1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Hey guys, Today's Delian a woman on top toast goes 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: to two women based out of Atlanta. They're entrepreneurs. They're 3 00:00:07,120 --> 00:00:09,719 Speaker 1: also a former college roommates, and they just bought a 4 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: hotel eight point three million eloge. They are the youngest 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,680 Speaker 1: Black women to own property under a major hotel chain. 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 1: So let's work. Devon Reeves and Jessica Myers. Isn't that man? 7 00:00:22,120 --> 00:00:26,480 Speaker 1: That's amazing? It is amazing. Congratulations women, Yes, they said, 8 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:28,360 Speaker 1: I never thought by the time I was thirty three 9 00:00:28,360 --> 00:00:30,639 Speaker 1: that I'd be a hotel owner, but I admit that 10 00:00:30,640 --> 00:00:32,600 Speaker 1: it feels great to have accomplished that at this point 11 00:00:32,600 --> 00:00:34,519 Speaker 1: in my life. That's what res had to say. So 12 00:00:34,640 --> 00:00:36,879 Speaker 1: this is historic. You know, there's not a lot of 13 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:39,839 Speaker 1: black female investors in the hotel industry. As a matter 14 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: of fact, I think it's less than one percent of 15 00:00:42,320 --> 00:00:45,560 Speaker 1: all hotels are owned by African American women. So they're 16 00:00:45,680 --> 00:00:48,080 Speaker 1: investors are all black women too, So I think it's 17 00:00:48,080 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 1: really amazing. But university alum, so we want to give 18 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:56,680 Speaker 1: a toast to you yet again, lady, Yes, that is amazing. 19 00:00:57,280 --> 00:00:59,880 Speaker 1: So a super Jelian toast again to Davon to be 20 00:01:00,160 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 1: at Jessica Meyers. We salute you. What's up? It's lip service. 21 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:09,160 Speaker 1: I mean Angela yee, I'm g McGuire, I'm Lauri, y'all, 22 00:01:09,400 --> 00:01:16,880 Speaker 1: and I'm Black China. Yeah, hey girl. That's always a 23 00:01:16,959 --> 00:01:18,800 Speaker 1: test we try to see like if people know how 24 00:01:18,800 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 1: to do that and they jump right in or not 25 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 1: and you like the yeah, oh no, no, I mean 26 00:01:24,800 --> 00:01:27,399 Speaker 1: I would probably I probably would have been like if 27 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:32,160 Speaker 1: I didn't know have like a previous relationship with y'all. Like, 28 00:01:32,280 --> 00:01:35,640 Speaker 1: first of all, Black China's in her studio, let's be clare, Okay, 29 00:01:35,959 --> 00:01:39,640 Speaker 1: new studio, new studio, in the house, in the house. 30 00:01:40,640 --> 00:01:42,880 Speaker 1: We are not playing no games when it comes to 31 00:01:42,920 --> 00:01:47,400 Speaker 1: this music, right right, no games. It's been what four 32 00:01:47,480 --> 00:01:51,080 Speaker 1: years now, since two thousand seventeen, Like when I first started, 33 00:01:51,400 --> 00:01:53,760 Speaker 1: like first started like recording. How do you think people 34 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:56,560 Speaker 1: received it at first? Because you know, everybody knows you 35 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,680 Speaker 1: for something different, and then you're like, now I'm doing music. 36 00:01:59,160 --> 00:02:02,240 Speaker 1: How was it? You know what? Actually? Like I thought 37 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:04,280 Speaker 1: it was gonna be like really hard, but I mean, 38 00:02:04,320 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: of course, I mean everything is like you know what 39 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,400 Speaker 1: I mean, anything's gonna really touch you. But I've been 40 00:02:08,440 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: getting about it, like support from people like even um, 41 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:13,200 Speaker 1: you know, I put out the first my first song 42 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 1: seeing her, I was by myself, and then the second 43 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 1: one was cash only with Trippy Red, which was like, 44 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: you know, he's big, and then the third one you know, 45 00:02:22,800 --> 00:02:25,200 Speaker 1: we keep the sneaking too shirt to short my word. 46 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,640 Speaker 1: So like I've been getting like a lot of like 47 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:29,960 Speaker 1: positive like feedback and then the new one that I 48 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 1: just try with Asian Dolso I like that a lot 49 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 1: of it is about man f these haters too. Yeah, 50 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:41,959 Speaker 1: basically pretty much, and a lot of people if you popping, 51 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:43,800 Speaker 1: you can relate to that, right because no matter what, 52 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:47,560 Speaker 1: if you get a little bit successful, you know that's coming, right. 53 00:02:47,600 --> 00:02:49,799 Speaker 1: I mean, if you have like a thick scheme, you'll 54 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 1: be fine, you know what I mean. But everybody kind 55 00:02:52,040 --> 00:02:54,800 Speaker 1: of like wants that whole you know once all that, 56 00:02:54,960 --> 00:02:57,400 Speaker 1: but you gotta be able to like take the good 57 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,720 Speaker 1: like with the bad, like absolutely just it's just not 58 00:02:59,720 --> 00:03:02,480 Speaker 1: gonna work out, you know, but you handle it so well. 59 00:03:02,520 --> 00:03:04,760 Speaker 1: And I do want to say I was just saying 60 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 1: I was telling you, I was telling somebody that black China, 61 00:03:07,919 --> 00:03:10,240 Speaker 1: when it comes to the money, she gets to the bag, Okay, 62 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: because you do have a lot of things going on. 63 00:03:12,480 --> 00:03:14,040 Speaker 1: Of course, we see that you got the last you 64 00:03:14,120 --> 00:03:16,120 Speaker 1: got lashed, which you've had for a while. Now how 65 00:03:16,160 --> 00:03:19,119 Speaker 1: long has it been, um seven years. That's a long 66 00:03:19,160 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: time because a lot of best start yeah to fourteen 67 00:03:22,960 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 1: fifteen nights been coming yep. So it's crazy. I had 68 00:03:27,760 --> 00:03:29,880 Speaker 1: to like actually like close it down because I'm like 69 00:03:29,919 --> 00:03:32,919 Speaker 1: the COVID and I kind of remodeled it a little bit, 70 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:35,480 Speaker 1: so I'm actually opening up this month or fifteen in 71 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,720 Speaker 1: a few days. So I've been going through like the 72 00:03:37,720 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 1: whole hiring process, which is like fun and interesting to like, 73 00:03:41,040 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 1: you know, like meet people and then like when they 74 00:03:42,840 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: meet me there like oh it's actually you, not like 75 00:03:45,040 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: somebody else, you know what I mean, like running it 76 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:51,480 Speaker 1: or doing it. So it's just an experience. And also 77 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 1: only fans. You've got the only fans bag that you've 78 00:03:54,560 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: been at the top of the list when it comes 79 00:03:56,880 --> 00:04:00,400 Speaker 1: to the money makers, our only fans twenty million month. 80 00:04:00,520 --> 00:04:04,200 Speaker 1: I mean, come, oh, that's what I read, So what's happening. 81 00:04:04,200 --> 00:04:11,320 Speaker 1: It's not twenty it's not it's not that much. It's 82 00:04:11,360 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: not twenty It's like it's something but you're doing Yeah, 83 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 1: you pay taxes on it and stuff too. I know 84 00:04:20,839 --> 00:04:25,279 Speaker 1: they take all that out, they take they take of talk. 85 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:28,159 Speaker 1: I mean, that's that's a given. But I don't mind it. 86 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 1: Those just like it's here or there, you know, like 87 00:04:30,560 --> 00:04:32,040 Speaker 1: a lot of people that came after me with the 88 00:04:32,080 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: only fans. But I'm like, bro, I don't care, you 89 00:04:34,520 --> 00:04:36,039 Speaker 1: know what I mean, because I have to have like 90 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: multiple incomes and screams streams of money and we're not 91 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: because because one thing might be kind of low this month, 92 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 1: but another thing makes up for that. Or if you like, 93 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 1: you know with um lash and things like that and products, 94 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 1: you have to put out money to like receive it. 95 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 1: So I'm not really only really care what people say. 96 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,560 Speaker 1: I know that fashion nov the money is nice too, 97 00:04:56,920 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: Like I'm kind of I don't really know what. I've 98 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,280 Speaker 1: been a NOVA for a long time. I'm like a 99 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,760 Speaker 1: really long time. You can tell they cut in a 100 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:06,240 Speaker 1: big chet because they're in your show. You said fashion 101 00:05:06,320 --> 00:05:08,960 Speaker 1: over like a few times. I'm like, oh yeah, they're 102 00:05:08,960 --> 00:05:14,160 Speaker 1: cutting that that check chat. She was like fashion over 103 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:19,320 Speaker 1: men kids, I'm like, everybody, come on. And then you 104 00:05:19,400 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: got the CBD line now too, you have the CBD line. 105 00:05:22,240 --> 00:05:24,880 Speaker 1: I'm really excited about that because like I was like 106 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 1: skeptical at first, like I don't feel like hearing people's 107 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 1: like negative stuff about it, and you walk, you while 108 00:05:31,360 --> 00:05:33,719 Speaker 1: we walk. But then like once I like educated myself 109 00:05:33,760 --> 00:05:36,040 Speaker 1: about like really what it was, I was like, okay, 110 00:05:36,040 --> 00:05:39,120 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm on board, and I just I 111 00:05:39,240 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: like like the whole positive thing behind it. I mean 112 00:05:43,000 --> 00:05:47,080 Speaker 1: obviously like smoking is not like but for you to 113 00:05:47,120 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 1: like calm the anxiety and like sleep throughout the night 114 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,600 Speaker 1: because I know, like a lot of times, like when 115 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,520 Speaker 1: we're like on the go and like just a stroke 116 00:05:53,640 --> 00:05:55,840 Speaker 1: a business