WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Funny Farm

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<v Speaker 1>Second. You know, recently, I was on a dating app Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>trying to find matches for Jose, and honestly, it was

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<v Speaker 1>really difficult. Not because of what Jose wants, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because he'll go out with pretty much anything. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying that as a single person, it's got to be

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<v Speaker 1>hard because the appis field was so many odd people,

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<v Speaker 1>like with photos wearing tons of makeup and filters, or

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<v Speaker 1>someone that's standing alone in a swamp holding a sign

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<v Speaker 1>up that says still single. I don't know, is that

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to be funny or is it meant to make

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<v Speaker 1>me sad and it makes me feel bad enough to

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<v Speaker 1>go out. All I know is after that experience, I

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<v Speaker 1>really feel for listeners like Steve, who emailed into the

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<v Speaker 1>show today and said he was just happy that her

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<v Speaker 1>profile seemed somewhat normal. You're not looking for a swamp

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<v Speaker 1>girl to go to you with your swamp boy, No,

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<v Speaker 1>not at all, Steve. You and me are singles at

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<v Speaker 1>least we know, but asn't worked out with this girl.

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<v Speaker 1>We always have each other, always Burla wing opportunity maybe,

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<v Speaker 1>but tell us about the woman that you matched with.

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<v Speaker 1>What's her name? Her name? Jamie All right, Is there

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<v Speaker 1>anything exceptional to say about her? Or was she just normal?

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<v Speaker 1>She seemed very normal, super cute, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>was raised on a farm, so she didn't necessarily look

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<v Speaker 1>like a country girl. But she looked very sweet and

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<v Speaker 1>innocently so I kind of went with it. She could

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<v Speaker 1>still pick up a bail of hay. I mean, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>assuming that that's on your list. What do you do

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<v Speaker 1>with a normal girl for a first date? Well, the

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<v Speaker 1>date that I kind of pitched to her that she

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<v Speaker 1>kind of agreed to was, you know, let's just have

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<v Speaker 1>a date on my family's farm, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>can show you what farm life is day to day.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, does that mean that she's like meeting your

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<v Speaker 1>family on the first date? Not necessarily. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>is the family farm, so we pretty much it's just family.

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<v Speaker 1>It works there. But you know, I just wanted her

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<v Speaker 1>experience how I grew up and you know, my just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of day to day living. So are you are

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<v Speaker 1>you still working on the farm too? Yeah? Part time okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I imagine all the cute animals are also your family.

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<v Speaker 1>A little pig, yeah, we had the whole nine yards.

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<v Speaker 1>We got a cow's chicken, goat. I will get to

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<v Speaker 1>mister Harvey in a little bit, but mister Harvey, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that is our goat. Okay, Oh, this is an interesting

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<v Speaker 1>choice for a first day. Like what was her reaction

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<v Speaker 1>when you pitched this idea to her? Well, she seemed

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<v Speaker 1>kind of excited about it. I mean, she didn't voice

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<v Speaker 1>any concerns. I thought her. I was like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get you some overalls and some boots. Picked her

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<v Speaker 1>up early in the morning. We drove out to the countryside,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, and went to the farm and she got

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<v Speaker 1>dressed and got to work. You know. Okay, that's like work. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I got to stop your for a second. I grew up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, surrounded by farm life in a tiny little town.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not glamorous. I mean, like to me, it sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like you're shoveling manure. No. I did spare her the manure.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. We picked the eggs for breakfast, and then

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<v Speaker 1>we went out and we melt the cows. We did

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<v Speaker 1>not use the milk for breakfast. But she was into it.

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<v Speaker 1>She seemed kind of thrilled about it. You know, my

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<v Speaker 1>family was off in the back. Okay, So you made

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<v Speaker 1>it like an Instagram friendly event. You did all the

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<v Speaker 1>cute fun stuff, you know, like a photo area stage

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<v Speaker 1>over by the mud bus. So I told her, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, if you want to feed the pigs,

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<v Speaker 1>it's super simple. It's not really all that mess. And

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<v Speaker 1>she was down with it. But mister Harvey. That's where

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<v Speaker 1>mister Harvey comes in because he kind of just roamed

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<v Speaker 1>the farm. Yes, he's our pet goat. He's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like our guard dog. Instead of a blue chick hound,

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<v Speaker 1>we have a we have a big goat. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes a little temperamental when it comes meeting new people.

