WEBVTT - Episode 294: Lazy P*ssy (Feat. Blac Chyna) 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:03.720 Hey guys, Today's Delian a woman on top toast goes 0:00:03.760 --> 0:00:07.120 to two women based out of Atlanta. They're entrepreneurs. They're 0:00:07.120 --> 0:00:09.719 also a former college roommates, and they just bought a 0:00:09.880 --> 0:00:13.560 hotel eight point three million eloge. They are the youngest 0:00:13.600 --> 0:00:16.680 Black women to own property under a major hotel chain. 0:00:16.800 --> 0:00:21.960 So let's work. Devon Reeves and Jessica Myers. Isn't that man? 0:00:22.120 --> 0:00:26.480 That's amazing? It is amazing. Congratulations women, Yes, they said, 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:28.360 I never thought by the time I was thirty three 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:30.639 that I'd be a hotel owner, but I admit that 0:00:30.640 --> 0:00:32.600 it feels great to have accomplished that at this point 0:00:32.600 --> 0:00:34.519 in my life. That's what res had to say. So 0:00:34.640 --> 0:00:36.879 this is historic. You know, there's not a lot of 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:39.839 black female investors in the hotel industry. As a matter 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:42.199 of fact, I think it's less than one percent of 0:00:42.320 --> 0:00:45.560 all hotels are owned by African American women. So they're 0:00:45.680 --> 0:00:48.080 investors are all black women too, So I think it's 0:00:48.080 --> 0:00:52.120 really amazing. But university alum, so we want to give 0:00:52.159 --> 0:00:56.680 a toast to you yet again, lady, Yes, that is amazing. 0:00:57.280 --> 0:00:59.880 So a super Jelian toast again to Davon to be 0:01:00.160 --> 0:01:05.520 at Jessica Meyers. We salute you. What's up? It's lip service. 0:01:05.520 --> 0:01:09.160 I mean Angela yee, I'm g McGuire, I'm Lauri, y'all, 0:01:09.400 --> 0:01:16.880 and I'm Black China. Yeah, hey girl. That's always a 0:01:16.959 --> 0:01:18.800 test we try to see like if people know how 0:01:18.800 --> 0:01:20.280 to do that and they jump right in or not 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:24.800 and you like the yeah, oh no, no, I mean 0:01:24.800 --> 0:01:27.399 I would probably I probably would have been like if 0:01:27.440 --> 0:01:32.160 I didn't know have like a previous relationship with y'all. Like, 0:01:32.280 --> 0:01:35.640 first of all, Black China's in her studio, let's be clare, Okay, 0:01:35.959 --> 0:01:39.640 new studio, new studio, in the house, in the house. 0:01:40.640 --> 0:01:42.880 We are not playing no games when it comes to 0:01:42.920 --> 0:01:47.400 this music, right right, no games. It's been what four 0:01:47.480 --> 0:01:51.080 years now, since two thousand seventeen, Like when I first started, 0:01:51.400 --> 0:01:53.760 like first started like recording. How do you think people 0:01:53.880 --> 0:01:56.560 received it at first? Because you know, everybody knows you 0:01:56.640 --> 0:01:58.680 for something different, and then you're like, now I'm doing music. 0:01:59.160 --> 0:02:02.240 How was it? You know what? Actually? Like I thought 0:02:02.240 --> 0:02:04.280 it was gonna be like really hard, but I mean, 0:02:04.320 --> 0:02:05.840 of course, I mean everything is like you know what 0:02:05.880 --> 0:02:08.400 I mean, anything's gonna really touch you. But I've been 0:02:08.440 --> 0:02:11.440 getting about it, like support from people like even um, 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.200 you know, I put out the first my first song 0:02:13.280 --> 0:02:15.480 seeing her, I was by myself, and then the second 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:19.640 one was cash only with Trippy Red, which was like, 0:02:19.720 --> 0:02:22.720 you know, he's big, and then the third one you know, 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:25.200 we keep the sneaking too shirt to short my word. 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:27.640 So like I've been getting like a lot of like 0:02:27.760 --> 0:02:29.960 positive like feedback and then the new one that I 0:02:30.000 --> 0:02:34.000 just try with Asian Dolso I like that a lot 0:02:34.040 --> 0:02:37.200 of it is about man f these haters too. Yeah, 0:02:37.680 --> 0:02:41.959 basically pretty much, and a lot of people if you popping, 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:43.800 you can relate to that, right because no matter what, 0:02:43.960 --> 0:02:47.560 if you get a little bit successful, you know that's coming, right. 