said, it's not nothing that's nasty

1271
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 2: or weird to me, so nasty, but it's more annoying.

1272
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,120
Speaker 2: Like if you're a woman and you have a daughter

1273
00:58:44,240 --> 00:58:46,080
Speaker 2: she's in grade school, you walk around naked. It probably

1274
00:58:46,120 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 2: just gets on her nerves. But now I do think

1275
00:58:48,440 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 2: it's weird if you're a woman and you have a

1276
00:58:49,880 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 2: son and he's in grade school and you're walking around naked.

1277
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:54,880
Speaker 2: But like I said, if it's a man and his

1278
00:58:55,000 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 2: son and they living together, he like gets out the

1279
00:58:57,120 --> 00:58:59,200
Speaker 2: shower and goes and runs and grabs some shorts or whatever,

1280
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,520
Speaker 2: that's normal because it's like a locker room. But again,

1281
00:59:02,560 --> 00:59:04,720
Speaker 2: if a man has a daughter in grade school he's

1282
00:59:04,720 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 2: walking around naked, that's weird to me.

1283
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:07,480
Speaker 4: I know.

1284
00:59:07,600 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 2: I think it's like if it's same gender, it's okay

1285
00:59:10,320 --> 00:59:12,080
Speaker 2: because I look at it like a locker room, a

1286
00:59:12,160 --> 00:59:16,800
Speaker 2: gym when you go spa, and it's nothing weird, you

1287
00:59:16,840 --> 00:59:18,320
Speaker 2: know what I'm saying. But I do think it's like

1288
00:59:18,400 --> 00:59:21,520
Speaker 2: when you have a different gender for your child. That's

1289
00:59:21,560 --> 00:59:25,160
Speaker 2: when things can get a little stick a little sticky sticky. Yeah,

1290
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:26,960
Speaker 2: because I've never seen my daddy naked.

1291
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, that's only vain, I see it was my mom,

1292
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:31,600
Speaker 4: that's the only Yeah.

1293
00:59:33,440 --> 00:59:36,040
Speaker 3: Any of my sisters just maybe like busting in the bathroom,

1294
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:37,640
Speaker 3: they're not that context.

1295
00:59:37,760 --> 00:59:37,920
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1296
00:59:37,960 --> 00:59:43,680
Speaker 3: But outside of that, do you want kids? I'm a

1297
00:59:43,800 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 3: god dad. I have two beautiful nieces and Lisa, But no,

1298
00:59:50,240 --> 00:59:56,240
Speaker 3: I was like, kids is a lot. They're beautiful, they're adorable.

1299
00:59:56,560 --> 00:59:59,600
Speaker 3: But I never have baby fever ever in my life.

1300
01:00:00,000 --> 01:00:03,880
Speaker 3: I've never went through a phase of being like, oh

1301
01:00:03,960 --> 01:00:09,280
Speaker 3: I want kids. Yeah, I love my freedom. Y. I

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Speaker 3: love to be able to move and do what I want.

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Speaker 3: Not to say that mothers who have kids don't have freedom,

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Speaker 3: because you get to a certain point of your life

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Speaker 3: where you still live in your best life. You got

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Speaker 3: your kids to exactly the age they need to be

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Speaker 3: with where they able to do for theirself and move

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Speaker 3: and operate and feed themselfs Now, my girls be back

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01:00:25,600 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 3: outside because I've seen it have to over and over

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Speaker 3: and over again. But as far as me, I don't

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Speaker 3: desire your children ever.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, I feel like kids for me has always

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Speaker 2: been a thing, like I do want children, but I

1314
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Speaker 2: want to make sure. I know people say, no matter

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Speaker 2: how much money you make, you will never be prepared

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Speaker 2: for a child or whatever. But I just have to

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Speaker 2: get to a point in life where I can afford

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Speaker 2: a nanny. I do, like I know because I love working,

1319
01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:57,840
Speaker 2: like I love just having a job and being busy,

1320
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:00,840
Speaker 2: and I know, like I see like the single moms

1321
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Speaker 2: out there, and I'm not preparing to be a single

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Speaker 2: mother at all. But when I do decide to have

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Speaker 2: a child, I know whoever I'm married, he's gonna be

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Speaker 2: a busy person and I'm gonna be a busy person

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Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna be just staying at home and

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Speaker 2: I'm not giving up my dream to stay at home

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Speaker 2: with a child. So I know I am gonna need

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Speaker 2: that help, whether it's a family member that I have

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Speaker 2: moved in with me, but I'm gonna need to be

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Speaker 2: in a position to where I have I have some help.

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Speaker 3: And you saying, because I'm pretty sure you can afford

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Speaker 3: a nanny now, but you're talking about like a full

1333
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Speaker 3: they're getting a six figure paycheck can afford.

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Speaker 2: And I need to be in a house because I

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Speaker 2: wouldn't mind having like a living nanny something like that,

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01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,880
Speaker 2: like cause you know, we be torn. You know, some

1337
01:01:42,080 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 2: days it's like it's just a lot. So I feel

1338
01:01:45,240 --> 01:01:47,960
Speaker 2: like that's what motherhood looks like to me, Like I'm

1339
01:01:48,000 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 2: gonna be an amazing mother, yes, but I'm gonna need

1340
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 2: some help because my say and daddy gonna be busy.

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Speaker 1: Yes, but I be saying the same thing, like I

1342
01:01:56,800 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: definitely need a nanny. And then my mom he's retired,

1343
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:02,520
Speaker 1: so girl, come home out come living in this house

1344
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Speaker 1: with us, and you know, ready.

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Speaker 3: They're gonna give it all everything to come and do that.

1346
01:02:10,760 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 3: That's their dream, their desires.

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Speaker 2: She can't wait.

1348
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Speaker 4: But you got you a good mama and a good relationship.

1349
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Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, she gonna want to come. Oh for sure.

1350
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Speaker 2: She already be putting it in my ears. Child, I

1351
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 2: already know.

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Speaker 1: But I do think I'm still going to have a

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Speaker 1: ninny as well, because like Leck said, we do travel

1354
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Speaker 1: and stuff, like with touring and stuff, and my mom

1355
01:02:32,800 --> 01:02:34,800
Speaker 1: is like older, so I just wouldn't want her having

1356
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Speaker 1: to travel all the time.

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Speaker 2: I love when we have guests who are yappers.

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Speaker 4: Oh I'm a yeah, I live the.

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Speaker 2: I'm having a ball. Let's get it to this bed.

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Speaker 1: Okay, talk about dirty talk dudes and dons, because again,

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01:05:17,240 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 1: you know, we did our little research and you are

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01:05:21,800 --> 01:05:27,400
Speaker 1: sillyby well, abstiny. I feel about because you have yes,

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Speaker 1: but you're abstiny. You're not having six right now. No,

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01:05:30,680 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 1: so how did you make that decision?

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Speaker 3: I'm just when I tell you, on this course of

1416
01:05:34,960 --> 01:05:37,440
Speaker 3: my life, I'm just so focused on what I'm doing now.

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01:05:37,840 --> 01:05:39,120
Speaker 2: It's just down there. Yeah.

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01:05:39,360 --> 01:05:42,400
Speaker 3: Sometimes but I just go ahead and it's it, and

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01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:45,640
Speaker 3: I just all about my business. But at this journey

1420
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:47,080
Speaker 3: where I'm at in my life right now, I gotta

1421
01:05:47,120 --> 01:05:50,080
Speaker 3: be focused. Nobody's entering my body. That's not even up

1422
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 3: for debate, and I'm not allowing. I'm even at a

1423
01:05:52,760 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 3: place in my life because I like trade. Trade is

1424
01:05:54,720 --> 01:05:57,600
Speaker 3: like I wouldn'tssary say hood dudes, but they.

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01:05:57,480 --> 01:05:59,680
Speaker 2: Would be more on this, like you can't like you

1426
01:05:59,720 --> 01:06:00,360
Speaker 2: would think.

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01:06:01,920 --> 01:06:02,120
Speaker 4: Yes.

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01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,040
Speaker 3: And I'm even at a place in my life. Trey

1429
01:06:04,080 --> 01:06:06,960
Speaker 3: can't even come to my house because I'm so focused

1430
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:10,200
Speaker 3: on this journey. I'm so close that everything that it

1431
01:06:10,320 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 3: is that I desire to want and have been desiring

1432
01:06:13,440 --> 01:06:17,080
Speaker 3: for for years, and so I have to be real

1433
01:06:17,240 --> 01:06:20,320
Speaker 3: particular about who I'm letting in my house, around me

1434
01:06:20,520 --> 01:06:23,280
Speaker 3: and my body. So while I've been on this journey,

1435
01:06:23,400 --> 01:06:25,760
Speaker 3: I've been celebrating even when I be that's my too.

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01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:29,080
Speaker 3: I like to just oh, I can't say that because

1437
01:06:29,120 --> 01:06:32,040
Speaker 3: I was about to say, oh, I can't say that

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01:06:32,160 --> 01:06:33,200
Speaker 3: one bless oh.

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Speaker 2: Bless, that's all.

1440
01:06:33,840 --> 01:06:35,560
Speaker 3: I gotta work over that, because it'll be about to

1441
01:06:35,600 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 3: slip out, O me afraid. So that's why I like,

1442
01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:44,880
Speaker 3: oh shit, oh bless that one on a slipped out.

1443
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 3: That's why I like to meet my people in the clubs.

1444
01:06:49,760 --> 01:06:54,000
Speaker 3: I'll just say that because I be wanting to meet

1445
01:06:54,040 --> 01:06:55,520
Speaker 3: people who don't know who the hell I am, so

1446
01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:57,840
Speaker 3: I could get in and get out. I'm at a

1447
01:06:57,880 --> 01:07:01,960
Speaker 3: place in my life I couldn't see how sometimes when

1448
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:05,600
Speaker 3: you reach the level of superstardom, that you may stay

1449
01:07:05,680 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 3: with a person even though a person is doing you

1450
01:07:07,560 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 3: wrong because you're comfortable and dem you already know their motives.

1451
01:07:13,000 --> 01:07:14,920
Speaker 3: I think what I'm learning now is a lot of

1452
01:07:15,000 --> 01:07:17,680
Speaker 3: dudes I've been in contact with comes with like motives.

1453
01:07:17,760 --> 01:07:20,320
Speaker 3: I hate now when people know who I am, it

1454
01:07:20,480 --> 01:07:23,520
Speaker 3: curns me off because I'm like, oh god, okay, so

1455
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:24,120
Speaker 3: it's some motive.

1456
01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:25,000
Speaker 2: That's what it is.

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Speaker 4: When you come up and say, you know me, it's

1458
01:07:27,240 --> 01:07:28,200
Speaker 4: some older don't want it.

1459
01:07:28,280 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 3: It's that bad now because I just feel like it's

1460
01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:32,080
Speaker 3: the arterior motive behind what it is that you want

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Speaker 3: out of me.

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Speaker 4: But y'all, I been celibate five years. But the celibate

1463
01:07:36,960 --> 01:07:38,560
Speaker 4: the celibate to y'all mean no sucking.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,200
Speaker 1: When I think of celibacy or when I think of

1466
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Speaker 1: being abstinate, I think of like no type of sexual interest.

1467
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Speaker 3: Saying you gotta be sucking at masturbating.

1468
01:07:54,000 --> 01:07:56,080
Speaker 2: A masturbating is okay, I will.

1469
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Speaker 4: Stay with this shrimp.

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01:07:57,440 --> 01:08:01,440
Speaker 3: One thing about it, play with.

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01:08:01,520 --> 01:08:07,640
Speaker 2: The shrimp is crazy, he said. I don't know if

1472
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:16,080
Speaker 2: I could stop all that. I feel like it needs

1473
01:08:16,120 --> 01:08:19,320
Speaker 2: to be like, you're not doing anything sexual with another person.

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01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:21,519
Speaker 3: I know my little thing, be like stop scratching me.

1475
01:08:22,479 --> 01:08:25,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry anything done to you, but you was just

1476
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:26,600
Speaker 2: doing stuff to.

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Speaker 3: I'm not interested in that. Like if a god said

1478
01:08:31,800 --> 01:08:33,320
Speaker 3: he want to go down on me, I'm not interested.

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01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:39,120
Speaker 2: No, you don't like him no girl. I'm a light

1480
01:08:41,479 --> 01:08:43,000
Speaker 2: light but I like a little.

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01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:51,080
Speaker 3: Talk to a dude and he not interested.

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01:08:52,960 --> 01:08:54,439
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm the girl.

1483
01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:57,920
Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I don't like it if a boy.

1484
01:08:57,800 --> 01:09:00,000
Speaker 3: If a boy wanted to get in, I'm not interested.

1485
01:09:00,439 --> 01:09:05,560
Speaker 2: Okay, And that's why you like, that's why you like, depending.

1486
01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:05,680
Speaker 4: On who it is.

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01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:09,400
Speaker 3: But it's some trade out there who don't. And I'm

1488
01:09:09,439 --> 01:09:13,240
Speaker 3: the ones I like. Like I say, predominantly, I like those.

1489
01:09:14,000 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 3: Those are the ones I like predominantly. Now, I'm not

1490
01:09:16,840 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 3: saying I've never encountered one that like to do linking too,

1491
01:09:20,160 --> 01:09:23,360
Speaker 3: But if I could choose, I don't want my licking.

