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Speaker 1: Second date up date. Occasionally, we have return listeners friends

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Speaker 2: I call them people that like punishment.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and they'll sometimes get nicknames like matt Man or Rufer.

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Speaker 1: Haven't heard from either of those guys in a while, though,

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Speaker 1: so hopefully they both found love and Ruffer. Isn't like

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Speaker 2: I can't both be true, Jeffrey.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe that's what he wants. That's fair compound, That's true.

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Speaker 1: A lot of romance there. The thing is, it's rare

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Speaker 1: for us to have a woman come back to the

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Speaker 1: show after we failed to get her a date.

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Speaker 2: Is usually the smarter one.

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Speaker 1: Women learn their lessons much much quicker than we do.

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Speaker 1: But today is different because we have the return of

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Speaker 1: someone I'm nicknaming miscrustworthy. Julia the pie le.

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Speaker 2: Oh, oh my god, you're the pie woman who remember

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Speaker 2: then she did the cakes on the date.

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Speaker 3: First she tried all the pies, and then she was

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Speaker 1: Okay, I'll try and explain it less frantically than booked.

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Speaker 1: Did she took a dude to some random house to

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Speaker 2: And they sat in the car and they ate the

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Speaker 3: And then he was upset because he realized that she

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Speaker 3: had taken somebody on a cake date and done the same.

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Speaker 1: Thing with Okay, we don't have to recap the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: Get she's the pielot. I'm upset for a Miss crust.

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Speaker 2: Worthy and when it comes to pastries this woman.

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Speaker 1: So that ended up not working out, but now she's

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Speaker 1: back on the line again with a new guy who

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Speaker 1: is welcome. Welcome back, Miss Crustworthy. Hi Butterworth.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I have to know before anything. Was there a

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Speaker 2: theme to this date?

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Speaker 5: No, I mean there was going to be.

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Speaker 1: But so it's been a few months since we last

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Speaker 5: Been dating around? I found this wonderful guy. His name

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Speaker 5: is Ben Okay, and it's been going so well.

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Speaker 3: So far, and it's been I got it to got

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Speaker 4: The same.

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Speaker 1: To find it? But sure, Okay, So what's Ben like?

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Speaker 5: He's great, he's really funny, and we went to some

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Speaker 5: happy hours and it was really fun.

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Speaker 2: You went on multiple dates.

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Speaker 1: Have Ben does he like Pie?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: And he even invited me out with his friends.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, I asked a very important question. Is he

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Speaker 2: That's the old her?

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Speaker 5: He is?

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Speaker 2: Okay, it's still her, But that's crazy. He brought you

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Speaker 2: out to meet all his friends and stuff. Already it

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Speaker 2: sounds like things were going, like how many dates hasn't

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Speaker 5: Two dates?

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Speaker 4: Too?

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Speaker 5: Happy hours?

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Speaker 2: Quick to bring the friends in. But I guess it's

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have to be stock like facing each other. Okay.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and he was taking pictures and like, I feel

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Speaker 5: like if you're taking pictures, that means it's serious.

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Speaker 2: Pictures of what?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like are we talking clothes on or close off

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 2: Like with this friends with his friends? Wait? You with

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Speaker 5: Yeah? It was me and a couple of his guy friends.

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Speaker 1: Oh that sounds like a big deal.

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Speaker 3: Actually is I don't know if I've ever had a

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Speaker 1: The absolutely exclude people.

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Speaker 3: From I'm with Jeff actually on that one, I think

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Speaker 2: Can you take this for us?

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Speaker 1: They know we totally we're like good friends, only best

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Speaker 2: I think a guy taking a photo period is that's

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and then next morning he's like snapping me from

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Speaker 2: Oh oh, did you did you know he was flying out? No? No,

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Speaker 5: It's awesome, I guess so, but like, why wouldn't you

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Speaker 2: It's not like you're gonna know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he's having so much fun asking her questions, getting.

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Speaker 1: Did you find out where he was going the Caribbean?

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Speaker 5: I know. And so he's like snapping me on the

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Speaker 3: Va I was saying, yeah, he was on a beach

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Speaker 1: I'm looking up shark attacks in the Caribbean.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of weird.

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Speaker 5: I'm thinking I hate to think this way, but I'm

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Speaker 2: Actually call him and he's in the sharks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's giving you all the right signs. I mean,

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Speaker 3: I think you have every reason to get an explanation

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Speaker 1: You were returning the equal amount of like snaps back

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Speaker 5: No, not at all. It was half and half.

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Speaker 1: Okay, this is odd.

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Speaker 2: I trust my girl.

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Speaker 1: It's miss Crustworthy Brook. Let's say the name right. We're

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Speaker 1: tall worthy know.

