1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:04,520 Speaker 1: All right tomorrow morning, the winning continues at seven twenty 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,840 Speaker 1: eastern six twenty Central time. Uh. You know we're giving 3 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: away a chance to win Steve's grand prize of one 4 00:00:11,480 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 1: million dollars. That's right. We're playing a little game called 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:18,000 Speaker 1: are You Smarter than Nephew, Tommy, And all you have 6 00:00:18,079 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: to do is go to Steve Harvey f M dot 7 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 1: com to register? All right, especially the people all right today? 8 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 1: He lost today? Though, yes he did, though, yes, yes, lord. Uh, 9 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:36,320 Speaker 1: I'll be back now, let's get that understood. I will 10 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 1: be back. We'll be all right, Tommy. Now it's time 11 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:44,199 Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, 12 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:46,920 Speaker 1: on dating, on work, on sex, on parenting, and more, 13 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,720 Speaker 1: please submit your letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com 14 00:00:50,760 --> 00:01:05,400 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter. Up tight, thank you. Uh, 15 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:12,119 Speaker 1: we don't know so many people subject today? Right? Does 16 00:01:12,280 --> 00:01:16,000 Speaker 1: size really matter? Let's get into it, Dear Stephen Shirley. 17 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 1: Hold on, hold on, hold on, we're going to first 18 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: what was that? Yes, it does, I answered the Yeah. 19 00:01:27,400 --> 00:01:29,399 Speaker 1: She was answering the question. Okay, I don't even know 20 00:01:29,400 --> 00:01:33,600 Speaker 1: what we're talking about, though, well, in her mind, it 21 00:01:33,720 --> 00:01:40,960 Speaker 1: doesn't matter it just matters, all right, losing do Stephen Shirley. 22 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,399 Speaker 1: I'm a thirty three year old man and my girlfriend 23 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,560 Speaker 1: is thirty one. We have been together for over five years, 24 00:01:46,600 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: and when I met her, she was a single mom, 25 00:01:49,360 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 1: working part time as a waitress and barely making ends meet. 26 00:01:54,360 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: So we started dating, and I stepped in and started 27 00:01:57,120 --> 00:02:00,760 Speaker 1: doing everything for her as a man should. She will 28 00:02:00,800 --> 00:02:03,600 Speaker 1: admit that I was the best thing that ever happened 29 00:02:03,600 --> 00:02:07,360 Speaker 1: to her. Now, five years later, she's finished college and 30 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,640 Speaker 1: she's got a great job. I've always supported her with 31 00:02:10,720 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: anything she's wanted to do, and after our two year 32 00:02:14,040 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: anniversary of dating, I had planned to ask her to 33 00:02:16,880 --> 00:02:20,080 Speaker 1: marry me, but I had a big financial setback and 34 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:23,840 Speaker 1: I had to put that on hold. My commitment to 35 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,040 Speaker 1: her never changed, and I gave her a small diamond 36 00:02:27,120 --> 00:02:29,799 Speaker 1: ring as a token of my love to show her 37 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 1: that I did plan to make it official soon. She 38 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 1: stopped wearing the ring a week after I gave a tour. 39 00:02:36,800 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: She said it was too small. Everything is back on 40 00:02:39,880 --> 00:02:43,200 Speaker 1: track financially now, and I've saved a little money for 41 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: a new ring. Without knowing that I was about to propose, 42 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,720 Speaker 1: she has started pressuring me to get married. She has 43 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 1: even shown me an example of the ring and the 44 00:02:53,280 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 1: size diamonds she wants. I can't afford what she wants 45 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,920 Speaker 1: right now, and it makes me mad every time she 46 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:02,560 Speaker 1: brings it up. I am honestly starting to question if 47 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: she values the ring and the wedding ceremony over