Speaker 1: Second date, up date.
Speaker 2: You know, one of my favorite memories of all time
Speaker 2: is going on a road trip with my family once
Speaker 2: I turned twenty one, and all of us simultaneously yelled
Speaker 2: at our driver to stop when we saw the sign
Speaker 2: Jurassic bar.
Speaker 1: Wait a minute, not v direct.
Speaker 3: You were with your momy, what.
Speaker 1: The whole family, mom, dad, and the sister.
Speaker 2: And it was just a regular bar, but with a
Speaker 2: dinosaur themed night.
Speaker 1: Okay, And so.
Speaker 2: If you went in, you got a dollar off your
Speaker 2: draft if you roared like a dinosaur.
Speaker 3: Oh that's good.
Speaker 1: And I don't know how.
Speaker 2: Many drinks my mom had that night, And again we
Speaker 2: had a private chaffeur, so it didn't matter.
Speaker 3: Oh, I thought you meant like when you said driver
Speaker 3: like uber no, no, no, no, no, he's our driver, so your driver,
Speaker 3: I see.
Speaker 2: And I'm sure our listeners have also had a lot
Speaker 2: of fun memories of certain themed nights at different pubs
Speaker 2: around the country.
Speaker 1: And today a guy named Reid.
Speaker 2: Sent us an email saying he believe he met the
Speaker 2: girl of his dreams recently the bar night.
Speaker 3: I love when you relate to the regular people.
Speaker 4: Just unfortunately no butlers in my life. Okay, there's a
Speaker 4: sirmen in my life.
Speaker 5: Oh, I've been to one of those theme bars where
Speaker 5: it's like e r have you have you seen so?
Speaker 3: Honestly?
Speaker 5: And they would give you shots in uh syringes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, when you gave birth to your children, I know
Speaker 2: you had a lot of drugs pumping through.
Speaker 1: It wasn't a bar. Sorry about that.
Speaker 2: Read Let's get to you and and your your date?
Speaker 2: Where did you go? What was this themed bar night?
Speaker 4: It was very fun, very cool? A note passing night.
Speaker 4: Have you heard of one of these?
Speaker 1: Middle school? A Lexus has officially checked out already?
Speaker 3: Though you change my mind?
Speaker 1: Can you explain how? How does how does it work?
Speaker 4: So the way it actually works? When you go in,
Speaker 4: there's different tables set up. So what you can do
Speaker 4: is while you're there, you look around the tables and
Speaker 4: if you see someone that you might be interested, you
Speaker 4: can anonymously send them a note from your table.
Speaker 3: Oh, it's like, is it like a singles event? I
Speaker 3: didn't valtage? So Cupid is the one who passed your
Speaker 3: notes between you? Some addresses Cupid? But if you don't
Speaker 3: ever know who the note's from, how do you meet
Speaker 3: the person to sign your name or not?
Speaker 1: Okay, So how did it go for you?
Speaker 4: Read? It ended up going really well. I've really kind
Speaker 4: of been in this habit of really only meeting through
Speaker 4: the apps, and I wanted to actually meet in person,
Speaker 4: and this seemed like a fun way to transition into that.
Speaker 5: Can I ask you read during the event, how many
Speaker 5: notes did you pass about other people like to how
Speaker 5: many women were you note passing too?
Speaker 4: So what ended up happening? Early on? I saw one
Speaker 4: girl who was rather attractive and that was rather interested.
Speaker 1: Is this the girl that we're talking about for your
Speaker 1: second date? Updated?
Speaker 4: It is Tina?
Speaker 3: Tina?
Speaker 1: What did you write to her?
Speaker 4: Actually? You know what I put in the first one?
Speaker 1: What did you say?
Speaker 4: I put down in two minutes, I'll walk past your
Speaker 4: table and I hope to see that beautiful smile again.
Speaker 4: And then I had to lay at dot and I
Speaker 4: said I already did that four times.
Speaker 1: Joe, Okay, I hope she got it, because.
Speaker 5: Did did she write back and said, Oh, you're the
Speaker 5: weird guy that keeps walking past me.
Speaker 4: She liked it, and she wrote back and then we
Speaker 4: ended up passing the notes all night.
Speaker 3: Oh just you and her?
Speaker 4: Yeah, And then the last one had her phone number
Speaker 4: on it it.
Speaker 3: Right down silent in this bar question paper.
Speaker 4: Yeah, you can't actually because it's people come in groups,
Speaker 4: so she was actually was in a group.
