1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,320 Speaker 1: Am I wrong for canceling our wedding? This is okayop 2 00:00:03,600 --> 00:00:07,120 Speaker 1: home to the craziest true stories on Earth. I'm Sophia 3 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,280 Speaker 1: and Riley. What do you think? 4 00:00:09,440 --> 00:00:13,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, you're wrong. Doubling down, doubling down, You're totally wrong. 5 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:17,360 Speaker 1: I'll go I'll go opposite and say, no, okay, you 6 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:18,880 Speaker 1: should cancel that wedding. 7 00:00:18,600 --> 00:00:19,360 Speaker 2: Facts. 8 00:00:19,440 --> 00:00:24,160 Speaker 1: Your partner is the worst. We've been engaged for three years. 9 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:25,239 Speaker 1: That's a long engage. 10 00:00:25,600 --> 00:00:27,960 Speaker 3: Long what's the back you would go like a year, 11 00:00:28,400 --> 00:00:33,000 Speaker 3: a year and a half maybe for tim but a year, Yeah. 12 00:00:32,440 --> 00:00:35,800 Speaker 1: I guess it. Yeah, it depends on like, I don't know, 13 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:39,600 Speaker 1: I think, I think, I think maybe year and a half. Yeah, 14 00:00:40,360 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: just because I feel like if you're you're you're getting 15 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:46,320 Speaker 1: engaged unless something like unless like I had a cousin 16 00:00:46,320 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: who waited because it was COVID, Like, unless it's some 17 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:56,040 Speaker 1: some crazy thing happens, then I feel like an engagement. 18 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:56,000 Speaker 3: Is you know. 19 00:00:56,760 --> 00:01:00,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, Yeah, we've. 20 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 1: Been engaged for three years. My fiance went on a 21 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:07,480 Speaker 1: trip of a lifetime six weeks in Europe. She decided 22 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,840 Speaker 1: that we would take a break in our relationship, allowing 23 00:01:09,880 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 1: me no input in the decision. 24 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 2: That's a huge red flag. 25 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,760 Speaker 1: I think straight off the bat and this engagement. 26 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, get out of there. That's so strange. 27 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:24,000 Speaker 1: I called her to the day she left and had 28 00:01:24,040 --> 00:01:29,200 Speaker 1: me blocked. Oh my god, Oh my god. So I 29 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:31,520 Speaker 1: canceled our marriage and her moving in with me in 30 00:01:31,600 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: March before we even go any further. This is so 31 00:01:35,360 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: obviously like she blocked you and told you that she 32 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:41,440 Speaker 1: wanted a break from the relationship. That is so fair 33 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:42,400 Speaker 1: to cancel a marriage. 34 00:01:42,480 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's like breaking up. If someone says we should 35 00:01:44,720 --> 00:01:46,440 Speaker 3: take a break, we're breaking up. 36 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: I don't think necessarily it's breaking up, but I think 37 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: if you're about to get married, that is absolutely grounds 38 00:01:52,640 --> 00:01:53,559 Speaker 1: for calling off the wedding. 39 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, because you can't be like we're on, 40 00:01:56,960 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 3: I'm gonna take a break and then be in Europe 41 00:01:58,840 --> 00:02:00,080 Speaker 3: with some fancy it's. 42 00:02:01,400 --> 00:02:05,280 Speaker 1: And block your partner who engaged to you, who you 43 00:02:05,320 --> 00:02:09,320 Speaker 1: were engaged to. She called me today to inform me 44 00:02:09,360 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 1: of her arrival time on Thursday morning, to which I answered, 45 00:02:12,560 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: what does that have to do with me? And since 46 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:19,200 Speaker 1: then locked her Edit I should explain better. I was 47 00:02:19,280 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: fine with their trip with her old college sisters. In fact, 48 00:02:21,680 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: I dropped her off at the airport and took her 49 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 1: to boarding. That is when she dropped the whole break 50 00:02:26,160 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 1: thing on me. Didn't explain it, just told me matter 51 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:31,919 Speaker 1: of fact and left. I called her the rest of 52 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,720 Speaker 1: the day and tried to call her when I was 53 00:02:33,760 --> 00:02:36,640 Speaker 1: able to the rest of the week. After five days 54 00:02:36,680 --> 00:02:39,520 Speaker 1: of ignoring me, I had enough and the wedding was off. 55 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:41,920 Speaker 1: She can move in with someone else because it's not 56 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: going to be me. And there is an update. We 57 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:48,840 Speaker 1: have a group chat among people close to us today. 58 00:02:48,919 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: I informed them all that our marriage is canceled and 59 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:52,679 Speaker 1: our relationship is over. 60 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 2: Oooh wow? 61 00:02:54,480 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 1: Did that? At about ten am the chat quite literally exploded, 62 00:02:58,880 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: starting with questions about what happened, which I answered honestly. 