the 48 00:03:06,280 --> 00:03:09,600 Speaker 1: strong bond and family life that we've built. Should I 49 00:03:09,680 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: be honest with her and tell her I can't afford 50 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 1: the ring she want, or should I just get the 51 00:03:14,800 --> 00:03:18,079 Speaker 1: ring I can't afford and propose anyway. I don't want 52 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:22,200 Speaker 1: to disappoint her. Please help. Wow? What a man? What 53 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: a man? What a man? Okay? Can I just say you, sir, 54 00:03:26,080 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: are a good man? Yeah? Just like the song goes, 55 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:31,440 Speaker 1: what a man? You know that song? Um, you're what 56 00:03:31,560 --> 00:03:34,600 Speaker 1: real women dream of. Um, you're you're that night in 57 00:03:34,680 --> 00:03:37,440 Speaker 1: Shining Armor. You know in the fairy tales, that prince 58 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,600 Speaker 1: Charming character. Um again, what a man? I mean? Women 59 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: say they want a good man, They want, you know, 60 00:03:43,880 --> 00:03:46,960 Speaker 1: a man to come and help out and and support 61 00:03:47,000 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 1: them and things like that. And clearly you are one 62 00:03:49,640 --> 00:03:52,600 Speaker 1: of those who do just that because you really love 63 00:03:52,640 --> 00:03:55,120 Speaker 1: and care about this woman, and if everything in this 64 00:03:55,240 --> 00:03:57,800 Speaker 1: letter is true. Um, and that's all we have to 65 00:03:57,840 --> 00:04:01,160 Speaker 1: go by here. Um. I hope a girl realizes that 66 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: before it's too late with her ungrateful, but I mean 67 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:06,880 Speaker 1: you came in and changed her life. She was working 68 00:04:06,920 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: as a waitress, a single mom, uh and and not 69 00:04:09,880 --> 00:04:13,360 Speaker 1: doing very well according to the letter until you stepped in. 70 00:04:13,480 --> 00:04:16,800 Speaker 1: So you changed her life. Of course, most women, I mean, 71 00:04:16,920 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: you know, let's let's be honest here. Most women want 72 00:04:19,560 --> 00:04:22,840 Speaker 1: a big, beautiful, sparkly diamond on her ring on her 73 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,760 Speaker 1: ring finger and everything. Um, you know that's what we want. 74 00:04:26,920 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 1: But you know, when financial reality sets in and start 75 00:04:30,400 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: to dictate what you can actually afford. Um, you know 76 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: that's a different story. The fact that you suffered a 77 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:39,480 Speaker 1: financial setback and still bought her ring at all to 78 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:43,000 Speaker 1: show intent was really really good here. So you asked 79 00:04:43,000 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: the question, should you be honest with her and tell 80 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,480 Speaker 1: her you can't afford what she wants? Yeah, be honest 81 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: with her. Communicate, Communication is always good. Tell her you 82 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: know that that's not what you wanted to get her 83 00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: right now, but you're saving to get her a bigger 84 00:04:55,800 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 1: and better ring because you know that's what she wants. 85 00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,599 Speaker 1: Or or you could just get her the ring that 86 00:05:01,640 --> 00:05:04,000 Speaker 1: you can can't afford. You know, what is it? Three 87 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:06,400 Speaker 1: months salary? I think is the rule on that or 88 00:05:06,440 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 1: something that you spend on a on an engagement ring. 89 00:05:10,160 --> 00:05:12,520 Speaker 1: I don't say, um, you know, put yourself in any 90 00:05:12,520 --> 00:05:15,039 Speaker 1: sort of financial buyd to take care of her because 91 00:05:15,040 --> 00:05:17,680 Speaker 1: who knows if she'll appreciate it. Anyway, If you want 92 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 1: to propose to her, if you can see yourself living 93 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:22,719 Speaker 1: with her as your wife, uh, go ahead. I understand 94 00:05:22,800 --> 00:05:25,720 Speaker 1: you don't want to disappoint her, but you can't, um, 95 00:05:26,160 --> 00:05:29,400 Speaker 1: you know, get yourself in financial straits just trying to 96 00:05:29,480 --> 00:05:31,760 Speaker 1: please her, because I don't know if she's a kind 97 00:05:31,839 