Speaker 3: Start chatting with friends less awkward than.
Speaker 2: So at any point do you go over and like
Speaker 2: actually speak to her with your voice or is it
Speaker 2: all no passing?
Speaker 4: Here's the thing you could But that night we didn't. Uh.
Speaker 4: I think we were just kind of enjoying the fun
Speaker 4: of the theme. And when she gave me her number,
Speaker 4: I ended up texting. And we've been texting for a
Speaker 4: couple of weeks at this point, and we still we
Speaker 4: still haven't actually spoke.
Speaker 3: What you have no idea what her voice sounds like?
Speaker 4: No, I have no idea.
Speaker 2: Wow, okay, this is interesting. We don't have a whole
Speaker 2: lot to go off of. Then, I guess what we
Speaker 2: need to do is hear some of the texts that
Speaker 2: you guys have said and back and forth. That's a
Speaker 2: good idea, like how flirty they are?
Speaker 1: You need that?
Speaker 2: I think you give us a good idea of what
Speaker 2: we're working with here with Tina.
Speaker 4: Here, let me find a good one. Okay, I said,
Speaker 4: when can I see you again? Pick a day that ends?
Speaker 1: And why that's cute.
Speaker 2: It's so corn what alexis math?
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're selling the.
Speaker 3: Math on that one.
Speaker 2: Maybe Tina's just like Alexis and couldn't figure out a day.
Speaker 2: I thought it was only week days, and I was like,
Speaker 2: that sucks all right.
Speaker 4: Well okay, she just sent the lappy face.
Speaker 3: It was supposed to set a day.
Speaker 4: Okay.
Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing, is like, you're obviously laying it
Speaker 2: on pretty thick with her right away through all the
Speaker 2: messages in tech you're saying, like, she has a beautiful smile.
Speaker 1: You can't wait to see her again.
Speaker 2: But a lot of times with girls, if you lay
Speaker 2: it on that thick, if there's no chase, they lose interest.
Speaker 4: Absolutely.
Speaker 3: I mean that is a thing. You can be too available.
Speaker 2: So we have enough, I think to work with here.
Speaker 2: You are showing a lot of your cards early on.
Speaker 2: But maybe we can figure out more when we call
Speaker 2: her directly and you'll get to hear her voice for
Speaker 2: the very first time. Well, who knows, maybe that would
Speaker 2: be a turn on for you. We're gonna find out
Speaker 2: when we come back. We're gonna call Tina and try
Speaker 2: and get your second date update. Right after this second
Speaker 2: date update on the phone with us today is a
Speaker 2: man who is good with his words, at least on paper.
Speaker 3: Yep, for sure.
Speaker 1: Ironically, his name is Read.
Speaker 2: Oh, it's just so perfect for this.
Speaker 3: No, that's his brother.
Speaker 1: I'm playing the.
Speaker 2: Notebook music right now because his first meeting with a
Speaker 2: girl named Tina involved an actual notebook.
Speaker 3: It's actually a pretty cute meet.
Speaker 2: Cute yeah, because they were both at a themed bar
Speaker 2: night where you could write letters to people at other
Speaker 2: tables and pass notes back and forth, and that's how
Speaker 2: we ended up getting Tina's number. They have been texting
Speaker 2: ever since. He just hasn't locked down an official date yet.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, maybe he's too eager as kind of what we.
Speaker 2: Were that was thank you, maybe picking up on There's
Speaker 2: also the tiny problem of the fact that they've never
Speaker 2: actually spoken words with their verses yet.
Speaker 1: To each other.
Speaker 3: Small issues, Jeff, That's what texting's for.
Speaker 2: Yeah, including him gonna hear her voice for the first time.
Speaker 2: So we've heard some of the texts, but I do
Speaker 2: want to get to the last text that she sent
Speaker 2: because we never were able to get to it. Read
Speaker 2: Can you read us the final text that you sent
Speaker 2: that she never responded to?
Speaker 4: I said, I miss you like stormtroopers miss their target.
Speaker 1: Because they're like notoriously bad.
Speaker 3: Yeah, anyone in Star Wars.
Speaker 1: Okay, I got it.
Speaker 3: No, I got it. But law, I would be freaked
Speaker 3: out a.
Speaker 5: Little bit if someone said I miss you when I
Speaker 5: haven't spent any time in person with that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, and just like you know, going over what we
Speaker 2: were saying before, you've already kind of put all of
Speaker 2: your cards down on the table for her.
Speaker 3: It's like you flip them, then flip them again again.
