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Speaker 1: you're probably familiar with the second date updates. Yeah, right,
Speaker 1: do them a lot there before. We try to help
Speaker 1: people figure out why they're getting ghosted after a date
Speaker 1: and then also try and get them another chance. Right now.
Speaker 1: I'm sure a lot of people might hear us doing
Speaker 1: that kind of selfless work and they'll call us heroes. Oh,
Speaker 1: I don't know that they've ever done that. Well, if
Speaker 1: not heroes, maybe love gurus, patron saints of one night stands, closer,
Speaker 1: whatever you call us. Our job really isn't complete unless
Speaker 1: the couples we connected actually make it the distance. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't feel that great to get like
Speaker 1: one more date out of them, But if we're able
Speaker 1: to like actually help them build a relationship, that feels
Speaker 1: good and it's pretty amazing. That's why occasionally we like
Speaker 1: to check back in with our listeners and see where
Speaker 1: they're at with a second date update update. I love
Speaker 1: these time. I just can't wait till we get like
Speaker 1: a baby announcement. That's what I'm waited. Yeah, so you know,
Speaker 1: that's what we're gonna do today. We're gonna check in
Speaker 1: with one couple who was on with us a few
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and they had one of the craziest first
Speaker 1: date experiences we've ever heard on the show. But we're
Speaker 1: gonna play their original second date call first, and then
Speaker 1: we'll speak to them and find out how things are
Speaker 1: going immediately afterwards. It's coming up in your second date
Speaker 1: update update right now, Second date Update. He's got an
Speaker 1: email from a guy named Logan for a second date update.
Speaker 1: He says his first date was a murder mystery dinner.
Speaker 1: But then he says things didn't go so well. Okay,
Speaker 1: so obviously, and he says things didn't go well, it
Speaker 1: must mean she was murdered. It's it's it's pretend, Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: or perhaps just maybe she was the murderer. The audience
Speaker 1: gasping is not helping right now. I don't know. I
Speaker 1: think I'm murdering this intro right now you are killing it.
Speaker 1: I don't know that's in a good way or because
Speaker 1: all of you accomplices to murder. Yes, you would be
Speaker 1: the worst villain ever. Breath here. Okay, all right, let's
Speaker 1: continue and talk to Logan. Logan before we begin the
Speaker 1: second day investigation. Oh, that's what it is. Just tell
Speaker 1: me is their blood on your hands? Almost? Let's tell
Speaker 1: us about the girl who wants to call today. What's
Speaker 1: her name? Her name is Sabrina. So I want to
Speaker 1: know how did you guys end up at murder mystery party?
Speaker 1: So we have to me to our friends. They knew
Speaker 1: we were both sail they set us up. Okay, and
Speaker 1: this is right around the time my friends and I
Speaker 1: once a year we do this big murder mystery. Wow,
Speaker 1: there's like twenty something people. We get it catered, We
Speaker 1: rent as their old house, we decorated. Logan and his
Speaker 1: friends are rich. Yeah, yeah, I don't know how we're
Speaker 1: all chipping in. You know there's an open barn. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I want to get in with your dorky friends, Logan. So,
Speaker 1: how did the murder mystery dinner date go? Not so great? Okay?
Speaker 1: So there was mutual friends at this thing. So I thought,
Speaker 1: you know, she wouldn't be completely by herself in a
Speaker 1: group of people, and the whole thing was nineteen forties themes.
Speaker 1: So when she shut up, I mean, she looked spectacular,
Speaker 1: Like she went all out. She really got into it,
Speaker 1: like the hair, the makeup, the outfit, and like she
Speaker 1: looked gorgeous. Dude, it's awesome that she went all in, right. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I thought that's a really good sign, right, and a
Speaker 1: good sign that she knew other people there, because it
Speaker 1: would be pretty intimidating if you didn't know anyone. But yeah, exactly,
Speaker 1: I was trying to be like, you know, thoughtful about that. Okay,
Speaker 1: So why do you say things didn't go well? So
Speaker 1: I don't know if you guys have been to one
Speaker 1: of these before. You've got a packet and it's got
Speaker 1: like information about your character because you're like pretending to
Speaker 1: be somebody. She know, we're joking about, like, oh, come on,
Speaker 1: what does your packet say? You know, like jokes? It
Speaker 1: was it was fun, yeah, and then like sometimes you'll
Speaker 1: have an accent or you'll you know, like you're supposed
Speaker 1: to get fully into character. You're like acting sounds hard.
