1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:07,040 Speaker 1: Donkey day. Damn he hogged. It's time the donkey of 2 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,760 Speaker 1: the j I mean trying to be donkey today. 3 00:00:09,800 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 2: No more. 4 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:12,360 Speaker 1: They should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm 5 00:00:12,400 --> 00:00:13,800 Speaker 1: not making these people do these days. 6 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 3: Called donkey of the day, and it really caught me 7 00:00:16,560 --> 00:00:19,919 Speaker 3: off guard. Damn Charlamagne, who got the donkey out of 8 00:00:19,920 --> 00:00:20,680 Speaker 3: the day today? 9 00:00:21,920 --> 00:00:24,840 Speaker 2: Well, just hilarious donkey today for Wednesday, August twenty seventh. 10 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,520 Speaker 2: We make sure that's twenty seventh, Yes, it's the twenty 11 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 2: seven goes to Robert Money and his fiance Melissa. 12 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,320 Speaker 1: How you say guerre gorreta Gerrera. 13 00:00:33,280 --> 00:00:35,600 Speaker 2: But I'm conflicted if both of them should get it 14 00:00:35,600 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 2: out explained now? 15 00:00:36,640 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 1: Who is Robert Monnette? 16 00:00:37,760 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: He is a man who shot his fiance in the 17 00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:41,200 Speaker 2: face at Olive Garden. 18 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,040 Speaker 1: Okay, let me explain something to you. 19 00:00:43,080 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 2: When a person you love is just playing signs of 20 00:00:45,440 --> 00:00:46,720 Speaker 2: mental illness, believed them. 21 00:00:46,800 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: Okay. 22 00:00:47,120 --> 00:00:49,479 Speaker 2: We don't have enough conversations about the people who have 23 00:00:49,520 --> 00:00:52,440 Speaker 2: to deal with people who deal with mental illness. Melissa 24 00:00:52,520 --> 00:00:54,080 Speaker 2: is one of those people. We always talk about the 25 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 2: person who is mentally ill, but what about the people 26 00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,360 Speaker 2: who loved them? See Melissa got shot in the face, 27 00:00:58,680 --> 00:01:01,320 Speaker 2: but she doesn't believe her fiance I say intentionally shot 28 00:01:01,360 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 2: her in the face. He was actually in court saying 29 00:01:04,000 --> 00:01:06,640 Speaker 2: she still loves him, and I'm sure she does now. 30 00:01:06,760 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 1: Robert's lawyers said it was an accident. 31 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 2: Well, what happened exactly, Well, Robin and Melissa were out 32 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:15,360 Speaker 2: to eat at Olive Garden, Okay, enjoying those unlimited bread sticks. 33 00:01:15,520 --> 00:01:17,720 Speaker 1: They planned to go shopping for an upcoming trip. 34 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:19,520 Speaker 2: To Texas, but Robert was also scheduled to have a 35 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:22,680 Speaker 2: mental evaluation at My Michigan Medical Center. 36 00:01:22,720 --> 00:01:23,039 Speaker 1: Okay. 37 00:01:23,080 --> 00:01:26,640 Speaker 2: Melissa said that before the shooting, Robert had been acting 38 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 2: dazed for about five days, so Melissa asked him to 39 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:34,760 Speaker 2: get mentally evaluated. Good for Melissa, man, round of applause 40 00:01:34,760 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: for Melissa Man, Okay, I got a lot of friends 41 00:01:37,000 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 2: who are women who say they don't want to date 42 00:01:38,880 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 2: any man who hasn't done any you know, type of 43 00:01:41,680 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 2: work on himself. So she suspected he needed a mental evaluation. 44 00:01:45,080 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: It's good that she said something, and great that he 45 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 2: agreed to get one. Well, according to Melissa's testimony, they 46 00:01:50,920 --> 00:01:54,120 Speaker 2: sat in the Olive Garden Okay, enjoying those unlimited bread 47 00:01:54,120 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 2: sticks as I said. Okay, when Robert suspected that Melissa's 48 00:01:57,640 --> 00:02:00,520 Speaker 2: ex husband, who was previously in prison for assault, was 49 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 2: in the parking lot and was planning to hurt him, 50 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: so Robert dowed nine one one and was ready to 51 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:10,560 Speaker 2: hit Sin in anticipation that he would need a police response. 