1492
01:09:24,040 --> 01:09:26,400
Speaker 3: I'm just not into that because then you're going to

1493
01:09:26,479 --> 01:09:27,240
Speaker 3: desire to lick on me.

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01:09:27,320 --> 01:09:28,000
Speaker 4: I'm not into that.

1495
01:09:28,200 --> 01:09:34,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so but let me ask you what started

1496
01:09:34,160 --> 01:09:37,040
Speaker 2: the sell? Was it like a bad relationship or somebody

1497
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 2: hurt you that made you decide to be in.

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01:09:39,800 --> 01:09:42,960
Speaker 3: A relationship In my life okay, three years old, I

1499
01:09:42,960 --> 01:09:44,639
Speaker 3: have never been in a relationship in my life. I've

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01:09:44,640 --> 01:09:47,560
Speaker 3: had little friends, but nothing serious. Like me and you

1501
01:09:47,800 --> 01:09:52,280
Speaker 3: we together, we like now, I've never ever, Wow, I

1502
01:09:52,520 --> 01:09:56,519
Speaker 3: just reached a certain point of just I think I

1503
01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:58,360
Speaker 3: think that I've been I know this may sound crazy

1504
01:09:58,400 --> 01:09:59,960
Speaker 3: to some people, but I think I've been scarred through

1505
01:10:00,000 --> 01:10:03,519
Speaker 3: a lot of other people experiences and seeing a lot

1506
01:10:03,640 --> 01:10:05,720
Speaker 3: of my female friends get hurt and a lot of

1507
01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:10,639
Speaker 3: my gay male friends get hurt worn. That's why I'm

1508
01:10:10,640 --> 01:10:12,960
Speaker 3: even at a place in my life I want no relationship.

1509
01:10:13,840 --> 01:10:16,000
Speaker 3: Where I'm at in my life none. I don't want

1510
01:10:16,160 --> 01:10:19,360
Speaker 3: no relationship. I want to tap and go because I've

1511
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:23,720
Speaker 3: seen so many relationships and I've seen so many men

1512
01:10:24,320 --> 01:10:27,160
Speaker 3: come into good girls' lives that have so much shit

1513
01:10:27,280 --> 01:10:33,400
Speaker 3: going on. And and when I say it happens every

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01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:36,160
Speaker 3: child I've only seen and I have to be real.

1515
01:10:37,320 --> 01:10:39,120
Speaker 3: And as a gay black man, I've seen my friend

1516
01:10:39,200 --> 01:10:42,919
Speaker 3: flex successful in his relationship. Yes they have issues and problems,

1517
01:10:43,840 --> 01:10:46,360
Speaker 3: but they still have a camaraderie, they still have a relationship.

1518
01:10:46,560 --> 01:10:50,439
Speaker 3: They're going five years strong. That's very weird. In our community.

1519
01:10:50,720 --> 01:10:52,639
Speaker 3: We don't see a lot of relationships that stay down.

1520
01:10:52,800 --> 01:10:54,960
Speaker 3: But they have a different dynamic of a relationship. They're

1521
01:10:55,320 --> 01:10:58,280
Speaker 3: very open and raw with each other. But for me,

1522
01:10:58,600 --> 01:11:01,360
Speaker 3: I've seen guys come into girls lives.

1523
01:11:01,240 --> 01:11:03,720
Speaker 4: And throwing them their life up.

1524
01:11:04,479 --> 01:11:07,800
Speaker 3: And she was right there and getting her degree. It's

1525
01:11:07,880 --> 01:11:10,240
Speaker 3: one of my friends. I think that will hurt me

1526
01:11:10,320 --> 01:11:12,240
Speaker 3: until I'm like eighty and you know eighty and movies

1527
01:11:12,240 --> 01:11:15,000
Speaker 3: they looking back on their life. Yeah, she was supposed

1528
01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:19,000
Speaker 3: to be a doctor. She stopped God and he knew

1529
01:11:19,240 --> 01:11:21,960
Speaker 3: what the fuck he was doing. He knew what he

1530
01:11:22,200 --> 01:11:24,559
Speaker 3: was doing, and she allowed him to get in her

1531
01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:28,000
Speaker 3: fucking mind and fuck her up from getting her doctor's degree.

1532
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:32,760
Speaker 2: I always use this as an example because depending on

1533
01:11:32,880 --> 01:11:36,519
Speaker 2: the man you choose can really affect the trajectory of

1534
01:11:36,600 --> 01:11:40,120
Speaker 2: your life. Wendy Williams, I truly believe that that man

1535
01:11:40,200 --> 01:11:43,240
Speaker 2: that she married. Everybody said it was the downfall of her,

1536
01:11:43,360 --> 01:11:46,000
Speaker 2: and I'm a Wendy Williams staying love her now. But

1537
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:48,040
Speaker 2: a lot of times when you look at these women

1538
01:11:48,120 --> 01:11:50,640
Speaker 2: and the man that they involved their selves with, like,

1539
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,920
Speaker 2: for example, it's so it's somebody else. I feel like

1540
01:11:54,800 --> 01:11:57,080
Speaker 2: Mary had did an interview the other day with Drew Barrymore.

1541
01:11:57,120 --> 01:11:59,599
Speaker 2: I see that and she was saying, like everybody always

1542
01:11:59,600 --> 01:12:01,679
Speaker 2: be like, oh, what's wrong with Halle and what's wrong

1543
01:12:01,760 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 2: with her? And She's like, why something gotta be wrong

1544
01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 2: with me? And it was so many men in the

1545
01:12:05,920 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 2: comments like, oh, Halle, I don't care how fine, you

1546
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 2: are you sixty and single? Something is wrong with you?

1547
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:10,720
Speaker 3: Something?

1548
01:12:10,840 --> 01:12:13,320
Speaker 2: I mean, it was so many comments, just being so nasty.

1549
01:12:13,760 --> 01:12:17,320
Speaker 2: But I need to say something to the straight men

1550
01:12:17,439 --> 01:12:20,600
Speaker 2: who date women and watch this. I need y'all to

1551
01:12:20,840 --> 01:12:25,760
Speaker 2: understand that some women truly believe it is better to

1552
01:12:25,960 --> 01:12:26,679
Speaker 2: be single.

1553
01:12:27,000 --> 01:12:27,040
Speaker 4: Me.

1554
01:12:28,160 --> 01:12:31,320
Speaker 2: It is better to be single than struggling with me.

1555
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:35,040
Speaker 2: Y'all ask me, because sometimes when I look at the

1556
01:12:35,080 --> 01:12:39,000
Speaker 2: women like a like a Taraji or not a sonarilate

1557
01:12:39,080 --> 01:12:43,479
Speaker 2: than or or Dane, what's Tracy Ellis Ross, I'm like,

1558
01:12:44,160 --> 01:12:47,040
Speaker 2: they look like they having a great time. They like,

1559
01:12:47,120 --> 01:12:50,240
Speaker 2: what's wrong with them? Nothing is wrong with something. If

1560
01:12:50,320 --> 01:12:53,240
Speaker 2: you're blessed enough to find a great man that loves you,

1561
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:57,120
Speaker 2: who honors you, who is loyal, y'all have a partnership,

1562
01:12:57,120 --> 01:13:01,200
Speaker 2: and y'all are really building something that is amazing. Yeah,

1563
01:13:01,240 --> 01:13:03,439
Speaker 2: but when I tell you, it is very rare to

1564
01:13:03,680 --> 01:13:06,320
Speaker 2: find that connection. And it is a blessing literally from

1565
01:13:06,360 --> 01:13:10,800
Speaker 2: God hisself. That's not on everybody's card. People are not

1566
01:13:10,920 --> 01:13:11,439
Speaker 2: led by God.

1567
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:14,439
Speaker 4: Is let by Yes, people don't be letting God lead them.

1568
01:13:14,680 --> 01:13:17,519
Speaker 3: They be thinking that that's a God led situation, is not.

1569
01:13:18,120 --> 01:13:19,759
Speaker 3: Its like a lot of people say they have words

1570
01:13:19,760 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 3: from God, and they down't. It's their own thoughts and

1571
01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:24,560
Speaker 3: their own bullshit that they feed they stuff.

1572
01:13:24,280 --> 01:13:24,720
Speaker 4: In their head.

1573
01:13:24,920 --> 01:13:27,640
Speaker 3: People be leaded by LUs. You sit here and you

1574
01:13:27,760 --> 01:13:30,240
Speaker 3: think that it's a love at first sight, that's bullshit.

1575
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,800
Speaker 3: It's not not saying that it can't be, because it can,

1576
01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:35,560
Speaker 3: because I know it's gonna be stories out there people say, no,

1577
01:13:35,680 --> 01:13:37,360
Speaker 3: I found love at first sight, and I get that,

1578
01:13:37,840 --> 01:13:40,760
Speaker 3: but ninety percent of the time it's lost. And when

1579
01:13:40,840 --> 01:13:43,240
Speaker 3: you go through real shit, because I'm a believer in that,

1580
01:13:43,360 --> 01:13:45,320
Speaker 3: that's how we all know it's love or not. When

1581
01:13:45,520 --> 01:13:49,000
Speaker 3: real shit starts to happen. Even with friendships, yep, I

1582
01:13:49,160 --> 01:13:51,720
Speaker 3: seen it. My friend was hanging out with a group

1583
01:13:51,760 --> 01:13:53,479
Speaker 3: of friends and he went to go do time and

1584
01:13:53,600 --> 01:13:55,840
Speaker 3: he heard from none of them one and the one

1585
01:13:55,920 --> 01:13:59,240
Speaker 3: with me. So when shit get real with people, you

1586
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:04,759
Speaker 3: can say all that, yeah, that's like and when shit.

1587
01:14:04,720 --> 01:14:07,519
Speaker 2: Get real, I feel like it's a mixture though.

1588
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:10,000
Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes he's led by lust and then

1589
01:14:10,080 --> 01:14:15,040
Speaker 1: sometimes people be led by loneliness. Because yeah, because she

1590
01:14:15,160 --> 01:14:17,439
Speaker 1: said that in the interview too, she was just like,

1591
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:19,960
Speaker 1: it's nothing wrong with me. I'm just not staying with

1592
01:14:20,080 --> 01:14:22,080
Speaker 1: a man who I know is not the right one.

1593
01:14:22,479 --> 01:14:24,560
Speaker 1: But then I actually left the comedy on there what

1594
01:14:24,720 --> 01:14:28,479
Speaker 1: you saying? I leave it coming Sometimes you gotta catch you.

1595
01:14:29,360 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 1: But I was just like, yeah, I was like, it's

1596
01:14:32,000 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 1: a lot of women. I was like, it's nothing wrong

1597
01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:36,120
Speaker 1: with that, but it actually is. It's a lot of

1598
01:14:36,200 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 1: women who stay in situations because they don't want to

1599
01:14:38,880 --> 01:14:40,960
Speaker 1: be single, Like they cool with having the wrong men

1600
01:14:41,200 --> 01:14:43,439
Speaker 1: because they feel like that's better than not having no men.

1601
01:14:44,120 --> 01:14:46,160
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, yeah, when Betty Wright say it

1602
01:14:46,240 --> 01:14:49,080
Speaker 1: that I skipped that part of the girl having a

1603
01:14:49,120 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 1: piece of a man is not better then having no men.

1604
01:14:52,720 --> 01:14:59,200
Speaker 3: That because that's what it is, Because no, absolutely not. Yeah,

1605
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:05,200
Speaker 3: so many people that are literally settling because they don't

1606
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:07,880
Speaker 3: want to be along. Yeah, And then you look at me,

1607
01:15:08,640 --> 01:15:10,920
Speaker 3: you look at me, and then when I say that,

1608
01:15:11,080 --> 01:15:14,080
Speaker 3: people think that I'm tripping something wrong, exagerating, or it's

1609
01:15:14,080 --> 01:15:16,840
Speaker 3: something wrong with me, and it's not. Yeah, it's I

1610
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:18,960
Speaker 3: am just at a journey in my life where I.

1611
01:15:19,160 --> 01:15:21,320
Speaker 2: Know what I want and I don't believe it's struggle

1612
01:15:21,400 --> 01:15:23,680
Speaker 2: love either. Believe that you you gotta go through things

1613
01:15:23,720 --> 01:15:25,320
Speaker 2: in a relationship, but it shouldn't be to the point

1614
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:27,920
Speaker 2: to where I'm depressed, I'm losing weight, I'm unhappy, I'm

1615
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:31,120
Speaker 2: crying every day. It shouldn't be that much of a struggle.

1616
01:15:31,120 --> 01:15:32,920
Speaker 2: I don't believe in that. I feel like, if you

1617
01:15:33,000 --> 01:15:36,160
Speaker 2: have two people who love each other, who are, you know,

1618
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:39,000
Speaker 2: sure where they're at in life, they are healed. Yeah,

1619
01:15:39,040 --> 01:15:41,200
Speaker 2: we can come together and make something great and they

1620
01:15:41,240 --> 01:15:44,439
Speaker 2: ain't gotta be no struggle all because it's a struggle.

