Speaker 1: Second date up date. We had somebody else's book to
Speaker 1: do a call with right now, but they dropped out
Speaker 1: at the last second.
Speaker 2: It did they didn't want to do the second date
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 1: I guess they got too busy or Brook scared them away.
Speaker 1: I don't know. So we had a stack of emails
Speaker 1: to choose from. Who we should talk to and who
Speaker 1: Am I going to go with? Some random Joe blow
Speaker 1: who claims he met his dream girl at an abandoned
Speaker 1: Blockbuster during a solar eclipse or kind of boring? Or
Speaker 1: do I go with a super fan of our show
Speaker 1: named Kayla who gave me very little information about her
Speaker 1: actual date but says she loves us. Okay, I'm going
Speaker 1: with the super Fanskayla, welcome to the show.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, did you even go on a date
Speaker 3: with anybody?
Speaker 2: Care?
Speaker 4: So I want to go to date with all of you.
Speaker 4: That's what I want to tell us about what you
Speaker 4: love about the show?
Speaker 1: Yeah, stro like, we can do that after that, after
Speaker 1: we're done with this.
Speaker 4: I'm just so excited right now, coffee, let's all take
Speaker 4: a breath, And why don't we talk about the guy
Speaker 4: that you went out with?
Speaker 1: What's his name?
Speaker 4: Okay, his name is Dean.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right? And where did we meet Dean? Let's
Speaker 2: take mine online online.
Speaker 4: H And we agreed to have a drink together. And
Speaker 4: so I was a little late when I got there,
Speaker 4: and it was super crowded and I couldn't find him anywhere.
Speaker 4: I was like doing the circling around, and I got
Speaker 4: lint have a panic that maybe he bailed on me,
Speaker 4: like some of the others have.
Speaker 5: Oh oh, Kayla, who would bail on you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 5: See why I love you?
Speaker 2: All right, I'd never bail on you.
Speaker 1: So what happened?
Speaker 4: Anyway? I finally saw him, like recognized him, and he
Speaker 4: was way over in the corner and he waved me
Speaker 4: over and I went over there and he just came
Speaker 4: me the biggest hug. It was like so nice. It
Speaker 4: was like the best hug I've ever gotten in my
Speaker 4: whole life. It's kind of like my Grandpa used to
Speaker 4: give me, but I didn't see that time.
Speaker 1: Hopefully we tell him that, like this is just like Grandpa.
Speaker 2: God, and your skin so thin.
Speaker 6: He is so funny.
Speaker 1: I kind of feel like she's mocking us.
Speaker 4: Yeah, God, no, never, So were you were.
Speaker 6: You as excited to see dean as he was obviously
Speaker 6: excited to see you.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I really was. And he was really charming, you
Speaker 4: know what he was like, he was like you, Brooke.
Speaker 4: He was like a male version of you. It's like
Speaker 4: super funny, super clever.
Speaker 3: Though, what.
Speaker 1: Did he tell you what to order off the menu?
Speaker 5: I don't do that either, that's how Okay to dinner
Speaker 5: with him?
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I feel like I'm a bear. Good listeners,
Speaker 2: Thank you very much.
Speaker 1: Sure, so let's go back to the dinner. What happened?
Speaker 4: It was really just strengths. And then afterwards I did,
Speaker 4: I went back to his place because he was just
Speaker 4: seems so great.
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, now we're sounding more like Brook.
Speaker 2: I could play both roles Jeffrey.
Speaker 5: Okay, all did it feel just like a one night
Speaker 5: hook up though?
Speaker 2: Like a one night stand?
Speaker 4: Not at all, not at all, Like we talked about
Speaker 4: life stuff and our dreams and our goals like it
Speaker 4: was really it was really nice.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: So did you end up staying the whole night over
Speaker 1: at his place?
Speaker 4: I did, and and then the next morning he was
Speaker 4: total gentleman. He even drove me home like it was
Speaker 4: just it was wonderful.
Speaker 5: Okay, wow, Because he could easily just order an uber
Speaker 5: or something.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm.
Speaker 4: You and I need to go out together. For sure,
Speaker 4: we should party because I think that I could introduce
Speaker 4: you to some great guys.