52 00:02:10,600 --> 00:02:12,400 Speaker 1: He knew he was about to act up. 53 00:02:12,440 --> 00:02:16,400 Speaker 2: Now, Melissa said her ex husband and Robert got along fine. 54 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 2: She also said prior to the shooting, her and Robert 55 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 2: weren't arguing. She also doesn't even remember Robert shooting her. 56 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 2: In fact, she said she didn't even know Robert had 57 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:28,200 Speaker 2: a gun. Well, what makes this even scarier is after 58 00:02:28,320 --> 00:02:32,960 Speaker 2: Robert shot her, he kept saying this stupid bitch deserves 59 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 2: to die, over and over and over. 60 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: That's what witnesses said. 61 00:02:35,520 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: He kept saying it over and over and then he 62 00:02:37,240 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 2: also pissed the whipped his fiance as well. Now, when 63 00:02:39,600 --> 00:02:42,520 Speaker 2: police came and tried to subdue Robert, he kept yelling 64 00:02:42,560 --> 00:02:45,560 Speaker 2: his name with Satan and they had to tase him 65 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 2: six times. He shot his fiance, pistol whipped him, bought 66 00:02:50,200 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 2: the cops in Olive Garden. 67 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: Okay, they tased him six times, but he's still alive. 68 00:02:55,120 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 1: Guess what Racey is now. 69 00:02:58,360 --> 00:03:01,360 Speaker 2: His defense is arguing it was all an accident and 70 00:03:01,480 --> 00:03:04,960 Speaker 2: Robert was dazed, and his fiancee still believes he's not 71 00:03:05,120 --> 00:03:08,880 Speaker 2: capable of harming her. Let me tell you something, As 72 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 2: long as he's dealing with whatever mental illness he's dealing with, sorry, bou, 73 00:03:12,160 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 2: he's capable of hurting you. Okay, you, Melissa know this 74 00:03:15,280 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 2: man is dealing with mental health issues. So no matter 75 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: how much you love him, you gotta run for your life. Okay, 76 00:03:21,320 --> 00:03:23,400 Speaker 2: you tried to help him, he hurts you before he 77 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 2: could get the help. By the grace of God, you 78 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:28,399 Speaker 2: are still alive. You are still here. Not to mention, 79 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:31,880 Speaker 2: when would y'all be together? He's facing life in prison. 80 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 2: He rejected a plea deal that would have assured him 81 00:03:34,320 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 2: thirteen to thirty years. Now he's facing life. So once again, 82 00:03:37,760 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 2: when would y'all ever be together? Look, I understand love 83 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 2: is blind, but it doesn't have to be deaf and 84 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 2: dumb too. Okay, So Robert is clearly dealing with mental 85 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:50,800 Speaker 2: health issues. That's been established, and Melissa clearly loves Robert. 86 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,840 Speaker 2: That has been established. Even after being shot. She's in 87 00:03:55,120 --> 00:03:58,200 Speaker 2: court saying how much. She still loves him, but you 88 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:02,600 Speaker 2: still gotta know whin though awk, wait, don't you Well? Lissa, 89 00:04:02,680 --> 00:04:04,440 Speaker 2: I commend you for all you have attempted to do 90 00:04:04,520 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 2: for Robert, but please, people always remember don't hurt yourself 91 00:04:08,760 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 2: trying to help someone else, because you can easily and 92 00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:16,960 Speaker 2: I mean easily, cut yourself on another person's broken pieces. 93 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:22,160 Speaker 2: Please give Robert Monette and it's fiance Melissa Garara the 94 00:04:22,160 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: biggest he huhretta. 95 00:04:26,480 --> 00:04:28,240 Speaker 1: Giving it? You think that you get both. 96 00:04:30,320 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 2: He ain't in his right mind obviously, but then she 97 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 2: still loves him and is making excuses for him even 98 00:04:40,440 --> 00:04:41,039 Speaker 2: after the fact. 99 00:04:41,480 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: She loves him, y'all. 100 00:04:42,640 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 3: And she obviously he needs an exorcist and some other things, but. 101 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:49,640 Speaker 1: Like you need a therapist in exorcis absolutely an some medication. 102 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, so I guess the question we can open the 103 00:04:52,200 --> 00:04:54,240 Speaker 4: phone lines is when do you leave? 104 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:57,600 Speaker 1: When is it over? Like this should have been over? Yeah, man, 105 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 1: but eight. 