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Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time. I

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Speaker 1: don't know. Y'all have a sun giving them like the

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Speaker 1: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on, DIGNI

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Speaker 1: now one it only Steve Harvey got a radio show.

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Speaker 1: Here we go today. I think I have something for

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Speaker 1: a lot of people today, at least I hope I do.

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Speaker 1: And this is about on your journey, And this is

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Speaker 1: about something that happens to us all. I mean, what

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Speaker 1: happens to all of us from time to time when

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Speaker 1: we get discouraged, What happens to all of us when

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Speaker 1: we feel like quitting, What happens to all of us

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Speaker 1: when we have that turnback moment, What happens to all

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Speaker 1: of us when it don't seem like it's gonna pan out.

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Speaker 1: Because I want you to understand something that everyone, every

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Speaker 1: single living soul, has those thoughts about something at some

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Speaker 1: oftentimes been discouraged about things not happening as fast as

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Speaker 1: I like them. All things don't pan out the way

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Speaker 1: I would like for them to have panned out. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's so many ways to get discouraged. But but what

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Speaker 1: my encouragement to you is when discouragement comes is understand this.

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Speaker 1: It is a part of the growth process. It is

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Speaker 1: a test. It is a test of your faith. How

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Speaker 1: bad you want it, do you really believe? That's all

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Speaker 1: faith is. It's simply and I've said this how many times.

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Speaker 1: Faith is to belief in things that you cannot see.

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Speaker 1: So when discouragement comes, set back comes, it is a

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Speaker 1: test of your faith. At least it's been that way

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Speaker 1: for me. Now other people can explain it another way.

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Speaker 1: I'm not other people. I can only give it to

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Speaker 1: you the way it has come to me and throughout

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Speaker 1: my life and man on man on man. Discouragement sometimes

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Speaker 1: it's tough to deal with because it seems at times

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Speaker 1: when you are discouraged that is so absolute that this

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Speaker 1: it can be just that the end of you. When Milly, Milly,

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Speaker 1: it was a test, That's all it is. But the

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Speaker 1: majority of people that I know who are not successful

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Speaker 1: gave up, it was because at a moment of discouragement

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Speaker 1: And then they started justifying it with hither one that

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Speaker 1: I hate to hear. Well, if it's God's will, excuse me.

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Speaker 1: If it's God's will that you fail. If it's God's

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Speaker 1: That's God's will. That's not the God I know. That's

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Speaker 1: I just my mother always taught me something that he

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Speaker 1: don't believe that, not for a second. Now have I

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Speaker 1: But you can't blame that on God. Now, come on,

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Speaker 1: So when discouragement comes, try to look at it if

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Speaker 1: keep working, keep believing, keep hope alive. That's your job.

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Speaker 1: If you do that, that's how you pass the test.

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Speaker 1: It could be over tomorrow, it could be over in

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Speaker 1: And how do you do that? Steve? Now here we go.

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Speaker 1: What do you do when you become discouraged? Well, I

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Speaker 1: What else could that lead me to, because I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's always more to it. So where else could this

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Speaker 1: lead me to? What are the possibilities? Man? What are

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Speaker 1: it ain't gonna be the only one. But you gotta

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Speaker 1: be another one. Life ain't none but a series of tests. Man. Man,

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Speaker 1: when you're thinking about giving up, when you're discourage, think

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Speaker 1: What are the limitless and endless possibilities of holding on

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Speaker 1: If I just passed this test, you gotta talk yourself

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Speaker 1: into hanging in there. You're listening, ladies and gentlemen, Let

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Speaker 1: God for the ability to clear my throat. Yeah, ain't

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Speaker 1: nobody here with me and Sherlen caller. That's it. A

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Speaker 1: mouth of the South is here. But y'all don't have

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Speaker 1: to hear how south the mouth really is your country? Now,

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Speaker 1: Lord lord him Mercy. Name is Mississippi Monica. Lord him Mercy.

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Speaker 1: He loved everything that is Mississippi everything. Yeah, catfish country,

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Speaker 1: Lord him, Ladies and gentlemen, this is the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show starring Sherley Strawberry. Caller for real, mississipp Monica self,

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Speaker 1: please understand my wife page says she's married to the

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Speaker 1: one in on. Yes she is, missus Harvey. Yes you are, Yes,

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Speaker 1: you are. You know she had a nerdy tell me

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Speaker 1: the other day, what Steve, somebody like me had to

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Speaker 1: marry you because you are a lot? Well, lie with

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Speaker 1: any of that A lot? Wait a minute, I'm a

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Speaker 1: lot that yeah, yeah, we had this real conversation. I went,

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Speaker 1: I'm a lot, she said, then she said, but Steve,

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Speaker 1: but you a lot too, though, Na, and not near

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Speaker 1: end up a grid with it? What you thought? Think?

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep arguing that ain't gonna work out? No,

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Speaker 1: not in no, no, it's not. No, it's not. Hey, Steve,

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Speaker 1: what's what do you think today in twenty two what's

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Speaker 1: the best way to break up with someone? The best

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Speaker 1: way not and leave texting out of it? Please? Oh no, no,

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Speaker 1: that's not the best way to do it. It's the

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Speaker 1: the best way to always break over. And what is that?

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Speaker 1: Just drive off, get in your car, drive off, dog,

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Speaker 1: hey man? My strongs that drive off and relocate out

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Speaker 1: and start over dog because you know, you know, not

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Speaker 1: closure for sure, right they we still want closure? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and that's gonna produce another argument that you're not capable

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Speaker 1: just driving off drive off doll. That's it, all right,

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Speaker 1: You heard it right here on the one and only

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, thank you, Steve. Coming

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Speaker 1: up in thirty two minutes after the hour. We'll run

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Speaker 1: that prank back right after this. You're listening to Steven Show.

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Speaker 1: All right, Steve, come on it. It's time to run

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Speaker 1: that prank back. You're in for the nephew today. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's about truck drive, Bregy truck drove Johnny Joe on

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Speaker 1: Steve the Wheel of the Water two on the CV radio.

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Speaker 1: This truck driver, y'all gonna come on running. Hello. Hello,

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Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach Franklin. Yeah, this is Franklin. Hey, Franklin,

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Speaker 1: how you doing? This is Roosevelt giving you a call

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Speaker 1: from Human Resources Resay. Hey, what's up, Roosevelt? What could

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Speaker 1: I do? All right? Man, I'm calling you from Human

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Speaker 1: Resources Trains of Partners. Where you been here? You've been

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Speaker 1: driving trucks for us for quite some time. Now, what

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Speaker 1: do you you six and a half years right now, Man,

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Speaker 1: I'm eight and a half years. He's two years short, baby, Okay,

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Speaker 1: eight and a half you and how you doing? Man?

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Speaker 1: I'm good man, enjoying this road life. Man. I love

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Speaker 1: working with a few guys. Man, the benefics is there.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm supposed to get a call from me.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, hope, everybody. I'm sure you're on

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Speaker 1: the road right now. You're probably driving. I wanted to

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Speaker 1: give you a call and is it's a bad time?

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Speaker 1: Can you talk right now? Yeah? I actually told ope,

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Speaker 1: But man, I had to get something to eat. Man. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: so listen, let me tell you what's going on here

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Speaker 1: with but GTP. What we're doing is we are doing

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Speaker 1: some job exchange and some of the drivers that we

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Speaker 1: have have been pulled out of a pool and some

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Speaker 1: of you guys are gonna be actually driving in different places. Now.

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Speaker 1: So for the next six months, within the next thirty days, here, Franklin,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be um, You're You're gonna be driving trucks

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Speaker 1: in South Africa. You're gonna be or for about six

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Speaker 1: for about six about six months, you're gonna drive in

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Speaker 1: South Africa. Holda hola hola. Yeah, listen, I ain't got

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Speaker 1: no file in the South Africa. But y'ah rather smart.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going on the South Africa. I don't come

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Speaker 1: out a job on the right hand side of the row. Man.

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Speaker 1: I love Africans, I love everything about Africa, but I'm

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Speaker 1: a type of that you on that? It's it's frequently.

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Speaker 1: It's part of the job exchange is what it is. Man. Okay,

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Speaker 1: But this is just listen to the tracking six months

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Speaker 1: I don't know what y'all got going on that y'all

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Speaker 1: What the fuck are you talking about? South Africa? Do

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Speaker 1: tell me South Africa? Are you serious? Okay? This Franka?

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Speaker 1: Hear me out here? Man? Let me Like I said,

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Speaker 1: about fifteen other guys are gonna be going to different parts.

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Speaker 1: What type of pool you pulled it in? You better

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Speaker 1: to about that point, well, listen to me, Franklin. We're

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to I go around go to South Africa,

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Speaker 1: It's a job exchange, Franklin. Okay, let me, let's type

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Speaker 1: a job. So what so what we're exchangeing? You're bringing

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Speaker 1: my wife is not going to be happy about this.

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Speaker 1: I'm not going my min someplace. Bas tell you that

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Speaker 1: South Africa. I am not going that. Of fact, this

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Speaker 1: you've been into company eight eight plus years, and I

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Speaker 1: just gotta tell you you are obligated. You've been chosen

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Speaker 1: six months. You're gonna get paid double. Your family's gonna

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Speaker 1: be fine, You'll be back. I ain't obligated to do

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Speaker 1: but driving truck like I do everything day, I'm not going.

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Speaker 1: You can't tell me about being obligated. Let me tell

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Speaker 1: you what I'm obligated to do. I'm obligated to the truck.

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Speaker 1: I'm fourth year, and try right to your human resources

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Speaker 1: but but but let me ask something. Frankly, you've been

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Speaker 1: don't you don't want to continue your job here with

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Speaker 1: this truck on right now. I'm coming down and see you,

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Speaker 1: mister Roses out. Okay, hold on, h do you know Jermaine? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I know. Really, what do you gotta do with it? Okay?

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Speaker 1: Let me go and don't say this, Franklin. This right

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Speaker 1: here that you're talking to is nephew Tommy and your

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Speaker 1: boy Rivers got me to plank phone call you. You

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Speaker 1: just got pranked by your boy, Jermaine Rivers. Oh that

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Speaker 1: wait till I see River. So you ain't no roads

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Speaker 1: me this. What is the baddest radio show in the land?

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Speaker 1: That Steve Harvey Morning Show? All right? All right? Uh,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Steve. Coming up next, asked the Cello chief

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Speaker 1: the top of the hour. And entertainment news, a juror

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Speaker 1: but right now it is time to esque the clo.

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Speaker 1: This one's from Raquel and Newark. Raquel writes, I just

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Speaker 1: got married and my husband and I have a new home.

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Speaker 1: I hate it all. I hate it. I hated He

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Speaker 1: him to return it. Well, you're just going out to say, sweetie,

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Speaker 1: But you know, as we picked out this house together

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be happy with it. It's gonna affect

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Speaker 1: And I tried, but I'm so appreciative of the fact

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Speaker 1: that you did it. Keep the appreciation hot, but you

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Speaker 1: have to express your disdain for that daymn furniture. Well, like,

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Speaker 1: here's what you could do. Like, here's what you could do.