Speaker 6: Okay, scared, Okay, So I mean, obviously this all sounds great.
Speaker 2: What do you think went wrong?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 4: I didn't think anything something wrong.
Speaker 5: For a second day, she's obviously not seeing him, he's
Speaker 5: not calling her.
Speaker 1: We don't know that. What's happened since the date ended us. Well,
Speaker 1: let's let's ask about it. Brook.
Speaker 4: So we've been texting each other and like, you know,
Speaker 4: we've been sort of like saying, well, I've been saying
Speaker 4: we should get together again, like maybe just some kind
Speaker 4: of midweek get together after work or something. But you know,
Speaker 4: he did not seem to be like like he's not
Speaker 4: saying no, but he's not like molding it forward, you know,
Speaker 4: at all. So I just thought maybe y'all could help.
Speaker 2: Okay, help that along a little bit.
Speaker 4: You know, I could say no to you.
Speaker 5: Okay, Well, well you've obviously not listened enough say no
Speaker 5: to us.
Speaker 1: There's thousands of women I could introduce you to.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, when going to do your next time
Speaker 4: of the week.
Speaker 1: Probably on a Friday, no pressures.
Speaker 4: You are so talented. It's like, that's my favorite thing.
Speaker 4: Cut I got to say you are cute.
Speaker 2: Jeffer's face is really red.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 1: I don't do well with compliments. So let's just move
Speaker 1: past this moment and.
Speaker 2: Say thank you, Jeffrey, thank you.
Speaker 1: Uh, we'll be right back, Yeah, we'll be back. Second
Speaker 1: date update if you're just joining us, we're talking to
Speaker 1: a big fan of our show named Kayla, who went
Speaker 1: up with a guy the other night named Dean. They
Speaker 1: had drinks together, she spent the night at his place,
Speaker 1: and afterwards, though, it's been a little bit tough arranging
Speaker 1: another meetup, so she wants our help. And before we
Speaker 1: make this call, Kayla, I just want to ask, because
Speaker 1: we do talk to a lot of people with this segment,
Speaker 1: not all of them are super fans like yourself, did
Speaker 1: you bring up our show at all on the date?
Speaker 1: Because if you did, it may have hurt you. I mean,
Speaker 1: Dean may have listened afterwards and thought, oh god, you
Speaker 1: listen to this trash.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: It's it's hard for me not to talk about it
Speaker 4: because I am, like, I'm a pretty big said. But
Speaker 4: the plain thing is like I didn't talk about it
Speaker 4: too much because he wasn't as familiar, and every time
Speaker 4: I started to tell his story, I would just laughed
Speaker 4: so hard. It was like I was gonna almost be
Speaker 4: my fan.
Speaker 2: I remember he did.
Speaker 5: He did invite her back or you, Yeah, you to
Speaker 5: his place, right, so.
Speaker 4: I could have been too. I'm not right.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we weren't a total turn off, what I'm saying, But.
Speaker 1: Maybe he just did that to get her to shut
Speaker 1: up about us.
Speaker 4: That's what I mean.
Speaker 7: That makes you laugh so hard.
Speaker 2: Especially get it.
Speaker 1: I don't think so though. You know, we're all pulling
Speaker 1: for you. Here, Kayla. We're gonna call Dean right now.
Speaker 1: Are you ready?
Speaker 4: Yeah, you're the best.
Speaker 1: He gets so good.
Speaker 7: I don't know, so simple.
Speaker 1: Jeff not used to that, so thank you, thank you.
Speaker 1: Let's just do the number.
Speaker 7: Keep reminding him.
Speaker 1: Hello, Hey is this Dean?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 1: Hey, my name is Jeff from the radio show Brook
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: What's going on?
Speaker 2: You are to the point, sir, like that you're your man.
Speaker 1: That's good with his words.
Speaker 4: You're not.
Speaker 7: You're not.
Speaker 1: I know. That's why I'm so impressed. Anyway, we're doing
Speaker 1: a segment that we do on our show called the
Speaker 1: Second Date Update. That's where oh no.
Speaker 3: I uh no, I just went out with a girl
Speaker 3: who was talking about this.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, I think that we may be talking about
Speaker 5: the same person.
