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Speaker 1: I'm serious. Hi, Jamie. UM, I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding.

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Speaker 1: I assumed because the family farm and everything's on my

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Speaker 1: I've never even heard of this brunch spot, you know.

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Speaker 1: I see, Um, yeah, you you know, and just start talking.

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Speaker 1: You were like the farm, the farm. You never said

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Speaker 1: little bit of miscommunication. Yeah, just the dad. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: apologize for that. I'm so just so used to calling

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Speaker 1: of a time as I thought you did. Well, you know,

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Speaker 1: I was having as good at a time as I

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Speaker 1: to be in coveralls and like feeling, Hey, so your

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Speaker 1: but it was just unexpected. So Steve, like, how is

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Speaker 1: and I'm just I'm typically not into complainers because you know,

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Speaker 1: I grew up on a farm, so we just kind

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Speaker 1: I was getting that same vibe when I was hearing

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Speaker 1: her talk about it. The top three things that you

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Speaker 1: trying to fit into your family. This was like a

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Speaker 1: first date. So like I'm complaining because there wasn't clear communication.

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Speaker 1: Sorry about that, but relationships are built on clear communication.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, do you understand that, Steve, because it's like

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Speaker 1: farm and she's a bad employee, is what it sounds like. Yeah, Um,

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Speaker 1: that's not what I'm trying to sound like. To quote you,

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Speaker 1: there was some miscommunication that I do apologize about that, Um,

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Speaker 1: but that doesn't mean that we couldn't try something else

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Speaker 1: was if I could interrupt, I mean that was clear communication.

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Speaker 1: I just communicated my feelings about the situation to you,

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Speaker 1: and I think, honestly, you're not understanding in my shoes

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Speaker 1: It sounds like he's understanding, and it's just he's being

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Speaker 1: a little defensive of his own family. You know. It

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Speaker 1: feels like you're getting he's getting the text. It sounds

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Speaker 1: just apologizing, he's trying to communicate. He's saying, clearly it

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Speaker 1: was bad communication, and then Jamie's like, no, you didn't

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Speaker 1: do it the way I wanted. Well, he did kind

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Speaker 1: of attack her for compaigning, and now he's getting it

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Speaker 1: from the host of the show. I just think everybody

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Speaker 1: needs to take a deep breath. I think this could work.

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Speaker 1: Starting with you would be great because I would like

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Speaker 1: to send you two out on a nice second date

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Speaker 1: where you have great communication there's no farm work needed

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Speaker 1: to be done, just like Brooks still breathing over there

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Speaker 1: on coveralls or whatever they're called. And I just connected

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Speaker 1: that his name Steve and his goat is mister Hart. Yeah. Look,

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Speaker 1: and there's not going to be any mister Harvey on

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Speaker 1: nibbling going on. Are you going to send this to

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Speaker 1: the farm the brunch spot? Is what I mean. I

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Speaker 1: would be up for that because I knew nothing about this,

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Speaker 1: and apparently she was super excited to go there. And yeah,

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Speaker 1: there you go, Jamie, take Steve to the farm and

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Speaker 1: it works. Well, you know what. The positive thing is

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Speaker 1: that he did really go over and above. And there's

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Speaker 1: very few dates that I have been on where someone

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Speaker 1: bit mess to me. His family so fast, but I

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Speaker 1: guess i'd be open to it. Jay, you're open to it, Steve?

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Speaker 1: What do you say? Um? Sounds great to me. And

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Speaker 1: I apologize about my family. They're they're lovely. It was

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Speaker 1: just so fast, against all odds, we got a successful

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Speaker 1: second date. All right. Now, let's agree on a safe

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Speaker 1: word up front. What do you want yours to be.

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Speaker 1: I don't know how your guys a second dates work,

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Speaker 1: but that's how it goes in my neighborhood. Brooke and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning.