1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:01,800 Speaker 1: Today show is pre recorded. 2 00:00:04,200 --> 00:00:10,360 Speaker 2: Y'all know what time y'all don't know y'all at all? 3 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:26,560 Speaker 3: Soon give them a million bus busy? Yeah listening to 4 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:49,879 Speaker 3: to I don't joy? 5 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:50,200 Speaker 4: Yeah? 6 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 3: Joy? You know you. 7 00:01:06,440 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 5: Love? 8 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:28,880 Speaker 6: You gotta turn. 9 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 3: I can't. 10 00:01:40,959 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 1: Got to turn the mouth turn. 11 00:01:43,160 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 7: You probably got to turn mouth turn, turn a wad 12 00:01:47,400 --> 00:01:48,640 Speaker 7: of the moat up. 13 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 6: Look me, come. 14 00:01:58,400 --> 00:01:59,920 Speaker 8: Come out, you're thinking. 15 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 9: Uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody. You're listening 16 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:08,399 Speaker 9: to the voice, Come on dig me now. 17 00:02:08,680 --> 00:02:09,640 Speaker 8: One and only. 18 00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:16,679 Speaker 9: Steve Harvey got this radio show. Man, How I got here? 19 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 9: I really can't explain it. Only by the grace of God, 20 00:02:20,639 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 9: That's all I can really tell you. I was talking 21 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 9: with a buddy the other day and he was telling me. 22 00:02:27,720 --> 00:02:30,600 Speaker 9: He said, Man, he had an interesting philosophy about it. 23 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:32,320 Speaker 8: He say. 24 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,760 Speaker 9: You know, you can have dreams and visions, he say, 25 00:02:34,840 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 9: but God, God will never show you what all he 26 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,680 Speaker 9: has for you. He won't show you all of it 27 00:02:45,600 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 9: because he knows you'll mess it up. And you know what, man, 28 00:02:50,480 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 9: I thought about that, and wow, how true is that? 29 00:02:54,880 --> 00:02:55,280 Speaker 8: Okay? 30 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:00,320 Speaker 9: I know that I got a radio show. I didn't 31 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:03,240 Speaker 9: see it. It's just become this major blessing for me. 32 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:06,799 Speaker 9: I didn't see it. But if I would have seen 33 00:03:06,840 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 9: it and known when he had planned on giving it 34 00:03:10,520 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 9: to me, I would have messed it up because Number one, 35 00:03:14,560 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 9: my first question would have been to him, why I 36 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:20,840 Speaker 9: got to wait so long? Why don't I go down 37 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 9: hill and start on the radio now? And then I'll 38 00:03:25,400 --> 00:03:28,880 Speaker 9: be in radio and then TYD, I see there God. 39 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,960 Speaker 9: But see the thing about God is God don't need 40 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 9: your help. Matter of fact, he don't really want it. 41 00:03:36,080 --> 00:03:39,120 Speaker 9: All he wants is you to love him and obey 42 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 9: if you can do them two things. I think I 43 00:03:42,440 --> 00:03:45,440 Speaker 9: could be wrong. I think he'd be really cool with us. 44 00:03:46,200 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 8: So had I known. 45 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:51,880 Speaker 9: About these blessings that he had for me, I would 46 00:03:51,920 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 9: have messed him up because I would have put my 47 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:57,240 Speaker 9: thinking in the figuring process, and that would ejected it 48 00:03:57,360 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 9: all up. That's the first thing I have why I 49 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 9: got away so long. And then if he'd shown me 50 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:05,920 Speaker 9: what I was gonna have to do to get it, 51 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,680 Speaker 9: I would have showed messed that up. Man, I ain't 52 00:04:08,720 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 9: finna do that. I ain't finna do all of that. 53 00:04:12,240 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 9: Wait a minute, I got to go through all of 54 00:04:14,320 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 9: these mishaps in my life. So when I get the 55 00:04:17,320 --> 00:04:22,360 Speaker 9: radio show I have something to share. Man, why won't 56 00:04:22,400 --> 00:04:25,000 Speaker 9: I just read a couple books and share that experience 57 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 9: with them? 58 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 8: Now? 59 00:04:26,520 --> 00:04:29,120 Speaker 9: See, I want you to know what you're talking about. 60 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 9: I want you to be transparent. I want people to 61 00:04:33,560 --> 00:04:36,479 Speaker 9: be able to identify with your struggle and apply they 62 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,800 Speaker 9: struggle to it and see that they can get over. 63 00:04:39,880 --> 00:04:40,320 Speaker 8: See. 64 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:43,440 Speaker 9: God never shows you all of it because he know 65 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 9: we'll mess it up. 66 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 8: I wouldn't have. 67 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 9: Any books, I certainly please know, I would not be 68 00:04:49,600 --> 00:04:50,599 Speaker 9: the host of family Feld. 69 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 8: Can I tell you that. 70 00:04:53,880 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 9: It is amazing man, how God works, and my invitation 71 00:04:58,640 --> 00:05:03,400 Speaker 9: to everybody today is allowed God to work. You know, 72 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,240 Speaker 9: you can ask him why all you want to, and 73 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:08,880 Speaker 9: from time to time I still do no good for me. 74 00:05:09,000 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 8: But that'll me old woe is me? Lord? Thing that 75 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:12,680 Speaker 8: don't really get it for me? 76 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:16,920 Speaker 9: Because when I start asking him why, I'm asking somebody 77 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:20,360 Speaker 9: who has a thought process so high above mind that 78 00:05:20,360 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 9: there's no way if he told it to me, I 79 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:25,240 Speaker 9: wouldn't even get it. You wouldn't either, Uncle, I'll bright 80 00:05:25,320 --> 00:05:27,560 Speaker 9: you think you are. Man, You just ain't gonna get 81 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 9: how and why he does it his way. You're not 82 00:05:30,160 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 9: going to understand it. But he has a plan for 83 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,279 Speaker 9: each and every one of us. And if we adhere 84 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:39,200 Speaker 9: to the plan, if we submit ourself to his will 85 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:41,480 Speaker 9: and just say, okay, God, what you want me to do. 86 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:44,080 Speaker 9: I am telling you it is the best way to live. 87 00:05:45,279 --> 00:05:45,559 Speaker 8: Now. 88 00:05:46,360 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 9: You can also do it the way I did it 89 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:51,760 Speaker 9: early on. You can just do what you want to 90 00:05:51,800 --> 00:05:54,359 Speaker 9: do and see how it go from now. And I 91 00:05:54,360 --> 00:05:57,680 Speaker 9: will tell you from personal experience it's not going to 92 00:05:57,800 --> 00:06:02,120 Speaker 9: go good. My wife and I were talking the other 93 00:06:02,200 --> 00:06:04,680 Speaker 9: day and she said something with me, and I had 94 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,240 Speaker 9: to write it down. She says, Steve, you know the 95 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:11,240 Speaker 9: funny thing about sin. She says, sining costs you more 96 00:06:11,279 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 9: than you want to pay and causes you to stay 97 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:19,760 Speaker 9: longer than you want to stay. I asked my wife 98 00:06:19,760 --> 00:06:22,120 Speaker 9: where she got that from. She says, some old person 99 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:25,200 Speaker 9: told it to her. She says, sining cost you more 100 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 9: than you want to pay and causes you to stay 101 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:31,320 Speaker 9: longer than you want to stay. That's the problem, man, 102 00:06:31,360 --> 00:06:33,960 Speaker 9: about doing what you want to do. Because we are 103 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:37,040 Speaker 9: all sinners, man, all of us, all of us, every 104 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:39,039 Speaker 9: last one of us a sinners. You will be a 105 00:06:39,080 --> 00:06:42,360 Speaker 9: sinner until you die. Now, you could be saved by grace, 106 00:06:43,160 --> 00:06:45,560 Speaker 9: but You're going to be a sinner man. You are 107 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:49,680 Speaker 9: going to make mistakes. You are going to in your 108 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:54,320 Speaker 9: life knowingly do wrong. I bet you will. I don't 109 00:06:54,360 --> 00:06:56,279 Speaker 9: know who you think you are. I don't know who 110 00:06:56,320 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 9: you've been listening to. But get this, we are sinners. 111 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:05,000 Speaker 9: We were born into a world that is sinful. Now 112 00:07:05,080 --> 00:07:09,120 Speaker 9: it's okay, it's okay, it's our world. But we can 113 00:07:09,160 --> 00:07:10,960 Speaker 9: make the best of it because we can form a 114 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 9: relationship with God and we can go to war with 115 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 9: this thing, you know, and we can win. You can 116 00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 9: actually get over. Being born into this world is not 117 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 9: an end all. It doesn't mean you're doomed, nah man, 118 00:07:25,320 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 9: because God is available to give you life, and not 119 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,000 Speaker 9: only give you life, but give it to you more abundantly. 120 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,440 Speaker 9: I have more of an abundant life than I've ever had. 121 00:07:35,760 --> 00:07:39,120 Speaker 8: If you took away the finances, trust. 122 00:07:38,760 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 9: And believe, I have so many things I could tell 123 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 9: you that I'm grateful for. For my wife, for my children, man, 124 00:07:47,440 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 9: for my family, for the few friends that I have, 125 00:07:52,320 --> 00:07:56,160 Speaker 9: for the work that I do, man for the respect 126 00:07:56,200 --> 00:07:59,320 Speaker 9: that some people that I feel around some people from 127 00:07:59,360 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 9: the reputation I've earned. Now I ain't cool with everybody. 128 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:03,600 Speaker 8: I got that. 129 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 9: I ain't cool with everybody. Everybody ain't cool with me. 130 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:10,760 Speaker 9: Everybody don't like me. Man, get past that right there. 131 00:08:11,560 --> 00:08:13,880 Speaker 9: I don't care what you do. Everybody are gonna like you. 132 00:08:14,040 --> 00:08:16,160 Speaker 9: Some people didn't like Jesus. What did he do? 133 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:21,239 Speaker 8: What did he do wrong to anybody? 134 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 9: Show it to me where he was just out there 135 00:08:25,080 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 9: just messing over folks, and you could justify all that 136 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 9: happened to him. 137 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,720 Speaker 8: Just show it to me. But he knew everybody ain't 138 00:08:32,720 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 8: gonna like me. I just come to save y'all, understand. 139 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:38,080 Speaker 8: I got you. 140 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 9: Ain't feeling me. You're gonna spit on me. You're gonna 141 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,200 Speaker 9: hang me up there, You're gonna pierce my side. You're 142 00:08:43,200 --> 00:08:45,800 Speaker 9: gonna do all that to me. When you get through, 143 00:08:45,840 --> 00:08:49,680 Speaker 9: I still love you. That's a powerful statement. Man, God 144 00:08:49,720 --> 00:08:53,359 Speaker 9: will take care of you if you form this relationship 145 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 9: with him. He has something for you. He has a 146 00:08:57,240 --> 00:09:00,840 Speaker 9: plan for you that is beyond your imagine that. He 147 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,560 Speaker 9: will give you the desires of your heart. But he 148 00:09:03,679 --> 00:09:06,040 Speaker 9: also has some stuff in store for you that you're 149 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 9: not even asking for. That he is willing to ship 150 00:09:10,440 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 9: to an address that belongs to you as long as 151 00:09:14,800 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 9: you stay on the right path and are trying your best. 152 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:21,760 Speaker 9: God to ship you the blessing anyway, because please know 153 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:24,080 Speaker 9: He's done it to me. I'm a living witness to this, 154 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,880 Speaker 9: that God will ship you blessings and you ain't gonna 155 00:09:26,920 --> 00:09:29,719 Speaker 9: be perfect. But if He know your heart, man, if 156 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 9: he know you trying to do better, if he see 157 00:09:32,200 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 9: you trying to change, if he see you trying to 158 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:38,440 Speaker 9: get it right, he understands that you're gonna stumble all 159 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 9: the way through this thing. But if he know your 160 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,320 Speaker 9: heart and he know you trying to get it right, 161 00:09:44,800 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 9: and you're doing the best you can, board here, ship 162 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 9: some stuff your way. Man, you really be tripping, man, 163 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:55,160 Speaker 9: you will really be tripping. Steve Harvey got a radio show. 164 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 8: Man. It's crazy, ain't it. 165 00:09:57,080 --> 00:09:59,559 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 166 00:10:03,800 --> 00:10:04,680 Speaker 8: Ladies and gentlemen. 167 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 9: You know what, I think I've said it before, but 168 00:10:09,120 --> 00:10:13,720 Speaker 9: I think it's time to say it again. He let 169 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 9: me clear my thoat. 170 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:26,520 Speaker 8: He has done it again. That God I serve that God. 171 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:30,880 Speaker 9: We know that God above has done it again, presented 172 00:10:30,960 --> 00:10:34,840 Speaker 9: us with the brand new opportunity another day, another chance, 173 00:10:35,640 --> 00:10:39,720 Speaker 9: another glorious time that we've never had before. This is 174 00:10:39,760 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 9: what makes now so great. You've never been right here before. 175 00:10:44,480 --> 00:10:47,000 Speaker 9: And man, God, let us have this again. Man Ain't 176 00:10:47,040 --> 00:10:47,480 Speaker 9: God good? 177 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:47,760 Speaker 5: Yeah? 178 00:10:47,960 --> 00:10:49,120 Speaker 8: Is how good? 179 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:49,600 Speaker 10: Is God? 180 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 9: All the time? All the timperence all the time. Yeah, 181 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 9: we are here this morning the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 182 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 9: Junior's out the day, So let's get it started. Shirley 183 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:04,640 Speaker 9: Strawberry calling forrail the mouth of the South, straight out 184 00:11:04,679 --> 00:11:07,480 Speaker 9: the silk. I had a family on a family feud 185 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 9: the other day from Mississippi. Really, Lord, have mercy. When 186 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 9: I tell you the country I'm talking about, you could 187 00:11:16,559 --> 00:11:20,240 Speaker 9: tell they had ate most of their meals out of 188 00:11:20,320 --> 00:11:28,640 Speaker 9: a bucket when I mean boocket fair country. The two dudes. 189 00:11:28,679 --> 00:11:32,960 Speaker 9: The women were fine, they were really nice, pleasant, crazy, 190 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:37,360 Speaker 9: But the two dudes, they just ran out of family members. Man, 191 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:40,640 Speaker 9: I know these dudes had to be alternates. And these dudes. 192 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: Was this country. 193 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 11: You're saying that wasn't the family's first choice. 194 00:11:46,480 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 8: I knew it wasn't. 195 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 9: Because when she was introducing them, she rolled her eyes. Nephew, 196 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 9: tell me, yeah, it was interesting to man, it was 197 00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,199 Speaker 9: so matter. I had a ball with them two dudes 198 00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:04,959 Speaker 9: right there. Oh, ball was just talking country too, were 199 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 9: talking about cat fishing and fast fishing. 