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Speaker 1: Like y'all be kissing and stuff going up the steps

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Speaker 1: and he thinks it's gonna be good, and then we'll

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Speaker 1: be walking the bathroom. Wh're walking the bed room, stop

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Speaker 1: kissing him and throw up seriously because she hates the frien. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: stop kissing him, turn around here, put your friend in

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Speaker 1: the float, and then just say it's the bed rule,

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Speaker 1: baby rule. It's gonna have And every time you go

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Speaker 1: Just don't throw up on the furniture. So you can

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Speaker 1: take it, take it, take it back with it, right,

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Speaker 1: It's all right, Anna, and Dover says, I am dating

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Speaker 1: He lets them lick his face and all around his

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Speaker 1: and unseat the terry. Is this a red flag? Is

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Speaker 1: it a red flag? Yeah? Yeah, I don't know if

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Speaker 1: this hip partly. I'm gonna tell you what. You let

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Speaker 1: sleeping with no dog. I'm not kissing you after dog

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Speaker 1: other dogs, and we're not doing this period. Nice to

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Speaker 1: meet you, but now you'll know what Sherley, Why are

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Speaker 1: you so mad at me? I'm just kidding. I'm not

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Speaker 1: mad at you. I'm just waking on this next statement,

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Speaker 1: Who told y'all that? That's what they say? Who is they?

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Speaker 1: Stop talking to white people, doll. Believe everything white people

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Speaker 1: tell y'all and the black person told you that. Has

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Speaker 1: you can take Shirley's advice and know that dog smiles

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Speaker 1: How about that Disney record? You? Sir? All right, Gail

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Speaker 1: in bell Dotster, We're moving on. Uh, says My husband

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Speaker 1: this weird? And now I can't hear you. Before you

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Speaker 1: just say? Normal? Yeah, he's sitting next to his wife.

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Speaker 1: But what does that mean every beautiful woman that walks

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Speaker 1: What Let me try to find nicest way to say,

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Speaker 1: I need the same pass that they were at Charity fashion. Yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: coming down there with swim suits O with banging brass,

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Speaker 1: out stuffed, giggling, little stretch marks, bigness. You know a

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Speaker 1: My boy, Yeah, they came by my boy, my boy,

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Speaker 1: God that by the side's wife on the inside. Well,

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Speaker 1: Kelly trial. The woman complained of a panic attack. She

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Speaker 1: told the judge how she could not quote go on

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Speaker 1: one minute more. The trial started four weeks ago. One

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Speaker 1: of the alternate jurors replaced the panic attack juror. He

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Speaker 1: is a man in his sixties. The twelve person jury

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Speaker 1: panel now has seven women and five men. Yeah, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: the woman had the panic attack and then no, she's done. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I think she was done as well. Y'all know he

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Speaker 1: get mad, right, exactly all and In sports entertainment news,

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Speaker 1: Phoenix Suns owner Robert Sarver has been suspended for one

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Speaker 1: year and find ten million dollars by the NBA as

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Speaker 1: the league investigates allegations that Sarver has a history of racist, misogynistic,

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Speaker 1: and hostile incidents over his nearly two decade tenure overseeing

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Speaker 1: the franchise. The investigation reveal that Sarver repeated or purported

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Speaker 1: to repeat the N word on at least five occasions

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Speaker 1: spanning his tenure with the Suns. The investigation also concluded

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Speaker 1: that Sarver used demeaning language toward female employees and Kurstad

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Speaker 1: employees in ways that would be considered bullying under present

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Speaker 1: workplace standards. Under the NBA's one year suspension, Sarver cannot

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Speaker 1: be present at any Phoenix Suns NBA or Phoenix Mercury

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Speaker 1: w NBA games practices or team business functions. He's out

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Speaker 1: of everything. The NBA said it would donate that ten

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Speaker 1: million dollars don't to organizations that are committed to addressing

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Speaker 1: race and gender based issues in and outside of the workplace.

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Speaker 1: So there you go. Wow, he's just and they're cussing

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Speaker 1: them out, calling them in word. Right, Okay, Well, you know,

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Speaker 1: I don't I don't know how effective he could be

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Speaker 1: after the one you suspension the ten million dollars with

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Speaker 1: a crimp in his game. Ten million dollars is a

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Speaker 1: fine for real? Yeah, how does it would make? Ten

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Speaker 1: million dollars really is? And I was reading that was

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Speaker 1: the league's maximum fine, so they gave him the maxim.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's people out there, man, it's so much

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Speaker 1: out there you can't can't police at all. Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 1: You know, we got body cams on police office and

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Speaker 1: they sold revalent with it that some of them commit

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Speaker 1: the crime right there on the body can Yeah, right, yes,

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Speaker 1: if they have it on and they just about their

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Speaker 1: business and they yeah, so it's hard to police, said all.

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Speaker 1: You know, Yeah, for people who don't think the herschel

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Speaker 1: Walker commercial where he talks about one arch thinks that

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Speaker 1: America is a racist country, America does suffer from racism,

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Speaker 1: and they got all these and then and then Herschel

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Speaker 1: Walker this claim is he I happen to think that

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Speaker 1: America is full of good people, and will Herschel, we

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Speaker 1: thank you full of sugar honey iced tea, okay, because

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Speaker 1: that is racism does exist in this country. And just

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Speaker 1: because your your negro behind wants to be a senator

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Speaker 1: and do their beckoning wheel and call you standing up

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Speaker 1: there saying whatever they want you to say, don't make

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Speaker 1: it not so. And that I'm probably has nothing to

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Speaker 1: do with today. But I'm telling y'all, we have got

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Speaker 1: to get ready for these open elections and got to

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Speaker 1: when we all vote dot org, when we all vote

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Speaker 1: dot org. We have got to get there now because

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Speaker 1: these people are doing all forms of voter suppression this

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Speaker 1: time that they're trying to make it league. They to

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Speaker 1: move mailboxes, they change zoning laws, they stripped down the

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Speaker 1: polling locations, they've made more id requirements to get and

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Speaker 1: they've shortened the time limit that you can register to

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Speaker 1: vote in order to vote. I'm telling you, these Republicans

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Speaker 1: have gotten sick today's stomach because they bought into the

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Speaker 1: big Trump lie that the last election was stolen. And

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Speaker 1: so now what they're doing is listen to me carefully, y'all.

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Speaker 1: They are setting it up so they can cheat and

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Speaker 1: say this is what y'all did. That's why they holding

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Speaker 1: on to the lie. So when they get busted for

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Speaker 1: all the stuff they are doing in this new election,

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Speaker 1: it'll all be okay. They no politicians able to say that.

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Speaker 1: But I'm not a politician. And if you don't think

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Speaker 1: that they are preparing to turn Georgia back red, and

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Speaker 1: Wisconsin and Michigan and Philly and every other place that

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Speaker 1: flew and Arizona and Pennsylvania and all that, if you

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Speaker 1: don't think that they are red hot and determine, y'all.

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Speaker 1: They are trying to prove to people of color again

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Speaker 1: that voting doesn't matter. So now when we prove to

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Speaker 1: them in the last election that it did matter, that

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Speaker 1: we can change the face of an election, they are

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Speaker 1: now back to the business of, oh, no, you can't.

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Speaker 1: And so voter suppression is real. They are doing stuff, man,

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Speaker 1: this election that is so cunning, so slick, and setting

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Speaker 1: them up to start taking back some positions. We cannot

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Speaker 1: allow this to happen. We are voting in November. All

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Speaker 1: of these Republican tactics. I'm telling you, man, nothing has

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Speaker 1: made me sicker than this Herschel Walker man, because I

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Speaker 1: know what they're doing. They gives Warnock, who is African American.

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Speaker 1: They said, let's get us an African American because you know,

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Speaker 1: they just vote for people because they black, and let's

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Speaker 1: confuse them at the polls. He played football and we'll

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Speaker 1: split the black vote and our candidate will get in. No,

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Speaker 1: it's not because all the white people gonna vote for Hershel.

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Speaker 1: That's right, all right, Thank you for coming Ablican white

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Speaker 1: and Republican blacks too too. Coming up at twenty minutes

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Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll talk about Lebron James and his

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Speaker 1: family on the cover of Vanity Fair. Right after this well,

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Speaker 1: NBA star King Lebron James and his beautiful wife Savannah

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Speaker 1: James are killing it on the cover of Vanity Fair.

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Speaker 1: Savannah is simply stunning and all of her looks. The

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Speaker 1: article features the James, Lebron, Savannah and their children Bronnie,

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Speaker 1: Bryce and Zuri. Lebron is entering his twentieth year, twentieth

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Speaker 1: year in the NBA, and he is more than just

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Speaker 1: an athlete. We all know Lebron will not just shut

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Speaker 1: up and dribble. In the Fanity Fair article, Lebron and

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Speaker 1: Savannah talk about their family dynamic and supporting their children's dreams. So, Steve,

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Speaker 1: you know, we have to say, of course that we

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Speaker 1: love Lebron, James Russell Wilson, Jay z You, Steve Harvey,

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Speaker 1: of course, uh, former President Barack Obama, and all the

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Speaker 1: brothers out there who love, love, love their beautiful wives.

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Speaker 1: You know, President Barack Obama just said Michelle Obama was

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Speaker 1: fine just last week. Love that. So here's the question, Steve,

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Speaker 1: why is it so important to teach young men that

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Speaker 1: black women are to be protected, loved and respected. You

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Speaker 1: can speak on this for sure. Well, I mean, you know, look,

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Speaker 1: as much credit as we as men get for what

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Speaker 1: we do and what we provide. We get a lot

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Speaker 1: of credit for being great entertainers, great performers, great business people,

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Speaker 1: great athletes. We get a lot of credit for that.

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Speaker 1: I don't think enough credit is given to the role

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Speaker 1: that men play as husbands and as fathers. And that's

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Speaker 1: important because the family dynamic has always been a target

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Speaker 1: for the system, even as far as welfare goals you know,

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Speaker 1: they won't give a mother a check and won't give

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Speaker 1: you financial aid that there's a man present in the home.

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Speaker 1: So that does promote male female relationships. The prison system

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Speaker 1: is sole misaligned with the incarceration of people of color.

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Speaker 1: And all the time when this is going on, who

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Speaker 1: is left holding the bag but the woman. The woman

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Speaker 1: is having to hold it down and together on so

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Speaker 1: many levels for so many things. And when you see

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Speaker 1: the structure in place and it's working, like I think

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Speaker 1: of Lebron James and all he's accomplished, but not enough

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Speaker 1: focuses on the great father and husband he is. But

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Speaker 1: he's that way because of Savannah. You can be a

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Speaker 1: successful brother without a woman, but you will never be

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Speaker 1: a great man without a woman. There are no great

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Speaker 1: men in history without women. And because women are the

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Speaker 1: missing Lincoln the ingredient. And to promote that, it's evident

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Speaker 1: because we need more of that in our society, our culture,

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Speaker 1: promoting family like real Swiss and all of these other

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Speaker 1: people out here that's doing it the right way, more

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Speaker 1: so many more. I don't have time to a mention

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Speaker 1: that's true. All right, thank you, Steve. Coming up at

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Speaker 1: thirty four minutes after the hour, we'll check your boysmail

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Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. Right after this, you're

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Speaker 1: listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, Steve, it's time

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Speaker 1: to check your boysmail. If you want to leave Steve

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Speaker 1: a boysmail, you can do it by calling him at

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Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine Steve. Operators are standing by

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Speaker 1: this caller Steve. His name is Anthony. He had a

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Speaker 1: question about dressing to impress. Hey, Steve, this Anthony. I'm

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Speaker 1: just calling give some advice. You know, you're the best

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Speaker 1: guy around that dresses, I think, and I have an

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Speaker 1: opportunity for always coming up for one of my dream jobs.

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Speaker 1: And you know you kind of addressed to impress, you

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Speaker 1: kind of gott you know, sell you theself. I was

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Speaker 1: just trying to look for a little but advice. Black suit,

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Speaker 1: white shirt, black tie, black suit, white shirt, black tie,

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Speaker 1: very classy, very understated, but very stateful. It makes a statement.

