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Speaker 1: The nick A Gliser Podcast.

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Speaker 2: Glaser.

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Speaker 1: Here's Nicky.

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Speaker 3: Hello here, I am welcome to the show Nicky Glaser Podcast.

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Speaker 3: Starting off having to respond to a text urgently. Let's

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Speaker 3: at the stage, Noah's here, Shawn's here, Brian's here. I

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Speaker 3: just have to tell Chris that he's talking to my

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Speaker 3: money guy. And he just said, can you please let

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Speaker 3: him know that you he can tell me the state

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Speaker 3: of your finances. You have full permission to tell Chris

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Speaker 3: anything about my money.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have just said that, tell him it's whatever.

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Speaker 4: Whatever.

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Speaker 5: Finances and couples, that's like a topic that's hard to

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Speaker 5: talk about, like death and sex.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it is it, I guess, Yeah, I guess.

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Speaker 2: I just don't.

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Speaker 4: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, I guess it is.

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Speaker 3: But I'm just like I don't care what people. I do.

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Speaker 1: Just don't really have any secrets, so I don't know.

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Speaker 1: It's also big, like it just shows commitment.

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Speaker 5: Like I remember when Avi and I like combined our finances,

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Speaker 5: you know, our bank accounts or whatever.

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Speaker 3: We still have our separate ones. But how do you

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Speaker 3: do that together? Like how do you determine what's separate

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Speaker 3: and what's come joined.

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Speaker 5: Well, we just went to the bank and opened a

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Speaker 5: joint one and then every month we put the same

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Speaker 5: amount of money into it to cover our expenses.

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Speaker 3: So, like, what do you if you're getting your hair done?

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Speaker 3: Where where do you pull that from?

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's my money?

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Speaker 3: Well then what if you're buying a new hair dryer

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Speaker 3: for your home that you're going to mostly use?

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Speaker 5: U Avi has no hair, so that's a Noah expense.

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Speaker 5: But isn't that also?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 1: What if you buy a snack that only you eat.

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Speaker 3: Like uts is like hot groceries, chips, yeah, combined, even

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Speaker 3: even if it's a snack that you.

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Speaker 5: Want, But yeah, utsuts I love those.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's interesting. Yeah, it's how do you like? How

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Speaker 1: do you not like? If you?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's I don't know how anyone does it.

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Speaker 1: It is fucked up.

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Speaker 2: It just just either put it all together or keep it.

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Speaker 3: No, that's nice because then you can be like, I'm

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Speaker 3: buying this for myself and you don't get to weigh

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Speaker 3: in on what I spend my money on because I'm

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Speaker 3: using my own thing on this.

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Speaker 6: Yes, it's very it's very Destiny's child of you.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna make them that song.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I think in my head, I'm like bills, bills,

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Speaker 3: Bills, yes, yes, bills that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Oh, I'm terrified at being a bugaboo. That is like

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Speaker 6: my least a scrub.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to scrubs.

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Speaker 4: Fortunately, I know I'm a scrub.

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Speaker 3: I could hang out your best friends ride.

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Speaker 2: Trying to holler I don't. I have separate bank accounts

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Speaker 2: with my wife, and the way we.

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Speaker 1: Say, yeah, how do you do the like combining things

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Speaker 2: We just pay for certain bills individually, like I have

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Speaker 2: Alli's cell phone on my cell phone contract or whatever,

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Speaker 2: and she pays for health insurance because I'm on her

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Speaker 2: health insurance. So it's like we just have like different

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Speaker 2: responsibilities that we're that we take care of, okay, but

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Speaker 2: we don't have a joint. I tried to get a

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Speaker 2: safe deposit box at the bank the other day so

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Speaker 2: we can put our important valuables in there. And I

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Speaker 2: go in there and I go, can I get a

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Speaker 2: safe deposit box?

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Speaker 1: And they said, isn't a safety deposit box?

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Speaker 2: Oh? Is it.

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Speaker 1: A safe deposit box?

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Speaker 2: I thought it was a safe deposit box because it's a.

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Speaker 6: It's in a safe and it's like a deposit box. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: what the fuck?

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Speaker 1: Okay, see, go on.

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Speaker 4: Don't tell you that it's no longer than nineteen thirties.

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Speaker 2: Why they said, they said, But the way you said

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Speaker 2: it was, He's like, we don't have those and we

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Speaker 1: Well didn't they burn? Did people lose stuff in the fire?

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Speaker 3: I would be worried if, like, not only do you

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Speaker 3: have to grab your valuables from your house and fire,

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Speaker 3: you have to then go down to the post office.

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Speaker 2: I guess it is wise to put your safe deposit

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Speaker 2: box in a bank that's kind of far away from

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Speaker 3: The whole time, po box is the weirdest thing I've

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Speaker 3: this is Mandela fact. Like I've never heard anyone call

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Speaker 3: it a safe deposit. It's always been safety.

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Speaker 1: I think it's great.

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Speaker 5: Both.

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Speaker 1: Oh thank god, because both are showing up on Googles.

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Speaker 3: This is.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it was the whole time. I thought it was

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Speaker 2: Destiny's children.

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Speaker 1: It should be Wait what they should there's three of them?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, No, it doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 1: That or four.

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Speaker 6: There were there were four. One really got left out,

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Speaker 6: the other two only mildly got left out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: It feels like in every great band there's always one

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Speaker 2: person who got left out early on. That happened to

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Speaker 2: the Beatles. Yeah, Pete Best happened to me and uh

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Speaker 2: Huba stank I was the fourth. I was the stank.

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Speaker 1: Wait, so what made you?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 3: What valuables do you have to go like put in

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Speaker 3: this thing? I don't even understand what you would put it.

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Speaker 2: Recently, my brother came to me and he said, I

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Speaker 2: have your birth certificate, your actual birth certificate. And I

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Speaker 2: don't know why he had it, but he had it

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Speaker 2: and he mailed it to me, and I was like,

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Speaker 2: I'm not going to like that is so valuable because

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Speaker 2: it's your original book.

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Speaker 1: Isn't because you didn't even know you it was, it existed.

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Speaker 1: I have to use it without it.

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Speaker 2: I hadn't use it for the mail. I forgot what

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Speaker 2: I had to use it for. But there was a

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Speaker 2: thing like I think it was like setting up a

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Speaker 2: was like, so I couldn't use my passport. The only

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Speaker 2: other thing is your birth certificate. Okay, psychopath still has

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Speaker 2: their birth certificate.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know where mine is we're social Security

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Like literally every driver who gives me their card has

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Speaker 3: which is made with Egyptians.

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Speaker 2: And you're perforated edges that you can pull off terror.

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Speaker 6: I laminated my social Security card, and like when I

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Speaker 6: was like seventeen and I got scaled at trying to

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Speaker 6: get a passport saying that this is illegal to laminate,

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Speaker 6: I'm like.

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Speaker 1: It's illegal to protect it.

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Speaker 3: We want to we want you to lose this and

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Speaker 3: damage it by the time you have to do anything.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Here, I am just trying to sell it to like

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Speaker 6: a Malaysian teenager.

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Speaker 1: God, laminating was so fun.

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Speaker 3: I can't believe seventeen year old Sewan laminated something.

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Speaker 4: My mom had a laminator and I.

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Speaker 1: Was okay, yeah, you were looking for anything.

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Speaker 2: What were you doing at seventeen, Sean? What were you like?

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Speaker 2: I was draken smoking? And did you when you were

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Speaker 2: Did you play sports at all? What was going on?

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Speaker 6: I played sports and I was in a an emo band,

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Speaker 6: which I've talked about on this before. Yeah, I I

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Speaker 6: played baseball and base and okay, and I truly truly

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Speaker 6: just a pathetic person. But someone to someone pointed out

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Speaker 3: I actually Sean ran into a woman this weekend at

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Speaker 3: the Vanity Fair party who came up to me and

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Speaker 3: said that she saw us both in Cabo, her and

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Speaker 3: to you afterwards and was like, I went to the

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Speaker 3: that she was like and it was really awkward because

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Speaker 3: we both suffered so much trauma at that school being beat.

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Speaker 3: Is that true?

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Speaker 6: Oh oh no, no, I well, this was the woman

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Speaker 4: And then I was like, oh, what year did you graduate?

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Speaker 6: And she was like nineteen eighty nine and I was

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Speaker 6: like what And she looked so young?

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Speaker 3: Yes, yes, I like froze when she said that, because

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Speaker 3: I was like, I remember Sean telling me something about

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Speaker 3: I just didn't want to say anything, so I was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: that's crazy, even though I knew something. But she said that,

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Speaker 3: like she was like, oh my god, and I just

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Speaker 3: was like, she didn't say she was really living trauma

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Speaker 3: hearing you talk. You like had a story about the

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Speaker 3: school or something and in your stand up and she

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Speaker 3: said that it like she was like, oh my god,

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Speaker 3: we were both so traumatized by that school.

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Speaker 4: Oh interesting. I was not beat at all.

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Speaker 1: Do you think it went on though, Oh?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, because like my mom went to that school and

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Speaker 6: she would always talk about how they would like hit

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Speaker 6: the students.

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Speaker 1: Oh great, and so she sent you there, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Because thanks man. Yeah. And they didn't even hit me,

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Speaker 4: and I was ready for it.

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Speaker 1: No, you don't seem like someone who would get hit.

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Speaker 3: Speaking of getting hit, have you guys seen the Vince

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Speaker 3: McMahon documentary, No, Oh, okay. I watched the first part

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Speaker 3: of it last night with my parents. I went over there,

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Speaker 3: and like the first episode is all just about like

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Speaker 3: him kind of uh taking over the WWF from his

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Speaker 3: dad and then like expanding and stealing all these territories

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Speaker 3: and making it like this cultural phenomenon. And then they

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Speaker 3: did this one They talked about this one part in

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Speaker 3: like the late eighties.

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Speaker 1: I'm guessing maybe mid eighties, where.

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Speaker 3: You know, pro wrestling was like all the rage and

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Speaker 3: people were starting to have this kind of discourse of.

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Speaker 1: Like it's fake, is it real? Is it fake?

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Speaker 3: Which, like I grew up hearing all the time that's

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Speaker 3: all you talked about was that you thought any guy

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Speaker 3: who liked pro wrestling was so dumb because it's obviously fake,

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Speaker 3: and it's like, yeah, duh, it's like it's like a play.

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Speaker 3: What's wrong with that? Like why couldn't we accept that

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Speaker 3: about it?

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Speaker 1: Like I don't even know.

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Speaker 3: Stand, but like why did you guys do such a

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Speaker 3: poor job of describing what it was?

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Speaker 1: You were just like, no, it's real.

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Speaker 3: Like I just you should have just been like yet

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Speaker 3: The back of his head and he's like, yeah, that's real, real,

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Speaker 3: But it was so lame that they were like, we're

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Speaker 1: It was so lame, it was so gross and that.

