1 00:00:03,120 --> 00:00:06,000 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, I have a table over here. 2 00:00:08,320 --> 00:00:10,320 Speaker 2: Billy wants to know if this seat is taken. 3 00:00:10,960 --> 00:00:17,079 Speaker 3: Nope, in all yours, Billy, I'm coming sit in his seat. 4 00:00:17,120 --> 00:00:18,759 Speaker 1: Elliot, I'm sit by me. 5 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:25,480 Speaker 3: Ok doki, Oh okay, I guess I'll sit here. 6 00:00:26,400 --> 00:00:27,920 Speaker 1: Great, let's eat. 7 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:33,880 Speaker 4: Welcome to Stories for Kids by Lingo Kids, where we 8 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:37,199 Speaker 4: discover fascinating facts about the world around us and the 9 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:40,519 Speaker 4: fun of play learning. This is part two of a 10 00:00:40,600 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 4: four part mini series about bullying. At lunchtime, Lisa continues 11 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:49,240 Speaker 4: to say and do mean things to Cowie. When Cowie 12 00:00:49,280 --> 00:00:52,760 Speaker 4: gets upset, the friends realize they need help to make 13 00:00:52,800 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 4: things better for everyone. 14 00:00:56,200 --> 00:01:03,160 Speaker 1: I am so hungry. Hey, she's sandwich. I love cheese sandwiches. 15 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,800 Speaker 3: I have a cheese sandwich too. 16 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:13,640 Speaker 2: Billy has a sesame seed butter and jam sandwich. 17 00:01:14,400 --> 00:01:16,280 Speaker 1: That's our yummy erry. 18 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: You Cowie had lunch? 19 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:25,480 Speaker 1: Kind of smells It does smell kind of different. 20 00:01:26,120 --> 00:01:26,720 Speaker 3: What is it? 21 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,760 Speaker 1: Yeah? What is that's? 22 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:35,400 Speaker 3: It's tendory chicken with rice. It's my favorite. 23 00:01:36,280 --> 00:01:39,199 Speaker 4: Oh well, you might want to bring a more normal 24 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:40,240 Speaker 4: lunch next time. 25 00:01:41,040 --> 00:01:43,120 Speaker 1: Normal What do you mean? 26 00:01:43,959 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 3: I mean like a sandwich? See like my lunch? Oh 27 00:01:48,680 --> 00:01:55,240 Speaker 3: and mine? I bought a normal sandwich. Look, this is 28 00:01:55,360 --> 00:01:59,360 Speaker 3: my normal lunch, Cowie. 29 00:01:59,480 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 1: Where's she? 30 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:05,680 Speaker 4: Billy says you should all go find out? And I 31 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 4: think that is a good idea. 32 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 1: I don't even want this anymore, Kelly way, Kellie, why 33 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:19,160 Speaker 1: did you w your lunch in the jrash? 34 00:02:20,760 --> 00:02:23,560 Speaker 2: Billy is worried. What will you eat? 35 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:25,480 Speaker 1: I'm not hungry anymore? 36 00:02:26,440 --> 00:02:31,160 Speaker 3: Why is Lisa being so may me mean? 37 00:02:32,120 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 1: Yes? Why are all you being so mean to me? 38 00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:43,400 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Kellie. I thought people you're joking. It wasn't funny. 39 00:02:44,160 --> 00:02:47,480 Speaker 4: Billy says he didn't know you were upset, of course, 40 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 4: I am, Kellie. It looks like you could use some help. 41 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:53,600 Speaker 4: Can you tell me why you are feeling upset? 42 00:02:54,440 --> 00:02:54,840 Speaker 1: Okay? 43 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 3: Lisa is big, really mean, and I don't know why. 44 00:03:00,120 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 3: I thought she was my friend. 45 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 2: I am your friend. 46 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:09,000 Speaker 1: But you didn't want the car I made you. That's true, 47 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:10,760 Speaker 1: Actually she did not. 48 00:03:12,080 --> 00:03:15,200 Speaker 3: She said my Fender idea for the egg drop experiment 49 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:21,360 Speaker 3: was stupid experiment And I never said stupid. 50 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: That's what you meant? 51 00:03:24,240 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 2: Is there anything else? 52 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:25,680 Speaker 3: Cowie? 53 00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: And she said my lunch mouse and everyone agreed. Cowie. 54 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 1: I am so sorry. Amiens think about. 55 00:03:35,920 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 2: That Philly says he is very sorry too. 56 00:03:43,000 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 3: Cowie. 