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:49.799 I mean, if you have like a thick scheme, you'll 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:52.040 be fine, you know what I mean. But everybody kind 0:02:52.040 --> 0:02:54.800 of like wants that whole you know once all that, 0:02:54.960 --> 0:02:57.400 but you gotta be able to like take the good 0:02:57.440 --> 0:02:59.720 like with the bad, like absolutely just it's just not 0:02:59.720 --> 0:03:02.480 gonna work out, you know, but you handle it so well. 0:03:02.520 --> 0:03:04.760 And I do want to say I was just saying 0:03:04.800 --> 0:03:07.480 I was telling you, I was telling somebody that black China, 0:03:07.919 --> 0:03:10.240 when it comes to the money, she gets to the bag, Okay, 0:03:10.240 --> 0:03:11.960 because you do have a lot of things going on. 0:03:12.480 --> 0:03:14.040 Of course, we see that you got the last you 0:03:14.120 --> 0:03:16.120 got lashed, which you've had for a while. Now how 0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.119 long has it been, um seven years. That's a long 0:03:19.160 --> 0:03:22.880 time because a lot of best start yeah to fourteen 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:27.720 fifteen nights been coming yep. So it's crazy. I had 0:03:27.760 --> 0:03:29.880 to like actually like close it down because I'm like 0:03:29.919 --> 0:03:32.919 the COVID and I kind of remodeled it a little bit, 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.480 so I'm actually opening up this month or fifteen in 0:03:35.520 --> 0:03:37.720 a few days. So I've been going through like the 0:03:37.720 --> 0:03:40.640 whole hiring process, which is like fun and interesting to like, 0:03:41.040 --> 0:03:42.840 you know, like meet people and then like when they 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:44.960 meet me there like oh it's actually you, not like 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.480 somebody else, you know what I mean, like running it 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:51.480 or doing it. So it's just an experience. And also 0:03:51.600 --> 0:03:54.560 only fans. You've got the only fans bag that you've 0:03:54.560 --> 0:03:56.880 been at the top of the list when it comes 0:03:56.880 --> 0:04:00.400 to the money makers, our only fans twenty million month. 0:04:00.520 --> 0:04:04.200 I mean, come, oh, that's what I read, So what's happening. 0:04:04.200 --> 0:04:11.320 It's not twenty it's not it's not that much. It's 0:04:11.360 --> 0:04:19.080 not twenty It's like it's something but you're doing Yeah, 0:04:19.080 --> 0:04:20.800 you pay taxes on it and stuff too. I know 0:04:20.839 --> 0:04:25.279 they take all that out, they take they take of talk. 0:04:26.000 --> 0:04:28.159 I mean, that's that's a given. But I don't mind it. 0:04:28.240 --> 0:04:30.520 Those just like it's here or there, you know, like 0:04:30.560 --> 0:04:32.040 a lot of people that came after me with the 0:04:32.080 --> 0:04:34.520 only fans. But I'm like, bro, I don't care, you 0:04:34.520 --> 0:04:36.039 know what I mean, because I have to have like 0:04:36.160 --> 0:04:39.520 multiple incomes and screams streams of money and we're not 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.320 because because one thing might be kind of low this month, 0:04:42.680 --> 0:04:45.320 but another thing makes up for that. Or if you like, 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.800 you know with um lash and things like that and products, 0:04:47.800 --> 0:04:49.680 you have to put out money to like receive it. 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:53.440 So I'm not really only really care what people say. 0:04:53.720 --> 0:04:55.560 I know that fashion nov the money is nice too, 0:04:56.920 --> 0:04:58.440 Like I'm kind of I don't really know what. I've 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.280 been a NOVA for a long time. I'm like a 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.760 really long time. You can tell they cut in a 0:05:03.839 --> 0:05:06.240 big chet because they're in your show. You said fashion 0:05:06.320 --> 0:05:08.960 over like a few times. I'm like, oh yeah, they're 0:05:08.960 --> 0:05:14.160 cutting that that check chat. She was like fashion over 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:19.320 men kids, I'm like, everybody, come on. And then you 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:22.240 got the CBD line now too, you have the CBD line. 