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Speaker 3: But I'm not even happy I haven't gotten to I'm like,

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Speaker 3: get to the poop. I know, vis Vince McMahon like

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: The first episode is basically very very pro Vince McMahon, Like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like kind of like this guy rules. He

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Speaker 3: I mean me, I'm sick o, like when are we

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Speaker 3: want that to happen? Like, do you guys get like

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Speaker 4: Shit, it's it's coming. They had to.

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Speaker 6: They had to set up like he's not rich yet

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Speaker 3: Like I'm looking for it in his eyes as like

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Speaker 3: you're like, oh, it's there, Like what does does becoming

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Speaker 4: That isn't there before?

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Speaker 6: I think like the power and control that you start

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Speaker 6: So I think it's always been there because there's like

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Yeah, Well that kind of vengeance and being beat

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Speaker 3: You you know, witnessed animal abuse in your life, step

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it never even this.

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Speaker 3: Like I just I have to remember that more times

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Speaker 3: You try to give them help and they're they you

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Speaker 3: how could you do that?

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00:19:34,720 --> 00:19:37,359
Speaker 1: Or think like that? But it's like, okay, if I was,

446
00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:38,400
Speaker 1: I think like that too.

447
00:19:38,600 --> 00:19:43,639
Speaker 4: But no, thank god, I'm I'm so thankful that. Uh.

448
00:19:44,240 --> 00:19:46,200
Speaker 6: I guess my parents were the people who were like,

449
00:19:46,400 --> 00:19:50,000
Speaker 6: never do heroin or like the DARE program did not work.

450
00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:54,440
Speaker 6: The DARE program made drugs seem so fucking cool. Oh yeah,

451
00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:56,359
Speaker 6: like I'll never forget scared me?

452
00:19:57,440 --> 00:19:58,080
Speaker 4: Did it scare you?

453
00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:01,040
Speaker 6: Oh? They played pressure by Billy Joel and they're like,

454
00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:02,760
Speaker 6: this is what cocaine feels like.

455
00:20:02,880 --> 00:20:05,720
Speaker 4: And I was like, oh my god, so is incredible.

456
00:20:06,200 --> 00:20:07,600
Speaker 4: I can't wait to do cocaine.

457
00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:10,359
Speaker 3: Oh my god, no, I I think it. I just

458
00:20:10,400 --> 00:20:12,240
Speaker 3: wanted to be good though. Did you not want to

459
00:20:12,280 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 3: be good like and not get in trouble? That's what

460
00:20:14,920 --> 00:20:16,240
Speaker 3: scared me of drugs.

461
00:20:16,359 --> 00:20:19,000
Speaker 6: I think I I there was definitely a shift where

462
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 6: I started wanting to get into trouble a little bit.

463
00:20:21,280 --> 00:20:23,840
Speaker 3: Because you're such a good boy, like you follow all

464
00:20:23,920 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 3: the rules, like as someone who's worked with you, you

465
00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:28,480
Speaker 3: like are like have the assignment in right on time.

466
00:20:28,600 --> 00:20:30,399
Speaker 1: You're just like aimed to please and.

467
00:20:30,480 --> 00:20:32,800
Speaker 3: Like of you know, in not a way that you're

468
00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:35,119
Speaker 3: like scared and like oh, whatever you want, but like

469
00:20:35,240 --> 00:20:38,240
Speaker 3: you seem to like to be good or.

470
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 4: Do you like being good later for you or it

471
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:42,240
Speaker 4: was way later?

472
00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:46,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, like interesting, I like poking buttons and I liked,

473
00:20:46,600 --> 00:20:47,720
Speaker 6: like I really hated it.

474
00:20:47,840 --> 00:20:49,520
Speaker 1: Oh, I've seen that side of you as well, by

475
00:20:49,560 --> 00:20:51,280
Speaker 1: the way I have, I've seen you that.

476
00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,440
Speaker 3: That's when did I see that come out of you

477
00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,679
Speaker 3: where you were kind of being a little rabble rouser

478
00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,160
Speaker 3: and I don't even know what that, but I was like, oh, Sean,

479
00:20:58,680 --> 00:21:01,720
Speaker 3: there's like some time where you were kind of like

480
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:04,639
Speaker 3: being a little bit where there's just someone that, like

481
00:21:04,800 --> 00:21:05,480
Speaker 3: I could tell was.

482
00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:07,200
Speaker 1: Annoying you, and you're like, I'm gonna let them have it,

483
00:21:07,240 --> 00:21:08,159
Speaker 1: and I've really enjoyed it.

484
00:21:08,600 --> 00:21:11,840
Speaker 4: But yeah they needed to really break me down.

485
00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I can do it sometimes too. I'll

486
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 3: give an example when we get back right after this.

487
00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:24,240
Speaker 3: So this past week, there was a circumstance where I

488
00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:28,040
Speaker 3: was getting ready for something and a producer was talking

489
00:21:28,119 --> 00:21:30,440
Speaker 3: to me about a thing I was gonna do, and

490
00:21:31,119 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 3: it was someone that I just.

491
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:33,320
Speaker 1: I had spoken with on the phone.

492
00:21:33,359 --> 00:21:34,760
Speaker 3: We had a really good conversation, but then I met

493
00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:36,240
Speaker 3: them in person. They were kind of like talking to

494
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:39,159
Speaker 3: me about what I was about to do, and they

495
00:21:39,320 --> 00:21:42,159
Speaker 3: said that I couldn't mention this part of myself. That

496
00:21:42,400 --> 00:21:44,680
Speaker 3: there's nothing wrong with mentioning it, but it's like a

497
00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:47,119
Speaker 3: conflict of interest within the thing I.

498
00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:47,680
Speaker 1: Was going to be on.

499
00:21:47,880 --> 00:21:49,879
Speaker 3: Like let's say I was going to be in an

500
00:21:49,920 --> 00:21:52,119
Speaker 3: ad for Sephora, it would have been like mentioning like

501
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:54,480
Speaker 3: one time I shopped at Alta or I was in

502
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,960
Speaker 3: an ad for Walmart, and I was like, I just

503
00:21:57,200 --> 00:21:59,600
Speaker 3: part of it was like, let's say, like my grandfather

504
00:21:59,680 --> 00:22:02,320
Speaker 3: started target, Like I wasn't allowed to say anything about

505
00:22:02,359 --> 00:22:04,360
Speaker 3: my grandfather, And it's like, but that's who I am,

506
00:22:04,640 --> 00:22:06,919
Speaker 3: do you know what I mean? This isn't really tracking,

507
00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:09,400
Speaker 3: but it's like literally a part of who I am

508
00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,880
Speaker 3: I couldn't mention because of a conflict of interest within

509
00:22:12,960 --> 00:22:14,880
Speaker 3: this other thing. And I understood it was like way

510
00:22:14,960 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 3: above his pay grade where this kind of was coming down,

511
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 3: this this this mandate. But I was annoyed because it

512
00:22:22,520 --> 00:22:27,680
Speaker 3: wasn't told me before, and I didn't really know who was.

513
00:22:27,840 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: I knew where it was coming from, but it was

514
00:22:29,800 --> 00:22:31,080
Speaker 1: just kind of getting to me too late.

515
00:22:31,160 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 3: And I was like in the makeup chair and I

516
00:22:34,440 --> 00:22:36,240
Speaker 3: just said to this really nice guy, I go, this

517
00:22:36,280 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 3: would have been nice to know that I can't say

518
00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 3: this part of myself beforehand, because I never would do

519
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:44,480
Speaker 3: this if if I knew that, I couldn't say. And

520
00:22:44,600 --> 00:22:46,800
Speaker 3: I go and then and he was just like good

521
00:22:46,840 --> 00:22:48,320
Speaker 3: to know, and I was like, so just next time,

522
00:22:48,440 --> 00:22:51,359
Speaker 3: like I just need to like that. I just know

523
00:22:51,400 --> 00:22:52,920
Speaker 3: I wouldn't be here right now if if I would

524
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 3: have known this ahead of time and I wasn't trying

525
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:55,560
Speaker 3: to be an asshole, it.

526
00:22:55,600 --> 00:22:57,200
Speaker 2: Was just true, Like it you really want.

527
00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:02,960
Speaker 3: I really did my grandfather, Earl Target I felt was

528
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:06,159
Speaker 3: an important part of my origin story anyway. So I

529
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,879
Speaker 3: said that, and then I instantly was like, oh, that

530
00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,960
Speaker 3: might be kind of bitchy, and I don't want this

531
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:13,920
Speaker 3: guy to I also, I don't want this guy to

532
00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 3: feel like I'm mad at him. I go, listen, I

533
00:23:15,840 --> 00:23:19,520
Speaker 3: know it's this is your This is not your your decision.

534
00:23:19,840 --> 00:23:22,240
Speaker 1: You're just the person. You're just a messenger. I'm not

535
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:22,680
Speaker 1: mad at you.

536
00:23:22,720 --> 00:23:26,080
Speaker 3: I'm just letting you know, like uh that I'm I'm

537
00:23:26,320 --> 00:23:29,800
Speaker 3: kind of pissed off. And then he then we like

538
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:32,040
Speaker 3: joked about something else and everything was fine. And then

539
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,240
Speaker 3: my makeup artist after he left was like, that was

540
00:23:35,480 --> 00:23:39,560
Speaker 3: so badass, Like you stood up for yourself. You let

541
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,959
Speaker 3: him know like exactly like I wouldn't fucking be here

542
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 3: right now. I didn't say fucking, but she's like, you

543
00:23:43,600 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 3: let him know you wouldn't be here, and that was

544
00:23:45,280 --> 00:23:48,560
Speaker 3: so cool. And then you like totally like made him

545
00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:51,480
Speaker 3: feel comfortable again by like joking and smiling and laughing

546
00:23:51,520 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 3: about something to let him know that like it was okay.

547
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,920
Speaker 3: And I really appreciated that she noticed that because it

548
00:23:57,040 --> 00:23:58,879
Speaker 3: wasn't insincere that I was like trying to make him

549
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,840
Speaker 3: feel better. I was like, and I I love your shirt,

550
00:24:00,920 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 3: like just giving him some kind of flimsy compliment to

551
00:24:03,720 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 3: like soothe him. I really did feel bad, like this,

552
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:08,800
Speaker 3: it's not this guy's fault, he's just doing his job,

553
00:24:09,040 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 3: and I wanted to re establish like we're still cool man,

554
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,840
Speaker 3: Like we're still joking. It's still fine because I feel

555
00:24:13,880 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 3: like I can be both, like I want to be

556
00:24:15,400 --> 00:24:18,600
Speaker 3: able to let people know exactly how I feel, but

557
00:24:18,680 --> 00:24:20,520
Speaker 3: I also want to be able to just instantly go

558
00:24:20,600 --> 00:24:23,360
Speaker 3: back to being friends, like I like, I think sometimes

559
00:24:23,440 --> 00:24:25,920
Speaker 3: people misconstrue when I like am like, hey, we're not

560
00:24:26,040 --> 00:24:27,240
Speaker 3: doing that and I don't want to do that again,

561
00:24:27,280 --> 00:24:29,119
Speaker 3: don't bring it up. And they're like, oh, oh my god,

562
00:24:29,200 --> 00:24:32,560
Speaker 3: Nikki's mad at me. I'll never recover from this. She's

563
00:24:32,600 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 3: gonna fire me that this is all bad, and I

564
00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,760
Speaker 3: like I but to me, I'm just like, oh, I'm

565
00:24:37,800 --> 00:24:39,560
Speaker 3: just saying like what I feel in the moment, and

566
00:24:39,640 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 3: that's doesn't it's not going to negatively impact the rest

567
00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 3: of our lives. It's just like a thing I needed

568
00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 3: to know, right It's like, hey, by the way, we're

569
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 3: not doing that, and I never want to make a

570
00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,639
Speaker 3: joke like that or like whatever I'm saying.

