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Speaker 2: Mess?

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Speaker 3: Hey, wow, I'm hmmmm.

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Speaker 2: So it starts, how you doing good? I don't know what.

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Speaker 2: I think I got the fall flu? What is that

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Speaker 2: a thing? Hold on?

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Speaker 1: Now?

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Speaker 2: Might have just made that up? Yeah? Is it? Is

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Speaker 2: a rock star? Party like a rock star? Yeah, shrapped

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Speaker 2: in two thousand and six. Yeah, no, it's uh.

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Speaker 4: You know, before I went to that party, there was

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Speaker 3: Marie, Now that's mess, But no, what's message. I was

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Speaker 2: Baby and I was like, I'm little congested and.

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Speaker 4: She was like, don't come. And I was like, oh

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Speaker 4: the baby. I thought you say he got your shots.

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Speaker 4: She was like, please, don't come. If you feel sick,

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Speaker 4: if you think you might be sick, if you're exposed

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Speaker 4: to somebody who looks don't come.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, she, I guess I'll go back

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Speaker 3: Well, I think that's the mess of the people who

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Speaker 4: I got I gotta go to the I gotta get

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Speaker 3: It's like coffee does not pair well with congestion. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I've never been like, I'm sick, I gotta go to work.

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Speaker 3: I've never once said I gotta go to work.

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Speaker 4: Even when I am feeling fully healthy, I'm not like

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Speaker 2: I've never Unfortunately, that don't pair well with my life.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, after a long awaited uh what was it?

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Speaker 2: What was we We've been waiting courtship, We've been waiting, We've.

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Speaker 3: Been we've been scheduling, and we finally got this person

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Speaker 3: I mean the show that she's in just got renewed. Okay,

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Speaker 3: over compensating, Uh, give it up for Mary Beth Barone

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Speaker 3: Hi married with broad It's.

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Speaker 1: An honor to finally be here. Oh, kicking the table

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Speaker 1: with my boots. It was a long road to get here.

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Speaker 1: I won't lie. It was many schedulings and reschedulings. A

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Speaker 2: In the space. You know what, Marie.

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Speaker 3: I like that accountability that is never messed, being accountable.

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Speaker 1: Being accountable and there's so little of it in this world.

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Speaker 2: Talk about it.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like no one is held accountable. It

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Speaker 1: really it grinds my yours because I think people are

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Speaker 2: So is that?

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Speaker 1: So?

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Speaker 2: Is that Justice Warriors? That's what it has to be.

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Speaker 2: The title of the episode? Is that? What it says

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Speaker 1: On my LinkedIn, Yeah, we'll put that on your tombstone.

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Speaker 1: Is what's this warrior? Well? I'm the youngest of six kids,

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but if you revolve around a world that just

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Speaker 4: So your favorite sentence growing up was probably that's fair.

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Speaker 1: I and and what we're learning now is that following

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you love a loophole, but like, yeah, like you said,

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Speaker 4: What's your what's on average? What group are you in

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Speaker 2: But if they want two and I'm in three.

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Speaker 1: That's different. That's different. Of course, that's different. It's people

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Speaker 2: We mad about maps.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really sad and scary.

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Speaker 2: Now hold on, now, now, hold on you.

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Speaker 3: So you want people to like follow the law, follow

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Speaker 3: Marie puts On like you, you make a show, You

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Speaker 2: Because you're on a show with your bestie.

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Speaker 1: And I had to audition four times.

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's that's not the rule. Like, there's

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Speaker 2: Home my hand like this. You got an audition four times?

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Speaker 2: Name her sister in Christ.

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Speaker 2: Example, no, you plead that, you plead the.

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Speaker 1: I'm pleading the fifth and I'm sipping Wow.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Sydney, we didn't even talk about our mess this week.

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Speaker 2: What was your mess?

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Speaker 3: Okay, let's let's get into the let's get into the

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry. I also just googled resilience and.

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Speaker 1: You said it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I said it. But that's like one of the.

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Speaker 4: Words that you say, but you really know, you know,

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Speaker 4: like aptitude, like I don't really you know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Oh God, the capacity to withstand or to recover quickly

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Speaker 4: from difficulties, toughness, that's what resilience means.

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Speaker 2: You think I'm mad?

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Speaker 1: I agree. I think everyone.

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Speaker 2: I see you squinting your eyesis. What's going on? You

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Speaker 4: I think that you're a very sensitive person and you

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Speaker 4: about every and anything.

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Speaker 3: Okay, no, no, fake? Can you repeat the descripture the scripture?

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Speaker 2: Yes, from the Bible of Websters.

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Speaker 1: Uh.

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Speaker 4: The capacity to withstand or to recover quickly from difficulties, toughness. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I think you're resilient, Marie is everything that we've been

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Speaker 2: You do. Marybeth MBB, I don't.

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Speaker 1: I hate when you guys fight.

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Speaker 4: I me and Mary Beth are literally like the devil

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Speaker 1: Very resilient. But I guess that's just been my experience

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Speaker 2: Ooo, that's resilient. And I bounced back.

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Speaker 3: I was aving the way, boots on the ground, running

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Speaker 4: But to be fair, living in LA and suffering, then

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Speaker 4: It's stuff to do here, Your people are here. You

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Speaker 2: So you know, I'm gonna put a pin in that.

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Speaker 4: And you know what, Thank you, Sidney, we will put

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Speaker 4: Resilient on your tombstone. Sydney Resilient, Washington and me Justice Warrior. Yes,

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Speaker 3: My mess is I really have an issue with just

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Speaker 3: I did that for the US Open, I did. I

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Speaker 3: You did that because usually Aritzia, the girls will look

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Speaker 3: Like she's not gonna spind like she's here just looking. Meanwhile,

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Speaker 4: But I also feel like that's who's at Aritzia. It's

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Speaker 2: It's not any So.

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Speaker 2: That we don't agree. Are literally wearing a great look

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Speaker 1: You're always wearing color. I feel like.

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Speaker 2: Sydney does love me turtleneck, but but not this season.

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Speaker 1: That's not yet. We're not it's not time for that.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I need to see my eye, see myself through

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Speaker 2: Any who.

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Speaker 3: I went to every single store yesterday looking for something.

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Speaker 2: What is this? Why did I pick this? It's so foolish.

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Speaker 2: Satin is hard.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to let everybody know there is a thin

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Speaker 2: Well, it's a.

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Speaker 2: No, no, no, I did not wear it. And I

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Speaker 3: Yes, it looked like somebody came in maybe ransacked everything

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Speaker 4: I feel like a slip dresser is I mean yeah,

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Speaker 1: It was a long I have long slip dresses.

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Speaker 2: But you're tall.

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Speaker 1: It's true. I'm tall. That's what they's what they tell me.

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Speaker 2: You are.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I told you I've ate.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, oh wow, giant, long, huge.

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Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm a gigantic woman.

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Speaker 2: I don't know why you don't play basketball?

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Speaker 1: Whoa, I would say, the skill skill, skill level isn't there.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know if I think the only ball

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Speaker 1: Ball to throw from my dog.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say to yes, I can hit the court, like.

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Speaker 1: I like the outfits. That's really mainly why I would

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Speaker 2: I was like, Okay, tennis is hard.

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Speaker 4: Getting the ball over the net from all the way

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Speaker 2: Doing that in challengers. Yeah, Marie, what's your mess? So

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Speaker 2: you know I'm indecisive? Yes, you know.

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Speaker 4: I ordered a table from Anthropology. It got delivered. The

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Speaker 4: eight inches. That's the diameter. I got a bigger table

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Speaker 4: from Anthropology, fifty four inches. I was like, it's too big.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, this fifty four inch table won't fit anywhere

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Speaker 2: So I had I returned it. They came and picked

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Speaker 4: I got the white glove service and then I had

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Speaker 4: I said, bring the gloves back, take the table back. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I ordered another table. I was like, okay, maybe round

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Speaker 1: Why why did you do that?

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Speaker 2: It got delivered. It's so big.

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Speaker 1: That's that's almost longer than the one you had previously.

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Speaker 4: But also like I have two modes. I'm because I'm

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Speaker 4: I'm buying this. I don't want to measure, I don't

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Speaker 4: Maybe I ordered it, I forgot I ordered it. It got

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Speaker 4: delivered two days ago, and it's so and it came

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Speaker 2: Marie, you didn't even hit the group chat to let

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Speaker 4: To help to help me pick another table. Yeah, listen,

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Speaker 4: the table came luckily. My brother happened to be at

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Speaker 4: And now I need somebody to help me carry it

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Speaker 4: back down because I am returning this table.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know. You're indecisive. That's news.

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Speaker 2: You don't know, Marie. I'm I'm peak libra, babe.

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Speaker 4: I can't make a decision or I just make a

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Speaker 1: That's okay. Yeah, two modes, like you said, interesting.

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Speaker 2: But sixty three into crazy now, that's so. How did

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Speaker 4: And now it's literally taken up like that wall of

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Speaker 2: Blocking my stove, my sink. I can't get to the track.

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Speaker 4: It's like massive, so it's leaning up against my stove

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Speaker 4: makes the clicking noise.

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Speaker 1: That's bad.

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Speaker 3: I know.

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Speaker 4: But I moved it today before I left the house

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Speaker 4: and that's leak.

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Speaker 1: So the idea of returning, ordering and returning two tables

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Speaker 4: Say so much effort. But when I was looking for

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Speaker 4: I canceled the order, I got a couch delivered.

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Speaker 2: I didn't like it.

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Speaker 4: When I left the store after I paid for the couch,

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Speaker 4: I was like, wait, I don't think I want this one,

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Speaker 2: And then.

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Speaker 1: If I did a yeah, I can't even better than me, Marie.

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Speaker 1: I can't think about it. I will stressing me out.

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Speaker 1: I will take something. I'm not returning it.

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Speaker 3: It's just gonna be this ugly ass thing, this big

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Speaker 3: ass table, whatever, it's gonna stay there. It's gonna stay there.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna ruin every time I walk into the space.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, I hate this, but I am not returning.

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Speaker 3: I just won't. I've been charged for so many things

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Speaker 4: Then I try to return as much as I can

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Speaker 4: my apartment is too small.

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Speaker 2: I have these things in my home. Yeah, specifically a

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Speaker 2: sixty three inch table. I know that's given, Okay, you

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Speaker 2: and a loft girl. It's it's fully given, Thanksgiving, dinner, Giving, giving,

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Speaker 2: the last supper. It's so.

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Speaker 1: What's next for you in the table?

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Speaker 2: I think I gotta get the other apology table back.

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Speaker 1: Marie, the fifty four inch. No, not the fifty four inch.

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Speaker 4: I think I can do the fifty four inch, but

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Speaker 4: I don't know, I really don't know.

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Speaker 2: I have to get rid of this table that I have.

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Speaker 4: It's like this old wobbly I Kia table that I've

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Speaker 4: had for six years that I got on Facebook Marketplace

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Speaker 4: for thirty dollars. That's what it is. I'm like, I'm

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Speaker 4: gonna have to go somewhere and pick something up.

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Speaker 1: I think Obins Street co op has loved Dobbin Street.

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Speaker 1: I got a really good autumn in there, and so

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Speaker 1: that would be my suggestion, my unsolicited advice.

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Speaker 2: That's where I got one of my couches that I return.

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Speaker 3: Bring a tape measure and maybe maybe you need to

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Speaker 3: go with her because you're eight my neighborhood.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, a type person.

