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Speaker 1: Welcome to the Joe lous Deine Podcast. Help Let's continue

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Speaker 2: Well, God bless you. It's a joy to come into

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Speaker 2: I'd like to start with something funny, and I heard

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Speaker 2: about this lady that was stopped at an intersection. A

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Speaker 2: man came up asking for money. She dug in her

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Speaker 2: window said sir, I'm not giving you this because you

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Speaker 2: deserve it. I'm giving it to you because it makes

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Speaker 2: me happy. He looked at her and said, ma'am, why

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Speaker 2: Say it like you mean it. This is my Bible.

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Speaker 2: I am what it says I am. I have what

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Speaker 2: it says I have. I can do what it says

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Speaker 2: I can do. Today I will be taught the word

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Speaker 2: of God. I boldly confess my mind is alert, my

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Speaker 2: heart is receptive. I will never be the same. In Jesus' name,

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Speaker 2: God bless you. I want to talk to you today

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Speaker 2: about beating bitterness. We all go through things that are

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Speaker 2: not fair. People do us wrong. We didn't get the promotion,

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Speaker 2: came down with an illness. You can't stop life from

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Speaker 2: happening to you, but you can choose how you respond.

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Speaker 2: If you hold on to the hurt, you go around

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Speaker 2: dwelling on the offense, thinking why did they say that

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Speaker 2: did that friend walk away? Then you're opening the door

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Speaker 2: to bitterness. When you're bitter, it affects every area of

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Speaker 2: your life. Bitterness poisons your attitude to where you see

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Speaker 2: things in a negative light. Bitter people don't have good relationships.

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Speaker 2: They're easily offended. They'll jump down your throat for the

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Speaker 2: smallest thing. It's not you, it's the bitterness coming out.

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Speaker 2: You may have a good reason to be bitter something

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Speaker 2: make it worse. It's going to steal your dreams, rob

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Speaker 2: you of your joy. Bitterness can keep you from your destiny. Now.

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Speaker 2: I know people that are still bitter over something that

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Speaker 2: Bitter because a relationship didn't work out. You have to

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Speaker 2: let it go. God sees what's happening. He knows what

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Speaker 2: wasn't fair, He knows who walked away, and he knows

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Speaker 2: how to make it up to you. He knows how

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Speaker 2: to bring you out better. Let it go and trust

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Speaker 2: him to be your vindicator. The longer you hold on,

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Speaker 2: the harder it is to get rid of. The more

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Speaker 2: more you let it bother you, the deeper it gets planted.

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Speaker 2: The key is forgive quickly, let go of things you

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Speaker 2: don't understand, quickly when the questions come up, why did

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Speaker 2: this happen? This isn't fair? When you feel the bitterness

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Speaker 2: you'll make my wrongs right. You said you'd give me

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Speaker 2: beauty for these ashes I found. Bitterness is always knocking

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Speaker 2: at the door. You didn't get the contract. Bitterness will

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Speaker 2: come have a chip on your shoulder. That's not fair.

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Speaker 2: The medical report wasn't what you wanted. Bitterness will show up.

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Speaker 2: You prayed, you believe, Why didn't God answer your prayer.

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Speaker 2: That's bitterness trying to come in at the office. A

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Speaker 2: bad in front of people. Just a little offense, just

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Speaker 2: But if you start dwelling on it, start thinking of

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Speaker 2: how you can pay them back next time you see them,

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Speaker 2: and pollute other areas of your life. That's why it

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Speaker 2: Notice it refers to bitterness as a root. You can't

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Speaker 2: know a young man that became disgruntled with his employer.

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Speaker 2: One of our most important responsibilities is to keep our

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Speaker 2: guarding your heart. The apostle Paul had plenty of opportunities

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Speaker 2: Coppersmith did me great wrong, but I'm not worried. I

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Speaker 2: What's interesting is you can't see a root, but a

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Speaker 2: root is where the tree gets life. We see the outside,

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Speaker 2: the leaves, the branches, but the roots are what's feeding

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Speaker 2: that's feeding you encouragement, life, strength, hope. The problem is

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Speaker 2: why you don't laugh anymore. Why you don't dream like

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Speaker 2: The good news is you don't have to live with

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Speaker 2: what's causing you to be bitter. Maybe there's somebody you

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Speaker 2: see the new things God has in store. Years ago,

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Speaker 2: Somehow the pigs had fallen in and drowned and became

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Speaker 2: wedged right at the opening. Now all this crystal clear

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Speaker 2: principle in life. We all have unfair things that happened,

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Speaker 2: We think this is just who I am. No, that

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Speaker 2: get rid of what's contaminating your stream. You need to

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Speaker 2: find those pigs, forgive the people that did you wrong.

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Speaker 2: They can't stop your destiny unless you allow them to.

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Speaker 2: start hoping again. God will pay you back for what

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Speaker 2: you ever imagine. What's in your future is much greater

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Speaker 2: than anything you've lost. Now my challenge. Don't let a

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Speaker 2: It's very freeing when you can let things go. Say God,

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Speaker 2: they did me wrong, but you're my vindicator. I had

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Speaker 2: You don't let what's on the outside get on the inside.

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Speaker 2: In the Scripture, a lady named Naomi had some tough times.

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Speaker 2: She was living in a city called Moab. She was

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Speaker 2: You have more than your share of bad breaks. It's

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Speaker 2: He has restoration already lined up. This is what my

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Speaker 2: have been bitter, God, why'd you let this happen. I

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Speaker 2: God had already gone ahead. God had already lined up

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Speaker 2: Luke fifteen is the story of the prodigal son. This

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Speaker 2: Life is fragile. Time is too short to live offended,

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Speaker 2: and if you receive it. Can you say amen? Today?

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Speaker 2: I'd like to give you an opportunity to make Jesus

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Speaker 2: Just say Lord, Jesus, I'll repent of my sins. Come

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Speaker 2: If you prayed that simple prayer, we believe you got

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Speaker 2: a blessing over you.

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Speaker 3: As a thank you for your support of our ministry

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Speaker 3: Get ready to experience God's best for your life.

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Speaker 1: I found the more ways you get God's word in you,

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Speaker 1: the more it stays with you.

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Speaker 3: This is a great tool you.

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Speaker 2: grow and experience the goodness of God. My father used

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