WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Grease Monkey

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jebels second d Everybody knows that the best place

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<v Speaker 1>to meet hot dudes isn't out at the bar or

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<v Speaker 1>at the gym, It's at the Jiffy Loop. Am I right?

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<v Speaker 1>All those mechanics in there, just being sexy, working underneath cars,

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<v Speaker 1>shooting each other down with oil guns, pouring gasoline all

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<v Speaker 1>over each other, messing with each other's dip sticks. All

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of sexy stuff happens at the mechanic. Vicky's on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone right now, and that's apparently where she met

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<v Speaker 1>the guy that she wants to call today. He was

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<v Speaker 1>working on her car and now he wants to work

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<v Speaker 1>on something else. Yeah, what's up, VICKI? How you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing good? Did I paint an accurate picture

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<v Speaker 1>of what was going on? You're getting your card exactly? Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about how you met this guy.

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<v Speaker 1>It said in your email that he was a mechanic

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<v Speaker 1>working on your car or something. Yeah, my car was

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<v Speaker 1>really giving me a lot of trouble, and I took

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<v Speaker 1>him into a mechanic and it ended up needing a

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<v Speaker 1>lot more work than I had hoped, as it always does.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's be honest, it was not looking good

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<v Speaker 1>and one of the guys he was just I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>he was just incredibly helpful. He made sure that I

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<v Speaker 1>understood what was wrong and um, and then what needed

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<v Speaker 1>to be done and like the options that I had.

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<v Speaker 1>And it wasn't that he was being like extra attentive,

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<v Speaker 1>like creepy or extra tent of flirty. It was just

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<v Speaker 1>that he really seemed to be interested in what he did,

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<v Speaker 1>and like that I understood what was going on. So

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what happened. I don't usually ask guys out,

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<v Speaker 1>but all of a sudden I just asked him. I

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<v Speaker 1>just said, you know, I really appreciate this. You're so sweet.

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<v Speaker 1>Would you like time to drink sometime? What's his name?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, his name is Chris. Sorry, Chris. I

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<v Speaker 1>just wondered ends his name as I was wanting. I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe that that fantasy actually worked out for you.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, there's always the image of like the hot

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<v Speaker 1>guy mechanic in the uniform with the oil and all

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<v Speaker 1>of that, but usually I end up with like some

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<v Speaker 1>sixty five year old, overweight, half balding man. Well, there

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<v Speaker 1>were a lot of that hype or own mirror, but

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<v Speaker 1>thankfully he was not one of them. He was very

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<v Speaker 1>yet he's not one yet. He's not old enough to

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<v Speaker 1>give him a little more time in the shop. And

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<v Speaker 1>I'll get to that point. So you guys went out.

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<v Speaker 1>What did you do for your date? We just enough

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<v Speaker 1>for a drink. I thought, you know, keep it simple,

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<v Speaker 1>so um, we drove ourselves. We met at a bar.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I really just wanted to get to know

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<v Speaker 1>him a little better, because you know, there's only so

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<v Speaker 1>much you can get to know while somebody's working on

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<v Speaker 1>your car, right, And I thought we had a pretty

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<v Speaker 1>nice time. So how long, I mean, was conversation easy

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<v Speaker 1>for you? Actually? Not? You know, not in the beginning

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<v Speaker 1>of good kind of slow. And you know, there was

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<v Speaker 1>a moment where I was like, wow, maybe we just

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<v Speaker 1>don't have anything to talk about. But the truth, we

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<v Speaker 1>just you know, we'd come for a pretty different backgrounds

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<v Speaker 1>and we have pretty different jobs, like I worked in

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<v Speaker 1>an office. But after we um, you know, small talk

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, we actually ended up having really fun

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<v Speaker 1>conversations about like goofy childhood stories and I had a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun. Was there any awkward moment from the

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<v Speaker 1>date that you can think of? Any reason? Why he

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<v Speaker 1>wouldn't be calling you back. Yeah, there is okay what happened? Tone, well,

