Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I
Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in. We
Speaker 1: are scrubbing in. It is Monday, February, which is Galantine's Day,
Speaker 1: which is also the day after the Super Bowl, and
Speaker 1: I am feeling ferocious. Oh my goodness, and what kind
Speaker 1: of way in a way that I feel like I
Speaker 1: can take on the world. What has led? Was it, Rhanna?
Speaker 1: It was she gave you a ferocious fire in my belly?
Speaker 1: Okay tell me, okay, why Because I thought this woman
Speaker 1: taking on probably the biggest performance of her life right
Speaker 1: mentally exhausting, physically exhausting, time consuming, and she did it
Speaker 1: whilst being pregnant. If she can do that, I can
Speaker 1: do it all too, you can. Yeah. And then my
Speaker 1: boyfriend Robbie reminded me that Serena Williams won a Grand
Speaker 1: Slam whilst she was pregnant, which is also physically wild
Speaker 1: and amazing, very physical. Was that me? Yeah, I heard that,
Speaker 1: I'd be echoing, Yeah, um, yeah, she you know what
Speaker 1: it is? It almost like you're right. It was probably
Speaker 1: the biggest performance of her lifetime. And she just seems
Speaker 1: so cool, like she was just like, thanks for having me,
Speaker 1: happy to be here, happy to be here on this
Speaker 1: rising platform. That was a little lobbly, like is she
Speaker 1: dying on the inside right now? But it was just
Speaker 1: so cool because I think there is this kind of
Speaker 1: I don't know, and I've heard a lot of women
Speaker 1: say before, like you can't have it all. You just
Speaker 1: can't have it all the same time. And I feel like,
Speaker 1: as these women are doing these huge momentous things, it's
Speaker 1: like breaking that glass ceiling just like a little bit more,
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, And granted, listen, I think you're you're
Speaker 1: able to do more when you have help doing all
Speaker 1: these things. I think she has a massive team that's
Speaker 1: so talented and creative alongside her. If I tried to
Speaker 1: do a Super Bowl performance songs pregnancy, I wouldn't be
Speaker 1: able to do it, you know what I mean, if
Speaker 1: we're all different levels correct? Correct? Know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Even if I had like a team of choreographers and
Speaker 1: and creative specialists and stuff like, I would not be
Speaker 1: able to do a Super Bowl performance me right, Neither
Speaker 1: would I write. So it's like different strokes, different folks. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And she took that on because she knew because I
Speaker 1: don't know when she announced it or when they figured
Speaker 1: out that she was going to do the Super Bowl,
Speaker 1: but I was assuming this before she was pregnant, Right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think so because you're committed that very like you
Speaker 1: would commit to that a long time. But she could
Speaker 1: have easily been like, listen, I found out I pregnant,
Speaker 1: I don't wanted to do it. And she was like,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to let these people down. They're waiting
Speaker 1: for me. I'm not going to let these people down.
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna skip this opportunity. This is my time,
Speaker 1: this is my time, and she crushed it. I was like,
Speaker 1: I was Haley and I made pizzas and I was
Speaker 1: I realized I was just holding a piece of pizza
Speaker 1: in my hand the whole performance. I never once took
Speaker 1: a bite because I was just like glued to the screen. Yeah.
Speaker 1: It was amazing. It was amazing. The dancers were phenomenal.
Speaker 1: Like they danced for nine minutes, right, wasn't it nine minutes?
Speaker 1: I think it was thirteen. They danced for a long time. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's We were watching it and we had this debate
Speaker 1: because you know, at the very beginning, she rubbed her
Speaker 1: belly and so we were like, ISSU, oh my gosh,
Speaker 1: she pregnant. And Paulina was like, you guys, she's postpartum.
Speaker 1: Stop comment kind of like, stop commenting about her body.
Speaker 1: And I'm like, I'm pretty sure she's pregnant. And then
Speaker 1: like the second time she did it again when she
Speaker 1: said like baby or something, I was like, up, sure
Speaker 1: he's pregnant. I'm not trying to outfit talk about a
Speaker 1: woman's body, but I feel like she wants us to
Speaker 1: know that she's pregnant. That's what I was because Haley
Speaker 1: and I were going back and forth and I was like,
Speaker 1: I think that that outfit specifically she was showing her
Speaker 1: like stomach and her belly, So I think that was
Speaker 1: very intentional. I don't think they would have put her
Speaker 1: in like a outfit that like your eyes went directly
Speaker 1: to that spot, right, But it was just epic. It
Speaker 1: was epic. So I woke up this morning with like
Speaker 1: a little bit more of a pep in my step um,
Speaker 1: with a little bit more fire in my loins. In
Speaker 1: the loins, fired up, fired up. So what does that
Speaker 1: look like? Like? What are those things that what are
Speaker 1: you doing with the fire? Well? It was an interesting.
Speaker 1: It's an interesting dichotomy. Is that the word that I
Speaker 1: was a pickle, that I was in this week because
Speaker 1: we found out we did not get a New York
Speaker 1: Times best seller. So I was down, which is okay,
Speaker 1: by the way, your girl was down. She was down.
Speaker 1: I will admit it here. I cried. But I was
Speaker 1: attached to an outcome, and that's never the way I
Speaker 1: like to live my life. But I guess that wasn't
Speaker 1: I thought I was going to be fine, and I am.
