WEBVTT - Mother’s Day No More 0:00:00.320 --> 0:00:02.280 Help We Suck At Being Newlyweds? 0:00:02.320 --> 0:00:06.880 With Dean Aungler, Kaylen Lurkey and Jared Haven an iHeartRadio podcast. 0:00:09.080 --> 0:00:11.480 What is going on? Everyone? Welcome to an all new 0:00:11.520 --> 0:00:15.680 episode of Help We Suck At Being at Newlyweds? And boy, 0:00:15.760 --> 0:00:18.240 oh boy, do we suck more than ever this week? 0:00:19.000 --> 0:00:19.320 Why? 0:00:19.840 --> 0:00:22.080 I don't know. I just wanted to say that we've 0:00:22.079 --> 0:00:24.840 got a great episode. We're doing a doubleheader this week, 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:27.960 just like the good old days. We have some great guests. 0:00:28.040 --> 0:00:29.960 Fran and Ria from Chicks in the Office are going 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:33.319 to be joining us later this week on Thursday. You're 0:00:33.360 --> 0:00:35.519 not gonna want to miss that. But in the meantime, 0:00:35.800 --> 0:00:38.879 we want to catch up with I guess everyone that's 0:00:38.920 --> 0:00:42.680 involved in this podcast. So Kaylin is currently in France, 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:48.760 Jared's currently in Rhode Island. You guessed it, Yes, nice, 0:00:48.880 --> 0:00:51.879 And I'm currently in Las Vegas. Look at us, Look 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:54.520 at us? Who would have thought? Who would have thought? 0:00:55.120 --> 0:00:57.120 So what's going on you guys? Jared? Great to see you. 0:00:57.200 --> 0:00:58.800 It's always a pleasure to see you because we don't 0:00:58.800 --> 0:01:01.280 get to talk much to the week, but every time 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:03.360 I get to talk to you on this podcast, it's 0:01:03.400 --> 0:01:05.440 a real tree even when you wear those silly sunglasses. 0:01:06.000 --> 0:01:09.520 Yeah, I felt like wearing sunglasses just because Dean's got 0:01:09.520 --> 0:01:13.320 his halo. I feel like I'm just missing out. You're cool, Jared. 0:01:13.319 --> 0:01:15.320 When you wear the sunglasses, I feel cool. 0:01:15.400 --> 0:01:18.160 I've always thought I looked good with sunglasses on. Also, 0:01:18.200 --> 0:01:19.760 it just hides my face, actually says no. 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:23.560 I agree that I look cooler in sunglasses too. But 0:01:23.600 --> 0:01:25.240 Calen always makes fun of me because I always choose 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:27.479 the exact same style of sunglasses, no matter where, when it. 0:01:27.520 --> 0:01:30.399 Is same exact ones, no matter what. He has, like 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:31.400 seven at the same pair. 0:01:32.200 --> 0:01:33.640 It's those little round runs, right. 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:35.839 Yeah, I'm a round guy. I'm the hipster guy. 0:01:36.760 --> 0:01:39.520 And I asked him to venture out in Japan when 0:01:39.560 --> 0:01:41.320 we were shopping for another pair because he lost his 0:01:41.400 --> 0:01:43.480 other pair, and he tried on other ones, and I 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:44.880 was like, you're right, you found the one that fits 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:45.440 your face shape. 0:01:45.640 --> 0:01:47.480 Of course, that's why I wear them, because they're the 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:51.200 only sunglasses that don't make me look ridiculous. Like Jared's 0:01:51.200 --> 0:01:53.000 got a great shape of his face and so he 0:01:53.000 --> 0:01:55.280 can pull off many different styles. I'm sure, I mean 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:59.160 not true. I have a very specific sunglass shape style. 0:01:59.280 --> 0:02:01.919 So but I will admit, Jared, you look cool. Hopefully 0:02:01.960 --> 0:02:04.000 you're in your comfy place. You're like the You're like 0:02:04.000 --> 0:02:11.000 Frankenstein from from that movie with Adam Sandler. What's the 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:12.280 name of the movie with Adam. 0:02:12.080 --> 0:02:13.840 Sandler and the Little Kid animated? 