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<v Speaker 1>it is a sad tone because there was a couple positive.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, when you're getting to know somebody and they

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<v Speaker 1>can be awkward and you just don't it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>fumbling for things to say, and things can be going

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<v Speaker 1>pretty well. But then there was a lull and I

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<v Speaker 1>just I just said, so are you doing the mechanic

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<v Speaker 1>thing right now? Why you go to school to learn

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<v Speaker 1>to do something out? And I don't understand why. It's

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<v Speaker 1>not that I think, I mean, clearly it's you can

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<v Speaker 1>see what it. Yeah, I can't believe I said. What

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<v Speaker 1>was his response to that? I mean appropriate? You know,

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<v Speaker 1>was I mean probably it should have been more vehement.

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<v Speaker 1>He just kind of like didn't look at me and

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<v Speaker 1>was like, no, like you know, this is my career.

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<v Speaker 1>So it might have come off like you were talking

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<v Speaker 1>down to him a little bit because he's a Greek.

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<v Speaker 1>It doesn't believe I said that. And do you, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel that way? Like could you be with

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<v Speaker 1>somebody who has a blue collar job? Yes, I don't.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I wouldn't have even it wasn't like I

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<v Speaker 1>thought oh, don't ask this guy out. He's worked on

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<v Speaker 1>your car. It was like, asked this guy out, he's

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<v Speaker 1>been so kind to you, Like, I don't know why.

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<v Speaker 1>I was just trying to think of something to say,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was not the right thing. Did you apologize

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<v Speaker 1>for saying or did you try to act like it

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<v Speaker 1>didn't happen. I kind of just tried to move on.

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<v Speaker 1>How did the date end? Then? Well, thankfully we were

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<v Speaker 1>there for about another like forty five minutes hours, so

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<v Speaker 1>we had driven separately, which I you know, if that

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<v Speaker 1>was a good idea. And he walked me to my

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<v Speaker 1>car and gave me a kiskunye and um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like a real kiss, and like a real kiss, like

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<v Speaker 1>not like a scary groping kiss, but like a real kiss. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>just stop and go hey before you leave, any fluids

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<v Speaker 1>need to be tough for you. He did not say that.

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<v Speaker 1>He did not. And I said, you know, I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to do this again sometime, and he said sure.

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<v Speaker 1>And I said, okay, well you know, call me, which

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<v Speaker 1>he did not. How long has it been now? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I texted him after about three days and he texted back.

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<v Speaker 1>He just was like, you know, I'm just really busy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I said, okay, well, let's talk soon. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I texted me a him a couple of days after that,

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<v Speaker 1>and he hasn't got back. And you were like, how

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<v Speaker 1>busy can you be? I work in an office, I've

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<v Speaker 1>got a lot of meetings. You're just working on cars. You. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I did not say that to him, as considering what

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<v Speaker 1>I had already said to him, right, that kind of terrible.

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<v Speaker 1>So you haven't heard anything from him though since your

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<v Speaker 1>last text. Oh, I haven't, but I definitely had the

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<v Speaker 1>feeling like this is worse having another date, like some

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<v Speaker 1>more time together. All right, well, we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call him and get your second date update. Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, hang rucking jubil in the morning. Second if

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<v Speaker 1>you're just tuning in for the second part of today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update, A girl named Vicky is on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and she wants to call a guy who loubed

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<v Speaker 1>her up on the first date. Oh gosh, do not

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<v Speaker 1>say that you can her car? That is well, I

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<v Speaker 1>guess I don't really know exactly what she had done

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<v Speaker 1>on her car, but he was her mechanic and she

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<v Speaker 1>actually asked him out. They went out to a bar

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<v Speaker 1>for some drinks. She thought everything went cool, but now

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<v Speaker 1>he's not calling her back. The one thing that she

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<v Speaker 1>can think of that might have screwed everything up was

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<v Speaker 1>when they were talking. She said, hey, so is the

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<v Speaker 1>mechanic thing just something you're doing to put yourself through school?