106 00:04:58,200 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 4: Hundred five five it And it even comes from the 107 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:03,560 Speaker 4: earlier interview with Tianna Taylor when she was talking about 108 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:05,520 Speaker 4: am shump. But then she tried to make it work, 109 00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,760 Speaker 4: and you know, she felt like she was disrespected and 110 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 4: she let so many things go. 111 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: She talks about it so much on the Man. We 112 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:12,600 Speaker 1: have a clip of it. 113 00:05:13,240 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 3: People get tired, especially when like others are banking on 114 00:05:16,600 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 3: your heart. 115 00:05:17,160 --> 00:05:18,840 Speaker 1: When they know your heart and they. 116 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:21,920 Speaker 3: Know the things that it's, they're gonna keep poking at that, 117 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:24,280 Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying, And sometimes you bite the 118 00:05:24,320 --> 00:05:25,320 Speaker 3: bait and it is. 119 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: What it is, you know what I'm saying. 120 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:31,200 Speaker 3: It's very tough, and that's why I try my best to, 121 00:05:31,920 --> 00:05:35,640 Speaker 3: you know, just be as cordial as possible. Like I 122 00:05:35,680 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 3: don't be wanting no smoke, you know what I'm saying. 123 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:41,239 Speaker 3: These kids come first, and that's been the main reason 124 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:45,240 Speaker 3: why I've wanted to keep everything private, no matter how 125 00:05:45,320 --> 00:05:48,920 Speaker 3: ugly or how sweet, keep it, keep it private, you 126 00:05:49,000 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 3: know what I'm saying. And so my job is to 127 00:05:50,600 --> 00:05:53,160 Speaker 3: protect them no matter what. And I think that's where 128 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:57,320 Speaker 3: like I keep just trying to hold on and hold 129 00:05:57,320 --> 00:05:57,640 Speaker 3: it down. 130 00:05:58,000 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 2: But you can't cut yourself on another person's broken pieces 131 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:02,520 Speaker 2: trying to fix them. 132 00:06:02,640 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: Correct. 133 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,400 Speaker 4: So that is the question eight hundred five eight five 134 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 4: one oh five one. I think we're not saying, you know, 135 00:06:07,800 --> 00:06:10,560 Speaker 4: don't give somebody a chance, or don't give somebody grace, 136 00:06:10,600 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 4: but It's like, when do you get to the point 137 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 4: where it's like they take kindness for weeks it's too much. 138 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:17,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, no more grace. When do you say no more? 139 00:06:18,080 --> 00:06:18,760 Speaker 1: Think of yourself. 140 00:06:18,760 --> 00:06:21,680 Speaker 4: But people have to change, they have to work for themselves, 141 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:23,040 Speaker 4: fight by yourself, correct. 142 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:25,400 Speaker 1: Because you end up hurt. Looking Listen, listen, got shot. 143 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:27,440 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? Man knowing her man needed 144 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,640 Speaker 2: some type of misseral evaluation, seeing that this man was 145 00:06:29,680 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 2: going through something. 146 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: But she's still trying to stick it out and still 147 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:34,359 Speaker 1: loves him right now because you know he not in 148 00:06:34,400 --> 00:06:35,159 Speaker 1: his right mind. 149 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:37,360 Speaker 4: So let's let's hopen up the phone lines eight hundred 150 00:06:37,440 --> 00:06:38,760 Speaker 4: five eight five one oh five one. 151 00:06:38,760 --> 00:06:40,880 Speaker 1: Because we say always say, well, what's the best apology? Right? 152 00:06:41,400 --> 00:06:43,599 Speaker 1: Change behavior? Let's talk about what about it? 153 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:45,559 Speaker 2: When you it's kind of hard to change your behavior 154 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 2: because you actually need help. 155 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: You need medication. You know, you need medical health to 156 00:06:49,480 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 1: change your baby. So let's talk about it. 157 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:52,680 Speaker 4: Eight hundred five eight five one oh five one. 158 00:06:52,680 --> 00:06:55,560 Speaker 1: It's the breakfast Club. Good morning, pull out, you pull 159 00:06:55,560 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: out your phone right now, you call me at your 160 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,560 Speaker 1: bring it to the breakfast club. Top breaking down eight 161 00:07:02,640 --> 00:07:06,040 Speaker 1: hundred five eight one five one. 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