Speaker 1: It is a little hard. You have to like read
Speaker 1: a whole thing, and then character you have remember all
Speaker 1: the facts about yourself, like where you're from, who you're
Speaker 1: associated with, who you know, who you don't know, so
Speaker 1: you know, it's sort of like live action clue. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and so she was getting really into it, which was fun.
Speaker 1: We were having a really good time, and then suddenly
Speaker 1: the lights go off. That plan someone didn't pay the
Speaker 1: electric bill. It was it was definitely part of the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're out for a few seconds. Then they come back
Speaker 1: on and she's gone. And my first thought is she
Speaker 1: ditched me. Oh yeah, And I was like, oh, this
Speaker 1: can't be happening. But then we all hear a scream
Speaker 1: from upstairs and we run into the bedroom and there
Speaker 1: she is dead. She was the first one to kick
Speaker 1: the bucket in the games. Yeah, my friends who were
Speaker 1: in charge of putting out the packets, I don't know
Speaker 1: what they were thinking. They gave her the first victim card.
Speaker 1: You know. I felt really bad, obviously, because I wanted
Speaker 1: to have fun solving the mystery with her. That was
Speaker 1: like the whole purpose of this day. And now, honestly,
Speaker 1: you can't even really hang out with her. You can't
Speaker 1: just like hang with the body while everyone's around and
Speaker 1: just whispered like, well, I kind of did. I was
Speaker 1: in there, and then like other guests were coming in
Speaker 1: and they were like drinking and like eating our nerves
Speaker 1: like around her, and like she was there for like
Speaker 1: an hour and a half. Oh my god, I know.
Speaker 1: I first I think it was like, oh, she's such
Speaker 1: a good sport. And then like I said, hour later,
Speaker 1: people found clues, they solve the crime. We all go
Speaker 1: back downstairs to like, you know, okay, we solved it,
Speaker 1: and now let's just have a good time. And she
Speaker 1: was like, I gotta go, and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: you know, I'm so sorry. This is not how I
Speaker 1: wanted to go. And I said I'll go too. We
Speaker 1: can go get a drink, just the two of us,
Speaker 1: and she said, no, no, I had a good time.
Speaker 1: Don't worry. But you know when somebody says that and
Speaker 1: you know they're not telling the truth. Yeah, right, it's
Speaker 1: a great time laying on the floor for two hours.
Speaker 1: Can't wait to do it again. I mean, I would
Speaker 1: be pissed at your friends if I was you. H
Speaker 1: oh I am, But they said, oh, it's a luck
Speaker 1: of a draw. But I don't know what too. I
Speaker 1: feel like they could have like they knew the situation. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel like we can resuscitate this date. Didn't get
Speaker 1: what I did there? Yeah? No, but really like it
Speaker 1: isn't your fault. You didn't do anything bad. It sounds
Speaker 1: like and she should give you another shot. I would
Speaker 1: like that. I would like your help. So have you
Speaker 1: spoken to her since your date? No? Nothing? How long
Speaker 1: has it been? Got a couple of weeks? Hmm? Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: my friends, it seems we have a mystery of those
Speaker 1: who murdered miss Sabrina. God, what was the motive? And
Speaker 1: why would she ditch Sir Logan without a proper shagging
Speaker 1: in the conservatory? What do I feel like I suddenly
Speaker 1: need to scream. We'll get to the bottom of these
Speaker 1: questions and more after we play a song come back,
Speaker 1: thank you and call Sabrina and try and get you
Speaker 1: your second date update. All right, sir Logan, Okay, hold
Speaker 1: on your date dying in the first fifteen minutes of
Speaker 1: the night. Yeah, I'm laughing, but you'll see why we
Speaker 1: don't hear that a lot on these second date updates.