63 00:03:02,639 --> 00:03:05,239 Speaker 1: About two pm, she started just asking me to call 64 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,600 Speaker 1: her so we could discuss this. I told her that 65 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:10,919 Speaker 1: talking on chat is perfectly fine. What no, no, no, no, 66 00:03:11,440 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: she said, no, this is something between just us. Still 67 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 1: have not spoken with her. Last message from her at 68 00:03:16,680 --> 00:03:19,160 Speaker 1: six pm please pick me up at the airport so 69 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:21,799 Speaker 1: we can talk this out as planned. I answered her 70 00:03:22,040 --> 00:03:24,960 Speaker 1: that was your plan, not mine. None of this was 71 00:03:24,960 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: my plan. Her flight is at nine am. I wish 72 00:03:27,480 --> 00:03:32,239 Speaker 1: her luck Okay, I think it's fair that they're canceling 73 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:34,200 Speaker 1: or that he's calling off the marriage. However, I think 74 00:03:34,240 --> 00:03:35,520 Speaker 1: he should talk to her one on one. 75 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, he should talk to her one on one. 76 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:39,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, I think he owes her that. 77 00:03:40,000 --> 00:03:41,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but like she can't expect him to pick him 78 00:03:41,840 --> 00:03:43,960 Speaker 3: up at the airport, no tak a different time. 79 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 1: I think I don't think that she should expect anything 80 00:03:47,080 --> 00:03:49,080 Speaker 1: from him, like relationship wise, but I think I think 81 00:03:49,080 --> 00:03:50,840 Speaker 1: they do have to have a conversation about it. 82 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:52,960 Speaker 2: It feels like she just needs a ride from the airport. 83 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:55,760 Speaker 1: Please pick me up as we planned, you have to 84 00:03:55,840 --> 00:03:57,960 Speaker 1: be here, you have to be here talk and then 85 00:03:58,000 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: we're on a rak. 86 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:00,680 Speaker 2: But he might not feel if we're talking to her 87 00:04:00,720 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 2: one on one. 88 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:02,720 Speaker 1: I just think they needed to have a face to 89 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,320 Speaker 1: face chat because to tell a whole group chat before 90 00:04:06,360 --> 00:04:08,640 Speaker 1: actually having conversation with your fiance. 91 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:12,360 Speaker 2: It's a little weird, too weird, But. 92 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 1: There are some relevant comments Opie on whether the X 93 00:04:14,840 --> 00:04:17,799 Speaker 1: said anything. Yes, she said, for the duration of the trip, 94 00:04:17,839 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 1: we are taking a break from our relationship. I got 95 00:04:20,800 --> 00:04:22,880 Speaker 1: angry and asked her, what the hell does that mean? 96 00:04:23,000 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 1: She said we would talk about it when she got back. No, 97 00:04:26,240 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: she waited till she was boarding to tell me about 98 00:04:28,600 --> 00:04:30,679 Speaker 1: the break part. I was okay with the trip until 99 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,360 Speaker 1: then she was going with five girls from college. And 100 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: then Muff and Fairy says, that is absolutely wild that 101 00:04:36,720 --> 00:04:38,840 Speaker 1: she did that. Has she done stuff like this before, 102 00:04:39,600 --> 00:04:42,320 Speaker 1: OPI says? Opie says no, this was a first. 103 00:04:42,480 --> 00:04:42,840 Speaker 4: Wow. 104 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,200 Speaker 1: I felt very ambushed her telling me about the break 105 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:48,279 Speaker 1: as she was about to board for her flight out. 106 00:04:48,880 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 1: Dim Grun seventy one says, not wrong, but please follow 107 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,440 Speaker 1: up unless she still blocked what is her reaction? I 108 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:57,320 Speaker 1: guess if it were me and my partner wanted to 109 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,240 Speaker 1: take a six week break like that, I would dump 110 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: them too, And if I was asked why, I would 111 00:05:01,720 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 1: say that they had blocked me from their life for 112 00:05:03,920 --> 00:05:06,000 Speaker 1: six weeks and I decided that I was okay with 113 00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: that and much more. But what about your family and friends? 114 00:05:09,160 --> 00:05:12,560 Speaker 1: Is anyone trying to defend her? Op says yes, it 115 00:05:12,600 --> 00:05:14,719 Speaker 1: seems she has called a few friends in our circle 116 00:05:14,720 --> 00:05:17,600 Speaker 1: of friends. They started blowing up my phone last night 117 00:05:17,839 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 1: asking what is going on? And when someone else asks, 118 00:05:21,760 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: does Ope's family know? Told my parents immediately they were shocked. 