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Speaker 2: I mean, like I've heard of like neighbors kind of

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Speaker 2: like Fred isn't mowing is lawn, you know, making the

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Speaker 2: Fred's like putting pieces of your body across his lawn

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Speaker 2: is fertilizer, and you're just his lawn might look better, yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you're dead.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: It's it's I think it reaches that point where you say, hey, Fred,

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Speaker 1: mow your lawn and then he's like, fine, I'm just

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Speaker 1: gonna mow you down instead, you down first, I mean,

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Speaker 1: and use your body to grow my grass. I mean

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Speaker 1: it looks beautiful if it looks synthonyms, top notch, top notch. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and there they turn red for some reason. Why not beautiful?

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Speaker 1: You know, drinking your blood exactly demon flowers, flowers, I

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Speaker 1: have a taste for blood. I can't water anymore. So

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Speaker 1: I live in a duplex in Washington State with my

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Speaker 1: months old. My father in law owns half of the

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Speaker 3: His son owns a duplex at four months.

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Speaker 1: Wow, industry, just truly, He's like Sricken the Rockefeller.

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Speaker 3: Well, you know about following.

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Speaker 1: You owned a condo at three months old, so I

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Speaker 1: wouldn't say the most successful. Yes, I got into real

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Speaker 3: Oh man, I signed it with a Poopye.

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Speaker 1: Yes, I just dookiat on the little paper and there

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Speaker 1: it was. It was mine. The real estate agent said,

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Speaker 1: all right, you ready to see your new house?

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Speaker 3: Where did it go? I thought I lost everything there

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Speaker 3: it is. That's hilarious.

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Speaker 1: My father in law owns half the duplex and is

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Speaker 1: renting it to us, and the other half is owned

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Speaker 1: by an older woman and her adult daughter. My father

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Speaker 1: in law has known the woman for over fifteen years

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Speaker 1: was mentally ill and had strong delusions on occasion and

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Speaker 1: on occasion caused trouble with previous tenants. That is not

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Speaker 3: Yeah to the place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, I just want my place to be a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, of the highest degree.

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Speaker 1: Highest degree of the murderers degree, just trying to like

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Speaker 3: Lad and ready to go.

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Speaker 1: The last tenants apparently had to get a civil anti

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Speaker 1: harassment order placed against the daughter. Oh my god, shouldn't

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: So the daughter was so bad that they made the

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Speaker 1: Yes, wow, even with an anti harassment like like legal

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Speaker 3: My goodness.

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Speaker 1: Apparently the neighbor had accused them of kidnapping and abusing

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Speaker 3: Interesting choice to move in here.

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Speaker 1: We didn't have any issues with the neighbor until about

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Speaker 1: Oh no, she screams at us as well, but I

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Speaker 3: Wait so not the fun kind.

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Speaker 2: So wait, so that the dogs are barking incessantly and

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, it's absolute chaos. I can imagine.

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Speaker 1: Dude. Yeah, that sounds like it sucks, and it's made

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Speaker 3: Oh that that is that is awful to go through.

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Speaker 1: Every time the baby cries, I experience intense panic. Waiting

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Speaker 2: It's like a baby, you know, like like screaming and

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Speaker 2: banging is only going to make it worse. We've read

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Speaker 2: or you going to curse out the parent? Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean we have we have everything seats, we have

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Speaker 2: Yes, I'm trying to unlatch that. Suck the baby out,

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Speaker 2: suck the parents out, get a little good, a little

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Speaker 2: fresh air, exactly. Come on, Come on, simple solutions, simple math.

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Speaker 2: So imagining.

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Speaker 3: Worth it.

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Speaker 1: So we've called the non emergency police line twice when

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Speaker 2: Fuck wait, so like like it's just the lady is

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Speaker 1: Every time the baby cries. The lady is bank throwing

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Speaker 1: isn't that creating more of the noise that you don't

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Speaker 1: I think her mind is so gone that it's just

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Speaker 1: Why would you make more noise to disturb the baby?

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Speaker 1: So what's the deal with the daughter is? Do we

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Speaker 1: I would guess something like not bipolar, but in you

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Speaker 1: The right like, yeah, right way to categorize that would be.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I love the game of guess the mental disability.

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Speaker 2: Favorite game. Favorite games. People always win, the people always

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Speaker 2: want people want more of that. In public, I love

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Speaker 3: Exactly?

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Speaker 1: Probably a lot.

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Speaker 2: Something I've been wanting to do is I've been wanting

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Speaker 3: That's very fun. I think it's really weird people.

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Speaker 2: I saw this like eighty year old clown that was

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Speaker 2: Yeah maybe I know, but like an eighty year old

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Speaker 2: an interesting interview.

