WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE: Cabo Single

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, welcome to the Second Date Podcast. Thank you so

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<v Speaker 1>much for being here. We don't normally do this, but

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<v Speaker 1>you are really special to us. So Jose is going

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<v Speaker 1>to give out his personal phone number right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay if you need to call him, so text

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<v Speaker 2>seven eight nine two.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, show's textboard.

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<v Speaker 4>If you're lonely, you can text us. I'm on it

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<v Speaker 4>all night long.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay. Yeah, so you're on it more than your own

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<v Speaker 3>phone texting. Basically, I mean it's a better way to

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<v Speaker 3>reach him. That's all we're saying. And don't forget.

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<v Speaker 1>We've got forty five more minutes a full show, an

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<v Speaker 1>hour long.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, can you take that much?

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<v Speaker 1>If you want it, go for it. It's over at

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<v Speaker 1>the Brook and Jeffrey main podcast feed. But right now

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<v Speaker 1>we're all about the second Date, so.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's get it started.

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<v Speaker 4>Second Date up dated.

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<v Speaker 2>Normally, when we do these second date calls, people are

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<v Speaker 2>asking for help with the person they went out with

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<v Speaker 2>a few days ago, maybe a couple of weeks back,

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<v Speaker 2>sometimes even up to a month. Yeah, and they're disappointed

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<v Speaker 2>the other person isn't responding. But one of our listeners,

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<v Speaker 2>Bo says he wants to reconnect with a girl through

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<v Speaker 2>us that he hasn't seen or spoken to in almost

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<v Speaker 2>two years. WHOA, So this is probably going to be interesting.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm curious to know what the story is. Yeah, bo,

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<v Speaker 2>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, thanks guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, I understand playing hard to get, but it's a

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<v Speaker 2>little extreme.

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<v Speaker 1>So you guys wait two days to call I wait

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<v Speaker 1>two years.

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<v Speaker 4>Well I wait that long to reach out.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, let me give you a little bit of background. Okay,

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<v Speaker 5>So this happened when I was on vacation in Mexico

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<v Speaker 5>two years ago, and she was also on vacation. She

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<v Speaker 5>was there with a friend. I was there with a

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<v Speaker 5>group of buddies. It was a cabo and the whole

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<v Speaker 5>place kind of had these like spring break vibes.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so this is already a lot different than a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of the second days where we do where people

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<v Speaker 2>are meeting on apps and stuff.

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<v Speaker 4>You're meeting on a spring break basically.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. So we go into this one bar and I

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<v Speaker 5>see these two girls that are sitting down at the

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<v Speaker 5>other end of the bar. One of them I thought

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<v Speaker 5>was really cute. They seemed like kind of out of

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<v Speaker 5>place because they weren't partying like crazy like everybody else boo.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. So they were entering the wet t shirt contest.

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<v Speaker 3>They were just taure themselves.

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<v Speaker 5>They were having a cocktail. They were being chill, you know,

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<v Speaker 5>and I like that because I wasn't going too hard either.

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<v Speaker 3>Jeff so bored right now.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, now someone has to babysit. I understand you responsible people.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, that's a good point too. So did you

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<v Speaker 3>go talk to him? I assume, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, So I go over there, I sit down and

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<v Speaker 5>start talking to Sheila. Yeah, and we sort of bonded

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<v Speaker 5>over that we were both the two lame ones in

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<v Speaker 5>this crazy groom.

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<v Speaker 4>It's kind of funny.

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<v Speaker 5>So we talk, you know, we learned like where we're from,

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<v Speaker 5>and like it turns out we're staying at the same hotel.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, whoa are you guys from the same city or no?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, are we going to try to get a

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<v Speaker 3>hold of her across the country.

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<v Speaker 5>She's from a different state. She's from a different state.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh okay, interesting, Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what I was thinking. I was just

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<v Speaker 5>I was into this girl, and so I told her

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<v Speaker 5>my room number. We part ways stay good night. Middle

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<v Speaker 5>of the night, he calls my room.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, exactly what you were hoping for me.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, but it didn't turn out that way. So

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<v Speaker 5>she called the room. She is freaking out. Why, he

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<v Speaker 5>tells me there's like these drunk dudes that are banging

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<v Speaker 5>on her door and scaring her and a friend.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my god, that's scary. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So I get dressed, I go to her room.

