Speaker 1: What's up its lip service? I'm Antila Yee, I'm Gg maguire,
Speaker 1: I'm Jordie jor Jordy door. Now, Jordy, do you have
Speaker 1: something special for the people. Yes, So before we even
Speaker 1: do anything, because Tin Santana's supposed to be joining us later,
Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure we got into this because
Speaker 1: we're all about giving back experiences.
Speaker 2: Okay, Yes, we are giving away a vacation, y'all.
Speaker 1: I need one.
Speaker 2: We got that part. We have a couple different locations.
Speaker 2: Some of them are Vegas, Mexico, France.
Speaker 1: So you have to pick.
Speaker 2: You take your location, and you get to pick how
Speaker 2: many days you're going, so you can go for three
Speaker 2: days up to five days.
Speaker 1: I heard Thailand was on there too.
Speaker 2: Thailand's on there, Italy, anywhere that you could dream of basically. Okay,
Speaker 2: that's nice, Yes, AND's rich. She's giving away vacations, trying.
Speaker 2: I'm working on it, y'all. We actually have my friends
Speaker 2: sponsoring it now. Chloe Love thanks so yeah, thank you. Chloe.
Speaker 2: Y'all have Chloe to thank. It'll be a thirty day
Speaker 2: submission time, so we're gonna start it today today.
Speaker 1: So what's tod Okay, so they have thirty days from
Speaker 1: today to suggest. So you happened eighteenth of April. Okay,
Speaker 1: eighteenth of April. What are they submitting?
Speaker 2: So you have to follow all of us? So Angela
Speaker 2: yee Gg MacGuire, Jordie, your Chloe love.
Speaker 1: A y lip service?
Speaker 2: Yes, I always want to say a lip service. Ay,
Speaker 2: you need to tag two people in the comments, like
Speaker 2: and share, and if you want some bonus points, you
Speaker 2: can make a little video pleading your case.
Speaker 1: O cute. Oh yeah, I feel like that's gonna help
Speaker 1: of like why I need a vacation right right? I
Speaker 1: need a vacation and.
Speaker 2: Then we'll announce it shortly after the eighteenth.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I'm excited for whoever wins me too? Do
Speaker 1: they bring us or I know?
Speaker 3: Damn right?
Speaker 1: Can we go?
Speaker 2: I mean we need at least a nice thank you
Speaker 2: card at least and some content.
Speaker 1: All right, So we are also posting in this post
Speaker 1: you'll be able to see the different locations that you
Speaker 1: have to choose from. Now there is a slight catch.
Speaker 2: Yes, you have to pay for your own flights, but
Speaker 2: everything else is covered.
Speaker 1: So the root hotel hotel is covered. Yes, it's all inclusive. Yes,
Speaker 1: it's all including you, and you can choose your hotel.
Speaker 1: Me this it's all inclusive.
Speaker 2: You can choose your hotel. So if you choose the
Speaker 2: all inclusive one then yeah, okay, yeah, So you'll put
Speaker 2: in your dates and then it will populate what hotels
Speaker 2: are about.
Speaker 1: Yes, a person? Is it a sip for you? Okay, vacation,
Speaker 1: little vacation girls trip, make this their honeymoon trip. Right,
Speaker 1: there's so.
Speaker 2: Many ops or bachelor something. Somebody's getting free trip.
Speaker 1: Listen you pray love, you could go with your homegirls
Speaker 1: that or yourself, take yourself. Bring someone deserves it, don't
Speaker 1: do a love there, bring somebody all right, So once
Speaker 1: again the rules are you have to follow all of us. Yes,
Speaker 1: that's five accounts, and Chloe Love is one of the
Speaker 1: people they have to follow.
Speaker 2: Yes, she's exactly. She's the one giving trip, she's the
Speaker 2: one getting a cheir. We ain't got it, and we
Speaker 2: thank you, thank you, thanks.
Speaker 1: And then if you want to really really get extra points,
Speaker 1: you submit a video pleading your case on why you
Speaker 1: deserve this trip, and I want to know who you
Speaker 1: take in that bombs is no extra extra bonus for that,
Speaker 1: and you have until the eighteenth. Okay, April the eighteen
Speaker 1: missions starting as soon as you hear this, how wondered
Speaker 1: did you watch that? I'm want to ask you, ladies,
Speaker 1: what do you think is has been your best trip
Speaker 1: to date?
Speaker 2: You know what I realized the other day, I haven't
Speaker 2: been on a vacation that's just for me in a
Speaker 2: I don't think ever, like it's either like a family
Speaker 2: trip or a work trip, or like somebody's birthday. But
Speaker 2: not that I've like chosen to go, not even a vacation.
Speaker 1: No, what we gotta gotta do? We go?
Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, because I want to go on twenty
Speaker 2: sat Bart's hello.
Speaker 1: It might have to be right after Christmas, but.
Speaker 2: You know, family, Jewish, friends or more.
Speaker 1: Right, Well, but now I'm down for that. Let's do
Speaker 1: I can we win the giveaways?
Speaker 2: We got to plan our own year olds trip?
Speaker 1: But yeah, all right, well I'm not mad at that.
Speaker 1: So you've never been on one? What about you, GIZI?
Speaker 1: What's your best?
