WEBVTT - You can’t handle the truth! 0:00:08.640 --> 0:00:12.360 And we're back with another episode of Separation and Anxiety. 0:00:12.400 --> 0:00:17.440 I'm your host, Marcus Jordan, and today we're talking about 0:00:17.480 --> 0:00:18.360 a bunch of things. 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:20.400 We're just talking a lot of hot topics. I feel 0:00:20.400 --> 0:00:22.640 like a lot of things that we normally would talk about, 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:23.280 for sure. 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.160 And I feel like, you know, it's like episode what 0:00:26.239 --> 0:00:28.320 is this four or five? Now? So we're kind of 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:31.200 getting the hang of everything. We're kind of understanding what 0:00:31.440 --> 0:00:33.200 people want to hear us talk about. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:36.320 And so and what they don't want us to keep saying. 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:38.840 Is I feel like, yeah, I feel. 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:39.320 Like we got to stop. 0:00:39.440 --> 0:00:41.919 I know, I literally thought we should put like an 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:44.720 I feel like counter just because I mean we said 0:00:44.720 --> 0:00:46.680 it at least like five hundred times last episode. 0:00:46.720 --> 0:00:48.880 I know, Okay, I'm going to do a better job, 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:52.120 guys of trying to like delete that from my bucap same. 0:00:51.960 --> 0:00:54.680 Here, and so let's jump in. We both have talked 0:00:54.680 --> 0:00:58.120 about being very careful about choosing a partner, and so, BIB, 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.920 what are some of your deal breakers? I hate smacking, 0:01:01.040 --> 0:01:04.959 like chewing with your mouth open, and like hearing people eat. 0:01:05.200 --> 0:01:08.520 That is like such a disgusting like turnoff. If you 0:01:08.520 --> 0:01:11.520 don't have proper home training or like etiquette, you can't 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:14.400 chew your food like right, then that's like a deal 0:01:14.440 --> 0:01:16.039 breaker for me, like right out the gate. And then 0:01:16.120 --> 0:01:19.240 also like I feel, I just I'm not attracted to 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:23.320 like cloud chasers or like people that like want to 0:01:23.400 --> 0:01:27.319 hitch on to whatever trending bandwagon there is. You know, 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:30.679 I feel I definitely grew up with like a like 0:01:30.800 --> 0:01:33.720 a you know, a more private upbringing, and so I 0:01:33.760 --> 0:01:36.040 feel like I'm good with my crew. You know, I'm 0:01:36.080 --> 0:01:39.559 good with whoever's around me, and so I'm not constantly 0:01:39.600 --> 0:01:42.080 looking for what's next or trying to jump on like 0:01:42.120 --> 0:01:44.240 the hottest trend. So I think that would be a 0:01:44.240 --> 0:01:44.959 deal breaker for me. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:47.960 You know, I used to keep guys phone numbers in 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:52.360 my phone based on like who they were, where they were. 0:01:52.440 --> 0:01:55.000 So I had a guy on my phone that I 0:01:55.080 --> 0:01:56.800 met and he was from Germany, and I had him 0:01:56.840 --> 0:01:58.000 under my phone. Is German? 0:01:58.360 --> 0:01:58.680 Okay? 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:01.280 I had a guy that used to eat really bad 0:02:01.360 --> 0:02:03.520 and you would have like you could have never sat 0:02:03.560 --> 0:02:05.200 at the same dinner table with him because you would 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:08.880 have been disgusted. And I had him under baboon because 0:02:08.919 --> 0:02:12.560 you just ate so bad. Yes, I feel like it's 0:02:12.560 --> 0:02:14.600 always my friends and I would always like we would 0:02:14.600 --> 0:02:16.760 forget the guy's actual name because we would have like 0:02:16.800 --> 0:02:19.359 an alias form at all times, so they would be like, 0:02:19.600 --> 0:02:21.640 where's German? And and then like I'd be like, wait, 0:02:21.680 --> 0:02:24.520 what is his name again, because we couldn't remember because 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:27.320 we would just put him under like the nickname we 0:02:27.320 --> 0:02:27.840 would give him. 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.520 Yeah, I'm big with like first name and city. I'm 0:02:30.520 --> 0:02:34.000 pretty good with like names and faces. So most often 0:02:34.000 --> 0:02:38.040 when I meet somebody, I'll save them as like whatever 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:38.840 their first name. 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:43.040 Is in the city the city. 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:43.959 Just because sometimes it's easier. If I'm touching down in 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:48.160 New York or LA, then chances are I'm going to 0:02:48.240 --> 0:02:52.280 type in that city and you know who lives in 0:02:52.400 --> 0:02:53.400 I know who lives there. You know. 0:02:53.520 --> 0:02:54.919 Yeah, we should probably clear your phone. 0:02:57.200 --> 0:02:59.280 It's not like that, No, I just. 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:01.400 Feel like in anyway relationship, I think like you have 0:03:01.480 --> 0:03:03.760 to really be open and be able to communicate if 0:03:03.760 --> 0:03:06.079 you are going to be in a relationship, because that's 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:07.640 like the number one thing, and to be able to 0:03:07.639 --> 0:03:10.360 discuss everything, you know. Yeah, And I don't know if 0:03:10.600 --> 0:03:14.000 most relationships are supposed to be like monogamous, you know 0:03:14.040 --> 0:03:15.640 what I mean. I feel like a lot of people 0:03:15.800 --> 0:03:18.160 can't be that right now. It's weren't a time of 0:03:18.240 --> 0:03:21.359 like uncertainty. There's so many uncertain things. 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:23.359 If you're not going to be monogamous. I mean, obviously 0:03:23.440 --> 0:03:26.120 each relationship is different. It's all about the boundaries of 0:03:26.160 --> 0:03:30.760 whatever you guys said. But I feel I'm pretty confident 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:33.800 that there's still some strong monogamous relationships out there. And 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.040 if you're not going to be monogamous, then and if 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.320 that's not you know, agreed upon in the relationship, then 0:03:38.360 --> 0:03:40.440 just stay single, no yeah. 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:42.119 Or just let each other know, you know what time 0:03:42.120 --> 0:03:44.240 it is. I think if people just tell each other 0:03:44.280 --> 0:03:46.240 the truth, that's like the number one thing I feel like. 0:03:46.560 --> 0:03:48.880 I think it's more about liars, like just just be 0:03:48.920 --> 0:03:51.160 honest and open and just like tell people you know 0:03:51.480 --> 0:03:53.720 how you feel, and then there's like no room for 0:03:53.880 --> 0:03:56.040 error because it's like I told you I wasn't lying, 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:57.880 I told you yeah. 0:03:58.000 --> 0:04:00.160 And you know, my thing a big deal break for 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.280 me is like if you know, we hang around a 0:04:02.280 --> 0:04:05.840 lot of like influential, powerful people, celebrities, whatever you want 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:09.240 to call them, and so if you can't you know, 0:04:09.400 --> 0:04:12.640 act right in a room full of you know, successful people, 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:14.880 then that's like a big deal record for me, Like, 0:04:14.960 --> 0:04:17.520 if I can't take you nowhere, then yeah, I agree, 0:04:17.680 --> 0:04:20.160 then that's a deal breaker. Yeah, You've talked about when 0:04:20.200 --> 0:04:22.000 you meet somebody, you want to introduce them to your 0:04:22.000 --> 0:04:24.200 friends or a group, et cetera. And so what would 0:04:24.240 --> 0:04:26.920 you do if your friends genuinely didn't like your partner? 0:04:28.040 --> 0:04:29.480 Has that ever happened to you? 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:33.760 That's definitely happened before. And I thought that, like they 0:04:33.760 --> 0:04:36.520 were wrong, and I kind of went against the grain. 0:04:36.680 --> 0:04:39.240 And then I had to come back and like basically 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:40.839 like make up with all my friends because I was like, 0:04:40.880 --> 0:04:42.280 you were right. Okay, fine, you were right. 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:44.599 So your friends have like I said, I told you so. 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.640 Yeah. But I also feel like I'm the kind of 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:50.960 person that's like I try to bring out the best 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:52.920 in people, and I try to believe in everyone, and 0:04:53.040 --> 0:04:56.159 I always feel like I bring out something different in people. Yeah, 0:04:56.200 --> 0:04:58.560 and I kind of I feel like I'm a healer, 0:04:58.640 --> 0:05:00.520 you know, Like I feel like I'm I relate to 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:03.000 a lot of different people, like, yeah, you know people that. 0:05:03.000 --> 0:05:05.120 Are well, you are very caring. And I feel like 0:05:05.279 --> 0:05:08.960 that's been some feedback that we've gotten from our you know, listeners, 0:05:09.040 --> 0:05:11.560 is that you have a very soothing, calming voice. 0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:13.279 Oh my god, am I putting people to sleep? 