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<v Speaker 1>Held just nibble on him. Look, did the same thing

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<v Speaker 1>to me on my first day on the show. She

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<v Speaker 1>just came up and started teared my clothes right off.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm part goat. I could I could get behind that putting.

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<v Speaker 1>That did that scare her? Well not at first. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean at first I think it did, but it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>until he kind of started getting a little aggressive with

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<v Speaker 1>it because I had turned my back for a minute

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<v Speaker 1>and I turned back around and she was pretty much

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<v Speaker 1>almost on all fours just getting chewed up. Yeah, you're

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<v Speaker 1>describing Brooks to a tea here, getting flashbacks of my

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<v Speaker 1>own life. I mean, she did laugh about it, so

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<v Speaker 1>I just I took it as just one of those things.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you've ever tried to milk a goat,

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<v Speaker 1>you know how scary they can be. Small enclosed area.

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<v Speaker 1>That sounds like a mostly brook experience at least. So

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, how did how did the date end for you? There? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we had we had lunch with my parents and everybody.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I introduced her as my new friend, but

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't want it. I wanted to kind of seem normal,

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<v Speaker 1>like not too serious, like you're meeting our parents, my

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<v Speaker 1>parents on the first date. Okay, okay, we agreed to

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<v Speaker 1>the farm date. Do you bring a lot of women

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<v Speaker 1>out to the farm to meet everybody? Or is this

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<v Speaker 1>a new thing with now that's honestly, this is the

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<v Speaker 1>first time thing. I thought it'd be kind of cool

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<v Speaker 1>to get out of the city, and so the launch

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<v Speaker 1>went fine, and I told her said, you know, Nick, date,

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<v Speaker 1>you pick city, whatever you want to do, we'll do it.

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<v Speaker 1>And she hasn't returned to any of my ticks. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you regretting the farm date idea since she hasn't writing

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<v Speaker 1>you back? Or do you think it's something else I'm

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<v Speaker 1>beginning to think it might have been a bad idea. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I disagree. I think if she's a city girl, you

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<v Speaker 1>bring it to the farsight, bringing someone to a zoo,

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<v Speaker 1>you do something to see you don't work at the zoo,

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<v Speaker 1>but you don't work though. He said, you made it

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<v Speaker 1>wide and she just got to kind of hang around.

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<v Speaker 1>I think maybe mister Harvey swooped in on your girl.

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<v Speaker 1>He stole it from you. But we're gonna find out.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call Jamie here in just a second and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second date update right after this. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you? All right, hold on the second date. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>old McDonald may have had a farm, but old mcstevo

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<v Speaker 1>had a date. Oh yeah, yeah, yoh like this. And

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<v Speaker 1>on his date there was a Jamie yeah yeah, yoh

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<v Speaker 1>with a farm chore. Here in a farm chore. There,

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<v Speaker 1>here's my mom, here's my dad, here's a go that's bad.

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<v Speaker 1>That was good. But Steve did take Jamie to his

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<v Speaker 1>family farm. And I think the overwhelming thought in studio

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<v Speaker 1>right now is that Jamie probably didn't want to spend

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<v Speaker 1>the whole time doing farm work. I mean, it almost

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like your family was using it as a ploy

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<v Speaker 1>to get free labor. Yeah, I wouldn't say that. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought she was having fun. Okay, okay, labor can be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>She was having fun. This is like a one you know,

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<v Speaker 1>life not lifetime, but it's like random thing. I mean, Josie,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to do that for a first date,

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<v Speaker 1>Once in a a lifetime opportunity? The animals. It sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you want to go to a petting Yeah. Yeah, farm

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<v Speaker 1>almos sound like a heavy petting zoo. I'm gonna tell

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<v Speaker 1>you do not want to drink fresh milk really makes

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<v Speaker 1>me vomit every time. Yeah to p Yeah, that sounds

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<v Speaker 1>kind of fun. But maybe we should start a business

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<v Speaker 1>after this is over. But we have a job to

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<v Speaker 1>do on the show, and that's to call Jamie and

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<v Speaker 1>figure out why she's not calling Steve back. So Steve,

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<v Speaker 1>you're ready to do this? Yeah, I'm ready. Let's do

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<v Speaker 1>it right. Here we go. Farmhand, Jamie, farmhand, that's what

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<v Speaker 1>people who work on a farm. Yeah, okay, here we go. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Jamie? Yeah, hey Jamie. My name is

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<v Speaker 1>jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. Um, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>we need some extra help around the radio station and

