WEBVTT - The Tableside Guacamole 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:04.960 From Hollywood. See you. Thank you for listening to us 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:12.680 with Ryan Seacrest. Good morning, guys, Seacrest, Ceceny and Tony. 0:00:12.840 --> 0:00:16.680 Did you see yesterday Robbie was on TV? What I 0:00:16.720 --> 0:00:19.400 did see? Robbie was on TV? You did? Or didn't? 0:00:19.440 --> 0:00:21.200 You did? You did? You did? What did you see 0:00:21.360 --> 0:00:24.880 that um that you came up to me and him 0:00:25.000 --> 0:00:28.400 and Syceny and you at the Heart Rating Music Festival 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.040 and then Sysney and then you said I gotta go 0:00:32.159 --> 0:00:35.479 and Sisney said that's our lives. Yes, everybody, that's it. 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.159 That was the scene right there. Everybody's been asking me about, Hey, 0:00:38.240 --> 0:00:40.680 was that Robbie? We saw this little piece you ran 0:00:40.760 --> 0:00:43.520 back on Live with Killeen Ryan. Was that guy between 0:00:43.560 --> 0:00:45.720 Seceny and Tony? Was that Robbie? I don't know if 0:00:45.800 --> 0:00:48.519 Robbie's seen it yet, but he looks study in it. 0:00:49.159 --> 0:00:51.200 He's just chilling You guys are leaning against the Coca 0:00:51.200 --> 0:00:54.200 Cola machine, just chilling out. I'll have to go back 0:00:54.240 --> 0:00:57.920 and check out. You're featured in it because you turned 0:00:57.920 --> 0:01:00.360 to the camera as I run off and you say, yeah, 0:01:00.400 --> 0:01:05.840 that's our life. Welcome to our lives. But it is 0:01:05.959 --> 0:01:10.800 interesting when you get to see your significant other on 0:01:10.840 --> 0:01:13.679 the news for the first time, hopefully, but on the 0:01:13.720 --> 0:01:15.440 news for the first time. I know. I don't think 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:16.960 he's seen it. I want to send him a clip 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:19.240 of it. No have like you should show him like 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:20.760 with the kids and all that. Suff I'll do a 0:01:20.760 --> 0:01:26.800 little viewing party at the house. A big deal for 0:01:26.880 --> 0:01:29.800 someone who's never on TV. That's a big deal. I 0:01:29.800 --> 0:01:31.520 think he's gonna want to see his look because we 0:01:32.240 --> 0:01:35.199 don't know what we look like in real life ever, 0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:37.720 and the mirror. I cannot tell in a mirror. But 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:40.160 when you see somebody shoot a video of you working 0:01:40.160 --> 0:01:42.800 out or a video of you jogging, you know what 0:01:42.840 --> 0:01:45.280 you look like. And that's what he had. But it 0:01:45.319 --> 0:01:48.000 was it went nationwide and Canada. He looks good. Are 0:01:48.040 --> 0:01:51.560 those wheels on his Bronco that he posted on his Instagram? 0:01:54.320 --> 0:01:56.200 Big wheels? Did he get big wheels on his Bronco? 0:01:56.320 --> 0:01:59.280 You guys, he's so into his Ford Bronco. He's like 0:01:59.320 --> 0:02:01.600 in like face spook groups, what size? Do you know? 0:02:01.600 --> 0:02:04.160 What size? Rims? He has no text him and ask him, 0:02:04.200 --> 0:02:07.200 say Ryan's ask him. But he got a new fender. 0:02:07.360 --> 0:02:09.720 He got new like fender flares. He like replaces fending 0:02:10.000 --> 0:02:13.360 himself and took him like hours. He's so proud of it, 0:02:14.520 --> 0:02:16.200 so you got to make him feel good, right, You 0:02:16.240 --> 0:02:19.160 can't be like whoop if he's so when when you're 0:02:19.360 --> 0:02:21.560 s O is so proud of something, even if you're 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:24.400 like not a big deal, you kind of have to like, oh, 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:27.520 what's we should celebrate that good? He's like, don't they 0:02:27.520 --> 0:02:29.600 look chic? Now? It's like, yeah, Like the wheels stick 0:02:29.639 --> 0:02:32.600 outside of the car like they're huge. They're huge. So 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:38.640 the wheels are fat? Yes, car, Yeah, the tires are fat. 0:02:38.720 --> 0:02:40.760 But is that like his real car? That's his real car? 0:02:41.639 --> 0:02:44.680 Or the wheels fat or the tires fat? Someone have 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:48.600 Sam show you the video. I'll send it to Sam. 0:02:48.639 --> 0:02:52.440 But the thing like your your Michael is very handy. 