WEBVTT - Hail Queen RiRi 0:00:00.800 --> 0:00:03.760 Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I 0:00:03.880 --> 0:00:13.120 Heart Radio podcast. Hello, everybody, we are scrubbing in. We 0:00:13.160 --> 0:00:18.439 are scrubbing in. It is Monday, February, which is Galantine's Day, 0:00:18.480 --> 0:00:21.159 which is also the day after the Super Bowl, and 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:25.480 I am feeling ferocious. Oh my goodness, and what kind 0:00:25.520 --> 0:00:28.159 of way in a way that I feel like I 0:00:28.160 --> 0:00:33.520 can take on the world. What has led? Was it, Rhanna? 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:39.240 It was she gave you a ferocious fire in my belly? 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:45.040 Okay tell me, okay, why Because I thought this woman 0:00:46.280 --> 0:00:49.680 taking on probably the biggest performance of her life right 0:00:50.400 --> 0:00:55.840 mentally exhausting, physically exhausting, time consuming, and she did it 0:00:56.720 --> 0:01:03.080 whilst being pregnant. If she can do that, I can 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:07.840 do it all too, you can. Yeah. And then my 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:12.839 boyfriend Robbie reminded me that Serena Williams won a Grand 0:01:12.880 --> 0:01:17.720 Slam whilst she was pregnant, which is also physically wild 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:23.200 and amazing, very physical. Was that me? Yeah, I heard that, 0:01:24.840 --> 0:01:29.640 I'd be echoing, Yeah, um, yeah, she you know what 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:33.000 it is? It almost like you're right. It was probably 0:01:33.040 --> 0:01:36.720 the biggest performance of her lifetime. And she just seems 0:01:36.800 --> 0:01:39.959 so cool, like she was just like, thanks for having me, 0:01:40.200 --> 0:01:42.720 happy to be here, happy to be here on this 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:47.000 rising platform. That was a little lobbly, like is she 0:01:47.160 --> 0:01:49.320 dying on the inside right now? But it was just 0:01:49.480 --> 0:01:52.400 so cool because I think there is this kind of 0:01:53.280 --> 0:01:54.600 I don't know, and I've heard a lot of women 0:01:54.640 --> 0:01:56.360 say before, like you can't have it all. You just 0:01:56.360 --> 0:01:59.520 can't have it all the same time. And I feel like, 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:03.960 as these women are doing these huge momentous things, it's 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:06.840 like breaking that glass ceiling just like a little bit more, 0:02:06.920 --> 0:02:11.480 you know. Yeah, And granted, listen, I think you're you're 0:02:11.560 --> 0:02:15.600 able to do more when you have help doing all 0:02:15.600 --> 0:02:18.119 these things. I think she has a massive team that's 0:02:18.160 --> 0:02:21.760 so talented and creative alongside her. If I tried to 0:02:21.760 --> 0:02:25.320 do a Super Bowl performance songs pregnancy, I wouldn't be 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:27.360 able to do it, you know what I mean, if 0:02:28.919 --> 0:02:31.480 we're all different levels correct? Correct? Know what I'm saying. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:34.160 Even if I had like a team of choreographers and 0:02:34.160 --> 0:02:38.160 and creative specialists and stuff like, I would not be 0:02:38.200 --> 0:02:41.040 able to do a Super Bowl performance me right, Neither 0:02:41.080 --> 0:02:44.760 would I write. So it's like different strokes, different folks. Yeah, 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:47.320 And she took that on because she knew because I 0:02:47.680 --> 0:02:50.600 don't know when she announced it or when they figured 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:52.119 out that she was going to do the Super Bowl, 0:02:52.160 --> 0:02:54.799 but I was assuming this before she was pregnant, Right, Yeah, 0:02:54.840 --> 0:02:57.720 I think so because you're committed that very like you 0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.880 would commit to that a long time. But she could 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:03.680 have easily been like, listen, I found out I pregnant, 0:03:03.720 --> 0:03:05.680 I don't wanted to do it. And she was like, 0:03:06.040 --> 0:03:08.359 I'm not going to let these people down. They're waiting 0:03:08.400 --> 0:03:10.040 for me. I'm not going to let these people down. 0:03:10.080 --> 0:03:13.720 I'm not gonna skip this opportunity. This is my time, 0:03:13.880 --> 0:03:16.920 this is my time, and she crushed it. I was like, 0:03:17.160 --> 0:03:20.240 I was Haley and I made pizzas and I was 0:03:20.440 --> 0:03:22.280 I realized I was just holding a piece of pizza 0:03:22.360 --> 0:03:24.959 in my hand the whole performance. I never once took 0:03:24.960 --> 0:03:27.680 a bite because I was just like glued to the screen. Yeah. 