1 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: Welcome to a reasonably shady mail bag in our male 2 00:00:12,280 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: bag and bag okay, you've got male. It's from Sukiana again, 3 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: so you already know it's like a one liner. Yes, Sukian, 4 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: Queen to the one. That's what we should have given 5 00:00:26,960 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: her an award for Queen of the one Liners. Okay, 6 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:34,400 Speaker 1: so she says, Giselle, I just seen a confession look 7 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:39,319 Speaker 1: and it was so deep. So she's dated herself. I mean, 8 00:00:39,680 --> 00:00:41,599 Speaker 1: this is a you know, she's very young, she's very 9 00:00:41,880 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: she said, so Tea, that's something my child would say. 10 00:00:46,400 --> 00:00:50,240 Speaker 1: Would you consider going back dark? I guess she said, 11 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:50,800 Speaker 1: like dark. 12 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 2: Dark hair? Did you have dark hair in a confessional? 13 00:00:53,920 --> 00:00:56,880 Speaker 1: I don't remember. I don't recall a kind of yes 14 00:00:57,040 --> 00:01:02,360 Speaker 1: I did, Skiana. You're right, no, no, I would not, 15 00:01:02,360 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 1: not really. I'm not a fan. It's probably something talk 16 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:07,760 Speaker 1: me into mm yeah. 17 00:01:07,640 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: Okay, all right, yeah I am. I know you didn't 18 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 2: ask me so, Kanya, but I am actually considering doing 19 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,080 Speaker 2: a little brownish something for the fall. 20 00:01:17,240 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: So you always do that though, pretty much always, but 21 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,400 Speaker 1: a lot yeah yeah. 22 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, but I'm like, I'm I'm bored. I'm bored of 23 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:26,440 Speaker 2: this color that I have right now, and the problem 24 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,679 Speaker 2: is I my hair is super healthy right now. It 25 00:01:29,720 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 2: is and it's because I have not been like bleaching it. 26 00:01:33,760 --> 00:01:37,720 Speaker 2: Like I don't have light blonde hair anymore. Okay, So 27 00:01:37,760 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 2: the blonde, like the the blonde blonde, it just like 28 00:01:41,959 --> 00:01:44,160 Speaker 2: kills my hair. Yeah, it eats it up, choose it up, 29 00:01:44,200 --> 00:01:47,200 Speaker 2: breaks it off. So I can't go light blonde anymore like. 30 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: I would like to. So yeah, so is that like 31 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: next month might be like in a within a couple 32 00:01:55,600 --> 00:01:57,000 Speaker 1: of weeks or so a couple of weeks. Okay, we'll 33 00:01:57,480 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: all right. This is from uh ewam, I think it is. Oh, Emma, Emma, 34 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: w how jazella robbin love you guys. Back in the day, 35 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:11,600 Speaker 1: there were causes of action to file lawsuits against cheaters. 36 00:02:11,680 --> 00:02:13,680 Speaker 1: Oh this is this is she's talking about. Right. We 37 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:17,639 Speaker 1: said something, we said, we said, there's a there's going 38 00:02:17,720 --> 00:02:22,160 Speaker 1: to be they're trying to install start a law in 39 00:02:22,160 --> 00:02:24,960 Speaker 1: which if you cheat, you have to either pay a 40 00:02:24,960 --> 00:02:25,679 Speaker 1: fine or go to jail. 41 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:26,799 Speaker 2: Okay, all right. 42 00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 1: Back in the day, there were causes of action to 43 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: file lawsuits against cheaters. They were called heart bomb actions. 44 00:02:37,280 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: There there was also an alien nation of affection. I 45 00:02:43,080 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: know that, Yes, that is a thing. That's sense. Yeah, 46 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,200 Speaker 1: cause of action where one spouse in the marriage could 47 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:55,720 Speaker 1: sue a third party for intentionally interfering with the marital relationship. 48 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:58,520 Speaker 2: So that's a home wrecker, also. 49 00:02:58,320 --> 00:03:04,040 Speaker 1: Known as strumpets. Oh mistress, oh reckd it could. 