1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: We've been doing closure calls for a while now, and 2 00:00:04,840 --> 00:00:08,039 Speaker 1: most of the time when people need closure it's from 3 00:00:08,080 --> 00:00:11,880 Speaker 1: an ex boyfriend or a family member, which I know, 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,079 Speaker 1: in Brooks case, is sometimes the same thing. We're a 5 00:00:15,080 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: little confusing. But today today is interesting because I'd say 6 00:00:19,480 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 1: not a lot of people feel like they need closure 7 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:23,759 Speaker 1: from a past roommate. 8 00:00:24,480 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 2: Oh I could see that. 9 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:30,800 Speaker 1: Yes, I mean I try to avoid most of mine. 10 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 1: But apparently that's what our listener, Adam is looking for today, 11 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 1: closure with one of his past roommates. So Adam, welcome 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:39,200 Speaker 1: to the show. 13 00:00:40,000 --> 00:00:41,239 Speaker 3: Hey, oh, thank you. 14 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 2: Is this person just a roommate, because usually roommates are 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 2: also your best friends and people that you love, you know, 16 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:47,960 Speaker 2: and care about. 17 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 3: You know, he was just a roommate, and then we 18 00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 3: became really close buddies. 19 00:00:54,120 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: Got it. I moved into a house where I literally 20 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:59,000 Speaker 1: found it on craigslist, didn't know anyone, and then we 21 00:00:59,040 --> 00:00:59,840 Speaker 1: became best friends. 22 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 2: Well, I mean, that's the easiest way to be friends 23 00:01:01,720 --> 00:01:04,679 Speaker 2: with somebody and you know everything about them immediately, you know. 24 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,440 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, yeah, I mean that's how it was with him. 25 00:01:07,560 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 3: We became great friends really quickly. 26 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:15,000 Speaker 4: Oh, but some friends you can't live with that's different. 27 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:18,600 Speaker 1: And because this is a closure call, how long has 28 00:01:18,640 --> 00:01:21,480 Speaker 1: it been since you were roommates with this guy? 29 00:01:21,680 --> 00:01:23,119 Speaker 4: Like, he's not in the next room right now? 30 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 3: Is no? I wish he's not here. He has been 31 00:01:27,680 --> 00:01:29,199 Speaker 3: gone for four years now. 32 00:01:29,680 --> 00:01:30,240 Speaker 1: Oh wow? 33 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,559 Speaker 4: Yeah wait did he move out of your guys' place? 34 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,720 Speaker 3: Yeah? So the way it all went down was things 35 00:01:38,720 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 3: were cool and all of a sudden he just wasn't there. 36 00:01:43,920 --> 00:01:45,959 Speaker 4: What do you mean, like in the middle of the 37 00:01:46,000 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 4: night he moved his stuff out. 38 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 3: Or what I would get home from work. I worked 39 00:01:50,600 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 3: really early shifts and I would get home around two 40 00:01:54,440 --> 00:01:57,640 Speaker 3: three pm, and he was there, always there, every single day, 41 00:01:58,520 --> 00:02:02,560 Speaker 3: showed up at home, the doors walk, there's no note 42 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 3: or anything, you know, kind of freaked me out. The 43 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 3: cat was still there. 44 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 4: Wait his cat? Your cat? Whose cat? 45 00:02:10,080 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 3: It was? His cat? I mean, I love the cat. 46 00:02:13,160 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 1: You know. 47 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:16,360 Speaker 3: I was a cool roommate. I fed the cat, played 48 00:02:16,400 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: me cat. 49 00:02:17,600 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 4: Was your roommate kidnapped and you never filed a report? 50 00:02:20,160 --> 00:02:23,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, because he's like I just heard help, help, help 51 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:24,240 Speaker 1: from down the street. 52 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I thought. I was freaking out and 53 00:02:28,280 --> 00:02:31,000 Speaker 3: I didn't call authorities or anything, and I waited a 54 00:02:31,080 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 3: day or two. So I started asking around to different 55 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 3: friends and families, and they were told from him that 56 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 3: he just didn't want to be my roommate anymore. 