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Speaker 1: We're not gonna let you leave with a table that

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Speaker 1: doesn't fit right and no assembly required because it's all

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Speaker 1: stuff from the olden day that was well made and

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Speaker 1: isn't like hu stir and grew stuff in.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Mary is a good person to go to do locations, though.

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Speaker 1: We gotta go to all yeah, all me and the

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Speaker 1: green Point one.

441
00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:13,399
Speaker 2: Okay, we like the green Point one.

442
00:19:13,480 --> 00:19:14,560
Speaker 1: It's cute, it's big.

443
00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:19,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So you can get other options.

444
00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:21,000
Speaker 1: Just you could just get a few tables and see

445
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:22,720
Speaker 1: and then you have all the tables at your place.

446
00:19:22,760 --> 00:19:24,440
Speaker 2: And I returned all the tables that don't work.

447
00:19:24,520 --> 00:19:24,879
Speaker 3: Yeah.

448
00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,200
Speaker 4: Anyway, my landlord is serious with me because I also

449
00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,040
Speaker 4: ordered a rug that's too big that's been in the

450
00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:30,119
Speaker 4: hallway for the last week.

451
00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:31,680
Speaker 2: It's also getting returned.

452
00:19:32,520 --> 00:19:35,320
Speaker 1: Maybe don't order anything more for this apartment. Yes, yeah,

453
00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:38,560
Speaker 1: but I think because if you are moving, just like but.

454
00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:42,120
Speaker 4: I don't know when I'm moving. She hasn't My lease

455
00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:46,560
Speaker 4: is up the beginning of October. She hasn't said anything.

456
00:19:46,600 --> 00:19:48,680
Speaker 2: She can't do that. Well, she needs to give me

457
00:19:48,760 --> 00:19:50,960
Speaker 2: ninety days. Yeah, she legally can't do that. Since you're

458
00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:54,000
Speaker 2: gonna be in your apartment for at least ninety more days.

459
00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 2: This is actually stressing me out.

460
00:19:55,880 --> 00:19:56,840
Speaker 1: So this is mess.

461
00:19:56,960 --> 00:19:59,680
Speaker 2: This is my messagement. Marie, you're you're mess.

462
00:19:59,720 --> 00:20:04,000
Speaker 4: I have photo of the table and the legs taking

463
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:05,480
Speaker 4: up too much space in my apartment.

464
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 2: It will be in the dome. Leave it for the dog. Maribeth,

465
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,240
Speaker 2: you're in here? What's your mess?

466
00:20:27,520 --> 00:20:30,280
Speaker 1: Well, we had thrown out some options of mess, so

467
00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:32,360
Speaker 1: I didn't which one do you want to do?

468
00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:32,760
Speaker 2: Well?

469
00:20:32,800 --> 00:20:35,760
Speaker 1: I thought, I'm the guests. Okay, let's talk about neighbors.

470
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:38,440
Speaker 2: But we can we can also do smell a little.

471
00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:40,119
Speaker 1: Well, I want to do smell, but that maybe can

472
00:20:40,160 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 1: be a mini mess at the end if we have.

473
00:20:42,000 --> 00:20:46,560
Speaker 2: If we apply mini MANI mess.

474
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Speaker 4: I like that. Wait, so yeah, let's I mean we

475
00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,600
Speaker 4: could hit both. Yes, what's the messiest thing on your

476
00:20:55,640 --> 00:20:56,280
Speaker 4: heart right now?

477
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Speaker 1: Or neighbors. We'll talk about neighbors because I I believe

478
00:21:01,400 --> 00:21:03,760
Speaker 1: that everyone should live the lifestyle that they want.

479
00:21:04,160 --> 00:21:05,880
Speaker 2: Everybody.

480
00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 1: I believe that people who are pure of heart should

481
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,160
Speaker 1: be able to live the lifestyle that they want. My neighbors,

482
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,919
Speaker 1: I feel I actually feel like my building is an

483
00:21:15,960 --> 00:21:19,560
Speaker 1: experiment just to see when I'll snap because the things

484
00:21:19,560 --> 00:21:22,639
Speaker 1: that my neighbors put me through are so inhumane and

485
00:21:22,760 --> 00:21:25,720
Speaker 1: any like, any person in their right mind would just

486
00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 1: be completely baffled by what they witness in my building

487
00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:31,800
Speaker 1: on a day to day basis. So I just think

488
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:35,040
Speaker 1: I'm there are so many things I love about my building.

489
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,840
Speaker 1: My neighbors are not one of them.

490
00:21:38,720 --> 00:21:40,880
Speaker 2: Let's talk about them, is it? First of all? Which

491
00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:43,399
Speaker 2: neighbors upstairs? Downstairs? Left? Right? Okay?

492
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:45,760
Speaker 1: So since the day I moved into my apartment, there's

493
00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:48,840
Speaker 1: been a cigarette smell in my apartment. Oh and I've

494
00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:52,760
Speaker 1: emailed dozens of times. And I don't want to be

495
00:21:52,800 --> 00:21:55,359
Speaker 1: a Karen type. That's so not my vibe. I'm like

496
00:21:55,400 --> 00:21:58,040
Speaker 1: all in aar I know, I know, but I didn't

497
00:21:58,080 --> 00:21:59,960
Speaker 1: want to be like, Oh, then where's the manager whatever.

498
00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:03,399
Speaker 1: I've been emailing for years I've lived there. The smell

499
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 1: doesn't go away. You're not allowed to smoke in the building.

500
00:22:06,440 --> 00:22:08,800
Speaker 1: You're not even allowed to smoke near the building, which

501
00:22:08,800 --> 00:22:10,280
Speaker 1: they change the rules because you used to be able

502
00:22:10,320 --> 00:22:12,560
Speaker 1: to smoke inside quote unquote as long as the smell

503
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 1: didn't leak into other people's spaces, which obviously they do.

504
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:18,959
Speaker 1: So I've requested in mediation the person won't do it.

505
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 1: I've asked if I could speak to them directly. The

506
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,520
Speaker 1: person won't do it. I've asked if they can be evicted,

507
00:22:23,600 --> 00:22:25,800
Speaker 1: and they said, well, it's impossible to evict people in

508
00:22:25,800 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: New York. So it's just like, we have these rules

509
00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,200
Speaker 1: in our building. Again, following the rules, yes, but if

510
00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,399
Speaker 1: you break the rules, nothing bad happens to you. And

511
00:22:33,440 --> 00:22:35,879
Speaker 1: it drives me insane. So my apartment, I have so

512
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: many candles to try to mask the smell. I turn

513
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,280
Speaker 1: the fan on with the micro At this point, I'm

514
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:41,920
Speaker 1: sort of desensitized to it. But every once in a

515
00:22:41,960 --> 00:22:43,720
Speaker 1: while someone will come to my place for the first

516
00:22:43,760 --> 00:22:46,880
Speaker 1: time and they'll go, why does smell so much like cigarettes,

517
00:22:46,880 --> 00:22:48,919
Speaker 1: which is like such a valid question. So that's the

518
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:51,040
Speaker 1: first thing. The second thing is someone on my floor

519
00:22:51,080 --> 00:22:53,200
Speaker 1: and I passed their apartment every time I come and go,

520
00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: has decided that the hallway is their mudroom. They have

521
00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:00,880
Speaker 1: four bikes. Oh no, wait, they have shoes scooters. And

522
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,399
Speaker 1: now what actually pisses me off the most because I

523
00:23:03,920 --> 00:23:06,760
Speaker 1: the logic here they have booked a little bookshelf now

524
00:23:06,800 --> 00:23:09,840
Speaker 1: for their shoes, So that actually means that actually piss

525
00:23:09,920 --> 00:23:11,720
Speaker 1: me off more because if you're going to go to

526
00:23:11,760 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: the links of putting furniture out there, then you literally

527
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:15,840
Speaker 1: think it's part of your apartment.

528
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:19,960
Speaker 4: Yeah it's not. It's a common sace bookshelf for the shoes.

529
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:21,720
Speaker 4: How many people live in that apartment that they have

530
00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:22,600
Speaker 4: four bikes?

531
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Speaker 1: I don't know. Four bikes is kids kids bikes? Kids bikes.

532
00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,760
Speaker 3: The crazy thing is that I know your building has

533
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:32,000
Speaker 3: has like a bike rode.

534
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,159
Speaker 1: They do have a bike bike, but people don't want

535
00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:34,639
Speaker 1: to pay for it.

536
00:23:35,000 --> 00:23:35,840
Speaker 2: Oh.

537
00:23:35,880 --> 00:23:37,920
Speaker 1: I think it's like, you know, fifty bucks a month

538
00:23:38,040 --> 00:23:39,520
Speaker 1: or something. I don't even know because I've never asked.

539
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:41,880
Speaker 1: Because I don't ride a bike because I value my life.

540
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm glad people ride bikes. I'm so I don't have to.

541
00:23:47,119 --> 00:23:49,600
Speaker 1: I think we have too many cars. I take the subway,

542
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:52,640
Speaker 1: and that's just my truth. You're coming in hot take

543
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:55,360
Speaker 1: I take the bus. I walk in the subway.

544
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: That's me.

545
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 1: So that's just that's two examples. Of course, there's the

546
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: famous example of someone bringing their infant baby into the

547
00:24:01,240 --> 00:24:02,320
Speaker 1: hot tub while I was in there.

548
00:24:02,440 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 2: Whoa wait, hold on, your building got a hot sup.

549
00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:07,720
Speaker 1: Yes, it's nice building, it's cute, but then there's infants

550
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:09,920
Speaker 1: in the hot tub and I'm thinking, well, that is

551
00:24:09,960 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 1: not safe, like baby soup, baby soup, baby soup. So

552
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,840
Speaker 1: that's another one. Then, of course, when I moved in,

553
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:21,840
Speaker 1: I also saw my neighbor masturbating with the blinds up. Whoa,

554
00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:24,400
Speaker 1: So that's a separate thing. But then there's been some

555
00:24:24,440 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 1: new things that have happened recently. Wait, what did it

556
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:30,160
Speaker 1: look like? Yeah, I talk about it my special It's

557
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:32,959
Speaker 1: like it was. It was a very interesting situation. And

558
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:34,680
Speaker 1: I caught him doing it multiple times?

559
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,520
Speaker 2: Was it during a day or at night? Both? Ah,

560
00:24:37,840 --> 00:24:43,639
Speaker 2: come on today from home during the day? Then I

561
00:24:43,800 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 2: you've never masturbated during the.

562
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:49,760
Speaker 3: Day underneath my covers, underneath the cover or up.

563
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:50,440
Speaker 1: The blinds down?

564
00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:50,800
Speaker 2: Come on?

565
00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:54,480
Speaker 3: No, I don't have blinds, but even at night I'm

566
00:24:54,520 --> 00:24:55,439
Speaker 3: underneath the covers.

567
00:24:55,560 --> 00:24:56,320
Speaker 2: You don't get hot?

568
00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,440
Speaker 4: No, what do you mean when you masturbate, don't you

569
00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 4: temperature rise?

570
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,800
Speaker 2: He does, but I'm always cold. So I'm like, who finally.

571
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,080
Speaker 1: Finally regulated.

572
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:13,640
Speaker 2: Masturbation? That's the title. No, he don't.

573
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 1: So then I got back from a trip the other

574
00:25:17,359 --> 00:25:20,240
Speaker 1: week and there was food outside of one of my

575
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:23,080
Speaker 1: neighbors places, like a bag from Jack suy FRIEDA I

576
00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 1: leave the next day, it's still there.

577
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:24,920
Speaker 2: I leave.