1621
01:15:44,520 --> 01:15:48,320
Speaker 1: I feel like that's not necessarily struggle. That's incompatibility exactly,

1622
01:15:48,439 --> 01:15:49,400
Speaker 1: y'all not competitive.

1623
01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:49,920
Speaker 2: Exactly.

1624
01:15:50,160 --> 01:15:52,479
Speaker 1: If you and a person is always at each other

1625
01:15:52,640 --> 01:15:56,240
Speaker 1: nick ninety percent of the time, y'all just not compatible.

1626
01:15:56,400 --> 01:15:57,280
Speaker 2: It's not struggle.

1627
01:15:58,360 --> 01:16:00,200
Speaker 1: But people do be trying to convince they so we

1628
01:16:00,360 --> 01:16:02,200
Speaker 1: just going through a rough patch, y'all been like this

1629
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:03,400
Speaker 1: for the past year.

1630
01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:06,519
Speaker 2: Hey, but you know what's crazy on the other end

1631
01:16:06,560 --> 01:16:08,160
Speaker 2: of it. I always say that, do y'all remember when

1632
01:16:08,400 --> 01:16:11,519
Speaker 2: Michelle Obama that interview said her and Barack were in

1633
01:16:11,560 --> 01:16:14,719
Speaker 2: a rough patch for eight She did, but they were married.

1634
01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:18,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, But I think I hear the marriage is what

1635
01:16:18,720 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: you deal with in a marriage and what you're willing

1636
01:16:20,840 --> 01:16:22,280
Speaker 1: to try to work through with your partner.

1637
01:16:22,360 --> 01:16:22,960
Speaker 2: In a marriage.

1638
01:16:23,240 --> 01:16:24,639
Speaker 5: To me, that's completely different from.

1639
01:16:24,560 --> 01:16:29,519
Speaker 1: Boyfriend girlfriend boyfriend boyfriend girlfriend girlfriend. It's completely different because

1640
01:16:29,520 --> 01:16:32,439
Speaker 1: you made a vow to this person you know and

1641
01:16:32,560 --> 01:16:35,320
Speaker 1: if you truly do know them and you know the

1642
01:16:35,439 --> 01:16:37,640
Speaker 1: potential of your relationship or you know what it was,

1643
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:40,400
Speaker 1: and that y'all truly are just going through a trying time.

1644
01:16:40,800 --> 01:16:42,680
Speaker 1: It's okay to stay there and work through that with

1645
01:16:42,800 --> 01:16:45,360
Speaker 1: your partner. But if you are in a relationship with

1646
01:16:45,479 --> 01:16:48,640
Speaker 1: somebody and majority of the relationship has been bad and

1647
01:16:48,880 --> 01:16:51,160
Speaker 1: the smaller part of the relationship has been good, you

1648
01:16:51,320 --> 01:16:52,000
Speaker 1: just need to leave that.

1649
01:16:52,080 --> 01:16:56,479
Speaker 2: And also your is not Barack at all. So that's

1650
01:16:56,520 --> 01:16:56,920
Speaker 2: a good.

1651
01:17:02,200 --> 01:17:04,320
Speaker 3: Thirty one years. And they tell me, if you've ever

1652
01:17:04,400 --> 01:17:06,840
Speaker 3: been in a long term marriage, if you always say

1653
01:17:06,920 --> 01:17:09,479
Speaker 3: that you've always been in love, it's a lot not

1654
01:17:09,640 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 3: true because you go through different hurdles and different points

1655
01:17:12,280 --> 01:17:14,400
Speaker 3: in your relationships. Sometimes you got to create love again.

1656
01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:17,280
Speaker 3: Sometimes you got to create those times. And my parents

1657
01:17:17,360 --> 01:17:19,280
Speaker 3: been together thirty one years and I've seen a lot

1658
01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:22,000
Speaker 3: of amazing moments with them, but I've seen times where

1659
01:17:22,000 --> 01:17:24,800
Speaker 3: they wantn't getting along. I've seen times of walking by

1660
01:17:24,840 --> 01:17:25,839
Speaker 3: each other in the house because.

1661
01:17:25,640 --> 01:17:26,680
Speaker 4: That relationship be a lot.

1662
01:17:26,760 --> 01:17:31,560
Speaker 3: So yes, it's so beautiful, it's so amazing, it's so

1663
01:17:31,720 --> 01:17:35,720
Speaker 3: a gope, it's so cute, but it be real times too,

1664
01:17:36,080 --> 01:17:38,759
Speaker 3: and people who have been in relationships they can attest

1665
01:17:38,760 --> 01:17:39,720
Speaker 3: to that it's a lot of.

1666
01:17:39,800 --> 01:17:41,960
Speaker 1: Work because you gotta be willing to put that work in.

1667
01:17:42,200 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 1: And that's why I think sometimes some women like calle

1668
01:17:44,920 --> 01:17:47,080
Speaker 1: Berry be like you not what. I'm actually cool on

1669
01:17:47,200 --> 01:17:49,040
Speaker 1: these because I feel like I can find something else

1670
01:17:49,080 --> 01:17:50,840
Speaker 1: where I don't have to put up with all of

1671
01:17:50,920 --> 01:17:54,120
Speaker 1: these struggle of and all of these dramas to stay

1672
01:17:54,200 --> 01:17:56,760
Speaker 1: in a healthy relationship or be in a healthy relationship.

1673
01:17:57,200 --> 01:17:59,000
Speaker 3: That is so true, and that's why for me too.

1674
01:17:59,280 --> 01:18:01,640
Speaker 3: I love my Flo, I love my j Los, I

1675
01:18:01,720 --> 01:18:02,519
Speaker 3: love my Holly Bed.

1676
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:09,400
Speaker 2: I said, I love that about you because so just

1677
01:18:09,439 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 2: get another one.

1678
01:18:10,640 --> 01:18:12,320
Speaker 4: Get another and over and over again.

1679
01:18:15,439 --> 01:18:18,240
Speaker 3: When I tell you I love girls, so I think

1680
01:18:18,280 --> 01:18:21,479
Speaker 3: it's so bad because I be so buying and I

1681
01:18:21,720 --> 01:18:22,719
Speaker 3: love my girls.

1682
01:18:23,400 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 4: I don't know what I would do without women. So

1683
01:18:25,520 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 4: I live to see a girl, new one.

1684
01:18:29,360 --> 01:18:30,200
Speaker 2: I love girls.

1685
01:18:30,200 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 3: Who yeh another one because I got her friend. Her

1686
01:18:34,080 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 3: name is Alexis. Let me say somebody, alexis good girl, amazing,

1687
01:18:37,200 --> 01:18:40,280
Speaker 3: got her own business. She's a boss, so pretty. She'd

1688
01:18:40,320 --> 01:18:42,800
Speaker 3: be hurt and devastated, but she know how to move on.

1689
01:18:43,640 --> 01:18:48,160
Speaker 3: She go through, but she's not staying getting just dead mistreated.

1690
01:18:48,400 --> 01:18:50,800
Speaker 3: You know, some girls are literally with stating I'm talking

1691
01:18:50,800 --> 01:18:53,760
Speaker 3: about getting mistreated to the court. They don't speak up,

1692
01:18:53,840 --> 01:18:59,320
Speaker 3: they don't leave baby, and she's gonna be devastated. But

1693
01:18:59,400 --> 01:19:01,200
Speaker 3: in another two months, my girl be good.

1694
01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:02,280
Speaker 4: Outside.

1695
01:19:04,920 --> 01:19:06,640
Speaker 1: I'd be sad, but I'd be like, you know what,

1696
01:19:07,200 --> 01:19:10,519
Speaker 1: maybe it's reiny, it's time to exist that.

1697
01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:13,680
Speaker 3: I live for girls like that, especially when you and

1698
01:19:13,760 --> 01:19:16,479
Speaker 3: your like y'all in y'all prime people be thinking like,

1699
01:19:16,560 --> 01:19:18,519
Speaker 3: twenties is your prome. No, thirties is really your prom

1700
01:19:19,280 --> 01:19:21,479
Speaker 3: Twenties is yeah, you outside you having fun. I think

1701
01:19:21,520 --> 01:19:24,040
Speaker 3: twenties you're supposed to be making your mistakes, living in

1702
01:19:24,240 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 3: holess fun. Thirties is really your prime of creating who

1703
01:19:27,800 --> 01:19:30,560
Speaker 3: you're going to be in your forties. Yep, thirties is

1704
01:19:30,600 --> 01:19:32,720
Speaker 3: your prime. And I see so many girls in the

1705
01:19:32,920 --> 01:19:36,360
Speaker 3: thirties waste the good fucking years. I see it over

1706
01:19:36,960 --> 01:19:41,519
Speaker 3: and over again, not treated right, not respect and not

1707
01:19:41,720 --> 01:19:42,200
Speaker 3: support it.

1708
01:19:42,479 --> 01:19:44,280
Speaker 4: And then you wake up and you sixty years old,

1709
01:19:44,280 --> 01:19:45,839
Speaker 4: and be like, what the fuck.

1710
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:48,320
Speaker 2: Where did the time go? Because I'm not gonna lie me.

1711
01:19:48,640 --> 01:19:51,640
Speaker 2: At thirty five, I am making the most money I

1712
01:19:51,680 --> 01:19:54,759
Speaker 2: ever made. I'm the finest I've ever been, the most confident.

1713
01:19:54,800 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 2: I'm just so sure of myself, and I feel like

1714
01:19:57,520 --> 01:19:59,080
Speaker 2: where I'm at at this point in my life. Like

1715
01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 2: I said, yeah, it be hurt when you get your

1716
01:20:01,840 --> 01:20:03,960
Speaker 2: heart broke, but it's also like, I know what I

1717
01:20:04,080 --> 01:20:06,400
Speaker 2: have to offer, but I'm also surrounded by like and

1718
01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:09,560
Speaker 2: I have an amazing community, like between my family and

1719
01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 2: my friends. Like I be straight with a man or without.

1720
01:20:13,080 --> 01:20:14,960
Speaker 2: If a man leave me, the quality of my life

1721
01:20:15,000 --> 01:20:18,280
Speaker 2: does not change because I'm that girl, still gonna be

1722
01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:21,360
Speaker 2: in my high ride, still gonna be traveling, Still very

1723
01:20:21,439 --> 01:20:24,559
Speaker 2: much that girl. So I think that that just comes

1724
01:20:24,640 --> 01:20:27,400
Speaker 2: with time and maturity and knowing who you are, because

1725
01:20:27,439 --> 01:20:29,000
Speaker 2: I think a lot of times women are scared to

1726
01:20:29,120 --> 01:20:30,920
Speaker 2: be leave a relationship because they don't know who they

1727
01:20:30,960 --> 01:20:34,519
Speaker 2: are without this man. They have created their identity within

1728
01:20:34,680 --> 01:20:37,840
Speaker 2: that man. So it's kind of like, well, who am

1729
01:20:37,880 --> 01:20:38,519
Speaker 2: I without him?

1730
01:20:38,600 --> 01:20:38,800
Speaker 3: Baby?

1731
01:20:38,840 --> 01:20:39,439
Speaker 2: I'm everything?

1732
01:20:40,200 --> 01:20:42,160
Speaker 4: Ooh you, I gotta make a video to that.

1733
01:20:43,320 --> 01:20:52,080
Speaker 2: You ain't that that was a I'm that comes with like,

1734
01:20:52,200 --> 01:20:54,559
Speaker 2: like I said, time immaturity, because when I seen Halle

1735
01:20:54,640 --> 01:20:57,160
Speaker 2: Berry talking, I was like, Okay, I feel her. I

1736
01:20:57,240 --> 01:20:59,360
Speaker 2: feel for her. When I see her, I don't look

1737
01:20:59,439 --> 01:21:02,000
Speaker 2: I don't look at like, oh my god, she's sixty. Yeah,

1738
01:21:02,360 --> 01:21:04,839
Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, do what makes you happy.

1739
01:21:04,640 --> 01:21:08,599
Speaker 4: And do what works rich successful, and it ain't no time.

1740
01:21:08,720 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 5: Let me on getting married. If she want to get married,

1741
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:13,120
Speaker 5: she can get married a sixty five people.

1742
01:21:12,960 --> 01:21:13,760
Speaker 2: Do it all.

1743
01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:17,320
Speaker 3: You know how easy it is for get a man, right,

1744
01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:20,560
Speaker 3: she got a mean exactly what she's saying. Do you

1745
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:22,720
Speaker 3: not know how easy it would be for her to

1746
01:21:22,720 --> 01:21:24,960
Speaker 3: get a man, and a man that probably would genuinely

1747
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:28,120
Speaker 3: love her. She's just probably very calculated on how she moved.

1748
01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:30,360
Speaker 3: She could get a man in two point five seconds.

1749
01:21:30,840 --> 01:21:32,840
Speaker 3: The producers that were at the show that was filming

1750
01:21:32,880 --> 01:21:34,560
Speaker 3: that segment that day. She could have one to be

1751
01:21:34,640 --> 01:21:35,559
Speaker 3: her husband tomorrow.

1752
01:21:35,600 --> 01:21:37,320
Speaker 2: Tomorrow, she won't.