571
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:53,639
Speaker 1: And then I feel like I.

572
00:24:53,720 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 3: Forget sometimes that like it's other people aren't inside my

573
00:24:57,560 --> 00:25:00,080
Speaker 3: brain and don't know that, like I'm fine. So I

574
00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:02,000
Speaker 3: feel like I, for a book in my life, did

575
00:25:02,040 --> 00:25:05,200
Speaker 3: a good job of kind of like re establishing that

576
00:25:05,640 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 3: we're okay, like without having to say it, and he

577
00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:10,240
Speaker 3: walked away feeling okay.

578
00:25:10,880 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 6: I think that's interesting because I think it's funny that

579
00:25:14,119 --> 00:25:16,240
Speaker 6: you put it back on yourself, because I do think

580
00:25:16,400 --> 00:25:19,920
Speaker 6: when you do that, I think everyone is kind of

581
00:25:20,160 --> 00:25:27,520
Speaker 6: not used to pure honesty, like especially in Hollywood, where

582
00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:29,840
Speaker 6: everyone is like double speaking.

583
00:25:29,640 --> 00:25:33,879
Speaker 4: And like really not how they feel all.

584
00:25:33,840 --> 00:25:37,240
Speaker 6: Positive, which, by the way, is exactly how this person

585
00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 6: got into the situation. Is they knew that you couldn't

586
00:25:40,640 --> 00:25:42,160
Speaker 6: do that, but they had to wait for the last

587
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,360
Speaker 6: moment because they're.

588
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:49,040
Speaker 2: Like, by the way, you can't tell any jokes. Yeah, yes, yes,

589
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:50,919
Speaker 2: kes super serious.

590
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:52,880
Speaker 3: It's just being direct. And I think that a lot

591
00:25:52,920 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 3: of times being direct is misconstrued for being mean.

592
00:25:57,000 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 2: Y're giving a.

593
00:25:58,840 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 3: Boundary and saying I don't like when you do that,

594
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 3: or I don't like when that's happening. It doesn't mean

595
00:26:03,080 --> 00:26:06,119
Speaker 3: I hate you. And I think we are all a

596
00:26:06,200 --> 00:26:08,840
Speaker 3: lot of people, including myself. I you know, I'm trying

597
00:26:08,880 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 3: to consider what i'd be like on the other side

598
00:26:10,520 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 3: of this, but like when someone gives me a boundary

599
00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:14,320
Speaker 3: of like, hey, I really don't like when you do that,

600
00:26:14,480 --> 00:26:16,680
Speaker 3: Like I could I can take that and make a

601
00:26:16,840 --> 00:26:18,400
Speaker 3: fucking meal of it and be like, well, then I'm

602
00:26:18,400 --> 00:26:20,000
Speaker 3: the worst person in the world. And if that one

603
00:26:20,119 --> 00:26:21,960
Speaker 3: part of me is bad, then I must be the

604
00:26:22,320 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 3: worst all over. And I do that all the time,

605
00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 3: so I should have more empathy about it. But I

606
00:26:27,920 --> 00:26:31,200
Speaker 3: just feel like, you know, a lot of times have

607
00:26:31,280 --> 00:26:33,320
Speaker 3: gotten back to me later on of like I thought

608
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,200
Speaker 3: you hated me because you said that one thing, and

609
00:26:35,240 --> 00:26:37,320
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, I just was like I don't want

610
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:40,320
Speaker 3: that brand of water anymore, or whatever you think.

611
00:26:40,560 --> 00:26:41,439
Speaker 1: I think that's like.

612
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:44,520
Speaker 5: The stigmata that women have to carry that when you're

613
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 5: direct and you ask for something, you're kind of labeled

614
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 5: as like either emotional or a bitch. So I think

615
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,640
Speaker 5: it's harder for women to do that, whereas with men

616
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:57,119
Speaker 5: it's kind of like, oh wow, look he's taking the

617
00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,920
Speaker 5: leadership role. He's he's a service line and the same

618
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,880
Speaker 5: and right. But one of the qualities that I really well,

619
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:06,359
Speaker 5: many qualities that I admire about Nikki, and I know

620
00:27:06,440 --> 00:27:08,680
Speaker 5: that like you don't like to be set on this

621
00:27:08,800 --> 00:27:15,040
Speaker 5: pedestal as like you know, like advancing the women's agenda,

622
00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:18,040
Speaker 5: but like you're so good about setting these boundaries in

623
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:21,680
Speaker 5: like a very assertive but neutral way, and you're also

624
00:27:21,760 --> 00:27:24,040
Speaker 5: really good at asking for what you want, which I

625
00:27:24,119 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 5: think it's so challenging for women to do it because

626
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 5: we are more inclined to be like emotional, so we

627
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,040
Speaker 5: just overthink it. But you don't have that, which is

628
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:34,640
Speaker 5: a really an admirable quality.

629
00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,200
Speaker 1: It's me saying, no one drinks at this at the stable.

630
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 3: You don't need to tell us the drink menu, like

631
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:40,800
Speaker 3: it's instead of just like sitting there and listening to

632
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,800
Speaker 3: it to be polite or like yes, you know when

633
00:27:44,040 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 3: the waiter like I find my friends, like when the

634
00:27:45,920 --> 00:27:48,639
Speaker 3: waiter is like, do we have any dietary restrictions, like Kirsten,

635
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 3: if you're listening, like.

636
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 1: Hey, so I have a like mango, there's mango and anything.

637
00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 3: It's just like I can't have mango, Like I like,

638
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 3: if literally anything in mango, I'm gonna die.

639
00:27:58,440 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: So just no mango, Like it's not it's not mad

640
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:01,120
Speaker 1: at him.

641
00:28:01,760 --> 00:28:03,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just like we don't need to be like

642
00:28:03,720 --> 00:28:08,560
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, like mang right, she's a nice person and

643
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,239
Speaker 3: so like I get that that goes and I can

644
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 3: be thought of this rather harsh sometimes.

645
00:28:14,240 --> 00:28:16,680
Speaker 2: Sure, the song and dance is getting harder and harder.

646
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:19,280
Speaker 2: I feel like as I get older, you you're like this.

647
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:22,000
Speaker 3: Too bright, like you're really direct and like you can

648
00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:24,919
Speaker 3: come off as rude when you're just saying exactly how

649
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:25,440
Speaker 3: you feel.

650
00:28:25,880 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 1: And I was saying this to you. I think Sean

651
00:28:27,680 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: and I.

652
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 3: Were talking about you behind your back the other day

653
00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 3: and we were like, I was being I was being comfortable.

654
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:36,040
Speaker 5: What isn't that?

655
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:38,680
Speaker 1: But and I don't know if it was behind your back.

656
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: We could have been facing you.

657
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:43,080
Speaker 3: We were just in a different like I heard Canada,

658
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 3: we could have been facing the same way, but I

659
00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:47,880
Speaker 3: don't based on latitude and longitude, I don't know if

660
00:28:47,920 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 3: we're literally behind your back. But we were talking about

661
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:53,840
Speaker 3: how like you, you're not a you will never lie,

662
00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 3: and like we even talked about the other day on

663
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,080
Speaker 3: the podcast of Like You, and you were like I

664
00:28:58,120 --> 00:28:59,720
Speaker 3: would just tell them the truth or I would be

665
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:01,320
Speaker 3: I want to know because I'm like, why would you

666
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 3: lie to me? And I'm like, Brian doesn't lie. He's

667
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,240
Speaker 3: just like always gonna shoot you straight. Like I never

668
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,120
Speaker 3: question where I stand with Brian. I'm never like is

669
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,800
Speaker 3: he mad at me about something? But I think that

670
00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:14,280
Speaker 3: you probably encountered that a lot where people like think

671
00:29:14,360 --> 00:29:16,440
Speaker 3: you're mad or something and you're like, what, like has

672
00:29:16,480 --> 00:29:17,200
Speaker 3: that happened to you a lot.

673
00:29:17,560 --> 00:29:19,479
Speaker 2: Well when I was I had to like learn how

674
00:29:19,480 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 2: to turn this down because I remember when I was

675
00:29:21,440 --> 00:29:23,880
Speaker 2: like in my twenties or maybe even a little younger,

676
00:29:24,280 --> 00:29:28,680
Speaker 2: I would jokingly, as a joke, I'd pretend to be

677
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: angry or.

678
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 1: Upset about Oh I've seen that too, yeah yeah, and

679
00:29:31,880 --> 00:29:32,160
Speaker 1: it's just.

680
00:29:32,360 --> 00:29:34,720
Speaker 2: Always backfires where it's like, oh my god, and then

681
00:29:34,760 --> 00:29:37,320
Speaker 2: it becomes a big thing, and because it's exactly what

682
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:39,600
Speaker 2: you were saying, where it's like in my head, I

683
00:29:39,800 --> 00:29:42,240
Speaker 2: know that I'm all cool and everything's fine, yeah, But

684
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:45,960
Speaker 2: to them, they just see some guy yelling yeah, and

685
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 2: that's not good. So there was I mean, there was one.

686
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 2: There was a moment in time I think I've talked

687
00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:54,200
Speaker 2: about it before in history where I realized, oh my god,

688
00:29:54,520 --> 00:29:56,680
Speaker 2: I got to stop doing this. And it was during

689
00:29:56,720 --> 00:30:00,280
Speaker 2: an improv warm up or whatever that was that an

690
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:02,200
Speaker 2: improv theater and there are these two people who I

691
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:04,160
Speaker 2: know who are on my improv team, who are talking

692
00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:09,200
Speaker 2: and I was just walking towards them, and as a joke,

693
00:30:09,400 --> 00:30:12,960
Speaker 2: I thought I was like, get out of my way,

694
00:30:13,240 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 2: and I went right through the middle of it. Be funny, like,

695
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:23,160
Speaker 2: imagine if I actually did that. Yeah yeah, they actually

696
00:30:23,240 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 2: did just do that.

697
00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, you did actually do it, and there were

698
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:27,520
Speaker 3: people that would actually do that, and you might be

699
00:30:27,920 --> 00:30:30,400
Speaker 3: oh no, yeah yeah, so I.

700
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: Have to like, Okay, I gotta be like and I'm

701
00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 2: just kidding after I do it.