119 00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: Our friends. I waited, I shouldn't have, but I was 120 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 1: embarrassed and depressed. Spent most of the last few weeks 121 00:05:32,240 --> 00:05:35,839 Speaker 1: feeling sorry for myself and pain shopping. I sent out 122 00:05:35,839 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: a message to our group chat informing them that our 123 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,840 Speaker 1: wedding and relationship are off and my phone has been 124 00:05:40,839 --> 00:05:45,560 Speaker 1: blowing up ever since. Uh yikes, I yeah, Like, why 125 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,400 Speaker 1: are the fans It seems like the friends are really 126 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:52,559 Speaker 1: on the fiance side mm hmmm, which is weird because 127 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:54,599 Speaker 1: she literally just like left for six weeks. I feel 128 00:05:54,640 --> 00:05:56,719 Speaker 1: like they're getting they're not getting all the information. 129 00:05:56,839 --> 00:06:00,279 Speaker 2: Yeah, they got her conversation a round table. 130 00:06:00,480 --> 00:06:03,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, and the dish dish that would be. 131 00:06:05,440 --> 00:06:07,160 Speaker 2: I feel like you can only do that a few times, 132 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,680 Speaker 2: sit around a round table and like just dish issues 133 00:06:10,720 --> 00:06:11,400 Speaker 2: like this around. 134 00:06:11,720 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: Yeah, you get you get three round table discussions in 135 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: your life. 136 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,480 Speaker 2: In your life, you have to choose them. 137 00:06:18,839 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: Very I am fear. The Fuzzy says, you're not wrong, 138 00:06:23,080 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: but you were not engaged. It doesn't take three years. 139 00:06:25,720 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: Did you have a date set? Opie says August tenth. 140 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 1: We've been saving to buy a house. Were they not engaged? 141 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:32,160 Speaker 1: I'm confused. 142 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:36,720 Speaker 3: Oh, so they've been engaged for three years they're like, 143 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 3: it doesn't take three years to get married. 144 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:41,679 Speaker 2: What was your date? Yeah, and then he said August tenth. 145 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 1: Interesting OPI on the X and our social media presence 146 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: those six weeks, I was blocked everywhere I could think of. 147 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:51,640 Speaker 1: That is very strong, so strange. That is not okay, 148 00:06:51,839 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 1: that's really weird. 149 00:06:53,440 --> 00:06:53,640 Speaker 2: Uh. 150 00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:55,839 Speaker 1: And this is from a woman who posts pics of 151 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:58,400 Speaker 1: her breakfast, So she posted no pics of a huge 152 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:01,960 Speaker 1: six week vacation. It's a straight up cover up on 153 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:04,560 Speaker 1: getting the ring back. It was my grandmother's, so I 154 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:07,400 Speaker 1: want it back. And I have a plan going to 155 00:07:07,400 --> 00:07:09,280 Speaker 1: make it a term of her getting a face to 156 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:11,520 Speaker 1: face talk like she wants. And yes, it's going to 157 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,559 Speaker 1: be in a public place like a coffee shop. 158 00:07:14,200 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 2: Yep, as it should be. 159 00:07:16,360 --> 00:07:18,280 Speaker 1: She definitely deserve, Like, yeah, you definitely need a face 160 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,240 Speaker 1: to face talk. But oh my god, she blocked you 161 00:07:20,320 --> 00:07:21,160 Speaker 1: for six weeks. 162 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 2: That's insane. 163 00:07:23,160 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 3: That's crazy of someone that sounds like they post regularly. 164 00:07:26,320 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, what were you doing? She was not doing anything good? 165 00:07:29,880 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 1: No, had no, That's what I'm worried about. I'm like, 166 00:07:32,240 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: was she like did she want this break so she 167 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:34,520 Speaker 1: could cheat on you? 168 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 2: That's what it sounds like yeah. 169 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:40,160 Speaker 1: And there is an update. First Off, I got my 170 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 1: ring back and it's safe with my mom. That's good. Secondly, 171 00:07:43,640 --> 00:07:45,840 Speaker 1: I would like to thank everyone for keeping me grounded 172 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,320 Speaker 1: while I was doubting myself. I'm not sure who said it, 173 00:07:48,360 --> 00:07:50,360 Speaker 1: but someone said that I shouldn't bother with what she 174 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,560 Speaker 1: did on her trip and focus on her breaking up 175 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,240 Speaker 1: with me at the airport, which I did, and it 176 00:07:55,360 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 1: was not what she was prepared to argue about. So 177 00:07:57,640 --> 00:08:00,480 Speaker 1: now she knows how it feels to be blindsided. Also 178 00:08:01,760 --> 00:08:04,760 Speaker 1: seems her college sisters told her I would be insecure 179 00:08:04,800 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 1: and fight about something I couldn't hope to prove, so 180 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:09,360 Speaker 1: when I didn't, she didn't know what to do. At 181 00:08:09,400 --> 00:08:11,920 Speaker 1: one point, she excused herself to go to the restroom 182 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:15,239 Speaker 1: and didn't come back for twenty minutes. Seems the brain 183 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,520 Speaker 1: trust was at a lost. Was at a loss too, Oh, 184 00:08:18,600 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 1: so do you have any vacation. 