0:02:52.480 --> 0:02:53.960 He could put on a bumper and take it off, 0:02:53.960 --> 0:02:56.840 put on fat wheels, I mean that bumper. But yeah, 0:02:57.000 --> 0:03:00.839 he built a deck, didn't he? He never did de four? 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:06.679 Oh my gosh, what Yes, No, he never did. I'm 0:03:06.680 --> 0:03:10.280 not talking about Michael's deck. We got stairs, we got 0:03:10.280 --> 0:03:12.320 stairs to the deck. I heard it. Oh my gosh, 0:03:12.320 --> 0:03:14.240 I thought, say was coming out. What are you asking 0:03:14.240 --> 0:03:16.200 me to ask him? How big his what is his 0:03:16.400 --> 0:03:21.080 wheels are what size rims? Where is it? Hold on? 0:03:21.240 --> 0:03:23.240 What size rims? Okay, there it is. I'm looking at 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:29.519 right there. See aren't those giant? Are? They? Tap his face? Okay, 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:33.680 to keep tapping his face? Tapped the next one? Who's 0:03:33.720 --> 0:03:37.960 this teaching you how to go through story? I was like, 0:03:38.040 --> 0:03:41.600 is that you guy? Yeah? That's that's from Halloween? Is 0:03:42.040 --> 0:03:45.680 Courtney Travis Cravish? I thought that was I thought it 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:47.280 definitely looked like Travis. I don't know who the other 0:03:47.320 --> 0:03:50.640 person was, Courtney Kardashian. Well, yeah, but you dressed as 0:03:50.680 --> 0:03:53.200 Courtney Ardashian, so it doesn't look quite like Courtney Kardashian. 0:03:54.240 --> 0:03:56.680 I'm just looking at your instagram from you. That's not mine, 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:59.320 that's his. I'm looking at his instagram. It's all you. 0:04:00.200 --> 0:04:02.200 It looks Who would have known? If I didn't look 0:04:02.200 --> 0:04:05.160 at the top, I wouldn't know. That looks like your instagram. 0:04:05.200 --> 0:04:08.320 Sunshine and hot again eighties and two a hundred inland 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:11.840 cooler tomorrow in the weekend, looking much better. We have 0:04:12.040 --> 0:04:14.240 Ryan's roses at seven forty. If you're gonna be around 0:04:14.240 --> 0:04:16.919 after seven o'clock. She found her husband on what she 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:19.880 says was a FaceTime call with another woman in the 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:23.520 middle of the night. He says, no, I guess he's gaslighting. 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:28.880 He's like, no, you didn't see that. No, he denies it, 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:35.400 and she thinks it happened. So what was he doing? 0:04:35.480 --> 0:04:37.680 He says he was just watching a video, but she 0:04:37.760 --> 0:04:40.799 thinks it was live interaction. We need more info. We're 0:04:40.800 --> 0:04:43.120 gonna talk to an. That's why we do. Ryan chose 0:04:43.800 --> 0:04:46.640 it's a public service, all right. I think we need 0:04:46.640 --> 0:04:50.600 a family meeting. There's a little steam coming out of 0:04:50.720 --> 0:04:54.000 Sissany's ears. This is just like invading my space and 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:56.480 now I see steam. Here's we have some steam ears here? 0:04:56.560 --> 0:04:58.880 What's going on? Sysny? Okay, So Sunday, when I got 0:04:58.920 --> 0:05:02.160 back from Vegas, Michael take down the Halloween decorations from 0:05:02.200 --> 0:05:06.039 the attic because I wanted to decorate the house. We 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:07.720 didn't get around to it on Sunday, so they're just 0:05:07.800 --> 0:05:10.480 kind of been sitting there in the front section of 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:13.480 our home, like by the front door. So we went 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:19.600 to people on Tuesday night. Wait, Vegas, didn't get to it. 0:05:21.960 --> 0:05:23.960 Twice in one week. Wouldn't go to Vegas, so we 0:05:23.960 --> 0:05:26.200 didn't get to see pitple. So we saw people on 0:05:26.240 --> 