women were like this like this, so our 117 00:05:55,880 --> 00:05:58,120 Speaker 1: brains can't really have the time to like shut down 118 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:00,240 Speaker 1: and like actually rest because I find I used to 119 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:03,480 Speaker 1: find myself like literally thinking while I'm sleeping, I'm like, bro, 120 00:06:03,640 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 1: I'm supposed to be sleep right now, but I'm still 121 00:06:05,960 --> 00:06:07,960 Speaker 1: constantly thinking of like what I gotta do the next 122 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: day or just stuff or I might like sleep really 123 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,359 Speaker 1: really light. So like with the c d D, what 124 00:06:13,480 --> 00:06:15,640 Speaker 1: it does is just basically like calms you and like 125 00:06:15,720 --> 00:06:18,359 Speaker 1: you know, um, calm you like your anxiety and you 126 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: can sleep throughout like the night, you know, and without 127 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:25,039 Speaker 1: having like the crazy like not crazy side effects, not 128 00:06:25,160 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: the side effects of like THHC. So I really like 129 00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: it a lot, you know. And I was like, all right, well, 130 00:06:32,040 --> 00:06:34,000 Speaker 1: if I'm gonna do like this project with playing Jay, 131 00:06:34,000 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 1: and I have to be like cans or like fully 132 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:39,279 Speaker 1: like into like the project, like creative wise and marketing 133 00:06:39,320 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 1: and all that type of stuff. So UM actually came 134 00:06:42,960 --> 00:06:44,600 Speaker 1: up with the idea of like the whole g t 135 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,559 Speaker 1: a UM style of the box actually left the box, 136 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 1: so another side of house Um of like the whole 137 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 1: g T g t A style. And then I was like, 138 00:06:54,760 --> 00:06:57,440 Speaker 1: you know what, I'm gonna actually become the character. So 139 00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,120 Speaker 1: I got like the same wig outfit and everything. I 140 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 1: walked up water and walked. I drove up to like 141 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:05,479 Speaker 1: the Hollywood sign and poses the same as the box. 142 00:07:06,160 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 1: So I thought that was like that wasn't your vape 143 00:07:09,760 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: because you smoke your vapor? Lit is that CBD? And 144 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,880 Speaker 1: era is that little bit of you know It's no, no, 145 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:17,560 Speaker 1: it's not THD. It's actually nikotine is bad for me. 146 00:07:18,960 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: I need something call trying to be on the jewel, honey, 147 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 1: stop the jewel. The jew was like so bad for me. 148 00:07:27,360 --> 00:07:29,640 Speaker 1: I was like, because it will hurting my chest. I'm like, okay, 149 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:32,920 Speaker 1: there smoking the jew don't don't mess with the ing, right, 150 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 1: So I stopped and I started doing like the puffs 151 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:38,400 Speaker 1: and the Miley's and it's like lighter on my chest. 152 00:07:39,040 --> 00:07:41,080 Speaker 1: But like this year, I planned on like putting it 153 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:43,680 Speaker 1: because it's not good for me at especially like with 154 00:07:43,720 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: the you know, with the music and the singing and 155 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:48,840 Speaker 1: stuff like that. It really it drives you out and inside, 156 00:07:48,880 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: so you gotta stay like super hydrated all the time. 157 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: I'm with the c d D thing, just because you know, 158 00:07:54,520 --> 00:07:56,280 Speaker 1: sometimes for me, I get up early in the morning. 159 00:07:56,320 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 1: I know you can relate, Laura, y'all. Sometimes if I 160 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 1: can't sleep at night, I do take some like I 161 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:03,440 Speaker 1: have these c v D candies that I take to 162 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,800 Speaker 1: help me go to sleep. And then I don't like 163 00:08:05,880 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 1: to take sleeping pills ever, because then I'll still be 164 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:11,000 Speaker 1: like groggy and yeah, so I'd like to take things 165 00:08:11,040 --> 00:08:13,240 Speaker 1: that I'm more natural. So it does help me sleep 166 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:14,760 Speaker 1: a lot better. And I try to take it like 167 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:17,080 Speaker 1: two hours. If I know I have a light night, 168 00:08:17,120 --> 00:08:18,960 Speaker 1: I'll take it like two hours before I go to sleep, 169 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,240 Speaker 1: so I sleep so good. Just look at it the 170 00:08:22,280 --> 00:08:24,520 Speaker 1: product and see that it looks like, you know, a joint, 171 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,560 Speaker 1: and then they just think it's weed and they're just like, oh, 172 00:08:26,640 --> 00:08:30,080 Speaker 1: that's drugs. But it's just like educate yourself, like learn 173 00:08:30,120 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 1: a little something about what's going on, because it's actually 174 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:49,160 Speaker 1: this medicinal okay, okay, real quickly. And of course you 175 00:08:49,240 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: have the television shows too, So I'm like when just 176 00:08:52,160 --> 00:08:55,200 Speaker 1: black and you have your children, So I'm like, when 177 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:59,080 Speaker 1: this black China have time for herself, you know, actually 178 00:08:59,120 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: I have time right now out so I mean, like 179 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:05,560 Speaker 1: I set it up to whereas though like the days, um, 180 00:09:05,600 --> 00:09:07,640 Speaker 1: you know, I have my babies the same days and 181 00:09:07,640 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 1: then they go with their fathers like the same days soon, 182 00:09:10,640 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 1: so they have three days and I have the four 183 00:09:12,400 --> 00:09:14,400 Speaker 1: days here with me. So we like split it up 184 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:18,520 Speaker 1: evenly so and like with within that time, and I 185 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,280 Speaker 1: do it like during the week the week day, you know, 186 00:09:21,360 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: the end of the weekday, because I still have to 187 00:09:23,559 --> 00:09:25,640 Speaker 1: get stuff done too, and it's like school days. But 188 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,600 Speaker 1: I mean it works out like perfectly as far as 189 00:09:27,679 --> 00:09:30,400 Speaker 1: like co parents and and whatnot, and then nuts really 190 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,680 Speaker 1: just it so like these days is like my chill 191 00:09:32,840 --> 00:09:35,520 Speaker 1: days and showing at the house or um, if I 192 00:09:35,559 --> 00:09:37,520 Speaker 1: have to like go and run errands. I'll do that 193 00:09:37,600 --> 00:09:40,000 Speaker 1: right now. I'll like, you know, I'll do that while 194 00:09:40,120 --> 00:09:42,400 Speaker 1: they're with their dads and stuff. So it's like a 195 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:44,880 Speaker 1: really good balance for me. Really, So how did the 196 00:09:44,960 --> 00:09:46,760 Speaker 1: trade offs go now? Because I know there was a 197 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 1: little bit of issues at some point in time with 198 00:09:49,160 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 1: pretty much both of your situations. So is it like 199 00:09:52,559 --> 00:09:55,320 Speaker 1: do you have somebody that intervenes that's in between or 200 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,200 Speaker 1: this Like everything's good now and it's kind of just 201 00:09:58,280 --> 00:10:01,920 Speaker 1: like yeall have I understand. I mean, like on my side, 202 00:10:02,120 --> 00:10:04,720 Speaker 1: like if anybody knows me, I don't bring like no 203 00:10:04,840 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: drama to nobody. I don't be bothering nobody at all, 204 00:10:07,480 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And it's unfortunate that we 205 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:12,319 Speaker 1: didn't have to go through certain things in the public eye, 206 00:10:12,360 --> 00:10:14,560 Speaker 1: which I feel as though it was like not like 207 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:16,960 Speaker 1: healthy like for the kids, especially like when they get 208 00:10:16,960 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: older and whatnot, because I just don't like that type 209 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 1: of stuff and then it's not safe. But um, as 210 00:10:22,840 --> 00:10:25,280 Speaker 1: far as like the drop off and things like that, 211 00:10:25,920 --> 00:10:29,480 Speaker 1: basically like through the nannies and whatnot. But yeah, like 212 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:31,280 Speaker 1: most of the time, I just keep like I don't 213 00:10:31,320 --> 00:10:33,960 Speaker 1: never I don't put none of that stuff out on 214 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: the internet. It do not be me or like you know, 215 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,080 Speaker 1: like certain blogs like websites and things like that will 216 00:10:39,120 --> 00:10:41,880 Speaker 1: go and search like public records and try to pull 217 00:10:41,880 --> 00:10:44,080 Speaker 1: yourself and put it on the internet and then just 218 00:10:44,200 --> 00:10:46,960 Speaker 1: like blasted to the world, which kind of like, I mean, 219 00:10:47,000 --> 00:10:48,640 Speaker 1: I'm used to it now, but it kind of it 220 00:10:48,679 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 1: annoys me when it comes to my kids, like, just 221 00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:52,480 Speaker 1: don't do it and just stop it. You might be 222 00:10:52,480 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: one of the only people that's gonna go up against 223 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:56,439 Speaker 1: the Kardashians and the genders and win too, because we 224 00:10:56,480 --> 00:10:59,160 Speaker 1: see you gotta go to court. But that's good because 225 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,360 Speaker 1: I think a lot of times things happen and you're like, man, 226 00:11:01,400 --> 00:11:03,960 Speaker 1: I can't win this battle. I'm not even going bither. 227 00:11:04,120 --> 00:11:05,600 Speaker 1: I meant to let it go. I'm just gonna let 228 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: it slide. But you're not doing that, and I know 229 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:10,920 Speaker 1: that takes a lot though mentally too, yeah, I feel 230 00:11:10,920 --> 00:11:12,960 Speaker 1: like right as right and wrong is wrong, you know 231 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,720 Speaker 1: what I mean, And it's just it is what it is. 232 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:18,439 Speaker 1: Like I have like no negative energy like towards nobody. 