Speaker 3: Oh?
Speaker 1: I've had so many. I would probably say my best
Speaker 1: was my fortieth in Turks. It did it really badly,
Speaker 1: but up until the last day it was a beautiful,
Speaker 1: beautiful house. Still it was a beautiful house. I had
Speaker 1: my family and my friends there, my boyfriend at the
Speaker 1: time and some of his family. It was a really
Speaker 1: great experience. I got drunk and did a head stand
Speaker 1: in the sand. Y'all can still see that. I feel
Speaker 1: like I've seen that. Yeah, I can still see that
Speaker 1: post on my Instagram. That was so funny. It was
Speaker 1: my little sister was calling me Sandy the whole time
Speaker 1: because I had to stand in my weave. I drank
Speaker 1: a whole bottle of headanitsy privilege that day. That's how
Speaker 1: you know you was having a good time. You didn't
Speaker 1: care about the sand in the weave, my standing, my sewing. Yeah,
Speaker 1: bar but yeah, I have to say that was my
Speaker 1: my most favorite vacation. That was like for me, I'm
Speaker 1: trying to get on that level. I'm trying to think
Speaker 1: of places I've had like different levels of chips. I
Speaker 1: had a great time in Anguilla. You are for a wedding, okay, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: but you're gonna love it. Yeah, I'm saying, Martin, I
Speaker 1: love I love like I've had some great vay cations
Speaker 1: and I had some great girls tips too. It's a
Speaker 1: whole different thing, like a girl's chip is a whole
Speaker 1: different vibe. We had a good vacation that you're in
Speaker 1: the Bahamas when it was like one hundred of us.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, my like's birthday. Yea, China was there.
Speaker 2: That's why they kept thinking she was minaj I mean
Speaker 2: she was her body double for a minute.
Speaker 1: It was around that time. Oh okay, yeah, yeah it
Speaker 1: was around that time. Yeah, I feel like was that
Speaker 1: the trip where who it was like one hundred of
Speaker 1: us in the Bahamas? Yeah, birthday and it got crazy.
Speaker 1: Is that the one where you couldn't get on the
Speaker 1: flight back home? Oh? No, you something it wasn't Yeah
Speaker 1: was that the one? No, that was a different one.
Speaker 1: That was a different one, that was different, behine, you
Speaker 1: couldn't get well, No, I had to sow. Our birthday
Speaker 1: is like six days apart, and I was having a
Speaker 1: I had scheduled my birthday party at Magic City the
Speaker 1: same weekend that he scheduled his birthday trip. It was
Speaker 1: that same trip, oh, because he had the penthouse. Remember
Speaker 1: he had the penthouse. It was a lot going on. Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I left and he replaced me with somebody else, and
Speaker 1: my friend stayed and poured the caraffe of juice to
Speaker 1: her head. So he replaced you. You know, damn well,
Speaker 1: that girl came as my replacement because he thought that
Speaker 1: I was doing something you would have got to this day.
Speaker 1: I did not know that. I really thought that because
Speaker 1: she said she only could stay for one day and
Speaker 1: she was leaving right back out. Whatever. Oh my god, Okay,
Speaker 1: well just by just by coincidence, the day I had
Speaker 1: to leave was a day that she arrived. Why didn't
Speaker 1: she come anyway, that's not talk about her. Okay, I
Speaker 1: didn't even realize that. Okay, my bad, I'm so I
Speaker 1: am very simple. Back to this giveaway, Yes, back to
Speaker 1: the to the script.
Speaker 2: So all the tea, all the details will be in
Speaker 2: the caption on both Instagram, YouTube, all the all the
Speaker 2: places where we post.
Speaker 1: And I just want to say seeing Thomas Carnival is
Speaker 1: coming up, and that was a when I tell you
Speaker 1: that was a fun trip. Baby. Listen, you got your outfit,
Speaker 1: not yet, but I just picked it. So we'll see
Speaker 1: how that goes. They were so mad at me last
Speaker 1: year because I was covered up. Ye girl, I did,
Speaker 1: but it wasn't like listen like I want. I was likely.
Speaker 1: I was Carnival modest. They want to see. Nobody's bullying
Speaker 1: me into that. Okay, period, it's not happening. I don't
Speaker 1: finish somebody lazy hair removal. But anyway, since Santana is here,
Speaker 1: she's about to walk in so and listen. She know
Speaker 1: had a lock on one, got a bag, got a baby,
Speaker 1: got to music. I love it, So let's get into it. Yes,
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, like we just popped in sint Santana
Speaker 1: is here. Hey not the can kind. Well, first of all, haven't.
Speaker 1: I haven't seen you on a podcast in a while,
Speaker 1: so I'm glad you came to join us. But I've
Speaker 1: seen you in real life, Yes you have. And I
Speaker 1: just want to say I saw saying when she was
Speaker 1: pregnant before the world knew, and I was at an
Speaker 1: event and I was like, I was one of my
Speaker 1: friends who's also a publicist, Kashawan, and we were looking
Speaker 1: like that since Sintenna is she pregnant?
Speaker 4: Yeah, I was hiding and I was like, oh my god,
Speaker 4: Angela's right there.
Speaker 3: The valley, and I was like I was still kind
Speaker 3: of small, but I was showing a little bit. So
Speaker 3: I was just holding on Jack.