0:05:29.120 Friday and Tuesday I did, but Michael didn't. How are 0:05:29.120 --> 0:05:34.120 you not tired? Yeah? What is coffee? So I think 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:36.320 it has to do when you have kids in a marriage, 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:38.600 all this stuff, like you you get to go do 0:05:38.680 --> 0:05:40.080 it if you can, If you get a sitter, you 0:05:40.080 --> 0:05:42.000 get to go. So you just go, dude, That's what 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.919 we did. So we got a sitter and we go 0:05:45.040 --> 0:05:46.839 to Pitple and it's like our date nine and we 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:51.520 had so much fun. When we get back, the house 0:05:51.880 --> 0:05:56.240 is decorated for Halloween. So she took it upon herself 0:05:56.600 --> 0:05:59.520 to decorate, to do the ceremony of decorations. That was 0:05:59.760 --> 0:06:02.440 like what you guys to go star hung on the 0:06:02.520 --> 0:06:07.320 porch and the mantle is completely decorated. Like you think 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:11.039 it's nice, I'm sorry you don't touch another. This is 0:06:11.040 --> 0:06:14.960 wive or woman's mantle like that is like that is no, 0:06:16.320 --> 0:06:19.000 it's sacred. Michael knows not to decorate the mantle like 0:06:19.120 --> 0:06:21.679 I'm in charge of the mantle, like I know exactly 0:06:21.680 --> 0:06:24.680 where to place all the decor. To relinquish some control 0:06:24.720 --> 0:06:28.440 the things in life, like the mantle is not that 0:06:28.640 --> 0:06:31.280 of the mantel is the focal point of the home 0:06:31.320 --> 0:06:34.719 when you walk in each year. The mantle is like 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.640 it changes, like I already have a vision for the mantel. 0:06:38.680 --> 0:06:40.200 I have already had like a Pinterest board of what 0:06:40.240 --> 0:06:41.760 I was gonna do this year for the mantel, and 0:06:41.800 --> 0:06:46.280 it was not what she did. I have I'm mandelis 0:06:46.320 --> 0:06:48.160 actually I have no mantle. I don't think I have 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:55.320 a mania for pictures differ. I would think to myself, Oh, 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:58.440 thank you, babysitter, thank you for taking the mode off 0:06:58.480 --> 0:07:00.680 of me. Now they're deck reading and I could just 0:07:00.680 --> 0:07:02.240 get ready to celebrate you. I would look at it 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:06.440 as no negative at all. She did the chore, putting 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.760 them up. There's only more time to focus on the 0:07:08.800 --> 0:07:13.040 candy in theme. I'm costume, I'm part of me is like, yes, okay, fine, 0:07:13.080 --> 0:07:15.240 but part of me is like she stole that moment 0:07:15.280 --> 0:07:17.160 for me and my kids, and she's look in the mirror, 0:07:17.320 --> 0:07:19.400 look in the mirror. You gotta talk to yourself about this. 0:07:19.600 --> 0:07:21.560 You take it up with you. I already did. And 0:07:21.560 --> 0:07:25.920 now concert per week, two in a week, Like what 0:07:26.040 --> 0:07:28.760 the heck? Guy? I mean, come on, one less a 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:32.520 week would be better. He was so good and I 0:07:32.600 --> 0:07:35.800 feet pretty sure the same songs. Pretty sure. Oh my gosh, 0:07:35.800 --> 0:07:39.680 you're gonna working hard. It was so good. I'm telling you, 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:44.080 use me, excuse me, and then do that's all coming down. 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:47.280 I'm redoing that. I'm redoing the decor I got a 0:07:47.320 --> 0:07:50.720 text back about the rims. What size are Robbie's rims 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:56.760 on the Bronco tires rims or maybe twenty? There might 0:07:56.760 --> 0:07:59.760 be two? I think you two. Possibly. I think he's 0:07:59.840 --> 0:08:03.680 rolling on dubs. Well, dubs would be twenties, wouldn't they 0:08:04.800 --> 0:08:13.360 USh California Love, guys. Don't touch my mantle. Dont do. 