0:02:14.400 --> 0:02:17.480 No, no, with the Little Kid. No is a dad, 0:02:18.240 --> 0:02:22.519 big daddy, big daddy. 0:02:21.919 --> 0:02:23.679 Oh Frankenstein. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:28.959 Yeah, he puts the sunglasses on and he feels safe 0:02:28.960 --> 0:02:30.480 and comfortable and no one can see him. So that's 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:31.800 how you are right now. I feel like you're in 0:02:31.800 --> 0:02:35.880 your happy place. You're comfortable. You know, maybe try maybe 0:02:35.919 --> 0:02:38.560 we can get some spicy hot gossip out of you 0:02:38.639 --> 0:02:40.160 this this episode because of it. 0:02:40.880 --> 0:02:44.760 I know, uh, spicy. You know what you want to 0:02:44.840 --> 0:02:45.920 You want to have some spice? 0:02:46.720 --> 0:02:47.840 Yeah, spice me up. 0:02:50.360 --> 0:02:52.160 Ashley and I had sex last night. 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:57.440 Yeah? Nice, I like as she's a reaction. She has 0:02:57.480 --> 0:02:58.760 no idea why you just said that. 0:02:59.320 --> 0:03:02.520 I was looking for some spice? You know? Why not 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:03.640 change things up? Hey? 0:03:03.680 --> 0:03:05.640 Is that was that because you guys are trying to 0:03:05.680 --> 0:03:07.720 have a baby or you guys are just seeing it 0:03:07.720 --> 0:03:08.200 for the fun. 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:11.519 No, we're doing it for fun. Man, Come on, that's cool. 0:03:11.520 --> 0:03:11.840 How did it? 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:14.600 Every time has to be like to pro create? 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:16.880 How did it initiate? Who started it? 0:03:17.440 --> 0:03:19.160 Ashley was the one who started it. 0:03:19.200 --> 0:03:21.639 Nice and like describe and detail how she starts it. 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:25.600 Yeah, she initiated it because it's planned, right, it's you know. 0:03:26.040 --> 0:03:29.239 So at like seven o'clock she's like, so you should 0:03:29.240 --> 0:03:30.000 we have sex tonight? 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:32.079 Do we really want to talk about this? 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:33.640 Not fully? 0:03:34.200 --> 0:03:36.040 No, because I said that that would be a great 0:03:36.120 --> 0:03:37.840 conversation topic for the podcast. 0:03:38.160 --> 0:03:40.839 Well, so here's here's the conversation topic for all these 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:44.880 married couples out there. Caylin Dean, I'm sure you're not there, 0:03:45.000 --> 0:03:47.560 but you guys are headed there, so brace for it. 0:03:48.040 --> 0:03:48.160 Uh. 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:51.920 You know there's times where you just like, don't have intimacy? 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:55.400 What no, get away, Get out of the room. Get 0:03:55.400 --> 0:03:55.880 out of the room. 0:03:56.080 --> 0:03:58.240 The conversation was supposed to be about initiation. 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:01.000 That's what I'm talking about. 0:04:01.320 --> 0:04:02.720 Ah. 0:04:02.760 --> 0:04:09.840 Anyway, like what I was saying, sometimes it's hard to initiate. 