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Speaker 3: You probably got to turn the mouth mount turn the

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Speaker 3: water of the mony up.

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Speaker 7: Come come out, you think that, I sure will. Good

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Speaker 7: morning everybody. You're listening to the voice, Come on, dig

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Speaker 7: me now, one and only Steve Harvey, I got a

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Speaker 7: radio show, just trying to give God some back, just

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Speaker 7: some back of what even gave me, just a portion,

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Speaker 7: you know. Just I'm just trying, man to to show

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Speaker 7: some type of gratitude for all his blessings.

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Speaker 2: I'm just trying to, man.

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Speaker 7: Just get it right sometimes, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 7: I mean, man, you just can't do what you want

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Speaker 7: to do and just live wrong all the time. Man,

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Speaker 7: you gotta at one point in time, Steve, come home. Man,

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Speaker 7: come on, man, you could do better. I know you can.

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Speaker 7: You know saying and you know what I had to do.

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Speaker 7: I had to stop saying I'm gonna try to do better,

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Speaker 7: and I just had to say, hey, man, I'm going

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Speaker 7: to do better. You know, trying is just to put

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Speaker 7: forth in effing Then if it don't work, well okay.

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Speaker 7: But if you make up in your mind that I'm

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Speaker 7: going to do something, then trying isn't enough. It's getting

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Speaker 7: it done is the only thing that matters. See, it's

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Speaker 7: the difference between doing and trying. We're gonna try to

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Speaker 7: win the game, or we're gonna go out here to

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Speaker 7: win the game.

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Speaker 2: Now, trying to win the game means that you could lose.

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Speaker 7: But when you got in your mind made up, most

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Speaker 7: athletes will tell you that they go out there with

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Speaker 7: the full intent and purpose of winning and winning only

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Speaker 7: see they don't put the second place finish on the

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Speaker 7: cover of Sports Illustrated.

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Speaker 2: Second place don't get you there. You you got to win.

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Speaker 7: And now take it out of the scope of athletics,

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Speaker 7: but keep it in that type of analogy. In life, man,

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Speaker 7: you just want to you want to win in life,

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Speaker 7: don't you. I mean, at the end of the day,

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Speaker 7: don't you want to be on the cover of Sports Illustrated.

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Speaker 2: In life? Don't you want to be recognized for your

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Speaker 2: hard work?

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Speaker 7: Don't you want, you know, to be recognized within the

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Speaker 7: bonus structure down at your job. Don't you want to

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Speaker 7: I mean most people do. Some people could care less.

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Speaker 7: Some people don't care about looking good or being their best.

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Speaker 2: And that's cool.

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Speaker 7: But I ain't talking to them though. I'm talking to you.

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Speaker 7: I'm talking to those of you who want to be

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Speaker 7: the best you can be. You know, people kill me

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Speaker 7: when they getting mad at people. And he Brown knows

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Speaker 7: and he all up on the employee of the month, man,

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Speaker 7: the dude doing his job to the best of his ability,

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Speaker 7: and he getting recognized for it?

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Speaker 2: What they got to do with all that you're talking about?

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Speaker 2: Because you ain't up there.

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Speaker 7: There's amazing, man, how people describe other people's success.

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Speaker 2: He's so lucky. Lucky?

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Speaker 7: Hey, man, don't they kind of get you a little

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Speaker 7: bit when people call you lucky? Well, let me tell

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Speaker 7: you what luck really is, y'all. Lucky is when hard

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Speaker 2: Some people call that luck. But hold on, let's think

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Speaker 7: If you wasn't working hard, an opportunity presented itself, what

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Speaker 7: would you call that? But see, when you've been working

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Speaker 7: paying no attention to Yeah, that opportunity came by, But

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Speaker 7: if you had not been working hard, and the hard

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Speaker 2: No, sir, it's not luck, it's work. It is work,

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Speaker 2: because there's a scripture that says faith without works is dead.

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Speaker 7: But my mama was a Sunday school teacher. She taught

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Speaker 7: it kills me when people write a strawberry letter?

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Speaker 2: Am I wrong for this?

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Speaker 2: Good? Well, look at listen read your letter? Are you

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Speaker 2: wrong for this? You know you're wrong? What? You don't

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Speaker 2: need else to be telling me? You know?

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Speaker 7: But I'm gonna do this anyway. Well, el see, go ahead, though,

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Speaker 7: do what you want to do. But you know what, y'all,

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Speaker 7: here's the best advice.

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Speaker 2: I can give you.

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Speaker 7: And this is what I really came to talk about

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Speaker 7: this morning, but I got sidetracked because I listened. Get

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Speaker 7: out of your own way. So many of us are

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Speaker 7: blocking our home blessings. We just in our own way.

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Speaker 7: We are in our own way. And one of the

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Speaker 7: to do it your way, to get it figured your way,

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Speaker 2: And this the way it's.

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Speaker 7: Got to go. Do you know how many people are

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Speaker 7: With that mindset right there? Look, because this the way

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Speaker 7: you do it, you think that makes it the right way?

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Speaker 7: You think jazz, cause you the thought on it long

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Speaker 7: and hard, and that's what you really want. Do you

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Speaker 7: really think that your way is the right way or

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Speaker 7: could that be a better way?

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Speaker 2: See?

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Speaker 7: Until I started listening to God and started paying attention

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Speaker 7: to his way, man.

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Speaker 2: I was spinning my wheels. Man. I was out here

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Speaker 7: But you know, I had to learn how to get

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Speaker 7: out of my own way because just because I could

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Speaker 7: do it my way didn't mean it was the right way.

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Speaker 7: I had to get out of my own way. Just

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Speaker 7: get out your way, man, Now, what what does that mean?

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Speaker 7: That means, See, set your goals, That means have your dreams.

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Speaker 7: I'm saying, set your goals, man, I ain't saying, don't

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Speaker 7: set goals. Listen to me. Set your goals. What is

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Speaker 7: do you aspire to? Set your goals and set your dreams. Now,

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Speaker 7: take your goals and your dreams to God and ask

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Speaker 7: God to show you how. Man, you can save yourself

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Speaker 7: a lot of pain. Listen to somebody who did it

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Speaker 7: you've heard old people say, let go and let God,

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Speaker 7: you've heard them say that I didn't. I didn't get it,

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Speaker 7: And it's amazing little saying. Though now you know you

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Speaker 7: and I said, God, this is what I hope for,

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Speaker 7: get to. Then I said, help me show me how,

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Speaker 7: I can't believe I wonna been to you. Man, the

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Speaker 7: Lord told me something was gonna happen to me today. Well, see,

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Speaker 7: I talked to him every day. He did not mention

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Speaker 7: I don't mean it can't happen because I'm open to it.

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Speaker 7: So really, man, I'm proud, and please know I'm listening

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Speaker 7: as well as I've ever listened before. But get yourself together, though,

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Speaker 7: show you how to do it.

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Speaker 4: He'll do it.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 7: It's so important everybody, that you get focused, that you

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Speaker 7: aim for something, that you dream of something, that you

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Speaker 7: God involved in it. Man, talk to him. I mean,

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Speaker 7: why would you not what you got to lose? You

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Speaker 7: got to do that. This you and God, man, This

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Speaker 7: you and God. You know you got to serve and

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Speaker 7: praise him the way you do it. You gotta let

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Speaker 7: nobody else tell you how it's done. It's a personal relationship.

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Speaker 7: People kill me if you don't do it this way.

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Speaker 7: If you don't come here to this church and you

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Speaker 7: go have a relationship with God. See what that's about,

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Speaker 7: you understand? Or nobody throw you off with all that?

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Speaker 7: All right, all right, y'all talk to him. He love

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Speaker 7: to hear from you.

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Speaker 2: Today.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: Ladies and gentlemen, let me have your undivided attention. It's

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Speaker 7: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. The voice you listening to

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Speaker 7: does not belong to Steve.

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Speaker 1: I lie.

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Speaker 7: I do wish that women would stop asking the proverbial question,

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Speaker 7: why do men lie? That is the proverbial question. The

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Speaker 7: answer to that question, ladies, is because we are talking

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Speaker 7: to you. Say it one more time. The number one

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Speaker 7: reason that me and lie is because we are talking

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Speaker 1: And so you can't tell us the truth because.

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Speaker 7: Your reaction to the truth is so adverse. You know something,

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Speaker 7: as a matter of fact, let's talk about that for

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Speaker 7: a minute. Charley Startberry, Califreid, My South Mississippi, Monica, jur nephew,

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Speaker 7: Tommy in fact, let me, let me let's let's go

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Speaker 7: on and get to that way. Now, Junior, I know

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Speaker 7: you they have stuff on your mind, but you know

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Speaker 1: Information, okay, because he's married.

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Speaker 7: Now, yeah, Ladies always want to know why me and lied,

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Speaker 7: And the answer to that question is because, ladies, we

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Speaker 7: are talking to you.

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Speaker 2: What does that mean? Your reactions no sense? The truth

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Speaker 2: is so.

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Speaker 1: Crazy to you.

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Speaker 9: It's cool to us, but you because you can't handle

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Speaker 9: the react.

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Speaker 1: You can't handle our real.

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Speaker 2: You know you can't true?

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Speaker 1: Hello, No, no, no, that is that is yea. Our

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Speaker 2: See right there, yeah, right there, right, that's.

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Speaker 1: How we handle it.

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Speaker 2: See right there.

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Speaker 1: You don't like our reaction.

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Speaker 1: You see. That's selfish. Yeah, baby, I cheated. We're just

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Speaker 7: Why would he come in there and say maybe I

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Speaker 7: No, no, we're not already know that. Ain't what it's

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Speaker 1: You don't get to cheat. You don't get to do

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Speaker 7: Because if I was told you I was at her house,

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Speaker 7: Well where you think we're gonna be?

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Speaker 10: You got him?

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Speaker 8: How you telling you that I'm doing I ain't doing

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Speaker 8: too good. You never been over praying for my wife again?

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Speaker 8: Right right right, yes, sir, you came over here three

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Speaker 10: I ain't stupid, brother, kind of Hold it, brother, this brother,

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Speaker 10: shut ain't list. I was rever asked you to come by,

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Speaker 8: Okay, he ain't requested for you to bring your black

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Speaker 10: Hold it, brother. I came with Sister Georgia the first time.

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Speaker 8: Because I already know what you what you're doing. I

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Speaker 8: know you're trying to holler at my wife. I ain't

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Speaker 10: I had a wife. Why would I happen to your wife?

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Speaker 8: She's part of already already know what you already know

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Speaker 8: I already know what you do. Let me tell you something.

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Speaker 8: That's what you're gonna now, Brother.

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Speaker 10: It ain't gonna be none of that. It ain't gonna

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Speaker 10: be none of that. You're talking to the wrong brother

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Speaker 10: and I okay. Now, first of all, you're not gonna

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Speaker 10: the way brothers should be talking to brother. Second of all,

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Speaker 10: if there's any laying on the hands, it's gonna be

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Speaker 8: Okay. Late, I know I'm trying my wife. If I

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Speaker 10: All, I told you once again, you can't be talking

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Speaker 8: Be upset if somebody's coming back there and my wife

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Speaker 8: spend my time with my wife. I do you know

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Speaker 8: I'm saying your house, maybe I need to come on

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Speaker 8: to maybe come come and come lay something over there

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Speaker 10: To do it my older older one man, older one man,

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Speaker 10: I'll tell you before you're being disrespectful. Now, that was

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Speaker 8: Okay, that's what's gonna happen. If I catch your black

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Speaker 8: then I'm getting on the phone with you, you, your pastor

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Speaker 10: That's a promise, you know, Just that's it. Look here, brother,

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Speaker 10: if that's gonna be any whooping gone on, I will

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Speaker 10: then I'm gonna pray for you. I'm gonna pray to

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Speaker 10: because I'll have had it with you, you know. And

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Speaker 10: I only went by to visit your wife because I

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Speaker 10: a problem. You should have called a pastor. Okay, But

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Speaker 1: Life.

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Speaker 10: If you want to do somebody, you can meet me

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Speaker 10: As a matter of fact, I can go anywhere I

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Speaker 8: You you know, you just you know.

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Speaker 10: It's just a stupid brother. Okay. You need to come

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Speaker 11: Church more off.

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Speaker 10: And that's the problem. You're gonna come to church more off.

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Speaker 10: If you come to church more off. You want to

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Speaker 10: be talking to me like that? You wantn't be worried

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Speaker 10: wrong in your house. You be worried about me fooling

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Speaker 10: how about that? Why don't you do that? Why don't you.

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Speaker 10: Why don't you just check her? Okay, Thomas said, you

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Speaker 10: the one that's cheating with with my wife. That's that's

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Speaker 10: all I know? Who Tommy, let me say you tell.

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Speaker 8: Said Thoma said, you the one that's cheating around with

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Speaker 10: Tommy who?

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Speaker 2: Who?

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Speaker 10: Who is Tommy?

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Speaker 11: Tommy who?

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Speaker 8: This is a nephew, Tommy, Man, so this is nephew.

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Speaker 8: Tell me from Steve Harby Morning Show man, your church

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Speaker 8: member got me the pray ball, but not wrong for that?

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Speaker 10: You know, y're wrong, Y're long.

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Speaker 12: You know, y'all highway to hell, all of y'all. You

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Speaker 12: know none stop no, you know y'all just you know

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Speaker 12: y'all just gone. You know, ain't no stop signed, you know,

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Speaker 12: I finna go. I'm gonna pray for all of y'all,

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Speaker 12: all of your brothers and iphew till me Steve Hobby

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Speaker 10: Okay, I'm gonna check him. I'm gonna check what I'm

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Speaker 10: finna go. I said, I don't talk to you all

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Speaker 10: the more I'm paying for.

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Speaker 8: Man, you gotta tell me what's the bad radio show

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Thinking if you uh coming up next it is asked

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Speaker 7: It's Steve Harbin Martin show Man. You know, men are

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Speaker 2: It's not what you now.

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Speaker 7: He looking at a weaker. You need a bath. You

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Speaker 7: all what they got to do.

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Speaker 1: He needs sickness in and help.

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Speaker 6: He took that.

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Speaker 2: I got to get you to that bathroom. We got

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Speaker 2: It's such a big Yeah, you start for I get

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Speaker 2: out that dope. I don't need to be here for this.

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Speaker 2: Hey waita whoa baby whoo whoo? Will wait?

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Speaker 1: I took too long getting you in here, you stupid?