1753
01:21:39,640 --> 01:21:43,639
Speaker 4: Number you feel the essence of you is beautiful. You've

1754
01:21:43,720 --> 01:21:47,120
Speaker 4: rich successful, So it's just not that.

1755
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:50,080
Speaker 1: And I hate when men say that stuff too, like

1756
01:21:50,200 --> 01:21:52,040
Speaker 1: try to make it seem like something is wrong with

1757
01:21:52,120 --> 01:21:55,400
Speaker 1: the woman. Because niggas is literally the easiest thing to get.

1758
01:21:55,680 --> 01:21:58,400
Speaker 1: It's not hard to get. It's not hard to get

1759
01:21:58,400 --> 01:22:02,439
Speaker 1: a nigga if somebody and believe it ain't because it's

1760
01:22:02,479 --> 01:22:03,479
Speaker 1: hard for her to get one.

1761
01:22:05,040 --> 01:22:08,400
Speaker 2: So it's so easy. Like even if you got your

1762
01:22:08,560 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 2: own nigga, when your nigga be mad at you, it's

1763
01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:14,360
Speaker 2: so easy to get your bed not mad if you

1764
01:22:14,439 --> 01:22:16,360
Speaker 2: are to get your man back or whatever the came.

1765
01:22:16,439 --> 01:22:19,400
Speaker 2: Men are just easy, Dan, they are, they are.

1766
01:22:19,600 --> 01:22:23,160
Speaker 3: It's so easy, especially when you look good lip gloss

1767
01:22:23,240 --> 01:22:26,559
Speaker 3: had done. It looked like gloss pop and get fifteen

1768
01:22:26,640 --> 01:22:28,200
Speaker 3: numbers and I'm fifteen men.

1769
01:22:28,360 --> 01:22:30,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, the quality is probably two good ones. But it's

1770
01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:32,799
Speaker 4: so that is easy.

1771
01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:35,240
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. Like if women are single, it

1772
01:22:35,360 --> 01:22:37,800
Speaker 1: is not because they can't get a mean people got

1773
01:22:37,920 --> 01:22:40,479
Speaker 1: to stop projecting it. Huh, y'all, we ain't even talking

1774
01:22:40,479 --> 01:22:41,320
Speaker 1: about the big topic.

1775
01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:42,160
Speaker 4: It was dirty.

1776
01:22:42,360 --> 01:22:43,320
Speaker 2: It was dirty talk.

1777
01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:48,000
Speaker 1: Oh oh oh, we did it because I was gonna say,

1778
01:22:48,240 --> 01:22:51,160
Speaker 1: with you being celebate, do you do like phone city

1779
01:22:51,680 --> 01:22:53,080
Speaker 1: dirty baby?

1780
01:22:53,400 --> 01:22:57,200
Speaker 4: Okay, weird because I can see that I had a

1781
01:22:57,280 --> 01:22:58,439
Speaker 4: man and were doing phones that.

1782
01:22:58,520 --> 01:22:59,160
Speaker 3: Then it's not weird.

1783
01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:00,960
Speaker 2: But like what a little like the face time you

1784
01:23:01,040 --> 01:23:04,400
Speaker 2: know you're playing with yourself. No, you don't be starting

1785
01:23:04,439 --> 01:23:05,479
Speaker 2: the shrimp to a lof star.

1786
01:23:07,040 --> 01:23:07,880
Speaker 4: You gotta come see that.

1787
01:23:09,720 --> 01:23:10,240
Speaker 2: In person.

1788
01:23:11,040 --> 01:23:12,719
Speaker 4: You gotta come see that seaple boy.

1789
01:23:12,640 --> 01:23:13,320
Speaker 2: Your birth.

1790
01:23:15,680 --> 01:23:17,880
Speaker 4: Excuse me, Juicy Crawd.

1791
01:23:17,760 --> 01:23:19,360
Speaker 3: You don't get to see that on the face time.

1792
01:23:19,439 --> 01:23:22,360
Speaker 3: You won't record me, I said, I think when I

1793
01:23:22,439 --> 01:23:25,240
Speaker 3: got in my car accident, I said, ooh, bitch, you famous,

1794
01:23:25,640 --> 01:23:28,600
Speaker 3: because I like, I'll just be operating like myself. So

1795
01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:31,040
Speaker 3: when I get on my phone that day I seen

1796
01:23:31,160 --> 01:23:34,920
Speaker 3: the shave room poster, I said it literally, y'all gaged

1797
01:23:34,960 --> 01:23:36,920
Speaker 3: the funk out of you. Yeah.

1798
01:23:36,960 --> 01:23:37,559
Speaker 2: I don't know why.

1799
01:23:37,840 --> 01:23:40,840
Speaker 4: I said, yeah, yeah, bitch, you gotta watch how you

1800
01:23:40,960 --> 01:23:41,400
Speaker 4: moving there.

1801
01:23:41,479 --> 01:23:45,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, because now you gotta be careful. I'm not gonna lie.

1802
01:23:45,760 --> 01:23:49,240
Speaker 2: I really don't like send pictures and stuff like oh

1803
01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:51,600
Speaker 2: like I used to like, I feel like when I

1804
01:23:51,720 --> 01:23:54,200
Speaker 2: used to like start talking to a guy like I

1805
01:23:54,240 --> 01:23:56,759
Speaker 2: wouldn't care. I'm like, I'm fine. But because I always

1806
01:23:56,840 --> 01:23:58,720
Speaker 2: used to feel like, Okay, if my news lead, my

1807
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:01,600
Speaker 2: ship lives, so matter anyway. But now I just feel like,

1808
01:24:02,080 --> 01:24:03,760
Speaker 2: not that I would be horrified, but i'd be like

1809
01:24:04,000 --> 01:24:07,439
Speaker 2: I just don't want that to be y'all don't want yeah,

1810
01:24:07,680 --> 01:24:09,360
Speaker 2: like I just don't want that to be out there.

1811
01:24:09,439 --> 01:24:11,760
Speaker 2: So I get it. I get But that's why you

1812
01:24:11,800 --> 01:24:14,320
Speaker 2: gotta know that's okay. Yeah, but you gotta deal with

1813
01:24:14,439 --> 01:24:18,080
Speaker 2: men who have something to lose too. I think ninety

1814
01:24:18,320 --> 01:24:20,000
Speaker 2: percent of the time when we see men doing that

1815
01:24:20,120 --> 01:24:22,280
Speaker 2: revenge porn, they posting a woman's because they don't got

1816
01:24:22,280 --> 01:24:23,559
Speaker 2: shit to lose, and they be wanting the cloud.

1817
01:24:23,720 --> 01:24:25,759
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want the cloud because they be so rooted

1818
01:24:25,800 --> 01:24:26,400
Speaker 4: in that cloud.

1819
01:24:26,640 --> 01:24:30,320
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, child, do y'all be a long time ago

1820
01:24:30,479 --> 01:24:33,160
Speaker 2: when Black China was dating that guy and he was

1821
01:24:33,240 --> 01:24:36,439
Speaker 2: like taking pictures and robs rolled like.

1822
01:24:36,600 --> 01:24:39,679
Speaker 4: All in her house the internet. Remember that was yeah

1823
01:24:40,520 --> 01:24:41,280
Speaker 4: the interer.

1824
01:24:41,920 --> 01:24:45,280
Speaker 3: Now I remember all you've seen down your Twitter time

1825
01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:48,960
Speaker 3: I was Black China, remember, like it was her revenge for.

1826
01:24:50,720 --> 01:24:54,000
Speaker 2: I remember. It was just so crazy. But that's how

1827
01:24:54,040 --> 01:24:55,200
Speaker 2: it would be most of the time when you see

1828
01:24:55,240 --> 01:24:57,240
Speaker 2: because he was really fine. I remember him being really,

1829
01:24:57,280 --> 01:24:59,320
Speaker 2: really fun. But it was like most of the time

1830
01:24:59,360 --> 01:25:02,000
Speaker 2: when you see like a fine dude or something, they

1831
01:25:02,120 --> 01:25:05,000
Speaker 2: be chasing after us. Yeah, and they be wanting to

1832
01:25:05,600 --> 01:25:08,080
Speaker 2: big themselves off of us. Uh huh. So that's why

1833
01:25:08,120 --> 01:25:10,000
Speaker 2: I was like getting the man then, ain't faking or the.

1834
01:25:10,120 --> 01:25:11,760
Speaker 4: Dudes that chase you, chase you, chase you, chase, you,

1835
01:25:11,880 --> 01:25:12,760
Speaker 4: chase you chase, you chase you.

1836
01:25:12,800 --> 01:25:15,519
Speaker 3: Then when you get it, ass a chance your face

1837
01:25:16,000 --> 01:25:17,240
Speaker 3: and it's like you wanted me?

1838
01:25:17,960 --> 01:25:20,440
Speaker 2: Did you forget? They forgetting?

1839
01:25:20,520 --> 01:25:22,719
Speaker 5: They do be forgetting, they be having, they be thinking,

1840
01:25:22,760 --> 01:25:23,719
Speaker 5: they be good in the program.

1841
01:25:24,000 --> 01:25:25,559
Speaker 4: I'm seeing that happen so many times.

1842
01:25:25,680 --> 01:25:29,160
Speaker 3: Chased her damn bed Yeah trachnically, Then would she give

1843
01:25:29,200 --> 01:25:29,759
Speaker 3: you a chance?

1844
01:25:30,320 --> 01:25:32,800
Speaker 2: I had on the car chase me down for three

1845
01:25:33,160 --> 01:25:35,960
Speaker 2: years and I finally decided to and I was just

1846
01:25:36,080 --> 01:25:41,280
Speaker 2: like you, I will beat your ass. I will beat

1847
01:25:41,320 --> 01:25:45,639
Speaker 2: your motherfucking ass like you, is you serious?

1848
01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 6: Is you cool?

1849
01:25:47,040 --> 01:25:50,439
Speaker 2: Bra? When I think about that ship, I'll be like what, Yeah,

1850
01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:53,360
Speaker 2: he chased you for three years. I mean when I

1851
01:25:53,439 --> 01:25:55,439
Speaker 2: went back to our first DM, he had been to

1852
01:25:55,479 --> 01:25:57,160
Speaker 2: my dms for three years, and I was always just

1853
01:25:57,240 --> 01:25:59,559
Speaker 2: playing and like not you know, But.

1854
01:25:59,600 --> 01:26:02,240
Speaker 1: I always they say when you do it, be them niggas,

1855
01:26:02,280 --> 01:26:04,840
Speaker 1: that be they be having a vendetta against you, like

1856
01:26:04,960 --> 01:26:06,680
Speaker 1: if you carved them for a long time.

1857
01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:08,120
Speaker 2: Don't never deal with no nigga.

1858
01:26:09,680 --> 01:26:12,680
Speaker 1: Yes, I truly believe that, don't ever deal with a

1859
01:26:12,760 --> 01:26:14,559
Speaker 1: man who've been trying to holler at you and you've

1860
01:26:14,600 --> 01:26:17,240
Speaker 1: been carving him for years because he is going to

1861
01:26:17,320 --> 01:26:20,240
Speaker 1: make it his personal mission to her trophy.

1862
01:26:20,280 --> 01:26:23,080
Speaker 2: That's why I went ba my like my last relationship.

1863
01:26:23,320 --> 01:26:25,320
Speaker 2: I mean, I won't say last because it's kind of still,

1864
01:26:25,479 --> 01:26:28,080
Speaker 2: but I use my old school thing. You know, you

1865
01:26:28,160 --> 01:26:30,400
Speaker 2: go through and like they pictures and follow them and

1866
01:26:30,400 --> 01:26:32,360
Speaker 2: they be like, ooh, she fine, that's my new thing

1867
01:26:32,520 --> 01:26:34,559
Speaker 2: I like to do. That's how I pick them. That's

1868
01:26:34,600 --> 01:26:37,200
Speaker 2: how I'd rather do the choosing. Now I'm not doing

1869
01:26:37,280 --> 01:26:40,400
Speaker 2: somebody who trying to. So that's how it was my

1870
01:26:40,520 --> 01:26:45,479
Speaker 2: last picture. Oh. I followed him. I liked a few pictures,

1871
01:26:45,479 --> 01:26:48,760
Speaker 2: and then I posted a fine ass video on my

1872
01:26:48,920 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 2: story and he fell right into my truck. Go so

1873
01:26:53,280 --> 01:26:55,599
Speaker 2: may be easy. I was like, it was funny because

1874
01:26:55,600 --> 01:26:57,200
Speaker 2: I screenshoted his page and I said this to my

1875
01:26:57,240 --> 01:26:58,519
Speaker 2: best friend. I said, oh, I want him.

1876
01:26:58,600 --> 01:27:00,400
Speaker 4: Do y'all have an exit to give a you a

1877
01:27:01,040 --> 01:27:02,439
Speaker 4: no aflutely.

1878
01:27:03,200 --> 01:27:05,120
Speaker 5: If it's over, baby, it's over for a reason.

1879
01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:05,519
Speaker 3: Let it go.