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:24.880 I'm really excited about that because like I was like 0:05:25.000 --> 0:05:28.880 skeptical at first, like I don't feel like hearing people's 0:05:28.920 --> 0:05:31.320 like negative stuff about it, and you walk, you while 0:05:31.360 --> 0:05:33.719 we walk. But then like once I like educated myself 0:05:33.760 --> 0:05:36.040 about like really what it was, I was like, okay, 0:05:36.040 --> 0:05:39.120 you know what, I'm on board, and I just I 0:05:39.240 --> 0:05:43.000 like like the whole positive thing behind it. I mean 0:05:43.000 --> 0:05:47.080 obviously like smoking is not like but for you to 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:49.960 like calm the anxiety and like sleep throughout the night 0:05:49.960 --> 0:05:51.600 because I know, like a lot of times, like when 0:05:51.680 --> 0:05:53.520 we're like on the go and like just a stroke 0:05:53.640 --> 0:05:55.840 a business women were like this like this, so our 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:58.120 brains can't really have the time to like shut down 0:05:58.360 --> 0:06:00.240 and like actually rest because I find I used to 0:06:00.240 --> 0:06:03.480 find myself like literally thinking while I'm sleeping, I'm like, bro, 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:05.880 I'm supposed to be sleep right now, but I'm still 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:07.960 constantly thinking of like what I gotta do the next 0:06:08.040 --> 0:06:10.640 day or just stuff or I might like sleep really 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:13.359 really light. So like with the c d D, what 0:06:13.480 --> 0:06:15.640 it does is just basically like calms you and like 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:18.359 you know, um, calm you like your anxiety and you 0:06:18.360 --> 0:06:21.320 can sleep throughout like the night, you know, and without 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:25.039 having like the crazy like not crazy side effects, not 0:06:25.160 --> 0:06:29.320 the side effects of like THHC. So I really like 0:06:29.440 --> 0:06:32.000 it a lot, you know. And I was like, all right, well, 0:06:32.040 --> 0:06:34.000 if I'm gonna do like this project with playing Jay, 0:06:34.000 --> 0:06:35.960 and I have to be like cans or like fully 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:39.279 like into like the project, like creative wise and marketing 0:06:39.320 --> 0:06:42.880 and all that type of stuff. So UM actually came 0:06:42.960 --> 0:06:44.600 up with the idea of like the whole g t 0:06:44.800 --> 0:06:48.559 a UM style of the box actually left the box, 0:06:48.960 --> 0:06:52.360 so another side of house Um of like the whole 0:06:52.400 --> 0:06:54.760 g T g t A style. And then I was like, 0:06:54.760 --> 0:06:57.440 you know what, I'm gonna actually become the character. So 0:06:57.480 --> 0:07:00.120 I got like the same wig outfit and everything. I 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.279 walked up water and walked. I drove up to like 0:07:02.320 --> 0:07:05.479 the Hollywood sign and poses the same as the box. 0:07:06.160 --> 0:07:09.760 So I thought that was like that wasn't your vape 0:07:09.760 --> 0:07:12.160 because you smoke your vapor? Lit is that CBD? And 0:07:12.200 --> 0:07:14.880 era is that little bit of you know It's no, no, 0:07:15.000 --> 0:07:17.560 it's not THD. It's actually nikotine is bad for me. 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:23.720 I need something call trying to be on the jewel, honey, 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:27.320 stop the jewel. The jew was like so bad for me. 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:29.640 I was like, because it will hurting my chest. I'm like, okay, 0:07:29.920 --> 0:07:32.920 there smoking the jew don't don't mess with the ing, right, 0:07:33.360 --> 0:07:36.040 So I stopped and I started doing like the puffs 0:07:36.080 --> 0:07:38.400 and the Miley's and it's like lighter on my chest. 