185 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:21,760 Speaker 2: Ideas the brain trust? 186 00:08:22,240 --> 00:08:24,120 Speaker 1: I don't know what that means. I think maybe like 187 00:08:24,200 --> 00:08:26,239 Speaker 1: she needed to go collect her thoughts because she didn't 188 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,880 Speaker 1: have any excuses for what he brought up. Because I 189 00:08:28,920 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: feel like she probably expected for him to be like, 190 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 1: you cheated on me. While you were away, and she 191 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: had all these things like no, I didn't, like, I 192 00:08:35,679 --> 00:08:37,400 Speaker 1: can't believe you would think that you have no trust 193 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:40,320 Speaker 1: in me. And then he was like, no, you blocked 194 00:08:40,360 --> 00:08:42,880 Speaker 1: me and you know told me that we were on 195 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: a break right before leaving. 196 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:48,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, anytime I have any more relationship, like advise 197 00:08:49,040 --> 00:08:51,480 Speaker 3: everyone and read it. Yeah, this is phenomenal because you 198 00:08:51,520 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 3: probably read all these comments and was like, well, if 199 00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,359 Speaker 3: she says this, say that if you get every scenario, whatsoever. 200 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:57,599 Speaker 5: Is they give it? 201 00:08:57,720 --> 00:09:01,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, they had all the backups and backupsh relevant comments. 202 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: Though mccron in seventy seven said, did she attempt to 203 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:07,880 Speaker 1: explain or justify her springing a breakup on you as 204 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:11,320 Speaker 1: she boards the plan or blocking you on everything? Opie 205 00:09:11,320 --> 00:09:13,760 Speaker 1: said she even tried to change the subject to what 206 00:09:13,880 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 1: happened on the trip instead of what happened between us 207 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:19,640 Speaker 1: at the airport. That is what she prepared for. It's 208 00:09:19,679 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 1: like when you get when you're on a test and 209 00:09:21,720 --> 00:09:23,880 Speaker 1: you get like an essay question that you weren't really 210 00:09:24,200 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 1: prepared for, and so you try to like gear it 211 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:27,199 Speaker 1: towards something that you. 212 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:29,959 Speaker 2: Have I know exactly what I mean. Yeah, Yeah, that's Yeah, 213 00:09:29,960 --> 00:09:31,199 Speaker 2: that's what she's changed the question. 214 00:09:31,320 --> 00:09:32,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, you changed the questions? 215 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 2: You going today? 216 00:09:33,360 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 3: So the weather has been a significant decline. 217 00:09:38,040 --> 00:09:41,120 Speaker 1: As you can see by the Oh you know. John 218 00:09:41,240 --> 00:09:44,719 Speaker 1: John twenty three forty five six says how far did 219 00:09:44,760 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: you let her get? I admit I'm a little interested 220 00:09:47,200 --> 00:09:49,560 Speaker 1: in the story they came up with. Opie says, I 221 00:09:49,600 --> 00:09:51,320 Speaker 1: told her what she did after she broke up with 222 00:09:51,400 --> 00:09:54,320 Speaker 1: me wasn't any of my business, so I could care less. 223 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: So true snaps have her parents reached out? Spoke with 224 00:09:59,880 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: the parents last night. Woke me up. They must have 225 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,040 Speaker 1: forgotten about the time difference between coasts. They offered to 226 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:07,160 Speaker 1: pay for couples therapy to help us work through this 227 00:10:07,280 --> 00:10:10,640 Speaker 1: rough patch, as her mother called it. Told him told them, no, 228 00:10:10,760 --> 00:10:14,360 Speaker 1: thank you. She ended our relationship. I like that he's 229 00:10:14,440 --> 00:10:17,320 Speaker 1: holding his ground. Yeah, do your parents know the truth? 230 00:10:17,679 --> 00:10:20,880 Speaker 1: She told them a water down version where I'm overreacting. 231 00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: I told them exactly what happened, and she made it 232 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:26,680 Speaker 1: out that while on vacation she would be unable, she 233 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: would be unavailable to communicate with where I told them 234 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:32,120 Speaker 1: exactly what was said. That is such bs because I 235 00:10:32,160 --> 00:10:33,760 Speaker 1: was on a three month I was on a three 236 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:36,760 Speaker 1: month trip, and I like talked to my mom mom 237 00:10:36,840 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: like maybe once a day, really maybe every other day. 238 00:10:40,400 --> 00:10:42,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, I like called my mom like every three or 239 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:44,480 Speaker 2: four days. Yeah, They're like, are you lie? 240 00:10:44,840 --> 00:10:47,120 Speaker 1: I talked to like my friend, I mean certain friends. 