1880
01:27:05,840 --> 01:27:08,240
Speaker 1: I used to do that, but now no, Like, when

1881
01:27:08,280 --> 01:27:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm done done, I'm really done with you, Like if

1882
01:27:11,000 --> 01:27:14,479
Speaker 1: we in limbo, then that's different. I am out really

1883
01:27:14,640 --> 01:27:17,000
Speaker 1: being done with somebody, like we broke up. I haven't

1884
01:27:17,040 --> 01:27:19,040
Speaker 1: talked to you for six months. I haven't talked to

1885
01:27:19,080 --> 01:27:19,639
Speaker 1: you for a year.

1886
01:27:19,880 --> 01:27:22,080
Speaker 2: No, it's because about.

1887
01:27:23,800 --> 01:27:27,960
Speaker 5: Yeah, And I think you just gotta always keep.

1888
01:27:27,800 --> 01:27:29,680
Speaker 2: In mind why did y'all break right?

1889
01:27:29,800 --> 01:27:31,439
Speaker 1: A lot of the time, I think that if people

1890
01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:33,920
Speaker 1: sit and they reflect on why it didn't work out

1891
01:27:34,000 --> 01:27:37,200
Speaker 1: the first time, then you realize it's not worth revisiting.

1892
01:27:37,840 --> 01:27:39,560
Speaker 2: And I think a man two and an X and

1893
01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:41,599
Speaker 2: then y'all broken up for a long time. Now, sometimes

1894
01:27:41,640 --> 01:27:43,559
Speaker 2: it does work out, but most of the time they

1895
01:27:43,640 --> 01:27:47,360
Speaker 2: coming just to waste time. Whatever situation that they were

1896
01:27:47,360 --> 01:27:50,040
Speaker 2: dealing with, y'all broke up didn't work out, so they're

1897
01:27:50,080 --> 01:27:52,240
Speaker 2: just coming back to something that they know that's comfortable

1898
01:27:52,320 --> 01:27:55,240
Speaker 2: until they find something else. They finish playing your face again,

1899
01:27:55,479 --> 01:27:58,400
Speaker 2: always always. I've learned that every time that I used

1900
01:27:58,400 --> 01:27:59,880
Speaker 2: to go back with my ex, it was just so

1901
01:28:00,040 --> 01:28:01,760
Speaker 2: he could play in my face again. It was it

1902
01:28:01,880 --> 01:28:04,160
Speaker 2: was comfortable. We didn't have to start from square one. Yeah,

1903
01:28:04,240 --> 01:28:06,120
Speaker 2: it wasn't the getting to know each other face. It

1904
01:28:06,200 --> 01:28:08,080
Speaker 2: was like we could just go in and we fucking already.

1905
01:28:08,120 --> 01:28:11,280
Speaker 2: We get to skip all the books. Yeah, so I

1906
01:28:11,439 --> 01:28:14,080
Speaker 2: just maybe just trying to get a shortcut, and it's

1907
01:28:14,160 --> 01:28:17,240
Speaker 2: something fun to do. There's something to do until the

1908
01:28:17,320 --> 01:28:19,840
Speaker 2: girl that they was messing with come back around or

1909
01:28:19,920 --> 01:28:21,760
Speaker 2: they find somebody that they really really want.

1910
01:28:22,000 --> 01:28:23,280
Speaker 5: How you feel about dating?

1911
01:28:24,080 --> 01:28:26,920
Speaker 3: No, I don't have an axe. Yeah, I don't have

1912
01:28:26,960 --> 01:28:29,080
Speaker 3: an ex. I have little fleas that have little relationships,

1913
01:28:29,120 --> 01:28:30,680
Speaker 3: but I don't have an ax like a real ex.

1914
01:28:30,760 --> 01:28:33,200
Speaker 3: Like I said, that's I don't play.

1915
01:28:33,479 --> 01:28:35,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you don't spend the block.

1916
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:38,960
Speaker 4: When I tell you I don't play, I have it bad. Yeah,

1917
01:28:39,040 --> 01:28:40,400
Speaker 4: you don't even talk to me too loud?

1918
01:28:40,439 --> 01:28:42,920
Speaker 2: You can leave? Yeah, yeah you can go out, baby,

1919
01:28:42,960 --> 01:28:43,200
Speaker 2: you can.

1920
01:28:43,680 --> 01:28:44,160
Speaker 4: Don't need it.

1921
01:28:44,520 --> 01:28:48,000
Speaker 3: I'm telling you, I really be at peace with myself

1922
01:28:48,120 --> 01:28:49,400
Speaker 3: and my life. Now.

1923
01:28:49,560 --> 01:28:51,400
Speaker 4: Do I want to be in love, Yes, of course.

1924
01:28:51,479 --> 01:28:54,240
Speaker 4: Do I want a relationship, yes, But right now in

1925
01:28:54,320 --> 01:28:55,080
Speaker 4: this season.

1926
01:28:54,880 --> 01:28:55,800
Speaker 3: I'm I be good.

1927
01:28:55,960 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1928
01:28:56,640 --> 01:29:00,400
Speaker 3: I I eat my own food, I chill, put my

1929
01:29:00,439 --> 01:29:01,840
Speaker 3: air conditioned on, cut my teet.

1930
01:29:01,840 --> 01:29:04,519
Speaker 4: I'll be good. When I want a nibble, I have

1931
01:29:04,640 --> 01:29:07,280
Speaker 4: a nibble. But I want you to leave.

1932
01:29:07,360 --> 01:29:07,600
Speaker 1: You be.

1933
01:29:09,160 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 2: Be peaceful, going to sleep, and you ain't got to

1934
01:29:10,800 --> 01:29:12,960
Speaker 2: worry about what a nigga doing. You ain't got a

1935
01:29:13,080 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 2: check in because it do.

1936
01:29:14,400 --> 01:29:21,040
Speaker 3: Be like that told me that. My sister just said that.

1937
01:29:21,360 --> 01:29:24,639
Speaker 3: She was like, that is one of the most peaceful things.

1938
01:29:25,320 --> 01:29:27,880
Speaker 4: You can move and do what you want. He's not all,

1939
01:29:28,040 --> 01:29:29,479
Speaker 4: while you got this long? Why are you going to?

1940
01:29:30,160 --> 01:29:30,800
Speaker 3: Where you going?

1941
01:29:30,880 --> 01:29:35,280
Speaker 2: While you It's like, when the relationship be good, it'd

1942
01:29:35,320 --> 01:29:37,280
Speaker 2: be fun, it'd be a good time. But once you

1943
01:29:37,360 --> 01:29:38,840
Speaker 2: get to that point to where you worried about what

1944
01:29:38,920 --> 01:29:40,760
Speaker 2: he doing, he worried about what you're doing, y'all at

1945
01:29:40,800 --> 01:29:43,479
Speaker 2: odds all the time, that's when stuff gets stressful. Like

1946
01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:46,760
Speaker 2: I don't mind being a relationship and you know we're

1947
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Speaker 2: doing what we have to do because it's not stressful.

1948
01:29:49,040 --> 01:29:50,639
Speaker 2: But once it gets to that point to where it's

1949
01:29:50,960 --> 01:29:54,240
Speaker 2: more stress than it is fun, I got to go, yes, God,

1950
01:29:54,640 --> 01:29:57,800
Speaker 2: I agree, I got to go. Okay, So I the

1951
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Speaker 2: mother week. What we got this week?

1952
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Speaker 1: Drea Oh item of a week of course musbutycollection dot com.

1953
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1955
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Speaker 1: a liplumper because I said I was gonna start telling

1956
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Speaker 1: y'all my lip of the week. So yeah, I have

1957
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1958
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1959
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1960
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Speaker 2: They look good and juices. Thanks girl. I do what

1961
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Speaker 2: I can period, okay and par usual. Y'all know, I

1962
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Speaker 2: got a shout out DD with my little unit, my

1963
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Speaker 2: glueless unit. I'll be popping this motherfucker own and off.

1964
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Speaker 2: So if you need a glueless unit bundles all that

1965
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Speaker 2: go to rich look here zo up, y'all a Sugarl

1966
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Speaker 2: XP and it's Sugarl Drey and the call. Y'all know,

1967
01:30:41,280 --> 01:30:43,840
Speaker 2: we have a segment on Poor Minds called Item of

1968
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Speaker 2: the Week. But do you have a product or something

1969
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Speaker 2: that you want to promote and you want it featured

1970
01:30:47,479 --> 01:30:50,799
Speaker 2: on Poor Minds. Your opportunity is here period.

1971
01:30:51,240 --> 01:30:53,280
Speaker 1: If you have an item or you have a business

1972
01:30:53,320 --> 01:30:55,240
Speaker 1: and you want to get it promoted, we are now

1973
01:30:55,400 --> 01:30:58,680
Speaker 1: having slots available on the Poor Minds episode. So if

1974
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Speaker 1: you would like to get your product featured for Item

1975
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Speaker 1: of the Week, all you need to do is send

1976
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Speaker 1: an email to Item of the Week PM at gmail

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Speaker 1: dot com.

1978
01:31:07,520 --> 01:31:08,400
Speaker 2: That's I T E.

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Speaker 1: M O F T H e W E E K

1980
01:31:12,800 --> 01:31:16,960
Speaker 1: P M at gmail dot com. Send us an email

1981
01:31:17,280 --> 01:31:17,839
Speaker 1: and we'll.

1982
01:31:17,720 --> 01:31:18,120
Speaker 2: Work it out.

1983
01:31:18,160 --> 01:31:20,599
Speaker 5: We're gonna figure it out. Get your product, get your

1984
01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:23,240
Speaker 5: business sponsored, and yeah, make.

1985
01:31:23,200 --> 01:31:26,840
Speaker 2: You some money. We love to support a small business man.

1986
01:31:26,840 --> 01:31:34,360
Speaker 1: And a black business at that, but I mean abominated.

1987
01:31:33,200 --> 01:31:34,479
Speaker 5: Any businesses welcome.

1988
01:31:34,880 --> 01:31:47,320
Speaker 2: So now it's time to get into the box. So

1989
01:31:48,160 --> 01:31:50,160
Speaker 2: the box of the weeks. Like whatever song you've been

1990
01:31:50,240 --> 01:31:52,559
Speaker 2: listening to this week, what's on your playlist, what you've

1991
01:31:52,560 --> 01:31:55,560
Speaker 2: been riding to gym and so. So I'm an R

1992
01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:57,800
Speaker 2: and B girl, y'all know. I love to find like

1993
01:31:57,960 --> 01:31:59,920
Speaker 2: new artists that nobody ever heard of, y'all. This is

1994
01:32:00,080 --> 01:32:02,759
Speaker 2: such a good song. I love when I find good stuff.

1995
01:32:03,120 --> 01:32:07,920
Speaker 2: So his name is Sink Money c I N q

1996
01:32:08,120 --> 01:32:10,040
Speaker 2: U E M A n I and he have a song.

1997
01:32:10,120 --> 01:32:12,120
Speaker 2: He has a song called give You My Love. It's

1998
01:32:12,200 --> 01:32:15,680
Speaker 2: so soulful. I love a good love record, you know

1999
01:32:15,720 --> 01:32:22,240
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Yeah, So, what's yourp of the week.

2000
01:32:22,280 --> 01:32:25,760
Speaker 2: What's your the week? Pull it up? What you got

2001
01:32:25,880 --> 01:32:29,000
Speaker 2: for us? I thought you'd be jamming it gets that

2002
01:32:29,080 --> 01:32:30,599
Speaker 2: you be in the mirror like twarking cut.

2003
01:32:34,840 --> 01:32:38,200
Speaker 3: My B of the week is my sister say, says Tannah. Okay,

2004
01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:41,600
Speaker 3: oh yes, that's like.

2005
01:32:44,240 --> 01:32:45,200
Speaker 5: On the show We Love Him.

2006
01:32:45,320 --> 01:32:48,920
Speaker 2: That's I love Santana. Now that video of y'all walking

2007
01:32:48,960 --> 01:32:50,840
Speaker 2: down the street, why you had that T shirt all

2008
01:32:50,920 --> 01:32:51,800
Speaker 2: like that cutting up?

2009
01:32:54,800 --> 01:32:58,040
Speaker 3: That's like God, And people don't even understand how much

2010
01:32:58,080 --> 01:32:58,599
Speaker 3: she loves.

2011
01:32:59,200 --> 01:33:03,559
Speaker 4: She loves and I love my girl since the day

2012
01:33:03,600 --> 01:33:05,599
Speaker 4: we met. You ever had a friend that she don't

2013
01:33:05,640 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 4: talk to every day?

2014
01:33:06,640 --> 01:33:10,120
Speaker 3: Yeah? Him every day, But every time y'all see each other.

2015
01:33:10,160 --> 01:33:11,519
Speaker 2: It's what's the.

2016
01:33:13,040 --> 01:33:14,439
Speaker 3: It could be some ship that go on and y'all

2017
01:33:14,439 --> 01:33:16,479
Speaker 3: can pick up the phone and be like, girl, but

2018
01:33:16,600 --> 01:33:19,640
Speaker 3: y'all don't talk every single day. That's my girl. But

2019
01:33:19,800 --> 01:33:23,880
Speaker 3: I would say the song is he got some bob

2020
01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:26,040
Speaker 3: So he just came up with the song. It's called

2021
01:33:26,760 --> 01:33:27,800
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna play it right or.

2022
01:33:28,400 --> 01:33:29,240
Speaker 2: You don't have to play you don't.