0:07:39.040 --> 0:07:41.080 But like this year, I planned on like putting it 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:43.680 because it's not good for me at especially like with 0:07:43.720 --> 0:07:45.600 the you know, with the music and the singing and 0:07:45.640 --> 0:07:48.840 stuff like that. It really it drives you out and inside, 0:07:48.880 --> 0:07:51.080 so you gotta stay like super hydrated all the time. 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.400 I'm with the c d D thing, just because you know, 0:07:54.520 --> 0:07:56.280 sometimes for me, I get up early in the morning. 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.840 I know you can relate, Laura, y'all. Sometimes if I 0:07:58.880 --> 0:08:01.440 can't sleep at night, I do take some like I 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:03.440 have these c v D candies that I take to 0:08:03.480 --> 0:08:05.800 help me go to sleep. And then I don't like 0:08:05.880 --> 0:08:08.040 to take sleeping pills ever, because then I'll still be 0:08:08.080 --> 0:08:11.000 like groggy and yeah, so I'd like to take things 0:08:11.040 --> 0:08:13.240 that I'm more natural. So it does help me sleep 0:08:13.240 --> 0:08:14.760 a lot better. And I try to take it like 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:17.080 two hours. If I know I have a light night, 0:08:17.120 --> 0:08:18.960 I'll take it like two hours before I go to sleep, 0:08:18.960 --> 0:08:22.240 so I sleep so good. Just look at it the 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:24.520 product and see that it looks like, you know, a joint, 0:08:24.560 --> 0:08:26.560 and then they just think it's weed and they're just like, oh, 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:30.080 that's drugs. But it's just like educate yourself, like learn 0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.640 a little something about what's going on, because it's actually 0:08:32.800 --> 0:08:49.160 this medicinal okay, okay, real quickly. And of course you 0:08:49.240 --> 0:08:52.000 have the television shows too, So I'm like when just 0:08:52.160 --> 0:08:55.200 black and you have your children, So I'm like, when 0:08:55.240 --> 0:08:59.080 this black China have time for herself, you know, actually 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:02.560 I have time right now out so I mean, like 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:05.560 I set it up to whereas though like the days, um, 0:09:05.600 --> 0:09:07.640 you know, I have my babies the same days and 0:09:07.640 --> 0:09:09.960 then they go with their fathers like the same days soon, 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:12.360 so they have three days and I have the four 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:14.400 days here with me. So we like split it up 0:09:14.400 --> 0:09:18.520 evenly so and like with within that time, and I 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:21.280 do it like during the week the week day, you know, 0:09:21.360 --> 0:09:23.520 the end of the weekday, because I still have to 0:09:23.559 --> 0:09:25.640 get stuff done too, and it's like school days. But 0:09:25.679 --> 0:09:27.600 I mean it works out like perfectly as far as 0:09:27.679 --> 0:09:30.400 like co parents and and whatnot, and then nuts really 0:09:30.480 --> 0:09:32.680 just it so like these days is like my chill 0:09:32.840 --> 0:09:35.520 days and showing at the house or um, if I 0:09:35.559 --> 0:09:37.520 have to like go and run errands. I'll do that 0:09:37.600 --> 0:09:40.000 right now. I'll like, you know, I'll do that while 0:09:40.120 --> 0:09:42.400 they're with their dads and stuff. So it's like a 0:09:42.440 --> 0:09:44.880 really good balance for me. Really, So how did the 0:09:44.960 --> 0:09:46.760 trade offs go now? Because I know there was a 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:48.880 little bit of issues at some point in time with 0:09:49.160 --> 0:09:52.520 pretty much both of your situations. So is it like 0:09:52.559 --> 0:09:55.320 do you have somebody that intervenes that's in between or 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:58.200 