702
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:37,760
Speaker 3: Maybe, But we're talking about sometimes you will you like

703
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,080
Speaker 3: in a writer's room, like if something's not funny, you'll

704
00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 3: you'll just say something like you'll be like, uh yeah

705
00:30:43,560 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 3: we could do that, or we could do something that's

706
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 3: funny something like that, and you're not trying to even

707
00:30:49,840 --> 00:30:51,840
Speaker 3: be Like sometimes I think you're trying to be comical

708
00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:54,400
Speaker 3: the way you're like presenting that and trying to just

709
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 3: kind of like you know, just bust balls a little bit.

710
00:30:57,080 --> 00:30:59,240
Speaker 3: But sometimes you will literally say that like you're not

711
00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:02,200
Speaker 3: even insult because everyone's allowed to not be funny sometimes,

712
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,440
Speaker 3: like in your world I'm imagining, like you're not funny sometimes,

713
00:31:05,560 --> 00:31:08,040
Speaker 3: or like you've presented something that isn't good so you

714
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:10,280
Speaker 3: don't feel bad calling it out in someone else, whereas

715
00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:13,000
Speaker 3: everyone else is like we all have to like just

716
00:31:13,120 --> 00:31:15,760
Speaker 3: fake laugh at everything everyone says and go maybe.

717
00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:16,959
Speaker 4: That would work, but not right now?

718
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 2: Why possible?

719
00:31:19,880 --> 00:31:20,600
Speaker 1: So quick?

720
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:25,320
Speaker 3: Yes, exactly is totally it's not time you're in the

721
00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:28,800
Speaker 3: and and I think that that's what I've learned in

722
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 3: writers rooms because I I've never been on the other

723
00:31:31,400 --> 00:31:34,000
Speaker 3: side of it as a writer, and so I've never

724
00:31:34,080 --> 00:31:37,000
Speaker 3: felt the rejection that I think I would feel if

725
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:37,920
Speaker 3: someone's like no.

726
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,400
Speaker 1: Not that one, like oh god, you know, like it would.

727
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:43,880
Speaker 3: But you guys have kind of grown like a callous

728
00:31:44,080 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 3: to that because I know Sean, you're very sensitive to that,

729
00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 3: more so than I think even Brian would be about

730
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 3: like having a joke or an idea rejected and now

731
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:53,000
Speaker 3: it's you have an immunity to it.

732
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,720
Speaker 6: At this point, there's definitely an immunity. But I also know,

733
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 6: like I could for some reason the only place I'm

734
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 6: empathetic is like in a writer's room, and I know

735
00:32:01,200 --> 00:32:04,440
Speaker 6: exactly how people are feeling at all times. Yeah, And

736
00:32:04,600 --> 00:32:07,920
Speaker 6: like that's why I really enjoy teaming up with Brian,

737
00:32:07,960 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 6: because I feel like he has a paternal energy and

738
00:32:10,240 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 6: I have a maternal energy.

739
00:32:11,920 --> 00:32:15,120
Speaker 4: And yes, I think and I and like, especially the

740
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 4: Globes room, I.

741
00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 6: Was like looking around being like, all right, I know

742
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,160
Speaker 6: who's feeling a little insecure, So I know who I

743
00:32:20,240 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 6: could like compliment so they'll do a better job.

744
00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, it's you gotta. I do want to like

745
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,360
Speaker 3: take care of people's feelings all the time. And I

746
00:32:31,440 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 3: feel like I am aware of like if someone's you know,

747
00:32:35,360 --> 00:32:38,800
Speaker 3: uncomfortable or whatever. But I I definitely have those blind

748
00:32:38,880 --> 00:32:42,840
Speaker 3: spots because I'm definitely someone that people have told me

749
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:45,479
Speaker 3: is like like I'm just harsh and I'll just tell

750
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 3: you exactly how I feel or if I don't like something.

751
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:49,760
Speaker 3: And but what I have, what I notice I do

752
00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 3: do that I really want to like stop doing. Is

753
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 3: when I'm having an insecurity, like finding a way to

754
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,880
Speaker 3: blame someone else for it. I think it's like I

755
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 3: get it from my dad of like you know, if

756
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:03,720
Speaker 3: my hair looks shitty, like I'm just like, well, you know,

757
00:33:04,800 --> 00:33:07,760
Speaker 3: like I'll blame whoever did my hair last or something

758
00:33:08,000 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 3: or like not I won't talk think you even think

759
00:33:10,200 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 3: about my diet which is not like good for my

760
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:15,080
Speaker 3: hair or like what whatever it is like or I'll

761
00:33:15,120 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 3: be like, well I'm not getting it if I'm not

762
00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:20,040
Speaker 3: getting enough of sleep, my publicists aren't looking out for me,

763
00:33:20,160 --> 00:33:22,280
Speaker 3: and they're not looking at my schedule and Chris, is

764
00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:24,400
Speaker 3: it look like I have to find some one else

765
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 3: to blame when really it's just like just let it

766
00:33:26,600 --> 00:33:32,200
Speaker 3: be instead of trying to. Like when I when I'm underslept,

767
00:33:32,240 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 3: it just becomes like a blame game, and I really

768
00:33:35,200 --> 00:33:36,320
Speaker 3: hate that so much.

769
00:33:36,880 --> 00:33:40,440
Speaker 6: It's so hard not to blame others, like especially because

770
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 6: like you know, like you know, sometimes it is other

771
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,040
Speaker 6: people's fault. Like occasionally I'm like, I didn't, like I

772
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:51,120
Speaker 6: really half asked this, and I know that, So I'm

773
00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:54,360
Speaker 6: like I could be hard on myself for that. So

774
00:33:54,520 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 6: most of the time, I'm like totally willing to be like, no,

775
00:33:57,800 --> 00:33:59,400
Speaker 6: I could really get to the bottom of this and

776
00:33:59,440 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 6: tell you exactly who fault this one?

777
00:34:01,080 --> 00:34:02,280
Speaker 4: Wow, and it was mine.

778
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 2: I'm the exact opposite. I blame myself exclusively. Well, it's okay,

779
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 2: I could have done better. I should have worked harder,

780
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:12,600
Speaker 2: I should have figured out that this person was going

781
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:13,960
Speaker 2: to do this, and I should have been able to

782
00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:14,440
Speaker 2: what if you?

783
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 3: So I took someone's advice once, and it's something that

784
00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:20,960
Speaker 3: I deeply regret that I did. Like in a performance

785
00:34:20,960 --> 00:34:22,560
Speaker 3: that I had and I took some advice and like

786
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 3: I didn't even question it. I was just like the

787
00:34:24,360 --> 00:34:26,040
Speaker 3: person was so sure of it that I was like, yeah,

788
00:34:26,040 --> 00:34:27,440
Speaker 3: I'm gonna do that, and then I did it and

789
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:29,480
Speaker 3: I look back and I'm like, oh, that's the one thing.

790
00:34:29,600 --> 00:34:30,880
Speaker 1: I like, why did I do it that way?

791
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 3: But it was like the person that was giving me

792
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:36,400
Speaker 3: the advice was just so confident and so like like

793
00:34:36,760 --> 00:34:38,520
Speaker 3: just sure of it that I took it, and I

794
00:34:38,600 --> 00:34:41,360
Speaker 3: wanted to blame them so much of like that person

795
00:34:41,520 --> 00:34:45,400
Speaker 3: like sabotaged my performance. But it's like, but bitch, you listened,

796
00:34:45,880 --> 00:34:48,440
Speaker 3: so like I I had to then go, it is

797
00:34:48,520 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 3: not that person's fault whatsoever. That person actually did believe

798
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:53,120
Speaker 3: they were confident, So I can't be mad at them

799
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:56,760
Speaker 3: for being confident. And I have to be better about

800
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,880
Speaker 3: knowing my gut and what works.

801
00:34:58,680 --> 00:34:59,480
Speaker 1: Instead of just trust.

802
00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 3: Even with my house, I'm like you, like, I'm starting

803
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:04,439
Speaker 3: to have like a little bit of like cold feet

804
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 3: of like do I really want this? And I'm like, well,

805
00:35:06,719 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 3: my mom really liked it, and then Chris's mom really

806
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:12,160
Speaker 3: liked it. No, I'm like feeling like now I am

807
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:13,800
Speaker 3: like I don't even know if I like it or

808
00:35:13,800 --> 00:35:15,560
Speaker 3: if I'm just liking it because of them. And it's like, well,

809
00:35:15,600 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 3: that's still your fault, bitch, like you still need to

810
00:35:18,520 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 3: you can't blame.

811
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,840
Speaker 1: The people's influence.

812
00:35:21,160 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 2: It's the I'm not going to name names, but it's

813
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:26,920
Speaker 2: the uh the Golden Globes host prior to use problem,

814
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:31,040
Speaker 2: which is like you're blaming your writers, but ultimately you

815
00:35:31,400 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 2: chose to tell those jokes yep, yep.

816
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:36,919
Speaker 3: And that's and I get I get there almost right

817
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,479
Speaker 3: away now, like where I'm like I have an knee

818
00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 3: jerk response of like, oh fuck, that's their fault, and

819
00:35:41,719 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 3: I'm like no, It's like I okay, great, Now this

820
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:47,720
Speaker 3: is a lesson that like the next time someone is emphatic,

821
00:35:47,840 --> 00:35:49,560
Speaker 3: I have that feeling of like whoa, I thought the

822
00:35:49,640 --> 00:35:52,120
Speaker 3: other thing, but man, this person's really confident about this.

823
00:35:52,960 --> 00:35:55,920
Speaker 3: Just give it one talk to one more person about it,

824
00:35:56,120 --> 00:36:00,239
Speaker 3: one more like don't just like blindly trust, and now

825
00:36:00,440 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 3: I'll be more perceptive of that. It's just like these

826
00:36:02,520 --> 00:36:06,480
Speaker 3: lessons just keep coming in, like they you'll never end.

827
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 4: You're You're right.

828
00:36:07,920 --> 00:36:10,480
Speaker 6: I mean I succumb to this all the time. Like

829
00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:14,520
Speaker 6: confidence is the most assuring thing in the entire world.

830
00:36:14,640 --> 00:36:17,160
Speaker 6: If somebody is confident with me, I'm like, well, they

831
00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:18,719
Speaker 6: have all of life's answers, I.

832
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:22,560
Speaker 4: Should, Yeah, I should absolutely get in the back of

833
00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 4: their van. Yeah. Yeah.

834
00:36:27,080 --> 00:36:29,520
Speaker 2: The key to I think you do this too, So

835
00:36:29,640 --> 00:36:32,480
Speaker 2: like the key to being blunt successfully and saying like

836
00:36:32,719 --> 00:36:35,719
Speaker 2: something's bad something's good is to also be free and

837
00:36:35,840 --> 00:36:38,880
Speaker 2: open with your compliments, Like if you think something like

838
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 2: sometimes people are just negative all time, but if you

839
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: think something's good, you also have to be blunt about that. Yeah,

840
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 2: and that's how it evens out. Then you're just a

841
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:50,400
Speaker 2: good judge of things as opposed to just being a

842
00:36:51,040 --> 00:36:54,000
Speaker 2: negative piece of good.