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Speaker 7: You have you got to wait? Yeah, you have got

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Speaker 7: too long getting you in here?

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Speaker 2: Pay? As soon as I set you down, you just started.

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Speaker 1: It is time for you, Steve. People want to ask

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Speaker 1: Raleigh writes, for my thirtieth birthday, I invited my cousin

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Speaker 1: I told her that he couldn't stay in my house.

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Speaker 1: She got mad and drove back home. Was that wrong

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Speaker 1: for this?

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Speaker 14: No?

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Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. It's your house. She don't even know him.

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Speaker 2: You don't know him, and she just told her he's

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Speaker 7: People don't even understand orders and and and just being

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Speaker 7: just met him, last week. I'body a waking up standing

444
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Speaker 7: nobody with no over there bed, with no accident in

445
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Speaker 7: what come on, high You know y'all ain't going out

446
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Speaker 7: of here, no motive. Now come on, put your DIC

447
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,119
Speaker 7: tape on your arms. Mouth shut up crying now you

448
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Speaker 7: know you don't know me.

449
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Speaker 2: Nobody do that.

450
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Speaker 1: No, that's crazy, that's really all right, Sammy and Tribeca says,

451
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Speaker 1: I'm a thirty nine year old married man, and I

452
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Speaker 1: have to share my wife with her male best friend,

453
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Speaker 1: which is very annoying. His husband is just as irritated

454
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Speaker 1: as I am with their friendship. And I had plans

455
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Speaker 1: to see a movie and she'd already seen it on

456
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Speaker 1: her lunch break with her bestie. How do I set

457
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Speaker 1: boundaries without offending them?

458
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Speaker 2: Okay, excuse me, I'm missing all right something.

459
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Speaker 1: Married man, married man, His wife has a best friend

460
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Speaker 1: who's also married to a man. It's a gay couple. Okay, Yeah,

461
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Speaker 1: the husband is irritated because the wife spends more time

462
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Speaker 1: with the bestie friends.

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Speaker 7: I don't give it if he married to several men.

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Speaker 7: That ain't none of my bills. You can do what

465
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Speaker 7: you want, right, but do you spending so much time

466
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Speaker 7: with him. Yeah, the thing, you know, man, find something

467
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Speaker 7: else to do. He got a husband, Go to movie

468
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Speaker 7: with him. You got a husband, go to movie with

469
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Speaker 7: your husband.

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Speaker 2: It's gonna make no sense.

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Speaker 1: Man, I keep man, okay, yeah, keep male and female.

472
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Speaker 7: These opposite sex friendships lead to problems. That's your best man,

473
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Speaker 7: Get another bestie? Where girl is that?

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Speaker 1: So the question is he wants to know Steve? How

475
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Speaker 1: does he set boundaries? He he's worried about offending them.

476
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Speaker 1: How do I set boundaries without Yeah, I don't give it.

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Speaker 2: Who offenished?

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Speaker 8: No?

479
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Speaker 2: No, no, I tell you what we're gonna do, all

480
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Speaker 2: of us.

481
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Speaker 8: There you go.

482
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Speaker 2: I'm I'm gonna.

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Speaker 7: Treat that on that offensive thing. Gon fit to be

484
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Speaker 7: like peanut butter. Don't finn to get some on.

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Speaker 2: Everybody breathe spread it around.

486
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Speaker 7: You know, when I make my peanut butter sandwich, I

487
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Speaker 7: put the peanut butter all all the way to the egg.

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Speaker 2: You can't see no bread on my I spreads my

489
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Speaker 2: peanut butter.

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Speaker 7: Now, I don't get the jelly all the way to

491
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Speaker 7: the edge because I don't want to leaking out. But

492
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Speaker 7: they pet up on a thick Yeah, I'm spreading this

493
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Speaker 7: offensive He don't want to feel.

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Speaker 2: Nobody man leave a feel.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, all right. Moving on to Joanne and Indiana,

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Speaker 1: Joanne writes, my husband was ill for three years before

497
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Speaker 1: he died. Before he died, I started dating someone else.

498
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Speaker 1: My marriage had been over for years, but I stayed

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Speaker 1: with my husband because he was sick. My boyfriend moved

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Speaker 1: in two weeks after my husband died. His mom thinks

501
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Speaker 1: I'm dead? Wrong, do I owe her an explanation?

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm gonna tell you right now. It ain't a

503
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Speaker 2: good look, right two weeks. I'm just telling you right now.

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Speaker 7: Now. I know the man was probably six sick, incapacitated

505
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Speaker 7: or something, and you should have gave it a little

506
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Speaker 7: more time because of the way it looked. But two

507
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Speaker 7: weeks after he moved in, Yeah, what was all the

508
00:26:28,920 --> 00:26:31,920
Speaker 7: neighbors saying, Well, they ain't even lowered the casket in

509
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Speaker 7: the ground. Again, they ain't even put all the dirt

510
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Speaker 7: on it. It's still got that green astro turf round it.

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Speaker 7: And wow, oh my god, here's the key word. He

512
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Speaker 7: isn't even cold yet. Well that's where people wrong. Oh

513
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Speaker 7: he ice cold, which saying that the body ain't even cold. Yeah, yeah,

514
00:27:06,480 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 7: matter of fact, when you die, you cold at first morning?

515
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:15,719
Speaker 7: About your finger?

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Speaker 1: Does she owe the mom an explanation?

517
00:27:19,760 --> 00:27:22,600
Speaker 2: Who's mother? His mother? His mother?

518
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:24,200
Speaker 1: Does she owe her an explanation?

519
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 2: His mama tripping?

520
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 8: Like what?

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Speaker 4: Two weeks?

522
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Speaker 7: She already knows this was going on while he was sick.

523
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:43,040
Speaker 7: But nobody understands that about life. So you just gotta

524
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Speaker 7: tell her mom. Look, you might, you might, but no

525
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:50,119
Speaker 7: matter what you say, how you think it's gonna go

526
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Speaker 7: with his mother?

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Speaker 2: She'd have lost her son. Yeah a year, she's gonna

528
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,120
Speaker 2: hate you for a Why do you move in with him?

529
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,800
Speaker 2: There you go? He ain't got nothing now he all

530
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Speaker 2: up in her son house. Girl, you see to be evolving?

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Speaker 1: Drive?

532
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Speaker 2: Oh god?

533
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Speaker 7: Yeah that when they started flying shots up in the house.

534
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Speaker 7: If I was here, I moved back to my house.

535
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 7: I had to less some time. Cool, that ain't all?

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00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 4: Yeah?

537
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Speaker 2: Every time they pull out the driveway, go to church,

538
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Speaker 2: our shopping.

539
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Speaker 9: Teeter's kite or forever?

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Speaker 3: All right?

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Speaker 1: Moving on last one, Camy and Toronto says, I'm a

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Speaker 1: beginning swimmer and my boyfriend is a professional diver. I

543
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:44,920
Speaker 1: learned to swim, but I hate being in water. We're

544
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,280
Speaker 1: going on vacation he's planning water activities for us. He's

545
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,480
Speaker 1: forcing me to face my fears. Should I make my

546
00:28:50,680 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: own plans?

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Speaker 2: Well, you gonna die on this vacation. Yeah, to say

548
00:29:00,160 --> 00:29:07,160
Speaker 2: that we can all the water sports? What is he

549
00:29:07,400 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: doing though?

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00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 4: Man?

551
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 2: I love going on the water.

552
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:14,200
Speaker 7: Uh huh in all the water trips out and took

553
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Speaker 7: out a jet ski three times.

554
00:29:17,320 --> 00:29:20,360
Speaker 2: Yeah. Last time I just went circle. The boat came

555
00:29:20,520 --> 00:29:22,880
Speaker 2: right on back. We saw it on you.

556
00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:29,000
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, thanks fellow. We gotta wrap this up.

557
00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:34,760
Speaker 2: Steve Harbin Martin show Man. You don't do this is good.

558
00:29:36,600 --> 00:29:41,680
Speaker 2: You're not good. Just spt you stop it. Noise.

559
00:29:41,920 --> 00:29:45,920
Speaker 1: Angriest comedian ever. I don't need no help.

560
00:29:46,040 --> 00:29:49,840
Speaker 2: I don't need no help. And Joe for me write

561
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Speaker 2: my joke.

562
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Speaker 7: You want to ask sound effects, You're gonna do it, Tommy, Tommy,

563
00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:56,880
Speaker 7: do you want any sound effects with your jokes?

564
00:29:56,960 --> 00:30:01,040
Speaker 1: For surely animals. I'll tell you doing sound effects.

565
00:30:02,480 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 7: Whatever you and Junior work, go ahead, coyote, there you go,

566
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Speaker 7: Junior City.

567
00:30:09,560 --> 00:30:10,880
Speaker 2: From now you work with jun.

568
00:30:16,920 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 1: Effect A big bath.

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Speaker 8: Coming up.

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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. What you got Carla?

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Speaker 9: Okay, so listen to this Steve. My friends a lot

572
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Speaker 9: of us appearents. You know, we hang out, we do

573
00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:43,240
Speaker 9: things together with our children. So the latest discussion is

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Speaker 9: at what age should you teach your child how to

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Speaker 9: curse or say bad words.

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Speaker 7: Well, you shouldn't teach her. There's no age when you

577
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 7: should teach them bad working, okay, because bad words are

578
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:05,640
Speaker 7: not necessary. It all depends on circumstance and environment. Cussing

579
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Speaker 7: is an environmental, circumstantial thing that you have to be

580
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Speaker 7: able to participate in. And every circumstance and all environments

581
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Speaker 7: do not require cussing. You need to be able, So

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Speaker 7: it's not a good time for the situations will bring

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Speaker 7: out the child when it's necessary.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So it's.

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Speaker 7: Not for you to decide I'm gonna teach my child cussing.

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Speaker 7: I never taught any of my kids to cuss. My

587
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Speaker 7: father never taught me to cuss. I just picked it up.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you overheard it.

589
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Speaker 7: And for me personally, the decision to use cussing a

590
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Speaker 7: little bit more regularly was somewhere around nine.

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Speaker 2: Yes, nine is when I started implementing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, pretty young.

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Speaker 2: By twelve, I was you know, I wasn't It wasn't

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Speaker 2: really farm good. I was just throwing it out there.

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Speaker 7: But I had a lot more situations, and all I

596
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Speaker 7: got the more useful and more timely and more situations

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Speaker 7: presented themselves.

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Speaker 2: So that's how I did it. So I don't say

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Speaker 2: that there's an age that you give a child.

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Speaker 9: Okay, here's why I'm asking this because I know a

601
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Speaker 9: lot of people look uncomfortable with this question. But it's

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Speaker 9: a different time for these kids and going into school.

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Speaker 9: It's just been tough with a group of people that

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Speaker 9: we hang with with their kids. So they were saying

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Speaker 9: they want to teach their children how to say blank,

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Speaker 9: you be, get out my face in a situation of bullying,

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Speaker 9: bull yea and things like so, yeah, you start that.

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Speaker 7: I don't think it's necessary. See, here's the problem calling

609
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Speaker 7: your little crew that y'all go to school with. Y'all

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Speaker 7: suburban parents, y'all, y'all from the hood, but y'all have

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Speaker 7: become suburbanized and you all are suburban parents.

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Speaker 2: So now you've you've tried to remain.

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Speaker 7: And you're trying to live up to your status status

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Speaker 7: in life now, but your calling and you're trying to

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Speaker 7: know when to implement hoodism into your kids and your

616
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Speaker 7: kids don't really need that, and so you've got to

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Speaker 7: teach them other ways. I don't recommend teach seriously, do

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Speaker 7: not recommend teaching cussing to kids, because I mean, it's

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Speaker 7: gonna backfire behavior.

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Speaker 11: You know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you don't teach them negative behavior.

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Speaker 8: Now.

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Speaker 2: Did I teach my children to take care of themselves? Yeah?

624
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Speaker 2: But I found out I was doing it for no reason.

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Speaker 2: Somebody hit you. Everybody go down there.

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Speaker 7: My kids ain't down the street fighting and then come

627
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Speaker 7: home and you go get all your brothers and go.

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Speaker 2: Back down there.

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Speaker 7: My kids don't look. Matter of fact, the house too

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Speaker 7: far away. I wanted to tell my sons that, but

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Speaker 7: they went to school where they ain't fight. Ain't fighting you.

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Speaker 7: They talk about your instagram. Had my daddy took me

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Speaker 7: to get my live sad that.

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Speaker 13: My daddy took me over there because we were They

635
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Speaker 13: weren't fighting in my neighborhood, but over there my cousin

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Speaker 13: every day, every said by twelve thirty, yeah, get my

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Speaker 13: butt tore up.

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Speaker 2: That's how you grew up.

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Speaker 9: It's like you said, how we grew up and how

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Speaker 9: we're parenting and how our children are growing up.

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Speaker 1: It's just a two it's two different worlds.

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Speaker 7: And it's and it's some parenting that just doesn't apply today,

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Speaker 7: and then a lot of it does, but you all

644
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Speaker 7: have removed it because of your new way. But your

645
00:34:39,480 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 7: kids are suburban kids. So when the bullying goes down

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Speaker 7: in school, how do you teach them how to cuss?

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Speaker 7: You ain't got to teach them how to cuss. You

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00:34:48,040 --> 00:34:50,960
Speaker 7: got to get the bully out your face. You don't

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Speaker 7: get the bully out your face by cussing. There's a

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Speaker 7: physical activity that can get the bully out. Now, if

651
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Speaker 7: you don't want to teach the physical act activity, then

652
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Speaker 7: you got to go with something else. But bullies don't

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Speaker 7: respond to get your blankety blank out my blankety blank.

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Speaker 7: They don't be cause they bullis hell, they don't. They

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Speaker 7: one told you I'm.

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Speaker 2: Goin to put my blankety blank in your blankety blank. Now,

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Speaker 2: you little what's your comeback?

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Speaker 7: See, it's hard to outcuss a bully, So you got

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Speaker 7: to teach your children the other things. But I don't

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Speaker 7: recommend teaching your children how to talk bad to people

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Speaker 7: because that doesn't work because it's just talk just and eventually,

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Speaker 7: if once you talk bad, you had to bag.

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Speaker 2: Some of it up you did.

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Speaker 14: Your parents have put motivation behind you behind the bully,

665
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Speaker 14: Like if you don't wolf his, I'm yours. Yeah, that

666
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Speaker 14: was the motivation I had again.

667
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Speaker 2: Yeah, what what you're crying for? Yeah?