578
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,480
Speaker 1: The next day, it's still there. I'm thinking, how many

579
00:25:27,520 --> 00:25:29,359
Speaker 1: days have my neighbors been walking by this bag of

580
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 1: food and no one thought to throw it down the

581
00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 1: garbage choot? So then I, of course finally did it.

582
00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:37,080
Speaker 1: Person's obviously not there. So it's just like my neighbors

583
00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:40,040
Speaker 1: are completely insane and they're trying to kill me. So

584
00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 1: then the other night, this is this is the last

585
00:25:42,840 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: thing I'll say about my neighbors until we get into

586
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 1: it going. I'm sure there's a I walk by my

587
00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:52,040
Speaker 1: neighbor's place, and first of all, this guy just moved in,

588
00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:53,960
Speaker 1: and the girl that lives in between me and him

589
00:25:53,960 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 1: had to talk to him because we could hear everything

590
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,919
Speaker 1: he was saying in his apartment. We could hear the FIFA,

591
00:25:58,000 --> 00:25:59,720
Speaker 1: we could hear the basketball he was watching. We could

592
00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:03,160
Speaker 1: hear single work call, like with perfect clarity, like as

593
00:26:03,200 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: clear as these mics are right now. So loud, He's

594
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:08,119
Speaker 1: so loud. So then I walk by and this is

595
00:26:08,119 --> 00:26:15,199
Speaker 1: the sound I'm hearing coming from inside. Can you hear that?

596
00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:17,040
Speaker 2: It's so loud?

597
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:18,880
Speaker 1: I think he opened a portal to hell in there.

598
00:26:20,080 --> 00:26:21,679
Speaker 1: I'm just gonna play it one more time. And this

599
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,399
Speaker 1: is just through my phone, so it was much louder

600
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:30,480
Speaker 1: in person. Gus, maybe gale force winds in the apartment.

601
00:26:30,800 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 3: Maybe he doesn't have a lot of furniture in there,

602
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 3: because it sounds kind of empty.

603
00:26:34,280 --> 00:26:38,240
Speaker 1: But so how our windows only open like two inches,

604
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:41,479
Speaker 1: so there's no way that's coming from a window. So

605
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,439
Speaker 1: I'm thinking either he busted through the window and he

606
00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:49,640
Speaker 1: got sucked out, or he's doing spells in there. He's

607
00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:51,480
Speaker 1: doing spells and one went wrong.

608
00:26:51,600 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 2: Hey, Emily.

609
00:26:54,320 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: From Etsy, Emily from Etsy. So that's my truth, and there's,

610
00:27:00,440 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 1: you know, many more instances of people being weird.

611
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,040
Speaker 2: But the food outside the door for.

612
00:27:06,080 --> 00:27:07,720
Speaker 1: Me, your day is giving And I don't know how

613
00:27:07,720 --> 00:27:08,280
Speaker 1: long it was there.

614
00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:09,159
Speaker 2: They were at a hotel.

615
00:27:09,240 --> 00:27:11,040
Speaker 1: I don't know how long it was there, but it

616
00:27:11,119 --> 00:27:13,840
Speaker 1: was a unopened bag of food. So someone ordered food

617
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,400
Speaker 1: to be delivered and they weren't even home.

618
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:17,159
Speaker 2: That's what that was.

619
00:27:17,880 --> 00:27:20,440
Speaker 1: It was an unopened, seamless delivery.

620
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 3: Or it could he they might have went to the

621
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 3: wrong floor and so the person was like, where's my food?

622
00:27:25,440 --> 00:27:27,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's happened to me too, but probably no

623
00:27:27,960 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: I know who lives there, and it was it was

624
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:31,240
Speaker 1: addressed to the person that lives there.

625
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: Oh, so you looked you did you did the murder?

626
00:27:33,000 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: She wrote, Well, I'm thinking like, what's happening? And but

627
00:27:36,920 --> 00:27:38,879
Speaker 1: how many days did people walk by that and not

628
00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:39,479
Speaker 1: do anything?

629
00:27:40,280 --> 00:27:41,720
Speaker 2: Well? I think the problem.

630
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:44,320
Speaker 3: The problem is when you're in these buildings like that,

631
00:27:44,480 --> 00:27:45,719
Speaker 3: there's no more community.

632
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:49,800
Speaker 1: Nobody can there's no accountability. Oh there's more sorry, luggage carts.

633
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,040
Speaker 1: We have luggage carts in the lobby. The whole thing

634
00:27:52,040 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: with the luggage carts, it's a social contract. You bring

635
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: it upstairs with your luggage. When you've unloaded your luggage,

636
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 1: you have to bring it back down so someone else

637
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,480
Speaker 1: can use it. People leave it in the well so

638
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,040
Speaker 1: that the next person that goes down we'll have to

639
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:03,800
Speaker 1: bring it down with them.

640
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,679
Speaker 2: Yo, Mary Beth, you live in a luxurious building.

641
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:10,240
Speaker 1: It's very apartments the size of a postage stamp.

642
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,119
Speaker 2: But yes, no, it's a little bit bigger than that.

643
00:28:12,400 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: It's pretty small. It's a studio. I pay for the amenities,

644
00:28:16,320 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: not like my actual living space. So then that's what

645
00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:20,280
Speaker 1: bothers me about when the public spaces are not being

646
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,000
Speaker 1: treated with care and respect. Also, it's like we have

647
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: a trash room. We have a trash room. And one time,

648
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:29,320
Speaker 1: actually this happened more than once, someone from an apartment

649
00:28:29,320 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: on my floor was just putting a box of loose

650
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: garbage outside the garbage room. So I did eventually take

651
00:28:36,520 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: photos and it had their apartment on it. It had

652
00:28:39,160 --> 00:28:43,280
Speaker 1: the unit, no Sydney, not a box with like cereal

653
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:48,680
Speaker 1: boxes in it, paper towels. Girl, girl, were you going

654
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:49,320
Speaker 1: through something?

655
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,840
Speaker 3: I just moved there and I was like, there were

656
00:28:52,880 --> 00:28:55,080
Speaker 3: so many boxes that were coming in, and the boxes

657
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 3: of boxes, boxes, boxxes, a box. They're fine, no, But

658
00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:01,640
Speaker 3: then I was putting my garbage the boxes and I

659
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 3: didn't break down.

660
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 2: You know what, I'll allow it. I'll allow it for

661
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:11,880
Speaker 2: just that one. That one had a garbage room. I said,

662
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,400
Speaker 2: I don't because that's not what it's for. You said,

663
00:29:15,440 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 2: oh my god, I could just leave my garbage.

664
00:29:18,760 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 3: But you know what the guy who comes in, you know, uh,

665
00:29:22,440 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 3: the cleaning guy, he I gave.

666
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,240
Speaker 2: I gave him. I give him money every time. That's good. Yeah,

667
00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: so I.

668
00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,360
Speaker 3: Tip him for loose garbage, yes, because I'm like, this

669
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:32,719
Speaker 3: is this is nasty.

670
00:29:32,720 --> 00:29:33,960
Speaker 2: I'm sorry, sir, here you go.

671
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:37,120
Speaker 1: And he like, that's a different scenario because I know

672
00:29:37,160 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 1: the people that are leaving loose garbage in my building

673
00:29:38,920 --> 00:29:40,120
Speaker 1: are not paying the people that.

674
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 2: Come going rate to tip for trash. Yeah, because I

675
00:29:44,200 --> 00:29:46,080
Speaker 2: didn't know about that.

676
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: That's really nice. Vere's hefty.

677
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,720
Speaker 3: I mean at the time, I was like, you know what,

678
00:29:51,560 --> 00:29:54,280
Speaker 3: you're dealing with the nastiness of me. That's what the

679
00:29:54,320 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: thing is is, like, what's the problem is that the

680
00:29:57,040 --> 00:29:59,880
Speaker 3: people in your building are spending so much money that

681
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:02,520
Speaker 3: that they were like, well, I'm paying this money, then

682
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna treat it like, yeah, this is what it is.

683
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:08,160
Speaker 3: Somebody's gonna take care of that. I don't give a

684
00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 3: fuck about this. Somebody else take it down.

685
00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,000
Speaker 2: What's up? That's what it is.

686
00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:14,719
Speaker 1: But I don't live. I don't do that because I'm courteous.

687
00:30:15,200 --> 00:30:17,120
Speaker 2: Let's talk about the hot tub. What floor is that on?

688
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: I don't want to say, yeah, I don't want to

689
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:20,480
Speaker 1: be too obvious about my building.

690
00:30:20,600 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 4: Okay, you have a hot tub, you walk in what?

691
00:30:23,160 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 4: But what bathing suits set the scene? What you wear

692
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 4: in a one piece?

693
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: Sometimes I will wear a one piece up there just

694
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,720
Speaker 1: because I don't need to show everything to my neighbors.

695
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,080
Speaker 1: But I was on the roof the other day, tanning

696
00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 1: and I went to pee inside by the pool and

697
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: there was a such a hot guy in there. He

698
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: was wearing a diving mask for some reason to like

699
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 1: swim laps, and I like, you know, snorkel and diving mask,

700
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: but like goes over your nose.

701
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 2: So that's scary, I know.

702
00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,840
Speaker 1: But I like, maybe I should ask him. Yeah, well

703
00:30:50,840 --> 00:30:53,240
Speaker 1: he hadn't put it on yet, but I was like,

704
00:30:53,240 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 1: maybe I should ask him to put sunscreen on my back.

705
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 1: But then I just decided I actually can't deal with that.

706
00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 1: I just I'm so. I'm like, business is closed, shut down,

707
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:03,720
Speaker 1: I'm done for it.

708
00:31:03,960 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 4: I heard that here, folks, if you have a pool

709
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:09,600
Speaker 4: slash hot tub in your building, you should ask the

710
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,040
Speaker 4: hot person, the female whatever.

711
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 2: On your back.

712
00:31:14,000 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 3: I disagree. Listen, you guys have to not ship where

713
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 3: you eat. That specifically, you should not this person. You're

714
00:31:20,840 --> 00:31:23,080
Speaker 3: probably gonna run into it, and just in case y'all

715
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 3: do hook up or whatever. So now I got it.

716
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 3: My home is a is a haven. It's a peace

717
00:31:30,120 --> 00:31:30,720
Speaker 3: save space.

718
00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,239
Speaker 1: But mine's already not peaceful for me. So I'm like,

719
00:31:33,280 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: what's more, what's one more thing?

720
00:31:34,840 --> 00:31:35,320
Speaker 2: What's worse?

721
00:31:35,680 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 3: Something that you know your neighbors are being frivolous and inconsiderate,

722
00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,640
Speaker 3: or they're being inconsiderate frivolous, and they've been inside you.

723
00:31:43,720 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 4: Oh, in the trash room, inside you too. I mean,

724
00:31:50,280 --> 00:31:52,880
Speaker 4: if the building is big, you know, you know what

725
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 4: they say about big buildings, right, I don't know what

726
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:57,880
Speaker 4: they say about big buildings.

727
00:31:57,920 --> 00:31:59,600
Speaker 2: Never been in one of the hose Marie. A big

728
00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:02,400
Speaker 2: buildings than a small you know what I'm saying.

729
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: Well, I hope that guy's well wherever he is. That's

730
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:09,840
Speaker 1: all I think about him from time to time because

731
00:32:09,840 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: I've never seen him in the building otherwise, like.

732
00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,080
Speaker 2: He might have been staying with a friend, that's true.

