1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,920 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the CLO our chief love Officer, 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:04,800 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. 3 00:00:05,120 --> 00:00:10,960 Speaker 2: All right, we're still pastoring right now. 4 00:00:11,080 --> 00:00:12,639 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. 5 00:00:12,920 --> 00:00:13,160 Speaker 2: Yeah. 6 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 1: Camika in Norfolk has a question for you. She says, 7 00:00:18,120 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: my husband and I went on an anniversary trip and 8 00:00:21,120 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: he got sick the very first day. I can I 9 00:00:24,440 --> 00:00:27,520 Speaker 1: continue to enjoy myself as much as I could so 10 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:31,600 Speaker 1: we wouldn't lose the money on the excursions that we planned. 11 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 1: Is my husband's anger justified or is he acting foolish? 12 00:00:37,520 --> 00:00:38,760 Speaker 4: Well he's acting a little bit. 13 00:00:38,840 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 5: Now, come on, dog, Now you want somebody to sit 14 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:43,199 Speaker 5: around you and be miserable in the room. And we 15 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,560 Speaker 5: don't spend all this money? 16 00:00:45,240 --> 00:00:47,880 Speaker 2: Such baby, big. 17 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 4: You don't share it? That ain't your bitch? 18 00:00:49,840 --> 00:00:53,639 Speaker 2: Why that on that whining stuff? 19 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:56,640 Speaker 4: See, I don't do that. I don't you know. 20 00:00:57,600 --> 00:01:00,440 Speaker 5: I was recovering from surgery, my girl, just I toltally 21 00:01:00,520 --> 00:01:02,080 Speaker 5: going to live a life I got, I got. 22 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:04,560 Speaker 4: I'm sitting now. I'm good. I don't do that. 23 00:01:04,760 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 5: I don't make them wait on me. But well, somebody 24 00:01:07,160 --> 00:01:08,560 Speaker 5: gonna wait on me. But it ain't got to be 25 00:01:08,959 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 5: somebody gonna bring something inodle. 26 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 1: See, so he's acting child issues, say a little bit, 27 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 1: he is all right. Moving on to paul Lette and Shreveport, 28 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:25,319 Speaker 1: Paultt writes, my husband will be sixty five this year 29 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,919 Speaker 1: and I am forty nine. He's been falling asleep during sex, 30 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 1: and I thought if we changed positions or have sex earlier, 31 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: it would help. 32 00:01:35,240 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 2: It never fails. He starts dozing off. Is this an 33 00:01:39,400 --> 00:01:42,560 Speaker 2: age thing? How do I tell him? I'm frustrated. 34 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 5: I'm sixty eight. I have never ever in my life 35 00:01:46,880 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 5: fallen asleep during sex. Now immediately after, I'm gone, what's 36 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:54,800 Speaker 5: gonna happen after? 37 00:01:55,560 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 4: So we're clear, we have clarity. 38 00:01:57,480 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, I've been doing that since I was twenty, so 39 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:03,160 Speaker 5: that ain't yeh ain't got nothing to do at age? 40 00:02:04,680 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 2: So what are you saying? It's boring to him? 41 00:02:08,200 --> 00:02:08,359 Speaker 4: Yeah? 42 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 5: Something's wrong, baby, Yeah, something's wrong. Okay, something is wrong, 43 00:02:12,720 --> 00:02:14,359 Speaker 5: and I don't know exactly what it is. 44 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 4: But I don't know. I don't know. Nobody fall asleep doing. 45 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 5: Okay. 46 00:02:19,760 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, she says that during and tried to change positions 47 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: and all of that, do it earlier. 48 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 2: Nothing help, He's. 49 00:02:27,919 --> 00:02:29,040 Speaker 4: Just gonna fall asleep. 50 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,639 Speaker 2: Maybe, well she's frustrated though, Well maybe. 