Speaker 1: I am finding it's not the end all beyond and
Speaker 1: it's not the goal of the book. However, I did
Speaker 1: attach myself to the outcome. So I was really low.
Speaker 1: And so this Rihanna performance was just like the craziest
Speaker 1: timing because I was like, you need Yeah, you can't.
Speaker 1: You can't keep a fierce woman down. You can't keep
Speaker 1: her down when the fire is in the loins. She's
Speaker 1: no longer down. No, no, no, okay. But on a
Speaker 1: more serious note, I do I think you can be
Speaker 1: fine with the results of that and also be disappointed. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I was a little more than disappointed, though, down, bummed, sorrowful, sorrowful,
Speaker 1: and then be able to go alright. Alright, moving on,
Speaker 1: moving on, yeah, next next time, yeah, next, next book,
Speaker 1: next book. We'll get there. Um, you're in my t
Speaker 1: best seller in my book. I do get to say, though,
Speaker 1: I didn't know how the system works where you're like
Speaker 1: competing against books that have already been out and there
Speaker 1: were some large names that you were so I'm not
Speaker 1: really sure how it all works either. To be honest,
Speaker 1: it's really not how you think it is. It's not
Speaker 1: a numbers game. It's very objective. So I'm just gonna
Speaker 1: let it be. I'm not gonna try and get the
Speaker 1: behind the science of it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, But I
Speaker 1: do think that's a really good awareness of because your
Speaker 1: whole one of your favorite quote quotes is not to
Speaker 1: get attached to the outcome. Correct, open to the possibility,
Speaker 1: not attached to the outcome. But sometimes we do get it.
Speaker 1: Sometimes we do, not even realizing attached ourselves. Correct, we
Speaker 1: had really attached. We had latched on ourselves. So here
Speaker 1: we are. Okay, So okay, So that was in the past,
Speaker 1: and now we are moving on to fire in the
Speaker 1: loins future. What does that look like? Ferociousness just in
Speaker 1: everything and attacking, attacking live anything specific or no you know,
Speaker 1: it's been a night. Yeah, it's just a general general start. Correct.
Speaker 1: Did it give you any sort of like I have
Speaker 1: I've ever gotten that. That's disappointing. But at Crystal to
Speaker 1: do a quick edit of that. Um no, Well, so
Speaker 1: Haley and I went to um it's called Three Rivers,
Speaker 1: but it's like next to the Sequoya National Park where
Speaker 1: the big trees are. We really like to go to
Speaker 1: the trees. You know, when you're feeling like overwhelmed by things,
Speaker 1: I don't. I didn't really have anything that was overwhelming me.
Speaker 1: I did find your perspective very interesting, Like, wow, it
Speaker 1: feels so cool to be small and to feel small,
Speaker 1: you know how Like feeling small sometimes it's like the
Speaker 1: worst feeling because like if you're in a room of
Speaker 1: people and they make you feel small, that's a bad
Speaker 1: feeling small. But then when you're next to like the ocean,
Speaker 1: you're next these like massive giant trees and you feel small,
Speaker 1: You're like, wow, my, it's a total perspective shift over.
Speaker 1: Like problems are still problems, but in the grand scheme
Speaker 1: of things, it's all things are going to be just fine.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what I was feeling. I don't
Speaker 1: even know like what problems I was feeling on the inside,
Speaker 1: but the feeling yeah yeah, um. And so we went
Speaker 1: to the trees and we did not pack clothes like
Speaker 1: for snow, because I think Hailey looked where we were
Speaker 1: staying and it was like in the fifties sixties, so
Speaker 1: we're like, oh, it's probably gonna be like really nice
Speaker 1: up in the trees. We get up there. Luckily we
Speaker 1: had like snow jackets and stuff and in the car,
Speaker 1: and it was like probably eight feet of snow, so
Speaker 1: we were able to actually go up to the tree,
Speaker 1: which you're not normally able to go up to because
Speaker 1: everyone was like messaging me like did you over the
Speaker 1: fence because you're not supposed to cross it. People to
Speaker 1: the park ranger and he was like, you can go
Speaker 1: up and touch. It's a rare moment. So we just
Speaker 1: had like the best time. We made pizzas in the
Speaker 1: stone oven fire started to fire ourselves, but the fire
Speaker 1: watched the Super Bowl outside modern women, we really are. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I gotta say, it's really nice dating a woman in
Speaker 1: this sense that like she had every meal prepared because
Speaker 1: we just stayed at the house and cook so she
Speaker 1: had every single meal, like prepared, like she cooked fish
Speaker 1: in the oven. One night, we had pasta. We had
Speaker 1: just prepped. You know, it's really nice. I can say
Speaker 1: dating a man, he does the same on the barbecue though,
Speaker 1: like that guy, you can do anything on the barbecue.