241 00:10:47,200 --> 00:10:48,960 Speaker 1: I it was harder to talk to you every day, 242 00:10:49,320 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 1: but I definitely talked to them at least once to 243 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: two times a week. So yeah, I know this is 244 00:10:55,679 --> 00:10:58,720 Speaker 1: outrageous and like much less this is a fiance. 245 00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:01,839 Speaker 2: Yeah. 246 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:04,680 Speaker 1: And yeah, also she lied like it's not even that 247 00:11:04,720 --> 00:11:06,719 Speaker 1: she wasn't able to communicate, she blocked him. 248 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 2: Yeah. 249 00:11:07,800 --> 00:11:11,520 Speaker 1: Has op checked her social media since I stupidly, I know, 250 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:13,679 Speaker 1: checked to see if I was still blocked on her 251 00:11:13,679 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: socials and amazing yes, oh and amazingly yesterday she posted 252 00:11:18,559 --> 00:11:22,280 Speaker 1: thirty pictures from her trip and a full recap of 253 00:11:22,320 --> 00:11:25,320 Speaker 1: what they did and saw. The pictures are of places 254 00:11:25,320 --> 00:11:28,360 Speaker 1: in France, Italy and Spain. Most are group shots with 255 00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:31,000 Speaker 1: all six of them like tourist style ones, and others 256 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,480 Speaker 1: are churches and museums and a few shops. All are 257 00:11:33,559 --> 00:11:36,560 Speaker 1: during the day, like a tour or something. And who 258 00:11:36,559 --> 00:11:39,000 Speaker 1: were her friends on the trip? These were her college 259 00:11:39,040 --> 00:11:42,520 Speaker 1: sorority sisters that chat on Facebook Messenger, but few and 260 00:11:42,559 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: far between. I have only met two of them a 261 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 1: few times and they were nice enough to me. 262 00:11:46,320 --> 00:11:46,760 Speaker 2: Interesting. 263 00:11:47,040 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, and then the ex on reaching out since it's 264 00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: funny how a woman can do creepy stockers and it's fine, 265 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:55,679 Speaker 1: but a guy does the same thing and he's straight 266 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,640 Speaker 1: up going to jail. Baffling to me, she's leaving letters 267 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: for me with people she knows I will interact with, 268 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: like the security guy out of my building, with my 269 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,679 Speaker 1: receptionist at work. The letters are a little more than 270 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: pleading with me to not throw us away for nothing 271 00:12:08,080 --> 00:12:12,079 Speaker 1: and professing her love for me. That is That's strange. 272 00:12:13,520 --> 00:12:17,160 Speaker 3: Dang it is it strange? I wouldn't do anything. I 273 00:12:17,200 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 3: don't know if I would, Okay, I'm just saying. 274 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:21,640 Speaker 1: So far as to say it's stock grey. 275 00:12:22,400 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 2: Yeah. 276 00:12:22,679 --> 00:12:24,760 Speaker 3: I'm saying if I had a letter and I wanted 277 00:12:24,760 --> 00:12:26,120 Speaker 3: someone to have it, but I knew they weren't going 278 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:28,960 Speaker 3: to give contact, I write one big letter, give it 279 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:31,240 Speaker 3: to someone I know we'll give it to them directly, 280 00:12:31,280 --> 00:12:32,400 Speaker 3: and then just leave it at that. 281 00:12:33,080 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 1: Mm. Yeah, I think I think leaving one letter is 282 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:37,880 Speaker 1: fine because you can be like this is like what 283 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: I wanted to say to you read it if you 284 00:12:40,800 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: can or not. But leaving multiple letters with just like 285 00:12:42,920 --> 00:12:44,120 Speaker 1: a bunch of random people is weird. 286 00:12:45,880 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 2: I can find you that. Yeah, you can't hide from me. 287 00:12:50,080 --> 00:12:54,960 Speaker 1: Ope heads to Scotland for a vacation. I'm leaving Monday 288 00:12:55,000 --> 00:12:57,720 Speaker 1: and my old college roommate lives in Edinburgh, so I'm 289 00:12:57,720 --> 00:13:00,280 Speaker 1: going to do some popcrawling with them and see if 290 00:13:00,280 --> 00:13:03,080 Speaker 1: Scottish food is really a dare. I would like to 291 00:13:03,080 --> 00:13:06,080 Speaker 1: thank everyone for helping me stand back up. I was 292 00:13:06,120 --> 00:13:09,280 Speaker 1: depressed and feeling quite worthless. I leave tomorrow for my 293 00:13:09,320 --> 00:13:12,319 Speaker 1: first trip across the pond. I think they say, I'm 294 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:14,640 Speaker 1: going to nerd out with my buddy and explore and 295 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 1: explore Edinburgh, which in the picks I looked at seems amazing. 296 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:19,120 Speaker 2: It is amazing. 297 00:13:19,200 --> 00:13:21,200 Speaker 1: I loved it. It was my favorite place. I will 298 00:13:21,200 --> 00:13:23,400 Speaker 1: try to keep my Reddit family updated as much as 299 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:26,480 Speaker 1: I can. Once again, thank you all so much so. 300 00:13:27,559 --> 00:13:30,160 Speaker 1: And they also add it's the craziest thing. My cell 301 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,040 Speaker 1: phone worked just fine in Europe. 