51 00:02:36,160 --> 00:02:42,080 Speaker 5: It's no, no, no, maybe there's a chemical reaction going 52 00:02:42,200 --> 00:02:46,639 Speaker 5: on between the two of boot. You sometimes, you know, 53 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:53,120 Speaker 5: two bodies you know, could just be aw what Let 54 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:57,519 Speaker 5: me just pay a compliment to her. Oh maybe you 55 00:02:57,760 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 5: got something that's so good. 56 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:01,840 Speaker 2: Oh he doesna till. 57 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:06,519 Speaker 4: Maybe you got something. It's just like just like just 58 00:03:06,919 --> 00:03:11,560 Speaker 4: being in the bottle of z quill. It all up in. 59 00:03:11,720 --> 00:03:17,160 Speaker 5: He'll sleep all z quill. That's you know, night quill 60 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:21,440 Speaker 5: got new product out just for sleep, you know. Yeah, 61 00:03:21,480 --> 00:03:23,240 Speaker 5: you know, if you ain't got the flu or cold, 62 00:03:23,320 --> 00:03:25,360 Speaker 5: you can still buy some z quill and just getting 63 00:03:25,440 --> 00:03:29,519 Speaker 5: knocked out, you know, maybe you just got you Maybe 64 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:31,799 Speaker 5: you just got a z quill on you just so 65 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 5: just so red, big old bottle z quill. 66 00:03:37,280 --> 00:03:44,320 Speaker 3: Maybe that's it, yeah big Okay, moving on from always 67 00:03:44,400 --> 00:03:49,280 Speaker 3: got quilled in it. Yeah, okay, we're gonna move on now. 68 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 5: Don't even make this, but you gotta fifty two hours 69 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 5: bottle of medicine wool to move on. Ain't got that 70 00:03:57,920 --> 00:04:01,280 Speaker 5: with quill down at cost Co and they said they 71 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:03,280 Speaker 5: got to be the boss a bottle wrench at. 72 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 4: Costco one time. I ain't who house is this. 73 00:04:06,320 --> 00:04:10,360 Speaker 1: That I'll go ahea sh all right, oh thank you 74 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: Ephram and Can Canton says, my fiance is thirty five 75 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:22,640 Speaker 1: years old and she can't live without social media from okay, okay, 76 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:26,160 Speaker 1: all right. Ephraim and Canton says his fiance is thirty 77 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: five years old, she can't live without social media. I've 78 00:04:29,240 --> 00:04:32,320 Speaker 1: asked her to ease up on posting all of our business. 79 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:34,960 Speaker 1: She thinks I have something to hide and that's not 80 00:04:35,120 --> 00:04:37,320 Speaker 1: it at all. How do I get her to focus 81 00:04:37,400 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: more on us and not the phone? 82 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:40,400 Speaker 4: Break up? 83 00:04:41,120 --> 00:04:41,160 Speaker 1: What? 84 00:04:41,520 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 6: What that's come to? 85 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 3: Break up? 86 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 1: All? 87 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 5: Hell? 88 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:50,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? Break up? Yeah? Yeah, breakup though, next question? 89 00:04:50,320 --> 00:04:51,240 Speaker 2: Should that's it? 90 00:04:52,440 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 4: Yep? Break up? 91 00:04:54,279 --> 00:04:57,279 Speaker 2: She's too young, she won't stop. 92 00:04:58,279 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 4: No, they hooked, she hooked. She listening to you. She 93 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 4: put it up. But you got something to hide now. 94 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 4: I just don't want everything exposed. That's all. Break up, 95 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 4: that's it. If you're not married, dog, get out now? 96 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right? Last one is the last one. 97 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 1: Jada and Thomaston. Thomaston says, I can't not stand my 98 00:05:20,920 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 1: boyfriend's friends. They call me goody two shoes and it's 99 00:05:24,680 --> 00:05:28,200 Speaker 1: perfect because I don't drink or smoke. He never takes 100 00:05:28,279 --> 00:05:30,360 Speaker 1: up for me, he said. If he does, it will 101 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,360 Speaker 1: make it worse. Is this proof that my boyfriend does 102 00:05:33,520 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: not respect me? 103 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:39,840 Speaker 5: Oh that's a weak statement. That's a weak statement on 104 00:05:40,000 --> 00:05:43,479 Speaker 5: his part. If I take up for you, it's gonna 105 00:05:43,520 --> 00:05:46,679 Speaker 5: make it worse. So you have no plans on taking 106 00:05:46,760 --> 00:05:50,479 Speaker 5: up for your wife because it'll be worse. I'm gonna 107 00:05:50,480 --> 00:05:52,600 Speaker 5: tell you right now. You let Marjorie come in here 108 00:05:52,600 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 5: and tell me. I'm tired of these people talk about me. 109 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:56,680 Speaker 4: I promise you. We've been have conversation. 