Speaker 1: I will say, Robbie is a very good prepared gentleman. Yes,
Speaker 1: and prepared gentlemen he is. Yeah, I guess it's just
Speaker 1: dating someone who's prepared, because I guess I'm a woman
Speaker 1: and I would never do that, so I guess it
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with that. We were missed at
Speaker 1: our Super Bowl parte. It was a handful. It was
Speaker 1: not really a big parte. It was like a handful
Speaker 1: of people, but it's a nice idea all had, honestly,
Speaker 1: you know, it was interesting. We had maybe, let's see,
Speaker 1: including us, it was seven or eight people, so that's
Speaker 1: not a big amount of people. I was cooking. We
Speaker 1: were cooking and prepping, like I made like this giant
Speaker 1: Jennifer Fisher salad and he'd like steak and corn, and
Speaker 1: we like made fresh quaca moli. We were cooking like.
Speaker 1: I was cooking, preparing and doing stuffing the majority of
Speaker 1: the game. Yeah, And I was like, wow, this is
Speaker 1: probably people order food and don't do this. I've never
Speaker 1: seen someone make a full steak dinner for everybody. But
Speaker 1: I was like, I might be coming there next year.
Speaker 1: My expectations, Hi, if I got I'm expecting the medium
Speaker 1: cooked steak. Um. Yeah it was. I loved the game
Speaker 1: was so great. Like, did you watch the game? It
Speaker 1: was such a I'd say maybe the last like five minutes.
Speaker 1: So did you watch the commercials? Yeah? But again I
Speaker 1: was like cooking. I was prepping. I was chopping. I was,
Speaker 1: you know, making my spa while or for everybody. Okay,
Speaker 1: maybe I'm rethinking the Super Bowl water you let me
Speaker 1: tell you they guests very much enjoyed my lemon squeezed
Speaker 1: pitcher and my strawberry muddled water. Oh wow, that is
Speaker 1: pretty nice. Actually, thank you m Yeah, the commercials, I
Speaker 1: didn't really have a favorite commercial. I knew which one
Speaker 1: I liked if I may for some reason this with
Speaker 1: the doubt to me, the Dorrito's commercial with Jack Harlow. Okay,
Speaker 1: that one was inspired by the shape of the dorrito, which,
Speaker 1: as you know, is a triangle. That's to play the
Speaker 1: triangle musically. It became so popular everybody started playing the triangle.
Speaker 1: You couldn't keep triangles and talking. Eventually the triangle replaced
Speaker 1: the British Pound, which I thought was very funny. And
Speaker 1: then um he went oh he was up to the
Speaker 1: award for best triangle playing and he lost Elton John. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I enjoyed it. It was a journey by my breaking
Speaker 1: bad one that was a good one. Watched Freak then
Speaker 1: you wouldn't appreciate it, honestly. But you know what I
Speaker 1: felt during this year of the commercials, I feel like
Speaker 1: people rushed. They're trying to get there, like big moment,
Speaker 1: and they try to make it happen. But then it
Speaker 1: was like it would just end and there wasn't even
Speaker 1: like an ending or something. It felt like the commercial
Speaker 1: would just end. Sometimes I felt like they were just like,
Speaker 1: take all this money, put us on the TV. Here's
Speaker 1: our idea that we came up. There's so much expectation
Speaker 1: the best payoff. Yeah, and it's like you only have
Speaker 1: a certain amount of time for the millions of dollars
Speaker 1: you pay to have that slot, so you just have
Speaker 1: to squeeze it in. But there were a few where
Speaker 1: I was like, huh. The one that I really didn't
Speaker 1: like and I might this might be controversial, I don't know,
Speaker 1: but John Travolta one, which was I think it song
Speaker 1: is like an insurance commercial I think, and they were
Speaker 1: from Grace. I just can't imagine what they had to
Speaker 1: pay John to vaulted to get him to sing a
Speaker 1: grease song, which I don't think he's done in twenty years.
Speaker 1: But I want to know. I want to know how
Speaker 1: much money all these were, like the j Lo and
Speaker 1: Ben one, like millions of dollars to do that. I mean,
Speaker 1: it's got to be insane, especially get revolted to do
Speaker 1: something like that. But I enjoyed that one. Why did
Speaker 1: you dislike it? Um? It gave me the ick? Yeah,
Speaker 1: he's yeah. I don't want to shame anyone. He doesn't anyway,
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, I get it. I'll just say I
Speaker 1: get it. It was just and I think that the guys,
Speaker 1: the scrub guys with him, what was that the mobile spokespeople. Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess I missed that. I don't know. I just
Speaker 1: it is fascinating because it was six million dollars this
Speaker 1: year for a thirty second Super Bowl commercial. So some
Speaker 1: would come up and like there was one word a
Speaker 1: woman kept buying things on her phone. I'm like, holy god,
Speaker 1: they've just been six million dollars on that. I don't
Speaker 1: know what that was. No, it wasn't funny, it wasn't interesting.
Speaker 1: It's like, wow, that's what I'm saying, baffling. I don't
Speaker 1: know if it was just like, Okay, we got the spot,
Speaker 1: we have to come up with something and get it
Speaker 1: submitted within I don't know how far in advance they
Speaker 1: know it, but it felt very yikes. Yeah, and Jesus
Speaker 1: bought time. Oh yeah, I saw that. I was like,
Speaker 1: it was like, wait for what was it for? No idea?
Speaker 1: It was literally like Jesus dot com or something. It
Speaker 1: was about Jesus loving it like love your enemy. Yeah.
