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Speaker 1: Thank You. Nephew's subject the best dessert I've ever had.

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Speaker 1: Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a twenty nine year old single

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Speaker 1: man and I'm in a bad situation. My cousin is

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Speaker 1: a pilot, and because he's always out of town, he's

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Speaker 1: a girlfriend of five years, and he has been talking

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Speaker 1: about marrying her. She's a successful twenty nine year old

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Speaker 1: woman that really loves my cousin and they have a

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Speaker 1: great relationship other than the fact that he cheats a lot.

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Speaker 1: I've warned my cousin about getting sloppy with cheating and

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Speaker 1: one of the women had sent his girlfriend a message

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Speaker 1: on social media, and it had naked pictures of him

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Speaker 1: in the shower at her house. She also told his

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Speaker 1: girlfriend there are other females that's that she's aware of,

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Speaker 1: but didn't have proof. My cousin called me in a

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Speaker 1: She wasn't upset when I got there and basically said,

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Speaker 1: stuff happens and we didn't need to discuss it. She

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Speaker 1: had cooked so I ate dinner with her and we

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Speaker 1: drank a whole bottle of wine. I was feeling good,

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Speaker 1: and she could tell. She got up from the table

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Speaker 1: and slid out of her dress. Then she straddled me

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Speaker 1: in my chair. So I had sex for dessert. It

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Speaker 1: and we promised we'd keep it a secret. She lied.

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Speaker 1: Later on, I got a call from my cousin yelling

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Speaker 1: the table, and she sent the video to my husband.

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Speaker 1: With the tech payback. How am I supposed to fix

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Speaker 1: things with my cousin he wants to fight me? Well,

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Speaker 1: of course he wants to fight you. Of course he

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Speaker 1: saw the video. Yes, yeah, I know, Oh yeah, Well,

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Speaker 1: this is one of those situations where you should have

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Speaker 1: followed your gut, mister twenty nine year old and just

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Speaker 1: stayed out of their business. You said you didn't want

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Speaker 1: to get involved. The thing is you were already in

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Speaker 1: it though, every time you took your cousin's call and

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Speaker 1: let him dump all of his drama on you, you

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Speaker 1: were in the business. But this is what I don't get.

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Speaker 1: I don't get him asking you to go over there

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Speaker 1: assess the situation. That is so weird to me, because

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Speaker 1: what did he expect you to do? I don't get

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Speaker 1: that what she did was way wrong. But you can't

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Speaker 1: say he didn't deserve it. Now, you can't say that

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Speaker 1: he's been asking for it with his behavior for a

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Speaker 1: long time. Obviously your he thought that she would do that,

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Speaker 1: you know, to try to get you back, get him

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Speaker 1: back at that, you know that way like that, you know,

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Speaker 1: But how much of his foolishness and Shenanigan's was she

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Speaker 1: supposed to take? I mean five years of this mess

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Speaker 1: come on now. So yeah, he's mad at you, but

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Speaker 1: his anger is really misplaced because he's really mad at

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Speaker 1: his girl. I mean, truth be told. I don't know

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Speaker 1: fight you for sure. Stay away from him for a while,

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Speaker 1: stop taking his calls, and hope you know that since

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Speaker 1: a whole lot, lot lot more. And uh, because she

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Speaker 1: just got the best of you, guys, she did. You

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Speaker 1: were the fall guy and she got the best of him.

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Speaker 1: She wanted revenge and she got it. Stay away because

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Speaker 1: he saw everything you did to his girl on that video.

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Speaker 1: It was there in black and white. Wow, Steve Man,

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Speaker 1: well suck your teeth? Is right? Surely? Yeah, you do

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Speaker 1: a wonderful job with the job. Thank you. Ain't nothing

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Speaker 1: you said possible, Queen. These two black dudes right here,

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Speaker 1: you know you you was all up in their business.

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Speaker 1: This is a disaster. It is now he know his

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Speaker 1: been doing what he's doing. He already know that. And

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Speaker 1: you know she's a successful twenty nine year old woman.

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Speaker 1: She loves the cousin. They got a great relationship. Except

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Speaker 1: you said he cheats a lot. Eventually this happens. I've

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Speaker 1: Then he said the unthinkable happen. See that's whenever somebody

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Speaker 1: says the unthinkable happened, you got to buckle up, sit

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Speaker 1: fitting to line yourself something. Yeah, he was on an

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Speaker 1: international trip called tripping. One of the women has sent

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Speaker 1: took naked pictures in this shower. Then she told a

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Speaker 1: girlfriend that some other females and she ain't got to

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Speaker 1: prove it. Then your cousin called you because you his boy.

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Speaker 1: So he all he wanted him to do shelly with

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Speaker 1: go over the house and check the temperature of his

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Speaker 1: girl to see how he's doing, because you know they

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Speaker 1: could tour. So you know a man is she really? Man?