733
00:32:14,440 --> 00:32:17,240
Speaker 1: And last, the pool, I don't know.

734
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,160
Speaker 2: He doesn't have a pool, so he's like, I might

735
00:32:19,160 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 2: as well do some laugh he said, hey, let me

736
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 2: bring the mask out. Yeah, back, the brushstroke is the

737
00:32:24,480 --> 00:32:25,280
Speaker 2: best stroke.

738
00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,480
Speaker 4: He said, butterfly freestyle, whatever you need baby.

739
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

740
00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 3: And maybe he was actually like putting on He was

741
00:32:32,400 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 3: probably flexing for the people who actually.

742
00:32:34,480 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 1: Live in that's kid, he's putting a fort in. Yes,

743
00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,520
Speaker 1: I usually wear a one piece up to the hot tub.

744
00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: If it's like I'm not going up there to tan

745
00:32:43,280 --> 00:32:45,520
Speaker 1: or whatever which is now it's standing seasons kind of over.

746
00:32:46,440 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: So that's my vibe up there.

747
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:49,280
Speaker 4: I just want to know. So you get in the

748
00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:51,120
Speaker 4: hot tub, the baby's already there, or.

749
00:32:51,080 --> 00:32:51,720
Speaker 2: They show up.

750
00:32:51,720 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: The baby was doing a swim lesson in the hot time. No,

751
00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,360
Speaker 1: in the pool, there was two There were two kids,

752
00:32:57,400 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 1: I believe, if I'm not mistaken, and this is happen

753
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: multiple times. There was an infant that was in one

754
00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 1: of those floaty circle things that was just vibing out,

755
00:33:04,160 --> 00:33:05,720
Speaker 1: and then there was a toddler that was getting a

756
00:33:05,720 --> 00:33:07,880
Speaker 1: swim lesson and the mom brought the baby in the

757
00:33:07,920 --> 00:33:08,960
Speaker 1: floaty in the hot tub.

758
00:33:09,320 --> 00:33:10,920
Speaker 2: The floaty's not even built for that.

759
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:15,720
Speaker 1: Temperature, nor is the baby. They're not supposed they don't.

760
00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: Babies can't really regulate their temperature that well. That's why

761
00:33:18,520 --> 00:33:20,160
Speaker 1: it's like you don't want to put too many blankets

762
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,000
Speaker 1: on them and stuff. So to have a baby in

763
00:33:22,000 --> 00:33:24,760
Speaker 1: the hot tub is like so dangerous. And then there

764
00:33:24,840 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 1: is a sign, like there's a sign now and everything

765
00:33:26,840 --> 00:33:31,160
Speaker 1: because I get a tell on her something. Well, can

766
00:33:31,200 --> 00:33:33,360
Speaker 1: I tell you, I've been through so much I don't

767
00:33:33,360 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: want to watch a baby die in front of me.

768
00:33:35,040 --> 00:33:38,280
Speaker 1: What does the sign say no children under five years

769
00:33:38,320 --> 00:33:39,440
Speaker 1: old are allowed in the spa?

770
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:41,560
Speaker 2: And that's what they should have had anyway.

771
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:45,200
Speaker 3: But also this is why I wouldn't want a pool

772
00:33:45,480 --> 00:33:48,600
Speaker 3: or hot tub in my building, because I don't want

773
00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 3: no damn kids there. If it's my pool, if it's

774
00:33:51,280 --> 00:33:53,440
Speaker 3: my hot tub, why are you bringing kids here?

775
00:33:53,560 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 2: We supposed to be having a good time.

776
00:33:55,120 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 3: Imagine me relaxing, having my hair up, feeling good, Cucumbers

777
00:33:59,560 --> 00:34:08,239
Speaker 3: over my eyes. Mommy, mommy, mommy?

778
00:34:08,239 --> 00:34:10,239
Speaker 2: Who is that?

779
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: Who's doing something to the kids?

780
00:34:12,360 --> 00:34:12,480
Speaker 4: Mean?

781
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 2: Is that you under the covers?

782
00:34:16,360 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 3: I'm actually quite I'm actually quite quiet underneath the drum,

783
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:21,400
Speaker 3: not making much noise.

784
00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,640
Speaker 4: When you're home alone and you got your good covers on,

785
00:34:25,239 --> 00:34:25,880
Speaker 4: you're quiet.

786
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been through.

787
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:33,759
Speaker 3: A lot, lol, lol, Mary Mary Ben, I think that

788
00:34:34,080 --> 00:34:36,160
Speaker 3: somebody see if it was a co op, I think

789
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 3: people will come together and be a little bit more on.

790
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, they would be on top of it.

791
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,760
Speaker 1: You can't you can't know that there's no governing body.

792
00:34:43,760 --> 00:34:46,279
Speaker 1: It's just like, yeah, the management company will send an

793
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: email being like hey, just reminder you're not supposed to

794
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: put stuff in the halls, or hey, a reminder that

795
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:52,360
Speaker 1: like you have to bring the luggage cards back downstairs.

796
00:34:52,440 --> 00:34:54,240
Speaker 1: But that doesn't mean people will do it.

797
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:55,759
Speaker 2: Because they're not putting names to it.

798
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 3: And that's that's what I hate about these mass emails

799
00:34:58,520 --> 00:34:58,839
Speaker 3: they did.

800
00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:00,319
Speaker 2: They did this at my job time.

801
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:03,840
Speaker 3: They were like blah blah blah blah blah about things

802
00:35:04,040 --> 00:35:07,239
Speaker 3: with customers. And they were like, yeah, and ladies, you

803
00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:10,719
Speaker 3: know after nine pm, you gotta have a hill on.

804
00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 2: No no flats, no crocs that look like ballet slippers. No,

805
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: no crocks. They kept like the person kept atings. We

806
00:35:24,120 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 2: all knew who multiple people, We all knew who you

807
00:35:26,440 --> 00:35:27,280
Speaker 2: were and the person.

808
00:35:27,320 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: But this is a good example of not wanting conflict.

809
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:32,120
Speaker 1: Why don't you just go talk to the person instead

810
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,200
Speaker 1: of sending an email to everyone saying don't wear crocs.

811
00:35:34,239 --> 00:35:37,200
Speaker 3: But they but I think it was because somebody else

812
00:35:37,239 --> 00:35:40,040
Speaker 3: have put on a flat, because somebody else saw somebody

813
00:35:40,040 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 3: else wear a flat.

814
00:35:40,920 --> 00:35:42,200
Speaker 2: But then the girl in an email was like.

815
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,480
Speaker 3: Why don't you just say tell me this because we

816
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:48,439
Speaker 3: all started busting out laughing when we got the email.

817
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:51,240
Speaker 2: They're like, oh, we know you talk about blah blah blah.

818
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:56,120
Speaker 2: Where's crocks in New York City at nighttime.

819
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,360
Speaker 1: I mean you hardly see them in the day because

820
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 1: it was dark.

821
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,040
Speaker 3: And it was one of those crocs that are shaped

822
00:36:03,080 --> 00:36:04,160
Speaker 3: like a shoe, but it was.

823
00:36:04,120 --> 00:36:08,600
Speaker 4: A ship like a shop that might than a regular

824
00:36:08,719 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 4: crock because it's a croc that don't know who.

825
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: We said, you're going to wear a croc, just own it.

826
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:16,880
Speaker 2: Lean into the ugliness of the croc.

827
00:36:17,400 --> 00:36:20,359
Speaker 3: The upsetting thing is that at the at the at

828
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 3: the bar, we would have like a little station of

829
00:36:22,520 --> 00:36:24,560
Speaker 3: where the like when you need to change your you

830
00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:28,640
Speaker 3: need to change a bookcase. It was it was just

831
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:31,799
Speaker 3: like a little area where you could slip these flats on,

832
00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:33,360
Speaker 3: just in case you've been on your feet for like

833
00:36:33,400 --> 00:36:38,200
Speaker 3: five six hours. So this person specifically put those rock

834
00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: type shoes in front, and then somebody was like, oh,

835
00:36:41,520 --> 00:36:42,640
Speaker 3: their crocs ill.

836
00:36:42,840 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 2: I think that's what happened.

837
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 3: They saw that they were crocs that were like absolutely

838
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:49,319
Speaker 3: not it could have been a clined but when they

839
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:50,040
Speaker 3: saw the crocs, they.

840
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:51,239
Speaker 2: Said, you're too comfortable here.

841
00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a home that's a home shoe.

842
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,799
Speaker 2: That's a shoe for like running down and let the up.

843
00:36:57,840 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 1: It's a shoe to take your dog out to pee

844
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:01,080
Speaker 1: and then take them off right away.

845
00:37:01,920 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 4: Anytime I step out of my house in my crocs,

846
00:37:03,640 --> 00:37:05,319
Speaker 4: I'm like, I hope I don't see nobody that I know.

847
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:09,319
Speaker 3: Listen, y'all do a six hour shift in five inch

848
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:10,960
Speaker 3: heels and then you come back.

849
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 4: You did that, and you did it effortlessly, and I've

850
00:37:15,760 --> 00:37:17,680
Speaker 4: never seen you to this day in a crack.

851
00:37:17,800 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 3: I was also on cocaine and about nine shots of

852
00:37:22,080 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 3: Patron and and and you know a.

853
00:37:25,200 --> 00:37:26,720
Speaker 2: Passion fruit margarita. Listen.

854
00:37:26,960 --> 00:37:29,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, you heard it here first, folks, Cocaine is better

855
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 4: than crocks.

856
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:33,400
Speaker 2: I see what I'm getting from this conversation. You agree.

857
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:36,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I've done a lot of coke. I've never won Crocs.

858
00:37:39,880 --> 00:37:47,520
Speaker 2: I've done a little rocks. That is a SoundBite, thank you.

859
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:49,719
Speaker 1: There's just certain things I won't do, and.

860
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:52,400
Speaker 3: I wros and I would love a partnership with Crocs.

861
00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,879
Speaker 2: So you guys say what you want, But.

862
00:37:56,000 --> 00:37:58,879
Speaker 4: Crocs Sydney, you don't even wear cra wear them now?

863
00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 4: Lo Well, I mean I.

864
00:38:00,480 --> 00:38:03,359
Speaker 2: Do like the Gucci cracks they had the those.

865
00:38:03,040 --> 00:38:05,279
Speaker 4: But even that, like that's for the house or for

866
00:38:05,400 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 4: a plane, you know, that's if you have tsa p check.

867
00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:08,560
Speaker 2: You can wear those.

868
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, agreed, so do you even talk to your neighbors?

869
00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:14,560
Speaker 3: I feel like y'all don't have I.

870
00:38:14,520 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 1: Have a good rapport with the girl that lives right

871
00:38:17,600 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 1: next to me. She and I can like bond over

872
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:21,000
Speaker 1: the guy being kind of kooky.

873
00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:24,880
Speaker 2: You know her name? No? I mean I think that's new.

874
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:25,720
Speaker 2: We have a rapport.

875
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,160
Speaker 1: We don't know names.

876
00:38:27,200 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 2: Crazy.

877
00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 4: Also, this is my thing. If I see you every day,

878
00:38:31,160 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 4: we talk every day. It's too late now for me

879
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 4: to ask you what your name is?

880
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:35,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Why not?

881
00:38:35,400 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 3: And also y'all not knows y'all don't look at the mail,

882
00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:38,879
Speaker 3: y'a don't look at the Amazon.

883
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: Package because we have a package room and I have

884
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:41,520
Speaker 1: a great you know who?

885
00:38:41,560 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 2: I love.