0:05:13.920 --> 0:05:15.719 I don't think it's that. I just think you put 0:05:15.760 --> 0:05:19.520 people at like ease, and your voices very delicate and sexy, 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:20.200 and I love it. 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:21.000 Thank you. 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:22.640 I love your voice too, of course. 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:25.960 For me, you know, I've never really had a partner 0:05:26.120 --> 0:05:29.720 that my friends didn't like. You know, There's obviously been 0:05:29.800 --> 0:05:32.200 girls that I've dated, or we went out as a 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:35.559 group or something like that, and you know, the energy 0:05:35.640 --> 0:05:38.640 or the chemistry is off, But most often than not, 0:05:38.880 --> 0:05:41.120 then that person never came back around, you know. So 0:05:41.279 --> 0:05:44.400 I don't know, friends run them off, not necessarily. I 0:05:44.480 --> 0:05:47.720 just feel like, you know, it's one of those things 0:05:47.720 --> 0:05:50.720 where if my friends don't like you, then chances are 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:52.479 you know, my friends are very similar to me. 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:54.760 So that's the thing. I think you learn a lot 0:05:54.760 --> 0:05:57.440 about someone just by their friends. Yeah, and so if 0:05:57.440 --> 0:05:59.720 my friends don't like you, I probably won't like it. 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:03.480 But I also have very diverse friends. I have friends 0:06:03.480 --> 0:06:06.400 that are super successful in the business world. I have 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:10.520 friends that are amazing parents that you know, I look 0:06:10.600 --> 0:06:12.120 up to so much as far as like, that's the 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:14.239 hardest job in the world is to be an amazing parent. 0:06:14.880 --> 0:06:17.240 I have friends that are you know, they look really good, 0:06:17.320 --> 0:06:19.480 and I feel like you need to have, you know, 0:06:19.520 --> 0:06:21.880 a roster of friends. Friends that make you work out, 0:06:21.920 --> 0:06:24.400 friends that make you want to cook, friends that make 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:27.640 you want to you know, like be successful in the 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.680 workplace and investments. And you know, it's like when Lauren 0:06:30.720 --> 0:06:32.240 calls me and she's like, baby, did you see what 0:06:32.279 --> 0:06:34.520 happened in the stock market today? And I'm like, oh, shoot, 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.720 I need to call my people. It's good to have 0:06:36.800 --> 0:06:39.640 like a diverse group of people in your circle. I 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:41.320 feel like that really balances you out. 0:06:41.520 --> 0:06:44.080 Having friends that motivates you is always a plus. 0:06:44.120 --> 0:06:46.200 You know, you definitely need friends that motivate you and 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.279 friends that are like better than you and you aspire 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.400 to be like because I feel like a lot of 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:53.080 times people surround themselves with people that are below them 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.320 just because it kind of makes them feel good. And 0:06:55.400 --> 0:06:57.160 I feel like, for me, I don't I want to 0:06:57.200 --> 0:06:59.560 be around people that inspire me and make me better 0:06:59.600 --> 0:07:00.920 and make me want to do more. 0:07:01.040 --> 0:07:02.800 Yeah, you got to watch out for those people that 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:06.159 surround themselves with. Yeah, people that aren't going places or 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:06.640 people that. 0:07:06.600 --> 0:07:08.520 They employ that just tell them what they want to 0:07:08.560 --> 0:07:10.680 hear because there's a lot of people in LA that 0:07:10.720 --> 0:07:12.920 have a lot of friends, well they don't have real friends, 0:07:12.960 --> 0:07:14.840 they have a lot of people that they employ. And 0:07:14.880 --> 0:07:17.160 then you're in a circle of people that just say 0:07:17.160 --> 0:07:20.040 you're amazing and yes, yes, yes, Once you like look 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:23.080 at yourself, you're just like nobody. Yeah, you don't know 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:25.080 who you are anymore because it's like you're being fed 0:07:25.080 --> 0:07:26.160 all the stuff that's not real. 0:07:26.440 --> 0:07:29.800 I like that. I like that, Larsa. In the last episode, 0:07:29.800 --> 0:07:34.120 you briefly mentioned interacting with other NBA wives. Tell us 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:38.080 you know what the NBA culture was like from your perspective, I. 0:07:38.080 --> 0:07:40.040 Feel like the NBA culture is very competitive. 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:41.320 Oh yeah, for sure. 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:44.080 You know, you're surrounded by competitive guys. We're all fighting 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:47.480 for their's, you know, their place on the team. So 0:07:47.560 --> 0:07:50.760 I think that comes with competitive wives, and most most 0:07:50.760 --> 0:07:52.680 guys that are competitive want to be with the woman 0:07:52.720 --> 0:07:55.000 that's competitive. I don't feel like I think it kind 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:57.320 of goes hand in hand because when I think about 0:07:57.360 --> 0:08:01.000 most athletes that I know and their wives, they choose 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.640 women that are competitive as well. You know, you want 0:08:04.640 --> 0:08:06.720 someone that's kind of, you know, similar minded. 0:08:06.960 --> 0:08:08.840 I think it goes back to like what we were 0:08:08.840 --> 0:08:11.560 talking about about being surrounding yourself with good people and 0:08:11.600 --> 0:08:14.360 friends that motivates you. I feel like picking a partner 0:08:14.560 --> 0:08:17.320 is just as important, you know, because you're spending all 0:08:17.360 --> 0:08:20.400 that time with somebody, and so I mean, for me, 0:08:20.440 --> 0:08:24.080 I've always just kind of admired some of like the 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:26.720 NBA relationships that I've grown up around, because you know, 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:29.360 they're pretty strong and a lot of them are still 0:08:29.400 --> 0:08:32.079 together today or maybe they found somebody else, you know, 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.200 that they're with that motivates them in that way. So, 0:08:34.640 --> 0:08:37.000 you know, I feel like the NBA culture is pretty 0:08:37.000 --> 0:08:37.400 good with that. 0:08:38.000 --> 0:08:40.200 I love the NBA culture, But I will say that 0:08:40.240 --> 0:08:42.560 there were times that I was friends with players from 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:45.520 other teams and then they ended up being on our team, 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:47.040 and I didn't like the wives as much. 0:08:47.360 --> 0:08:48.880 Really yeah, because I kind. 0:08:48.800 --> 0:08:51.880 Of felt like I would they would just start to, like, 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:54.360 I don't know, just it became like competition. 0:08:54.520 --> 0:08:57.000 That's that's exactly what kind of Sometimes. 0:08:56.640 --> 0:08:58.480 You like someone from a distance and as soon as 0:08:58.480 --> 0:09:00.839 they come into your circle, you kind of feel like, Okay, 0:09:00.880 --> 0:09:02.719 now you're trying to do everything I'm doing, and can 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:03.600 you do something else? 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:06.160 Yeah? Yeah, you know, so you feel like there was 0:09:06.160 --> 0:09:08.079 some competition at times, like. 0:09:08.360 --> 0:09:11.640 I think, I think, I think so, and I feel 0:09:11.640 --> 0:09:12.960 like it's like that with the guys too. 0:09:13.520 --> 0:09:13.720 Yeah. 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:18.160 For instance, I remember when my ex played in Portland, Oregon. 0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:23.280 I remember I spent a lot of money making this 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.439 like coat, and like I would make my own jewelry 0:09:25.440 --> 0:09:28.200 and stuff, and then one of the wives literally had 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:30.960 the same exact coat made and the same exact jewelry 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:32.760 that I was making. She would literally go and make 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:35.360 the same stuff and I and I was like, I 0:09:35.400 --> 0:09:37.400 love the fact that, like you like the same things. 0:09:37.440 --> 0:09:40.040 I like, well, maybe do it just a little bit different, 0:09:40.679 --> 0:09:42.559 Like I'm like, we don't have to have the same thing. 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:44.040 And as a matter of fact, you could have borrowed 0:09:44.040 --> 0:09:46.240 my coat, Like we don't have to have the same 0:09:46.280 --> 0:09:47.120 of everything, you know. 0:09:47.520 --> 0:09:49.960 Yeah, that's not That's something that irritates me is like 0:09:50.160 --> 0:09:53.280 people copying other people's styles or without talking about it. 0:09:53.320 --> 0:09:56.000 You know, you know you can if you and I 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:58.800 feel like you can buy something, but like if you 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.599 were making it, that's kind of like annoying. 