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Speaker 2: That name makes her sound so old.

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Speaker 1: Still Miss Crustworthy. Laugh if you like it. Oh God

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Speaker 1: Why isn't he getting back to you after two whole weeks?

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Speaker 5: Thank you?

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Speaker 3: Like help me reach out to him?

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Speaker 1: All right, We'll see if he picks up when we

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Speaker 1: do your second date update right after this hold on

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Speaker 1: second date update. We have our theories for why Ben

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Speaker 1: to the Caribbean two weeks ago. Theory number one, baby

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Speaker 1: shark in his shark family had a little Ben flavored

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Speaker 2: So I should not laugh because.

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Speaker 1: We know it's likely not a shark. Guys, that's my

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Speaker 1: number one. Theory Number twomber Ben dropped his phone in

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Speaker 1: the ocean after too many breakfast margarite, or theory number three.

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Speaker 1: The one Julia is most worried about is Ben met

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Speaker 2: Why wouldn't you just say, like, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: I know we went on a couple of dates. I've

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Speaker 2: Feels add for Julia to root for shark in this one.

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Speaker 1: I think we're all praying for because nobody wants number three, right, Julia.

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Speaker 5: I definitely don't want to be rooting for sharks. But

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Speaker 1: I will say, getting eaten by a shark is like

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Speaker 2: We took his phone and that's the shark can't text back. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: He doesn't need that phone. Let's at least dial Ben's

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get to the bottom. Y, We're going to

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Speaker 5: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: So dumb, and we just dropped another five podcast, but

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Speaker 2: Hello, Okay, that's a man.

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Speaker 1: Is this Ben?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? Who's this?

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Speaker 1: We're uh, we're a radio show. Oh, good morning. We're

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Speaker 1: called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh looking for recommendations on the Caribbean. No, anybody

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Speaker 2: that was smooth.

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Speaker 1: He's still confused.

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Speaker 4: What is it like? Did I win like a concert

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Speaker 1: No, we haven't done something like that in a long time.

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Speaker 1: We're uh, we're doing a segment here called a second

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Speaker 1: Date Update where we're trying to help one of our

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Speaker 1: out a while ago and apparently had a really good

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Speaker 1: guys went to like, yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yes, no, I know, I know, no, I okay, you know.

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Speaker 2: Yeah apparently you guys went to a couple of happy

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Speaker 4: good time. I've just been out of town, so I.

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Speaker 3: Still Caribbean, right, Yeah, she said you were snapping her, so.

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Speaker 1: So I was gonna say, hard to leave.

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Speaker 2: I bet I'm not busy trying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wonder. You don't sound very relaxed right now,

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Speaker 3: Why are you getting back to her? That's just you know,

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Speaker 4: No, I'm gonna I'm gonna reach out to her. I've

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Speaker 4: just you know, it's just been crazy, Like my life

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Speaker 1: The beaded dreads on the beach, and now you're just

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's it. Yeah I have corn rows. Now.

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Speaker 3: Now, what's been so crazy?

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Speaker 4: Well, I just, you know, like I've just been busy

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Speaker 4: traveling to and from and like her, it's been really busy.

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Speaker 1: I just like, yeah, everything is just you know Julia.

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Speaker 1: Julia mentioned that you had a lot going on in

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Speaker 1: it sounds like you're saying you are still interested.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Well that's good because she, like when we talked to her,

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Speaker 1: she was worried that it was just like a one

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Speaker 5: But I have a hot tip if you're interested in

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Speaker 2: She's gonna fall off.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know what, You're right, I should have please

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Speaker 4: you you guys have her contact or whatever, right, or

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Speaker 4: she got contacted you. You just tell her that I'm sorry.

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Speaker 5: Do Hey, I thought you met somebody else, because like

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Speaker 5: two weeks is a long talent.

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Speaker 1: We didn't tell you that Julia has been listening to

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Speaker 4: Oh hey, hi, ah uh, I don't I'm sorry. I

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Speaker 4: don't really, I don't know what to say this.

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Speaker 5: Little I don't know, did you meet somebody?

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Speaker 4: No, I didn't meet anyone new. I'm just I've just

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Speaker 5: Know, it's just good to hear you from. I'm just like,

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Speaker 5: it's been way too long I haven't heard from you,

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Speaker 5: and I'm just like so relieved now because like I

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, no, I mean I genuinely don't either. I'm

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, this is this is awesome, Like this is

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Speaker 4: Yes, Yeah, I'm totally excited. Cool, but just quick, why

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Speaker 4: I Julia like, I am technically married, so I just

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Speaker 4: I hope that's whatever.

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Speaker 1: Wait wait wait did you say.

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Speaker 4: Married when yeah, I'm technically married.