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Speaker 1: A black suit, a white shirt, a black tip. It's

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Speaker 1: non offensive. It don't give a person on the other

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Speaker 1: side of the desks to talk about. I don't like

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Speaker 1: read while you wear red tiwn like green tat no, no, nothing,

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Speaker 1: no see when you go in there, simple that's why

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Speaker 1: you notice Anthony. At all black tie events, all men

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Speaker 1: look damn near the same, which I hate, but they

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Speaker 1: all look the same. They got on that black tug

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Speaker 1: seed though, that white shirt and that little as black

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Speaker 1: boat tip, and they all sit up there. You won't

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Speaker 1: see two women in that holy bent with the same

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Speaker 1: gown on. Oh, if you do, it's a problem for

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Speaker 1: cause women know how to do it. Men oftentimes have

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Speaker 1: to play it safe. If you go on the golf

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Speaker 1: course in the summertime and they last one of them

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Speaker 1: dudes got on shorts, all of them. Where there were

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Speaker 1: khaki shorts, gray shorts, blue shorts, cargo shorts. They just

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Speaker 1: don't you got the play it safe, played classy, played dignified, Anthony.

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Speaker 1: You cannot lose or blow the job in a black suit,

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Speaker 1: a white shirt and a black tip. You can get

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Speaker 1: opinions in any other colors, but no one is upset

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Speaker 1: with classic black. Nobody going to dog. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 1: this call left a message about your shirt. More more

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Speaker 1: wardrobe questions on the publisher's clearinghouse commercial Steve, good morning

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Speaker 1: in the morning, crew. I just want to say that

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Speaker 1: that you had on the shirt that goes with that suit.

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Speaker 1: I don't know if it was orange your peace, but anyway,

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Speaker 1: it really really brings you out. You look so handsome

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Speaker 1: and that peach are either orange because my TV shows

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Speaker 1: two different colors when the sun hit it. Anyway, you

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Speaker 1: was you was very handsome in that. I love you

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Speaker 1: in that color. No disrespect in miss Margie. You all

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Speaker 1: have a wonderful day. It ain't just go ahead with that,

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Speaker 1: gone run with that, says it ain't disrespectful to thank fine,

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Speaker 1: just going to do that right there. I sure which

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Speaker 1: timy was hit to hit it, thank you, baby, and

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Speaker 1: I just wanted to further blow my own self up.

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Speaker 1: I don't really think it was the shirt you was feeling.

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Speaker 1: But we're just try not to be so damn disrespectful.

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Speaker 1: So they're just gonna leave it at the ship. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: Those colors were beautiful, though, Stevens. You had on, you

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Speaker 1: have on. They really are. They do pop off the screen.

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Speaker 1: They really are nice and people are noticing, all right,

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Speaker 1: this color. Michael Publish just cleared out baby back in

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Speaker 1: the beers. I know, uh, Michael, this is this is

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Speaker 1: a calling Michael. He was a guest on your TV

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Speaker 1: show a few years ago. He wanted to update you

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Speaker 1: once been. Hey Steve, this is Michael. I was on

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Speaker 1: your show about five years ago and won a date

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Speaker 1: with the beautiful comment leaders year and there's an update

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Speaker 1: on myself. We did not work out. We went on

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Speaker 1: one date. Unfortunately it did not work out. But recently

631
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:26,080
Speaker 1: I was laid off from my job a mortgage and

632
00:43:26,280 --> 00:43:29,520
Speaker 1: working in ten years and interest rates went up and

633
00:43:29,600 --> 00:43:33,600
Speaker 1: now I am a stripper exacting dancer. He just had

634
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:36,160
Speaker 1: my first show last night at the Bachelbat Party. Pretty

635
00:43:36,239 --> 00:43:39,839
Speaker 1: crazy update. Just wanted to give you anyways, cope Paul

636
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,640
Speaker 1: as well. It was a great media and we'll love

637
00:43:41,680 --> 00:43:45,400
Speaker 1: to catch up some time. Take care. You know what's ironic?

638
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,239
Speaker 1: I Rember for him. You remember, Michael, I remember the

639
00:43:49,320 --> 00:43:52,640
Speaker 1: date set up? I told her not to pick his dad.

640
00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: Can you listen to me? She picked it, went on

641
00:43:56,600 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: one dated working out. Now he is stripped save years later.

642
00:44:04,640 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 1: Way to get everybody. Thank you for stripping up the clove,

643
00:44:07,680 --> 00:44:13,799
Speaker 1: get the close off. Goods for on coming up. Next

644
00:44:13,840 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: prank phone call right after this you're listening to show

645
00:44:20,120 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, right about

646
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 1: four minutes after it's my strawberry letter for today. Get

647
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:30,400
Speaker 1: this title. My own daughter put me on blast. All right,

648
00:44:30,400 --> 00:44:35,040
Speaker 1: well that's all about yeah yeah, we'll find out what

649
00:44:35,080 --> 00:44:37,040
Speaker 1: it's all about in just a few but right now

650
00:44:37,120 --> 00:44:40,279
Speaker 1: it is time for today's prank phone call with none

651
00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:43,799
Speaker 1: other than Steve Harvey. What you got, Steve? Oh okay,

652
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 1: run it cat, the rain? But what that's it? The rain?

653
00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: It ain't you. I love when you say run it cat,

654
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:07,520
Speaker 1: because that's your favorite part. Run again, please proceed Cat. Hello, Hello,

655
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:11,279
Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a Denise please. Yes, this is she,

656
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: Hi Denise. My name is Gavin. I'm actually the head

657
00:45:14,239 --> 00:45:17,600
Speaker 1: jeweler here diamonds. Know how you doing? I'm good? You

658
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 1: brought your ring in what was it last week? I

659
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 1: actually wasn't here, but you gave it to one of

660
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:26,040
Speaker 1: my salespersons. And yes you wanted to get it resized

661
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 1: as well as as get it a praise. Correct, Yes, yes, yes,

662
00:45:29,239 --> 00:45:30,640
Speaker 1: and you don't have to tell him up to be

663
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:36,319
Speaker 1: a bit on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen, I

664
00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: actually do to resize the ring. And first of all,

665
00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:42,279
Speaker 1: let me be the first to say, um, congratulations, when

666
00:45:42,360 --> 00:45:44,800
Speaker 1: when is your wedding? Thank you? I'm getting married and stuff?

667
00:45:44,840 --> 00:45:48,920
Speaker 1: Come there. Well, congratulations to listen. I don't know how

668
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:50,880
Speaker 1: to tell you this now. As far as the appraiser

669
00:45:50,920 --> 00:45:53,680
Speaker 1: less concern. I've looked at your ring over and over

670
00:45:53,920 --> 00:46:00,680
Speaker 1: and this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars. Excuse me,

671
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:04,600
Speaker 1: I've been I've been in this business for over twenty years.

672
00:46:04,640 --> 00:46:06,680
Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm confused on what you just said.

673
00:46:07,080 --> 00:46:08,880
Speaker 1: And I understand that. What I'm trying to explain to

674
00:46:08,880 --> 00:46:10,719
Speaker 1: you is that I've been in this business for over

675
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: twenty years. I've seen so many different pieces of jewelry

676
00:46:13,840 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 1: and this is something that you that you buy late

677
00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 1: night on an infomercial for nineteen ninety nine. This is

678
00:46:20,680 --> 00:46:25,239
Speaker 1: a Cubic Sclonian stone and the gold is not real

679
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 1: at all. It's like, wait, you wait, you lost me.

680
00:46:28,600 --> 00:46:30,560
Speaker 1: You lost me as much money as my pen make

681
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:33,439
Speaker 1: and as much money as my father is putting down

682
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: on his wedding or has put down. And you're gonna

683
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: understand everything you're saying. But Denise, honestly don't know. What

684
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,359
Speaker 1: I need you to do is hold on. Wait wait.

685
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:45,279
Speaker 1: I need you to hold on because we need to convictims.

686
00:46:45,520 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: Wait wait man. First of all, I can't wait, wait, wait,

687
00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:56,640
Speaker 1: wait wait wait, hold on'y you wait, wait wait, what

688
00:46:56,719 --> 00:46:58,480
Speaker 1: are you trying to what you're trying to do, sir?

689
00:46:58,640 --> 00:47:01,759
Speaker 1: I need I need you to repeat what you just

690
00:47:01,880 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: said to me. Okay, I personal stuff, man, you oh

691
00:47:06,719 --> 00:47:08,800
Speaker 1: you hit it. It's personal now, so I need you

692
00:47:08,880 --> 00:47:14,880
Speaker 1: to hold on. Okay, oh she called her man. Okay,

693
00:47:15,040 --> 00:47:19,080
Speaker 1: thank thank Hello, Victim. I want to listen to this

694
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:21,000
Speaker 1: juela that's on the phone. I want you to hit it.

695
00:47:21,200 --> 00:47:23,880
Speaker 1: And he just told me what's the problem. What you mean,

696
00:47:23,920 --> 00:47:25,719
Speaker 1: what's the problem. He's gonna tell you what the problem is.

697
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:29,120
Speaker 1: Gonna hit on, sir, gonna hit on. Who? Hello, Yeah,

698
00:47:29,200 --> 00:47:32,360
Speaker 1: who's this all right? My name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds.

699
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 1: And actually your wife, I mean where your fiance rather,

700
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 1: she brought her ring in to actually be resized. Yeah,

701
00:47:39,160 --> 00:47:41,759
Speaker 1: and we we also did an appraisal on the ring

702
00:47:41,960 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 1: for her. And actually the ring is estimated to be only,

703
00:47:46,680 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 1: in the words of around fifty dollars. Fifty dollars fifty

704
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: that's what the man said, do sir. Obviously there's some

705
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:58,279
Speaker 1: sort of mistake, sir. Now, what you got to say

706
00:47:58,320 --> 00:48:01,640
Speaker 1: about that, Victual? Hit it, doll That's that's got to

707
00:48:01,680 --> 00:48:03,239
Speaker 1: be some kind of mistakes. But what'd you say your

708
00:48:03,320 --> 00:48:05,400
Speaker 1: name was, sir? My name is Gavin. I work here

709
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: at Diamonds. I'm the head jeweler here. I've been here

710
00:48:07,640 --> 00:48:11,440
Speaker 1: for twenty years. And there's there's no way that that

711
00:48:11,600 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: ring is worth fifty dollars. I know what I paid

712
00:48:13,640 --> 00:48:16,879
Speaker 1: for it. So obviously there's some sort of mistakes. There's

713
00:48:16,920 --> 00:48:19,440
Speaker 1: not a mistake. I've been dealing with jury, I've seen it.

714
00:48:19,560 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: I couldn't pretty much look at a ring, but I

715
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,279
Speaker 1: actually went into detail on this one, as I do

716
00:48:24,400 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 1: all of them, and so I promise you this is

717
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: probably maybe between forty and fifty dollars for his workers. Now,

718
00:48:31,480 --> 00:48:35,160
Speaker 1: absolutely not. That's that's impossible. How is that impossible? He's

719
00:48:35,160 --> 00:48:36,600
Speaker 1: a jeweler. You heard him say, he's been doing it

720
00:48:36,640 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: for twenty he's the highest impossible. I don't understand all

721
00:48:40,600 --> 00:48:42,560
Speaker 1: the money that my dad is putting down on this wedding,

722
00:48:42,800 --> 00:48:47,320
Speaker 1: and you don't pay fifty You bought a cheap ring, sir, No, no, no,

723
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:50,040
Speaker 1: I did not buy a team. This is this is

724
00:48:50,120 --> 00:48:52,200
Speaker 1: this is obviously some kind of mistake. You didn't got it.