57 00:02:42,520 --> 00:02:44,960 Speaker 1: What I thought you said that you guys were like 58 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:45,679 Speaker 1: good buddies. 59 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,919 Speaker 3: We were great buddies. We had movie night. Oh man, 60 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 3: I can't movie night anymore. 61 00:02:52,160 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: This is a tragedy. 62 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:57,000 Speaker 4: I can't get over him leaving the cat. Did he 63 00:02:57,040 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 4: take his stuff when he left? 64 00:02:59,200 --> 00:03:02,840 Speaker 3: He took some stuff he took, like some of his clothes, 65 00:03:03,160 --> 00:03:08,200 Speaker 3: But he left PlayStation. He left like essential the most 66 00:03:08,280 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 3: upset about the PlayStation more than the cat. Give up. 67 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:14,800 Speaker 4: I feel like it sounds like he left for a 68 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:16,520 Speaker 4: weekend trip. And it was like, actually this is nicer. 69 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,359 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say, yeah, I mean. 70 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:24,320 Speaker 3: I know that I wasn't perfect. There were things that 71 00:03:24,440 --> 00:03:27,359 Speaker 3: kicked them off. I would eat his food sometimes. 72 00:03:28,880 --> 00:03:35,119 Speaker 1: Well did he label it food? Not allowed to touch 73 00:03:35,160 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: that guy? 74 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 3: There is no labels? 75 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: Well there you go. 76 00:03:38,440 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 4: You got there's only two of you living there. You 77 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:43,760 Speaker 4: don't have to label it. If it's not yours, then if. 78 00:03:43,680 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 1: You didn't want me to eat it, don't put it 79 00:03:45,760 --> 00:03:49,840 Speaker 1: in our fridge. It's a shared space. What you're going 80 00:03:49,880 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: to lab each out of the couch. 81 00:03:51,160 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 2: Now remind me never to be a roommate with Jeffrey. 82 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 2: So wait, do you think he was mad at you, 83 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 2: because that's what you're kind of implying. 84 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:02,800 Speaker 3: I mean me eating some of his food every now 85 00:04:02,840 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 3: and then. Or the other big one was that I 86 00:04:05,920 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 3: hardly ever did dishes. 87 00:04:07,320 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 4: You didn't do your own dishes, and you ate his food. 88 00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 3: Move. 89 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not that dramatic. 90 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:14,760 Speaker 4: You know. 91 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 3: I cleaned the cat's litter, and I held up my 92 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:22,680 Speaker 3: end of some of the bargain, and I could do 93 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,280 Speaker 3: more dishes if that was the issue. 94 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:26,720 Speaker 4: But he never talked to you about it. 95 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, I couldn't have just been about silly little things 96 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,120 Speaker 3: like that. And I know it's kind of weird because 97 00:04:32,120 --> 00:04:34,359 Speaker 3: he was just my roommate and I know it was 98 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 3: four years ago, but still it is haunting me that 99 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 3: this person would just up and go. And I really 100 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,680 Speaker 3: would love some closure. I would love to know what 101 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:47,200 Speaker 3: I did. 102 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: Huh Okay, yeah, yeah, So if our audience doesn't know 103 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: or remember how the segment works, Adam does. Obviously. Our 104 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:01,679 Speaker 1: producers have been working with him to track down his roommate, Roy, 105 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:06,560 Speaker 1: and we went to Roy's Instagram. Actually, our producer has 106 00:05:06,600 --> 00:05:10,760 Speaker 1: been sending him a lot of messages and Roy finally responded. 107 00:05:11,800 --> 00:05:14,360 Speaker 1: We asked him if we could send him four questions 108 00:05:14,400 --> 00:05:15,240 Speaker 1: from Adam. 109 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 4: Okay, and these are questions that Adam came up with 110 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 4: with our producer. 