0:04:10.000 --> 0:04:14.000 And because it's my point being now I've lost my 0:04:14.000 --> 0:04:16.760 train of thought. My point being is that sometimes you 0:04:16.920 --> 0:04:19.880 just go like weeks and you're like, oh my god, 0:04:19.920 --> 0:04:22.599 we haven't had sex, and it's because life gets in 0:04:22.640 --> 0:04:27.240 the way. I we're tired, at nights. We don't have 0:04:27.320 --> 0:04:31.520 the same libido that we once had. And we've talked 0:04:31.520 --> 0:04:33.880 about having planned sex on the podcast before. Not the 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:41.159 sexiest of things, but needed, needed, And so with Ashley 0:04:41.160 --> 0:04:42.919 and I, it's just like, oh my god, we have to, 0:04:43.040 --> 0:04:46.680 like we have to have sex because it's like we 0:04:46.839 --> 0:04:49.240 just have to do it because yeah, most of the times, 0:04:49.360 --> 0:04:51.760 Dawson goes to bed at nine thirty and we're just exhausted. 0:04:52.360 --> 0:04:53.719 I mean, that's how it is for me. I feel 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.880 like I don't have a sex drive anymore either. Not 0:04:56.000 --> 0:04:57.800 that you're saying you don't have a sex drive, but 0:04:58.120 --> 0:05:00.159 it's hard to find time. And then, like you said, 0:05:00.600 --> 0:05:02.880 the day gets away from me. Life gets in the way. 0:05:03.120 --> 0:05:06.479 I can't do that. I can't do the sexy time 0:05:06.520 --> 0:05:09.880 when I know that I smell and like just really dirty. Yeah, 0:05:09.880 --> 0:05:13.200 because we have to shower. Actually likes to get all ready. 0:05:13.680 --> 0:05:15.680 That's like and that's ninety eight percent of the time 0:05:15.720 --> 0:05:18.560 for me. I stink and I'm dirty and I feel 0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:21.080 like gross, and then I'm like, oh, but I don't 0:05:21.080 --> 0:05:22.720 want to shower before bed. I'll do it in the morning. 0:05:23.760 --> 0:05:23.960 You know. 0:05:24.720 --> 0:05:26.440 Yeah, there's a solution for that, But you don't like 0:05:26.440 --> 0:05:27.840 to shower. That's totally no. 0:05:27.839 --> 0:05:30.120 No, no, I don't mind showering. I shower today, thank you 0:05:30.200 --> 0:05:33.479 very much. I cannot shower at night. If I can't 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:37.599 shower after eleven AM, then it's just off the table 0:05:37.600 --> 0:05:39.080 for me. I can't shower really. 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:42.080 Yeah, I mean eleven is early. I can understand if 0:05:42.080 --> 0:05:43.520 it's like nine o'clock at night and you're like, I 0:05:43.560 --> 0:05:46.359 just got I'm so tired. I can't. I can't put 0:05:46.360 --> 0:05:47.880 myself in a body of water right now. 0:05:48.360 --> 0:05:50.480 Yeah, well, especially before bed. But you're right, maybe it's 0:05:50.480 --> 0:05:52.080 a little bit later than eleven, But I just hate 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:54.599 the nighttime shower. Some people swear by them. I can't 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:56.680 do it. And you know, to the point of the 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:00.840 conversation that we're having, that's like prime sex time. And 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:03.080 at that point I'm like, like I said, I know 0:06:03.120 --> 0:06:05.960 I smell bad. I know I'm dirty. The last thing 0:06:06.040 --> 0:06:07.960 I want is for Kaitlyn to be touching me, because 0:06:07.960 --> 0:06:10.560 then she's going to realize how bad smelly I am. 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:12.920 Right now, I already realized i'll smell you are. 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:16.479 But who initiates more to YouTube me? 0:06:17.720 --> 0:06:24.640 Yeah? Yeah, but I initiate sometimes, Yeah, it's me. Yeah, 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:27.880 but yeah, but we started to carve it out some time. 0:06:27.920 --> 0:06:30.240 There was a time not to get too personal here 0:06:30.560 --> 0:06:32.600 where we were like, okay, then I talked and we're like, 0:06:32.640 --> 0:06:35.479 we're not being intimate enough, and so we made we 0:06:35.640 --> 0:06:37.279 kind of did what you're doing where we like scheduled 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:40.040 it and planned it. We're like every morning, we're gonna 0:06:40.040 --> 0:06:43.240 do it every morning. Yeah, it lasted a good couple weeks. 