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Speaker 1: Maybe we Yeah, maybe that's our our our next series. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: finding the old sad Clowns of the world.

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Speaker 3: Excuse me, you're old. You're an old clown? Explain?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what a series of life's choices made you this person?

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Speaker 3: Why the way you are? Why are you an old clown?

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Speaker 1: we can we like this. This is a very interesting

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Speaker 1: like like video essay. Yeah, yeah, the clown economy, how

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Speaker 1: The Ship out of that documentary.

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Speaker 2: Very interesting because, like, if you think about it, like

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because of all the killer clownshit. It's interesting. It's interesting.

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Speaker 3: I still think clowns are scary, just of.

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Speaker 1: The clowns are fucking terrified. Yeah, but let's get back

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Speaker 1: to the clowns in this story. Just kidding, guys, we

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Speaker 3: Once a sin.

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Speaker 1: Once every two days is when the banging, and yes,

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Speaker 1: that was less often. Oh so it was every day

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Speaker 3: It's terrible, like geez lop.

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Speaker 2: This most FeH cycle is oh my god, damn.

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Speaker 1: The officer I spoke with says that we can try

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Speaker 1: the last tenants tried that, and he said his unofficial

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Speaker 1: advice would be to live somewhere else. I'll be honest,

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Speaker 1: that's yeah, I think so. And what do you do?

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Speaker 1: Is the landlord in a situation too seriously and that's

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Speaker 1: your like child and your child's spouse, Is that seriously?

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Speaker 1: My only option? We can't afford to move, but I

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Speaker 1: can't keep living like this. There is an update. I

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Speaker 1: bet you there's a crazy discount for living in this

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Speaker 3: Well, so this is the father in law that owns it,

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Speaker 2: Dad, so I mean yeah, but they can't afford anything

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Speaker 1: Can't afford it right now. But I think the question

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Speaker 3: Well, there's an update. Oh, there's an update.

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Speaker 3: It's like the freedom of speech.

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Speaker 3: We're no lawyers.

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Speaker 2: You can go to jail for threating someone. If a

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Speaker 3: I'm saving that. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The elderly mother hadn't been seen in months, but requests

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Speaker 3: Here figuring it out. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: The general advice I got was that as renters, we can.

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Speaker 3: See usbu there we go. That's it.

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Speaker 3: My god.

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Speaker 1: Since my first post, we moved in with my grandmother

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Speaker 3: Through the hole. That's fucking terrifying. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: The smell that came out of the hole was indescribably bad.

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Speaker 3: I see you, I see you, I see usbu you

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Speaker 3: Literally holy, can you possibly imagine? Oh? Can you possibly imagine? Rohus.

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Speaker 1: The news article said that the mother died from natural causes.

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Speaker 2: So I'm shuck. That was crazy suck. Yeah, funerals are expensive. Though,

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Speaker 1: I would rather be a grandma's house.

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Speaker 1: I would honestly go to the father in law and

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Speaker 3: Let it be someone else's.

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Speaker 1: Problem who, like I mean, you know whatever, some ambitious

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I like, I I want to know what everyone

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Speaker 2: And on the video, I'm infertile but now I'm pregnant.

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Speaker 3: Love you. My husband got a second wife because I

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Speaker 1: Wait a second wife? Because are number torments or number two.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know about the second wife because of

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Speaker 1: Bingo plural, specifically emphasis on the So I'm from a

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Speaker 1: I got married, he said he only ever wanted me.

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Speaker 1: We got along great, and we fell in love soon

444
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: after the wedding. This was an arranged marriage, Okay. After

445
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,879
Speaker 1: trying for a child for a long time, we found

446
00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:37,359
Speaker 1: out that I had diminished ovarian reserves and we would

447
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:41,040
Speaker 1: not get pregnant and IVF would most likely be futile

448
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:45,359
Speaker 1: round after futile rounds. So it's like, hey, ugh, you

449
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:47,440
Speaker 1: know you could do you could do IVF, but like,

450
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:50,880
Speaker 1: probably not, nothing's gonna happen. He to just keep going,

451
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:55,160
Speaker 1: and yeah, I was absolutely heartbroken. I could not bear

452
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Speaker 1: his children for him. He was more okay with this

453
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Speaker 1: than I was. We discussed and reached the decision together

454
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Speaker 1: for him to have a second wife as long as

455
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Speaker 1: she would be a good fit for his life. Wow,

456
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:05,479
Speaker 1: that's so.

457
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Speaker 2: It's that's such a like conversation or like conversation. To me,

458
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Speaker 2: that's like very interesting.