50 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:05,880 Speaker 2: Be a man. Okay, well with the male version of 51 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:09,120 Speaker 2: that b strop it yo, yes. 52 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,200 Speaker 1: Not mischiing, not mistress, it's miss Yeah. 53 00:03:12,200 --> 00:03:14,639 Speaker 2: What is the male version of mistress in that? 54 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: I don't know, Big Daddy, Sugar Daddy, I don't know. Anyway, 55 00:03:22,080 --> 00:03:25,320 Speaker 1: As Robin pointed out, there were issues that could arise 56 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:29,679 Speaker 1: like abuse or sexism over time, society change, and they're 57 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: virtually non existent right now. Best MW. This was good 58 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 1: information because I have heard of the alienation of affectory. 59 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds familiar to you to me, and I 60 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,400 Speaker 2: bet you know, since I'm watching the Guilded Age now, 61 00:03:43,520 --> 00:03:45,760 Speaker 2: I bet these laws probably existed back then. 62 00:03:45,840 --> 00:03:50,400 Speaker 1: Maybe well no, no, no, they probably didn't. Probably because 63 00:03:50,400 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: of the Guilded Age. They probably needed to get these 64 00:03:52,680 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: laws to protect women. Got it to guilded day, they 65 00:03:56,240 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: would come home and be like, I divorce you. I 66 00:03:58,960 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 1: haven't gotten there yet. Oh yeah, yeah, we talking about 67 00:04:01,920 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: that the other day. Yeah, it's wild. Okay. I wish 68 00:04:06,400 --> 00:04:08,000 Speaker 1: somebody would come home and be like, I don't like 69 00:04:08,040 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: you no more? Right? Could you imagine that happens? It 70 00:04:12,040 --> 00:04:15,520 Speaker 1: does that happens? Like I would be like, well what happened? 71 00:04:15,640 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 2: Right? And you're like none the wiser You're thinking. 72 00:04:17,640 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: Everything is like I'm sitting down the couch mine in 73 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:22,960 Speaker 1: my business, watching love and hip Hop and here he 74 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 1: comes talking about you know, I'd be like, well, damn, 75 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:29,600 Speaker 1: we gotta watch ESPN turn you into love and hip hop. Yes, yes, 76 00:04:29,720 --> 00:04:32,000 Speaker 1: I get to throwing shit. Okay, No, I really wouldn't 77 00:04:32,000 --> 00:04:34,000 Speaker 1: because I'm not that girl. Okay, all right, one more 78 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,560 Speaker 1: from me. So this is from Nova Scotia, Canada. We 79 00:04:37,600 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 1: have Amy Claire. I just feel like she talks like 80 00:04:40,640 --> 00:04:41,400 Speaker 1: that Amy Claire. 81 00:04:41,839 --> 00:04:44,960 Speaker 2: Really Okay, that's not how they talking Canada, that's not okay. Well, 82 00:04:44,960 --> 00:04:46,360 Speaker 2: I don't know about Nova Scotia. I don't know. 83 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Nova Scotia seems like it's close to England, is it. 84 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:52,240 Speaker 2: No? 85 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:54,360 Speaker 1: I don't know. It sounds like it sounds like it's 86 00:04:54,400 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: close to England. Okay, So she Amy says, hey, ladies, 87 00:04:57,600 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: love yas. Yeah, she said yas so I'm thinking longtime 88 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,520 Speaker 1: fun since season one Rhop. Last episode, you guys were 89 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: talking about bad neighbors and to write in with our stories. 90 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 1: So here's one for you. Okay, I'm ready. I'm a fifteen. 91 00:05:19,600 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 1: Title for this story would be a shitty situation. She 92 00:05:24,600 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 1: has an accent. There's no question she has an accent. Yes, 93 00:05:27,800 --> 00:05:33,599 Speaker 1: a shitty situation, yes, okay, I have this neighbor. Not 94 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:38,120 Speaker 1: a single problem over the years. For contexts, we opened 95 00:05:38,200 --> 00:05:40,600 Speaker 1: our own business about five years back. I think it's 96 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:43,760 Speaker 1: supposed to be ten ten years. Oh yeah, for ten years. 97 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:47,320 Speaker 1: Open up a business about five years back, big trucks equipment. 98 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: Long story short. She comes over drunk one Sunday after 99 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:56,960 Speaker 1: our particularly noisy day of moving equipment. We had friends over. 100 00:05:57,440 --> 00:06:01,719 Speaker 1: One guy is black. During her rant about the noise, 101 00:06:01,960 --> 00:06:07,039 Speaker 1: she turns, looks at our friend and says, who are you? 102 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 1: You don't belong here? What's all? While in my yard? 103 00:06:12,440 --> 00:06:16,719 Speaker 1: I shut that down real quick. Three days go by, 104 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 1: and I get lots of notifications from animals, so I 105 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:28,040 Speaker 1: don't check every single one. She gets lots of notification 106 00:06:28,160 --> 00:06:29,279 Speaker 1: from animals. 