Speaker 1: Because I wasn't sure. I was like I don't know
Speaker 1: that she is.
Speaker 3: And I was like, bye bye.
Speaker 1: But now that the cats out of the bag, I
Speaker 1: saw you as Jeff Kwame was getting an award and
Speaker 1: you were there. What was it that Gracie mansion. That
Speaker 1: was a crazy night too, because I had some issues
Speaker 1: happened that night with me? What happened someone else is
Speaker 1: getting in a word that night and we had a
Speaker 1: heated conversation in the corner in.
Speaker 4: That room where we were yeah, oh well, y'all's a
Speaker 4: great Yeah, it was it.
Speaker 1: I didn't everybody was like, what's going on over there?
Speaker 1: But you were pregnant. You had your own things to
Speaker 1: do with the jacket tight I was, and look, to
Speaker 1: my credit, even though I walked out of there, I
Speaker 1: was like, you know, we're not spilling no beans on nobody.
Speaker 1: So until she put out the you know, the paper,
Speaker 1: and then when and then when people found.
Speaker 3: Out, I appreciate that, by the way, thank you.
Speaker 1: Yeah, of course I wouldn't do that. And then when
Speaker 1: people found out you had a baby, everybody was speculating like, oh,
Speaker 1: who's it? You know, whole thing.
Speaker 4: I don't know why, and I mean I get it.
Speaker 4: We said see things and we're like interested. I was
Speaker 4: just like, why are people so invested in who the father?
Speaker 4: Not just my child?
Speaker 3: Yeah, like keep it moving.
Speaker 1: But people also didn't know who you were dating. They
Speaker 1: didn't you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 3: People don't know anything about what I'm doing. And it
Speaker 3: is because you.
Speaker 1: Were on Love and Hip Hop. Your life was like
Speaker 1: I'm blessed, and then now it's like private life.
Speaker 4: That's exactly why, though, Like I learned so much. I
Speaker 4: was so young when I did Love and Hip Hop.
Speaker 4: I did it for so long, and I made a
Speaker 4: lot of mistakes on that show. I learned a lot
Speaker 4: from it, right, I mean, we don't like same mistakes,
Speaker 4: but I learned a lot from it, and I learned
Speaker 4: not to put my important relationships like the world.
Speaker 3: I'm done with that it's too much.
Speaker 4: And then things happen because life happens, and everybody want
Speaker 4: to give an opinion.
Speaker 3: And it was just a lot. Life was already complicated,
Speaker 3: you know.
Speaker 4: So I left reality television and I was like, I'm
Speaker 4: staying nice in private. Yeah, and it's been incredible, Like
Speaker 4: a private life really is a good life. Oh.
Speaker 3: By the way, I am not cursing for lent.
Speaker 1: Okay, that's what you gave up coffee because.
Speaker 3: I mean, I know, but I do curse a lot.
Speaker 4: Okay, and I got kids, and I have a daughter now,
Speaker 4: and I mean she's a baby.
Speaker 3: She'd be like this. You know, she don't know what's
Speaker 3: going on.
Speaker 4: But I want to go out to get the habit
Speaker 4: out of Curson for every single thing.
Speaker 3: So yesterday I was in my room like.
Speaker 1: So today I'm today is feeling a little smoother.
Speaker 3: Just letting y'all know. So if y'all while i'm speaking,
Speaker 3: if y'all.
Speaker 1: Catch me, So, how did you get to this space now?
Speaker 1: Like you know, we got to ask you some details,
Speaker 1: and I do want to make sure before you have
Speaker 1: to leave that we talk about a lot. Like first
Speaker 1: of all, music, we love this new song to ask
Speaker 1: you what it meant like in the actual lyrics because
Speaker 1: it's in Spanish.
Speaker 3: Okay, I wish we could play it.
Speaker 1: Can we play it? Yeah?
Speaker 3: We just play it real quick.
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, so that's actually how I got
Speaker 4: to this place. I was like, once I finished love
Speaker 4: and hip hop, I was like, you know what, I
Speaker 4: want to focus on my real passion. I love television
Speaker 4: and entertainment, but music is my passion it always has
Speaker 4: been and performing. So I just got in the studio
Speaker 4: and got with some writers and like started writing myself,
Speaker 4: practicing my pen and I.
Speaker 3: Started doing music.
Speaker 4: I started with R and B, but then my manager
Speaker 4: was like, you should do some Spanish music.
Speaker 3: You would kill it. You're Dominican, and I was like,
Speaker 3: I was.
Speaker 4: Like, yeah, what am I doing? Like Spanish is my
Speaker 4: first language. But growing up in New York, you know,
Speaker 4: I was so influenced.
Speaker 3: By hip hop R and B.
Speaker 4: So I started with R and B, but then I
Speaker 4: went towards Latin music, and honestly it changed my life
Speaker 4: because like I started getting booked for festivals and I
Speaker 4: really learned what I love, which was performing.
Speaker 1: And you had millions of views on your videos.
Speaker 3: And that was organically. I was so proud of that.
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, the people are messing
Speaker 3: with me. This is so hard.
Speaker 1: Now the people really love you.