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<v Speaker 4>You went good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, you're just gonna go back to bed.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not going to intervene. I'm gonna get like hotel

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<v Speaker 4>security or something. I don't want to get involved.

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<v Speaker 3>That is a smart thing to do, is hotel security.

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<v Speaker 1>One dude against a group of men, like, you're not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do jack.

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<v Speaker 3>Like that.

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<v Speaker 2>How many bones did you break bo when you went

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<v Speaker 2>and tried to stop the drunk guys?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, no bones were broken. There were. There were like

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<v Speaker 5>four or five dudes, and they were just being told.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess that they'd like seen them earlier in the

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<v Speaker 5>day in the room, and.

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<v Speaker 3>They were scary.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was super weird. So I go down and

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<v Speaker 5>I tell them to get the hell out of there.

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<v Speaker 5>They did.

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<v Speaker 4>They left nice.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I bet she was so grateful. Did you talk

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<v Speaker 3>to her?

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<v Speaker 5>She was, yeah, you know, she of course heard the

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<v Speaker 5>whole thing. Through the doors. She liked that, and she

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<v Speaker 5>asked she could come back to my room. She did,

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<v Speaker 5>and then we ended up making out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah you did, You're a hero.

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<v Speaker 5>It was a good makeout, Sesson. But that's it. That's

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<v Speaker 5>all we did.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, that's cute.

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<v Speaker 5>So I got her number and that was it. But

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<v Speaker 5>the thing is, I didn't see her the rest of

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<v Speaker 5>the trip at all, Like I tried, but either she

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<v Speaker 5>wasn't in a room when I tried calling a room,

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<v Speaker 5>or she didn't. She never texts to be back. And

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<v Speaker 5>I called her one time after I got back home

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<v Speaker 5>and she didn't pick up and I left her voicemail

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<v Speaker 5>and that was that. And I was two years ago.

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<v Speaker 3>Are you sure she was single?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, like she got wrapped up in the moment

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<v Speaker 1>she only kissed you, and then she was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I did something terrible that.

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<v Speaker 4>Happened on Brooks last Mexican and my husband.

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<v Speaker 3>Was with me.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, awkward.

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<v Speaker 3>Did you ask her if she was single?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, no, No, it just sort of assumed if she wasn't,

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<v Speaker 5>she wasn't going to do anything.

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<v Speaker 6>Two years now, so even if she got single, she's and.

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<v Speaker 4>I think the rule in Cancun is everybody is single.

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<v Speaker 3>He was in Cabo.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh well that's a different that's a whole different business.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, they have a different rules.

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<v Speaker 2>This is crazy, though, because you haven't seen or spoken

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<v Speaker 2>to her in two years, and now we're going to

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<v Speaker 2>reach out randomly out of the blue to see if

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<v Speaker 2>she remembers you.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, how are we going to say? Like Nick from Cobo?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you think that's it?

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<v Speaker 5>Well, yeah, his name's Bo, so that maybe she also

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<v Speaker 5>had a Nick in Cobo. Maybe that's why she's calling.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, she's like, oh my god, love, that's the

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<v Speaker 2>one that Brooke made out with on her family Vaca.

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry, okay, no, I you know, look, I know it's

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<v Speaker 5>a long shot. It was so long ago, but I

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<v Speaker 5>figure if anybody can do it, you guys can.

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<v Speaker 3>So okay. And she wasn't drinking, so she should remember.

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<v Speaker 3>I think she was drinking. She wasn't drinking as hard.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, it wasn't like that.

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<v Speaker 5>She wasn't crazy like that.

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<v Speaker 4>She was No, she was just injecting stuff. It was fine.