725
00:48:52,520 --> 00:48:55,239
Speaker 1: You got that right, you show got that right. So

726
00:48:55,320 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 1: what you got to say for yourself, then you can't.

727
00:48:59,360 --> 00:49:01,640
Speaker 1: I believe it. That's right, that this is obviously some

728
00:49:01,760 --> 00:49:04,879
Speaker 1: kind of missacer. Oh it is a mistake. I'm thinking

729
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna get married to the man of my dream.

730
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:09,640
Speaker 1: I do have the engagement ring that was purchased and

731
00:49:09,760 --> 00:49:11,920
Speaker 1: bought for your wife. No, I don't think you I

732
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:13,600
Speaker 1: don't think you do. I don't think you have my ring,

733
00:49:13,719 --> 00:49:15,399
Speaker 1: because if you have my ring, you wouldn't be telling

734
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: me this is worse fifty dollars. I have the ring

735
00:49:18,320 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 1: that your wife, your fiance brought his wife. Yet hold on,

736
00:49:22,560 --> 00:49:24,360
Speaker 1: hold on, the man trying to explain. I'm trying to

737
00:49:24,400 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 1: get to the bot. Thank you, So you have I

738
00:49:28,080 --> 00:49:30,160
Speaker 1: don't think he has the right ring. I have the

739
00:49:30,320 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: right ring. And what I'm letting you know, sir, is

740
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:34,640
Speaker 1: that this is something you buy on an infomercial in

741
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:39,439
Speaker 1: two oclock in the morning. Dude, you know I ain't

742
00:49:39,440 --> 00:49:41,879
Speaker 1: bott a damn ring on infomercial. I bought the ring

743
00:49:41,960 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: from a reputable establishment. I have the receipt, I have

744
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,800
Speaker 1: the certificate. So obviously the mistake is on your and

745
00:49:48,840 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 1: where you are the mistakes now here? Sir. You bought

746
00:49:51,160 --> 00:49:54,239
Speaker 1: a piece of jump. He's been doing it all these years.

747
00:49:54,280 --> 00:49:56,799
Speaker 1: How him he's gonna make a mistake. You come off

748
00:49:57,040 --> 00:49:58,759
Speaker 1: telling me I bought a piece of jump. I know

749
00:49:58,880 --> 00:50:00,959
Speaker 1: what I bought. If there's any stakes has been made,

750
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:04,279
Speaker 1: it's on your end world, where it's not on my end. Yeah.

751
00:50:04,760 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 1: Hold don't. Words of all, don't, lady, if you want

752
00:50:08,920 --> 00:50:10,840
Speaker 1: things that my dad has had too much money for

753
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 1: this wedding, So your doll's gonna pay fifty dollars dollars? Wait,

754
00:50:14,880 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 1: I tell him this, chill. Hold on. First of all,

755
00:50:17,680 --> 00:50:19,600
Speaker 1: I don't appreciate you. I want to tell you this.

756
00:50:19,719 --> 00:50:21,759
Speaker 1: This is a typical case of you trying to put

757
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: it off for us because you bought a piece off

758
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,920
Speaker 1: for fifty bucks. I'm the money that you don't make it.

759
00:50:27,000 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: I get fifty dollars worth of a ring, then he's

760
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:30,520
Speaker 1: hold on, let me talk to this. Where are you

761
00:50:30,560 --> 00:50:36,160
Speaker 1: gonna get dollars? I never heard of it. So your

762
00:50:36,239 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: wife knows exactly where that she's the one that brought

763
00:50:38,360 --> 00:50:40,359
Speaker 1: the ring. And I'll tell you what. I'm gonna come

764
00:50:40,440 --> 00:50:42,759
Speaker 1: down there to see the ring that you're talking about.

765
00:50:42,960 --> 00:50:44,759
Speaker 1: If it's not the ring that I gave my girl,

766
00:50:44,880 --> 00:50:47,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take seventy six hundred dollars out of your

767
00:50:47,440 --> 00:50:51,320
Speaker 1: because that's so. Now you want to jump on me

768
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,160
Speaker 1: because you bought your wife a piece. Come on, you

769
00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:56,319
Speaker 1: want to put it on me? You you don't tell

770
00:50:56,440 --> 00:50:58,560
Speaker 1: me what the I don't know what the I spin

771
00:50:58,640 --> 00:51:00,359
Speaker 1: on the ring and you I don't kind of you're

772
00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 1: trying to pull. First of all, I don't appreciate you

773
00:51:02,440 --> 00:51:04,440
Speaker 1: coming in my household trying to mess my and you

774
00:51:04,480 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 1: want to come to me with this one. I know

775
00:51:06,200 --> 00:51:09,480
Speaker 1: the rings better be real. If I were you, miss

776
00:51:09,520 --> 00:51:11,840
Speaker 1: de niece, I would not marry somebody that's gonna be

777
00:51:12,719 --> 00:51:14,840
Speaker 1: I'm coming there. I'm looking for your pocket and you

778
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:17,399
Speaker 1: know what, you don't get the ring in a right man,

779
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:19,239
Speaker 1: you're gonna go in it. Can I say one more

780
00:51:19,280 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 1: thing to both of you? Are better? I tell you

781
00:51:21,080 --> 00:51:22,719
Speaker 1: what if they did, I want to hear me, and

782
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: you're gonna have some more problems. This is nephew telling

783
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 1: me from the Steve Harvin Morning Show. Y'all just got

784
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:36,760
Speaker 1: pranked by the niece's sister that that why she ain't

785
00:51:36,760 --> 00:51:42,480
Speaker 1: got no man to be Wow. That's cool, man, Wow,

786
00:51:42,920 --> 00:51:45,600
Speaker 1: that's how cool? Time are you about to start Wow.

787
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:49,080
Speaker 1: I think I'm sorry, baby, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I

788
00:51:49,120 --> 00:51:54,840
Speaker 1: would make it ring. I gotta ask y'all something. What

789
00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:59,439
Speaker 1: is the baddest radio show in the Wow? The Steve

790
00:51:59,600 --> 00:52:09,480
Speaker 1: Harvey who she was so upset. I would have been too, though.

791
00:52:11,840 --> 00:52:16,560
Speaker 1: Fifty dollars cubic? Uh huh. Sometimes these pranks. You know,

792
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,960
Speaker 1: I don't like comment on Tommy pranks sometimes as a

793
00:52:20,000 --> 00:52:21,399
Speaker 1: matter of fact that I'll be honest with you, I'm

794
00:52:21,400 --> 00:52:24,760
Speaker 1: trying to talking about these pranks with Tommy. Ain't here, Tommy,

795
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:31,120
Speaker 1: you need to get your ass to work your vacation.

796
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: You ain't junior out They hell, y'all decided to do

797
00:52:35,360 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: this at the same damn time. You're the boss. You

798
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: sign Yeah, I ain't signed off. Oh nothing, So they

799
00:52:42,640 --> 00:52:47,160
Speaker 1: just not here to work. Y'all told me what they

800
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,600
Speaker 1: wanted to do. I ain't signed off. What was I gonna?

801
00:52:49,880 --> 00:52:53,399
Speaker 1: Who is here though? Guess who is here? The very

802
00:52:53,520 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: fine mister Steve Harvey. Okay, talk about me some moke

803
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 1: and the ladies of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Okay, yes,

804
00:53:04,120 --> 00:53:11,439
Speaker 1: always oh fine, marriage, Yeah, thank you all right? Coming

805
00:53:11,520 --> 00:53:15,120
Speaker 1: up next Strawberry letters subject my own daughter put me

806
00:53:15,280 --> 00:53:17,520
Speaker 1: on blast. We'll get back into it. I mean we'll

807
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,759
Speaker 1: get into it right after this. You're listening to the

808
00:53:20,920 --> 00:53:25,640
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for today's

809
00:53:25,680 --> 00:53:30,200
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

810
00:53:30,239 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

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Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

812
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:39,600
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

813
00:53:39,640 --> 00:53:42,080
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now, and you

814
00:53:42,200 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 1: never know, it could be yours, ladies and gentlemen. Thank you, Steve.

815
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 1: Subject my own daughter put me on blast. Dear Stephen Shirley,

816
00:53:56,520 --> 00:53:59,000
Speaker 1: I'm a fifty two year old married woman, but my

817
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:01,359
Speaker 1: husband and I have been at odds for a few

818
00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: years because he is a cheater. I never caught him,

819
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 1: but all of his mannerisms changed and we stopped being intimate.

820
00:54:10,480 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: The arguments got so bad that I stopped talking to

821
00:54:13,480 --> 00:54:16,560
Speaker 1: him altogether and focused more on my kids and my

822
00:54:16,719 --> 00:54:20,080
Speaker 1: promotion at work. I filled a boid in my marriage

823
00:54:20,120 --> 00:54:22,279
Speaker 1: with the side piece that happens to work at a

824
00:54:22,360 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 1: car dealership, and he is as fine as frog here.

825
00:54:26,239 --> 00:54:28,560
Speaker 1: He was flirting heavily with me when I bought a

826
00:54:28,640 --> 00:54:31,840
Speaker 1: new sub from him. He suggested that we break in

827
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,120
Speaker 1: the third row of my new truck, so we did

828
00:54:35,880 --> 00:54:38,399
Speaker 1: for weeks. After that, I would drive to his job

829
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,040
Speaker 1: and we got busy in the third row of my truck.

830
00:54:41,440 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 1: I'm sure his coworkers knew we were having sex, so

831
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:46,920
Speaker 1: I was taking a big risk because one of them

832
00:54:47,040 --> 00:54:50,040
Speaker 1: goes to my church. I didn't care. The sex was

833
00:54:50,120 --> 00:54:53,399
Speaker 1: too good and it was so much fun. But after

834
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,520
Speaker 1: a month of great sex, it all came to a

835
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:59,319
Speaker 1: screeching halt. On the day of my eight year old

836
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,320
Speaker 1: daughter's f day, I picked up four of her friends

837
00:55:02,440 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: for the party at the skating rink. My daughter got

838
00:55:05,600 --> 00:55:08,480
Speaker 1: on the third row of the suv and her friends

839
00:55:08,560 --> 00:55:11,840
Speaker 1: piled in. My husband drove his car, and when we

840
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 1: got to the skating rink, my daughter gave her dad

841
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:18,279
Speaker 1: a cufflink. My husband said it wasn't his cufflink, and

842
00:55:18,360 --> 00:55:23,080
Speaker 1: he looked directly at me. I walked. I walked on

843
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,880
Speaker 1: into the skating rink and got the girl situated in

844
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,920
Speaker 1: the party room. My husband got all up in my

845
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: face and asked what I had been doing in my

846
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:35,759
Speaker 1: suv and where the cufflink came from. I ignored him.

847
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:38,720
Speaker 1: My daughter put me on blast, But I don't feel

848
00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:41,920
Speaker 1: like I owe him an explanation, or do I should

849
00:55:41,920 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 1: I come clean with him? This letter, This letter got

850
00:55:47,320 --> 00:55:52,600
Speaker 1: me upset. It really did, because what you're not gonna do, mom,

851
00:55:52,840 --> 00:55:56,000
Speaker 1: is blame the baby for your cheating. You're just not

852
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: going to do that. You were messing around in your

853
00:55:58,320 --> 00:56:01,920
Speaker 1: truck with a car sale and you got busted. Period.

854
00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,279
Speaker 1: The child was absolutely justified in giving the cufflink to

855
00:56:06,360 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 1: her dad. Of course she thought it was her dad.

