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Speaker 1: What's up y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl, Lex Peete and it's your Garl Dre

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Speaker 2: and the Cold and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Mind.

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Speaker 3: Wherever Mine speaks sober thought.

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Speaker 4: We got some guests today, Yes, today.

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Speaker 2: We got some guests. It was this my celebrance be

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Speaker 2: load the.

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Speaker 1: Dread takeing up of a wine cooler.

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Speaker 4: She's like, we ouside I was lit on Saturday?

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Speaker 2: Was that? Oh yeah? We remember? On my left I

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Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I couldn't make it. No, yeah, you

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Speaker 2: left early.

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Speaker 4: I was waiting on my ma Sorilla bits and Boocaloo

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Speaker 4: had me fucked up because they never came.

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Speaker 1: That's why I loved.

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Speaker 2: I knew my food wasn't coming, Like anyways, girl, okay,

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Speaker 2: where's my food?

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Speaker 1: Hey, y'all special guest today.

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Speaker 2: I am super excited because you know what, I absolutely

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Speaker 2: love black women in this space of podcast me. I

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Speaker 2: love you collab with the black women. Need to see

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Speaker 2: women just really doing that ship. And most importantly, I

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Speaker 2: like to see people do this ship and being consistent.

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Speaker 2: And I would say y'all have been consistent. Y'all have

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Speaker 2: a really really great show. We came before, so we

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Speaker 2: have Oh we Talked Back podcast.

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Speaker 5: Thank y'all for having.

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Speaker 1: Us in the work.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it really is, because what it be like a year.

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Speaker 6: While Yeah, y'all had your lives y'all, Yes.

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Speaker 1: So introduce y'allself?

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Speaker 7: Who first?

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Speaker 5: YEA, So I'm tam Man official tam Bown.

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Speaker 8: We talked back, y'all to into our show too, similar

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Speaker 8: to these ladies little.

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Speaker 1: Older were.

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Speaker 6: We retired and I'm a j holiday, y'all would say.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so how do we y'all say?

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Speaker 2: Y'all's personality types are personality because like on the show,

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Speaker 2: like I'm the ratchet, I'm down, I could be obnoxious,

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Speaker 2: and dres are more like funny, calm, read you down.

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Speaker 2: She knows how to read stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: I guess I'm I'm we're both funny.

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Speaker 8: But I think I like, I don't take ship serious,

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Speaker 8: Like you can be talking about the most serious ship

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Speaker 8: and I'm gonna find a way to make a joke

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Speaker 8: about Okay, so yeah, you right.

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Speaker 6: In the world, but it's like no, but for real,

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Speaker 6: it's not bounce.

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Speaker 2: Is for real?

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Speaker 4: This licks to a tea like we were talking about

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Speaker 4: the most serious and she'd be.

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Speaker 2: Like, okay, but what a decade where it is. We

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Speaker 2: are dying. But if the world is in there.

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Speaker 1: What a decade I mean before? Yeah, so I'm not wrong.

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Speaker 4: Because I ain't gonna lie. We was all about to die,

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Speaker 4: I'd be looking for some wrong shocking trying to die beside.

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Speaker 5: Okay, I'm gonna do some coke and some dig.

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Speaker 4: Wait a minute, because this meanwhile instag The other day

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Speaker 4: it was like I done cross a lot of lines,

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Speaker 4: but I ain't sniffed.

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Speaker 2: One mother the world and then you sniffing coke?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why not right?

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Speaker 2: Because you want to be kind of like where you

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Speaker 2: don't care. You don't want to be sober when the

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Speaker 2: world is bro like, you gotta be focused. Yeah, why

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Speaker 2: y'all niggas dying early. I'm living to tell a story, y'all.

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Speaker 6: When you live in five most living in the New World,

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Speaker 6: y'all gonna be gone because y'all bitches in the pig.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm gonna go out on my own, accord. I

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Speaker 2: would love to be high as fu, drunk as fun,

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Speaker 2: all that ship r some deep. That's a good way

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Speaker 2: to go out.

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Speaker 1: Come on up to the.

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Speaker 2: Dark side, nigga gonna turn this.

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Speaker 4: Bad way to die, bad way to go Okay, I

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Speaker 4: don't know how we die.

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Speaker 2: I knew you was gonna do this, you gotta and

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Speaker 2: they went focus. Yes, girl like.

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Speaker 3: She was sucking his nigga and he died on top

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Speaker 6: It's a case where white guy got off because he

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Speaker 6: his wife was giving him head and he actually showed

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Speaker 6: his dick in court because she choke.

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Speaker 2: He choked her, chilked her with the dick. Oh my gosh. Yes,

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Speaker 2: he got off because it was.

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Speaker 6: He was talking, this isn't American now exactly choking that

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Speaker 6: bitch making a cry?

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Speaker 5: Know how to go down?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I know how I've seen a light of futures.

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Speaker 6: That ship clay Sis is doing its.

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Speaker 1: Breathing colors, bitch, lord knows.

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Speaker 2: That's why you know I feel.

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Speaker 1: Okay, ladies, so we don't talk about we talked.

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Speaker 2: Back for a second.

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Speaker 1: So how did the how did the show come about?

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Speaker 2: Like with y'all to it? You know, Charlamagne said he

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Speaker 2: had black effect coming.

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Speaker 6: I'm like, man, put us on me and Tammy had

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Speaker 6: already been talking about doing a podcast, okay, because we'll

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Speaker 6: be on the phone for hours talking about bullshit, right,

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Speaker 6: joking mine as well.

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Speaker 2: So it's the it's the brother hook up.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Friends, ooh, sorry.

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Speaker 5: It's going to tell our age.

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Speaker 8: We listen, we met with like two thousand and three

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Speaker 8: college y'all.

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Speaker 2: Friends in college, y'all could have been to two years old.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, y'all was ahead of the game.

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Speaker 2: You know, that's what happened.

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Speaker 5: Our moms was homegirls. That's what it was, right, happen.

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Speaker 2: So two thousand and three, y'all met, and y'all been

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Speaker 2: so talk about because we talk about this a lot,

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Speaker 2: talk about being friends and running a business together. Talk

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Speaker 2: about that because how I know for us, y'all, y'all,

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Speaker 2: I think that that's very inspirational to a lot of people,

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Speaker 2: because honestly, it's not easy.

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Speaker 4: And I think sometimes you know, when people see you

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Speaker 4: on camera and they see you getting along, they don't

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Speaker 4: see the things they go behind the thing talking.

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Speaker 1: To you, right, I know.

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Speaker 8: I mean, we definitely have our issues, but at the

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Speaker 8: end of the day, that's my sister, you know, Like

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Speaker 8: I might be mad at her, but we're still gonna

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Speaker 8: get our business right now.

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Speaker 2: I don't know some movies.

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Speaker 5: So we love each other.

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Speaker 6: I would not want to be doing this with anybody else.

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Speaker 6: And yeah, solid across the board, but I'm glad that

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Speaker 6: you said that because I feel like the same thing, like,

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Speaker 6: because people ask us that a lot, and I think

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Speaker 6: it's a difference from saying like, oh, I work with

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Speaker 6: my best friend versus working with my sister, you know,

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Speaker 6: like your best friend, Like y'all cool.

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Speaker 1: Y'all talk all day.

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Speaker 2: It's easy because it's just a friendship with no pressure.

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Speaker 2: Like I always say, like, this is my sister because

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Speaker 2: we're family, and family gonna fight. It's not always gonna

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Speaker 2: be perfect. So it's much different from having a sister

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Speaker 2: versus having a best friend, you know, because you and

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Speaker 2: your sister.

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Speaker 1: Ain't always gonna get along, you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 4: I mean, And so you just can't do business with everybody, right,

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Speaker 4: you know what I mean. You gotta work with somebody

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Speaker 4: where I feel like, like you said, no matter if

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Speaker 4: y'all not getting along, you still handle the bees in

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Speaker 4: any relationships because I feel like you can put up

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Speaker 4: with from somebody else, right yeah, because some people, but

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Speaker 4: some people will really let that affect the bees. It's

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Speaker 4: like they're like, well, I'm not fucking with you, so

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Speaker 4: I'm not coming to work.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, some disrespect to do this rightly.

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Speaker 2: Suck it up.

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Speaker 8: I just feel like even if it wasn't contractual, we

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Speaker 8: would still show up. Yeah, not just because you know

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Speaker 8: we love each other.

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Speaker 5: But it's fun. I enjoyed it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it make me happy.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna show up regardless.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's always fun doing something when they don't feel like.

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Speaker 6: Work, right, I don't like I don't like ship that

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Speaker 6: feel like work, girl, work.

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Speaker 2: Do feel sure, for sure, But for most of the time,

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Speaker 2: it's like we get to come in here, get drunk,

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Speaker 2: speaking up, getting drawnk real quick, tyle, what are we

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Speaker 2: drinking on today?

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Speaker 1: Because I'm feeling a little warm and.

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Speaker 10: Yes, girl, so today, y'all, we are sipping on the

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Speaker 10: case of the x so. Last night I had a

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Speaker 10: little rendez who have to spend a block on my ex.

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Speaker 2: This is a dedication to that one.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 10: So in this song, we have some peak schnops, we

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Speaker 10: have some cranberry juice, a little lemon juice, and then

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Speaker 10: we have a little bit of simple sir of just

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Speaker 10: to give a little sweetness on that thing. All right,

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Speaker 10: So good hows.

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Speaker 2: Www dot so mixy dot com.

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Speaker 6: Period yes' get mixed the now real quick.

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Speaker 2: Before we get into these topics, I just have something

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Speaker 2: I have to get off my chest. I would like

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Speaker 2: to give baby face some pussy.

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Speaker 1: Babyface, Kenneth Edmonds bench.

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Speaker 2: About to say, Raymond, let me tell ya something. I

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Speaker 2: seen him in concert the other day and I was

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Speaker 2: just amazed. He came out with that cuban on, bitch,

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Speaker 2: and he said, this is full of I said he had. Well,

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Speaker 2: see he had like a little button up on. You know,

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Speaker 2: older people, they love sparkles. They think sparkles are like cool,

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Speaker 2: but badazza they love a badana. Yeah, so he had

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Speaker 2: on this bedazo blazer which I can look past.

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Speaker 1: I can look past that. You look a lot of me.

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Speaker 6: I like that.

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Speaker 1: I'm a bedazzled with you when he up button that blazer.

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Speaker 1: And I've seen that cuban and.

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Speaker 4: He had a little he was dancing, bitch, so what's

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Speaker 4: wrong with a bedazzle neck?

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Speaker 2: But he can't have a bedazzle jackie because I don't

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Speaker 2: like that.

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Speaker 1: It's a difference between.

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Speaker 2: Don you can't think you can't pick give me that.

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Speaker 2: Give me that and I'll give you a rhyme stone.

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Speaker 7: He had.

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Speaker 1: Had and you have both on because you still have

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Speaker 1: this one leftover, this one, So give me this one,

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Speaker 1: and maybe it's all.

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Speaker 2: I'm saying what you say, you saying, it don't matter

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Speaker 2: if it mixed.

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Speaker 1: Give me this one and I'll give you another one

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Speaker 1: Ron song.

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Speaker 2: Since it's okay to mean Swart secres.

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Speaker 3: No, that's not what I'm saying, saying, because that ain't cute?

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Speaker 1: Is that at all? I feel like, give me some

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Speaker 1: ship they be bedazzled and bejeweled. I didn't thinking.

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Speaker 4: Jeans, y'all the girl would be cute when they be

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Speaker 4: having on that little New Year's Eve out.

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Speaker 1: Things with the girls.

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Speaker 2: The girls, I didn't say me neither.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just let me cut some Tom.

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Speaker 8: But it's all good with babyface until he starts sweating

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Speaker 2: And you got a whole episode about whole episode about Beijing,

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Speaker 2: Then I woke up and looked at the nigga and

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Speaker 2: there his hair was going.

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Speaker 1: It was on the pillow. So yeah, a little bagin

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Speaker 2: Like you know what. Actually, I don't like bald heads,

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Speaker 6: The ball had head and it can't be bad and

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a little balanced, but bald head niggas be

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Speaker 4: giving big unk vibes.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to daok.

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Speaker 2: I literally am not lying.

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Speaker 4: See, all of my uncles are bald, and I cannot

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Speaker 1: Me of my own Morris Chestnut.

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Speaker 4: I'm uncle he fine as fuck though, right, No bald

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Speaker 4: niggas that be fine.

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Speaker 2: I really don't know.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: I can't remember the last time I've seen like a

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Speaker 2: like no reason. These niggas get mad.

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Speaker 5: We what y'all feel about?

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Speaker 2: That had a do rag going at the gym? I

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Speaker 4: It got to be he using bold How long is

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Speaker 4: that ship don't come off when I run my fingers tho, I.

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Speaker 8: Don't like, I'm not, but y'all do that as long

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Speaker 8: as it look good, long as he keep it, your hair,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I want my nigga want to

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Speaker 2: get his lace right the same day, like asking me

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Speaker 2: to do this ship, Why no, I don't. I would

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Speaker 2: rather you just go ball. It's a double standard they got.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I love a double standing.

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Speaker 2: I wouldn't be mad at it. Now if if you

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Speaker 2: deceived me, that's different. Like if I didn't know that

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Speaker 2: you'd be wearing lace.

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Speaker 6: He's got this closet to Yeah, you don't know, by

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Speaker 6: the way, this is a lace hair because I'm killed,

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Speaker 2: How I was somebody gonna know, seriously, if it's gonna

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Speaker 2: they don't.

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Speaker 4: They don't know if that's real or because three months

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Speaker 2: You don't know your Instagram exactly. Hey, how you doing

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Speaker 2: first day that my hair? This isn't real.

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Speaker 5: You're not gonna say that he's clipping, So how is he?

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Speaker 2: How is he gonna? You know?

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Speaker 1: And see, maybe you're right.

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Speaker 4: Maybe that's where I be having a double standard because

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Speaker 7: Comes out.

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Speaker 2: Why they're wearing two pigs?

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Speaker 1: Missedic what back in the day.

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Speaker 3: Definitely really nas been wearing weed for a long time.

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Speaker 6: A Dominican Republic like they wear that ship they do

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Speaker 6: to me, we have box braids. I was in my

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Speaker 2: Had we would you give a nigga with some box braids?

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Speaker 11: No?

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Speaker 2: No, And I ain't in your ship. I'm not doing it.

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Speaker 1: Where am I am I the man? Am I on vacation?

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Speaker 2: So it depends on the culture.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, if it's like that's not acceptable because he exotic,

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Speaker 4: you all fucking.

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Speaker 7: Like this is.

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Speaker 2: Be pulling that nigga here from about it. But because

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Speaker 2: he's just black and he got the light, say that

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Speaker 2: that's what is heavy?

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Speaker 12: There is he a discriminatory you know, there's just like

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Speaker 12: hr she's like a weak person and she being the

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Speaker 12: lights sprints on white men.

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Speaker 2: All of our customers men been wearing too pigs like

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Speaker 2: relate to the party, right, you know, whatever the men

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Speaker 2: have to do for their confidence, we be described.

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Speaker 1: It's not too hard on you.

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Speaker 5: We do we are way too hard on them.

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Speaker 2: I'd so much if you got life off his life

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Speaker 2: on ship. My home boy got a six pag. He

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Speaker 2: got the ship cut up in his own Oh right

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Speaker 2: from Milana. I know that's right, home boy. Yeah. Would

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Speaker 2: you date not necessarily your homeboard, a guy who has

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Speaker 1: As long as the nigga don't.

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Speaker 4: Got BBL good both of us walking around the house

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Speaker 4: in all.

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Speaker 2: You know you gotta wear. I'm not gonna.

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Speaker 8: Like a wrapping around one. They ask ain't any if

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Speaker 8: they ask. I don't want my asking.

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Speaker 5: If I.

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Speaker 2: Broat, I'm asking who your doctor is? B No, I

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Speaker 2: don't like that. I've always dated men that are like

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Speaker 2: kind of live a healthy lifestyle and they're like always

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Speaker 2: Maybe I haven't. He just didn't tell me.

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Speaker 1: But I would just rather not know.

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Speaker 2: I would rather not know because honestly, sometimes I don't

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Speaker 2: disclose to men that I'm dating that I've had surgery,

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Speaker 2: you know, like it's just how comfortable a public figure now?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean sometimes I feel like sometimes I

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Speaker 2: so I don't say you know and sometimes I do.

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Speaker 3: And if he my man, then that mean we fucking

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Speaker 3: so like I could see the war wounds.

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Speaker 2: Right there, war man and the girls.

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Speaker 1: Who I mean, you know if you're in that life,

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Speaker 1: Oh if you know what you know?

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Speaker 2: Man, where's your niggas be knowing when they say, be like,

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Speaker 2: oh I've got and I'm not doing it again? Fuck

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Speaker 2: that exactly. Okay, we're gonna get into these topics today.

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Speaker 1: So first, before we start, is everybody here single?

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Speaker 2: Everybody's here?

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Speaker 5: Well, I know you are single.

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Speaker 2: Damn, I ain't no know how to act this. Something

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Speaker 2: changed within the last hour that I talked to you.

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Speaker 1: No, okay, just checking, Sorry, sister.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So today we're going to talk about the single

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Speaker 2: women living essentials, Like what is it as a single

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Speaker 2: woman do you love having in your home and with

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Speaker 2: like living alone? Because I feel like what I've noticed

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Speaker 2: to the point to where they feel like, Okay, if

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Speaker 2: I get in a relationship or I get married, we're

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Speaker 2: gonna have to have a separate space or a separate home.

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Speaker 2: So what is it about our space as single women

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Speaker 2: that we love and we have to have and that's essential?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Our bathroom? Yes, I needthom My Rose.

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Speaker 5: That's my best friend as of lately.

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Speaker 1: Your rolls the toy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so you can't masturbate from your man or you

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Speaker 2: don't feel comfortable.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, you're saying with my man, what do I need?

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Speaker 2: Essential?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 4: Okay, so like you need that in your own Yeah, okay, okay,

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Speaker 4: got you. Okay, that makes you can't survive as a

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Speaker 4: single woman without a vibrator.

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Speaker 1: No you can't, you can't.

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Speaker 2: You're right. That makes so cute.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we got the rolls, the clean bathroom.

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Speaker 2: What else? Wine linens, a.

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Speaker 6: Good mattress, pillows, no flat pillows, Like the mattress is

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Speaker 2: Hello, niggas, don't be having head born Niggasiggers don't have

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Speaker 2: haird boys. I mean, I feel like in my younger days,

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Speaker 2: in my younger days, I definitely went to a nigga house.

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Speaker 2: And I'm not gonna lie, y'all, I'm telling on myself,

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Speaker 2: but I always say, LEXP went through this, so you

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Speaker 1: I walked in and he had like lawn chairs around

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Speaker 1: the table for Did I fuck him? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: In the launches maybe, but I grow.

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Speaker 1: I've grown.

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Speaker 4: It's no.

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Speaker 2: It's like I noticed, a man who takes care of

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Speaker 2: his home is a man who takes care of himself.

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Speaker 4: In my younger days, niggas definitely did not have headboards.

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Speaker 4: My head definitely hit the sheet rocks.

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Speaker 1: Nigga got make up on the wall. You know, I'm

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Speaker 1: ringing them textured walls, bitch.

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Speaker 2: So yeah, I don't like that. That's definitely an unnegotiable.

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Speaker 2: You gotta have a She was talking about mattresses too.

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Speaker 2: Y'all have to spend money on your mattress.

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Speaker 6: Chanted out every eight years, nigga, it's full of skin cell.

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Speaker 2: Everybody.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie, y'all.

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Speaker 2: I had a situation one time where I seen a

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Speaker 2: nigga mattress and I stopped talking to him. Yeah, like

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Speaker 2: the fish she had came up and I was like, God,

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Speaker 2: are you is everything okay? Are you well? It was

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Speaker 2: so sick.

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Speaker 1: It was so sick.

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Speaker 2: So yes, change out your mattress every one eight years,

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Speaker 2: said eight years, you're supposed to switch it out. And also,

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Speaker 2: like I said and rotated pin money on your mattress,

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Speaker 2: rotated your linen, your linen, yes, men women for that ship.

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Speaker 2: I literally bought the guy what.

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Speaker 6: I bought him a pair of shees for just so

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Speaker 6: I can be Comfortable's.

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Speaker 2: Important like that, she said, I have that costs four

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Speaker 2: hundred dollars, right, but it's they're good. It's somebody fucked

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Speaker 2: on those sheeps. Somebody fucked on those sheets. Soever. I

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Speaker 2: She would have been changed. It's all the ship. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: she said that, I'm gonna start buying niggas new.

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Speaker 3: She it's a good great.

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Speaker 2: I never really.

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Speaker 6: That like.

448
00:21:40,840 --> 00:21:47,560
Speaker 2: Period. I don't worry about that. Okay, so we got mattresses.

449
00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:52,200
Speaker 2: She's the essentials in our household. What else we got?

450
00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:54,600
Speaker 2: I said, wine? Even though I don't. We haven't win

451
00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 2: at my house.

452
00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:58,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so this I do feel like you need to

453
00:21:58,040 --> 00:21:58,440
Speaker 1: have a food.

454
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:02,040
Speaker 2: You need to have wine. I think whenever I have company,

455
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:06,240
Speaker 2: unexpectedly expecting them, whatever, I have a full bar. So

456
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,480
Speaker 2: whatever you want to drink, you know, it's it's all

457
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. So that is definitely like

458
00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 2: a single woman essential. I feel like we all pretty much.

459
00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,119
Speaker 1: Have like a full bar in or house of wine,

460
00:22:17,560 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: wine glasses.

461
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,119
Speaker 5: Like, but that's new for me because I used to

462
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,159
Speaker 5: just have like different strains of weed. Like what you

463
00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,320
Speaker 5: want to say, but that's something you know.

464
00:22:25,560 --> 00:22:28,040
Speaker 2: When you want to own wine. Yeah, you need a

465
00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:29,959
Speaker 2: little but if somebody come over and slog, you got

466
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:32,639
Speaker 2: they got options, right, I'm not gonna lie. I have

467
00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,960
Speaker 2: a lot of edibles at my house. I don't smoke,

468
00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:36,440
Speaker 2: but if somebody want to come you want a little,

469
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,120
Speaker 2: I got.

470
00:22:37,040 --> 00:22:38,680
Speaker 1: A little snack for you, little one too.