this Like everything's good now and it's kind of just 0:09:58.280 --> 0:10:01.920 like yeall have I understand. I mean, like on my side, 0:10:02.120 --> 0:10:04.720 like if anybody knows me, I don't bring like no 0:10:04.840 --> 0:10:07.320 drama to nobody. I don't be bothering nobody at all, 0:10:07.480 --> 0:10:09.720 you know what I mean. And it's unfortunate that we 0:10:09.760 --> 0:10:12.319 didn't have to go through certain things in the public eye, 0:10:12.360 --> 0:10:14.560 which I feel as though it was like not like 0:10:14.640 --> 0:10:16.960 healthy like for the kids, especially like when they get 0:10:16.960 --> 0:10:20.000 older and whatnot, because I just don't like that type 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:22.800 of stuff and then it's not safe. But um, as 0:10:22.840 --> 0:10:25.280 far as like the drop off and things like that, 0:10:25.920 --> 0:10:29.480 basically like through the nannies and whatnot. But yeah, like 0:10:29.559 --> 0:10:31.280 most of the time, I just keep like I don't 0:10:31.320 --> 0:10:33.960 never I don't put none of that stuff out on 0:10:34.000 --> 0:10:36.280 the internet. It do not be me or like you know, 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:39.080 like certain blogs like websites and things like that will 0:10:39.120 --> 0:10:41.880 go and search like public records and try to pull 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.080 yourself and put it on the internet and then just 0:10:44.200 --> 0:10:46.960 like blasted to the world, which kind of like, I mean, 0:10:47.000 --> 0:10:48.640 I'm used to it now, but it kind of it 0:10:48.679 --> 0:10:50.679 annoys me when it comes to my kids, like, just 0:10:50.720 --> 0:10:52.480 don't do it and just stop it. You might be 0:10:52.480 --> 0:10:54.160 one of the only people that's gonna go up against 0:10:54.160 --> 0:10:56.439 the Kardashians and the genders and win too, because we 0:10:56.480 --> 0:10:59.160 see you gotta go to court. But that's good because 0:10:59.200 --> 0:11:01.360 I think a lot of times things happen and you're like, man, 0:11:01.400 --> 0:11:03.960 I can't win this battle. I'm not even going bither. 0:11:04.120 --> 0:11:05.600 I meant to let it go. I'm just gonna let 0:11:05.600 --> 0:11:08.040 it slide. But you're not doing that, and I know 0:11:08.120 --> 0:11:10.920 that takes a lot though mentally too, yeah, I feel 0:11:10.920 --> 0:11:12.960 like right as right and wrong is wrong, you know 0:11:12.960 --> 0:11:15.720 what I mean, And it's just it is what it is. 0:11:15.760 --> 0:11:18.439 Like I have like no negative energy like towards nobody. 0:11:18.480 --> 0:11:21.200 I really don't have time, but I just want like 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:24.720 my fair trial in November of this year, which I got. 0:11:25.120 --> 0:11:27.600 So that's just kind of like where I'm at with it. 0:11:27.880 --> 0:11:30.439 And I still don't have no problems with nobody at all, 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:34.319 like literally like nobody. So when do you have time? 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:38.440 When do you have time to date? Now that's what 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:41.520 you call them, right, I'm actually like dating somebody right now. 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:44.319 It's been like um, scoring on seven months now, a 0:11:44.360 --> 0:11:47.319 little twin, and like it's been like it's been doing 0:11:47.400 --> 0:11:49.080 really good for me. You know, people that I have 0:11:49.160 --> 0:11:51.320 like dated in the past, it was just like it 0:11:51.440 --> 0:11:53.360 is what it is type of situation. But if you 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.000 can find somebody like up lift you and like make 0:11:56.040 --> 0:11:58.640 your spirit go, like make you happy and too nice 0:11:58.679 --> 0:12:01.719 as a person, like that's fired, you know what I mean. 