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:31.680 It was amazing. It was amazing. The dancers were phenomenal. 0:03:32.120 --> 0:03:35.680 Like they danced for nine minutes, right, wasn't it nine minutes? 0:03:35.800 --> 0:03:38.760 I think it was thirteen. They danced for a long time. Yeah, 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:41.680 it's We were watching it and we had this debate 0:03:41.720 --> 0:03:43.560 because you know, at the very beginning, she rubbed her 0:03:43.600 --> 0:03:45.960 belly and so we were like, ISSU, oh my gosh, 0:03:46.080 --> 0:03:49.360 she pregnant. And Paulina was like, you guys, she's postpartum. 0:03:50.240 --> 0:03:52.920 Stop comment kind of like, stop commenting about her body. 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:55.920 And I'm like, I'm pretty sure she's pregnant. And then 0:03:55.920 --> 0:03:58.560 like the second time she did it again when she 0:03:58.600 --> 0:04:01.600 said like baby or something, I was like, up, sure 0:04:01.600 --> 0:04:04.800 he's pregnant. I'm not trying to outfit talk about a 0:04:04.800 --> 0:04:07.120 woman's body, but I feel like she wants us to 0:04:07.280 --> 0:04:10.320 know that she's pregnant. That's what I was because Haley 0:04:10.320 --> 0:04:11.920 and I were going back and forth and I was like, 0:04:12.360 --> 0:04:15.880 I think that that outfit specifically she was showing her 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:19.039 like stomach and her belly, So I think that was 0:04:19.160 --> 0:04:21.120 very intentional. I don't think they would have put her 0:04:21.640 --> 0:04:25.320 in like a outfit that like your eyes went directly 0:04:25.400 --> 0:04:28.600 to that spot, right, But it was just epic. It 0:04:28.720 --> 0:04:30.359 was epic. So I woke up this morning with like 0:04:30.360 --> 0:04:34.480 a little bit more of a pep in my step um, 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:38.880 with a little bit more fire in my loins. In 0:04:39.640 --> 0:04:43.039 the loins, fired up, fired up. So what does that 0:04:43.080 --> 0:04:45.280 look like? Like? What are those things that what are 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:47.599 you doing with the fire? Well? It was an interesting. 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:51.760 It's an interesting dichotomy. Is that the word that I 0:04:51.839 --> 0:04:53.520 was a pickle, that I was in this week because 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:54.800 we found out we did not get a New York 0:04:54.839 --> 0:04:59.279 Times best seller. So I was down, which is okay, 0:04:59.320 --> 0:05:02.719 by the way, your girl was down. She was down. 0:05:03.680 --> 0:05:07.640 I will admit it here. I cried. But I was 0:05:07.640 --> 0:05:09.520 attached to an outcome, and that's never the way I 0:05:09.520 --> 0:05:13.520 like to live my life. But I guess that wasn't 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:15.880 I thought I was going to be fine, and I am. 0:05:15.960 --> 0:05:18.280 I am finding it's not the end all beyond and 0:05:18.279 --> 0:05:20.960 it's not the goal of the book. However, I did 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.040 attach myself to the outcome. So I was really low. 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:26.520 And so this Rihanna performance was just like the craziest 0:05:26.560 --> 0:05:35.640 timing because I was like, you need Yeah, you can't. 