0:10:01.920 --> 0:10:03.920 Were there a lot of NBA wives who turned a 0:10:03.960 --> 0:10:06.719 blind eye to their husband's cheating? What's your uh, what's 0:10:06.760 --> 0:10:07.480 your take on that. 0:10:08.160 --> 0:10:10.640 You know, it's the NBA. There's a lot going on 0:10:10.679 --> 0:10:13.200 in the MBA. You kind of have to you kind 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:15.280 of have to sign up for certain things. Yeah, I 0:10:15.280 --> 0:10:17.120 feel like you have to be really strong, and like 0:10:18.559 --> 0:10:19.920 I think when you're in the NBA, there's a lot 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.400 of pressure, like game after a game, you're on the road. 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:24.600 You need someone that's stable at home that can like 0:10:24.679 --> 0:10:27.440 balance you out. You can't have a woman that's like 0:10:27.800 --> 0:10:30.160 going to drive you crazy about you going out or 0:10:30.280 --> 0:10:32.559 you not answering your phone at a certain time, because 0:10:32.559 --> 0:10:34.960 it's like there's so much pressure and so many other 0:10:35.000 --> 0:10:37.320 places that like at home, you really have to be 0:10:37.440 --> 0:10:40.240 like the one that like balances them out and make 0:10:40.280 --> 0:10:42.560 sure they feel good. Because it's like if you have 0:10:42.600 --> 0:10:44.480 stress everywhere you go and when you come home you 0:10:44.480 --> 0:10:46.240 have stress, Like what kind of like do you have? 0:10:46.480 --> 0:10:48.920 Yeah, I feel like you got to have a strong 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:49.719 foundation to. 0:10:49.720 --> 0:10:52.559 Be definitely have to have a strong athlete for sure. 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.880 And I think it might do you think it goes 0:10:54.920 --> 0:10:56.880 both ways? Sure for female athletes. 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:58.880 What's I don't think it's just the NBA. I think 0:10:58.920 --> 0:11:00.960 anytime you're married to a person that could be a 0:11:00.960 --> 0:11:03.960 doctor that has a very high stress level job. When 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:06.040 they come home, they want to have peace. They don't 0:11:06.040 --> 0:11:08.840 want to have drama at home. And so I think 0:11:08.840 --> 0:11:11.360 it's the NBA. I think it's anyone that's successful. You 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.160 can be a lawyer, you can be anything. I think 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:16.760 that you know, cheating is going to happen. Cheating happens everywhere. 0:11:16.760 --> 0:11:18.480 When I was seventeen years old, I worked at a 0:11:18.520 --> 0:11:21.040 mortgage company and I was it was a transition between 0:11:21.040 --> 0:11:23.560 my high school and I wanted to start college early. 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:25.440 So I graduated college in three and a half years 0:11:25.640 --> 0:11:27.199 because I wanted to start college and I want to 0:11:27.240 --> 0:11:29.160 go to law school and all this stuff. And I 0:11:29.200 --> 0:11:31.080 remember I was like, there was only a couple of 0:11:31.080 --> 0:11:33.200 girls that worked in the office, and all of those 0:11:33.240 --> 0:11:35.840 guys literally were married, and they would all hit on me. Yeah, 0:11:35.960 --> 0:11:38.920 So that was like my first like experience with like, God, 0:11:38.960 --> 0:11:40.520 there's a lot of cheating that goes on at work. 0:11:40.640 --> 0:11:42.640 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 0:11:42.679 --> 0:11:45.920 But I feel like, you know, people deserve second, third, fourth, 0:11:46.080 --> 0:11:48.640 fifth chances. Sometimes I feel like you have to believe 0:11:48.720 --> 0:11:50.960 in the best in people and just be able to 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:54.160 communicate and help each other through like those times. I 0:11:54.280 --> 0:11:58.360 do understand both sides of the coin. I see both 0:11:58.400 --> 0:12:00.920 sides of the coin. But I also feel like if 0:12:01.120 --> 0:12:02.800 a man is you know, if a man is willing 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:05.200 to cheat, just be prepared that. Chances are your girl's 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:07.640 gonna cheat too. That's just kind of how goes. If 0:12:07.640 --> 0:12:10.240 you can handle it, be prepared for that. 0:12:10.360 --> 0:12:12.280 You know, if you if you're going to dish it out, 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:13.560 you've gotta be ready to take it, right. 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:15.560 I mean, that's kind of how it goes, isn't it. 0:12:15.679 --> 0:12:17.440 I like that. I like that, And so for me, 0:12:17.520 --> 0:12:19.400 I mean, growing up in the NBA culture, I think 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:22.160 it was different for me just because, you know, being 0:12:22.240 --> 0:12:25.440 the son of somebody as big as my dad, you know, 0:12:25.480 --> 0:12:28.720 there's external pressures, you know, in terms of just playing 0:12:28.720 --> 0:12:31.480 the game and living up to you know, a certain 0:12:31.559 --> 0:12:33.520 name or something like that. But for me, I always 0:12:33.520 --> 0:12:36.320 found like I'm just as competitive as my dad is, 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:38.480 and so whenever I stepped on the court, I kind 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:41.440 of wanted to make my own name, prove to people that, like, 0:12:41.840 --> 0:12:43.840 I can play this game on my own laurels too, 0:12:44.040 --> 0:12:47.800 and so you know, I don't know, I just think that, uh, 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:50.360 you know, it's different, and it's funny because like you 0:12:50.760 --> 0:12:54.160 as a kid of someone that's an athlete or that's 0:12:54.360 --> 0:12:57.720 well off. You know, you don't know anything else. And 0:12:57.760 --> 0:13:00.760 so like for me, I didn't take my first commercial 0:13:00.800 --> 0:13:04.439 flight until I was sixteen years old. Up until then, 0:13:04.520 --> 0:13:06.880 I was flying private everywhere, and it's all I knew, 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.320 you know, even for AAU games, I would you know, 0:13:09.400 --> 0:13:11.560 meet the team in whatever city we were playing, and 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:14.920 I would fly private with my family. And so I 0:13:15.080 --> 0:13:17.719 just I'll never forget, you know, my teammates when I 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:21.080 was sixteen years old in Chicago, when young, they were 0:13:21.120 --> 0:13:23.240 all making fun of me because like when I got 0:13:23.240 --> 0:13:27.000 to my coaching Whitney Young, he never I had to 0:13:27.000 --> 0:13:28.839 fly with the team. He mandated that I fly the team. 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.360 There was no special treatment that I got, which, you know, 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.840 looking back on, I'm glad that he did that. But 0:13:35.360 --> 0:13:38.000 I just never forget like being sixteen going through the 0:13:38.040 --> 0:13:41.160 airport and all the kids making fun of me because 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:43.559 like I didn't know what the process was because I 0:13:43.600 --> 0:13:45.240 had never been on a commercial flight before. 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:47.760 That's so funn Yeah, story. 0:13:47.640 --> 0:13:50.080 It's so funny. And so do you think it takes 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:52.040 a certain type of person to be able to date 0:13:52.080 --> 0:13:53.719 a professional athlete? I feel like we touched on. 0:13:53.640 --> 0:13:55.720 That all Yeah, you definitely have to be strong. 0:13:55.960 --> 0:13:56.640 Yeah, you have to. 0:13:57.000 --> 0:13:58.280 You have to have a lot of faith because your 0:13:58.280 --> 0:14:00.800 faith will be challenged. Yeah, got to sign up for 0:14:00.840 --> 0:14:01.760 some good stuff, you know. 0:14:02.160 --> 0:14:02.679 But it's good. 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:05.840 I feel like if you you know, you can't really cheat. 0:14:05.880 --> 0:14:08.480 In twenty twenty three, because everything is so open, people 0:14:08.520 --> 0:14:11.800 will I was friends with this girl whose husband was 0:14:11.880 --> 0:14:13.760 cheating on her with someone that I just so happened 0:14:13.800 --> 0:14:16.120 to know. Wow, And she was a friend of a friend, 0:14:16.280 --> 0:14:20.720 not my friend, but she the girl that was the cheater, 0:14:21.600 --> 0:14:25.480 had someone DM the wife really and say, hey, these 0:14:25.480 --> 0:14:27.840 are the photos my girlfriend's been cheating on your husband. 0:14:27.840 --> 0:14:30.240 She was in Detroit, she was in you know, she 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:32.720 was in San France, she was just you know, Golden State, whatever. 0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:35.240 She was in all these places with your husband. And 0:14:35.440 --> 0:14:37.600 the wife called me and she was like, I think 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:39.880 you know her because you follow her on Instagram. And 0:14:39.880 --> 0:14:41.960 I was like, who is she? And so I looked 0:14:42.000 --> 0:14:43.480 and I was like, oh my god, I don't really 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:45.240 know her. I follow her because she's friends with one 0:14:45.240 --> 0:14:48.520 of my friends. But the moral of the story is 0:14:48.960 --> 0:14:51.760 girls will DM you and pretend they're the girl's friend 0:14:51.880 --> 0:14:53.920 or I hurt or whatever. So it's like really hard 0:14:53.920 --> 0:14:57.440 to like cheat in twenty twenty three, you know, so 0:14:57.480 --> 0:14:59.520 these guys really have to like be really My whole 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:01.160 point is guy have to be honest with their wives 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:02.520 and girlfriends. That's what I'm trying to say. 