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:18.080 It's not like she took your kids to Disneyland or 0:08:18.120 --> 0:08:20.760 something like, oh, let's go out. She just put up 0:08:20.800 --> 0:08:22.760 the decorations. You should leave out the Christmas stuff too 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:27.520 next year, like the like, here's some stuff to make 0:08:27.840 --> 0:08:32.160 breakfast in the morning, I mean, follow the laundry, like 0:08:32.280 --> 0:08:35.440 do that. I got some Steven Sanchez and bild tickets. 0:08:35.920 --> 0:08:41.080 Put out the Christmas stuff before we go. Ryan secrets 0:08:42.920 --> 0:08:46.040 every morning. I'm kind of excited at this point because 0:08:46.040 --> 0:08:49.720 some of the Hawks are pretty good, some are fine, 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.280 but we also give you a positive code of the 0:08:52.360 --> 0:08:55.800 day that's every day. Money ready at this time. So 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:58.880 here we go this morning. What do you have to 0:08:58.960 --> 0:09:01.960 memorize in your day to day or your work or 0:09:01.960 --> 0:09:05.520 your We need to memorize this today, what's on the list? Memorize? Yeah, 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:12.120 we need to commit to memory always what we're out of? Okay, 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.000 we actually I have a list and I always forget it. 0:09:15.040 --> 0:09:17.200 And today, for I actually brought it to work with 0:09:17.200 --> 0:09:19.280 me because it's this thing it's called all out of 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:22.559 and you have to check all the stuff that we're 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.000 out of in the house. It is insane. Wheud of banana's, 0:09:25.000 --> 0:09:27.000 word of grapes, red of broccoli, read of potatoes, word 0:09:27.000 --> 0:09:32.559 of waffles, oil, that babysitter was having a feast. You 0:09:32.760 --> 0:09:36.120 tell me she made breakfast. And memories that kid's birthdays. 0:09:36.200 --> 0:09:42.920 Memorizeed you know your family's birthdays. Words. I make lists, 0:09:42.920 --> 0:09:45.800 So for example, my my list, I need more toothpaste, 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:48.320 shaving cream, my neck pillow, I left it in Las Vegas, 0:09:48.920 --> 0:09:52.640 uh beans, some more water, and underwear, so it's on 0:09:52.679 --> 0:09:55.680 my list. I can't memorize all that anyway. I could 0:09:55.720 --> 0:09:59.280 probably apply this method. But they say when you need 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:01.559 to commit some thing to memory, for whatever it is, 0:10:01.720 --> 0:10:06.840 especially students, running a fan will help. Scientists felt that 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:11.000 the fans soft hum helps you retain new information, So 0:10:11.160 --> 0:10:14.280 try memorizing with the fan Tony next time you're studying 0:10:14.280 --> 0:10:16.800 your flash cards for a red carpet fan Fan Home, 0:10:16.800 --> 0:10:22.560 Fan Home. Today's quote of the day you need to 0:10:22.640 --> 0:10:26.600 feel at peace more than you need to feel in control. 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:33.959 Relinquished control of the mental Pull that one specifically for me, 0:10:34.640 --> 0:10:38.640 Change it up for you. Headlines, but we all saw 0:10:38.640 --> 0:10:42.360 the headlines yesterday. Rapper and com Dom native Coulio, who 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:45.640 lit up the music charts with hits like Gangster's Paradise, 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:48.320 has reportedly died at the age of fifty nine. According 0:10:48.360 --> 0:10:50.920 to a report from TMZ, Coulio's friend found him lying 0:10:50.920 --> 0:10:54.480 on the bathroom floor before emergency crews arrived on the scene. 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:57.720 While an official cause of death has yet to be released, 0:10:57.760 --> 0:11:01.079 TMZ reports that cardiac arrest may have played a factor 0:11:01.320 --> 0:11:05.640 in Coulio's death. California's new recycling law gives you ten 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.960 cents for every wine and liquor bottle. A Governor Gavin 0:11:09.000 --> 0:11:12.959 Newsom signed a bill expanding California's current bottle recycling program 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:17.880 to include wine and liquor bottles. That means that starting January, 0:11:18.040 --> 0:11:20.520 you'll be painting an extra ten cents for a bottle 0:11:20.559 --> 0:11:24.000 of wine of hard alcohol. That CRV goes into a 0:11:24.080 --> 0:11:26.320 state fund. But now you'll be able to get that 0:11:26.320 --> 0:11:30.280 money back if you turn those bottles into the recycling center. 