Speaker 4: The people are messing with my music. Last week, they're
Speaker 4: really rocking with a girl with a girl.
Speaker 3: So I stopped the reality TV to focus on well. Also,
Speaker 3: love and hip hop was taking too long in New York.
Speaker 1: And they and they wasn't about to highlight your music
Speaker 1: for real.
Speaker 4: No, of course, now they'll be like, yeah, we'll do it,
Speaker 4: and then you get you're in the studio and then
Speaker 4: two exes walking, I'm like my music, No, I want
Speaker 4: to focus on my music. So once I decided to
Speaker 4: do that, I was just like, you know what, I
Speaker 4: kind of like the quiet life and just focusing on
Speaker 4: what I really want to do. So that's how I
Speaker 4: got to this place where I'm like private quiet if
Speaker 4: you know, know, you.
Speaker 1: Know, but when the music come out, you're going to
Speaker 1: be back outside though. Now it's time.
Speaker 4: Well yeah, so look I was locked in and then
Speaker 4: I met my man, and then I got pregnant, and
Speaker 4: I was like, okay, I guess I got God I
Speaker 4: got to do mommy stuff right now.
Speaker 1: But I'm back.
Speaker 3: I'm back locked in. It's over when I dropped.
Speaker 1: This, all right, So let's back up for a second.
Speaker 1: So you mentioned men, how did that happen? Now? For
Speaker 1: people who don't know, Chef Quame has like the number one,
Speaker 1: the number one restaurant in the nation, Tatianas, and that
Speaker 1: is my spot. I love Tatianas, and Chef Quime is
Speaker 1: a great person.
Speaker 3: I think it's everybody's for honestly, how.
Speaker 1: Many people call you and ask you for reservations? Too many?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's when I came. She like me, that's
Speaker 3: that is not my place. I'll keep that closed, you know.
Speaker 4: But honestly, that story is too beautiful. I don't want
Speaker 4: to tell her. I want to write a book on it.
Speaker 1: Really. Yeah, it was like that because you're both from
Speaker 1: the Bronx.
Speaker 4: Yeah from well, I'm from Dykman right across for them though, right, Okay,
Speaker 4: it's funny because like that's part of the reason why
Speaker 4: me and him like really connected to because we're from
Speaker 4: the Uptown area. Very if he just felt very familiar,
Speaker 4: you know, And.
Speaker 3: I love that.
Speaker 4: But the story is so beautiful and it really is
Speaker 4: like a love story.
Speaker 1: I love it for you.
Speaker 3: I wouldn't do no justice. I gotta like really lay this.
Speaker 1: It's like another song.
Speaker 3: It do feel like another song the whole I feel
Speaker 3: like after the songer e now Spanish love songs spanaged
Speaker 3: love them bo. We haven't had that yet. I might.
Speaker 3: I might mess around with that.
Speaker 1: And then and then you can have the name of
Speaker 1: it sounds like a menu, like a food menu.
Speaker 3: Y'all, y'all get y'all get a creative. Now y'all getting.
Speaker 1: Created marketing player.
Speaker 3: We talk after this.
Speaker 1: I gotta come to coffee up lifts people, because you
Speaker 1: love coffee. Coffee's that's the whole thing, all right. So
Speaker 1: that happened. You got pregnant and you said, Okay, now
Speaker 1: I gotta like wait a minute.
Speaker 3: And yeah, well of course, because oh my god.
Speaker 4: And it was so hard because I was so used
Speaker 4: to doing a million and one things. You know, my son,
Speaker 4: like I got I he's seven now, so I already had.
Speaker 3: A schedule for him. I was situated. I used to
Speaker 3: fly every week into Miami to record. That's what I
Speaker 3: record my music.
Speaker 1: Wow, that not a joke, It's not you know what
Speaker 1: it was.
Speaker 4: I spent two years looking for why am I talking
Speaker 4: to the mic like I'm not loud enough? I spent
Speaker 4: two years looking for, like my family, just the people
Speaker 4: that would make the music. Yeah, make me feel comfortable,
Speaker 4: because like being on the booth is very scary, Yeah,
Speaker 4: you know, vulnerable.
Speaker 3: Yeah, like you're making mistakes, you're not sure.
Speaker 1: You gotta take feedback to Sometimes it could feel like
Speaker 1: oh my.
Speaker 4: God, yes, I guess redundant as heck, and like you know,
Speaker 4: you haven't watched a video of yourself and you're like,
Speaker 4: stop playing. And it's funny because y'all do the podcast, right,
Speaker 4: y'all got to hear yourselves every week or.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. I hate when I get into uber
Speaker 1: and I hear my voice and a commercials.
Speaker 3: And you are not a way out.
Speaker 1: I love.
Speaker 3: So imagine like doing music like I don't. I can't hear.
Speaker 3: I like, don't play my song. I don't want to
Speaker 3: hear myself.
Speaker 1: It's so good that we love it. I'm not gonna lie.
Speaker 1: It sounds good and I think that was my that
Speaker 1: was my earlier. I love that because you know, sometimes
Speaker 1: people should be trash and we be like we definitely
Speaker 1: be like, okay, I think this.
Speaker 4: Like no, that's one thing I was like, I could
Speaker 4: never do trash, like I just can't.