Speaker 1: But fully, never again either. That's what happened to Logan,
Speaker 1: you showed up for dinner with a girl named Sabrina
Speaker 1: and within minutes she was dead. Come on, don't say
Speaker 1: it like that. Okay, I should probably clarify. This was
Speaker 1: a murder mystery dinner and her character was randomly chosen
Speaker 1: to be the first victim of the night, so she
Speaker 1: was quote murdered and had to lay on the floor
Speaker 1: for the next hour and a half until the game
Speaker 1: was over. So Logan feels terrible about how that played out,
Speaker 1: and he wants a second chance at a real date. Yeah, so, Logan,
Speaker 1: I don't know why this is running through my mind,
Speaker 1: but were you more attracted to her when she was
Speaker 1: alive or dead? What? Why would that be the question?
Speaker 1: Definitely alive? Okay. Everyone has their their weird kinks, so
Speaker 1: I don't think. Yeah, I mean I never asked. Were
Speaker 1: you able to have any conversation with her when she
Speaker 1: was a corpse? Yeah? We did, but I as the
Speaker 1: hour or so went on, kind of stopped wanting to talk. Okay,
Speaker 1: I understand she became more corpse like as the time
Speaker 1: when Yeah, she's really in character. It's really admirable. I
Speaker 1: think she's getting more and more angry. Okay, Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: hopefully she's cooled off and that she's ready to I
Speaker 1: don't know, t talk to us. Yeah, so I'm hoping
Speaker 1: that you guys can work your magic. All Right, we're
Speaker 1: gonna dial the phone number right now and try and
Speaker 1: resurrect your second date update. Okay, all right, sounds good. Guys.
Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello. Hi, Can I speak
Speaker 1: to Sabrina please? She Hi, Sabrina. My name is young Jeffrey,
Speaker 1: and I work for the morning radio show Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. Have you a moment to talk
Speaker 1: with me? Um? Can you tell me like what this
Speaker 1: is about? Well, we do a segment on the show
Speaker 1: about true crime murders and we heard that you were
Speaker 1: recently killed. Oh God, ask the question? Is that true?
Speaker 1: Were you killed recently? Wait? What is happening? Yeah? Most
Speaker 1: dead bodies, we call her usually confused. I see what
Speaker 1: you're talking about now, Jeffrey. Yeah, I'm sorry, Sabrina. Okay.
Speaker 1: What we're really doing is something called a second date update.
Speaker 1: That's where if you go out with someone and afterwards
Speaker 1: they're not calling you back, you can reach out to
Speaker 1: us and we'll call the person for you to try
Speaker 1: and figure out the reason why. Oh okay, So to
Speaker 1: tie it back in with the killing and the murdering,
Speaker 1: you recently went out with a guy named Logan. Yes, yeah, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: we've heard about the murder mystery party. Yeah, so Logan
Speaker 1: feels a little bit bad about how that all went down.
Speaker 1: Did he feels so bad that you got killed in
Speaker 1: the first fifteen minutes of the party? That was terrible? Yeah,
Speaker 1: it wasn't good. There was a pretty big bummer. Yeah,
Speaker 1: if it makes you feel any better, I hear that
Speaker 1: you make a lovely corpse. But it's not, though, because,
Speaker 1: for real, your patience to lay there and just continue
Speaker 1: to play along for an hour and a half, I
Speaker 1: applaud Well, I didn't want to like screw up their game,
Speaker 1: so I was just following the rules, going by the packet.
Speaker 1: That's nice of you, But it did screw up your
Speaker 1: date a little bit. Yeah, it was a little weird.