Speaker 1: We were watching and we're like, what is this commercial us? Yes,
Speaker 1: that's right. Um, But anyways, the game was great. Oh
Speaker 1: and then um Miles Teller and his wife Kayle they together. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I like that one a lot. I just thought the
Speaker 1: Duncan commercial was funny. After all the Grammys memes and
Speaker 1: stuff about Ben and Jen that they had that commercial.
Speaker 1: Good timing. I have expected Machine Gun, Kelly and Megan
Speaker 1: Fox to being a Super Bowl commercial together and and
Speaker 1: what what happened over the weekend was kind of the
Speaker 1: set up. Her clearing her inst A stuff was gonna
Speaker 1: be a set up for them sitting on the couch
Speaker 1: eating and I'm going, ha ha, fooled you, But I
Speaker 1: thought that would have been cool. You're very wrong. Well,
Speaker 1: they definitely we're not in a commercial together and don't
Speaker 1: seem like they will be any in any commercials together.
Speaker 1: Should we take a break and come back and talk
Speaker 1: about this? Sure, sure, Okay, we'll be right back. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're back. And so Megan Fox and Machine and Kelly
Speaker 1: allegedly have split. Allegedly, there's been no information current status.
Speaker 1: But she deleted did she delete her whole Instagram account
Speaker 1: or she just photos Instagram? Well, okay, so it was
Speaker 1: like a series of events. So basically she deleted all
Speaker 1: the photos of her, Machine gun Kelly off her page.
Speaker 1: Then she posted that carousela photos with that with the
Speaker 1: fire burning yeah, the fire burning letter at the end
Speaker 1: of it. But also the lyrics that she posted about
Speaker 1: betrayal were from Beyonce's album Lemonade, So all of this
Speaker 1: is very telling. Then she starts only following three people,
Speaker 1: which are Harry Styles, Timothey, Chalomi, and isn't how you
Speaker 1: say it? Yeah, there's that seems to be there seems
Speaker 1: to be something to that, Timota, Chalomi and uh, Eminem
Speaker 1: is this a joke? Timothy, Timota, Timid and then Eminem
Speaker 1: who if you know Eminem and Machine Gun Kelly have
Speaker 1: had some beef in the past. Well, and Machine and
Speaker 1: Eminem and Megan fox We're in Love the Way You
Speaker 1: Live video together with Rihanna. Wow, I did not connect
Speaker 1: those dots so interesting that I'm not sure I cannot
Speaker 1: confirm nor deny that fact. Because googling and Marcus spinning
Speaker 1: his computer around, because I'm going to play for you
Speaker 1: show it is Megan Foxy and because your dad's French?
Speaker 1: Are you really too attach? It's supposed to be too tap,
Speaker 1: but it always just seemed like too obnoxious requirement to
Speaker 1: put on people. So you go, I'm going to give
Speaker 1: him the respect he deserves and call him Timotay. I
Speaker 1: appreciate I learned something new every day here on the podcast.
Speaker 1: So anyways, so that's kind of the spiral. And then
Speaker 1: she deleted her Instagram after all of these things. Okay,
Speaker 1: so we're assuming what's been assumed is that he cheated, correct.
Speaker 1: I just cannot imagine being a machine Gun Kelly and
Speaker 1: dating a Megan Fox and thinking cheating getting that comfortable.
Speaker 1: What do you mean that he thought that he could
Speaker 1: do that and it and not have consequences. I don't
Speaker 1: understand how any of these celebrities think that they can
Speaker 1: and any way will First of all any way shape
Speaker 1: or from cheating, I think is horrendous, but also that
Speaker 1: they think they can just get away like Adam Leavine
Speaker 1: d m NG inappropriate things to all these women, Like
Speaker 1: how does he not think that that's going to come
Speaker 1: out at some point? Yeah, that's what I'm saying that,
Speaker 1: like the machine Gun Kelly really think that he can
Speaker 1: hook up with somebody and it's not going to get out, Like,
Speaker 1: what are they that egotistically like that they just think
Speaker 1: they walk on water? I think it's so bizarre to me.
Speaker 1: That's remember I had this conversation recently about how these
Speaker 1: men that I say are that I would say our
Speaker 1: average with like tens cheating on the ten and it's
Speaker 1: like you were lucky to have that, the amazing person
Speaker 1: that you just cheated on my nails. But literally, really
Speaker 1: I'm getting them done can we go back to zoom?
Speaker 1: I don't they're really bad. That nail that you just
Speaker 1: pointed at me with was disturbing. I know it's not. Well,
Speaker 1: I chipped all of them off this fingers on the
Speaker 1: way out too, Okay. Anyways, anyways, I was trying to
Speaker 1: hide them from you because then you called me out
Speaker 1: last time. Yeah, I didn't know. I don't feel safe
Speaker 1: nails around you. Anyways. I'm just saying the fact the
Speaker 1: idea that a man can have an ego so big
Speaker 1: that you have Megan Fox and you're like, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: blow it and see what happens. Well, I don't. I mean,
Speaker 1: look to me, I don't understand cheating in the first place.
Speaker 1: Like I think it's awful and I think it's such
Speaker 1: a testament to people's character, But I just don't understand
Speaker 1: the the thought behind I'm going to cheat on my
Speaker 1: significant other and think I'm going to get away with it.