Speaker 3: And if it is like it's going into trash, I
Speaker 3: can't do.
Speaker 1: Who is your music family?
Speaker 3: I work with Playing Skills.
Speaker 1: I love them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they're really great. They we met through my manager.
Speaker 3: We had we had people.
Speaker 4: Mutual friends and they took a meeting with me, which
Speaker 4: I was like honored, right because they work with like
Speaker 4: big artists and I'm a big artist. Well, the world
Speaker 4: don't know it yet.
Speaker 3: Hello.
Speaker 4: I'm an independent artist though, so that is hard to
Speaker 4: like get in these rooms, you know, because like it's.
Speaker 3: Just more work, more more risk.
Speaker 4: And they sat with me and they were like, you
Speaker 4: know what, they liked my energy. We we had synergy,
Speaker 4: and we got in the booth and the first song
Speaker 4: we did it was.
Speaker 3: And then we locked.
Speaker 4: In the whole week studio sessions and then this is
Speaker 4: one of the songs we did. Yes, it's set the
Speaker 4: tone for so how many songs did you do with them?
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's so fun.
Speaker 4: Oh, I have like a whole album worth of music
Speaker 4: with them by now, that's great.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: Before them, though, I was I was working in a
Speaker 4: studio in the Bronx with an independent producer and like
Speaker 4: we had good energy, but it was the no and
Speaker 4: I was like, I can't keep one of the brons,
Speaker 4: you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Mimi like, yeah, it was it was it was in
Speaker 1: the hood.
Speaker 3: If he if he listen to this, I'm not going
Speaker 3: to say his name. I love him. We've made great
Speaker 3: music together.
Speaker 4: He did my first single, but it wasn't the Hood,
Speaker 4: and I just didn't, you know, I didn't really I'm
Speaker 4: a lady.
Speaker 3: You know, like you know how they like here for
Speaker 3: the woman. I was like, I can't.
Speaker 4: I'm in the boof like doing all this greatness and
Speaker 4: then I gotta come out like with my manager and
Speaker 4: you know what I'm.
Speaker 3: Saying, I can't.
Speaker 4: I can't feel scared after feeling hot and chemistry and
Speaker 4: synergy and all of the atmosphere, all that matters when.
Speaker 3: You one million percent working in the arts.
Speaker 4: I would be like in the wolf like like what
Speaker 4: was that?
Speaker 3: What was what was a gunshot or a firework making beats?
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, don't do that drum.
Speaker 3: You know what the studio life is late night?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, five, I'll be like I got two hours, Like,
Speaker 4: I can't work like that.
Speaker 1: Even when you came in here, it was really hard
Speaker 1: for you because you're like, I want to see my daughter.
Speaker 1: I just want to get home to my daughter. How
Speaker 1: is that like? Because and did you experience any I know,
Speaker 1: I feel like you've written about postpartum and going through that,
Speaker 1: So talk to us about that because I think that's
Speaker 1: something that I love when people are open and honest
Speaker 1: about it.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 4: So, like I mentioned earlier, it's been really hard because
Speaker 4: I was so used to like moving and shaken, but
Speaker 4: I have I'm just I'm obsessed with my daughter. I
Speaker 4: think I think part of it was I wasn't really
Speaker 4: planning to have more kids anytime soon, so you know,
Speaker 4: I see her as a as a.
Speaker 3: Gift, and she's just so delicious. So when I'm outside,
Speaker 3: I'm thankful and grateful.
Speaker 4: I love working, I love being with incredible people, but
Speaker 4: I'm like, okay, yeah, my by, Like I can't wait
Speaker 4: to get home and kiss on her and make her
Speaker 4: lie and watch or do nothing.
Speaker 1: It's the best.
Speaker 4: But so postpartum depression. I'm glad that you mentioned that
Speaker 4: because that is definitely a topic. I feel like we've
Speaker 4: spoken about it more as a lady, but like it's
Speaker 4: such a broad thing that a lot of people don't understand,
Speaker 4: even professionals. I don't want to dive too deep into
Speaker 4: it because I will get emotional, but it's just something
Speaker 4: that's real. It's very real, and I dealt with it,
Speaker 4: for sure. I'm still dealing with it. But I'm I
Speaker 4: think part of it too, is like doing things for
Speaker 4: yourself and now that I'm like tapping back into my
Speaker 4: craft and you know, going back out.
Speaker 3: So I told you when we.
Speaker 4: Had dinner, like, I'm just going outside for a little bit,
Speaker 4: doing things for me.
Speaker 1: We went to a movie screening that was hilarious.
Speaker 3: That was so much fun movie. Yeah, it was so
Speaker 3: much fun.
Speaker 4: Even that, you know, like reaching out to your girl
Speaker 4: and like going out a cup of coffee or drink
Speaker 4: or some fried zucchini chip.
Speaker 3: You're not, but it's definitely.
Speaker 4: Real, and it's I think that a lot of women
Speaker 4: are ashamed to talk about it, like you feel shame.
Speaker 3: I did. You know.
Speaker 4: That's part of the reason why I went on my
Speaker 4: social media with it, because I was like, I want
Speaker 4: to be really loud about this, and I just don't
Speaker 4: want to be out.