843
00:36:54,280 --> 00:36:54,719
Speaker 4: I love that.

844
00:36:55,080 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, you can be blunt either way. Yeah, and just

845
00:37:00,600 --> 00:37:03,640
Speaker 3: be and let yeah, just don't hold back anything.

846
00:37:03,840 --> 00:37:06,520
Speaker 2: Like there were times during the Globes where I was like, no,

847
00:37:06,800 --> 00:37:08,799
Speaker 2: not not effusive about a joke. But then there were

848
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:10,480
Speaker 2: other times where I was like, I think this might

849
00:37:10,520 --> 00:37:12,320
Speaker 2: be the best joke that was ever written.

850
00:37:12,920 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 3: Yes, yes, And we we would often tell people if

851
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:18,399
Speaker 3: that person was like in the bathroom while you said

852
00:37:18,400 --> 00:37:20,319
Speaker 3: that about that, we would be like, when you were gone,

853
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:23,600
Speaker 3: Brian said, this was the best joke ever written, and

854
00:37:23,719 --> 00:37:28,799
Speaker 3: it was. It was so exciting to relay that because.

855
00:37:28,960 --> 00:37:31,359
Speaker 2: You know, there was one joke that I did say

856
00:37:31,400 --> 00:37:34,239
Speaker 2: that I remember what it was. We didn't wind up

857
00:37:34,320 --> 00:37:34,640
Speaker 2: using it.

858
00:37:35,120 --> 00:37:36,080
Speaker 1: It was someone was saying to.

859
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:38,479
Speaker 3: The left of me who was saying it was shot

860
00:37:38,600 --> 00:37:40,440
Speaker 3: Maybe it was who was sitting to the left it. No,

861
00:37:40,480 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 3: it wasn't John Max. It was so I forget. I

862
00:37:42,400 --> 00:37:45,520
Speaker 3: don't think we ended up using it, but it was something. Well,

863
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:48,440
Speaker 3: there was one moment, one moment that like I think

864
00:37:48,560 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 3: was one of the funniest moments was when I think

865
00:37:51,000 --> 00:37:53,760
Speaker 3: we'd already talked about it, but it's funny to repeat

866
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 3: again when we were trying to get the word still

867
00:37:56,360 --> 00:37:59,160
Speaker 3: out of a like we'd said still too many times

868
00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:01,759
Speaker 3: in one joke, Like we had started off where it's

869
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:04,200
Speaker 3: still time to say this and and we needed to

870
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:05,800
Speaker 3: stay still again. But you don't want to say the

871
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:08,399
Speaker 3: still twice in one joke. So we were like, how

872
00:38:08,440 --> 00:38:10,239
Speaker 3: do we get that still out? Like we got to

873
00:38:10,320 --> 00:38:12,640
Speaker 3: take it out and we're like struggling. It's like, but

874
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:15,000
Speaker 3: I think we need it, and Noah, I think it

875
00:38:15,040 --> 00:38:18,360
Speaker 3: was Noah garfiggle right it. If we really need it,

876
00:38:18,440 --> 00:38:22,840
Speaker 3: we can just put it in another joke, like it

877
00:38:23,000 --> 00:38:25,680
Speaker 3: was about the whole act itself, like this still just

878
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:27,000
Speaker 3: needs to be somewhere in there.

879
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 1: That was so fucking funny.

880
00:38:29,680 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 2: Okay, I'm remembering a little bit. I don't remember the joke,

881
00:38:32,239 --> 00:38:33,719
Speaker 2: but it was a jest uk joke.

882
00:38:34,200 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 4: Okay, it was.

883
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,120
Speaker 2: I think it was about Wicked and I don't remember

884
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,080
Speaker 2: the joke, but I remember that was the best joke

885
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:39,600
Speaker 2: ever written.

886
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,880
Speaker 6: Oh yes, where we were certain, we were as certain

887
00:38:42,920 --> 00:38:47,040
Speaker 6: that we had cracked the case. My case, wicked wick

888
00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,400
Speaker 6: was the Bane of December because we.

889
00:38:49,440 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: Said that we were going to give out a trophy

890
00:38:50,960 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 2: to whoever cracked the wicked joke.

891
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,200
Speaker 1: We didn't even what did Okay, I guess what cracked

892
00:38:56,239 --> 00:38:59,520
Speaker 1: it was? My uh it was a wicked was amazing.

893
00:38:59,600 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: I loved it.

894
00:39:00,480 --> 00:39:02,680
Speaker 3: My boyfriend loved it. My boyfriend's boyfriend really loved it.

895
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:04,920
Speaker 3: Was that our that was our wicked like crescendo?

896
00:39:05,320 --> 00:39:08,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, I think Conan cracked it in the Oscars.

897
00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:10,239
Speaker 2: I really liked his wicked joke.

898
00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:11,439
Speaker 1: What was his wicked joke?

899
00:39:11,680 --> 00:39:14,319
Speaker 2: His wicked joke was you know how we all loved

900
00:39:14,400 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 2: the Wizard of Oz. What if we took all of

901
00:39:17,440 --> 00:39:20,759
Speaker 2: the supporting characters that we didn't even care about and

902
00:39:21,360 --> 00:39:23,280
Speaker 2: find us story They're going to college?

903
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:23,640
Speaker 5: Yeah?

904
00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean they're like, yeah, that's

905
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: pretty good.

906
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 3: There was some it was fun to watch the monologue

907
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:35,759
Speaker 3: and see like, oh, we were really close to that

908
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,400
Speaker 3: joke but we didn't quite get it, or like, oh,

909
00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:41,000
Speaker 3: we did do that joke but we didn't we didn't

910
00:39:41,080 --> 00:39:41,799
Speaker 3: keep it, or.

911
00:39:41,960 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 2: Like, oh there was one in particular that we like

912
00:39:44,800 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 2: that was like, oh man, we came up with that

913
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:48,560
Speaker 2: joke and we didn't use it, and then Conan.

914
00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:52,040
Speaker 6: I felt that at least three or four times in

915
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,920
Speaker 6: the monologue where we had tried out that joke and

916
00:39:56,160 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 6: like it we we cut it and then whatever it was, yeah,

917
00:40:00,480 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 6: like because yeah, like uh, just through testing we like

918
00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:05,800
Speaker 6: the show.

919
00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 3: Wasn't like because a lot of jokes just didn't work

920
00:40:08,280 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: because of the rest of it. Like it was like

921
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:11,920
Speaker 3: there's that's not to say that if Conan did a

922
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:14,640
Speaker 3: joke that we decided not to do or some version

923
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 3: of it, it's like it wasn't a good joke.

924
00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,319
Speaker 1: It like didn't fit with the rest of the.

925
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 2: Tone of what I Yeah, one of them was we

926
00:40:21,040 --> 00:40:24,919
Speaker 2: seriously discussed for a long time the possibility of doing

927
00:40:24,960 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: a sandworm costume that appears in an audience. Oh really

928
00:40:30,200 --> 00:40:31,920
Speaker 2: did it? Yeah, No, we talked about it for a

929
00:40:32,040 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 2: long time. I remember because I was in the park.

930
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 4: It came out. It came up like maybe five times.

931
00:40:37,640 --> 00:40:43,000
Speaker 3: They killed it with that. That was so fun, so silly, Yeah,

932
00:40:43,040 --> 00:40:45,799
Speaker 3: I was. I went to my parents' house last night again.

933
00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 3: I didn't spend the night, but I went to go

934
00:40:47,320 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 3: hang out with them again. And and yeah, I was

935
00:40:51,080 --> 00:40:54,200
Speaker 3: uh talking about what it was. I just about to say,

936
00:40:55,360 --> 00:40:56,880
Speaker 3: did you show you her new spear?

937
00:40:57,440 --> 00:40:57,640
Speaker 4: Yeah?

938
00:40:57,680 --> 00:40:58,320
Speaker 1: They did show me.

939
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:03,440
Speaker 3: There they found they found in Indian artifacts Native American artifacts.

940
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:04,520
Speaker 1: Do we say Indian anymore?

941
00:41:05,560 --> 00:41:07,240
Speaker 2: Depends on what you're talking about.

942
00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:10,040
Speaker 3: Well, I've heard Indian casino a ton, and I'm like,

943
00:41:10,160 --> 00:41:11,920
Speaker 3: doesn't that that doesn't sound appropriate to me.

944
00:41:12,880 --> 00:41:16,880
Speaker 2: I mean, I think in the commercials for Indian casinos

945
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,040
Speaker 2: they still say Indian.

946
00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 3: They do advertisements all over the place. In this DFW,

947
00:41:24,760 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 3: I was walking around and said, Indian casino is some

948
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:28,720
Speaker 3: and I was like, is that okay?

949
00:41:31,200 --> 00:41:32,160
Speaker 4: Is two verbose?

950
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:37,040
Speaker 2: Like, I'm sure there are some Indians who don't mind Indians,

951
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:39,480
Speaker 2: and I'm sure there's some Native Americans who don't mind

952
00:41:39,520 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: Native Americans. And I think it's up to the individual

953
00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,280
Speaker 2: to decide what they want to be called, well.

954
00:41:45,160 --> 00:41:50,799
Speaker 3: My parents found Native American spears. They love looking for arrowheads.

955
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:54,840
Speaker 3: That is a big part of their relationship and just

956
00:41:55,080 --> 00:41:59,360
Speaker 3: my dad loves My dad loves Native American culture and

957
00:41:59,480 --> 00:42:03,040
Speaker 3: reading about He knows everything about that and so he

958
00:42:03,239 --> 00:42:06,560
Speaker 3: they they're always like looking at riverbanks and for hours.

959
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:11,439
Speaker 1: And they found two the other day and I asked.

960
00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:13,000
Speaker 3: My mom picked me up from the airport and she

961
00:42:13,120 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 3: was like, your dad and I found two arrowheads And

962
00:42:16,080 --> 00:42:18,160
Speaker 3: I go, I go, as years better than his, and

963
00:42:18,200 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 3: she goes, you know it.

964
00:42:19,760 --> 00:42:23,320
Speaker 2: And they really found arrowheads like recently.

965
00:42:23,440 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, they find them all the time, Like it's crazy.

966
00:42:26,400 --> 00:42:29,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, my dad is hundreds Nikki, don't say that people

967
00:42:29,520 --> 00:42:32,040
Speaker 3: are going to try to steal them. They're worth literally nothing.

968
00:42:32,120 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 3: Please don't go steal my parents Missouri Indian.

969
00:42:35,360 --> 00:42:37,560
Speaker 4: Artifacts safe deposit box.

970
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:40,200
Speaker 1: That's where they are, so you can't even find them

971
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 1: in their house.

972
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:42,560
Speaker 2: Please wait. So they find these on like this in

973
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:46,400
Speaker 2: the side of a river. Yeah, like there isn't that

974
00:42:46,520 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: like incredibly hard and difficult to find an.