0:06:43.880 --> 0:06:47.600 Okay, well, uh, I mean, if we really want to 0:06:47.600 --> 0:06:49.640 get into it, after Dean broke, is like, it was 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:53.600 very hard to be intimate. Yeah, like it. I mean 0:06:53.600 --> 0:06:56.640 it wasn't really physically possible because he just located his 0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:59.760 hip as well, so it became more difficult. And then 0:07:00.360 --> 0:07:01.080 we got better. 0:07:01.839 --> 0:07:03.920 Yeah, we got better, we got worse, We got better, 0:07:03.920 --> 0:07:07.320 we got worse. It's an ebb and flow, but it 0:07:07.360 --> 0:07:09.240 really just falls back onto me too. You know, like 0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:12.680 I always talk about how a shamed I am of 0:07:12.720 --> 0:07:14.760 my body right now, and just like being naked is 0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:17.640 not really my favorite thing, and having to think about 0:07:17.680 --> 0:07:20.200 Kaylin seeing me this way is really depressing for me, 0:07:20.960 --> 0:07:22.440 and that just falls back on me. I just got 0:07:22.440 --> 0:07:23.040 to get in shape. 0:07:23.480 --> 0:07:24.600 But you look good. 0:07:25.600 --> 0:07:27.960 He does look good. He's crazy. But that's why for 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:30.720 me personally, morning sex is just completely off the table. 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:32.840 I want it to be as dark as humanly possible, 0:07:32.880 --> 0:07:35.160 so you don't see what I look like right now, 0:07:35.200 --> 0:07:35.400 you know. 0:07:35.720 --> 0:07:37.840 Yeah, but at least in the morning, like you're thinner, 0:07:38.000 --> 0:07:40.000 you're less bloated. You know, you've kind of lost some 0:07:40.040 --> 0:07:42.360 water weight overnight, so you do, and you haven't eaten 0:07:42.360 --> 0:07:44.600 anything that day, so you do look better in the 0:07:44.600 --> 0:07:46.280 morning than you do at night. So there's at least 0:07:46.280 --> 0:07:47.840 that going for you. But I do agree with you 0:07:48.240 --> 0:07:50.480 with the lights thing. How's the breath though? 0:07:50.720 --> 0:07:53.640 You guys, they say, I don't know who says this, 0:07:53.720 --> 0:07:57.360 but somebody said that you found your soulmate if you 0:07:57.400 --> 0:07:59.240 can make out with them in the morning and their 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:00.000 breath doesn't stay. 0:08:01.200 --> 0:08:01.440 Yeah. 0:08:01.600 --> 0:08:03.200 How does my breast smell in the morning? Kaylen? 0:08:03.920 --> 0:08:05.840 I don't like anyone's breast smell is good in the morning. 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:10.520 But but but we're episode made out in the morning 0:08:10.560 --> 0:08:13.000 and it's it's fine. I'm not like you. 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:15.760 Well, your breast things in the morning too, so I 0:08:15.840 --> 0:08:17.160 did for you. How does that feel? 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.840 Okay? I'm just I can't take you guys seriously because 0:08:20.880 --> 0:08:22.920 you have the halo Jared has the glasses. It looks 0:08:22.960 --> 0:08:25.320 like the angel and the devil like on my shoulders 0:08:25.360 --> 0:08:25.680 right now. 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.240 You know, I'm gladly be the angel. Can you give 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:30.160 yourself a filter so you can so you can fit 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:30.680 in with us? 0:08:31.000 --> 0:08:32.120 I don't even know how to do that. 0:08:32.480 --> 0:08:33.920 Oh, you can play around with a little bit. 0:08:33.920 --> 0:08:35.680 I feel like there's got to be like Bunny ears 0:08:35.679 --> 0:08:36.480 on there for kailin. 