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:04.560 That's and I feel like even just like with people 0:12:04.960 --> 0:12:07.560 coming and like stuff underneath my posts and things like that, 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:11.480 like China, like I see you really like happy, and 0:12:11.520 --> 0:12:14.000 I'm like thanks, guys, like I really am, you know, 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.840 because people can say like you're happy, but you're really 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:19.800 not happy like happy with like things that's going on. 0:12:19.920 --> 0:12:22.120 But if you like anybody else like you have like 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:24.600 the other stuff that goes on, and sometimes that stuff 0:12:24.640 --> 0:12:28.360 feel like project through like your aura, you know. So 0:12:28.679 --> 0:12:30.880 I feel like, you know, just now, like this year, 0:12:30.880 --> 0:12:34.240 in the past last few months, I've been like projecting 0:12:34.320 --> 0:12:38.280 like just happiness. You know, how does that affect the 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:41.360 music then? Because you know, I like when we have 0:12:41.720 --> 0:12:44.840 pigs about guys and everything. It's fun because they do 0:12:44.880 --> 0:12:46.840 it to us all the time. But now that you're happy, 0:12:47.240 --> 0:12:49.960 how does that affect the signs? Oh? Yeah, No, I'll 0:12:50.000 --> 0:12:53.160 never let I never let business intertwined with the funds 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:55.400 and the pleasures, like I keep always keep like all 0:12:55.400 --> 0:12:59.520 that stuff separate. I guess easy for me. Hey, she's 0:12:59.520 --> 0:13:04.080 still gonna be talking her right. But I feel like 0:13:04.120 --> 0:13:06.280 when people found out you were in a relationship, they 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:09.120 kind of came for him a little bit and started 0:13:09.160 --> 0:13:11.400 talking about his sexuality or somebody tried to act like 0:13:11.440 --> 0:13:13.880 they were in a relationship with him. Do you feel 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:18.359 like every time you come out with relationship, somebody always 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:22.120 has something to say about that person. Yeah, And that 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:24.360 was so false and like, I do want to clear 0:13:24.400 --> 0:13:26.679 that up. That's super annoying. And then he even went 0:13:26.800 --> 0:13:28.520 the person you know how, I even went to they 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.360 to say that I knew him, and I'm like, all right, 0:13:31.360 --> 0:13:32.960 this is like oh deep, And you know what you 0:13:33.000 --> 0:13:36.960 do have people that's like mentally like ill and mentally sick, 0:13:37.040 --> 0:13:40.320 and like mental health is like really like a real thing, 0:13:40.600 --> 0:13:42.640 you know what I mean. And if you have anybody 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:44.720 that's in your family and things like that, like check 0:13:44.760 --> 0:13:47.280 on them and make sure that they're okay, because like 0:13:47.400 --> 0:13:50.079 it's a real thing. But um, I mean as far 0:13:50.120 --> 0:13:53.000 as like people chiming in on like my relationships and stuff, 0:13:53.240 --> 0:13:55.600 I really it doesn't really bother me long as I'm happy. 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:57.800 And then if it's not true, it doesn't bother me, 0:13:58.280 --> 0:13:59.560 you know what I mean. If it was true, then 0:13:59.520 --> 0:14:01.600 they would bother other means. But other than that, like 0:14:01.679 --> 0:14:04.720 they talk about Jesus Christ, I don't really care, you 0:14:04.720 --> 0:14:06.840 know what I mean, Like I don't want to hear it. 0:14:06.679 --> 0:14:09.439 And what's that it's all false? What's it like dating 0:14:09.480 --> 0:14:11.559 black China? Like, what are you like in a relationship? 