856
00:56:09,239 --> 00:56:12,399
Speaker 1: I mean, this is an eight year old daughter, your

857
00:56:12,480 --> 00:56:14,960
Speaker 1: eight year old daughter. She doesn't know anything about all

858
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: of this. I just think you're wrong, Mom. You didn't

859
00:56:18,080 --> 00:56:22,040
Speaker 1: check behind yourself. Your salesman didn't realize he left the cufflink,

860
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:24,960
Speaker 1: and you you just got caught, both of you guys.

861
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,920
Speaker 1: You know, basically, that's it, that's all, and it's on you,

862
00:56:29,480 --> 00:56:32,120
Speaker 1: no one else but choose. That's proof of your cheating.

863
00:56:32,440 --> 00:56:34,640
Speaker 1: You said you never caught your husband. It was just

864
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:38,160
Speaker 1: the fact that his mannerisms changed and he cuts you off.

865
00:56:38,360 --> 00:56:41,720
Speaker 1: But still no evidence. You know, there was no earring,

866
00:56:41,880 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: lying around, no hair, no underwear, etc. But you, my dear,

867
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 1: left evidence. It was still it's still double standard in

868
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:52,840
Speaker 1: this world concerning men and women, meaning you can't do

869
00:56:52,960 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 1: what I do, and that's just the way men think.

870
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:57,800
Speaker 1: That's why he was all up in your face about

871
00:56:57,800 --> 00:57:00,680
Speaker 1: the cufflink. And you still have no proof. He doesn't

872
00:57:00,719 --> 00:57:03,760
Speaker 1: want you cheating on him though, So no, you don't

873
00:57:03,840 --> 00:57:06,600
Speaker 1: owe him an explanation. And please know that if you

874
00:57:06,719 --> 00:57:09,279
Speaker 1: tell him the truth, your marriage is more than likely over.

875
00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 1: Men don't usually stick around when they're women when when

876
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,320
Speaker 1: their wives and women cheat on them. I really don't

877
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:19,520
Speaker 1: see how this marriage is going to survive the cufflink.

878
00:57:19,600 --> 00:57:27,040
Speaker 1: And again, you have no evidence, Steve, Well, well, surely

879
00:57:27,160 --> 00:57:32,440
Speaker 1: did I just hear you say to a woman what

880
00:57:33,200 --> 00:57:37,680
Speaker 1: that she doesn't owe her husband an explanation for cheating? No,

881
00:57:37,960 --> 00:57:41,760
Speaker 1: I just want to double check that out here you heard. Thanks,

882
00:57:42,440 --> 00:57:46,680
Speaker 1: Thank you a little bit of validation. Thank you so much.

883
00:57:47,640 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 1: My own daughter put me on blast. Fifty two year

884
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: old married woman. But your husband and her have been

885
00:57:54,760 --> 00:57:59,000
Speaker 1: at odds for some years. Here is the opening line,

886
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: because he is a cheater. She said that in the

887
00:58:03,280 --> 00:58:07,720
Speaker 1: first opening statement. They have been at odds because he

888
00:58:07,920 --> 00:58:11,760
Speaker 1: is a cheater. Next statement right after that, I never

889
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:18,480
Speaker 1: called him. Oh oh oh, we have a loophole in

890
00:58:18,560 --> 00:58:24,040
Speaker 1: the contract. We have a get out of jail free card. M.

891
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:34,840
Speaker 1: We have grounds for dismissal. Wow, we have unsubstantiated statements.

892
00:58:36,320 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 1: We have all of this that I would be using.

893
00:58:40,960 --> 00:58:46,560
Speaker 1: Right after you said I never called him. Then he

894
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,480
Speaker 1: comes to proof she thinks she has. But all of

895
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:55,520
Speaker 1: his mannerisms changed and we stopped being empty. You didn't

896
00:58:55,640 --> 00:59:01,280
Speaker 1: mention that any of your mannerisms might have changed, and

897
00:59:01,840 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: you didn't mention that maybe you stopped initiating sex. You

898
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: just dumped it all on him in this letter. The

899
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,960
Speaker 1: argument's got so bad that I stopped talking to him.

900
00:59:16,480 --> 00:59:20,960
Speaker 1: Now y'all ain't even talking all together, and focus more

901
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,560
Speaker 1: my kids and my promotion at work. Then you said,

902
00:59:24,600 --> 00:59:27,200
Speaker 1: I feel a void in my marriage with a side

903
00:59:27,360 --> 00:59:31,000
Speaker 1: piece that happens to work at a car dealership. And

904
00:59:31,120 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 1: he is the fine that frog help our hell. You

905
00:59:35,560 --> 00:59:39,880
Speaker 1: the cheatah in the letter. And you know what what

906
00:59:40,120 --> 00:59:47,200
Speaker 1: proof we have and ad mission of guilt. You said this.

907
00:59:48,800 --> 00:59:51,280
Speaker 1: You ain't caught him, but you said this. So now

908
00:59:51,360 --> 00:59:55,080
Speaker 1: this letter has turned. When we come back the results

909
00:59:56,080 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 1: of the leather turning from the Chief Love Office, All right,

910
01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 1: hang on, Chief Love Officer, we'll have part two of

911
01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:07,360
Speaker 1: your response Steve coming up at twenty three minutes after

912
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:11,160
Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry letter, my own daughter put me

913
01:00:11,400 --> 01:00:14,080
Speaker 1: on blast. We'll get back into it right after this.

914
01:00:14,720 --> 01:00:19,600
Speaker 1: You're listening show, all right, Come on, Steve, let's recap

915
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:23,560
Speaker 1: today's strawberry letter. The subject my daughter my own daughter

916
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:30,600
Speaker 1: put me on blast. Yeah, this ain't the problem though, No,

917
01:00:30,800 --> 01:00:32,960
Speaker 1: it's this fifty hugh old married woman that I was

918
01:00:33,080 --> 01:00:36,920
Speaker 1: her husband, because she says her husband's a cheetah. Then

919
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 1: she turns around and says, I never called this. She

920
01:00:40,160 --> 01:00:44,440
Speaker 1: turned around and said, but all his mannerisms changed and

921
01:00:44,640 --> 01:00:47,680
Speaker 1: we stopped being intimate. So now ain't neither one of

922
01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: y'all initiating sex at the house? You all him, and

923
01:00:51,760 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 1: the arguments got so bad that I stopped talking to

924
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:57,920
Speaker 1: him all together. So now she ain't even speaking to

925
01:00:58,000 --> 01:01:00,040
Speaker 1: her man at the house, and he ain't speaking and

926
01:01:00,960 --> 01:01:03,160
Speaker 1: everybody cool with this. You know why everybody cool with

927
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,440
Speaker 1: this because everybody doing what they want to do. I

928
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:07,800
Speaker 1: could assured you that because ain't no man coming in

929
01:01:07,880 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: the house, you ain't talking to him and sleeping with him,

930
01:01:10,000 --> 01:01:14,720
Speaker 1: and then he ain't going somewhere talking and sleeping time.

931
01:01:16,520 --> 01:01:19,200
Speaker 1: Ain't no man walking in no house with no woman

932
01:01:19,280 --> 01:01:22,040
Speaker 1: that ain't talking to him or sleeping with him, and

933
01:01:22,240 --> 01:01:27,520
Speaker 1: he ain't going somewhere else talking and sleeping. But who

934
01:01:27,640 --> 01:01:29,680
Speaker 1: you know? Who you know? Nothing to do that. I

935
01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:32,040
Speaker 1: do not let you move on. But then, since the

936
01:01:32,160 --> 01:01:34,520
Speaker 1: argument has got so bad, need to stop talking. She

937
01:01:34,720 --> 01:01:37,520
Speaker 1: focused on her kids and her promotion at work. Oh no,

938
01:01:37,680 --> 01:01:40,800
Speaker 1: you didn't, you said right after that, I feel the

939
01:01:40,880 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 1: board in my marriage with a side piece that happens

940
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 1: to work at a car dealership, and and he's as

941
01:01:47,440 --> 01:01:50,040
Speaker 1: fine at frog Cat and he was flirting heavy with

942
01:01:50,120 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 1: me when I bought a new SUV from him. Oh

943
01:01:53,320 --> 01:01:56,320
Speaker 1: so now the real cheatah, in this letter with proof

944
01:01:56,520 --> 01:01:58,880
Speaker 1: is you, and the proof is you admitted. I don't

945
01:01:58,920 --> 01:02:03,040
Speaker 1: know why you told us this stupidity me, but we

946
01:02:03,200 --> 01:02:09,919
Speaker 1: need people like you to keep these letters alive. So yeah,

947
01:02:09,960 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 1: this segment would have been over if it wasn't for stupidity.

948
01:02:13,080 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 1: We need stupid people. He suggested that we break in

949
01:02:18,040 --> 01:02:20,720
Speaker 1: the third row of my new truck, so we did

950
01:02:22,240 --> 01:02:24,680
Speaker 1: for weeks. After that, I would drive to his job

951
01:02:24,720 --> 01:02:26,960
Speaker 1: and we got busy in the third row of my truck.

952
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,480
Speaker 1: I'm sure his co workers knew we were having sex,

953
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: so I was taking a big risk because one of

954
01:02:33,480 --> 01:02:38,920
Speaker 1: them go to my church. So all it took was

955
01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:42,800
Speaker 1: for somebody to say, let's break in your third row,

956
01:02:44,880 --> 01:02:52,680
Speaker 1: so we did. I'll be damned. I've been taking people

957
01:02:52,720 --> 01:03:00,960
Speaker 1: to dinning, sending flowers and notes with gifts in it,

958
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,480
Speaker 1: being romantic. I give me a back row on truck

959
01:03:07,760 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: and want of them go to my church. And I

960
01:03:09,800 --> 01:03:13,360
Speaker 1: didn't care. She didn't care. Sex was too good and

961
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,919
Speaker 1: it was so much fun. But after month of great sex,

962
01:03:17,120 --> 01:03:19,959
Speaker 1: it all came to a speeching hall. On the date

963
01:03:20,400 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 1: my eight year old daughter's birthday party, I picked up

964
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:25,120
Speaker 1: four of her friends for the party at skate and rink.

965
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:27,600
Speaker 1: My daughter got in the third row to ask you,

966
01:03:27,720 --> 01:03:31,360
Speaker 1: being her friends piled in. My husband drove his car.

967
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:33,920
Speaker 1: When we got to the skate and rink, my daughter

968
01:03:34,040 --> 01:03:38,400
Speaker 1: gave her dad a cuffley. My husband said it wasn't

969
01:03:38,480 --> 01:03:42,800
Speaker 1: his comfley, and he looked directly at me. Well, now

970
01:03:42,880 --> 01:03:45,959
Speaker 1: why would he look directly at you? Come on, well,

971
01:03:46,080 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: let's y'all ain't talking. Y'all ain't having sex, so y'all

972
01:03:52,600 --> 01:03:58,680
Speaker 1: ain't doing nothing. So now he didn't find your baby

973
01:03:58,720 --> 01:04:03,200
Speaker 1: to found the Coffley car. So now now he won't

974
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:08,800
Speaker 1: talk now, or now you won't have conversation at the

975
01:04:08,960 --> 01:04:13,680
Speaker 1: damned skating rink, right. I walked into the skating rink

976
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:16,600
Speaker 1: and got the girls situated in the party room. My

977
01:04:16,840 --> 01:04:19,040
Speaker 1: husband got all up in my face and asked me

978
01:04:19,400 --> 01:04:22,040
Speaker 1: what I had been doing in my suv and where

979
01:04:22,080 --> 01:04:27,520
Speaker 1: the cofflet came from. I ignored him, as you shoot

980
01:04:29,040 --> 01:04:32,560
Speaker 1: my daughter put me on blast. Well, your daughter didn't

981
01:04:32,600 --> 01:04:35,840
Speaker 1: really put your little blast. Your daughter found the coffleyt

982
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,840
Speaker 1: and know the comflicts is normally she's seen her daddy

983
01:04:39,880 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 1: with a couflint go and brought her daddy. You go

984
01:04:43,240 --> 01:04:46,200
Speaker 1: your comflict Because the baby don't know y'all having mail

985
01:04:46,240 --> 01:04:49,320
Speaker 1: to issues. She knows something ain't right. But y'all acting

986
01:04:49,320 --> 01:04:51,360
Speaker 1: a little strange with each other. I wonder how go.