886
00:38:41,960 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: My favorite people in the building are the doormen and

887
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:46,760
Speaker 1: the people that work in the package room because they're

888
00:38:46,800 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 1: just like fun vibes, like they're fun. And I think

889
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:52,680
Speaker 1: about people being mean to them, and it makes my

890
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:54,640
Speaker 1: blood boil because I'm sure they deal with like such

891
00:38:54,800 --> 00:38:58,000
Speaker 1: cunts every single day asking where's my package? Could you

892
00:38:58,040 --> 00:39:00,320
Speaker 1: guys use my package? That makes me sick to my

893
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:03,480
Speaker 1: stomach to think about. But they're they're just like the best,

894
00:39:03,600 --> 00:39:06,320
Speaker 1: and so actually, what pisses me off about people being

895
00:39:06,560 --> 00:39:09,680
Speaker 1: disrespectful and not courteous is like you're actually just making

896
00:39:09,680 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 1: more work for them, and like, I want to be

897
00:39:12,920 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 1: a good tenant because then it makes everybody's life an

898
00:39:16,200 --> 00:39:19,880
Speaker 1: experience like more positive. I keep my mess in my place.

899
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 2: Home is where the messes, and some people.

900
00:39:23,320 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: Could really take note.

901
00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:29,200
Speaker 3: I just feel like we've we've gone so far from

902
00:39:29,239 --> 00:39:34,239
Speaker 3: being up our own asses that we are not, you know,

903
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:36,880
Speaker 3: we don't have a peripheral view of the people that

904
00:39:36,920 --> 00:39:39,600
Speaker 3: we live with. And these are people that hey, maybe

905
00:39:39,640 --> 00:39:42,080
Speaker 3: somebody might rob me and I need to talk to

906
00:39:42,120 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 3: my neighbor, like hey, or the person down the hall, Hey,

907
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,719
Speaker 3: have you seen anything? Do you know what you And

908
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 3: if you're not cool with them, they're like, am I

909
00:39:49,880 --> 00:39:51,279
Speaker 3: really gonna come out and help you?

910
00:39:52,080 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 2: Not available?

911
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: Thanks for bringing that up.

912
00:39:54,680 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 2: Somebody got robbed?

913
00:39:55,960 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 3: Well, oh well, are you ready?

914
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: That is there sitting there. We went to a party

915
00:40:04,200 --> 00:40:07,160
Speaker 1: in honor of our good friend Devin Walker quitting his job,

916
00:40:07,880 --> 00:40:09,839
Speaker 1: and it was in Bedstide, and it was at this

917
00:40:09,880 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: really cute bar that I had never been to before,

918
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:14,120
Speaker 1: and we were outside on the back patio and we

919
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:18,160
Speaker 1: were just shooting the shit, you know, talking about enemies lovers, friends,

920
00:40:18,560 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: and you do as one does when you're around a

921
00:40:21,480 --> 00:40:24,080
Speaker 1: bunch of your peers comedians in a lot of ways.

922
00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:27,320
Speaker 1: And so all of a sudden we hear from the

923
00:40:27,600 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: building next door. There's also a back patio, but one

924
00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: of the apartments on the second or third floor, we

925
00:40:32,280 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: heard screaming. Two women screaming at each other.

926
00:40:35,400 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 2: Well, we didn't know it was two women.

927
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:41,480
Speaker 1: First, I had my suspicions, and so we had the

928
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:44,600
Speaker 1: gay ear, I had the gay ear, the queer ear,

929
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,440
Speaker 1: and so we heard them yelling, and then one of

930
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:49,359
Speaker 1: them was like, don't fucking touch me, and the other

931
00:40:49,400 --> 00:40:51,400
Speaker 1: one was like, the lights went off and they went

932
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:53,319
Speaker 1: back on, and they went off, and the blinds went

933
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:55,319
Speaker 1: down so we couldn't see anymore. And there was just

934
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:58,839
Speaker 1: clearly an altercation happening. So my instinct is to just

935
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:00,560
Speaker 1: like sort of stay out of it because I don't

936
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:03,839
Speaker 1: know their business. Every other comedian we're with runs out

937
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:04,359
Speaker 1: the front door.

938
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:06,840
Speaker 2: No, no, no, I started, I started the brigade.

939
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:08,680
Speaker 1: Do you certainly I didn't know if you wanted to

940
00:41:08,680 --> 00:41:10,160
Speaker 1: take ownership, definitely take.

941
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,319
Speaker 3: Ownership with it, because it was like, if if I

942
00:41:12,360 --> 00:41:15,480
Speaker 3: hear women going back and forth, those are my people.

943
00:41:16,000 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 2: I'm like, what were you arguing about? You know?

944
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,400
Speaker 4: So I go, I go to the front. So you

945
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:22,200
Speaker 4: recognized them that it was two women.

946
00:41:22,200 --> 00:41:24,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, it became it was. If it was a man,

947
00:41:25,320 --> 00:41:26,560
Speaker 2: I would have told the men.

948
00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:31,200
Speaker 3: It sounds like there's you know, violence, there's a Chris

949
00:41:31,239 --> 00:41:34,319
Speaker 3: Brown incident happening upstairs and whatever is happening with this wine.

950
00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:35,680
Speaker 2: Put the wine down, and we need to go.

951
00:41:35,719 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 1: For Put the wine down, the wind the wine, go outside,

952
00:41:39,400 --> 00:41:41,000
Speaker 1: and you rang the bell.

953
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:41,960
Speaker 2: I did ring the bell.

954
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: So here's the thing for me.

955
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:46,200
Speaker 2: Here's a brown Stone.

956
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,240
Speaker 1: No, it's like a you know, maybe five floors.

957
00:41:49,320 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 2: You ring the bell the unit we saw it might

958
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 2: be rang I rang the wrong bell. So there. Well,

959
00:41:55,280 --> 00:41:59,480
Speaker 2: I was not even in the right building. I rang

960
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:00,560
Speaker 2: the bell on the But it's.

961
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 1: Hard to know what to do in those situations because

962
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,520
Speaker 1: I've heard an altercation once before in an apartment and

963
00:42:04,520 --> 00:42:06,440
Speaker 1: I didn't want to call the cops because then you

964
00:42:06,520 --> 00:42:08,920
Speaker 1: have guns involved, yes, whereas if it's just hand to

965
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:10,640
Speaker 1: hand combat, for example.

966
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 2: Guns Marribeth, where were you you was in YouTube? The cops.

967
00:42:14,719 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 1: I'm saying if I had, if the cops came, So

968
00:42:17,320 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I don't know what

969
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,920
Speaker 1: the best thing to do is. And if anyone listening

970
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:21,920
Speaker 1: knows what the.

971
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 2: Best thing to do.

972
00:42:22,360 --> 00:42:25,319
Speaker 1: If you hear a physical altercation happening, what do you

973
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: do Because I don't want I don't want the cops

974
00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,080
Speaker 1: to show up and bring guns and if it's like

975
00:42:29,600 --> 00:42:32,160
Speaker 1: that's just going to get a lot worse. So in

976
00:42:32,200 --> 00:42:36,720
Speaker 1: this instance, someone walked outside and then they left, well they.

977
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:39,759
Speaker 3: The thing is is that three people came, so I

978
00:42:39,800 --> 00:42:42,680
Speaker 3: wasn't alone. Then we see one of the girls come

979
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 3: down and you know, I don't I don't want to

980
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:46,600
Speaker 3: be mean, but.

981
00:42:46,600 --> 00:42:48,920
Speaker 2: It was it was it was just short. It was

982
00:42:48,920 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: a short queen king and.

983
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,400
Speaker 1: It was it was giving they them.

984
00:42:53,400 --> 00:42:54,480
Speaker 2: Yet but it wasn't.

985
00:42:54,800 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 3: It was definitely this is one of those uppercase ls

986
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:00,320
Speaker 3: that I already.

987
00:43:00,560 --> 00:43:05,160
Speaker 2: She looked like k one who's very hot but very short.

988
00:43:05,320 --> 00:43:10,680
Speaker 3: So yeah, she was giving four eleven vibes and she

989
00:43:10,880 --> 00:43:13,160
Speaker 3: was she looked red like she was upset.

990
00:43:13,239 --> 00:43:15,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, so I was like, oh, maybe they were just

991
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:16,959
Speaker 2: like going back. You know, when you.

992
00:43:16,680 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 3: Marie, I don't think you've ever had this situation with

993
00:43:18,800 --> 00:43:21,520
Speaker 3: a lover, because you date men, but you've you never

994
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:24,600
Speaker 3: had like a not a tussle, but kind of like

995
00:43:24,600 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 3: a shake them a little bit, like let's why would

996
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:28,080
Speaker 3: you you know what's going on?

997
00:43:28,719 --> 00:43:31,520
Speaker 2: Stop? So you think the four eleven got shook, I

998
00:43:31,560 --> 00:43:31,920
Speaker 2: don't know.

999
00:43:32,040 --> 00:43:34,680
Speaker 1: I couldn't tell if they were the sugar, the shakey,

1000
00:43:34,880 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 1: the shake the shaker or the shaker.

1001
00:43:36,640 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 2: Well they left, they left right.

1002
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 3: So when they left and walked down the block, I

1003
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 3: go into the building.

1004
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, I go into Sydney. You've never seen this.

1005
00:43:46,880 --> 00:43:49,839
Speaker 1: It's this here. I don't have the but you know what.

1006
00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 4: Usually when you watch a horror movie, the white lady

1007
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,319
Speaker 4: is like, is anybody in there?

1008
00:43:55,000 --> 00:43:57,800
Speaker 2: Sydney? That's true. I did. I said, hello, are you okay?

1009
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 2: I did? I asked? I asked you went inside and

1010
00:44:00,840 --> 00:44:01,160
Speaker 2: did that.

1011
00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:04,080
Speaker 3: But then I see all these things at the at

1012
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 3: the staircase in the staircase, so I was like, oh,

1013
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 3: maybe this woman is leaving.

1014
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: Maybe it's a breakup.

1015
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,120
Speaker 3: And they were arguing because maybe the one girl who

1016
00:44:12,120 --> 00:44:13,760
Speaker 3: probably lives there is like, don't leave.

1017
00:44:13,680 --> 00:44:15,759
Speaker 2: Don't eat, like we're supposed to figure this out.

1018
00:44:15,760 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 3: But the person who walked out might have might have

1019
00:44:18,040 --> 00:44:19,240
Speaker 3: caught homegirl cheating.

1020
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:21,800
Speaker 2: I was like that all.

1021
00:44:23,239 --> 00:44:24,200
Speaker 1: This is storytellers.

1022
00:44:24,320 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 3: I am a storyteller, and that's what I'm thinking in

1023
00:44:26,120 --> 00:44:27,480
Speaker 3: my and I was like, let me get in the

1024
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:29,200
Speaker 3: middle of this, because I would be like, hey, I

1025
00:44:29,239 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 3: am gay. I understand girl, what y'all are going through.

1026
00:44:32,360 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 3: Here's my badge, here's here's my lesbian badge. Didn't and

1027
00:44:36,200 --> 00:44:40,080
Speaker 3: I understand when you're having a you know, altercation, when

1028
00:44:40,120 --> 00:44:40,879
Speaker 3: there's a move out.

1029
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:42,279
Speaker 2: I don't get it. What do you mean?

1030
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,799
Speaker 4: I don't I am gay, I am gay.

1031
00:44:45,920 --> 00:44:46,520
Speaker 2: I am gay.