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:39.560 You can't keep a fierce woman down. You can't keep 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:42.599 her down when the fire is in the loins. She's 0:05:42.680 --> 0:05:46.479 no longer down. No, no, no, okay. But on a 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:49.080 more serious note, I do I think you can be 0:05:49.240 --> 0:05:53.080 fine with the results of that and also be disappointed. Yeah. 0:05:53.160 --> 0:05:58.000 I was a little more than disappointed, though, down, bummed, sorrowful, sorrowful, 0:05:58.520 --> 0:06:01.560 and then be able to go alright. Alright, moving on, 0:06:01.720 --> 0:06:06.640 moving on, yeah, next next time, yeah, next, next book, 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:11.480 next book. We'll get there. Um, you're in my t 0:06:11.640 --> 0:06:14.159 best seller in my book. I do get to say, though, 0:06:14.760 --> 0:06:18.080 I didn't know how the system works where you're like 0:06:18.120 --> 0:06:21.240 competing against books that have already been out and there 0:06:21.240 --> 0:06:24.800 were some large names that you were so I'm not 0:06:24.800 --> 0:06:26.760 really sure how it all works either. To be honest, 0:06:27.040 --> 0:06:29.279 it's really not how you think it is. It's not 0:06:29.360 --> 0:06:32.680 a numbers game. It's very objective. So I'm just gonna 0:06:32.760 --> 0:06:34.640 let it be. I'm not gonna try and get the 0:06:34.680 --> 0:06:37.560 behind the science of it. Yeah, yeah, yeah, But I 0:06:37.600 --> 0:06:41.360 do think that's a really good awareness of because your 0:06:41.440 --> 0:06:44.960 whole one of your favorite quote quotes is not to 0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:48.599 get attached to the outcome. Correct, open to the possibility, 0:06:48.760 --> 0:06:51.800 not attached to the outcome. But sometimes we do get it. 0:06:51.920 --> 0:06:56.080 Sometimes we do, not even realizing attached ourselves. Correct, we 0:06:56.160 --> 0:07:02.720 had really attached. We had latched on ourselves. So here 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:05.920 we are. Okay, So okay, So that was in the past, 0:07:06.080 --> 0:07:08.359 and now we are moving on to fire in the 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:12.400 loins future. What does that look like? Ferociousness just in 0:07:13.120 --> 0:07:19.560 everything and attacking, attacking live anything specific or no you know, 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:25.280 it's been a night. Yeah, it's just a general general start. Correct. 0:07:25.880 --> 0:07:31.840 Did it give you any sort of like I have 0:07:31.960 --> 0:07:35.600 I've ever gotten that. That's disappointing. But at Crystal to 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:41.280 do a quick edit of that. Um no, Well, so 0:07:41.360 --> 0:07:45.240 Haley and I went to um it's called Three Rivers, 0:07:45.240 --> 0:07:47.440 but it's like next to the Sequoya National Park where 0:07:47.440 --> 0:07:49.760 the big trees are. We really like to go to 0:07:49.800 --> 0:07:52.720 the trees. You know, when you're feeling like overwhelmed by things, 0:07:52.920 --> 0:07:55.040 I don't. I didn't really have anything that was overwhelming me. 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.400 I did find your perspective very interesting, Like, wow, it 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:59.920 feels so cool to be small and to feel small, 0:08:00.200 --> 0:08:02.880 you know how Like feeling small sometimes it's like the 0:08:02.920 --> 0:08:05.040 worst feeling because like if you're in a room of 0:08:05.080 --> 0:08:07.560 people and they make you feel small, that's a bad 0:08:07.600 --> 0:08:10.840 feeling small. But then when you're next to like the ocean, 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:14.000 you're next these like massive giant trees and you feel small, 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:17.680 You're like, wow, my, it's a total perspective shift over. 0:08:17.800 --> 0:08:21.760 Like problems are still problems, but in the grand scheme 0:08:21.760 --> 0:08:24.200 of things, it's all things are going to be just fine. 