668
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, come home crying one long time.

669
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Speaker 7: I'm gonna give you something to cry about. Then I'm

670
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Speaker 7: gonna take you down there. My brothers then took me

671
00:35:59,320 --> 00:36:03,080
Speaker 7: back down to fight Manny. Me and Manni got in

672
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 7: four fights in one day. Me and Manny was through

673
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:09,600
Speaker 7: with it. Man he hit in the picture right up there,

674
00:36:09,640 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 7: the dude with the head on with the gold jacket standing.

675
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:13,959
Speaker 7: That what they name in my street, my boy Manny.

676
00:36:14,200 --> 00:36:16,480
Speaker 7: We fought full time. One Me and Manny was through.

677
00:36:16,520 --> 00:36:19,920
Speaker 7: After the first fight, our brothers and sisters got involved.

678
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 7: Rose Calhoun bought Manny back up to my house to

679
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Speaker 7: beat me up.

680
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Speaker 2: Wow, big throws. Man Now, Manny whooped me the first time.

681
00:36:30,400 --> 00:36:32,600
Speaker 2: I'm through you win. Manny. We friends.

682
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 7: But since she brought him up to my house and

683
00:36:36,920 --> 00:36:40,480
Speaker 7: my daddy was on the porch watching, I got to

684
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Speaker 7: ten minutes.

685
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Speaker 2: She Steve Harbin Martin show Man.

686
00:36:48,440 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: The most important lesson you learned, Steve from your parents

687
00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 1: that I.

688
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Speaker 7: Wasn't supposed to be here. My daddy constantly told me

689
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Speaker 7: that my mama had me forty two. I was talking

690
00:37:01,600 --> 00:37:03,319
Speaker 7: to my father one time, I said, Dad, I need

691
00:37:03,360 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 7: to talk to you. Say, you can go ahead and

692
00:37:04,440 --> 00:37:06,000
Speaker 7: talk to me, But you do know you ain't even

693
00:37:06,000 --> 00:37:07,319
Speaker 7: supposed to be here for here.

694
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Speaker 4: Walk up.

695
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Speaker 2: Steve Morning Show coming up right after.

696
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Speaker 1: You're listening Steve Hardy Morning Show.

697
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Speaker 7: Hybrid and incredible suv? Is it the spacious interior that's

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Speaker 7: comfy for the whole crew? Maybe it's having up to

700
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Speaker 7: six hundred plus miles of range. What if it's all

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it's time for a round of would

707
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: you rather? Would you rather think about this? Would you

708
00:37:57,280 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: rather be chased by a bear? A cougar?

709
00:38:01,560 --> 00:38:02,359
Speaker 8: Be oh?

710
00:38:02,520 --> 00:38:04,480
Speaker 1: Man, a cougar?

711
00:38:04,680 --> 00:38:05,200
Speaker 2: Real cool?

712
00:38:05,280 --> 00:38:08,000
Speaker 1: Yeah they're fast. Now they might get a cougar gonna.

713
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Speaker 2: Kill I think?

714
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:10,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, listen to me.

715
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 7: Bears run forty five forty miles an hour. You're not

716
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 7: getting away with either one. What are y'all crazy?

717
00:38:16,880 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 8: Do you?

718
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 1: The bear was slower?

719
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,080
Speaker 2: A bear runs around an hour?

720
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: Oh, I didn't know.

721
00:38:22,640 --> 00:38:23,719
Speaker 2: What do you cougar about?

722
00:38:23,760 --> 00:38:23,800
Speaker 10: What?

723
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:24,840
Speaker 2: Seventy?

724
00:38:27,640 --> 00:38:28,720
Speaker 1: It's gonna catch you first?

725
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 2: Listen to me back, did y'all see revenue?

726
00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 7: If it is that they made a movie about a bell,

727
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 7: they never seen them make no movie about no cougar.

728
00:38:43,480 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: We can't whoop. We can't whoop either one of them.

729
00:38:45,920 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 2: But no, you can't do nothing with that bear.

730
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Speaker 7: Nothingn be tall when he's standing up, He's just cougar something. Man,

731
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Speaker 7: I'm gonna get up with that. They never seen nobody

732
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Speaker 7: whoop a bag. I'm taking the cougar. Y'all don't understand.

733
00:39:05,719 --> 00:39:08,359
Speaker 7: I'm gonna take that cat his brow.

734
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Speaker 1: Man' I can't believe he saw.

735
00:39:16,160 --> 00:39:19,640
Speaker 2: I can't believe he's revenue. I watched it twice.

736
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Speaker 7: I tore his off, all through his and the bad honoring.

737
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Speaker 7: He double background on his, and he caught it. Give

738
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:35,279
Speaker 7: me that cougar, let me deal with it.

739
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Speaker 2: Is the cougar for you?

740
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Speaker 9: All right?

741
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:40,080
Speaker 1: Definitely?

742
00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,040
Speaker 2: All right now, point and listen.

743
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 7: To me don't y'all do that. I'm from the country.

744
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,759
Speaker 7: Do not do that, because that bar can get up

745
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Speaker 7: in the tree and everything he hail man, that bad

746
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:55,760
Speaker 7: bad and they honoring.

747
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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, all right.

748
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Speaker 1: Cooler cougar all around, all right? Would you rather sneeze

749
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 1: uncontrollably once every day or get the hiccups for fifteen

750
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Speaker 1: minutes a day? Sneeze uncontrollably once a day, for fifteen

751
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Speaker 1: minutes a day.

752
00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:20,920
Speaker 2: But how long? How long I'm sneezing once the day?

753
00:40:22,000 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, but uncontrollably sneezing.

754
00:40:24,360 --> 00:40:25,879
Speaker 2: But how long do it last?

755
00:40:26,000 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 1: Yeh yeah, once a day, uncontrollably. When it's done, it's done.

756
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Speaker 2: If it's once a day, a sound control?

757
00:40:34,800 --> 00:40:37,560
Speaker 1: Would you rather what would you rather do? Just answer it.

758
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:38,480
Speaker 2: I'd rather sneeze.

759
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:41,000
Speaker 8: That's it.

760
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Speaker 7: If I sneeze one time, I just want to sneeze

761
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Speaker 7: one time, come out of.

762
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Speaker 2: Nowhere, or hear from controllably three days at a time.

763
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Speaker 1: All right, that's today's crazy round. Would you rather go on?

764
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Speaker 8: On?

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Speaker 1: This is your boy, Kevin Hart, This is Erica Baduel,

766
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:03,640
Speaker 1: This is Dave Chappelley.

767
00:41:03,640 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 2: Know what's up? This is ice queue. I can't call it.

768
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:08,920
Speaker 7: This your man said to be entertainer and you're listening

769
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:10,839
Speaker 7: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

770
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Speaker 1: That my doubt you're listenings Steve Harvey Morning Show. All

771
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: right time Now for a quick round of ask the

772
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Speaker 1: clo clauwe Chief Love Officer Steve Harvey in the building.

773
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Speaker 1: This one's from Andy and Kelly, Andy Wrights. I own

774
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Speaker 1: a small business that I put all my savings into,

775
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 1: so it has to work. My wife decided she'd quit

776
00:41:37,640 --> 00:41:40,280
Speaker 1: her job to help me full time because she hated

777
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Speaker 1: her job. Not only is it frustrating to be around

778
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Speaker 1: her twenty four to seven, but the loss of our

779
00:41:46,080 --> 00:41:49,279
Speaker 1: second source of income is stressing me out. I want

780
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Speaker 1: to be honest with her about everything, so she will

781
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Speaker 1: find another job and give me some space. But I

782
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,520
Speaker 1: don't want to offend her. This could ruin our marriage.

783
00:41:57,719 --> 00:41:58,600
Speaker 1: How do I handle this?

784
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Speaker 8: Well?

785
00:42:00,440 --> 00:42:03,600
Speaker 2: Hold up dog? That's gonna be a little touchy one.

786
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,680
Speaker 2: Because she hated.

787
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Speaker 7: Her job, so she said she quit it to work

788
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:12,480
Speaker 7: with you full time. She thought two would be better

789
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:15,759
Speaker 7: than one, pursuing the dream. But the loss of her

790
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:19,279
Speaker 7: income is stressing you out. But let me ask you

791
00:42:19,320 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 7: a question. Did you quit your job and put all

792
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:26,200
Speaker 7: your money into a business.

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00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: Two, yeah, he did, and want to be around her twenty.

794
00:42:32,800 --> 00:42:33,279
Speaker 2: Four to seven.

795
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,399
Speaker 7: See that's your real problem, though, that's it. See, that's

796
00:42:36,440 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 7: the real problem. And we can't help you with that

797
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 7: because nothing I can tell you're gonna make you want

798
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 7: to be around her twenty four seven. Nothing that's not

799
00:42:43,880 --> 00:42:44,360
Speaker 7: ready to go?

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Speaker 1: Okay, tie that in. Why don't you So? How does

801
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: he handle it? What does he do? What does he say?

802
00:42:52,400 --> 00:42:55,279
Speaker 7: Well, it's a little water over the damn situation now,

803
00:42:55,320 --> 00:42:58,800
Speaker 7: because y'all should have covered this before she quit. But

804
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:00,480
Speaker 7: now that she can, now you're gonna asks her to

805
00:43:00,520 --> 00:43:03,920
Speaker 7: go find another job. And what that's gonna be is

806
00:43:04,080 --> 00:43:08,000
Speaker 7: go find another job to support my dream. You do

807
00:43:08,120 --> 00:43:12,960
Speaker 7: hear how this is gonna sound to her? You can

808
00:43:13,040 --> 00:43:15,439
Speaker 7: quit your job and be free, but I can't quit

809
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:16,080
Speaker 7: my job.

810
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 2: To help us be free. I got to go back

811
00:43:17,880 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 2: to work. That's right, that's what's fit to happen. So

812
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:22,799
Speaker 2: I don't have a suggestion for you, sir. Good luck.

813
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:26,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, Carlos and Indiana, we're moving on. I'm

814
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:30,280
Speaker 1: a forty two year old married man with a twenty

815
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:34,560
Speaker 1: seven year old pregnant side chick. She's having a baby.

816
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 1: He's forty two and married. She's twenty seven and pregnant. Okay,

817
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,040
Speaker 1: she's having a baby shower in two weeks, and this

818
00:43:44,200 --> 00:43:46,520
Speaker 1: is her first baby, so I want to be there

819
00:43:46,640 --> 00:43:50,120
Speaker 1: for her special day. My wife knows about the baby,

820
00:43:50,160 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: and she's dealing with it in her own way, so

821
00:43:53,120 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: I don't want to keep hurting her. If I go

822
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,320
Speaker 1: to the shower. I'm sure pictures of me will be

823
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 1: all over Instagram. I'm trying to fix this mess by

824
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,280
Speaker 1: keeping my baby mama calm while I work on getting

825
00:44:05,320 --> 00:44:08,360
Speaker 1: my marriage back on track. What should I skip the

826
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:09,240
Speaker 1: baby shower?

827
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:13,560
Speaker 2: Well, let me explain something to you. What if you

828
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: go to that? Come on, let me tell you sometime.

829
00:44:18,160 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 2: You're stupid.

830
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Speaker 8: Dog.

831
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Speaker 7: You've made a statement in here that cannot happen. You said,

832
00:44:24,760 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 7: I'm trying to get my marriage on track. You kill

833
00:44:28,719 --> 00:44:30,480
Speaker 7: you to that baby shower.

834
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,440
Speaker 1: You can't. Boy, not do that.

835
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 2: Boy sitting up smiling, But but.

836
00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,120
Speaker 1: His wife is dealing with it in her own way?

837
00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:45,280
Speaker 1: God way, do you know the hell?

838
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 2: The sheer?

839
00:44:47,880 --> 00:44:48,160
Speaker 1: Hall?

840
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 7: You don't put this woman through and now you're fit

841
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 7: to go to a baby shower? You know you do

842
00:44:56,239 --> 00:44:59,279
Speaker 7: know that Hall has a wave with it.

843
00:45:01,480 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 2: When you're given a woman. Hell, she got a wave

844
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:08,440
Speaker 2: of it for you. Now take care to that shower.

845
00:45:08,560 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 2: See what happened?

846
00:45:10,560 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 8: Why?

847
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 2: That's stupid?

848
00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: But he wants to keep his marriage on track, and

849
00:45:16,440 --> 00:45:18,880
Speaker 1: then he wants to keep his baby mama colle to.

850
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:21,160
Speaker 2: Grad.

851
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:25,120
Speaker 9: You're an idiot girl if you don't call me Linda

852
00:45:25,160 --> 00:45:26,400
Speaker 9: Gates and get these papers.

853
00:45:29,320 --> 00:45:30,920
Speaker 1: All right, Rice and.

854
00:45:31,120 --> 00:45:35,000
Speaker 7: Charlotte, excuse me one last day. Yeah, there's a cause

855
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:36,120
Speaker 7: for me in the side.

856
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 2: Chick. Hmm, there's a cause for that. They don't come

857
00:45:42,760 --> 00:45:44,440
Speaker 2: with the full benefit package.

858
00:45:46,040 --> 00:45:50,560
Speaker 1: That's why he's not gonna be at that shower. A mess.

859
00:45:50,960 --> 00:45:53,960
Speaker 1: That's horrible. How is his wife dealing with this in

860
00:45:54,040 --> 00:45:54,759
Speaker 1: her own way?

861
00:45:55,000 --> 00:45:56,840
Speaker 2: Where is all my money in my bank account?

862
00:45:59,239 --> 00:45:59,960
Speaker 4: What is true?

863
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:01,120
Speaker 2: All right?

864
00:46:01,360 --> 00:46:06,280
Speaker 1: Listen, that's all the time we have for CLO. Thank you, CLLO.

865
00:46:06,440 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 1: Coming up next to it's the Nephew with today's prank

866
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Speaker 1: phone call. Right after this, you're listening to the Steve

867
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Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of the hour.

868
00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,840
Speaker 1: Right about four minutes after, it's my Strawberry letter for today.

869
00:46:22,920 --> 00:46:29,239
Speaker 1: The subject is my boyfriend hates the word No. We'll

870
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:31,520
Speaker 1: get into that in just a little bit, because right

871
00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:34,839
Speaker 1: now the nephew is here with today's prank phone call?

872
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:35,719
Speaker 2: What you got for us?

873
00:46:35,800 --> 00:46:45,080
Speaker 1: Nef hooking up at the daycare really looking.

874
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:48,600
Speaker 2: Up at the daycare run that if you would cat

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00:46:48,680 --> 00:46:55,280
Speaker 2: doll Hello, Hello, I'm trying to I'm trying to reach FREEDA.

876
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Speaker 11: This is free and is this you don't know me?

877
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 2: My name is Lane Lined. I know I wanted to

878
00:47:02,840 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: call you.

879
00:47:03,760 --> 00:47:05,719
Speaker 13: I've been looking for trying to get your phone number

880
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:08,680
Speaker 13: actually for like about the last about two weeks.

881
00:47:08,800 --> 00:47:10,759
Speaker 11: Now what do you do my number? Four? Baby? Can

882
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:12,600
Speaker 11: you get on with it because I'm on lunch breaking

883
00:47:12,640 --> 00:47:14,560
Speaker 11: from here meeting my lunch, and I need to come

884
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Speaker 11: on with.

885
00:47:15,400 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 2: Okay, now is your your husband is?

886
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Speaker 9: Uh?

887
00:47:21,480 --> 00:47:22,120
Speaker 3: What is your name?

888
00:47:22,160 --> 00:47:22,399
Speaker 8: Again?

889
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:24,439
Speaker 2: My name is Line Line?

890
00:47:25,080 --> 00:47:25,360
Speaker 7: Okay?

891
00:47:25,520 --> 00:47:28,480
Speaker 11: And you asking about my husband? Now what about Yes,

892
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:29,360
Speaker 11: that's my husband.

893
00:47:29,719 --> 00:47:29,959
Speaker 8: See.

894
00:47:30,400 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 13: The problem I'm having, Miss Freedom, is that I look

895
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 13: through my wife cell phone about two three weeks ago,

896
00:47:39,920 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 13: and I found out that this actual phone number belong

897
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 13: to your husband name, and he been text message in.

898
00:47:48,840 --> 00:47:52,800
Speaker 10: Her a right down, stop stop stop wait a minute.

899
00:47:52,600 --> 00:47:56,360
Speaker 13: Because but see let me finish though he been text

900
00:47:56,480 --> 00:48:00,279
Speaker 13: message in her different uh text message and stuffbody he

901
00:48:00,360 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 13: wanted to meet up with her, and and how she

902
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:05,839
Speaker 13: looked the other day and stuff like this here but then,

903
00:48:06,400 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 13: but then even worse than this hell is he?

904
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,200
Speaker 2: You know? Doesne send some some some pictures of himself

905
00:48:13,320 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 2: some some naked pictures on the on the on on

906
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:18,360
Speaker 2: the cell phone.

907
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:24,160
Speaker 11: So please no, no, sir, not, I know not because

908
00:48:24,360 --> 00:48:26,880
Speaker 11: if anything, if he texting anybody needs to be an

909
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,279
Speaker 11: employer about a job. I know you're not saying to me,

910
00:48:30,560 --> 00:48:32,759
Speaker 11: who who is your wife? What's your name again? What's

911
00:48:32,760 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 11: your name?

912
00:48:33,360 --> 00:48:36,640
Speaker 2: My name is Lennie and my my my wife name

913
00:48:36,760 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 2: is my wife name is Denise?

914
00:48:38,719 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 1: Denise, Denise, Denise.

915
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,560
Speaker 11: That ain't registered with me? Don't we pretty much have

916
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:50,440
Speaker 11: an opera relationship where we kind of communicate and I

917
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,800
Speaker 11: don't know nothing about no Denise?

918
00:48:53,280 --> 00:48:58,120
Speaker 13: Yeah, okay, do do your husband's last fold digits on

919
00:48:58,280 --> 00:49:00,359
Speaker 13: his phone is sixty eight twenty the two.

920
00:49:02,040 --> 00:49:04,279
Speaker 11: Yeah, that would be the last, or did it?

921
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 2: Okay? See that's what I'm saying, ma'am. I'm not trying

922
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:09,000
Speaker 2: to call you, you know. I mean, I'm.

923
00:49:09,280 --> 00:49:13,200
Speaker 13: Disappointed in my wife because of these text messages and

924
00:49:13,280 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 13: in these pictures and stuff.

925
00:49:14,520 --> 00:49:14,680
Speaker 8: You know.

926
00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:17,920
Speaker 13: I'm I'm the one. That's why I say, Okay, I

927
00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 13: need to call this man wife right here and see.

928
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:21,520
Speaker 2: What you know?

929
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:23,080
Speaker 1: Do she even know it?

930
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 11: I need you to write a minute, back up and

931
00:49:25,719 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 11: be quiet for me. Look here, okay, der niece, you're

932
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 11: lining okay, where they're supposed to have? Manute?

933
00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 12: What what you know?

934
00:49:33,640 --> 00:49:35,400
Speaker 11: Because we usual to go everywhere again when we go on,

935
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,359
Speaker 11: first of all, the don't work. Let's let's go there.

936
00:49:38,719 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 11: He does not work?

937
00:49:40,320 --> 00:49:41,319
Speaker 2: Okay, So I don't know.

938
00:49:41,360 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 11: Where it is when he got when he generally when

939
00:49:43,640 --> 00:49:46,359
Speaker 11: he leaves the house went together? Where did they meet?

940
00:49:46,960 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 10: How?

941
00:49:47,520 --> 00:49:49,359
Speaker 11: How did they meet two weeks ago? You say, because

942
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 11: I'm listening to you now, you got I don't.

943
00:49:51,600 --> 00:49:53,839
Speaker 13: I don't know if they meant two weeks ago. I'm

944
00:49:54,000 --> 00:49:57,879
Speaker 13: just I just found him in the cell phone two

945
00:49:57,960 --> 00:49:59,399
Speaker 13: weeks ago. That's what I'm saying.

946
00:49:59,520 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 7: Now.

947
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 13: You say, if you're saying he don't work, then evidently

948
00:50:03,160 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 13: it must be doing the day while you gone or

949
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:06,480
Speaker 13: something I don't do.

950
00:50:06,920 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 2: I mean you you say, you on your lunch break

951
00:50:09,000 --> 00:50:09,359
Speaker 2: right now?

952
00:50:09,880 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 8: Yeah?

953
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:12,520
Speaker 11: Uh huh? And where is your wife right now? Wait?

954
00:50:13,000 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 11: Do you know where your wife feels right now?

955
00:50:15,520 --> 00:50:15,640
Speaker 6: Uh?

956
00:50:15,840 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 2: Well, she supposed to be at work right now, and

957
00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:19,840
Speaker 2: you know what I just counted.

958
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 11: He told me he was gonna get in the tub

959
00:50:21,840 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 11: and when I come back, it's taking the lound he

960
00:50:24,520 --> 00:50:28,120
Speaker 11: used it. Okay, it's yeah, okay, if I ain't have

961
00:50:28,200 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 11: to go back in this hospital. The baby, baby baby, See, yeah,

962
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 11: where's your wife? I need you to get to We

963
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:35,840
Speaker 11: need to your wife field.

964
00:50:36,080 --> 00:50:38,560
Speaker 13: Well, see, my wife works at a uh at a

965
00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 13: no wait a minute, do y'all have do y'all have kids?

966
00:50:43,320 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 8: Hell?

967
00:50:43,640 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 11: Yeah, we got kids, and that's my problem. That's why

968
00:50:46,320 --> 00:50:51,120
Speaker 11: I'm so upset. I'm working. I'll day, I get up

969
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,560
Speaker 11: and soe in the morning to make sure I got

970
00:50:53,640 --> 00:50:56,040
Speaker 11: everything prepared for the whole day. She got to get

971
00:50:56,040 --> 00:50:59,000
Speaker 11: the kids. And we have three kids, one, two, and three.

972
00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:05,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, okay, is he the one? Because see do

973
00:51:05,920 --> 00:51:08,840
Speaker 2: he because my wife works at a at a daycare?

974
00:51:09,320 --> 00:51:11,760
Speaker 2: Do he drop him off at a daycare?

975
00:51:12,600 --> 00:51:16,800
Speaker 11: Don't start your baby, He's getting deeper. I get this.

976
00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 11: What daycare does your wife working?

977
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:19,359
Speaker 8: Baby?

978
00:51:19,360 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 11: Because I see, don't start me? Yeah he dropping them off? Okay,

979
00:51:24,680 --> 00:51:27,080
Speaker 11: uh huh. If you tell me that, baby, just tell

980
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,520
Speaker 11: me that if I sweat.

981
00:51:29,320 --> 00:51:33,560
Speaker 13: Line now she's been at this place called children's academy.

982
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:38,480
Speaker 11: You lie, You better not tell me this non working.

983
00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,640
Speaker 11: It's they're supposed to be watching our kids.

984
00:51:42,280 --> 00:51:46,000
Speaker 13: See, I'm already and see but see, I'm already upset

985
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,640
Speaker 13: and been upset about this for the last I've been

986
00:51:48,800 --> 00:51:50,880
Speaker 13: holding it for the last two weeks.

987
00:51:50,920 --> 00:51:53,319
Speaker 2: I've been holding it. Ain't saying nothing to the knee.

988
00:51:54,560 --> 00:51:57,640
Speaker 11: Why are you holding it? Why you want? You should

989
00:51:57,640 --> 00:52:01,000
Speaker 11: have been called me what the this is? Chris when

990
00:52:01,040 --> 00:52:02,839
Speaker 11: he get this. Let me tell you something. I get

991
00:52:02,920 --> 00:52:07,560
Speaker 11: up at four every morning and I go I have

992
00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:11,160
Speaker 11: to be the work for six thirty. Every morning. I

993
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:14,600
Speaker 11: get to that houseman, our slave. They did come on

994
00:52:14,760 --> 00:52:17,400
Speaker 11: as slaves for him. Try to make sure he feels

995
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:20,640
Speaker 11: good as a man although he's not working. You know

996
00:52:20,719 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 11: it wasn't this part he got laid out. But hey,

997
00:52:22,520 --> 00:52:24,879
Speaker 11: I want him to feel good although he's not where

998
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:27,000
Speaker 11: because you know y'all don't feel too good when you're

999
00:52:27,040 --> 00:52:29,400
Speaker 11: not work. So I wanted him to feel good. I

1000
00:52:29,480 --> 00:52:31,840
Speaker 11: tell the kids, you know it's gonna be okay. But

1001
00:52:31,960 --> 00:52:34,560
Speaker 11: I bet you this got that something.

1002
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:39,440
Speaker 2: Is my wife. Don't be you know she's my wife.

1003
00:52:39,600 --> 00:52:43,080
Speaker 11: No, wait a minute, now. But wait a minute. See

1004
00:52:43,160 --> 00:52:44,920
Speaker 11: I told you it was ignorant, cause see you should

1005
00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:46,520
Speaker 11: have been kind me long ago. Let me tell y'all

1006
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:50,840
Speaker 11: you ignorant too. See she's a first of all, because

1007
00:52:51,239 --> 00:52:53,680
Speaker 11: she said she too. She said he raised that out

1008
00:52:53,719 --> 00:52:56,880
Speaker 11: of I'm not a player game. And she's with my

1009
00:52:57,000 --> 00:52:59,560
Speaker 11: house and he's sending her naked pictures. He ain't got

1010
00:52:59,760 --> 00:53:03,640
Speaker 11: to he's saying, no way, trust me, it ain't worth on.

1011
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 11: I was just with him because he was a good man.

1012
00:53:05,719 --> 00:53:07,120
Speaker 11: I guess Mike just dumb to.

1013
00:53:07,360 --> 00:53:07,840
Speaker 1: All that.

1014
00:53:09,320 --> 00:53:11,160
Speaker 2: I was gonna ask you this here.

1015
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,160
Speaker 11: Because he's gonna ask what do you want to add?

1016
00:53:14,239 --> 00:53:17,359
Speaker 11: What can you ask me? You just fought me this here.

1017
00:53:17,840 --> 00:53:21,960
Speaker 11: It's with your wife some name Denise. Yes, that's what

1018
00:53:22,040 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 11: I said. And this is the that's watching the twins

1019
00:53:25,440 --> 00:53:27,480
Speaker 11: say we have twins? Do you hear me?

1020
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:29,080
Speaker 2: Can I say something else to you?

1021
00:53:29,480 --> 00:53:31,360
Speaker 11: I don't need you to say thanks?

1022
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:33,000
Speaker 2: Can I say one more thing?

1023
00:53:33,640 --> 00:53:35,120
Speaker 11: What do you need to say?

1024
00:53:35,600 --> 00:53:39,040
Speaker 2: This is nephew twman from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1025
00:53:39,560 --> 00:53:43,560
Speaker 2: You just got prank by your husband, Gerald.

1026
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 9: Asked him.

1027
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 11: So let me tell you something got tonther to be

1028
00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,399
Speaker 11: pranking me? He needs to be about it. You don't

1029
00:53:55,440 --> 00:54:02,560
Speaker 11: want this, I'm go ahead to ship when I get home.

1030
00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:07,480
Speaker 11: Keeps not working, I ain't cooking the night. Let me

1031
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 11: tell you the only thing that save the situation, because

1032
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:13,280
Speaker 11: first of all, I'm a warming so I want more information.

1033
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:16,479
Speaker 11: But the second thing is we need the jog work.

1034
00:54:16,960 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 11: I couldn't leave you work.

1035
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:22,839
Speaker 2: Begin I gotta answer you something.

1036
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:23,160
Speaker 1: Baby.

1037
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:27,200
Speaker 2: What's baddest radio show in the land?

1038
00:54:28,239 --> 00:54:32,400
Speaker 11: Definitely the Thieves Army going and so let me talk.

1039
00:54:32,440 --> 00:54:39,120
Speaker 2: Remember what you know, sir? Come on, y'all.

1040
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 1: Come on man, I'm just a shock you play. I

1041
00:54:45,400 --> 00:54:46,919
Speaker 1: love to love.

1042
00:54:48,120 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 2: Come on, you know what you're stupid?

1043
00:54:50,000 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: To you stupid to let me tell you.

1044
00:54:53,080 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 2: There call Yeah, see you stupid because that'd be Yeah,

1045
00:55:01,560 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 2: that's what I said.

1046
00:55:03,280 --> 00:55:08,280
Speaker 1: Ried so at registering with me, Denise and the last

1047
00:55:08,400 --> 00:55:11,360
Speaker 1: oh digs. Wait a minute, a minute, Wait a minute.

1048
00:55:11,600 --> 00:55:13,360
Speaker 2: He ain't take a little naked picture. He ain't got

1049
00:55:13,400 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 2: nothing to be shown. Oh I guess I'm just stupid. Yeah,

1050
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:26,520
Speaker 2: it's both need that. It is you.

1051
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:29,960
Speaker 1: She needed that, all right, nephew, thank you. Coming up

1052
00:55:30,040 --> 00:55:33,400
Speaker 1: next Strawberry letters, subject my boyfriend hates the word No.

1053
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:35,640
Speaker 1: We'll get into it right after this.

1054
00:55:36,600 --> 00:55:39,520
Speaker 7: What is it that makes the all new Hyundai Palisade

1055
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 7: Hybrid and incredible suv? Is it the spacious interior that's

1056
00:55:43,600 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 7: comfy for the whole crew. Maybe it's having up to

1057
00:55:46,600 --> 00:55:50,359
Speaker 7: six hundred plus miles of range. What if it's all

1058
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:51,520
Speaker 7: of that and more?

1059
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:53,359
Speaker 4: What is it then?

1060
00:55:53,920 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 13: The all new Hyundai Palisade Hybrid so much more than

1061
00:55:57,960 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 13: just another s u V. Visit Honda USA dot com

1062
00:56:01,760 --> 00:56:03,640
Speaker 13: or call five six two three one.

1063
00:56:03,520 --> 00:56:06,960
Speaker 1: Four four six zero three for more details. You're listening

1064
00:56:07,280 --> 00:56:16,200
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show time now for today's Strawberry Letter.

1065
00:56:16,239 --> 00:56:19,960
Speaker 1: And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

1066
00:56:20,160 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

1067
00:56:24,360 --> 00:56:27,880
Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

1068
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,440
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like I'm

1069
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:32,400
Speaker 1: going to read this one right here, right now, and

1070
00:56:32,480 --> 00:56:33,880
Speaker 1: you never know it could be yours.

1071
00:56:34,880 --> 00:56:37,000
Speaker 2: Buckle up, hold on tight. We got it for you.

1072
00:56:37,120 --> 00:56:41,000
Speaker 1: Here. It is Strawberry Letter, thanking of you. Subject my

1073
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 1: boyfriend hates the word no. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a

1074
00:56:46,719 --> 00:56:50,120
Speaker 1: flight attendant and my schedule is very demanding because I

1075
00:56:50,239 --> 00:56:53,320
Speaker 1: do international flights. I'm in town a few days and

1076
00:56:53,400 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 1: I'm gone for a few days. My boyfriend hates that

1077
00:56:56,520 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: his goodies aren't there for him daily. He calls it goodies,

1078
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:04,480
Speaker 1: and you call it cookie. Anyway. I need him to

1079
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:08,040
Speaker 1: realize that there's more to life than his goodies. He

1080
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:11,120
Speaker 1: hates the word no, so when I am not in

1081
00:57:11,239 --> 00:57:14,439
Speaker 1: the mood, he pouts. It causes a lot, a whole

1082
00:57:14,560 --> 00:57:17,960
Speaker 1: shift in our relationship. He uses it as an excuse

1083
00:57:18,040 --> 00:57:20,640
Speaker 1: to second guess my commitment to him, so I may

1084
00:57:20,840 --> 00:57:24,320
Speaker 1: never get an engagement ring. We're both twenty nine and

1085
00:57:24,480 --> 00:57:27,000
Speaker 1: we've been together for a little over four years and

1086
00:57:27,360 --> 00:57:30,479
Speaker 1: just moved in together. I know I can do better,

1087
00:57:30,880 --> 00:57:33,320
Speaker 1: but I'm trying to hold on because I love this

1088
00:57:33,520 --> 00:57:36,280
Speaker 1: man from his head to his toes, and I can't

1089
00:57:36,360 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 1: see myself growing old with anyone else. I'm very religious

1090
00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,360
Speaker 1: as well, and he's not. He'll go to church with me,

1091
00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:48,040
Speaker 1: and he's even gone to Bible study when when I'm

1092
00:57:48,080 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: in town. Excuse me, but I shouldn't have to force

1093
00:57:52,200 --> 00:57:54,720
Speaker 1: him to go. A lot of small things I ask

1094
00:57:54,840 --> 00:57:58,080
Speaker 1: him to do, he gives me pushback on them. I've

1095
00:57:58,080 --> 00:58:00,720
Speaker 1: taught him all about etiquette, and now he's able to

1096
00:58:00,760 --> 00:58:03,600
Speaker 1: pick out nice restaurants for us. And when I tell

1097
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:08,400
Speaker 1: you that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom, I'm so serious.

1098
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:11,720
Speaker 1: That brings me to why I really tell him no

1099
00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:16,120
Speaker 1: when he wants my goodies. His goodie goodie isn't all

1100
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:18,320
Speaker 1: of that. And I have to be in the mood

1101
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:20,880
Speaker 1: to put on a show for him, if you know

1102
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:23,720
Speaker 1: what I mean. I make up excuses a lot, and

1103
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:27,360
Speaker 1: he's onto me. I consider an oral hookup just as

1104
00:58:27,440 --> 00:58:30,880
Speaker 1: valuable as giving the goodies up. But he doesn't think so.

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00:58:31,480 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: He wants everything, and he wants it often. He really

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00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:37,600
Speaker 1: hates when I tell him no. So how can I

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00:58:37,800 --> 00:58:41,600
Speaker 1: enhance the experience for myself so I can say yes more?

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00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:44,640
Speaker 1: Can bad sex get better over time?

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00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:47,439
Speaker 2: Well?

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00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:52,480
Speaker 1: It could be a teachable moment sometimes, But listen, you

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00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:55,200
Speaker 1: got to tell him what the problem is. You have

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00:58:55,360 --> 00:58:57,480
Speaker 1: to tell him that or you're going to be miserable

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00:58:57,920 --> 00:58:59,560
Speaker 1: for the rest of your life if you stay with

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Speaker 1: this guy. But I say, before you do all that,

1115
00:59:02,960 --> 00:59:06,320
Speaker 1: you really need to decide if this is what you want.

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00:59:06,440 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 1: I know you said you love him from his head

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00:59:08,560 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: to his toes and all of that. You've been with

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Speaker 1: him for over four years. You haven't gotten marriage, no proposal,

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Speaker 1: and now you guys are living together. You have to

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Speaker 1: force him to go to church with you. You get

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Speaker 1: pushback when you ask him to do little things for you,

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00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,800
Speaker 1: and he pouts when he can't get what he wants.

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00:59:26,520 --> 00:59:31,720
Speaker 1: That's not compatibility, as you say, that's selfishness. Okay, I've

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00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:34,240
Speaker 1: read this entire letter and I'm still trying to figure

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00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:37,120
Speaker 1: out what you are getting out of this because he

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00:59:37,240 --> 00:59:40,400
Speaker 1: picks nice restaurants. Come on, now, all I see is

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00:59:40,520 --> 00:59:44,840
Speaker 1: bad sex and bad attitude if you don't give him

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Speaker 1: his way.

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Speaker 9: And what you do isn't good enough for him. You

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00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:53,000
Speaker 9: also said that you know you can do better. You

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00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:55,720
Speaker 9: said that in this letter. Well guess what I think

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00:59:55,800 --> 00:59:58,360
Speaker 9: you can too. So you know what they say, if

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00:59:58,400 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 9: you know better, do better. So I think you need

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Speaker 9: to do better. Don't be stuck on stupid with this guy.

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Speaker 9: It's time for you to start getting what you want.

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Speaker 9: You're twenty nine. You have plenty of time, you know,

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01:00:11,640 --> 01:00:14,400
Speaker 9: plenty of time to get a good relationship. You don't

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Speaker 9: have to be stuck here.

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Speaker 7: Steve, Wow, my boyfriend hates the word no is the subject,

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Speaker 7: but he won't give you a reason to say yes.

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Speaker 2: At the church.

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Speaker 7: Say man, Amen, Steve, Amen again again, we will approach

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01:00:37,720 --> 01:00:43,360
Speaker 7: this letter. My boyfriend hates the word no in parentheses,

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Speaker 7: but he won't give you a reason to say yes, Lord, Lord, Lord,

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01:00:49,960 --> 01:00:54,080
Speaker 7: here we are. And you're an international flight attendant. That's

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01:00:54,120 --> 01:01:01,840
Speaker 7: gonna come back into play. International flight attendant. That means

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Speaker 7: you have an interesting life. You're international.

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Speaker 2: He local.

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Speaker 7: You in and out of town. You're an international flight attendant. International,

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01:01:14,200 --> 01:01:18,200
Speaker 7: He local you in and out of town. He right

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01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:18,760
Speaker 7: there all the.

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Speaker 2: Time, all the time.

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Speaker 7: You see what's happening in him. And my boyfriend hates

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01:01:24,960 --> 01:01:28,400
Speaker 7: that his goodies aren't there for him daily. He calls

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01:01:28,440 --> 01:01:31,800
Speaker 7: it goodies, and you call it the cookie anyway, I

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01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,160
Speaker 7: need him to realize that there's more in life than

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01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:37,360
Speaker 7: his cookies. Well, that's gonna be a hard sale, see,

1158
01:01:37,800 --> 01:01:40,680
Speaker 7: because you got a problem. He hates the word no,

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01:01:41,520 --> 01:01:44,520
Speaker 7: and when I'm not in the mood, he pouts. Now,

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01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:47,560
Speaker 7: this pouting is gonna be a problem. I'm telling you

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01:01:47,640 --> 01:01:50,080
Speaker 7: that right now. Just sticking your lips out and pouting

1162
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 7: because you can't get your way, that's a serious sign.

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01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:57,160
Speaker 7: And you say it causes a whole shift in our relationship.

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01:01:57,400 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 7: And I got news for you, and it always will.

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01:02:00,480 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 2: He uses it as an excuse to second guess my

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01:02:04,000 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 2: commitment to him, so I may never get an engagement ring.

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Speaker 7: No, that's called guilt. He is using the most useless

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Speaker 7: emotion to get what he wants.

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Speaker 2: He's making you feel guilty because he's trying to manipulate

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01:02:22,120 --> 01:02:25,080
Speaker 2: you into what you want. And somebody told me one

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01:02:25,160 --> 01:02:27,880
Speaker 2: time that guilt is the most useless emotion. It only

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01:02:28,000 --> 01:02:31,080
Speaker 2: serves the purpose of a person trying to apply it.

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01:02:32,040 --> 01:02:34,480
Speaker 2: It does you no good to feel guilty. You don't

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01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 2: feel good about it. It doesn't motivate you nothing. It's

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01:02:38,520 --> 01:02:41,360
Speaker 2: just guilt, and he's laying it on you in heaps

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01:02:41,400 --> 01:02:44,240
Speaker 2: and doses because he wants what he wants.

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Speaker 7: Now, he got you thinking you ain't gonna get no

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01:02:46,240 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 7: engagement ring. I got news for you. You might not

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01:02:49,600 --> 01:02:52,280
Speaker 7: need one, or a truth will come out when we

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01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 7: come back.

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01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:55,680
Speaker 1: All right, hold on, steeg. We'll have part two of

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01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: your response coming up at twenty three minutes. After My

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01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,440
Speaker 1: boyfriend hates the word no is a strawberry letter subject

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Speaker 1: for today. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

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01:03:46,680 --> 01:03:50,280
Speaker 1: The subject my boyfriend hates the word no.

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01:03:51,200 --> 01:03:53,320
Speaker 7: Yeah, your boyfriend hate the word no, but he ain't

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01:03:53,360 --> 01:03:56,479
Speaker 7: given you a reason to say yes. That's the whole

1204
01:03:56,600 --> 01:03:59,960
Speaker 7: thing of this letter. You're a flight attendant. That means

1205
01:04:00,000 --> 01:04:04,400
Speaker 7: you're international. You do international flights. He local, you gone

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01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 7: a lot. He always there. Your boyfriend hates that you're

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01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:11,439
Speaker 7: not there with the cookie all the time, so now

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01:04:11,960 --> 01:04:15,600
Speaker 7: when you do come home, he wants it. Now you're

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01:04:15,640 --> 01:04:19,640
Speaker 7: trying to convince him that cookies and sex is not

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01:04:19,800 --> 01:04:22,480
Speaker 7: the most important things in life. That there's more to it,

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01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 7: but it's gonna be a hard sale because that's what

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01:04:24,960 --> 01:04:27,120
Speaker 7: he won't and when he don't get it, he pouts

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01:04:27,520 --> 01:04:30,120
Speaker 7: and it causes a shift in your relationship, and it

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01:04:30,280 --> 01:04:31,000
Speaker 7: always will.

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01:04:31,480 --> 01:04:33,760
Speaker 2: Now here's the key to this letter. He used it

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01:04:33,880 --> 01:04:36,600
Speaker 2: as an excuse to second guess my commitment to him,

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01:04:36,840 --> 01:04:42,240
Speaker 2: so I may never get an engagement rid so. And

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01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,680
Speaker 2: the reason I'm saying so is because of the information afterwards.

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01:04:47,000 --> 01:04:49,680
Speaker 2: But he's applying guilt to you to make you feel

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01:04:49,840 --> 01:04:53,000
Speaker 2: guilty so he can manipulate you into getting what he wants.

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01:04:54,280 --> 01:04:56,680
Speaker 7: Now, y'all both twenty nine. You've been together for a

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01:04:56,720 --> 01:04:59,440
Speaker 7: little over four years, and you just moved in together.

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01:05:00,040 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 7: All this is critical information. You just moved in together.

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01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:09,360
Speaker 7: I know I can do better, Lord Jesus, Lord Jesus,

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01:05:09,720 --> 01:05:13,640
Speaker 7: I know I can do better. See that's because you international,

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01:05:14,920 --> 01:05:17,160
Speaker 7: you meeting me in all over the world. People on

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01:05:17,280 --> 01:05:20,760
Speaker 7: your flight hitting on you, talking to you. Pilots want

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01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:21,360
Speaker 7: to get at you.

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01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:23,520
Speaker 4: You know, you out of town.

1230
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,360
Speaker 7: Everybody out the country want to get at you. You

1231
01:05:26,560 --> 01:05:29,040
Speaker 7: land locally at Hartsfield, they want to get at you.

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01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:31,520
Speaker 7: You land at the Guardia, they want at you. You

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01:05:31,640 --> 01:05:33,360
Speaker 7: get a Florida app for what they want.

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01:05:33,200 --> 01:05:33,600
Speaker 2: To holler at.

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01:05:33,640 --> 01:05:36,560
Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying, you a lax day up

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01:05:36,600 --> 01:05:39,920
Speaker 7: on you and you dealing with the cooking master back

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01:05:39,960 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 7: of the house, just sitting there there.

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01:05:41,080 --> 01:05:45,120
Speaker 2: Won't won't cook it, won't want cook it, don't go

1239
01:05:45,120 --> 01:05:49,760
Speaker 2: on it. But I'm trying to hold on because I

1240
01:05:49,880 --> 01:05:52,080
Speaker 2: love this man from his head to his toes that

1241
01:05:52,200 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 2: I can't see myself growing old with anyone else. I'm confused.

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01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:00,400
Speaker 2: I'm really confused.

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01:06:00,160 --> 01:06:02,920
Speaker 7: Because you can do better, but you love him his

1244
01:06:03,000 --> 01:06:05,640
Speaker 7: head told you can't see yourself growing old with anybody else.

1245
01:06:05,680 --> 01:06:08,960
Speaker 7: But then right after this, you say, I'm very religious

1246
01:06:09,120 --> 01:06:13,200
Speaker 7: as well, and he's not. So let's talk about how

1247
01:06:13,280 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 7: religious you are. He'll go to church with me, and

1248
01:06:16,280 --> 01:06:18,480
Speaker 7: he's even going to Bible study while I'm in town.

1249
01:06:18,840 --> 01:06:21,439
Speaker 7: But I shouldn't have to force him to go. Well

1250
01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 7: you do if he's not religious, that's what.

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01:06:25,840 --> 01:06:26,400
Speaker 13: You have to do.

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01:06:28,680 --> 01:06:33,040
Speaker 7: And then a lot of small things I ask him

1253
01:06:33,040 --> 01:06:35,920
Speaker 7: to do, he gives me pushback on him. And this

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01:06:36,080 --> 01:06:38,760
Speaker 7: is the man you can't live without. You can't see

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01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:40,960
Speaker 7: what's been the rest of your life. He don't go

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01:06:41,080 --> 01:06:44,160
Speaker 7: to church. Little stuff he gives you pushback. Now you're

1257
01:06:44,160 --> 01:06:46,560
Speaker 7: ready for this. I've taught him all the adequate and

1258
01:06:46,600 --> 01:06:48,760
Speaker 7: how he's able to pick out nice restaurants for us.

1259
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:52,160
Speaker 7: When I tell him that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom.

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01:06:52,640 --> 01:06:56,640
Speaker 7: When I tell you that we're compatible everywhere except the bedroom,

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01:06:56,720 --> 01:06:59,920
Speaker 7: I'm so serious. See you done told us y'all compatible

1262
01:07:00,000 --> 01:07:02,280
Speaker 7: everywhere with the bedroom. But you ain't bothered up to

1263
01:07:02,400 --> 01:07:06,440
Speaker 7: him because you don't want to hurt him. He brings

1264
01:07:07,000 --> 01:07:09,560
Speaker 7: that brings me to why I really tell him no

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01:07:10,080 --> 01:07:13,480
Speaker 7: when he wants my goodies, his goodie ain't that good

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01:07:13,560 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 7: at all, And I have to be in the mood

1267
01:07:15,720 --> 01:07:17,080
Speaker 7: to put on the show for him, if you know

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01:07:17,160 --> 01:07:17,560
Speaker 7: what I mean.

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01:07:19,360 --> 01:07:22,120
Speaker 2: Now, listen to this. I make up excuses a lot,

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01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 2: and he's on to me.

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Speaker 7: I consider an oral hook up just as valuable as

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01:07:26,120 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 7: giving the goodies up, but he does not think so. Okay,

1273
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:34,280
Speaker 7: so let's get this together. You're very religious. You moved

1274
01:07:34,360 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 7: in with the man without being married. Y'all been living together?

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01:07:40,800 --> 01:07:48,560
Speaker 7: You fake orgasms. You want to do half sexual acts

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01:07:48,960 --> 01:07:51,560
Speaker 7: and to consider it the whole sexual act.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so let me get this right. Y'all. You real religious,

1278
01:07:55,640 --> 01:07:58,360
Speaker 2: but you live together. You fake orgasms.

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01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 7: You want to do half acts and consider him whole acts,

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01:08:02,960 --> 01:08:06,680
Speaker 7: but he don't like that, and now he can't produce

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01:08:07,000 --> 01:08:10,800
Speaker 7: no results in the bedroom. His goodies ain't good at all.

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01:08:11,240 --> 01:08:13,840
Speaker 7: So that's what And now you real religious? Thank you

1283
01:08:13,920 --> 01:08:16,000
Speaker 7: for making knowed. I want to go to your church.

1284
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:22,320
Speaker 7: And so anyway, he wants everything, and he wants it often,

1285
01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:25,320
Speaker 7: but he ain't giving you nothing, and he wants you

1286
01:08:25,400 --> 01:08:28,000
Speaker 7: to take nothing all the time. But you said you

1287
01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:30,559
Speaker 7: can do better. What is it you love about him?

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01:08:30,600 --> 01:08:32,960
Speaker 7: Till his head to his toe? You justin got used

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01:08:33,000 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 7: to him and he can't even do nothing. His goodies

1290
01:08:36,400 --> 01:08:40,400
Speaker 7: ain't even good. So now your boyfriend hate to say no,

1291
01:08:40,560 --> 01:08:41,360
Speaker 7: but he don't want.

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01:08:41,240 --> 01:08:42,760
Speaker 2: To give you a reason to say yes.

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01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:46,560
Speaker 7: So how can I enhance the experience for myself so

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01:08:46,680 --> 01:08:49,960
Speaker 7: I can say yes more? Can bad sex get better

1295
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:53,560
Speaker 7: over time? How can you enhance the experience for yourself?

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01:08:55,400 --> 01:08:59,439
Speaker 7: It's gonna have to be with somebody else, right, and

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01:08:59,560 --> 01:09:03,040
Speaker 7: then the bad news. Can bad sex get better over time?

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01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:07,120
Speaker 7: I ain't never seen it now, I ain't never seen it.

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01:09:08,880 --> 01:09:13,400
Speaker 7: It's bad sex. It's it's stay bad sex. You just

1300
01:09:13,520 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 7: have to reduce and lower your expectations. And how much

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01:09:16,760 --> 01:09:23,240
Speaker 7: fun is that gonna be? Jip hand something you go.

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01:09:23,920 --> 01:09:28,280
Speaker 7: I could have had a V eight. I would rather

1303
01:09:28,320 --> 01:09:37,559
Speaker 7: have the popsy law and you just wasted fineness. Yeah,

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01:09:38,560 --> 01:09:41,760
Speaker 7: you just cut and ain't got nothing to go with him?

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01:09:42,280 --> 01:09:42,599
Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Good law. Poster comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Steve

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Speaker 1: though you're still thriving, still loving, still connecting, did you

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Speaker 1: While good communication is one of the key aspects of

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01:10:43,120 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: a good relationship, it's not always easy. It's not always easy, guys,

1325
01:10:47,880 --> 01:10:51,479
Speaker 1: to tell your partner everything, okay. In fact, most couples

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01:10:51,600 --> 01:10:54,599
Speaker 1: hold back at least something out of fear that they

1327
01:10:54,640 --> 01:10:57,799
Speaker 1: are going to upset their partner or hurt their feelings.

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01:10:58,120 --> 01:11:01,599
Speaker 1: Now Here are a few examples from dot com. All right,

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01:11:01,720 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: so listen carefully, and if you guys have others you

1330
01:11:04,680 --> 01:11:07,160
Speaker 1: might want to add or comment on these. He needs

1331
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:10,639
Speaker 1: to set better boundaries for his family or their problems,

1332
01:11:10,680 --> 01:11:15,360
Speaker 1: and craziness will consume us both. He needs to set

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01:11:15,439 --> 01:11:18,559
Speaker 1: better boundaries. This is a wife saying this about her partner.

1334
01:11:18,840 --> 01:11:21,760
Speaker 1: He needs to set better boundaries with his family, with

1335
01:11:21,920 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 1: his family, with his family or their problems, and craziness

1336
01:11:26,160 --> 01:11:30,760
Speaker 1: is going to consume us both. Okay, do you agree

1337
01:11:30,800 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 1: with that?

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01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:34,600
Speaker 2: Oh well, don'tkay. You're talking about my mama. Is that

1339
01:11:34,680 --> 01:11:35,120
Speaker 2: what you're saying?

1340
01:11:36,520 --> 01:11:37,799
Speaker 1: You talk about my mom exactly?

1341
01:11:38,160 --> 01:11:42,560
Speaker 2: You can't say that, yeah, right, can you?

1342
01:11:43,720 --> 01:11:43,760
Speaker 10: No?

1343
01:11:44,520 --> 01:11:44,560
Speaker 11: No?

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01:11:45,120 --> 01:11:45,160
Speaker 10: No?

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01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:47,000
Speaker 1: Absolutely?

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01:11:47,120 --> 01:11:48,080
Speaker 2: Not all right?

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01:11:49,400 --> 01:11:53,840
Speaker 1: All right, speaking of mother. His mother is not a

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01:11:54,000 --> 01:11:56,960
Speaker 1: good person. Period we'll say that.

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Speaker 2: You can't say that. I think that's because she's not

1350
01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:05,840
Speaker 2: a good person to you. But he could. She could

1351
01:12:05,840 --> 01:12:10,400
Speaker 2: have been his everything, his all and all. So now

1352
01:12:10,479 --> 01:12:12,400
Speaker 2: you got a problem. What else you need?

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01:12:13,040 --> 01:12:15,600
Speaker 1: Man? Some days I'm just tired from work and just

1354
01:12:15,680 --> 01:12:16,639
Speaker 1: want some me time.

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01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:18,320
Speaker 8: Can you?

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01:12:18,680 --> 01:12:21,000
Speaker 1: I know you've said that, I felt that.

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01:12:21,600 --> 01:12:24,040
Speaker 2: I ain't said I just went and got it. Well,

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01:12:24,120 --> 01:12:24,680
Speaker 2: I've said it.

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01:12:25,280 --> 01:12:27,000
Speaker 1: You just want some me time?

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01:12:27,320 --> 01:12:30,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I just need some and like and like.

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01:12:30,120 --> 01:12:33,720
Speaker 7: We have an agreement, you know, because she knows I talk,

1362
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:37,040
Speaker 7: I do radio and then I go do TV all

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01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:41,160
Speaker 7: day and I've been entertaining and talking all day long.

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01:12:41,240 --> 01:12:44,920
Speaker 7: When I get off work, this ain't the time to talk.

1365
01:12:45,040 --> 01:12:47,920
Speaker 7: Now we're meeting the morning for coffee before I go

1366
01:12:48,040 --> 01:12:50,439
Speaker 7: to work. We get it all out. But when I

1367
01:12:50,520 --> 01:12:54,040
Speaker 7: come home, Man, she allows that for me because she knows.

1368
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:56,240
Speaker 7: Let my husband get in the front of that TV,

1369
01:12:56,360 --> 01:12:59,840
Speaker 7: set his food, and do what you want to do.

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01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:02,280
Speaker 7: And when you come up and go to bed, he'll

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01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:05,000
Speaker 7: come up and go to bed, and she'll come down

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01:13:05,040 --> 01:13:06,599
Speaker 7: there and wake me up. In that off Steve, you're

1373
01:13:06,600 --> 01:13:08,320
Speaker 7: sleep in the chair. I don't know how you can

1374
01:13:08,360 --> 01:13:10,360
Speaker 7: sleep in this chair, but I stepped in the car

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01:13:10,400 --> 01:13:11,360
Speaker 7: for three years.

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01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 1: Nothing. Yeah, all right, So what are some of the

1377
01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 1: things you wish you could say but you know you

1378
01:13:22,200 --> 01:13:23,880
Speaker 1: can't get away with say that?

1379
01:13:24,000 --> 01:13:24,240
Speaker 2: Again?

1380
01:13:24,600 --> 01:13:26,120
Speaker 1: What are some of the things you wish you could

1381
01:13:26,160 --> 01:13:28,120
Speaker 1: say but you know you can't get away with them?

1382
01:13:28,200 --> 01:13:31,080
Speaker 1: You know you can't say you getting.

1383
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:32,840
Speaker 8: Come on?

1384
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:38,800
Speaker 2: I like to shut the hell up. I like you

1385
01:13:38,960 --> 01:13:43,320
Speaker 2: getting on my blanketed blank nave and what right?

1386
01:13:43,800 --> 01:13:44,519
Speaker 1: You can't say it?

1387
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:44,800
Speaker 2: Though?

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01:13:44,840 --> 01:13:52,439
Speaker 1: All right, don't try that, Jim too soon? All right, beautiful,

1389
01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:59,519
Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right,

1390
01:13:59,640 --> 01:14:04,960
Speaker 1: so Facebook listener Steve on anyway, he wrote this, Uncle Steve.

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01:14:05,000 --> 01:14:07,879
Speaker 1: His name is Ricky, Uncle Steve. I need some guidance.

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01:14:08,080 --> 01:14:11,000
Speaker 1: Last week, I'm at a cool, fine girl while out

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01:14:11,080 --> 01:14:15,599
Speaker 1: with some friends. She's funny and simply gorgeous. We exchange

1394
01:14:15,680 --> 01:14:18,800
Speaker 1: numbers and are going to go out. While texting, though

1395
01:14:18,960 --> 01:14:22,040
Speaker 1: she told me she worked as a stripper just for

1396
01:14:22,160 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 1: the money, she says, I'm not sure how I feel

1397
01:14:24,920 --> 01:14:28,200
Speaker 1: about this or if I'm even up for it. Somehow

1398
01:14:28,520 --> 01:14:32,360
Speaker 1: this became a whole other level of pressure or issues

1399
01:14:32,400 --> 01:14:35,040
Speaker 1: that I wasn't prepared for, she said. She didn't do

1400
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:37,760
Speaker 1: anything to cause and she didn't do anything to cause it.

1401
01:14:38,240 --> 01:14:42,120
Speaker 1: Dog is all me. Uncle Steve, my homie said I

1402
01:14:42,160 --> 01:14:44,559
Speaker 1: should do like a list, like what are the pros

1403
01:14:44,640 --> 01:14:47,599
Speaker 1: and cons of dating a stripper? I really don't want

1404
01:14:47,680 --> 01:14:51,120
Speaker 1: to deal with games, jealousy, flakiness or anything like that.