975
00:42:48,960 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 1: Arrowhead thinks they're no, not in my family.

976
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:53,880
Speaker 3: And they follow a guy online who like finds them

977
00:42:53,960 --> 00:42:56,399
Speaker 3: every day, like multiple ones every day. They're like all

978
00:42:56,560 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 3: over the place, like they they were, you know, before

979
00:42:59,120 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 3: we got to this land. I think they were around

980
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,160
Speaker 3: for hundreds and hundreds maybe thousands of years. I don't

981
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:05,920
Speaker 3: really know anything. And so and they were cutting things

982
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:07,719
Speaker 3: all the time, you know, and that's how they ate.

983
00:43:07,800 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 3: So there's like thousands for us. I hate to tell

984
00:43:11,920 --> 00:43:13,719
Speaker 3: you a pair allegedly.

985
00:43:15,080 --> 00:43:17,920
Speaker 4: Yeah, I think I think they were put there with

986
00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:19,680
Speaker 4: the dinosaur bones.

987
00:43:19,640 --> 00:43:21,359
Speaker 1: Right, confuse us. That's a good point.

988
00:43:22,040 --> 00:43:24,640
Speaker 3: But yeah, I'm impressed by it too. It's like it's insane.

989
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 3: But my sister, my brother in law find them all

990
00:43:26,520 --> 00:43:29,319
Speaker 3: the time because they're you know, out in nature. And yeah,

991
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,560
Speaker 3: whenever we were kids, whenever there would be like a

992
00:43:32,400 --> 00:43:35,120
Speaker 3: field we were driving pass that would be freshly tilled,

993
00:43:35,160 --> 00:43:37,479
Speaker 3: we would have to like pull over and they would

994
00:43:37,520 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 3: go like look, and you know, it's fun because like

995
00:43:40,719 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 3: an east drag hunt, when you find one, you just

996
00:43:42,440 --> 00:43:45,040
Speaker 3: like are so excited, and yeah, it's cool.

997
00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:45,960
Speaker 1: It's a really cool thing.

998
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:51,320
Speaker 3: Actually, during your wedding, Brian, when I was in wherever

999
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:53,759
Speaker 3: that was, Colorado, what was the town called Grand Lake,

1000
00:43:54,320 --> 00:43:56,680
Speaker 3: Grand Lake, Colorado, there was a shop that had a

1001
00:43:56,719 --> 00:43:59,640
Speaker 3: bunch of fake arrowheads, and I bought a handful of

1002
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 3: them to trick my parents and like sweat out like

1003
00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:05,719
Speaker 3: whenever I would go out to their cabin and I

1004
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 3: haven't been out. And Chris thought that was the most

1005
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,640
Speaker 3: diabolical thing he had ever heard of. You cannot do

1006
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,640
Speaker 3: that to your hands. And I'm like, it's a joke, like,

1007
00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 3: and it'll make them happy. I'll never even tell them

1008
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:17,759
Speaker 3: they're not real, Like they don't get them checked, you know,

1009
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:20,120
Speaker 3: like they won't know, and it'll just make them happy.

1010
00:44:20,160 --> 00:44:21,880
Speaker 3: I think it's actually a nice thing to do. But

1011
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:23,520
Speaker 3: if they hear this podcast, then I guess.

1012
00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:23,839
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1013
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 2: Like there was a commercial where I fort what it

1014
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,839
Speaker 2: was for, is like for Dura cel batteries or something

1015
00:44:27,880 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 2: where one of the daughters was really into dinosaurs. Yeah,

1016
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 2: this parents' daughter was into dinosaurs, so she got a

1017
00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 2: bunch of fake bones and buried them in the backyard

1018
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 2: so that she could find the bones the bones, And no,

1019
00:44:40,760 --> 00:44:42,200
Speaker 2: I find that to be diabolical.

1020
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 1: I think it's diabolical. I think it is. I recently

1021
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:46,799
Speaker 1: did something like that to.

1022
00:44:46,840 --> 00:44:49,440
Speaker 3: My nephew and I feel really really bad. Well, i'll

1023
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:54,239
Speaker 3: tell you when we go break. I already told this

1024
00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:56,440
Speaker 3: story in the podcast but my we we made it

1025
00:44:56,480 --> 00:44:58,680
Speaker 3: seem like my nephew broke a world record for sitting

1026
00:44:58,719 --> 00:44:59,240
Speaker 3: on a ball.

1027
00:44:59,239 --> 00:45:02,800
Speaker 2: On what happened? Wait? Was there a fallout?

1028
00:45:03,000 --> 00:45:05,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, he like bragged about it at school, and then

1029
00:45:05,440 --> 00:45:08,320
Speaker 3: one of his schoolmates said that he had sat longer

1030
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:10,360
Speaker 3: on a ball than my nephew did, which was I

1031
00:45:10,440 --> 00:45:13,200
Speaker 3: think he did an hour and three minutes and someone

1032
00:45:13,239 --> 00:45:15,200
Speaker 3: at his school did an hour and five minutes or

1033
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,320
Speaker 3: something and didn't get a record, so didn't get no certificate,

1034
00:45:18,600 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 3: and so he was like, I know it's fake, and

1035
00:45:20,320 --> 00:45:22,959
Speaker 3: so I felt so bad because I'm like, oh my god,

1036
00:45:23,080 --> 00:45:25,759
Speaker 3: I made my nephew look stupid at school like that's

1037
00:45:25,920 --> 00:45:27,640
Speaker 3: I didn't even think of the fallout from that, and

1038
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:31,359
Speaker 3: I should have because I'm like, I'm so upset still

1039
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:34,399
Speaker 3: about my parents never not telling me that Santa wasn't

1040
00:45:34,440 --> 00:45:37,000
Speaker 3: real until so late, because it made me look so

1041
00:45:37,239 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 3: dumb for so long.

1042
00:45:39,440 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 1: But you know, you make mistakes. I learned I won't

1043
00:45:42,680 --> 00:45:43,319
Speaker 1: do that to him again.

1044
00:45:43,440 --> 00:45:45,279
Speaker 2: Well here, real, here's how you make up for it.

1045
00:45:45,360 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: You got to find the other kids that told him

1046
00:45:47,680 --> 00:45:51,319
Speaker 2: he was a liar. You got trick. Yeah, you can

1047
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:53,760
Speaker 2: either get a certificate or you can tell them something

1048
00:45:53,840 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 2: wrong about like uh, the Grand Canyon or something so

1049
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,080
Speaker 2: that they're they have some stupid thing rattling.

1050
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:03,120
Speaker 6: Yeah, well, I would say, show up at the school,

1051
00:46:03,320 --> 00:46:07,719
Speaker 6: find that kid and be like, hey, listen, I'm this

1052
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:08,439
Speaker 6: boy's aunt.

1053
00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:10,440
Speaker 4: Santa isn't real.

1054
00:46:12,480 --> 00:46:17,040
Speaker 3: It destroy the He just can be like, my aunt

1055
00:46:17,200 --> 00:46:19,360
Speaker 3: is famous and that will be a currency for the

1056
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,920
Speaker 3: rest of his life. That I actually do think about

1057
00:46:22,760 --> 00:46:25,200
Speaker 3: as a gift giving to my niece and nephews.

1058
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:29,040
Speaker 1: I do think that is a gift. I don't care.

1059
00:46:29,160 --> 00:46:31,080
Speaker 3: I don't look at it like wow, I'm famous, and

1060
00:46:31,080 --> 00:46:33,600
Speaker 3: I'll walk around like that. But I know that if

1061
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:36,520
Speaker 3: I were a kid, final thought. I know, if I

1062
00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 3: were a kid, yeah, I would have killed for a

1063
00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 3: famous aunt or uncle. I mean, I remember one time

1064
00:46:42,440 --> 00:46:46,480
Speaker 3: my TV Bob, my uncle TV was on TV one

1065
00:46:46,560 --> 00:46:48,440
Speaker 3: time for a segment for being a Maleman, and I

1066
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,400
Speaker 3: talked about that endlessly. I was like, my uncle was

1067
00:46:51,440 --> 00:46:55,080
Speaker 3: on TV, So I'm like, I do think there's part

1068
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:57,520
Speaker 3: of the reason I like success is so that people

1069
00:46:57,560 --> 00:46:59,520
Speaker 3: in my life can brag about it. So whenever someone

1070
00:46:59,600 --> 00:47:02,120
Speaker 3: is like I didn't tell them I know you, I'm.

1071
00:47:01,960 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 1: Always like please.

1072
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:04,840
Speaker 3: That is the only reason I do this isn't that

1073
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:07,279
Speaker 3: that's like a cool thing to give your friends and

1074
00:47:07,440 --> 00:47:10,920
Speaker 3: family Like myself, I do.

1075
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:11,359
Speaker 4: It for them.

1076
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 2: I tell people that Nikki Glazers my aunt all the.

1077
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:18,080
Speaker 1: Time, Brian, we have a really weird family where h yeah,

1078
00:47:18,480 --> 00:47:19,960
Speaker 1: I know, I love it.

1079
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,960
Speaker 6: That's that should be every child's dream. Like when I

1080
00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:26,560
Speaker 6: was ten at basketball camp, I told everyone I was

1081
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:31,800
Speaker 6: Chris Farley's cousin, yes, and like I'm not, but well.

1082
00:47:31,719 --> 00:47:34,879
Speaker 3: Sean, even you, sometimes I'm like, no one like You'll

1083
00:47:35,239 --> 00:47:36,480
Speaker 3: I'll be on the road with you or something and

1084
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:37,880
Speaker 3: be able to be like, how should I introduce you?

1085
00:47:37,920 --> 00:47:41,920
Speaker 3: And you're like, just say Comedy Central and uh, just

1086
00:47:42,080 --> 00:47:44,200
Speaker 3: like he's a guy, And I'm like, how about you

1087
00:47:44,440 --> 00:47:48,080
Speaker 3: were like Norm McDonald's best friend and opener and show

1088
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:52,320
Speaker 3: like like and you were, you know, like having a

1089
00:47:52,719 --> 00:47:55,160
Speaker 3: Norm McDonald next to your name and like being having

1090
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,840
Speaker 3: the approval of Nor McDonald is like the best achievement

1091
00:47:58,880 --> 00:48:02,160
Speaker 3: in comedy like any comedian and like instantly gives you

1092
00:48:02,280 --> 00:48:06,280
Speaker 3: this like uh status within our community, even with fans

1093
00:48:06,320 --> 00:48:09,080
Speaker 3: of comedy. And that's always surprising to me that you

1094
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:10,279
Speaker 3: like kind of hold back on that.

1095
00:48:11,120 --> 00:48:15,120
Speaker 6: Oh, I'm just like I'm just so so embarrassed to

1096
00:48:15,200 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 6: give credits, Like I really wish I could still do

1097
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:20,440
Speaker 6: clubs and colleges all over.