107 00:06:29,000 --> 00:06:32,359 Speaker 2: Must be like on your camera, on her camera an animal. 108 00:06:33,120 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, so she doesn't check every single one. I should have, 109 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:40,720 Speaker 1: I should have and do now. I went out the 110 00:06:40,760 --> 00:06:44,760 Speaker 1: next morning to a giant pile of shit right behind 111 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:50,240 Speaker 1: one of our trucks. This old woman hovered and ship 112 00:06:50,640 --> 00:06:54,600 Speaker 1: on my driveway. Disbelief. 113 00:06:54,960 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 2: What the human being? 114 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: The human being did it? And it's on the ring camera. 115 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:02,719 Speaker 1: Were pants down and and shit? I don't have that 116 00:07:02,800 --> 00:07:04,760 Speaker 1: much shit in me that way? 117 00:07:04,960 --> 00:07:05,320 Speaker 2: Listen. 118 00:07:05,720 --> 00:07:09,800 Speaker 1: Okay, so oh, that's my bad neighbor story. 119 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:11,320 Speaker 2: That's a shitty name. 120 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:15,680 Speaker 1: Only bad neighbors. I've ever the baddest neighbors I've ever 121 00:07:15,720 --> 00:07:19,320 Speaker 1: dealt with. Unreal thought i'd share and see if what 122 00:07:20,160 --> 00:07:23,120 Speaker 1: you see? What you girls think? I didn't call the cops? 123 00:07:23,200 --> 00:07:26,320 Speaker 1: Would you have? Oh? And to make it worse, there 124 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:31,680 Speaker 1: was no toilet paper. No toilet paper. She either didn't 125 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 1: wipe or or did it with her hands. Oh so 126 00:07:37,040 --> 00:07:41,880 Speaker 1: wait she was what? Okay, Amy, I don't think I 127 00:07:41,960 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: needed that story, Amen from Nova Scotia. That was horrible. 128 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 1: That is awful. 129 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: But to do it, I mean, there's so many horrible things. Okay, Okay. 130 00:07:53,920 --> 00:07:56,440 Speaker 1: Number one, she's a racist. She's a racist telling the 131 00:07:56,480 --> 00:07:59,880 Speaker 1: black person they don't belong there. Start there, right there. 132 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:02,880 Speaker 1: But I couldn't understand how she might have gotten just 133 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 1: been mad over time because of the big equipment noise, 134 00:08:05,280 --> 00:08:08,440 Speaker 1: or she has like large equipment around and that's probably 135 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:11,080 Speaker 1: like that's a whole lot. But to squad down take a. 136 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,520 Speaker 2: Shit, take a shit, she had to have been like 137 00:08:14,760 --> 00:08:17,280 Speaker 2: so when you had to urge to shit in the house, 138 00:08:17,640 --> 00:08:21,520 Speaker 2: she said, let me run outside to the neighbor's house 139 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:22,679 Speaker 2: and shit in the yard. 140 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 1: Yes, behind it sounded. 141 00:08:24,080 --> 00:08:26,920 Speaker 2: Like y'all were cool because she came over just like 142 00:08:27,040 --> 00:08:27,840 Speaker 2: chit chatting, right. 143 00:08:28,000 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: Well, everything was cool for five years, yeah, and then 144 00:08:31,520 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 1: they started a business and they started having this equipment, 145 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:35,680 Speaker 1: and I think that's when when it got left. And 146 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,319 Speaker 1: then some friends are over and she looking at the 147 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:40,120 Speaker 1: black person like, why are you here? Yeah? Nah, oh 148 00:08:40,240 --> 00:08:40,720 Speaker 1: my god. 149 00:08:40,920 --> 00:08:43,240 Speaker 2: Now did you say anything to her after she took 150 00:08:43,280 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 2: a shit in your driveway? 151 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: Well, the question she did not? She did not call 152 00:08:46,960 --> 00:08:48,480 Speaker 1: the cops. Well, I don't know if she said anything, 153 00:08:48,480 --> 00:08:50,280 Speaker 1: But the question is would you have called the cops? 154 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 2: I probably no. I probably would have said I would 155 00:08:54,840 --> 00:08:56,360 Speaker 2: have said something to her. I don't think I would 156 00:08:56,360 --> 00:08:58,120 Speaker 2: have called the cops. Yeah, But I mean, I guess 157 00:08:58,120 --> 00:09:00,640 Speaker 2: you can file some type of formal complaint. I don't 158 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,079 Speaker 2: think I would have called the class, especially if you 159 00:09:02,160 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 2: have this on video and stupid lady, don't you know that? 160 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 2: But that is kind of like a crime, right, some 161 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 2: type of public uh isn't? Isn't like public urination a crime? 