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:26.400 I don't even know what I was feeling. I don't 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:29.280 even know like what problems I was feeling on the inside, 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:34.240 but the feeling yeah yeah, um. And so we went 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:38.080 to the trees and we did not pack clothes like 0:08:38.160 --> 0:08:41.480 for snow, because I think Hailey looked where we were 0:08:41.480 --> 0:08:43.199 staying and it was like in the fifties sixties, so 0:08:43.240 --> 0:08:45.320 we're like, oh, it's probably gonna be like really nice 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:47.679 up in the trees. We get up there. Luckily we 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:50.560 had like snow jackets and stuff and in the car, 0:08:50.840 --> 0:08:54.440 and it was like probably eight feet of snow, so 0:08:54.480 --> 0:08:56.040 we were able to actually go up to the tree, 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:58.319 which you're not normally able to go up to because 0:08:58.320 --> 0:09:00.320 everyone was like messaging me like did you over the 0:09:00.320 --> 0:09:03.840 fence because you're not supposed to cross it. People to 0:09:03.880 --> 0:09:06.280 the park ranger and he was like, you can go 0:09:06.360 --> 0:09:08.800 up and touch. It's a rare moment. So we just 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:12.000 had like the best time. We made pizzas in the 0:09:12.679 --> 0:09:16.640 stone oven fire started to fire ourselves, but the fire 0:09:17.040 --> 0:09:21.240 watched the Super Bowl outside modern women, we really are. Yeah, 0:09:21.320 --> 0:09:23.480 I gotta say, it's really nice dating a woman in 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:26.560 this sense that like she had every meal prepared because 0:09:26.559 --> 0:09:28.080 we just stayed at the house and cook so she 0:09:28.120 --> 0:09:31.040 had every single meal, like prepared, like she cooked fish 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:34.000 in the oven. One night, we had pasta. We had 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:37.040 just prepped. You know, it's really nice. I can say 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:40.160 dating a man, he does the same on the barbecue though, 0:09:40.200 --> 0:09:42.600 like that guy, you can do anything on the barbecue. 0:09:42.600 --> 0:09:46.200 I will say, Robbie is a very good prepared gentleman. Yes, 0:09:46.240 --> 0:09:48.640 and prepared gentlemen he is. Yeah, I guess it's just 0:09:48.760 --> 0:09:50.960 dating someone who's prepared, because I guess I'm a woman 0:09:51.000 --> 0:09:52.440 and I would never do that, so I guess it 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:54.280 has nothing to do with that. We were missed at 0:09:54.280 --> 0:09:56.440 our Super Bowl parte. It was a handful. It was 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:58.679 not really a big parte. It was like a handful 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:01.240 of people, but it's a nice idea all had, honestly, 0:10:01.480 --> 0:10:04.480 you know, it was interesting. We had maybe, let's see, 0:10:04.480 --> 0:10:07.080 including us, it was seven or eight people, so that's 0:10:07.080 --> 0:10:10.080 not a big amount of people. I was cooking. We 0:10:10.080 --> 0:10:12.240 were cooking and prepping, like I made like this giant 0:10:12.320 --> 0:10:15.200 Jennifer Fisher salad and he'd like steak and corn, and 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:18.080 we like made fresh quaca moli. We were cooking like. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:20.880 I was cooking, preparing and doing stuffing the majority of 0:10:20.920 --> 0:10:23.240 the game. Yeah, And I was like, wow, this is 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:26.160 probably people order food and don't do this. I've never 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:29.760 seen someone make a full steak dinner for everybody. But 0:10:30.440 --> 0:10:32.520 I was like, I might be coming there next year. 0:10:33.760 --> 0:10:39.720 My expectations, Hi, if I got I'm expecting the medium 0:10:40.160 --> 0:10:44.920 cooked steak. Um. Yeah it was. I loved the game 0:10:45.000 --> 0:10:49.000 was so great. Like, did you watch the game? It 0:10:49.120 --> 0:10:53.320 was such a I'd say maybe the last like five minutes. 