111 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 1: Yes, with help. 112 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 3: When you ask him that, do you say this doesn't 113 00:05:21,400 --> 00:05:22,799 Speaker 3: count as one of the questions because. 114 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:25,599 Speaker 4: Three or four? 115 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: He did agree to answer four brand new questions and 116 00:05:29,800 --> 00:05:34,039 Speaker 1: we got his responses ready right now, this could get 117 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:36,479 Speaker 1: a little bit intense for you. Adam, Are you ready 118 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:36,800 Speaker 1: for it? 119 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:39,280 Speaker 3: Did you already read him? Do you already know what 120 00:05:39,279 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 3: he should? 121 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:41,120 Speaker 1: I haven't read them now? 122 00:05:41,120 --> 00:05:41,920 Speaker 4: Do you know they're intense? 123 00:05:42,200 --> 00:05:47,839 Speaker 1: Well, I'm just guessing, all right, I don't know. We're 124 00:05:47,839 --> 00:05:50,560 Speaker 1: all going to read them together and find out what 125 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:52,360 Speaker 1: happened to your old roommate. 126 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 4: Roy. 127 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 1: Hopefully give you a little bit of finality on it. 128 00:05:55,200 --> 00:05:56,920 Speaker 1: When we do, what Brook. 129 00:05:56,760 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 4: Can I just ask where's the cat down? I was 130 00:05:58,400 --> 00:06:00,000 Speaker 4: wondering that to you. 131 00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 1: If that's not in the questions that was asked, then 132 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,039 Speaker 1: we don't have any the cat. 133 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,240 Speaker 3: The cat is sitting by my feet right now. 134 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, cat needed to get animal. 135 00:06:15,320 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 3: We're on speaker phone. So if it's anything that would 136 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:22,000 Speaker 3: really hurt the cat's feeling, Okay, well. 137 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:25,159 Speaker 1: Maybe that cat when we come back and do the 138 00:06:25,200 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 1: rest of your closure call right after this. Thank you 139 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: if you're just joining us. We're in the middle of 140 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: a closure call with Adam, who, just to recap, had 141 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: a roommate named Roy, and four years ago Adam came 142 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: home to find Roy was gone, Yes, along with most 143 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,560 Speaker 1: of his belongings, left behind his cat and a video 144 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 1: game system. 145 00:06:47,839 --> 00:06:48,960 Speaker 4: They were friends. 146 00:06:49,000 --> 00:06:53,279 Speaker 2: Like, it's so crazy, I am so invested in this. 147 00:06:53,480 --> 00:06:56,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's right, Jose no no ori indication as to 148 00:06:56,920 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 1: where Roy went? So Adam has been wondering for you years, 149 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:02,640 Speaker 1: where did my buddy go? And who's going to do 150 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 1: my dishes now? Because Adam, you admitted there were certain 151 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,640 Speaker 1: things you did as a roommate that were not so good. 152 00:07:08,760 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 1: Certain things were really good. But what was the overall 153 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: dynamic between you and Roy? 154 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 3: If I were to paint a picture, we were jokesters together. 155 00:07:20,760 --> 00:07:23,760 Speaker 3: There was a lot of laughter going on. 156 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 4: That's a good sign. 157 00:07:25,280 --> 00:07:27,679 Speaker 2: Well, it's so weird because the friends and the family 158 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 2: all said that he left because he didn't want to 159 00:07:30,960 --> 00:07:31,520 Speaker 2: be roommates. 160 00:07:31,600 --> 00:07:33,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, so it was obviously planned. 161 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,760 Speaker 1: A little bit exactly. And before we get to these questions, 162 00:07:35,920 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: that's the reason that Adam reached out to us in 163 00:07:38,440 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: the first place, because hearing stuff like that must hurt. Yeah, 164 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: everybody said the same thing. 