302 00:13:32,120 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 2: Who knew? How do you love it? 303 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: And then other people asked if the ax had tried 304 00:13:38,200 --> 00:13:41,200 Speaker 1: calling since Noise twenty three says, did she call you again. 305 00:13:41,320 --> 00:13:44,840 Speaker 1: Opie says she's blocked, but keeps asking in group chat 306 00:13:44,840 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 1: for me to please call her. Noise twenty three says, 307 00:13:47,520 --> 00:13:50,720 Speaker 1: I get, she understands that she oh, I get, she 308 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: understands that she destroyed the relationship. Opie says she's starting 309 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,480 Speaker 1: to take a beating in our group chat. Seems the 310 00:13:56,559 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 1: shock has worn off and our friends are realizing how 311 00:13:59,240 --> 00:14:02,079 Speaker 1: effed up what she did really was. Okay, I'm glad 312 00:14:02,120 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: they're on her side his side now. Noise exactly what 313 00:14:05,840 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 1: she deserved, and Opie says she keeps apologizing, but not 314 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:12,920 Speaker 1: what she is apologizing for. I'm assuming that means she 315 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 1: keeps apologizing but not for what she should be apologizing for. 316 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:19,640 Speaker 1: She can't even defend herself without making it worse, which 317 00:14:19,640 --> 00:14:21,960 Speaker 1: would be funny if it wasn't me on the receiving 318 00:14:22,040 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: end of this crap, and if she doesn't drop out 319 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,080 Speaker 1: of our chat group, our friends are really starting to 320 00:14:27,080 --> 00:14:28,120 Speaker 1: give her shit about it. 321 00:14:29,720 --> 00:14:30,680 Speaker 5: She keeps saying she's. 322 00:14:30,480 --> 00:14:32,200 Speaker 1: Sorry and that as soon as I'm ready to talk 323 00:14:32,240 --> 00:14:35,560 Speaker 1: and work through this, she'll be waiting. And she confirmed 324 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,120 Speaker 1: that she ghosted me, since she apologized it for it, 325 00:14:38,480 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: Since she apologized for it. On our group chat last night, 326 00:14:41,480 --> 00:14:43,240 Speaker 1: she is spinning that she was getting nervous about the 327 00:14:43,280 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 1: wedding and wanting some time to oft and wanted some 328 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:50,920 Speaker 1: time off to think, which isn't necessarily Like, if she 329 00:14:50,960 --> 00:14:53,000 Speaker 1: wanted some time to think, that's not necessarily the end 330 00:14:53,000 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: of the relationship. That's just the fact that she didn't 331 00:14:55,000 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: communicate any of this communicating and then blocked him on 332 00:14:57,800 --> 00:15:01,280 Speaker 1: then Yeah, no, if she she was having these feelings, 333 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: I think this is what she should have done. She 334 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: should have been like, Hey, I'm feeling a little bit 335 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,360 Speaker 1: nervous about the wedding, Like I'm having some maybe not 336 00:15:09,400 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: second thoughts, but I'm having just like some thoughts about it, 337 00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:13,760 Speaker 1: and I think I need some time to think about 338 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:14,720 Speaker 1: it alone. 339 00:15:16,120 --> 00:15:17,320 Speaker 2: Might be texting you back. 340 00:15:17,440 --> 00:15:19,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, I might not be texting you by as much, 341 00:15:19,320 --> 00:15:20,920 Speaker 1: but I still love you and I still care about 342 00:15:20,920 --> 00:15:23,360 Speaker 1: this relationship. I just need to like collect my. 343 00:15:23,320 --> 00:15:26,000 Speaker 3: Thoughts and then if he didn't respect that, then you 344 00:15:26,040 --> 00:15:27,800 Speaker 3: have the right yes, end it. 345 00:15:27,840 --> 00:15:33,360 Speaker 1: But at that point, yeah, just silence radio silence. Blocking 346 00:15:33,480 --> 00:15:34,840 Speaker 1: to the blocking is weird. 347 00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:38,040 Speaker 2: That's insane. Yeah, no, that's too far insane. 348 00:15:38,880 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 1: But that's that's the entirety of our story. 349 00:15:42,120 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, what would you guys do differently? Yeah? 350 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: Would you would you break up with this person? Would 351 00:15:46,360 --> 00:15:51,160 Speaker 1: you end the engagements or would you, like opee breakup 352 00:15:51,200 --> 00:15:54,600 Speaker 1: and then go off to Edinburgh? Yeah, because I probably 353 00:15:54,600 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: would do that. Yeah, I would love to travel. 354 00:15:57,920 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 3: Also, if you guys are like free on Tuesdays, Wednesdays 355 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,720 Speaker 3: and Fridays, come join our come join our streams. Yeah, 356 00:16:03,720 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 3: it's they're fun. We're about to do one here in 357 00:16:06,800 --> 00:16:07,520 Speaker 3: thirty minutes. 