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<v Speaker 1>And he was like, no, this is my career. And

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<v Speaker 1>she thinks she might have sounded a little judge, but

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<v Speaker 1>we're not sure because they still hung out for over

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<v Speaker 1>an hour after that, and she even ended the date

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<v Speaker 1>with a kiss. All right, Vicky, you ready to give

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<v Speaker 1>him a call? I am. And you didn't add anti

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<v Speaker 1>your conversation after, you know, kind of putting down his

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<v Speaker 1>career choice, anything about how many degrees you have and

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<v Speaker 1>how great college was. I did not. Okay, you should

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<v Speaker 1>have just rubbed it in, making sure. I mean, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it was great. But college is for everybody,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's okay, It's true. I didn't go to college.

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<v Speaker 1>And look how well I've done. Maybe I think, yes, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm terrible at my job. I should have learned a

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<v Speaker 1>little more. Okay, here we go. Hey, can I speak

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<v Speaker 1>to Chris? Please? Hey, Chris, what's up? Man? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewil from Brooke and Jewil in the Morning. What No, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Jewel from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you are you familiar with the show? Come on,

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way this is real? Like, no, this is

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<v Speaker 1>this is actually Jewil from Brooke and Jewel in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Are serious? Yeah, we're all here. Hi got the out

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<v Speaker 1>of here? I can't. I'm sorry. I need to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you about something. You have a minute? Yeah? Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>jose Man, I love your laugh. What's up, Chris? What

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<v Speaker 1>are you up to right now? I can't believe this

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<v Speaker 1>is really happening. We listened to you guys in the

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<v Speaker 1>shop all the time. This is crazy awesome. Well, thank you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate it. Oh Man. You ever hear the second

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<v Speaker 1>date updates? Yeah? Of course? Oh cool. Well you're about

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<v Speaker 1>to be a part of one. What. Yeah, we recently

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<v Speaker 1>got an email about you from a girl you went

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<v Speaker 1>out with who her name is Vicky. Oh yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>remember Vicky. You worked on her car and then she

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<v Speaker 1>asked you out. Yeah? Yeah I do. How awesome was that?

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, how often does that happen to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Where all that you're working on her car asks you

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<v Speaker 1>out on a date? Surprisingly more than you think. My friend,

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, you must be so hot. Chris, Well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that's that's code for yes, absolutely all right,

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<v Speaker 1>chrisy you hot mechanic. You let me ask you a question,

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<v Speaker 1>Then why aren't you calling her back? She says that

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<v Speaker 1>she's texted you a few times after your date and

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<v Speaker 1>asked if you want to go out, but you're not

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<v Speaker 1>getting back to her. I mean, look, it's just it's

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna work out, okay, But why did you Why

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<v Speaker 1>would you kiss her at the end of the day

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<v Speaker 1>if you thought that, I mean, it was it was

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<v Speaker 1>a cool date. Just I just don't think it will

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<v Speaker 1>work out. Why though, is there something specific that happened?

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<v Speaker 1>Not really, I'll tell you what she's told us. She

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<v Speaker 1>said that she thought there was an awkward moment when

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<v Speaker 1>she asked you, like, oh, are you just a mechanic

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<v Speaker 1>to put yourself through school or whatever? And then you

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<v Speaker 1>answered no and told her that being a mechanic is

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<v Speaker 1>your career and then she felt bad about that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that. I mean, I didn't really the question,

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<v Speaker 1>but I could tell she wasn't trying to be mean

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<v Speaker 1>or anything like I could. I could tell she was

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<v Speaker 1>like sincere about it. I just it just came across

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<v Speaker 1>the wrong way. It's no big deal. Okay, Well then

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<v Speaker 1>then why why don't you want to see her again?