Speaker 3: We're gonna try to hide.
Speaker 2: Some Maybe we try and be a little more cooy
Speaker 2: when we're actually speaking with.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Okay, okay, maybe it was a little much. I
Speaker 4: thought it was fun, but maybe you guys can help
Speaker 4: balance me out.
Speaker 3: That's all right.
Speaker 1: It is fun. Two people get there together.
Speaker 3: It's sweet. You seem like a sweet dude like you.
Speaker 1: We're all here for you.
Speaker 4: Oh.
Speaker 1: Actually, I'm going to be making the call, so never mind,
Speaker 1: shut up. I'm going to dal Tina right now.
Speaker 2: We get to hear her voice for the very first time.
Speaker 2: Here we go, Hello, Hi, is this Tina?
Speaker 6: This is Tina?
Speaker 4: Who is this Tina?
Speaker 2: You're You're on the radio right now with a show
Speaker 2: called Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 6: I'm not interested. Thanks.
Speaker 3: It's not a spam called Tina, it's legit.
Speaker 6: Huh.
Speaker 2: We're doing a segment called a Second Date Update, and
Speaker 2: we're trying to help out one of our listeners that
Speaker 2: you've met before sort of Oh.
Speaker 6: My gosh, I've heard this before for real.
Speaker 3: Yeah, isn't that fun?
Speaker 2: Okay, So, I don't know if you remember this, but
Speaker 2: the other night you met a guy at a note
Speaker 2: passing bar thing.
Speaker 3: I think it was a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: In fact, yeah, it may have been a while ago.
Speaker 1: His name's Reid.
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know read.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, cool, what do you what do you think?
Speaker 6: He was nice? He was cute. We texted a little bit. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 6: it was like fun and I haven't met him or anything.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we heard that. We've heard a little bit about
Speaker 2: the Barnet. What was the Barnet like for you?
Speaker 6: I hadn't done anything like that before, but I ended up,
Speaker 6: I think, exchanging numbers with like three guys.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, you were popular.
Speaker 6: Yeah, it was more successful than I thought it was
Speaker 6: going to be.
Speaker 5: Okay, so you've been you've been texting with a couple
Speaker 5: of guys from the thing.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I actually ended up going out with one of them,
Speaker 6: like last week.
Speaker 2: Oh cheat, Okay, that's totally fine, But has read been
Speaker 2: in your mind at all, Radar?
Speaker 6: I mean, like I said, we were like text on
Speaker 6: and off throughout the week, and he's like cute, he's funny,
Speaker 6: kind of flirty, he's always a really jokey over text.
Speaker 6: But the thing is, he just hasn't actually asked me
Speaker 6: out yet.
Speaker 4: Like I see, so.
Speaker 2: You've been waiting for Reed to like make the move
Speaker 2: and he hasn't gone for it.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I just don't have time to like a text
Speaker 6: buddy or pentel like do you want to bring me
Speaker 6: out or not?
Speaker 3: Yeah, well that's a great question.
Speaker 2: Well before I tell you what I have to say here,
Speaker 2: where's your relationship with the other guy at that you've
Speaker 2: been out.
Speaker 1: With one time?
Speaker 6: I mean, it's just kind of that, Like it was
Speaker 6: a good date. He was cute, he was nice, we
Speaker 6: had like a little bit in common. But it dinner,
Speaker 6: so I clothed him down to go out again in
Speaker 6: a week. But it wasn't like oh my god.
Speaker 1: It's just like, but you're not exclusive with that guy, right?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 6: Oh? My god, that would be crazy.
Speaker 1: I'm really glad that you said that.
Speaker 2: And you know who's extra happy to hear it is
Speaker 2: read because he's been on the other line listening this
Speaker 2: entire Oh.
Speaker 6: My god, I was so worried we're gonna say that.
Speaker 1: Red has been wanting to talk.
Speaker 4: Are you there, I'm here, I'm here, all right?
Speaker 2: What good news?
Speaker 4: Read?
Speaker 1: Say hi to Tina for the very first time.
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, uh yeah?
Speaker 6: How about uh?
Speaker 4: Tina? Hands up. I'm in the s c I and
Speaker 4: you're on my most wanted list.
Speaker 1: You're just talking? Are you not listening to what she
Speaker 1: was saying before.
Speaker 3: About I think you got nervous.
Speaker 4: I'm just having a little fun.
Speaker 1: I'm just I understand.
Speaker 3: Maybe let's turn it off.