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: that will ever be pleased after all you've done for her. Jay, 98 00:05:37,160 --> 00:05:42,640 Speaker 1: what you need to do, sir, it's find a woman 99 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:47,919 Speaker 1: that would be happy, would decide you got and that's 100 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:54,560 Speaker 1: in anything, okay, find a woman that's happen because it's 101 00:05:54,600 --> 00:05:58,800 Speaker 1: never big enough, you never got enough, house, you never 102 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: got enough, it's never long enough, you never fat enough, 103 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,600 Speaker 1: you're too skinny. So find a damn woman that when 104 00:06:08,640 --> 00:06:12,440 Speaker 1: she sees the size you got with what you've given 105 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: her in anything, she is happy. And until you find 106 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 1: that woman, trust me, there's some women out there who 107 00:06:20,880 --> 00:06:25,719 Speaker 1: would love to have the size you given. Right now, 108 00:06:26,279 --> 00:06:30,680 Speaker 1: you ain't got to get bigger of nothing, and I 109 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:34,480 Speaker 1: mean nothing. Is this personal for your chance? This personal? 110 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:39,080 Speaker 1: Damn emotional? Yeah, because I'm speaking to the men who 111 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: don't have a lot to get. You know, you given? 112 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: Then you gotta hit Is that it? Yes, that's it. 113 00:06:50,120 --> 00:06:53,320 Speaker 1: She stopped wearing the ring because she said it was Yeah, 114 00:06:55,600 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: that's too small. What damn it? That's all I got. 115 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,120 Speaker 1: No more. I can't tell you how many times you've 116 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:10,840 Speaker 1: heard and pay good money by that line. Fixes here perfectly, 117 00:07:11,000 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: and that's happy with the side you've got. You'll be 118 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: happy and let her move on and find a big one. 119 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: That's all I got to say. Still better, come on, 120 00:07:23,240 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 1: come on, Junior, and I'm with Jake. Another part. We 121 00:07:28,080 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 1: gotta added that too, stop her girlfriend from talking to her. 122 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: Y'all need to find some new friends, because that's what happened. 123 00:07:36,360 --> 00:07:39,960 Speaker 1: Oh that's all he got you. That's Oh, that's how 124 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 1: much he loved you. Oh he can't do better than that. 125 00:07:43,080 --> 00:07:46,000 Speaker 1: Oh that's all it is. Girl. I don't know how 126 00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: you be with somebody like that. Hang on, Junior, hang on, 127 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:51,440 Speaker 1: We're gonna We're gonna take a short break here. We'll 128 00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 1: be back to recap today's strawberry letter. The subject does 129 00:07:55,840 --> 00:07:57,680 Speaker 1: size really matter? And we got to hear from the 130 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,800 Speaker 1: nephew on this. We'll be back at twenty three after 131 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:07,040 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stahow. Okay, here's a recap of 132 00:08:07,120 --> 00:08:11,240 Speaker 1: today's straw strawberry letter. The subject is the size really matter? 133 00:08:12,080 --> 00:08:19,920 Speaker 1: Hitted Carla? Yes, okay, you mr ce al Right this 134 00:08:19,920 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: this man wrote in He's thirty three years old, his 135 00:08:22,960 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: girlfriend is thirty one. They've been together for about five 136 00:08:25,600 --> 00:08:27,920 Speaker 1: years now. When he met this woman, she was a 137 00:08:27,920 --> 00:08:30,640 Speaker 1: single mom. She was working part time as a waitress, 138 00:08:31,040 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: and she was barely making ends meet. So they started 139 00:08:34,320 --> 00:08:36,960 Speaker 1: dating and he stepped in, he said as a real 140 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: man would do, and started doing everything for her. He um, 141 00:08:42,480 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: you know, she will admit, he says that she was 142 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: He was the best thing that happened to her. Five 143 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:50,560 Speaker 1: years later, now she's finished college, she's got a great job. 144 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:53,719 Speaker 1: He's always