1032
00:44:46,520 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: I felt as a by person. I did not have

1033
00:44:48,239 --> 00:44:50,080
Speaker 1: the authority to enter the building. I don't have a

1034
00:44:50,120 --> 00:44:52,600
Speaker 1: bad I don't have a badge. They don't give badges

1035
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:57,239
Speaker 1: if you're by right, badge hold and I'm glad that

1036
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:58,319
Speaker 1: it's an omni card.

1037
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: I'm glad that you're very aware of that.

1038
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 1: You know, I'm not getting involved.

1039
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 3: We did when everybody came out, we did need a

1040
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 3: white woman.

1041
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:11,399
Speaker 2: We did. We actually needed you there just in case.

1042
00:45:11,560 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: I was just there.

1043
00:45:13,760 --> 00:45:18,040
Speaker 2: Did come did I Did you knock him out? Yes?

1044
00:45:18,200 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: I hit a non binary for eleven person.

1045
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:24,360
Speaker 2: You did knock come out? I got right there in

1046
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 2: the bag.

1047
00:45:24,719 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 1: Oh, I thought you said, did you knock him out?

1048
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:26,200
Speaker 4: No?

1049
00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:27,400
Speaker 2: I did come out, you did?

1050
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, I did? And then someone ran into someone they

1051
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:30,760
Speaker 1: knew I was eating fries.

1052
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:34,360
Speaker 2: Oh okay, Sydney. So I'm in these people's.

1053
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: House, yes, saying that's the building.

1054
00:45:36,200 --> 00:45:39,279
Speaker 2: I am a gay? How can I help?

1055
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 4: And did anybody respond to you?

1056
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:42,200
Speaker 1: No?

1057
00:45:42,320 --> 00:45:44,880
Speaker 3: But then when you were then we're standing outside and

1058
00:45:44,920 --> 00:45:47,799
Speaker 3: we see four eleven is coming back and we're like,

1059
00:45:48,760 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 3: all right, well.

1060
00:45:49,360 --> 00:45:50,799
Speaker 2: I guess they're coming back.

1061
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:53,920
Speaker 3: That she was she had like a blanket and like sheets,

1062
00:45:53,960 --> 00:45:55,879
Speaker 3: and I was like, well, maybe they maybe they made up.

1063
00:45:56,360 --> 00:45:58,239
Speaker 1: I don't Maybe I didn't know about that part.

1064
00:45:58,360 --> 00:45:58,640
Speaker 2: I did.

1065
00:45:58,680 --> 00:46:00,200
Speaker 3: I saw that, And then we walked in and then

1066
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 3: we sat down outside and we didn't hear anymore and

1067
00:46:02,760 --> 00:46:04,080
Speaker 3: the lights stayed off, and I was like, I guess

1068
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 3: they're fine, but somebody could have been dead in it.

1069
00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,480
Speaker 2: But yeah, blankets in the sheets was to wrap the

1070
00:46:09,520 --> 00:46:10,520
Speaker 2: body up, yo.

1071
00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:13,200
Speaker 3: But you know what I was looking to see on

1072
00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,000
Speaker 3: my news break, if there was any alerts, Yeah, if

1073
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:18,840
Speaker 3: they if any lesbians done.

1074
00:46:19,160 --> 00:46:22,719
Speaker 1: If there was any what would you call a lesbian killing.

1075
00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 2: Another lesbian homicide?

1076
00:46:25,239 --> 00:46:28,440
Speaker 1: Something side yeah, side or something.

1077
00:46:29,800 --> 00:46:33,480
Speaker 2: It's a it's a w women k W k.

1078
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:38,160
Speaker 1: W obviously, we hope everyone seeing they.

1079
00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:40,120
Speaker 2: Are obviously we're not. We're knot.

1080
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,640
Speaker 1: It was just a very neighborly incident to happen.

1081
00:46:43,280 --> 00:46:47,879
Speaker 4: If I hear people yelling I'm coming outside, I'll move

1082
00:46:47,920 --> 00:46:51,279
Speaker 4: the curtain, I'll pick my head out the window. Marie,

1083
00:46:51,320 --> 00:46:53,279
Speaker 4: you knows you don't hop my Yeah, but I'm not

1084
00:46:53,360 --> 00:46:58,360
Speaker 4: going into somebody else's building to be like, y'all good because.

1085
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,360
Speaker 2: Your part, that's not your part. You know you what

1086
00:47:02,480 --> 00:47:08,040
Speaker 2: happened there was there was a woman. Hold on, I'm superman.

1087
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:10,279
Speaker 2: That's on my chest. That's on my chest.

1088
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:15,759
Speaker 3: So there was this woman screaming I'm talking about yeah

1089
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 3: in my building, yelling downstairs right on the floor underneath us.

1090
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,960
Speaker 3: Duane and me are listening, and we're like, oh my god,

1091
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,720
Speaker 3: what's going on. He put his shoes on and went downstairs.

1092
00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 3: He said, wait a minute. He's like, I'm not gonna

1093
00:47:27,840 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 3: hear a woman screaming like that, yeah, and make sure

1094
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 3: they're okay. He goes down, He listens to the to

1095
00:47:34,640 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 3: the door. He's like, oh, she's on the phone. She

1096
00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,759
Speaker 3: was yelling at us, so she's safe.

1097
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:40,480
Speaker 2: So that's annoying.

1098
00:47:40,520 --> 00:47:44,400
Speaker 3: But so it's like, also, if your neighbor yelling just

1099
00:47:44,840 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 3: you know, you might be scaring people just if you

1100
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:51,759
Speaker 3: be aware, be aware how loud was she yelling the

1101
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 3: floor top of her lung. But also we have to understand,

1102
00:47:57,480 --> 00:48:00,480
Speaker 3: do you know what's mess the construction of the buildings

1103
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,040
Speaker 3: of New York City walls?

1104
00:48:02,880 --> 00:48:05,200
Speaker 2: The floors are thin thin.

1105
00:48:05,160 --> 00:48:07,600
Speaker 1: Their landlords, of course they're cutting for every.

1106
00:48:07,440 --> 00:48:08,200
Speaker 2: Everything is thin.

1107
00:48:08,320 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 3: So I could literally be on FaceTime talking about, oh,

1108
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,720
Speaker 3: you know, I think I got some new gray hairs

1109
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:19,200
Speaker 3: on my koochie. I know that everybody in the building,

1110
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:20,799
Speaker 3: everybody in the hallway has heard that.

1111
00:48:21,000 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 4: So when they see you, they'd be like, hey, Grandma, yeah, yeah, grape,

1112
00:48:28,800 --> 00:48:30,640
Speaker 4: you on face time talking about I only knows what

1113
00:48:30,680 --> 00:48:34,879
Speaker 4: my name. I retract that statement because you know the answers.

1114
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:40,160
Speaker 3: To you about that, and you're like, I don't have

1115
00:48:40,239 --> 00:48:42,320
Speaker 3: that problem loud, And I'm like, all right, well.

1116
00:48:42,280 --> 00:48:43,920
Speaker 2: Just me just so other people in my building know

1117
00:48:43,960 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 2: that I don't have that problem.

1118
00:48:45,239 --> 00:48:46,960
Speaker 1: Well, yeah, because you don't want them to think that

1119
00:48:47,000 --> 00:48:47,720
Speaker 1: you have that problem.

1120
00:48:47,840 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 2: Are are? So that's what you know. Brazilian wax is

1121
00:48:51,480 --> 00:48:52,399
Speaker 2: for rip it all off.

1122
00:48:52,680 --> 00:48:54,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, not without a trace.

1123
00:48:54,360 --> 00:48:56,359
Speaker 3: I need to get that without a trace. Yeah, that's

1124
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,640
Speaker 3: the name of my documentary.

1125
00:48:58,480 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: Why does it sound like you disappeared?

1126
00:49:00,520 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 1: Well, because she went into a building in bedside to

1127
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:04,000
Speaker 1: break up a lesbian fight.

1128
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:05,839
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, because I was going to get

1129
00:49:05,880 --> 00:49:07,880
Speaker 3: a wax and then you.

1130
00:49:07,360 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 2: Know, without a trace is like an unsolved case.

1131
00:49:12,600 --> 00:49:13,359
Speaker 1: Just a little joke.

1132
00:49:13,440 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 2: Well yeah, well the.

1133
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 4: Documentaries you watch about quite women being murdered and you

1134
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:34,239
Speaker 4: didn't know that it went over my head.

1135
00:49:39,840 --> 00:49:42,160
Speaker 2: Okay, you know what's not going over my head? Smells.

1136
00:49:42,239 --> 00:49:44,080
Speaker 2: Let's talk about that. You wanted to get into the

1137
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 2: any mass.

1138
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,680
Speaker 1: So here's my big thing lately. When you're in your thirties.

1139
00:49:47,760 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, people start trying less or something,

1140
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 1: but I'm noticing people smell really bad breath and bo

1141
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:56,239
Speaker 1: oh sometimes both. But I also think people are in

1142
00:49:56,320 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: way too much perfume. Oh, and it gives me a headache.

1143
00:50:00,160 --> 00:50:00,799
Speaker 1: You're not being found.

1144
00:50:00,800 --> 00:50:04,640
Speaker 4: The smell is like like too much of a fragrance

1145
00:50:04,719 --> 00:50:05,400
Speaker 4: is also.

1146
00:50:05,200 --> 00:50:07,680
Speaker 1: Up and I just don't like I think odor. It

1147
00:50:07,719 --> 00:50:11,440
Speaker 1: can be so overwhelming. Also, when I was on vacation,

1148
00:50:11,600 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 1: someone was wearing the same colon as my ex and

1149
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:15,000
Speaker 1: it made me really upset.

1150
00:50:15,400 --> 00:50:18,000
Speaker 4: I feel like for me, the smells that bother me

1151
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:20,320
Speaker 4: more than anything is when I get it an Uber

1152
00:50:20,920 --> 00:50:23,279
Speaker 4: and I feel like that there's a rise in that

1153
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:24,399
Speaker 4: funky ass.

1154
00:50:24,760 --> 00:50:27,160
Speaker 1: What is that smell? Because it's not bo, it's not

1155
00:50:27,360 --> 00:50:28,359
Speaker 1: like Ferts and BeO.

1156
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 4: It's a mix and spit because they're on the phone.

1157
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 4: Roll the windows down and turn AC off.

1158
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, get out the car, take a

1159
00:50:37,680 --> 00:50:40,799
Speaker 3: lap bite, hit the lap you first of all, one

1160
00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 3: thing what you need to do is take a shower

1161
00:50:43,160 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 3: before you get in the car.

1162
00:50:44,719 --> 00:50:46,319
Speaker 2: You'll be like, oh, I took a shower last night.

1163
00:50:46,360 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 3: No no, no, no, you sweat, you cough, You rolled around

1164
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,279
Speaker 3: the shower. Take a shower, Take a shower, then get

1165
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:54,600
Speaker 3: in the car. Right If if you are an Uber

1166
00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:58,320
Speaker 3: driver and listening to this, if somebody gets in in immediately,

1167
00:50:59,520 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 3: it's that roll the window down, you Stankye.

1168
00:51:03,200 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: They have actually created an entirely new smell, because it's

1169
00:51:06,719 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: not something I ever smell, not in an Uber.

1170
00:51:09,239 --> 00:51:09,479
Speaker 2: Baby.

1171
00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're just farting in there so much.

1172
00:51:12,239 --> 00:51:14,719
Speaker 2: It's a mix of international farts.