Speaker 1: To me, just seems mind blowingly idiotic. Yeah, I agree,
Speaker 1: this is all speculation. Again, we don't know that. With
Speaker 1: that being said, we have no idea what actually happened. Correct,
Speaker 1: We're just basing it off of the info we have.
Speaker 1: Correct and you know what they say about speculation, What
Speaker 1: do they say about speculation? Can bite you in the butt,
Speaker 1: that's what they say. But it's interesting this one didn't
Speaker 1: this one have to flame out like this one burned
Speaker 1: so hot at the beginning, it wasn't gonna last forever.
Speaker 1: I don't like that school of thought. Let's hear hear
Speaker 1: it because I'm a little bit with Mark on this
Speaker 1: because I think that you can have a flaming hot
Speaker 1: relationship throughout your life period. I disagree, Okay, I agree
Speaker 1: with that. I just felt like the things that they
Speaker 1: said about each other so publicly and so fast felt
Speaker 1: very love bolly to me, where it was like like
Speaker 1: a little unhealthy feeling. I don't know the relationship. I'm
Speaker 1: just basing it off public knowledge because I know how
Speaker 1: I felt about Haley like I would some of my
Speaker 1: notes from like what I would write down are so dramatic,
Speaker 1: and she is like not, Haley is not really corny
Speaker 1: or cheesy like I am. I feel, wow, this is
Speaker 1: really just insight. And you've never been corny or cheesy
Speaker 1: with me. I know this is different. Um. Anyways, I
Speaker 1: just think about the things that I said, like I
Speaker 1: remember feeling those feelings, but it was just like so
Speaker 1: personal and like I didn't want it to be something
Speaker 1: I looked back on and I was like, wow, I
Speaker 1: got way in over my head. I've never told this story.
Speaker 1: I don't know if we told this story on the
Speaker 1: podcast I Haley did. But when we first met and
Speaker 1: started dating, I had this tiny little picture frame that
Speaker 1: this company sent me with a Phoebe photo in it,
Speaker 1: and she sent me like multiple of them, and it
Speaker 1: was maybe I don't even know how big that is.
Speaker 1: This big like an inch or two yeah, definitely more
Speaker 1: than an in two inches, okay, and um I put
Speaker 1: a photo of the first photo we took together. I
Speaker 1: put it, I printed it out and put it in
Speaker 1: this picture frame and gave it to her before she
Speaker 1: went on tour literally right after we met. Two weeks
Speaker 1: that was a week, no too, it was two weeks
Speaker 1: after we met. You did that, yes, And I remember
Speaker 1: her looking at it being like, oh, that's so cute,
Speaker 1: and me walking away being like, what who have I become?
Speaker 1: So I would do exactly. I get the passionate like
Speaker 1: love and like wanting to share it with the world
Speaker 1: and everything, but I just felt like it was so
Speaker 1: much so fast that there had to be a fizzle
Speaker 1: or burnout. Being like that public about it interesting, But
Speaker 1: I also disagree with Mark that I think the fizzle
Speaker 1: burns out because and the fiddle changes certainly over years.
Speaker 1: You can keep a fizzle going, but you can't keep
Speaker 1: going the conflagration that machine gun, Kelly and then excuse me, conflagration.
Speaker 1: What those two had is not sustainable. But they were
Speaker 1: doing their blood around their necks or something like different strokes,
Speaker 1: different frogs. Baby. I'm just saying that is not sustainable.
Speaker 1: And but keeping the fiddle going great, keep that fire burning,
Speaker 1: put some oxygen in there, and keep it going. All
Speaker 1: for it. I hope you can do it trying myself,
Speaker 1: but that's not sustainable. Conflagration. Conflagration. Yeah. You know what, though,
Speaker 1: the most important thing is that I hope up both
Speaker 1: of them are okay. I hope their hearts are okay.
Speaker 1: I hope their hearts through the public, no matter how
Speaker 1: much you put out there. And you can be like, well,
Speaker 1: you know, they were setting theirselves up for it if
Speaker 1: they broke up or anything happened. But you know what,
Speaker 1: we don't wish ill will or heartache on anyone. Definitely
Speaker 1: not heartache on anyone, because that has a pain like
Speaker 1: no other, pain like no other. But if Machine Gun
Speaker 1: Kelly did cheat, we wish him a little heartbreak. No,
Speaker 1: not heartbreak, but coation karma configuration. Okay, we do yeah karma.
Speaker 1: What did you did you see Tom Brady's thirst trap photos? Sure? Did?
Speaker 1: What do you think about that? Hubba hubba? Oh? Interesting? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I like it that he is on the prowl and
Speaker 1: and living his best single life and like, come at me,
Speaker 1: hear me, roar, I love it thirst trap. I love
Speaker 1: thirst traps. I think more people should post thirst traps.
Speaker 1: Why not when if you're ready to date, put a
Speaker 1: message out there like here I am. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: just asking to do like his thirst trap. But thank
Speaker 1: you for the general feeling of thirst trap. Do you
Speaker 1: like it? Um? It wasn't really for me specifically, but
Speaker 1: I definitely understand why why people would be into it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're like an older man, Yeah, but it's interesting, like
Speaker 1: what I like Robbie sitting on his underwear post probably
Speaker 1: So how much do you like thirst traps when they're
Speaker 1: in a relationship? That's what I'm saying. I think for me,
Speaker 1: a thirst trap is is I'm single, I'm ready to mingle,
Speaker 1: come at me in a relationship. If you're just feeling yourself,
Speaker 1: how do you feel about that? I don't know, because
Speaker 1: again I'm putting my I'm putting Robbie in his underwear
Speaker 1: on a bed in that position, posting it on his Instagram.