471
00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 2: I like to have a house that can host people

472
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:45,359
Speaker 2: at any given time. So I think that is another

473
00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:48,680
Speaker 2: good single woman that this was essentials you needed when

474
00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:54,920
Speaker 2: you get a man. Them well, like I said in

475
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,320
Speaker 2: the beginning, like women when they move with me and

476
00:22:57,400 --> 00:23:00,159
Speaker 2: they or when they get married, they always say have

477
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:03,159
Speaker 2: to have own house. And I feel like why, like

478
00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 2: why do we need our own spaces? Because I feel

479
00:23:05,200 --> 00:23:06,720
Speaker 2: like the stuff that we do and we look for

480
00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:09,280
Speaker 2: they don't look for it. And then if we do

481
00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,200
Speaker 2: combine with them, we're spending ten hours a day cleaning

482
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:14,879
Speaker 2: up after they as So, yes, I want to have

483
00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 2: my own space because my bar is always full. And

484
00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:20,440
Speaker 2: you know what, when we finished something, we replace it.

485
00:23:21,280 --> 00:23:23,399
Speaker 2: They finish a bottle of liquor and it's gonna be

486
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 2: gone for four months.

487
00:23:24,880 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 3: Well, she has said a gun a gun, and that's

488
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:27,400
Speaker 3: a good one.

489
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:29,160
Speaker 2: I'm scared of goods, bitch.

490
00:23:31,680 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: Yes, I got a gun in my house.

491
00:23:35,200 --> 00:23:41,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, I gotta run up and get you go to

492
00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 2: get a gun tomorrow, all right, but you definitely need

493
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 2: that in your house. Okay.

494
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:46,359
Speaker 1: That's definitely my.

495
00:23:46,440 --> 00:23:48,640
Speaker 2: First pistol when I moved to Atlanta. Have you ever shot?

496
00:23:49,520 --> 00:23:49,560
Speaker 12: No?

497
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 2: I can't wait. Though.

498
00:23:50,680 --> 00:23:51,880
Speaker 1: Have you ever had to pull it out?

499
00:23:52,119 --> 00:23:54,200
Speaker 2: Because you know they say you you you gotta use it.

500
00:23:54,280 --> 00:23:57,520
Speaker 2: If you pull it out, you have.

501
00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 6: It wasn't out out.

502
00:23:59,119 --> 00:24:00,520
Speaker 2: It was like so me.

503
00:24:01,080 --> 00:24:03,240
Speaker 8: It was a nigga like acting real crazy. But he

504
00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:05,480
Speaker 8: was coming up on my car door. He was by

505
00:24:05,560 --> 00:24:08,879
Speaker 8: yourself the door. Yeah you was ready, like all right,

506
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:10,159
Speaker 8: come on, pull his hand on.

507
00:24:10,359 --> 00:24:13,040
Speaker 5: Yeah yeah, he didn't see it though.

508
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:15,119
Speaker 1: No sense to hold it up.

509
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:16,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, down here.

510
00:24:16,440 --> 00:24:17,600
Speaker 1: So you don't know what term it is?

511
00:24:17,960 --> 00:24:18,200
Speaker 11: Yeah?

512
00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,679
Speaker 2: See, I'm so, I'm really bad anxiety and I'm scary.

513
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,080
Speaker 2: So I could order some pizza, bitch, pizza man knocking.

514
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:27,800
Speaker 1: A bowl bus his ass because I'm just jumping.

515
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 6: I got a gun, whole ass nigga, give me a

516
00:24:31,600 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 6: different type of power, and I wanted him like, let

517
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:36,399
Speaker 6: the mother fuckers do.

518
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, So that's why I feel like I just

519
00:24:40,000 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 2: be really like scary with guns. Like guns, I'm just

520
00:24:43,440 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: like my friend, He's been trying to take me to

521
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 2: the gun range.

522
00:24:45,800 --> 00:24:48,359
Speaker 1: For the longst. I'm scared jokes.

523
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,200
Speaker 2: I'm like, what is stopping somebody on the side, like

524
00:24:51,400 --> 00:24:54,439
Speaker 2: shooting me or something. My mind, I have the sickest

525
00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:56,760
Speaker 2: mind ever. I watched too much true crime, so I

526
00:24:56,880 --> 00:24:58,639
Speaker 2: just always be like looking like if somebody walks in

527
00:24:58,680 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 2: here right now, what would I do? Already?

528
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:00,280
Speaker 9: On the.

529
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:04,040
Speaker 5: You want a gun in your hand?

530
00:25:04,080 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I love like a scary movie, like I'd be

531
00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,120
Speaker 6: ready and little ship hidden, y'all.

532
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 2: Crazy.

533
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,560
Speaker 3: The other night, I do not be prepared. I'll be

534
00:25:12,640 --> 00:25:13,359
Speaker 3: sleeping naked.

535
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 4: I'll be sleeping naked. This shit, Why you be sleeping naked?

536
00:25:22,119 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 4: You act like nothing.

537
00:25:26,600 --> 00:25:29,480
Speaker 2: But he was like, no, you gotta be ready, like somebody.

538
00:25:31,480 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: What if it's a fire, Oh my god.

539
00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 2: It's the fire.

540
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:39,160
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie y'all.

541
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 2: My power went out the other night, like it was

542
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:43,640
Speaker 2: some shortage in my area. The whole apartments went out,

543
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: and I couldn't help but think, like, what if this

544
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,080
Speaker 2: is like what's that movie called where they get to

545
00:25:48,200 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: kill for one night? The perds. I was like, oh

546
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 2: my god, if somebody beat somebody? So all I did, y'all,

547
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 2: let me tell you. I win got my butcher knife

548
00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:56,359
Speaker 2: and I was just sitting in the bed. Then my

549
00:25:56,440 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 2: phone was on tempercent. I was sitting in bed like

550
00:25:58,320 --> 00:26:03,639
Speaker 2: this and you was naked, nod.

551
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 1: That you was naked.

552
00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be naked during the purge, but you know what.

553
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 6: You're right, Maybe I'll consider trying to go to the

554
00:26:14,880 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 6: gun range.

555
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:17,800
Speaker 2: I don't mean to the gun range, but that bank

556
00:26:17,840 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 2: ain't no joke.

557
00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:20,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, bitch, that just made me bust my lips.

558
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah. I think it was small and I

559
00:26:24,880 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: still was jumpy.

560
00:26:26,560 --> 00:26:27,960
Speaker 1: Didn't a can't have a song about that.

561
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:33,879
Speaker 2: I got my nine milame. He acon that was it

562
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:38,480
Speaker 2: was ain't going right, No, it was maybe it was

563
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:39,040
Speaker 2: on the hook.

564
00:26:39,200 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 1: He was on the hook.

565
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:43,600
Speaker 2: He said something about it line that are you googlely need?

566
00:26:44,200 --> 00:26:52,400
Speaker 2: Oh okay, okay, okay, So we need one more essential?

567
00:26:52,560 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 2: What is like something crucial that's essential for a single woman?

568
00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,960
Speaker 2: Living by herself. And while we love living by oursel,

569
00:27:02,240 --> 00:27:05,960
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie my fucking quiet. Peace. Yes, when

570
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 2: you ask a man like what they want from a woman,

571
00:27:08,240 --> 00:27:10,200
Speaker 2: they always say peace. But a lot of these niggas

572
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:11,560
Speaker 2: they're not They.

573
00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: Don't even how to maintain piece.

574
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 2: They don't have Heilita piece. So peace is really what

575
00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 2: women want. Yes, and I love that.

576
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: Like when I've been working, you know, the one day

577
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 1: work a week, I love.

578
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:28,919
Speaker 6: To come home to an empty time has strained me today, yes, yes, like.

579
00:27:29,000 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 2: I like to come home and like she said, I

580
00:27:31,119 --> 00:27:34,000
Speaker 2: do like to puss out, like I'm trying to chill

581
00:27:34,040 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 2: and kick it. I don't want nobody ask me no

582
00:27:35,800 --> 00:27:38,680
Speaker 2: questions like and a lot of times, like when I'm

583
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:42,080
Speaker 2: doing work, especially for the show, I don't need nobody

584
00:27:42,119 --> 00:27:43,520
Speaker 2: in my ear talking, like when I'm trying to go

585
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,680
Speaker 2: through like my creative things or like thinking of topics

586
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:47,040
Speaker 2: that we want to talk about are things that we

587
00:27:47,119 --> 00:27:50,240
Speaker 2: want to do differently, I don't need a lot of like, oh,

588
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:54,600
Speaker 2: what's for briffits? What for lunch? Like peace and quiet

589
00:27:54,760 --> 00:27:57,280
Speaker 2: is so that's such an important thing.

590
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:02,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, what our show first launch, the very first episode,

591
00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:03,320
Speaker 6: I was engaged at the time.

592
00:28:03,640 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 2: I know that's right.

593
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:07,560
Speaker 6: Nigga came downstairs, like this first day of lunch, I'm

594
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,680
Speaker 6: looking at analytics trying to see like what I should

595
00:28:09,760 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 6: do and doing numbers. This nigga ain't talk to me

596
00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:14,600
Speaker 6: all morning. He came downstairs.

597
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:19,040
Speaker 2: I was like, are you a hope? I don't know.

598
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:22,119
Speaker 6: I had no initially, but then I put myself on

599
00:28:22,200 --> 00:28:25,640
Speaker 6: a celebratory lunch right and he called my motherfucker phone.

600
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,280
Speaker 2: I was like, you know, a matter of fact, I

601
00:28:27,400 --> 00:28:29,439
Speaker 2: am a whole Now, what you're gonna do by it? Right?

602
00:28:29,520 --> 00:28:30,280
Speaker 6: What you do?

603
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:31,440
Speaker 1: Who axed?

604
00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:31,520
Speaker 12: That?

605
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:35,640
Speaker 2: So so crack in real life and real time.

606
00:28:35,920 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 6: But yes, like when we first started, it was trying

607
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:39,640
Speaker 6: to figure.

608
00:28:39,440 --> 00:28:43,640
Speaker 2: Out, like you know, find ourn the third So yeah,

609
00:28:43,760 --> 00:28:46,959
Speaker 2: he was like, I'm an open book though, right right,

610
00:28:47,080 --> 00:28:47,760
Speaker 2: you know what you get.

611
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: You know what you got yourself into.

612
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,800
Speaker 6: That's not the nigga's like virgin holes they want to

613
00:28:51,840 --> 00:28:55,720
Speaker 6: be they could handstand, but never done it to nobody else.

614
00:28:55,640 --> 00:29:00,480
Speaker 2: Right, And it's not it's not it's not realistic, Like

615
00:29:00,600 --> 00:29:02,360
Speaker 2: let's let's be the fun for real now.

616
00:29:02,440 --> 00:29:04,920
Speaker 4: We say the same thing like if you don't date me,

617
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,760
Speaker 4: you gotta know what comes with you. I'm gonna talk

618
00:29:07,800 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 4: about she and I'm gonna say my feelings and i'm

619
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:10,880
Speaker 4: gonna say whatever I feel.

620
00:29:10,720 --> 00:29:14,640
Speaker 6: Like everything about you, and nine times out of it

621
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 6: probably is.

622
00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 2: Oh she is.

623
00:29:17,000 --> 00:29:18,360
Speaker 4: But at the end of the day, if you're not

624
00:29:18,480 --> 00:29:20,640
Speaker 4: comfortable dating somebody in the space, then you should.

625
00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 2: You shouldn't change myself. I'm just spit you in the box.

626
00:29:24,360 --> 00:29:26,520
Speaker 2: And they want, they want to the only want to

627
00:29:26,560 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 2: look at you. So don't be ready to be single?

628
00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:29,680
Speaker 2: Can y'all know?

629
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 5: Can y'all be submissive?

630
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:31,320
Speaker 2: Though?

631
00:29:31,560 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm dating somebody, I'm not completely what is dating?

632
00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:38,960
Speaker 2: What you steps? She love you?

633
00:29:39,080 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 6: In love?

634
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:43,120
Speaker 2: Yo, I'm just I'm just saying, Okay, I'll say this,

635
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:47,800
Speaker 2: we're both dating. I'm gonna loves.

636
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: She said I didn't hit wrong.

637
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 5: Oh my, she was a laty.

638
00:29:54,160 --> 00:29:56,280
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie there my neighborhood.

639
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,160
Speaker 2: Oh my, I'm just no, I feel like I'm not

640
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:03,840
Speaker 2: gonna lie. That was actually on my vision board for

641
00:30:03,880 --> 00:30:05,720
Speaker 2: this year. I think I do want to get in

642
00:30:05,760 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 2: a serious relationship and I'm just trying to understand what

643
00:30:11,400 --> 00:30:13,640
Speaker 2: I want because you know what I did in all

644
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:16,120
Speaker 2: my twenties. I spent my twenties, trying to figure out

645
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,520
Speaker 2: what men want and what I can do. And I'm like,

646
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,640
Speaker 2: you know what, half of these niggas I don't even want?

647
00:30:20,680 --> 00:30:21,600
Speaker 1: What about what I want?

648
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,520
Speaker 2: So I'm trying to really figure out what does a

649
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 2: long term relationship look like for me? Do I want

650
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:29,880
Speaker 2: to get married? Do I want to have kids? So

651
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: you want to be the only bass? You know what

652
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: I'm saying, like, cause you know I'm not gonna lie

653
00:30:34,440 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 2: like dating is fun. You know, you need to figure out, Oh.

654
00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:39,440
Speaker 6: I like this person, like I love first dates, oh

655
00:30:39,520 --> 00:30:41,920
Speaker 6: my god, and like the god I'm dating right now,

656
00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:43,600
Speaker 6: like we be having a ball bench.

657
00:30:43,800 --> 00:30:46,000
Speaker 2: So for me, I'm just trying to figure out what

658
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 2: I really want. But eventually, I do think I want

659
00:30:48,760 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 2: a person, you know, like somebody. I don't know what

660
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,160
Speaker 2: marriage looks like for me. I don't know what all

661
00:30:54,240 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: that because I'm just not there yet. I'm just realizing

662
00:30:57,280 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: this is the first time I'm like enjoying dating because

663
00:31:00,640 --> 00:31:02,920
Speaker 2: the first time well, well let me.

664
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 1: Not say enjoying like that.

665
00:31:04,440 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 2: I mean like, I'm just being more carefree about it

666
00:31:06,760 --> 00:31:08,200
Speaker 2: because in the past and all dated, I'm like, oh

667
00:31:08,240 --> 00:31:09,240
Speaker 2: my god, I gotta be a good girl.

668
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 1: I gott to be his peak, right, pussy over and

669
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: gotta be wet. I gotta know how to cook a

670
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:15,880
Speaker 1: steak and chocks.

671
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,240
Speaker 2: And I was like trying to be this woman.

672
00:31:17,280 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 6: I'm like, Okay, you know what, Yeah, because white women

673
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 6: get to date, we don't get to date.

674
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:23,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know what I'm saying, go to school, get

675
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:26,400
Speaker 2: your degree whatever. Don't worry about these men. Yeah.

676
00:31:27,640 --> 00:31:32,640
Speaker 6: While white women leave college, they go from their daddy's house, right.

677
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 2: Right, exactly, we don't get to say, you know so Honestly, Now,

678
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 2: with my career and I'm really comfortable financially, I'm not

679
00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,560
Speaker 2: gonna lie like I used to date, man because I

680
00:31:44,680 --> 00:31:44,920
Speaker 2: need it.

681
00:31:49,360 --> 00:31:51,320
Speaker 4: Yeah, as soon as the nigga stayed the wrong thing,

682
00:31:51,440 --> 00:31:53,240
Speaker 4: nigga about it, it, don't even worry about it.

683
00:31:54,360 --> 00:31:55,960
Speaker 2: They didn't hate to hear that. Don't worry about it.

684
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 2: I got my own money. I don't need you.

685
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,560
Speaker 1: I'm like, and I'm gonna talk about it.

686
00:32:01,560 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 2: I never.

687
00:32:06,960 --> 00:32:09,600
Speaker 1: You ain't never getting no pussy in this town again.

688
00:32:11,320 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 4: I'm quick to tell a nigga, I do not need

689
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 4: you because you out the game fucked up. I don't

690
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,880
Speaker 4: I don't care what you was doing. Somebody else will

691
00:32:19,000 --> 00:32:22,760
Speaker 4: do it. I don't need you specifically. I'm definitely not

692
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 4: a I want to be independent. I don't want a

693
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,800
Speaker 4: man the type of woman. I want a man, and

694
00:32:28,200 --> 00:32:30,680
Speaker 4: I want my man to understand it. You gotta do X,

695
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:33,440
Speaker 4: Y and Z to fuck with me and today. But

696
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:35,960
Speaker 4: at the end of the day, if this doesn't work

697
00:32:36,040 --> 00:32:38,680
Speaker 4: out and you tripping what you want to do, I

698
00:32:38,720 --> 00:32:40,160
Speaker 4: could find another nigga to do it.

699
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,000
Speaker 2: So I don't need your ass.

700
00:32:42,200 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: I feel like because I am.

701
00:32:44,640 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 5: So independent now that we let niggas go too quick.

702
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,160
Speaker 1: No, I'm always a damnse.

703
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:51,960
Speaker 2: On the street. It depends on the offense.

704
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:53,520
Speaker 7: To me.

705
00:32:54,440 --> 00:32:56,760
Speaker 2: I'm not just letting my nigga go off, no dumb shit,

706
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:58,280
Speaker 2: Yeah I'm not. I'm notating.

707
00:32:58,400 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 5: Is that a deal breaking?

708
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:08,280
Speaker 2: No? Repetitive? Is it repetitive if you're tricking on the

709
00:33:08,320 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 2: bit you're paying her problem? And what you mean about

710
00:33:11,800 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 2: the dec respect?

711
00:33:13,320 --> 00:33:14,160
Speaker 5: Like how he cheating?

712
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:15,840
Speaker 2: Is he all out? And you.

713
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 5: Just don't give a fuck about my feelings? You out

714
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,280
Speaker 5: here just doing it all.

715
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 2: The club.

716
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,080
Speaker 1: You on vacation, supposed to get fucked.

717
00:33:26,280 --> 00:33:28,120
Speaker 6: If you let my nigga come through at four am,

718
00:33:28,200 --> 00:33:29,160
Speaker 6: you're supposed to get fucked.

719
00:33:29,160 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 2: I an't even mad at him, so you wouldn't break up.

720
00:33:32,040 --> 00:33:32,800
Speaker 1: I'm not breaking up with you.

721
00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna feel some type of way like damn, But

722
00:33:35,800 --> 00:33:38,240
Speaker 2: I don't think that's breaking up of fence. You know

723
00:33:38,280 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 2: what I'm saying.

724
00:33:38,760 --> 00:33:44,120
Speaker 1: But understand that it goes both ways. Hoo ass nigga right.

725
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:47,080
Speaker 2: Cast out punk nigga.

726
00:33:47,800 --> 00:33:50,920
Speaker 4: Hello, I'm just not wining, no repetitive she like if

727
00:33:50,960 --> 00:33:54,120
Speaker 4: I found out that you cheated on me, but you

728
00:33:54,240 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 4: were remorseful about it, and I feel like you're just

729
00:33:56,240 --> 00:34:00,680
Speaker 4: not out here cheating consistently. It's something that happen, you

730
00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:03,760
Speaker 4: sorry about it. You know, I don't necessarily think I.

731
00:34:03,840 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 2: Was giving us. They ain't giving us one chance that

732
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:10,360
Speaker 2: they forgiving. They're not forgiving.

733
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,520
Speaker 1: They're not giving it in public like they don't want

734
00:34:12,560 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: to say that.

735
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: Let me tell you something, these men, woman, they forget if.

736
00:34:18,080 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 6: He cheat and he find out you the worst and

737
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 6: he give leave.

738
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:31,680
Speaker 2: For it, pay for that ship forever, niggas says, bread

739
00:34:31,719 --> 00:34:39,040
Speaker 2: winners for giving bitches for cheating, y'all, it's more, it's happening,

740
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:40,880
Speaker 2: more than what y'all think it is. I'll say that

741
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 2: you know what it is. Maybe that's why we don't

742
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:47,680
Speaker 2: think it is. When I'm talking about it's a certain

743
00:34:47,719 --> 00:34:49,759
Speaker 2: type of woman that could probably get away with it. Now,

744
00:34:49,840 --> 00:34:51,759
Speaker 2: if it's just a rich nigga, he just got he

745
00:34:51,840 --> 00:34:53,880
Speaker 2: got a girlfriend and she cool. He fun with her,

746
00:34:53,960 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 2: she cheeked. Yeah, he probably will leave. And I'm talking

747
00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,680
Speaker 2: like a man. If this is his wife or this

748
00:34:57,800 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 2: is somebody that's like invested in him. She's taking care

749
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 2: of home, she's taking care of kids.

750
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,239
Speaker 1: This niggas is not leaving. It's cheaper keeper.

751
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:11,839
Speaker 3: Gonna make you miserable, leave his ass at that point.

752
00:35:11,960 --> 00:35:15,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, like get the funk about it there. But these

753
00:35:17,920 --> 00:35:20,200
Speaker 2: I think what we need to realize too, we don't give.

754
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,600
Speaker 2: We have to realize that men are humans too. Don't

755
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:25,200
Speaker 2: make me take up for niggas because I hate y'all.

756
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,520
Speaker 2: I'm just playing. I don't hate y'all. Know what I'm saying.

757
00:35:29,480 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 2: Men are humans too, so we don't realize like they

758
00:35:31,800 --> 00:35:35,880
Speaker 2: be in love too. How we be emotional? They say

759
00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:40,800
Speaker 2: a woman scorn you better move. Tell you if this

760
00:35:40,960 --> 00:35:44,000
Speaker 2: is your best either you love her down, she helping

761
00:35:44,080 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 2: you with x y Z, she got your kids, you

762
00:35:46,440 --> 00:35:49,440
Speaker 2: love her, you feel like damn. Maybe y'all would I mean,

763
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,040
Speaker 2: I'm telling you they're not leaving like they're not leaving

764
00:35:52,080 --> 00:35:52,359
Speaker 2: like y'all.