1173
00:51:15,120 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 1: It's international farts, it's sweat, it's it's God knows. The

1174
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,080
Speaker 1: people getting in and out of the cars probably smelled you.

1175
00:51:21,320 --> 00:51:22,720
Speaker 1: It's good they're eating.

1176
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:24,560
Speaker 2: Let me tell you what happened to me.

1177
00:51:24,840 --> 00:51:27,160
Speaker 1: Air freshener, Oh my god, on top of all of that.

1178
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:29,319
Speaker 3: Hold on, I love the black eyes. I like the

1179
00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 3: black eyes. Air freshener. That's always the tree.

1180
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 2: I don't want.

1181
00:51:32,920 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 1: Airfresher on top a bad smell, because then that's just

1182
00:51:35,160 --> 00:51:38,120
Speaker 1: actually like burning all the nose like that.

1183
00:51:38,200 --> 00:51:39,360
Speaker 2: I have chemical funk.

1184
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:40,560
Speaker 1: It's chemical funk.

1185
00:51:40,760 --> 00:51:42,279
Speaker 3: Let me tell you what this man did to me

1186
00:51:42,440 --> 00:51:45,239
Speaker 3: the other day. He's on the phone, very loud. He

1187
00:51:45,239 --> 00:51:47,360
Speaker 3: didn't even ask me, oh is it okay? I didn't

1188
00:51:47,400 --> 00:51:49,960
Speaker 3: know he's on the phone. He's on FaceTime. Okay, now,

1189
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:53,400
Speaker 3: so that's great. So you're on FaceTime, you're loud, you're talking,

1190
00:51:54,080 --> 00:51:57,120
Speaker 3: and you're driving, and you're driving. So I'm I'm I'm annoyed.

1191
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:58,680
Speaker 3: I'm annoyed, But I say, you know what, I'm gonna

1192
00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 3: let him rock. He's talking, talking, talking, talking, fart. You

1193
00:52:03,000 --> 00:52:07,400
Speaker 3: can hear the fart. The person on the FaceTime is quiet.

1194
00:52:07,560 --> 00:52:10,759
Speaker 3: I'm quiet, he's quiet, We're all quiet at the same time.

1195
00:52:11,239 --> 00:52:16,000
Speaker 3: He waits fifteen seconds and then keeps talking. No, no, no, no,

1196
00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:17,919
Speaker 3: we we gotta discuss this now, sir?

1197
00:52:20,160 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 2: What please? What?

1198
00:52:21,719 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 4: Can you please tell us what the fart sounded like?

1199
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:27,799
Speaker 4: Was it like a word or was it like it

1200
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,920
Speaker 4: was a It wasn't wet, but it was like her

1201
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 4: it was like a trumpet.

1202
00:52:34,440 --> 00:52:37,279
Speaker 3: It was like a trumpet. And it's like, so, you know,

1203
00:52:37,360 --> 00:52:40,200
Speaker 3: our the person on the FaceTime heard you. But the

1204
00:52:40,239 --> 00:52:42,160
Speaker 3: person on the FaceTime didn't say anything.

1205
00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,360
Speaker 2: So everybody just stopped. So we all just everything stopped

1206
00:52:45,400 --> 00:52:45,840
Speaker 2: in time.

1207
00:52:46,400 --> 00:52:50,719
Speaker 3: And then this man waited and then kept talking like

1208
00:52:50,760 --> 00:52:57,360
Speaker 3: nothing happened, and I said, okay, I'm like okay, and

1209
00:52:57,400 --> 00:52:59,359
Speaker 3: then he kept talking. He didn't he didn't address it.

1210
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:01,000
Speaker 3: And do you know I gave him a one star.

1211
00:53:01,080 --> 00:53:01,879
Speaker 3: I give him one star.

1212
00:53:02,560 --> 00:53:04,160
Speaker 2: I would have been in the backseat like did you're

1213
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,800
Speaker 2: just far? No? I would have been in the FaceTime

1214
00:53:06,800 --> 00:53:07,200
Speaker 2: with him.

1215
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:12,240
Speaker 3: I put in the notes in the review, I said, flatulence, loud.

1216
00:53:12,880 --> 00:53:19,120
Speaker 4: No apology, come a loud flatulence, and then in caps

1217
00:53:19,320 --> 00:53:20,279
Speaker 4: loud loud.

1218
00:53:20,640 --> 00:53:25,279
Speaker 3: And then I wrote scariod, no apology, exclamation.

1219
00:53:27,360 --> 00:53:29,400
Speaker 1: You know what hey? I wrote about that. I had

1220
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:29,879
Speaker 1: a good laugh.

1221
00:53:31,360 --> 00:53:33,600
Speaker 3: I wrote all about this because I was like, what

1222
00:53:33,680 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 3: do I do? Embarrassing for everybody involved?

1223
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 4: I mean it's more irritating. I feel like uber drivers

1224
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:43,879
Speaker 4: in general have been doing a lot.

1225
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:45,160
Speaker 2: Bring back that.

1226
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 4: Little shower curtain from him, because I need the sheet.

1227
00:53:49,080 --> 00:53:50,240
Speaker 2: I need the clear sheet.

1228
00:53:50,760 --> 00:53:53,359
Speaker 1: The partition. Yeah, put up the partition, please, the.

1229
00:53:53,360 --> 00:53:56,759
Speaker 2: Partition that did nothing, but I need it.

1230
00:53:56,880 --> 00:54:00,160
Speaker 3: Listen, I have respect for you. Know you're in the car.

1231
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:01,440
Speaker 3: It's a lot, it's your space.

1232
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:03,360
Speaker 1: I understand. I'm happy I'm being driven.

1233
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:05,520
Speaker 4: Yes, thank you for picking me up in your office.

1234
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:10,399
Speaker 4: But crack a window. Crack a window. We've all been

1235
00:54:10,719 --> 00:54:12,719
Speaker 4: and even as early as last week. I'm in a

1236
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:15,920
Speaker 4: smelly ass car. I mean, I get in, it's cold.

1237
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 4: I'm like, it's so, I'm rolling the window down anyway,

1238
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:21,320
Speaker 4: but I'm smelling smells that I don't want to smell.

1239
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 2: I'm about to you know what I mean.

1240
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 4: Like, you don't want me to leave the ac on

1241
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 4: I'm like, no, we need to get some air in here.

1242
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,520
Speaker 4: He was like, oh, it hadn't even occurred.

1243
00:54:29,239 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 2: To him, right.

1244
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:33,400
Speaker 3: He had start carrying like a little travel baby wipes

1245
00:54:33,640 --> 00:54:34,879
Speaker 3: and be like, sure, you're gonna need this.

1246
00:54:34,920 --> 00:54:37,520
Speaker 2: You tap it underneath your arm. You need to reapply. Well,

1247
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,759
Speaker 2: Amina carries you know that little poopery hooper. She does,

1248
00:54:40,800 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 2: she sprays the.

1249
00:54:41,520 --> 00:54:43,000
Speaker 1: Car down with Does that smell good?

1250
00:54:43,440 --> 00:54:45,160
Speaker 2: It smells better than better than Yeah?

1251
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I think I can argue with that.

1252
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:53,120
Speaker 3: But also I think we're at the time twenty five.

1253
00:54:53,400 --> 00:54:57,080
Speaker 3: We gotta be honest with our friends and like people.

1254
00:54:57,239 --> 00:54:59,439
Speaker 1: It's not easy. It's like I cann't say something, Hey,

1255
00:54:59,480 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 1: you're a little hurt, like whisper.

1256
00:55:01,360 --> 00:55:05,759
Speaker 4: It, Like, hey, send the text in an invisible ink.

1257
00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:08,160
Speaker 1: Hey, hey, so you smell like shiit.

1258
00:55:08,640 --> 00:55:12,239
Speaker 2: No, that's that's rude. Hey, but you have to use

1259
00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:14,719
Speaker 2: the dodo emoji. Yeah, you smell it like.

1260
00:55:18,239 --> 00:55:21,640
Speaker 3: Now, it's like or you know when you're like, oh,

1261
00:55:21,680 --> 00:55:23,640
Speaker 3: can I have some gum? In a person immediately like

1262
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:26,080
Speaker 3: what my breath stinks and it's like, well no, because

1263
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:27,760
Speaker 3: if you have some gum, your your.

1264
00:55:27,640 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 2: Breath would not be it's my breath. I need the gum.

1265
00:55:31,120 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 3: But people are thinking someone's being shady all the time.

1266
00:55:33,719 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 3: But I think we actually be like, hey, you need

1267
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:36,560
Speaker 3: some gum.

1268
00:55:37,080 --> 00:55:39,360
Speaker 1: You need some gum, and that's fine, and not looking

1269
00:55:39,360 --> 00:55:39,919
Speaker 1: out for a friend.

1270
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna I'm gonna buy some gum and then give

1271
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:43,359
Speaker 3: you some gum. And you're like, oh, no, I'm good,

1272
00:55:43,400 --> 00:55:44,279
Speaker 3: and I'm like, no.

1273
00:55:43,840 --> 00:55:45,440
Speaker 2: You're not, you're not, You're not.

1274
00:55:46,960 --> 00:55:49,560
Speaker 3: And this is right now, you're not altoids what you

1275
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,600
Speaker 3: need sugar free, and then you start going in your

1276
00:55:51,600 --> 00:55:54,080
Speaker 3: bag like your bathroom war bit, try to.

1277
00:55:55,600 --> 00:55:56,759
Speaker 2: What you need, what you want.

1278
00:55:57,000 --> 00:55:59,840
Speaker 1: It's just not for me and I if I'm dating someone,

1279
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:02,799
Speaker 1: I might find their bo smell like a little bit attractive.

1280
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 2: No never, okay, okay, and.

1281
00:56:04,920 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: That's that's free and that's why you have your lesbian

1282
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 1: badge and I don't. But I think that if I'm

1283
00:56:11,480 --> 00:56:13,480
Speaker 1: not dating the person, the bo is repulsive.

1284
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:15,399
Speaker 2: I think bo is the wrong word.

1285
00:56:15,520 --> 00:56:18,600
Speaker 4: I feel like like pheromones, like the way they smell.

1286
00:56:18,480 --> 00:56:21,719
Speaker 2: Naturally is there. But I don't. I'm not here for

1287
00:56:21,719 --> 00:56:25,120
Speaker 2: anybody's bo, whether I like you or not. No, this

1288
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,560
Speaker 2: is a This is a tough one though. The breath.

1289
00:56:28,320 --> 00:56:33,040
Speaker 3: The breath thing is like because if you're talking all night,

1290
00:56:33,160 --> 00:56:37,920
Speaker 3: all day, right, you might not be aware that the

1291
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,280
Speaker 3: thing is people are dehydrated, and that is a number

1292
00:56:40,280 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 3: one telltale sign of stank ass breath. If you're feeling

1293
00:56:44,400 --> 00:56:47,360
Speaker 3: very dry and you needed some water, your breath is

1294
00:56:47,360 --> 00:56:47,960
Speaker 3: probably hottest.

1295
00:56:48,000 --> 00:56:50,759
Speaker 2: But also, y'all gotta go to the dentist. It might

1296
00:56:50,800 --> 00:56:52,319
Speaker 2: be a dead tube. I know.

1297
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:56,160
Speaker 4: I mean, I can't even learn floss.

1298
00:56:56,400 --> 00:56:59,399
Speaker 1: They're not brushing, They're not they're not flashing, and they're

1299
00:56:59,400 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: not brushing.

1300
00:56:59,880 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 2: You're not brushing at your big age.