0:14:11.600 --> 0:14:13.800 I know we see only what we see on social media, 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:16.640 but I know people always say guys like crazy girls 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:20.000 or you know, guys like that, and you've said it, 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:22.160 you know in music too, so you think that's true. 0:14:23.080 --> 0:14:25.680 I mean I mean no, I mean, nobody likes anybody 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:28.560 that's crazy. That's just SUSSI as toxic. But like as 0:14:28.600 --> 0:14:31.200 far as me, I'm chill. I'm a tourist, So like 0:14:31.280 --> 0:14:33.960 we're like laid back, were chill. We like to eat, 0:14:34.080 --> 0:14:37.960 we like to cook. We're just like stable like creatures, 0:14:38.080 --> 0:14:39.800 you know what I mean. Like I like to like 0:14:39.960 --> 0:14:43.880 figure out things and just have everything like organized and 0:14:43.920 --> 0:14:46.280 just kind of like planned out, you know what I mean. 0:14:46.320 --> 0:14:49.000 Like that really like makes me happy. That's really it. 0:14:49.320 --> 0:14:51.080 I think we've all gone through phases that when we 0:14:51.080 --> 0:14:52.920 were younger, when we were acting a little crazy in 0:14:52.920 --> 0:14:56.480 our relationships. I have to say, every single one of 0:14:56.560 --> 0:14:59.000 us is like something that you are supposed to outgrow 0:14:59.040 --> 0:15:02.200 at some point. Yeah, I mean, and I feel like 0:15:02.200 --> 0:15:05.320 if if somebody think that you're acting crazy, maybe they're 0:15:05.400 --> 0:15:07.520 the person that's bringing it. They're bringing that person out. 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.600 Nobody's just gonna just jump up and be like I'm 0:15:10.600 --> 0:15:16.760 gonna do something crazy and now that's nuts, right, that's crazy? 0:15:16.800 --> 0:15:24.720 Oh God, emergency, Yeah you know what that is. It's 0:15:24.760 --> 0:15:28.440 actually that's actually one of my business partners. I'm wondering 0:15:28.480 --> 0:15:30.320 if this is the call that I think about to get. 0:15:30.360 --> 0:15:33.200 But I just started on my own cooking show, Cooking 0:15:33.200 --> 0:15:38.280 with Black China. Yeah, so I'm excited. About that, like 0:15:38.400 --> 0:15:43.400 really excited. I'm like, I wonder if that's the call man, 0:15:43.560 --> 0:15:45.200 can you you want to text them to We can't 0:15:45.200 --> 0:15:51.640 announce it now. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, get good idea, 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:55.040 Like go ahead and right, I know, I know my 0:15:55.080 --> 0:15:58.560 f in the process. Then we could do a deli 0:15:58.640 --> 0:16:01.320 on toasting. Yeah, like you know what's happening to me? 0:16:01.360 --> 0:16:03.480 I had this thing on my phone to shopify apps. 0:16:03.480 --> 0:16:06.160 So every time somebody buys something at the store and Detroit, 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:10.080 it goes off, it goes so you're getting yes, it'd 0:16:10.120 --> 0:16:16.760 be like to chang cheers, cheers. Okay, Okay, wasn't He's 0:16:16.840 --> 0:16:20.320 not talking about things actually telling me about a photo 0:16:20.320 --> 0:16:22.880 shoot that like we're about to do actually for Esquire. 0:16:23.000 --> 0:16:27.800 So that's still like okay, that's let that's fine. Listen, 0:16:27.840 --> 0:16:29.800 how many people are on your team because it's a 0:16:29.800 --> 0:16:32.800 lot like there's a Black China empire, so how many 0:16:32.880 --> 0:16:35.360 how many people are on this Black China team? Just 0:16:35.560 --> 0:16:40.320 me gin, you got a business and I mean you 0:16:40.400 --> 0:16:42.920 got your business partner and certain you've got so many 0:16:42.920 --> 0:16:47.920 different things going on, assistance, makeup artists, all that. I mean, yes, 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:49.960 I call have black people that I called to do it. 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:53.040 But I'm doing everything. M do you not trust? Do 0:16:53.080 --> 0:16:55.160 you not trust people to hand? Like? Could you trust 0:16:55.160 --> 0:16:58.840 somebody to really oversee things for you? Yes? I could, like, 0:16:58.960 --> 0:17:01.040 but you know what I fell people don't be as 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:03.760 serious and take your business as seriousness. And while I 0:17:03.840 --> 0:17:06.520 let somebody mess up my business, it's not gonna happen. 