0:11:30.960 --> 0:11:34.680 And notts Very Farm updated its chaperone policy yesterday for 0:11:34.840 --> 0:11:39.760 the park's popular Not Scary Farm Halloween event, allowing those 0:11:40.080 --> 0:11:44.240 twenty one and over to chaperone up to five guests 0:11:44.320 --> 0:11:49.400 age seventeen and younger instead of four, and providing free 0:11:49.600 --> 0:11:54.319 entry for chaperones who accompany five miners. The new rules 0:11:54.360 --> 0:11:58.599 go into effect today and provide one complementary chaperone and 0:11:58.720 --> 0:12:02.640 mission for the nights Halloween event only for those accompanied 0:12:02.679 --> 0:12:06.479 five miners who have each had a valid paid admission 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:14.679 with Ryan Seacrest. Today, we're paying your bills all day long. 0:12:15.000 --> 0:12:18.719 Today's Thursday Kiss pays your bills six to six. We'll 0:12:18.760 --> 0:12:22.920 do it again, an go ahead. So Chris Stoss, she 0:12:23.160 --> 0:12:26.000 is from Selling Sunset. That's where we know her, and 0:12:26.040 --> 0:12:28.840 we all remember her brief dating stint between her and 0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:32.480 her boss, Jason Oppenheim member we had him on the show. Yes, 0:12:34.280 --> 0:12:36.520 they're no longer together, but they still work together and 0:12:36.559 --> 0:12:41.520 actually they're both in separate relationships so she is dating 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:46.439 um singer g Flip and he is dating her name 0:12:46.559 --> 0:12:49.480 escapes Me, but he is dating a model. So it 0:12:49.480 --> 0:12:52.080 turns out that Krishell actually still has the log in 0:12:52.440 --> 0:12:55.120 to his HBO Max and she uses it. So basically, 0:12:55.120 --> 0:12:56.800 he was on the carpet and he was saying, Jason 0:12:56.880 --> 0:12:59.080 was saying, I can tell when she's mad at me, 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.720 because she'll screw up where I'm at on all my shows. 0:13:03.280 --> 0:13:05.280 We had a good little laugh this morning about it. 0:13:05.480 --> 0:13:09.120 That is wrong, and I'm like, so she's just going 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:11.120 to she's mad at him for something, and she goes 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:14.040 into his HBO Max and like fast forwards on the 0:13:14.040 --> 0:13:18.120 shows he's watching and stuff. That is so, but it's 0:13:18.120 --> 0:13:22.559 also weird. It's so laborious. Yeah, it takes too much time, yea. 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:24.360 And also it shows that she still has like maybe 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:26.559 feelings or something. I think it actually is a kind 0:13:26.559 --> 0:13:32.120 of a cute thing. Is it's flirty his girlfriend too, 0:13:32.559 --> 0:13:36.079 It's flirty for sure. Right, that's like, Okay, I'm mad 0:13:36.120 --> 0:13:41.600 at you, but really gonna like you? Yeah? Interesting? Right, Well, 0:13:41.800 --> 0:13:45.080 look over the years, I think someone has been watching 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:48.679 my shows unless I do and forget, I guess it's 0:13:51.559 --> 0:13:53.760 one of the streaming services just keeps going even when 0:13:53.760 --> 0:13:57.720 I turn off the TV, isn't it Yes? I think 0:13:57.720 --> 0:13:59.960 it's is It Prime or Hulu? One of them keeps going. 0:14:00.200 --> 0:14:02.640 I think it's HBO. It doesn't stop it, It doesn't stop. 0:14:02.840 --> 0:14:04.440 Turn off the TV, and you think the episode stopped. 