165 00:07:43,480 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 3: I don't I don't even want to accept that. That 166 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:47,320 Speaker 3: is what he said. 167 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:51,640 Speaker 2: Oh no, no, you're hut. 168 00:07:51,680 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: All right, Well, let's get right to it, because we 169 00:07:54,040 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: have the four questions that you sent to Roy. He 170 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: has answered all four of them. Let's get some question 171 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:05,280 Speaker 1: number one. You said, hey man, it's been almost four years. 172 00:08:05,360 --> 00:08:07,920 Speaker 1: I still don't know why you moved out without telling 173 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,560 Speaker 1: me or leaving a note. I felt like we were 174 00:08:10,600 --> 00:08:14,440 Speaker 1: great friends and I'd like some closure. Not much of 175 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:16,720 Speaker 1: a question, that's more of a statement there. But you know, 176 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: I'm not going to critique you. That was okay, Yeah, 177 00:08:19,960 --> 00:08:22,640 Speaker 1: there was no question. It's like, can you explain? Yeah, 178 00:08:22,720 --> 00:08:26,120 Speaker 1: it's more of like yeah. So Roy responded, he wrote, 179 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 1: really you have no idea, Adam, Adam, okay, for starters, 180 00:08:32,080 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: you stole my cat. 181 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 4: I what are you talking about? Yeah, you said that 182 00:08:37,880 --> 00:08:39,360 Speaker 4: Roy left the cat. Is that not true? 183 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? He left the cat? 184 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 1: Here what he says, I was the one who brought 185 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,800 Speaker 1: the cat into the house and called him Paul. You 186 00:08:47,920 --> 00:08:51,120 Speaker 1: changed his name to Fluffy Bottoms and even got his 187 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,160 Speaker 1: tag change to reflect that it's weird. 188 00:08:54,679 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 3: First of all, much better name is a great name 189 00:08:59,480 --> 00:09:00,680 Speaker 3: in the cat liked it. 190 00:09:00,800 --> 00:09:06,120 Speaker 2: No, No, I think Paul Paul is actually pretty funny. 191 00:09:06,800 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 2: We're gonna I just can't believe you changed. You're starting 192 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 2: to switch the team, Roy right now. 193 00:09:10,880 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 3: I can't believe that you would be holding a grudge 194 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:17,079 Speaker 3: for four years over the cat have been an extra little. 195 00:09:17,480 --> 00:09:20,480 Speaker 1: Well, well, there's there's more to his first answer. He 196 00:09:20,559 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 1: also said you would keep him in your room at 197 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 1: night than lock your door and pretend to be asleep 198 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: when I wanted to see Paul. So that's one example 199 00:09:29,040 --> 00:09:31,840 Speaker 1: of your incredibly toxic behavior right there. 200 00:09:32,720 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 4: Toxic you. 201 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 3: The cat wanted to sleep with me, okay, and everyone 202 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,920 Speaker 3: locks their door when they go to bed at night. 203 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 4: Listened. 204 00:09:43,600 --> 00:09:47,320 Speaker 2: Actually, we're not trying to attack you, but it sounds 205 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,280 Speaker 2: like you need to take a moment to take a 206 00:09:49,280 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 2: deep breath and accept some. 207 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:54,800 Speaker 1: The only person who could honestly answer that is his cat. 208 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:57,720 Speaker 1: And so we don't have time to do a whole 209 00:09:57,920 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: questionnaire for the cats. We have to stick with the 210 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 1: questions to Roy here, let's go to number two. Says, 211 00:10:03,120 --> 00:10:04,760 Speaker 1: I know I wasn't the perfect roommate. 212 00:10:04,880 --> 00:10:08,079 Speaker 2: Okay, that's good. That's admitting some guilt there responsibility. 213 00:10:08,200 --> 00:10:10,400 Speaker 1: If it was something I did when I lived with you, 214 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:13,679 Speaker 1: could you please give me a specific example that I 215 00:10:13,720 --> 00:10:16,800 Speaker 1: could grow from. Did I get it more? Sure? But 216 00:10:16,880 --> 00:10:19,320 Speaker 1: remember when we write these, we don't have the answers 217 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:21,400 Speaker 1: back one at a time. We send them all in 218 00:10:21,440 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 1: one mass email. 219 00:10:22,520 --> 00:10:24,320 Speaker 4: Adam, are you ready to hear this? Because it didn't 220 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:26,599 Speaker 4: feel like you were ready to hear the cat. Now 221 00:10:26,679 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 4: this situation. 