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:08.720 I already have to deal with other things. And in 0:17:08.800 --> 0:17:11.040 the way I set up like certain things, I'm able 0:17:11.080 --> 0:17:13.639 to like oversee and make sure things is fine. And 0:17:13.640 --> 0:17:17.520 then assistance that's just it's just to like assistue. You 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.920 get what I'm saying. So that's like and that's still 0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:23.240 once again being you know, like you know, a boss, 0:17:23.320 --> 0:17:25.919 so you have like tasks and things that I that 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:28.679 I set up for them um to do like throughout 0:17:28.720 --> 0:17:30.280 the week, and then they get it done. And then 0:17:30.720 --> 0:17:37.240 that's just how that is. But as far as like somebody, no, no, 0:17:37.440 --> 0:17:42.640 it's not happening, I'm not. I'm not. I'm not opposed 0:17:42.640 --> 0:17:44.960 to it though, not at all, but I just don't 0:17:44.960 --> 0:17:47.800 see it right now, especially like if I already set 0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:51.760 up everything myself so smoothly. But I will definitely like 0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.520 take into consideration if somebody was like on top of 0:17:54.560 --> 0:17:58.800 the stuff, and I could visit physically and even like 0:17:58.840 --> 0:18:02.000 on the back end see everything, then I then I 0:18:02.040 --> 0:18:04.200 would do it. I would have to see it. But 0:18:04.280 --> 0:18:08.160 like as far as like my e commerce, my photo shoots, 0:18:08.880 --> 0:18:13.000 Last Cosmetics, Black China Closet, cooking, you know what I mean, 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:16.159 I have my partner with the Cooking Show obviously, and 0:18:16.160 --> 0:18:18.600 then as far as my music, I set on my 0:18:18.640 --> 0:18:20.760 own studio, so I make my own times for that, 0:18:21.200 --> 0:18:23.679 and then I have my engineer and my producer Tito, 0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:28.480 and I just uh create music. Actually just started putting 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:29.959 out my own music. So I have like my own 0:18:30.040 --> 0:18:33.360 label that I started too. So I'm just doing like 0:18:33.400 --> 0:18:36.520 at least setting up my foundation too. Whereas though if 0:18:36.560 --> 0:18:38.399 somebody you know what I mean that could put me 0:18:38.440 --> 0:18:40.760 in a better position comes along, at least already have 0:18:41.080 --> 0:18:43.200 my foundation set up. It's not like I'm just coming 0:18:43.240 --> 0:18:46.359 like hey this, like you know what I mean. So 0:18:46.440 --> 0:18:49.359 it's like the foundation already be set up to whereas though, Okay, 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:52.240 if things don't work out, then I won't lose everything. 0:18:52.359 --> 0:18:54.280 I could go back to my own stuff, you know 0:18:54.320 --> 0:18:55.879 what I mean. I feel like a lot of people 0:18:56.320 --> 0:18:58.520 should kind of like just take those proper steps to 0:18:58.640 --> 0:19:01.320 like boot your own foundation, and so things don't work 0:19:01.320 --> 0:19:03.040 out with somebody, which is not a bad thing. It 0:19:03.080 --> 0:19:05.280 happens all the time that you have something to fall 0:19:05.320 --> 0:19:07.840 back on. I agree with that. I always tell people, 0:19:07.880 --> 0:19:10.040 nobody cares about your business more than you do, right, 0:19:10.320 --> 0:19:12.879 They don't know, it's a fact. And just you know, 0:19:12.920 --> 0:19:14.840 I think throughout the years and things I've been through, 0:19:14.880 --> 0:19:17.480 like it equip me for like the things that I'm 0:19:17.480 --> 0:19:20.040 doing now, you know. And it's funny because they say, 0:19:20.080 --> 0:19:21.720 like the things that you're doing today is gonna like 0:19:21.760 --> 0:19:24.040 really dictate like what you're gonna be doing in three, four, 0:19:24.280 --> 0:19:27.280 five years, which is true. So it's like even if 0:19:27.320 --> 0:19:29.680 you start taking the small steps to like trying to 0:19:29.720 --> 0:19:32.520 figure out what is that you want to do, ultimately, 0:19:33.240 --> 0:19:36.080 like within that time period, everything should be able to 0:19:36.119 --> 0:19:38.000 like grow and stack and then you should be able 0:19:38.040 --> 0:19:40.719 to like start living out like your dreams are, like 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:42.960