200 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,680 Speaker 8: It they hunted. 201 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,440 Speaker 9: Man, we had to take we we really had to 202 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 9: take out most of what they said. Oh wow, I 203 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,439 Speaker 9: mean but you know, just regular country though. Hey, Steve, 204 00:12:18,480 --> 00:12:20,640 Speaker 9: ain't nothing wrong with we killed the and what we 205 00:12:20,679 --> 00:12:21,520 Speaker 9: do we kill? 206 00:12:21,600 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 10: It? 207 00:12:22,480 --> 00:12:27,840 Speaker 9: Was it English, some god to die for us to survive. Okay, 208 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:30,960 Speaker 9: all these hunting stuff. 209 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:36,440 Speaker 1: Food animals. Okay, all right, we've learned a lot this morning. 210 00:12:37,240 --> 00:12:41,520 Speaker 9: Already really didn't but it was just, you know, fascinating 211 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:42,599 Speaker 9: thing to go buy it. 212 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,400 Speaker 8: So I just hey, so did Steve alo? How's everybody 213 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:46,920 Speaker 8: doing today? Just asking a question? 214 00:12:47,840 --> 00:12:48,720 Speaker 1: Good everybody? 215 00:12:48,760 --> 00:12:50,040 Speaker 12: Good? 216 00:12:49,120 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 8: Good? Had your weekend going and everything? Yeah? 217 00:12:52,840 --> 00:12:54,080 Speaker 1: Memorial Day weekend? 218 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 11: Busy, graduation parties and chilling and. 219 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, barbecue. 220 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:06,480 Speaker 13: What have you have you eaten eating? 221 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:07,560 Speaker 8: Yeah? 222 00:13:07,720 --> 00:13:08,439 Speaker 1: You know it's going on. 223 00:13:08,760 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 9: God and plunging and well, you know, I plunged this morning. 224 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 9: The Cold Plunge Report would be on first commercial break, 225 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,240 Speaker 9: but no other. 226 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,040 Speaker 1: Than that commercial. 227 00:13:19,240 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 9: Yeah, you're gonna hear their commercial break and you're gonna 228 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 9: like it too. It's what you're gonna do, mister Brail. 229 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:29,640 Speaker 9: You're not gonna sit up here, yes, sir, to do this. 230 00:13:29,720 --> 00:13:33,280 Speaker 9: I won't credit. It's disciplining myself and doing this here. 231 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:38,480 Speaker 1: All right, thank you. You see what kind of morning 232 00:13:38,520 --> 00:13:40,600 Speaker 1: this is gonna be coming up at thirty two minutes 233 00:13:40,640 --> 00:13:44,320 Speaker 1: after the hour. It's Monday church complaints on the way 234 00:13:44,480 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening hard morning show. It is Monday, 235 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,440 Speaker 1: so you know what that means. It is time now 236 00:13:56,960 --> 00:14:01,080 Speaker 1: for church complaints from Reverend Motown and Deacon death Jam. 237 00:14:01,320 --> 00:14:02,080 Speaker 1: Here we go. 238 00:14:03,360 --> 00:14:14,559 Speaker 8: We all gather most fodiciously. 239 00:14:11,920 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 9: And we remicate m H for the times that we 240 00:14:18,440 --> 00:14:29,000 Speaker 9: are diassisting in this arbitrary thing called life dios. 241 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 8: We are now. 242 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 9: Partiphilating that the momentaryism. 243 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 8: Yeah of gaptology. We begin to teach us the mineralization 244 00:14:46,040 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 8: muh of constipation. 245 00:14:49,400 --> 00:14:55,840 Speaker 9: What we stay Stay with me now, come on, Deacon 246 00:14:58,120 --> 00:15:04,440 Speaker 9: on Miller for yourself and yeah yeah let him use 247 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:07,280 Speaker 9: you get him music? All right? 248 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 5: All right, maaster, we got to issue the Some of 249 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:14,360 Speaker 5: ten of the church members went down there the Golden 250 00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:17,800 Speaker 5: Kara after church on Sunday. They are still in there 251 00:15:17,800 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 5: trying to split the check ten different ways. Now since 252 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 5: the early ages, they she's not paying for nobody else's food. 253 00:15:23,640 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 5: Should we go down there and take care of this 254 00:15:25,880 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 5: if they didn't spend the night in golden career, I 255 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 5: don't know. 256 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 9: I have told them to stop going down there with 257 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:35,280 Speaker 9: brother Rashan. 258 00:15:36,320 --> 00:15:39,080 Speaker 8: Because that is his favorite place. 259 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:44,960 Speaker 9: Yeah, and he insists on splitting chicks. Why he would 260 00:15:45,000 --> 00:15:48,880 Speaker 9: invite everyone and then do that to him when we 261 00:15:48,920 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 9: do this every year every year with him. They got 262 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 9: the best bread, They got the best bred. Well, they 263 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 9: don't have the best bread. Olive Garden got the best 264 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 9: bread all right. Now in second place is red lost 265 00:16:03,800 --> 00:16:09,960 Speaker 9: with that chee bread this got am and third place 266 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 9: is shown with that Texas tones. 267 00:16:15,320 --> 00:16:18,280 Speaker 8: You know now you know your bread? You know your bread? 268 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:20,920 Speaker 4: Yes? 269 00:16:21,040 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 8: Sor I'm trying to tell you now now you touch 270 00:16:24,360 --> 00:16:24,840 Speaker 8: me right now? 271 00:16:24,960 --> 00:16:30,440 Speaker 9: And one of my all time favorite sandwiches Dennies. 272 00:16:30,720 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 5: Lord man moons over, my heavy. 273 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:41,240 Speaker 9: Lord, take me back, Take me back, dear Lord, to 274 00:16:41,400 --> 00:16:46,240 Speaker 9: a place that I wants me. Oh Holley, all right 275 00:16:46,360 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 9: past that. We got an issue here. 276 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:51,720 Speaker 5: We need to have a receding hairline meeting with a 277 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,640 Speaker 5: few of these gentlemen. We got uh, three of them 278 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 5: are out of control now. Brother Simon has one coin 279 00:16:59,360 --> 00:17:01,720 Speaker 5: roll that goes from the center of his head back 280 00:17:01,760 --> 00:17:05,879 Speaker 5: to the back of his head. Brother cardinil Ya just 281 00:17:05,880 --> 00:17:09,800 Speaker 5: got some curls around the side. And last but not lea, 282 00:17:09,960 --> 00:17:12,480 Speaker 5: Brother Junior keep wearing hats in the Saint guation. 283 00:17:12,560 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: They're gonna have to talk to these three backs, waite. 284 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,120 Speaker 8: He just keep wearing hand over. 285 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:21,000 Speaker 9: I'm glad you brought that up because we had talked 286 00:17:21,040 --> 00:17:24,600 Speaker 9: to all these people, including brother Kill. As a matter 287 00:17:24,640 --> 00:17:27,960 Speaker 9: of fact, I had asked brother Kill for one of 288 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 9: the hats. The hat was such an attractive hat, yeah, 289 00:17:32,800 --> 00:17:33,720 Speaker 9: and he said. 290 00:17:33,480 --> 00:17:36,040 Speaker 8: He sent it to me. But I've noticed on zoom 291 00:17:36,200 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 8: he's not wearing it anymore, and I'm starting to think 292 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,080 Speaker 8: he may have sent me his hat. 293 00:17:42,800 --> 00:17:43,040 Speaker 4: Yeah. 294 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,400 Speaker 5: Well, you know it's gonna be drying the front. It's 295 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,400 Speaker 5: gonna have all in the back. That's where it hat. 296 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:52,120 Speaker 12: That's how he goes. 297 00:17:52,760 --> 00:17:56,760 Speaker 8: Are you saying, Deacon that there will be no sweat 298 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 8: on the sweat. 299 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:02,560 Speaker 5: Band only in the completely dry in the front path 300 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:04,320 Speaker 5: splay just straight all in the. 301 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 9: Back, but his hair all starch though at the button 302 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 9: at the top of the hat. 303 00:18:10,200 --> 00:18:22,080 Speaker 8: Hot right, oh Lord, moving right along here, we got 304 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:22,800 Speaker 8: an issue here. 305 00:18:22,840 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 5: They some folks seed our help now, Sister uh, let's 306 00:18:26,840 --> 00:18:30,480 Speaker 5: see Sister Reavera Bailey and brother Norris Baby. 307 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 8: Now they bought a double. 308 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:33,000 Speaker 12: Wide trailer home. 309 00:18:33,720 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 5: And as you know, when they delivered these homes, they 310 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:38,840 Speaker 5: bring them in half and then they put them together. 311 00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 5: When they all get on the property where they brought 312 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:44,200 Speaker 5: their first half on the truck, the second half was 313 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:48,200 Speaker 5: in an accident and got completely total. So now they 314 00:18:48,200 --> 00:18:49,680 Speaker 5: don't have no kitchen and. 315 00:18:49,680 --> 00:18:50,600 Speaker 8: No living room. 316 00:18:51,200 --> 00:18:53,720 Speaker 5: The house is wide old, and they need food. They 317 00:18:53,720 --> 00:18:56,000 Speaker 5: need plastic so they can come up because it's just 318 00:18:56,240 --> 00:18:59,000 Speaker 5: water raining right on in there. They just I don't 319 00:18:59,040 --> 00:19:02,400 Speaker 5: know what to do. They got half a double wide bath. Yeah, 320 00:19:02,440 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 5: I don't don't know what to do either. I don't 321 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:09,280 Speaker 5: don't use it. Yeah, he ain't gonna need some. 322 00:19:09,240 --> 00:19:13,960 Speaker 9: Of either either top or we can collect all the 323 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,159 Speaker 9: cleaning bags from the dry cleaners at the church and 324 00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:20,880 Speaker 9: dump tape them together and give them a slight. 325 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 8: Relief for that. 326 00:19:23,119 --> 00:19:23,359 Speaker 10: All. 327 00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 9: All we can have a brother Reynard nim pulled they 328 00:19:29,240 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 9: have under a tree. 329 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 8: And that'll provide some shelter at limber shade. Yeah, they 330 00:19:38,320 --> 00:19:43,399 Speaker 8: might have to do that. All you can use a. 331 00:19:43,680 --> 00:19:46,520 Speaker 9: Brother big boys pit bulls and just tie them up 332 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 9: outside the open half of the house and keep everybody 333 00:19:50,160 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 9: out that's coming in the steal big Boy from you 334 00:19:54,440 --> 00:20:00,960 Speaker 9: know he has pit bulls. And oh, by the way, 335 00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:05,240 Speaker 9: big Boy has a wonderful celebrity trailer business down in 336 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:06,520 Speaker 9: Hot Lanter. 337 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:08,800 Speaker 8: You might want to call him. 338 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:15,840 Speaker 9: I'll be using some of his this weekend for the revivals. Alright, 339 00:20:16,040 --> 00:20:20,120 Speaker 9: all right, or before we go or we don't normally 340 00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 9: Cold Clo complaints out this way, but I want to 341 00:20:23,760 --> 00:20:25,680 Speaker 9: just say the brother, Junior. 342 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,200 Speaker 8: Deacon and I have been. 343 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 9: Discussing this, and well there's three of us on the show, 344 00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,800 Speaker 9: and we voted to the one. 345 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:38,600 Speaker 8: That is time for you. 346 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: Come on. 347 00:20:41,400 --> 00:20:52,280 Speaker 8: And walk to the light side. All right, Doc River, 348 00:20:55,840 --> 00:20:57,240 Speaker 8: go past, Doc Rivers. 349 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:00,199 Speaker 1: It is asked the Celo, our chief love of Sir 350 00:21:00,280 --> 00:21:03,520 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey in the building, ready for your love questions. 351 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 8: Right after this it is Steve Harbin Martin show Man. 352 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,200 Speaker 12: You too old to be in the strip club? 353 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:09,879 Speaker 8: Time you like? 354 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 13: Is that your daddy over. 355 00:21:10,920 --> 00:21:14,639 Speaker 5: There does not have an age limit. Don't do that, 356 00:21:14,760 --> 00:21:16,320 Speaker 5: don't don't you over here? 357 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,879 Speaker 1: Let us daddy mister Miles. 358 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,480 Speaker 8: It really does have as. 359 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,040 Speaker 1: By the time you get to the stage, her dance 360 00:21:25,119 --> 00:21:25,399 Speaker 1: over with. 361 00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:30,239 Speaker 8: You can lean over and tuck the money in. You 362 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:34,480 Speaker 8: don't need to show coming up right after. 363 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:42,600 Speaker 1: It is time to ask the c l O. This 364 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,680 Speaker 1: is from Mandy and Ypsilante, who writes, I'm thirty six 365 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:49,520 Speaker 1: years old and I've been married for one year, and 366 00:21:49,640 --> 00:21:53,560 Speaker 1: my husband still has an active social life without me. 367 00:21:54,200 --> 00:21:56,600 Speaker 1: If he's going out, he gets dressed and then tells 368 00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:59,760 Speaker 1: me he's leaving, or he'll text me if he's staying. 369 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:03,600 Speaker 1: Should he be asking me or telling me? 370 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:08,359 Speaker 9: Well, see, I don't know what arrangement y'all have, but 371 00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 9: that ain't the one I got. Because I'm gonna just 372 00:22:11,119 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 9: be honest with you. Me and Tommy can't gonna know. Well, 373 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:19,200 Speaker 9: I'm talking about if I leave, I'm going to the store. Yeah, 374 00:22:19,240 --> 00:22:21,080 Speaker 9: I go to work, But then I got to kiss 375 00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,159 Speaker 9: her before I leave for work and let her know 376 00:22:23,200 --> 00:22:25,080 Speaker 9: I'm leaving. I did that one time. I just got 377 00:22:25,119 --> 00:22:27,959 Speaker 9: in the car left. She said, did you forget something? 378 00:22:28,520 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 9: I went No, I got my wallet, I got all 379 00:22:32,119 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 9: my kids and everything. She said, have you lost your 380 00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:39,639 Speaker 9: ever loving mind? She said, Steve Harvey, you're supposed to 381 00:22:39,640 --> 00:22:42,440 Speaker 9: give me a kiss before you leave because we don't 382 00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 9: know what's gonna happen. 383 00:22:45,000 --> 00:22:46,800 Speaker 8: I said, all right, baby, I got that. She said, 384 00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 8: you got what I said? I got it? 385 00:22:48,600 --> 00:22:48,800 Speaker 4: Baby. 386 00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:49,840 Speaker 8: It never happened again. 387 00:22:49,960 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 9: She said, why are you? I said, I'm in the car. 388 00:22:53,320 --> 00:22:55,919 Speaker 9: She said where. I said about up at the corner. 389 00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:59,880 Speaker 9: She said, okay, I should have went on back. 390 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:02,000 Speaker 1: Oh you didn't go back. 391 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:05,600 Speaker 8: No, I said. 392 00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:07,680 Speaker 4: Late. 393 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:12,560 Speaker 9: Come on now, I'm running late. Well that cost me 394 00:23:12,600 --> 00:23:13,679 Speaker 9: for about two days. 395 00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:16,800 Speaker 1: I should have gone back. 396 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 9: On that night in bed, I rolled over and was 397 00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 9: touching and she said, gone, because I'm trying to get 398 00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 9: to sleep and you're gonna make me late. 399 00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:35,760 Speaker 1: Right, okay, yeah. Moving on to Kotaro in Las Vegas, 400 00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,640 Speaker 1: Kadaro says, hold on. 401 00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:40,639 Speaker 9: Hold on, just to answer the question, I don't know 402 00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:43,600 Speaker 9: what y'all doing, because that ain't how manage work. 403 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 8: So I'm sorry to not answer your question. 