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<v Speaker 4>So we're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 2>We'll call Sheila and try and get you your second

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<v Speaker 2>date update two years after you last saw her, right

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<v Speaker 2>after this she's still in right now.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>You're in the middle of a second date update update,

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<v Speaker 1>and we're gonna find out how the couple is doing

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<v Speaker 1>right after you here Part two.

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<v Speaker 2>For most young single people, a trip to Tabo is

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<v Speaker 2>all about tequila shops, wet t shirt contests.

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<v Speaker 4>Getting your wallet stolen on the beach, right one.

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<v Speaker 3>But I have my passport in that.

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<v Speaker 2>She's not an authentic Mexican trip if you're not robbed somehow.

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<v Speaker 2>But that wasn't the case for our listener Bo. The

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<v Speaker 2>only things from him was his heart when he met

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<v Speaker 2>a woman.

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<v Speaker 4>Named Sheila at a bar there two years ago.

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<v Speaker 2>And the craziest part, they were both sober when this

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<v Speaker 2>all happened.

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<v Speaker 3>Sober ish, Jeff. They both were drinking cocktails. They just

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<v Speaker 3>weren't as wasted as their friends.

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<v Speaker 2>Even still, that's shocking, and BoA's thought about her ever

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<v Speaker 2>since that trip has never been able to reach her.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why he wants us to try and do it

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<v Speaker 2>for him today.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know that we asked what motivated you to

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<v Speaker 1>finally take this step.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm not getting any younger.

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<v Speaker 4>Tell her that destination hits us all at some point.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, we're just gonna go with the more romantic version

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<v Speaker 2>of that story you have. Yeah, okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm dialing Sheila right now. Hello, Hi, we're looking for Sheila.

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<v Speaker 7>Uh yeah, this is she who's calling.

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<v Speaker 4>It's okay. You don't have to be afraid.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, I don't know. This would be such a weird

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<v Speaker 3>call to get.

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<v Speaker 2>We're just a friendly morning radio show called Brook and

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<v Speaker 2>Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, Sheila, Hey, uh hi.

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<v Speaker 2>We're trying to help out one of our listeners with

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<v Speaker 2>a segment called second Date Update.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, okay, and this is.

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<v Speaker 2>A guy that you met two years ago on a

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<v Speaker 2>trip to Mexico.

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<v Speaker 3>While she says, wow, yeah, you're in Cabo.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah that was that was a long time ago. Who oh,

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<v Speaker 7>oh my god, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>So there's this guy named Bo that a little bit.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my god. Yes, that was such a long time ago.

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<v Speaker 6>I hadn't really thought about this guy forever.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's okay, Well now you're thinking about him now.

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<v Speaker 3>You sound you sound happy that the memory.

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<v Speaker 7>Kind of, but like, so much has happened since then. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 7>what is this about.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, this whole segment is about seeing if you remembered

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<v Speaker 2>Bo because I don't know if you know this, but

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<v Speaker 2>after your trip ended, both said, he tried to reach you.

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<v Speaker 8>Right right, Yeah, But like back then, everything was so complicated.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it you were in a relationship, weren't you.

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<v Speaker 7>I was engaged at the time.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh god, Oh my god, girl, Wait does that when

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<v Speaker 1>you're married?

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<v Speaker 3>Are you married? No?

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<v Speaker 7>I was engaged with two guys actually at the same time,

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<v Speaker 7>so casually, okay.

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<v Speaker 6>So like back then, I was a hot met and

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<v Speaker 6>I did a study abroad in Italy and I met

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<v Speaker 6>this guy and we hit it off and he ended

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<v Speaker 6>up proposing, and I said yes because I felt bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, you said yes because you felt bad?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I mean I was leaving and I was like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>I'll marry you, and then, you.

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<v Speaker 7>Know, I laughed, and then I never talked to him again.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's one proposal. How did the where is the

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<v Speaker 2>second proposal?

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<v Speaker 8>So I leave Italy and I go home to my

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<v Speaker 8>other boyfriend.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess you.

