Speaker 1: Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so
Speaker 1: much for being here. We don't normally do this, but
Speaker 1: you are really special to us. So Jose is going
Speaker 1: to give out his personal phone number right now.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay if you need to call him, so text
Speaker 2: seven eight nine two.
Speaker 3: Okay, show's textboard.
Speaker 4: If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it
Speaker 4: all night long.
Speaker 3: Okay. Yeah, so you're on it more than your own
Speaker 3: phone texting. Basically, I mean it's a better way to
Speaker 3: reach him. That's all we're saying. And don't forget.
Speaker 1: We've got forty five more minutes a full show, an
Speaker 1: hour long.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, can you take that much?
Speaker 1: If you want it, go for it. It's over at
Speaker 1: the Brook and Jeffrey main podcast feed. But right now
Speaker 1: we're all about the second Date, so.
Speaker 3: Let's get it started.
Speaker 4: Second Date up dated.
Speaker 2: Normally, when we do these second date calls, people are
Speaker 2: asking for help with the person they went out with
Speaker 2: a few days ago, maybe a couple of weeks back,
Speaker 2: sometimes even up to a month. Yeah, and they're disappointed
Speaker 2: the other person isn't responding. But one of our listeners,
Speaker 2: Bo says he wants to reconnect with a girl through
Speaker 2: us that he hasn't seen or spoken to in almost
Speaker 2: two years. WHOA, So this is probably going to be interesting.
Speaker 2: I'm curious to know what the story is. Yeah, bo,
Speaker 2: welcome to the show.
Speaker 5: Hey, thanks guys.
Speaker 2: Now, I understand playing hard to get, but it's a
Speaker 2: little extreme.
Speaker 1: So you guys wait two days to call I wait
Speaker 1: two years.
Speaker 4: Well I wait that long to reach out.
Speaker 5: Well, let me give you a little bit of background. Okay,
Speaker 5: So this happened when I was on vacation in Mexico
Speaker 5: two years ago, and she was also on vacation. She
Speaker 5: was there with a friend. I was there with a
Speaker 5: group of buddies. It was a cabo and the whole
Speaker 5: place kind of had these like spring break vibes.
Speaker 2: Okay, so this is already a lot different than a
Speaker 2: lot of the second days where we do where people
Speaker 2: are meeting on apps and stuff.
Speaker 4: You're meeting on a spring break basically.
Speaker 5: Yeah. So we go into this one bar and I
Speaker 5: see these two girls that are sitting down at the
Speaker 5: other end of the bar. One of them I thought
Speaker 5: was really cute. They seemed like kind of out of
Speaker 5: place because they weren't partying like crazy like everybody else boo.
Speaker 3: Yeah. So they were entering the wet t shirt contest.
Speaker 3: They were just taure themselves.
Speaker 5: They were having a cocktail. They were being chill, you know,
Speaker 5: and I like that because I wasn't going too hard either.
Speaker 3: Jeff so bored right now.
Speaker 2: Well, now someone has to babysit. I understand you responsible people.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, that's a good point too. So did you
Speaker 3: go talk to him? I assume, yeah.
Speaker 5: Yeah, So I go over there, I sit down and
Speaker 5: start talking to Sheila. Yeah, and we sort of bonded
Speaker 5: over that we were both the two lame ones in
Speaker 5: this crazy groom.
Speaker 4: It's kind of funny.
Speaker 5: So we talk, you know, we learned like where we're from,
Speaker 5: and like it turns out we're staying at the same hotel.
Speaker 1: Okay, whoa are you guys from the same city or no?
Speaker 3: I mean, are we going to try to get a
Speaker 3: hold of her across the country.
Speaker 5: She's from a different state. She's from a different state.
Speaker 3: Oh okay, interesting, Okay.
Speaker 5: I don't know what I was thinking. I was just
Speaker 5: I was into this girl, and so I told her
Speaker 5: my room number. We part ways stay good night. Middle
Speaker 5: of the night, he calls my room.
Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly what you were hoping for me.