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Speaker 1: Is she tripping? Got over there she's saying no. And

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Speaker 1: then when we come back, I'll tell you what. All right,

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Speaker 1: Part two of your responses coming up at twenty three

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Speaker 1: minutes after the hours Steve. Subject the best dessert I

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Speaker 1: ever had. We'll get back into it right after this.

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Speaker 1: You're listening show all right, Steve, Let's recap today's Strawberry letters.

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Speaker 1: Subject the best desire hurt I ever had? Set up

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Speaker 1: in him man cousin pilot, cheating on the girl and everything.

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Speaker 1: She fine, y'all? You know what you cool? You've ben't

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Speaker 1: told him. Man, don't get sloppy. He gets sloppy. He

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Speaker 1: out of the country on a trip. Girl takes a

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Speaker 1: picture him in the shower, post it online, contacts his girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: He go this him right here, naked in the shower.

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Speaker 1: He calls you and say, hey, man, do me favor

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Speaker 1: this what happened? Go over there and just see if

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Speaker 1: she are man, Just kind of talk to and see

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Speaker 1: where she at. All right, you're going over there. You

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Speaker 1: walk in the house, ready in yourself for the worst.

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Speaker 1: You walk over there, you say, hey, look how everything going?

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Speaker 1: You know? All right? You know, mom, dude called me.

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Speaker 1: He made a bad mistake. You know, I ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: get involved. And I reluctantly went on over there. But

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Speaker 1: you got that she wasn't upset. You say cool, basically said,

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Speaker 1: you know who. Stuff happens, so you you relaxed, tensions

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Speaker 1: off you. You ain't got to think of nothing crazy

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Speaker 1: to say. We ain't got a discuss it. She then

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Speaker 1: cooked you hungry. She cooked you hungry. You set out,

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Speaker 1: y'all ate dinner. Come on, drank a whole bottle of wine.

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Speaker 1: I don't even need to wine, but you drank a

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Speaker 1: whole bottle of wine feeling good. And she could tell.

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Speaker 1: She got up from the table, stood up this how

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Speaker 1: you in the chair. Boy, not here where he happened.

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Speaker 1: When she straddled you, she had that phone behind you

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Speaker 1: and she hit record. She y'all stayed in the chair.

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Speaker 1: You had this dessert. She was putting her work. Best

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Speaker 1: assert he ever has straight work. I'm talking about dog.

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Speaker 1: Best dessert you ever had. I bet you it will

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Speaker 1: Because she was clowning for the camera. This is for

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Speaker 1: the Graham. Graham is a highlight reel of people's life.

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Speaker 1: Now she got you and everything you said and she

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Speaker 1: just working. God dog boy, and you in that saying

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Speaker 1: all the things you can on take yeah, probably saying

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Speaker 1: something that this is why he wants to fight. You

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Speaker 1: bet this better than cuz ain't it because ain't got

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Speaker 1: it like this here. You know it run in the

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Speaker 1: family only so far. You know what I'm saying. Well,

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Speaker 1: that ain't no excuse. The girlfriend recorded y'all having sex

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Speaker 1: at the table. She y'all never left the table. She

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Speaker 1: sent the video my cousin with the text pay back.

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Speaker 1: I am most supposed to fix things with my cousin.

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Speaker 1: He want to fight me, Now, let me help you

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Speaker 1: gonna let's sum this all up. You gonna get your ass. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's already know that. I ain't ain't no talking. That

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Speaker 1: is no way to your twenty nine son. Listen to me,

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Speaker 1: there's no talking your way out of this. You're gonna

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Speaker 1: get you. I'll start training to day and you because

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Speaker 1: now don't give a damn because you would whip his

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Speaker 1: behind if he did it to you. Exactly, I will

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Speaker 1: whip anybody hand did it to me. But now here's

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Speaker 1: the deal. Holy feel and Roy Jones Junior delayed they

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Speaker 1: fight to November because obviously, Roy Jones need to look

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Speaker 1: a little bit more like a fighter. I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm Roy Jones. Roy got to kick this thing off

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Speaker 1: right now he looked like uncle harl And Roy Jones.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, here, bad boy. He gotta

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Speaker 1: You forgot to remind so even they moved, they fight back.

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Speaker 1: You can avoid him for a while, but when you

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Speaker 1: see him you need to be on ready set. Don't

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Speaker 1: wait on him to say take to your mark, none

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Speaker 1: He ain't gonna be ready. He gonna he gonna dust

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Speaker 1: your ass. Now, I think the relationship is over now.

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Speaker 1: I know he's mad because they had sex and he

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Speaker 1: because it's his cousin if she is okay? Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's what I wanted you to say. Yeah, oh he

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Speaker 1: damned mad about this. You might do Okay, I got

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Speaker 1: she paying me back. But with you, yeah, dog, After all,

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Speaker 1: since you know I've been cheating, you decided you was

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Speaker 1: didn't have to work that hard at you now, didn't

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Speaker 1: over our head. All right, we gotta go see what's

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