987
01:04:51,520 --> 01:04:53,520
Speaker 1: My mom and daddy don't never talk like your mom

988
01:04:53,600 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 1: and daddy. Yeah, but we already know why because y'all

989
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: out there screw and the other people. So y'all ain't

990
01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,960
Speaker 1: got to talk. You've been on that back row of

991
01:05:02,080 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: that damn truck, just messing it all up. It's losing value.

992
01:05:06,320 --> 01:05:09,280
Speaker 1: Your truck is losing value. And even if you take

993
01:05:09,360 --> 01:05:12,760
Speaker 1: that same book, same damn truck back to that car

994
01:05:12,880 --> 01:05:15,960
Speaker 1: dealership with that same salesman you bought it for, he

995
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 1: ain't he gonna He knows that the third seat is damaged.

996
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:23,600
Speaker 1: So now you ain't even gonna get true blue book

997
01:05:23,760 --> 01:05:28,760
Speaker 1: value for your game because he already. No, I'm telling

998
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:32,320
Speaker 1: you this salesman, No, what's been happening back in that seat? Yeah?

999
01:05:33,040 --> 01:05:38,360
Speaker 1: Should I come clean with him? What it's over? Come clean? Hell? No?

1000
01:05:38,840 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 1: What's wrong with you? Stupid? For the first time, Shirley said,

1001
01:05:45,600 --> 01:05:49,640
Speaker 1: And this is why I'm using this. Shirley, who adamantly

1002
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:55,760
Speaker 1: always promotes the truth, Shirley who always adam adamantly promotes

1003
01:05:56,320 --> 01:06:00,040
Speaker 1: being true to the other person, Shirley who always he

1004
01:06:00,240 --> 01:06:03,440
Speaker 1: wants to know why me and lie to set up here,

1005
01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:07,080
Speaker 1: told this woman not to say nothing. That is a

1006
01:06:07,240 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: form of a lot, and I'll support that. You should

1007
01:06:10,800 --> 01:06:16,400
Speaker 1: now heal No, you don't owe him no explanation. Quite Comfley,

1008
01:06:16,760 --> 01:06:19,040
Speaker 1: You ain't never been on the third role, and you

1009
01:06:19,120 --> 01:06:21,880
Speaker 1: don't know whooping back there. Some service man been back

1010
01:06:21,920 --> 01:06:24,560
Speaker 1: there something, and it is a service man because he

1011
01:06:24,880 --> 01:06:29,400
Speaker 1: was servicing you. We gotta go. Post your comments on

1012
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM on Instagram and Facebook.

1013
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:35,440
Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Coming up

1014
01:06:35,520 --> 01:06:37,840
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this.

1015
01:06:38,520 --> 01:06:42,240
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve.

1016
01:06:42,320 --> 01:06:45,120
Speaker 1: A young college student needs your advice. His name is EJ.

1017
01:06:45,400 --> 01:06:49,360
Speaker 1: EJ wrote on Facebook. Somehow the fact that my girlfriend

1018
01:06:49,400 --> 01:06:53,480
Speaker 1: and I have an intimate relationship became big upsetting news.

1019
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:57,280
Speaker 1: My parents invited us on a weekend vacation and apparently

1020
01:06:57,320 --> 01:07:00,360
Speaker 1: assumed that we would want separate rooms. When we laughed,

1021
01:07:00,640 --> 01:07:03,840
Speaker 1: they got all in their feelings and offended because they

1022
01:07:04,000 --> 01:07:07,760
Speaker 1: paid for a third room without ever asking us. Now,

1023
01:07:07,840 --> 01:07:10,640
Speaker 1: it's all kinds of awkward, even though we're both adults

1024
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 1: and in college. I know they're old fashioned, but come now,

1025
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:17,400
Speaker 1: come on, I'm not even sure we should go. Now,

1026
01:07:17,880 --> 01:07:20,440
Speaker 1: how much more awkward does this have the potential to

1027
01:07:20,560 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 1: be to get assuming we even go through with it? Now, Well,

1028
01:07:24,480 --> 01:07:27,160
Speaker 1: listen to me, young man. First of all, it's called

1029
01:07:27,200 --> 01:07:30,919
Speaker 1: playing the game. Go on a vacation, let them take

1030
01:07:31,000 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 1: the extra rule. Set your girls stuff up in her room.

1031
01:07:34,520 --> 01:07:37,120
Speaker 1: You set your stuff up in your room at night.

1032
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,320
Speaker 1: Y'all gonna do what y'all gonna do, because y'all already

1033
01:07:40,360 --> 01:07:43,200
Speaker 1: doing it, you're not going to stop. And now the

1034
01:07:43,360 --> 01:07:46,560
Speaker 1: parents with this being a Paul, you can be a Paul,

1035
01:07:46,640 --> 01:07:49,440
Speaker 1: but this is the reality of what happens. Now, they

1036
01:07:49,560 --> 01:07:52,920
Speaker 1: all in college. You invited them to go on vacation

1037
01:07:53,080 --> 01:07:58,040
Speaker 1: together with y'all. Right, what y'all thought was gonna happen.

1038
01:07:58,240 --> 01:08:00,160
Speaker 1: So listen to me, young man. This is how you

1039
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:03,320
Speaker 1: play the game. Play the game. Say mom, dad, you're

1040
01:08:03,320 --> 01:08:05,440
Speaker 1: absolutely correct. We're just gonna go and we'll have a

1041
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:08,440
Speaker 1: great time. Y'all gonna be tucked all up under each other.

1042
01:08:08,680 --> 01:08:10,560
Speaker 1: And then the night your old ass mom and daddy

1043
01:08:10,600 --> 01:08:15,760
Speaker 1: gonna go to bed. I'm going over there to the room. Dog. Now,

1044
01:08:15,800 --> 01:08:18,080
Speaker 1: you ain't gonna be able to get up earlier than them,

1045
01:08:18,400 --> 01:08:24,360
Speaker 1: so they're gonna find out your dass ain't. So now

1046
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,599
Speaker 1: there's no way you can get up earlier than old people,

1047
01:08:29,320 --> 01:08:32,560
Speaker 1: so they gonna find out. Just say, hey, mom, I

1048
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,040
Speaker 1: was over there. We was watching movies and I fell asleep.

1049
01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:38,120
Speaker 1: My bad. Yeah, that's all you got to do. But

1050
01:08:38,360 --> 01:08:42,080
Speaker 1: go and do the respectable thing and just play the game. Yeah,

1051
01:08:42,400 --> 01:08:45,000
Speaker 1: because a lot of old school parents feel that if

1052
01:08:45,040 --> 01:08:50,759
Speaker 1: you're not married, you shouldn't be sleeping in the same room. Listens, college,

1053
01:08:52,160 --> 01:08:56,559
Speaker 1: come around us, dad, Can my girlfriend come here? Dad?

1054
01:08:56,680 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 1: Can my boyfriend come here? And I got grown kids, yeah,

1055
01:09:01,600 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 1: and I've had them all the way through. They're welcome

1056
01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:06,639
Speaker 1: to come now. They can't stay in your room out

1057
01:09:06,680 --> 01:09:09,880
Speaker 1: of respect for my house. Right, I got what y'all

1058
01:09:09,960 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 1: may be doing. But here's your room overhire, and here's

1059
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,120
Speaker 1: her room over here. Now, if y'all want to sleep

1060
01:09:16,160 --> 01:09:18,240
Speaker 1: with each other, and y'all need to go get a room,

1061
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: just respect the house because I'm not the fitted be

1062
01:09:21,320 --> 01:09:24,720
Speaker 1: in my house and here sounds that ain't what we

1063
01:09:24,800 --> 01:09:27,439
Speaker 1: fit to do. All right, Steve coming up at the

1064
01:09:27,520 --> 01:09:30,479
Speaker 1: top of the hour, we'll talk about divorce. Oh, right

1065
01:09:30,560 --> 01:09:36,840
Speaker 1: after this, you're listening, Steve Harvey Morning Show. Actor and

1066
01:09:36,920 --> 01:09:39,800
Speaker 1: singer Tyrese is going through a messy divorce from his

1067
01:09:40,040 --> 01:09:44,559
Speaker 1: estranged wife, Samantha. Tyrese doesn't want to pay spousal support,

1068
01:09:44,800 --> 01:09:47,840
Speaker 1: he wants their pre nup enforced, and he's requesting joint

1069
01:09:47,920 --> 01:09:51,439
Speaker 1: physical and legal custody of their daughter. Well. The other day,

1070
01:09:51,560 --> 01:09:54,240
Speaker 1: Tyrese went live on IG and he was talking about

1071
01:09:54,240 --> 01:09:57,200
Speaker 1: when other people are in your business. Take a listen.

1072
01:09:57,720 --> 01:10:01,960
Speaker 1: It takes two to table Mama, your daddy, yo, whoever

1073
01:10:02,080 --> 01:10:05,439
Speaker 1: could be all in your ear talking about your husband

1074
01:10:05,520 --> 01:10:08,160
Speaker 1: every day, and it takes you to listen to it.

1075
01:10:08,760 --> 01:10:11,400
Speaker 1: It takes you to believe it. And it also takes

1076
01:10:11,439 --> 01:10:15,280
Speaker 1: you to see this, see things through the lens that

1077
01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:19,000
Speaker 1: your mama wants you to see things through. You see

1078
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:22,120
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. When you're an adult, you're gonna listen

1079
01:10:22,200 --> 01:10:24,439
Speaker 1: to a lot of people. Why are you with him?

1080
01:10:24,840 --> 01:10:27,800
Speaker 1: Why he ain't at home? Girl? He been? I would

1081
01:10:27,840 --> 01:10:30,240
Speaker 1: never let nobody treat me and talk to me like that.

1082
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:34,960
Speaker 1: Everybody got to say about your marriage and your relationship,

1083
01:10:35,439 --> 01:10:38,479
Speaker 1: but they would take your man in a minute, They

1084
01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:41,960
Speaker 1: would take your man and a hobscivity jump at a minute.

1085
01:10:42,439 --> 01:10:50,920
Speaker 1: They talking about your life, but they actually want your life. Okay, yeah, okay,

1086
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:56,559
Speaker 1: I don't even I don't know what for a lord.

1087
01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:02,200
Speaker 1: All I have to say is everybody got something to say,

1088
01:11:02,680 --> 01:11:07,559
Speaker 1: if you're gonna provide them something to say. See, if

1089
01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:12,040
Speaker 1: you would just quit giving people stuff to talk about,

1090
01:11:13,360 --> 01:11:16,400
Speaker 1: less people would be in your business talking about it.

1091
01:11:18,240 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: I just don't think you can solve your marriage or

1092
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:28,599
Speaker 1: fix your trouble orline and fix it with communication and counsel.