222 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,640 Speaker 3: I will accept it. The cat threw me off. That 223 00:10:31,880 --> 00:10:32,360 Speaker 3: threw me off. 224 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,080 Speaker 1: I feel optimistic about where this is going. So his 225 00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:40,760 Speaker 1: response was, Okay, you want more about Netflix Sundays. When 226 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:43,680 Speaker 1: we would plan on watching a movie together every Sunday, 227 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,160 Speaker 1: and then once we were a half hour in, you'd 228 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:50,000 Speaker 1: pause the film and tell me the ending what you 229 00:10:50,240 --> 00:10:53,960 Speaker 1: thought it was hilarious. And did that ten times until 230 00:10:54,000 --> 00:10:59,480 Speaker 1: I stopped watching movies with you. Maybe once. 231 00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:01,880 Speaker 4: No, that's funny. 232 00:11:02,200 --> 00:11:06,800 Speaker 1: Well, sometimes sometimes it's better to spoil the ending so 233 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: you don't suffer through a bad movie. 234 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:10,720 Speaker 4: He did it before the movie started. 235 00:11:10,760 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 2: You let the man get a half an hour into 236 00:11:13,000 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 2: a film and then ruined it. 237 00:11:14,559 --> 00:11:18,000 Speaker 3: Okay, all right, I will say, and I'll say calmly, 238 00:11:18,120 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 3: that is fair. It's not worth losing a friendship over. Okay. 239 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,480 Speaker 3: I may have told him the ending of Breaking Bad, 240 00:11:26,360 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 3: but it was very funny. 241 00:11:28,640 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: I still do the ending of that. 242 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:32,720 Speaker 2: Actually, how many seasons into Breaking Bad were you before 243 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:33,559 Speaker 2: you ruin the end? 244 00:11:33,960 --> 00:11:34,200 Speaker 3: Wow? 245 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:37,560 Speaker 1: I mean, Brooke is really offended over the spoiling of movies. 246 00:11:38,600 --> 00:11:40,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I'll tell you there was one time when 247 00:11:40,800 --> 00:11:43,240 Speaker 2: my husband ripped out the last two pages of a 248 00:11:43,320 --> 00:11:43,920 Speaker 2: book I. 249 00:11:43,840 --> 00:11:49,959 Speaker 3: Was invested in aphcle like that. 250 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,240 Speaker 1: Maybe if you need a new roommate, Brooks husband could 251 00:11:54,280 --> 00:11:54,559 Speaker 1: be it. 252 00:11:54,960 --> 00:11:57,280 Speaker 2: But did Roy ever tell Did Roy ever tell you 253 00:11:57,320 --> 00:11:58,280 Speaker 2: that he didn't like that? 254 00:11:58,800 --> 00:11:59,840 Speaker 3: No? He did, Brooke. 255 00:11:59,880 --> 00:12:03,880 Speaker 1: This is not a closure call for you and watching 256 00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:06,800 Speaker 1: and book reading. This is for Adam with his old 257 00:12:06,880 --> 00:12:08,080 Speaker 1: roommate and. 258 00:12:08,120 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 4: It's not going well. 259 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:12,840 Speaker 1: That's the next question, Jeff, question number three that we 260 00:12:12,960 --> 00:12:13,600 Speaker 1: sent to Roy. 261 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 3: I need to hear anymore. 262 00:12:16,280 --> 00:12:21,439 Speaker 1: Well, Brooke needs to hear we sent. I know it's 263 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 1: been a long time, but it would really mean a 264 00:12:23,640 --> 00:12:25,800 Speaker 1: lot to me if you came to my birthday party next. 265 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:28,439 Speaker 1: I would love to see you. 266 00:12:28,600 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 4: That's really sweet. 267 00:12:31,040 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 3: I'd like him there. It's my birthday. 268 00:12:32,920 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 1: It's so, Roy responded back, saying, are you trolling me 269 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: with this? Don't you remember the great birthday disaster? You 270 00:12:47,160 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: threw me that surprise birthday party but forgot to invite 271 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:52,720 Speaker 1: me or did you do it on purpose? 272 00:12:52,880 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 4: What? 273 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: I came home and the party was done, all my 274 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,320 Speaker 1: friends had left. Then you showed me the picks on Instagram? 275 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: What happened there, Adams? 276 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 3: Okay, I did a lot of work for it, and 277 00:13:05,600 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 3: I went and I got the cake, and I did 278 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:13,720 Speaker 3: all the secret invitest up the whole party. And it 279 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:18,080 Speaker 3: was an honest mistake. I just forgot the one thing. 