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<v Speaker 1>But I've been in this situation before, man Like, girl

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<v Speaker 1>asked me out, Like I work on her car. She

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<v Speaker 1>asked me out. We go out, We have a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she takes advantage of me. Man, isn't that

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<v Speaker 1>the point of a date to get taken advantage of

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<v Speaker 1>by a girl? I like it when they take advantage

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<v Speaker 1>of me after a date. That's not exactly what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean like they always want discounts on their cars

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<v Speaker 1>and stuff, and like they don't want to pay as

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<v Speaker 1>much just because they think I liked them. You know

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<v Speaker 1>you know how that works. Did she hit you up

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<v Speaker 1>for a discount? No? Yeah, but I know she will. Man, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>she's way out of my league. There's no way she

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<v Speaker 1>likes me for real. What thought you were darling and

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<v Speaker 1>kind and good looking? She had only nice things to

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<v Speaker 1>say about you. She's just saying that because she wants

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<v Speaker 1>something out of me. But she didn't even ask you

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<v Speaker 1>about a discount. How do you know that we went

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<v Speaker 1>on one date? It's how it works. Like, I remember

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<v Speaker 1>this one girl. She was way out of my league.

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<v Speaker 1>She came up to me, she wants to ask me out.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great time. I got I'll be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>I got a little too connected, too quick. But that's

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<v Speaker 1>not the point. She just she was leading me on

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<v Speaker 1>and everything. I thought she was gonna, you know, be special,

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<v Speaker 1>and then all of a sudden, she just asked from

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<v Speaker 1>a discount. I give it to her, of course, because

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<v Speaker 1>I really like her, and then I never hear from

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<v Speaker 1>her again. Are you kidding me? That honestly happens to you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>she's just she's way out of my league. Like she's

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<v Speaker 1>way too smart, she's way too pretty, she's sexy as hell,

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<v Speaker 1>Like she knows like we have the same she pretends

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<v Speaker 1>at least we have the same Interest's good. So are

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<v Speaker 1>you so skeptical of her because you think she's out

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<v Speaker 1>of your league. I'm a skeptical because I think she's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna just use me and then never talk to me again. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but everyone has that fear, right, Like, that's the hard

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<v Speaker 1>piece of dating. If you get cheated on once you

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<v Speaker 1>think that the next person is going to do it,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't, you know, put old pass stuff into new relationships.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not fair to her. Look, I've been working on

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<v Speaker 1>a car for last week, week and a half. I

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<v Speaker 1>know how much it's going to cost her to fix it,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, I'm telling you you guys just don't understand. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I do know someone that has the answer to that question. Chris. Gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's on the phone, isn't she? Yep? Did you forget

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<v Speaker 1>about that part? It's a second date update and Vicky

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<v Speaker 1>is actually on the line listening. Why, Chris, are you serious? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>You really think that's what I'm doing. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>good reason to believe that. Yeah, I think I can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe that's what you think. I don't want a discount.

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<v Speaker 1>I have no interest in it. I'll never ask for

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<v Speaker 1>a discount. I just I just want to go on

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<v Speaker 1>another date with you. I mean, I like you for you,

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<v Speaker 1>not for some discount that I could get from my car.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sure you won't be saying that once I fix

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<v Speaker 1>your breaks. Yeah, I mean, I can't believe that you

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<v Speaker 1>even think that. Nothing in what we talked about showed

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<v Speaker 1>that I was anything like that kind of person. I'm not.

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to go on one more date with

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<v Speaker 1>you to get to know you a little bit better.

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<v Speaker 1>It has nothing to do with my car. So you're

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<v Speaker 1>telling me you you you a girl with a degree

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<v Speaker 1>and everything, who passed all these you know, tests and

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<v Speaker 1>everything like that. You want to go out with a

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<v Speaker 1>guy like me, a guy who works on cars all

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<v Speaker 1>day and doesn't have much of an education. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that is what I'm telling you. That I did not

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<v Speaker 1>ask you out because you were or were not a mechanic,

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<v Speaker 1>just because you were really kind to me and I

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<v Speaker 1>thought it might be nice to get to know you better.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, Vicky. I mean, you're telling me all

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<v Speaker 1>this now, and it sounds great, but once once I

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<v Speaker 1>finished your car and you're asking me for the twenty