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:02.760 First. 0:15:02.840 --> 0:15:04.400 So if you're not one hundred percent in it, like 0:15:04.600 --> 0:15:07.280 just have that conversation so that way everyone's on the same. 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:10.920 Page with you. I'm going to leave this subject. 0:15:11.120 --> 0:15:12.840 I just feel like, just know what you're signing up there. 0:15:13.160 --> 0:15:15.200 And I'm the kind of person I'm like so open 0:15:15.200 --> 0:15:16.720 with all my stuff. I'm like, just tell me. 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.040 It's fine on that. And so would you want your 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:21.640 kids to date a professional athlete? 0:15:21.920 --> 0:15:22.440 Sure? Why not? 0:15:22.880 --> 0:15:23.920 Right course. 0:15:24.000 --> 0:15:26.120 I feel like I had a great experience. My experience 0:15:26.200 --> 0:15:28.520 with my ex was not bad. I had a great. 0:15:28.400 --> 0:15:32.520 Enough And I'm pretty sure that there's, like, you know, 0:15:32.720 --> 0:15:35.480 being a professional athlete, there's you grow up with like 0:15:35.560 --> 0:15:40.840 structure and foundation and like discipline and repetition, and so 0:15:41.480 --> 0:15:44.600 I do think that, you know, dating an athlete has 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:45.080 its perks. 0:15:45.360 --> 0:15:48.480 I was married to a basketball player, but then I 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:50.400 also dated like some guys in the music game, and 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:54.320 I think it's the basketball world is way better than 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:55.560 the music world to me. 0:15:55.760 --> 0:15:58.160 Yeah, and for reasons like. 0:15:58.160 --> 0:15:59.880 You just said, I just feel like those guys, like 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:04.240 athletes are more disciplined, they know their schedule, they're more structured. 0:16:04.280 --> 0:16:06.760 I feel like they're groomed to be athletes, and a 0:16:06.760 --> 0:16:08.440 lot of guys in the music game are not really 0:16:08.480 --> 0:16:11.360 groomed to be Yeah, you know, you kind of like 0:16:11.440 --> 0:16:12.560 have to harder. 0:16:12.760 --> 0:16:16.320 Yeah, different things different For athletes. There's like, you know, 0:16:16.640 --> 0:16:19.120 there's not this one big education that you get, but 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:22.040 there's learnings along the way, even from high school, college 0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:26.480 to the pros. And for musicians, I feel like once 0:16:26.520 --> 0:16:28.520 you get on, you're on. You know, there's never really 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:31.520 I mean, obviously there's musical coaching and all the different 0:16:31.520 --> 0:16:35.280 training that they do, but depending on your situation, there's 0:16:35.440 --> 0:16:39.880 rarely ever that guidance that you would see, like from 0:16:39.920 --> 0:16:40.920 a professional athlete. 0:16:40.960 --> 0:16:42.080 I think, yeah, I agree. 0:16:42.360 --> 0:16:44.480 And so Larsa, what advice have you given your son 0:16:44.840 --> 0:16:47.080 about the professional basketball world? 0:16:47.320 --> 0:16:49.640 You know, little Scott he's doing really good, it's killing it. 0:16:50.040 --> 0:16:52.880 He he's very disciplined. I think he's like hard working 0:16:52.920 --> 0:16:55.880 and he's really motivated. Yeah, I just kind of tell 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:57.920 him to, you know, be careful with the girls. 0:16:58.160 --> 0:16:59.440 Yeah, because I. 0:16:59.400 --> 0:17:02.240 Do feel like, if you know girls now, it wasn't 0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.800 like it was back in the day. And I feel 0:17:04.800 --> 0:17:07.199 like girls like they go for you, like they see you, 0:17:07.240 --> 0:17:08.440 they assume you're this, and. 0:17:08.400 --> 0:17:10.440 Then you don't think that was prevalent back in the day. 0:17:10.560 --> 0:17:12.800 I think it was harder to meet the guys. Back 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:14.560 in the day. It wasn't like it is now where 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:16.560 you can just look at your phone and DM anybody 0:17:16.600 --> 0:17:18.720 for sure, Whereas back in the day, I feel like 0:17:19.000 --> 0:17:21.080 it was not like that. And you know, when I 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:22.920 met my ex, I didn't even like him, like it 0:17:22.960 --> 0:17:25.680 wasn't like it was not like that. He was friends 0:17:25.720 --> 0:17:27.760 with my friends. That's kind of how that went down too. Yeah, 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:30.280 he was friends with my friends. My friend was dating 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:33.200 one of his teammates, sure Ron Harper, and that's kind 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:35.680 of how we met. But so yeah, I'm kind of 0:17:35.720 --> 0:17:37.080 I just make sure. I want to make sure that 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:40.800 little Scotty is dating, like Scotti Junior is meets a 0:17:40.800 --> 0:17:42.760 girl that kind of has stuff to offer him as well. 0:17:42.840 --> 0:17:45.480 Yeah, well, I feel like he's so focused on hooping 0:17:45.560 --> 0:17:48.520 right now, like yeah, when that happens, when whoever comes along, 0:17:48.680 --> 0:17:52.280 like he'll know, but he's not searching for like a girl. 0:17:52.359 --> 0:17:54.760 I think his he's addicted to the game, you know 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:56.960 what I'm saying, to the game, at least when I've 0:17:56.960 --> 0:17:59.240 talked to him. You know, he's so motivated and focused 0:17:59.280 --> 0:18:01.480 on getting better. He'll travel out of state to train 0:18:01.520 --> 0:18:04.040 with the best you know, coaches and stuff. So you know, 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.040 Summer League's coming up. I wish him the best. I 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:07.640 hope he balls out same same. 0:18:07.720 --> 0:18:09.520 But you know, I also feel like being with someone 0:18:09.520 --> 0:18:11.840 that has come from like a nice pedigree, like a 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:13.960 nice family. Yeah, that has a lot to do with 0:18:14.000 --> 0:18:14.320 it too. 0:18:14.480 --> 0:18:17.960 Yeah, And you know, I think especially dating in this 0:18:18.480 --> 0:18:23.720 like celebrity environment, I feel like there's definitely wait put on, 0:18:23.840 --> 0:18:27.479 like your family history, family background, pedigree, all that stuff. 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:38.640 So I can understand that. Let's talk about a day 0:18:38.640 --> 0:18:41.560 in the life of Larcas. I feel like, you know, 0:18:41.640 --> 0:18:46.439 people you know, expect us to be you know, doing X, 0:18:46.560 --> 0:18:49.400 Y and Z, and in reality, you know, we're oftentimes 0:18:49.400 --> 0:18:51.719 just kicking back and hanging at the house and you know, 0:18:52.280 --> 0:18:55.439 working on business et cetera, et cetera. So babe, uh, 0:18:56.040 --> 0:18:57.720 I guess this first question is for you, are we 0:18:57.800 --> 0:19:02.000 officially living together? Because I know, I think I mean, yeah, 0:19:02.720 --> 0:19:05.200 I feel like we are, but we are. I feel 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:09.480 like I feel like, you know, we are because whenever 0:19:09.520 --> 0:19:12.159 I'm in Miami, I'm here and I'm spending majority of 0:19:12.200 --> 0:19:14.080 the month here versus Orlando. 0:19:14.240 --> 0:19:15.680 So three days that you mean you go back to 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:17.680 our life. I mean, you're not living together. 0:19:18.040 --> 0:19:20.639 No, we're We're definitely living together. But I still do 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:23.280 have my place in Orlando. I go back for the 0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:28.480 trophy room, you know, often for work, and so I'd say, yes, 0:19:28.520 --> 0:19:31.280 we are living together, but it's like a fifty to fifty. 0:19:31.760 --> 0:19:34.280 Would you agree with that fifty it's like three weeks 0:19:34.280 --> 0:19:36.680 I'm here and there's like a week that I'm in. 0:19:37.680 --> 0:19:39.359 I mean, it's not fifty to fifty. It's like seventy 0:19:39.359 --> 0:19:40.160 five to twenty five. 0:19:40.359 --> 0:19:44.159 It's more like eighty five fifteen. I mean, I like 0:19:44.200 --> 0:19:46.040 the fact that you still have to go to Orlando 0:19:46.080 --> 0:19:47.800 and take care of your business and do all that stuff, 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:49.320 and then you know, when you're here, we're together. 0:19:49.520 --> 0:19:49.760 Yeah. 0:19:50.119 --> 0:19:52.240 I don't ever want to put pressure on like any 0:19:52.240 --> 0:19:55.600 relationship that I'm in or you know, I just I 0:19:55.720 --> 0:19:57.399 just do it feels good and what feels right, and 0:19:57.640 --> 0:19:59.760 the water feels good, and I like the temperature, then 0:19:59.760 --> 0:20:01.320 I Dane and if I feel like it gets too 0:20:01.359 --> 0:20:03.359 hot or whatever it is, and you know. 0:20:03.400 --> 0:20:05.560 Yeah, I like that. I like that. And so who 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:06.640 wakes up first? 0:20:06.920 --> 0:20:08.080 We wake up about the same time. 0:20:08.240 --> 0:20:11.200 I wake up before you. You do not, wait before 0:20:11.840 --> 0:20:15.160 absolutely you do not. Oh my goodness, First of all, 0:20:15.119 --> 0:20:17.760 are you okay? So I definitely wake up before you, 0:20:17.880 --> 0:20:20.600 like five minutes I wake up, and sometimes I like 0:20:20.640 --> 0:20:22.280 to let you sleep. I get on my phone a 0:20:22.280 --> 0:20:23.440 little bit, check my emails. 