2023
01:33:29,960 --> 01:33:31,280
Speaker 4: It's called free band Titty.

2024
01:33:31,720 --> 01:33:36,040
Speaker 6: Yes, I love.

2025
01:33:38,560 --> 01:33:43,439
Speaker 2: Yes funny. He is so funny. Y'all need to do

2026
01:33:43,560 --> 01:33:44,479
Speaker 2: some more stuff together.

2027
01:33:44,600 --> 01:33:48,280
Speaker 4: We are like, yeah we are. It's so crazy because

2028
01:33:48,720 --> 01:33:50,360
Speaker 4: like people mistake him for me.

2029
01:33:50,640 --> 01:33:51,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can hear that.

2030
01:33:53,800 --> 01:33:58,080
Speaker 4: Look alike and only doing it to me.

2031
01:33:58,360 --> 01:34:00,840
Speaker 3: So I stayd One day, I said cause it'll be

2032
01:34:00,920 --> 01:34:03,839
Speaker 3: people like and then they'd be like, no, you'll be safety.

2033
01:34:04,080 --> 01:34:04,280
Speaker 2: Yeah.

2034
01:34:04,720 --> 01:34:06,839
Speaker 3: So I asked someone, I said, do people be mistaking

2035
01:34:07,040 --> 01:34:10,080
Speaker 3: you for me? He said, yes, girl, this lady just

2036
01:34:10,160 --> 01:34:13,559
Speaker 3: did it the day air. I said really, He said yeah,

2037
01:34:13,600 --> 01:34:14,439
Speaker 3: that was the first time.

2038
01:34:14,479 --> 01:34:14,840
Speaker 2: He said.

2039
01:34:15,120 --> 01:34:18,160
Speaker 3: The lady said big saxy, And I said, baby, I'm

2040
01:34:18,200 --> 01:34:19,160
Speaker 3: not good.

2041
01:34:19,760 --> 01:34:22,760
Speaker 2: Especially like if y'all got the shades on or something like,

2042
01:34:22,920 --> 01:34:23,439
Speaker 2: I can see that.

2043
01:34:23,760 --> 01:34:24,080
Speaker 3: Really.

2044
01:34:24,680 --> 01:34:26,240
Speaker 4: I think maybe it's like the aesthetic like.

2045
01:34:28,560 --> 01:34:31,160
Speaker 2: In the face, but like how y'all walk and talk

2046
01:34:31,280 --> 01:34:33,240
Speaker 2: and the mannerisms, like I can see that. I can

2047
01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:33,920
Speaker 2: see why people.

2048
01:34:35,680 --> 01:34:38,200
Speaker 1: Okay, what's your bob dre Okay, so my bop is

2049
01:34:38,320 --> 01:34:41,320
Speaker 1: this song called Barkee by shift G.

2050
01:34:41,640 --> 01:34:42,759
Speaker 5: He like a New York repper.

2051
01:34:43,200 --> 01:34:46,560
Speaker 2: You know, I really used to like pop Smoke r

2052
01:34:46,560 --> 01:34:46,800
Speaker 2: I P.

2053
01:34:49,000 --> 01:34:52,000
Speaker 1: RP pop Smoke, But I was devastating when pop Smoke

2054
01:34:52,120 --> 01:34:54,560
Speaker 1: died because I felt like he was really like on

2055
01:34:54,720 --> 01:34:57,320
Speaker 1: the brink of having a huge career, like it was

2056
01:34:57,400 --> 01:35:00,400
Speaker 1: so so it was over so the South, but he

2057
01:35:00,520 --> 01:35:02,519
Speaker 1: really used to make his and like, I don't know,

2058
01:35:02,680 --> 01:35:05,559
Speaker 1: I just love the way New York niggas make music.

2059
01:35:05,720 --> 01:35:08,040
Speaker 2: I love they little I would shake the room. I

2060
01:35:08,120 --> 01:35:09,639
Speaker 2: love the room.

2061
01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:15,000
Speaker 5: I know he has so many good songs.

2062
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:19,400
Speaker 2: So yeah, okay, so it's called Brokie Boy Chef. I'm

2063
01:35:19,400 --> 01:35:20,400
Speaker 2: gonna have to check that out.

2064
01:35:20,640 --> 01:35:21,599
Speaker 5: You gotta shake his music.

2065
01:35:22,920 --> 01:35:24,800
Speaker 2: Yes, let me ask you all question. What do y'all

2066
01:35:24,800 --> 01:35:26,720
Speaker 2: think about that new that new wrapper up the white

2067
01:35:26,760 --> 01:35:31,720
Speaker 2: girl Georgiana? What do y'all think about her? Yeah? About her?

2068
01:35:31,840 --> 01:35:32,760
Speaker 4: I like that song?

2069
01:35:32,920 --> 01:35:33,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta get it.

2070
01:35:34,360 --> 01:35:36,200
Speaker 3: She's new, so I gotta get into her. I gotta

2071
01:35:36,240 --> 01:35:38,439
Speaker 3: get more of a feel of her in her music.

2072
01:35:38,720 --> 01:35:40,800
Speaker 3: But I like that song called my sister Gloria.

2073
01:35:42,720 --> 01:35:45,519
Speaker 2: Heard the song. I wasn't liking it, but with Gorilla verse,

2074
01:35:46,000 --> 01:35:47,080
Speaker 2: I was like, I hear.

2075
01:35:47,000 --> 01:35:48,960
Speaker 4: It now, Yeah, Lorela just rap?

2076
01:35:51,360 --> 01:35:53,320
Speaker 5: Is that the only song that she has?

2077
01:35:53,400 --> 01:35:55,960
Speaker 2: And I mean she has more, but I've never listened

2078
01:35:56,000 --> 01:36:00,920
Speaker 2: to it. Yeah, that's like the hot song, right, Yeah? Yeah,

2079
01:36:01,360 --> 01:36:03,799
Speaker 2: she said something the glos said she like her. Nigga's

2080
01:36:03,840 --> 01:36:07,400
Speaker 2: medium ugly Duke Dennis I said, he said she wouldn't

2081
01:36:07,400 --> 01:36:12,719
Speaker 2: talk about he is he he's a cute little Wiian.

2082
01:36:13,280 --> 01:36:17,040
Speaker 2: You know that's a little Waifian. Will he'd be considered

2083
01:36:17,080 --> 01:36:20,040
Speaker 2: a Wiian. I'm just old. That's what's a waian a

2084
01:36:20,160 --> 01:36:25,479
Speaker 2: young dude, But I feel like I know no. Seven

2085
01:36:25,560 --> 01:36:27,400
Speaker 2: twenty eight yea, I thought he was like thirty.

2086
01:36:28,040 --> 01:36:31,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, why is is nineteen twenty okay, okay, give it

2087
01:36:32,200 --> 01:36:35,040
Speaker 3: se twenty eight, twenty nine thirty you're not whyyan okay?

2088
01:36:35,120 --> 01:36:36,880
Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't know exactly how old is dude,

2089
01:36:36,880 --> 01:36:43,519
Speaker 2: Dennis y'all his early when do you think he's Definitely

2090
01:36:44,120 --> 01:36:45,160
Speaker 2: he's like late twenties.

2091
01:36:47,360 --> 01:36:51,000
Speaker 3: No wine him a poor looking man?

2092
01:36:51,200 --> 01:36:54,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, yeah he is. That's a grown man that

2093
01:36:54,720 --> 01:36:55,960
Speaker 2: I know. That's right, dude.

2094
01:36:58,360 --> 01:37:01,600
Speaker 4: Let me stop y'all celebrity No I do.

2095
01:37:01,760 --> 01:37:05,360
Speaker 2: You can ask me who is my celebrity craze? Oh

2096
01:37:05,439 --> 01:37:05,840
Speaker 2: you know who?

2097
01:37:05,920 --> 01:37:06,320
Speaker 3: I like?

2098
01:37:07,680 --> 01:37:12,040
Speaker 2: What's that basketball player that was then? Kendrick Lamar video?

2099
01:37:13,080 --> 01:37:15,080
Speaker 2: The Not Like Us video? What's his name?

2100
01:37:15,600 --> 01:37:15,920
Speaker 4: Lamar?

2101
01:37:16,600 --> 01:37:21,600
Speaker 2: What's his name? Themar DeRozan? Okay, I like him? He

2102
01:37:21,760 --> 01:37:26,240
Speaker 2: real quiet. He talks about like mental health. I love that.

2103
01:37:26,520 --> 01:37:31,240
Speaker 2: I love us. Emotionally intelligent man. Oh yeah, he's thirty five.

2104
01:37:31,320 --> 01:37:35,000
Speaker 2: He don't be You know how you always see athletes

2105
01:37:35,040 --> 01:37:38,080
Speaker 2: that always be dating the I G. He is just

2106
01:37:38,240 --> 01:37:40,320
Speaker 2: not like that. He's very mature. He talks about mental

2107
01:37:40,360 --> 01:37:43,639
Speaker 2: health a lot. He wrote a book. The way he'd

2108
01:37:43,640 --> 01:37:46,280
Speaker 2: be out, the way he'd be out. I love a

2109
01:37:46,360 --> 01:37:55,719
Speaker 2: man that's the way, very mature, I said. The harball

2110
01:37:56,560 --> 01:37:58,720
Speaker 2: is like, I.

2111
01:37:58,880 --> 01:38:03,519
Speaker 1: Do love reality. Yeah, I love his personality. He is

2112
01:38:03,600 --> 01:38:05,240
Speaker 1: South for a me, like he seemed like he's such

2113
01:38:05,280 --> 01:38:05,719
Speaker 1: a good.

2114
01:38:05,640 --> 01:38:09,360
Speaker 2: Time around every time I see, Yeah, I do. What's

2115
01:38:09,360 --> 01:38:12,040
Speaker 2: who y'all? Celebrity crush? I don't know. I don't even

2116
01:38:12,080 --> 01:38:15,519
Speaker 2: think I have one that I'm just like, oh, he

2117
01:38:15,840 --> 01:38:21,000
Speaker 2: just you like his wife. Hmmm. I think it's more

2118
01:38:21,000 --> 01:38:22,760
Speaker 2: about a vibe though, because I'm not a girl that's

2119
01:38:22,760 --> 01:38:24,479
Speaker 2: like into like looks looks like that. I just like

2120
01:38:24,560 --> 01:38:28,240
Speaker 2: people vibe. Yeah, So it don't necessarily gotta be somebody

2121
01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:30,080
Speaker 2: who you think is like fine, You just probably like

2122
01:38:30,280 --> 01:38:31,920
Speaker 2: how they carry themselves. Yeah, I don't know.

2123
01:38:32,000 --> 01:38:33,479
Speaker 1: I feel like I would have to sit and think

2124
01:38:33,520 --> 01:38:35,400
Speaker 1: about it, like for real, no, y'all, Like I'm really

2125
01:38:35,439 --> 01:38:37,879
Speaker 1: trying to think, and I'm nobody's coming to the forefront

2126
01:38:37,920 --> 01:38:39,799
Speaker 1: of my mind because the person I used.

2127
01:38:39,600 --> 01:38:44,439
Speaker 2: To have a celebrity crush on like this, I okay, no,

2128
01:38:44,920 --> 01:38:47,240
Speaker 2: just you are so annoying. I wanted to make the

2129
01:38:47,320 --> 01:38:48,080
Speaker 2: face to see if he.

2130
01:38:48,120 --> 01:38:59,400
Speaker 6: Knew tell you when the camp turn off shoot.

2131
01:38:59,240 --> 01:39:01,920
Speaker 1: Out a fucking I keep from making that fucking faith

2132
01:39:02,200 --> 01:39:03,280
Speaker 1: that he doing.

2133
01:39:03,520 --> 01:39:19,400
Speaker 2: Okay, no, what, okay, We're gonna tell you after. Oh

2134
01:39:19,520 --> 01:39:27,680
Speaker 2: my live for this, y'all. Do it's me? No, this

2135
01:39:28,680 --> 01:39:36,400
Speaker 2: just taking the hold on me for sure. Ever since

2136
01:39:36,439 --> 01:39:39,799
Speaker 2: I was a little girl, I've loved being on camera,

2137
01:39:41,439 --> 01:39:45,799
Speaker 2: entertaining myself and everybody around me by sharing my thoughts

2138
01:39:45,920 --> 01:39:51,040
Speaker 2: and opinions on anything pop culture. For the past few years,

2139
01:39:51,240 --> 01:39:58,519
Speaker 2: I've heard your requests. But now it's finally time to deliver. Okay, y'all,

2140
01:39:58,720 --> 01:40:09,880
Speaker 2: let's get into the te with love Lex PM tasty. Okay, Okay, okay.

2141
01:40:09,960 --> 01:40:14,280
Speaker 2: Now let's favorite segment, let's poor of your Heart out segment.

2142
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Speaker 2: If you want your question answered on the show, and

2143
01:40:16,240 --> 01:40:18,200
Speaker 2: make sure you email us at ask poor Minds at

2144
01:40:18,280 --> 01:40:20,479
Speaker 2: gmail dot com. If you are a Patreon, remember you

2145
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Speaker 2: get to skip the line, so make sure you put

2146
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Speaker 2: that in the header. And do you give good advice?