Speaker 3: A lot of people see things like that like, oh
Speaker 3: she wants attention, Well maybe I do. Maybe we do
Speaker 3: want attention.
Speaker 1: We need we need help.
Speaker 3: But it's really just to build a community. That's why
Speaker 3: I did.
Speaker 4: And of course a lot of moms reached out and
Speaker 4: I have I have a DM with like a lot
Speaker 4: of moms that I know.
Speaker 3: We just throw things in there, funny memes. It's it's city,
Speaker 3: but like, you know, the hell, it's a community. Yeah,
Speaker 3: it's a community.
Speaker 4: So I'm working on it, you know, I'm in therapy
Speaker 4: focused on that, and I'm writing.
Speaker 1: And you've been working about you've been working at non statu.
Speaker 1: I am and I am.
Speaker 3: Training for whatever wars.
Speaker 4: Like nobody's business, but that's part of I feel like
Speaker 4: the gym is so helpful therapeutic. While I'm in it,
Speaker 4: it's tough, but after, my god, you feel so good.
Speaker 1: You just feel accomplished, Like I did it.
Speaker 3: I gained like.
Speaker 4: Fifty five pounds with this beautiful, beautiful, precious thing.
Speaker 3: I'm like, I need to get my pink back.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and it's not easy having a chef, as a
Speaker 1: as a guy.
Speaker 3: It was like, yeah, no, it's not. I it is
Speaker 3: so good when I was pregnant. Good. I can't mean
Speaker 3: like that anymore.
Speaker 1: But how was it for you to even be able
Speaker 1: to post because you posted a picture like I love
Speaker 1: this picture, and that's when everybody knew, and I know
Speaker 1: it was like private life, but then you know, and
Speaker 1: it is a beautiful picture and I love y'all together.
Speaker 3: It's a beautiful pic, isn't it?
Speaker 1: A beautiful picture? Is? But I know that was hard
Speaker 1: for you to even like, what was the thinking behind
Speaker 1: that and the timing.
Speaker 3: And there wasn't. I was just like, I don't care.
Speaker 4: This is my man, you know, like we share a daughter,
Speaker 4: we have family, Like, I don't really care.
Speaker 3: I just I just felt like post on it.
Speaker 4: And I just felt like I shared some of my
Speaker 4: baby shower pictures, you know, I just wanted to share that.
Speaker 4: I think when it was happening, I wanted to enjoy it.
Speaker 4: We wanted to enjoy it privately.
Speaker 1: I have a healthy baby first, all of that.
Speaker 4: All of that, and even when I announced my pregnancy,
Speaker 4: I was like, all right, I'm doing this because I
Speaker 4: couldn't hide it anymore and I didn't want anybody to
Speaker 4: get ahead of.
Speaker 1: It, somebody to out you, which I think is so rude.
Speaker 1: It's so rude, but.
Speaker 3: It will, it happens.
Speaker 4: It happens, and it's so it's it's honestly disgusting because
Speaker 4: like at the end of the day, it's still a
Speaker 4: woman's body, you know, Like what if I mean.
Speaker 3: I'm why are you offside if you're pregnant, because I
Speaker 3: what do you mean, like I'm supposed to be in
Speaker 3: the house locked up imposed Yeah, Like I don't understand.
Speaker 3: It doesn't mean post me. So there was no thinking
Speaker 3: behind it.
Speaker 4: I just baby's here, Everything's fine, baby goes healthy, all
Speaker 4: as well?
Speaker 3: Here.
Speaker 1: What did your son think when he found out you
Speaker 1: were pregnant and how did you tell him?
Speaker 3: He my beautiful baby boy? At first he did it.
Speaker 4: He was like like he didn't really understand, like the
Speaker 4: whole pregnancy thing.
Speaker 3: In the very beginning, he will be like, oh mommy,
Speaker 3: you ate Allah.
Speaker 1: Like you ate Allah.
Speaker 3: And then like for like a month after he was
Speaker 3: still saying that. I was like, the baby's out outside
Speaker 3: of my body, the baby, what happens?
Speaker 1: Listen, man, you can't say that to women.
Speaker 3: But then after like once I got really big, he understood.
Speaker 4: You know, he will come to the sonograms with me,
Speaker 4: the appointments and let me.
Speaker 3: Just say that Lex is the best big brother ever, unbelievable.
Speaker 3: And I was that's his baby. He loves her so much.
Speaker 4: And I was really nervous about that, like my second child,
Speaker 4: like having two kids.
Speaker 3: I was like, how am I gonna divide my time?
Speaker 3: I'm already like.
Speaker 4: Trying to grasp time for me, like I don't want
Speaker 4: my son. I love my son, And he taught me
Speaker 4: everything that I know. You ever seen that meme or
Speaker 4: like that TikTok somewhere. So it's like my first child
Speaker 4: went to everything with me. Like I was like, oh
Speaker 4: my God, like me and my little my little Bustie,
Speaker 4: We're about to have another bussie.
Speaker 3: How am I gonna do?
Speaker 1: This?
Speaker 4: Is gonna get jealous? I'm like, I was terrified. He's
Speaker 4: incredible with that little girl. It's so good and it's
Speaker 4: just the start, and it's just start. Oh that's that's good.
Speaker 3: I'm bad.