0:08:38.320 --> 0:08:41.880 What's your go to position, Jared, here's an Ashley's Okay? 0:08:41.920 --> 0:08:43.080 Can we talk about something else? 0:08:43.280 --> 0:08:46.360 Yeah, we don't go deep. If it was din, if 0:08:46.400 --> 0:08:48.040 it was just you and I, we could rattle about 0:08:48.040 --> 0:08:49.959 this all day long. But you know, I want to 0:08:50.000 --> 0:08:51.560 be respectful of the lady in the room. 0:08:51.679 --> 0:08:55.000 You know, the listeners want to hear about their favorite positions. 0:08:55.320 --> 0:08:56.360 Let's try something else. 0:08:57.960 --> 0:09:01.000 Well, all right, so we'll we'll transition away from the 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.760 sexy time talk even though, hey, listen, there's nothing to 0:09:03.760 --> 0:09:05.439 be ashamed of. It's just part of life, guys. 0:09:05.480 --> 0:09:08.280 But I have a question. I have a non inappropriate question. 0:09:09.040 --> 0:09:10.719 Ashley's not on birth control, right, So I know you 0:09:10.720 --> 0:09:13.360 said you guys aren't trying for a child, a second child, 0:09:13.400 --> 0:09:16.400 but like technically you're not not just on birth control. 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:17.560 Oh she is, okay, I gotcha. 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:21.520 Oh yeah right, Oh yeah. 0:09:21.640 --> 0:09:23.400 I just kind of always figured once you have a baby, 0:09:23.400 --> 0:09:25.959 you're kind of like off birth control for the rest 0:09:25.960 --> 0:09:26.760 of them, for your to life. 0:09:26.800 --> 0:09:29.800 Why would you think that because I'm an idiot, Because 0:09:29.800 --> 0:09:31.960 you're a guy. You don't know what the hell you're 0:09:32.000 --> 0:09:32.400 talking about. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:34.520 I guess, you know, I just assume once you stop it, 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:36.600 there's no you're not going to restart it. But it does. 0:09:36.720 --> 0:09:38.640 I mean, it makes sense now that we're talking about it. 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.240 I just have always kind of assumed, you know, you're married, 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:43.560 you have a baby, and then you're kind of just 0:09:43.559 --> 0:09:45.640 like winging it and whatever happens. 0:09:47.480 --> 0:09:51.520 Yeah, say I do we get off with birth control? 0:09:51.600 --> 0:09:55.000 And then you know, yeah, I mean, Kalen's not on 0:09:55.040 --> 0:09:57.599 birth control, so we're we're not technically trying to have 0:09:57.640 --> 0:10:00.680 a kid. But like you know, there's no goalie in 0:10:00.720 --> 0:10:01.280 the goal. 0:10:04.120 --> 0:10:04.480 That puck. 0:10:04.679 --> 0:10:07.000 If it happens, it happens, Caitlyn might be pregnant at 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:07.400 the wedding. 0:10:08.600 --> 0:10:11.400 No, that would be not good because I just tried 0:10:11.440 --> 0:10:13.079 on my wedding dress and it fit perfect. 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:14.800 You would need some alterations at that point. 0:10:14.920 --> 0:10:17.000 Yeah, But I feel like you're going to be like 0:10:17.040 --> 0:10:18.640 a tiny pregnant person. 0:10:19.920 --> 0:10:22.319 Would be nice, I hope yeah. 0:10:22.480 --> 0:10:23.839 Or it could be the opposite. You could do with 0:10:23.920 --> 0:10:27.199 balloon and we could have quadruplets. But yeah, either way, 0:10:27.200 --> 0:10:29.079 I guess we'll wait till after the wedding. But I 0:10:29.080 --> 0:10:30.920 guess my point being that you know you're not on 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:34.360 birth control. I'm certainly not wearing condoms, so. 0:10:34.440 --> 0:10:35.640 Yeah, those are long a gooing. 0:10:35.720 --> 0:10:36.800 Bro could happen. 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:51.240 I just I can't remember the last time. Speaking of weddings, 0:10:51.240 --> 0:10:52.920 how are you guys feeling about the wedding right now? 