358 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:11,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, but hop on you you know what I mean. 359 00:16:12,080 --> 00:16:15,440 Speaker 1: This will be after that. But oh, retroactively hop. 360 00:16:15,280 --> 00:16:18,640 Speaker 2: On, retroactively hop on. That's that's us. Yeah, that's us. 361 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:19,200 Speaker 1: That's a wrap. 362 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:20,720 Speaker 2: That's a wrap. Uh. 363 00:16:20,760 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: If you love us, make sure to subscribe. 364 00:16:22,840 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 2: We Love You and Sorrow. 365 00:16:26,120 --> 00:16:28,240 Speaker 5: This is an episode from Deep within the Archives. 366 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:32,800 Speaker 4: Time for okop Relam. 367 00:16:33,040 --> 00:16:36,840 Speaker 6: Coworker cancels his wedding for his son's funeral, so I 368 00:16:36,960 --> 00:16:42,040 Speaker 6: decide to change his life man like, just bad LUs 369 00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,200 Speaker 6: the most insane amount of bad luck for this poor guy. 370 00:16:45,360 --> 00:16:46,880 Speaker 5: Series of unfortunate events. 371 00:16:46,960 --> 00:16:51,760 Speaker 6: Yes, my coworker recently lost his car, don't know the details, 372 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:54,520 Speaker 6: probably broke down or something, so he had to cancel 373 00:16:54,560 --> 00:16:57,640 Speaker 6: his own wedding for his son's funeral last weekend. So 374 00:16:57,680 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 6: he lost his car. Yeah, he lost his son and 375 00:17:00,760 --> 00:17:01,800 Speaker 6: now he's not getting married. 376 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:02,240 Speaker 4: Yes. 377 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,840 Speaker 6: Wow, that starts off right, like geez, he's in a 378 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 6: really shitty spot. I don't think this guy is one 379 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:11,520 Speaker 6: of those make someone feel sorry in order to take 380 00:17:11,520 --> 00:17:15,199 Speaker 6: advantage of them type. So I was already kind of 381 00:17:15,240 --> 00:17:17,919 Speaker 6: half assed looking around at newer cars, waiting for a 382 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,680 Speaker 6: deal for a few months but not needing one asap. 383 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:24,440 Speaker 6: When I hear this guy who's ubering to work every day, 384 00:17:24,520 --> 00:17:26,600 Speaker 6: I was like, holy shit, I just got to go 385 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 6: ahead and pull the trigger on a new to me 386 00:17:28,840 --> 00:17:30,960 Speaker 6: car and give him my old car. 387 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:33,040 Speaker 4: Beautiful. That's a great idea. 388 00:17:33,440 --> 00:17:36,400 Speaker 6: Ope, he's freaking nice as Ope, he's great. I've decided 389 00:17:36,440 --> 00:17:37,960 Speaker 6: I'm going to do it, but I have no idea 390 00:17:38,400 --> 00:17:41,120 Speaker 6: how to do it. I want to preserve his dignity, 391 00:17:41,160 --> 00:17:42,680 Speaker 6: so I'm not going to make a big show of it. 392 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:44,520 Speaker 6: In fact, I really don't like the fact that our 393 00:17:44,560 --> 00:17:47,600 Speaker 6: coworkers will figure it out when they see him driving 394 00:17:47,640 --> 00:17:49,919 Speaker 6: my car. I don't feel like I'm doing it for 395 00:17:49,960 --> 00:17:52,840 Speaker 6: self aggrandizement. Everything just happened to line up where I 396 00:17:52,840 --> 00:17:55,119 Speaker 6: can really help this guy. Yeah, it makes sense. So 397 00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:57,119 Speaker 6: what I would have done with this car is I 398 00:17:57,200 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 6: would have donated to NPR because I wouldn't get much 399 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:02,000 Speaker 6: traded and I don't want to hassle like with you know, 400 00:18:02,040 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 6: all the selling and stuff, right. 401 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:04,640 Speaker 4: And because O, he's a nude. 402 00:18:05,960 --> 00:18:08,160 Speaker 6: So how should I approach this? What is the most 403 00:18:08,240 --> 00:18:11,399 Speaker 6: graceful way to give this to him and refuse payment 404 00:18:11,440 --> 00:18:13,320 Speaker 6: to be offers? And I don't want it to be weird. 405 00:18:13,440 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 6: I mean, I know can only control my side of things, 406 00:18:15,560 --> 00:18:17,000 Speaker 6: but if there are some things I can say or 407 00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,040 Speaker 6: do that would make it easier, I'd appreciate some insights. 408 00:18:20,520 --> 00:18:22,160 Speaker 4: The GOP's overthinking it a little bit. 409 00:18:22,880 --> 00:18:23,720 Speaker 5: What do you think you should do? 410 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:26,960 Speaker 4: Uh, give him the car? 411 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:30,600 Speaker 6: I think paint the car a new color and then 412 00:18:30,880 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 6: like a mister, beast it and just like give it him. 413 00:18:33,800 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 4: Yeah, that we should go all the way. And it's like, hey, 414 00:18:36,720 --> 00:18:37,439 Speaker 4: I want to make. 415 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 7: A YouTube video that's got to millions of people. Yeah, 416 00:18:40,160 --> 00:18:43,399 Speaker 7: this guy locks down, he had to cancel his wedding. 417 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 7: So now I'm giving him a car, a brand new 418 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:49,600 Speaker 7: car to him, to him, that's just my old car. 419 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:51,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, but there is an update. 