Speaker 1: Why didn't you want to hang out with him after
Speaker 1: the game was over? I mean, I realized that you
Speaker 1: may have been a little angry laying on the floor
Speaker 1: for an hour and a half, but it just didn't
Speaker 1: feel like it was gonna work out. See, I kinda
Speaker 1: I have some good information, and I know that I
Speaker 1: was meant to die at that party. Like they didn't
Speaker 1: want me to hang out with Logan. No one want
Speaker 1: to meet someone. One didn't want me to get to
Speaker 1: know him. What you're saying that someone killed you on purpose? Yeah,
Speaker 1: Logan said that it was chosen at random. Um, I mean, sir,
Speaker 1: but no, it wasn't. I feel like we have our
Speaker 1: own personal murder mystery. Now why do you think that? So?
Speaker 1: I don't know how much y'all know. But I had
Speaker 1: some friends at the party already. Um, and so at
Speaker 1: the end of the night, like I talked to them
Speaker 1: and see where it was up. And Logan, he was
Speaker 1: in this long term relationship for a while and his
Speaker 1: ex did not want me there when she found out
Speaker 1: I was coming with him and he wasn't there, but
Speaker 1: she got the host to kill me off. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: she put like a fake hit on you. Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 1: Are you sure so his ex girlfriend told the host
Speaker 1: to kill you off early to ruin his date. Yeah
Speaker 1: that is diabolical, man, But still that's not his fault.
Speaker 1: I mean, that's the crazy ex's fault, right, Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: still like, that's pretty crazy to do. That to your
Speaker 1: ex is someone that they're just hanging out with, Like
Speaker 1: you're just gonna put me on ice for like an
Speaker 1: hour and a half. I don't know. It's like another
Speaker 1: level of petty that I am not prepared to deal with. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm wondering how Logan feels. I'm sure he didn't know
Speaker 1: any of this. Oh, he's gonna be pissed because Sabrina,
Speaker 1: we didn't tell you. But Logan's been on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and he wants to talk to you. Are
Speaker 1: you serious? Yeah, Logan, I had no idea that she
Speaker 1: did that. I am so sorry. Yeah, I mean, but
Speaker 1: she did, and it it really wasn't cool. I'm just
Speaker 1: letting you know, like, and I agree with you, that
Speaker 1: was not cool. She is not happy that I broke
Speaker 1: up with her. I'm the one who ended the relationship.
Speaker 1: She is trying to get back at me. I'm so sorry.
Speaker 1: I mean, you're saying get back at you, but I
Speaker 1: think she still wants to get with you. Yeah, she
Speaker 1: can think what a where she wants it is not happening,
Speaker 1: So you're for sure over her, Logan, Oh my god, yes, Yeah.
Speaker 1: This is just one of many things in a long
Speaker 1: list of reasons why we are not together, and I
Speaker 1: was like hoping to, you know, meet somebody who is
Speaker 1: a good person and doesn't try to rule people's lives.
Speaker 1: I mean that makes me nervous, Like what else is
Speaker 1: she capable of? I mean, like, you probably don't know this,
Speaker 1: but she got my Instagram and she liked all of
Speaker 1: my photos on it. That's like another level of unhinged.
Speaker 1: Like maybe you take really good Instagram photos though, and
Speaker 1: she's just a fan. Oh yeah, I'm actually more freaked
Speaker 1: out about the Instagram likes that I am about her
Speaker 1: killing you at a party? Is that weirdent? But finding
Speaker 1: her personal pages? Yeah? Man, and it's pretty sadistic. Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean I don't know what to say to that, Like,
Speaker 1: you're right, she is she is not well, but she's
Speaker 1: not gonna like actually try to kill you. Okay, well
Speaker 1: you say that, but she's literally already killed me. Oh man.
Speaker 1: I mean the only thing is is Logan actually sounds
Speaker 1: like a really nice guy, and you know, people have
Speaker 1: some crazy exes. I mean, if anything, it proves that
Speaker 1: he's very lovable. I don't know, I think so I agree,
Speaker 1: I agree with that. I mean, yeah, like if his
Speaker 1: X is willing to go through this much of a
Speaker 1: project just to like sabotage him, it must mean that
Speaker 1: he's really, really great. Yeah, I guess I never thought
Speaker 1: of that. Well, with that in mind, I would love
Speaker 1: to send you guys out on another date. We'll pay
Speaker 1: for it. Um. I mean, if you don't say yes,
Speaker 1: then his X is probably just gonna wear your skin
Speaker 1: and go out with him anyway. So the X is
Speaker 1: a bit of a turn off. But I know he
Speaker 1: didn't know anything that she was doing, and I know
Speaker 1: that he feels really bad about it. He was clueless.