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<v Speaker 8>Missed me, and he proposed and I, you know, I

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<v Speaker 8>said yes.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow. So then you went Tacabbo while you're engaged to

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<v Speaker 1>two men and made out with Bo.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, which made things even more complicated, and I felt

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<v Speaker 8>so horrible about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, yeah, you're lucky Bowden proposed to you, because you

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<v Speaker 2>probably would have said yes to that too.

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<v Speaker 6>Maybe maybe in my life.

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<v Speaker 3>So wait, did you end up getting married to anyone?

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<v Speaker 8>I know they both fell through like karma eventually caught

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<v Speaker 8>up to me.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, okay, so what's your relationship status now?

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<v Speaker 7>I'm dating someone.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nothing serious, just casual relationship with my husband.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, not that scenious.

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<v Speaker 1>It's hard, I mean, honestly though, it's hard to trust you.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, it is, I guess, But I told you the truth.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm an open book.

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<v Speaker 2>Now, Okay, why would you make up all that embarrassing

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<v Speaker 2>stuff about yourself?

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<v Speaker 5>I believer?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, well you know what, that is definitely kind of

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<v Speaker 2>an embarrassing story. It's nice that you were able to

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<v Speaker 2>tell us the truth here. So now it's our turn

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<v Speaker 2>to tell you the truth. The truth is we want

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<v Speaker 2>to help you bring back some of your past right now,

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<v Speaker 2>by that terrible fling, bow is on the phone right now,

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<v Speaker 2>listening to this conversation, wanting to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 7>All right, should I hang up.

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<v Speaker 5>Here?

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<v Speaker 4>Are you there?

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<v Speaker 5>I am here?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, But you're acted like BO is going to be

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<v Speaker 1>excited after hearing all of that, Like.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Bo, that was that was a lot.

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<v Speaker 5>Uh So let me get this straight. So when we

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<v Speaker 5>hung out two years ago, you were engaged to two

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<v Speaker 5>different guys, one of whom you weren't even really talking

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<v Speaker 5>to anymore.

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<v Speaker 7>Well, right, I'm no longer talking to any of them.

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<v Speaker 7>But Hi, by the way, Hi, it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Very good to hear your voice. And I really like

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<v Speaker 5>hanging out with you. And I know it's crazy because,

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<v Speaker 5>like you said, literally all we did was make out

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<v Speaker 5>one night. But I just I can't. I can't stop

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<v Speaker 5>thinking about you. And uh, I guess.

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<v Speaker 7>You're still thinking about me?

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<v Speaker 3>Did you just laugh?

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<v Speaker 5>Wait? Of night? And I mean, but like, can I

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<v Speaker 5>ask did you even like me?

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<v Speaker 2>Like?

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<v Speaker 5>Were you actually into me? Or was this just a

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<v Speaker 5>nothing thing?

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<v Speaker 7>Or I mean I liked you enough to make out

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<v Speaker 7>with you? I mean, this is a lot right now.

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<v Speaker 2>It's hard because you were You weren't just the other guy, Bo,

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<v Speaker 2>you were the other other guys.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, you were, you were mister right now, you know

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<v Speaker 6>what I mean.

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<v Speaker 4>It hurts so bad, but it's true.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I get it.

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<v Speaker 7>It's really sweet of you. I I thought about.

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<v Speaker 2>You, and he's gone, like he's gone through all of

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<v Speaker 2>this effort reaching out to our show that this is

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<v Speaker 2>a pretty complicated process in order to get this done.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>He kept her number for years just in case, hoping

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<v Speaker 2>he could use it.

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<v Speaker 1>Number who deletes a contact? I mean that happened, friend.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean sorry, I guess I was just gonna sort

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<v Speaker 5>of ask Sheila, you know, I mean I I did

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<v Speaker 5>take in the fact that you were single. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 5>did register with me, and.

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<v Speaker 3>I yeah, it wasn't like fully single.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I guess in this whole scenario, kind of single

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<v Speaker 5>is essentially single.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, taboe casually in a relationship?

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<v Speaker 4>Sure, no, no, no single Baker.