404 00:23:46,480 --> 00:23:49,000 Speaker 9: But I have no idea what you're talking about, because 405 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:53,320 Speaker 9: there's no way I'm getting dressed to go out to 406 00:23:53,440 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 9: an active social life and tell my wife I'm going out. 407 00:23:58,800 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 13: Are we're talking about you? 408 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:04,159 Speaker 8: You're one? What did you sign up for? 409 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:09,919 Speaker 1: I was glue. He don't want it. He gets dressed 410 00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:13,199 Speaker 1: and tell I'm going out or active socialite? 411 00:24:13,240 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 9: No, I don't even know what that means. I'm going 412 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:21,440 Speaker 9: I really ain't got yet. If no more, I actively 413 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 9: can came out to work. 414 00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:25,320 Speaker 8: Go ahead. 415 00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 1: When we got on to Kadero in Las Vegas, Kadaro says, 416 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,239 Speaker 1: I'm in a long distance relationship and my girlfriend is 417 00:24:32,240 --> 00:24:35,000 Speaker 1: coming to see me for my birthday next weekend. She 418 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,119 Speaker 1: is bringing two friends, and I asked if they were pretty. 419 00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: I asked for my homeboys, but my girl took it 420 00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,760 Speaker 1: the wrong way. Why is she so mad? 421 00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:48,760 Speaker 9: Well see that that don't make no sense. 422 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:49,680 Speaker 14: Are they fun? 423 00:24:49,800 --> 00:24:53,000 Speaker 9: Because that's what you're gonna say. I'm bringing two girlfriends. 424 00:24:53,000 --> 00:24:53,959 Speaker 9: Well are they pretty? 425 00:24:54,960 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 8: What you mean? Are they pretty? 426 00:24:58,440 --> 00:24:59,040 Speaker 13: My boys? 427 00:24:59,240 --> 00:25:03,040 Speaker 9: I've gotta tell a something because if they coming, you know, 428 00:25:03,080 --> 00:25:05,520 Speaker 9: we can all go out together. But their da ain't pretty? 429 00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:08,919 Speaker 9: Why they got to be pretty? Because they got to 430 00:25:08,960 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 9: be pretty? My boy wody won't take your friends know where? 431 00:25:15,160 --> 00:25:17,720 Speaker 9: Wait a minute, Wait a minute. Why isn't my friends ugly? 432 00:25:18,119 --> 00:25:20,639 Speaker 9: I don't know. I don't know your friends. I just 433 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 9: asked you was they pretty? But why you need to 434 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:26,720 Speaker 9: know if they pretty? Because I got to tell Gerald Neill? 435 00:25:29,080 --> 00:25:30,240 Speaker 13: But Gerald ain't pretty. 436 00:25:30,400 --> 00:25:31,959 Speaker 8: Maybe child ain't got to be pretty. 437 00:25:32,320 --> 00:25:33,399 Speaker 14: He likes pretty women. 438 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:35,679 Speaker 8: Jerld got money. 439 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:42,600 Speaker 9: Oh now, yeah, she mad because it's just I don't know, man, 440 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:45,080 Speaker 9: And you know it's crazy. These see a lot questions. 441 00:25:46,160 --> 00:25:50,560 Speaker 9: They're mad because they can do that though. They just mad, right, 442 00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,680 Speaker 9: they get mad. You got to say wrong? Did he 443 00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,800 Speaker 9: even say his friends? He just asked and they was pretty? Yeah, 444 00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 9: he just asked for. 445 00:25:57,760 --> 00:26:00,200 Speaker 14: He asked, yeah, if they were pretty? 446 00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:04,320 Speaker 8: Yeah? Right there. Well, now you go. You know you 447 00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:05,240 Speaker 8: have to preempt it. 448 00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,720 Speaker 9: So hey, like if they come to town, maybe I 449 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,080 Speaker 9: can get a couple of friends and we could all 450 00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 9: go out. 451 00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 8: And have a nice time. 452 00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 9: If you had to describe them, how would I describe 453 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:15,720 Speaker 9: them to your friends? 454 00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,080 Speaker 8: They are beautiful? Well, let me see a picture. They're beautiful, 455 00:26:19,280 --> 00:26:20,960 Speaker 8: because it's usually not the case. 456 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:27,760 Speaker 1: So so if you said you were bringing two guys 457 00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:30,439 Speaker 1: and your your wife said are they fine? 458 00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,440 Speaker 14: Are they handsome? You would be mad? 459 00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:32,800 Speaker 8: Right? 460 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:34,600 Speaker 4: What? 461 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:40,119 Speaker 8: Well, ain't none of my friends attractive? And she know 462 00:26:40,320 --> 00:26:44,879 Speaker 8: that seen all these you've seen all of them. You 463 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 8: already know it ain't none of them fine. 464 00:26:47,040 --> 00:26:49,680 Speaker 9: So you know we all matter of fact, we all 465 00:26:50,040 --> 00:26:52,240 Speaker 9: that's why we friends, because we sit together and we 466 00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:55,439 Speaker 9: enjoy each other's company because we know ain't nobody pretty 467 00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:58,800 Speaker 9: so sit there and laughing, you know. 468 00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:02,000 Speaker 1: I mean, do you ever hit them five to where. 469 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,280 Speaker 14: You never invite your nephew Steve? 470 00:27:08,640 --> 00:27:10,479 Speaker 8: Well, he gonna wear a row color, you know. 471 00:27:11,040 --> 00:27:13,120 Speaker 1: Oh okay, all right. 472 00:27:13,080 --> 00:27:13,719 Speaker 3: I got to come. 473 00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,399 Speaker 5: He got them cues at the I want to come 474 00:27:16,440 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 5: over that to day and just bust up in there 475 00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,159 Speaker 5: with Crimson and cream on and hang out with him 476 00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 5: the whole. 477 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 8: Anna, how that's gold? Go all right? 478 00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:30,399 Speaker 1: Moving on to uh Fantina and making Fantina says, my 479 00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,640 Speaker 1: boyfriend and I were out last night and his ex 480 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:35,760 Speaker 1: girlfriend was in the lounge too. When we were about 481 00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,159 Speaker 1: to leave, she came over and thanked him for the 482 00:27:38,200 --> 00:27:41,840 Speaker 1: two rounds of drinks he paid for. I was more 483 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,720 Speaker 1: hurt than mad. Why would he do that with me there? 484 00:27:45,359 --> 00:27:45,879 Speaker 8: God? 485 00:27:46,880 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 13: God what? 486 00:27:50,920 --> 00:27:52,800 Speaker 9: And she knew what she was doing when she came 487 00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,040 Speaker 9: on and said she came right over there because she 488 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:57,920 Speaker 9: knows she didn't know. 489 00:27:59,040 --> 00:28:02,439 Speaker 8: Just so you know, he paid for hour drinks. 490 00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 6: Good. 491 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:11,119 Speaker 9: He's just he's always been so thoughtful, you know, And 492 00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:13,280 Speaker 9: the fact that I just wanted to thank him because 493 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 9: I know that, you know, it's just good to have 494 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:19,000 Speaker 9: people who are considerate and think of you. 495 00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:19,240 Speaker 8: You know. 496 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 12: Yeah, do you know how long that? 497 00:28:23,080 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 8: What you should have did? Was you know what she 498 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:25,960 Speaker 8: should have did. 499 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,840 Speaker 9: She should have hauled off and suckle punched her dead 500 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:30,399 Speaker 9: in her. 501 00:28:29,800 --> 00:28:34,080 Speaker 1: Chest her Why not him? 502 00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:37,840 Speaker 8: No? Hell no for buying them drink. 503 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:39,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, for buying them. 504 00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 8: Hey, but let me tell you something. 505 00:28:41,160 --> 00:28:45,400 Speaker 9: You I can't take you if you only knew when 506 00:28:45,440 --> 00:28:47,880 Speaker 9: he saw her walking over there, boy, his head was 507 00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,480 Speaker 9: going a thousand miles a minute. 508 00:28:50,720 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 14: And you know her friends have told her not to go. Yeah, 509 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 14: for sure, let me go. 510 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: Thank him. 511 00:29:02,600 --> 00:29:04,840 Speaker 5: You'll be dry the next time I see, because he 512 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:07,640 Speaker 5: did that when he went to the bathroom. 513 00:29:07,960 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, not well, all right, all right, that's today's 514 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:15,400 Speaker 1: round of as the clo. 515 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 8: It'sters Steve Arbin martinshaw Man. 516 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:21,440 Speaker 9: I mean we've known each other long enough, man, We've 517 00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:28,920 Speaker 9: we've been around each other with children's successes, graduations, acceptance 518 00:29:29,000 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 9: in the college, marriages. 519 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,760 Speaker 8: He is being born graduated. Wait, Shureley, what did you say? 520 00:29:38,360 --> 00:29:38,800 Speaker 1: Divorce? 521 00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:46,320 Speaker 8: Oh divorces? Oh yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, don't leave that out. 522 00:29:47,480 --> 00:29:51,800 Speaker 9: Yeah. Me and you know who leading that group right there. 523 00:29:55,440 --> 00:29:59,960 Speaker 8: Is one? Well, I'm gonna lead you. What you ain't 524 00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 8: finna do is I'll do me. 525 00:30:02,760 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 9: You can ask that divorce. You ain't getting no divorce. 526 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:12,800 Speaker 9: I don't get going you. Oh, oh, you're gonna get 527 00:30:12,800 --> 00:30:13,680 Speaker 9: somebody new. 528 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,320 Speaker 8: Oh you finna get somebody new. I am. 529 00:30:17,600 --> 00:30:22,200 Speaker 1: You're not gonna be out done. No, what you're not 530 00:30:22,240 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 1: gonna do. 531 00:30:26,040 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 3: Up right after. 532 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:31,720 Speaker 12: Keeping it? 533 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,520 Speaker 1: One hundred questions from from Carla for the crew is uh, 534 00:30:35,720 --> 00:30:39,320 Speaker 1: have you prayed for the downfall of your X and Y? 535 00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 1: Have you prayed guys anybody for the downfall of your ex? 536 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:44,040 Speaker 10: No? 537 00:30:44,080 --> 00:30:47,200 Speaker 8: I ain't that better. I'm not that. 538 00:30:47,120 --> 00:30:54,840 Speaker 1: Guy allegedly allegedly, allegedly I prayed for the Lord to 539 00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 1: take you out of my life. 540 00:30:56,160 --> 00:30:57,080 Speaker 8: I prayed for that. 541 00:30:58,560 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: But you don't want anything bad. 542 00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,360 Speaker 15: I mean when I heard something bad about my ex, 543 00:31:02,480 --> 00:31:05,000 Speaker 15: I didn't really be upset about it, like what that 544 00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 15: happened to them? 545 00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 8: I didn't. 546 00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,920 Speaker 15: I wouldn't that I took it. 547 00:31:10,120 --> 00:31:11,720 Speaker 8: Yeah, you know. 548 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:15,920 Speaker 1: She pregnant. What's a down. 549 00:31:17,640 --> 00:31:17,920 Speaker 6: To me? 550 00:31:18,480 --> 00:31:21,640 Speaker 8: I ain't nothing like real bad to have them like 551 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:25,600 Speaker 8: you know I was. You know, I prayed for a lot, 552 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 8: you know lock y'all one time. 553 00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:31,160 Speaker 1: I couldn't talk. 554 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, just a temporary stroke in the left. 555 00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,440 Speaker 8: So just just. 556 00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:43,320 Speaker 9: Toby Court appears on court day. 557 00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:44,640 Speaker 8: Court day. 558 00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 9: I did ask for a card, but it wasn't nothing. 559 00:31:50,400 --> 00:31:51,960 Speaker 9: I just wanted to do one, not to make it. 560 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 9: That's what they want to be hurt. I want the 561 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:54,960 Speaker 9: car to be told. 562 00:31:56,720 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: You're going through man, Yeah, you're really struggling. 563 00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:03,760 Speaker 9: Yeah, but telling me, what were you saying? 564 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:06,640 Speaker 12: I wish you ran out a gain on a cliff? 565 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,040 Speaker 8: You know. 566 00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:11,640 Speaker 11: So wait, when we first started this segment and surely 567 00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:13,960 Speaker 11: asked y'all this question, y'all was like, nah, I ain't 568 00:32:14,000 --> 00:32:17,720 Speaker 11: never done nothing pray, But what was your question? 569 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:18,000 Speaker 5: Though? 570 00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: The question is have you prayed for the downfall of 571 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:26,080 Speaker 1: your ex? And if you had, not the downfall. 572 00:32:26,320 --> 00:32:28,680 Speaker 12: But something that happened, you know, but to fall down. 573 00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:31,040 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm just saying that's the same thing, guys. 574 00:32:31,080 --> 00:32:34,280 Speaker 9: Yeah, same thing, you know, like slip on some steps 575 00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:38,560 Speaker 9: in your heels, Yeah, and go into an uncontrollable free fall. 576 00:32:39,800 --> 00:32:40,640 Speaker 8: Stuff like that. 577 00:32:40,680 --> 00:32:42,040 Speaker 1: Ain't in slow motion. 578 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:45,240 Speaker 12: Get a heel caught in a sewer, grite, you know something. 579 00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:52,120 Speaker 12: Now we ball your yap. 580 00:32:54,080 --> 00:32:58,040 Speaker 1: That's about the most you've done. Nothing really bad though, right, No. 581 00:32:59,120 --> 00:33:01,360 Speaker 15: Stranger come up, slapp the hell out of them something 582 00:33:01,440 --> 00:33:02,600 Speaker 15: like that. 583 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,720 Speaker 1: That's how you draw the line with something bad. 584 00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:08,840 Speaker 9: Just don't look really bad to have you. You know, 585 00:33:08,920 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 9: if I find out you know, you. 586 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:13,560 Speaker 14: Know it's. 587 00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:16,480 Speaker 8: Just so, he don't mean nothing bad. 588 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,880 Speaker 12: No, no, yeah, chased by a pit bull? 589 00:33:22,920 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 8: You know. 590 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,200 Speaker 9: Like I find out your house got burned down and 591 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,920 Speaker 9: all the tapes was in there, I'll be cool. 592 00:33:27,480 --> 00:33:28,160 Speaker 5: What tapes? 593 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: What's going on. 594 00:33:29,480 --> 00:33:30,360 Speaker 8: In the tape. 595 00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:35,840 Speaker 5: Might super glues your mind. That's a question for y'all, 596 00:33:35,840 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 5: because y'all the one carried grudge. 597 00:33:38,600 --> 00:33:41,960 Speaker 1: Wait a minute, Tommy, you're the one. I know you're 598 00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:43,760 Speaker 1: not talking about carrying grudges. 599 00:33:48,240 --> 00:33:52,240 Speaker 8: I think you owned the sung what I'm recalling. 600 00:33:52,320 --> 00:33:55,560 Speaker 9: I've been your friend, lord eighteen years now. 601 00:33:57,200 --> 00:33:59,200 Speaker 8: You ain't all forgave what's her name? 602 00:34:00,400 --> 00:34:01,200 Speaker 1: Not what's his name? 603 00:34:02,160 --> 00:34:03,800 Speaker 14: We're not talking about that right now. 604 00:34:04,320 --> 00:34:07,520 Speaker 8: You ain't ever forgave what's the what's his name? Elva? 605 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,200 Speaker 12: Elva, elba? 606 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:12,680 Speaker 1: So cl you ain't let it go? 607 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,000 Speaker 12: Hell no, even today? 608 00:34:15,719 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 8: Hell no, I. 609 00:34:17,440 --> 00:34:22,759 Speaker 1: Want to mind to die. Yeah, at my hand, I wanted. 610 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 8: To be the murderers. 