765
00:35:52,400 --> 00:35:54,319
Speaker 6: I'm not saying leaving, but they're gonna give you hell

766
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:57,200
Speaker 6: get the ship, how we get over it to keep

767
00:35:57,239 --> 00:36:00,000
Speaker 6: the relationship going. They have stayed, but they're gonna get

768
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,000
Speaker 6: if you hell like they got thinking about how that

769
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:09,240
Speaker 6: nigga is sucking you and Toto cheat too, and I'm like, nigga,

770
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:11,000
Speaker 6: cheat and get it over with so you can leave

771
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 6: me the funck alone.

772
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:15,000
Speaker 5: And they're gonna keep cheating though that's the difference though.

773
00:36:15,040 --> 00:36:16,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I just I don't know.

774
00:36:16,360 --> 00:36:18,359
Speaker 3: I feel like niggas who can move how they want

775
00:36:18,400 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 3: to move.

776
00:36:18,760 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 4: It's not staying with no woman is cheating on him

777
00:36:21,120 --> 00:36:22,920
Speaker 4: because it doesn't matter that you're taking care of the

778
00:36:23,000 --> 00:36:26,120
Speaker 4: household and you. They can find another girl that'll be

779
00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,000
Speaker 4: happy as FuG to replace.

780
00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 6: You got quality, one good nigga, and you got one

781
00:36:37,080 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 6: nigga maybe And.

782
00:36:38,760 --> 00:36:41,840
Speaker 2: I'm skipped this one. We're kind of talking about this.

783
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:43,880
Speaker 2: I want to say. I want to talk about can

784
00:36:43,960 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 2: we can you be too honest when you're dating.

785
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:48,160
Speaker 6: Though I feel like women should lie. I've been saying

786
00:36:48,200 --> 00:36:49,440
Speaker 6: that ship all the last.

787
00:36:49,280 --> 00:36:53,920
Speaker 2: Couple of days. You need to tell everybody real pertinent,

788
00:36:55,280 --> 00:36:57,920
Speaker 2: detrimental ship, like it's some ship. I don't want to

789
00:36:57,960 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 2: know that.

790
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,279
Speaker 1: No, babe, did you do anything for Valentine's Say?

791
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 2: No, I'm no period.

792
00:37:06,600 --> 00:37:09,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, man, I seen one. I'm not gonna put my

793
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,080
Speaker 1: homegirl on blast.

794
00:37:11,760 --> 00:37:14,120
Speaker 2: But she had posted something in her close friends and

795
00:37:14,200 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 2: she was like, yeah, I got all my niggas in

796
00:37:16,640 --> 00:37:18,040
Speaker 2: my close She gonna know what I'm talking about it

797
00:37:18,080 --> 00:37:19,839
Speaker 2: when she sees this too. She was like, I got

798
00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:21,920
Speaker 2: all my niggas in my close friends because I don't care.

799
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,399
Speaker 2: I'm honest. I'm an honest ho and blah blah blah.

800
00:37:24,480 --> 00:37:26,360
Speaker 1: That's cool. But it's like, now these.

801
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:29,760
Speaker 6: Niggas looking at you like you don't respect that they're looking.

802
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 2: At Oh, you can't ask me for ship because you

803
00:37:32,040 --> 00:37:35,759
Speaker 2: got that's that nigga. No, I don't care if I'm

804
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,719
Speaker 2: dating thirty people. If I'm dating one, you always gonna

805
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:40,600
Speaker 2: feel like your business.

806
00:37:41,200 --> 00:37:43,479
Speaker 1: What she posted in her close friends, No, I didn't

807
00:37:43,520 --> 00:37:44,279
Speaker 1: look that deep.

808
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:47,719
Speaker 2: Well you look one.

809
00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:49,759
Speaker 5: They might all think they the only nigga though.

810
00:37:51,880 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: It's not getting.

811
00:37:55,239 --> 00:37:56,920
Speaker 2: I'm not posting all of her coaches.

812
00:37:59,239 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 3: And why because why do you have all your niggas

813
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:02,399
Speaker 3: and your.

814
00:38:04,239 --> 00:38:10,879
Speaker 1: Friend don't believe that she has niggas, But I'm always four.

815
00:38:11,080 --> 00:38:11,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry.

816
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 2: Even when a nigga is dating me, don't be honest

817
00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,560
Speaker 2: with me whole a nigga, if you want to date

818
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:19,879
Speaker 2: with the bitch, tell me you at your grandma house

819
00:38:19,920 --> 00:38:20,680
Speaker 2: and she's sick.

820
00:38:20,520 --> 00:38:24,440
Speaker 1: And you clean her asser. I don't want to know, bitch,

821
00:38:25,400 --> 00:38:26,319
Speaker 1: you need to lie.

822
00:38:27,120 --> 00:38:31,000
Speaker 6: That's respect When I don't never find out, that's real respect.

823
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:34,320
Speaker 4: Way too honest when you're dating. I'm like, if a

824
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:35,920
Speaker 4: person so honest with you, they don't.

825
00:38:35,719 --> 00:38:38,120
Speaker 2: Really give what If Rihanna say, want you to make

826
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,640
Speaker 2: me feel like I'm the only in the world advice

827
00:38:41,680 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 2: I got for women like with baby daddies, and she's

828
00:38:43,920 --> 00:38:45,560
Speaker 2: like that. If you trying to find a husband, be like, yeah,

829
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 2: my kid father you passed away.

830
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:48,040
Speaker 12: But.

831
00:38:52,080 --> 00:38:54,279
Speaker 6: Why are you talking about them like, bitch, get you

832
00:38:54,360 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 6: a husband that nigga's dad because.

833
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:56,960
Speaker 2: That's more respectable.

834
00:38:57,080 --> 00:39:02,880
Speaker 1: No, that's more respectable. Well, got.

835
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 2: Dead niggas your.

836
00:39:08,520 --> 00:39:09,840
Speaker 1: Baby baby daddy alive?

837
00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,840
Speaker 2: That means you gave your pussy to a bitch ass niggah.

838
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:16,120
Speaker 2: Maybe you did, nigga.

839
00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:19,200
Speaker 1: Okay, so if you're one of y'all have kids, No,

840
00:39:19,880 --> 00:39:20,400
Speaker 1: my dog.

841
00:39:20,400 --> 00:39:23,360
Speaker 2: Passed away okay a year and a half ago, a

842
00:39:23,400 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 2: little bit over. Yeah, yeah that said.

843
00:39:25,800 --> 00:39:26,239
Speaker 1: That's all.

844
00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,439
Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay, I don't know. I'm thinking I don't want kids.

845
00:39:29,480 --> 00:39:31,280
Speaker 1: That's why I'm leaning towards selfish.

846
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,200
Speaker 2: I don't feel like it's selfish. Do not want kids.

847
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:34,959
Speaker 2: I want a little g y'all want.

848
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,440
Speaker 4: To be responsible a little git Okay, Florida, I do

849
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 4: one kid, just I could see what they would look like?

850
00:39:41,160 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, can I produce a cute kid?

851
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 2: You want to see?

852
00:39:47,680 --> 00:39:49,160
Speaker 1: If that's the only reason you want to.

853
00:39:50,880 --> 00:39:55,960
Speaker 2: I'm like, dagy I, I ain't even hit that ship.

854
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: You know, I think I only wanted a boy, but.

855
00:40:03,719 --> 00:40:05,239
Speaker 1: As I get I was gonna dress him.

856
00:40:05,280 --> 00:40:07,480
Speaker 2: Though. I always like, if I have a boy, like

857
00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,719
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna do with that nigga? Like so fly?

858
00:40:13,600 --> 00:40:14,759
Speaker 3: Like my little boy would be fly.

859
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 2: He'll be like I'm.

860
00:40:18,239 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 4: Get to like the age where he started dating, Like

861
00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:22,640
Speaker 4: I don't know. And I just always hear that like

862
00:40:22,800 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 4: boys be mama's boys.

863
00:40:24,239 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 2: Like they love their mama. It's like no type of

864
00:40:26,960 --> 00:40:28,720
Speaker 2: love like no boy.

865
00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 1: Baby mama dad, And.

866
00:40:39,080 --> 00:40:41,960
Speaker 2: They like yeah, baby.

867
00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:45,640
Speaker 6: Let me tell you, if the mama or the sister

868
00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 6: is not in a healthy relationship, it's gonna be a problem.

869
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 6: If they don't have their own nigga, it's gonna be

870
00:40:49,920 --> 00:40:52,600
Speaker 6: a problem because your son, your brother doing it for

871
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:53,600
Speaker 6: me Now I gotta.

872
00:40:54,960 --> 00:40:57,759
Speaker 2: But you're jealous ass. Yeah. No niggas with no mama

873
00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:58,319
Speaker 2: is holler at me.

874
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:00,440
Speaker 1: Drinking.

875
00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 2: I don't think an his mama's be like that, like

876
00:41:04,239 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 2: they be lying. Damn kids, Mama do be good now.

877
00:41:08,960 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 2: But I didn't tell bro, I'm gonna be running through bitches.

878
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 1: I know I can already see.

879
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:19,120
Speaker 2: I said one time. I said it on the show before.

880
00:41:19,360 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 4: Don't just he and don't bring them bitches to my house.

881
00:41:21,680 --> 00:41:22,680
Speaker 4: Don't bring them little bitches.

882
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:23,160
Speaker 7: I was.

883
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 1: High school boyfriend.

884
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:28,279
Speaker 2: I pulled up to his house because I thought he

885
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 2: was like playing in my face on some ship.

886
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 1: And I knocked on the door. His mama like, oh,

887
00:41:33,320 --> 00:41:34,959
Speaker 1: he's not here. He's not here. I look in the window.

888
00:41:34,960 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 2: He's looking out the window, bitch, he's giving me.

889
00:41:40,000 --> 00:41:43,200
Speaker 6: Mama, know your dad, because you know what, if your

890
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,399
Speaker 6: son does something wrong, you need to make him hold

891
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:46,440
Speaker 6: his self accountable.

892
00:41:46,640 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 4: No, he's gonna make him hold hisself accountable. But if

893
00:41:49,280 --> 00:41:49,799
Speaker 4: he don't want to.

894
00:41:49,800 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 1: Fuck with you, he.

895
00:41:52,360 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 2: Right, but he needs to come to her face and tell.

896
00:41:57,280 --> 00:42:00,759
Speaker 8: Gonna lie a lot for him because because he was,

897
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,160
Speaker 8: he's gonna continue that as a grown ass man.

898
00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:03,719
Speaker 13: Yo.

899
00:42:04,000 --> 00:42:04,840
Speaker 2: I'm not saying I.

900
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:08,399
Speaker 1: Hate your kids.

901
00:42:08,480 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 2: This is what I raise, the dream she raised these niggas.

902
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 4: I'm not saying I don't want to talk to you.

903
00:42:16,600 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 4: I'm not saying I'm alive for him. But it's just

904
00:42:18,680 --> 00:42:20,120
Speaker 4: like if he don't want to talk to you, even

905
00:42:20,200 --> 00:42:23,040
Speaker 4: if he is upstairs. Okay, maybe I might be like

906
00:42:23,120 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 4: he upstairs, but if he looking out the window, clearly,

907
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:27,520
Speaker 4: if you see him up there, he don't want to.

908
00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:29,880
Speaker 2: Talk to you. I'm glad you said that because that

909
00:42:29,960 --> 00:42:34,080
Speaker 2: goes to the next topping. Go ahead. Is the solid treatment?

910
00:42:34,440 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 2: The solid? Is the solid treatment effective?

911
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:41,480
Speaker 4: Or is it a form of an emotional abusise it's abused,

912
00:42:41,600 --> 00:42:42,320
Speaker 4: I don't think so.

913
00:42:42,840 --> 00:42:46,640
Speaker 2: You don't think silent being silent telling somebody honestly, hey,

914
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,160
Speaker 2: I don't want to talk to you anymore, and this

915
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:50,080
Speaker 2: is x y Z.

916
00:42:50,800 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: Let's keep it pushing versus just being silent.

917
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,720
Speaker 2: That's childish. It's childish.

918
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:58,960
Speaker 4: I think sometimes it just depends on the situation, because

919
00:42:59,000 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 4: I think sometimes people resort to not having conversations with

920
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,960
Speaker 4: people after you already had conversations with the person. You

921
00:43:05,080 --> 00:43:08,680
Speaker 4: might have already had multiple conversations and clearly they talking,

922
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,759
Speaker 4: Clearly they don't gied it, Clearly they don't give a fuck.

923
00:43:11,880 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 2: So at this point, I'm not about to keep talking

924
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: to you.

925
00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 4: That's I'm not about to keep having a conversation with you,

926
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 4: because at the end of the day, my mental health

927
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:23,719
Speaker 4: and my sanity and my piece come first before you

928
00:43:23,920 --> 00:43:24,960
Speaker 4: and how you feel.

929
00:43:25,320 --> 00:43:28,839
Speaker 6: If you don't talk them later. You know what I'm saying,

930
00:43:28,880 --> 00:43:31,719
Speaker 6: If you just ignoring the person for a certain time,

931
00:43:31,800 --> 00:43:33,480
Speaker 6: fewer it's like a punishment, Like, yeah, are you to

932
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 6: put this nigg on punishment? You know what I'm saying,

933
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:39,040
Speaker 6: Just had a conversation and if you're gonna leave, leave,

934
00:43:39,719 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 6: But you know, to ignore people, I'm guilty of that.

935
00:43:42,680 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 4: I know.

936
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,239
Speaker 6: I'm Sometimes you need a little time, yeah, but people

937
00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 6: don't respect that.

938
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:48,560
Speaker 2: You don't give yourself space.

939
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,239
Speaker 5: To like think about it and calm down. You might

940
00:43:51,280 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 5: be hurtful in a way that you don't mean to be.

941
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 5: So sometimes a little.

942
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:58,760
Speaker 4: Silence is okay, And I truly sometimes feel like silence.

943
00:43:59,040 --> 00:44:00,920
Speaker 3: People be trying to be like, oh, this person not

944
00:44:01,040 --> 00:44:02,080
Speaker 3: talking to me, this person.

945
00:44:01,960 --> 00:44:05,439
Speaker 2: Not saying it to me. Silence is also a response, Yes,

946
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:11,680
Speaker 2: that is sometimes the words. I guess you like if

947
00:44:11,840 --> 00:44:15,560
Speaker 2: I'm I don't like the silent treatment because I feel

948
00:44:15,680 --> 00:44:19,319
Speaker 2: like a conversation obviously needs to be had and I'm

949
00:44:19,440 --> 00:44:20,560
Speaker 2: big on communication.

950
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: I've always been this way.

951
00:44:22,520 --> 00:44:25,879
Speaker 2: So now some people maybe like if they're not talking,

952
00:44:25,960 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 2: that doesn't necessarily mean like I'm ignoring you or I'm

953
00:44:28,160 --> 00:44:30,040
Speaker 2: being silent. Maybe some people are just trying to gather

954
00:44:30,120 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 2: their thoughts, so that's a little different. But to purposely

955
00:44:34,120 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 2: ignore somebody, that's like that's manipult.

956
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:40,600
Speaker 6: You're only bad when you know you're gonna talk to

957
00:44:40,680 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 6: them again, right, Like you know, if you're ignoring the motherfucker,

958
00:44:43,600 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 6: Like this is.

959
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,680
Speaker 2: Reaching out to you like every day every day, Like

960
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:50,840
Speaker 2: say it's been a week and they're reaching out to

961
00:44:50,840 --> 00:44:56,600
Speaker 2: you every day and you're just trying to Now, in

962
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 2: Dre's case, like she said, if this is something I've

963
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:01,560
Speaker 2: talked to you over and over again, maybe Nigga, I

964
00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:02,920
Speaker 2: just don't want to talk no more.

965
00:45:03,120 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 6: I'm tired of saying it and when black women be quiet,

966
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:06,839
Speaker 6: that's when you should wonder, right.

967
00:45:07,239 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: I mean, I feel like we always like.

968
00:45:10,320 --> 00:45:12,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's but it's like when I kind of like

969
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:14,919
Speaker 2: put my hands up and I'm like, hey, yo, I'm done,

970
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:17,920
Speaker 2: and I think that's what it is for me. I

971
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:19,880
Speaker 2: don't like the silent treatment because I wouldn't like it

972
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 2: to be done to me. So I tell a person,

973
00:45:22,360 --> 00:45:24,640
Speaker 2: this is where you have me fucked up at. I

974
00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:27,759
Speaker 2: told you before, and this is why what I'm doing

975
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:32,000
Speaker 2: moving forward, respect my boundaries and move around, and they

976
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,480
Speaker 2: don't need for no silent treatment. Now if you decide

977
00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:36,520
Speaker 2: to reach out to me after that, when I told

978
00:45:36,560 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 2: you what it is.

979
00:45:37,480 --> 00:45:38,000
Speaker 1: That's on you.

980
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:39,520
Speaker 2: That's on you.

981
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,560
Speaker 1: So yeah, you're gonna get ignored after that.

982
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 2: But I feel like if you plan on not talking

983
00:45:44,080 --> 00:45:46,120
Speaker 2: to somebody, it's okay to tell them why. And this

984
00:45:46,239 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 2: is the reason these are my boundaries. Move around.

985
00:45:48,920 --> 00:45:51,440
Speaker 4: But I still think either way, like it's still silent

986
00:45:51,480 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 4: treatment either way, Like even if you be like, oh

987
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,959
Speaker 4: am I talking to you no more and a person

988
00:45:56,080 --> 00:45:57,799
Speaker 4: keep reaching out to you, if even if it's been

989
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,360
Speaker 4: like three months and they even reaching out to you

990
00:45:59,440 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 4: conastily you not responding, but I said to you, I'm

991
00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:02,680
Speaker 4: not responding.

992
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:06,720
Speaker 3: It's still solid treatment, but at least they know that's.

993
00:46:06,560 --> 00:46:07,200
Speaker 9: Not the same.

994
00:46:07,280 --> 00:46:10,640
Speaker 2: But it's kind of like you being saying you don't

995
00:46:10,680 --> 00:46:13,320
Speaker 2: know what's going on, like you don't know how they feeling.

996
00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 2: You're just like, damn what you don't know. That's ghosting

997
00:46:16,600 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 2: though that's not silent treatment.

998
00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:21,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, that is true, but I feel like so so,

999
00:46:22,000 --> 00:46:23,520
Speaker 4: so what's the difference between ghosting.

1000
00:46:23,719 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: So I was saying, it's just never given a reason,

1001
00:46:27,400 --> 00:46:28,120
Speaker 2: just disappear.

1002
00:46:28,880 --> 00:46:30,840
Speaker 6: If I told you what the fuck it was and

1003
00:46:31,040 --> 00:46:33,120
Speaker 6: you just trying to change my mind by some ship,

1004
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:37,480
Speaker 6: that's like I'm not answering the form or like whatever,

1005
00:46:37,760 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 6: like that's not.

1006
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 2: You know what I said.

1007
00:46:40,640 --> 00:46:42,840
Speaker 4: Okay, I'll see what you're saying, because you're saying earlier

1008
00:46:42,920 --> 00:46:46,279
Speaker 4: in the conversation, like to me, solid treat me, Like

1009
00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 4: I don't think that's being abusive or she.

1010
00:46:48,640 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 2: Was saying, it's abusive or manipulative if you're doing it

1011
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 2: and you know you're gonna like you're doing it because like, okay,

1012
00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 2: I'm again, but you put them on ice for a minute.

1013
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's that's that's that's what people deserve. Somebod ice

1014
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:03,239
Speaker 1: I do.

1015
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 3: I feel like people be deserving to be shook. You

1016
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:09,400
Speaker 3: need to be shook a little.

1017
00:47:09,160 --> 00:47:12,399
Speaker 6: Bit, need to ask what more than kids? Fact, cause

1018
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:14,719
Speaker 6: motherfucker's be doing shit and be like I'm ground.

1019
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:18,399
Speaker 2: Your So do y'all think like the no contact stuff

1020
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:20,080
Speaker 2: works when dealing with a man, like you know how

1021
00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,759
Speaker 2: they be like, oh, no contact with him, and then

1022
00:47:23,040 --> 00:47:27,880
Speaker 2: you know either he'll come crawling back or you're gonna realize, like,

1023
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 2: y'all are just not meant to be.

1024
00:47:29,480 --> 00:47:31,439
Speaker 1: So do y'all believe in like the no contact.

1025
00:47:31,160 --> 00:47:35,360
Speaker 6: Rules contract is for No contact is for him, you know,

1026
00:47:35,360 --> 00:47:38,279
Speaker 6: over you, I'm gonna give you this space. I'm gonna

1027
00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:39,840
Speaker 6: not answer the phone. I'm gonna not talk to you

1028
00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:41,360
Speaker 6: for these months so you can get over me.

1029
00:47:42,120 --> 00:47:43,000
Speaker 2: It's really for them now.

1030
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:44,759
Speaker 8: They're just gonna spend the block and every time as

1031
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 8: soon as you ready to talk back to them, they

1032
00:47:46,600 --> 00:47:47,799
Speaker 8: ready to spend the block back.

1033
00:47:47,880 --> 00:47:51,600
Speaker 5: Whenever you say okay, we can communicate again. They think

1034
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:52,279
Speaker 5: that's the end.

1035
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:52,839
Speaker 4: Right.

1036
00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 6: That's when you hit them with them two sentences like

1037
00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:58,320
Speaker 6: one low two or two words, not even a sentence real.

1038
00:48:00,320 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 2: Homeboy status. I don't know.

1039
00:48:01,880 --> 00:48:04,920
Speaker 4: I think it depends on what you want from the relationship.

1040
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:07,880
Speaker 4: Because if you play games, because it's essentially playing a.

1041
00:48:07,920 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 2: Game, you play a game.

1042
00:48:11,320 --> 00:48:12,480
Speaker 1: If you play a game.

1043
00:48:13,760 --> 00:48:16,520
Speaker 3: With somebody playing big right, you know. So that's the

1044
00:48:16,640 --> 00:48:17,360
Speaker 3: thing about it.

1045
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:20,840
Speaker 4: I feel like these days though, with dating, unfortunately, you

1046
00:48:21,080 --> 00:48:22,120
Speaker 4: gotta play game.

1047
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 2: It's a game.

1048
00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,319
Speaker 6: But men don't like you when you like them, when

1049
00:48:26,360 --> 00:48:29,839
Speaker 6: you available, you don't like them.

1050
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:34,759
Speaker 2: It is when I tell y'all that we all wish

1051
00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 2: we didn't have to, but like, I'm not gonna lie

1052
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 2: to go.