0:10:53.400 --> 0:10:56.080 So did you watch the commercials? Yeah? But again I 0:10:56.080 --> 0:10:58.000 was like cooking. I was prepping. I was chopping. I was, 0:10:58.800 --> 0:11:02.560 you know, making my spa while or for everybody. Okay, 0:11:02.640 --> 0:11:07.720 maybe I'm rethinking the Super Bowl water you let me 0:11:07.760 --> 0:11:11.079 tell you they guests very much enjoyed my lemon squeezed 0:11:11.080 --> 0:11:14.839 pitcher and my strawberry muddled water. Oh wow, that is 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:19.360 pretty nice. Actually, thank you m Yeah, the commercials, I 0:11:19.400 --> 0:11:22.600 didn't really have a favorite commercial. I knew which one 0:11:22.600 --> 0:11:25.000 I liked if I may for some reason this with 0:11:25.040 --> 0:11:28.520 the doubt to me, the Dorrito's commercial with Jack Harlow. Okay, 0:11:29.120 --> 0:11:31.920 that one was inspired by the shape of the dorrito, which, 0:11:31.960 --> 0:11:34.520 as you know, is a triangle. That's to play the 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:40.040 triangle musically. It became so popular everybody started playing the triangle. 0:11:40.040 --> 0:11:43.160 You couldn't keep triangles and talking. Eventually the triangle replaced 0:11:43.160 --> 0:11:45.920 the British Pound, which I thought was very funny. And 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:49.560 then um he went oh he was up to the 0:11:49.559 --> 0:11:54.520 award for best triangle playing and he lost Elton John. Yeah, 0:11:54.640 --> 0:11:59.360 I enjoyed it. It was a journey by my breaking 0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:02.440 bad one that was a good one. Watched Freak then 0:12:02.480 --> 0:12:05.480 you wouldn't appreciate it, honestly. But you know what I 0:12:05.600 --> 0:12:08.320 felt during this year of the commercials, I feel like 0:12:08.720 --> 0:12:13.280 people rushed. They're trying to get there, like big moment, 0:12:13.400 --> 0:12:15.120 and they try to make it happen. But then it 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.600 was like it would just end and there wasn't even 0:12:17.640 --> 0:12:19.600 like an ending or something. It felt like the commercial 0:12:19.640 --> 0:12:21.600 would just end. Sometimes I felt like they were just like, 0:12:22.120 --> 0:12:25.040 take all this money, put us on the TV. Here's 0:12:25.040 --> 0:12:28.359 our idea that we came up. There's so much expectation 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:31.400 the best payoff. Yeah, and it's like you only have 0:12:31.440 --> 0:12:33.240 a certain amount of time for the millions of dollars 0:12:33.240 --> 0:12:35.040 you pay to have that slot, so you just have 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:36.760 to squeeze it in. But there were a few where 0:12:36.800 --> 0:12:39.440 I was like, huh. The one that I really didn't 0:12:39.480 --> 0:12:42.160 like and I might this might be controversial, I don't know, 0:12:42.440 --> 0:12:47.720 but John Travolta one, which was I think it song 0:12:47.840 --> 0:12:56.800 is like an insurance commercial I think, and they were 0:12:57.160 --> 0:12:59.439 from Grace. I just can't imagine what they had to 0:12:59.480 --> 0:13:01.400 pay John to vaulted to get him to sing a 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.839 grease song, which I don't think he's done in twenty years. 0:13:03.880 --> 0:13:05.200 But I want to know. I want to know how 0:13:05.280 --> 0:13:07.839 much money all these were, like the j Lo and 0:13:07.880 --> 0:13:13.000 Ben one, like millions of dollars to do that. I mean, 0:13:13.040 --> 0:13:14.920 it's got to be insane, especially get revolted to do 0:13:15.000 --> 0:13:16.679 something like that. But I enjoyed that one. Why did 0:13:16.720 --> 0:13:19.520 you dislike it? Um? It gave me the ick? Yeah, 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:24.440 he's yeah. I don't want to shame anyone. He doesn't anyway, 0:13:24.720 --> 0:13:26.200 you know, Okay, I get it. I'll just say I 0:13:26.200 --> 0:13:29.800 get it. It was just and I think that the guys, 0:13:29.840 --> 0:13:36.199 the scrub guys with him, what was that the mobile spokespeople. Okay, 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:38.760 I guess I missed that. I don't know. I just 0:13:39.920 --> 0:13:42.760 it is fascinating because it was six million dollars this 0:13:42.880 --> 0:13:45.079 year for a thirty second Super Bowl commercial. So some 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:47.240 would come up and like there was one word a 0:13:47.320 --> 0:13:50.400 woman kept buying things on her phone. I'm like, holy god, 0:13:50.480 --> 0:13:52.680 they've just been six million dollars on that. I don't 0:13:52.720 --> 0:13:55.560 know what that was. No, it wasn't funny, it wasn't interesting. 