233 00:11:18,480 --> 00:11:21,200 Speaker 1: I really don't have time, but I just want like 234 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:24,720 Speaker 1: my fair trial in November of this year, which I got. 235 00:11:25,120 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 1: So that's just kind of like where I'm at with it. 236 00:11:27,880 --> 00:11:30,439 Speaker 1: And I still don't have no problems with nobody at all, 237 00:11:31,240 --> 00:11:34,319 Speaker 1: like literally like nobody. So when do you have time? 238 00:11:34,360 --> 00:11:38,440 Speaker 1: When do you have time to date? Now that's what 239 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: you call them, right, I'm actually like dating somebody right now. 240 00:11:41,640 --> 00:11:44,319 Speaker 1: It's been like um, scoring on seven months now, a 241 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,319 Speaker 1: little twin, and like it's been like it's been doing 242 00:11:47,400 --> 00:11:49,080 Speaker 1: really good for me. You know, people that I have 243 00:11:49,160 --> 00:11:51,320 Speaker 1: like dated in the past, it was just like it 244 00:11:51,440 --> 00:11:53,360 Speaker 1: is what it is type of situation. But if you 245 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:56,000 Speaker 1: can find somebody like up lift you and like make 246 00:11:56,040 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: your spirit go, like make you happy and too nice 247 00:11:58,679 --> 00:12:01,719 Speaker 1: as a person, like that's fired, you know what I mean. 248 00:12:01,760 --> 00:12:04,560 Speaker 1: That's and I feel like even just like with people 249 00:12:04,960 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: coming and like stuff underneath my posts and things like that, 250 00:12:07,679 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: like China, like I see you really like happy, and 251 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm like thanks, guys, like I really am, you know, 252 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,840 Speaker 1: because people can say like you're happy, but you're really 253 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:19,800 Speaker 1: not happy like happy with like things that's going on. 254 00:12:19,920 --> 00:12:22,120 Speaker 1: But if you like anybody else like you have like 255 00:12:22,160 --> 00:12:24,600 Speaker 1: the other stuff that goes on, and sometimes that stuff 256 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,360 Speaker 1: feel like project through like your aura, you know. So 257 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: I feel like, you know, just now, like this year, 258 00:12:30,880 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 1: in the past last few months, I've been like projecting 259 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: like just happiness. You know, how does that affect the 260 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:41,360 Speaker 1: music then? Because you know, I like when we have 261 00:12:41,720 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 1: pigs about guys and everything. It's fun because they do 262 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:46,840 Speaker 1: it to us all the time. But now that you're happy, 263 00:12:47,240 --> 00:12:49,960 Speaker 1: how does that affect the signs? Oh? Yeah, No, I'll 264 00:12:50,000 --> 00:12:53,160 Speaker 1: never let I never let business intertwined with the funds 265 00:12:53,160 --> 00:12:55,400 Speaker 1: and the pleasures, like I keep always keep like all 266 00:12:55,400 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: that stuff separate. I guess easy for me. Hey, she's 267 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:04,080 Speaker 1: still gonna be talking her right. But I feel like 268 00:13:04,120 --> 00:13:06,280 Speaker 1: when people found out you were in a relationship, they 269 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 1: kind of came for him a little bit and started 270 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,400 Speaker 1: talking about his sexuality or somebody tried to act like 271 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,880 Speaker 1: they were in a relationship with him. Do you feel 272 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:18,359 Speaker 1: like every time you come out with relationship, somebody always 273 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:22,120 Speaker 1: has something to say about that person. Yeah, And that 274 00:13:22,240 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 1: was so false and like, I do want to clear 275 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 1: that up. That's super annoying. And then he even went 276 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 1: the person you know how, I even went to they 277 00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:31,360 Speaker 1: to say that I knew him, and I'm like, all right, 278 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:32,960 Speaker 1: this is like oh deep, And you know what you 279 00:13:33,000 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: do have people that's like mentally like ill and mentally sick, 280 00:13:37,040 --> 00:13:40,320 Speaker 1: and like mental health is like really like a real thing, 281 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:42,640 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And if you have anybody 282 00:13:42,640 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 1: that's in your family and things like that, like check 283 00:13:44,760 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: on them and make sure that they're okay, because like 284 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,079 Speaker 1: it's a real thing. But um, I mean as far 285 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: as like people chiming in on like my relationships and stuff, 286 00:13:53,240 --> 00:13:55,600 Speaker 1: I really it doesn't really bother me long as I'm happy. 287 00:13:55,720 --> 00:13:57,800 Speaker 1: And then if it's not true, it doesn't bother me, 288 00:13:58,280 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. If it was true, then 289 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,600 Speaker 1: they would bother other means. But other than that, like 290 00:14:01,679 --> 00:14:04,720 Speaker 1: they talk about Jesus Christ, I don't really care, you 291 00:14:04,720 --> 00:14:06,840 Speaker 1: know what I mean, Like I don't want to hear it. 292 00:14:06,679 --> 00:14:09,439 Speaker 1: And what's that it's all false? What's it like dating 293 00:14:09,480 --> 00:14:11,559 Speaker 1: black China? Like, what are you like in a relationship? 294 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 1: I know we see only what we see on social media, 295 00:14:13,840 --> 00:14:16,640 Speaker 1: but I know people always say guys like crazy girls 296 00:14:16,840 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: or you know, guys like that, and you've said it, 297 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 1: you know in music too, so you think that's true. 298 00:14:23,080 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 1: I mean I mean no, I mean, nobody likes anybody 299 00:14:25,680 --> 00:14:28,560 Speaker 1: that's crazy. That's just SUSSI as toxic. But like as 300 00:14:28,600 --> 00:14:31,200 Speaker 1: far as me, I'm chill. I'm a tourist, So like 301 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:33,960 Speaker 1: we're like laid back, were chill. We like to eat, 302 00:14:34,080 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 1: we like to cook. We're just like stable like creatures, 303 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like I like to like 304 00:14:39,960 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: figure out things and just have everything like organized and 305 00:14:43,920 --> 00:14:46,280 Speaker 1: just kind of like planned out, you know what I mean. 306 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: Like that really like makes me happy. That's really it. 307 00:14:49,320 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 1: I think we've all gone through phases that when we 308 00:14:51,080 --> 00:14:52,920 Speaker 1: were younger, when we were acting a little crazy in 309 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:56,480 Speaker 1: our relationships. I have to say, every single one of 310 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: us is like something that you are supposed to outgrow 311 00:14:59,040 --> 00:15:02,200 Speaker 1: at some point. Yeah, I mean, and I feel like 312 00:15:02,200 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 1: if if somebody think that you're acting crazy, maybe they're 313 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:07,520 Speaker 1: the person that's bringing it. They're bringing that person out. 314 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:10,600 Speaker 1: Nobody's just gonna just jump up and be like I'm 315 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:16,760 Speaker 1: gonna do something crazy and now that's nuts, right, that's crazy? 316 00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:24,720 Speaker 1: Oh God, emergency, Yeah you know what that is. It's 317 00:15:24,760 --> 00:15:28,440 Speaker 1: actually that's actually one of my business partners. I'm wondering 318 00:15:28,480 --> 00:15:30,320 Speaker 1: if this is the call that I think about to get. 319 00:15:30,360 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: But I just started on my own cooking show, Cooking 320 00:15:33,200 --> 00:15:38,280 Speaker 1: with Black China. Yeah, so I'm excited. About that, like 321 00:15:38,400 --> 00:15:43,400 Speaker 1: really excited. I'm like, I wonder if that's the call man, 322 00:15:43,560 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 1: can you you want to text them to We can't 323 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:51,640 Speaker 1: announce it now. Yeah, yeah, go ahead, get good idea, 324 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:55,040 Speaker 1: Like go ahead and right, I know, I know my 325 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:58,560 Speaker 1: f in the process. Then we could do a deli 326 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,320 Speaker 1: on toasting. Yeah, like you know what's happening to me? 327 00:16:01,360 --> 00:16:03,480 Speaker 1: I had this thing on my phone to shopify apps. 328 00:16:03,480 --> 00:16:06,160 Speaker 1: So every time somebody buys something at the store and Detroit, 329 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:10,080 Speaker 1: it goes off, it goes so you're getting yes, it'd 330 00:16:10,120 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 1: be like to chang cheers, cheers. Okay, Okay, wasn't He's 331 00:16:16,840 --> 00:16:20,320 Speaker 1: not talking about things actually telling me about a photo 332 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:22,880 Speaker 1: shoot that like we're about to do actually for Esquire. 333 00:16:23,000 --> 00:16:27,800 Speaker 1: So that's still like okay, that's let that's fine. Listen, 334 00:16:27,840 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 1: how many people are on your team because it's a 335 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 1: lot like there's a Black China empire, so how many 336 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,360 Speaker 1: how many people are on this Black China team? Just 337 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:40,320 Speaker 1: me gin, you got a business and I mean you 338 00:16:40,400 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 1: got your business partner and certain you've got so many 339 00:16:42,920 --> 00:16:47,920 Speaker 1: different things going on, assistance, makeup artists, all that. I mean, yes, 340 00:16:48,000 --> 00:16:49,960 Speaker 1: I call have black people that I called to do it. 341 00:16:50,000 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: But I'm doing everything. M do you not trust? Do 342 00:16:53,080 --> 00:16:55,160 Speaker 1: you not trust people to hand? Like? Could you trust 343 00:16:55,160 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 1: somebody to really oversee things for you? Yes? I could, like, 344 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:01,040 Speaker 1: but you know what I fell people don't be as 345 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 1: serious and take your business as seriousness. And while I 346 00:17:03,840 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: let somebody mess up my business, it's not gonna happen. 