Speaker 1: So wait, what what's your answer? Yes or no? I mean,
Speaker 1: as long as I am not coming back to my
Speaker 1: apartment with a dagger in the door with a note
Speaker 1: saying don't date Logan. But maybe we should give it
Speaker 1: another stand. Yeah all right, congratulations Logan, you got a
Speaker 1: second date. Thank you, guys, Sabrina, thank you so much
Speaker 1: for agreeing to that. Yeah, sure, Logan. Um, let's just
Speaker 1: make sure that wherever we go next it's safe. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not a bad idea. Yeah, it'll be safe. We
Speaker 1: can go to my house and do the one on
Speaker 1: one murder mystery. That's pretty easy to figure out who
Speaker 1: the killing is. If there's only two of you, well
Speaker 1: I think it sounds good. There's going to be a
Speaker 1: stabbing going on five. A lot of times after a
Speaker 1: second date update, we'll send out emails asking couples if
Speaker 1: they have any news on their situation. Yeah, for sure.
Speaker 1: But this time they reached out to us. Well, they did,
Speaker 1: saying they had an update that they wanted to share.
Speaker 1: So they're back again, Sabrina and Logan, welcome back you guys. Wow,
Speaker 1: guys don't want to come back? I mean that has
Speaker 1: to mean something positive is happening in your life, right, yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: So what's happened since we spoke to you? Did you
Speaker 1: guys go out again? Yeah? We did. We gave another shot.
Speaker 1: We've been out again, but we had like an issue
Speaker 1: trying to go on our first date. What what do
Speaker 1: you mean? So we were driving to a restaurant and
Speaker 1: his ex girlfriend was essentially like tailing us, like following us.
Speaker 1: She turned into like a legit stalker. Yeah, Like I
Speaker 1: could see her car in the rear of the mirror
Speaker 1: as we were driving, and oh my god, So we
Speaker 1: tried to get rid of her, got out of the car,
Speaker 1: walked a bit, got an uber, took that someplace random
Speaker 1: shut up, got another uber, and then took that to
Speaker 1: the restaurant where we had the reservation. She still show
Speaker 1: that would have been funny, but we fully lost her
Speaker 1: and had an amazing time. Wow, and it only took
Speaker 1: you four hours to get back to your car at
Speaker 1: the end of the night. Yeah, well, it sounds like
Speaker 1: you guys have chemistry right now? Does that mean you're
Speaker 1: you're a thing? Are you dating? Are you official? Are
Speaker 1: you hiding in a bomb shelter? Not quite? But yeah,
Speaker 1: we've been dating. Yeah, it's been weird, I mean with
Speaker 1: like his ex girlfriends, but it's kind of been exciting honestly,
Speaker 1: to like have to sneak around a little bit and
Speaker 1: make clams like you never know what she's going to
Speaker 1: try next. You're into this, it's kind of fun, it's exciting.
Speaker 1: I don't know, it's like, yeah, I agree, it's added
Speaker 1: a level of excitement. Yeah, I mean it's like an
Speaker 1: excuse to role play. Is that what you're doing? Well,
Speaker 1: I mean, fear is somewhat of an aphrodisiac, so I
Speaker 1: can see how it would work for you guys. Uh, congratulations,
Speaker 1: I guess yeah, I hope you guys invite her to
Speaker 1: the wedding and to dodge her somehow. We'll be careful. Well,
Speaker 1: Thanks for the update. You guys. Keep keep letting us know.
Speaker 1: If we don't hear from you in the next few weeks,
Speaker 1: we're gonna get worried for real. Alright, alright,