611 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:25,399 Speaker 1: Surely not you. 612 00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:30,560 Speaker 13: I want sure you see me scriptures every morning? 613 00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,720 Speaker 14: Yeah to Hey, I'm not perfect, JR. 614 00:34:35,880 --> 00:34:38,000 Speaker 5: I know he said, you know how to slide on 615 00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,040 Speaker 5: the car and disconnect breaks in by four. 616 00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:47,000 Speaker 8: Call Pol Sugar in a man tank one time. 617 00:34:49,480 --> 00:34:51,399 Speaker 1: I have no proof of that. 618 00:34:52,000 --> 00:34:54,719 Speaker 8: Call it five pounds back. Call him when the man 619 00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:55,800 Speaker 8: game tank exploded? 620 00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:56,479 Speaker 1: What what what? 621 00:34:56,480 --> 00:34:58,080 Speaker 3: What? 622 00:34:58,080 --> 00:34:58,319 Speaker 13: What? 623 00:34:58,320 --> 00:34:58,600 Speaker 1: What? 624 00:34:58,600 --> 00:34:59,319 Speaker 8: What did you need? 625 00:34:59,719 --> 00:34:59,919 Speaker 10: What? 626 00:35:00,080 --> 00:35:03,319 Speaker 8: How do I need proof when the butcher knife is 627 00:35:03,400 --> 00:35:04,000 Speaker 8: still in. 628 00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:10,240 Speaker 11: The last time Allegedly. 629 00:35:11,560 --> 00:35:14,320 Speaker 1: This is a question for the guys. 630 00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:17,880 Speaker 8: Yeah, I mean just out there just stabbing the tie. 631 00:35:18,760 --> 00:35:20,560 Speaker 12: You have no proof of that is. 632 00:35:22,040 --> 00:35:22,759 Speaker 8: Calling for real. 633 00:35:24,080 --> 00:35:26,680 Speaker 11: I will be President Trump on this show because there's 634 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:29,520 Speaker 11: no collusion, no obstruction. 635 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:30,920 Speaker 8: All stabbed. 636 00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,439 Speaker 9: Caller took a butcher knife, stabbed out the tail light 637 00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,120 Speaker 9: and the head lights and park lights on the car. 638 00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:44,879 Speaker 1: Car just a light Jr. Allegedly Stevens just talking so 639 00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:46,000 Speaker 1: he can't even do that. 640 00:35:46,080 --> 00:35:50,000 Speaker 9: Go out at night where you're going. 641 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:52,839 Speaker 1: Because that's what got him in trouble. He was out 642 00:35:52,840 --> 00:35:55,040 Speaker 1: at night creeping. Yeah, at at night. 643 00:35:55,040 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 13: Hard to creep. 644 00:35:55,680 --> 00:35:57,040 Speaker 8: Ain't no lights on your car. 645 00:35:59,080 --> 00:36:01,960 Speaker 13: Kiely Just what you think, you know, the people you 646 00:36:02,040 --> 00:36:02,440 Speaker 13: work with. 647 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:05,160 Speaker 14: We've grown so much since then. 648 00:36:05,560 --> 00:36:10,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not petty like that. We're not petty like that. 649 00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,839 Speaker 11: Yeah, and it wasn't a Sugar allegedly in the gas tank. 650 00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:14,759 Speaker 1: It was a waterhole. 651 00:36:16,000 --> 00:36:18,399 Speaker 12: Oh sorry, hey what just. 652 00:36:21,200 --> 00:36:22,400 Speaker 8: His card? Just butter it. 653 00:36:25,640 --> 00:36:28,520 Speaker 1: Allegedly, this is Steve. 654 00:36:28,320 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 8: Harbin Martin show Man. How did you How did your 655 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:33,160 Speaker 8: father affect your world view? 656 00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 1: Your view of the world exactly. 657 00:36:35,520 --> 00:36:38,200 Speaker 9: I wasn't allowed to have no view of the world. 658 00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,040 Speaker 9: You just need to see what I see and that's all. 659 00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 9: Don't worry about what they're doing over there in Spain 660 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:45,439 Speaker 9: and all that. 661 00:36:45,440 --> 00:36:49,640 Speaker 8: That ain't yourbiousness. You don't have no worldview. You just 662 00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,640 Speaker 8: see what I'm You just better look at what I'm 663 00:36:51,680 --> 00:36:54,440 Speaker 8: trying to show you. And all this world view you 664 00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 8: get that later. 665 00:36:55,960 --> 00:36:58,759 Speaker 9: Uh huh, Well, right now, we're digging this hole and 666 00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:02,080 Speaker 9: put this post in it. Make these fists. Yes your view, 667 00:37:03,320 --> 00:37:05,520 Speaker 9: look down in that hole. Make sure it's deep enough. 668 00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,040 Speaker 9: That was we I wasn't allowed to have a worldview. 669 00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 8: Stew coming up right. 670 00:37:11,680 --> 00:37:18,320 Speaker 1: After you, and it's time now for a rounded. Would 671 00:37:18,320 --> 00:37:22,440 Speaker 1: you rather would you rather go the whole summer without music? 672 00:37:22,880 --> 00:37:26,280 Speaker 1: Or would you rather go the whole summer without movies? 673 00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:29,200 Speaker 8: I go the whole summer without movies. 674 00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:35,200 Speaker 12: Yeh mo, no, no, I'm going without that music. 675 00:37:35,480 --> 00:37:36,759 Speaker 1: Yeah, I couldn't do it. 676 00:37:37,440 --> 00:37:38,160 Speaker 8: Get my movies. 677 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:40,320 Speaker 12: But I got to have the movies. 678 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,520 Speaker 1: Music, yes, yes, music. 679 00:37:44,560 --> 00:37:45,759 Speaker 13: And clod up. 680 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,440 Speaker 5: They got a little they got a score on that. 681 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 5: It's gonna be a little bit of music on the 682 00:37:49,000 --> 00:37:49,439 Speaker 5: on the movie. 683 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:49,880 Speaker 8: I want to. 684 00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:55,920 Speaker 1: Get you a big sound and action. Oh yeah, the 685 00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:57,200 Speaker 1: soundtracks are great. 686 00:37:57,360 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 9: You can't you can't hum no music, you can't sing, 687 00:38:01,200 --> 00:38:01,720 Speaker 9: no music. 688 00:38:01,719 --> 00:38:02,680 Speaker 8: You can't hear no music? 689 00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,960 Speaker 1: Now, yeah, no good movies. 690 00:38:06,400 --> 00:38:11,200 Speaker 8: Movie. You're how many most I meant without watching a movie? 691 00:38:11,320 --> 00:38:12,120 Speaker 1: You know how many years? 692 00:38:12,160 --> 00:38:12,680 Speaker 8: You don't done it? 693 00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:12,879 Speaker 6: Though? 694 00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,719 Speaker 8: When I lived in the car, I ain't never saw 695 00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:19,880 Speaker 8: a movie, a movie, TV. 696 00:38:20,200 --> 00:38:26,240 Speaker 5: No your favorite, No Denzel, no Appacino, no DeNiro, no, no, 697 00:38:26,239 --> 00:38:28,799 Speaker 5: no what No, we're not doing that. 698 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:33,600 Speaker 2: And Steve hasn't seen some classics like no Viola Davis? 699 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 1: Have you seen no more than Freeman? 700 00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:37,560 Speaker 14: Have you a Boomerang? 701 00:38:38,760 --> 00:38:39,440 Speaker 1: That crazy? 702 00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:41,040 Speaker 13: You've never seen Boomerang? 703 00:38:41,320 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 1: What you heard that? You didn't know? Barry was in Boomerang? 704 00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:48,919 Speaker 13: He was the lead. 705 00:38:49,040 --> 00:38:53,480 Speaker 8: Lady. You ain't seen the movie? How the hell you know? 706 00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:56,720 Speaker 1: But you heard the soundtrack though? Hate you? 707 00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:57,800 Speaker 14: Yeah, that's soundtrack? 708 00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:04,520 Speaker 8: All right. 709 00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,200 Speaker 1: We're moving on on a hot summer day. Would you 710 00:39:07,280 --> 00:39:10,600 Speaker 1: rather cool down in an ice bath outside or in 711 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:12,719 Speaker 1: an air conditioned room inside. 712 00:39:13,280 --> 00:39:16,080 Speaker 8: Let me tell you all right, now, get your air 713 00:39:16,120 --> 00:39:16,799 Speaker 8: condition room. 714 00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:21,840 Speaker 1: Plunge, baby, you're. 715 00:39:21,640 --> 00:39:24,680 Speaker 9: Talking to somebody. Cold plunge every morning? Did it this morning? 716 00:39:25,040 --> 00:39:29,000 Speaker 9: Get your that air condition room. You don't want to 717 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,520 Speaker 9: do this minute? 718 00:39:30,960 --> 00:39:32,959 Speaker 13: What's the time? How long are you in the water? 719 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:37,200 Speaker 8: Six minutes? I do a full six T trash all right? 720 00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:39,839 Speaker 1: Would you rather have a one night stand with a 721 00:39:39,880 --> 00:39:43,200 Speaker 1: stranger or would you rather have a one night stand 722 00:39:43,239 --> 00:39:45,160 Speaker 1: with your spousest best friend? 723 00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:46,880 Speaker 8: My spouse friend. 724 00:39:48,160 --> 00:39:51,680 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't even know what this stranger gonna look like. 725 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:55,800 Speaker 12: I'm gonna take the stranger route. I'm not doing, Junior. 726 00:39:56,120 --> 00:39:56,759 Speaker 8: I just got mad. 727 00:39:56,800 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 1: I'm not answering that smart all right. 728 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:03,919 Speaker 13: Steve, come on? Why why you don't lean away? 729 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:05,759 Speaker 8: Just off the mic? 730 00:40:06,280 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 13: What you're doing? Come on, come on, cold plunge into. 731 00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:09,640 Speaker 8: This answer. 732 00:40:12,040 --> 00:40:15,399 Speaker 1: Stranger. You get here. 733 00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:16,880 Speaker 13: We got ten seconds. 734 00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:19,080 Speaker 1: You don't answer it today, We're gonna carry it over 735 00:40:19,239 --> 00:40:20,040 Speaker 1: until tomorrow. 736 00:40:20,080 --> 00:40:20,960 Speaker 14: So answer it now. 737 00:40:25,760 --> 00:40:29,880 Speaker 7: That's today's round of would you rather? Obviously esteem doesn't want. 738 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,320 Speaker 8: To answer to tomorrow. 739 00:40:31,400 --> 00:40:35,239 Speaker 9: Yeah, Steve Harvey Moore on The show Man, anybody. 740 00:40:34,960 --> 00:40:38,000 Speaker 8: Playing with y'all. This show, I have said a. 741 00:40:38,080 --> 00:40:45,400 Speaker 9: Thousand times is for enlightenment, entertainment, entertainment and inspiration. And 742 00:40:45,640 --> 00:40:47,920 Speaker 9: entertainment is a big part of this show. A lot 743 00:40:47,960 --> 00:40:50,840 Speaker 9: of Lost eight listeners because you don't get the joke. 744 00:40:51,239 --> 00:40:54,000 Speaker 9: I'm not apologizing for nothing and I ain't preparing no, 745 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:55,520 Speaker 9: I'm sorry statement. 746 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,920 Speaker 8: I tell yo for living And if you didn't like 747 00:41:00,040 --> 00:41:02,680 Speaker 8: if the joke, tune in tomorrow, I have. 748 00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 1: Others you'll come right after. With a return of summer, 749 00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:15,959 Speaker 1: many singles often put aside their search for true love 750 00:41:16,040 --> 00:41:20,160 Speaker 1: to enjoy some just fun, you know, some fun summer flings. 751 00:41:20,239 --> 00:41:23,359 Speaker 1: But a new survey suggests that such flings don't look 752 00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,640 Speaker 1: so appealing to many. A new dating dot com survey 753 00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 1: finds that fifty two percent of singles would prefer to 754 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:32,799 Speaker 1: find a serious relationship this summer, as opposed to just 755 00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:37,200 Speaker 1: casual sex. While most admit summer flings including one night 756 00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:41,759 Speaker 1: stands and friends with benefits, are enjoyable, the majority say 757 00:41:41,800 --> 00:41:46,640 Speaker 1: they want deeper personal intimacy. Okay, so they don't want just. 758 00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:48,760 Speaker 8: Now that's a woman making that statement. 759 00:41:50,520 --> 00:41:53,880 Speaker 1: It's a new dating dot com survey, and it didn't 760 00:41:53,880 --> 00:41:57,719 Speaker 1: say women has that fifty two percent of singles. So 761 00:41:57,800 --> 00:41:59,520 Speaker 1: that's guys to steve. 762 00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,640 Speaker 9: Well, but there are guys that want something more meaningful, 763 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:05,120 Speaker 9: to tell you the truth, you know. But if, but 764 00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,719 Speaker 9: if everybody will quit playing this game and just tell 765 00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,160 Speaker 9: the truth about how you feel. That's one thing. Tell 766 00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,680 Speaker 9: the truth about how you feel. I didn't say, tell 767 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,080 Speaker 9: the truth about what you did. 768 00:42:19,560 --> 00:42:20,080 Speaker 1: Truth. 769 00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,520 Speaker 13: Now let the record show. 770 00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:27,800 Speaker 8: Oh yeah, yeah, tell the truth about how you feel. 771 00:42:27,840 --> 00:42:30,160 Speaker 8: It's different from you don't ever tell truth about what 772 00:42:30,200 --> 00:42:37,880 Speaker 8: you did. Y'all don't need no lie rude. 773 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:44,680 Speaker 12: We don't wrong with one night? 774 00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:46,120 Speaker 8: What's wrong with a one night flame? 775 00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 13: One night? 776 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:48,840 Speaker 14: That's what I was going to ask you. 777 00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:51,719 Speaker 1: Guys. So have you had a fling that you were 778 00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:55,120 Speaker 1: serious about or or that was fun summer fling you 779 00:42:55,160 --> 00:42:57,640 Speaker 1: know that maybe turned into a real romance. 780 00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,600 Speaker 15: At that moment when I get in that big which 781 00:42:59,680 --> 00:43:03,240 Speaker 15: I am dead serious. Yeah, at moment there's no games 782 00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:03,800 Speaker 15: being played. 783 00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:04,920 Speaker 1: We are dead serious. 784 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:09,080 Speaker 8: Yeah, everything, yeah, every there's nothing I can focus. 785 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:17,680 Speaker 5: On after the summer, after the summer's over, it's over. Yeah, 786 00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 5: I'll try to go into a fall with. 787 00:43:19,560 --> 00:43:22,920 Speaker 8: All smer after I get on the brain. 788 00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:30,240 Speaker 3: What do you want? 789 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,440 Speaker 8: What did you call him fun but. 790 00:43:33,520 --> 00:43:35,000 Speaker 1: Turned into a real romance? 791 00:43:35,239 --> 00:43:38,319 Speaker 11: Wow, guys, no relationship at all? 792 00:43:39,239 --> 00:43:42,120 Speaker 1: Or or do you regret you you've ever did not 793 00:43:42,280 --> 00:43:43,959 Speaker 1: turn to fling into something real? 794 00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 12: Regret? 795 00:43:48,000 --> 00:43:50,719 Speaker 13: No? 796 00:43:51,560 --> 00:43:53,719 Speaker 5: I just I like to just I used to like 797 00:43:53,760 --> 00:43:55,440 Speaker 5: to just fling it around as long as you can 798 00:43:55,520 --> 00:44:04,480 Speaker 5: fling it around. And then yeah, okay, okay much. 799 00:44:04,600 --> 00:44:06,560 Speaker 9: But but you know it wasn't that wasn't back then. 800 00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:09,200 Speaker 9: It wasn't no social media nothing, when you lost the 801 00:44:09,280 --> 00:44:09,799 Speaker 9: passion that. 802 00:44:13,880 --> 00:44:17,399 Speaker 1: No more, where were you gonna stay? 803 00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,360 Speaker 15: You in your I was saying to be fasher. You know, 804 00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:22,000 Speaker 15: I wasn't always everything you had to fling. You know 805 00:44:22,000 --> 00:44:25,040 Speaker 15: I wouldn't always some. 806 00:44:24,880 --> 00:44:26,120 Speaker 1: People don't want to fling with me? 807 00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:29,760 Speaker 8: No more. I wouldn't. 808 00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:31,319 Speaker 1: I wouldn't. 809 00:44:31,320 --> 00:44:33,319 Speaker 8: I would out here just killing every fling I was in. 810 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,520 Speaker 8: Sometimes your fling was just. 811 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:44,400 Speaker 9: Wasn't he ain't had. 812 00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 1: You know something way street? But what about the one 813 00:44:49,600 --> 00:44:51,399 Speaker 1: that got away? Is there one? 814 00:44:51,480 --> 00:44:53,720 Speaker 8: Maybe there's always one out. 815 00:44:56,360 --> 00:44:58,600 Speaker 12: And it hurts you to your core when you think 816 00:44:58,680 --> 00:44:59,120 Speaker 12: about it. 817 00:44:59,360 --> 00:45:02,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and excuse said, you can't find them anymore or 818 00:45:02,560 --> 00:45:05,160 Speaker 1: if you do see them again, they're with someone else. 819 00:45:05,600 --> 00:45:08,239 Speaker 8: They don't won't you? No, Mom, won't you. 820 00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:11,480 Speaker 9: I found them after social media stuff came out. I 821 00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:21,080 Speaker 9: found Oh really they didn't look the same they look 822 00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 9: was in that flame. 823 00:45:22,920 --> 00:45:31,160 Speaker 8: I believe that picture about twelve different ways. 824 00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,120 Speaker 1: So I think what we should get out of this 825 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:39,080 Speaker 1: is that singles sometimes are looking for more than just flings. Okay, 826 00:45:39,719 --> 00:45:42,959 Speaker 1: this song, that's what you got out of that? Yeah, 827 00:45:43,160 --> 00:45:44,360 Speaker 1: what what did you get out of it? 828 00:45:44,400 --> 00:45:44,759 Speaker 8: Tell me? 829 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,360 Speaker 13: Would fling until you can't fling? 