0:14:04.440 --> 0:14:07.160 Most played the whole season Now I don't know where 0:14:07.200 --> 0:14:11.080 I left off. It's true where like Netflix will stop 0:14:11.120 --> 0:14:13.040 after three episodes because it's like, I don't know if 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:15.079 you're still watching. I feel like Netflix stops when I 0:14:15.120 --> 0:14:16.960 turn off. Some turn off when I turn off the 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:20.080 TV power. Others just keep on rolling through. Then I 0:14:20.080 --> 0:14:24.840 think someone's watching. I think someone has your passwords. I 0:14:24.840 --> 0:14:29.000 mean it's not unlikely. Yeah, it's not unlikely. You like, 0:14:29.280 --> 0:14:31.640 I don't know, and then like resetting every time I've 0:14:31.720 --> 0:14:33.440 ever had someone watch a movie with me, I'm like, 0:14:33.480 --> 0:14:34.840 I don't know how to open this. Can you open 0:14:34.880 --> 0:14:38.080 this password? Or you could be using one of your 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:39.880 ex as accounts and you still you don't even know. 0:14:40.200 --> 0:14:41.720 I think I would know, wouldn't it say their name? 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:46.400 I'm pretty sure Ryan has his own account. I'm pretty 0:14:46.400 --> 0:14:50.880 sure I do too. A double check on that tonight. 0:14:50.920 --> 0:14:55.000 I'm pretty sure I do Hey, we're paying your bills 0:14:55.040 --> 0:14:58.520 all day today? Do I have my own account? Can 0:14:58.520 --> 0:15:02.400 you spot me? Apple TV Play? It's for me, it's not, 0:15:02.560 --> 0:15:06.120 it's I get very short tempered and frustrated with all 0:15:06.160 --> 0:15:09.560 the coding, like I cannot stand it. I'd rather someone 0:15:09.600 --> 0:15:12.840 else type in the coding. It makes me actually don't 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:15.040 want to. I get so upset about watching something. I 0:15:15.040 --> 0:15:19.440 have to have to re authenticate. That's easy when I 0:15:19.440 --> 0:15:21.280 don't know why. I understand. Did you just put your 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:23.120 phone up to the TV. It doesn't give me a 0:15:23.160 --> 0:15:26.960 cure code. It says authenticate too. If you're logged out, 0:15:27.040 --> 0:15:29.120 it'll give you the option. I think Amazon Time. I 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:32.120 also somehow gave an email was using forever Ago that 0:15:32.160 --> 0:15:34.000 I don't look at as my email for them to 0:15:34.000 --> 0:15:36.000 send the password too. So I have to call people 0:15:36.320 --> 0:15:39.120 to look at the email that I got on a Saturday. 0:15:39.240 --> 0:15:41.480 I understand that happen. Back when we opened all these accounts. 0:15:41.520 --> 0:15:48.040 I didn't know the drama that was gonna unfold. Geez Cortisol, Cortisol, 0:15:48.080 --> 0:15:53.720 Cortisol Edgy today, No, no one's edgy A little uptight today? Okay, great, 0:15:53.760 --> 0:15:57.000 are you welcome? This is gonna be interesting I'm telling 0:15:57.040 --> 0:16:01.120 you right now, we've got a relationship up coach, basically 0:16:01.120 --> 0:16:05.320 a physical romance coach on the phone. Because the idea is, Hey, 0:16:05.560 --> 0:16:08.760 you really want to like please your partner, don't you? 0:16:09.320 --> 0:16:12.400 I want to know things to do to please the 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:15.440 person I'm with. Don't you want them to be satisfied? 0:16:15.440 --> 0:16:17.840 And vice versa and the O and I think it's 0:16:17.880 --> 0:16:20.400 a problem with our system. The only way to learn 0:16:20.480 --> 0:16:24.760 is by watching TV and movies. Where's the class? I 0:16:24.800 --> 0:16:27.960 think there should be college classes where you can teach 0:16:30.680 --> 0:16:33.480 please their partner. I'm serious. I didn't get it because 0:16:33.480 --> 0:16:35.840 there's a science to it, right. It's not just throw 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.160 it up against the wall and see what sticks. Means 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:43.440 a real science to pace and romance and all the physicalities. 0:16:43.920 --> 0:16:46.000 I don't think we should be embarrassed to ask questions 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:49.480 and say I don't know everything. It's okay. So Cora 0:16:49.600 --> 0:16:52.160 Boyd is on the line right now. This is her world. 0:16:52.600 --> 0:16:57.200 She coaches people in this department on how to get 0:16:57.240 --> 0:17:02.440 the most out physically of a couple's relationship. Am I right? Cora? Yes? 0:17:02.640 --> 0:17:05.800 And Ryan preach into the choir. I could not agree more. 