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:56.800 Where are you right now in the process? So you're 0:10:56.800 --> 0:10:59.360 trying on dresses, Dean, you probably haven't even started looking 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:02.880 at Texas yet, but the venues all booked. Do you 0:11:02.920 --> 0:11:03.600 guys have food? 0:11:03.640 --> 0:11:06.880 All that good stuff we're going? Oh sorry, you can 0:11:06.920 --> 0:11:07.800 answer kaelin. 0:11:08.640 --> 0:11:12.680 In three weeks we have our food tasting. But next step, 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:15.920 our wedding invites are going to print next week and 0:11:15.920 --> 0:11:19.760 then they'll be sent out mid June. Other than that, 0:11:19.840 --> 0:11:22.640 it's like design details. But try to my wedding gown 0:11:22.679 --> 0:11:25.720 fit perfectly. And on my way walking to right after 0:11:25.720 --> 0:11:29.000 the podcast downtown walking to my wedding dress fitting I 0:11:29.040 --> 0:11:32.200 passed like seven tuck shops, and so I feel like 0:11:32.240 --> 0:11:34.480 they're like, that's where Dean should go to find his 0:11:34.600 --> 0:11:35.480 pinguin tuxedo. 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:36.520 What in France? 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:39.400 Oh this was in downtown Los Angeles. 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.480 Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, Well do I go to the 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:43.640 tux s fitting by myself? 0:11:44.800 --> 0:11:47.960 You could bring a friend, bring Josh or Jackson Jackson stylish, 0:11:48.360 --> 0:11:49.360 I told I asked Jackson. 0:11:49.400 --> 0:11:50.600 I was like, hey, if you want to get fitted 0:11:50.600 --> 0:11:52.719 for a tuxedo with me, we'll get you. You pay 0:11:52.760 --> 0:11:54.480 for your tuxedo. But then he's like, well, would I 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:56.679 wear a tuxedo? And then I was like, yeah, I 0:11:56.679 --> 0:11:58.720 guess you probably wouldn't wear a tuxedo. 0:11:59.400 --> 0:12:01.280 He should wear suit, but he should still go with 0:12:01.320 --> 0:12:04.680 you because we will cover his suit cost. 0:12:05.200 --> 0:12:07.240 Oh but he's pa, he's proba already got one. But 0:12:07.280 --> 0:12:08.360 I guess we could buy him a new and that'd 0:12:08.400 --> 0:12:09.679 be a good gesture on our behalf. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:11.240 Yeah, let's do it. We should. 0:12:11.440 --> 0:12:13.120 Yeah. So anyways, as we were saying, we got a 0:12:13.120 --> 0:12:15.800 food tasting in three weeks, we're actually gonna stay at 0:12:15.840 --> 0:12:18.840 the property that everyone's going to stay at with us, 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:21.679 and it should be a good time. 0:12:21.960 --> 0:12:24.120 I think it's our first time seeing it not covered 0:12:24.160 --> 0:12:27.040 in snow, so it'll be interesting to see and actually 0:12:27.080 --> 0:12:27.720 like stay there. 0:12:27.960 --> 0:12:30.800 I mean, are you guys doing multiple food vendors? Like 0:12:30.840 --> 0:12:33.319 are you picking? Did you already pick the people? You're 0:12:33.320 --> 0:12:33.880 a caterer. 0:12:35.160 --> 0:12:37.640 So the property we're getting married at has a farm 0:12:37.720 --> 0:12:41.920 to table chef and he'll be there just like preparing 0:12:41.920 --> 0:12:44.120 the meals, and I guess we'll decide from there. 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:46.960 Yeah, which would be interesting. I've never really done a 0:12:46.960 --> 0:12:47.839 food tasting before. 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:52.439 But they're gonna wine and dine you. It's very nice. Yeah, 0:12:52.480 --> 0:12:53.200 like what are we going to do? 0:12:53.240 --> 0:12:55.880 Like take three bites of seven meals? 