420 00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:54,159 Speaker 6: John oh So I showed up right as he was 421 00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,919 Speaker 6: walking across the lot to his truck to leave for 422 00:18:56,960 --> 00:18:59,439 Speaker 6: the week. Why does he have a truck? I ran 423 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 6: up and it was like, Hey, how you holding up? 424 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:04,480 Speaker 6: He sighed heavily and said, I'm getting through it because 425 00:19:04,800 --> 00:19:05,800 Speaker 6: I must get through it. 426 00:19:06,640 --> 00:19:08,520 Speaker 4: Wow, poor guy. 427 00:19:08,880 --> 00:19:11,160 Speaker 6: I asked, have you come to a solution for your 428 00:19:11,160 --> 00:19:14,119 Speaker 6: car problem? And he said again, and he sighed again 429 00:19:14,160 --> 00:19:17,480 Speaker 6: and said yeah. The solution is that I must have 430 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:21,399 Speaker 6: one and can't afford another. We're about twenty yards away 431 00:19:21,480 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 6: from employee parking and he could see both my cars. 432 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 6: So I said, well, this weekend, I bought that car 433 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,480 Speaker 6: point to a new car, So now I would like 434 00:19:29,520 --> 00:19:32,280 Speaker 6: to give you this one, point to an old car. 435 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 6: He was absolutely speechless, so I kind of started talking fast, 436 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:38,320 Speaker 6: and it was like, I couldn't find the title. It's 437 00:19:38,359 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 6: in my closet somewhere, but I have all the necessary 438 00:19:40,760 --> 00:19:43,600 Speaker 6: paperwork you need to bring to the IWA Dot Department 439 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:47,120 Speaker 6: of Transportation to transfer it into your name. I'll pay 440 00:19:47,160 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 6: for a replacement title if I can't find it, and 441 00:19:49,520 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 6: it's overdue for an oil change, so I'll get that 442 00:19:51,680 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 6: done this week while you're out too. I'll leave the 443 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:56,639 Speaker 6: keys on my desk, so you have them if you 444 00:19:56,680 --> 00:20:01,119 Speaker 6: get back after I leave on Friday. I attempt to 445 00:20:01,160 --> 00:20:04,399 Speaker 6: look into his eyes, but his mask has fogged his glasses, 446 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 6: and I continue, Yeah, they only offered me ninety eight 447 00:20:07,720 --> 00:20:09,560 Speaker 6: dollars for the car, and I didn't think it was 448 00:20:09,600 --> 00:20:11,560 Speaker 6: worth it, and I didn't really want the hassle of 449 00:20:11,600 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 6: selling it online. Also, I don't have the space at 450 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 6: home to keep it, so I thought to myself, why 451 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:19,000 Speaker 6: not let your coworker have it. So here we are. 452 00:20:20,080 --> 00:20:23,240 Speaker 6: He began shaking. It's fifteen degrees so I'm getting pretty 453 00:20:23,240 --> 00:20:25,399 Speaker 6: cold at this point, and I start hopping a little. 454 00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:27,879 Speaker 5: So would you take the car please? 455 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:31,760 Speaker 6: I ask, by way of concluding the offer and requesting 456 00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:36,320 Speaker 6: some kind of feedback. Immediately, he grabbed me around the 457 00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:39,679 Speaker 6: shoulders and pulled me in for a long, strong hug. 458 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 6: He is openly weeping into my hair. Now he is 459 00:20:43,880 --> 00:20:46,679 Speaker 6: saying something, but my scarf is muffling his words. But 460 00:20:46,720 --> 00:20:49,880 Speaker 6: I let him hang on until he decides to pull back. Finally, 461 00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:52,000 Speaker 6: he removed his glasses and he looked me in the 462 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,960 Speaker 6: eyes and said, you have changed my life with this gift. 463 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 6: I cannot describe what you have given me, so of 464 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:01,440 Speaker 6: course I started crying and rugged again. Then he said 465 00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:03,479 Speaker 6: I must be freezing and I am going to go 466 00:21:03,520 --> 00:21:05,919 Speaker 6: into the office immediately, so I did. He sat out 467 00:21:05,960 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 6: in his truck for a while before finally leaving for 468 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 6: the week, and I feel content that he did not 469 00:21:11,200 --> 00:21:14,920 Speaker 6: insist on haggling over money. Perhaps if he decides later 470 00:21:14,960 --> 00:21:16,640 Speaker 6: to bring it up, I will entertain what he has 471 00:21:16,680 --> 00:21:19,479 Speaker 6: to say, but for now I am well satisfied with 472 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,960 Speaker 6: how this turned out. Now I just had to fine 473 00:21:22,000 --> 00:21:22,679 Speaker 6: the damn title. 474 00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:25,640 Speaker 4: Yes, amazing. 475 00:21:25,640 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 7: You're a good deed for the day op, truly, Although 476 00:21:28,680 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 7: the truck is confusing. Where get this truck from? Maybe 477 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:36,840 Speaker 7: it's like maybe it's like a work truck or something. 478 00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:38,120 Speaker 5: Maybe maybe it's a work truck. 479 00:21:38,119 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 4: And then it's like, oh, he doesn't have a personal vehicle. 480 00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:45,560 Speaker 5: But damn good dope, you rock.