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.600 We need classes and we need spaces to learn because 0:17:08.640 --> 0:17:11.280 this is I mean, one of the most important things. 0:17:11.680 --> 0:17:14.080 The number one predictor of happiness is the quality of 0:17:14.119 --> 0:17:19.360 our relationships. Yea, and when we guess, or we don't communicate, 0:17:19.480 --> 0:17:21.520 or we watch a movie and try and emulate that, 0:17:21.800 --> 0:17:24.359 it's not the best. I mean, I think the first off, 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:27.160 I've got to learn this. You gotta ask your partner 0:17:27.400 --> 0:17:31.240 what do you like? M you know, and that's like, 0:17:33.480 --> 0:17:36.080 but it's true, it's true. You need to talk about that, 0:17:36.160 --> 0:17:38.320 like what what do you like? Ti? What do you 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:42.480 like Robbie? And have that conversation. Yes, I mean it's 0:17:42.480 --> 0:17:46.439 a bit. Why are you guys laughing? Why is it 0:17:46.520 --> 0:17:49.440 so funny? I don't understand talks about She brings up 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:52.440 every single thing on this show that could be embarrassing 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:55.200 and disembarrassing. It's not. I'm not laughing because I'm embarrassed. 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:58.720 I'm laughing because it's like sweet, Like it's like, I'm 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:02.080 ready to learn and you focus. So let's we have 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:06.320 relationship coach core Boid on the line. So what I mean, 0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:10.280 how do we even start Cora with wanting to do 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:13.760 the right things to please our partners? Mm hmmm, Yeah. 0:18:13.800 --> 0:18:16.679 So I think an important element of this conversation too, 0:18:16.720 --> 0:18:19.800 And I love what you're saying, Ryan, just asking. It's 0:18:19.840 --> 0:18:24.439 also noticing what they like, so the verbal communication about it, 0:18:24.480 --> 0:18:28.200 but also noticing the feedback UM and acknowledging. Do you 0:18:28.200 --> 0:18:32.760 guys know about the five love languages? Were very invested. 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:38.480 So these are different ways that we know and like 0:18:38.760 --> 0:18:44.439 to give and receive affection. So it's physical touch, words 0:18:44.480 --> 0:18:49.400 of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, and gift giving UM. 0:18:49.440 --> 0:18:52.240 So for some people, and I think in this conversation 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:55.919 we're talking about physical touch UM. It's going to depend 0:18:55.960 --> 0:19:00.520 on the person obviously, but some people are more people touch, 0:19:00.560 --> 0:19:03.399 they want more physical touch. Some people want less. They 0:19:03.440 --> 0:19:06.040 get a little overwhelmed or kind of fuel start to 0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:09.040 feel crowded with too much, and that might be different 0:19:09.600 --> 0:19:13.119 for you and your partner. So it's kind of understanding 0:19:13.359 --> 0:19:17.360 first the needs and the desires of how much physical 0:19:17.400 --> 0:19:22.560 touch UM. And then there's another framework called the erotic 0:19:22.640 --> 0:19:27.520 blueprint UM, which helps us understand what kinds of physical 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:31.480 touch we like because we all have our online Is 0:19:31.520 --> 0:19:33.600 that a test? No, I was telling you guys about 0:19:33.640 --> 0:19:36.960 this because it was on the show. Okay, what is it? 0:19:37.440 --> 0:19:41.520 What is the erotic blueprint? So there is a quiz 0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:44.680 you can take online. But basically these it's a framework 0:19:44.720 --> 0:19:50.239 for understanding these five primary types of physical touch. So 0:19:50.320 --> 0:19:55.480 there's uh sexual, which is you know, just explicit other's sensual, 0:19:55.600 --> 0:19:59.440 which is like, um, awakening the senses. So that would 0:19:59.480 --> 0:20:05.040 be like setting up a nice environment having like smell, music, 0:20:05.280 --> 0:20:10.119 case different senses involved. Um. There is energetic, which is 0:20:10.280 --> 0:20:15.040 very much about kind of the tease of the anticipation um. 0:20:15.119 --> 0:20:17.880 And then there's kinky, which is more about kind of 0:20:17.920 --> 0:20:22.359 exploring the taboo. That is that that informs you a 0:20:22.359 --> 0:20:24.400 little bit, doesn't it, That informs your partner a little 0:20:24.400 --> 0:20:26.800 bit and yourself. So I've just been passed a note 0:20:26.840 --> 0:20:29.320 here from our engineer, Jeffrey Tubbs. Let me read it. 