347 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: I already have to deal with other things. And in 348 00:17:08,800 --> 00:17:11,040 Speaker 1: the way I set up like certain things, I'm able 349 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,639 Speaker 1: to like oversee and make sure things is fine. And 350 00:17:13,640 --> 00:17:17,520 Speaker 1: then assistance that's just it's just to like assistue. You 351 00:17:17,560 --> 00:17:19,920 Speaker 1: get what I'm saying. So that's like and that's still 352 00:17:20,000 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 1: once again being you know, like you know, a boss, 353 00:17:23,320 --> 00:17:25,919 Speaker 1: so you have like tasks and things that I that 354 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,679 Speaker 1: I set up for them um to do like throughout 355 00:17:28,720 --> 00:17:30,280 Speaker 1: the week, and then they get it done. And then 356 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:37,240 Speaker 1: that's just how that is. But as far as like somebody, no, no, 357 00:17:37,440 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 1: it's not happening, I'm not. I'm not. I'm not opposed 358 00:17:42,640 --> 00:17:44,960 Speaker 1: to it though, not at all, but I just don't 359 00:17:44,960 --> 00:17:47,800 Speaker 1: see it right now, especially like if I already set 360 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:51,760 Speaker 1: up everything myself so smoothly. But I will definitely like 361 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,520 Speaker 1: take into consideration if somebody was like on top of 362 00:17:54,560 --> 00:17:58,800 Speaker 1: the stuff, and I could visit physically and even like 363 00:17:58,840 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 1: on the back end see everything, then I then I 364 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:04,200 Speaker 1: would do it. I would have to see it. But 365 00:18:04,280 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 1: like as far as like my e commerce, my photo shoots, 366 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:13,000 Speaker 1: Last Cosmetics, Black China Closet, cooking, you know what I mean, 367 00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,159 Speaker 1: I have my partner with the Cooking Show obviously, and 368 00:18:16,160 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 1: then as far as my music, I set on my 369 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:20,760 Speaker 1: own studio, so I make my own times for that, 370 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,679 Speaker 1: and then I have my engineer and my producer Tito, 371 00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: and I just uh create music. Actually just started putting 372 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:29,959 Speaker 1: out my own music. So I have like my own 373 00:18:30,040 --> 00:18:33,360 Speaker 1: label that I started too. So I'm just doing like 374 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:36,520 Speaker 1: at least setting up my foundation too. Whereas though if 375 00:18:36,560 --> 00:18:38,399 Speaker 1: somebody you know what I mean that could put me 376 00:18:38,440 --> 00:18:40,760 Speaker 1: in a better position comes along, at least already have 377 00:18:41,080 --> 00:18:43,200 Speaker 1: my foundation set up. It's not like I'm just coming 378 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 1: like hey this, like you know what I mean. So 379 00:18:46,440 --> 00:18:49,359 Speaker 1: it's like the foundation already be set up to whereas though, Okay, 380 00:18:49,600 --> 00:18:52,240 Speaker 1: if things don't work out, then I won't lose everything. 381 00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,280 Speaker 1: I could go back to my own stuff, you know 382 00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:55,879 Speaker 1: what I mean. I feel like a lot of people 383 00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 1: should kind of like just take those proper steps to 384 00:18:58,640 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 1: like boot your own foundation, and so things don't work 385 00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,040 Speaker 1: out with somebody, which is not a bad thing. It 386 00:19:03,080 --> 00:19:05,280 Speaker 1: happens all the time that you have something to fall 387 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:07,840 Speaker 1: back on. I agree with that. I always tell people, 388 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,040 Speaker 1: nobody cares about your business more than you do, right, 389 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:12,879 Speaker 1: They don't know, it's a fact. And just you know, 390 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:14,840 Speaker 1: I think throughout the years and things I've been through, 391 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 1: like it equip me for like the things that I'm 392 00:19:17,480 --> 00:19:20,040 Speaker 1: doing now, you know. And it's funny because they say, 393 00:19:20,080 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: like the things that you're doing today is gonna like 394 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:24,040 Speaker 1: really dictate like what you're gonna be doing in three, four, 395 00:19:24,280 --> 00:19:27,280 Speaker 1: five years, which is true. So it's like even if 396 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:29,680 Speaker 1: you start taking the small steps to like trying to 397 00:19:29,720 --> 00:19:32,520 Speaker 1: figure out what is that you want to do, ultimately, 398 00:19:33,240 --> 00:19:36,080 Speaker 1: like within that time period, everything should be able to 399 00:19:36,119 --> 00:19:38,000 Speaker 1: like grow and stack and then you should be able 400 00:19:38,040 --> 00:19:40,719 Speaker 1: to like start living out like your dreams are, like 401 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 1: your passions or whatever it is that you're like into 402 00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:45,200 Speaker 1: at that time. I like that. I feel like you 403 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: learned that most from your mistakes too, And I'm glad 404 00:19:47,119 --> 00:19:50,200 Speaker 1: I made a lot of them earlier on. Yeah, when 405 00:19:50,200 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 1: you make those mistakes early on, and you're like Okay, 406 00:19:52,560 --> 00:19:54,920 Speaker 1: I am never doing that again. I learned from this. 407 00:19:55,080 --> 00:19:57,520 Speaker 1: I know not to do that, and that really helps 408 00:19:57,560 --> 00:19:59,840 Speaker 1: you so that when it's time to really do something bigger, 409 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:02,840 Speaker 1: at least when you did the smaller things, you're like, okay, 410 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: I got like my own ideas and my own foundations 411 00:20:05,760 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: said that. But I also do feel like we could 412 00:20:08,040 --> 00:20:10,320 Speaker 1: be a lot more productive if we left certain things 413 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:12,439 Speaker 1: for other people to handle and we just oversee it, 414 00:20:12,440 --> 00:20:15,640 Speaker 1: because a lot of it is also delegating responsibility, because 415 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,800 Speaker 1: I feel like sometimes I'm running around doing so many 416 00:20:17,800 --> 00:20:20,920 Speaker 1: different things myself that it would be great if someone 417 00:20:21,000 --> 00:20:22,600 Speaker 1: else could help out with those things, you know what 418 00:20:22,680 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: I mean. Yeah, So, like that's the difference like a 419 00:20:25,200 --> 00:20:28,320 Speaker 1: manager and then assistant, you know what I mean? That's 420 00:20:28,359 --> 00:20:30,480 Speaker 1: what that's what you call in like the assistance, even 421 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:33,560 Speaker 1: if you probably even need them, like five days after week, 422 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:36,960 Speaker 1: Hey are you know? Um you could come on Mondays 423 00:20:36,960 --> 00:20:41,000 Speaker 1: and Thursdays for like Monday, Wednesday, Monday Wednesday, Friday or 424 00:20:41,040 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 1: something like that depends on like what you have to 425 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:46,320 Speaker 1: like handle. So I'm your boyfriend help you in that situation? 426 00:20:46,440 --> 00:20:49,359 Speaker 1: Like does he ever tried to help assist you or stuff? 427 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,400 Speaker 1: When you're like doing photo shoots and stuff like that. 428 00:20:51,880 --> 00:20:55,199 Speaker 1: Oh yeah for sure, yeah, yep, yep yeah. And he 429 00:20:55,280 --> 00:20:57,639 Speaker 1: does music too, so like that right there is like 430 00:20:57,720 --> 00:21:01,120 Speaker 1: interesting also too, like when somebody like shares like common 431 00:21:01,119 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 1: thing a common thing with you, it just makes it 432 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:06,520 Speaker 1: even far so you can like understand certain things more 433 00:21:07,119 --> 00:21:08,520 Speaker 1: and a lot of people like why don't you day 434 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:11,159 Speaker 1: somebody's regular and it's like I have before, but it's 435 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:13,560 Speaker 1: like it comes like the insecurities, it comes this here 436 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,679 Speaker 1: comes to you're not making as much money as me, 437 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,840 Speaker 1: so like that becomes a problem type of situation or 438 00:21:20,359 --> 00:21:26,480 Speaker 1: always like it's like never mine. Does he critique your 439 00:21:26,560 --> 00:21:28,520 Speaker 1: music ever? Like that? Is he ever? Like I don't 440 00:21:28,520 --> 00:21:32,240 Speaker 1: really like that? Um no, I like shoose me. I 441 00:21:32,280 --> 00:21:34,560 Speaker 1: ain't gonna lie. I got some fire like and I'm 442 00:21:34,560 --> 00:21:37,800 Speaker 1: getting better. I'm getting better and better. But yeah, like 443 00:21:37,880 --> 00:21:40,080 Speaker 1: some of like the lyrics like I don't think that's 444 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 1: I don't know, and like we actually make it like better. 445 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,639 Speaker 1: I feel like that critique he is music too? Like 446 00:21:47,000 --> 00:21:50,120 Speaker 1: that's hard or does he him? So It's like it's 447 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,680 Speaker 1: a good balance because that gets a little touchy when 448 00:21:52,720 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 1: somebody close to you critiques your stuff. Sometimes in mind, 449 00:21:55,760 --> 00:22:00,200 Speaker 1: I'm an artist and I'm sensitive about my life. I know, know, 450 00:22:00,440 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 1: like even when I even when I do my music now, 451 00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:04,760 Speaker 1: like I had my friends come over here, like yo, 452 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,360 Speaker 1: what y'all think about this? You have to like listen 453 00:22:07,400 --> 00:22:09,440 Speaker 1: to other people because like just because what you think 454 00:22:09,440 --> 00:22:12,119 Speaker 1: in your brain sounds that don't like that might not 455 00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: be good. So like I asked my friends, or like 456 00:22:14,760 --> 00:22:17,720 Speaker 1: I might look at him like okay, so like keep bombing, 457 00:22:18,280 --> 00:22:20,040 Speaker 1: or if they'd be like hey that again, I'm like okay, 458 00:22:20,080 --> 00:22:23,160 Speaker 1: they like that, you know. So what about any dudes 459 00:22:23,240 --> 00:22:25,000 Speaker 1: that you used to talk to before him? Did you 460 00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,320 Speaker 1: have to tell them like let'sen stop calling me or 461 00:22:27,359 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: did you just got them or like how did you 462 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:32,320 Speaker 1: cut them off? Or can you still be cool? Yeah? 463 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: Or that No, I feel like I could still be cool. 464 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,359 Speaker 1: But it's just like I feel like I'm too grown. 