162 00:09:15,240 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 2: Or thinks public? 163 00:09:16,480 --> 00:09:20,640 Speaker 1: So public shitting I'm sure is also like that's misdemeanor 164 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:26,959 Speaker 1: number fourteen. This is terrible. Wow, neighbors get wild? 165 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:28,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's crazy. 166 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:31,960 Speaker 1: Okay, neighbor on neighbor action crime action. That should be 167 00:09:32,800 --> 00:09:35,440 Speaker 1: a show, a TV show. It probably is neighbor on 168 00:09:35,520 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 1: neighbor probably is crime. 169 00:09:36,920 --> 00:09:41,760 Speaker 2: I've never experienced craziness with my neighbors. Okay. Next letter, 170 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 2: This is from Shan Chandra Shandra with the c H. 171 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 2: This is from a few months ago. This is from July. 172 00:09:50,440 --> 00:09:52,960 Speaker 2: She said, Hey, you Green Eye bandits, y'all are so 173 00:09:53,080 --> 00:09:56,120 Speaker 2: wrong for this And I say that with love. You 174 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 2: hyped up this matchmaking contest told folks to write in 175 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,200 Speaker 2: to help find love and promise to play Cupid. So 176 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:06,160 Speaker 2: what did I do? I wrote in trying to get 177 00:10:06,160 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 2: a match for my amazing son, a black man and 178 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,720 Speaker 2: current dental student at Mahari Medical College. 179 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:12,559 Speaker 1: Yep. 180 00:10:12,640 --> 00:10:17,120 Speaker 2: I followed the assignment, but here we are radio silence, 181 00:10:18,080 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 2: no response, no follow up, not even a girl. We're 182 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,600 Speaker 2: sorting through that application. 183 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:27,040 Speaker 1: Now. 184 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:31,840 Speaker 2: Now, I have been a loyal listener for years. I've laughed, 185 00:10:31,960 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 2: I've supported, I've stayed tuned in. But the only person 186 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 2: y'all seem to be entertaining with weekly is mister Dirk 187 00:10:38,400 --> 00:10:42,760 Speaker 2: Dick Hurts himself aka Kevin Hart. I mean, what gives? 188 00:10:43,240 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 2: So I'm writing to ask in the nicest annoyed mama 189 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 2: way possible. Number one didn't get my email because I 190 00:10:51,160 --> 00:10:52,240 Speaker 2: sure didn't get a reply. 191 00:10:53,040 --> 00:10:53,520 Speaker 1: Number two. 192 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,800 Speaker 2: Is the matchmaking contest still happening? Or was that a 193 00:10:56,920 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 2: one time gimmick? 194 00:10:59,400 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 1: Gimmicks? No gimmicks, I'm just now I'm mad. What's her name? Sandra, Shandra? 195 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:08,559 Speaker 1: I'm coming for you. We don't do gimmicks. 196 00:11:08,720 --> 00:11:10,439 Speaker 2: I'm just a mama out here trying to help her 197 00:11:10,480 --> 00:11:13,040 Speaker 2: son find a little love. Don't leave me hanging oak 198 00:11:13,080 --> 00:11:13,800 Speaker 2: forward to hearing you. 199 00:11:13,880 --> 00:11:18,320 Speaker 1: So Schandra, Yes, Sandra Shandra. First of all, Number one, 200 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: don't come for us, Shando for me. And that's I 201 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:22,600 Speaker 1: come for you. 202 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,960 Speaker 2: And you haven't checked your email because I went in 203 00:11:25,760 --> 00:11:28,840 Speaker 2: and I searched your email because and I found the 204 00:11:28,920 --> 00:11:33,160 Speaker 2: email at least receats receipts receipts receipts. This email was 205 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:35,800 Speaker 2: sent to you on April sixteenth. 206 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:36,920 Speaker 1: Read your email. 207 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 2: I'm going to read it. 208 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: No, I'm telling her to read her receipts receipts, receipt receipts. 209 00:11:44,000 --> 00:11:47,559 Speaker 2: Yes, so I'm going to tell you what it says, Hey, Sandra. 210 00:11:48,679 --> 00:11:51,200 Speaker 2: The subject line is thank you for participating in the 211 00:11:51,200 --> 00:11:55,559 Speaker 2: reasonably Shady matchmaking experience. The body of the email reads, 212 00:11:55,559 --> 00:11:58,559 Speaker 2: Hey Shandra, thank you so much for sending a submission 213 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 2: for your son Damien. We absolutely love reading your submission. 