1405
01:14:51,560 --> 01:14:54,080
Speaker 1: But I also feel bad for not giving someone a

1406
01:14:54,200 --> 01:14:57,720
Speaker 1: fair shot just because of their job or really what

1407
01:14:57,920 --> 01:15:01,439
Speaker 1: their job once was. Am I wrong? His name is Ricky?

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01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:05,360
Speaker 7: Hey man, she's so fine. You trying to find a

1409
01:15:05,479 --> 01:15:09,920
Speaker 7: way not to have a problem with this job. But dog,

1410
01:15:10,160 --> 01:15:12,000
Speaker 7: you're gonna have a problem with the job.

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01:15:12,160 --> 01:15:14,880
Speaker 2: Dog. And you say jealousy is gonna be that's gonna

1412
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 2: be one of them. You know, working hours, it's gonna

1413
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:19,519
Speaker 2: be one of them. Ain't a lot of late night

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01:15:19,640 --> 01:15:21,240
Speaker 2: dating because she up on that pole.

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01:15:22,400 --> 01:15:25,760
Speaker 7: You know then what she gotta do to get you know,

1416
01:15:25,960 --> 01:15:28,439
Speaker 7: she's gonna be out there stripping everybody looking at what

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01:15:28,680 --> 01:15:30,080
Speaker 7: what you want to be yours.

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01:15:30,600 --> 01:15:32,680
Speaker 2: Now, if you can handle that type of stuff, then

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01:15:32,800 --> 01:15:36,840
Speaker 2: go ahead. I'm not that guy. So you ain't never

1420
01:15:36,920 --> 01:15:38,080
Speaker 2: fell in love with no stripper?

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01:15:39,680 --> 01:15:40,519
Speaker 1: A song about it?

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01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:42,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, a dog.

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01:15:42,800 --> 01:15:44,840
Speaker 7: Let me tell you I worked when I was young.

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01:15:44,960 --> 01:15:47,280
Speaker 7: I worked at the Cheetah Strip Club for two weeks.

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01:15:48,240 --> 01:15:49,519
Speaker 2: Yeah, I was.

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01:15:53,560 --> 01:15:57,080
Speaker 7: Oh yeah, thousand dollars a week. I couldn't turn that down.

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01:15:57,640 --> 01:16:00,280
Speaker 7: And the dressing room was right next to the strippers. Actually,

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01:16:00,840 --> 01:16:02,840
Speaker 7: I think by the end of the week I had

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01:16:03,040 --> 01:16:12,280
Speaker 7: asked four of them to marry me. Yeah, because I'm

1430
01:16:12,280 --> 01:16:14,040
Speaker 7: sitting in the dressing room talking to him next and

1431
01:16:14,080 --> 01:16:16,280
Speaker 7: I'm looking at him neckd That was perfect.

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01:16:17,840 --> 01:16:18,559
Speaker 2: That was perfect.

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01:16:19,360 --> 01:16:21,120
Speaker 7: I'm talking about when they had stepped out on Monder

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01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:25,200
Speaker 7: them blue lights, they were still argiers, and I was going, well, yeah,

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01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:27,880
Speaker 7: I marry her, and I just talking. I was trying

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01:16:27,880 --> 01:16:29,720
Speaker 7: to talk them off the pole, you know, to get

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01:16:29,760 --> 01:16:31,680
Speaker 7: out on the road and make a committed life with me,

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01:16:32,120 --> 01:16:32,280
Speaker 7: you know.

1439
01:16:33,160 --> 01:16:34,599
Speaker 2: But I will say, she's fine.

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01:16:34,640 --> 01:16:37,360
Speaker 7: I appreciate you being honorable, trying to say that you

1441
01:16:37,439 --> 01:16:39,200
Speaker 7: don't want to judge a person about what they do,

1442
01:16:39,760 --> 01:16:41,640
Speaker 7: but we get judged by what we do all the.

1443
01:16:41,720 --> 01:16:44,200
Speaker 2: Time, all the time, and some things.

1444
01:16:44,280 --> 01:16:46,560
Speaker 7: I don't think you're cut out for this because you

1445
01:16:46,640 --> 01:16:48,760
Speaker 7: have too many questions going in. You ain't even in

1446
01:16:48,920 --> 01:16:54,400
Speaker 7: love yet, twenty eight dog, But see he wants something.

1447
01:16:55,600 --> 01:16:59,160
Speaker 7: This girl so fine, Like, man, I'm telling you how

1448
01:16:59,240 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 7: fine this girl, and she's funny and she just doing

1449
01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:08,200
Speaker 7: it for the money. Not a problem being is when

1450
01:17:08,240 --> 01:17:12,240
Speaker 7: you complain. Here's what women have to remember when a

1451
01:17:12,360 --> 01:17:16,360
Speaker 7: man comes to you complaining about how you are. If

1452
01:17:16,400 --> 01:17:21,000
Speaker 7: he's going to complain and offer criticism of how you are,

1453
01:17:21,520 --> 01:17:26,320
Speaker 7: he must then be standing there with a solution. So

1454
01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:34,880
Speaker 7: that's the only way complaining and criticism works. You have

1455
01:17:34,960 --> 01:17:37,200
Speaker 7: to be standing there with a solution or else it's

1456
01:17:37,320 --> 01:17:38,120
Speaker 7: just criticism.

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01:17:39,000 --> 01:17:40,080
Speaker 1: I don't like what you do.

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01:17:41,400 --> 01:17:44,840
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, cool, what you want me to do? Just

1459
01:17:44,960 --> 01:17:50,640
Speaker 2: get a job? Okay where anywhere? Okay? How much did

1460
01:17:50,720 --> 01:17:53,000
Speaker 2: this anywhere? Job pay? This is what I make it.

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01:17:53,520 --> 01:17:57,760
Speaker 7: See, that's the problem, and that's what men don't get it.

1462
01:17:57,840 --> 01:17:59,679
Speaker 7: And that's where a lot of women don't understand.

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01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:02,360
Speaker 2: We should go on a field trip after strip club,

1464
01:18:02,479 --> 01:18:04,639
Speaker 2: just so we can understand more. All of us should

1465
01:18:04,640 --> 01:18:06,240
Speaker 2: go together search.

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01:18:07,720 --> 01:18:09,560
Speaker 7: I don't want to go with Shirley and calling you.

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01:18:09,760 --> 01:18:13,280
Speaker 7: I don't I'm old school. I don't believe women be

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01:18:13,360 --> 01:18:16,639
Speaker 7: all the strip myself, and I don't see.

1469
01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:19,439
Speaker 2: How I could possibly say or feel the same thing

1470
01:18:19,439 --> 01:18:21,519
Speaker 2: I'm gonna feel with a woman looking up side.

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01:18:23,200 --> 01:18:29,000
Speaker 1: And you know we will, Yeah, I thought he meant, yeah,

1472
01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:30,080
Speaker 1: just the guys, go.

1473
01:18:30,320 --> 01:18:33,280
Speaker 2: Man, go back and do what y'all do. Get out

1474
01:18:33,320 --> 01:18:34,040
Speaker 2: of a stop.

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01:18:34,920 --> 01:18:35,200
Speaker 4: Thank you.

1476
01:18:35,360 --> 01:18:37,599
Speaker 1: Coming up next, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey

1477
01:18:37,680 --> 01:18:41,519
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Right after this. You're listening to the Steve

1478
01:18:41,680 --> 01:18:49,160
Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. We're gonna check out Steve's voicemail. If

1479
01:18:49,200 --> 01:18:51,360
Speaker 1: you would like to leave a message for Steve, call

1480
01:18:51,479 --> 01:18:54,280
Speaker 1: him eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. All right, Steve,

1481
01:18:54,360 --> 01:18:58,120
Speaker 1: this caller, this first one needs some relationship advice from you.

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01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:03,160
Speaker 15: Hey, Steve, I'm an older woman fifty one years old.

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01:19:03,520 --> 01:19:06,120
Speaker 15: I'm forty four. We're about to get married in a

1484
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:09,960
Speaker 15: few weeks, but she's constantly wanting to go out and

1485
01:19:10,120 --> 01:19:14,439
Speaker 15: run the streets. What can I say or do to

1486
01:19:14,560 --> 01:19:16,960
Speaker 15: get her to realize that we're about to be married.

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01:19:18,080 --> 01:19:21,040
Speaker 2: Well, if she don't know that, y'all, i'll be married.

1488
01:19:21,600 --> 01:19:23,120
Speaker 2: I don't really know what to tell you.

1489
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:26,639
Speaker 7: But as far as her being fifty one and she's

1490
01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 7: older than you, I want to commend you because one

1491
01:19:29,560 --> 01:19:32,519
Speaker 7: of the things that probably attracted her to you is your.

1492
01:19:32,439 --> 01:19:38,720
Speaker 2: A sound old. So congratulations immediately closed the gap with

1493
01:19:38,920 --> 01:19:43,679
Speaker 2: your boy, because yeah, she didn't thought you was younger.

1494
01:19:44,640 --> 01:19:49,040
Speaker 2: Because you're found as old as her. And if you

1495
01:19:49,160 --> 01:19:51,879
Speaker 2: got a woman that's fifty one and still running the streets,

1496
01:19:52,680 --> 01:19:54,799
Speaker 2: do you think it's a good idea to get married.

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01:19:55,320 --> 01:19:58,880
Speaker 1: Yeah, so to her, Okay, yeah, it ain't no.

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01:19:59,040 --> 01:20:02,599
Speaker 7: Laws say you got to marry, especially if she don't

1499
01:20:02,640 --> 01:20:03,639
Speaker 7: want to change her weight.

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Speaker 2: We get married now.

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01:20:05,760 --> 01:20:07,800
Speaker 7: You can't run the streets if she don't understand that,

1502
01:20:08,120 --> 01:20:10,320
Speaker 7: because it ain't nothing out in the streets but trouble.

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01:20:10,640 --> 01:20:10,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1504
01:20:11,040 --> 01:20:11,240
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1505
01:20:11,479 --> 01:20:13,640
Speaker 2: And if you want to mess your marriage up, go

1506
01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:14,400
Speaker 2: out of the street.

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01:20:14,960 --> 01:20:15,160
Speaker 6: Yeah.

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01:20:15,680 --> 01:20:17,439
Speaker 1: And I don't care who you are or the marriage.

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01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:17,800
Speaker 2: Yeah.

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01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:20,960
Speaker 1: All right, we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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01:20:21,040 --> 01:20:21,960
Speaker 1: Show right after this.

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01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:24,920
Speaker 2: You have no idea what it is.

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01:20:25,040 --> 01:20:27,360
Speaker 13: This is Carlos Miller, and this may or may not

1514
01:20:27,520 --> 01:20:29,120
Speaker 13: be the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1515
01:20:29,240 --> 01:20:31,679
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:20:36,080 --> 01:20:38,960
Speaker 14: Everybody is your favorite play cousin junior. Looking for something new,

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Speaker 14: try fencing. The Olympic and Paralympic sports that max it speed,

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Speaker 14: strategy and fun. It's like chess meats cardios, quick feet,

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Speaker 14: quick decisions, and satisfying beep when you score a point.

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Speaker 1: Kids, teens and adults can start.

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Speaker 14: Anytime, no experience needed, and many clubs have lonar gear

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Speaker 14: coaches teach fundamentals and safety from day one. You can

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Speaker 14: find a beginner class near you. Un' say fencing dot

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Speaker 14: org slash, try fencing. That's us, say fencing dot org slash,

1525
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Speaker 14: try fencing.

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Speaker 1: All right, guys, it is time for a round it

1527
01:21:08,479 --> 01:21:12,000
Speaker 1: would you rather? Would you rather think about this? Would

1528
01:21:12,000 --> 01:21:15,559
Speaker 1: you rather be chased by a bear or a cougar?

1529
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Speaker 10: Be?

1530
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Speaker 6: Oh?

1531
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Speaker 1: Man, a cougar? Real coo? Yeah they're fast now they

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Speaker 1: might get.

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Speaker 2: A cougar going.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Oh, listen to me.

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Speaker 7: Bears run forty five forty miles an hour. You're not

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01:21:28,160 --> 01:21:31,479
Speaker 7: getting away with either one. What what are y'all crazy?

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01:21:31,720 --> 01:21:33,400
Speaker 1: Do you a bear with slower?

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01:21:34,200 --> 01:21:35,960
Speaker 2: A bear run around an hour?

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01:21:36,520 --> 01:21:36,640
Speaker 8: Oh?

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01:21:36,680 --> 01:21:38,599
Speaker 1: I didn't know what a cougar about?

1541
01:21:38,640 --> 01:21:39,679
Speaker 2: What seventy?

1542
01:21:42,520 --> 01:21:43,599
Speaker 1: It's gonna catch you first?

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01:21:43,920 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 7: Listen to me. Don't get bast did y'all see revenution

1544
01:21:52,360 --> 01:21:56,040
Speaker 7: evidence that make a movie about a bear? You never

1545
01:21:56,080 --> 01:21:57,759
Speaker 7: seen to make a movie about cougar.

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01:21:58,360 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 2: We can't whoop, We can't whoop be the one of them.

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01:22:01,960 --> 01:22:03,400
Speaker 2: You can't do nothing with that bear?

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01:22:03,600 --> 01:22:08,120
Speaker 7: Nothing nine feet tall when he's standing up he's just

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01:22:08,200 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 7: cook or something.

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01:22:08,920 --> 01:22:09,880
Speaker 2: Man, I.

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01:22:11,439 --> 01:22:18,880
Speaker 7: Never seen nobody whoop a bag. I'm taking the cougar, y'all,

1552
01:22:18,960 --> 01:22:20,160
Speaker 7: don't understand it.

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01:22:20,600 --> 01:22:21,800
Speaker 2: I gonna take that cat.

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01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:23,479
Speaker 4: This bell.

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01:22:25,920 --> 01:22:26,120
Speaker 2: Man.

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01:22:29,240 --> 01:22:30,599
Speaker 1: I can't believe he saw the man.

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01:22:31,000 --> 01:22:34,479
Speaker 2: I can't believe he's sorry, revenue. I watched it twice.

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01:22:35,479 --> 01:22:36,080
Speaker 2: I told his.

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01:22:39,600 --> 01:22:44,400
Speaker 7: All through his cutting his and the bear arnery. He

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01:22:44,560 --> 01:22:46,920
Speaker 7: double back round on his and he thought he was

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01:22:46,960 --> 01:22:50,080
Speaker 7: gonna give me that cougar. Let me deal with it.