465 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:40,920 Speaker 1: And it's never like no bad like oh I hate 466 00:22:40,920 --> 00:22:46,399 Speaker 1: her not it's just like hey, yeah, no, it's nothing 467 00:22:46,440 --> 00:22:48,959 Speaker 1: like negative at all, you know, it's nothing never like 468 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,159 Speaker 1: negative like with me are like and then like relationships 469 00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 1: or dating, not even relationships, but like dating people, and 470 00:22:56,119 --> 00:22:58,400 Speaker 1: it sucks that. I mean, it's crazy because even before 471 00:22:58,440 --> 00:23:01,080 Speaker 1: this relationship, I didn't I didn't get nobody for like 472 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: two years, and it's like something and then I'm like, 473 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,560 Speaker 1: all right, let me chill out because it's being that, 474 00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,520 Speaker 1: you know, and even if you want to just chill 475 00:23:07,600 --> 00:23:11,000 Speaker 1: with somebody and you get photographed is just like Jesus Christ, 476 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:13,840 Speaker 1: like y'all, y'all regular people are doing the same thing, 477 00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 1: but y'all just gotta blow with I mean not regular people, 478 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:20,359 Speaker 1: but I mean like that's not right, yeah, non celebty 479 00:23:20,400 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: y'all doing the same thing. If not words, how do 480 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:26,920 Speaker 1: you manage how do you manage to lock you in 481 00:23:27,040 --> 00:23:30,560 Speaker 1: so that you guys wearing a committed relationship shoot just 482 00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 1: like being himself really and then just like more like 483 00:23:34,200 --> 00:23:37,439 Speaker 1: act like actions and just like super laid back and 484 00:23:37,520 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 1: like helping and like encarriaging and um, just the way 485 00:23:41,680 --> 00:23:43,480 Speaker 1: how he treat people and treat me and treat his 486 00:23:43,560 --> 00:23:45,760 Speaker 1: mom and his family and things like that. That's like 487 00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: really important. You gotta see like how the person that 488 00:23:49,320 --> 00:23:52,880 Speaker 1: you dat and like treats the people surround them around him, 489 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,760 Speaker 1: because that really is gonna dictate because that person I 490 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,560 Speaker 1: could be really sweetie, but like nasty to other people 491 00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:02,720 Speaker 1: and eventually that side is gonna come out, but a 492 00:24:02,800 --> 00:24:05,200 Speaker 1: little bit later. So I have, like, being in other 493 00:24:05,440 --> 00:24:08,840 Speaker 1: previous relationships, I knew like the signs were to when 494 00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,119 Speaker 1: to like get out, like art them out, you know 495 00:24:11,160 --> 00:24:13,479 Speaker 1: what I mean. So like now I'm just like, shoot, 496 00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 1: I'm chilling. Does he know how to deal with you 497 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:18,480 Speaker 1: when you go through your tempers? Because we've seen some 498 00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,479 Speaker 1: things where you've not been self satisfied, you might kind 499 00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: of go off. So does he know how to calm 500 00:24:23,600 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: you down when you are in those moments? I mean, 501 00:24:26,280 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: like when I'm in those moments. Honestly, if you really, 502 00:24:28,840 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: if anybody knows me, I'm a tourist. I'm gonna go 503 00:24:31,880 --> 00:24:33,639 Speaker 1: walk off and I'm gonna have my fifteen minutes and 504 00:24:33,640 --> 00:24:35,640 Speaker 1: I'm gonna come back and I'm gonna be cool. Now 505 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:38,639 Speaker 1: if you like, if I'm like, are give me fifteen 506 00:24:38,640 --> 00:24:41,920 Speaker 1: minutes or whatever, and you're like, now I gotta say 507 00:24:42,040 --> 00:24:44,480 Speaker 1: or get out of my face. You know what I'm saying. 508 00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,040 Speaker 1: That's not that's not nice. And then you post that 509 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 1: and it makes me like I'm a crazy person. I'm 510 00:24:49,040 --> 00:24:51,440 Speaker 1: just like, hey, man, chill out, like give my space, 511 00:24:51,520 --> 00:24:53,640 Speaker 1: giving us face for a minute, like let me maybe 512 00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:57,680 Speaker 1: go order some food and come back. And yeah, but no, 513 00:24:57,840 --> 00:25:00,400 Speaker 1: I don't really begin angry like that because like honestly, 514 00:25:00,440 --> 00:25:02,560 Speaker 1: anything that bothers me or get on my nerves out 515 00:25:02,600 --> 00:25:05,920 Speaker 1: of here, right, And it's as simple as that. I'm 516 00:25:05,920 --> 00:25:08,240 Speaker 1: not like letting people taking me out of my element 517 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:10,520 Speaker 1: no more. I'm over that, you know what I mean. 518 00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:13,399 Speaker 1: I'm over like trying to please other people too, you know, 519 00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: And I'm just like here just to do my businesses, 520 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,159 Speaker 1: do my stuff that I need to do, be a 521 00:25:18,160 --> 00:25:20,359 Speaker 1: good mom, be you me, a good friend, work on 522 00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:23,280 Speaker 1: my music and my businesses, and then my kids, I said, 523 00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,280 Speaker 1: and then myself too, you know. I mean I'm thirty two, 524 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:31,520 Speaker 1: I'll be thirty three in May. Such a baby. Yeah, 525 00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:34,560 Speaker 1: So I mean that's that's just really like my focus. 526 00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,040 Speaker 1: Like if anything like throws me off, like my energy, 527 00:25:37,080 --> 00:25:39,159 Speaker 1: like I'm good, you know what I mean, not just 528 00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 1: say like that's a bad person or like this isn't 529 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:44,760 Speaker 1: a good idea, but it's just not a good idea, 530 00:25:44,840 --> 00:25:47,480 Speaker 1: like for Angela. So that's just kind of like where 531 00:25:47,480 --> 00:25:50,240 Speaker 1: I'm at with it these days. Angela as in Black China. 532 00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 1: Just you know, it's funny, I forget how young you 533 00:25:56,400 --> 00:25:58,200 Speaker 1: are because your mom, when I was watching the show, 534 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:00,960 Speaker 1: she was like, I'm gonna be fifty. I was like, damn, 535 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 1: that's right, Black China is only thirty two years old. 536 00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:06,440 Speaker 1: And it's like, because you know, we've been hearing about 537 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 1: you for so long, we just forget that you're you're 538 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 1: really still young. Oh thank you, thanks guys. Yeah, it's okay, 539 00:26:17,600 --> 00:26:19,480 Speaker 1: funny because I remember I used to be like, o't 540 00:26:19,760 --> 00:26:24,480 Speaker 1: I'm eighteen on Next Girl and then when we first 541 00:26:24,480 --> 00:26:29,080 Speaker 1: met you so young, so crazy, and I mean, it's 542 00:26:29,080 --> 00:26:32,160 Speaker 1: just it's just nice to like, throughout the years still 543 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,760 Speaker 1: be cool with like people that you knew a long 544 00:26:34,800 --> 00:26:37,440 Speaker 1: time ago. And then even for y'all to like watch 545 00:26:37,480 --> 00:26:40,280 Speaker 1: the growth, that's like so dope for us, Stevie having 546 00:26:40,280 --> 00:26:44,320 Speaker 1: this conversation right now, it's just crazy, like what And 547 00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:46,760 Speaker 1: it's like if you're a good person, like that's just 548 00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,240 Speaker 1: like how to how everything is gonna like turn? You 549 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,199 Speaker 1: know what I mean, that's true. I did me. I 550 00:26:51,280 --> 00:26:54,199 Speaker 1: met you so long ago. You had to be a teenager. 551 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,639 Speaker 1: I remember that, and I remember being in the Bahamas 552 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:05,159 Speaker 1: and everybody, oh my god, every Nicki Minaj autographs. That 553 00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:08,680 Speaker 1: was the time that was so much fun, so much fun. 554 00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 1: We gotta do after everything opened up, I'm trying to 555 00:27:10,840 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: do another trip. Yeah, we missed those days taking those tas. 556 00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:18,520 Speaker 1: I'm down for that. Now. If guys sliding your dm s, 557 00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:20,440 Speaker 1: because I'm sure they do, right, do you tell your 558 00:27:20,480 --> 00:27:23,840 Speaker 1: man I don't even you know what if people don't 559 00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:26,359 Speaker 1: even I mean they might send a heart or something 560 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,640 Speaker 1: like that, and then it will be all the way 561 00:27:29,040 --> 00:27:31,920 Speaker 1: down like weird, like I don't even respond to the stuff. 