830 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:53,320 Speaker 1: No more? Coming up, Carlo, we're just working with a 831 00:45:53,360 --> 00:46:01,959 Speaker 1: bunch of players. Sound not no moans. With a prank 832 00:46:02,040 --> 00:46:04,800 Speaker 1: phone call right after this, you're listening to the Steve 833 00:46:04,880 --> 00:46:06,200 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. 834 00:46:10,440 --> 00:46:12,720 Speaker 14: Coming up at about four minutes after the hour. 835 00:46:12,880 --> 00:46:16,200 Speaker 1: It's my Strawberry letter for today and the subject is Junior, 836 00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:19,600 Speaker 1: take my money, my house, and my car. Come on, 837 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:24,839 Speaker 1: what this is right there? We'll get into that find 838 00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:27,359 Speaker 1: out what that's all about in just a little bit, 839 00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:30,560 Speaker 1: but right now the nephew is here with today's prank 840 00:46:30,600 --> 00:46:32,320 Speaker 1: phone call. What you got for us, nep. 841 00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,880 Speaker 12: Well, let me ask y'all something you before we drop this. 842 00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:38,520 Speaker 12: You know, there's always a recall on certain things. 843 00:46:38,560 --> 00:46:40,840 Speaker 8: We've heard about cars being recalled. 844 00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:47,439 Speaker 5: We've heard about appliances being yeah, toys being unsaved, even 845 00:46:47,520 --> 00:46:52,239 Speaker 5: food being a recall. And but today it's it's a 846 00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:58,719 Speaker 5: little something different, folks. This right here is condom recall. 847 00:46:59,160 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 5: Oh everybody by the women, No moh, I mean y'all 848 00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,600 Speaker 5: me with the calls and the toys classes, y'all was 849 00:47:05,680 --> 00:47:07,680 Speaker 5: right there with me. But as soon as I get 850 00:47:07,760 --> 00:47:11,040 Speaker 5: y'all the title, now no one is with me. But see, 851 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 5: this is why pranking ain't for everybody, right because nobody 852 00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:17,800 Speaker 5: want to roll with you, cat dog, if you would 853 00:47:17,840 --> 00:47:20,520 Speaker 5: were going on in there with a condom recall. 854 00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 4: Hello, I tried to reach a I believe it's Mark Davison. 855 00:47:26,280 --> 00:47:27,879 Speaker 16: Oh, yes, yes, he's not here right now. 856 00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:32,960 Speaker 4: You know, Well, this is uh, this is Barry. I 857 00:47:33,040 --> 00:47:36,840 Speaker 4: work here. I'm the manager here at once. Is he 858 00:47:36,880 --> 00:47:38,960 Speaker 4: gonna be Is he gonna be home? Come so where 859 00:47:38,960 --> 00:47:40,839 Speaker 4: he can maybe give me a call? I can chat 860 00:47:40,880 --> 00:47:41,200 Speaker 4: with him? 861 00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:43,000 Speaker 16: Yeah, sure, I mean he can be back with it 862 00:47:43,120 --> 00:47:44,600 Speaker 16: like an hour. So what's going on? 863 00:47:45,080 --> 00:47:49,040 Speaker 4: Uh, Well, we got a transaction here that he made 864 00:47:49,160 --> 00:47:53,839 Speaker 4: on Friday of last week, And basically what's going on 865 00:47:53,960 --> 00:47:58,080 Speaker 4: is we've had a bad batch of condoms and there's 866 00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:02,960 Speaker 4: actually a kindom recall. This was a credit card transaction, 867 00:48:03,080 --> 00:48:05,440 Speaker 4: So we're trying our best to reach out and get 868 00:48:05,440 --> 00:48:06,880 Speaker 4: as many people as we can and let them know 869 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:10,799 Speaker 4: that those those condoms are the second So there's a 870 00:48:10,840 --> 00:48:14,839 Speaker 4: recall on the Magnum condoms that we've had here at here. 871 00:48:14,920 --> 00:48:17,480 Speaker 4: What we're trying to do is call everybody that has 872 00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:20,400 Speaker 4: purchased someone in the last week. And you know, he 873 00:48:20,520 --> 00:48:22,520 Speaker 4: purchased them on Friday, So what we want to do 874 00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:24,600 Speaker 4: is reach out to him and let him know to 875 00:48:24,640 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 4: bring those Wait wait. 876 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:30,160 Speaker 16: Wait, I'm sorry. So you're saying that Marcus purchased his 877 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:31,520 Speaker 16: condoms on Friday? 878 00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,480 Speaker 4: Uh the date I have here on this transaction. Man 879 00:48:35,560 --> 00:48:36,839 Speaker 4: says Friday, He'll last week. 880 00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:38,920 Speaker 10: Yes, ma'am, we don't even use them. 881 00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:41,560 Speaker 16: But for the fact that you have to call me talking 882 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:45,120 Speaker 16: about that my husband this condom last Friday, when we 883 00:48:45,160 --> 00:48:48,800 Speaker 16: don't even use them at all, I'm so sad. Right now, Okay, 884 00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:50,600 Speaker 16: you know what, Hold on, I'm going to call him 885 00:48:50,640 --> 00:48:52,279 Speaker 16: right now with you ways, well, get. 886 00:48:52,200 --> 00:48:55,439 Speaker 4: The hang on, Hang on a second. Would you rather 887 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 4: give me a sale and I give him a call 888 00:48:57,640 --> 00:48:59,840 Speaker 4: and let him know what's going on. Could you just 889 00:48:59,840 --> 00:49:00,800 Speaker 4: get me his number? 890 00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:01,200 Speaker 17: Oh? 891 00:49:01,320 --> 00:49:05,120 Speaker 16: No, no, no, no, no, no, I'm calling in myself right now. 892 00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:09,480 Speaker 10: Hold babe, what's up? I'm about to give him the chair? 893 00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:10,839 Speaker 10: What's that? I'm at the Barbie show. 894 00:49:11,640 --> 00:49:12,959 Speaker 4: I'm getting in the chair right now. 895 00:49:13,320 --> 00:49:14,120 Speaker 9: Nah, you need to. 896 00:49:14,120 --> 00:49:15,960 Speaker 16: Get up and go outside because what I'm about to 897 00:49:16,000 --> 00:49:17,680 Speaker 16: say you don't want to talk about this? 898 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:20,000 Speaker 8: Wait? 899 00:49:20,040 --> 00:49:20,120 Speaker 4: What? 900 00:49:20,320 --> 00:49:22,359 Speaker 10: Let's wait? Okay, give me a second book? One second, 901 00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:24,759 Speaker 10: five minutes? What what's going on? What's up? What's up? 902 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:25,000 Speaker 4: Time? 903 00:49:25,120 --> 00:49:25,400 Speaker 8: Well? 904 00:49:25,880 --> 00:49:28,479 Speaker 16: Wait, I'll be reflecting of funny of the folks first 905 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:30,319 Speaker 16: of all. So why do I get a phone call 906 00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:34,440 Speaker 16: from like the measure talking about you brought some condoms 907 00:49:34,440 --> 00:49:35,360 Speaker 16: and they would effective? 908 00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:36,400 Speaker 8: That's Friday? 909 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:37,759 Speaker 10: Wait? What? 910 00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:38,080 Speaker 8: Wait? 911 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:38,200 Speaker 4: What? 912 00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,840 Speaker 10: Baby? What are you talking about? What are you talking? 913 00:49:42,880 --> 00:49:43,560 Speaker 11: What am I talking about? 914 00:49:43,560 --> 00:49:44,800 Speaker 16: You tell me what I'm talking about? 915 00:49:45,000 --> 00:49:45,719 Speaker 9: You'll tell me what. 916 00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 10: Are you talking about? Crazy? 917 00:49:47,640 --> 00:49:49,759 Speaker 16: I'm no, I'm not crazy. 918 00:49:49,880 --> 00:49:50,520 Speaker 15: I'm not crazy. 919 00:49:50,560 --> 00:49:51,200 Speaker 8: This is real. 920 00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,640 Speaker 4: What Cut the book out and tell me what the 921 00:49:54,200 --> 00:49:56,400 Speaker 4: what's now? Excuse me? 922 00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:59,440 Speaker 10: Hello? Hello? Who who is this? 923 00:49:59,520 --> 00:49:59,719 Speaker 8: Some one? 924 00:49:59,840 --> 00:49:59,880 Speaker 4: Like? 925 00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:01,960 Speaker 10: Who you calling me on the phone? Who is this? 926 00:50:02,239 --> 00:50:04,320 Speaker 4: Okay? How you doing your markers? Correct? 927 00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:05,600 Speaker 10: Who is this? 928 00:50:06,040 --> 00:50:09,640 Speaker 4: I'm Barry, I worked, I'm the general manager at and 929 00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:11,040 Speaker 4: we were calling. 930 00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:13,919 Speaker 10: Therey very how you get my number? Why? My wife 931 00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 10: called him talked to the trade about a condoms from Babby. 932 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:18,680 Speaker 10: What's what's happening? To get to the point, b y'all 933 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:23,160 Speaker 10: know who is what's your name? 934 00:50:23,880 --> 00:50:26,000 Speaker 4: My name is? My name is Barry Own the general 935 00:50:26,040 --> 00:50:30,360 Speaker 4: manager here and basically what we have a condom recall 936 00:50:31,040 --> 00:50:34,919 Speaker 4: and we have your credit card and you made a transaction. Uh, 937 00:50:35,000 --> 00:50:35,640 Speaker 4: this past. 938 00:50:36,480 --> 00:50:41,520 Speaker 10: Very very very very What the are you talking about? 939 00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:44,440 Speaker 16: You're gonna talking about really, you know. 940 00:50:45,200 --> 00:50:49,200 Speaker 10: Be quiet because you'll be quiet, trying to get because 941 00:50:49,239 --> 00:50:51,279 Speaker 10: this is crazy. I'm trying to get ahead. 942 00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:54,160 Speaker 4: This okay, So sir, what it is, we have a 943 00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:57,759 Speaker 4: transaction with your credit card that condoms for purchase. And 944 00:50:57,800 --> 00:51:01,000 Speaker 4: what's happening is those columns are defected, so we're doing 945 00:51:01,160 --> 00:51:02,000 Speaker 4: a recall on. 946 00:51:01,960 --> 00:51:02,359 Speaker 8: All of them. 947 00:51:02,360 --> 00:51:04,200 Speaker 4: So we're trying to get those comments back. We don't 948 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,600 Speaker 4: want to marry Barry. 949 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,440 Speaker 10: Yes, first of all, you made a mistake. You couldn't 950 00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:14,640 Speaker 10: possibly have my credit contract you you really well shirt, 951 00:51:14,719 --> 00:51:18,080 Speaker 10: hold on, Barry, this is my family. I don't I 952 00:51:18,120 --> 00:51:21,000 Speaker 10: don't play about my family. Then what are you talking about? 953 00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:25,600 Speaker 4: This? I've stated and sir this card. This is how 954 00:51:25,640 --> 00:51:28,040 Speaker 4: we got the number to your home where your wife is. 955 00:51:28,080 --> 00:51:30,040 Speaker 4: And we were trying to actually just read. We weren't 956 00:51:30,080 --> 00:51:32,480 Speaker 4: trying to create any problems. We just wanted to let 957 00:51:32,560 --> 00:51:36,240 Speaker 4: you know that the Connors were defect. That's right, market 958 00:51:36,480 --> 00:51:37,240 Speaker 4: the fat baby. 959 00:51:37,400 --> 00:51:39,640 Speaker 10: First of all, Baby, you're doing a lot on them 960 00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 10: on the phone in front of Barry. I don't even 961 00:51:41,520 --> 00:51:42,439 Speaker 10: know what it's coming from. 962 00:51:43,520 --> 00:51:44,239 Speaker 4: You're doing a lot. 963 00:51:44,440 --> 00:51:47,400 Speaker 10: We're doing a lot. Listen, baby, we discussed it. We 964 00:51:47,880 --> 00:51:50,120 Speaker 10: passed this part in our relationship. I told you that 965 00:51:50,200 --> 00:51:54,800 Speaker 10: I was done all. I told you that, Barry. I apologize. 966 00:51:55,200 --> 00:51:56,680 Speaker 4: Listen, Well you did you did? 967 00:51:56,680 --> 00:51:56,759 Speaker 17: You? 968 00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,399 Speaker 4: Were you and Walt Breens on Friday of last week's shirt. 969 00:51:59,480 --> 00:52:02,800 Speaker 4: I was not with these. These were purchased Friday around 970 00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:05,319 Speaker 4: six o'clock Friday evening of. 971 00:52:05,360 --> 00:52:07,120 Speaker 10: Last very that's what. 972 00:52:07,239 --> 00:52:09,759 Speaker 16: He wasn't home, I mean that much, just very fastidating 973 00:52:10,200 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 16: that he was at work doing overtime. 974 00:52:12,600 --> 00:52:18,600 Speaker 10: Sweetheart, Right, let's stop. What picked very see you got 975 00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:20,560 Speaker 10: my listen, you got my wife talking crazy? 976 00:52:20,760 --> 00:52:24,919 Speaker 4: I mean, what do you It is very very Yeah, 977 00:52:27,320 --> 00:52:27,560 Speaker 4: this is. 978 00:52:27,680 --> 00:52:32,919 Speaker 10: Long, baby, I didn't do this, baby so disgusting. First 979 00:52:32,920 --> 00:52:37,280 Speaker 10: of all, we don't even use. We don't even use baby, 980 00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:41,799 Speaker 10: we don't even use at my down. 981 00:52:42,440 --> 00:52:48,160 Speaker 4: Clear, this was a pack of twelve you remember by 982 00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:49,760 Speaker 4: a twelve pack of Magazum. 983 00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:55,680 Speaker 10: I don't care, but it's a lie. Why you want 984 00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:56,400 Speaker 10: here believe in this? 985 00:52:58,040 --> 00:52:58,600 Speaker 4: You know what I mean? 986 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:00,600 Speaker 10: I wouldn't hear about. 987 00:53:02,840 --> 00:53:03,200 Speaker 8: Mary. 988 00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,760 Speaker 10: I can't believe you're doing this. Wait up, hold on, 989 00:53:06,000 --> 00:53:11,279 Speaker 10: hold on, I'm marry, I'm here. I didn't do this. 990 00:53:11,600 --> 00:53:14,279 Speaker 10: Then you got to be out of your guy man 991 00:53:14,320 --> 00:53:15,920 Speaker 10: calling me with this, You got. 992 00:53:15,800 --> 00:53:17,799 Speaker 4: You gotta be up because you gotta be out some line. 993 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:22,399 Speaker 4: You're the person that bought the time carry You're the Wow, 994 00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,520 Speaker 4: You're the person cheating on you Wow. And dude, I 995 00:53:26,560 --> 00:53:28,680 Speaker 4: didn't do this. I didn't do this. Tommy the one 996 00:53:28,719 --> 00:53:29,799 Speaker 4: did it. It wasn't me. 997 00:53:30,280 --> 00:53:31,839 Speaker 10: Wait what, Mary, I don't know. 998 00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:35,799 Speaker 4: I'm saying, tell me the one. So Tommy told me 999 00:53:35,840 --> 00:53:38,040 Speaker 4: to call you because you're the one bought the time. 1000 00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:39,439 Speaker 4: Tommy said you bought? 1001 00:53:39,680 --> 00:53:41,160 Speaker 10: Who is Timmy? 1002 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:45,239 Speaker 4: You tell me from a Steve Harvey Morning show. Both 1003 00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:58,680 Speaker 4: y'all just got pan nephew, your sister trench who got 1004 00:53:58,680 --> 00:53:59,960 Speaker 4: me to Frank? Y'all? 1005 00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:02,239 Speaker 10: Man, Well, I guess we're gonna be leaving behind at 1006 00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:08,840 Speaker 10: the holidays. Huh, house, you ain't. You ain't cursing me at. 1007 00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:09,239 Speaker 4: On this wrong? 1008 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:10,000 Speaker 8: You know? 1009 00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:12,200 Speaker 10: I love you know you. You know how I feel 1010 00:54:12,200 --> 00:54:12,680 Speaker 10: about truth? 1011 00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,319 Speaker 4: All right, man, Budge love y'all, y'all gotta tell me this. 1012 00:54:16,800 --> 00:54:19,840 Speaker 4: What is the baddest and I mean the bad radio 1013 00:54:19,920 --> 00:54:22,120 Speaker 4: show when the last people tell me? What is this? 1014 00:54:22,280 --> 00:54:24,040 Speaker 10: This Steve Harvey Morning Show? 1015 00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:27,000 Speaker 4: Right seven show? 1016 00:54:28,040 --> 00:54:28,719 Speaker 8: What y'all think? 1017 00:54:29,480 --> 00:54:35,800 Speaker 5: Come on now, come on, hey, recall baby, Hey, it happens. 1018 00:54:35,840 --> 00:54:38,040 Speaker 5: It happens to a lot of different things. It's just 1019 00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:40,160 Speaker 5: a recall. Don't don't get caught up with it. It's 1020 00:54:40,160 --> 00:54:42,319 Speaker 5: all right. These people gonna get They're gonna get past this, 1021 00:54:42,719 --> 00:54:45,680 Speaker 5: all right. I got Hattiesburg, Mississippi, when I'm gonna be 1022 00:54:45,680 --> 00:54:51,080 Speaker 5: down there, had E that'll be Satday, July the eleventh, 1023 00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:53,560 Speaker 5: and Nephews coming to town. Where else I'm I'm just 1024 00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:57,399 Speaker 5: flipping through my calendar back to Ruge, Louisiana, Saturday. That's 1025 00:54:57,400 --> 00:55:01,080 Speaker 5: all the twenty ninth, y'all. I'm coming through there, our 1026 00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,880 Speaker 5: our Boston June thirteenth, that's the City Winery. And if 1027 00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:09,240 Speaker 5: you're coming through that, Detroit, Michigan or they got jokes, 1028 00:55:09,680 --> 00:55:14,200 Speaker 5: jazz and jams. That is Father's Day, all right, Sunday, 1029 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:17,480 Speaker 5: Father's Day. That's June twenty first Jokes and jazz and jams. 1030 00:55:17,560 --> 00:55:21,480 Speaker 5: Dougie Fresh Shante More hosted about Yours Truly. We got 1031 00:55:21,520 --> 00:55:24,800 Speaker 5: Marcus Wiley, we got Julian Bond, we got the Williams singer, 1032 00:55:24,840 --> 00:55:31,359 Speaker 5: we got listen sugar heel game. All right, Detroit, we're 1033 00:55:31,360 --> 00:55:32,240 Speaker 5: talking about music. 