1301
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 3: I just want to let you know, hold on from

1302
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,160
Speaker 3: somebody who had gum disease.

1303
00:57:10,719 --> 00:57:13,480
Speaker 2: I will admit that I had gum disease. It happens.

1304
00:57:13,560 --> 00:57:14,839
Speaker 2: It happens to the.

1305
00:57:14,760 --> 00:57:18,200
Speaker 3: Hottest people and the sweetest people, and it can happen

1306
00:57:18,280 --> 00:57:18,840
Speaker 3: to you.

1307
00:57:19,200 --> 00:57:21,680
Speaker 1: Well not you, you a great equalizer it is.

1308
00:57:21,800 --> 00:57:24,919
Speaker 2: But you know, I will say the pandemic was rough.

1309
00:57:25,000 --> 00:57:27,720
Speaker 3: So you know, I'm drinking Red Bull, I'm drinking Coca Cola,

1310
00:57:28,080 --> 00:57:30,320
Speaker 3: and then I'm staying up till six o'clock in the morning,

1311
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:32,800
Speaker 3: and then I'm falling asleep and I didn't brush my teeth.

1312
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Speaker 2: So this is many months of doing that. But I

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Speaker 2: don't even when you had your gum disease.

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Speaker 1: Ginger bitis ginger vita, it didn't You didn't smell.

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Speaker 2: Your breath never smelled bad. Really, no, thanks guys.

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Speaker 1: Never, I've never ever had bad breath from either of you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, but you know what, Marie, you don't get

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Speaker 2: too close. Well, but I can smell well.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but I didn't have I had dry socket before

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Speaker 3: now that.

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Speaker 2: And you didn't. You didn't smell that. And that's when

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Speaker 2: I was. I was like, I don't think your nose works.

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Speaker 2: Friend who I had COVID COVID.

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Speaker 3: No, this was before COVID. I had dry socket. And

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Speaker 3: when I tell you can get sell it, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: it was like rotting.

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Speaker 1: I know you have that t Yeah, like what was

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Speaker 1: that before?

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Speaker 2: I was? I don't think it ever smelled it?

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Speaker 3: Did?

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Speaker 2: I had really sad in your head? No, Adrian told me.

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Speaker 2: She was like, well she was kissing you. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 2: who would know. Yeah, but dry socket is rough, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's listen. This guy was I was trying to break

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Speaker 2: up with this.

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Speaker 4: Man once and his breath was bad, and all I

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Speaker 4: could think was I cannot get out of here fast.

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Speaker 2: Now. Did his breast smell all the time?

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Speaker 4: No, But like I guess, towards the end, it was

1340
00:58:45,640 --> 00:58:47,919
Speaker 4: getting kind of bad and I was like, it's nothing, hatter.

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00:58:49,080 --> 00:58:50,720
Speaker 4: It made it easier for me to break up with him.

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00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:54,520
Speaker 4: He's He's like, no, it's bagging. He's bagging me to

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Speaker 4: not do it. And all I was like, it was

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00:59:00,560 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 4: so bad. Anyway. I hope he got the helps that

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00:59:03,800 --> 00:59:05,600
Speaker 4: he needs, but we didn't.

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Speaker 1: A straight guy, he probably didn't.

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Speaker 2: He probably didn't. I will say the.

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Speaker 3: Hygiene Olympics, that's also mess because sometimes I think we

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Speaker 3: we overdo it with the like.

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Speaker 2: You gotta be taking a shower three times a day.

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00:59:19,560 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 2: You gotta time. Yeah, Like some people are doing too

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00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:23,200
Speaker 2: much with the you're not clean.

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00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:27,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I agree with legs, like obviously wash your leg Yeah,

1354
00:59:27,160 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 3: but this clean person aesthetic you could you could be

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Speaker 3: very clean on the outside but dirty on the inside.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well just do what works for you.

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Speaker 2: Well no, no, no, some people are doing what they think

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Speaker 2: we're No.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying, figure it out so it doesn't affect others.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but if you're like a sweaty man, I'm speaking

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Speaker 4: to the men specifically here, Like you work out, maybe

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Speaker 4: you go play soccer in the park, you're playing basketball

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Speaker 4: with your friend, like you are funky.

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Speaker 2: Yes, like shower properly and hit to Maybe some people

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Speaker 2: need aluminum.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, and they do, and that's okay.

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Speaker 4: With a little cancer under your arms, like it just

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Speaker 4: to make it smell not gross.

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Speaker 1: Just to stop inflicting it on others. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: just what I would say anyway, and that's just that's

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Speaker 1: just how I feel.

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Speaker 4: Should we read a message? We should and then wrap

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Speaker 4: this little thing up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Mary Bell, thank you for all that you brought

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Speaker 1: Girl pops, I'm really guy that I'm here.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, no, it's working out, it is. And thank you

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Speaker 3: for telling them about my You know, I feel like

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Speaker 3: That's because if anything would have happened to me, what

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Speaker 3: would have been the headline says, what is something happened

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Speaker 3: to you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: hotly bitch might be your memoir?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you were the latest today of all, that's all,

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Speaker 1: and that's okay.

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Speaker 4: To be fair, I had to step over seven tables

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Speaker 4: in a rug to get out of my house.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you had to do an obstacle. Course, you had

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Speaker 1: to do American ninja warrior.

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Speaker 4: Wow, we're going to read a message from our mesties

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Speaker 4: and we would love your take on this, and then

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Speaker 4: we move one. Is it mess that I'm looking forward

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Speaker 4: to moving because it's closer to my husband's family. He's military,

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Speaker 4: so we don't really have a choice on moving. He

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Speaker 4: has two brothers who live about three hours away from

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Speaker 4: where we live. My husband is somehow the most mature

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Speaker 4: out of all his brothers. I find his brother's annoying,

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Speaker 4: and I honestly don't care to live close to them. Obviously,

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01:01:47,880 --> 01:01:50,360
Speaker 4: my husband is excited to live by them, and I'm

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01:01:50,360 --> 01:01:53,400
Speaker 4: happy for him, but I'm annoyed Why I find them annoying.

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Speaker 4: One of his brothers is getting a divorce, and it

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Speaker 4: drains me to hear my husband talk about it. The

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Speaker 4: other one when we visit, he came home from work

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Speaker 4: and got out of his vehicle, was already drinking. Oh,

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Speaker 4: his parents live in the middle of nowhere and don't

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Speaker 4: really care about him, so they won't really.

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Speaker 2: Be visiting us.

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Speaker 4: Hey, he'll be close to his family and I'll be

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Speaker 4: sixteen hours from mine.

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Speaker 1: Wait, can you read the first line again.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry I read it wrong.

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Speaker 1: It isn't messed that I'm not okay at all, so

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Speaker 1: opposite of what I.

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Speaker 4: Was, literally the opposite of what I sent. As I

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Speaker 4: was reading it, I was like, why was she be excited?

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Speaker 1: I don't think I think it sounds so fair and

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01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:30,920
Speaker 1: not mess I feel bad and that sounds not so

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Speaker 1: fun to me.

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: No, that's the thing is to said about marriage. It's like,

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Speaker 3: you got a compromise, you gotta come. But when the

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Speaker 3: compromise is so leaning towards this is literally just going.

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Speaker 2: To work out for you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I agree.

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Speaker 2: That's why I.

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Speaker 3: Feel like we should not be living near anybody's parents,

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01:02:48,640 --> 01:02:52,560
Speaker 3: because why should you get to be down the block

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Speaker 3: from your family? And then I'm nowhere near my Now

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01:02:55,800 --> 01:02:58,760
Speaker 3: I don't have family. So that's why, you know, I

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01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 3: did move to LA for a little bit because.

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01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 2: I was like, well what I have I don't have?

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01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:04,440
Speaker 3: I mean, I got Marie and Carolina and Amina but

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01:03:04,800 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 3: in the cats. But I said, they'll be fine, they

1442
01:03:07,120 --> 01:03:09,440
Speaker 3: have families. They don't need me. And then I realized

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01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,080
Speaker 3: I said, actually I need them. They are my family,

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01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:16,080
Speaker 3: so chosen family. I will not be the next situation, well,

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01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:17,959
Speaker 3: the situation, I mean, I don't know, I'm not moving.

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01:03:18,080 --> 01:03:19,840
Speaker 2: I'm I'm in New York. I need to be with

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Speaker 2: my family.

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Speaker 1: I would hate to not get to choose where I live.

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Speaker 2: That would military.

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01:03:24,800 --> 01:03:28,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yet another reason I won't be joining the military. Okay,

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01:03:28,600 --> 01:03:32,200
Speaker 1: there's a long list of reasons. But yeah, that's a shame. Also,

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01:03:32,320 --> 01:03:33,840
Speaker 1: if you feel like there's gonna be a bad influence

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01:03:33,880 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 1: on your partner, that's really bad. That's not that's not

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01:03:37,280 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 1: a good situation. So I would say, maybe just communicate it.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't really have a choice where they go because

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01:03:43,880 --> 01:03:45,840
Speaker 4: he's in the military, so right, they're gonna go.

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Speaker 1: Well, I know, but you guys just need to talk

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01:03:47,920 --> 01:03:51,040
Speaker 1: about it, yeah, and express your concerns and hopefully he'll

1459
01:03:51,080 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 1: hear you boundaries and you know understanding it's going to

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01:03:54,880 --> 01:03:55,360
Speaker 1: be hard for you.

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Speaker 2: I mean popping out the vehicle already drinking.

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01:03:58,480 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 1: Hey, your brother's as.

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Speaker 3: Whenever they want, and yeah, no, they can't be trauma

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01:04:03,200 --> 01:04:05,320
Speaker 3: dumping because then I got to hear about that.

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01:04:05,360 --> 01:04:07,080
Speaker 2: And if you want to hear about it, that's fine,

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Speaker 2: but I don't.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so you got to keep that, put it in

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Speaker 3: a journal, put in a group chat.

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Speaker 2: I'm not the one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you gotta have a conversation with him before that

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Speaker 4: move happened.

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Speaker 2: But she's already annoyed hearing about the divorce.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so that's maybe I'm only.

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Speaker 4: Gonna want to vent about that divorce as much as

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01:04:22,760 --> 01:04:23,160
Speaker 4: he can.

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Speaker 3: Mm yeack, Mary, thank you for coming here and thank

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Speaker 3: you for having me and airing it out.

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Speaker 1: I'm just good to talk about it. Yeah, cut it

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Speaker 1: off my chest.

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Speaker 3: Tell people where they can follow you and what you

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Speaker 1: go to my website and you'll see where I'm performing

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Speaker 2: Hey, yay, thank you. I don't think you're going to

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Speaker 2: move anytime soon. No, yeah, you're just stay there with it.

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Speaker 1: It remains to be seen. I guess we'll see. I

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Speaker 1: have I'm trying to manifest something, but I don't know

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Speaker 1: how long it's gonna take.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, manifestation feels like you got to be real patient

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Speaker 2: for that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like, yeah, it's not on your timeline.

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Speaker 3: But also you got to have good vibes and you

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Speaker 3: really just got to put out you know is coming.

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Speaker 2: It's coming.

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Speaker 3: I'm working towards it, and then, you know, put it

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Speaker 3: in the back, put it in the back of your mind,

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Speaker 3: and then it'll pop up whenever you least expect.

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Speaker 2: I would like for you to take this advice that

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Speaker 2: you're saying as well. I do. I would like for

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Speaker 2: you to take this advice as well. Everything that you worried.

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Speaker 3: I gotta go, all right, goodbye.

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