562 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: But if they do, like but you warn him, like 563 00:27:34,840 --> 00:27:37,560 Speaker 1: listen this guy that you know, you know, just so 564 00:27:37,680 --> 00:27:40,320 Speaker 1: you know he did DM me? Or do you just 565 00:27:40,320 --> 00:27:42,600 Speaker 1: not say anything? What's the rule? I mean I would 566 00:27:42,840 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: I would probably say something like look look at it, 567 00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:49,040 Speaker 1: look at this. I mean not like that though, but 568 00:27:49,119 --> 00:27:51,199 Speaker 1: we have like a cool relationship to ards, so like 569 00:27:51,520 --> 00:27:54,439 Speaker 1: literally talk about everything. And I think that's another reason 570 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:57,679 Speaker 1: to like while I was like okay, like I feel 571 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:00,280 Speaker 1: like I feel good and like cough, and it was 572 00:28:00,320 --> 00:28:01,840 Speaker 1: like with this person, you know what I mean, Because 573 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:04,560 Speaker 1: a lot of people they can't, like you can't open 574 00:28:04,640 --> 00:28:07,920 Speaker 1: up to everybody at all, so like sometimes like and 575 00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:12,080 Speaker 1: then when you do certain things they can't understand it. 576 00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,560 Speaker 1: Because you can't be open, but you can't be open 577 00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,280 Speaker 1: with everybody, so then that might that might also to 578 00:28:17,440 --> 00:28:19,639 Speaker 1: become a problem, you know what I mean, like in 579 00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: a relationship and whatnot. So it's just just I mean, 580 00:28:22,680 --> 00:28:25,439 Speaker 1: just like for like women to know, don't open up 581 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:28,199 Speaker 1: to everybody because they'll take your business and use it 582 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:31,640 Speaker 1: against you and people and do stuff to you, like 583 00:28:31,680 --> 00:28:35,320 Speaker 1: when things don't work out. So I mean, unless it's 584 00:28:35,359 --> 00:28:37,600 Speaker 1: been like open it up, then you can maybe open up, 585 00:28:37,640 --> 00:28:40,640 Speaker 1: but just don't tell like all your secrets and stuff 586 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:42,920 Speaker 1: like that to a guy, you know what I mean, 587 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 1: unless you know for sure for sure, like you never 588 00:28:45,920 --> 00:28:50,440 Speaker 1: know for sure, you not you do not. Note how 589 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:53,360 Speaker 1: I learned that. I learned that so long ago. That's 590 00:28:53,400 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 1: one of the first lessons I learned. I had this 591 00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,640 Speaker 1: boyfriend when I had UM when I was just graduated 592 00:28:58,680 --> 00:29:01,600 Speaker 1: from college, and I remember I was I was working 593 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: this job and I would tell him everything, like, oh, 594 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,880 Speaker 1: this happened at work today. I can't stand this bitch, 595 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,520 Speaker 1: this person did that. And when we broke up, he 596 00:29:08,640 --> 00:29:13,200 Speaker 1: caught my job and told them all that's just nasty. 597 00:29:13,320 --> 00:29:16,440 Speaker 1: It's like, and you know what else bothers me, Like 598 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:19,320 Speaker 1: I promise you. I mean, it doesn't bother me, but 599 00:29:19,320 --> 00:29:21,840 Speaker 1: but but it it's very irking and ner nerve wrecking. 600 00:29:22,160 --> 00:29:24,840 Speaker 1: I mean, just I think for women in general is 601 00:29:24,920 --> 00:29:28,600 Speaker 1: when guys kiss and tell us like, oh girl, you 602 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:31,040 Speaker 1: know they talk more than we do. It's like yo, 603 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:38,480 Speaker 1: because they brand like what's going on today? I've never 604 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:43,200 Speaker 1: I've never heard of like such such things. And it's like, 605 00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:45,320 Speaker 1: that's so thirsty, Like I mean, remember he used to 606 00:29:45,320 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 1: be like girl, girl, nail is all nails. It's like, 607 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:52,160 Speaker 1: what's going on? Got my crazy? Just do that with 608 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:54,960 Speaker 1: you the other day. I mean a lot of people 609 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:59,000 Speaker 1: have been doing like all types of stuff lately. Album 610 00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,760 Speaker 1: about it? Yeah, oh yeah, he did say he was 611 00:30:01,800 --> 00:30:05,000 Speaker 1: making a song about it and about a few about 612 00:30:05,040 --> 00:30:07,360 Speaker 1: a few females. But I think that's I think it's 613 00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: corny as wife. What if it's complimentary though, I don't 614 00:30:10,920 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: even damn, that's weird. I like, to this person, so corny, right, 615 00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,880 Speaker 1: you know, I feel you? And you know what else too? 616 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,479 Speaker 1: Besides that, have you ever had a guy lie and 617 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:26,200 Speaker 1: say that he's been Oh yes, So yeah, that's weird 618 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,400 Speaker 1: to me, Like who does that? So weird? So weird? 619 00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:32,040 Speaker 1: I'm like I don't even know this person, like us, 620 00:30:32,480 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: Like it happens all the time. I had this one 621 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,360 Speaker 1: guy that swears that like we're in a relationship, and 622 00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,880 Speaker 1: I'm like, bro, I don't know you. He'll d M people, 623 00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,280 Speaker 1: That's what I'm telling you, like that mental health stuff 624 00:30:43,400 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: is sick, like with d M, like my friends and like, 625 00:30:47,080 --> 00:30:49,960 Speaker 1: um he's like even my little nephews and like people 626 00:30:49,960 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 1: from the studio, like my wife China, why is she 627 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: with twins that I just sent her money for the kids. 628 00:30:56,480 --> 00:31:00,600 Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh no, no, this man, I'm like, no, 629 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: that's a mental health issue for sure, locked away in 630 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,520 Speaker 1: the jacket. I'm like, man, at least I know what 631 00:31:07,520 --> 00:31:09,480 Speaker 1: he looks like. He's been to come around here. Remember 632 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:12,080 Speaker 1: I had that that crazy soccer that kept on everywhere 633 00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,880 Speaker 1: I went, remember, and he swat it at me and 634 00:31:13,960 --> 00:31:16,440 Speaker 1: him with friends because he was dating you. He was like, yeah, 635 00:31:16,480 --> 00:31:19,720 Speaker 1: you know my friend Laurio, you know, and my wife Angela. 636 00:31:19,840 --> 00:31:23,800 Speaker 1: And I'm like, we don't know you. I don't know you, 637 00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:26,640 Speaker 1: but that but again, that's some mental health issues. And 638 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:28,920 Speaker 1: black China. I sew you on the show. You was 639 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,280 Speaker 1: doing some therapy and it was a little difficult at first, 640 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:33,440 Speaker 1: you weren't really trying to open up. Do you think 641 00:31:33,480 --> 00:31:35,160 Speaker 1: it did help you at all in the in the 642 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,960 Speaker 1: long run? You know what? I think as far as 643 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,440 Speaker 1: like that session, no, to be honest, and then I 644 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:43,280 Speaker 1: feel like the way that he like, you know, this 645 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:46,200 Speaker 1: was obviously like two years ago when I actually came 646 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,960 Speaker 1: to see you, like around that time, Like the way 647 00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:50,960 Speaker 1: he was like coming at me was like, bro, what 648 00:31:51,000 --> 00:31:53,080 Speaker 1: are you talking about? You know what I mean? At first, 649 00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:55,160 Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It's like then it's like, okay, 650 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:56,920 Speaker 1: let me just try to chill and try to hear 651 00:31:56,960 --> 00:31:59,600 Speaker 1: him out. But it's like it's kind of hearts, like 652 00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:03,480 Speaker 1: open up to a therapist when they already know about 653 00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:06,240 Speaker 1: you and have whatever and thought of in their brain 654 00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: about you. So like, actually, what I've been doing actually 655 00:32:09,720 --> 00:32:12,840 Speaker 1: it's just like breath work, which I found that it's 656 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:14,920 Speaker 1: been like working for me. I don't know if y'all 657 00:32:14,920 --> 00:32:16,640 Speaker 1: know what breath work is and things like that, but 658 00:32:16,680 --> 00:32:18,360 Speaker 1: it's like like like, because you know, a lot of 659 00:32:18,400 --> 00:32:20,959 Speaker 1: trauma is actually like in your body and not in 660 00:32:20,960 --> 00:32:23,800 Speaker 1: your mind, so like what the breath work is like 661 00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,520 Speaker 1: basically moving like energies, you know what I'm saying from 662 00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:28,080 Speaker 1: out of your body, because that's where a lot of 663 00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,640 Speaker 1: like your trauma comes from, like trala trauma, like just 664 00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:35,240 Speaker 1: negative energy and things like that. And it's been working 665 00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:38,520 Speaker 1: out really good for me. So like I think talking 666 00:32:38,560 --> 00:32:41,120 Speaker 1: to a person is not gonna do it. You gotta 667 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,320 Speaker 1: you gotta kind of like set aside like time, like 668 00:32:43,400 --> 00:32:46,080 Speaker 1: really for yourself. Do your breath works, you know what 669 00:32:46,160 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: I means, sage, and like just like I also do 670 00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 1: like um, I do like fast things to like I 671 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:55,280 Speaker 1: might fast for like seventy two hours and then people 672 00:32:55,400 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: like how are you? How could you do that faster 673 00:32:57,600 --> 00:33:00,120 Speaker 1: seventy two hours? And every time I do it, I 674 00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:04,200 Speaker 1: have more energy, Like I'm not even like tired, which 675 00:33:04,240 --> 00:33:06,440 Speaker 1: is like crazy. And then I like kind of ease 676 00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:08,680 Speaker 1: back into like the food. But it's been working out 677 00:33:08,720 --> 00:33:12,160 Speaker 1: good for me. It gives you like a clear mind. Yeah, 678 00:33:13,440 --> 00:33:15,400 Speaker 1: I agree that. Remember I did that two weeks fast. 679 00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:18,760 Speaker 1: Oh that almost killed me. That two weeks was too much. 680 00:33:18,840 --> 00:33:21,440 Speaker 1: I was like, all right, my head for two weeks. Yeah. 681 00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:25,760 Speaker 1: I could only have water, coconut water. Oh and I 682 00:33:25,840 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: hate cokingut water, so I was just dead the whole time. Yeah, 683 00:33:30,720 --> 00:33:33,320 Speaker 1: it's so so it tastes it does taste weird. Yes, 684 00:33:34,760 --> 00:33:37,920 Speaker 1: I can't. I can explain it's it's different China. I 685 00:33:37,920 --> 00:33:41,680 Speaker 1: want to ask about sex stuff. So did you have 686 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:43,640 Speaker 1: to have a girlfriend? Yeah, because I like to talk 687 00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:45,960 Speaker 1: about sex on lip service. So did you ever have 688 00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 1: a girlfriend? Because I know you get a little freaky 689 00:33:47,680 --> 00:33:50,080 Speaker 1: with your friends sometimes, even though you may be playing. 