0:13:55.600 --> 0:13:59.280 It's like, wow, that's what I'm saying, baffling. I don't 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.280 know if it was just like, Okay, we got the spot, 0:14:01.360 --> 0:14:02.959 we have to come up with something and get it 0:14:03.040 --> 0:14:05.880 submitted within I don't know how far in advance they 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:10.160 know it, but it felt very yikes. Yeah, and Jesus 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:12.480 bought time. Oh yeah, I saw that. I was like, 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:16.600 it was like, wait for what was it for? No idea? 0:14:16.640 --> 0:14:19.520 It was literally like Jesus dot com or something. It 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:23.880 was about Jesus loving it like love your enemy. Yeah. 0:14:25.240 --> 0:14:29.640 We were watching and we're like, what is this commercial us? Yes, 0:14:29.760 --> 0:14:34.920 that's right. Um, But anyways, the game was great. Oh 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:39.200 and then um Miles Teller and his wife Kayle they together. Yeah. 0:14:39.200 --> 0:14:41.200 I like that one a lot. I just thought the 0:14:41.280 --> 0:14:45.240 Duncan commercial was funny. After all the Grammys memes and 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:48.240 stuff about Ben and Jen that they had that commercial. 0:14:49.080 --> 0:14:53.400 Good timing. I have expected Machine Gun, Kelly and Megan 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.920 Fox to being a Super Bowl commercial together and and 0:14:56.080 --> 0:14:57.920 what what happened over the weekend was kind of the 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.800 set up. Her clearing her inst A stuff was gonna 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:02.040 be a set up for them sitting on the couch 0:15:02.080 --> 0:15:06.680 eating and I'm going, ha ha, fooled you, But I 0:15:06.720 --> 0:15:09.160 thought that would have been cool. You're very wrong. Well, 0:15:09.240 --> 0:15:13.360 they definitely we're not in a commercial together and don't 0:15:13.440 --> 0:15:16.440 seem like they will be any in any commercials together. 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:19.640 Should we take a break and come back and talk 0:15:19.680 --> 0:15:39.480 about this? Sure, sure, Okay, we'll be right back. Okay, 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.800 we're back. And so Megan Fox and Machine and Kelly 0:15:44.200 --> 0:15:50.840 allegedly have split. Allegedly, there's been no information current status. 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:55.440 But she deleted did she delete her whole Instagram account 0:15:55.480 --> 0:15:58.920 or she just photos Instagram? Well, okay, so it was 0:15:58.920 --> 0:16:02.600 like a series of events. So basically she deleted all 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.040 the photos of her, Machine gun Kelly off her page. 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:08.320 Then she posted that carousela photos with that with the 0:16:08.640 --> 0:16:11.480 fire burning yeah, the fire burning letter at the end 0:16:11.520 --> 0:16:13.640 of it. But also the lyrics that she posted about 0:16:13.640 --> 0:16:17.160 betrayal were from Beyonce's album Lemonade, So all of this 0:16:17.280 --> 0:16:20.040 is very telling. Then she starts only following three people, 0:16:20.240 --> 0:16:24.840 which are Harry Styles, Timothey, Chalomi, and isn't how you 0:16:24.880 --> 0:16:27.840 say it? Yeah, there's that seems to be there seems 0:16:27.880 --> 0:16:32.400 to be something to that, Timota, Chalomi and uh, Eminem 0:16:34.160 --> 0:16:43.440 is this a joke? Timothy, Timota, Timid and then Eminem 0:16:43.520 --> 0:16:45.920 who if you know Eminem and Machine Gun Kelly have 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:48.280 had some beef in the past. Well, and Machine and 0:16:48.480 --> 0:16:51.920 Eminem and Megan fox We're in Love the Way You 0:16:52.000 --> 0:16:56.840 Live video together with Rihanna. Wow, I did not connect 0:16:56.920 --> 0:17:02.800 those dots so interesting that I'm not sure I cannot 0:17:02.880 --> 0:17:08.119 confirm nor deny that fact. Because googling and Marcus spinning 0:17:08.160 --> 0:17:09.960 his computer around, because I'm going to play for you 0:17:10.440 --> 0:17:15.960 show it is Megan Foxy and because your dad's French? 