Speaker 4: All I'm saying is that when it comes to Christmas
Speaker 4: and Sanna asked me what I want Tina, I'm sending
Speaker 4: him a link to your I G. It's pretty cringe, man,
Speaker 4: It's not. It's not Craine. It's just because she reminds
Speaker 4: me of someone.
Speaker 1: He's got something wrong.
Speaker 4: I don't know if I like that does remind you
Speaker 4: of my next girlfriend?
Speaker 2: My man, it kind of implies you have a current
Speaker 2: girlfriend too.
Speaker 1: I know, dissect it.
Speaker 4: Okay, let's just move on.
Speaker 3: Are you trying to just make these guys laugh? Or
Speaker 3: are you trying to turn a woman on? You can't
Speaker 3: do both.
Speaker 4: I'm just flirting with her. We haven't actually talked yet.
Speaker 4: I'm just I'm just getting started. I'm just building up.
Speaker 3: Do you have like a normal conversation questions?
Speaker 1: I don't know how Tina's feeling about this.
Speaker 4: Read.
Speaker 1: Honestly, I feel like.
Speaker 6: I just like I dare you read to just say
Speaker 6: something that wasn't scripted?
Speaker 2: Maybe just even ask her out? Just straight up? Yeah,
Speaker 2: Like that's a crazy idea, I know.
Speaker 3: I mean, she teed you up better than I've ever
Speaker 3: heard anyone.
Speaker 1: She's begging for you to ask her out. Go ahead, read,
Speaker 1: now's your.
Speaker 4: Moment, Okay. I'm just one wondering if maybe Tina would
Speaker 4: you want to be my little spoon little I'm gonna
Speaker 4: take her out for soup? Soup, soup, no, no, no.
Speaker 3: Happening.
Speaker 1: Why is that a joke?
Speaker 4: A joke?
Speaker 1: I don't know. And it's like something my grandfather would
Speaker 1: really like, like, oh soup, And you're like, Granda, do
Speaker 1: you really want soup?
Speaker 6: But no one knows Dude, Like there's someone out there
Speaker 6: who's gonna love there, but it's not me.
Speaker 3: Well, no, no, no, I think he was trying to
Speaker 3: ask you out right there.
Speaker 2: If he's not gonna do it, I'm just gonna do
Speaker 2: it for him, because you want the two of you
Speaker 2: to go out on a date in person, and we
Speaker 2: would pay for the date.
Speaker 1: Tina, Hey man.
Speaker 4: He kind of That's what I was building up to.
Speaker 4: It's just gonna ask her that.
Speaker 1: Well, we can't wait like forty minutes for you to
Speaker 1: get every line. Now, we need to get to it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: we don't have a lot of time, so go ahead
Speaker 1: ask her yourself.
Speaker 4: Okay, no line, you're single, I'm single. I feel like
Speaker 4: this is a problem we can solve together.
Speaker 1: I never trusted this guy.
Speaker 6: I feel like I'm gonna fight fire with fire, and
Speaker 6: I'm gonna say unfortunately at this point, I'm gonna make
Speaker 6: like a tree and leave.
Speaker 3: Now she's speaking reads language.
Speaker 4: I know we're perfect for each other. How she's funny,
Speaker 4: I'm funny, have similar humor.
Speaker 6: I think she was scas mis reading that.
Speaker 2: You gotta work on being more direct with these women
Speaker 2: that you like and just.
Speaker 3: Be yourself for a second.
Speaker 5: You don't need all these lines read you're you're a
Speaker 5: charming guy man.
Speaker 4: That is myself. That's what I like.
Speaker 2: Okay, well leave yourself on the side of the road.
Speaker 3: Yeah, freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 1: You know what, this is his faults on that one.
Speaker 2: You think we can't take the blame for what happens
Speaker 2: because does.
Speaker 3: He memorize them all?
Speaker 1: I don't know where he has those from his hand.
Speaker 2: But there is a window after you meet someone when
Speaker 2: you really need to ask them out, like you only
Speaker 2: have a certain amount of time. And not only did
Speaker 2: he miss his window, she opened up another window for
Speaker 2: him and he missed that one.
Speaker 3: Too, and she screamed through the window, this is the window.
Speaker 1: I will say yes to your question.
Speaker 2: So gentlemen, make sure to find your window and jump
Speaker 2: through it, even if it's twenty stories up.
Speaker 1: Some women are just worth it.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 5: Funny is good, but not funny every single thing, you
Speaker 5: know what I mean?
Speaker 1: We solve the mystery.
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