690 00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:52,520 Speaker 1: I know you was tapping your friends butt and all that. 691 00:33:52,600 --> 00:33:54,560 Speaker 1: And she was like, I'm thinking about giving you something. 692 00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,560 Speaker 1: So would you ever consider having a girlfriend or you know, 693 00:33:57,680 --> 00:34:00,880 Speaker 1: have you ever done anything of that nature? I mean no, 694 00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:03,040 Speaker 1: I mean when I was younger, like when I was 695 00:34:03,120 --> 00:34:05,720 Speaker 1: younger and whennot? But now I wouldn't have no girlfriend. 696 00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:09,480 Speaker 1: I mean I don't think nothing's wrong with it, but 697 00:34:09,520 --> 00:34:12,799 Speaker 1: I just I can't put my I can't put out 698 00:34:12,880 --> 00:34:17,480 Speaker 1: the nurses. I don't think nothing's wrong with it, but 699 00:34:17,560 --> 00:34:19,839 Speaker 1: I just can't do it. And then and then I'm like, 700 00:34:19,880 --> 00:34:22,640 Speaker 1: if this is the stud type, it's like, might as 701 00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:25,880 Speaker 1: well dated guy. And the time she's probably be in 702 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 1: my makeup, in my wigs and my phone tred a 703 00:34:32,440 --> 00:34:35,640 Speaker 1: minute like that looks like a week. Oh yeah, we 704 00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:41,640 Speaker 1: heard you do that before two to somebody because you 705 00:34:41,719 --> 00:34:44,200 Speaker 1: do it because you do an open relationship. But I 706 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:48,320 Speaker 1: do an open relationship. Um, I mean I feel like 707 00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:50,279 Speaker 1: I've been in open relationships as an even though I 708 00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:55,720 Speaker 1: was an open relationship. So I mean, no, it's a fact. 709 00:34:55,880 --> 00:34:57,680 Speaker 1: So I mean if I feel like if it was 710 00:34:57,719 --> 00:35:01,080 Speaker 1: on the table and like I understand it from the beginning. Yeah, 711 00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:03,280 Speaker 1: do you think do you think you want to get married? 712 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:05,200 Speaker 1: I know you've been engaged before, but is that something 713 00:35:05,239 --> 00:35:07,439 Speaker 1: you look forward to? Yeah, I want to get married. 714 00:35:07,480 --> 00:35:09,279 Speaker 1: I want to have more kids because I'm actually the 715 00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:11,000 Speaker 1: only child, so I want to have more kids. I 716 00:35:11,000 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: would to have a big family. You're gonna have a prenup? Yeah? 717 00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,120 Speaker 1: How many kids are we talking? Um? Would I would 718 00:35:21,120 --> 00:35:23,319 Speaker 1: have like two more. I wouldn't mind having two more. 719 00:35:23,880 --> 00:35:26,200 Speaker 1: That's not crazy, Yeah, that's not crazy. Yeah, flour is good. 720 00:35:26,239 --> 00:35:28,720 Speaker 1: And it's so crazy because King is gonna be nine 721 00:35:28,760 --> 00:35:33,800 Speaker 1: is oh my god, like this year they're going to 722 00:35:33,920 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 1: be nine and five? Like so crazy to me? Is 723 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:45,400 Speaker 1: he so overprotective of her? Yeah? Super? Actually, man, I 724 00:35:45,400 --> 00:35:48,640 Speaker 1: think man. And then Dream is just obsessed with King. 725 00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:52,280 Speaker 1: She just loves King like he could do no wrong, 726 00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:56,160 Speaker 1: dad wrong, Like he can't do that she's like, no, 727 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:01,040 Speaker 1: excuse me. I'm like, I love you so much. Could 728 00:36:01,040 --> 00:36:07,040 Speaker 1: you be with somebody if the sex wasn't that good? No? 729 00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:10,840 Speaker 1: Like everything else to walk them was perfect, perfect, perfect, 730 00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,040 Speaker 1: and the sex was just mediocre? Still a no go? 731 00:36:13,680 --> 00:36:18,160 Speaker 1: And they can eat pussy good? I mean, I mean ship, 732 00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:26,200 Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe no, I'm sorry. No, what's something 733 00:36:26,239 --> 00:36:28,040 Speaker 1: you wouldn't do in it bad? Like what's a what's 734 00:36:28,040 --> 00:36:32,359 Speaker 1: a big no for China? Ship? Oh no, we'll see. 735 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 1: Like me, I've done an't no before, but I'm not 736 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:37,239 Speaker 1: trying to do that no time soon again, because I 737 00:36:37,239 --> 00:36:42,120 Speaker 1: ain't nobody doing all that like the older I get. 738 00:36:42,160 --> 00:36:46,719 Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm actually I'm tired, and this is when 739 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,400 Speaker 1: I cut. I would watch movies and ship and the 740 00:36:49,480 --> 00:36:51,319 Speaker 1: lady would never like just like when I was young, 741 00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:52,919 Speaker 1: like you never want to have sex Like the older woman, 742 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, why should just give a buck? Like 743 00:36:56,640 --> 00:37:00,680 Speaker 1: I understand what if he comes and you don't. I 744 00:37:00,680 --> 00:37:05,480 Speaker 1: ain't tripping. I'm not a big I'm not a lot 745 00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,000 Speaker 1: of people think I'm like a big like sexual person. 746 00:37:08,040 --> 00:37:11,359 Speaker 1: I'm not. I'd be just chilling. How I don't even 747 00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,600 Speaker 1: really be on it like that. What about so having 748 00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:16,840 Speaker 1: an orgasm, how important is that to you in sex, 749 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,759 Speaker 1: like percentage wise, because I know women don't orgasm every time, 750 00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:22,479 Speaker 1: but for you, that's what you gotta find. I feel 751 00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:25,160 Speaker 1: like with that, you have to find somebody that you're 752 00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:27,319 Speaker 1: really into. And it goes back to that you can't 753 00:37:27,360 --> 00:37:29,960 Speaker 1: it's not gonna happle every person unless you're just a 754 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:33,000 Speaker 1: straight up stone cold free but what you ain't nothing 755 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,160 Speaker 1: wrong with that either. But I'm just saying like you 756 00:37:35,239 --> 00:37:38,400 Speaker 1: gotta have like that, that that mental relationship with the 757 00:37:38,440 --> 00:37:40,800 Speaker 1: person also too, and then you know sex is gonna 758 00:37:40,840 --> 00:37:43,360 Speaker 1: be then that's just gonna be a plus. All of 759 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:45,879 Speaker 1: this is like really like mental Honestly, if you really 760 00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 1: think about it, you know, my first orgasm is that 761 00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:52,439 Speaker 1: somebody I didn't even really like like that really maybe 762 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:56,160 Speaker 1: they was just fire. Some people just know what they're 763 00:37:56,200 --> 00:38:00,439 Speaker 1: doing relaxed. Yeah, because there's people you could really they love, 764 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:05,080 Speaker 1: but they just can't make you orgasm. Yeah, you don't know, 765 00:38:06,239 --> 00:38:07,880 Speaker 1: like the sex ain't that good, but I guess you 766 00:38:07,920 --> 00:38:11,839 Speaker 1: could always make yourself come if you had to always. Yeah, 767 00:38:13,160 --> 00:38:18,160 Speaker 1: you just said that in the bedroom. I don't I 768 00:38:18,160 --> 00:38:21,160 Speaker 1: mean not in the bedroom, but shoes if he's gone 769 00:38:21,239 --> 00:38:29,040 Speaker 1: and I'm well major, it's alright. You know, somebody sent 770 00:38:29,160 --> 00:38:32,400 Speaker 1: me some CBD products. It's this company called um Fourier 771 00:38:32,600 --> 00:38:36,320 Speaker 1: I think Fouria Floria, But anyway, they do the CVD products, 772 00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:39,759 Speaker 1: but there for women, like for your vagina. So I'm 773 00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:48,080 Speaker 1: thinking about Yeah, I'm thinking about right down there that 774 00:38:48,160 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 1: might give you some type of yeast infectualism, but it's 775 00:38:51,200 --> 00:38:58,680 Speaker 1: all natural, I don't think. I mean, why is your 776 00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 1: coochie paint like why? I think they said it helps 777 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:07,360 Speaker 1: with your like intensifies your orgasm or something like that. Okay, Andrewa, 778 00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:09,279 Speaker 1: you're trying and let us know. I feel like it's 779 00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:11,600 Speaker 1: gonna make the pussy lazy or some ship. And it's 780 00:39:11,640 --> 00:39:23,120 Speaker 1: like not gonna work right, Like, what's happening here? I 781 00:39:23,200 --> 00:39:29,400 Speaker 1: swear I got CBD O. It's not me. Well listen, 782 00:39:29,520 --> 00:39:30,880 Speaker 1: is there anything else you want to make sure we 783 00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:32,400 Speaker 1: know about? Because you have so much going on. I 784 00:39:32,400 --> 00:39:35,040 Speaker 1: don't even know much. Yeah, I don't even we got 785 00:39:35,080 --> 00:39:36,960 Speaker 1: to all of it because if they're a season two 786 00:39:37,040 --> 00:39:39,120 Speaker 1: of your show, because that's that's what I wanted to 787 00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:41,759 Speaker 1: know to because not only did we really like the show, 788 00:39:42,040 --> 00:39:44,600 Speaker 1: we are actually network mates I have a show that's 789 00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:47,279 Speaker 1: on we TV as well, Beyond the phole Um, and 790 00:39:47,320 --> 00:39:49,680 Speaker 1: we just wrapped our season two, so I'm definitely wondering 791 00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:51,920 Speaker 1: if you're gonna have a season two for The Real 792 00:39:51,960 --> 00:39:54,240 Speaker 1: Black and you got a double check for that, Zeus 793 00:39:54,320 --> 00:40:00,719 Speaker 1: and we TV right a little bit, so I mean, 794 00:40:00,760 --> 00:40:04,200 Speaker 1: I am, but like, honestly, I want to cut out 795 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:07,120 Speaker 1: more stuff like my music and show like a different side. 796 00:40:07,640 --> 00:40:10,440 Speaker 1: But honestly, like through like the first season, I'm glad 797 