Speaker 1: I think i'd feel a certain type of way. No,
Speaker 1: you giving a thirst trap one like that? Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't think I would right now. Do
Speaker 1: you think Robbie would be fine with it? Probably not.
Speaker 1: Do you think Hayley what do you find with it? Well,
Speaker 1: Hayley post thirst traps all the time. She does, like
Speaker 1: she's just always posting like I mean, a lot of
Speaker 1: her stuff like her those are thirst traps. She just
Speaker 1: might not be like fully clothed and stuff. But that's
Speaker 1: not thirst trap. Is a little like inviting, okay, traps,
Speaker 1: but Haley is not like come come get me, I'm single.
Speaker 1: But I'm saying she posts like very beautiful sexy photos,
Speaker 1: so I mean, like this yellow shirt or she's like
Speaker 1: laying on the ground. That's not a thirst trap. It's
Speaker 1: also different from a musician too. You're going to do
Speaker 1: some sex to your photos that aren't necessarily an invitation
Speaker 1: to anyone. They're just that's that's part of the game.
Speaker 1: But because you know, if she's posting thirst traps, if
Speaker 1: I'm feeling myself, I think she'd be fine with me
Speaker 1: posting something. If she just goes on Instagram and holds
Speaker 1: up her phone in the bathroom and she's in a bikini,
Speaker 1: that's more of a THIRSDT trap a professional photographer to shoot.
Speaker 1: That's a good differentiating of the photos because if it's
Speaker 1: a professional photo and it's styled and makeup and hair
Speaker 1: and everything, that's not a thirst trap. But when it's
Speaker 1: a self image, like on your phone or something like
Speaker 1: we used to do for you when we go on vacations,
Speaker 1: I mean, how like how much canna stick my chest out?
Speaker 1: I was thirsty. I was like, here is some gatorade,
Speaker 1: drink me up. Oh my gosh, gents, would you say
Speaker 1: they drink it up? They drink Yeah. It was just
Speaker 1: torrential downpour of men my d M back in the day.
Speaker 1: It is so funny because I was posting all these
Speaker 1: thirst traps and I like, I look at my insights
Speaker 1: on my Instagram and my following is like eight percent female,
Speaker 1: So the point whatever that is left of the men
Speaker 1: that follow me. This is for you. It's like Brad
Speaker 1: coming here, double top, this thirst trap so good? Did
Speaker 1: you see the new photos of Carrie and Aiden? We're
Speaker 1: just like that making out in the street. Yeah, or
Speaker 1: what do you feel about out of the bed here?
Speaker 1: I'm so happy Eastern. I love Aidan. I had an
Speaker 1: idea I posted I posted this on Instagram. But um,
Speaker 1: I would be happy if all these images were seeing
Speaker 1: are from a dream sequence, like he's not actually in
Speaker 1: the show. That would That's the only way I'm fine
Speaker 1: with this. Otherwise, Um, I'm I'm upset on multiple levels.
Speaker 1: I don't like Aiden. I don't want him come and back.
Speaker 1: And also they're showing us everything, like what's the point
Speaker 1: of even watching it? Now? We see that they make
Speaker 1: out he's smoking a cigarette one of the pictures, Like,
Speaker 1: what the hell's that? Actually? You know what, though, Eastern,
Speaker 1: the cigarette makes me think that the dream sequence might
Speaker 1: be real because maybe she's dreaming about like him being
Speaker 1: the perfect man. I bet they run into each other
Speaker 1: and they see each other at something and then she
Speaker 1: that goes home that night and has a dream and
Speaker 1: it's like he's everything she wanted him to be, and
Speaker 1: then she wakes up. Am I a showrunner? East? And
Speaker 1: I should we write a show together? Yes, it sounds
Speaker 1: good to me. Fan fixex in the City. Yeah, sequences,
Speaker 1: I think they're so annoying. But that's why I'm saying
Speaker 1: that they're posting everything, because it does feel a little
Speaker 1: spoiler ish for for that to be the actual pot.
Speaker 1: Only time will tell. You didn't even watch the first one.
Speaker 1: I did watch half of it. I didn't finish it though. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: some fan I know. Honestly, when you go back and
Speaker 1: watch the old ones, it's like so much better. It
Speaker 1: really is. It really is. That's how all the shows are,
Speaker 1: and that's why I don't know if I can ever
Speaker 1: root for Friends to come back. No, I don't want
Speaker 1: Friends to come back very right, Yes, because I wouldn't
Speaker 1: have to watch it and it would pain me. It
Speaker 1: would literally pain me. Yeah, I agree, So I'm down
Speaker 1: to sign a petition to not bring Friends back. I
Speaker 1: thought that HBO reunion was that that's great and that's
Speaker 1: all I need. Yeah, I Haley and I were talking
Speaker 1: about this and I was like, I just missed the show.