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:33.760 Where can you find that online quiz? Yeah, you can 0:20:33.800 --> 0:20:35.760 just google it and you can take the online quiz. 0:20:35.760 --> 0:20:40.119 You can also we should all do it. Yeah, we 0:20:40.160 --> 0:20:42.840 should all do it. Um. All right, So, I mean 0:20:42.880 --> 0:20:44.159 we could do this forever and maybe we'll have you 0:20:44.200 --> 0:20:46.440 come back and talk more specifically. But is there anything 0:20:46.480 --> 0:20:49.080 that you can share with listeners on the air that's 0:20:49.119 --> 0:20:52.320 something that in your experience has worked to make their 0:20:52.359 --> 0:20:54.560 partner melt I guess different for everybody, But is there 0:20:54.560 --> 0:20:58.480 any general way to answer that? Absolutely? Absolutely, Okay, So 0:20:58.600 --> 0:21:00.840 I think I can speak for all women when I 0:21:00.920 --> 0:21:03.920 say that when a guy comes up behind you when 0:21:03.960 --> 0:21:06.560 you're doing your makeup or washing the dishes or whatever 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:11.960 and grabs your hips and kind of kisses your neck, like, 0:21:12.320 --> 0:21:15.640 all women like that as far as I know. Um, 0:21:15.720 --> 0:21:21.240 So that's one. Another big one, UM would be taking 0:21:21.320 --> 0:21:25.080 notes touching the knee. So I think there's also like 0:21:25.280 --> 0:21:28.080 the kinds of intimate touch you have in private, and 0:21:28.119 --> 0:21:33.119 then like this kind of sexy we're in public. I 0:21:33.280 --> 0:21:35.919 may be kind of stroking your hand or squeezing your 0:21:35.960 --> 0:21:39.520 hand under the table, or touching your knee. So I 0:21:39.560 --> 0:21:42.119 think I can speak for women too. If a guy's 0:21:42.240 --> 0:21:45.280 driving and you're in the passenger seat and he reaches 0:21:45.359 --> 0:21:47.840 over and just puts his hand on your knee, I 0:21:47.880 --> 0:21:54.640 think there's there's a lot with UM. Knee touching love 0:21:54.680 --> 0:21:58.560 a good knee touch exactly exactly. Um. So those are 0:21:58.560 --> 0:22:02.840 a couple that kind of universal favorites, I would say, 0:22:03.440 --> 0:22:09.120 Um And oh, so another one, and as you can tell, 0:22:09.160 --> 0:22:12.000 I'm excited I have a lot of these. Another one 0:22:12.080 --> 0:22:16.879 that I think women particularly like is when a guy, um, 0:22:17.080 --> 0:22:19.080 let's say, in a kind of a social or a 0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:23.119 public context, if he takes his hand and touches the 0:22:23.119 --> 0:22:25.720 small of your back and kind of guides you around, 0:22:26.440 --> 0:22:30.119 just feels really yeah, kind of directive and safe and 0:22:31.560 --> 0:22:35.200 very sensual. So there are a few to try. I'm 0:22:35.240 --> 0:22:37.920 picturing a scene in James Bond in the casino? Did 0:22:37.920 --> 0:22:40.240 that happen in my writing this in my head where 0:22:40.320 --> 0:22:46.120 James Bond like guides whomever through the casino? Right, I'm 0:22:46.119 --> 0:22:49.479 gonna go out in crowded rooms and try it with somebody. 0:22:49.520 --> 0:22:53.160 Obviously I know, but this is really good stuff. Thank 0:22:53.160 --> 0:22:55.280 you for calling love you back and maybe ask some 0:22:55.320 --> 0:22:58.760 more questions about this wonderful Thank you so much. All right, 0:22:58.800 --> 0:23:02.639 thank you, corboyd relationship coach right there. But it's true. 0:23:03.320 --> 0:23:05.560 We're taught a lot of things in life, but no 0:23:05.600 --> 0:23:07.840 one really sits you down and teaches you this stuff. 0:23:08.080 --> 0:23:11.959 And this stuff keeps people together, It keeps by the way. 0:23:12.000 --> 0:23:14.120 It comes back to the love. We took our love 0:23:14.200 --> 0:23:17.680 language quiz many years ago. Ryan, do you remember your 0:23:17.720 --> 0:23:20.000