0:12:56.440 --> 0:12:59.319 Pretty much? But that's the best part is that you 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:01.280 get to try all all this different food and then 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.440 you can take it to go or you know, you 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:06.880 can obviously give it to a food shelter. You don't 0:13:06.920 --> 0:13:09.520 throw the food out, but yeah, yeah, try all these 0:13:09.559 --> 0:13:11.080 different things and then you get to figure out what 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:11.480 you want. 0:13:11.880 --> 0:13:13.439 Are they charging us for this food tasting? 0:13:13.520 --> 0:13:17.320 Klein, No, they're not. It's included. That's the one thing 0:13:17.400 --> 0:13:18.160 that's included. 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:20.400 That is I'm surprised I am charging us a thousand 0:13:20.440 --> 0:13:21.000 dollars for this. 0:13:21.559 --> 0:13:23.720 I know, I'm surprised. We Dan and I were talking. 0:13:23.800 --> 0:13:25.720 We're like, should we just stay at the property because 0:13:26.000 --> 0:13:29.400 are tastings late. It's a little bit removed from Aspen. 0:13:29.559 --> 0:13:32.480 It's like kind of a drive and Deed's like, they're 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:34.560 going to charge one thousand dollars for one night, but 0:13:34.880 --> 0:13:41.880 they gave us a discount of one hundred dollars, sohous. 0:13:40.040 --> 0:13:42.719 I guess, very generous, and it'll be nice. It'll be 0:13:42.800 --> 0:13:45.320 nice to just stay up there and kind of feel 0:13:45.320 --> 0:13:47.200 what it's going to be like for us and for 0:13:47.280 --> 0:13:48.360 everyone else that's there. 0:13:48.520 --> 0:13:51.200 You know how many people are you guys inviting? I know, 0:13:51.280 --> 0:13:52.040 I can't remember. 0:13:52.480 --> 0:13:54.360 Small it gets smaller every day. I think it's gonna be. 0:13:54.360 --> 0:14:00.320 Like seventy Yeah, but we inviting like eighty five maybe. Yeah, 0:14:00.480 --> 0:14:06.440 we've gotten a couple of those, so really Yeah. Hannah 0:14:06.440 --> 0:14:09.000 Ann from The Bachelors so far is a no. 0:14:12.480 --> 0:14:20.320 Yea Well that headline this week Hannah Ann not going No. 0:14:20.360 --> 0:14:23.160 I know I's and I'm sure some of my friends 0:14:23.160 --> 0:14:27.080 won't show up too, because you know, who wants to 0:14:27.120 --> 0:14:29.400 go to a wedding and Aspen in summertime in the fall. 0:14:29.800 --> 0:14:34.280 But it'll be nice Aspen. You've heard the Beautiful is 0:14:34.320 --> 0:14:35.360 like wine over there, you know. 0:14:35.800 --> 0:14:39.840 Yeah, yeah, lots of fish in the Capistrano River as well. Yeah. No, 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.440 it'll be good. It'll be good. It's just a little stressful. 0:14:42.840 --> 0:14:46.280 I'm still trying to plan my bachelor party. That's kind 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.200 of like what I've been thinking about doing a lot 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.200 of lately. I haven't actually taken any action on it, 0:14:51.240 --> 0:14:54.240 but just thinking about it. 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:57.800 Hey, the first step in anything is thinking about it. Yeah, no, 0:14:57.880 --> 0:14:59.760 I agree, You've checked that box off. 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.680 I've got a group of like six of my close 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:04.640 friends that I like put put together and I was like, hey, guys, 0:15:04.640 --> 0:15:05.880 so I don't have a best man, so I'm going 0:15:05.920 --> 0:15:07.480 to plan this, but I just like want to pick 0:15:07.520 --> 0:15:10.440 everyone's brain and like see what everyone wants to, you know, 0:15:10.560 --> 0:15:13.040 what everyone to be interested in doing, where we want 0:15:13.040 --> 0:15:15.600 to go, Like what time frame is the best? And 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:18.080 it's I was such a bad idea because now I 0:15:18.120 --> 0:15:20.640 have six people saying this weekend, this weekend, this place, 0:15:20.720 --> 0:15:23.880 this place, this place, and it just what needs to 0:15:23.880 --> 0:15:25.840 happen is I just need to book something and then 0:15:25.880 --> 0:15:27.840 say this is where it's happening, this is when it's happening, 0:15:28.560 --> 0:15:30.120 and then I'll send out all the like the invites 0:15:30.120 --> 0:15:30.520 and everything. 