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<v Speaker 1>percent discount on when your brakes and your wheel and

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<v Speaker 1>all that, it's just, oh my god. You know what,

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<v Speaker 1>how about how about you finished the car, I pay

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<v Speaker 1>for the car, We're done with the whole car situation,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we go out there. Yeah, that's that's great,

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<v Speaker 1>But you know, do you have another car that you

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<v Speaker 1>need work on? Come on, Chris, hey, Chris, No, no, Chris,

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<v Speaker 1>I only have one car. Are you willing to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with men that only has one car? Chris, would

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<v Speaker 1>you go on a second date with Vicky? We'll pay

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<v Speaker 1>for it one more day. If you say no, this

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<v Speaker 1>will be the only dumb thing that you do. Vicky,

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<v Speaker 1>you're telling the truth. Do you really like me for me? Yes? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I like you for you enough to go on the

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<v Speaker 1>radio and say, can we please go on another day? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt she'd put all this effort in just to

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<v Speaker 1>get a little bit of a discount on a car.

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<v Speaker 1>Work Chris, I mean, are you kidding? We had a really?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I had a really nice time. I really

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy spending time with you. I thought, God, this is

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<v Speaker 1>so nice. Maybe we should do this again. I didn't think, gosh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is so nice. We should do this again so

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<v Speaker 1>I can get something from my car? Who knows, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. It's just a second date, but I would

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<v Speaker 1>really like to go on one so we can hang

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<v Speaker 1>out for her. I mean, I had a good time too,

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<v Speaker 1>But that's that's why I'm so sculptical. Skeptical. Well, life

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<v Speaker 1>is risky, Chris. Come on, yeah, all right, I'll go out.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do it again. You'll do it all right? Awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>Congratulations Vicky, you got your second date. Thank you? I

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<v Speaker 1>loved this second date. I'm already planning your guys's marriage

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<v Speaker 1>in my head. Hey Chris, Hey, Chris, thank you for

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<v Speaker 1>your time. Yeah? Yeah, now that I got you on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone, Chris, I got this rattling when I steer

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<v Speaker 1>my car. Didn't get that done? All right? I got

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<v Speaker 1>your broken jewel. In the morning, what do you mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Do you mean this show continuing to give people hope

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<v Speaker 1>in humanity? Sproken Jubil in the morning, talking about today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date up They just got a text in at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eight, five to nine two says there's still hope

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<v Speaker 1>that there's good people out there. Yeah. I get discouraged

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<v Speaker 1>by the often unsuccessful second date updates, but this one

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<v Speaker 1>gave me hope. If you missed it, this girl, VICKI

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to call a guy named Chris. They went out

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<v Speaker 1>on a date, had a good time and everything. We

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<v Speaker 1>got him on the phone to find out why he

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't calling her back. She's a very smart, successful college

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<v Speaker 1>educated woman. He's a mechanic who has low self confidence, basically,

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<v Speaker 1>just to sum it up, and he was like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>she's way too good for me, and I'm just a

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<v Speaker 1>mechanic and she's only using me so she can get

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<v Speaker 1>a discount on some breaks or something. And somebody text

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<v Speaker 1>it in at seven eight five to nine two said,

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<v Speaker 1>my husband is a mechanic, and yes, that stuff really happens.

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<v Speaker 1>People just try to use him for discounts on car work.

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<v Speaker 1>At the end of the second day up, they did

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<v Speaker 1>agree to go out again because she promised him that

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<v Speaker 1>she actually likes him for him and not the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that he might be able to give it her ten

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<v Speaker 1>percent on ten percent off on some break. She had

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<v Speaker 1>to beg him, beg him to go out with her again.

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<v Speaker 1>Somebody else texted in at seven eight five nights. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>Chris reminds me of Stan from a streetcar named Desire.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a little too deep for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>Or if you want to do a second day update,

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<v Speaker 1>art do this email the show and we will call

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<v Speaker 1>the person who didn't call you back. See Seattle Station

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<v Speaker 1>for a while