1093
01:11:30,439 --> 01:11:34,479
Speaker 1: What is this thing, Steve about people putting their personal

1094
01:11:35,320 --> 01:11:39,479
Speaker 1: intimate business out for the world to see on social media?

1095
01:11:39,640 --> 01:11:42,080
Speaker 1: What is that? I don't you know what I think

1096
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,680
Speaker 1: it is with a lot of people. A lot of

1097
01:11:44,840 --> 01:11:49,360
Speaker 1: people think, first of all, we care that that's first

1098
01:11:50,200 --> 01:11:54,679
Speaker 1: as it's somebody care, like we've got enough of our own. Yeah.

1099
01:11:55,320 --> 01:12:01,479
Speaker 1: And then average person that goes live they really think

1100
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:08,240
Speaker 1: they ask is deep. Yeah, I know exactly what you mean.

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01:12:08,479 --> 01:12:13,280
Speaker 1: I think there's a lot of people talking because they

1102
01:12:13,439 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 1: think what they're saying ain't ever been said before. I've

1103
01:12:19,200 --> 01:12:23,760
Speaker 1: been to say something so profound to show people the

1104
01:12:24,080 --> 01:12:27,439
Speaker 1: depth of what I'm thinking and to show them what

1105
01:12:27,880 --> 01:12:32,519
Speaker 1: I'm going through right right, And Carla, people, I don't

1106
01:12:32,560 --> 01:12:35,400
Speaker 1: think people care unless you put it out there for

1107
01:12:35,640 --> 01:12:38,639
Speaker 1: them to care. We wouldn't even know. What I'm saying.

1108
01:12:38,840 --> 01:12:44,880
Speaker 1: Is people care a celebrities? They're nosy? Yeah. Yeah, So

1109
01:12:45,160 --> 01:12:48,840
Speaker 1: that's why these websites and TMZ, Yeah, that's very true

1110
01:12:49,320 --> 01:12:52,760
Speaker 1: exists because people are nosy about celebrities and then they

1111
01:12:52,880 --> 01:12:56,479
Speaker 1: want you throw darts to give their opinions about it.

1112
01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:58,479
Speaker 1: But I think what Steve is saying is, don't give

1113
01:12:58,520 --> 01:12:59,920
Speaker 1: them a pin to stick you with. You don't have

1114
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:08,639
Speaker 1: to reveal everything. Celebrities have the ability to draw more clicks.

1115
01:13:10,160 --> 01:13:14,800
Speaker 1: But if that's your objective is to get clicks, then

1116
01:13:15,000 --> 01:13:21,560
Speaker 1: just I just don't I don't like, I don't understand

1117
01:13:21,680 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: the pouring out of yourself to the public, airing out

1118
01:13:26,320 --> 01:13:31,040
Speaker 1: your dirty laundry in public, celebrity or not. And then

1119
01:13:31,160 --> 01:13:33,479
Speaker 1: the other thing, right, celebrity or not. And this ain't

1120
01:13:33,520 --> 01:13:36,559
Speaker 1: about that reach. This is about anybody. Yeah, all we're

1121
01:13:36,640 --> 01:13:41,360
Speaker 1: hearing is your side, yes, oh please, no, there is

1122
01:13:41,439 --> 01:13:46,080
Speaker 1: another side. Yeah, And like my mother and fathers tell

1123
01:13:46,120 --> 01:13:48,960
Speaker 1: me all side. It's three sides to every story. It's

1124
01:13:49,040 --> 01:13:52,160
Speaker 1: your side, is they side? And it's the truth, the truth,

1125
01:13:52,640 --> 01:13:55,000
Speaker 1: and you need to hear both sides for you know

1126
01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:58,720
Speaker 1: the truth. People kill me just blurting out they wait, right,

1127
01:13:59,280 --> 01:14:02,280
Speaker 1: because if you hit that all the person's story. Oh

1128
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:07,599
Speaker 1: oh hey, bro, you might not beat a little smelling

1129
01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:09,400
Speaker 1: like a rose, you thank you, how you might be

1130
01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:13,400
Speaker 1: a little golf fall, you know. All right? All right,

1131
01:14:13,720 --> 01:14:15,960
Speaker 1: coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have

1132
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:18,360
Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this,

1133
01:14:19,080 --> 01:14:24,840
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. Roscoe's Chicken

1134
01:14:24,880 --> 01:14:28,679
Speaker 1: an Waffles finds itself in a tough spot just twenty

1135
01:14:28,720 --> 01:14:33,320
Speaker 1: four hours after rapper PMB rocks murder. It's a crisis

1136
01:14:33,439 --> 01:14:37,400
Speaker 1: many businesses are facing amid a violent crime wave. When

1137
01:14:37,479 --> 01:14:41,600
Speaker 1: and how to resume normal operations. According to TMZ, the

1138
01:14:41,720 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 1: Roscoe's where the rapper was killed was open for business

1139
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:48,320
Speaker 1: on Tuesday. The restaurant was fully functioning and had been

1140
01:14:48,400 --> 01:14:53,839
Speaker 1: cleared cleaned after Monday's horrible incident. Prior to the shooting,

1141
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:57,840
Speaker 1: PMB's girlfriend posted a picture of the couple's meal with

1142
01:14:58,000 --> 01:15:01,840
Speaker 1: their location and that's when police say that after that

1143
01:15:02,000 --> 01:15:03,960
Speaker 1: he was a target for a robbery and when he

1144
01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:07,400
Speaker 1: was shot and killed. This is really, really such a sad,

1145
01:15:07,600 --> 01:15:12,280
Speaker 1: sad story. You know, it's a horrible state that we

1146
01:15:12,479 --> 01:15:16,799
Speaker 1: live in. It really is. I mean, you know, posting

1147
01:15:16,880 --> 01:15:19,479
Speaker 1: this stuff, and you know, everybody trying to blame this

1148
01:15:19,640 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 1: girl for posting, for posting. Dude, we just took a

1149
01:15:22,880 --> 01:15:26,240
Speaker 1: picture of some food. How would you think so harmless

1150
01:15:26,280 --> 01:15:27,880
Speaker 1: that if I take a picture of a plate of

1151
01:15:27,960 --> 01:15:30,599
Speaker 1: chicken and some whoppers, that's somebody gonna come in here

1152
01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:34,280
Speaker 1: and kill us. Who thinks like that? So I wish

1153
01:15:34,360 --> 01:15:37,439
Speaker 1: everybody would stop blaming this young girl. She's going through enough.

1154
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:39,680
Speaker 1: She was right there with the kid got killed. We

1155
01:15:40,000 --> 01:15:44,559
Speaker 1: live in man, This world right here is so sick,

1156
01:15:45,160 --> 01:15:48,960
Speaker 1: and we and our young men, we are losing our

1157
01:15:49,120 --> 01:15:53,200
Speaker 1: young men to these types of actions of violence without

1158
01:15:53,360 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 1: any forethought to consequences in the future, and all disregard

1159
01:15:57,200 --> 01:16:00,760
Speaker 1: for human life. That's right, Jesus, All right? Coming up

1160
01:16:00,800 --> 01:16:02,920
Speaker 1: at thirty three minutes after the hour, we'll have more

1161
01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:06,120
Speaker 1: of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're

1162
01:16:06,160 --> 01:16:10,840
Speaker 1: listening Morning show. It is time now for a round

1163
01:16:10,960 --> 01:16:13,360
Speaker 1: of would you rather here we go, Steve, would you

1164
01:16:13,520 --> 01:16:17,120
Speaker 1: rather go on a silent meditation retreat for a week

1165
01:16:17,760 --> 01:16:19,920
Speaker 1: or would you rather spend a weekend with someone who

1166
01:16:20,000 --> 01:16:23,360
Speaker 1: doesn't know when to stop talking? We know what you're

1167
01:16:23,400 --> 01:16:30,280
Speaker 1: gonna say, Either silent meditation or part give me a

1168
01:16:30,360 --> 01:16:32,640
Speaker 1: fishing rod, just be out there fishing and chilling. But

1169
01:16:32,760 --> 01:16:36,360
Speaker 1: when you're you don't know when to stop talking. But

1170
01:16:36,520 --> 01:16:40,040
Speaker 1: you're with you're with someone. I know somebody like that

1171
01:16:40,240 --> 01:16:42,920
Speaker 1: right now to just run his dad. He a guy

1172
01:16:43,040 --> 01:16:47,280
Speaker 1: who all the time he can't shut up. I never

1173
01:16:47,400 --> 01:16:51,560
Speaker 1: seen nothing like it. Have you ever, like? Yeah, have

1174
01:16:51,680 --> 01:16:55,360
Speaker 1: you ever said shut up? Or be quite? Do? Do?

1175
01:16:56,080 --> 01:17:00,400
Speaker 1: You can't everything you think? Wait? Hold up? You said

1176
01:17:00,479 --> 01:17:02,720
Speaker 1: that to someone because we say that to you on

1177
01:17:02,800 --> 01:17:08,000
Speaker 1: the record. I'm shot right now. I give my thoughts

1178
01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:10,320
Speaker 1: to what I'm thinking, but I don't see up and

1179
01:17:10,400 --> 01:17:15,720
Speaker 1: go oh man, I'm breathing. Oh it's every thought. Yeah, Well,

1180
01:17:15,800 --> 01:17:20,800
Speaker 1: whose coffee cup was day? All right? Would you rather

1181
01:17:21,040 --> 01:17:23,200
Speaker 1: what all I got to do today? But nobody give

1182
01:17:23,240 --> 01:17:28,880
Speaker 1: a damn? Would you rather have everything you eat be

1183
01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:35,760
Speaker 1: too salty or not salty enough? No? Not salty enough? Yeah, no, no,

1184
01:17:35,960 --> 01:17:39,960
Speaker 1: no matter that too salty is horrid. Yes, you can't

1185
01:17:40,080 --> 01:17:44,160
Speaker 1: enjoy it? Yeah, yeah, I hate that. You're right, all right, Steve.

1186
01:17:44,200 --> 01:17:47,719
Speaker 1: Would you rather have a mosquito bite on your butt? Okay?

1187
01:17:48,120 --> 01:17:49,840
Speaker 1: Or would you rather have a mosquito bite on the

1188
01:17:49,880 --> 01:17:52,920
Speaker 1: bottom of your foot? Well? I hardly get to eat

1189
01:17:52,920 --> 01:17:59,040
Speaker 1: the one, but on your booty though, on your booty scratch.

1190
01:18:00,360 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 1: I take it on the bottom my foot and just

1191
01:18:01,960 --> 01:18:07,280
Speaker 1: get a walk it off. Really, that's one I've had

1192
01:18:07,360 --> 01:18:09,120
Speaker 1: that before that I ain't gonna scratch it, though I

1193
01:18:09,320 --> 01:18:11,080
Speaker 1: know how to play that stuff off. I'm from the

1194
01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:16,040
Speaker 1: country out stuff. I just play it off. How would Yeah,

1195
01:18:16,240 --> 01:18:19,160
Speaker 1: it's a mosquito bite. Can't hit right now? Could keep

1196
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:22,200
Speaker 1: I'm at work, but see, I'll be busy all the time,

1197
01:18:22,360 --> 01:18:24,759
Speaker 1: so it's easy for me to ignore a lot of stuff.

1198
01:18:25,600 --> 01:18:28,000
Speaker 1: So that mosquito bite ain't gonna eat my life up.