1053
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:39,279
Speaker 1: When I started kind of like.

1054
00:48:40,920 --> 00:48:44,120
Speaker 2: Realizing my energy and really what I bring to the

1055
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:47,080
Speaker 2: table when it comes to being like in a relationship

1056
00:48:47,200 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 2: or being a friend and just working on myself, I'm like, Okay,

1057
00:48:50,080 --> 00:48:54,800
Speaker 2: I'm very fucking valuable, and so it came natural for

1058
00:48:54,880 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 2: me to not give a fuck, Like you know, I

1059
00:48:57,200 --> 00:48:59,040
Speaker 2: felt like for so long, like I said, I was

1060
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,160
Speaker 2: trying to prove myself as a woman, like proves to you,

1061
00:49:01,280 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 2: Oh I'm a good girl. I'm good. If you don't

1062
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:05,840
Speaker 2: see that you're bad, you either gonna see it. You

1063
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:08,000
Speaker 2: either gonna get it or you're not. I think that's

1064
00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,560
Speaker 2: how men are naturally. They don't have to figure it out. Yeah,

1065
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:11,960
Speaker 2: they already know.

1066
00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 6: Ain't nobody better than me, bitch, you ain't gonna do

1067
00:49:14,560 --> 00:49:15,160
Speaker 6: no better than me.

1068
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:17,440
Speaker 2: Like, we definitely have to have that type of attitude.

1069
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 5: Niggas been feeling like they sprised lately.

1070
00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:24,600
Speaker 2: I feel like I think that they know.

1071
00:49:24,880 --> 00:49:27,200
Speaker 1: I think they kind of know what they're supposed to do.

1072
00:49:27,760 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 2: They've always knew, like, you know, they have to be

1073
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,320
Speaker 2: the providers, you know, they have to be the protectors.

1074
00:49:31,400 --> 00:49:35,000
Speaker 2: But now it's kind of like we were actually talking

1075
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:35,720
Speaker 2: about this earlier.

1076
00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,480
Speaker 1: This course around dating has gotten crazy.

1077
00:49:39,080 --> 00:49:43,239
Speaker 2: So girls are asking for Barkins on first day asking.

1078
00:49:43,680 --> 00:49:45,480
Speaker 2: They're like, Oh, I'm that nigga, I'm him.

1079
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:47,080
Speaker 1: Everybody feel like.

1080
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 4: Talk about the i'm him niggas. I'm no, I do

1081
00:49:53,920 --> 00:49:56,560
Speaker 4: not want to I'm him as nigga because.

1082
00:49:58,120 --> 00:49:59,400
Speaker 2: Right ooh BITCHU.

1083
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:01,239
Speaker 5: But all of them feel like that now.

1084
00:50:01,440 --> 00:50:03,000
Speaker 2: And that's what I'm saying. That's why dating is so

1085
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: bad today. And I just feel like the discourse has

1086
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 2: just gotten crazy. It's gotten fucking insane. Is it a

1087
00:50:10,239 --> 00:50:12,279
Speaker 2: Black American thing? No, it's not.

1088
00:50:13,120 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 1: They've been talking about this.

1089
00:50:14,760 --> 00:50:16,160
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people say it's oh, the

1090
00:50:16,200 --> 00:50:18,919
Speaker 2: black people with microphones. But trust me, they all talking

1091
00:50:18,960 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 2: about it. I did my research. I did my fucking research.

1092
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:25,240
Speaker 2: I mean, I talk about this podcast a lot, caller Daddy.

1093
00:50:25,280 --> 00:50:27,960
Speaker 2: That's how they got started talking about their relationship drama.

1094
00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:32,800
Speaker 2: You know that everywhere they can do. And I'm a

1095
00:50:32,880 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 2: green not in America, but people are saying, oh, y'all

1096
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:37,080
Speaker 2: need to take black people microwave.

1097
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: We're all fucking going through it as women.

1098
00:50:39,640 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 2: Now I'm all for I'm a black woman and I'm

1099
00:50:42,560 --> 00:50:45,279
Speaker 2: for black women, But I'm saying I cannot lie and

1100
00:50:45,360 --> 00:50:48,319
Speaker 2: say to you that the other races aren't going through

1101
00:50:48,360 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 2: it with because a man is a man. Yeah, we

1102
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 2: just assumed like that.

1103
00:50:51,440 --> 00:50:53,760
Speaker 6: What we had an episode called is White Grass Greener

1104
00:50:54,160 --> 00:50:55,880
Speaker 6: because that was on I used to be on Clubhouse

1105
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,200
Speaker 6: a whole lot, and it was a lot of black women.

1106
00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:03,040
Speaker 6: What's the word, uh, divesting in the black community?

1107
00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:03,839
Speaker 7: Right.

1108
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:05,840
Speaker 6: I feel like if you've divested in front of the

1109
00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:08,120
Speaker 6: black community, don't talk about it, bit you ain't over

1110
00:51:08,160 --> 00:51:08,760
Speaker 6: here no more.

1111
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 2: Right, right, So we don't know what they experienced.

1112
00:51:12,080 --> 00:51:13,560
Speaker 6: And I want to have an episode where we have

1113
00:51:13,719 --> 00:51:16,520
Speaker 6: like a married white guy on there, single white guy

1114
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:20,480
Speaker 6: so we can kind of see like, what are they experience,

1115
00:51:20,560 --> 00:51:22,600
Speaker 6: and exactly, it's the same ship.

1116
00:51:24,080 --> 00:51:25,680
Speaker 2: You think it's the same.

1117
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:27,879
Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, it's the same ship.

1118
00:51:27,920 --> 00:51:33,240
Speaker 6: It's plus low dick like, it's the same ship. Okay,

1119
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 6: at least a pig feet, it's a pig feet.

1120
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:41,440
Speaker 2: At least right a pigtail about it. You had a

1121
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:42,120
Speaker 2: big white one.

1122
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,359
Speaker 1: Honestly made that face.

1123
00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:48,120
Speaker 2: It's been a long time, Like I went, but it

1124
00:51:48,280 --> 00:51:55,520
Speaker 2: was a time white school, so I didn't.

1125
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 1: Really start dating like black guys.

1126
00:51:57,080 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 2: So I got to college. Okay, you're there, white one's pigtails.

1127
00:52:01,600 --> 00:52:03,880
Speaker 7: I hit that man what.

1128
00:52:06,080 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 1: I loved him down.

1129
00:52:07,320 --> 00:52:10,919
Speaker 2: Okay, we had a ball, But I will honestly say

1130
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:12,239
Speaker 2: it'd be the same.

1131
00:52:12,320 --> 00:52:13,319
Speaker 5: It's the same ship.

1132
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,719
Speaker 2: It's the same ship. When I seen the first time

1133
00:52:15,719 --> 00:52:18,880
Speaker 2: I seen somebody slash somebody tire, it was my white homegirl.

1134
00:52:19,080 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 1: Remember he was at the coffee show it like that.

1135
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:23,560
Speaker 2: She was like, yeah, we're gonna pop his fucking tires.

1136
00:52:23,600 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 2: I was like, yeah, that was the first time, but

1137
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:28,800
Speaker 2: I'm telling you that.

1138
00:52:28,880 --> 00:52:31,320
Speaker 3: Then Blake gonna watch the ship, like, oh my god, she's.

1139
00:52:31,160 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 2: Talking about me.

1140
00:52:33,560 --> 00:52:36,399
Speaker 1: Tier. I saw the episode.

1141
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:40,160
Speaker 7: Up.

1142
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:45,319
Speaker 1: I saw the episode talking tom All, we've got a chat.

1143
00:52:46,440 --> 00:52:51,280
Speaker 1: So good, But I'm saying the same ship.

1144
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,600
Speaker 2: So I'd be like, damn, like, we gotta come together sometimes,

1145
00:52:56,760 --> 00:52:56,920
Speaker 2: you know.

1146
00:52:57,040 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: I feel like we definitely all go through the through

1147
00:52:59,280 --> 00:52:59,800
Speaker 1: the same.

1148
00:53:00,120 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 6: I don't know why black people think white people don't

1149
00:53:02,080 --> 00:53:02,880
Speaker 6: go fifty to fifty.

1150
00:53:04,040 --> 00:53:10,319
Speaker 2: White people definitely be white, white came from money, married

1151
00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:10,919
Speaker 2: into this ship.

1152
00:53:11,000 --> 00:53:12,520
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's.

1153
00:53:13,960 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 6: I'm just saying we I'm not. But that's like a

1154
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:17,720
Speaker 6: conversation in the black community.

1155
00:53:18,000 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 2: I have the I can honestly say, in my past

1156
00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,279
Speaker 2: four or five years of dating, I haven't even come

1157
00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 2: across a man niggas I don't experience. I'm not gonna

1158
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,600
Speaker 2: lie like that's a conversation I have on on first

1159
00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:33,680
Speaker 2: day because before we even decide that we're gonna even move,

1160
00:53:33,760 --> 00:53:35,560
Speaker 2: do you like, do you go fifty feet or I

1161
00:53:35,960 --> 00:53:37,400
Speaker 2: have not met a man that was like, yeah, I

1162
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:39,360
Speaker 2: go fifty feet, full out my least.

1163
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:42,200
Speaker 1: Non negotiable.

1164
00:53:42,440 --> 00:53:45,920
Speaker 2: Are you a fifty fifty nigga right now? That's I'm

1165
00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:48,040
Speaker 2: not saying that I'm not going to contribute to the

1166
00:53:48,120 --> 00:53:50,319
Speaker 2: house in no type of way, but as far as

1167
00:53:50,360 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: when it comes to like paying the major bills, I

1168
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 2: just feel like that's a man's job. You want, right,

1169
00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,880
Speaker 2: But I also think that's where a lot of the

1170
00:53:58,960 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 2: discourse online I'm from, because just because this is.

1171
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:04,520
Speaker 1: What I say I want, that doesn't mean it's a law.

1172
00:54:05,000 --> 00:54:06,839
Speaker 2: So if I get online, I say, oh, I want

1173
00:54:06,880 --> 00:54:09,640
Speaker 2: a man to do one hundred percent of all the

1174
00:54:09,680 --> 00:54:11,640
Speaker 2: major bills, you don't have to be in the comments

1175
00:54:11,760 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 2: like what a dumb bitch?

1176
00:54:13,320 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 7: And what it is?

1177
00:54:14,040 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 1: Somebody out there for me? There's somebody out there for you?

1178
00:54:17,239 --> 00:54:17,640
Speaker 7: So mad?

1179
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:19,560
Speaker 2: Why are you so mad? There's somebody out there?

1180
00:54:19,560 --> 00:54:22,799
Speaker 4: They just say that, or maybe it's not, because let's

1181
00:54:22,840 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 4: be really, it ain't somebody out there.

1182
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:28,640
Speaker 1: There's somebody for everything.

1183
00:54:29,040 --> 00:54:33,000
Speaker 2: They ugly, that's what it is. The ugly. Then why

1184
00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:34,960
Speaker 2: a lot of people end up longly? I mean some

1185
00:54:35,000 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 2: people are just say y'all, so it ain't.

1186
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:38,279
Speaker 3: Nobody for you.

1187
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:40,480
Speaker 6: It is they just don't know how to go outside.

1188
00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:41,880
Speaker 6: There's a lot of different reasons.

1189
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:43,600
Speaker 5: They're not healed. They're not heal.

1190
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 2: It's a lot of you gotta go outside to find people.

1191
00:54:48,400 --> 00:54:49,759
Speaker 2: So a lot of times people just get in there.

1192
00:54:49,840 --> 00:54:53,920
Speaker 2: You don't find them. How you know they was there? Well,

1193
00:54:55,440 --> 00:54:57,480
Speaker 2: I just feel like it. I do believe there's somebody

1194
00:54:57,520 --> 00:54:59,880
Speaker 2: for everybody, because I've just seen some wild, wild couples.

1195
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:03,240
Speaker 6: Everybody can't have somebody that's super fun and nice looking,

1196
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:07,120
Speaker 6: got a big dick, got now you have to compromise.

1197
00:55:07,200 --> 00:55:11,720
Speaker 2: That's literally the pond of rich men that are black,

1198
00:55:12,000 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 2: that look good.

1199
00:55:14,239 --> 00:55:16,960
Speaker 6: It's like the pond is like and if they have

1200
00:55:17,160 --> 00:55:18,680
Speaker 6: all those things, they got multiple women.

1201
00:55:18,800 --> 00:55:21,680
Speaker 2: So right, But that's what I'm saying. That's why I

1202
00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:22,960
Speaker 2: just don't feel like it's somebody.

1203
00:55:23,080 --> 00:55:24,920
Speaker 1: I don't know there's somebody for everybody.

1204
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 6: I believe there's only like more maybe like four to

1205
00:55:27,600 --> 00:55:30,359
Speaker 6: five characteristics of people, like people be looking for they

1206
00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,000
Speaker 6: soul met, but that could be like a million different people.

1207
00:55:33,440 --> 00:55:36,080
Speaker 2: It's the same characters. There's some women that are they

1208
00:55:36,120 --> 00:55:40,000
Speaker 2: are the providers that pay one hundred percent and they're

1209
00:55:40,040 --> 00:55:43,640
Speaker 2: okay with it. It's somebody for everybody, like yes, and

1210
00:55:43,800 --> 00:55:45,799
Speaker 2: some men are okay with that. They're okay with doing

1211
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:47,439
Speaker 2: nothing and just sitting at home.

1212
00:55:47,560 --> 00:55:49,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's a lot of them women they still

1213
00:55:49,400 --> 00:55:52,200
Speaker 3: single and they like seventy.

1214
00:55:54,040 --> 00:55:56,040
Speaker 5: And it's a lot of them that's okay with being seen.

1215
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:56,680
Speaker 2: That's right.

1216
00:55:59,120 --> 00:56:00,399
Speaker 1: That's a good point.

1217
00:56:00,840 --> 00:56:01,600
Speaker 2: Not everybody.

1218
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:01,880
Speaker 7: You know.

1219
00:56:02,080 --> 00:56:04,440
Speaker 2: It was crazy because I saw everybody talking about Rihanna

1220
00:56:04,600 --> 00:56:07,040
Speaker 2: having her second baby, and I loved it. Not everybody

1221
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:09,320
Speaker 2: wants to get married. That's not a goal for everybody.

1222
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:13,000
Speaker 2: So not every Maybe they're seventy and single by choice.

1223
00:56:13,560 --> 00:56:15,919
Speaker 6: I think the ones we see they probably were married

1224
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 6: at some point and now they divorced.

1225
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 2: And if you talk to women like.

1226
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,839
Speaker 6: In their fifty sixties who yet to be married, they're like, man,

1227
00:56:21,880 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 6: if I could do it all over again, I wouldn't

1228
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:24,560
Speaker 6: have done it.

1229
00:56:24,800 --> 00:56:26,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, They're like, I'm cool on it. I agree with that.

1230
00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:30,280
Speaker 4: So y'all feel like every single person has a persy.

1231
00:56:30,480 --> 00:56:34,480
Speaker 1: Yes, women, but not men.

1232
00:56:35,520 --> 00:56:37,520
Speaker 6: I don't believe all men should be pro creating it.

1233
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 2: I don't believe agree with that.

1234
00:56:38,960 --> 00:56:39,920
Speaker 1: But I do believe that.

1235
00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 6: I don't believe all men should procreate. I think like

1236
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:44,600
Speaker 6: men created monogamy because it's some niggas out here, no

1237
00:56:44,719 --> 00:56:49,200
Speaker 6: get pussy, right, right, So women, we are naturally like,

1238
00:56:49,360 --> 00:56:52,400
Speaker 6: we date and have kids. It's supposed to be hypergamy.

1239
00:56:52,440 --> 00:56:54,680
Speaker 6: But in the Black community, it's a problem for us

1240
00:56:54,800 --> 00:56:57,960
Speaker 6: to practice to pergamy meaning dating up, sucking up, and

1241
00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 6: seid of fucking down right right, We're.

1242
00:57:00,239 --> 00:57:04,160
Speaker 2: Not people for it exactly everybody else get to do

1243
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:07,400
Speaker 2: it everybody but exactly motherfucker.

1244
00:57:08,320 --> 00:57:10,840
Speaker 6: So the niggas that couldn't get pussy, they want to

1245
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:13,640
Speaker 6: lock somebody in. If it was left up to how

1246
00:57:13,719 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 6: she's supposed to be, right, you would be with us.

1247
00:57:16,920 --> 00:57:19,840
Speaker 6: We would pick we all four of us probably would

1248
00:57:19,880 --> 00:57:23,360
Speaker 6: pick the man with the biggest bag, right that can

1249
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 6: take care of our offsprings.

1250
00:57:25,080 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 2: And we think, like what we mean, you.

1251
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:33,120
Speaker 6: You know what I right?

1252
00:57:33,240 --> 00:57:33,360
Speaker 4: Right?

1253
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 2: I mean, that does make sense. I feel like we

1254
00:57:36,080 --> 00:57:37,840
Speaker 2: have talked about this plenty of times. I feel like

1255
00:57:37,920 --> 00:57:40,280
Speaker 2: it's only an issue, like we are the only culture

1256
00:57:40,320 --> 00:57:42,200
Speaker 2: that literally when the kids turn eighteen, you got to

1257
00:57:42,240 --> 00:57:46,080
Speaker 2: get out the house, right, Like up, it's really it's

1258
00:57:46,160 --> 00:57:48,680
Speaker 2: not gonna happened to me though, men't happen to me.

1259
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,880
Speaker 2: I mean, but we are a blessed bunch, like we

1260
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,960
Speaker 2: can all say that. I mean so, but for the

1261
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:57,640
Speaker 2: average persons, like, oh, you eighteen, it's time to get out,

1262
00:57:57,680 --> 00:57:58,920
Speaker 2: especially black boys.

1263
00:57:59,400 --> 00:58:01,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, and not so much black women.

1264
00:58:01,160 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 8: Our parents might let us stay a little longer. Black boys,

1265
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,880
Speaker 8: they be like, you gotta get out at eighteen, yes.

1266
00:58:05,920 --> 00:58:07,840
Speaker 2: Like you have to build this, I mean at eighteen,

1267
00:58:07,880 --> 00:58:11,200
Speaker 2: think about paying rent, especially now like back. You know,

1268
00:58:11,320 --> 00:58:14,360
Speaker 2: when I turned eighteen, I remember the first apartment I had.

1269
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:16,320
Speaker 2: My mom was still paying my rent.

1270
00:58:16,440 --> 00:58:17,160
Speaker 1: It was me and my sister.

1271
00:58:17,160 --> 00:58:18,360
Speaker 2: We had a two bedroom when the rent was like

1272
00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,680
Speaker 2: seven hundred dollars for a two bedroom. Imagine trying to

1273
00:58:20,760 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 2: move out by yourself right now, a one.

1274
00:58:22,520 --> 00:58:25,160
Speaker 6: Bed, trying to get right now to go back home,

1275
00:58:26,040 --> 00:58:28,200
Speaker 6: you know, someplace to fuck at, like girl, call me

1276
00:58:28,280 --> 00:58:30,240
Speaker 6: back when you finish your dumb bitch stage, because look,

1277
00:58:30,640 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 6: you go home, live off my sister, save your money

1278
00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 6: and buy a house next year.

1279
00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:37,919
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1280
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,760
Speaker 2: So I think that the conversations in our community should

1281
00:58:41,880 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 2: change a lot and give just a little bit more grace,

1282
00:58:46,080 --> 00:58:50,000
Speaker 2: Like we're saving hard on each other because it's crazy

1283
00:58:50,000 --> 00:58:51,720
Speaker 2: because we've had a lot of new listeners coming in,

1284
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 2: people that are just tuning in for the first time,

1285
00:58:54,280 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 2: and they be like, do y'all ever talk about anything serious?

1286
00:58:57,760 --> 00:59:00,560
Speaker 2: It's like, we have a balance, but why you serious?

1287
00:59:02,280 --> 00:59:04,760
Speaker 2: And I'm not want to watch something serious? You don't

1288
00:59:04,760 --> 00:59:09,440
Speaker 2: how many serious your leisure is right there right there?

1289
00:59:09,480 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 2: You got there's so many black podcasts talk about serious

1290
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 2: things that you can learn from.

1291
00:59:14,200 --> 00:59:16,920
Speaker 1: But here, bitch, were about to talk about dink and.

1292
00:59:17,040 --> 00:59:18,919
Speaker 2: Drinking and had the fun and turning up and there's

1293
00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:22,120
Speaker 2: nothing wrong with that. The conversations me Andrea have behind

1294
00:59:22,160 --> 00:59:24,800
Speaker 2: closed doors, we have a lot of serious conversations, but

1295
00:59:25,680 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 2: when we come to work, we want to entertain, and

1296
00:59:27,600 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 2: that's this is the route that we chose.

1297
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:30,760
Speaker 1: So, like I said, I.

1298
00:59:30,800 --> 00:59:32,920
Speaker 6: Feel like we just don't give each other grace, especially

1299
00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:34,120
Speaker 6: when it comes to this podcast.

1300
00:59:34,200 --> 00:59:36,760
Speaker 2: Black people so hard on each other. So hard. Yeah

1301
00:59:36,920 --> 00:59:39,840
Speaker 2: we are, it's incredibly hard. Now we done got too chatty,

1302
00:59:39,840 --> 00:59:41,760
Speaker 2: would have got off topic.

1303
00:59:41,520 --> 00:59:45,720
Speaker 4: Bitch, So now it's time to get into the big

1304
00:59:45,960 --> 00:59:50,360
Speaker 4: bow bow Bow bow bow.

1305
00:59:50,520 --> 00:59:53,160
Speaker 2: About I'm sorry, anybody need to refill? Oh that's just

1306
00:59:53,240 --> 00:59:53,800
Speaker 2: me on dreams.

1307
00:59:54,360 --> 00:59:59,040
Speaker 5: Everybody number two, number two, I want to We're not even.

1308
00:59:58,960 --> 01:00:01,280
Speaker 1: Drinking since we got Okay, she good, she good?

1309
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:04,640
Speaker 2: Okay, So today we're gonna talk about is there a

1310
01:00:04,760 --> 01:00:10,280
Speaker 2: difference between nutting from head, nutting from penetration, and nutting

1311
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:13,400
Speaker 2: from masturbating the toy? It's a different.