214 00:12:03,000 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 2: His energy, his values, and his vibe truly stood out. 215 00:12:06,520 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 2: After carefully reviewing all current submissions, we haven't found the 216 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,440 Speaker 2: perfect match for him this round, okay, And while that 217 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,280 Speaker 2: might feel a little disappointing, the right person just wasn't 218 00:12:17,320 --> 00:12:17,959 Speaker 2: in this. 219 00:12:17,960 --> 00:12:18,720 Speaker 1: Mix, damn. 220 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 2: We appreciate Damien being part of the reasonably Shady matchmaking 221 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:27,360 Speaker 2: experience and sending love your way, Love, Robin Angezel. Okay, 222 00:12:27,480 --> 00:12:29,200 Speaker 2: this is April sixteenth, Chandra. 223 00:12:29,360 --> 00:12:32,320 Speaker 1: Check your email, and you don't really want to find 224 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:34,719 Speaker 1: love for your son because you would have read that 225 00:12:34,720 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: that was very specific. That was a very good letter 226 00:12:37,000 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 1: that I did not write. My name is signed on 227 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:42,040 Speaker 1: the bottom. It is this excellent letter. So you really 228 00:12:42,040 --> 00:12:44,439 Speaker 1: didn't want to find love for your son, otherwise you 229 00:12:44,480 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 1: would have known the competition was over and we couldn't 230 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,120 Speaker 1: find love for him unless he wants to date me. 231 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:52,680 Speaker 1: And you don't want that. You don't want that, Okay, 232 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:55,080 Speaker 1: So we're done with this. 233 00:12:55,280 --> 00:12:58,240 Speaker 2: Yes, so I want to Okay, anyone listen out here. 234 00:12:58,280 --> 00:13:05,720 Speaker 2: So we did have we didn't get as many applicants, like, 235 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:07,440 Speaker 2: we didn't get the right mix. 236 00:13:08,240 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 1: Yes, we didn't get the good We got a lot 237 00:13:09,800 --> 00:13:11,960 Speaker 1: of women. We didn't get a lot of guys right, 238 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:16,040 Speaker 1: and and then you know, because we had, like if 239 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 1: we got a lot of guys gay guys to match, 240 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 1: but and I don't have enough straight guys. 241 00:13:22,160 --> 00:13:23,800 Speaker 2: I need to do research. I need to dig a 242 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:25,680 Speaker 2: little deeper and find out why we didn't find a 243 00:13:25,720 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 2: match for Damien. And I'm sorry for that. But for 244 00:13:27,640 --> 00:13:29,400 Speaker 2: whatever reason, we did not, And I hope you trust 245 00:13:29,480 --> 00:13:31,840 Speaker 2: us with that opinion. But we did message you and 246 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:34,440 Speaker 2: tell you that, so I'm sorry. But for anyone else 247 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:39,600 Speaker 2: that we did match, I wonder, like, did y'all did 248 00:13:39,640 --> 00:13:40,200 Speaker 2: y'all got. 249 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 1: On a date because we're we said we'd marry you. 250 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 2: Right, did y'all follow up on this? Because I know 251 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:47,760 Speaker 2: some people we matched and y'all like never reached out 252 00:13:47,800 --> 00:13:49,920 Speaker 2: to each other. We're like, yes, you know, okay, we 253 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:51,720 Speaker 2: found your match, would you like us to connect you? 254 00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:54,040 Speaker 2: And then y'all was like, oh no. 255 00:13:54,320 --> 00:13:57,040 Speaker 1: So y'all weren't serious. Y'all thought this was a gimmick. 256 00:13:56,840 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 2: Right exactly. But so if there is anyone who actually 257 00:14:01,520 --> 00:14:04,439 Speaker 2: communicated with their match, with the match that we made, like. 258 00:14:04,600 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 1: Let us know, definite, let us know, And if you're 259 00:14:06,640 --> 00:14:08,280 Speaker 1: about to get married, like let us know, because I 260 00:14:08,280 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: need to put it on like I'm very busy. I 261 00:14:10,679 --> 00:14:12,520 Speaker 1: need to put it on my calendar. Yes, because I 262 00:14:12,559 --> 00:14:15,120 Speaker 1: will be there. Do I have to take the class 263 00:14:15,200 --> 00:14:15,960 Speaker 1: to be an efficient? 264 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:16,439 Speaker 2: I think? 265 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: So we have to do something to be something. We'll 266 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:23,360 Speaker 1: do that. Yes, okay, I think we're out here alrighty 267 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: then okay, all right, that's our mail bank Bane