0:17:16.880 --> 0:17:19.680 Are you really too attach? It's supposed to be too tap, 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:23.119 but it always just seemed like too obnoxious requirement to 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:26.959 put on people. So you go, I'm going to give 0:17:27.040 --> 0:17:29.320 him the respect he deserves and call him Timotay. I 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:31.920 appreciate I learned something new every day here on the podcast. 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:36.560 So anyways, so that's kind of the spiral. And then 0:17:37.520 --> 0:17:41.080 she deleted her Instagram after all of these things. Okay, 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:46.560 so we're assuming what's been assumed is that he cheated, correct. 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:54.159 I just cannot imagine being a machine Gun Kelly and 0:17:54.680 --> 0:17:59.760 dating a Megan Fox and thinking cheating getting that comfortable. 0:18:00.560 --> 0:18:02.760 What do you mean that he thought that he could 0:18:02.800 --> 0:18:06.880 do that and it and not have consequences. I don't 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:10.800 understand how any of these celebrities think that they can 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:12.880 and any way will First of all any way shape 0:18:12.920 --> 0:18:15.560 or from cheating, I think is horrendous, but also that 0:18:15.640 --> 0:18:17.399 they think they can just get away like Adam Leavine 0:18:17.440 --> 0:18:19.440 d m NG inappropriate things to all these women, Like 0:18:19.520 --> 0:18:21.439 how does he not think that that's going to come 0:18:21.480 --> 0:18:24.600 out at some point? Yeah, that's what I'm saying that, 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:26.919 like the machine Gun Kelly really think that he can 0:18:27.320 --> 0:18:30.000 hook up with somebody and it's not going to get out, Like, 0:18:30.280 --> 0:18:34.200 what are they that egotistically like that they just think 0:18:34.240 --> 0:18:38.200 they walk on water? I think it's so bizarre to me. 0:18:39.440 --> 0:18:42.920 That's remember I had this conversation recently about how these 0:18:43.840 --> 0:18:48.360 men that I say are that I would say our 0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:53.960 average with like tens cheating on the ten and it's 0:18:54.000 --> 0:18:58.520 like you were lucky to have that, the amazing person 0:18:58.920 --> 0:19:05.639 that you just cheated on my nails. But literally, really 0:19:07.320 --> 0:19:10.960 I'm getting them done can we go back to zoom? 0:19:12.320 --> 0:19:16.320 I don't they're really bad. That nail that you just 0:19:16.400 --> 0:19:18.880 pointed at me with was disturbing. I know it's not. Well, 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.320 I chipped all of them off this fingers on the 0:19:21.400 --> 0:19:26.680 way out too, Okay. Anyways, anyways, I was trying to 0:19:26.760 --> 0:19:28.560 hide them from you because then you called me out 0:19:28.680 --> 0:19:32.480 last time. Yeah, I didn't know. I don't feel safe 0:19:33.960 --> 0:19:37.600 nails around you. Anyways. I'm just saying the fact the 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:40.240 idea that a man can have an ego so big 0:19:40.359 --> 0:19:43.760 that you have Megan Fox and you're like, I'm gonna 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:45.720 blow it and see what happens. Well, I don't. I mean, 0:19:45.800 --> 0:19:49.160 look to me, I don't understand cheating in the first place. 0:19:49.240 --> 0:19:51.160 Like I think it's awful and I think it's such 0:19:51.200 --> 0:19:55.680 a testament to people's character, But I just don't understand 0:19:56.040 --> 0:19:59.840 the the thought behind I'm going to cheat on my 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:02.000 significant other and think I'm going to get away with it. 