Speaker 3: Yeah. Oh yeah, I she loves you guys, Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: you know what?
Speaker 1: She also she also said she really likes you and
Speaker 1: that's why she emailed us about you. Her name's Kayla, right,
Speaker 1: Is that the girl you were thinking about?
Speaker 3: Yeah?
Speaker 5: I mean she said you guys had still been texting
Speaker 5: after your night together.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, what did she tell you? What do you know?
Speaker 1: Well, so that's what this segment is all about. It's
Speaker 1: where we help our listeners get back in touch with
Speaker 1: someone after they've been ghosted following a good date. So
Speaker 1: Kayla's told us about the night that you two had
Speaker 1: together and it seemed like it was a really good time.
Speaker 3: Okay, but I didn't ghost her. I mean we've texted
Speaker 3: back and forth.
Speaker 1: Right, so maybe I misspoke there. She's been having a
Speaker 1: hard time getting another hangout with you, and she doesn't
Speaker 1: understand why.
Speaker 3: I mean, I want to be a jerk, but I
Speaker 3: you know, we had our date and then she immediately
Speaker 3: texted me about hanging out the very next night and
Speaker 3: I had a work thing, and then she texted me
Speaker 3: what about the next night or the next night, the
Speaker 3: next night, the next night and she I mean again,
Speaker 3: I don't I don't want to be a jerk, but
Speaker 3: it just seems like she's sort of available to you.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, but that's the thing that sucks.
Speaker 5: She's just like she's available because she's excited. Well, to me, the.
Speaker 3: Whole available thing just seems kind of clingy. I mean,
Speaker 3: we met each other once and she's already blowing up
Speaker 3: my phone. It's just too much, too fast forward.
Speaker 7: This is what the kids call thirsty.
Speaker 4: Okay, I mean, Dean, I think you need to slow
Speaker 4: your role a little bit. There.
Speaker 1: You jumped in a little quick.
Speaker 5: You know how this works.
Speaker 2: You're supposed to wait.
Speaker 4: But you know what he's saying, that I paid too
Speaker 4: much attention to him. I mean, that's what guys want, right,
Speaker 4: I mean, that's ridiculous.
Speaker 5: Well sometimes not all.
Speaker 1: Guys, sou Dean. I gotta let you obviously, let you know.
Speaker 1: That's Kayla. She's she's been listening the whole time.
Speaker 3: What's going on? Are you guys setting me up or something?
Speaker 1: Well, we wanted to set you up for another date
Speaker 1: with Kayla hopefully, but we were hoping.
Speaker 2: We could find some middle ground between you guys.
Speaker 3: And Okay, if you guys wanted to set it up
Speaker 3: so she could attack.
Speaker 1: Me, No, not at all, man, I mean we're just
Speaker 1: trying to get some clarity because she didn't understand what
Speaker 1: was going on after your date happened, and you can
Speaker 1: understand why she'd be a little bit confused because it's
Speaker 1: hard to know what a guy wants. Sometimes we're not
Speaker 1: the best communicators.
Speaker 4: Thank you, Jeff. I mean that you totally get me,
Speaker 4: and that's totally why you're my favorite on the show.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Thanks, Okay, but but Dean, like seriously, like some
Speaker 1: guys do like having more attention from women. Some guys
Speaker 1: want to be like catered to and taken care of.
Speaker 1: Other guys prefer it the other way. You just have
Speaker 1: to communicate that to her.
Speaker 7: Yeah.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think she should find one of those guys
Speaker 3: who met and maybe doesn't have as much going on.
Speaker 6: Ok because you were I mean obviously you were into
Speaker 6: her in some capacity because like you guys talked when
Speaker 6: you had drinks, you went back to your place, like
Speaker 6: you even drove her home in the morning, like it
Speaker 6: sounds like you were a real gentleman and you respected
Speaker 6: her then, and it doesn't feel like you do now.
Speaker 2: And I don't understand.
Speaker 3: Again, I'm not trying to be a jer guy. It
Speaker 3: just doesn't seem like we're a good match. I need
Speaker 3: someone with a little boor going on in their own
Speaker 3: life because I'm a busy guy. I can't have someone
Speaker 3: lomming on to me. I'm not at that place bombing on.