1098
00:48:21,920 --> 00:48:23,520
Speaker 3: We can will still let you have that, But like,

1099
00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 3: what is that in you that like finally reached that

1100
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:29,000
Speaker 3: level where like, you know, if someone would have asked

1101
00:48:29,000 --> 00:48:30,520
Speaker 3: you what your dream job would have been when you

1102
00:48:30,600 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 3: first got in this business, it would have been like

1103
00:48:32,600 --> 00:48:35,280
Speaker 3: being buddies with Norm McDonald, like writing for him, writing

1104
00:48:35,360 --> 00:48:36,759
Speaker 3: with him, being on the road with him.

1105
00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:38,440
Speaker 1: And then you achieve it and you don't want to

1106
00:48:38,440 --> 00:48:40,239
Speaker 1: talk about it. I think, what is that?

1107
00:48:40,960 --> 00:48:41,520
Speaker 4: I don't know?

1108
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:44,080
Speaker 6: I you know what, this is actually a great thing

1109
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:46,120
Speaker 6: that I should probably bring up in therapy because like

1110
00:48:46,239 --> 00:48:48,240
Speaker 6: it really was like my dream.

1111
00:48:48,600 --> 00:48:51,480
Speaker 2: It's any sure, maybe it's like low self esteem, like

1112
00:48:51,560 --> 00:48:54,080
Speaker 2: you don't believe that you deserve that time.

1113
00:48:54,239 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 3: I think that's it too, because you also don't You

1114
00:48:56,320 --> 00:48:58,000
Speaker 3: didn't we just talk about this. Don't you feel like

1115
00:48:58,160 --> 00:49:00,320
Speaker 3: you tricked Norm in some way and that he actually

1116
00:49:00,360 --> 00:49:02,560
Speaker 3: even though he did tell you you were hilarious, you

1117
00:49:02,680 --> 00:49:04,399
Speaker 3: still think you, like somehow tricked Norm.

1118
00:49:04,719 --> 00:49:07,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, I thought I tricked him or he was fucking

1119
00:49:07,920 --> 00:49:11,319
Speaker 6: with me, and I can't I'm constantly going between the two.

1120
00:49:11,960 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 3: God, it's like even once you get it, you can't

1121
00:49:14,640 --> 00:49:16,800
Speaker 3: even it will never Like we were talking about this,

1122
00:49:16,920 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 3: it will never land the other night we were talking

1123
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:21,640
Speaker 3: about with Emily Catalana. We were on the road and

1124
00:49:22,440 --> 00:49:25,080
Speaker 3: Canada backstage, and we were talking about is there any

1125
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:28,160
Speaker 3: compliment that would ever land for you where you wouldn't

1126
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:31,279
Speaker 3: kind of go like that, where you wouldn't try to

1127
00:49:31,880 --> 00:49:35,480
Speaker 3: weasel the compliment away or kind of excuse it. And

1128
00:49:35,680 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 3: I went through every compliment I could ever get from anyone,

1129
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 3: and I just couldn't really, I couldn't really let any

1130
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:43,960
Speaker 3: of them in. There was always some kind of excuse

1131
00:49:44,000 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 3: I could make of like they're being nice or or

1132
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,719
Speaker 3: they've only seen this work that I've done, and that

1133
00:49:49,800 --> 00:49:51,680
Speaker 3: thing was actually really good, but like the rest of

1134
00:49:51,719 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 3: the work I've done was like crap. And if they

1135
00:49:53,520 --> 00:49:55,400
Speaker 3: really saw that? Who did I just see that was

1136
00:49:55,440 --> 00:49:57,759
Speaker 3: talking this way and I was like, oh, oh, oh

1137
00:49:58,160 --> 00:50:01,160
Speaker 3: it was this morning. Do I have to stay where

1138
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:01,440
Speaker 3: I saw it?

1139
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:01,680
Speaker 2: No?

1140
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:06,320
Speaker 3: I don't, Okay, So this morning I was my eyes

1141
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,320
Speaker 3: were open, so you know where they were looking, and

1142
00:50:08,440 --> 00:50:09,720
Speaker 3: I saw a thing.

1143
00:50:09,719 --> 00:50:12,720
Speaker 1: About it was Billie Eilish singing beautifully.

1144
00:50:12,760 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 3: It's like her infinius in their bedroom that they share,

1145
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:19,719
Speaker 3: I'm guessing, and they were recording and she's on the bed,

1146
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:22,160
Speaker 3: she's on their bed, he's at the desk and the

1147
00:50:22,239 --> 00:50:27,239
Speaker 3: recording and she does some like amazing whisper falsetto beautiful,

1148
00:50:27,840 --> 00:50:32,239
Speaker 3: like you know, run, and she's singing and then he goes,

1149
00:50:32,280 --> 00:50:34,040
Speaker 3: all right, that was good, and he's like stops the tape.

1150
00:50:34,040 --> 00:50:36,520
Speaker 3: But she was like that was disgusting and horrible and

1151
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 3: it sounded literally perfect right like Billie Eilish perfection.

1152
00:50:40,560 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 4: And she was like ough.

1153
00:50:41,760 --> 00:50:43,920
Speaker 3: She was like this, so I'm so bad and he

1154
00:50:44,040 --> 00:50:46,520
Speaker 3: was like, no, it wasn't that was great, and he's

1155
00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:48,160
Speaker 3: like used to this. You can tell he's like used

1156
00:50:48,160 --> 00:50:50,400
Speaker 3: to this at this point. And she's like, I cannot

1157
00:50:50,440 --> 00:50:52,879
Speaker 3: believe we have to have this album done a day

1158
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,239
Speaker 3: before my birthday. He goes, no, we have to have

1159
00:50:55,320 --> 00:50:57,319
Speaker 3: it mastered a day before your birthday. I'll be done

1160
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:59,320
Speaker 3: weeks before then. And she was like, well, it's not

1161
00:50:59,400 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 3: going to be because I'm crap and I always have

1162
00:51:01,120 --> 00:51:03,520
Speaker 3: been crap, and I'm horrible and I'm terrible and I'm

1163
00:51:03,600 --> 00:51:06,080
Speaker 3: the worst singer. And it's just like it was. I

1164
00:51:06,160 --> 00:51:07,799
Speaker 3: send it to Chris because I was like, oh my god,

1165
00:51:07,840 --> 00:51:11,520
Speaker 3: this is you are phineas I am Billy. Like we

1166
00:51:11,680 --> 00:51:17,319
Speaker 3: only have sex a little like once a month when

1167
00:51:17,320 --> 00:51:19,120
Speaker 3: we're in the creative process and there's not like a

1168
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 3: lot of romance going on. No, So I was like,

1169
00:51:23,040 --> 00:51:25,839
Speaker 3: that's so us Like it felt really good to see

1170
00:51:25,920 --> 00:51:28,239
Speaker 3: that kind of It sounds really good to see that

1171
00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:32,799
Speaker 3: kind of doubt in someone that is inarguably just insanely

1172
00:51:33,360 --> 00:51:36,160
Speaker 3: talented and almost seems to be naturally talented. Doesn't even

1173
00:51:36,160 --> 00:51:37,960
Speaker 3: have to try, even though I think there's definitely a

1174
00:51:38,000 --> 00:51:40,239
Speaker 3: lot of effort behind it in a good way, like

1175
00:51:40,360 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 3: she's trained, you know. But it was so good to

1176
00:51:43,480 --> 00:51:46,279
Speaker 3: hear her say like, literally, she's dog shit. She was like,

1177
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:50,560
Speaker 3: I'm horrible, and she believes it. I mean, she really

1178
00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:52,320
Speaker 3: believes it in a way that I'm like, that's the

1179
00:51:52,360 --> 00:51:54,280
Speaker 3: way I feel about myself when I'm trying to convince

1180
00:51:54,320 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 3: someone who's like, no, you're good, Like I felt so

1181
00:51:57,600 --> 00:51:59,600
Speaker 3: hard the exact same way she felt, And it felt

1182
00:51:59,640 --> 00:52:02,000
Speaker 3: so good to see someone that I know is inarguably

1183
00:52:02,040 --> 00:52:04,000
Speaker 3: the best feel that way.

1184
00:52:04,080 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 4: It was.

1185
00:52:04,480 --> 00:52:06,840
Speaker 3: It's like that really made my day to see that

1186
00:52:06,880 --> 00:52:08,239
Speaker 3: Billie Elish is insecure.

1187
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 4: Of course she is, Yes, why wouldn't you be insecure?

1188
00:52:13,719 --> 00:52:21,000
Speaker 6: Like insecurity is Honestly, feeling secure is just so foreign

1189
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:21,239
Speaker 6: to me.

1190
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:23,000
Speaker 4: I love being insecure.

1191
00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:27,399
Speaker 6: I embrace it, and also it helps me push through

1192
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:29,720
Speaker 6: then I try harder.

1193
00:52:30,280 --> 00:52:33,080
Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, that's the key, Like insecurity is one

1194
00:52:33,800 --> 00:52:37,480
Speaker 2: way in order for you to become great. Is constantly

1195
00:52:38,480 --> 00:52:40,680
Speaker 2: manifests in different ways for different people. But I think

1196
00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,560
Speaker 2: like you need to constantly be saying you're bad in

1197
00:52:43,719 --> 00:52:47,320
Speaker 2: order to actually propel yourself to greatness. I'm sure Michael

1198
00:52:47,360 --> 00:52:49,880
Speaker 2: Jordan was like this is I'm not good enough, I'm

1199
00:52:49,920 --> 00:52:52,200
Speaker 2: not good enough, Oliver and over again. Kobe was probably

1200
00:52:52,320 --> 00:52:54,480
Speaker 2: like that in order to become the great, the great,

1201
00:52:54,560 --> 00:52:55,560
Speaker 2: But also he didn't.

1202
00:52:55,680 --> 00:52:57,880
Speaker 1: I think there is. I think it's harmful at some

1203
00:52:57,960 --> 00:52:59,640
Speaker 1: point to be like that self loathing.

1204
00:52:59,640 --> 00:53:03,160
Speaker 3: I think that some happy medium like where you and Oh,

1205
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 3: I wanted to share this quick thing about like let's

1206
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 3: talk about famous people. I said it yesterday where I've

1207
00:53:07,040 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 3: learned about some famous person that actually.

1208
00:53:08,840 --> 00:53:10,759
Speaker 1: Like there was a story that really disappointed me.

1209
00:53:11,080 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 3: So this weekend in at the hotel for the oscars,

1210
00:53:15,239 --> 00:53:17,640
Speaker 3: Emily was running down to go get something urgently, and

1211
00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:19,239
Speaker 3: she had to jump in this elevator that was kind

1212
00:53:19,280 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 3: of full because the elevators were kind of all fucked up,

1213
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:23,120
Speaker 3: you know. She jumped in this elevator and she like

1214
00:53:23,239 --> 00:53:25,719
Speaker 3: immediately felt the vibe and there was like what are

1215
00:53:25,800 --> 00:53:28,400
Speaker 3: you doing in here? And she got on the elevator

1216
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:31,760
Speaker 3: and instantly someone she's standing next to a very famous person.