1034 00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:36,640 Speaker 1: All right, thank you. Coming up next it is my 1035 00:55:36,719 --> 00:55:40,000 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. The subject is my money. My house in 1036 00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:43,359 Speaker 1: my car is a subject. We'll get into it right 1037 00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:46,719 Speaker 1: after this. Hey, this is John Legend. Hi, this is 1038 00:55:46,760 --> 00:55:49,560 Speaker 1: Felicious Shot. Hey, this is Motown Recording artist Camp. 1039 00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,359 Speaker 12: Hey, you's up, I'm here, what's up? This is Chris Rock. 1040 00:55:52,400 --> 00:55:54,680 Speaker 1: Hey, guys myself. Good morning. This is Tony Braxton. You 1041 00:55:54,719 --> 00:55:56,239 Speaker 1: already know what time in East boy DC. 1042 00:55:56,360 --> 00:55:59,280 Speaker 15: Young fly, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Shows. 1043 00:55:59,320 --> 00:56:07,879 Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now 1044 00:56:07,960 --> 00:56:12,520 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. If you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, 1045 00:56:12,560 --> 00:56:15,719 Speaker 1: and more, please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HAARBFM 1046 00:56:15,760 --> 00:56:20,759 Speaker 1: dot com and click Submit Strawberry letter. We could be 1047 00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:23,120 Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're 1048 00:56:23,120 --> 00:56:25,360 Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and 1049 00:56:25,400 --> 00:56:26,960 Speaker 1: you never know it could be yours. 1050 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:33,760 Speaker 15: Okay, you could be yours, butler bit hold on tightest 1051 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:35,279 Speaker 15: time for the strawberry letter? 1052 00:56:36,360 --> 00:56:38,719 Speaker 14: Is that your sexy Tommy imitation? 1053 00:56:39,239 --> 00:56:40,440 Speaker 8: Just like that was Tommy? 1054 00:56:45,160 --> 00:56:48,560 Speaker 1: Thank you Tommy slash Junior. 1055 00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:49,279 Speaker 8: All right? 1056 00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:53,359 Speaker 1: Subject, take my money, my house, and my car. Dear 1057 00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,680 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I'm writing this letter for my older brother 1058 00:56:56,840 --> 00:56:59,799 Speaker 1: that is in love with a gold digger. That term 1059 00:57:00,120 --> 00:57:02,799 Speaker 1: not apply to new relationships, because I know a man 1060 00:57:02,920 --> 00:57:05,600 Speaker 1: is supposed to provide for a woman if he's sleeping 1061 00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,400 Speaker 1: with her, But too many times he's called me to 1062 00:57:08,480 --> 00:57:13,520 Speaker 1: complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. He gives 1063 00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:16,080 Speaker 1: her money to go out with her girlfriend's most weekends, 1064 00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:19,080 Speaker 1: and then she won't even call him till Sunday after 1065 00:57:19,160 --> 00:57:22,040 Speaker 1: she's been out during whatever she wants to do. In 1066 00:57:22,040 --> 00:57:25,440 Speaker 1: case you are wondering, my brother is thirty four years old, 1067 00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:29,600 Speaker 1: but he's the quiet, shy type. He manages several properties 1068 00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:32,600 Speaker 1: and he owns a barber shop, but he doesn't cut hair. 1069 00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,560 Speaker 1: He has plenty of money in free time, and all 1070 00:57:35,600 --> 00:57:38,760 Speaker 1: he wants is to spend it with someone that loves him. 1071 00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:41,760 Speaker 1: He's asked his girlfriend to move in with him, but 1072 00:57:42,280 --> 00:57:46,720 Speaker 1: she said it's too soon now, so now he's trying 1073 00:57:46,760 --> 00:57:50,000 Speaker 1: to get her an engagement ring to make things official. 1074 00:57:50,360 --> 00:57:53,560 Speaker 1: I hinted to her that after two years he's ready 1075 00:57:53,560 --> 00:57:56,120 Speaker 1: to settle down, and she said there is no way 1076 00:57:56,520 --> 00:57:59,680 Speaker 1: that they're ready for marriage. Supposedly, my brother told her 1077 00:57:59,720 --> 00:58:02,120 Speaker 1: to take his money, his house, and his car and 1078 00:58:02,200 --> 00:58:05,600 Speaker 1: whatever else she needs to be happy. She knows she's 1079 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:07,680 Speaker 1: got him right where she wants him, and I can't 1080 00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:10,240 Speaker 1: stand by and let her play him like that. I 1081 00:58:10,320 --> 00:58:12,280 Speaker 1: understand that I don't have a dog in that fight, 1082 00:58:12,400 --> 00:58:14,760 Speaker 1: and if she's making him happy, then I should butt 1083 00:58:14,840 --> 00:58:17,280 Speaker 1: out of it. But my question is, if I have 1084 00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:20,080 Speaker 1: proof that she is sleeping with another man, and she's 1085 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:22,760 Speaker 1: been seen driving the man around in my brother's car, 1086 00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:26,200 Speaker 1: should I tell him? My brother practically raised me, and 1087 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:28,680 Speaker 1: I want the best for him, So what do I 1088 00:58:28,760 --> 00:58:29,680 Speaker 1: do in this situation? 1089 00:58:29,720 --> 00:58:32,360 Speaker 14: Will he hate me forever if I tell him this? 1090 00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:37,360 Speaker 1: Well, the answer to that question is maybe not forever, 1091 00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,560 Speaker 1: but he will be upset with you. And look at this, 1092 00:58:40,720 --> 00:58:43,640 Speaker 1: you might not have to do anything because your big 1093 00:58:43,680 --> 00:58:46,600 Speaker 1: brother has these are your words now called you too 1094 00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:51,080 Speaker 1: many times to complain about her misusing and abusing his kindnesses. 1095 00:58:51,120 --> 00:58:54,400 Speaker 14: So maybe he's getting fed up in some sort of. 1096 00:58:54,400 --> 00:58:59,240 Speaker 1: Way, because people you know, are really feeling when they 1097 00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:01,560 Speaker 1: really are f fieling someone and you start to get 1098 00:59:01,600 --> 00:59:03,960 Speaker 1: all up in their business. Yes, you do run the 1099 00:59:04,080 --> 00:59:08,000 Speaker 1: risk of them turning on you if you tell them. 1100 00:59:08,120 --> 00:59:09,520 Speaker 1: I mean, that's a known fact. 1101 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:10,760 Speaker 14: I know you care. 1102 00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:12,520 Speaker 1: About your brother. I can see it in the letter. 1103 00:59:12,600 --> 00:59:15,080 Speaker 1: I know you do, and you should. He's your brother. 1104 00:59:15,400 --> 00:59:17,959 Speaker 1: But whatever you say to him at this point, he's 1105 00:59:18,040 --> 00:59:20,520 Speaker 1: not gonna hear it. He's not gonna see it because 1106 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:23,000 Speaker 1: he is not trying to hear it and he doesn't 1107 00:59:23,040 --> 00:59:25,640 Speaker 1: want to. Your brother is a big boy, he's a 1108 00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:29,080 Speaker 1: grown man who's gonna find out one of these life lessons, 1109 00:59:29,160 --> 00:59:32,280 Speaker 1: life lessons that you get only by the experience of 1110 00:59:32,360 --> 00:59:37,240 Speaker 1: being with someone like this, someone who he let drive 1111 00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,160 Speaker 1: his car and she's driving some other man around in it. Okay, 1112 00:59:40,240 --> 00:59:43,200 Speaker 1: she's obviously a user, she's taking advantage of your brother. 1113 00:59:43,560 --> 00:59:45,680 Speaker 14: But it's not your business. I'm sorry, it's not your 1114 00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:46,240 Speaker 14: job to. 1115 00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:49,479 Speaker 1: Tell him this. He will find out sooner or later, 1116 00:59:49,560 --> 00:59:52,960 Speaker 1: because they always find out and just be there for 1117 00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:55,920 Speaker 1: him when it's over. He will get over her eventually, 1118 00:59:56,000 --> 00:59:57,840 Speaker 1: But right now he's sprung. Steve. 1119 00:59:58,520 --> 01:00:01,240 Speaker 9: You know how I respond about people or mine and 1120 01:00:01,280 --> 01:00:04,160 Speaker 9: the business. That ain't gonna change you. But my response 1121 01:00:04,280 --> 01:00:07,640 Speaker 9: is going to shock you. Here's a young girl that's 1122 01:00:07,640 --> 01:00:10,400 Speaker 9: writing this letter for her older brother that's in love 1123 01:00:10,480 --> 01:00:13,840 Speaker 9: with a gold digger. Now she thinks that that might 1124 01:00:13,880 --> 01:00:16,160 Speaker 9: not apply to relationships, because I know a man is 1125 01:00:16,160 --> 01:00:20,200 Speaker 9: supposed to provide for a woman if he's sleeping with it. Well, 1126 01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:25,440 Speaker 9: see right there now, if that depends on the arrangement 1127 01:00:25,640 --> 01:00:29,800 Speaker 9: of the arrangement, or shall I say that depends on 1128 01:00:29,880 --> 01:00:34,400 Speaker 9: the agreement of the arrangement, I will provide for you 1129 01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:36,400 Speaker 9: if I see a future. 1130 01:00:37,080 --> 01:00:40,480 Speaker 8: I will invest in you if I see a future. 1131 01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:41,440 Speaker 8: Awes prompt. 1132 01:00:42,160 --> 01:00:45,320 Speaker 9: Now, if we're just kicking it, you might ask me something, 1133 01:00:45,360 --> 01:00:47,720 Speaker 9: I might let you have it. But you're not an 1134 01:00:47,760 --> 01:00:51,600 Speaker 9: obligation to me until I feel obliged to help you, 1135 01:00:51,960 --> 01:00:56,400 Speaker 9: because you show an obligation to me. So let's get 1136 01:00:56,400 --> 01:01:00,160 Speaker 9: that straight away. But she said, too many times he 1137 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:03,720 Speaker 9: can call to complain about her misusing and abusing his 1138 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:07,080 Speaker 9: kindness he gives her money to go out with his girlfriends, 1139 01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:08,880 Speaker 9: and she's been out doing whatever she want to do. 1140 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:09,800 Speaker 12: She don't call. 1141 01:01:09,680 --> 01:01:14,520 Speaker 9: Him till Sunday. Now, then she says, my brother's thirty four. 1142 01:01:15,160 --> 01:01:19,040 Speaker 9: But he's a quiet shot type. He manages several properties. 1143 01:01:19,080 --> 01:01:21,200 Speaker 9: He owns a barber shop, but he don't cut an 1144 01:01:21,400 --> 01:01:24,760 Speaker 9: smart guy. Smart guy. He has plenty of money in 1145 01:01:24,840 --> 01:01:27,680 Speaker 9: free time and all he wants is suspend it with 1146 01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:30,880 Speaker 9: somebody that loves him. That this sounds like a good dude, 1147 01:01:30,920 --> 01:01:34,120 Speaker 9: but he's smart too. He bought a barbershop and don't 1148 01:01:34,160 --> 01:01:38,440 Speaker 9: cut hands. Lord have mercy. So that chair that he 1149 01:01:38,480 --> 01:01:41,760 Speaker 9: would normally be man and making forty dollars a cut 1150 01:01:42,200 --> 01:01:44,600 Speaker 9: this boy that gave that chair to somebody else and 1151 01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:47,640 Speaker 9: charging that dude for the chair, and he can keep 1152 01:01:47,680 --> 01:01:49,640 Speaker 9: his forty for the cut. But I'm gonna need one 1153 01:01:49,680 --> 01:01:51,720 Speaker 9: hundred and fifty two hundred a week for the chair. 1154 01:01:51,960 --> 01:01:55,000 Speaker 9: Whatever it is. Man, I'm finna go owe me a 1155 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:58,720 Speaker 9: barber shop. Appreciate the idea, man, I never thought of that. 1156 01:02:00,120 --> 01:02:02,280 Speaker 9: Don't cut half. He got plenty of money in free 1157 01:02:02,320 --> 01:02:05,880 Speaker 9: time and he just wants somebody. So he asked his 1158 01:02:05,960 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 9: girlfriend to move in him but she says too soon. 1159 01:02:09,280 --> 01:02:11,280 Speaker 9: So now he's trying to get her an engagement reen 1160 01:02:11,360 --> 01:02:13,720 Speaker 9: to make things official. I think somewhere in there he's 1161 01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:17,120 Speaker 9: been seeing her for two years? Is that correct? 1162 01:02:17,160 --> 01:02:20,240 Speaker 8: Two years? 1163 01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:19,360 Speaker 6: Huh? 1164 01:02:20,240 --> 01:02:25,400 Speaker 9: Anyway, supposedly my brother now he hitted that after two 1165 01:02:25,480 --> 01:02:27,800 Speaker 9: years he's ready to settle down. She said, there's no 1166 01:02:27,880 --> 01:02:30,640 Speaker 9: way they're ready for marriage, and it's gonna be obvious 1167 01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,200 Speaker 9: in this letter. My brother told her to take his money, 1168 01:02:33,200 --> 01:02:35,160 Speaker 9: his house's car, whatever else she needs. 1169 01:02:34,920 --> 01:02:37,200 Speaker 8: To be happy. She knows she's got him right where 1170 01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,040 Speaker 8: she wants, and I can't stand by let him play 1171 01:02:39,080 --> 01:02:39,360 Speaker 8: it like that. 1172 01:02:40,480 --> 01:02:42,680 Speaker 9: Shirley says, he's a big boy and he's grown. That's 1173 01:02:42,680 --> 01:02:45,440 Speaker 9: a true statement. What Shirley fails to tell you is 1174 01:02:45,440 --> 01:02:51,040 Speaker 9: that your brother is whipped. Yes, yo, brother whipped. 1175 01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:54,600 Speaker 1: Hang on, Steve, today's strawberry let her subject take my money, 1176 01:02:54,680 --> 01:02:57,120 Speaker 1: my house, and my car. We'll get back into it 1177 01:02:57,240 --> 01:03:06,040 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show. All right, 1178 01:03:06,120 --> 01:03:08,680 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter. 1179 01:03:09,000 --> 01:03:11,640 Speaker 14: The subject take my money, in my house and my car. 1180 01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:13,840 Speaker 1: When we left, you were going to tell the difference 1181 01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:16,720 Speaker 1: between sprung and whipped this. 1182 01:03:16,680 --> 01:03:19,280 Speaker 9: Boy in this letter, this thirty four year old man 1183 01:03:19,320 --> 01:03:21,680 Speaker 9: just being used by this woman. 1184 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:24,720 Speaker 8: He wants to move it further to marriage. She said. 1185 01:03:24,760 --> 01:03:28,440 Speaker 9: There's no way I wish too early to get married. 1186 01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:32,280 Speaker 9: I'll tell you why, she said, Dad. He's giving her everything. 1187 01:03:32,360 --> 01:03:35,160 Speaker 9: He's told her to take off his car, his house, 1188 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:38,200 Speaker 9: his money, just whatever else she needs to be happy. 1189 01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:40,680 Speaker 9: She knows she's got him right where she wants. And 1190 01:03:40,720 --> 01:03:42,600 Speaker 9: I can't stand by and let him play like that, 1191 01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:46,480 Speaker 9: I said. Shirley is absolutely right in saying that he's 1192 01:03:46,520 --> 01:03:48,640 Speaker 9: a big boy in the grown man. She just left 1193 01:03:48,640 --> 01:03:53,720 Speaker 9: off the fact that he's quipped. Shirley said, he's sprung. 1194 01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:54,920 Speaker 10: Uh huh. 1195 01:03:55,160 --> 01:03:59,040 Speaker 9: There is a difference. Let me help you understand something, ladies. 1196 01:04:01,080 --> 01:04:03,240 Speaker 9: It's when a man is around you and he feels 1197 01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:06,680 Speaker 9: all tingling. Sprong is when a man is around you 1198 01:04:06,720 --> 01:04:10,479 Speaker 9: and he feels all giddy. Sprung is when a man 1199 01:04:10,600 --> 01:04:14,760 Speaker 9: wants to be in your company all the time. That's sprung. Okay, 1200 01:04:15,080 --> 01:04:19,880 Speaker 9: Sprung is wondering what you do where you're going? Quill, 1201 01:04:20,960 --> 01:04:30,440 Speaker 9: it's different. She don't put something on this boy so strong? 1202 01:04:31,160 --> 01:04:32,640 Speaker 8: Is Lil voodoo? 1203 01:04:35,840 --> 01:04:38,320 Speaker 9: The old saying, is he looking for her? In the 1204 01:04:38,400 --> 01:04:40,400 Speaker 9: daytime with a flashlight. 1205 01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:46,160 Speaker 1: All right, Julie noted, Okay. 1206 01:04:43,160 --> 01:04:43,240 Speaker 4: This. 1207 01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:50,959 Speaker 9: Is how he talked when he round her by this boy, 1208 01:04:51,040 --> 01:04:54,480 Speaker 9: this boy right here, sprong when they in the bed. 1209 01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:59,640 Speaker 9: This boy, he boy, he can't control himself as she 1210 01:04:59,720 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 9: got and that's what the problem is. Now she knows 1211 01:05:04,520 --> 01:05:06,400 Speaker 9: she got him right where she wants him, and I 1212 01:05:06,440 --> 01:05:08,560 Speaker 9: can't stand by and let him playing like that. I 1213 01:05:08,640 --> 01:05:10,840 Speaker 9: understand that I don't have a dog in this fight, 1214 01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:14,840 Speaker 9: and if she's making him happy, then I should. But out, well, 1215 01:05:14,880 --> 01:05:18,640 Speaker 9: she's not making him happy, she's making him unhappy. He 1216 01:05:18,840 --> 01:05:22,960 Speaker 9: always calls you to complain about he's being misused. But 1217 01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:26,920 Speaker 9: that whip thing, that thing got him thinking it he 1218 01:05:27,040 --> 01:05:30,960 Speaker 9: can fix it. So now he want to rush to 1219 01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:36,040 Speaker 9: get her a ring because he wants her to move 1220 01:05:36,440 --> 01:05:41,640 Speaker 9: forward with this. But now the young girl says that 1221 01:05:41,720 --> 01:05:45,160 Speaker 9: she has proof she's sleeping with another man, and she's 1222 01:05:45,240 --> 01:05:48,040 Speaker 9: been seen driving the man around in my brother's car. 1223 01:05:48,360 --> 01:05:51,480 Speaker 9: Should I tell him? My brother practically raised me. I 1224 01:05:51,520 --> 01:05:53,280 Speaker 9: want the best for him, So what should I do 1225 01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:55,439 Speaker 9: in this? Will he hate me forever if I tell 1226 01:05:55,520 --> 01:05:58,200 Speaker 9: him this? No, he won't hate you forever, because this 1227 01:05:58,320 --> 01:06:03,000 Speaker 9: is a different situation is the shaker, Yes, you should 1228 01:06:03,320 --> 01:06:12,240 Speaker 9: tell him what that is, Steve, Yes, you should tell him. 1229 01:06:12,600 --> 01:06:17,040 Speaker 9: See this is quite different, oh, because listen to me. 1230 01:06:18,080 --> 01:06:23,200 Speaker 9: See Normally it's girlfriends that see their girlfriend's man out 1231 01:06:23,280 --> 01:06:26,880 Speaker 9: somewhere and see him with a woman not in the 1232 01:06:27,000 --> 01:06:30,640 Speaker 9: act of nothing, but then wants to report that you 1233 01:06:30,680 --> 01:06:33,680 Speaker 9: don't know what that situation is over there, and that 1234 01:06:33,880 --> 01:06:36,800 Speaker 9: report and that that ain't you gonna start to fire 1235 01:06:36,800 --> 01:06:38,479 Speaker 9: a house that don't need to get lit. 1236 01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:40,440 Speaker 8: This is different. 