Speaker 1: I love watching the old ones. I was like, but
Speaker 1: they could never redo it and it be what it
Speaker 1: is or what it was. Before we get to emails,
Speaker 1: I was gonna talk about have you listened to raise
Speaker 1: new album? Have not? Let me just tell you if
Speaker 1: you are like getting ready for a night out or
Speaker 1: you're driving in the car, put the album on. There
Speaker 1: are no skips and just let it play. It is
Speaker 1: so good. I want her to win every award that
Speaker 1: she could win in the top twenty American. Yeah, that
Speaker 1: sounds really good. Yeah, that sounds really good. Um. I
Speaker 1: was going to tell you that I sent Becca photo
Speaker 1: that I found Becca. I had Fecca in a closet
Speaker 1: next to my um washer dryer. If you're near to
Speaker 1: the podcast fake beccaup Becca stand up cardboard stand up
Speaker 1: that I feel like it was given to me from scrubbers.
Speaker 1: Oh no, it was given to me by Ali. No.
Speaker 1: I think it was for scrubbers. Subers bought you Fonia
Speaker 1: because I had Fecca no Becca from Rita. Yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: Becca is a photo. A lot of fun with Secca
Speaker 1: over quarantine when we were back in the COVID days,
Speaker 1: Like she was my only friend that was like allowed
Speaker 1: of my apartment. So anyways, I've ever since quarantine. I
Speaker 1: put Fecca somewhere and I did not know where Fecca was.
Speaker 1: And we've been cleaning out my apartment and like taking
Speaker 1: stuff over to Robbie's and I found Fecca and I
Speaker 1: was like, we gotta put her in prime location. So
Speaker 1: she is now sitting in the living room watching TV
Speaker 1: with us every day, and Sonny got really acquainted with her,
Speaker 1: and she's just having a good old time. Poor Robbie
Speaker 1: has to deal with not just the hairy styles pillow,
Speaker 1: but a cardboard cutter best. He probably like that though,
Speaker 1: And Fecca has a La Marina in hand. She's like
Speaker 1: always ready, she's down party. Yeah, I felt like she
Speaker 1: was part of the gang, you know, felt like Becca
Speaker 1: was kind of with us at the super Bowl, And yeah,
Speaker 1: I brought my People's choice sword over put it right
Speaker 1: there in the entryway. I do have a bone to
Speaker 1: pick because I noticed that outside the super Bowl there's
Speaker 1: been a lot of hangouts, little hangouts with the crew,
Speaker 1: and I haven't been invited to a single so, well,
Speaker 1: you just hang out sowhere in New York, so no,
Speaker 1: well I didn't get invited to that, but also in
Speaker 1: at your home, really, yeah, when just a lot of
Speaker 1: little taco Thursdays and get together. And I was thinking,
Speaker 1: you know, if the roles were reversed here, if I
Speaker 1: had a best friend who was over weekly at a
Speaker 1: little hangout, how would that go? First of all, I
Speaker 1: want you to know that you are always welcome over.
Speaker 1: That's not true. It is true, you are always welcome. However, yes,
Speaker 1: I do invite you a lot, and the yes is
Speaker 1: are like one tenth of the nose. When have I
Speaker 1: been invited in the three months? That's well, we haven't
Speaker 1: had talk about Thursday in the minute. We just brought
Speaker 1: it back last week. Well whatever not talk about Thursday?
Speaker 1: But thay, yeah, I know it doesn't really like roll
Speaker 1: off the tongue. We have to think that's not get
Speaker 1: off track here, thank you. So anyways, you are always welcome.
Speaker 1: The door is always open to you. However, how would
Speaker 1: you know we were having talk with Thursday? How would
Speaker 1: you know? Without an yeah, it's true, I am in
Speaker 1: the wrong. Thank you so much. That's all I needed. Okay,
Speaker 1: we're gonna take a break and we'll be right back
Speaker 1: with emails. She was waiting for that one. He was
Speaker 1: chomping at the bit for that one. Just something I've
Speaker 1: been thinking about, pundering you had to rebuttal not a rebuttle,
Speaker 1: but I always just feel like it's a schlet for
Speaker 1: you to come over. We let me decide if I
Speaker 1: want to make true true true, that is true. I
Speaker 1: let you decide if you want to You know, I
Speaker 1: did originally move to Studio City to be closer to you,
Speaker 1: and that you've left me over to the west side.
Speaker 1: Now she's moved to Studio City to be next to me.
Speaker 1: That is what I have moved to Studio City. How
Speaker 1: do you not moved there first? Oh, you mean initially
Speaker 1: when we were before you buy your house. Yes it, yes,
Speaker 1: Well you could not be in Brentwood if I was
Speaker 1: in Studio City exactly. But then you can just leave
Speaker 1: and galivate wherever you need to go around the city,
Speaker 1: not in Brentwood. I'm closer than Brentwood anyways, and might
Speaker 1: well yes for another time, another time, another time. I've
Speaker 1: been I'm going to start looking for houses for y'all
Speaker 1: near me. Just start something to say. I was gonna say,
Speaker 1: I'm looking at houses on the other side of the hill. Well,
Speaker 1: I can't wait to do talk toot Thursdays when when
Speaker 1: you all are closer. See, I know I'm gonna invite
Speaker 1: her and watch me invite backa to everything we do.