Speaker 4: What was that, hug? What kind of thingals are your sending?
Speaker 4: I mean, the signals are all over the place. I
Speaker 4: don't understand. You seem to be into it.
Speaker 1: She's raising some pretty good points, Dean.
Speaker 3: Okay, well this is my best signal to you. No,
Speaker 3: thank you?
Speaker 1: Wow dude, wow?
Speaker 4: Really you know what, Dean? You should have been quiet
Speaker 4: right now, and just like jeff talk.
Speaker 5: I indeed, I understand.
Speaker 1: Let's say, Dean.
Speaker 6: You probably feel a little ganged up on right now,
Speaker 6: and maybe that's why you're being so kind of defensive
Speaker 6: about this.
Speaker 1: Get the Brook and Jeffery gang on you.
Speaker 5: But isn't it nice to have someone that isn't playing games?
Speaker 3: I mean, this feels like a game. I don't know
Speaker 3: how you're proving you're not clingy by getting a radio
Speaker 3: station to gang up on it.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, this is not just a radio station.
Speaker 4: Let's just make that clear.
Speaker 7: Yeah, we're the best morning show in this local area.
Speaker 7: That's right.
Speaker 1: From us.
Speaker 3: Honestly, it feels like she's clinging on to all of you.
Speaker 3: Do you hear her?
Speaker 5: But I like it.
Speaker 1: This is called communicating Dean.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Dean, you should listen to Jeff. He knows what
Speaker 4: he's talking about.
Speaker 2: I'm kind of getting tired of Jeff.
Speaker 7: He doesn't need more.
Speaker 4: For you're still new on the show, so you don't
Speaker 4: really appreciate him like you should.
Speaker 1: But every day.
Speaker 4: Yeah right, because because it will, it will just grow
Speaker 4: and grow. You'll just appreciate more and more. Just how
Speaker 4: actually is?
Speaker 2: It's great? Caleb? He should be talking to Dean.
Speaker 7: There.
Speaker 4: You want me to talk to the guy who already
Speaker 4: just said he wasn't interested. I mean, Brooke, Hello, this
Speaker 4: is not going anywhere. And you know what this whole
Speaker 4: thing about the second date. So I'm kind of thinking
Speaker 4: that maybe we should propose a first date with like
Speaker 4: Jeff or even Jose.
Speaker 5: Or a second choice, not the last choice for the
Speaker 5: second choice.
Speaker 4: I am so not clinging. I mean I think that
Speaker 4: we would hit it off.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm I'm unavailable, emotionally, unavailable, physically, professionally, spiritual.
Speaker 6: I'm just telling Dean he should open his mind to
Speaker 6: different opportunities.
Speaker 4: But see the different way he said it. Any when
Speaker 4: he says it, I appreciate you, Kaylea.
Speaker 3: You guys still need me on the call or can
Speaker 3: I go?
Speaker 4: I'll tell you that, all right.
Speaker 1: No, I don't want Kayla doesn't want me to ask.
Speaker 7: You have to ask. It's the rules of the show.
Speaker 2: Do you ask yourself then.
Speaker 4: Jack, I'm a super fan of the show. Jeff, if
Speaker 4: you can totally ask for yourself and Jose three way hangout,
Speaker 4: it doesn't even have your mantic it would be so
Speaker 4: happy he's in it.
Speaker 5: Jem, you got one, Yes, it sounds like from Jose.
Speaker 1: All right, Yeah, you gotta ask, Jeff, Jose, would you
Speaker 1: like to go out and hang with Kayla for a
Speaker 1: little bit as.
Speaker 7: Long as you're there as well?
Speaker 1: Yes, it all depends on Jem. Okay, Well, I guess
Speaker 1: we'll say our answers on three okay, one, two, three.
Speaker 1: I don't know.
Speaker 5: If you still your hat friends.
Speaker 4: Out of three, we don't have time, Carol.
Speaker 1: Okay, no matter what, we we love you. Okay, oh yeah.
Speaker 4: Thank you.
Speaker 2: Okay, I guess we should hang up.
Speaker 1: Let's just some music.
Speaker 4: It's brooking Jeffrey in the Morning.