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, but it didn't turn out that way. So
Speaker 5: she called the room. She is freaking out. Why, he
Speaker 5: tells me there's like these drunk dudes that are banging
Speaker 5: on her door and scaring her and a friend.
Speaker 3: Oh my god, that's scary. Yeah.
Speaker 5: So I get dressed, I go to her room.
Speaker 4: You went good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, you're just gonna go back to bed.
Speaker 4: I'm not going to intervene. I'm gonna get like hotel
Speaker 4: security or something. I don't want to get involved.
Speaker 3: That is a smart thing to do, is hotel security.
Speaker 1: One dude against a group of men, like, you're not
Speaker 1: gonna do jack.
Speaker 3: Like that.
Speaker 2: How many bones did you break bo when you went
Speaker 2: and tried to stop the drunk guys?
Speaker 5: Well, no bones were broken. There were. There were like
Speaker 5: four or five dudes, and they were just being told.
Speaker 5: I guess that they'd like seen them earlier in the
Speaker 5: day in the room, and.
Speaker 3: They were scary.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was super weird. So I go down and
Speaker 5: I tell them to get the hell out of there.
Speaker 5: They did.
Speaker 4: They left nice.
Speaker 3: Okay, I bet she was so grateful. Did you talk
Speaker 3: to her?
Speaker 5: She was, yeah, you know, she of course heard the
Speaker 5: whole thing. Through the doors. She liked that, and she
Speaker 5: asked she could come back to my room. She did,
Speaker 5: and then we ended up making out.
Speaker 2: Yeah you did, You're a hero.
Speaker 5: It was a good makeout, Sesson. But that's it. That's
Speaker 5: all we did.
Speaker 4: Okay, that's cute.
Speaker 5: So I got her number and that was it. But
Speaker 5: the thing is, I didn't see her the rest of
Speaker 5: the trip at all, Like I tried, but either she
Speaker 5: wasn't in a room when I tried calling a room,
Speaker 5: or she didn't. She never texts to be back. And
Speaker 5: I called her one time after I got back home
Speaker 5: and she didn't pick up and I left her voicemail
Speaker 5: and that was that. And I was two years ago.
Speaker 3: Are you sure she was single?
Speaker 1: You know, like she got wrapped up in the moment
Speaker 1: she only kissed you, and then she was just like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I did something terrible that.
Speaker 4: Happened on Brooks last Mexican and my husband.
Speaker 3: Was with me.
Speaker 4: Yes, awkward.
Speaker 3: Did you ask her if she was single?
Speaker 5: Well, no, No, it just sort of assumed if she wasn't,
Speaker 5: she wasn't going to do anything.
Speaker 6: Two years now, so even if she got single, she's and.
Speaker 4: I think the rule in Cancun is everybody is single.
Speaker 3: He was in Cabo.
Speaker 4: Oh well that's a different that's a whole different business.
Speaker 3: Yeah, they have a different rules.
Speaker 2: This is crazy, though, because you haven't seen or spoken
Speaker 2: to her in two years, and now we're going to
Speaker 2: reach out randomly out of the blue to see if
Speaker 2: she remembers you.
Speaker 3: Yeah, how are we going to say? Like Nick from Cobo?
Speaker 3: Do you think that's it?
Speaker 5: Well, yeah, his name's Bo, so that maybe she also
Speaker 5: had a Nick in Cobo. Maybe that's why she's calling.
Speaker 2: Oh no, she's like, oh my god, love, that's the
Speaker 2: one that Brooke made out with on her family Vaca.
Speaker 5: Sorry, okay, no, I you know, look, I know it's
Speaker 5: a long shot. It was so long ago, but I
Speaker 5: figure if anybody can do it, you guys can.
Speaker 3: So okay. And she wasn't drinking, so she should remember.
Speaker 3: I think she was drinking. She wasn't drinking as hard.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it wasn't like that.
Speaker 5: She wasn't crazy like that.
Speaker 4: She was No, she was just injecting stuff. It was fine.
Speaker 4: So we're gonna come back.