280 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 2: Oh wait, text him in the middle of the party, 281 00:13:22,920 --> 00:13:24,079 Speaker 2: tell him to get over. 282 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:24,520 Speaker 4: To the house. 283 00:13:24,640 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 3: We were having fun. 284 00:13:27,960 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: I'm sure you left him a slice of cake for 285 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:35,480 Speaker 1: when he got home, right, Roy? What were we talking 286 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 1: about Roy's birthday? Yeah? 287 00:13:39,240 --> 00:13:41,600 Speaker 3: I totally did not do it on purpose. I know 288 00:13:41,800 --> 00:13:42,920 Speaker 3: that it sounds like I did. 289 00:13:43,280 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 2: Okay, and how that stuff that all of his friends 290 00:13:45,840 --> 00:13:46,640 Speaker 2: didn't stay. 291 00:13:46,760 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 4: It just. 292 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: It was a really good party that he's through. 293 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:55,640 Speaker 2: Obviously, it sounds like Roy's not coming to Adam's birthday. 294 00:13:56,120 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 1: Hold on, we have time for one more question here. 295 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: This could salvage the entire friendship and maybe even have 296 00:14:02,600 --> 00:14:03,840 Speaker 1: him moving back in with you. 297 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:06,559 Speaker 4: Because something from this Adam. 298 00:14:06,320 --> 00:14:08,840 Speaker 1: Wrote, no matter what I did, do you think you 299 00:14:08,880 --> 00:14:15,520 Speaker 1: could ever forgive me? Statement doesn't forgive you, but there 300 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,200 Speaker 1: you know so well. 301 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 3: The subtext is there's a question there of do you 302 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:25,360 Speaker 3: forgive me? Will you come back to me? And the cat? 303 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:29,520 Speaker 1: The cat you kind of stole and renamed and locked 304 00:14:29,560 --> 00:14:38,560 Speaker 1: in your bedroom. So he responded, no, dot, and I 305 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:40,880 Speaker 1: know all this would happen again if we hung out. 306 00:14:40,960 --> 00:14:44,239 Speaker 1: You're way too immature, and life's a big joke to you, 307 00:14:44,320 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: Like every time you'd ask me to stop at the 308 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:48,200 Speaker 1: drive through on the way home and pick up food, 309 00:14:48,440 --> 00:14:50,400 Speaker 1: then you'd call ahead and tell the workers I was 310 00:14:50,440 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: a missing person. 311 00:14:59,560 --> 00:15:03,240 Speaker 3: That was He was funny though it was created. 312 00:15:03,400 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 1: Even Brooks laughing at that one is going to be 313 00:15:07,800 --> 00:15:08,360 Speaker 1: actually good. 314 00:15:09,200 --> 00:15:13,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, here's the thing, Adam, You've got. 315 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:17,000 Speaker 2: To balance all this stuff with also some meaningful relationship things. 316 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 2: I think it was balanced, though, I feel like, yeah, 317 00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:25,840 Speaker 2: you just made his life living. 318 00:15:25,960 --> 00:15:29,640 Speaker 3: Hell, I'm willing to accept that he doesn't want to 319 00:15:29,640 --> 00:15:31,680 Speaker 3: come back. I'll have to break it to the cat, 320 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:33,720 Speaker 3: and I don't know how the cat's gonna take this. 321 00:15:34,280 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 1: You know, at the end of the day, the goal 322 00:15:36,240 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: was to get some closure for you, Adam, about what 323 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:41,520 Speaker 1: happened to your roommate. Do you feel like you got it? 324 00:15:41,880 --> 00:15:45,680 Speaker 3: You know what I did get closure. Life is a 325 00:15:45,800 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 3: giant joke, and I thought was the jokester with me, 326 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:52,840 Speaker 3: but apparently he's taken it all serious. 327 00:15:56,400 --> 00:15:59,840 Speaker 2: To find the middle ground there anyway go ahead out him. 328 00:16:00,040 --> 00:16:02,320 Speaker 1: Feel free to hop on Craigslist and get yourself a 329 00:16:02,360 --> 00:16:02,960 Speaker 1: new roommate. 330 00:16:03,880 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 4: Hopefully none of them listen to this. 331 00:16:07,760 --> 00:16:10,120 Speaker 1: And happy belated birthday to Roy by. 332 00:16:10,000 --> 00:16:13,400 Speaker 3: The way, if you're listening, I don't wish him happy birthday. 333 00:16:13,440 --> 00:16:15,680 Speaker 3: He's not going to be there my birthday 334 00:16:16,720 --> 00:16:18,120 Speaker 1: Brooked Jeffrey in the morning.