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Speaker 2: What technically mean? You're either married or you're not married?

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Speaker 1: I'm just what you gotta explain? You got to explain

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Speaker 1: to us the crazy or the honeymoon? Did you get

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Speaker 4: No? No, no, no, nothing crazy like that. It was

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Speaker 4: our like five year anniversary.

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Speaker 2: Hold up, are you in like an open relationship. Does

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Speaker 4: Well no, I mean not technically, no, Like I don't know.

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Speaker 4: Everybody's doing this nowadays.

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Speaker 2: No, that's cheating. That's cheating you. What you're doing is cheating.

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Speaker 4: Bro.

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Speaker 1: Did you not hear everybody is doing this now? He's

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Speaker 2: Marriage photos of her with his friend.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we we heard that. Then you and your friends

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't, yeah, but then you would just claim that

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Speaker 3: it's your buddy's wife or girlfriend or whatever because it's

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Speaker 4: My wife doesn't know.

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Speaker 2: I was like totally angry right now.

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Speaker 5: I mean then I can't believe you did it to me.

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Speaker 5: You should have told me this right away.

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Speaker 4: Well, I know, it's just like kind of an uncomfortable

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Speaker 5: It's but you should bring it right away.

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Speaker 4: It's a fair uncomfortable thing to bring up front. They

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Speaker 1: You know now, Yeah, like it does soften the blow just.

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Speaker 5: Then this is not going to work.

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Speaker 4: Well, hold on, hold on, how about we just go

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Speaker 2: You can, you should.

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Speaker 3: You have to tell his wife, you have to out,

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Speaker 3: you have to let her know, you got to find.

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Speaker 2: You should listen to this.

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Speaker 4: Yes, yeah, no, that's already happened. It's fine, Like it's

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Speaker 2: Like that is the grossest response.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's a woman that's willing to believe whatever her

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Speaker 3: Reason.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't say it was a good thing. I'm

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Speaker 1: just saying it's rare. Unfortunately, I have seen things like

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Speaker 4: Just don't care.

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Speaker 1: According to Ben, a lot of married couples are doing

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Speaker 4: But not do we feel bad, Jeff, because like we're

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Speaker 4: involved now, like I don't want to say solicitate cheating.

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Speaker 2: We're not. We're not asking them to go on a

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Speaker 1: We already asked and they already both said yes.

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Speaker 2: Take backs, Jeff. We're not giving you a gift card. Ben,

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Speaker 2: you don't deserve a gift card.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're giving it to your wife.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, actually like that.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she's gonna take him to dinner, guys, are.

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Speaker 1: He's gonna feel guilty the whole time?

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Speaker 2: Poor Julia?

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Speaker 1: Julia, you doing okay?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna be fine. I just gotta keep dating.

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Speaker 3: This is an easy answer, right, Like he's married is

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Speaker 3: a very thing to walk away from. Can you believe

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Speaker 3: now you have to ask dudes before you go on

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Speaker 2: Like, what a ridiculous question you.

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Speaker 1: Have to ask do you have a girlfriend? And then

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Speaker 1: have a follow up do you also have a wife? Wait?

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Speaker 4: Wait for the guys, they're not going to tell you

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Speaker 1: Wait, that's fair, that's good advice.

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Speaker 2: Actually, Ben sucks, Ben.

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Speaker 1: Ben, I gotta say you are the most upstanding sucky

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Speaker 1: person that we've ever hand on the show. He gave

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Speaker 1: some good advice. Don't believe men, I no one learned anything.

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Speaker 1: I certainly didn't. Jeffrey in the morning, Okay, Wow, big

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Speaker 1: emotional response in the studio from that one, for sure?

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Speaker 2: Did you not have an emotional response to that?

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 1: The guy kept insisting it's more normal now for married

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Speaker 3: So what cheeter says, Jeff, his wife doesn't even know

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Speaker 3: that he's doing it. Yeah, sure, different if they had

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Speaker 1: I have to look it up though, to see if

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Speaker 1: he was right. And according to a twenty twenty three study,

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Speaker 2: But he's the dumbest study a good website.

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Speaker 3: We do know even if the science came back and

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Speaker 1: Well, that he's just part of the status quo. The

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Speaker 1: they are cheating said it's cool. Everybody's doing it. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's the new nineteen eighties marijuana. It's cool, man, everybody's

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure where people lie. Some cheater just text

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Speaker 1: it in. Oh great, we lost the cheating demo. Darn it,

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Speaker 1: I am an upstanding cheating but text in to seven, eight, five,

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Speaker 1: second date update great and if you need help with

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Speaker 1: your dating life, married or single, we'll try and help

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Speaker 1: you out. We'll call that person hopefully single. We'll call

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