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<v Speaker 1>we heard you are excellent. I'm sorry. What is this about? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was strange. This is about a segment that we're

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<v Speaker 1>doing called a second Date Update, and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 1>help one of our listeners named Steve get back in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with you after you went on a date. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that was our big old side there, Jamie. Was that

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<v Speaker 1>a good sigh or a bad sign? It's not a

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<v Speaker 1>great sigh. I'll tell you that. Okay, we've already spoken

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<v Speaker 1>to Steve about your first day with him, and we've

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<v Speaker 1>heard his side of the story. We're interested in getting

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<v Speaker 1>your side of the story, to know what you thought

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<v Speaker 1>about him and his family farm. Well, first of all,

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<v Speaker 1>he didn't say his family farm. Oh he didn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>He said, hey, do you want to go to the

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<v Speaker 1>farm for French? That's like, oh, I love that you

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<v Speaker 1>didn't know his family was going to be there. Wait,

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<v Speaker 1>you love that place? Like the farm is in like

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<v Speaker 1>some hit brunch spot. Yes, it's really hit. So I

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<v Speaker 1>thought we were going to have French. We weren't going

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<v Speaker 1>to an actual farm. Oh my god, Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>He thought that you understood. He didn't think that you

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<v Speaker 1>thought bottomless mimosas it was not clear in our conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if it was my father and his fault.

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<v Speaker 1>But as soon as we pulled to a farm, his farm,

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<v Speaker 1>his parents are there opening the door, like rereading me.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what is happening? Well, to be fair, nothing

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<v Speaker 1>is more hipster than going to the actual farm is

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<v Speaker 1>slaughtered dude. I was not I was not against it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I had a night the night before. I was

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<v Speaker 1>a little hungover. I was expecting, you know, mimosa's an

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<v Speaker 1>avocado toast. I was not expecting to be feeling hay

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<v Speaker 1>and snucking cows. She'll wait a minute, though, Like his

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<v Speaker 1>parents opened the door, they hand you a set of coveralls,

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<v Speaker 1>like why didn't you say something like that? You had

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<v Speaker 1>no idea. Honestly, I was a little out of it,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, you know what, just get through this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's gonna be a story to tell. Plus that would

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<v Speaker 1>be really rude to just get out of the car

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<v Speaker 1>and his parents are like, hey, nice to meet you,

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<v Speaker 1>and she'd be like, she didn't I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>be here. She wouldn't have to say that. She could say,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my god, I had no idea. You meant a

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<v Speaker 1>literal farm, like that doesn't look in front of the parents,

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<v Speaker 1>but like, yeah, that's a lot of hours you spent

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<v Speaker 1>with his family. It was a lot of hours. And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, you know, we got them eggs and them

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<v Speaker 1>cows whatever. I thought, Okay, we had a nice breakfast.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, all right, that's good. That was it.

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<v Speaker 1>But it kept going on and on, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, how do I get out of this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, obviously it was a total shock. You

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<v Speaker 1>didn't plan on any of it. But was there any

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<v Speaker 1>moments between you and him that were fun? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, there were some fun moments, like he was

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<v Speaker 1>trying really hard, and I've been on a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>days where that Wasn't it a case we heard mister

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<v Speaker 1>Harvey really liked you. Yeah, he really liked me. And honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>it started out like, oh, this is cute, and then

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, oh my god, I'm going to be

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<v Speaker 1>eaten by a go well. I know, like, not only

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<v Speaker 1>did mister Harvey like you, but Steve really liked you.

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<v Speaker 1>And don't just take my word for it here from

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<v Speaker 1>Steve himself. He's on the other line right now. I

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you Oh my gosh, you're joking, right, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm serious. Hi, Jamie. UM, I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding.

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<v Speaker 1>I assumed because the family farm and everything's on my

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<v Speaker 1>profile that you just automatically knew that I meant my farm.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never even heard of this brunch spot, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>I see, Um, yeah, you you know, and just start talking.