Speaker 2: We'll call Sheila and try and get you your second
Speaker 2: date update two years after you last saw her, right
Speaker 2: after this she's still in right now.
Speaker 4: Hold on second date update.
Speaker 1: You're in the middle of a second date update update,
Speaker 1: and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing
Speaker 1: right after you here Part two.
Speaker 2: For most young single people, a trip to Tabo is
Speaker 2: all about tequila shops, wet t shirt contests.
Speaker 4: Getting your wallet stolen on the beach, right one.
Speaker 3: But I have my passport in that.
Speaker 2: She's not an authentic Mexican trip if you're not robbed somehow.
Speaker 2: But that wasn't the case for our listener Bo. The
Speaker 2: only things from him was his heart when he met
Speaker 2: a woman.
Speaker 4: Named Sheila at a bar there two years ago.
Speaker 2: And the craziest part, they were both sober when this
Speaker 2: all happened.
Speaker 3: Sober ish, Jeff. They both were drinking cocktails. They just
Speaker 3: weren't as wasted as their friends.
Speaker 2: Even still, that's shocking, and BoA's thought about her ever
Speaker 2: since that trip has never been able to reach her.
Speaker 2: That's why he wants us to try and do it
Speaker 2: for him today.
Speaker 1: I don't know that we asked what motivated you to
Speaker 1: finally take this step.
Speaker 5: I'm not getting any younger.
Speaker 4: Tell her that destination hits us all at some point.
Speaker 2: Okay, we're just gonna go with the more romantic version
Speaker 2: of that story you have. Yeah, okay, here we go.
Speaker 2: I'm dialing Sheila right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking for Sheila.
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, this is she who's calling.
Speaker 4: It's okay. You don't have to be afraid.
Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. This would be such a weird
Speaker 3: call to get.
Speaker 2: We're just a friendly morning radio show called Brook and
Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the Morning.
Speaker 3: Hey, Sheila, Hey, uh hi.
Speaker 2: We're trying to help out one of our listeners with
Speaker 2: a segment called second Date Update.
Speaker 4: Okay, okay, and this is.
Speaker 2: A guy that you met two years ago on a
Speaker 2: trip to Mexico.
Speaker 3: While she says, wow, yeah, you're in Cabo.
Speaker 7: Yeah that was that was a long time ago. Who oh,
Speaker 7: oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 4: So there's this guy named Bo that a little bit.
Speaker 7: Oh my god. Yes, that was such a long time ago.
Speaker 6: I hadn't really thought about this guy forever.
Speaker 1: Oh that's okay, Well now you're thinking about him now.
Speaker 3: You sound you sound happy that the memory.
Speaker 7: Kind of, but like, so much has happened since then. Okay, okay,
Speaker 7: what is this about.
Speaker 2: Well, this whole segment is about seeing if you remembered
Speaker 2: Bo because I don't know if you know this, but
Speaker 2: after your trip ended, both said, he tried to reach you.
Speaker 8: Right right, Yeah, But like back then, everything was so complicated.
Speaker 3: I mean it you were in a relationship, weren't you.
Speaker 7: I was engaged at the time.
Speaker 1: Oh god, Oh my god, girl, Wait does that when
Speaker 1: you're married?
Speaker 3: Are you married? No?
Speaker 7: I was engaged with two guys actually at the same time,
Speaker 7: so casually, okay.
Speaker 6: So like back then, I was a hot met and
Speaker 6: I did a study abroad in Italy and I met
Speaker 6: this guy and we hit it off and he ended
Speaker 6: up proposing, and I said yes because I felt bad.
Speaker 3: Oh wow, you said yes because you felt bad?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yes, I mean I was leaving and I was like, yeah,
Speaker 6: I'll marry you, and then, you.
Speaker 7: Know, I laughed, and then I never talked to him again.
Speaker 2: Oh that's one proposal. How did the where is the
Speaker 2: second proposal?
Speaker 8: So I leave Italy and I go home to my
Speaker 8: other boyfriend.