Speaker 4: Because listen, all this the motherhood stuff is beautiful, but
Speaker 4: it's a lot of work.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I can't even imagine.
Speaker 3: I have so much respect from my mama.
Speaker 1: Listen, I babysit and be like take this kid back.
Speaker 1: A baby's been eight hours. It's exhausting, and I sleep
Speaker 1: so good at night after babysitting is nothing months. Listen,
Speaker 1: you also are in a movie that's coming out, and
Speaker 1: this movie's coming I'm an actress. So the fact that
Speaker 1: and we got to applaud you for that because like
Speaker 1: you said, you are, you know, a mom and you
Speaker 1: just had a baby.
Speaker 3: I am a mother a lot a mom. When your mom,
Speaker 3: when you are mom of one, your mom, I am
Speaker 3: a mother kids.
Speaker 1: That's crazy. So you also managed to film a movie though. Alright,
Speaker 1: so tell me about this. It's called Love Murder Weed.
Speaker 3: Yes, Love Murder Weed. They changed the name. I'm so
Speaker 3: sad about that.
Speaker 1: But was it originally it was?
Speaker 4: I think I think I could say I'm gonna say
Speaker 4: it and then I'll text them like, hey, I said this.
Speaker 3: You know.
Speaker 4: It was called Interco Road And it's basically it's a
Speaker 4: movie about these two sisters who own like weed, like
Speaker 4: a dispensary company, a huge warehouse, and like weird things
Speaker 4: go on in the warehouse and there's like I damn,
Speaker 4: I don't want to give up the movie.
Speaker 1: It's like a suspense movie.
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a thriller.
Speaker 1: I feel like.
Speaker 3: I'm not one of the sisters. Yeah, things like.
Speaker 1: That, Love Murder Weed and one.
Speaker 3: So there's a hold on, let me bring it back. Sisters.
Speaker 3: They have a warehouse and there's.
Speaker 4: A production company that's going to come do a documentary
Speaker 4: on them because they're doing so well, and then weird
Speaker 4: things happen.
Speaker 3: I'm part of the production crew.
Speaker 1: Okay, like that.
Speaker 4: My name is Carla. When the movie comes out, my
Speaker 4: name is Carla. And I was actually pregnant when I
Speaker 4: did this. I was like four or five months pregnant,
Speaker 4: and I was hiding it, and I probably look so
Speaker 4: crazy in the movie looking thinking back now because I
Speaker 4: have oversized shirts, so I probably looked like a balloon.
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh.
Speaker 1: No, Like now one day I can be like that
Speaker 1: you and.
Speaker 4: I can tell baby girl that the movie is set
Speaker 4: to come out like in April.
Speaker 3: But it's an independent film.
Speaker 4: They did so they did well though, you know, as
Speaker 4: an independent artist. I know, but also like I'm not
Speaker 4: a little dog. I've been doing TV for a long time.
Speaker 4: I am usually a certain type of but I didn't
Speaker 4: care about any of that or like what they were paying.
Speaker 4: I really wanted the opportunity and the experience. And it
Speaker 4: was a big cast, like they were so incredible.
Speaker 3: Everybody in that movie is fire.
Speaker 4: Like I'm so excited for the movie to come out,
Speaker 4: and I'm an actress.
Speaker 1: Now we gotta take we gotta take my.
Speaker 3: Uh what my not what do you call it? My headshots? Okay,
Speaker 3: we gotta take my hadhots. I'm such a professional. We
Speaker 3: gotta take my headshot.
Speaker 1: Now. When can people hear more music? What's the plan
Speaker 1: with that? Because I know you got to get out
Speaker 1: of here in two minutes.
Speaker 3: So the plan with that, I mean, I have music
Speaker 3: out right now.
Speaker 1: But like the new you know everything, the new.
Speaker 4: Music, I'm I'm going to release it on every platform, Apple.
Speaker 1: YouTube, That's how I do it, right.
Speaker 4: But with this single, I'm going to have a really
Speaker 4: big marketing plan.
Speaker 3: So that's what we're working on right now.
Speaker 1: Doing a video.
Speaker 3: I always do music video. Okay, you need an extra
Speaker 3: to every song? I need available?
Speaker 1: Do you to DJ too? And she's an amazing DJ.
Speaker 4: Really well, I want to get into Jordian for like
Speaker 4: thirty seconds.
Speaker 3: Tell me about your girl. I don't think what do
Speaker 3: you do?
Speaker 1: But you know what?
Speaker 3: We met once at a net game already and.
Speaker 2: I was like I don't remember what you were wearing,
Speaker 2: but I was like wow, and then you were like whoa.
Speaker 3: And then we just talked about yeah, I love that.
Speaker 3: I love that, and I was like, whoa, I know that.
Speaker 2: And we sat together at carbone ate some food.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love that.
Speaker 4: I want to see you again. I have mommy brain,
Speaker 4: so I'll be like seeing. They'd be like girl, you
Speaker 4: know me. I'd be like, oh, I'm sorry, I forgot
Speaker 4: I don't know you. I do, I do, but.
Speaker 3: But tell me what's your passion of DJ I DJ.
Speaker 1: And I actually just started acting.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never acted before, so I'm doing a little
Speaker 2: short series.