supported her with anything she's ever wanted to do. 145 00:08:54,160 --> 00:08:57,480 Speaker 1: And after their two year anniversary of dating, he wanted 146 00:08:57,480 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: to ask her to marry him. He had planned to propose, 147 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 1: but um, he had a little financial setback okay, so 148 00:09:04,400 --> 00:09:06,679 Speaker 1: he wasn't able to get the ring that he wanted 149 00:09:06,720 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: to get her, So he got her a small diamond 150 00:09:09,520 --> 00:09:11,960 Speaker 1: as a token of his love to show that he 151 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,000 Speaker 1: did plan to make an official soon. Well, after a week, 152 00:09:15,080 --> 00:09:17,600 Speaker 1: she stopped wearing the ring that he bought her because 153 00:09:17,600 --> 00:09:20,400 Speaker 1: she said it was too small. Uh. Now he says, 154 00:09:20,440 --> 00:09:23,280 Speaker 1: everything is back on track financially. He saved some money 155 00:09:23,280 --> 00:09:26,200 Speaker 1: for new ring, and without even knowing he was about 156 00:09:26,240 --> 00:09:29,679 Speaker 1: to propose, she started pressuring him to to get married 157 00:09:29,920 --> 00:09:34,080 Speaker 1: married so um. She even showed him a picture of 158 00:09:34,080 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: a ring that she wanted and he can't afford that. 159 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: So he's in a dilemma. Should he, you know, go 160 00:09:39,559 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: ahead and go over his budget and buy this ring 161 00:09:41,880 --> 00:09:45,120 Speaker 1: that she wants or should he just tell her that 162 00:09:45,360 --> 00:09:48,439 Speaker 1: he can't afford it, okay, because he's starting to question 163 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:52,400 Speaker 1: whether it's the marriage and bond family bond that she 164 00:09:52,480 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: wants or is it just a ring and a ceremony 165 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: that she wants. So that's where we are now. Uh 166 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 1: we've heard from uh, we've heard from me. I told 167 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,959 Speaker 1: him he was a very good man, and uh she 168 00:10:04,160 --> 00:10:13,400 Speaker 1: was ungrateful. Uh, Jay said leave move on. And then, Junior, 169 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:17,080 Speaker 1: you were saying before we had to go to break 170 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 1: and then we'll hear from the nephew. Of course, get 171 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,560 Speaker 1: her girlfriends to stop talking to her. You don't have to, 172 00:10:23,679 --> 00:10:25,760 Speaker 1: because that's what the problem me is. Right there, they 173 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 1: saw the little low ring and started making them comments. Girl, 174 00:10:28,840 --> 00:10:30,240 Speaker 1: I know he got a little bit more than that. 175 00:10:31,520 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 1: Oh that's all you got is that? That's it? Five years. 176 00:10:34,880 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 1: You can't get a bigger ring. You gotta get her 177 00:10:36,920 --> 00:10:40,040 Speaker 1: phone number changed. I'm telling you right now, got changed. 178 00:10:40,240 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: All right, Junior, thank you, thank you for that. The 179 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:45,680 Speaker 1: subject of today's Strawberry letters does size really matter? We 180 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 1: got to hear from the nephew what you got. This 181 00:10:48,280 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 1: is pretty simple. This is really really simple. Uh it's 182 00:10:52,000 --> 00:10:54,160 Speaker 1: it's not hard. I want you all to hear me, 183 00:10:54,200 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: and hear me. Will okay, Get you a small old 184 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 1: woman and the ring will be bigger. You a smaller 185 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:11,120 Speaker 1: woman and the ring will be bigger. Let me tell 186 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:13,320 Speaker 1: you something. If you went to little women in l A, 187 00:11:13,559 --> 00:11:16,120 Speaker 1: they would be blown away by this ring you just bought. Boy, 188 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:24,120 Speaker 1: you stand me. Get you a smaller woman and the 189 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:31,320 Speaker 1: ring will be bigger. Never tell you something you don't 190 00:11:31,440 --> 00:11:38,000 Speaker 1: every word that I don't woman. She don't want to 191 00:11:38,000 --> 00:11:43,760 Speaker 1: know Lexus wants you understand saying a smaller woman won't 192 00:11:43,800 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: smaller things. You don't want no house. There's two thousand, 193 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: three thousand square feet. You know what she won't You 194 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:52,880 Speaker 1: want a tiny house. You're a smaller woman wants something 195 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,760 Speaker 1: that's comfortable. Does that make sense? You don't want to 196 00:11:57,760 --> 00:12:00,000 Speaker 1: look at Thanksgiving? She don't want to big play the foot. 197 00:12:00,280 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 1: She wants a food Okay, she wants a cornershan. Yes, yes, 198 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,320 Speaker 1: when you get her, solda, she don't need a sixteen hours, 199 00:12:11,400 --> 00:12:15,760 Speaker 1: she need eight ours. Get a smaller woman and the 200 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: ring will be You ain't got a bad white screen 201 00:12:18,920 --> 00:12:22,520 Speaker 1: and seven two inch No, it's too much. She can't 202 00:12:22,520 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 1: look across that. That fun looked like she had the movies. Yes, 203 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 1: you got about big bed queen side twins. Yes for 204 00:12:38,360 --> 00:12:44,000 Speaker 1: a grown woman. Yeah, yeah, for a grown little woman. 205 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: So keep the ring, keep the smaller down the side 206 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,920 Speaker 1: the walking. Did you did you not hear the line 207 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: when I read I don't want to disappoint her? Did 208 00:12:58,480 --> 00:13:02,679 Speaker 1: you hear he doesn't want about we think about No, 209 00:13:04,080 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: I'm passing. First of all, he's not Shirley, Shirley, get word, 210 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:15,000 Speaker 1: freeways ain't the only thing with Sands. He's already giving up. Sad. 211 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:20,679 Speaker 1: He's a sad When you see these side exit get off, 212 00:13:22,000 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 1: time to go. We're driving somewhere. What is he talking about? 213 00:13:26,040 --> 00:13:30,280 Speaker 1: We grabbed a better relationship. That's what a relationship freeways 214 00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 1: ain't with sand Somebody has a tumidut is sids that 215 00:13:34,559 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: that looked like I has an exit? Get out of this. 216 00:13:38,679 --> 00:13:43,920 Speaker 1: Agree that she's ungrateful. Yeah, you're a smaller woman. Many, Yeah, 217 00:13:43,960 --> 00:13:49,280 Speaker 1: she's ungrateful. She is um Like, that's probably a great, 218 00:13:49,360 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: big old woman. You can't great bigger woman. You can't 219 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:56,760 Speaker 1: get her a little ring. You can't do it. I'm 220 00:13:56,800 --> 00:14:08,520 Speaker 1: sorry you all her friends, she loved Tommy. Yeah, this 221 00:14:08,600 --> 00:14:11,760 Speaker 1: is um you know, it's just really sad because he 222 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: he's been there for her. Yeah, he's doing the best 223 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:17,360 Speaker 1: that he can do. I mean, I'm sure later he 224 00:14:17,400 --> 00:14:19,760 Speaker 1: can do better, but right now, this is he's doing 225 00:14:20,080 --> 00:14:25,480 Speaker 1: the best he can do. I mean, he he brought her, 226 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 1: he bought her a smaller ring because that's all he 227 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 1: could afford at the time, to show his intent and 228 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,480 Speaker 1: the fact that he would want to propose to her 229 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:37,720 Speaker 1: a later date, and then she kept telling she stopped 230 00:14:37,960 --> 00:14:41,680 Speaker 1: wearing the small ring, and she kept showing him pictures 231 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:44,720 Speaker 1: of the bigger ring. But he can't afford that, and 232 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:47,080 Speaker 1: he wants to know should he tell her that he 233 00:14:47,120 --> 00:14:50,320 Speaker 1: can't afford that big rings rings? She really won't it 234 00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 1: her girlfriends. You're back on that episode of Martin's You 235 00:15:00,360 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: Look You Marie, So I got the big receipt in 236 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:07,360 Speaker 1: the bad Alright, guys, we got to get out of here. 237 00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:10,440 Speaker 1: Email us your Instagram, what's your thoughts on today's Strawberry 238 00:15:10,480 --> 00:15:13,200 Speaker 1: Letter at Steve Harvey f M and coming up in 239 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:17,280 Speaker 1: about ten minutes comedy Roulette with the Villains. Right after this, 240 00:15:17,920 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show