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<v Speaker 1>You were like the farm, the farm. You never said

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<v Speaker 1>my family's farm. So I think we had just a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of miscommunication. Yeah, just the dad. Yeah, I

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<v Speaker 1>apologize for that. I'm so just so used to calling

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<v Speaker 1>at the farm, you know. Um, Honestly, hearing you talk

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<v Speaker 1>about it, it it doesn't seem like you had that good

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<v Speaker 1>of a time as I thought you did. Well, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was having as good at a time as I

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<v Speaker 1>could being hungover. I'm not expecting it. I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to be in coveralls and like feeling, Hey, so your

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<v Speaker 1>family is lovely, and I think you're lovely. We didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have enough time to actually get to know each other,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was just unexpected. So Steve, like, how is

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<v Speaker 1>this sitting with you? Hearing her reaction to what her

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<v Speaker 1>expectations were going to the farm, and then what it

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<v Speaker 1>was actually like for her. Yeah, Jamie, it sounds like

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<v Speaker 1>you really had a lot to complain about. Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just I'm typically not into complainers because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I grew up on a farm, so we just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of sucked it up and pushed through it and dealt

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<v Speaker 1>with it and got what needed to be done done. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I was getting that same vibe when I was hearing

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<v Speaker 1>her talk about it. The top three things that you

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<v Speaker 1>enjoyed while you were there, top five? Then I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to fit into your family. This was like a

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<v Speaker 1>first date. So like I'm complaining because there wasn't clear communication.

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<v Speaker 1>Sorry about that, but relationships are built on clear communication.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, do you understand that, Steve, because it's like

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<v Speaker 1>she's complaining your acting as if she worked on the

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<v Speaker 1>farm and she's a bad employee, is what it sounds like. Yeah, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not what I'm trying to sound like. To quote you,

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<v Speaker 1>there was some miscommunication that I do apologize about that, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try something else

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<v Speaker 1>because you did agree to possibly having a date in

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<v Speaker 1>the city later on. Oh well, you know I did

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<v Speaker 1>agree to that, But after hearing you say that I

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<v Speaker 1>was complaining about a situation that I think, Oh, now

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to complain about the way that well that

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<v Speaker 1>was if I could interrupt, I mean that was clear communication.

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<v Speaker 1>I just communicated my feelings about the situation to you,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes

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<v Speaker 1>of what it would feel like to not be like

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<v Speaker 1>aware and prepared for the situation that I was in.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like he's understanding, and it's just he's being

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<v Speaker 1>a little defensive of his own family. You know. It

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<v Speaker 1>feels like you're getting he's getting the text. It sounds

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<v Speaker 1>like a classic example of a guy giving a woman

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what she asked for and getting blamed forgiving you

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<v Speaker 1>just apologizing, he's trying to communicate. He's saying, clearly it

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<v Speaker 1>was bad communication, and then Jamie's like, no, you didn't

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<v Speaker 1>do it the way I wanted. Well, he did kind

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<v Speaker 1>of attack her for compaigning, and now he's getting it

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<v Speaker 1>from the host of the show. I just think everybody

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<v Speaker 1>needs to take a deep breath. I think this could work.

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<v Speaker 1>Starting with you would be great because I would like

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<v Speaker 1>to send you two out on a nice second date

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<v Speaker 1>where you have great communication there's no farm work needed

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<v Speaker 1>to be done, just like Brooks still breathing over there

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<v Speaker 1>on coveralls or whatever they're called. And I just connected

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<v Speaker 1>that his name Steve and his goat is mister Hart. Yeah. Look,

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<v Speaker 1>and there's not going to be any mister Harvey on

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<v Speaker 1>the date, but there will be a little bit of

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<v Speaker 1>nibbling going on. Are you going to send this to

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<v Speaker 1>the farm the brunch spot? Is what I mean. I

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<v Speaker 1>would be up for that because I knew nothing about this,

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<v Speaker 1>and apparently she was super excited to go there. And yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>there you go, Jamie, take Steve to the farm and

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<v Speaker 1>make him feel super uncomfortable because he doesn't know how

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<v Speaker 1>it works. Well, you know what. The positive thing is

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<v Speaker 1>that he did really go over and above. And there's

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<v Speaker 1>very few dates that I have been on where someone

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<v Speaker 1>actually cared enough. I mean, it was carrying a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit mess to me. His family so fast, but I

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<v Speaker 1>guess i'd be open to it. Jay, you're open to it, Steve?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you say? Um? Sounds great to me. And

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<v Speaker 1>I apologize about my family. They're they're lovely. It was

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<v Speaker 1>just so fast, against all odds, we got a successful

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<v Speaker 1>second date. All right. Now, let's agree on a safe

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<v Speaker 1>word up front. What do you want yours to be.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know how your guys a second dates work,

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<v Speaker 1>but that's how it goes in my neighborhood. Brooke and

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<v Speaker 1>Jeffrey in the morning.