110 00:05:59,279 --> 00:06:03,320 Speaker 5: No, and it ain't gon gonna get worse because they're 111 00:06:03,320 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 5: gonna understand y'all stop this about her quick. Every time 112 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:10,240 Speaker 5: I bring around you, she the subject. It ain't cool, man. 113 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:12,800 Speaker 5: She don't smoke and she don't drink. That's all it 114 00:06:12,960 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 5: is to it. That's what she don't do. Now, guess what. 115 00:06:15,800 --> 00:06:19,320 Speaker 5: Leave it at that, and next person say something when 116 00:06:19,360 --> 00:06:21,720 Speaker 5: we're around, it's gonna be a problem. 117 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 4: Talking about this is gonna be worse. They're gonna tease 118 00:06:25,240 --> 00:06:28,760 Speaker 4: you more, poor guy. But see you talking about protecting 119 00:06:29,320 --> 00:06:29,880 Speaker 4: your woman. 120 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:33,720 Speaker 2: You're talking about protecting your wife. You see what I'm saying. 121 00:06:33,839 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: He's not willing to do that. 122 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:36,920 Speaker 4: That's all it is. 123 00:06:37,360 --> 00:06:38,520 Speaker 2: Does he not respect me? 124 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 4: Right? 125 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:39,800 Speaker 2: Exactly? 126 00:06:40,279 --> 00:06:40,520 Speaker 5: Yeah? 127 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 2: Wrong? Yeah, stand up to your friends. This is your girl, right, we. 128 00:06:46,960 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 6: Can talk about everybody girl in here. Listen, it's the 129 00:06:49,040 --> 00:06:51,479 Speaker 6: thing I been wanting to say about yours too. Let's 130 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 6: get paidy, let's get he's gonna get out here. 131 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:58,640 Speaker 2: Like what JR. Okay, you don't like Shamika? 132 00:06:59,600 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: No? 133 00:07:00,160 --> 00:07:00,440 Speaker 4: Uh huh. 134 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:02,799 Speaker 6: I can't stand. First of all, I don't like nobody 135 00:07:02,839 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 6: breasts under their neck that high? That's what I make that. 136 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:07,000 Speaker 4: That's one thing wrong with her right there. 137 00:07:07,160 --> 00:07:09,600 Speaker 6: That's that's I can't believe you ain't got no neck. 138 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 6: I can't see no neck. Okay, that's what's wrong with her. 139 00:07:14,640 --> 00:07:15,000 Speaker 2: Support. 140 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 6: Yeah, you need to stop this. My girl, don't drink 141 00:07:18,120 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 6: and smoke, but this year got to stop. 142 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 2: What about Twuana though? 143 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:24,000 Speaker 4: Twanda all feet too big? 144 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 6: We know the same size shoe y'all, y'all shearing shoes, 145 00:07:28,280 --> 00:07:31,400 Speaker 6: y'all share shoes. I know them, I know your joys, 146 00:07:31,480 --> 00:07:32,160 Speaker 6: them your joys. 147 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:33,680 Speaker 4: I'm not hu the same side. 148 00:07:35,000 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 6: Why wouldn't everything that's y'all twins at the feet? 149 00:07:38,880 --> 00:07:39,360 Speaker 2: What about? 150 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 4: Yeah? 151 00:07:42,720 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 6: I tell you what if every time look at back 152 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,119 Speaker 6: of the nigga, I get homery? What's the sausage package 153 00:07:46,200 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 6: doing back? Then I'm home. Every time I see her back, 154 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 6: I'm hongry. We'll talk about everybody, girl, Yeah, yeah, everybody. 155 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:57,120 Speaker 6: And next we moving to children. 156 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,640 Speaker 2: You're listening to The Harvey Morning Show.