1312
01:00:13,720 --> 01:00:16,120
Speaker 6: My homegirl, she was like maybe thirty three when she

1313
01:00:16,200 --> 01:00:18,240
Speaker 6: got her first vibrator and she called me. She was like,

1314
01:00:18,800 --> 01:00:22,160
Speaker 6: why ain't nobody ever told me that my sister bought

1315
01:00:22,240 --> 01:00:23,400
Speaker 6: me a vibrator at sixteen.

1316
01:00:23,720 --> 01:00:25,520
Speaker 1: Really she was advanced.

1317
01:00:25,720 --> 01:00:28,720
Speaker 6: That's just I went to college with a vibrator like

1318
01:00:29,480 --> 01:00:32,880
Speaker 6: I had twenty two inch weave and a vibrator like

1319
01:00:33,320 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 6: you was ready wrong woman, Like vibrators make you squirt, Yeah,

1320
01:00:37,360 --> 01:00:39,919
Speaker 6: I'm not fw I definitely every time I masturbate, I squirre,

1321
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,040
Speaker 6: especially with this one that I use is kind of

1322
01:00:42,080 --> 01:00:42,880
Speaker 6: like the clip sucker.

1323
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:47,240
Speaker 2: I'm always texting the rolls rolls for me that maybe

1324
01:00:47,600 --> 01:00:48,080
Speaker 2: it's for me.

1325
01:00:48,520 --> 01:00:51,800
Speaker 4: I've never not squirked when I used the wrong neither

1326
01:00:52,360 --> 01:00:55,439
Speaker 4: I actually had to, but prior to that, I had.

1327
01:00:55,400 --> 01:00:57,880
Speaker 2: Never used a toy where every time I was well right,

1328
01:00:58,160 --> 01:00:59,840
Speaker 2: sometimes I have to turn them down though it'd be

1329
01:01:00,040 --> 01:01:05,800
Speaker 2: too intense. I'd be like, God, they can't, they can't,

1330
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:07,720
Speaker 2: and I'm not gonna lie. I feel like my orgasms

1331
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:11,360
Speaker 2: whenever I masturbate last longer too, Like it's gonna go

1332
01:01:11,480 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 2: for some you know, to me, if you have an

1333
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:15,960
Speaker 2: orgasm that last, like you know, like a ten second,

1334
01:01:16,080 --> 01:01:20,520
Speaker 2: fifteen second, that's a good orgast, Caroline, Yeah, like you know,

1335
01:01:20,760 --> 01:01:22,760
Speaker 2: but like I feel like whenever I have an orgasm

1336
01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:27,040
Speaker 2: from like penetration, it's just kind of like a quick

1337
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:29,640
Speaker 2: like it's like a you know, you know, it's like

1338
01:01:29,680 --> 01:01:32,560
Speaker 2: a like a breathe out. Shouldn't be emotional for me. Yeah,

1339
01:01:32,960 --> 01:01:36,400
Speaker 2: but that's why I said that. The masturbation, it's just

1340
01:01:36,520 --> 01:01:39,440
Speaker 2: the physical like you feel. It's vibration, like if I

1341
01:01:39,920 --> 01:01:42,960
Speaker 2: have an orgasm from penetration, it's because nigga, I love you.

1342
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:45,080
Speaker 1: Yes, it's an emotional thing.

1343
01:01:45,120 --> 01:01:47,400
Speaker 5: It's an emotional thing. Oh, y'all, let me tell y'all.

1344
01:01:47,480 --> 01:01:50,760
Speaker 8: My cleaning lady came and clean up my house and

1345
01:01:50,920 --> 01:01:52,840
Speaker 8: my rose was I forgot. I left it in the

1346
01:01:52,880 --> 01:01:55,040
Speaker 8: bed and she was on the charger when she cleaned

1347
01:01:55,040 --> 01:01:55,280
Speaker 8: the house.

1348
01:01:55,440 --> 01:02:00,920
Speaker 2: Period. She love you, she loved me, didn't She's nice.

1349
01:02:01,160 --> 01:02:04,080
Speaker 4: Now I'm telling you them, I don't know what they

1350
01:02:04,160 --> 01:02:05,120
Speaker 4: be with them, nail.

1351
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:06,280
Speaker 2: Rods, toys.

1352
01:02:07,520 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 4: Not be an exaggeration When everybody be talking about it online?

1353
01:02:11,160 --> 01:02:12,880
Speaker 4: Can I be seeing some people they be like, oh,

1354
01:02:12,960 --> 01:02:15,520
Speaker 4: I use my rolls and I had to turn it off,

1355
01:02:15,680 --> 01:02:18,520
Speaker 4: or it wasn't doing nothing for me, will be I

1356
01:02:18,600 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 4: don't know how the fun he wasn't doing it?

1357
01:02:20,080 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 2: Broken broken, broken pussy. So do y'all like, what is

1358
01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:28,760
Speaker 2: the best way a man can make you come? Like

1359
01:02:28,920 --> 01:02:29,760
Speaker 2: head or penetration.

1360
01:02:29,880 --> 01:02:34,720
Speaker 6: I like to be flat on my stomach okay, and no,

1361
01:02:34,840 --> 01:02:38,800
Speaker 6: I like flat on my stomach and penetration. Yes, but head, yes,

1362
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:42,320
Speaker 6: you from head, yes, nut from head every time and

1363
01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:44,720
Speaker 6: the inside every time.

1364
01:02:45,800 --> 01:02:50,680
Speaker 2: Both head with the finger in it. Both stop eating

1365
01:02:50,760 --> 01:02:52,880
Speaker 2: pussy and not fingering your girl at the same time.

1366
01:02:53,320 --> 01:02:57,480
Speaker 2: Niggas do this, No, what is that? I like it

1367
01:02:57,560 --> 01:03:01,720
Speaker 2: a little bit. They gotta be slow. They gotta be slow,

1368
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:02,360
Speaker 2: be like this.

1369
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:03,240
Speaker 14: Yeah.

1370
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 2: I don't like when they looking when they.

1371
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 1: Be like, yeah, like a little lick. You gotta make

1372
01:03:08,400 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: out like.

1373
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,320
Speaker 2: What my mind in there? Yeah, you're supposed to literally

1374
01:03:16,080 --> 01:03:16,720
Speaker 2: make out that.

1375
01:03:17,600 --> 01:03:19,560
Speaker 13: We gotta tell them.

1376
01:03:20,360 --> 01:03:23,919
Speaker 1: You gotta make out with the clip. Suck on it, Yeah,

1377
01:03:24,960 --> 01:03:26,560
Speaker 1: just suck on it, and then you gotta.

1378
01:03:26,520 --> 01:03:30,080
Speaker 4: You gotta gotta coming too hard, because then I think

1379
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:31,840
Speaker 4: some niggas be getting excited and stuck on.

1380
01:03:32,920 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you ain't no big nigga. If you start

1381
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 1: sucking on my clip to one, I know yo a little.

1382
01:03:38,640 --> 01:03:42,240
Speaker 2: Yeah, you suck a little, because why is you sucking

1383
01:03:42,280 --> 01:03:42,960
Speaker 2: it so hard?

1384
01:03:43,840 --> 01:03:47,080
Speaker 1: That's how you like it. He's trying to show me

1385
01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:47,560
Speaker 1: what to do.

1386
01:03:49,000 --> 01:03:54,560
Speaker 4: You vacuum stealing before That's what I'm saying, sucking too

1387
01:03:54,680 --> 01:03:55,760
Speaker 4: hard and just.

1388
01:03:55,880 --> 01:03:57,760
Speaker 2: Like I think men like you know, they like a

1389
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:59,520
Speaker 2: lot of spit when we give here, not too much,

1390
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:01,640
Speaker 2: but to be we you know, we like it to

1391
01:04:01,720 --> 01:04:04,840
Speaker 2: be like yeah, that's what I'm saying, like we like

1392
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:07,560
Speaker 2: a lot of we like it to be string a spit.

1393
01:04:08,200 --> 01:04:08,400
Speaker 15: Yeah.

1394
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 2: I like the string and I like the Yeah that's

1395
01:04:12,080 --> 01:04:13,960
Speaker 2: you get and after you get done, you gotta kiss.

1396
01:04:13,720 --> 01:04:15,880
Speaker 5: Me in my mind period that.

1397
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:18,080
Speaker 4: Kill you.

1398
01:04:18,680 --> 01:04:21,480
Speaker 2: Oh nay, she like everything.

1399
01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:23,640
Speaker 1: Her own pussy and she could.

1400
01:04:27,640 --> 01:04:31,600
Speaker 4: I'm but I'm not going to actually working on it

1401
01:04:31,720 --> 01:04:33,360
Speaker 4: with my flexibility.

1402
01:04:33,080 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 2: Yoga y'all that yoa man. It was like on yay.

1403
01:04:42,600 --> 01:04:45,120
Speaker 6: So I used to date. I used to with my supervisor,

1404
01:04:48,360 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 6: and it was an image. It was a It was

1405
01:04:50,240 --> 01:04:52,280
Speaker 6: a video of a dude sucking his dick. I swear

1406
01:04:52,360 --> 01:04:55,880
Speaker 6: to God know it was going to run the job

1407
01:04:55,960 --> 01:04:59,480
Speaker 6: like it looked exactly It wasn't him, It looked exactly

1408
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:00,080
Speaker 6: like him.

1409
01:05:00,160 --> 01:05:04,560
Speaker 2: Like a dude's sucking is on dick. Having let me

1410
01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:06,480
Speaker 2: ask the guys in the room, is it gay to

1411
01:05:06,560 --> 01:05:07,360
Speaker 2: suck your own dick?

1412
01:05:10,000 --> 01:05:15,400
Speaker 6: Why though we stopped yod we stopped our titties, that's gay?

1413
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:17,240
Speaker 1: You if y'all can suck your own dick.

1414
01:05:17,320 --> 01:05:18,400
Speaker 5: Y'all would do it all the time.

1415
01:05:18,600 --> 01:05:22,960
Speaker 2: This nigg I feel like I feel like they be sucking.

1416
01:05:24,600 --> 01:05:26,600
Speaker 1: In the bathroom, like sucking my dig.

1417
01:05:26,520 --> 01:05:27,160
Speaker 2: All day.

1418
01:05:31,560 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: Me too, bro, that ship was far you want to go?

1419
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:37,880
Speaker 2: Damn, I went in there and so I did get

1420
01:05:38,040 --> 01:05:41,880
Speaker 2: the words. Okay, So y'all like head orgasms or penetration orgasms,

1421
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:45,040
Speaker 2: it's pleitoral stimulation for me. It just depends on Yeah,

1422
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:48,960
Speaker 2: I imagine know you gotta be in love vaginal, but

1423
01:05:49,080 --> 01:05:53,680
Speaker 2: I love those vaginal orgasms that come very rarely any strong.

1424
01:05:54,360 --> 01:05:56,560
Speaker 2: They be strong. They do be strong, and like I said,

1425
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 2: it's kind of like a oh yeah, this is my man.

1426
01:05:58,920 --> 01:05:59,640
Speaker 5: It's missionary.

1427
01:06:01,800 --> 01:06:05,720
Speaker 2: Yes, ain't gotta be me. I'm telling y'all listen, looking

1428
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 2: in your eyes, programming you. Like the time I was

1429
01:06:09,600 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 2: when I came to I was drunk and me I went,

1430
01:06:12,320 --> 01:06:13,600
Speaker 2: got this nigga name tattered on me.

1431
01:06:13,680 --> 01:06:15,200
Speaker 5: That's why I came and cried.

1432
01:06:16,480 --> 01:06:19,520
Speaker 1: Yeah that Beyonce. Ty're gonna fall every time.

1433
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:20,960
Speaker 2: I definitely cried.

1434
01:06:23,080 --> 01:06:24,200
Speaker 1: When's the last time y'all cried?

1435
01:06:24,360 --> 01:06:24,680
Speaker 2: Or six?

1436
01:06:25,160 --> 01:06:29,760
Speaker 6: Like, like wasn't a long time. I probably trying to

1437
01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:35,280
Speaker 6: finish the nigga like I ain't never tried not, I

1438
01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:38,960
Speaker 6: don't think so that's unfortunate. So you you the emotional

1439
01:06:39,040 --> 01:06:42,360
Speaker 6: one I'm seeing like you didn't cancer crying.

1440
01:06:42,440 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 2: I'm a gemini. I'm gonna do what it what needs

1441
01:06:44,640 --> 01:06:49,560
Speaker 2: to be done. Okay, now ever, because it felt just

1442
01:06:49,640 --> 01:06:54,600
Speaker 2: so yes, I did. I love this. You was crying

1443
01:06:54,680 --> 01:06:58,800
Speaker 2: and you don't because it is not an emotional person.

1444
01:06:59,320 --> 01:07:01,360
Speaker 2: I feel like I see an emotional size to her

1445
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:02,919
Speaker 2: because we've been friends for so long.

1446
01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:05,920
Speaker 1: So I'll be like seeing but she's she. When I

1447
01:07:06,000 --> 01:07:06,800
Speaker 1: say she's hard.

1448
01:07:06,640 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 2: On the nigga, she hard on the nigga, I'm just

1449
01:07:09,440 --> 01:07:14,280
Speaker 2: hard on everybody. Like yeah, so be like like you

1450
01:07:14,440 --> 01:07:17,439
Speaker 2: was in that crime y'all was making sweet sweet love

1451
01:07:18,560 --> 01:07:20,440
Speaker 2: week love where.

1452
01:07:20,280 --> 01:07:23,120
Speaker 4: I'm already where I talked about crying when I had

1453
01:07:23,200 --> 01:07:24,080
Speaker 4: six with a nigga.

1454
01:07:24,600 --> 01:07:28,640
Speaker 2: We but it happened, you know, yeah again.

1455
01:07:28,640 --> 01:07:31,240
Speaker 1: It happens again. You know, not that long ago.

1456
01:07:32,320 --> 01:07:37,480
Speaker 3: I was like, oh I love y'all, y'all say together.

1457
01:07:37,840 --> 01:07:39,160
Speaker 5: Last night, Girl of Valentine.

1458
01:07:39,720 --> 01:07:40,680
Speaker 2: Last night, y'all.

1459
01:07:45,560 --> 01:07:45,760
Speaker 4: You know.

1460
01:07:47,720 --> 01:07:50,000
Speaker 2: It's too honest when you're dating. So we're gonna get

1461
01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:50,760
Speaker 2: it to the next time.

1462
01:07:54,080 --> 01:07:59,040
Speaker 11: Okay, okay, okay, So now we go get into the bye. Hey,

1463
01:08:04,320 --> 01:08:09,800
Speaker 11: I'm having fun, y'all, and I gotta drink some more.

1464
01:08:11,480 --> 01:08:16,880
Speaker 11: Were going outside after, We're going outside of it TMC. Okay,

1465
01:08:16,920 --> 01:08:19,000
Speaker 11: So we got Bop of the week. So y'all, y'all

1466
01:08:19,080 --> 01:08:21,320
Speaker 11: know my music style.

1467
01:08:21,479 --> 01:08:25,840
Speaker 2: I listened to everything, like literally, when I say everything, everything,

1468
01:08:25,960 --> 01:08:28,280
Speaker 2: So I was going through like my country little playlist

1469
01:08:28,280 --> 01:08:31,280
Speaker 2: the other day. And I know he is controversial and

1470
01:08:31,400 --> 01:08:35,479
Speaker 2: he's probably not the greatest person, but Morgan Wallin has

1471
01:08:35,520 --> 01:08:38,600
Speaker 2: a song called last Night. It's a country song. So

1472
01:08:38,680 --> 01:08:42,040
Speaker 2: if y'all like country music, y'all, this song goes so

1473
01:08:42,280 --> 01:08:46,000
Speaker 2: fucking hard. I'm not lying. He's basically talking about, like

1474
01:08:46,840 --> 01:08:49,519
Speaker 2: last night we got drunk and we said things to

1475
01:08:49,680 --> 01:08:51,840
Speaker 2: each other, but this was not our last night together.

1476
01:08:52,280 --> 01:08:54,120
Speaker 2: So basically he was saying, like his girl trying to

1477
01:08:54,160 --> 01:08:55,639
Speaker 2: leave him, but he was like, this ain't our last

1478
01:08:55,720 --> 01:08:59,719
Speaker 2: night together, bitch, I'll be back tomorrow. Oh it was given.

1479
01:08:59,600 --> 01:09:01,680
Speaker 1: Talks and I'm not gonna lie.

1480
01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 9: Morgan Waller kind of fine, not fine, but he got a.

1481
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:06,960
Speaker 1: Little swag to him. He a little white boy bear.

1482
01:09:08,080 --> 01:09:10,040
Speaker 1: He got a little one two, a little one.

1483
01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,880
Speaker 6: But he got a little swaged to him redhead if

1484
01:09:12,880 --> 01:09:13,599
Speaker 6: I got a wait man.

1485
01:09:14,120 --> 01:09:18,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, So Morgan, y'all have to listen to the song.

1486
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:20,439
Speaker 2: It's fire. But this is like a song you listen

1487
01:09:20,479 --> 01:09:23,080
Speaker 2: to like when you like, you know, getting ready for

1488
01:09:23,160 --> 01:09:25,080
Speaker 2: the night, Like you don't put your homegirls in the

1489
01:09:25,120 --> 01:09:27,080
Speaker 2: car and put it on type ship. This is something

1490
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 2: that you listen to by your private Yes. So Morgan

1491
01:09:30,160 --> 01:09:34,280
Speaker 2: Wallen last night, it's about period what you got drell?

1492
01:09:34,840 --> 01:09:36,679
Speaker 4: Okay, So I was supposed to lie about my boy.

1493
01:09:36,840 --> 01:09:38,160
Speaker 4: I wasna say it was some.

1494
01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:42,839
Speaker 1: Bro, You're too honest.

1495
01:09:43,600 --> 01:09:44,040
Speaker 2: I am.

1496
01:09:46,080 --> 01:09:50,040
Speaker 4: Policy, But what I will say, I really do be

1497
01:09:50,120 --> 01:09:52,200
Speaker 4: listening to my bobs. But I was about a lot

1498
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:55,599
Speaker 4: about it. I didn't listen to because I haven't listened

1499
01:09:55,640 --> 01:09:59,000
Speaker 4: to a new song. So I'm just gonna say these

1500
01:09:59,320 --> 01:09:59,640
Speaker 4: Mary J.

1501
01:09:59,760 --> 01:10:03,639
Speaker 2: Black, So did you listen to it? Good morning gorgeous?

1502
01:10:03,920 --> 01:10:06,560
Speaker 6: Yeah, that's definitely all my ship, And I feel like

1503
01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:07,680
Speaker 6: this is a whole affirmation.

1504
01:10:08,240 --> 01:10:10,439
Speaker 4: We never talked about her album. We never talked about

1505
01:10:10,479 --> 01:10:12,200
Speaker 4: her album. We never said that as a vibe. And

1506
01:10:12,280 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 4: you know, I've been really into my morning routines, like

1507
01:10:14,800 --> 01:10:17,200
Speaker 4: we were like I'll be waking up at like seven am,

1508
01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:18,920
Speaker 4: I do my meditation.

1509
01:10:19,320 --> 01:10:20,800
Speaker 2: I'll be doing my stretches.

1510
01:10:23,280 --> 01:10:24,760
Speaker 1: Obviously sometimes people don't.

1511
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:31,800
Speaker 4: I was just asking, all right, so, oh yeah, I'll

1512
01:10:31,800 --> 01:10:33,600
Speaker 4: be doing my little morning routine. And this is just

1513
01:10:33,680 --> 01:10:35,559
Speaker 4: like a great song to listen to in the morning

1514
01:10:35,600 --> 01:10:37,120
Speaker 4: when you're getting ready and trying.

1515
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 8: To start showing that gorgeous I don't know if I

1516
01:10:39,000 --> 01:10:41,679
Speaker 8: want to be happy or sad with this song really

1517
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:43,080
Speaker 8: why we just.

1518
01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:46,880
Speaker 5: Kindly feel to it?

1519
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:47,560
Speaker 1: You know what?

1520
01:10:48,040 --> 01:10:49,720
Speaker 2: The song had that melancholy feel because I know what

1521
01:10:49,800 --> 01:10:50,479
Speaker 2: you're talking about.

1522
01:10:51,000 --> 01:10:52,960
Speaker 1: What was to get there?

1523
01:10:53,080 --> 01:10:53,840
Speaker 2: That's a sad one.

1524
01:10:54,040 --> 01:10:56,160
Speaker 1: The song of Leah had the last one that came out,

1525
01:10:56,240 --> 01:10:59,839
Speaker 1: not what was the other one? I don't think correct

1526
01:11:00,280 --> 01:11:02,080
Speaker 1: for this thing. What's all?

1527
01:11:03,000 --> 01:11:10,280
Speaker 2: What song is that that was not more man like

1528
01:11:10,360 --> 01:11:12,880
Speaker 2: a sad tone to it? I know what you mean,

1529
01:11:13,080 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 2: Like it's not a sad song, but the this song

1530
01:11:16,280 --> 01:11:18,439
Speaker 2: is kind of but let me say this, but I

1531
01:11:18,640 --> 01:11:19,600
Speaker 2: like this song like.

1532
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:21,560
Speaker 6: Mary J.

1533
01:11:21,840 --> 01:11:24,960
Speaker 2: Blige. Go to her Instagram right now. Fine, y'all are

1534
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:27,120
Speaker 2: watching this right now? Pull up on Instagram. I want

1535
01:11:27,120 --> 01:11:29,439
Speaker 2: to hang out with eating the looks lately.

1536
01:11:29,520 --> 01:11:31,639
Speaker 1: I don't know who dressing her eating the girl, I don't.

1537
01:11:31,479 --> 01:11:36,920
Speaker 2: Know she's with a bootline. Okay, I'm waiting for that.

1538
01:11:37,080 --> 01:11:37,720
Speaker 1: You know what I think.

1539
01:11:37,720 --> 01:11:40,360
Speaker 2: I think people are like pressing, pressuring her to do it,

1540
01:11:40,479 --> 01:11:42,840
Speaker 2: so she like don't want to do it. It feels

1541
01:11:42,920 --> 01:11:45,720
Speaker 2: like it's too much like that ship pressure. It's like

1542
01:11:45,840 --> 01:11:48,439
Speaker 2: Brianna with the album. Yeah, it's too much pressure right now.