1199
01:18:28,160 --> 01:18:31,320
Speaker 1: Like my sun burned my arms playing golf into Bahamas

1200
01:18:31,840 --> 01:18:34,200
Speaker 1: because I forgot that one day to put my son

1201
01:18:34,280 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 1: Ta lotion on my arms. And man, these bad boys

1202
01:18:38,760 --> 01:18:42,840
Speaker 1: is itching me. Oh god, I really look like a

1203
01:18:43,040 --> 01:18:47,360
Speaker 1: snake in a couple of days. Up. Oh, I'd be

1204
01:18:47,479 --> 01:18:52,360
Speaker 1: glad when you're going to get started. But once it starts,

1205
01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:54,840
Speaker 1: I speed the process up. I take a hair brush

1206
01:18:55,400 --> 01:18:57,720
Speaker 1: and I brush my arms. Yeah, you can put some

1207
01:18:57,760 --> 01:19:00,640
Speaker 1: olive on it too. I missed that part of it.

1208
01:19:01,160 --> 01:19:03,679
Speaker 1: I got sunburn one time, really bad. I bought real

1209
01:19:03,800 --> 01:19:07,559
Speaker 1: alavia and sliced it and put it on that. Yeah

1210
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: that that stopped it from ever peeling in anything. Yeah,

1211
01:19:12,000 --> 01:19:16,880
Speaker 1: that real alavero is the truth. I waited too late

1212
01:19:16,920 --> 01:19:21,599
Speaker 1: for that day. Okay, I've learned so much. Yes we yeah,

1213
01:19:22,160 --> 01:19:25,320
Speaker 1: all right? Coming up at forty nine minutes after the hour.

1214
01:19:25,439 --> 01:19:28,360
Speaker 1: It's our last break of the day, and we'll have

1215
01:19:28,479 --> 01:19:30,960
Speaker 1: some closing remarks from the one and only Steve Harvey

1216
01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:36,479
Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening, all right, guys. Here we

1217
01:19:36,560 --> 01:19:39,840
Speaker 1: are our last break of the day. Um, we gotta

1218
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:45,639
Speaker 1: give our condolences out to renowned jazz pianist Ramsey Lewis

1219
01:19:45,840 --> 01:19:49,920
Speaker 1: out of Chicago. His music entertained fans for more than

1220
01:19:50,040 --> 01:19:53,320
Speaker 1: sixty years. Um. He passed away in a sleep at

1221
01:19:53,360 --> 01:19:57,240
Speaker 1: his Chicago home. Uh, mister Ramsey Lewis was eighty seven

1222
01:19:57,320 --> 01:20:02,760
Speaker 1: years old. He approached seven years old and still you know.

1223
01:20:02,920 --> 01:20:06,479
Speaker 1: The first time I just met him a few years ago,

1224
01:20:06,600 --> 01:20:09,879
Speaker 1: for the first time. I was eating at a restaurant

1225
01:20:09,920 --> 01:20:13,719
Speaker 1: in Chicago for lunch, me and Marjorie, and I saw

1226
01:20:13,920 --> 01:20:17,280
Speaker 1: him and I walked up to him and I said,

1227
01:20:18,160 --> 01:20:25,280
Speaker 1: Ramsey Lewis. He said, Steve hard put cool And I said,

1228
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:29,960
Speaker 1: he man, can I hug you? Man? Man, I want

1229
01:20:30,000 --> 01:20:33,439
Speaker 1: you to, And we hugged, and I just thanked him

1230
01:20:33,520 --> 01:20:38,640
Speaker 1: for his music. Man. Yes, yes, yes, music got me

1231
01:20:39,000 --> 01:20:43,599
Speaker 1: through fucking out of college. I didn't. I didn't want

1232
01:20:43,600 --> 01:20:46,000
Speaker 1: to say got me through college because nothing could have

1233
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:50,320
Speaker 1: gotten me through cover, no, no song, prayer. I didn't

1234
01:20:50,360 --> 01:20:55,800
Speaker 1: get any through I know the music wasn't but man,

1235
01:20:55,920 --> 01:21:01,160
Speaker 1: I talked to him about Earth winning five Ye Goddess album. Yes,

1236
01:21:01,360 --> 01:21:05,680
Speaker 1: I talked to him, man, and the woman he was

1237
01:21:05,760 --> 01:21:08,639
Speaker 1: with was so grateful while thank you so much Steve

1238
01:21:09,360 --> 01:21:13,519
Speaker 1: his day. No, man, I know who he is. Oh yeah,

1239
01:21:13,880 --> 01:21:16,840
Speaker 1: could notices go out to the Ramsey Lewis family. Man,

1240
01:21:16,920 --> 01:21:20,519
Speaker 1: what a great contribution to music this brother made. Yes,

1241
01:21:20,600 --> 01:21:24,680
Speaker 1: he did great. This was a bad bad boy man.

1242
01:21:25,040 --> 01:21:28,759
Speaker 1: And to young people, you should download the Sun Goddess.

1243
01:21:29,080 --> 01:21:31,880
Speaker 1: Yes you got. You got to see what this dude

1244
01:21:31,960 --> 01:21:34,400
Speaker 1: really did. Young people out there who don't know who

1245
01:21:34,520 --> 01:21:38,800
Speaker 1: Ramsey Lewis is, download Sun Goddess and sit down and

1246
01:21:38,920 --> 01:21:42,040
Speaker 1: go sit down somewhere beautiful. Get some of his albums

1247
01:21:42,080 --> 01:21:52,920
Speaker 1: and downloaded. It's timeless, yes, and jazz sound, Yeah, it's timeless, yes, sir,

1248
01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:56,680
Speaker 1: he said, He said, Steve life is a solo. I

1249
01:21:56,840 --> 01:21:59,080
Speaker 1: just know that when I put my hands on the piano,

1250
01:21:59,320 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 1: it's going to flow. And it did. It does. Yes, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: everything favorite. Yeah. He's worked with people like Aretha Franklin,

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01:22:11,920 --> 01:22:15,360
Speaker 1: Tony Bennett, Algaro, of course, Earth Wind and Fire and

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01:22:15,800 --> 01:22:18,719
Speaker 1: like you say, our deepest condolences to the Lewis family

1254
01:22:19,240 --> 01:22:24,120
Speaker 1: also believable. Man, Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, true Chicago legend,

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01:22:24,160 --> 01:22:30,000
Speaker 1: well legend, yeah, Chicago natives. I mean if you knew

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01:22:30,040 --> 01:22:35,400
Speaker 1: stuff that he was responsible for. Oh, I mean, man,

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01:22:35,439 --> 01:22:38,760
Speaker 1: he would play stuff like hang on Snoopy, uh huh,

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01:22:39,320 --> 01:22:45,080
Speaker 1: wade in the water the end, crown height, everything is

1259
01:22:45,120 --> 01:22:49,920
Speaker 1: all right, sun God is wade in the water day? Yeah.

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01:22:51,000 --> 01:22:53,760
Speaker 1: This dude would do the diversions of it. That was

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01:22:53,880 --> 01:22:57,759
Speaker 1: so so cold. Man. Yeah, he was such a talent.

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01:22:58,200 --> 01:23:04,720
Speaker 1: My mother loved Ramsey Littles growing up in Chicago. Whoo Lewis. Yeah,

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01:23:05,120 --> 01:23:07,640
Speaker 1: you had a radio show too, uh huh he was.

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01:23:07,840 --> 01:23:13,280
Speaker 1: He was greatness, greatness. There we go. N I got it, Yes, sir.

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Speaker 1: Who man, you don't know the times we had with

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01:23:21,400 --> 01:23:29,880
Speaker 1: that whole Oh yeah, I remember. Oh man, let me

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01:23:29,920 --> 01:23:31,840
Speaker 1: tell you something. Man, we would pull our cars up

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01:23:31,920 --> 01:23:36,080
Speaker 1: at the park in college and everybody would tune into

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01:23:36,160 --> 01:23:40,479
Speaker 1: the same station, opening car doors. Yes, I mean you

1270
01:23:40,520 --> 01:23:43,400
Speaker 1: know that's all we had back then. I'm pretty Why

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01:23:43,400 --> 01:23:47,000
Speaker 1: don't y'all had y'all boom box? Wasn't no damn boom box?

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01:23:48,439 --> 01:23:51,960
Speaker 1: Why don't you have your bluetooth speaker? Excuse me? We

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01:23:52,160 --> 01:23:55,160
Speaker 1: made it work though. We made it work. Open all

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01:23:55,280 --> 01:23:58,360
Speaker 1: your car doors, everybody get on the same radio station

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01:23:58,600 --> 01:24:05,920
Speaker 1: and cut it up at Yes, his music lives on.

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01:24:06,120 --> 01:24:09,519
Speaker 1: We will miss Ramsey Lewis. Also Steve Condolens is going

1277
01:24:09,560 --> 01:24:13,519
Speaker 1: out to the family of singer Jesse Powell. H Jesse

1278
01:24:13,800 --> 01:24:18,240
Speaker 1: just turned fifty one on Monday. He passed away on Tuesday.

1279
01:24:18,520 --> 01:24:22,479
Speaker 1: His sisters Trina and Tamara Um made the announcement on

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01:24:22,600 --> 01:24:26,519
Speaker 1: social media. His song for you, Jesse Powell's song for

1281
01:24:26,720 --> 01:24:31,000
Speaker 1: you was you Yeah, you you you right? What was

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01:24:31,120 --> 01:24:34,839
Speaker 1: the wedding song? It was the wedding song of the nineties.

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01:24:34,960 --> 01:24:37,519
Speaker 1: No one got married in the ninth Yes, anybody got

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01:24:37,600 --> 01:24:41,000
Speaker 1: married in the late nineties. Yes, that was their song.

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01:24:41,600 --> 01:24:46,080
Speaker 1: Absolutely beautiful voice that was Oh that was a singing

1286
01:24:46,160 --> 01:24:50,000
Speaker 1: family right there. Jesse Powell had an incredible voice. Yes,

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01:24:50,120 --> 01:24:54,960
Speaker 1: he will be missed as well. Whom I know, you know,

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01:24:55,120 --> 01:24:59,720
Speaker 1: I think. Look, death is a part of life, right, yes,

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01:25:00,760 --> 01:25:04,400
Speaker 1: but it doesn't change the difficulty of it. Yeah, the

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01:25:07,120 --> 01:25:11,880
Speaker 1: timing of it, all of it. The part about death

1291
01:25:12,840 --> 01:25:16,479
Speaker 1: is we all know it's coming, it's inevitable, but the

1292
01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:20,840
Speaker 1: timing is never right. I ain't ever seen it hit

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01:25:20,960 --> 01:25:24,839
Speaker 1: at the right time. Because even if you know somebody

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01:25:25,080 --> 01:25:32,439
Speaker 1: is ill, the news of their demise, it's crazy. We

1295
01:25:32,680 --> 01:25:37,920
Speaker 1: always hold out the hope and the faith that they'll

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01:25:38,000 --> 01:25:41,479
Speaker 1: be all right, even if you know they're sick. So

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01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:46,200
Speaker 1: the timing of the death always comes with a measure

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01:25:46,240 --> 01:25:52,080
Speaker 1: of pain, and it's an undescribable pain. So all we

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01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:54,080
Speaker 1: can do is live the best life we can to

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01:25:54,200 --> 01:25:57,479
Speaker 1: prepare for the day that is our turns. And man,

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01:25:57,800 --> 01:26:01,840
Speaker 1: that's that's not a pleasant this. So we all boys

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01:26:01,880 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 1: get there. Hey, listen, that's the show for today. Listen

1303
01:26:04,920 --> 01:26:07,280
Speaker 1: to everybody talk to God. I'm pretty sure he would

1304
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:10,479
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