0:15:30.520 --> 0:15:33.160 Obviously, Well, what I did that you'll never do is 0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:35.240 I sent out a survey and it was like, what 0:15:35.360 --> 0:15:37.960 dates are you available? Like which weekends in July and August? 0:15:38.480 --> 0:15:41.240 What's your size? Because I'm getting everyone like little clothes, 0:15:41.320 --> 0:15:45.560 like different outfits for the thing, favorite colors, et cetera. 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.840 Which you'll never do, but you could just send out 0:15:47.840 --> 0:15:50.120 a survey with the dates. And then it was like 0:15:51.240 --> 0:15:53.440 I found one weekend where everyone is free. 0:15:54.360 --> 0:15:56.960 Yeah, that's not going to happen for me, but yeah 0:15:56.960 --> 0:15:59.360 it's stressful. And now they're saying like, Dean, you got 0:15:59.400 --> 0:16:01.800 to freaking figure this out. You gotta get it done. 0:16:01.800 --> 0:16:03.800 If you don't do it, we're gonna do it for you. 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:05.720 And I was like, no, I need to do this. 0:16:06.040 --> 0:16:08.360 I need to prove that I could plan something like 0:16:08.440 --> 0:16:11.120 this for you guys. And so they're like, well, what 0:16:11.280 --> 0:16:13.440 we want to help and I'm like, absolutely not. I'm 0:16:13.440 --> 0:16:13.800 going to do it. 0:16:13.840 --> 0:16:16.600 Because it's going to be like a wild weekend in 0:16:16.600 --> 0:16:20.440 scottsdaleer Vegas. Yeah, like just partying all the time. I 0:16:20.440 --> 0:16:23.160 do have a question for you to put you on blast. 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:25.080 If you were to have a best man, who would 0:16:25.080 --> 0:16:25.280 it be? 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:26.760 Oh, don't put me on blast. 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:29.800 I just want to It'd be er, what am on blast? 0:16:31.160 --> 0:16:35.000 That's the safe answer. Come on now, it'd be Brett. 0:16:35.160 --> 0:16:36.640 Oh my god, Wells would kill you. 0:16:39.480 --> 0:16:41.120 I don't know. Maybe one of my brothers. 0:16:41.160 --> 0:16:43.280 Maybe, yeah, it had to be a brother. 0:16:43.760 --> 0:16:45.720 Yeah, but I wasn't a best man at my brother's wedding, 0:16:45.760 --> 0:16:47.560 which you know kind of makes me. 0:16:47.920 --> 0:16:51.320 Best man his best friend. Yeah. 0:16:51.400 --> 0:16:54.800 No, I between Josh Jackson and Roney. 0:16:55.480 --> 0:16:57.920 Yeah, I'd probably be between those three. Maybe like Austin 0:16:58.040 --> 0:17:01.480 or some other people in there would be considered as well. 0:17:01.480 --> 0:17:04.880 But that's partly why I'm not having a best man, 0:17:04.960 --> 0:17:06.520 because I don't want to have to think about it. 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:09.280 You know, that's nice if you have a made of honor. 0:17:10.080 --> 0:17:13.960 No. Told one of my best friends that if I 0:17:14.000 --> 0:17:15.600 were too, she would be the one. And she keeps 0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.919 asking me, like to plan the bride shower, the bachelorette 0:17:18.920 --> 0:17:20.560 all this stuff, and I was like, no, I've got it, 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:21.159 but thanks. 0:17:21.720 --> 0:17:23.879 Yeah, I've told a few of my friends that, like 0:17:23.920 --> 0:17:25.040 I was like, hey, if I had a best man, 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:26.760 you'd be I have to look. 0:17:26.640 --> 0:17:29.080