1543
01:11:48,479 --> 01:11:50,519
Speaker 2: But Brihanna did say that. She said, I feel like

1544
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,160
Speaker 2: I'm waiting for the perfect moment to do it and

1545
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:54,200
Speaker 2: it's never gonna come.

1546
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:56,280
Speaker 6: I feel like she ain't trying to she ain't trying

1547
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:59,920
Speaker 6: to make j Z no more money like that, I'm

1548
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:01,680
Speaker 6: dropping something but ain't an album.

1549
01:12:03,240 --> 01:12:03,760
Speaker 2: Exactly.

1550
01:12:04,120 --> 01:12:06,080
Speaker 1: But Mary Jay, y'all go to Instagram right now, she's

1551
01:12:06,080 --> 01:12:06,599
Speaker 1: looking finest.

1552
01:12:07,920 --> 01:12:10,280
Speaker 5: So Mary j good morning, gorgeous.

1553
01:12:10,520 --> 01:12:14,800
Speaker 2: Okay, what's your I like? Uh, Brent Faz, your listening?

1554
01:12:14,960 --> 01:12:18,719
Speaker 2: Oh I love addictions. Maybe it's the love the drugs.

1555
01:12:20,200 --> 01:12:23,320
Speaker 2: Maybe I don't need a hug. Maybe I'm just fucked up.

1556
01:12:23,439 --> 01:12:24,080
Speaker 2: I can relate to.

1557
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:26,720
Speaker 1: That is so toxic and I love it.

1558
01:12:26,800 --> 01:12:29,519
Speaker 2: But he has sing so it's sounds so good.

1559
01:12:29,640 --> 01:12:32,400
Speaker 3: They don't give a fuck that he be saying some bullsh.

1560
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:35,800
Speaker 2: He's got that sounds so good.

1561
01:12:36,320 --> 01:12:38,640
Speaker 5: Is fine I've never seen you.

1562
01:12:38,880 --> 01:12:40,760
Speaker 2: Fine. I think he's fine.

1563
01:12:41,040 --> 01:12:44,719
Speaker 5: It sounds he's like he was ready to for baby Face.

1564
01:12:46,000 --> 01:12:54,320
Speaker 2: We can't trust you, Brent, you shoot you. Maybe Face

1565
01:12:54,479 --> 01:12:58,599
Speaker 2: Raymond is wild? Right, he's right?

1566
01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:00,800
Speaker 1: What did you talking about about baby Face?

1567
01:13:00,960 --> 01:13:01,120
Speaker 2: Right?

1568
01:13:01,479 --> 01:13:02,200
Speaker 1: And baby Face?

1569
01:13:02,280 --> 01:13:02,759
Speaker 2: She mixing?

1570
01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:04,599
Speaker 1: She mixing?

1571
01:13:04,680 --> 01:13:09,760
Speaker 2: The last name is and I was just playing I

1572
01:13:09,880 --> 01:13:13,479
Speaker 2: do Tracy, you know what.

1573
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie. So what was the song I

1574
01:13:16,640 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 1: was singing earlier?

1575
01:13:18,320 --> 01:13:19,160
Speaker 5: It's the Cooling You.

1576
01:13:19,360 --> 01:13:22,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's one of my favorites, literally, but I'm not

1577
01:13:22,120 --> 01:13:22,519
Speaker 2: gonna lie.

1578
01:13:22,560 --> 01:13:23,400
Speaker 1: He had this song with.

1579
01:13:25,080 --> 01:13:28,599
Speaker 2: Oh, what's the song loneliness? He has a song called Loneliness,

1580
01:13:28,640 --> 01:13:30,559
Speaker 2: and I feel like people really slept on that song.

1581
01:13:31,000 --> 01:13:34,960
Speaker 1: It's a fucking ballad. So if y'all ever have some times.

1582
01:13:36,320 --> 01:13:38,760
Speaker 2: A ballad? Bit? What's the groups? What was the group

1583
01:13:38,840 --> 01:13:41,920
Speaker 2: he was in? I can't remember the group? Yeah, you

1584
01:13:42,000 --> 01:13:44,439
Speaker 2: know what his family members? Yeah, baby Face the group?

1585
01:13:44,600 --> 01:13:45,439
Speaker 2: Oh I don't remember that.

1586
01:13:52,400 --> 01:13:56,200
Speaker 6: Oh yeah, oh my.

1587
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:02,080
Speaker 1: I carry travel.

1588
01:14:03,479 --> 01:14:16,040
Speaker 2: For I can think of okay, yes, when you ain't yeah, yeah,

1589
01:14:17,240 --> 01:14:20,120
Speaker 2: being baggy back, baggy face.

1590
01:14:20,920 --> 01:14:24,240
Speaker 1: Loneliness is like one of my favorite songs, like, yes.

1591
01:14:24,160 --> 01:14:24,920
Speaker 6: I put check it out.

1592
01:14:24,960 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's a really good song.

1593
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:26,479
Speaker 5: It's about it.

1594
01:14:26,520 --> 01:14:29,840
Speaker 2: I like to be sad. So what's my boy? What's

1595
01:14:29,880 --> 01:14:30,280
Speaker 2: your bob?

1596
01:14:30,439 --> 01:14:31,960
Speaker 5: My boy is two million up?

1597
01:14:35,280 --> 01:14:35,479
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1598
01:14:38,800 --> 01:14:41,519
Speaker 5: Yeah, we were saying, like you watched the.

1599
01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:47,400
Speaker 2: Old video on the med. I just heard that song

1600
01:14:47,479 --> 01:14:48,760
Speaker 2: for the first time last night.

1601
01:14:50,760 --> 01:14:54,360
Speaker 9: The D. Please don't you talking about you heard the

1602
01:14:54,840 --> 01:14:57,559
Speaker 9: new song, that's all you're talking about. Yeah, but you've

1603
01:14:57,600 --> 01:15:06,760
Speaker 9: heard the sample you see the D Yeah, I said, Now,

1604
01:15:08,160 --> 01:15:09,160
Speaker 9: I was talking about.

1605
01:15:08,920 --> 01:15:10,960
Speaker 2: What the world and that's gonna be me for the world.

1606
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:23,479
Speaker 2: Bench talking going out with a baby. So that's some

1607
01:15:23,600 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 2: good bot y'all to y'all.

1608
01:15:27,040 --> 01:15:28,960
Speaker 6: Okay, so now we have the.

1609
01:15:29,120 --> 01:15:31,599
Speaker 2: Idem of weeds. So it's my turn.

1610
01:15:31,720 --> 01:15:32,200
Speaker 5: Let me see it.

1611
01:15:32,240 --> 01:15:34,599
Speaker 2: I hope I didn't push it too far back it over?

1612
01:15:34,680 --> 01:15:37,040
Speaker 6: He did?

1613
01:15:37,120 --> 01:15:42,559
Speaker 2: Somebody take that bottle that was under its right there

1614
01:15:42,680 --> 01:15:46,200
Speaker 2: it is I did, Thank you, Hobby, Pass it on,

1615
01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:47,640
Speaker 2: Pass it on. Now, y'all know me.

1616
01:15:48,280 --> 01:15:51,120
Speaker 1: I am a party girl. I like to party.

1617
01:15:51,280 --> 01:15:53,160
Speaker 2: I like the bug I like to drink all that

1618
01:15:53,280 --> 01:15:56,080
Speaker 2: good stuff. I love me a good pussy wife. You

1619
01:15:56,240 --> 01:15:59,400
Speaker 2: all love I love a good pussy wife. I've used

1620
01:15:59,400 --> 01:16:00,160
Speaker 2: a lot of puss.

1621
01:16:00,200 --> 01:16:03,759
Speaker 1: Whites in my day. These are my favorite pussy whites.

1622
01:16:03,800 --> 01:16:06,559
Speaker 2: Now, this is not gonna throw off your pH It's

1623
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:08,840
Speaker 2: just gonna get you real clean and ready when.

1624
01:16:08,680 --> 01:16:10,680
Speaker 1: It's time to go down. Because you know, a lot

1625
01:16:10,680 --> 01:16:11,080
Speaker 1: of times I.

1626
01:16:11,120 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 2: Feel like you can kill the vibe after the club

1627
01:16:13,600 --> 01:16:15,600
Speaker 2: by trying to hurry up and take a shower and

1628
01:16:15,720 --> 01:16:16,040
Speaker 2: do all that.

1629
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:18,120
Speaker 1: Like sometimes you just be like huh, babe, and go

1630
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:20,760
Speaker 1: work that little clit off. We got a little sweat

1631
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:21,000
Speaker 1: on them.

1632
01:16:21,040 --> 01:16:22,880
Speaker 2: What they little clit off? You know what I'm saying,

1633
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:24,880
Speaker 2: Especially if you're a little hairy. See my niggas don't

1634
01:16:24,880 --> 01:16:26,400
Speaker 2: care if I'm a little hairy. So sometimes you gotta

1635
01:16:26,400 --> 01:16:30,080
Speaker 2: clean them little hairs out. So these are down there

1636
01:16:30,840 --> 01:16:33,519
Speaker 2: falling off. No I set the little hairs down there,

1637
01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:37,000
Speaker 2: they might catch a little sweat. That's what hair is for,

1638
01:16:37,160 --> 01:16:39,479
Speaker 2: to catch bai. Yeah, but I'm not gonna lie. Some

1639
01:16:39,600 --> 01:16:41,240
Speaker 2: niggas they like a little you know, they like a

1640
01:16:41,280 --> 01:16:44,360
Speaker 2: little funk in the monk. But this is for if

1641
01:16:44,479 --> 01:16:46,320
Speaker 2: that nigga don't like a little funk in the month

1642
01:16:46,400 --> 01:16:48,600
Speaker 2: and you don't know, you don't know yet if you

1643
01:16:48,760 --> 01:16:51,840
Speaker 2: like a little funk on that monk. So you can

1644
01:16:51,920 --> 01:16:55,320
Speaker 2: get these from Tarja. These are called down there whites.

1645
01:16:55,439 --> 01:17:01,320
Speaker 2: They're a company called Woodwives. What I love that sen Yeah, alright, because.

1646
01:17:01,120 --> 01:17:01,960
Speaker 1: It smells clean.

1647
01:17:02,560 --> 01:17:05,040
Speaker 2: I don't like a fragrance down there, like I don't

1648
01:17:05,040 --> 01:17:09,840
Speaker 2: want to smell like I just sprayed some fucking because

1649
01:17:09,880 --> 01:17:13,880
Speaker 2: he smell like your grandma old perfume, white diamonds and

1650
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:17,240
Speaker 2: it tastes like ship. So I like a little natural

1651
01:17:17,400 --> 01:17:20,880
Speaker 2: scent like damn, he's gonna be like damn baby. Yeah,

1652
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,800
Speaker 2: so this is the rose water. When I tell y'all, look,

1653
01:17:23,840 --> 01:17:26,519
Speaker 2: and y'all, my box is empty, bitch because your girl

1654
01:17:26,640 --> 01:17:28,559
Speaker 2: been cutting up because I've been outside. When I tell

1655
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:30,920
Speaker 2: you the little one two and put it on them,

1656
01:17:31,040 --> 01:17:34,640
Speaker 2: oh little pat pat one too, so yes, and I

1657
01:17:34,760 --> 01:17:36,479
Speaker 2: put it on the make him want to marry me.

1658
01:17:39,320 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 13: She probably will co sign me walk around with no

1659
01:17:45,240 --> 01:17:53,880
Speaker 13: man who won't eat it. You better tell come on baby.

1660
01:17:55,840 --> 01:17:56,920
Speaker 2: To the envelopes.

1661
01:17:58,520 --> 01:17:59,840
Speaker 1: Chad looking nice today.

1662
01:18:00,240 --> 01:18:03,000
Speaker 4: I would time for us to get into our favorite

1663
01:18:03,080 --> 01:18:05,840
Speaker 4: segment of the show, which is pour your heart out.

1664
01:18:06,360 --> 01:18:17,040
Speaker 2: So yeah, because the segment was fine in the big

1665
01:18:17,280 --> 01:18:25,120
Speaker 2: gray just a pause, let me give Fat his flowers,

1666
01:18:25,160 --> 01:18:28,120
Speaker 2: because that is taking on the job of our new

1667
01:18:28,240 --> 01:18:30,720
Speaker 2: producer and setting up everything for us and that you

1668
01:18:30,800 --> 01:18:34,639
Speaker 2: have done an amazing jobs you have. Yes, so y'all

1669
01:18:34,680 --> 01:18:36,400
Speaker 2: make sure y'all foll a little Fad Wilson, but don't

1670
01:18:36,400 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 2: sign his DM holes. He got a job to do.

1671
01:18:39,320 --> 01:18:43,360
Speaker 2: Thank you be distracting him.

1672
01:18:43,680 --> 01:18:45,840
Speaker 4: So yeah, So now it's time to get into our

1673
01:18:45,920 --> 01:18:48,439
Speaker 4: favorite segment of the show, which is pour your heart out.

1674
01:18:48,800 --> 01:18:50,200
Speaker 2: So you know, if you have any.

1675
01:18:50,120 --> 01:18:53,479
Speaker 4: Questions, you can send them to ask Poor Minds at

1676
01:18:53,600 --> 01:18:56,479
Speaker 4: gmail dot com a s k P O you r

1677
01:18:56,640 --> 01:19:00,080
Speaker 4: in my n B s at gmail dot com. We

1678
01:19:00,200 --> 01:19:03,360
Speaker 4: want to know your stories, we want to know your questions,

1679
01:19:03,400 --> 01:19:05,640
Speaker 4: We want to your systemonials, sweety.

1680
01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:08,000
Speaker 3: Fucking some of y'all life up, So just let us

1681
01:19:08,120 --> 01:19:09,280
Speaker 3: know if we help.

1682
01:19:09,880 --> 01:19:13,240
Speaker 2: You know if we helped or if we hindered. I

1683
01:19:13,320 --> 01:19:16,720
Speaker 2: think you want me first, got question? How you know

1684
01:19:17,520 --> 01:19:19,120
Speaker 2: if you want me to go first? Or I'll go

1685
01:19:19,240 --> 01:19:20,639
Speaker 2: first so I can get it over with it. Okay,

1686
01:19:21,479 --> 01:19:24,720
Speaker 2: Actually no, I'll go first because you read too good,

1687
01:19:24,800 --> 01:19:26,920
Speaker 2: so they're gonna be expecting more out of me. Okay,

1688
01:19:27,080 --> 01:19:29,120
Speaker 2: So I'm gonna do it first so they don't expect much.

1689
01:19:29,360 --> 01:19:29,479
Speaker 9: Right.

1690
01:19:30,000 --> 01:19:32,160
Speaker 2: Hey, ladies, I hope you come across this message and

1691
01:19:32,200 --> 01:19:34,639
Speaker 2: help a young and out I'm twenty one years old

1692
01:19:34,760 --> 01:19:37,639
Speaker 2: and six months pregnant with my twenty eight year old

1693
01:19:37,680 --> 01:19:40,760
Speaker 2: boyfriend's baby. I was married last year, and it was

1694
01:19:40,800 --> 01:19:43,880
Speaker 2: the most toxic experience I have ever experienced in.

1695
01:19:43,960 --> 01:19:44,679
Speaker 1: My short life.

1696
01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:48,000
Speaker 2: Fortunately, I met my current boyfriend as soon as I

1697
01:19:48,080 --> 01:19:50,960
Speaker 2: thought for divorce not too long ago, and I was

1698
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:53,719
Speaker 2: happy as fuck when I met him. He definitely filled

1699
01:19:53,760 --> 01:19:57,479
Speaker 2: a void I was missing and needed. But we recently

1700
01:19:57,640 --> 01:20:01,240
Speaker 2: just got into a terrible argument on Mary. He wants

1701
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:04,360
Speaker 2: he wants to get married today, like right now, as

1702
01:20:04,400 --> 01:20:05,240
Speaker 2: soon as possible.

1703
01:20:05,600 --> 01:20:07,040
Speaker 1: At first, I was okay with it.

1704
01:20:07,200 --> 01:20:10,519
Speaker 2: I told him I didn't mind getting remarried, but I'm

1705
01:20:10,560 --> 01:20:14,000
Speaker 2: already doubting my decision. I definitely don't want to get

1706
01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:16,920
Speaker 2: married anymore due to my last marriage being so toxic.

1707
01:20:17,400 --> 01:20:21,960
Speaker 2: I don't think I'm ready in any aspect physically, mentally, emotionally,

1708
01:20:22,240 --> 01:20:25,760
Speaker 2: or financially prepared. My question to y'all is what do

1709
01:20:25,920 --> 01:20:28,559
Speaker 2: I do? He says I'm leaving him on with marriage

1710
01:20:28,600 --> 01:20:30,439
Speaker 2: because one minute I can do it and the next

1711
01:20:30,520 --> 01:20:33,680
Speaker 2: minute I can't, So he's losing patience. I feel, as

1712
01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:36,840
Speaker 2: my boyfriend and knowing my past, you should respect my

1713
01:20:36,960 --> 01:20:40,120
Speaker 2: decision and not wanting to get married anytime soon, and

1714
01:20:40,320 --> 01:20:44,960
Speaker 2: understand why I'm being so decisive love and decisive? Oh

1715
01:20:45,200 --> 01:20:47,479
Speaker 2: my bad, I told you. I read it through the

1716
01:20:47,520 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 2: whole paragraph.

1717
01:20:49,160 --> 01:20:50,720
Speaker 1: Why I mean so indecisive?

1718
01:20:51,439 --> 01:20:53,840
Speaker 2: Okay, twenty one she's.

1719
01:20:55,479 --> 01:20:56,760
Speaker 1: No, she's twenty one right now.

1720
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:59,400
Speaker 2: She's been married before. She didn't say when she got pregnant,

1721
01:20:59,600 --> 01:21:01,880
Speaker 2: and she's pregnant with her next boyfriend. She doesn't want

1722
01:21:01,920 --> 01:21:04,360
Speaker 2: to get married to him. Right? Did she have any

1723
01:21:04,400 --> 01:21:06,600
Speaker 2: other kids? I wanted to She didn't say whether she

1724
01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:08,760
Speaker 2: did or not. A whole lot of it's a whole lot.

1725
01:21:08,920 --> 01:21:12,080
Speaker 2: So she was married before. She's only twenty one? Yeah,

1726
01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:17,240
Speaker 2: I think honestly, my my advice, slow your life down.

1727
01:21:17,640 --> 01:21:20,160
Speaker 2: You're only twenty one, you haven't babies. You get married,

1728
01:21:20,200 --> 01:21:20,679
Speaker 2: girl slept?

1729
01:21:20,720 --> 01:21:21,680
Speaker 1: What is you rushing for it?

1730
01:21:21,800 --> 01:21:24,080
Speaker 2: Where is your daddy not seen?

1731
01:21:25,000 --> 01:21:25,160
Speaker 4: Oh?

1732
01:21:25,280 --> 01:21:25,599
Speaker 2: Sorry?

1733
01:21:26,040 --> 01:21:29,920
Speaker 1: I had no daddy around when I was growing up?

1734
01:21:30,000 --> 01:21:34,200
Speaker 2: What ever? Said? Sorry? Where's your mom? I slow down

1735
01:21:34,240 --> 01:21:36,679
Speaker 2: a bit, like, yeah, you don't even I tell people

1736
01:21:36,720 --> 01:21:38,320
Speaker 2: this all the time. And somebody got on my ass

1737
01:21:38,439 --> 01:21:40,599
Speaker 2: in the comments about this. That was like lex telling

1738
01:21:40,680 --> 01:21:42,640
Speaker 2: people the person that you like at twenty one is

1739
01:21:42,680 --> 01:21:45,400
Speaker 2: not the person who can see and that's why he's

1740
01:21:45,439 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 2: holding up single.

1741
01:21:46,760 --> 01:21:48,839
Speaker 1: But it's not. Let's be real with ourselves.

1742
01:21:48,880 --> 01:21:53,080
Speaker 2: That's why so many women are either miserable in their marriage,

1743
01:21:53,479 --> 01:21:54,960
Speaker 2: they're getting divorced.

1744
01:21:55,479 --> 01:21:57,040
Speaker 1: Like she said, she's twenty one.

1745
01:21:56,960 --> 01:21:59,559
Speaker 4: And divorced, and is it the worst thing to end

1746
01:21:59,640 --> 01:22:03,040
Speaker 4: up seeing if it's not the person you're.

1747
01:22:02,880 --> 01:22:05,240
Speaker 1: Not supposed to. You're supposed to take your time.

1748
01:22:05,360 --> 01:22:07,320
Speaker 2: Like I said, I'm thirty three and I'm just now

1749
01:22:07,479 --> 01:22:11,599
Speaker 2: figuring out and really putting myself first. So first things first,

1750
01:22:11,640 --> 01:22:13,479
Speaker 2: you need to slow down and make decisions for you.

1751
01:22:14,120 --> 01:22:16,080
Speaker 2: You're six months pregnant, so I can't tell you what

1752
01:22:16,160 --> 01:22:27,920
Speaker 2: I would have done. Anybody force you into marriage. You're

1753
01:22:27,920 --> 01:22:30,920
Speaker 2: not ready to get married. Don't get married like life

1754
01:22:31,439 --> 01:22:33,559
Speaker 2: gonna be hard twenty one with a baby, bitch, I can't.

1755
01:22:33,720 --> 01:22:34,600
Speaker 1: I don't know how that is.

1756
01:22:35,320 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 2: But just slow down, slow down and make decisions for

1757
01:22:38,439 --> 01:22:39,800
Speaker 2: you that you feel like it's best for you.

1758
01:22:40,240 --> 01:22:42,920
Speaker 1: Don't worry about anybody else. Worry about you and your baby.

1759
01:22:43,080 --> 01:22:46,840
Speaker 2: But she wants to be a single parent, then not necessarily.

1760
01:22:46,400 --> 01:22:48,200
Speaker 1: Because we can get married. It's not right now.

1761
01:22:48,720 --> 01:22:50,439
Speaker 2: Why we got to rush into marriage if we're gonna

1762
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:52,400
Speaker 2: be together forever, Why does it marry?

1763
01:22:52,520 --> 01:22:53,439
Speaker 1: Why does it matter if.

1764
01:22:53,320 --> 01:22:53,880
Speaker 2: We get married?

1765
01:22:53,920 --> 01:22:55,559
Speaker 5: Like, but she don't see him as a husband.

