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Speaker 1: I met him through friends. They set us up and

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Speaker 1: ever heard our morning show before? Um? Maybe I don't know.

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Speaker 1: seems like a compromise. Chris, would you like to go

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Speaker 1: Come on, we'll pay for the second date. Please, Will

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