2147
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Speaker 3: Yes?

2148
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Speaker 2: I do, I think you you can tell I think okay,

2149
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Speaker 2: So go ahead, Drea, we got a question number one.

2150
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Speaker 1: Okay, Hey Lex Andrea, I have been binge watching y'all,

2151
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Speaker 1: and now why I need my favorite unteased advice I'm

2152
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Speaker 1: a gay male if that matters, and the glue of

2153
01:40:38,680 --> 01:40:41,600
Speaker 1: my friend group the one who keeps everyone connected. My

2154
01:40:41,720 --> 01:40:44,559
Speaker 1: friends always come to me for advice and comfort. Twenty

2155
01:40:44,600 --> 01:40:47,360
Speaker 1: twenty three was rough. I left Atlanta, moved back to Florida,

2156
01:40:47,479 --> 01:40:49,640
Speaker 1: and took a break from my content creator life to

2157
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Speaker 1: focus on my mental health.

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Speaker 5: Since then, two friends have been DC.

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01:40:53,680 --> 01:40:56,080
Speaker 1: One has a whole new crew, and the other ignores

2160
01:40:56,160 --> 01:40:59,240
Speaker 1: me but stays out with others ps. She's boy crazy

2161
01:40:59,320 --> 01:41:02,640
Speaker 1: and throwing shape jabs. Lately, Am I overthinking it? Or

2162
01:41:02,680 --> 01:41:04,519
Speaker 1: have we just outgrown each other now that I'm no

2163
01:41:04,640 --> 01:41:08,040
Speaker 1: longer their comfort sours? He is, Drea, don't let Lys

2164
01:41:08,080 --> 01:41:13,080
Speaker 1: answer everything, all.

2165
01:41:13,080 --> 01:41:22,479
Speaker 2: Right, bitch, I'll won't say nothing. What you think sexy?

2166
01:41:27,479 --> 01:41:30,599
Speaker 4: And I love your pump them is cute.

2167
01:41:31,520 --> 01:41:36,120
Speaker 3: I think sometimes, oh, that's a hard one friend, I know,

2168
01:41:37,120 --> 01:41:39,760
Speaker 3: because it'd be so unfortunate that when it's like out

2169
01:41:39,760 --> 01:41:42,200
Speaker 3: of side, out of mind some when you're not around

2170
01:41:42,240 --> 01:41:45,240
Speaker 3: a person, then you see everybody true colors and true

2171
01:41:45,280 --> 01:41:48,400
Speaker 3: feelings because you're not convenient to what they have going on.

2172
01:41:49,040 --> 01:41:50,960
Speaker 3: But I think that it's important to know that who's

2173
01:41:50,960 --> 01:41:52,160
Speaker 3: supposed to be in your life is going to be

2174
01:41:52,160 --> 01:41:54,800
Speaker 3: in your life, and I think it's important for people

2175
01:41:54,880 --> 01:41:57,519
Speaker 3: to show their true colors so that you can paint

2176
01:41:57,560 --> 01:41:59,880
Speaker 3: it out to be what it is that is in

2177
01:42:00,080 --> 01:42:02,000
Speaker 3: front of you and not try to see it for

2178
01:42:02,120 --> 01:42:04,439
Speaker 3: something else. So I think you just have to take

2179
01:42:04,560 --> 01:42:06,479
Speaker 3: that for what it is. I know it may be hurtful,

2180
01:42:06,920 --> 01:42:09,080
Speaker 3: and I know it may be unfortunate, it may bring

2181
01:42:09,200 --> 01:42:14,000
Speaker 3: discomfort to know that you were only used for conveniencing. However,

2182
01:42:14,479 --> 01:42:15,920
Speaker 3: you have to take it for what it is. I'm

2183
01:42:15,960 --> 01:42:18,200
Speaker 3: a person that lives in the truth of the now,

2184
01:42:18,640 --> 01:42:20,479
Speaker 3: and so when a person is showing you who they are,

2185
01:42:21,000 --> 01:42:23,519
Speaker 3: you have to believe it. And so I feel like,

2186
01:42:24,040 --> 01:42:27,360
Speaker 3: try and rekindle, try and reach out, but if you

2187
01:42:27,600 --> 01:42:30,200
Speaker 3: are extending more than they are giving back to you,

2188
01:42:30,280 --> 01:42:32,800
Speaker 3: I think that it's important to just close that door

2189
01:42:32,960 --> 01:42:33,960
Speaker 3: and take it for what it is.

2190
01:42:35,080 --> 01:42:37,760
Speaker 4: Take on the hurt, feel it, and move on and

2191
01:42:37,960 --> 01:42:39,640
Speaker 4: understand that. You know, it's a.

2192
01:42:39,640 --> 01:42:42,320
Speaker 3: Different position that people play in everybody life, and your

2193
01:42:42,439 --> 01:42:44,719
Speaker 3: journey may be up with them in that moment.

2194
01:42:45,200 --> 01:42:45,759
Speaker 2: I agree.

2195
01:42:46,160 --> 01:42:48,920
Speaker 1: I feel like you definitely probably have just outgrown them,

2196
01:42:48,960 --> 01:42:50,479
Speaker 1: and you do have to. You have to pay attention

2197
01:42:50,600 --> 01:42:52,799
Speaker 1: to like who check on you when you going through stuff.

2198
01:42:53,080 --> 01:42:55,280
Speaker 1: If both of those people were really decent while you

2199
01:42:55,400 --> 01:42:57,479
Speaker 1: was going through your roof patch, do you really want

2200
01:42:57,600 --> 01:42:59,519
Speaker 1: to be that cool with them like that?

2201
01:42:59,680 --> 01:42:59,840
Speaker 3: You know?

2202
01:43:00,080 --> 01:43:02,240
Speaker 1: I mean, because they have proven themselves to not be

2203
01:43:02,360 --> 01:43:04,920
Speaker 1: people that's there that you can depend.

2204
01:43:04,680 --> 01:43:06,200
Speaker 2: On when life get rough.

2205
01:43:06,320 --> 01:43:08,240
Speaker 1: It seems like maybe they're the type of friends where

2206
01:43:08,320 --> 01:43:10,479
Speaker 1: like when everything is all good and y'all having fun,

2207
01:43:11,000 --> 01:43:12,800
Speaker 1: they there and they down for the ride, but then

2208
01:43:12,840 --> 01:43:14,439
Speaker 1: as soon as you got some real shit going on,

2209
01:43:14,600 --> 01:43:17,000
Speaker 1: they be in dcent. So I wouldn't even want those

2210
01:43:17,040 --> 01:43:19,080
Speaker 1: type of friends souse. As you get older in life,

2211
01:43:19,120 --> 01:43:22,160
Speaker 1: you start to realize those are not people that are

2212
01:43:22,360 --> 01:43:25,519
Speaker 1: sustainable to be your friends for the long term anyway.

2213
01:43:25,680 --> 01:43:29,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, I would just keep it moving personally. But

2214
01:43:29,960 --> 01:43:32,520
Speaker 1: I get it sometimes you've put a lot into relationships

2215
01:43:32,560 --> 01:43:34,400
Speaker 1: and you want to try to see if you can rekindle.

2216
01:43:34,800 --> 01:43:38,840
Speaker 2: So I do think Big Sexy is right. You can't see, Yeah,

2217
01:43:39,600 --> 01:43:41,519
Speaker 2: but I think they kind of have showed you who

2218
01:43:41,600 --> 01:43:48,320
Speaker 2: they are when you was going through something. Yeah, word, okay,

2219
01:43:48,520 --> 01:43:52,320
Speaker 2: question them to what's the number two? Hey, Alexandrea, I'm

2220
01:43:52,360 --> 01:43:55,120
Speaker 2: a thirty eight year old lesbian with the child. His

2221
01:43:55,280 --> 01:43:58,160
Speaker 2: other parent is also in the community, and he identifies

2222
01:43:58,320 --> 01:44:01,760
Speaker 2: as pan sexual. I fully don't get what that means,

2223
01:44:01,840 --> 01:44:04,400
Speaker 2: so I just say bisexual. We were never in a

2224
01:44:04,479 --> 01:44:08,760
Speaker 2: real relationship, just a lavender marriage. Since turning thirty three,

2225
01:44:08,920 --> 01:44:11,559
Speaker 2: things have changed for me. I had a serious breakup

2226
01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:13,960
Speaker 2: with someone I thought i'd married, but she wasn't on

2227
01:44:14,040 --> 01:44:17,360
Speaker 2: the same page. Now years later, she suddenly wants everything

2228
01:44:17,439 --> 01:44:20,439
Speaker 2: I wanted back then, but with someone else. It used

2229
01:44:20,479 --> 01:44:22,560
Speaker 2: to her, But now I don't feel the same, and

2230
01:44:22,640 --> 01:44:25,040
Speaker 2: I don't know why. I'm in a new relationship with

2231
01:44:25,120 --> 01:44:28,160
Speaker 2: a woman. And while her head game is phenomenal, we

2232
01:44:28,320 --> 01:44:30,880
Speaker 2: go months without sex. When we do have it, she

2233
01:44:31,040 --> 01:44:34,479
Speaker 2: focuses mostly on giving me head not complaining. But my

2234
01:44:34,560 --> 01:44:39,040
Speaker 2: body is changing. Mavajina keeps jumping like it's craving.

2235
01:44:39,800 --> 01:44:42,799
Speaker 3: Now, my girl, we're all over the place. Go ahead

2236
01:44:42,800 --> 01:44:44,080
Speaker 3: and finish, Baba.

2237
01:44:44,160 --> 01:44:49,720
Speaker 2: Johanna keeps jumping like it's craving something inside, fingers, hands, straps,

2238
01:44:49,800 --> 01:44:53,559
Speaker 2: bigger toys. Nothing feels like enough. My friends straight up,

2239
01:44:53,640 --> 01:44:56,120
Speaker 2: tell me, girl, your pussy is throbbing because it wants

2240
01:44:56,160 --> 01:44:58,920
Speaker 2: a real dick. I love my girl and I don't

2241
01:44:58,920 --> 01:45:02,040
Speaker 2: want to leave her, but I feel unhappier than usual. Lately,

2242
01:45:02,080 --> 01:45:05,640
Speaker 2: when men flirt with me, I actually blush, something I

2243
01:45:05,880 --> 01:45:08,760
Speaker 2: never used to do. It's making me uncomfortable and I

2244
01:45:08,880 --> 01:45:11,639
Speaker 2: don't know what to do. Can y'all are listeners help

2245
01:45:11,720 --> 01:45:18,040
Speaker 2: me figure this out? We both known't neither. I don't know.

2246
01:45:19,760 --> 01:45:21,880
Speaker 3: You need to go and get what you desire, baby,

2247
01:45:22,479 --> 01:45:24,559
Speaker 3: because you're never going to be happy moving forward when

2248
01:45:24,600 --> 01:45:26,720
Speaker 3: you're just pretending and thinking and being with somebody just

2249
01:45:26,800 --> 01:45:29,240
Speaker 3: because you feel like that's the convenient thing or the

2250
01:45:29,360 --> 01:45:30,280
Speaker 3: comfortable thing to do.

2251
01:45:30,680 --> 01:45:32,400
Speaker 4: Maybe go and get with your heart's desire.

2252
01:45:32,520 --> 01:45:35,759
Speaker 3: Is nothing wrong with that, because you're craving somebody, tingling

2253
01:45:35,800 --> 01:45:38,040
Speaker 3: an echin down there, and that is never going to

2254
01:45:38,080 --> 01:45:38,840
Speaker 3: be fulfilled with.

2255
01:45:41,600 --> 01:45:45,400
Speaker 2: It's craving something inside, fingers, handstraps, bigger toys. So why

2256
01:45:45,439 --> 01:45:49,080
Speaker 2: don't you try that with your partner first, because it's

2257
01:45:49,200 --> 01:45:52,320
Speaker 2: craving something. I think it's so crazy when people are

2258
01:45:52,360 --> 01:45:54,640
Speaker 2: in relationships and they don't speak up about what they

2259
01:45:54,720 --> 01:45:57,640
Speaker 2: want sexually. If this is somebody that you love, and

2260
01:45:57,720 --> 01:45:59,360
Speaker 2: you love your girl, you want to be with her,

2261
01:45:59,720 --> 01:46:03,160
Speaker 2: have conversations. Hey, this is not working for me sexually.

2262
01:46:03,280 --> 01:46:05,240
Speaker 2: I'm feeling like I want to so can we try

2263
01:46:05,320 --> 01:46:08,160
Speaker 2: this in the bedroom. So I think it deserves your

2264
01:46:08,320 --> 01:46:11,360
Speaker 2: your partner deserves to have a conversation and maybe see

2265
01:46:11,400 --> 01:46:13,439
Speaker 2: you might not be craving Dig. You might just be

2266
01:46:13,520 --> 01:46:20,120
Speaker 2: craving a toy or something. So, yeah, something inside boom so.

2267
01:46:20,360 --> 01:46:22,800
Speaker 2: And I think that when you're flirting with men and

2268
01:46:22,920 --> 01:46:25,960
Speaker 2: you're actually blushing, I think it's more so because you're

2269
01:46:26,040 --> 01:46:28,439
Speaker 2: wanting that attention that maybe you're not getting at home.