1217
00:53:32,200 --> 00:53:33,200
Speaker 1: And that person, who we.

1218
00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:35,360
Speaker 3: All thought was like cool, I would have been like,

1219
00:53:35,440 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 3: oh my god, I can't wait to be friends with

1220
00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 3: this person. The person that person gave her like a

1221
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 3: really dirty look. And Emily, by the way, is like doesn't.

1222
00:53:43,960 --> 00:53:46,040
Speaker 3: She's never like that person's a bit. She's always like

1223
00:53:46,160 --> 00:53:48,319
Speaker 3: understanding of like, no, they're a famous person, they should

1224
00:53:48,360 --> 00:53:48,680
Speaker 3: be that way.

1225
00:53:48,719 --> 00:53:50,640
Speaker 1: But she was like, this was so disappointing.

1226
00:53:50,920 --> 00:53:52,680
Speaker 3: And then that person like kind of gave her a

1227
00:53:52,719 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 3: look like what are you doing on this elevator even

1228
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:57,360
Speaker 3: though it's a public fucking elevator. The person that person's

1229
00:53:58,400 --> 00:54:02,360
Speaker 3: like handler or whatever, was like, do you are you

1230
00:54:02,440 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 3: staying in this hotel to Emily and she goes, no,

1231
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,759
Speaker 3: my client is, and she goes, do you really need

1232
00:54:07,800 --> 00:54:09,480
Speaker 3: to be in here right now? And like it almost

1233
00:54:09,520 --> 00:54:10,879
Speaker 3: asked her to get out of the next floor. Emily

1234
00:54:10,920 --> 00:54:14,160
Speaker 3: stayed the whole time, and so she said, it was

1235
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,960
Speaker 3: like there was another example of like there's a person that,

1236
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:22,200
Speaker 3: like Emily once encountered in an elevator who uh uh,

1237
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:26,759
Speaker 3: Like it was the vibe at this event where you

1238
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 3: do not ride the elevator with this person like they

1239
00:54:30,000 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 3: if they're in the elevator, you do not ride with

1240
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:34,160
Speaker 3: them like they are to ride alone, which is like

1241
00:54:34,239 --> 00:54:36,880
Speaker 3: a standard. And she accidentally got on this elevator like

1242
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:38,239
Speaker 3: in a rush because she was in a rush, and

1243
00:54:38,320 --> 00:54:39,800
Speaker 3: she like slid in and then she got in and

1244
00:54:39,920 --> 00:54:41,160
Speaker 3: realized I'm in.

1245
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,680
Speaker 1: The elevator with the person, and it was like and

1246
00:54:43,800 --> 00:54:44,680
Speaker 1: you're just not supposed to.

1247
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:46,319
Speaker 3: So we she was like it was giving that energy

1248
00:54:46,360 --> 00:54:48,440
Speaker 3: even though that person would like deserve to have their

1249
00:54:48,440 --> 00:54:50,600
Speaker 3: own elevator, Like it wasn't like a bad thing. It

1250
00:54:50,680 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 3: was just kind of like the vibe of it was

1251
00:54:52,200 --> 00:54:54,000
Speaker 3: like the rule, you know, because that person needed to

1252
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:56,759
Speaker 3: be wherever they need to be. This person, however, didn't

1253
00:54:56,800 --> 00:54:59,560
Speaker 3: need to have this vibe and it instantly ruined them.

1254
00:54:59,600 --> 00:55:01,359
Speaker 3: For me, I'll never know who it is because I'm

1255
00:55:01,400 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 3: not going to divulge enough and just I just know

1256
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,960
Speaker 3: though that I like, I went from like loving this person,

1257
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:09,480
Speaker 3: always watching everything they do on my feed, and I

1258
00:55:09,600 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 3: went to like almost to the lengths. I'm almost at

1259
00:55:12,160 --> 00:55:14,360
Speaker 3: the point where I'm because I got served them so

1260
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:17,360
Speaker 3: much yesterday and I'm like, I need to mute this

1261
00:55:17,480 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 3: person's name, like I don't want to see this person

1262
00:55:19,280 --> 00:55:21,840
Speaker 3: ever again, because they were rude to my friend not cool.

1263
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:24,560
Speaker 3: Like now doesn't surprise me because I'm like looking at

1264
00:55:24,560 --> 00:55:26,200
Speaker 3: all the signs, I'm like, yeah, of course they're rude.

1265
00:55:26,400 --> 00:55:30,160
Speaker 3: And so our new phrase when someone when I like

1266
00:55:30,440 --> 00:55:32,440
Speaker 3: because then later on we were talking to like my

1267
00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:34,200
Speaker 3: hair and makeup team about this person. We were like

1268
00:55:34,239 --> 00:55:38,239
Speaker 3: talking shit and and then Emily said something that was

1269
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,840
Speaker 3: kind of like ball busty to me, and I was like,

1270
00:55:39,880 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna need you to get out of my elevator.

1271
00:55:41,680 --> 00:55:45,400
Speaker 3: And so that that's a new phrase for when someone

1272
00:55:45,560 --> 00:55:47,959
Speaker 3: is like needs to just stop what they're saying because

1273
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:48,960
Speaker 3: you're not in the mood for it.

1274
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:51,360
Speaker 1: You need them to get out of your elevator. So

1275
00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:52,480
Speaker 1: I want to like spread that.

1276
00:55:52,560 --> 00:55:54,560
Speaker 3: I think we can all use that right now of like, hey,

1277
00:55:54,560 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 3: I'm gonna need you to get out of my elevator

1278
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,000
Speaker 3: right where you need to be left alone and you

1279
00:55:59,080 --> 00:55:59,879
Speaker 3: need to ride and pee.

1280
00:56:00,560 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love it. I can't believe June and Squib

1281
00:56:03,160 --> 00:56:07,439
Speaker 4: was such a fun. Yeah.

1282
00:56:07,560 --> 00:56:09,680
Speaker 3: This person, I'm not even gonna give them a gender,

1283
00:56:10,280 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 3: was just like it's just so disappointing when someone is

1284
00:56:13,160 --> 00:56:16,560
Speaker 3: like you think they're gonna be cool and they're not. Like, man,

1285
00:56:17,400 --> 00:56:19,359
Speaker 3: it's I just want to celebrate the people who are

1286
00:56:19,520 --> 00:56:21,879
Speaker 3: cool and like, here, let me give a le let's

1287
00:56:21,920 --> 00:56:24,479
Speaker 3: end on a high note. I just posted a picture

1288
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:27,920
Speaker 3: of Jackie Tone, who is on Nobody Wants This among

1289
00:56:28,120 --> 00:56:30,880
Speaker 3: many other things. She was also in Glow, I believe.

1290
00:56:31,200 --> 00:56:35,880
Speaker 3: But Jackie Tone t hn so funny, so charismatic, so kind.

1291
00:56:37,320 --> 00:56:39,480
Speaker 3: I ran into her at the Elton John party. She

1292
00:56:39,680 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 3: like invited me into her People magazine like photo shoot.

1293
00:56:42,200 --> 00:56:46,000
Speaker 3: We did a picture together. And then Lisa Curry, another comedian,

1294
00:56:46,040 --> 00:56:47,800
Speaker 3: after I posted that picture, wrote to me and was

1295
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:49,440
Speaker 3: like I love her so much, and I was like,

1296
00:56:49,640 --> 00:56:51,880
Speaker 3: isn't it? And she just got upgraded to a series

1297
00:56:51,920 --> 00:56:54,320
Speaker 3: regular on Nobody Wants This. She was a you know,

1298
00:56:54,560 --> 00:56:57,480
Speaker 3: a supporting character before and then they made her a

1299
00:56:57,560 --> 00:57:00,239
Speaker 3: main character, which is like speaks to her town like

1300
00:57:00,280 --> 00:57:03,120
Speaker 3: they only do that when the person like people want

1301
00:57:03,200 --> 00:57:05,480
Speaker 3: more of them. And she plays like a bitch on

1302
00:57:05,560 --> 00:57:07,960
Speaker 3: the show, like it's it's amazing that she's able to

1303
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,000
Speaker 3: build this carric like she just shines.

1304
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:10,759
Speaker 1: She's so good.

1305
00:57:11,200 --> 00:57:12,880
Speaker 3: But Lisa Currey wrote to me and was like, she

1306
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:14,759
Speaker 3: was so nice to me at this one event she

1307
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,120
Speaker 3: like remembered my name, was so kind and we were

1308
00:57:17,120 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 3: both just like, isn't it great when nice people are successful?

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Speaker 3: And we're both like, yeah, fucking Jackie Tone, Like that's

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Speaker 3: that's the kind of person you want succeeding. And I

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Speaker 3: would have thought the elevator person was a Jackie Tone.

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Speaker 1: I really would have. So sometimes they trick you, man,

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Speaker 1: Sometimes they trick you.

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Speaker 4: Just be nice. Everyone should be nice. It's free, Yeah.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I would argue that it costs something to

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Speaker 2: be nice.

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Speaker 1: It takes, yeah, it does. It takes extra hours so much.

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Speaker 2: Rather just like ignore everything you know.

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Speaker 1: And just be like, oh my god, it's so easy

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Speaker 1: to be cunty.

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Speaker 2: When you're in the mood. It's easy to be nice,

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Speaker 2: But when you're in a bad mood, it's just can't

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Speaker 2: just keep going.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, people go oh, smile and take this many muscles

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Speaker 3: and frowning takes four times as many.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, but no one is like walking around.

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, I'm not.

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Speaker 1: Lily Rose dep on the Red Carpet. It's like doing nothing,

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Speaker 1: takes no muscles.

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Speaker 3: Knows that reference. Lily Rose Depp is art. Lily Rose

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Speaker 3: dep go look, go google Lily Rose dep on Red carpets.

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Speaker 3: She makes this face every single time.

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Speaker 4: Wow, it's just she is cost and.

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Speaker 3: It's art because a second I've seen like some of

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Speaker 3: the video of her posing on the red carpet. The

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Speaker 3: second she's done posing, she goes into a smile and

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Speaker 3: is like natural again. She is trying to look like

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Speaker 3: cunty on the red carpet. And I used to judge

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Speaker 3: it and be like, why is she making that face?

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Speaker 3: And now I'm like, I fucking love it. I love

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Speaker 3: a choice that is like kind of antagonizing people who

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Speaker 3: are supposed to just you know, you're always suposed to

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Speaker 3: be cheery and like so effervescent on the red carpet.

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Speaker 1: Fucking cool, cool move. I love it.

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Speaker 3: All right, gotta go, Thank you for listening this week.

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Speaker 3: We'll be back next week. Don't you think we won't

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Speaker 3: Sean O'Connor, Brian Frajie, thank you, Noah, and thank you

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Speaker 3: for listening so much. We'll be in Hartford, Connecticut this

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Speaker 3: weekend Portland, Maine, two shows.

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Speaker 1: I'll see you then or maybe I won't, but we'll

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Speaker 1: see you next week on the show Don't Be good Bye.

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