0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:23.920 Okay. 0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:26.800 But you think because you get out of bed before me, 0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:28.479 that you're up before me, But that's not true. 0:20:28.720 --> 0:20:30.720 Okay, so maybe you get up a couple of minutes 0:20:30.760 --> 0:20:34.320 before me, But I'm the one that like literally gets. 0:20:34.119 --> 0:20:36.159 Up, Like you get out of bed before I do that. 0:20:36.359 --> 0:20:39.359 Get up, I like make coffee or tea, and like 0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:41.680 I bring it to you in bed, that's true. And 0:20:41.720 --> 0:20:44.399 then I get ready to work out. Yeah, Or I 0:20:44.400 --> 0:20:46.159 take my calls and you take your calls and I 0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:48.000 say to you, is there anything I can get you 0:20:48.040 --> 0:20:50.080 before I get on the phone and get my calls, 0:20:50.480 --> 0:20:53.600 and then I make you breakfast or you know, you're. 0:20:53.560 --> 0:20:55.159 Kind of talking about our morning routine that was going 0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:57.800 to be on My next question is morning the morning 0:20:57.840 --> 0:20:58.640 routine like. 0:20:59.640 --> 0:21:03.679 We you know, we basically get up, work out, just 0:21:03.880 --> 0:21:08.440 I start working on large summary or a luho or 0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:10.040 you know, just all the stuff that we have going on. 0:21:10.080 --> 0:21:11.600 We have a schedule of things that we kind of 0:21:11.960 --> 0:21:14.760 have to go through a brity or production meetings for housewives. Yeah, 0:21:15.480 --> 0:21:18.800 and you know we do. We like to cook. I 0:21:18.880 --> 0:21:19.680 like to cook a lot. 0:21:19.920 --> 0:21:20.600 You do cook a lot. 0:21:20.680 --> 0:21:22.200 You like to go out a lot. 0:21:23.480 --> 0:21:25.120 I think you mean go out to eat. 0:21:25.240 --> 0:21:27.679 Yes, yeah, I mean you're used to it, because I 0:21:27.680 --> 0:21:29.520 think you're you're more used to going out than I am. 0:21:29.680 --> 0:21:32.199 I just yeah, exactly. I'm not a big cook, so 0:21:32.680 --> 0:21:34.680 it's not like I was cooking in Orlando. When I 0:21:34.680 --> 0:21:37.280 was hungry, I'd go out to eat. But I think, 0:21:37.920 --> 0:21:40.360 you know, I like your cooking. So it's definitely made 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:42.320 me want to stay at home a little more for dinner. 0:21:42.359 --> 0:21:42.800 For sure. 0:21:43.080 --> 0:21:44.439 I like to cook for you. I think that's like 0:21:44.480 --> 0:21:46.000 something fun that couples can do together. 0:21:46.200 --> 0:21:48.080 So when we do go out, what's one of your 0:21:48.080 --> 0:21:50.639 favorite spots or two or three of your favorite spots 0:21:50.680 --> 0:21:51.760 to go for dinner. 0:21:52.520 --> 0:21:57.320 I feel like we like going to I'm going to 0:21:57.359 --> 0:22:00.560 say Carbone he's good. 0:22:01.040 --> 0:22:05.320 Get go, get go, we go to you know what 0:22:05.320 --> 0:22:07.760 you're missing. I was just about to say, it's like. 0:22:07.800 --> 0:22:10.720 The top of your listeners. I love it's so good. 0:22:11.080 --> 0:22:13.399 So if you guys need any recommendations from Miami, I 0:22:13.400 --> 0:22:14.959 feel like we're good at like a lot of spots, 0:22:14.960 --> 0:22:16.560 Like I know, all lot of spots in most cities. 0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:19.080 Yeah, I mean, yeah, exactly, you can go anywhere, but 0:22:19.119 --> 0:22:22.679 when we're in Miami, I feel like Zz's Carbone get. 0:22:24.600 --> 0:22:26.040 I like Kimoto Kimoto. 0:22:28.480 --> 0:22:30.639 Yeah, we hit everything, we hit everything. 0:22:30.800 --> 0:22:31.080 Yeah. 0:22:31.520 --> 0:22:34.199 How long does it take you to get ready? Who 0:22:34.280 --> 0:22:35.600 takes longer to get ready? 0:22:35.720 --> 0:22:38.040 It's a toss up, babe. I think it's well, if 0:22:38.040 --> 0:22:39.560 I don't have to do my hair, then it's really 0:22:39.560 --> 0:22:41.560 a toss up because you have, like men spent a 0:22:41.560 --> 0:22:43.359 lot of time like on their grooming stuff. 0:22:43.840 --> 0:22:46.240 So look, I do have a self care routine. I'm 0:22:46.280 --> 0:22:49.399 not going to you know. I like to be clean. 0:22:49.480 --> 0:22:52.120 I like to take care of myself. Listen whatever. Yeah, 0:22:52.280 --> 0:22:57.159 I moisturize its beard waves or right whatever. But I 0:22:57.200 --> 0:23:01.120 feel I feel like when you get your gland, it's 0:23:01.160 --> 0:23:04.240 spread out throughout like you're getting ready. Takes like three 0:23:04.320 --> 0:23:06.720 four hours it's not necessarily four hours. I'm just saying. 0:23:06.760 --> 0:23:08.320 It's like, you'll get your hair done, you'll get your 0:23:08.359 --> 0:23:10.439 makeup done, you'll lay down, you'll take a nap, you'll 0:23:10.480 --> 0:23:12.040 get up. You know what I'm saying. It's like when 0:23:12.080 --> 0:23:14.920 I get ready, exhausting way I get ready, Like. 0:23:16.960 --> 0:23:20.239 You know, what's my favorite thing to do? Nothing Like 0:23:20.359 --> 0:23:22.399 just to like not have to worry about hair and makeup, 0:23:22.400 --> 0:23:24.120 put my ear in a bun and work out, take 0:23:24.160 --> 0:23:25.920 a shower and just stay like that. A'll dance wats. 0:23:25.960 --> 0:23:28.560 I could literally live in Swats. That's like my comfort zone. 0:23:28.600 --> 0:23:30.679 I don't really need to do all the extra stuff. 0:23:30.920 --> 0:23:33.480 Trust me, I'm with you on that. But I do. 0:23:33.400 --> 0:23:35.720 Think if could you be with a woman that didn't 0:23:35.720 --> 0:23:36.400 shave around. 0:23:36.160 --> 0:23:45.200 Your arms, I mean, like for how long? 0:23:46.320 --> 0:23:48.040 I mean, I don't know. There's like a lot of 0:23:48.040 --> 0:23:50.280 women these days that don't like to shave. They like 0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:51.959 el natural is the way to go. 0:23:52.280 --> 0:23:54.320 I think it's a cultural thing, Like I think it's 0:23:54.320 --> 0:23:56.600 big in Europe where you find that more often. But 0:23:56.680 --> 0:23:59.679 like I don't it's not a one deal breaker for me. 0:24:00.119 --> 0:24:02.240 Like obviously, if it's I mean, as long as it's 0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:04.919 well maintained and funking and ship like that. 0:24:05.080 --> 0:24:08.080 It would it would clearly it would be like, Okay. 0:24:07.840 --> 0:24:11.240 I don't know. Look, it's not a one you'll. 0:24:11.080 --> 0:24:13.439 Never have to You'll never have to like see me 0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:15.840 do that, You'll never have to do over that. 0:24:15.960 --> 0:24:18.760 Yeah, but I do think I take longer showers in 0:24:18.840 --> 0:24:19.520 you you do. 0:24:19.640 --> 0:24:21.960 You take longer everything than me, live bed longer than me. 0:24:22.040 --> 0:24:24.879 You take longer showers than me. You spend more time 0:24:24.920 --> 0:24:26.080 on your beard than I don't. 0:24:26.520 --> 0:24:28.639 I mean I like to stretch in the shower and like, 0:24:28.840 --> 0:24:31.119 you know, start my day and getting my routine. So 0:24:31.359 --> 0:24:33.680 I think that's what takes That's what takes longer. Okay, 0:24:34.040 --> 0:24:35.600 do you guys like to shop together? Do we like 0:24:35.600 --> 0:24:36.160 to shop together? 0:24:36.680 --> 0:24:38.639 I think we like to shop together. I feel like 0:24:38.680 --> 0:24:40.920 I really like your taste. You have great taste, thank you, 0:24:41.000 --> 0:24:42.080 and you're very patient. 0:24:42.480 --> 0:24:44.800 I am very I've learned that that is an acquired 0:24:44.960 --> 0:24:46.119 trait really. 0:24:46.000 --> 0:24:47.760 Because I feel like there's not that many guys that 0:24:47.760 --> 0:24:49.280 I would want to go shopping with. And when I 0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:52.119 say shopping, I mean like go into four different so you. 0:24:52.000 --> 0:24:54.960 Go when like I'm different when I go shopping, and 0:24:55.000 --> 0:24:57.040 I feel like most men like when I go shopping. 0:24:57.160 --> 0:24:59.399 I know exactly what I'm looking for. I go to 0:24:59.440 --> 0:25:01.960 one store or maybe two stores, like I'm looking for 0:25:01.960 --> 0:25:04.400 an exact item, and I get the hell out of there. 0:25:04.560 --> 0:25:07.159 And I feel like, for you, you like to just 0:25:07.200 --> 0:25:09.200 go to the mall. You might have an idea of 0:25:09.240 --> 0:25:11.640 what you're looking for, but you like to walk around aimlessly, 0:25:12.000 --> 0:25:15.240 and then you get distracted too by like other items 0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:17.960 and all this stuff. And so my going to the 0:25:17.960 --> 0:25:21.080 mall is like even like, for example, like what BA 0:25:21.200 --> 0:25:25.320 Harbor is like thirty minutes away from here, right, and 0:25:25.359 --> 0:25:28.280 so I think I could get to about Harbor and 0:25:28.400 --> 0:25:31.359 back within like an hour hour ten minutes, you know, 0:25:31.480 --> 0:25:33.680 ten minutes, and walking in thirty minutes back and forth, 0:25:34.160 --> 0:25:37.760 your trip about Harvard is like six hours. It's like 0:25:37.840 --> 0:25:40.520 we're walking aimlessly. We got to take a lunch break. 