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01:22:50,280 --> 01:22:56,160
Speaker 1: It's the cooking for you, all right, definitely, all right.

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01:22:56,240 --> 01:23:00,160
Speaker 2: Now he's listen to me. Don't y'all do that. I'm

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01:23:00,200 --> 01:23:00,840
Speaker 2: from the country.

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01:23:00,920 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 8: Do not do that.

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01:23:02,760 --> 01:23:04,559
Speaker 7: I'm with you now, because that bad could get up

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01:23:04,600 --> 01:23:09,000
Speaker 7: in the tree and everything he hail man, that bad

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01:23:09,200 --> 01:23:10,559
Speaker 7: bad they honoring.

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01:23:13,320 --> 01:23:18,200
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, all right, coger cougar all around, all right?

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01:23:18,920 --> 01:23:23,200
Speaker 1: Would you rather sneeze uncontrollably once every day or get

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01:23:23,240 --> 01:23:27,760
Speaker 1: the hiccups for fifteen minutes a day? Sneeze uncontrollably once

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01:23:27,840 --> 01:23:32,800
Speaker 1: a day, for fifteen minutes a day, But how long?

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01:23:33,439 --> 01:23:34,800
Speaker 2: How long I'm sneezing.

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01:23:35,000 --> 01:23:39,200
Speaker 1: Once a day? Oh yeah, but uncontrollably sneezing though, But

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01:23:39,600 --> 01:23:40,320
Speaker 1: how long do it?

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01:23:40,439 --> 01:23:40,679
Speaker 2: Last.

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01:23:41,280 --> 01:23:46,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, once a day uncontrollably. When it's done, it's done.

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01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:49,120
Speaker 2: If it's once a day, a sound control.

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01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:52,360
Speaker 1: Would you rather what would you rather do? Just answer it.

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01:23:52,439 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 1: I'd rather sneeze than that's it.

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01:23:57,920 --> 01:24:00,280
Speaker 7: If I sneeze one time. I just want to these

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01:24:00,320 --> 01:24:07,360
Speaker 7: one time come out of nowhere or hiccup days at

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01:24:07,400 --> 01:24:07,760
Speaker 7: a time.

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01:24:10,000 --> 01:24:13,559
Speaker 1: All right, that's today's crazy round. Would you rather?

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01:24:14,320 --> 01:24:14,720
Speaker 2: Coming up?

1586
01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:17,559
Speaker 1: At forty nine minutes after last break? And Steve's closing

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Speaker 1: right after this less up? It's DJ Cagle, your boy,

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Speaker 1: Chris Broth. Hey, this is Keisha cole Gost. People, this

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Speaker 1: is Kirk Franklin. Hey, this is John Legend.

1590
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Speaker 2: And you listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

1591
01:24:28,400 --> 01:24:30,840
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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01:24:35,479 --> 01:24:38,360
Speaker 7: This is Steve Harvey Martin show Man. I love the

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01:24:38,520 --> 01:24:41,960
Speaker 7: fact that God is who he is. God is everything.

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01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:47,559
Speaker 7: He's all powerful, all knowing, all seeing, all prevailing, all doing,

1595
01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:48,400
Speaker 7: all knowing.

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Speaker 2: Whatever you need, God got it coming up right after.

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Speaker 1: All right here we are, guys, our last break of

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Speaker 1: the day and of the week on the Steve Harvey

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Speaker 1: Morning Show.

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Speaker 7: So listen, man, I want to do something. I want

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01:25:38,439 --> 01:25:42,320
Speaker 7: to read a series of things that I keep in

1611
01:25:42,439 --> 01:25:45,880
Speaker 7: my phone. I did a little bit before, but I

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01:25:46,000 --> 01:25:49,240
Speaker 7: want to do quite a few of them. These are

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01:25:49,320 --> 01:25:53,400
Speaker 7: things that I pull that I take screenshots of, like

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01:25:53,520 --> 01:25:56,560
Speaker 7: if I find a catchy saying, or somebody sends me

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01:25:56,640 --> 01:26:00,160
Speaker 7: a motivational phrase, or if I get you know, just's

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01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:04,400
Speaker 7: something or a scripture that really registers with me, and

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01:26:04,560 --> 01:26:07,040
Speaker 7: if they text it to me, I'll take a screenshot

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01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:10,560
Speaker 7: of it, edit it down and then save to photos.

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01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:13,519
Speaker 7: Then when I get it in my photo section. I

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01:26:13,680 --> 01:26:17,519
Speaker 7: have a section in my albums called motivation, and I

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01:26:17,680 --> 01:26:21,880
Speaker 7: transfer all of these things over to my photo app

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01:26:22,680 --> 01:26:25,960
Speaker 7: and I put it in motivation, and I just have

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01:26:26,320 --> 01:26:34,000
Speaker 7: probably I don't know, let me see one, two, three, four, one, two, three, six, nine, twelve, fourteen, fifteen.

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01:26:34,160 --> 01:26:38,360
Speaker 2: I probably got sixty seventy of these things. I'm just

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01:26:38,439 --> 01:26:39,840
Speaker 2: gonna read a few of them to you.

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01:26:40,000 --> 01:26:44,680
Speaker 7: And what I do for meditation sometimes is sometimes I

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01:26:44,800 --> 01:26:47,240
Speaker 7: start my day by just pulling up all of my

1628
01:26:48,479 --> 01:26:52,960
Speaker 7: inspirational messages that I've sent myself over the years, and

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01:26:53,080 --> 01:26:55,719
Speaker 7: they go back quite sometimes, but these are the top

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01:26:55,880 --> 01:27:01,760
Speaker 7: ones that matter to me most. So I have one,

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01:27:01,920 --> 01:27:05,280
Speaker 7: and I have a pack of lions just walking and

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01:27:05,400 --> 01:27:07,559
Speaker 7: you can tell that they look like they're going out

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01:27:07,640 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 7: on a hunt. It's just a huge pack of lions,

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01:27:10,320 --> 01:27:12,920
Speaker 7: and they got a real serious look on their face.

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01:27:13,439 --> 01:27:17,759
Speaker 7: And the caption on it says, surround yourself with those

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01:27:18,640 --> 01:27:23,920
Speaker 7: on the same mission as you. Surround yourself with those

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01:27:24,080 --> 01:27:26,599
Speaker 7: on the same mission as you. Because when you look

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01:27:26,640 --> 01:27:28,680
Speaker 7: at lions and they go out on the hunt, they

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01:27:28,760 --> 01:27:30,880
Speaker 7: all go out on one accord. They going to get

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01:27:30,920 --> 01:27:33,280
Speaker 7: something to eat. Ain't nobody going in there playing and

1641
01:27:33,439 --> 01:27:35,439
Speaker 7: all this. Here, Hey, let's go down there and see

1642
01:27:35,439 --> 01:27:36,040
Speaker 7: the gazelles.

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01:27:36,120 --> 01:27:36,639
Speaker 2: Let's race.

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01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:39,960
Speaker 7: No, no, they get serious, they get in stock mold,

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01:27:40,320 --> 01:27:43,320
Speaker 7: and they got something to do. And it reminds me

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01:27:44,280 --> 01:27:47,920
Speaker 7: to constantly look for people who are going in the

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01:27:48,040 --> 01:27:51,160
Speaker 7: same direction as me. Here's one I've read to you

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01:27:51,320 --> 01:27:55,320
Speaker 7: all before. There's a picture of a carton full of

1649
01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:59,639
Speaker 7: probably thirty white eggs, and one of the eggs is gold,

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01:28:00,200 --> 01:28:03,320
Speaker 7: and the caption says, they laughed at me because I'm different.

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01:28:04,000 --> 01:28:08,360
Speaker 2: I looked at them because they're all the same. Be yourself.

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01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:12,519
Speaker 2: Then I have another one that has this lion walking

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01:28:12,640 --> 01:28:16,479
Speaker 2: across the African plane. This one lion, and I mean,

1654
01:28:16,600 --> 01:28:19,240
Speaker 2: he got a nice little pace and he looking pretty serious.

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01:28:19,520 --> 01:28:22,479
Speaker 2: And it's an old African proverb. And as you see

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01:28:22,520 --> 01:28:25,920
Speaker 2: this lion walking towards you, it says a lion doesn't

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01:28:26,000 --> 01:28:30,400
Speaker 2: turn around when a small dog barks. And that just

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01:28:30,560 --> 01:28:34,040
Speaker 2: reminds me to keep my pace going where I'm going.

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01:28:34,120 --> 01:28:37,320
Speaker 2: When them little haters start talking, them little bloggers that

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01:28:37,400 --> 01:28:39,880
Speaker 2: ain't got nothing to do with you. You a lion.

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01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:42,400
Speaker 2: You are a lion. You're a person on the mission.

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01:28:42,439 --> 01:28:43,080
Speaker 2: You are a lion.

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01:28:43,920 --> 01:28:46,320
Speaker 7: Here's one there's some writing in the palm of a

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01:28:46,439 --> 01:28:49,880
Speaker 7: hand that says, everything you're going through is preparing you

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01:28:50,040 --> 01:28:53,880
Speaker 7: for what you ask for. Everything in life is a test.

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01:28:54,560 --> 01:28:57,280
Speaker 7: Always remember that you are and it's preparing you for

1667
01:28:57,400 --> 01:29:00,479
Speaker 7: something you ask for. These testing challenges that you go through,

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01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:04,680
Speaker 7: they are little things that give you the experience and

1669
01:29:04,840 --> 01:29:09,120
Speaker 7: the knowledge to equip you with the future. Here's another one.

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01:29:09,439 --> 01:29:12,200
Speaker 7: Sometimes in order to get where you're going, you need

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01:29:12,280 --> 01:29:13,639
Speaker 7: to drop a few people off.

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01:29:19,240 --> 01:29:20,800
Speaker 2: Self explanatory.

1673
01:29:21,160 --> 01:29:25,400
Speaker 7: They that again, sometimes in order to get where you're going,

1674
01:29:25,760 --> 01:29:29,720
Speaker 7: you need to drop a few people off. That's self explanatory.

1675
01:29:30,280 --> 01:29:32,160
Speaker 7: Here's one that I took out. I don't know why

1676
01:29:32,160 --> 01:29:34,240
Speaker 7: I'm gonna read to you, but it's Isaiah forty one

1677
01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:39,120
Speaker 7: thirteen and Hebrew two and two. But they paraphrase that

1678
01:29:39,200 --> 01:29:42,479
Speaker 7: I do a motivation to call Jesus calling. And on

1679
01:29:42,640 --> 01:29:45,200
Speaker 7: one day I was reading this. It says, give yourself

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01:29:45,280 --> 01:29:50,080
Speaker 7: fully to the adventure of today. Walk boldly along the

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01:29:50,200 --> 01:29:54,920
Speaker 7: path of life, relying on your ever present companion. You

1682
01:29:55,080 --> 01:29:59,439
Speaker 7: have every reason to be confident, because my presence a

1683
01:29:59,560 --> 01:30:03,479
Speaker 7: company you all the days of your life and onward

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01:30:03,600 --> 01:30:04,640
Speaker 7: into eternity.

1685
01:30:05,040 --> 01:30:07,400
Speaker 2: Do not give in to fear or worry.

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01:30:07,920 --> 01:30:11,759
Speaker 7: Those robbers of abundant living trust me enough to face

1687
01:30:11,880 --> 01:30:15,920
Speaker 7: problems as they come, rather than trying to anticipate them.

1688
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:20,400
Speaker 7: Fix your eyes on me, the author and perfector of

1689
01:30:20,520 --> 01:30:23,920
Speaker 7: your faith, and many difficulties on the road ahead will

1690
01:30:24,040 --> 01:30:27,919
Speaker 7: vanish before you reach them. Whenever you start to feel afraid,

1691
01:30:28,080 --> 01:30:31,400
Speaker 7: remember that I'm holding you by your right hand, and

1692
01:30:31,560 --> 01:30:36,200
Speaker 7: nothing can separate you from my presence. I just use

1693
01:30:36,479 --> 01:30:39,200
Speaker 7: things like that man, and like sometimes man for my

1694
01:30:39,320 --> 01:30:43,360
Speaker 7: morning meditation. I just go to my motivational page and

1695
01:30:43,439 --> 01:30:46,400
Speaker 7: I pull up stuff. Here's one. Trust in his timing,

1696
01:30:47,120 --> 01:30:51,560
Speaker 7: rely on his promises, wait for his answers, believe in

1697
01:30:51,720 --> 01:30:56,599
Speaker 7: his miracles, rejoice in his goodness, and relax in his presence.

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01:30:57,400 --> 01:30:59,720
Speaker 7: It just lets me know the whole time that I'm

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01:30:59,800 --> 01:31:03,920
Speaker 7: never alone and that I have a very present help

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01:31:04,840 --> 01:31:08,519
Speaker 7: that when Steve Harvey feel like it ain't going right,

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01:31:09,120 --> 01:31:11,520
Speaker 7: when I feel like a loan and I got decisions

1702
01:31:11,560 --> 01:31:13,519
Speaker 7: to make and I don't know what to do. Because

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01:31:13,560 --> 01:31:16,879
Speaker 7: I have moments like that, when I pray, I always

1704
01:31:17,000 --> 01:31:20,559
Speaker 7: feel better off of that same suggestion to you, find

1705
01:31:20,640 --> 01:31:22,960
Speaker 7: you some things that motivate you along in your life.

1706
01:31:23,000 --> 01:31:25,320
Speaker 7: Put them in your phone, and whenever you feel down,

1707
01:31:25,800 --> 01:31:27,800
Speaker 7: go back and read them. It'll brighten your day.

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01:31:27,880 --> 01:31:28,360
Speaker 2: If it did.

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01:31:28,400 --> 01:31:30,120
Speaker 7: It wants you to do it again. Those are my

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01:31:30,200 --> 01:31:33,360
Speaker 7: clothing remarks. Hey, listen, y'all talk to God. He loved

1711
01:31:33,400 --> 01:31:35,519
Speaker 7: to hear from you. Y'all have a good one, Okay.

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01:31:35,600 --> 01:31:38,479
Speaker 7: I see y'all tomorrow. Oh, no, i'll see y'all. I'll

1713
01:31:38,479 --> 01:31:39,360
Speaker 7: see y'all Monday.

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01:31:41,320 --> 01:31:43,559
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's the weekend bray.

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