Speaker 1: You've heard the quote like just because I don't want
Speaker 1: to go doesn't mean I don't want to be invited.
Speaker 1: But also what's the quote about rejection? And sometimes projection
Speaker 1: is God's protection. God's protecting me from making an extra
Speaker 1: shrimp on the bobby. Although those shrim bars so good,
Speaker 1: so good talks about I know, I will say having
Speaker 1: a boyfriend that's good on the grill is truly a
Speaker 1: blessing because I can do all the outside stuff. I
Speaker 1: can make the saladcy of Coudremont, the whatever a Coudremont.
Speaker 1: And he can handle the meat stuff. Yeah, like chicken,
Speaker 1: throw it on the barbecue. Fish, throw it on the barbecue.
Speaker 1: Steak so scared of chicken, me too, He could just
Speaker 1: throw it on the barbecue. Yeah, skewers on the barbecue,
Speaker 1: mushrooms throwing on the barbecue. He's got it all. Burgers
Speaker 1: on the barbecue, on the barbecue, barbecue. This is anonymous.
Speaker 1: She says, I'm hoping to get invited from Tanya and
Speaker 1: Becca as best friends and market Easton as married men.
Speaker 1: I recently got engaged, and I'm so excited. I immediately
Speaker 1: told those clothes to me, including my best friend, who
Speaker 1: I plan to ask to be my maid of honor
Speaker 1: for contact. We've been best friends since we were ten
Speaker 1: were twenty eight now. We grew up going on each
Speaker 1: other's family vacations. It's like we're part of each other's families. Recently,
Speaker 1: her mom commented on on social media congratulating me on
Speaker 1: my engagement and revealed that my best friend, her daughter,
Speaker 1: was also engaged. She didn't even tell me. I was
Speaker 1: so confused and hurt. I messaged her asking about it.
Speaker 1: She said, yes, I am. I'm slow to tell people
Speaker 1: because I'm not sure I'm ready for it, and I'm
Speaker 1: just very overwhelmed right now. She didn't apologize for not
Speaker 1: telling me or having me find out this way. She
Speaker 1: also said she didn't want to take away from my engagement,
Speaker 1: which I get that. I realized there's a lot going
Speaker 1: on for her, But am I wrong to feel upset?
Speaker 1: Where do I go from here? With her? I don't
Speaker 1: feel like this is worth throwing a friendship over, but
Speaker 1: it feels like she should have trusted me to talk
Speaker 1: this through with me. Do I just go let it
Speaker 1: go and wait for her to come to me to
Speaker 1: talk about it, and the advice would be helped. I
Speaker 1: don't know what to do. I think you should taking
Speaker 1: yourself out of it. I think there's a major problem
Speaker 1: if she's engaged and hiding it for some reason, So
Speaker 1: I would approach her not in a combat way at all,
Speaker 1: and then more like a are you sure you want
Speaker 1: to be it's not correct. So I feel sad for
Speaker 1: your friend, and I feel like you should help you.
Speaker 1: I think I would. I know it's easy to take
Speaker 1: offense to it because you're like, wait, we're best friends.
Speaker 1: I told you're supposed to be a maid of honor.
Speaker 1: But I think Tanya's right, like take yourself out of
Speaker 1: it and make this feels like it's definitely about her
Speaker 1: and her fiance. But also, why didn't you then go
Speaker 1: to her best friend and say, oh my god, Doug
Speaker 1: proposed and I'm so not ready for that. I don't
Speaker 1: know what to do here because that's embarrassing. He's like
Speaker 1: embarrassed and doesn't want to like say it out loud,
Speaker 1: saying I guess to something and then like being uncertain
Speaker 1: about it. Is I can imagine very overwhelming to process.
Speaker 1: So she's probably trying to figure it out on her own,
Speaker 1: in her own head before she even involves anyone else.
Speaker 1: I would definitely not think that has anything to do
Speaker 1: with you. I think she's navigating something. So just try
Speaker 1: and be there as a friend and be like, hey, yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm not upset with you. I just want to make
Speaker 1: sure you're okay. Yeah, because like I can't wait to
Speaker 1: tell you about my engagement, Like, don't you even think
Speaker 1: about it? Joking, like I can't wait, it's can't wait.
Speaker 1: I can't feel bad. I just feel sad for well.
Speaker 1: I hope that helps. Yeah, tough, tough, tough to navigate relationships, friendships.
Speaker 1: I'll be above. It's a lot. Sometimes you're sometimes you're
Speaker 1: not invited, but you're always welcome. You know. Wow, Sometimes
Speaker 1: you're not invited, but you're always welcome. You know that's
Speaker 1: really good. Actually, we hope you all have a wonderful
Speaker 1: week and we'll be back Thursday. Yeah. Happy Galantine's Day,
Speaker 1: Happy Valentine's Day. Celebrate If you're not in a relationship
Speaker 1: or you don't have anyone to celebrate the holiday, say
Speaker 1: something nice for yourself. Treat yourself and also know that
Speaker 1: it is a fun holiday, but you're gonna be okay.
Speaker 1: Have a little fun, have a little fun, get yourself,
Speaker 1: take some photos and thirst chraps. Whatever you want. Yeah,
Speaker 1: whatever you want to do. I love you all.