0:25:40.600 --> 0:25:43.320 We might have in a coffee break, coffee break, you know, 0:25:43.920 --> 0:25:44.760 your best life. 0:25:45.160 --> 0:25:46.960 But I don't. I'm not one of those people that 0:25:47.080 --> 0:25:49.040 likes to shop Like I'm not one of those people 0:25:49.040 --> 0:25:50.359 that can do this all the time. I do it 0:25:50.400 --> 0:25:52.840 every now and then. Yeah, I have an amazing stylist 0:25:52.840 --> 0:25:55.280 now Kimmy, that I love, and she literally shopps is great, 0:25:55.320 --> 0:25:57.720 She's great. I don't have the patience or the time 0:25:57.840 --> 0:26:00.159 to like so when I do get that like one 0:26:00.200 --> 0:26:01.879 day where I'm like, oh my god, we're going to 0:26:01.960 --> 0:26:03.560 go shutting, let's go. I want to go to the 0:26:03.600 --> 0:26:06.520 websterair let's go. And for me that day is like 0:26:06.640 --> 0:26:08.480 I just want to enjoy it because I never do it. 0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:11.440 And for me, I mean, you do have a lot 0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:13.720 of like fittings, and Kimmy does a lot of polls 0:26:13.720 --> 0:26:15.080 for you, so you should do a lot of your 0:26:15.119 --> 0:26:18.560 shopping in the apartment, which is different for me. You know, 0:26:18.640 --> 0:26:21.840 jordan Brand sends me product every month, and you know, 0:26:21.880 --> 0:26:24.160 for Trophy Room, I'm also designing product all the time. 0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:26.879 So I feel guilty every now and then when I 0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:30.800 buy other clothes just because it's like I don't need anything. 0:26:31.119 --> 0:26:34.600 I've got so much stuff. You have way too much time, 0:26:34.640 --> 0:26:36.919 I know, and so it's like I feel guilty sometimes 0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:39.040 when I do buy and like, but every now and then, 0:26:39.119 --> 0:26:41.399 you know, if I see a piece or most I 0:26:41.440 --> 0:26:43.440 think what I buy the most of is like denim 0:26:43.600 --> 0:26:45.880 because Jordan Brand obviously doesn't make dinim like that, and 0:26:46.400 --> 0:26:49.080 you know, I love some of Mary jeans, so that's 0:26:49.320 --> 0:26:52.000 that's my biggest advice. I feel like, right now, that's cut. 0:26:52.760 --> 0:26:54.200 Who's the biggest spender. 0:26:54.800 --> 0:26:56.680 You for sure? 0:26:56.760 --> 0:26:59.000 Yeah, definitely. I spend a lot. 0:27:00.040 --> 0:27:02.080 So you spend money on things that like I would 0:27:02.320 --> 0:27:05.160 never I think of the things that you spend money 0:27:05.200 --> 0:27:08.239 on for me, I'd rather have, like like what I 0:27:08.440 --> 0:27:11.000 something that like appreciates in value. 0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:16.040 I don't spend money on things that I appreciate I think 0:27:16.760 --> 0:27:18.400 I buy. 0:27:18.600 --> 0:27:21.119 Okay, let me ask you a question. If we get married, 0:27:21.119 --> 0:27:23.080 do we have a a like do we have one 0:27:23.200 --> 0:27:25.439 bank account, like a joint bank account? Or do I 0:27:25.480 --> 0:27:26.960 have my own money and you have your own money. 0:27:28.760 --> 0:27:31.400 There's a conversation because I was I was literally one 0:27:31.400 --> 0:27:34.000 of my best friends at the time was getting married 0:27:34.000 --> 0:27:36.560 to this guy. And it was the day after their wedding. Yeah, 0:27:36.640 --> 0:27:39.919 this is a pretty big celebrity. Yeah, And she asked me, 0:27:40.200 --> 0:27:42.360 she said, hey, do you and you're This is when 0:27:42.359 --> 0:27:43.639 I was married. She said, hey, do you and your 0:27:43.720 --> 0:27:46.160 husband have a joint account? And I was like, yeah, 0:27:46.160 --> 0:27:47.600 when I married and I had no money, like I 0:27:47.640 --> 0:27:49.760 was in college, and so she was like, do you 0:27:49.800 --> 0:27:52.400 think we should And I said no, don't do it 0:27:52.560 --> 0:27:54.240 really well because I didn't think they were going to 0:27:54.240 --> 0:27:56.199 stay together, and needless to say, they did break up. 0:27:56.240 --> 0:27:57.720 So that was a good There was some good advice 0:27:57.760 --> 0:28:02.119 I gave her, But I kind of like, would you 0:28:02.160 --> 0:28:04.760 trust me with Like if we had one bank account 0:28:04.800 --> 0:28:07.040 where we both put in I don't know, let's just 0:28:07.040 --> 0:28:10.000 say two million dollars, Okay, three million dollars? Would you? 0:28:10.000 --> 0:28:10.879 Two? Three? I like that? 0:28:10.960 --> 0:28:13.440 Two or three? Yeah? Two or three? Would you? Who 0:28:13.480 --> 0:28:15.640 do you think would be more responsible with that two 0:28:15.720 --> 0:28:16.639 or three million dollars? 0:28:16.640 --> 0:28:16.720 Mer? 0:28:16.800 --> 0:28:19.000 Or you just asking for a friend. 0:28:19.040 --> 0:28:23.200 That's a loaded question, I think. I mean, I spend 0:28:23.280 --> 0:28:26.200 more often. I feel like because I'm picking up dinners, 0:28:26.240 --> 0:28:28.760 I'm picking up this I like to buy, you know, 0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:33.439 spontaneous gifts or whatever. And you know, when I do 0:28:33.520 --> 0:28:35.840 make a big purchase, it is for like a like 0:28:35.880 --> 0:28:38.440 a Rolex, or for something that you know might hold 0:28:38.480 --> 0:28:39.280 his value whatever. 0:28:39.840 --> 0:28:43.040 So I feel like you're definitely a watch guy. 0:28:43.400 --> 0:28:46.520 Yeah. I feel like I spend more often, but your 0:28:46.680 --> 0:28:50.360 purchases are larger. Really, Yeah, so like when you're buying 0:28:50.360 --> 0:28:54.240 all your clothes or obviously you've got kids, so you're 0:28:54.320 --> 0:28:57.040 you know, you're dealing with tuition and yeah, all this 0:28:57.120 --> 0:28:59.160 other stuff. So I feel like you're the bigger spender 0:28:59.320 --> 0:29:02.280 overall total dollar amount. I feel like you're the bigger 0:29:02.280 --> 0:29:05.160 special But I feel like I spend more frequently. Okay, 0:29:05.800 --> 0:29:06.480 is that fair to say? 0:29:06.560 --> 0:29:08.280 That's fair to say. But would you trust me with 0:29:08.400 --> 0:29:10.120 your half of our. 0:29:11.000 --> 0:29:14.040 With the two to three million? Yeah, I got trust you. 0:29:14.040 --> 0:29:16.360 You're very conservative when it comes to spending. You spend 0:29:16.400 --> 0:29:18.760 on the right stuff, you know, so I don't have 0:29:18.920 --> 0:29:22.400 to worry about, you know, cash going missing out of 0:29:22.440 --> 0:29:25.880 the account. That's not what I'm worried about, you know. Yeah, 0:29:25.920 --> 0:29:27.080 we'll get there. We'll get there. 0:29:27.240 --> 0:29:27.520 Okay. 0:29:27.720 --> 0:29:29.720 How do we decide on dinner and how many nights 0:29:29.720 --> 0:29:31.000 of the week do we cook? I feel like we've 0:29:31.000 --> 0:29:32.400 been talking about this a little bit earlier. 0:29:32.440 --> 0:29:34.560 I like to stay home like three or four times 0:29:34.560 --> 0:29:36.760 a week. I know you kind of like to go 0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:38.640 out to dinner more, but I do feel like when 0:29:38.640 --> 0:29:40.959 you go out to dinner, there's so many preservatives and 0:29:41.000 --> 0:29:44.200 it's butter and everything, and you will blow up if 0:29:44.240 --> 0:29:46.360 you go out to eat a lot. 0:29:46.880 --> 0:29:51.040 I feel like I am. There's seasons for everything, you know, 0:29:51.520 --> 0:29:55.800 there's seasons for you know, going out, there's seasons for 0:29:56.000 --> 0:29:56.640 stay at home. 0:29:56.720 --> 0:29:58.880 There's answer the question marquis. 0:29:58.840 --> 0:30:01.160 So what how how do we decide on dinner? We 0:30:01.200 --> 0:30:03.760 decide on dinner based on how we feel. Yeah, you know, 0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:08.240 if we're working now, like exhausted, traveling, then most often 0:30:08.320 --> 0:30:12.440 we'll uber eat. So we'll grab like postmates or door desk, whatever, 0:30:12.520 --> 0:30:15.480 you know, we'll get food from somewhere, or you'll cook. 0:30:16.280 --> 0:30:18.760 That's I think that's the best way of doing things. 0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:20.840 Is literally, like if you want to save money, if 0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:24.520 you want to save some pounds and like eat better 0:30:24.560 --> 0:30:26.480 or whatever. I think it's like if you you know 0:30:26.520 --> 0:30:28.480 what I used to do and I should start doing 0:30:28.480 --> 0:30:29.840 this again. Is I used to make a menu for 0:30:29.880 --> 0:30:32.880 the week, and so I would grocery shop and make 0:30:32.880 --> 0:30:34.640 a menu for the week, and I knew exactly what 0:30:34.680 --> 0:30:36.920 I was gonna eat every single day for every meal. Yeah, 0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:39.080 and I would cook and I knew exactly what it was. 0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:40.800 And I know I'm not using all these like all 0:30:40.800 --> 0:30:43.920 this butter or like the lettuce is not like prepackaged 0:30:43.960 --> 0:30:46.440 where it's got all these preservatives. You're chopping everything and 0:30:46.440 --> 0:30:49.040 you're using like for your salad dress and you're using 0:30:49.080 --> 0:30:51.760 just lemon and olive oil. And I feel like that's 0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:54.880 the best way to really, like, you know, take advantage 0:30:54.920 --> 0:30:56.400 of your kitchen. 0:30:56.520 --> 0:30:59.120 You know, I agree. I agree, you've definitely been thrown down. 0:31:00.000 --> 0:31:03.080 I had a lot of Caesar salads and turkey burgers. 0:31:03.080 --> 0:31:04.200 I mean, I like to cook. 0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:06.840 I like to c What was the thing that you 0:31:06.920 --> 0:31:08.520 made that your mom had made? You made me? 0:31:08.880 --> 0:31:09.960 Oh like that Okra? 0:31:10.120 --> 0:31:11.160 Yeah it was like Okra and. 0:31:11.320 --> 0:31:15.640 Oh yeah, it's like Okras with this. It's really good. 0:31:15.720 --> 0:31:22.440 Shut out to miss Samira. Yeah, what goes down at night? Netflix? 0:31:22.560 --> 0:31:23.719 Anything? No, I'm just kidding. 0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.400 Everything goes now? What goes down at night Netflix? 0:31:28.040 --> 0:31:28.560 Exactly? 0:31:29.000 --> 0:31:29.440 What else? 0:31:29.840 --> 0:31:31.880 Well, we'll talk about the shows that we're watching right now. 0:31:32.240 --> 0:31:35.360 Yeah, I'd like to watch the show. I'm very much 0:31:35.400 --> 0:31:38.440 so like an HBO snob, and I feel like Lars 0:31:38.520 --> 0:31:41.240 is always so busy running around between the kids, work, 0:31:41.320 --> 0:31:44.320 filming for Housewives that like, when we do get like 0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:47.600 time alone at home, I like to throw on like 0:31:47.640 --> 0:31:49.240 a show for us to watch. And so, what's your 0:31:49.240 --> 0:31:51.760 favorite show that I've put you on recently? 