1237 01:06:41,200 --> 01:06:45,120 Speaker 9: This is a young sister trying to protect her older 1238 01:06:45,200 --> 01:06:49,240 Speaker 9: brother and has proof that she's sleeping with another man 1239 01:06:49,480 --> 01:06:51,920 Speaker 9: because she's seen another man in. 1240 01:06:51,800 --> 01:06:55,280 Speaker 8: Her brother car with her. You got to tell your brother, 1241 01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:56,520 Speaker 8: so the proof. 1242 01:06:56,560 --> 01:06:59,000 Speaker 14: It's because she has proof saying she got proof. 1243 01:06:59,080 --> 01:07:02,000 Speaker 9: This ain't speculation. She's been seen in the car with 1244 01:07:02,080 --> 01:07:08,120 Speaker 9: another man. Hey, man, that is so disrespectful on her 1245 01:07:08,280 --> 01:07:13,600 Speaker 9: part and justice disrespectful on the dupot. And he's your brother. 1246 01:07:14,360 --> 01:07:17,760 Speaker 9: This ain't your friend, this your brother. You have got 1247 01:07:17,840 --> 01:07:21,000 Speaker 9: to go and tell your brother this. Will he hate 1248 01:07:21,000 --> 01:07:23,800 Speaker 9: me fever. He gonna be a little ticked at you, 1249 01:07:23,840 --> 01:07:26,560 Speaker 9: but he gonna get over that because he needs to 1250 01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 9: know the truth. This is why she say it's too 1251 01:07:29,760 --> 01:07:33,240 Speaker 9: early to get married. Because she got access to his money, 1252 01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:37,280 Speaker 9: his house, and his car. He knows she'll give him anything, 1253 01:07:37,760 --> 01:07:40,400 Speaker 9: and she can have her cake and eat it too. 1254 01:07:41,160 --> 01:07:44,200 Speaker 9: Why would she get married and stop the gravy train 1255 01:07:44,560 --> 01:07:47,680 Speaker 9: when the gravy train is rolling all over time? You 1256 01:07:47,840 --> 01:07:51,520 Speaker 9: have got to tell your brother this information. And I 1257 01:07:51,600 --> 01:07:55,320 Speaker 9: know y'all are surprised, but just let me tell you something. 1258 01:07:55,760 --> 01:08:01,240 Speaker 9: If my sister saw a girl I was dating driving 1259 01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:04,600 Speaker 9: my car with another man in it, my sister coming 1260 01:08:04,640 --> 01:08:08,640 Speaker 9: to me, stead, you come here. This little heffle was 1261 01:08:08,720 --> 01:08:11,919 Speaker 9: down there on shap Pill with a man in your car. 1262 01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,640 Speaker 9: Now she already knows what's finna happen. I'm finna get 1263 01:08:15,680 --> 01:08:19,439 Speaker 9: the key and I'm finna find this man somebody getting there. 1264 01:08:20,120 --> 01:08:23,200 Speaker 9: You have got to tell your brother because your brother 1265 01:08:23,280 --> 01:08:26,840 Speaker 9: has called you complaining she abusing him and tricking him, 1266 01:08:26,840 --> 01:08:28,640 Speaker 9: and all this here he putting over with that he 1267 01:08:28,640 --> 01:08:31,200 Speaker 9: can take some more bad news. He been handling the 1268 01:08:31,320 --> 01:08:33,479 Speaker 9: bad he's been handling all the bad news. Pretty good 1269 01:08:33,520 --> 01:08:34,120 Speaker 9: something for junior. 1270 01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,519 Speaker 13: What I'm trying to figure out? 1271 01:08:36,760 --> 01:08:37,519 Speaker 3: Who will you? 1272 01:08:37,680 --> 01:08:40,920 Speaker 15: Who are you right now? Because lying is what you do. 1273 01:08:41,160 --> 01:08:41,960 Speaker 15: I thought this would be. 1274 01:08:41,960 --> 01:08:42,479 Speaker 8: A good time. 1275 01:08:42,640 --> 01:08:43,120 Speaker 1: Just lie? 1276 01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:44,479 Speaker 8: Who need to lie? Here? 1277 01:08:44,880 --> 01:08:47,160 Speaker 9: The lady in the left, the lady that's doing all 1278 01:08:47,200 --> 01:08:51,360 Speaker 9: the receptive stuff, is already lied, So why should the 1279 01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:54,680 Speaker 9: little sister pick up her lit? You don't aid a 1280 01:08:54,720 --> 01:08:59,160 Speaker 9: bad line, Okay, you ate a purpose, folk, and good 1281 01:08:59,240 --> 01:09:01,160 Speaker 9: lie the rules tonight? 1282 01:09:01,360 --> 01:09:05,000 Speaker 8: All right? Listen, you're gonna be married long this time? 1283 01:09:07,680 --> 01:09:07,840 Speaker 9: Yeah. 1284 01:09:08,520 --> 01:09:11,720 Speaker 1: On Instagram and at Steve Harvey f M, and check 1285 01:09:11,720 --> 01:09:13,960 Speaker 1: out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. 1286 01:09:15,120 --> 01:09:17,960 Speaker 8: This Steve Harbin Martin show man Flord. 1287 01:09:17,680 --> 01:09:19,960 Speaker 1: Says, I've been sleeping with our yard man for a 1288 01:09:20,000 --> 01:09:23,240 Speaker 1: while and he doesn't like wearing protection. We got into 1289 01:09:23,320 --> 01:09:25,720 Speaker 1: an argument about it, and now he's not answering my 1290 01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:27,880 Speaker 1: husband's texts to come to our yard. 1291 01:09:28,160 --> 01:09:31,880 Speaker 14: How can he be so petty when he knows I'm married. 1292 01:09:32,320 --> 01:09:33,320 Speaker 8: Right here, right here? 1293 01:09:33,680 --> 01:09:37,000 Speaker 9: God, y'all, y'all got to quit writing us with all 1294 01:09:37,040 --> 01:09:39,519 Speaker 9: this craziness, acting like its normal. 1295 01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:41,760 Speaker 3: Yes, you're not qualified. 1296 01:09:42,600 --> 01:09:44,840 Speaker 8: Don't what y'all want me to do? 1297 01:09:45,120 --> 01:09:49,840 Speaker 9: Yes, y'all, y'all, I can't apply no rules to this stuff, 1298 01:09:50,400 --> 01:09:53,120 Speaker 9: cause y'all keep coming up with all this abnormal mess 1299 01:09:53,160 --> 01:09:54,200 Speaker 9: like it's regular. 1300 01:09:56,200 --> 01:09:56,879 Speaker 3: Up right after. 1301 01:10:01,040 --> 01:10:04,080 Speaker 1: All? Right, normally we would be doing junior sports talk 1302 01:10:04,200 --> 01:10:07,320 Speaker 1: right here. But Junior, you have questions about discovery letters, 1303 01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:09,559 Speaker 1: take my money, my house, in my car. 1304 01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:12,920 Speaker 15: Yeah, you know jose didn't mean none of that. What 1305 01:10:13,320 --> 01:10:15,439 Speaker 15: he doing he that is not what Josey was saying 1306 01:10:15,479 --> 01:10:17,439 Speaker 15: about what I'm asking you. 1307 01:10:17,520 --> 01:10:20,160 Speaker 1: Un is okay? Normally, unh you are. 1308 01:10:20,120 --> 01:10:22,920 Speaker 12: The person who will go along and lie. 1309 01:10:23,479 --> 01:10:26,760 Speaker 15: Yeah, you saying this is not the time to lie, 1310 01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:28,360 Speaker 15: and this is what we should tell the truth. 1311 01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:31,320 Speaker 8: Listen to me, junior. It is rules to liar. 1312 01:10:32,439 --> 01:10:36,599 Speaker 9: You got to know the lie by lawlaw. 1313 01:10:37,439 --> 01:10:41,920 Speaker 1: Just what see this is? This is a new person. 1314 01:10:42,040 --> 01:10:44,160 Speaker 1: This is confusing you. Your lie. 1315 01:10:44,800 --> 01:10:51,240 Speaker 9: Number one has to have a direct purpose, okay. Number 1316 01:10:51,280 --> 01:10:55,040 Speaker 9: two rule of line. It should be done in order 1317 01:10:55,120 --> 01:11:00,679 Speaker 9: to save or rescue or to number three. Number three, 1318 01:11:01,400 --> 01:11:05,559 Speaker 9: the lie should be a preventive measure. You want to 1319 01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:08,240 Speaker 9: prevent the feelings being heard? 1320 01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:12,000 Speaker 8: Ye, the shock. It has to have a purpose. 1321 01:11:13,160 --> 01:11:17,320 Speaker 9: Yeah, and it has to have a lie that's aimed 1322 01:11:17,360 --> 01:11:22,439 Speaker 9: at making something better. And number four, the lie must 1323 01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,640 Speaker 9: be given to hold it on to what you have. 1324 01:11:26,200 --> 01:11:31,120 Speaker 8: What Yes, dogs are the bylaw. I don't give a charity. 1325 01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:32,759 Speaker 8: These are the bylaws of lion. 1326 01:11:33,120 --> 01:11:34,880 Speaker 14: What lie makes something better? 1327 01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:36,520 Speaker 8: Steve it does. 1328 01:11:36,400 --> 01:11:39,640 Speaker 9: If you if your wife say to you, where have 1329 01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:43,840 Speaker 9: you been? And you say I stopped at the stone? Okay, 1330 01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,519 Speaker 9: why would I say I stopped at. 1331 01:11:46,439 --> 01:11:47,520 Speaker 8: The strip club. 1332 01:11:48,800 --> 01:11:52,680 Speaker 9: Because I wanted to see diamond dust one more time more? 1333 01:11:52,720 --> 01:11:55,479 Speaker 1: I came to this house so we have to see you. 1334 01:11:55,960 --> 01:11:58,040 Speaker 8: And you don't look nothing like diamond dust. 1335 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:03,439 Speaker 9: And diamond dust can slide down the pole on her 1336 01:12:03,640 --> 01:12:05,200 Speaker 9: butt with no hands. 1337 01:12:06,600 --> 01:12:08,720 Speaker 1: Why would I want to see that myself? 1338 01:12:09,040 --> 01:12:09,240 Speaker 10: Yeah? 1339 01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:10,760 Speaker 8: Except but I'm not gonna tell you that. 1340 01:12:10,880 --> 01:12:14,880 Speaker 9: So the lie becomes necessary now, Jui in this letter, okay, 1341 01:12:15,040 --> 01:12:17,840 Speaker 9: the woman that's deceiving, the gold digger that's playing her 1342 01:12:17,880 --> 01:12:21,479 Speaker 9: brother is lying to her brother. The young girl has 1343 01:12:21,640 --> 01:12:25,040 Speaker 9: no reason to lie to her brother because it's not 1344 01:12:25,320 --> 01:12:30,320 Speaker 9: saving anything and it's just nothing good. She has now 1345 01:12:31,560 --> 01:12:35,599 Speaker 9: tell her brother the truth. Man, you need to learn 1346 01:12:35,720 --> 01:12:36,760 Speaker 9: these bylows. 1347 01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:39,519 Speaker 1: Just say it truth. 1348 01:12:39,880 --> 01:12:41,160 Speaker 15: You just say it truth. 1349 01:12:41,800 --> 01:12:43,559 Speaker 3: You You never say truth? 1350 01:12:44,600 --> 01:12:46,479 Speaker 8: You never I say truth all the time. 1351 01:12:47,760 --> 01:12:51,600 Speaker 11: That's a lie, lie when the truth will do? 1352 01:12:52,240 --> 01:13:00,880 Speaker 9: I say truth all the time when I'm not Lying's. 1353 01:12:57,920 --> 01:13:00,000 Speaker 8: Steve Harbin, Marty show Man. 1354 01:13:00,000 --> 01:13:06,679 Speaker 9: I ain't do nothing around my crack, and you're tattoo 1355 01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:08,200 Speaker 9: you can't sketch on it. 1356 01:13:08,240 --> 01:13:08,679 Speaker 8: You can't. 1357 01:13:09,560 --> 01:13:13,479 Speaker 9: You can't put tracing paper on my crack. And I'm 1358 01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:15,519 Speaker 9: not gonna hold steal. I just can't do it because 1359 01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:16,160 Speaker 9: I'm a clinch. 1360 01:13:16,439 --> 01:13:16,960 Speaker 3: I'm a clinch. 1361 01:13:17,000 --> 01:13:19,519 Speaker 9: I'm gonna tell your paper. I'm gonna tell your paper. 1362 01:13:21,040 --> 01:13:23,599 Speaker 9: I'm just trying to tell you. You can't do nothing, Carla, 1363 01:13:24,439 --> 01:13:27,800 Speaker 9: I can't do nothing around mine. I'm telling you right, 1364 01:13:27,840 --> 01:13:30,280 Speaker 9: it ain't gonna work. I don't know what piscol you got. 1365 01:13:30,320 --> 01:13:33,599 Speaker 8: You think he's gonna draw, but you're finna get your 1366 01:13:33,600 --> 01:13:34,320 Speaker 8: pencil broke. 1367 01:13:34,600 --> 01:13:37,080 Speaker 9: That's all I'm taking. The tattoo gun ain't gonna be 1368 01:13:37,080 --> 01:13:41,680 Speaker 9: an work no more. How does I snap a needle? Show? 1369 01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:46,880 Speaker 9: Coming up right after you? 1370 01:13:46,920 --> 01:13:49,680 Speaker 1: All right, Steve, here's a couple of wedding questions for you. 1371 01:13:49,760 --> 01:13:52,080 Speaker 1: Are seeing Texas says, I'm getting married at the end 1372 01:13:52,080 --> 01:13:55,760 Speaker 1: of June, and I slept with one of my fiance's cousins. 1373 01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:58,680 Speaker 1: I did not know they were related until we had 1374 01:13:58,720 --> 01:14:02,160 Speaker 1: our engagement party ago. I've been dealing with the guilt, 1375 01:14:02,240 --> 01:14:04,240 Speaker 1: and I think I will feel better if I tell 1376 01:14:04,280 --> 01:14:07,640 Speaker 1: my fiance what happened. The cousin said, although it was 1377 01:14:07,680 --> 01:14:11,559 Speaker 1: a big mistake, I would be more. I would be 1378 01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:14,200 Speaker 1: more at fault because I cheated and it was with 1379 01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:17,599 Speaker 1: his family. I still want to clear my conscience? Should 1380 01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:17,960 Speaker 1: I tell? 1381 01:14:19,280 --> 01:14:19,439 Speaker 12: No? 1382 01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:21,960 Speaker 1: Would you say it? 1383 01:14:22,000 --> 01:14:25,000 Speaker 8: Don't make no sense? It don't explain to me what 1384 01:14:25,160 --> 01:14:25,840 Speaker 8: that will do? 1385 01:14:30,200 --> 01:14:30,479 Speaker 6: Huh? 1386 01:14:30,880 --> 01:14:31,839 Speaker 14: Clear of the conscience? 1387 01:14:32,080 --> 01:14:33,080 Speaker 13: You got cleary? 1388 01:14:33,320 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 8: You don't need no clear conscience? 1389 01:14:35,400 --> 01:14:36,600 Speaker 1: Who to the room? 1390 01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:39,599 Speaker 9: Hey, don let me ex play some teeth. My conscious 1391 01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:40,639 Speaker 9: cloudy as hell? 1392 01:14:42,320 --> 01:14:43,880 Speaker 8: I can you walk right through it? 1393 01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:44,840 Speaker 4: No? 1394 01:14:46,280 --> 01:14:49,719 Speaker 8: Well, every night i'd be in good and everythink. 1395 01:14:50,479 --> 01:14:54,200 Speaker 9: No, my conscious cloudy is here. What makes you think 1396 01:14:54,280 --> 01:14:56,800 Speaker 9: you need a clear conscience? She better get rid of 1397 01:14:56,840 --> 01:14:59,479 Speaker 9: stupid floation. Boys, you're gonna go in there and tell 1398 01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:02,639 Speaker 9: your wife you slept with her cousin for what? 1399 01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:04,719 Speaker 8: Because you're clear? 1400 01:15:04,800 --> 01:15:05,440 Speaker 1: Conscious? 1401 01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:05,960 Speaker 13: Dog? 1402 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:08,240 Speaker 9: You know how men people live with a cloudy conscious. 1403 01:15:08,479 --> 01:15:10,680 Speaker 9: It's okay, Like a lot of times I don't even 1404 01:15:11,520 --> 01:15:14,439 Speaker 9: don't even have one. You only have one some day. 1405 01:15:20,200 --> 01:15:21,080 Speaker 1: Don't say a word. 1406 01:15:21,960 --> 01:15:23,800 Speaker 8: It's just a lot of days I don't even need 1407 01:15:23,840 --> 01:15:28,599 Speaker 8: my conscious clear. 1408 01:15:29,200 --> 01:15:32,479 Speaker 9: You need to stop this stupidity you're talking about. Clear 1409 01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:35,760 Speaker 9: your You finish clear your conscious, You finish clear out 1410 01:15:35,760 --> 01:15:38,679 Speaker 9: your wife, you finish clear out your family. And she finish, 1411 01:15:38,760 --> 01:15:40,960 Speaker 9: clear out your bank account. You go in there talking 1412 01:15:40,960 --> 01:15:43,880 Speaker 9: about clearing your conscious to tell your wife you cheated 1413 01:15:43,880 --> 01:15:45,840 Speaker 9: with her cousin. I can't tell you how much. 1414 01:15:45,680 --> 01:15:51,599 Speaker 1: That's gonna clear up to have a clean that's what 1415 01:15:51,640 --> 01:15:51,840 Speaker 1: it is. 1416 01:15:52,400 --> 01:15:54,840 Speaker 8: Clean too much? Stop this. 1417 01:15:56,160 --> 01:16:00,080 Speaker 9: You can't keep telling you all that. 1418 01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:03,599 Speaker 8: What is this? We got to share everything? What keeps 1419 01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:05,600 Speaker 8: telling y'all this information? 1420 01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:06,120 Speaker 10: Man? 1421 01:16:07,920 --> 01:16:12,960 Speaker 9: You want to have a successful marriage? Shut show? 1422 01:16:13,479 --> 01:16:16,280 Speaker 14: That sounds crazy yourself, that sounds. 1423 01:16:16,200 --> 01:16:17,440 Speaker 8: That sounds crazy. 1424 01:16:17,800 --> 01:16:20,920 Speaker 1: Yes, if you want to have married. 1425 01:16:20,640 --> 01:16:23,840 Speaker 9: Let me ask three if let me ask you three 1426 01:16:23,880 --> 01:16:25,080 Speaker 9: married people on this show. 1427 01:16:25,080 --> 01:16:29,519 Speaker 8: Of course, honesty is the best policy. This is what 1428 01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:30,519 Speaker 8: we always say. 1429 01:16:32,040 --> 01:16:37,600 Speaker 9: Now, have you told your husband everything about you? 1430 01:16:38,160 --> 01:16:38,720 Speaker 8: Everything? 1431 01:16:39,720 --> 01:16:43,800 Speaker 14: No? 1432 01:16:41,880 --> 01:16:46,599 Speaker 1: No, some stuff take to my grade? 1433 01:16:47,680 --> 01:16:49,439 Speaker 8: Okay, I just know. 1434 01:16:50,479 --> 01:16:53,440 Speaker 9: Have you told your husband everything about yourself? 1435 01:16:54,200 --> 01:16:55,720 Speaker 14: No, sir, that would be enough for me. 1436 01:16:55,800 --> 01:16:59,759 Speaker 9: Now let's ask the food and here, Thomas Miles. 1437 01:17:01,479 --> 01:17:04,040 Speaker 8: Have you told your wife anything? 1438 01:17:05,640 --> 01:17:07,240 Speaker 1: Not everything? Anything? 1439 01:17:07,920 --> 01:17:10,960 Speaker 8: Everything? Steee. 1440 01:17:10,960 --> 01:17:13,920 Speaker 5: I got two caskets, one for me and one is 1441 01:17:13,920 --> 01:17:16,439 Speaker 5: for all the stuff that I'm taking with me. 1442 01:17:16,560 --> 01:17:18,320 Speaker 1: What is it talking about to make a grade so 1443 01:17:19,320 --> 01:17:20,840 Speaker 1: you can't take it with you? 1444 01:17:22,439 --> 01:17:22,599 Speaker 10: Oh? 1445 01:17:22,720 --> 01:17:24,600 Speaker 5: This is the other stuff? You don't know nothing about it. 1446 01:17:24,640 --> 01:17:26,120 Speaker 5: I got to bury that too. I'm not I'm not 1447 01:17:26,080 --> 01:17:29,679 Speaker 5: gonna mad it. Man, I got two plots. I don't 1448 01:17:29,720 --> 01:17:30,439 Speaker 5: know what y'all talking. 1449 01:17:30,600 --> 01:17:32,639 Speaker 1: Okay, So I get what you say about the honesty. 1450 01:17:32,720 --> 01:17:35,679 Speaker 11: But this, this is a relationship with. 1451 01:17:35,600 --> 01:17:39,880 Speaker 1: The cousin the family. They didn't know, they didn't know 1452 01:17:39,960 --> 01:17:40,960 Speaker 1: that they. 1453 01:17:40,840 --> 01:17:45,679 Speaker 11: Were related and when the relationship happened. So she shouldn't 1454 01:17:45,680 --> 01:17:48,040 Speaker 11: say anything or he shouldn't say anything. 1455 01:17:48,320 --> 01:17:49,320 Speaker 12: Is this a guy or girl? 1456 01:17:49,360 --> 01:17:50,360 Speaker 8: I got confused on that. 1457 01:17:51,240 --> 01:17:51,639 Speaker 12: Not sure? 1458 01:17:51,840 --> 01:17:52,840 Speaker 1: R C is some man. 1459 01:17:54,680 --> 01:17:59,960 Speaker 8: W Fion says cousin a year ago did not know 1460 01:18:00,120 --> 01:18:04,400 Speaker 8: they related and found out. Okay, so it's come forward. 1461 01:18:05,840 --> 01:18:08,200 Speaker 1: They should have taked a year ago. They were gonna tell. 1462 01:18:12,800 --> 01:18:14,880 Speaker 14: Yeah, I mean they were going to. 1463 01:18:14,840 --> 01:18:16,880 Speaker 13: All right, what is what is telling it? 1464 01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:17,080 Speaker 10: What? 1465 01:18:18,920 --> 01:18:21,599 Speaker 1: Alright? Listen, we gotta go coming up in twenty minutes 1466 01:18:21,640 --> 01:18:24,160 Speaker 1: after the hour, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey 1467 01:18:24,160 --> 01:18:25,400 Speaker 1: Morning Show right after this. 1468 01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:28,240 Speaker 13: If you wasn't in there, nicked, this ain't got none built. 