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:08.320 To me, just seems mind blowingly idiotic. Yeah, I agree, 0:20:08.880 --> 0:20:13.639 this is all speculation. Again, we don't know that. With 0:20:13.800 --> 0:20:17.439 that being said, we have no idea what actually happened. Correct, 0:20:17.560 --> 0:20:19.320 We're just basing it off of the info we have. 0:20:19.560 --> 0:20:23.720 Correct and you know what they say about speculation, What 0:20:23.880 --> 0:20:26.520 do they say about speculation? Can bite you in the butt, 0:20:27.040 --> 0:20:32.760 that's what they say. But it's interesting this one didn't 0:20:32.760 --> 0:20:34.760 this one have to flame out like this one burned 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:38.879 so hot at the beginning, it wasn't gonna last forever. 0:20:39.000 --> 0:20:42.480 I don't like that school of thought. Let's hear hear 0:20:42.520 --> 0:20:44.280 it because I'm a little bit with Mark on this 0:20:44.600 --> 0:20:49.080 because I think that you can have a flaming hot 0:20:49.160 --> 0:20:57.240 relationship throughout your life period. I disagree, Okay, I agree 0:20:57.320 --> 0:20:59.879 with that. I just felt like the things that they 0:21:00.080 --> 0:21:04.119 said about each other so publicly and so fast felt 0:21:04.240 --> 0:21:09.639 very love bolly to me, where it was like like 0:21:09.960 --> 0:21:13.720 a little unhealthy feeling. I don't know the relationship. I'm 0:21:13.760 --> 0:21:16.639 just basing it off public knowledge because I know how 0:21:16.720 --> 0:21:18.879 I felt about Haley like I would some of my 0:21:19.080 --> 0:21:23.280 notes from like what I would write down are so dramatic, 0:21:23.680 --> 0:21:26.280 and she is like not, Haley is not really corny 0:21:26.440 --> 0:21:29.119 or cheesy like I am. I feel, wow, this is 0:21:29.200 --> 0:21:33.800 really just insight. And you've never been corny or cheesy 0:21:33.880 --> 0:21:44.359 with me. I know this is different. Um. Anyways, I 0:21:45.400 --> 0:21:46.960 just think about the things that I said, like I 0:21:47.000 --> 0:21:49.280 remember feeling those feelings, but it was just like so 0:21:49.600 --> 0:21:54.000 personal and like I didn't want it to be something 0:21:54.080 --> 0:21:55.399 I looked back on and I was like, wow, I 0:21:55.480 --> 0:21:58.880 got way in over my head. I've never told this story. 0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:00.119 I don't know if we told this story on the 0:22:00.200 --> 0:22:02.840 podcast I Haley did. But when we first met and 0:22:02.880 --> 0:22:05.800 started dating, I had this tiny little picture frame that 0:22:05.880 --> 0:22:07.879 this company sent me with a Phoebe photo in it, 0:22:08.280 --> 0:22:11.080 and she sent me like multiple of them, and it 0:22:11.280 --> 0:22:13.000 was maybe I don't even know how big that is. 0:22:13.640 --> 0:22:17.040 This big like an inch or two yeah, definitely more 0:22:17.080 --> 0:22:22.240 than an in two inches, okay, and um I put 0:22:22.400 --> 0:22:25.399 a photo of the first photo we took together. I 0:22:25.520 --> 0:22:27.080 put it, I printed it out and put it in 0:22:27.160 --> 0:22:29.800 this picture frame and gave it to her before she 0:22:29.880 --> 0:22:34.480 went on tour literally right after we met. Two weeks 0:22:34.520 --> 0:22:36.520 that was a week, no too, it was two weeks 0:22:36.560 --> 0:22:41.240 after we met. You did that, yes, And I remember 0:22:41.359 --> 0:22:44.240 her looking at it being like, oh, that's so cute, 0:22:44.280 --> 0:22:47.560 and me walking away being like, what who have I become? 0:22:50.600 --> 0:22:55.480 So I would do exactly. I get the passionate like 0:22:55.760 --> 0:22:57.760 love and like wanting to share it with the world 0:22:57.880 --> 0:22:59.720 and everything, but I just felt like it was so 0:23:00.160 --> 0:23:03.360 much so fast that there had to be a fizzle 0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:08.639 or burnout. Being like that public about it interesting, But 0:23:08.760 --> 0:23:11.119 I also disagree with Mark that I think the fizzle 0:23:11.160 --> 0:23:17.080 burns out because and the fiddle changes certainly over years. 0:23:20.520 --> 0:23:22.880 You can keep a fizzle going, but you can't keep 0:23:22.960 --> 0:23:31.399 going the conflagration that machine gun, Kelly and then excuse me, conflagration. 0:23:32.560 --> 0:23:35.040 What those two had is not sustainable. But they were 0:23:35.080 --> 0:23:39.000 doing their blood around their necks or something like different strokes, 0:23:39.040 --> 0:23:42.000 different frogs. Baby. I'm just saying that is not sustainable. 0:23:42.600 --> 0:23:46.639 And but keeping the fiddle going great, keep that fire burning, 0:23:46.920 --> 0:23:48.879