Speaker 7: I guess you.
Speaker 8: Missed me, and he proposed and I, you know, I
Speaker 8: said yes.
Speaker 6: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Wow. So then you went Tacabbo while you're engaged to
Speaker 1: two men and made out with Bo.
Speaker 8: Yes, which made things even more complicated, and I felt
Speaker 8: so horrible about it.
Speaker 2: Well, yeah, you're lucky Bowden proposed to you, because you
Speaker 2: probably would have said yes to that too.
Speaker 6: Maybe maybe in my life.
Speaker 3: So wait, did you end up getting married to anyone?
Speaker 8: I know they both fell through like karma eventually caught
Speaker 8: up to me.
Speaker 7: I guess.
Speaker 2: Wait, okay, so what's your relationship status now?
Speaker 7: I'm dating someone.
Speaker 2: It's nothing serious, just casual relationship with my husband.
Speaker 4: It's like, not that scenious.
Speaker 1: It's hard, I mean, honestly though, it's hard to trust you.
Speaker 7: Yeah, it is, I guess, But I told you the truth.
Speaker 7: I'm an open book.
Speaker 2: Now, Okay, why would you make up all that embarrassing
Speaker 2: stuff about yourself?
Speaker 5: I believer?
Speaker 2: Yeah, well you know what, that is definitely kind of
Speaker 2: an embarrassing story. It's nice that you were able to
Speaker 2: tell us the truth here. So now it's our turn
Speaker 2: to tell you the truth. The truth is we want
Speaker 2: to help you bring back some of your past right now,
Speaker 2: by that terrible fling, bow is on the phone right now,
Speaker 2: listening to this conversation, wanting to talk to you.
Speaker 7: All right, should I hang up.
Speaker 5: Here?
Speaker 4: Are you there?
Speaker 5: I am here?
Speaker 1: Yes, But you're acted like BO is going to be
Speaker 1: excited after hearing all of that, Like.
Speaker 4: Yeah, Bo, that was that was a lot.
Speaker 5: Uh So let me get this straight. So when we
Speaker 5: hung out two years ago, you were engaged to two
Speaker 5: different guys, one of whom you weren't even really talking
Speaker 5: to anymore.
Speaker 7: Well, right, I'm no longer talking to any of them.
Speaker 7: But Hi, by the way, Hi, it's.
Speaker 5: Very good to hear your voice. And I really like
Speaker 5: hanging out with you. And I know it's crazy because,
Speaker 5: like you said, literally all we did was make out
Speaker 5: one night. But I just I can't. I can't stop
Speaker 5: thinking about you. And uh, I guess.
Speaker 7: You're still thinking about me?
Speaker 3: Did you just laugh?
Speaker 5: Wait? Of night? And I mean, but like, can I
Speaker 5: ask did you even like me?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 5: Were you actually into me? Or was this just a
Speaker 5: nothing thing?
Speaker 7: Or I mean I liked you enough to make out
Speaker 7: with you? I mean, this is a lot right now.
Speaker 2: It's hard because you were You weren't just the other guy, Bo,
Speaker 2: you were the other other guys.
Speaker 6: Yeah, you were, you were mister right now, you know
Speaker 6: what I mean.
Speaker 4: It hurts so bad, but it's true.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 7: It's really sweet of you. I I thought about.
Speaker 2: You, and he's gone, like he's gone through all of
Speaker 2: this effort reaching out to our show that this is
Speaker 2: a pretty complicated process in order to get this done.
Speaker 4: Well, think about it.
Speaker 2: He kept her number for years just in case, hoping
Speaker 2: he could use it.
Speaker 1: Number who deletes a contact? I mean that happened, friend.
Speaker 5: I mean sorry, I guess I was just gonna sort
Speaker 5: of ask Sheila, you know, I mean I I did
Speaker 5: take in the fact that you were single. Yes, that
Speaker 5: did register with me, and.
Speaker 3: I yeah, it wasn't like fully single.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I guess in this whole scenario, kind of single
Speaker 5: is essentially single.