1766
01:22:55,760 --> 01:22:59,640
Speaker 2: That I think she just yeah, buying time. Yeah, I

1767
01:22:59,720 --> 01:23:02,679
Speaker 2: mean that could that that you know? All right? Maybe

1768
01:23:02,720 --> 01:23:04,760
Speaker 2: because I feel like if you know, you know, right,

1769
01:23:04,920 --> 01:23:06,599
Speaker 2: but why get pregnant for a man.

1770
01:23:07,760 --> 01:23:09,400
Speaker 1: That you don't you know, necessarily want to.

1771
01:23:10,680 --> 01:23:12,760
Speaker 4: I mean plenty of people get pregnant for niggas that

1772
01:23:12,800 --> 01:23:13,679
Speaker 4: they don't want to married.

1773
01:23:13,920 --> 01:23:16,680
Speaker 2: That's not a part of our ministry. Well, I mean

1774
01:23:16,760 --> 01:23:19,240
Speaker 2: it can be, like I said, but you you we're

1775
01:23:19,320 --> 01:23:20,400
Speaker 2: not all Rihanna's out here.

1776
01:23:20,680 --> 01:23:22,719
Speaker 1: But that's a different you know that I don't.

1777
01:23:22,560 --> 01:23:25,080
Speaker 4: Care to give me I don't care to get married

1778
01:23:25,160 --> 01:23:27,439
Speaker 4: before I get pregnant. I feel like I've always been.

1779
01:23:29,640 --> 01:23:30,960
Speaker 2: But poor.

1780
01:23:31,760 --> 01:23:35,680
Speaker 1: Yeah she said that, she said financially she.

1781
01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:39,960
Speaker 2: Said people said she needed to just go ahead and

1782
01:23:39,960 --> 01:23:42,200
Speaker 2: get married. Yeah, she gotta go fifty to fifty. Yeah

1783
01:23:42,280 --> 01:23:43,599
Speaker 2: you got so. You also.

1784
01:23:45,120 --> 01:23:47,280
Speaker 6: She got to stay down till she come and marriage,

1785
01:23:48,560 --> 01:23:49,519
Speaker 6: get divorced again.

1786
01:23:50,280 --> 01:23:55,519
Speaker 1: No, damn even married twice? I know that puts it.

1787
01:23:55,720 --> 01:23:57,080
Speaker 6: Yet he did.

1788
01:24:00,120 --> 01:24:07,120
Speaker 2: You get married twice? Pussy hit something that pussy words word.

1789
01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:11,920
Speaker 6: I used to think my ship was broke. Because everybody

1790
01:24:12,000 --> 01:24:13,599
Speaker 6: was saying it was squirting and I wasn't.

1791
01:24:15,479 --> 01:24:18,719
Speaker 1: Late in life, that didn't work.

1792
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:21,320
Speaker 2: There's a lot of people that don't squirt though. Yeah

1793
01:24:21,840 --> 01:24:26,480
Speaker 2: we said they ain't got well squirting it's hereditary.

1794
01:24:26,560 --> 01:24:27,719
Speaker 1: We've talked about this in the past.

1795
01:24:27,800 --> 01:24:30,719
Speaker 3: If you don't squark, you it's your granny.

1796
01:24:31,400 --> 01:24:33,920
Speaker 2: Is your granny's fault. Squirting is hereditary. It's a muscle,

1797
01:24:34,080 --> 01:24:39,760
Speaker 2: like you know, like being Yeah, grandma, let me tell

1798
01:24:39,760 --> 01:24:42,200
Speaker 2: you something. Let me let y'all know what right now,

1799
01:24:42,880 --> 01:24:43,759
Speaker 2: A lane's fault.

1800
01:24:43,880 --> 01:24:45,240
Speaker 1: Why you talk about this before.

1801
01:24:45,320 --> 01:24:46,960
Speaker 2: If you walk in your grandma house and she got

1802
01:24:47,000 --> 01:24:48,920
Speaker 2: plastic on the sofa, that's because she was a squirter

1803
01:24:49,160 --> 01:24:58,880
Speaker 2: and beyond extra fact. So yeah, girl, she ain't got

1804
01:24:58,920 --> 01:25:01,599
Speaker 2: no plastic on it. It's ain't our house.

1805
01:25:02,280 --> 01:25:03,479
Speaker 1: I don't think I would be squirting.

1806
01:25:05,160 --> 01:25:07,400
Speaker 2: And like I said, single woman essentials, I live alone.

1807
01:25:07,479 --> 01:25:08,519
Speaker 2: I do as I please.

1808
01:25:08,880 --> 01:25:10,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I can squirt off my cous ain't got no

1809
01:25:10,720 --> 01:25:11,320
Speaker 4: green kids.

1810
01:25:11,600 --> 01:25:14,240
Speaker 1: I'm there again, too late.

1811
01:25:17,360 --> 01:25:21,280
Speaker 2: So my advice is honestly all jokes aside. Put yourself first.

1812
01:25:21,360 --> 01:25:24,360
Speaker 2: Don't force yourself into a situation you don't want to

1813
01:25:24,400 --> 01:25:27,599
Speaker 2: be in. Your concerns should be yourself and your baby,

1814
01:25:27,680 --> 01:25:29,519
Speaker 2: because you're gonna have a lot. I don't know if

1815
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:31,720
Speaker 2: this is your first child or not, but if it is,

1816
01:25:32,040 --> 01:25:33,720
Speaker 2: you have a lot of responsibility and a lot of

1817
01:25:33,800 --> 01:25:36,960
Speaker 2: things coming. So I actually saw a tweet the other

1818
01:25:37,080 --> 01:25:40,040
Speaker 2: day that men feel neglected when a woman has a baby.

1819
01:25:40,280 --> 01:25:42,599
Speaker 2: So if he's feeling neglected now, he's probably gonna feel

1820
01:25:42,600 --> 01:25:44,519
Speaker 2: it even more. That's gonna be even more strained on

1821
01:25:44,560 --> 01:25:47,920
Speaker 2: the relationships. Babies don't fix things. So if y'all are

1822
01:25:47,920 --> 01:25:51,639
Speaker 2: having problems now, please don't get married. Please don't get married.

1823
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:54,040
Speaker 2: I don't know you feel like she should.

1824
01:25:55,680 --> 01:25:57,680
Speaker 6: It's not about you once you have another baby, Like

1825
01:25:57,720 --> 01:25:59,880
Speaker 6: I understand, like mama got to be healthy in order

1826
01:25:59,880 --> 01:26:01,920
Speaker 6: to take care of the family, but once you have

1827
01:26:02,000 --> 01:26:03,920
Speaker 6: a child, you also have to take that other life

1828
01:26:03,960 --> 01:26:04,720
Speaker 6: into consideration.

1829
01:26:04,840 --> 01:26:06,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I feel like a kid.

1830
01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:08,200
Speaker 1: Yeah what happy?

1831
01:26:08,800 --> 01:26:12,160
Speaker 2: Like I'm saying, if them being together, she's unhappy. That's

1832
01:26:12,200 --> 01:26:14,120
Speaker 2: not what's best for the baby. A lot of times

1833
01:26:14,120 --> 01:26:15,800
Speaker 2: people feel like, oh, I want to have my baby

1834
01:26:15,840 --> 01:26:17,599
Speaker 2: in a two parent household. That's cool, But are y'all

1835
01:26:17,600 --> 01:26:20,800
Speaker 2: getting along? Are y'all a healthy relationship for that baby?

1836
01:26:20,840 --> 01:26:25,800
Speaker 2: Even right over to the side, of the room.

1837
01:26:25,880 --> 01:26:28,080
Speaker 7: I can see that picture of that lady with that baby.

1838
01:26:31,960 --> 01:26:39,679
Speaker 7: I mean, okay, question too, okay, but number.

1839
01:26:39,479 --> 01:26:42,120
Speaker 2: Two, Hey, lovely, I've been a part of the poor

1840
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:44,280
Speaker 2: crew for two years now, and I'm so proud of

1841
01:26:44,360 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 2: how far your ladies have come. Let's get into a child.

1842
01:26:47,840 --> 01:26:50,400
Speaker 2: I'm a twenty four year old beauty girlom.

1843
01:26:50,400 --> 01:26:54,200
Speaker 4: In a city girl La SPECPK, living my best life.

1844
01:26:54,680 --> 01:26:56,960
Speaker 4: I've been in a relationship for four years now and

1845
01:26:57,080 --> 01:26:59,599
Speaker 4: my boyfriend and I are head over heels in love.

1846
01:26:59,520 --> 01:26:59,960
Speaker 2: With each other.

1847
01:27:00,040 --> 01:27:03,920
Speaker 4: He is a successful businessman and his ventures are growing

1848
01:27:04,000 --> 01:27:07,560
Speaker 4: bigger and bigger. I'm soper proud of him, being that

1849
01:27:07,640 --> 01:27:10,040
Speaker 4: I've seen him build his life and income brick by

1850
01:27:10,120 --> 01:27:38,400
Speaker 4: brick for real, but I often feel like his hustle

1851
01:27:38,479 --> 01:27:41,960
Speaker 4: cues before our relationship. He makes a conscious effort to

1852
01:27:42,080 --> 01:27:44,639
Speaker 4: include me and what he has going on and tries

1853
01:27:44,720 --> 01:27:47,200
Speaker 4: to make time for us, but it's things when we

1854
01:27:47,280 --> 01:27:49,519
Speaker 4: have to cancel plans or not see each other as

1855
01:27:49,680 --> 01:27:52,760
Speaker 4: much because something pops up. He always tells me that

1856
01:27:52,920 --> 01:27:56,760
Speaker 4: if he wasn't on his grind and making money, I wouldn't.

1857
01:27:56,360 --> 01:27:58,240
Speaker 2: Want to be with him, which is true.

1858
01:27:58,840 --> 01:28:01,400
Speaker 4: But but I'm getting you see the adjustment now that

1859
01:28:01,520 --> 01:28:04,400
Speaker 4: he's making more and more money and becoming even busier

1860
01:28:04,479 --> 01:28:07,599
Speaker 4: than before. Do you think I'm selfish for feeling this way?

1861
01:28:07,960 --> 01:28:10,600
Speaker 4: How do I cope with feeling lonely in my relationship?

1862
01:28:10,880 --> 01:28:13,120
Speaker 4: And it's this what it's always like when you're in

1863
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:15,519
Speaker 4: a relationship within with a successful man.

1864
01:28:15,680 --> 01:28:19,880
Speaker 2: Thank you in event the roads, it's what comes with,

1865
01:28:20,520 --> 01:28:21,080
Speaker 2: It's what comes with.

1866
01:28:21,240 --> 01:28:22,759
Speaker 1: And honestly, let me tell you something.

1867
01:28:23,240 --> 01:28:25,040
Speaker 2: If I was twenty four and I had met a

1868
01:28:25,120 --> 01:28:27,880
Speaker 2: nigga on his ship, I would be thankful because he

1869
01:28:27,920 --> 01:28:29,880
Speaker 2: can put you on game. He's building with you. By

1870
01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:33,280
Speaker 2: the time he's forty five, y'all gonna life don't really start.

1871
01:28:33,439 --> 01:28:36,240
Speaker 2: I feel like life start when you forty. Yes, I'm like, damn,

1872
01:28:36,240 --> 01:28:38,240
Speaker 2: I'm thirty three and life is getting this good.

1873
01:28:38,960 --> 01:28:39,920
Speaker 1: And now what's your ship?

1874
01:28:40,120 --> 01:28:41,880
Speaker 5: Because that's what you need to focus on, That's what

1875
01:28:41,920 --> 01:28:42,320
Speaker 5: I'm saying.

1876
01:28:42,360 --> 01:28:45,640
Speaker 2: So the time that he's spending hustling, get on your

1877
01:28:45,720 --> 01:28:46,439
Speaker 2: own hustles.

1878
01:28:46,520 --> 01:28:48,120
Speaker 1: So y'all both so busy.

1879
01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:50,639
Speaker 2: When y'all have that time, it's like it's bonding time.

1880
01:28:51,320 --> 01:28:53,559
Speaker 2: But that's what comes with the territory. What you're gonna

1881
01:28:53,600 --> 01:28:55,600
Speaker 2: leave him and find another rich nigga. He gonna be

1882
01:28:55,680 --> 01:28:58,640
Speaker 2: busy as fuck too. It comes with a tear. If

1883
01:28:58,720 --> 01:29:01,760
Speaker 2: that's what you want. You want, you want to available.

1884
01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:04,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna lie to you.

1885
01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:07,559
Speaker 5: I want to a nigga, right yeo, you.

1886
01:29:07,600 --> 01:29:12,320
Speaker 6: Want an av nigga, availability nigga, the nigga you don't

1887
01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:15,519
Speaker 6: really want be he always No, I want a busy man.

1888
01:29:15,560 --> 01:29:16,479
Speaker 2: I ain't never really.

1889
01:29:16,400 --> 01:29:18,640
Speaker 3: Wanted a nigga that was always available, because you know,

1890
01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:19,280
Speaker 3: I said.

1891
01:29:19,800 --> 01:29:23,240
Speaker 2: Right, no, I'm not. I got ship to do now,

1892
01:29:23,320 --> 01:29:25,240
Speaker 2: and I'll see, I mean maybe I don't got that

1893
01:29:25,400 --> 01:29:27,400
Speaker 2: much to do. I'd be like I got yelled at today.

1894
01:29:28,000 --> 01:29:30,559
Speaker 2: You work one day a week, girl, Fuck you are.

1895
01:29:30,560 --> 01:29:35,400
Speaker 1: Busy if.

1896
01:29:34,720 --> 01:29:36,680
Speaker 2: Your whole lot, he has drained me.

1897
01:29:36,760 --> 01:29:39,080
Speaker 1: But but I'm not gonna lie.

1898
01:29:39,200 --> 01:29:41,599
Speaker 2: Like we have been blessed to where our careers like okay,

1899
01:29:41,680 --> 01:29:43,880
Speaker 2: we can take like a little time, but like honestly,

1900
01:29:44,000 --> 01:29:45,840
Speaker 2: when it comes to tour time, like last year, we

1901
01:29:45,840 --> 01:29:48,400
Speaker 2: didn't have a life. We're flying from city to city

1902
01:29:48,439 --> 01:29:50,439
Speaker 2: and doing this to this because we're trying to We

1903
01:29:50,640 --> 01:29:52,519
Speaker 2: always say this, by the time we're forty five, I

1904
01:29:52,640 --> 01:29:54,800
Speaker 2: want to be done, like I want to have built

1905
01:29:54,880 --> 01:29:56,800
Speaker 2: so much where I can be done. So if I

1906
01:29:56,840 --> 01:29:59,559
Speaker 2: would have known what I know now at twenty four, Like, girl,

1907
01:29:59,600 --> 01:30:02,120
Speaker 2: you good good. I think you need to be understanding.

1908
01:30:02,200 --> 01:30:05,240
Speaker 2: But also if you're focused on your future and your

1909
01:30:05,320 --> 01:30:07,920
Speaker 2: craft and whatever you want to you know, hone in on,

1910
01:30:08,280 --> 01:30:11,920
Speaker 2: then it won't be a problem. Like yeah, it's cool

1911
01:30:12,360 --> 01:30:15,120
Speaker 2: kind of you can and that support.

1912
01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:20,080
Speaker 6: I'm glad you said independency within it within the union, right,

1913
01:30:20,640 --> 01:30:21,280
Speaker 6: So a lot of the.

1914
01:30:22,800 --> 01:30:25,360
Speaker 2: Union, right because when we say independency, we don't mean

1915
01:30:25,680 --> 01:30:26,120
Speaker 2: the money.

1916
01:30:26,520 --> 01:30:29,000
Speaker 1: We just mean you can still go out with your friends.

1917
01:30:30,560 --> 01:30:33,599
Speaker 3: Individual y'all got to have two different lives. Like it's

1918
01:30:33,720 --> 01:30:36,560
Speaker 3: good to be a unique, but he got to have

1919
01:30:36,680 --> 01:30:37,320
Speaker 3: his own life.

1920
01:30:37,600 --> 01:30:40,120
Speaker 4: You gotta have your own life, and that's healthy for

1921
01:30:40,479 --> 01:30:42,840
Speaker 4: the growth of a relationship or the sustainability.

1922
01:30:45,800 --> 01:30:47,960
Speaker 2: What sustainability?

1923
01:30:48,880 --> 01:30:49,960
Speaker 1: I love you friends.

1924
01:30:50,200 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 2: One thing about you. You're gonna read a dictionary. Pool.

1925
01:30:55,479 --> 01:30:57,800
Speaker 1: We gotta voice Samel today. So I'm on the shot line.

1926
01:30:57,880 --> 01:31:00,479
Speaker 6: Okay, I forgot to shot this person out and I'm

1927
01:31:00,520 --> 01:31:03,679
Speaker 6: gonna you know what, We're gonna listen to the shot line.

1928
01:31:03,760 --> 01:31:07,080
Speaker 2: So y'all listen to me. I say this every week

1929
01:31:07,400 --> 01:31:09,920
Speaker 2: when y'all call the shot line. This is something to

1930
01:31:10,400 --> 01:31:12,960
Speaker 2: things that you're getting off of your chest. This is

1931
01:31:13,200 --> 01:31:16,120
Speaker 2: not advice. You're either getting something off of your chest.

1932
01:31:16,240 --> 01:31:18,560
Speaker 2: You want to tell us a quick story, you know.

1933
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:21,200
Speaker 2: This is just something fun for us to do. We're

1934
01:31:21,240 --> 01:31:23,280
Speaker 2: calling it the shot line. After we listen to it,

1935
01:31:23,640 --> 01:31:25,800
Speaker 2: I'll have the person's name who came up because he

1936
01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:27,960
Speaker 2: just sent it to me and I'm sorry, I keep

1937
01:31:28,000 --> 01:31:30,439
Speaker 2: forgetting and I'm gonna pull it up right now. But yes,

1938
01:31:30,880 --> 01:31:32,560
Speaker 2: so we're gonna put the number at the bottom of

1939
01:31:32,680 --> 01:31:35,120
Speaker 2: the screen. So if you want to call in on

1940
01:31:35,200 --> 01:31:38,040
Speaker 2: the shot line, leave a message. It's only for if

1941
01:31:38,080 --> 01:31:43,479
Speaker 2: you want to, like I said, tell a story, get

1942
01:31:43,560 --> 01:31:45,760
Speaker 2: something off your chest, just vent whatever it may be.

1943
01:31:46,080 --> 01:31:47,640
Speaker 2: Maybe you want to tell us how much you love us.

1944
01:31:47,720 --> 01:31:51,640
Speaker 2: We don't care, but no advice. Advice is pour your

1945
01:31:51,680 --> 01:31:53,680
Speaker 2: heart out at youmail dot com.

1946
01:31:55,439 --> 01:31:55,720
Speaker 9: Is that it?

1947
01:31:57,120 --> 01:32:04,240
Speaker 2: It's ask ask for my said gmail dot com.

1948
01:32:04,479 --> 01:32:08,320
Speaker 1: But yeah, so go ahead and play the shot line.

1949
01:32:08,880 --> 01:32:11,080
Speaker 15: Hi, guys, I just wanted to say that I love

1950
01:32:11,120 --> 01:32:13,479
Speaker 15: you guys, and you know, I was just watching the

1951
01:32:13,560 --> 01:32:15,920
Speaker 15: last episode and I just wanted to talk my shit

1952
01:32:15,960 --> 01:32:19,439
Speaker 15: a little bit because I don't get why, like you

1953
01:32:19,600 --> 01:32:23,200
Speaker 15: have to continuously play games with guys, Like as much

1954
01:32:23,240 --> 01:32:25,400
Speaker 15: as you want to be honest, being honest is like

1955
01:32:25,479 --> 01:32:27,280
Speaker 15: being a weirdo, you know what I mean. You can't

1956
01:32:27,320 --> 01:32:29,760
Speaker 15: come straightforward because then you're being a weirdo. But then

1957
01:32:29,840 --> 01:32:33,640
Speaker 15: it's like, now that I'm getting older and understanding, like

1958
01:32:34,240 --> 01:32:39,479
Speaker 15: pussy power is really of female intuition, like really knowing,

1959
01:32:39,600 --> 01:32:41,600
Speaker 15: like once you tuned into both.

1960
01:32:41,640 --> 01:32:43,080
Speaker 2: You really are in tune.

1961
01:32:43,120 --> 01:32:45,320
Speaker 15: That niggas really just be the same, Like they're really

1962
01:32:45,400 --> 01:32:48,280
Speaker 15: just stupid. You can manipulate them and do whatever.

1963
01:32:48,360 --> 01:32:50,160
Speaker 2: Blah blah blah. You know, not in a bad way,

1964
01:32:50,240 --> 01:32:51,120
Speaker 2: but you know whatever.

1965
01:32:52,880 --> 01:32:54,479
Speaker 15: But yeah, like I don't want to play the game.

1966
01:32:54,520 --> 01:32:56,200
Speaker 15: I just want to tell you how it is, and

1967
01:32:56,560 --> 01:32:58,840
Speaker 15: you know, just be my man, Like why are we

1968
01:32:58,960 --> 01:32:59,759
Speaker 15: playing this stupid?

1969
01:33:00,040 --> 01:33:00,519
Speaker 2: That's game?

1970
01:33:01,360 --> 01:33:02,840
Speaker 15: But yeah, I love you guys, and.

1971
01:33:05,200 --> 01:33:06,439
Speaker 2: Keep doing what you're doing.

1972
01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:08,560
Speaker 15: Keep being bad bases because you guys are doing the

1973
01:33:08,720 --> 01:33:09,320
Speaker 15: damn things.

1974
01:33:11,000 --> 01:33:13,639
Speaker 1: That was a perfect shot line. That was a good

1975
01:33:13,680 --> 01:33:15,000
Speaker 1: example of a shot line.

1976
01:33:15,240 --> 01:33:17,120
Speaker 2: But that's crazy that that was the shot line today,

1977
01:33:17,160 --> 01:33:19,600
Speaker 2: and that's what we were talking about. Unfortunately, it is

1978
01:33:19,720 --> 01:33:22,160
Speaker 2: what it is. You do have to play games because

1979
01:33:22,160 --> 01:33:23,559
Speaker 2: it's men like games.

1980
01:33:23,720 --> 01:33:25,479
Speaker 3: I don't think, Okay, so I don't even think they

1981
01:33:25,680 --> 01:33:26,080
Speaker 3: like games.