1469 01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:36,160 Speaker 1: You you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. The 1470 01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:40,839 Speaker 1: controversial dating app Ashley Madison has revealed the top American 1471 01:18:40,960 --> 01:18:45,639 Speaker 1: cities for adulterree Okay, keep in mind this dating app 1472 01:18:45,680 --> 01:18:49,760 Speaker 1: slogan is life is short, have an affair. Okay, So 1473 01:18:49,960 --> 01:18:55,080 Speaker 1: here that's there. That's there's motto and their slogan. All right, 1474 01:18:55,200 --> 01:18:58,000 Speaker 1: here's some of the top cheating cities. This is according 1475 01:18:58,000 --> 01:19:04,720 Speaker 1: to Ashley Madison. All Right, Buffalo, New York, Tampa, Las Vegas. 1476 01:19:05,080 --> 01:19:12,720 Speaker 1: We all know that one, right, Atlanta, Richmond, Virginia, Cincinnati, 1477 01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:18,360 Speaker 1: Uh huh, Baton rouge wow, uh huh. Miami fell off 1478 01:19:18,400 --> 01:19:22,040 Speaker 1: from the number one spot. Any guesses on what the 1479 01:19:22,120 --> 01:19:26,280 Speaker 1: number one spot might be? Any guesses a new or 1480 01:19:26,920 --> 01:19:37,680 Speaker 1: uh uh? You would think so DC? Nope, Steve, New York, 1481 01:19:37,800 --> 01:19:41,040 Speaker 1: New York. No good guesses, all good guesses, but no. 1482 01:19:41,560 --> 01:19:44,680 Speaker 8: Down Salt Lake City, Utah. 1483 01:19:45,200 --> 01:19:55,040 Speaker 1: Random, excellent guests. But the number one is Columbus, Ohio. Columbus, Ohio, 1484 01:19:55,439 --> 01:19:58,800 Speaker 1: the number one city, your cheaters. Yeah, and Cleveland is 1485 01:19:58,800 --> 01:20:05,519 Speaker 1: all also in there. Cleveland's in there. Oh three, Cleveland. 1486 01:20:06,720 --> 01:20:11,679 Speaker 8: I'd do there for the survey was out everybody in Cleveland. 1487 01:20:11,680 --> 01:20:12,639 Speaker 8: No life too short? 1488 01:20:14,200 --> 01:20:16,680 Speaker 1: Coming up in thirty three minutes after we'll play around it, 1489 01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:19,640 Speaker 1: would you rather? Right after this, you're listening to the 1490 01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:21,400 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1491 01:20:25,400 --> 01:20:26,799 Speaker 14: And it's time now for a rounded. 1492 01:20:26,840 --> 01:20:29,639 Speaker 1: Would you rather would you rather go the whole summer 1493 01:20:30,200 --> 01:20:33,479 Speaker 1: without music, or would you rather go the whole summer 1494 01:20:33,920 --> 01:20:35,040 Speaker 1: without movies? 1495 01:20:36,280 --> 01:20:38,320 Speaker 8: I go the whole summer without movies. Yeah? 1496 01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:41,559 Speaker 1: Really movie? 1497 01:20:42,080 --> 01:20:43,920 Speaker 12: No, no, I'm going without that music. 1498 01:20:44,160 --> 01:20:44,400 Speaker 5: Yeah. 1499 01:20:44,479 --> 01:20:46,439 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it get the. 1500 01:20:46,520 --> 01:20:50,000 Speaker 12: Movies, but I got to have the movie had a music, Yes, 1501 01:20:51,240 --> 01:20:52,160 Speaker 12: the music. 1502 01:20:53,160 --> 01:20:54,360 Speaker 4: And them up. 1503 01:20:54,360 --> 01:20:56,040 Speaker 5: They got a little they got a score on that. 1504 01:20:56,120 --> 01:20:57,479 Speaker 5: It's gonna be a little bit of music on the 1505 01:20:57,600 --> 01:20:58,000 Speaker 5: on the movie. 1506 01:20:58,040 --> 01:20:58,479 Speaker 8: I don't want. 1507 01:20:58,400 --> 01:21:02,400 Speaker 9: To get you the sound and action. 1508 01:21:02,840 --> 01:21:05,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, the soundtrack. 1509 01:21:05,880 --> 01:21:09,559 Speaker 9: You can't you can't hum no music, you can't sing, 1510 01:21:09,720 --> 01:21:13,200 Speaker 9: no music. You can't hear no music? Now, yeah, no, 1511 01:21:13,760 --> 01:21:14,439 Speaker 9: good movies. 1512 01:21:14,840 --> 01:21:19,640 Speaker 8: Movie, you're not any more men without watching a movie? 1513 01:21:19,920 --> 01:21:21,320 Speaker 1: How many years you didn't done it up? 1514 01:21:23,760 --> 01:21:26,120 Speaker 8: When I lived in the car, I ain't never saw 1515 01:21:26,160 --> 01:21:28,280 Speaker 8: a movie, a movie, TV? 1516 01:21:28,600 --> 01:21:34,599 Speaker 5: No your favorite, No Denzel, no Appacino, no DeNiro, no, no, 1517 01:21:34,600 --> 01:21:37,160 Speaker 5: no what No, we're not doing that. 1518 01:21:37,479 --> 01:21:42,640 Speaker 2: And Steve hasn't seen some classics like No Davis, have 1519 01:21:42,720 --> 01:21:44,360 Speaker 2: you seen no Morgan Freeman? 1520 01:21:44,840 --> 01:21:45,840 Speaker 14: Have you heard a boomerang? 1521 01:21:46,800 --> 01:21:47,679 Speaker 3: Ain't that crazy? 1522 01:21:47,880 --> 01:21:49,280 Speaker 8: You've never seen boomerang? 1523 01:21:49,560 --> 01:21:56,360 Speaker 1: What you heard? You don't know Barry was in Boomerang. 1524 01:21:56,439 --> 01:21:57,599 Speaker 13: He was the lead lady. 1525 01:21:59,520 --> 01:22:01,680 Speaker 8: You ain't the movie? How the hell you know? 1526 01:22:02,360 --> 01:22:05,160 Speaker 1: But oh you heard the house rack do hate you? Yeah, 1527 01:22:05,200 --> 01:22:14,280 Speaker 1: that's downtracking. All right, we're moving on. On a hot 1528 01:22:14,320 --> 01:22:16,759 Speaker 1: summer day. Would you rather cool down in a nice 1529 01:22:16,840 --> 01:22:20,800 Speaker 1: bath outside or in an air conditioned room inside? 1530 01:22:21,280 --> 01:22:24,800 Speaker 8: Let me tell y'all right, now, get your air condition room. 1531 01:22:28,080 --> 01:22:29,719 Speaker 1: Plunge, baby, you're. 1532 01:22:29,600 --> 01:22:32,599 Speaker 9: Talking to somebody. Cold plunge every morning? Did it this morning? 1533 01:22:33,000 --> 01:22:37,000 Speaker 9: Get your air condition room. You don't want to do 1534 01:22:37,120 --> 01:22:38,360 Speaker 9: this minute? 1535 01:22:38,840 --> 01:22:40,840 Speaker 13: What's the time? How long a you in the water? 1536 01:22:41,720 --> 01:22:43,719 Speaker 8: Six minutes? I do a full six. 1537 01:22:44,280 --> 01:22:46,840 Speaker 1: Fresh all right? Would you rather have a one night 1538 01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:50,080 Speaker 1: stand with a stranger or would you rather have a 1539 01:22:50,120 --> 01:22:52,960 Speaker 1: one night stand with your spouse's best friend? 1540 01:22:53,280 --> 01:22:54,679 Speaker 8: My spouse's best friends. 1541 01:22:55,920 --> 01:22:59,400 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't even know what this stranger gonna look like. 1542 01:22:59,400 --> 01:23:03,519 Speaker 12: I'm gonna take this strange route. I'm not doing, Junior. 1543 01:23:03,840 --> 01:23:05,240 Speaker 12: I just got mad. I'm not answering that. 1544 01:23:06,840 --> 01:23:08,800 Speaker 1: Right, all right, Steve that folks. 1545 01:23:09,360 --> 01:23:13,439 Speaker 13: Come on, why why you don't leave away off the mic? 1546 01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:16,559 Speaker 13: What you're doing? Come on, come on, cold plunge into this. 1547 01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:20,240 Speaker 1: Stranger. 1548 01:23:22,320 --> 01:23:25,840 Speaker 13: You we got ten seconds you don't answer today. 1549 01:23:25,600 --> 01:23:28,519 Speaker 14: We're gonna carry it over until tomorrow, So answer it now. 1550 01:23:33,280 --> 01:23:37,040 Speaker 7: That's today's round of would you rather? Obviously Steam doesn't 1551 01:23:37,080 --> 01:23:40,280 Speaker 7: want to answer to tomorrow. Yeah, come on in forty 1552 01:23:40,360 --> 01:23:42,960 Speaker 7: nine minutes after, we'll have our last breakup the day 1553 01:23:43,000 --> 01:23:44,799 Speaker 7: and some closing remarks from. 1554 01:23:44,680 --> 01:23:45,280 Speaker 1: The man who. 1555 01:23:45,160 --> 01:23:46,799 Speaker 7: Doesn't want to answer the question. 1556 01:23:47,280 --> 01:23:48,000 Speaker 1: Right after this. 1557 01:23:49,680 --> 01:23:55,320 Speaker 8: Str show Man line three, We got a cinnimon Is 1558 01:23:55,360 --> 01:23:56,160 Speaker 8: that your real name? 1559 01:23:56,400 --> 01:24:07,880 Speaker 17: Yes, Je Voats Honey, Bobby lad Wilson, I'm. 1560 01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:15,679 Speaker 8: Gonna name my baby gun Pow Dance mill Stew coming 1561 01:24:15,720 --> 01:24:22,280 Speaker 8: up right after. Gosh people, this is Kirk Franklin. 1562 01:24:22,439 --> 01:24:24,519 Speaker 1: Hey, this is con what's going on? This is your 1563 01:24:24,520 --> 01:24:27,120 Speaker 1: boy Kevin Hark Hey, this is Chloe Kardashian. This is 1564 01:24:27,160 --> 01:24:27,960 Speaker 1: your boy Chris Breen. 1565 01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:29,760 Speaker 10: Your boys Big Snoop Dog. 1566 01:24:29,960 --> 01:24:30,920 Speaker 1: This came tow. 1567 01:24:33,880 --> 01:24:35,559 Speaker 8: This is your boy Sad the Entertainer. 1568 01:24:35,720 --> 01:24:36,959 Speaker 1: This is your Linda Adams. 1569 01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:39,920 Speaker 9: Less up, it's DJ Cavin and you're listening to Steve 1570 01:24:40,040 --> 01:24:41,040 Speaker 9: Harvey Morning Show. 1571 01:24:41,280 --> 01:24:45,240 Speaker 10: There's morning shows and there's the greatest Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1572 01:24:45,640 --> 01:24:50,160 Speaker 1: Another one, Steve. We're ready for your closing remarks. I'm 1573 01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:51,200 Speaker 1: telling happy they're back. 1574 01:24:51,200 --> 01:24:54,000 Speaker 8: A hight everybody. My closing remarks today, this is what 1575 01:24:54,160 --> 01:24:55,200 Speaker 8: I've chosen to do. 1576 01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:01,200 Speaker 9: I have variations of this when I'm talking as a 1577 01:25:01,280 --> 01:25:04,439 Speaker 9: speaker and things like that, but I'm I'm gonna go 1578 01:25:04,520 --> 01:25:05,960 Speaker 9: a different way with you today. 1579 01:25:07,520 --> 01:25:08,920 Speaker 8: Uh. There's a saying. 1580 01:25:10,320 --> 01:25:15,479 Speaker 9: That if you're the smartest person in your group, then 1581 01:25:15,680 --> 01:25:20,280 Speaker 9: you need a new group. I want you, I want 1582 01:25:20,280 --> 01:25:22,200 Speaker 9: you all to just think about that for a minute. 1583 01:25:22,600 --> 01:25:26,559 Speaker 9: If you're the smartest person in your group, you need 1584 01:25:26,640 --> 01:25:27,280 Speaker 9: a new group. 1585 01:25:28,479 --> 01:25:33,800 Speaker 8: Now. I've been very, very guilty of this, not saying that. 1586 01:25:34,040 --> 01:25:37,880 Speaker 9: I was smarter than everybody else, but I had been 1587 01:25:37,960 --> 01:25:41,599 Speaker 9: exposed more than a certain group of people I had 1588 01:25:41,680 --> 01:25:43,360 Speaker 9: employed and had hanging around me. 1589 01:25:44,360 --> 01:25:44,880 Speaker 8: I had been. 1590 01:25:44,840 --> 01:25:48,800 Speaker 9: Exposed to more things. I naturally was making more because 1591 01:25:48,840 --> 01:25:58,599 Speaker 9: they were mostly employees. I wanted more. Uh, And because 1592 01:25:58,600 --> 01:26:01,000 Speaker 9: of the fact that I had more, more was required 1593 01:26:01,040 --> 01:26:07,480 Speaker 9: of me. I just had bigger dreams. I outdreamed everybody 1594 01:26:07,640 --> 01:26:11,400 Speaker 9: in my group and had just gotten to a point. 1595 01:26:11,520 --> 01:26:13,519 Speaker 9: And I'm saying this because I want you all to 1596 01:26:13,560 --> 01:26:17,040 Speaker 9: put everything into perspective. As I'm talking to you. Just 1597 01:26:17,160 --> 01:26:21,240 Speaker 9: imagine at your place in your life that if you're 1598 01:26:21,320 --> 01:26:25,120 Speaker 9: the one that's constantly coming up with the ideas. You're 1599 01:26:25,160 --> 01:26:27,960 Speaker 9: the one constantly coming up with the solution. You're the 1600 01:26:28,040 --> 01:26:31,880 Speaker 9: one everybody turns to for guidance. You're the person always 1601 01:26:31,960 --> 01:26:35,680 Speaker 9: picking up the tab. You're the person that's the. 1602 01:26:36,080 --> 01:26:38,160 Speaker 8: Only one who's dreaming really big. 1603 01:26:39,240 --> 01:26:42,400 Speaker 9: You're the one that's pulling the wagon, and you happen 1604 01:26:42,479 --> 01:26:44,679 Speaker 9: to be carrying everybody. 1605 01:26:44,200 --> 01:26:44,720 Speaker 8: That's on it. 1606 01:26:46,880 --> 01:26:49,960 Speaker 9: Ain't none of your associates getting off the wagon to 1607 01:26:50,040 --> 01:26:52,880 Speaker 9: help you pull it, push it, guide it or nothing. 1608 01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:56,799 Speaker 8: They just own the wagon and you're doing all the pulling. 1609 01:26:58,320 --> 01:27:02,439 Speaker 8: You need a new group. You need a new group. 1610 01:27:03,400 --> 01:27:03,559 Speaker 10: Now. 1611 01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:06,720 Speaker 9: The problem with acquiring this new group is gonna be 1612 01:27:07,120 --> 01:27:10,200 Speaker 9: that the fact is inevitable. 1613 01:27:10,600 --> 01:27:13,479 Speaker 8: You have to get rid of the old group. And 1614 01:27:13,600 --> 01:27:14,040 Speaker 8: it's hard. 1615 01:27:14,800 --> 01:27:19,040 Speaker 9: It's hard cutting people loose because for the most part, 1616 01:27:19,360 --> 01:27:23,320 Speaker 9: you're just a nice person. Because you start beating yourself 1617 01:27:23,400 --> 01:27:26,920 Speaker 9: up with stuff that has nothing to do with you. Well, 1618 01:27:27,200 --> 01:27:31,639 Speaker 9: if I let them go, what they gonna do, man, 1619 01:27:31,720 --> 01:27:34,400 Speaker 9: How his family gonna eat, How her family gonna survive, 1620 01:27:35,640 --> 01:27:40,920 Speaker 9: How they gonna if I let them go, Man, how 1621 01:27:40,960 --> 01:27:44,360 Speaker 9: they gonna feel about me? What will they say about me? 1622 01:27:44,680 --> 01:27:51,479 Speaker 9: What will the other group members think about me? But 1623 01:27:51,600 --> 01:27:55,040 Speaker 9: you know something man, that's not your job. And I'm 1624 01:27:55,080 --> 01:27:57,360 Speaker 9: not trying to sound cold to callous, but it's just 1625 01:27:57,680 --> 01:28:02,960 Speaker 9: not your job. They are responsible for themselves, but through 1626 01:28:03,000 --> 01:28:08,040 Speaker 9: this meaningless emotion called guilt, they will make you feel 1627 01:28:08,120 --> 01:28:12,639 Speaker 9: guilty about letting them go and making them stop riding 1628 01:28:12,920 --> 01:28:16,479 Speaker 9: up the heel and your wagon for free. And they 1629 01:28:16,640 --> 01:28:19,880 Speaker 9: use guilt, which is the most meaningless emotion, and they 1630 01:28:19,960 --> 01:28:22,719 Speaker 9: give it to you all the time. Y'all, do yourself 1631 01:28:22,760 --> 01:28:27,320 Speaker 9: a favor. Stop doing that. Stop carrying people who should 1632 01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:28,960 Speaker 9: be walking themselves. 1633 01:28:29,360 --> 01:28:31,960 Speaker 8: Stop pulling people up the heel and your wagon when 1634 01:28:32,000 --> 01:28:35,559 Speaker 8: they need to get their own wagon to pull. Stop. 1635 01:28:36,720 --> 01:28:43,040 Speaker 9: Do yourself a favor, get yourself a new group. They 1636 01:28:43,120 --> 01:28:45,360 Speaker 9: will be fine, because let me ask you a question. 1637 01:28:45,800 --> 01:28:47,640 Speaker 9: This is something my father used to say to me 1638 01:28:47,760 --> 01:28:52,240 Speaker 9: all the time. What would you do if you didn't 1639 01:28:52,320 --> 01:28:55,960 Speaker 9: know me? And I used to never understand when my 1640 01:28:56,080 --> 01:28:58,680 Speaker 9: father said it that until I got older, but I 1641 01:28:58,800 --> 01:29:00,000 Speaker 9: hear them saying it to me all the time. 1642 01:29:00,120 --> 01:29:00,280 Speaker 4: Time. 1643 01:29:00,720 --> 01:29:02,800 Speaker 9: People come to you and ask you for money because 1644 01:29:02,840 --> 01:29:05,960 Speaker 9: I know you got it because you're doing better than them. Well, 1645 01:29:06,000 --> 01:29:08,679 Speaker 9: you work harder than them, so quite naturally you should 1646 01:29:08,720 --> 01:29:10,760 Speaker 9: be doing better than them. Now they come to you 1647 01:29:11,160 --> 01:29:12,000 Speaker 9: and lay this guilt. 1648 01:29:12,120 --> 01:29:12,559 Speaker 10: Man, you. 1649 01:29:14,040 --> 01:29:17,160 Speaker 9: Done came up and all us, over all of us, 1650 01:29:17,240 --> 01:29:20,160 Speaker 9: and left us back. He now, we so proud of you. 1651 01:29:20,560 --> 01:29:24,000 Speaker 8: Let me hold. My father used to. 1652 01:29:24,040 --> 01:29:25,880 Speaker 9: Say, if you didn't know me, what would you do? 1653 01:29:26,200 --> 01:29:29,360 Speaker 9: So I started incorporating that in my life. If you 1654 01:29:29,479 --> 01:29:32,960 Speaker 9: didn't have my number, who would you call? I cannot 1655 01:29:33,080 --> 01:29:38,080 Speaker 9: be everybody's emergency. If you are everybody's emergency phone call, 1656 01:29:38,400 --> 01:29:42,200 Speaker 9: you need a new group. They gonna bring you down. Man, 1657 01:29:42,280 --> 01:29:45,080 Speaker 9: I'm telling you, they're going to bring you down. And 1658 01:29:45,200 --> 01:29:47,799 Speaker 9: when you go down, guess what they gonna get another 1659 01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:51,920 Speaker 9: emergency number. They not gonna be there for you. All 1660 01:29:52,040 --> 01:29:54,360 Speaker 9: these people that use you as they emergency, do you 1661 01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:56,680 Speaker 9: have the ability to use them as your emergency? 1662 01:29:57,000 --> 01:29:57,560 Speaker 8: I think not. 1663 01:29:59,000 --> 01:30:03,360 Speaker 9: It's time to look at getting a new group now. 1664 01:30:03,960 --> 01:30:08,200 Speaker 9: You can sever the ties with these people now, or 1665 01:30:08,439 --> 01:30:12,559 Speaker 9: you can wait until a major event occurs. That's gonna 1666 01:30:12,600 --> 01:30:15,000 Speaker 9: cause you have to break it off and it's gonna 1667 01:30:15,000 --> 01:30:17,639 Speaker 9: be a lot more painful and a lot more costly, 1668 01:30:19,280 --> 01:30:22,400 Speaker 9: you know. But Bishop Jake said one time, sometimes you 1669 01:30:22,520 --> 01:30:25,439 Speaker 9: have to let people go so they can be freed 1670 01:30:25,560 --> 01:30:28,840 Speaker 9: up to go be who they're supposed to be. Because 1671 01:30:28,920 --> 01:30:32,320 Speaker 9: some people just hanging on costs. It's comfortable because you've 1672 01:30:32,439 --> 01:30:35,840 Speaker 9: made it comfortable for people. And I'm talking to everybody 1673 01:30:36,080 --> 01:30:36,599 Speaker 9: out there. 1674 01:30:37,160 --> 01:30:38,600 Speaker 8: This ain't for me or. 1675 01:30:38,600 --> 01:30:41,400 Speaker 9: People who have employees. This is for people who have 1676 01:30:41,520 --> 01:30:44,360 Speaker 9: people in their lives that's constantly pulling on you. 1677 01:30:44,560 --> 01:30:44,720 Speaker 10: Man. 1678 01:30:45,240 --> 01:30:47,759 Speaker 8: For twenty dollars here, forty dollars here. 1679 01:30:47,800 --> 01:30:50,840 Speaker 9: One hundred over here? My light bell went off. They 1680 01:30:51,000 --> 01:30:54,240 Speaker 9: cut this off. They calling me, I'm behind on my 1681 01:30:54,439 --> 01:30:56,439 Speaker 9: TAXI my income tax check. 1682 01:30:56,520 --> 01:30:57,760 Speaker 8: Ain't hear you man? 1683 01:30:57,960 --> 01:30:58,439 Speaker 12: Oh man? 1684 01:30:58,520 --> 01:30:58,960 Speaker 8: Oh man? 1685 01:30:59,280 --> 01:31:03,440 Speaker 9: How many times you get that? Stop being everybody's emergency 1686 01:31:03,560 --> 01:31:06,559 Speaker 9: phone call? Because if they didn't know you, what would 1687 01:31:06,600 --> 01:31:09,840 Speaker 9: they do? You know, my father used to say, when 1688 01:31:09,880 --> 01:31:12,080 Speaker 9: they don't know you, what would they do? They need 1689 01:31:12,160 --> 01:31:15,519 Speaker 9: to get home, get to doing it. You can't save 1690 01:31:15,720 --> 01:31:20,200 Speaker 9: everybody because they'll bring you down. If you're the smartest 1691 01:31:20,240 --> 01:31:20,680 Speaker 9: person in. 1692 01:31:20,720 --> 01:31:22,759 Speaker 8: Your group, you need a new group. 1693 01:31:23,240 --> 01:31:25,679 Speaker 9: Those are my close remarks. Have a great one today, 1694 01:31:25,760 --> 01:31:28,000 Speaker 9: Talk to God today. He would absolutely love to hear 1695 01:31:28,040 --> 01:31:29,040 Speaker 9: from peace. 1696 01:31:32,120 --> 01:31:35,600 Speaker 1: For all Steve Harvey contests. 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