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<v Speaker 5>I guess I was just gonna say, like, this whole

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<v Speaker 5>thing has been the biggest long shot ever. And I

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<v Speaker 5>know we don't live in the same city and all that,

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<v Speaker 5>and I don't know about logistics or any of that stuff,

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<v Speaker 5>but like, would you be open to like some kind

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<v Speaker 5>of a long distance.

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<v Speaker 2>Dating thing, And if you're open to that idea of

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<v Speaker 2>possibly making it work, then we would love to help

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<v Speaker 2>facilitate that by paying for your official first date, I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>not the fause.

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<v Speaker 1>I've also been told long distance relationships don't need too

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<v Speaker 1>much trust.

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<v Speaker 3>It's very might be just their type.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Sheila, you've had two failed proposals, but the third

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<v Speaker 2>times the charm is what they say.

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<v Speaker 3>Rush to that.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, She'll say yes.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, lesser casual relationship proposes first.

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<v Speaker 7>You know what I say, Let's give it a shot.

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<v Speaker 3>I bet.

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<v Speaker 4>Fanusiastic. Yeah good, I'd like to follow up. So we're

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<v Speaker 4>getting rid of the side guy right by.

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<v Speaker 7>The time we go on a day, he'll be history.

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<v Speaker 7>Don't worry about it.

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<v Speaker 5>The great. Thank you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Congratulations Bo, you're mister right now again.

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<v Speaker 4>Yah'll take it.

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<v Speaker 3>Take freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Last we left Sheila and Bow they were talking about

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<v Speaker 2>trying a long distance relationship once she was free from

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<v Speaker 2>all of the other men that she was actively dating

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<v Speaker 2>and engaged too.

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<v Speaker 1>Honestly, out of all the update updates we've done, I

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<v Speaker 1>am most shocked that they're on the phone with us

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<v Speaker 1>right now.

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<v Speaker 4>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>It would have never Wow.

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<v Speaker 4>So Sheila and Bow are back. Where are you guys

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<v Speaker 4>at now?

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<v Speaker 7>Where divorced?

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<v Speaker 1>You married and divorced in the time since we've talked

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<v Speaker 1>to you.

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<v Speaker 8>Yes, actually we went back to Cabo where we met

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<v Speaker 8>and we had a couple of wild nights and we

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<v Speaker 8>got hitched.

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<v Speaker 3>Wait is he on the phone too?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'm here honestly to be totally frank with you.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know what the hell is going on, but

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<v Speaker 5>I'm into it.

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<v Speaker 4>Are you guys completely separated?

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<v Speaker 5>No?

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<v Speaker 7>No, no, no, no no.

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<v Speaker 8>We we came back from Hobo.

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<v Speaker 5>I realized that too soon.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah yeah, yeah, we jumped into it too soon. But

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<v Speaker 7>you know, we're still men with each other. We're still dating.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, so you.

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<v Speaker 2>Met him well, engaged to someone else, broke up with them,

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<v Speaker 2>married and then divorced bo, and now you're happily dating

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<v Speaker 2>each other.

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<v Speaker 3>I think was engaged to two people.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, engaged to multiple other people.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, no need to bring that up.

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<v Speaker 5>But okay, I mean technically she was now engaged to

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<v Speaker 5>three people.

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<v Speaker 4>You know, the relationship is all over the place.

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<v Speaker 7>I mean, it's it's our story. It's not for everyone,

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<v Speaker 7>you know, it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta say, it's gonna be great at any sort

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<v Speaker 1>of dinner party.

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<v Speaker 7>Absolutely, yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I mean other than that, it's your normal boy

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<v Speaker 2>meets girls story. But you know, thank you for taking

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<v Speaker 2>the time to come on.

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<v Speaker 4>And give us an update. You two and divorce in

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<v Speaker 4>the marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have an open invite to like the next

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<v Speaker 2>wedding or divorce or whatever, like just something's gonna happen

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 8>Like they're not very playing.

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<v Speaker 1>It's brooken Jeffrey in the Morning, Brook and Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 1>the Morning,