Speaker 1: Yeah, taboe casually in a relationship?
Speaker 4: Sure, no, no, no single Baker.
Speaker 5: I guess I was just gonna say, like, this whole
Speaker 5: thing has been the biggest long shot ever. And I
Speaker 5: know we don't live in the same city and all that,
Speaker 5: and I don't know about logistics or any of that stuff,
Speaker 5: but like, would you be open to like some kind
Speaker 5: of a long distance.
Speaker 2: Dating thing, And if you're open to that idea of
Speaker 2: possibly making it work, then we would love to help
Speaker 2: facilitate that by paying for your official first date, I mean,
Speaker 2: not the fause.
Speaker 1: I've also been told long distance relationships don't need too
Speaker 1: much trust.
Speaker 3: It's very might be just their type.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Sheila, you've had two failed proposals, but the third
Speaker 2: times the charm is what they say.
Speaker 3: Rush to that.
Speaker 4: Okay, She'll say yes.
Speaker 1: Yeah, lesser casual relationship proposes first.
Speaker 7: You know what I say, Let's give it a shot.
Speaker 3: I bet.
Speaker 4: Fanusiastic. Yeah good, I'd like to follow up. So we're
Speaker 4: getting rid of the side guy right by.
Speaker 7: The time we go on a day, he'll be history.
Speaker 7: Don't worry about it.
Speaker 5: The great. Thank you guys.
Speaker 2: Congratulations Bo, you're mister right now again.
Speaker 4: Yah'll take it.
Speaker 3: Take freaking Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 2: Last we left Sheila and Bow they were talking about
Speaker 2: trying a long distance relationship once she was free from
Speaker 2: all of the other men that she was actively dating
Speaker 2: and engaged too.
Speaker 1: Honestly, out of all the update updates we've done, I
Speaker 1: am most shocked that they're on the phone with us
Speaker 1: right now.
Speaker 4: It's crazy.
Speaker 3: It would have never Wow.
Speaker 4: So Sheila and Bow are back. Where are you guys
Speaker 4: at now?
Speaker 7: Where divorced?
Speaker 1: You married and divorced in the time since we've talked
Speaker 1: to you.
Speaker 8: Yes, actually we went back to Cabo where we met
Speaker 8: and we had a couple of wild nights and we
Speaker 8: got hitched.
Speaker 3: Wait is he on the phone too?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm here honestly to be totally frank with you.
Speaker 5: I don't know what the hell is going on, but
Speaker 5: I'm into it.
Speaker 4: Are you guys completely separated?
Speaker 5: No?
Speaker 7: No, no, no, no no.
Speaker 8: We we came back from Hobo.
Speaker 5: I realized that too soon.
Speaker 7: Yeah yeah, yeah, we jumped into it too soon. But
Speaker 7: you know, we're still men with each other. We're still dating.
Speaker 4: Okay, so you.
Speaker 2: Met him well, engaged to someone else, broke up with them,
Speaker 2: married and then divorced bo, and now you're happily dating
Speaker 2: each other.
Speaker 3: I think was engaged to two people.
Speaker 4: Okay, engaged to multiple other people.
Speaker 7: I mean, no need to bring that up.
Speaker 5: But okay, I mean technically she was now engaged to
Speaker 5: three people.
Speaker 4: You know, the relationship is all over the place.
Speaker 7: I mean, it's it's our story. It's not for everyone,
Speaker 7: you know, it's okay.
Speaker 1: I gotta say, it's gonna be great at any sort
Speaker 1: of dinner party.
Speaker 7: Absolutely, yeah.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean other than that, it's your normal boy
Speaker 2: meets girls story. But you know, thank you for taking
Speaker 2: the time to come on.
Speaker 4: And give us an update. You two and divorce in
Speaker 4: the marriage.
Speaker 2: Do you have an open invite to like the next
Speaker 2: wedding or divorce or whatever, like just something's gonna happen
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 8: Like they're not very playing.
Speaker 1: It's brooken Jeffrey in the Morning, Brook and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the Morning,