57 00:03:43,560 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 4: It sounds like many things added up to make you 58 00:03:46,400 --> 00:03:47,560 Speaker 4: feel really rotten. 59 00:03:48,360 --> 00:03:51,000 Speaker 2: Lisa, what do you think about what Cowie shared? 60 00:03:51,880 --> 00:03:55,360 Speaker 3: I think I mean, I don't want Cowie to dump 61 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:59,480 Speaker 3: her lunch out or cry, But I don't think I mean. 62 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:03,480 Speaker 4: Lisa, it sounds to me like you said and did 63 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,640 Speaker 4: things to Cawwie that made her feel bad. 64 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:07,560 Speaker 2: Do you know why you did that? 65 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: Maybe? But why I didn't do anything to you? This morning? 66 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 2: I wanted everyone to look at my head drop plans. 67 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: But instead they just wanted to look at the cards 68 00:04:21,279 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: you made them. 69 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 2: No one was listening to me, Lisa, Thank you for 70 00:04:27,080 --> 00:04:28,800 Speaker 2: sharing that. You know. 71 00:04:29,040 --> 00:04:32,239 Speaker 4: A very common reason why someone acts like a bully 72 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:36,000 Speaker 4: is that they are feeling bad about themselves, and instead 73 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:38,960 Speaker 4: of talking about it, they find someone else to pick on. 74 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:43,640 Speaker 1: A bully. Are you saying Lisa is a bully? But 75 00:04:43,760 --> 00:04:45,960 Speaker 1: bullies are bag and mean looking. 76 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, and they punch and push. 77 00:04:53,600 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 2: That's right. 78 00:04:54,240 --> 00:04:58,479 Speaker 4: Billy bullying can be physical, like pushing and punching, but 79 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:02,600 Speaker 4: bullying can also be emotional, like saying mean things on 80 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 4: purpose to make someone feel bad. 81 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:10,039 Speaker 1: That sounds terrible. I don't want to bully anyone. Do 82 00:05:10,080 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: you really think I'm a bully? 83 00:05:12,920 --> 00:05:16,359 Speaker 4: No, Lisa, I don't think you are a bully. But 84 00:05:16,960 --> 00:05:19,440 Speaker 4: when you say and do things to make someone feel 85 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:23,680 Speaker 4: bad over and over again, it is called bullying. I 86 00:05:23,800 --> 00:05:25,800 Speaker 4: know you are a good friend and you don't want 87 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 4: to act like a bully. 88 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:30,440 Speaker 3: And I don't want to be bullied, of course not. 89 00:05:31,200 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 3: And I don't want to let anyone get bullied. So, 90 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:39,680 Speaker 3: but how do you stop bullying? 91 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:44,600 Speaker 4: Great question, Lisa, Talking about it is a great start. 92 00:05:45,160 --> 00:05:47,720 Speaker 1: Really, I guess I'm doing that right now. 93 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:49,120 Speaker 2: You sure are. 94 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:52,720 Speaker 4: Next time you feel like lashing out at someone, try 95 00:05:52,760 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 4: to talk about how you are feeling, or just take 96 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:57,200 Speaker 4: a little break to calm down. 97 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 1: Wait, what do I lashes to feel bullying? 98 00:06:02,480 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 4: To lash out means to take something out on someone else. 99 00:06:06,440 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 4: If you have that feeling inside like you just have 100 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,719 Speaker 4: to say or do something mean, it's a good sign 101 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 4: that you have something you need to talk about. 102 00:06:15,160 --> 00:06:18,839 Speaker 3: Oh, I have another idea of something I can do. 103 00:06:19,640 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: What is it? 104 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 3: I'm sorry, Callie, I'm sorry for making you feel sad. 105 00:06:26,120 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 1: Thanks Lisa. 106 00:06:28,600 --> 00:06:32,560 Speaker 4: Today Lisa realized she was being mean to Callie. This 107 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:37,000 Speaker 4: made Callie and Lisa feel bad. Luckily, the friends learn 108 00:06:37,080 --> 00:06:40,039 Speaker 4: some tips on what to do to stop bullying behavior. 109 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:54,000 Speaker 4: Talk about it, take a break, and say sorry.