0:31:52.680 --> 0:31:54.280 I'm kind of liking Idol right now. 0:31:54.440 --> 0:31:56.480 The Idol Yeah, yeah, I mean it's good. It's getting 0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:57.320 mixed reviews right now. 0:31:57.360 --> 0:32:00.280 I feel like, Yeah, I like it. I like the 0:32:00.280 --> 0:32:04.920 whole like la buy Yeah. Just think I think it's 0:32:04.960 --> 0:32:06.920 like a good little bunch of Yeah. 0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:10.640 I think it's you know, it's good to see some 0:32:10.680 --> 0:32:14.120 representation like that on HBO and TV, you know, because 0:32:14.920 --> 0:32:18.160 it's definitely more prevalent today. You know, those types of 0:32:18.200 --> 0:32:21.320 situations and you see them more in your face because 0:32:21.320 --> 0:32:23.680 of social media, you know, So shout out to them. 0:32:23.760 --> 0:32:24.720 I think they're doing a good job. 0:32:24.760 --> 0:32:27.520 Yeah, let's talk about how you made me watch Swarm. 0:32:27.800 --> 0:32:30.600 I did make you watch Swarm. I had been recommended 0:32:30.640 --> 0:32:33.120 Swarm from a couple of people that it was on 0:32:33.200 --> 0:32:35.959 Amazon Prime. I believe Donald Glover was kind of the 0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:38.400 creator executive producer of it. I thought it was good. 0:32:38.440 --> 0:32:39.920 What did you think of it? It was it was 0:32:39.920 --> 0:32:42.000 a little out there, it was more out of the box. 0:32:42.120 --> 0:32:42.880 It was unique. 0:32:43.000 --> 0:32:45.800 Yeah, there's definitely like it was a lot going on. 0:32:46.120 --> 0:32:48.640 It was a lot going on. But again, it's like 0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:51.960 kind of dealing with the music world and super fandom 0:32:52.000 --> 0:32:55.120 and you know how far some people will take things 0:32:55.200 --> 0:32:59.160 to the extreme. And again, you know, you probably know 0:32:59.200 --> 0:33:02.320 more than me just how how far people can take 0:33:02.360 --> 0:33:04.440 things today's world. It's kind of crazy. 0:33:04.640 --> 0:33:07.120 Look like the Beyonce right, but. 0:33:07.120 --> 0:33:09.320 Yeah, what else? What else goes down? 0:33:09.560 --> 0:33:11.560 The Righteous Gemstone. 0:33:11.920 --> 0:33:14.640 Yeah, that's another show that I really enjoy on HBO, 0:33:15.080 --> 0:33:18.480 The Righteous Gemstones. Danny McBride is a creator and I 0:33:18.480 --> 0:33:21.040 think writer of that show, and it's just one of 0:33:21.080 --> 0:33:23.440 those shows that's like for comic relief. You know. I 0:33:23.640 --> 0:33:27.560 followed his you know HBO shows from Eastbounding down to 0:33:27.800 --> 0:33:31.240 Vice Principals and now The Righteous Gymstones, and it's always 0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:33.880 it's always to laugh exactly. 0:33:33.920 --> 0:33:35.440 It's literally just like so funny. 0:33:35.440 --> 0:33:37.680 It's hilarious, and you know, it's again it's like a 0:33:37.680 --> 0:33:41.360 wealthy family dynamic and I don't know, it's just hilarious. 0:33:41.440 --> 0:33:45.080 My favorite character is I can't remember the sister's named. 0:33:44.960 --> 0:33:47.040 Judy me too hilarious. 0:33:47.360 --> 0:33:49.840 I can't remember her real name, but she's so funny. 0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:51.960 She's definitely a boss. I love her attitude. 0:33:52.040 --> 0:33:54.440 Oh yeah. One of our favorite things to do at 0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:57.360 night is to like have a family meeting. 0:33:57.520 --> 0:33:59.520 We call it really family meeting. 0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:02.160 It's just like a recap of the day, what's going on. 0:34:02.280 --> 0:34:04.640 I feel like every day that goes by, there's so 0:34:04.720 --> 0:34:08.319 much tea, there's like a lot of chatter about us 0:34:08.320 --> 0:34:10.560 in the media. There's our friends are going through stuff, 0:34:10.600 --> 0:34:13.560 and so I feel like there's always information coming in 0:34:13.600 --> 0:34:15.680 from all over the place. And so one of the 0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:17.560 things we like to do at night is like just 0:34:17.600 --> 0:34:20.239 have a family meeting and recap everything and just you know, 0:34:20.680 --> 0:34:21.840 touch base on everything. 0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:25.520 So like, I think that's like really important for most relationships, right, Yeah, 0:34:25.520 --> 0:34:27.759 it's to kind of be able to like you know, 0:34:27.920 --> 0:34:30.719 like unwind and talk about everything and like things that 0:34:30.760 --> 0:34:32.560 make you feel good, things that don't make you feel good. 0:34:32.560 --> 0:34:34.240 Because I feel like that's like really important. 0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:37.319 Yeah, there's some other stuff to talk that goes down 0:34:37.360 --> 0:34:38.160 at night, but I don't think we. 0:34:38.160 --> 0:34:49.080 Can talk about now, let's not let's not. Oh, let's 0:34:49.080 --> 0:34:50.799 talk about celebrity divorces. 0:34:50.920 --> 0:34:51.400 Okay. 0:34:51.960 --> 0:34:53.880 So you know, Kevin Costner is in the process of 0:34:53.920 --> 0:34:57.560 getting divorced, right, and his wife has been I guess 0:34:57.560 --> 0:34:59.520 she's asking for two hundred and forty eight thousand a 0:34:59.520 --> 0:35:02.719 month sposal support and espousal support. I mean, I don't 0:35:02.719 --> 0:35:04.960 know if it's sposal support that's including I'm not I'm 0:35:05.000 --> 0:35:07.839 not sure, but I feel like that's like, that's that's 0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:08.759 what she's asking for. 0:35:09.840 --> 0:35:11.319 I didn't know Kevin Caston had it like that. 0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:13.600 Number one definitely has it like that. 0:35:13.719 --> 0:35:14.480 Shout out to him. 0:35:14.680 --> 0:35:16.880 But I don't know if the numbers are right, because 0:35:16.960 --> 0:35:18.520 let me tell you, there are the numbers that I've 0:35:18.520 --> 0:35:21.600 been thrown around with me that are so inaccurate. Yeah, 0:35:21.719 --> 0:35:22.560 that my housekeeper. 0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:24.480 It's funny. I feel like my mom says the same 0:35:24.520 --> 0:35:25.200 thing about her. 0:35:25.360 --> 0:35:26.759 Yeah, of course, the numbers are. 0:35:26.680 --> 0:35:28.960 Never She's like, the numbers are never right. That's exactly 0:35:29.000 --> 0:35:29.520 what she says. 0:35:29.600 --> 0:35:32.080 The numbers are never right. Because my housekeeper called me 0:35:32.080 --> 0:35:35.160 a few days ago and she was like, oh my god, congratulations, Larsa, 0:35:35.239 --> 0:35:39.640 You're getting fifty million dollars. And I was like, fifty 0:35:39.719 --> 0:35:41.719 million dollars? What did I win the lottery or something? 0:35:41.760 --> 0:35:43.520 Do you buy me a ticket meet that? Because how 0:35:43.560 --> 0:35:44.120 do I like? 0:35:44.200 --> 0:35:45.400 How that's so funny? 0:35:45.480 --> 0:35:47.920 And then I guess it's because, you know, you know, 0:35:47.960 --> 0:35:51.160 all the news media is saying that I'm getting half 0:35:51.239 --> 0:35:54.799 of my ax's pension and IRA. And the funny thing is, 0:35:54.880 --> 0:35:57.640 I don't even know what's in those accounts, right, And 0:35:57.680 --> 0:35:59.600 I called my lawyer and I said, hey, by the way, 0:35:59.640 --> 0:36:01.279 what's then those accounts? And he goes, I have no 0:36:01.320 --> 0:36:03.359 idea you'd have to call the NBA, right, So none 0:36:03.400 --> 0:36:04.600 of us know what's in those accounts. 0:36:04.960 --> 0:36:07.120 Yeah, so I do. So you guys a homework to do. 0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:08.719 So no, I don't. I don't even want to. I 0:36:09.160 --> 0:36:10.560 feel like, let it be what it's going to be. 0:36:10.600 --> 0:36:12.359 I'm not going to like call the NBA and ask 0:36:12.440 --> 0:36:14.319 what it is. I feel like let people assume what 0:36:14.360 --> 0:36:15.680 it is. I don't know what it is. I don't 0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:16.359 need it. I'm good. 0:36:16.640 --> 0:36:19.720 Yeah. Now that's funny because I've you know, I've seen 0:36:19.800 --> 0:36:22.319 and my friends have like sent me screenshots of like 0:36:22.440 --> 0:36:24.720 my net worth on you know, if you google Marcus 0:36:24.800 --> 0:36:26.920 Jordan net worth and I think it's like north of 0:36:26.960 --> 0:36:29.319 like five hundred million dollars, Oh my gosh. And so 0:36:29.400 --> 0:36:31.759 I remember one day I like screenshot that and sent 0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:33.520 it to my dad and I'm like, hey, Dad, you know, 0:36:34.280 --> 0:36:37.200 where's the money, because like, you know, it's definitely I'm 0:36:37.200 --> 0:36:39.040 not sitting on five hundred million dollars right now. 0:36:39.320 --> 0:36:41.600 That's so funny. I know, I feel like they always 0:36:41.600 --> 0:36:43.200 have it wrong. So I feel like, I don't know 0:36:43.200 --> 0:36:45.200 if I believe people's net worth. I don't know if 0:36:45.239 --> 0:36:47.160 I believe you know, a lot of stuff they're in 0:36:47.200 --> 0:36:49.120 the chablished because they don't know half the stuff is 0:36:49.160 --> 0:36:50.520 not public, you know. 0:36:50.719 --> 0:36:52.080 Yeah, and then a lot of you know, a lot 0:36:52.120 --> 0:36:53.960 of times, you know, you got to be cautious of 0:36:54.000 --> 0:36:56.680 what you read on the internet. Not everything is it's 0:36:56.800 --> 0:36:58.400 fact you know, fact checked it. 0:36:58.560 --> 0:37:01.920 Yeah, and I think one media outlet posts something. I 0:37:01.920 --> 0:37:03.719 think the other ones just kind of piggyback off of that. 0:37:03.960 --> 0:37:05.560 Oh yeah, and it just kind of grows. 0:37:06.000 --> 0:37:07.719 Everybody's fighting for clicks, you know. 0:37:08.000 --> 0:37:09.640 Yeah. I feel like a lot of the stuff that's 0:37:09.640 --> 0:37:10.959 in the media sometimes is wrong. 