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Speaker 1: And they were expecting monogamy, like they had no plans

460
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Speaker 1: whatsoever of like do you have another wedding? Do you

461
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 1: say like you may now kiss the bride? These are

462
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:24,960
Speaker 1: the other bride there, these are question standing there they

463
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Speaker 1: do a three way kiss. I imagine they have three ways.

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Speaker 3: I imagine they do have a wedding.

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Speaker 1: I love how to like she's like surprised that he's

466
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Speaker 1: not heartbroken, like like I'm like, oh, like wondering, like

467
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Speaker 1: like my man's like.

468
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Speaker 3: You know, it'll be tough, it will be somehow.

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Speaker 1: I guess I could we can start having I guess

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Speaker 1: I guess we can. We can give it, give it

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Speaker 1: a go.

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Speaker 3: It's not heartbroken at all.

473
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Speaker 1: It's just like doing secret fist bumps. Now, for example,

474
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Speaker 1: would she be okay with living together with his first wife?

475
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Speaker 3: Me?

476
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Speaker 1: Religion says the second wife has rights to her own

477
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Speaker 1: place if she wants, and we didn't want to rush anything,

478
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,479
Speaker 1: and I actually found a woman who was interested and

479
00:25:06,520 --> 00:25:10,639
Speaker 1: I introduced her to my husband. She's being proactive over here. Wow,

480
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,840
Speaker 1: she's getting the job done. So my husband and his

481
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,640
Speaker 1: new wife got on well, and I didn't have much jealousy,

482
00:25:16,760 --> 00:25:19,680
Speaker 1: and things were great. That's awesome. Things were Things were

483
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,200
Speaker 1: rolling along here. They got married and we all lived

484
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:27,040
Speaker 1: together and they got married. They got married yet, Okay,

485
00:25:27,080 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: but she didn't get married. No, no, no, she does not get

486
00:25:29,440 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: married to them, but he marries. It's like the guy

487
00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,160
Speaker 1: is married to the wives. Ocatually, they got married and

488
00:25:35,240 --> 00:25:37,400
Speaker 1: we all lived together. While they were ups and downs

489
00:25:37,400 --> 00:25:39,440
Speaker 1: at first, like any marriage, my husband and I had

490
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: them as well. Eventually things were awesome. We lived together

491
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Speaker 1: and our husband treats us both excellently. She soon became

492
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Speaker 1: pregnant and we were all super excited. Her pregnancy was hard,

493
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Speaker 1: but I looked after her, and when the baby came,

494
00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:54,320
Speaker 1: I was also a mother and loved this child like

495
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Speaker 1: my very own. And we were all getting along so well.

496
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Speaker 1: She now has a four and a two year old

497
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Speaker 1: with my husband. When we discussed our feelings once, she

498
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 1: said she feels secure because she's been able to give

499
00:26:05,119 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: my husband children, and I feel secure because I'm his

500
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Speaker 1: first wife. However, I just found out that I am

501
00:26:11,800 --> 00:26:16,320
Speaker 1: eight weeks pregnant. After all the stuff that she went through,

502
00:26:16,600 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 1: that seems like it complicates no IVF. They got a

503
00:26:19,440 --> 00:26:24,679
Speaker 1: second wife, and now finally she's pregnant. This God, the

504
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,240
Speaker 1: IVF didn't work. The second wife did work.

505
00:26:27,760 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 3: Now what terrible timing.

506
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,640
Speaker 1: I never expected this to happen, and I really am

507
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: so happy, but I'm terrified of how this is going

508
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 1: to change our relationship dynamic. I'm scared she will be

509
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:42,080
Speaker 1: hurt or our household might be split into two households,

510
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:44,280
Speaker 1: and then I'll have to get my husband fifty percent

511
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 1: of the time with a newborn. I really don't want

512
00:26:46,640 --> 00:26:48,720
Speaker 1: to hurt the co wife. I don't want to ruin

513
00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: the family dynamic. And I feel pressure all the time.

514
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 1: And I haven't yet told my husband or my co wife.

515
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,120
Speaker 1: Please I really need advice. I feel so bad for her.

516
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,200
Speaker 2: She's like I also like, I am probably the least

517
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 2: qualified person to give advice on this relationship. Like I

518
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,800
Speaker 2: have no like how do you give advice here? Like

519
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,359
Speaker 2: I have no idea how poligamous relationships work. I have

520
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: no idea about the dynamics. I my like, my suspicion

521
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,639
Speaker 2: is is actually not that big of an issue, Like

522
00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: I think it's it's not going to really change the

523
00:27:23,920 --> 00:27:25,440
Speaker 2: dynamic that much.