00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:14,239 Speaker 1: I wouldn't change nothing at all. It was like my 798 00:40:14,320 --> 00:40:16,520 Speaker 1: real life, you know, to my own regretting nothing that 799 00:40:16,600 --> 00:40:19,160 Speaker 1: I do and whatnot. We just like I just learned 800 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,919 Speaker 1: from it, you know. But as far as like season two, 801 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,160 Speaker 1: I want to get things like more in rotation, especially 802 00:40:25,160 --> 00:40:27,960 Speaker 1: like I feel like everything with the COVID stuff, you know. 803 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,719 Speaker 1: I want to show like my relationships and like my 804 00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:33,640 Speaker 1: you know, my friendships and showing people how to be 805 00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:36,359 Speaker 1: you know, a better friend and like my like it's 806 00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:39,120 Speaker 1: just like the other side, like they just solid side 807 00:40:39,120 --> 00:40:42,839 Speaker 1: of me, not just not just running and just doing 808 00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:45,080 Speaker 1: this and doing that and like being pulled every which 809 00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:48,560 Speaker 1: away because I'm trying to make sure everybody else is good. 810 00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:51,880 Speaker 1: But just like solely focusing on like the core center 811 00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:54,880 Speaker 1: of myself. So I definitely think it's definitely gonna be 812 00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:58,480 Speaker 1: a season two already um started filming for it so far. 813 00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,440 Speaker 1: How do you an agent? A Brad hook Up? Oh? 814 00:41:01,520 --> 00:41:04,040 Speaker 1: Me an Asian? Shoot. We've been first for a long time, 815 00:41:04,920 --> 00:41:06,640 Speaker 1: for a long time. And then I would like even 816 00:41:06,640 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 1: play with my music. She's like, you gotta drop this, 817 00:41:09,520 --> 00:41:11,520 Speaker 1: you gotta drop this. I'm like, oh no, I'm not ready. 818 00:41:11,560 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: I'm not ready. Up, You've been ready. You got some 819 00:41:14,760 --> 00:41:18,200 Speaker 1: fire music, like even the stuff that you haven't released it. 820 00:41:18,320 --> 00:41:21,000 Speaker 1: I was privy to hear yeah in Houston, Like what 821 00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:22,759 Speaker 1: was he like? Running back? I want to hear that again. 822 00:41:22,800 --> 00:41:25,200 Speaker 1: He was in the product I was playing. I actually 823 00:41:25,200 --> 00:41:27,080 Speaker 1: had a producer hit me up and be like, you know, 824 00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,680 Speaker 1: Black China is really dope, by the way, like I've 825 00:41:29,680 --> 00:41:34,319 Speaker 1: been working with her. Yeah, so that's just that's send 826 00:41:34,400 --> 00:41:38,880 Speaker 1: us to mine. This seems ahead well. Hit Maker definitely 827 00:41:38,960 --> 00:41:41,840 Speaker 1: spoke very highly of your music. I know y'all had 828 00:41:41,920 --> 00:41:44,160 Speaker 1: some kind of an issue at some point in time, 829 00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:47,600 Speaker 1: but he did and still does. I believe always back 830 00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,879 Speaker 1: the fact that you have some good music. That's one 831 00:41:49,920 --> 00:41:53,600 Speaker 1: thing I haven't Karamiah Yo Gotti on the song you know? 832 00:41:54,080 --> 00:41:56,800 Speaker 1: Oh yeah right, um actually had did that's that was 833 00:41:56,840 --> 00:41:59,120 Speaker 1: actually in two thousand and seventeen two when I first 834 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:02,680 Speaker 1: came out. So just like from acting like here the 835 00:42:02,840 --> 00:42:06,920 Speaker 1: growth and like from then to now it is way better, 836 00:42:07,320 --> 00:42:09,200 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, because like it's one thing 837 00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:11,440 Speaker 1: to just go to them. I can say something, but 838 00:42:11,520 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 1: you really like gotta like make people feel it just 839 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:17,480 Speaker 1: through the headphones with all of them, even seeing something 840 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:20,440 Speaker 1: in that park there. Like I think it's like a 841 00:42:20,480 --> 00:42:22,239 Speaker 1: work in progress for me, you know what I mean. 842 00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:24,239 Speaker 1: I'm gonna keep doing it, you know, even when I 843 00:42:24,280 --> 00:42:26,480 Speaker 1: feel like I'm not all the way a hundred in 844 00:42:26,560 --> 00:42:28,600 Speaker 1: confident because even I might cut a song and I 845 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,200 Speaker 1: have to we like cut it like maybe four or 846 00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:33,720 Speaker 1: five times, U til it's like all the way right, 847 00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,319 Speaker 1: you know. But I really I really like it though, 848 00:42:36,400 --> 00:42:39,520 Speaker 1: because like it's something that I feel like nobody could 849 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:41,719 Speaker 1: like just come and like take from me, you know, 850 00:42:41,880 --> 00:42:43,440 Speaker 1: as ho as I start my own label so I 851 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:46,680 Speaker 1: could put out stuff whenever I want. You know, Honny, 852 00:42:46,760 --> 00:42:49,480 Speaker 1: I told you she gets to the money. Remember when 853 00:42:49,520 --> 00:42:51,399 Speaker 1: cash I was on lip Step, but she said being 854 00:42:51,400 --> 00:42:53,719 Speaker 1: a stripper actually gave her the confidence to become an 855 00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:57,320 Speaker 1: artist too. Oh really yeah, that's so yeah, like to 856 00:42:57,360 --> 00:42:59,080 Speaker 1: be able to get on stage. And just because she 857 00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,439 Speaker 1: said before that she is really nervous and like kind 858 00:43:01,440 --> 00:43:04,160 Speaker 1: of shy and man not give a funk at that's 859 00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,239 Speaker 1: certain point, you know, she felt like she conquered fear. Really, 860 00:43:07,400 --> 00:43:08,879 Speaker 1: you know what I think, you know what I think. 861 00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,240 Speaker 1: I haven't an the shows yet, but I honestly think 862 00:43:11,280 --> 00:43:14,920 Speaker 1: if somebody comes to see my show, that would automatically 863 00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,320 Speaker 1: not make me feel nervous because they're going another stones 864 00:43:18,680 --> 00:43:20,399 Speaker 1: because they know I don't think I hate it would 865 00:43:20,400 --> 00:43:26,080 Speaker 1: come pop up at your show. Yeah, and there'll be 866 00:43:26,120 --> 00:43:29,680 Speaker 1: a few of they hate. Has been the biggest fans man, 867 00:43:29,920 --> 00:43:31,919 Speaker 1: just like they kind of a page they hate, right, 868 00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: So it's kind of why do you follow me? Yeah, 869 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:37,080 Speaker 1: I mean if you wanta pay for a ticket? They 870 00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:43,080 Speaker 1: hate words, that's true. Are you gonna do my actual album? 871 00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,479 Speaker 1: Are you gonna just do singles? I think I'm gonna 872 00:43:45,480 --> 00:43:48,080 Speaker 1: do singles until like I figure out, you know what 873 00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,160 Speaker 1: I mean, like what's like the best next steps and 874 00:43:51,239 --> 00:43:53,440 Speaker 1: things like that. So and then I want people to 875 00:43:53,480 --> 00:43:55,640 Speaker 1: really like kind of like get used to my voice 876 00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:58,080 Speaker 1: and and kind of like just take me more serious 877 00:43:58,200 --> 00:44:01,440 Speaker 1: or stuff. But and then I mean as far as 878 00:44:01,440 --> 00:44:03,439 Speaker 1: like with the COVID, I mean it's already put out 879 00:44:04,000 --> 00:44:06,359 Speaker 1: four songs already, and then I'm gonna continue to put 880 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:07,920 Speaker 1: out more. So when I do go to a show, 881 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:11,960 Speaker 1: will be like just one song, right, and be multiple 882 00:44:12,000 --> 00:44:14,560 Speaker 1: songs shoul. At this point, all it takes is that 883 00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:18,080 Speaker 1: one song though, so right, that's the that's the starting point. 884 00:44:18,640 --> 00:44:22,520 Speaker 1: Have you ever heard anybody with your nails in the bedroom. No, 885 00:44:23,080 --> 00:44:27,400 Speaker 1: I'm so used to now everybody like, how do you 886 00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,759 Speaker 1: get a hand job like they get? They give me 887 00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:37,239 Speaker 1: like superpowers? Whoa super hand job? They look massive when 888 00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,839 Speaker 1: it's camera lying a lot, but you know what, they 889 00:44:40,920 --> 00:44:43,200 Speaker 1: probably be so nervous, they just be stiff, like, oh 890 00:44:43,200 --> 00:44:49,120 Speaker 1: my gosh, she's about it all right. Well, Black Tidded, 891 00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,200 Speaker 1: thank you so much for joining us and for being 892 00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:53,880 Speaker 1: like you've been so on point where everything. So congratulations 893 00:44:53,880 --> 00:44:56,920 Speaker 1: because people might have like some preconceived notion, but you 894 00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,480 Speaker 1: really work super hard. You really are entre preneurs and 895 00:45:00,560 --> 00:45:03,120 Speaker 1: have so many different businesses going on. Your voice does 896 00:45:03,160 --> 00:45:04,919 Speaker 1: sound good on your music. I was saying, you got 897 00:45:04,920 --> 00:45:09,040 Speaker 1: that Mariah Carey singing type of boys. Let me look, 898 00:45:09,280 --> 00:45:13,279 Speaker 1: don't you sound you can hear somebody talk and they 899 00:45:13,400 --> 00:45:15,919 Speaker 1: got that scratchy boys. You have it to laur y'all, 900 00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,760 Speaker 1: but I thought she was about to hit that. Yeah, 901 00:45:20,120 --> 00:45:22,520 Speaker 1: so it sounds good, but listen, it's dope everything that 902 00:45:22,560 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 1: you've been accomplishing. So we're gonna make sure whatever you 903 00:45:24,680 --> 00:45:28,440 Speaker 1: need us for, we're here to support you. Thank you guys. 904 00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. I'll have to send me. 905 00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna send y'all on the package of the tvd 906 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:39,480 Speaker 1: Oh what's yeah? Yeah, um, so I don't know if 907 00:45:39,520 --> 00:45:44,319 Speaker 1: y'all could do. I don't know, however, which way number right? Yeah, 908 00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,560 Speaker 1: and I know you have listen. I'll put it in 909 00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:54,680 Speaker 1: my vagina. See if it works that way, Angela give 910 00:45:54,719 --> 00:46:01,759 Speaker 1: her that lazy pussy guy. That is so funny, hilarious. 911 00:46:02,160 --> 00:46:05,520 Speaker 1: Thank you Black China Live Service. Thank you guys so much. 912 00:46:06,120 --> 00:46:07,839 Speaker 1: See all right,