0:37:11.080 --> 0:37:12.880 But two fifty a month, what do you think about that? 0:37:13.080 --> 0:37:15.000 Is that you know, obviously we don't know what. 0:37:15.200 --> 0:37:16.839 Listen, if that's what she's used to spending. I think 0:37:16.880 --> 0:37:19.560 it's based on your you know, your lifestyle, and if 0:37:19.560 --> 0:37:21.400 that's what she was spending normally, then why should she 0:37:21.440 --> 0:37:22.360 have to change your lifestyle? 0:37:22.440 --> 0:37:25.640 Yeah, you know, hey, I'm not mad at it. I 0:37:25.680 --> 0:37:28.800 think if you're in a relationship and you're committed to 0:37:28.840 --> 0:37:32.200 each other, married, et cetera, and you get accustomed to 0:37:32.280 --> 0:37:35.560 a certain lifestyle of you know, living, then clearly you're 0:37:35.880 --> 0:37:38.640 entitled to to try to maintain that in some way. 0:37:39.000 --> 0:37:41.800 So I think it's so you got to be careful 0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:43.520 who you marry, for sure. 0:37:43.600 --> 0:37:47.160 You definitely have to be careful who you married. You know. 0:37:47.200 --> 0:37:49.000 A lot of time, like we've been looking at stuff 0:37:49.000 --> 0:37:51.240 that people are talking about us on the blogs and whatnot. 0:37:51.239 --> 0:37:52.800 And I guess on Instagram. 0:37:52.520 --> 0:37:54.920 Yeah, yeah, there's some headlines about us out there that 0:37:55.000 --> 0:37:57.160 I feel like are not always accurate. 0:37:57.400 --> 0:37:59.959 Yeah, someone said on I guess they comment and they said, 0:38:00.040 --> 0:38:02.280 Larsa's trying to look younger for Marcus, And I'm thinking 0:38:02.440 --> 0:38:04.120 lars is trying to look younger for a Larsa. 0:38:04.360 --> 0:38:06.839 That's true. I feel like you always look like you're 0:38:06.880 --> 0:38:09.840 always gonna You're so young at heart in the soul, 0:38:10.120 --> 0:38:12.160 like you're never going to age. 0:38:12.600 --> 0:38:14.440 Well, I feel like aging is good, it's fine, you know. 0:38:14.520 --> 0:38:17.760 I feel like I've embraced that. Yeah, listen, it's about 0:38:17.840 --> 0:38:19.960 if you're happy on the inside, you're happy on the outside. 0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:21.839 There's plenty of people that are younger and miserable. There's 0:38:21.840 --> 0:38:24.239 people that are older and miserable. I think it's not 0:38:24.440 --> 0:38:26.840 I don't put emphasis so much on age. I put it, 0:38:27.000 --> 0:38:29.520 you know, on how you feel on the inside and 0:38:29.560 --> 0:38:31.480 how you feel on the inside. Really you show on 0:38:31.520 --> 0:38:32.319 the outside yeah. 0:38:33.000 --> 0:38:35.279 I like that. Yeah, I like that. Should we head 0:38:35.280 --> 0:38:36.840 over to block party. 0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:37.759 Let's do it? 0:38:38.040 --> 0:38:38.440 All? Right? 0:38:38.520 --> 0:38:39.920 So I have some people are block. 0:38:39.760 --> 0:38:42.799 Party, Let's do it. So this first comment that we 0:38:42.960 --> 0:38:46.040 received on our social page, it says, larsa run girl. 0:38:46.120 --> 0:38:49.080 Deep down, you know, he's just wasting your time. And 0:38:49.120 --> 0:38:50.080 so what's your thoughts on that. 0:38:51.400 --> 0:38:54.200 I don't think you can waste someone's time. I think 0:38:54.200 --> 0:38:57.279 it's like about the experience and the fun. And I 0:38:57.280 --> 0:38:58.720 don't think you're going anywhere, are you? 0:38:58.800 --> 0:39:00.880 No, I'm not going anywhere to soon. I mean, I 0:39:00.960 --> 0:39:03.640 just think it's you know, it's funny that. I just 0:39:03.880 --> 0:39:06.759 think at the root of that is like people just 0:39:06.800 --> 0:39:08.640 our age gap, you know, people think like, oh, I'm 0:39:08.640 --> 0:39:12.120 wasting a time, I'm young whatever. Like I don't know, 0:39:12.200 --> 0:39:13.960 I think it's I think it's bullshit. 0:39:14.719 --> 0:39:18.400 But she wasted her time writing that, by the way, exactly. 0:39:18.760 --> 0:39:22.200 The next comment says, trust me, this is all just lust. 0:39:22.600 --> 0:39:24.120 I mean, we do lust over each other. 0:39:24.520 --> 0:39:25.759 Definitely, there's a lot of lust. 0:39:26.080 --> 0:39:27.200 True, there's definitely. 0:39:27.480 --> 0:39:30.120 I feel like there's more love than there is lust. 0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:31.080 There's definitely more love. 0:39:31.200 --> 0:39:31.960 Their neck and neck. 0:39:32.320 --> 0:39:33.759 They're pretty close there, pretty close. 0:39:33.760 --> 0:39:35.839 But I will say that like, I love you as 0:39:35.840 --> 0:39:38.040 a person first. Yeah, I think I like love you 0:39:38.080 --> 0:39:39.560 and respect you as a person so much. 0:39:39.640 --> 0:39:40.399 I love you too bad. 0:39:40.600 --> 0:39:42.759 I feel like I always want you to win. 0:39:43.040 --> 0:39:44.920 I always want you to win. Yeah, I always want you. 0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:47.759 To think like when you when you're with someone that's 0:39:47.800 --> 0:39:49.680 like your best friend, and like I always want to 0:39:49.680 --> 0:39:52.000 see you happy and like to win and like just 0:39:52.080 --> 0:39:52.880 be in a good place. 0:39:53.040 --> 0:39:54.000 Yeah, for sure. 0:39:54.239 --> 0:39:55.239 So we do lust and love. 0:39:55.520 --> 0:39:58.600 Yeah, I think. I think for a healthy relationship there 0:39:58.640 --> 0:39:59.360 needs to be both. 0:39:59.600 --> 0:39:59.959 I agree. 0:40:00.360 --> 0:40:02.680 I don't want to know something over the person that 0:40:02.719 --> 0:40:05.319 you love, like what's going on? 0:40:05.440 --> 0:40:06.600 Then you're with the wrong person. 0:40:07.280 --> 0:40:11.040 Maybe we're blinders, Yeah, I mean they you know, people 0:40:11.440 --> 0:40:13.680 get creative in this day and age. 0:40:13.800 --> 0:40:14.560 I guess so. 0:40:15.160 --> 0:40:18.000 And then this last comment says, man, let me manage 0:40:18.000 --> 0:40:20.319 the storagey because you're never there, And I think that's 0:40:20.320 --> 0:40:21.239 so funny. 0:40:21.320 --> 0:40:23.240 About your store, about my store. 0:40:23.320 --> 0:40:25.279 And so I am not there on a lot right 0:40:25.320 --> 0:40:28.120 now because I'm here in Miami. But we're working on 0:40:28.640 --> 0:40:31.520 expanding trophy room very very soon, and so I can't 0:40:31.520 --> 0:40:34.360 say where or when, but things are in the works. 0:40:34.560 --> 0:40:36.799 So and I've got I've got a good posset on 0:40:36.840 --> 0:40:39.000 the store in Orlando, even when I'm not there. I've 0:40:39.000 --> 0:40:41.399 got a great team who you know, runs the shop 0:40:41.440 --> 0:40:44.160 while I'm gone and we're in constant communication, and so 0:40:44.719 --> 0:40:47.919 there's rarely anything happening at Trophy Orlando that I don't 0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:48.360 know about. 0:40:48.440 --> 0:40:50.319 So and I also feel like you've been working really 0:40:50.320 --> 0:40:51.160 hard on your shoe. 0:40:51.440 --> 0:40:54.279 Yeah, we got something new coming up again. I can't 0:40:54.520 --> 0:40:57.680 I can't say too much, but it's exciting. It is exciting. 0:40:57.760 --> 0:40:59.640 You're like really creative like that, like to be able 0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:02.080 to a sneaker that like you love and there's like 0:41:02.080 --> 0:41:04.560 a whole story behind it. It's like amazing. I love that. 0:41:04.640 --> 0:41:06.120 Yeah, I feel like we should maybe dive into that 0:41:06.120 --> 0:41:08.120 a little bit on our next episode. Yeah, because I'd 0:41:08.160 --> 0:41:09.360 love to talk about the process. 0:41:09.400 --> 0:41:12.160 It's it's so interesting, it's amazing and people would love 0:41:12.200 --> 0:41:12.919 to hear about that. 0:41:13.000 --> 0:41:15.359 Yeah. I mean, you know, obviously Nike's got some trade 0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:18.760 secrets I can't unveil. But it's a great process. I'm 0:41:18.800 --> 0:41:20.839 thankful and happy to be a part of it. Yeah. 0:41:20.880 --> 0:41:22.880 I love the journey where you see, like you know, 0:41:22.920 --> 0:41:25.200 when you kind of show all the different and. 0:41:25.520 --> 0:41:28.000 It takes like sixteen to eighteen months so well, it's. 0:41:27.800 --> 0:41:29.160 Just an idea until it happens. 0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:31.960 Yeah, And you know, the most frustrating part is like, 0:41:32.200 --> 0:41:35.040 you know, you work that long and with a group 0:41:35.080 --> 0:41:38.760 of people all trying to you know, make a great product, 0:41:38.880 --> 0:41:41.640 and then there's people out there that just like you know, 0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:44.800 it'll fall through the cracks or whatever, they leak information 0:41:44.960 --> 0:41:47.520 and then it's like they leak it without any context 0:41:47.680 --> 0:41:50.720 the story and what is going on. So it's sometimes 0:41:50.760 --> 0:41:54.680 it's like it's devastating because you know, you never want 0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:57.560 to put product out before it's ready, you know, to 0:41:57.560 --> 0:42:00.000 be received. So we'll talk about that next. 0:42:00.200 --> 0:42:01.600 I know it's a long process and I know you 0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:03.960 love it, so it's fun. I love watching you do it. 0:42:04.000 --> 0:42:05.719 Thank you, baby, I love having you with it. 0:42:05.960 --> 0:42:09.120 I love being on this journey with you. Well, guys, 0:42:09.200 --> 0:42:12.800 we have spent an amazing what is this thirty forty 0:42:12.840 --> 0:42:15.560 minutes with you guys. Yeah, it's a it's a wrap. 0:42:15.680 --> 0:42:17.680 Miss you guys, Love you guys. I hope you guys 0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:21.000 feel good and just know tomorrow is just going to 0:42:21.080 --> 0:42:21.479 get better. 0:42:21.640 --> 0:42:25.440 Make sure you follow us on Social Separation Underscore Anxiety 0:42:25.520 --> 0:42:29.080 Underscore podcast and subscribe to the podcast. 0:42:29.239 --> 0:42:34.080 Yep, see you guys soon peace, bye,