1982
01:33:26,120 --> 01:33:29,280
Speaker 2: I just think they don't know how to not playing. Okay,

1983
01:33:29,520 --> 01:33:31,880
Speaker 2: I like that men like the chase. But did y'all

1984
01:33:31,920 --> 01:33:32,120
Speaker 2: see this.

1985
01:33:32,240 --> 01:33:34,120
Speaker 6: It's a little clip of I can't even say her

1986
01:33:34,200 --> 01:33:42,920
Speaker 6: name for yeah, damn smart, I'm getch you anyway. She

1987
01:33:43,160 --> 01:33:45,599
Speaker 6: was like, you know, I don't get to tell somebody

1988
01:33:46,120 --> 01:33:48,479
Speaker 6: how to love me. I get to see how they

1989
01:33:48,560 --> 01:33:51,000
Speaker 6: love and figure out if that's what I want to

1990
01:33:51,040 --> 01:33:54,360
Speaker 6: fuck with or not. That's really what it is, like,

1991
01:33:54,479 --> 01:33:55,880
Speaker 6: you know what I'm saying. We be trying to like

1992
01:33:55,960 --> 01:33:58,400
Speaker 6: I don't. I don't believe like, oh, treat people how

1993
01:33:58,439 --> 01:34:00,280
Speaker 6: you want to be treated. No, you gotta treat people

1994
01:34:00,320 --> 01:34:02,960
Speaker 6: how they want to be treated. So if this is

1995
01:34:03,040 --> 01:34:06,439
Speaker 6: how somebody loves you, gotta decide is this how I

1996
01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:08,240
Speaker 6: want to be loved? If this ain't it, you got

1997
01:34:08,280 --> 01:34:08,880
Speaker 6: to move around.

1998
01:34:09,000 --> 01:34:10,760
Speaker 5: You don't think you can teach people how to love you.

1999
01:34:11,040 --> 01:34:11,600
Speaker 9: You have to.

2000
01:34:11,920 --> 01:34:14,840
Speaker 6: But you know, sometimes, like especially in our age group,

2001
01:34:15,400 --> 01:34:16,880
Speaker 6: people already how they're gonna be.

2002
01:34:17,560 --> 01:34:19,120
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I agree with that.

2003
01:34:19,520 --> 01:34:22,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're not in our early twenties, like we know,

2004
01:34:22,520 --> 01:34:24,599
Speaker 1: we're in our thing.

2005
01:34:25,960 --> 01:34:30,479
Speaker 2: It's you. It's the next book. Yeah, I definitely agree

2006
01:34:30,520 --> 01:34:33,639
Speaker 2: with that. I feel like, but as women, like she said,

2007
01:34:33,720 --> 01:34:36,040
Speaker 2: the pussy has the power. We don't realize how much

2008
01:34:36,120 --> 01:34:40,080
Speaker 2: power we have, y'all. We And I said this earlier.

2009
01:34:40,120 --> 01:34:41,840
Speaker 2: I spent so much time in my twenties trying to

2010
01:34:41,880 --> 01:34:44,519
Speaker 2: conform myself for a man. Bitch, ill got the pussy,

2011
01:34:44,640 --> 01:34:49,040
Speaker 2: conform yourself to me. I'm creating this home. I we

2012
01:34:49,439 --> 01:34:54,000
Speaker 2: set the fucking standards. So what I require, I'm standing

2013
01:34:54,080 --> 01:34:57,160
Speaker 2: by that because I know what I deserve. So yeah,

2014
01:34:57,240 --> 01:35:01,240
Speaker 2: it's like I play games to a certain extent. You

2015
01:35:01,320 --> 01:35:01,800
Speaker 2: know what It's like.

2016
01:35:02,080 --> 01:35:02,720
Speaker 1: I keep it real.

2017
01:35:02,800 --> 01:35:04,320
Speaker 2: I let a nigga know straight up what I want.

2018
01:35:04,360 --> 01:35:05,920
Speaker 2: But it's like once you start playing games with me.

2019
01:35:06,000 --> 01:35:09,000
Speaker 2: I don't start off playing games, but once you start, oh,

2020
01:35:09,120 --> 01:35:14,200
Speaker 2: let's go five, and as motherfucker, let's go. You know

2021
01:35:14,240 --> 01:35:16,639
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. So, like you said, I treat people

2022
01:35:16,680 --> 01:35:19,080
Speaker 2: how they treat me. I give. I'm an energy matter.

2023
01:35:19,240 --> 01:35:21,280
Speaker 4: But that's why I think it's important to like date

2024
01:35:21,360 --> 01:35:23,200
Speaker 4: people who share your love language.

2025
01:35:23,680 --> 01:35:25,439
Speaker 2: I talked about this before on the show.

2026
01:35:26,160 --> 01:35:29,040
Speaker 4: I really feel like you're more compatible with people who

2027
01:35:29,160 --> 01:35:30,640
Speaker 4: have the same love language as you.

2028
01:35:31,120 --> 01:35:35,519
Speaker 2: I feel like I don't have one love language. I

2029
01:35:35,560 --> 01:35:38,200
Speaker 2: think we have them all. I think we all have them.

2030
01:35:38,240 --> 01:35:39,240
Speaker 2: I think we all have.

2031
01:35:39,360 --> 01:35:42,560
Speaker 4: Them all, but I think they have certain ones that

2032
01:35:42,760 --> 01:35:44,400
Speaker 4: are more important to you than others.

2033
01:35:44,479 --> 01:35:46,720
Speaker 3: Like it might be something that you value more than

2034
01:35:46,800 --> 01:35:47,360
Speaker 3: I value.

2035
01:35:47,880 --> 01:35:49,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, I want all of you, you know what I mean?

2036
01:35:49,760 --> 01:35:51,839
Speaker 2: I want a nigga who showed me at sub survice.

2037
01:35:52,000 --> 01:35:54,160
Speaker 5: Do you want a nigga who want gifts? Like you

2038
01:35:54,920 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 5: just want that just one gifts time?

2039
01:35:57,320 --> 01:36:00,519
Speaker 4: But I like gifts, Like that's actually one of my

2040
01:36:00,760 --> 01:36:04,360
Speaker 4: top like love languages. So I like getting gifts. But

2041
01:36:04,479 --> 01:36:07,640
Speaker 4: I also really like giving people gives. And I think

2042
01:36:07,680 --> 01:36:08,880
Speaker 4: that's true about her.

2043
01:36:09,240 --> 01:36:11,760
Speaker 2: I think like people think, oh, Dre requires X y Z,

2044
01:36:11,920 --> 01:36:14,320
Speaker 2: but she's gonna give you a good fucking gift though,

2045
01:36:14,439 --> 01:36:17,599
Speaker 2: Like it's a lot of times where I'd be like, okay, bach.

2046
01:36:17,479 --> 01:36:19,120
Speaker 3: Let me steal this, so you have love the same

2047
01:36:19,160 --> 01:36:19,919
Speaker 3: way you receiving.

2048
01:36:20,120 --> 01:36:22,720
Speaker 4: Yeah, but that's I mean, And maybe again that's just

2049
01:36:22,880 --> 01:36:25,599
Speaker 4: my personal opinion, but that's why I do feel like, Yeah,

2050
01:36:25,760 --> 01:36:29,400
Speaker 4: it's good today people who y'all kind of prioritize the

2051
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:33,240
Speaker 4: same things because it doesn't feel like so much work

2052
01:36:33,360 --> 01:36:33,800
Speaker 4: having to.

2053
01:36:33,920 --> 01:36:36,640
Speaker 1: Teach you how to love me, right, teach me.

2054
01:36:37,040 --> 01:36:40,600
Speaker 4: I just kind of feel like love friendships all of

2055
01:36:40,640 --> 01:36:44,040
Speaker 4: that shit shouldn't really be about teaching a person Like

2056
01:36:44,160 --> 01:36:46,240
Speaker 4: I feel like that's cool if like, okay, if you

2057
01:36:46,280 --> 01:36:48,280
Speaker 4: don't really get it and I gotta kind of show

2058
01:36:48,320 --> 01:36:50,439
Speaker 4: you sometimes, show you what I want, to show you

2059
01:36:50,560 --> 01:36:54,160
Speaker 4: what I need, And that's cool occasionally. But liker, but

2060
01:36:54,240 --> 01:36:56,800
Speaker 4: if our whole relationship is me just trying to teach

2061
01:36:56,880 --> 01:36:59,360
Speaker 4: you how to love me, teach you how to be

2062
01:36:59,439 --> 01:37:01,120
Speaker 4: a good friend, and to me teach you how to

2063
01:37:01,160 --> 01:37:04,760
Speaker 4: be a good person, are you really that compatible?

2064
01:37:05,360 --> 01:37:05,479
Speaker 7: Right?

2065
01:37:05,680 --> 01:37:09,920
Speaker 2: That's fair, y'all because you know what, Like you said earlier,

2066
01:37:11,360 --> 01:37:14,120
Speaker 2: men want peace, but they're not doing anything to make

2067
01:37:14,240 --> 01:37:17,000
Speaker 2: me be quiet, right, they're giving something right now? Man,

2068
01:37:17,680 --> 01:37:20,519
Speaker 2: A happy woman is quiet when you're doing what you're

2069
01:37:20,520 --> 01:37:23,479
Speaker 2: supposed to do. She's bringing me when you're a bitch

2070
01:37:23,600 --> 01:37:26,439
Speaker 2: is complaining, she's unhappy with you and you're not loving her, right,

2071
01:37:26,600 --> 01:37:28,360
Speaker 2: And maybe y'all both need to realize that that's not

2072
01:37:28,479 --> 01:37:30,880
Speaker 2: your person. But if you feel like she's not bringing

2073
01:37:30,880 --> 01:37:33,920
Speaker 2: you peace, you're not loving her right when you love

2074
01:37:33,960 --> 01:37:36,000
Speaker 2: and be right, Oh, I'm quiet? Some mean bitch is

2075
01:37:36,120 --> 01:37:36,920
Speaker 2: crazy though, right?

2076
01:37:37,000 --> 01:37:38,479
Speaker 1: Some people ain't never happening, So.

2077
01:37:38,520 --> 01:37:40,840
Speaker 2: I can only speak for me, my friends and the

2078
01:37:40,920 --> 01:37:43,639
Speaker 2: women I say I associate with crazy bitches.

2079
01:37:43,400 --> 01:37:44,920
Speaker 5: And chaos is a love language.

2080
01:37:46,800 --> 01:37:49,080
Speaker 2: It is for some people.

2081
01:37:49,200 --> 01:37:51,280
Speaker 8: That's a love language that we don't talk about it is.

2082
01:37:51,600 --> 01:37:54,519
Speaker 8: I mean, some people don't feel like they being loved.

2083
01:37:55,560 --> 01:37:58,679
Speaker 2: As argue with me, he cares about me because if

2084
01:37:58,720 --> 01:38:01,320
Speaker 2: be mad about that, well that's not me and my friends.

2085
01:38:01,560 --> 01:38:04,639
Speaker 2: We like peace, We love beauty. We like to relax

2086
01:38:04,720 --> 01:38:08,800
Speaker 2: on the beach and set my tights. Okaling, chilling so

2087
01:38:09,880 --> 01:38:12,960
Speaker 2: real quick I found the guys at finally Okay. Shot

2088
01:38:13,040 --> 01:38:17,600
Speaker 2: line was created by baby Underscore Dupe on Twitter, so

2089
01:38:18,080 --> 01:38:19,920
Speaker 2: shout out to baby Dupe, thank you so much.

2090
01:38:19,760 --> 01:38:19,960
Speaker 12: For the.

2091
01:38:21,520 --> 01:38:24,000
Speaker 2: Running with shot line. That's what it is, all right,

2092
01:38:24,080 --> 01:38:25,760
Speaker 2: a J town. We're about to go outside, so let's

2093
01:38:25,760 --> 01:38:31,160
Speaker 2: wrap this ship up. We talked back, all that good stuff.

2094
01:38:31,200 --> 01:38:33,760
Speaker 2: What y'all got coming up? Y'all listen, this is a

2095
01:38:34,040 --> 01:38:38,280
Speaker 2: J holiday to plan on Instagram and listen, we talked back.

2096
01:38:38,760 --> 01:38:40,960
Speaker 2: We're a little little tiny bit a couple of years older.

2097
01:38:41,360 --> 01:38:43,960
Speaker 6: We want y'all hoes to live vicariously through us. Right

2098
01:38:44,320 --> 01:38:46,320
Speaker 6: then you don't have to experience the dumb bit shit

2099
01:38:46,439 --> 01:38:49,120
Speaker 6: for yourself, all right. So that's what we talk back

2100
01:38:49,400 --> 01:38:54,479
Speaker 6: as about. So we just unapologetically two black women talking back.

2101
01:38:54,640 --> 01:38:57,120
Speaker 5: We got an opinion, all right, And I'm official tam Maam.

2102
01:38:57,240 --> 01:38:59,160
Speaker 2: Y'all follow me on Instagram and I love y'all.

2103
01:38:59,240 --> 01:38:59,880
Speaker 5: Thank you for tuning.

2104
01:39:00,240 --> 01:39:02,760
Speaker 8: I have a question for y'all though, as a new

2105
01:39:03,080 --> 01:39:05,880
Speaker 8: or podcast, what advice do y'all have for us?

2106
01:39:07,720 --> 01:39:13,479
Speaker 14: Honestly, well, I feel like offline right because it's a

2107
01:39:13,560 --> 01:39:16,320
Speaker 14: lot when people ask us that question, because I never

2108
01:39:16,400 --> 01:39:18,760
Speaker 14: want to sound like cliche or never want to sound

2109
01:39:18,840 --> 01:39:22,040
Speaker 14: like I'm gatekeeping or not trying to give information.

2110
01:39:22,320 --> 01:39:25,120
Speaker 3: But I really be feeling like the main thing to

2111
01:39:25,280 --> 01:39:26,200
Speaker 3: do when.

2112
01:39:26,120 --> 01:39:29,000
Speaker 4: You have a podcast is you have to stay consistent,

2113
01:39:29,479 --> 01:39:31,920
Speaker 4: but then also stay true to yourself and stay true

2114
01:39:31,960 --> 01:39:34,560
Speaker 4: to your brand because you don't want to create some

2115
01:39:34,720 --> 01:39:39,120
Speaker 4: shit that's not you because you cannot no and just

2116
01:39:39,280 --> 01:39:40,800
Speaker 4: not what you want to put out there. I think

2117
01:39:40,840 --> 01:39:42,800
Speaker 4: a lot of the time people do what they think

2118
01:39:42,960 --> 01:39:45,640
Speaker 4: is going to get them popular or get them listeners,

2119
01:39:45,720 --> 01:39:47,160
Speaker 4: you know what I mean. But you have to always

2120
01:39:47,200 --> 01:39:49,759
Speaker 4: stay true to yourself and then again just stay consistent,

2121
01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:50,719
Speaker 4: keep posting.

2122
01:39:51,000 --> 01:39:52,839
Speaker 2: It don't matter if five people is listening.

2123
01:39:53,360 --> 01:39:56,360
Speaker 4: It don't matter if a thousand people listening, you still

2124
01:39:56,520 --> 01:39:59,920
Speaker 4: need to post all the time because because if you

2125
01:40:00,000 --> 01:40:02,000
Speaker 4: you get to a point, say you start at five listeners,

2126
01:40:02,040 --> 01:40:05,160
Speaker 4: any you get to a thousand, if you stop posting,

2127
01:40:05,600 --> 01:40:07,559
Speaker 4: are those thousand people gonna keep releasing?

2128
01:40:08,640 --> 01:40:12,639
Speaker 2: I think I'm glad you said about about being yourself

2129
01:40:12,720 --> 01:40:15,599
Speaker 2: because I feel like now in the podcast space, it's

2130
01:40:15,800 --> 01:40:19,400
Speaker 2: so many podcasts out there. But I think the reason

2131
01:40:19,760 --> 01:40:22,760
Speaker 2: that poor mind's like, we're doing our things because we

2132
01:40:23,000 --> 01:40:25,479
Speaker 2: never looked at anybody else and try to emulate that.

2133
01:40:25,920 --> 01:40:27,759
Speaker 2: I don't know how to be nothing else but curious.

2134
01:40:27,760 --> 01:40:29,200
Speaker 2: She don't know how to be nothing else but dress.

2135
01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:31,720
Speaker 2: So the reason that y'all are tuned in is because

2136
01:40:31,760 --> 01:40:34,760
Speaker 2: y'all are tuned in for us. And so we grow,

2137
01:40:35,000 --> 01:40:37,960
Speaker 2: we learn, and we're experiencing life and we're being real.

2138
01:40:38,479 --> 01:40:39,880
Speaker 2: So a lot of times people get in front of

2139
01:40:39,880 --> 01:40:42,559
Speaker 2: a camera and they scared to say, Okay, I ain't

2140
01:40:42,560 --> 01:40:44,960
Speaker 2: a little ass before, bitch, I did you know what

2141
01:40:45,000 --> 01:40:45,400
Speaker 2: I'm saying?

2142
01:40:45,479 --> 01:40:49,679
Speaker 1: Like they scared, all right, you being judgy, But I'm.

2143
01:40:49,560 --> 01:40:58,600
Speaker 2: Saying it's very central and she does too, and we

2144
01:40:58,680 --> 01:41:08,200
Speaker 2: are unapologetically ourselves that was back in my heyday. But

2145
01:41:08,320 --> 01:41:10,360
Speaker 2: what I'm saying is we just sit in front of

2146
01:41:10,400 --> 01:41:13,400
Speaker 2: this camera and we be honest, we talk. Everybody wants

2147
01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:14,680
Speaker 2: to say, oh, I've never been there. Oh yeah, I

2148
01:41:14,720 --> 01:41:16,639
Speaker 2: talked about when I was a sidebach before. I talk

2149
01:41:16,680 --> 01:41:18,840
Speaker 2: about that shit. But you know what, at the end

2150
01:41:18,880 --> 01:41:23,560
Speaker 2: of the day, who were y'all like, you can't judge me.

2151
01:41:23,600 --> 01:41:25,160
Speaker 2: I got one personal answer to at the end of

2152
01:41:25,240 --> 01:41:28,599
Speaker 2: this life, and it's me. You know what I or whatever?

2153
01:41:28,640 --> 01:41:32,200
Speaker 2: You believe God? Yeah, So I just say all that

2154
01:41:32,360 --> 01:41:36,360
Speaker 2: to say, like, when you yourself, there's a market for everybody.

2155
01:41:36,439 --> 01:41:38,760
Speaker 2: There is a man, I'm telling you, when I see

2156
01:41:38,880 --> 01:41:40,560
Speaker 2: some of the people that go viral or some of

2157
01:41:40,560 --> 01:41:43,839
Speaker 2: the people that are influencers, there is a crowd for everybody.

2158
01:41:43,920 --> 01:41:46,200
Speaker 2: You just have to find your people. And we were

2159
01:41:46,280 --> 01:41:48,559
Speaker 2: just lucky enough to find our people, and we love

2160
01:41:48,640 --> 01:41:51,759
Speaker 2: the poor crew. So you just got to be authentically yourself,

2161
01:41:52,680 --> 01:41:56,479
Speaker 2: be consistent, and honestly surround yourself with people who want

2162
01:41:56,479 --> 01:41:58,840
Speaker 2: to see you when poor minds wouldn't be here if

2163
01:41:58,880 --> 01:42:00,920
Speaker 2: we didn't have And I'm not even being funny like.

2164
01:42:01,080 --> 01:42:03,320
Speaker 1: Fad Javier Debo.

2165
01:42:05,560 --> 01:42:10,680
Speaker 2: Chad lying like everybody like Carlos DC, she goes, they

2166
01:42:10,800 --> 01:42:11,880
Speaker 2: all want to see us win.

2167
01:42:12,320 --> 01:42:14,240
Speaker 1: So that's another thing. You need a team around you that.

2168
01:42:14,320 --> 01:42:17,360
Speaker 2: Actually cares about you. You're only as strong as your

2169
01:42:17,400 --> 01:42:19,840
Speaker 2: weekend player. It ain't no week niggas over here. So

2170
01:42:20,080 --> 01:42:22,120
Speaker 2: that's another thing too, Like you got to have a

2171
01:42:22,360 --> 01:42:25,720
Speaker 2: good fucking team around you. So that's the advice I

2172
01:42:25,760 --> 01:42:28,200
Speaker 2: would give people. That's like really trying to start a part.

2173
01:42:28,400 --> 01:42:30,320
Speaker 2: And look, I did say time but talk to Bata

2174
01:42:30,439 --> 01:42:33,320
Speaker 2: in Trouble for keep getting me drunk every week every week.

2175
01:42:33,920 --> 01:42:36,000
Speaker 2: But it's a new addition to the show that we

2176
01:42:36,080 --> 01:42:39,000
Speaker 2: absolutely love. It's all about upgrading. And the thing that

2177
01:42:39,080 --> 01:42:41,160
Speaker 2: we've done since we moved into the studio is always

2178
01:42:41,240 --> 01:42:44,560
Speaker 2: upgrade yourself. So whatever you did last week, let's do

2179
01:42:44,720 --> 01:42:45,840
Speaker 2: this next week better.

2180
01:42:46,240 --> 01:42:46,439
Speaker 4: You know.

2181
01:42:47,040 --> 01:42:49,720
Speaker 5: Well, I want to congratulate both for y'all. Y'all y'all

2182
01:42:49,760 --> 01:42:52,360
Speaker 5: think I'm very proud of y'all, very.

2183
01:42:53,680 --> 01:42:56,760
Speaker 2: So now it's time to do a car Oh yeah,

2184
01:42:56,800 --> 01:43:02,160
Speaker 2: we always ready. What's up y'all? Show Girl next t

2185
01:43:02,520 --> 01:43:05,120
Speaker 2: and it's suggarls Ray in the call, and I got

2186
01:43:05,200 --> 01:43:10,320
Speaker 2: some really good news for y'all. Yeah, period, y'all, We

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Speaker 13: Gotta do much better if you're gonna dance with me tonight, Jelly,

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Speaker 2: better side for take out on the red head.

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Speaker 6: This jelly outa, then get ready for this jelly outa.

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Speaker 6: Half back here I.

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Speaker 2: Got it too born in this shows.

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Speaker 1: We we talked back pour minds. We'll see y'all next week.

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Speaker 5: Bye,