2270
01:46:28,920 --> 01:46:31,680
Speaker 2: A lot of times people confuse certain feelings for other

2271
01:46:31,840 --> 01:46:35,040
Speaker 2: things that's not really what's there and what's happening. So

2272
01:46:35,200 --> 01:46:37,840
Speaker 2: I think maybe have a conversation with your partner and

2273
01:46:37,920 --> 01:46:40,320
Speaker 2: see what y'all can figure out in the bedroom between y'all,

2274
01:46:40,720 --> 01:46:43,040
Speaker 2: and then if y'all are trying different things and you're

2275
01:46:43,080 --> 01:46:45,920
Speaker 2: still not satisfied, that's when you can be like, Okay,

2276
01:46:46,120 --> 01:46:47,479
Speaker 2: something else is going on here.

2277
01:46:48,360 --> 01:46:48,800
Speaker 4: That's true.

2278
01:46:50,000 --> 01:46:53,400
Speaker 2: I feel like, yeah, maybe you just be wanting it Dig,

2279
01:46:53,600 --> 01:46:55,439
Speaker 2: That's what I think. I think.

2280
01:46:55,840 --> 01:46:58,719
Speaker 1: I think she just really won't it Dig? I really

2281
01:46:58,800 --> 01:47:02,240
Speaker 1: did that, And I think you should scratch it.

2282
01:47:02,720 --> 01:47:12,560
Speaker 3: That scratch it just scratched fingers toys and yeah, scratch it.

2283
01:47:12,880 --> 01:47:13,320
Speaker 2: I don't know.

2284
01:47:13,600 --> 01:47:15,559
Speaker 1: I just feel like she kept saying all of these

2285
01:47:15,720 --> 01:47:17,880
Speaker 1: nice things about the girl. But then it was a

2286
01:47:17,920 --> 01:47:20,760
Speaker 1: lot of butts. But but but I feel like if

2287
01:47:20,800 --> 01:47:23,560
Speaker 1: it's that many butts, you just ain't really happy in

2288
01:47:23,640 --> 01:47:24,240
Speaker 1: that situation.

2289
01:47:24,439 --> 01:47:25,080
Speaker 3: You're not happy.

2290
01:47:26,000 --> 01:47:28,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not happy sexually. So and she said that

2291
01:47:28,680 --> 01:47:30,960
Speaker 2: go months without six And that's what I'm saying. Who

2292
01:47:31,360 --> 01:47:35,160
Speaker 2: trying to do that in a relationship. In a relationship?

2293
01:47:35,680 --> 01:47:37,320
Speaker 4: Girl, you want something?

2294
01:47:37,600 --> 01:47:41,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, god speed and good luck. Like if you have

2295
01:47:41,520 --> 01:47:44,120
Speaker 2: been through a lot of your child got a part

2296
01:47:44,240 --> 01:47:46,519
Speaker 2: sexual daddy and a lavender mad girl. I don't know

2297
01:47:46,600 --> 01:47:48,479
Speaker 2: what none of them. I don't even know what paying

2298
01:47:48,520 --> 01:47:49,280
Speaker 2: sexual means.

2299
01:47:49,360 --> 01:47:52,240
Speaker 4: I think it's like I like it for people.

2300
01:47:52,360 --> 01:47:55,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, you're not attracted to a gender, They're attracted

2301
01:47:55,360 --> 01:47:57,240
Speaker 2: to people. Yeah okay, so.

2302
01:47:59,400 --> 01:48:03,840
Speaker 3: Energy trends. You could be white, yeah, Puerto Rican, Mexican.

2303
01:48:03,840 --> 01:48:09,400
Speaker 2: Got it? Wo man, man, I like big sexy. Let

2304
01:48:09,479 --> 01:48:11,400
Speaker 2: the people know what you got coming up.

2305
01:48:15,080 --> 01:48:17,439
Speaker 4: So I'm gonna be on some networks coming up.

2306
01:48:18,080 --> 01:48:21,000
Speaker 3: I can't wait for you guys to see Baddi's Africa audishes.

2307
01:48:22,439 --> 01:48:25,599
Speaker 4: It was amazing. It was so lit, it was soul turned.

2308
01:48:25,800 --> 01:48:26,600
Speaker 4: They took care of me.

2309
01:48:26,680 --> 01:48:29,360
Speaker 3: I'm gonna also be on a couple of episodes of

2310
01:48:29,439 --> 01:48:32,400
Speaker 3: love and hip hop that also is an amazing experience.

2311
01:48:32,479 --> 01:48:36,000
Speaker 3: I have a huge birthday fashion show that's coming up

2312
01:48:36,640 --> 01:48:43,400
Speaker 3: this year that I do annually every year that my

2313
01:48:43,479 --> 01:48:45,720
Speaker 3: supporters come from all over the world to have a

2314
01:48:45,760 --> 01:48:47,680
Speaker 3: good time. That year it was like four I think

2315
01:48:47,680 --> 01:48:49,720
Speaker 3: it's like four or five thousand people show O my God,

2316
01:48:50,280 --> 01:48:53,120
Speaker 3: and everybody comes up and from all over the place

2317
01:48:53,120 --> 01:48:54,320
Speaker 3: and having a wonderful time.

2318
01:48:54,640 --> 01:48:57,560
Speaker 4: I have amazing content on the way. Y'all have to

2319
01:48:57,600 --> 01:49:02,080
Speaker 4: come to a wall, and we know, y'all free lit.

2320
01:49:02,320 --> 01:49:04,840
Speaker 2: Oh, I feel like we're gonna do it. Yeah, that's

2321
01:49:04,840 --> 01:49:05,120
Speaker 2: gonna be.

2322
01:49:05,160 --> 01:49:06,760
Speaker 3: We got a new one because that's gonna go up.

2323
01:49:07,040 --> 01:49:09,040
Speaker 2: We got the week and make sure it's the week,

2324
01:49:09,080 --> 01:49:10,120
Speaker 2: the episode episode.

2325
01:49:10,320 --> 01:49:13,400
Speaker 3: I'm serious, y'all, me too. Let's go ahead lock that in. Yeah, okay,

2326
01:49:13,560 --> 01:49:15,840
Speaker 3: because that's gonna be sick me. Yes, and I have

2327
01:49:15,960 --> 01:49:18,880
Speaker 3: a different concept like one could go up first post,

2328
01:49:19,200 --> 01:49:21,960
Speaker 3: then you go up pos and y'all rot together. Okay,

2329
01:49:22,439 --> 01:49:24,360
Speaker 3: I think that'll be sick. Go ahead and do that

2330
01:49:24,439 --> 01:49:27,120
Speaker 3: a stop. Amazing content on the way, Stay tuned and

2331
01:49:27,160 --> 01:49:32,320
Speaker 3: wait till y'all see who I got comment. Oh, y'all,

2332
01:49:35,479 --> 01:49:38,720
Speaker 3: I'm honored I can't wait until y'all reached out to me.

2333
01:49:38,960 --> 01:49:40,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what's coming.

2334
01:49:40,479 --> 01:49:42,519
Speaker 1: Well, we definitely been one of you on the show

2335
01:49:42,640 --> 01:49:44,400
Speaker 1: for a while. I'm glad we made it happy.

2336
01:49:44,640 --> 01:49:49,559
Speaker 2: Thank y'all, love you so much, and we'll sell bye y'all. Y'all,

2337
01:49:49,640 --> 01:49:54,360
Speaker 2: make sure y'all share the content, like subscribe, follow all

2338
01:49:54,400 --> 01:49:55,920
Speaker 2: that good stuff. And let me say this before we

2339
01:49:56,000 --> 01:50:00,479
Speaker 2: close off, y'all, there is one Twitter account that connected

2340
01:50:00,520 --> 01:50:04,479
Speaker 2: to poor Minds. It's p oh you are underscore in

2341
01:50:04,640 --> 01:50:08,080
Speaker 2: my nds. Y'all are tagging the wrong poor Minds page.

2342
01:50:08,400 --> 01:50:10,880
Speaker 2: If you see at poor Minds with no underscore, that

2343
01:50:11,000 --> 01:50:13,240
Speaker 2: is at fake page, do not follow that page. Okay,

2344
01:50:13,640 --> 01:50:17,000
Speaker 2: they blocked me Andrea and the poor Minds page on

2345
01:50:17,080 --> 01:50:22,519
Speaker 2: both so we only have one Instagram, one Twitter, one

2346
01:50:22,680 --> 01:50:26,360
Speaker 2: TikTok it. It's p oh, you are underscore in my nds,

2347
01:50:26,479 --> 01:50:27,880
Speaker 2: all right, and we got.

2348
01:50:27,960 --> 01:50:31,320
Speaker 7: Hell a fake Facebook page on the Facebook pages it's

2349
01:50:31,680 --> 01:50:34,719
Speaker 7: our face. The crazy thing is our Facebook page actually

2350
01:50:34,800 --> 01:50:37,439
Speaker 7: have the least amount of file. So if you're on Facebook,

2351
01:50:37,439 --> 01:50:40,200
Speaker 7: one that's ours got the least amount of file, but

2352
01:50:40,280 --> 01:50:42,800
Speaker 7: one that's not us got like two hundred and fifty

2353
01:50:43,840 --> 01:50:45,559
Speaker 7: to make if you actually look at the content because

2354
01:50:45,560 --> 01:50:48,240
Speaker 7: the caption is like, whoever it is, don't speak English,

2355
01:50:48,520 --> 01:50:51,280
Speaker 7: because their catches are like mumba clad should men?

2356
01:50:51,439 --> 01:50:54,760
Speaker 2: Should men pay bill? Should men pay bill?

2357
01:50:54,920 --> 01:50:55,080
Speaker 3: Yes?

2358
01:50:55,200 --> 01:51:02,360
Speaker 2: No? Check answer below block block Like that's literally with

2359
01:51:02,479 --> 01:51:05,840
Speaker 2: the captions. I'm like you, what that DG is? Bumba claud.

2360
01:51:07,400 --> 01:51:10,920
Speaker 3: I put your pisture on my Mira flash when somebody

2361
01:51:11,040 --> 01:51:11,519
Speaker 3: says your.

2362
01:51:11,560 --> 01:51:16,400
Speaker 2: Name in my stomach, in my stomach that going up

2363
01:51:16,520 --> 01:51:18,120
Speaker 2: the way, I.

2364
01:51:18,240 --> 01:51:21,360
Speaker 4: Have to stettle on the speed to stand by my

2365
01:51:21,479 --> 01:51:22,240
Speaker 4: knees going.

2366
01:51:23,800 --> 01:51:24,880
Speaker 6: What's happening to me?

2367
01:51:25,800 --> 01:51:28,080
Speaker 4: Anybody? Can you tell me what it means?

2368
01:51:29,000 --> 01:51:35,479
Speaker 1: I let my head on the pi's gonna stop for

2369
01:51:35,640 --> 01:51:38,160
Speaker 1: a sign where the read.

2370
01:51:40,479 --> 01:51:41,519
Speaker 2: Always on my mind?

2371
01:51:43,800 --> 01:51:50,240
Speaker 8: Baby, when I see you, see you, when I might

2372
01:51:50,400 --> 01:51:54,639
Speaker 8: walk by right on time, when I see.

2373
01:51:54,640 --> 01:52:04,040
Speaker 3: You, know my nobirl checking how my hair with my nails,

2374
01:52:04,120 --> 01:52:06,880
Speaker 3: and I'm fee there's something that is on and I

2375
01:52:07,040 --> 01:52:09,280
Speaker 3: nervous when your call, so I say I'm not. I'll

2376
01:52:09,280 --> 01:52:10,599
Speaker 3: say I'm here.

2377
01:52:10,800 --> 01:52:13,559
Speaker 2: My favorite soul said.

2378
01:52:17,800 --> 01:52:20,320
Speaker 4: I wonder if you know I do the other clue?

2379
01:52:22,520 --> 01:52:35,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, wait, what's the reason why you always hey

2380
01:52:35,280 --> 01:52:36,520
Speaker 2: sexy boy.

2381
01:52:40,120 --> 01:52:40,880
Speaker 8: Hey baby?

2382
01:52:45,320 --> 01:52:45,519
Speaker 6: Oh?

2383
01:52:45,800 --> 01:53:01,439
Speaker 2: When I see you when sing now takeing out he can't. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

2384
01:53:02,400 --> 01:53:03,639
Speaker 2: I'm going around.

2385
01:53:04,080 --> 01:53:07,439
Speaker 4: I'm just understand here is.

2386
01:53:10,240 --> 01:53:16,280
Speaker 3: Whoa whoa Yeah, let me my baby.

2387
01:53:17,720 --> 01:53:22,400
Speaker 2: Shy who when I'm so sexy boll.

2388
01:53:25,280 --> 01:53:32,920
Speaker 3: Yeah bug about this is so chaotic. It was.

2389
01:53:33,320 --> 01:53:35,240
Speaker 2: It was my shots. That was my bad, y'all. Y'all

2390
01:53:35,280 --> 01:53:37,599
Speaker 2: know i'd be off me. What's me y'all? Next week?

2391
01:53:37,960 --> 01:53:38,240
Speaker 1: Whoa