Speaker 1: She's an actress okay, Yes, I don't know what he's
Speaker 1: called yet. It's a city okay.
Speaker 2: But I shot my first episode. We shot over five days,
Speaker 2: so I'm the lead. I'm one of the leads.
Speaker 3: Yes, I love said.
Speaker 1: We have Oh, we got all these actors up here.
Speaker 1: So My Magic City past has resurfaced and they did
Speaker 1: a documentary. It's a five part docuseries that's coming on
Speaker 1: Stars in May. I have producer credit. I narrate the
Speaker 1: whole thing. It's a big deal. Not really acting. Well,
Speaker 1: I did do some acting because we did some inter sicuals, right,
Speaker 1: So I acted out some of the things that I
Speaker 1: talk about in my interview. And I hope that it
Speaker 1: just leads to more things I'm trying to really break into,
Speaker 1: Like I want that to kick in the door for
Speaker 1: me for I love that. And we've all done reality TV. Yes,
Speaker 1: she did Summer House, Martha's Vineyard. Hey. Yeah, and then
Speaker 1: obviously just be on the poll on the past. I
Speaker 1: had a terrible show Gossip Game. That was my favorite show.
Speaker 3: Ever, I love it. All actresses know we need you
Speaker 3: in the movie next.
Speaker 1: Alright, write it. I'm there, No, but.
Speaker 3: As a producer, she could write it.
Speaker 1: I've been in actually, i've been in a few things.
Speaker 1: I've had some little scenes. I get my little two
Speaker 1: dollar checks in the mail from Sad. You know what,
Speaker 1: every dollar, it'd be forty eight cents every dollar that
Speaker 1: deposit these or no, yeah, forty eight cents and it
Speaker 1: checks it up eventually.
Speaker 3: It does like a piggy.
Speaker 1: It's like every month I get like two dollars you can.
Speaker 4: Get you can use our money at the end of
Speaker 4: the year for nails, coffee, Come Rena.
Speaker 3: Why it does add up when you go home to
Speaker 3: I want you to come out.
Speaker 1: I'm chexting, Oh my god, lets and now and then
Speaker 1: it'd be one of like seventeen dollars and I'd be like, whoa.
Speaker 4: That's the avocados and a macho and twenty fives and
Speaker 4: a pizzazz was like twenty two.
Speaker 1: I hate the fact that you and Kim and a pizza.
Speaker 4: We ate two parts. Don't let please block my trainer
Speaker 4: or just take this.
Speaker 1: Part and say I've just seen a workout video. I
Speaker 1: feel like, that's the last thing on your page.
Speaker 3: Salmon and greens.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got a salmon salad and then a pizza and.
Speaker 3: One slice of pizza. Damn, I'm so sad. I wish
Speaker 3: I could stay here forever.
Speaker 1: Listen, go back to listen, Go do what you gotta do.
Speaker 1: But we appreciate you so much for comments. And you
Speaker 1: know this your how you always welcome.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna come back.
Speaker 1: I know you are because we got music to promote,
Speaker 1: we got things to do. We outside. Are you clapping
Speaker 1: for yourself?
Speaker 4: Yes, clap for the room everybody.
Speaker 1: The album, guys is synergy, okay.
Speaker 3: And I have a lot of ideas.
Speaker 2: I was listening to you that that's because y'all both
Speaker 2: said it, and I was like, oh.
Speaker 3: Energy have you I have not? I feel like a
Speaker 3: producer can produce, could produce an.
Speaker 1: I think really, yeah, she just made you a music.
Speaker 1: I feel like I feel like, really I could do
Speaker 1: anything if I really put my money.
Speaker 3: I would love the challenge.
Speaker 1: My women find out. We come back Jesus a music.
Speaker 3: Can we play?
Speaker 1: Yes? You play it again?
Speaker 3: You're teaching Spanish. Spanish.
Speaker 1: Now, let's say I just want to let you know
Speaker 1: I was a straight a student in Spanish, or I
Speaker 1: speak proper.
Speaker 3: I'm crying because you told you told me this.
Speaker 1: I told you I speak very proper Spanish. I don't
Speaker 1: speak like you know. I say things that like where
Speaker 1: did you learn that word? I say things like kay, lastima.
Speaker 3: Yeah, we don't even that's.
Speaker 1: What I'm saying. It's like foremost yes, okay, that's it
Speaker 1: anyway last yeah, okay, lassima. I'm going to say no, no,
Speaker 1: you can't last what I'm saying that means guys, Okay,
Speaker 1: how remember anyway?
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Speaker 6: Ultro, remember the pro atro all thro, the rock at the.
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Speaker 7: Pollo carol.
Speaker 4: In a petrola pomp and silicon, Petula bombi in.
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Speaker 1: It is it? Is it not?
Speaker 3: Wether?
Speaker 7: Is it?
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Speaker 6: ultra ultra altro.
Speaker 7: Ultra ula parties megasla love is a politic verbolo. Maris
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Speaker 7: a Petula bombi in pegula bombi.
Speaker 1: It is it, is it not?
Speaker 3: Is it doing pro.
Speaker 6: Autro ultro, ptro, altro, ultro altro, ultro altro, bultro altro,
Speaker 6: ultro ultra also ultro utro, utro outro