524
00:27:26,040 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 1: It sounds like it's like, uh, we all have anxieties

525
00:27:28,920 --> 00:27:31,480
Speaker 1: and things that like in our own heads seem like yeah,

526
00:27:31,480 --> 00:27:34,280
Speaker 1: the wor things in the world. But it sounds like

527
00:27:34,880 --> 00:27:40,119
Speaker 1: her husband the co wife are both completely reasonable, understanding, loving,

528
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:44,359
Speaker 1: like they they've worked through all of these scenarios like together, Yeah, so.

529
00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,000
Speaker 2: Why would anything change here? Like it's it sounds like

530
00:27:47,240 --> 00:27:50,080
Speaker 2: they have a great relationship with each other, So I

531
00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:50,920
Speaker 2: think it's gonna be fine.

532
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 1: But I'm just fascinated.

533
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,880
Speaker 2: Like now I'm like, dude, I want to read more

534
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:58,800
Speaker 2: relationship stories about other cultures. Yeah, because this is like,

535
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,520
Speaker 2: like I've that is Yeah, that is an interesting thread

536
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 2: to go on. I've literally never heard of anything like this. Yeah,

537
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 2: like I have know I'm so Also, I mean, have

538
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,000
Speaker 2: you read Sex at Dawn before?

539
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:10,040
Speaker 3: So like that.

540
00:28:10,160 --> 00:28:13,600
Speaker 1: It's it's a book about like sex and relationships and

541
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:18,359
Speaker 1: they talk about how the default state of humans is

542
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: to be polygamous, but within a the context of like

543
00:28:21,960 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 1: a group of people and that that that are not sorry,

544
00:28:25,280 --> 00:28:27,760
Speaker 1: not polyamorous. I always get those two mixed.

545
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:33,480
Speaker 2: Up, But how dare you continue? But like the sex

546
00:28:33,520 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: would actually maintain bonds between members of the of the

547
00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:43,160
Speaker 2: group and instead of child bearing or instead of like

548
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,719
Speaker 2: like raising children, and instead of a one mother raising children,

549
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 2: the group would raise their children, and so it was

550
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:54,080
Speaker 2: the group's children rather than like a single one children.

551
00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 1: And is that like kind of hunter gatherer times? We

552
00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:00,120
Speaker 1: travel together like together, and I feel.

553
00:28:59,920 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 2: Like this is like the closest modern day equivalent to

554
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: a a relationship that is like that. Although I feel

555
00:29:08,560 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 2: like this relationship is that in terms of power dynamics,

556
00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: it's not as equal because it's like only the.

557
00:29:14,920 --> 00:29:16,520
Speaker 3: Man, only the man.

558
00:29:17,240 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, so I feel like the power dynamic is a

559
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:21,760
Speaker 1: little bit off from the one hundred gathered days, but

560
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:25,360
Speaker 1: still fascinating. And it's cool that it's like working for them. Yeah,

561
00:29:25,400 --> 00:29:28,240
Speaker 1: it seems like some people, like people do have polyamorous

562
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:33,880
Speaker 1: relationships out there. It's crazy that it's illegal and criminalized

563
00:29:34,000 --> 00:29:36,800
Speaker 1: in North and South America, including all fifty states.

564
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Speaker 3: I had, I had no idea. That's wild.

565
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,440
Speaker 1: The institution of I mean, we just let like gay

566
00:29:41,480 --> 00:29:45,840
Speaker 1: people get married. This is true except for Utah except

567
00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:49,560
Speaker 1: Utahs out here. They're like, sir, you don't have a felony.

568
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,560
Speaker 1: Here's a parking ticket. It's for those it's for those Mormons,

569
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 1: those keep.

570
00:29:56,800 --> 00:29:57,720
Speaker 3: And there's an update.

571
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:01,120
Speaker 1: Oh, there's an updates. Thank you to everyone who's taken

572
00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,880
Speaker 1: the time to reply. It has really warmed my heart

573
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 1: to see such kind hearted replies, and also that I've

574
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:10,120
Speaker 1: had people from other cultures to talk about it in

575
00:30:10,160 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: an understanding.

576
00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:13,560
Speaker 3: Way, which is so sweet. That's awesome.

577
00:30:13,920 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 1: I've decided to have a talk with my husband and

578
00:30:15,840 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: co wife about it, and they're optimistic and incited.

579
00:30:19,120 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 3: Final update. Husband and co wife know.

580
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:24,080
Speaker 1: Sorry didn't reply to everyone, but I promised to read

581
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:27,040
Speaker 1: everyone's posts. Although there have been some up and downs,

582
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,240
Speaker 1: overall things are good and my husband and co wife.

583
00:30:30,000 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 3: Are happy for me. Happy endings, dude, it worked out there.

584
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:33,959
Speaker 1: We go