Speaker 1: Second date, up date.
Speaker 2: You ever been out with someone and thought, what am
Speaker 2: I doing? They are way out of my league?
Speaker 3: Haha.
Speaker 4: I don't think I say no, they've.
Speaker 2: Got some liars in the room, because everybody's felt that.
Speaker 2: But have you ever had your own mother tell you, sorry, honey,
Speaker 2: that girl is way out of your leaves. Oh, you
Speaker 2: should give up and save yourself the embarrassment.
Speaker 1: My mom thinks I'm the most handsome man in the world.
Speaker 2: There's no way again, another good liar there. But the
Speaker 2: day That's what happened to one of our listeners, Alex.
Speaker 2: His own mom doesn't believe that he's got game.
Speaker 4: I mean, you relate to this so heavily, don't you, Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: I do.
Speaker 2: But Alex proved her wrong by hanging out with a
Speaker 2: solid seven according.
Speaker 5: To him, and getting a cheap hotel.
Speaker 1: Room with her.
Speaker 2: Alex or with some of what I said exaggerated for entertainment.
Speaker 3: Well, technically it wasn't my hotel.
Speaker 6: I mean, it was it was hers.
Speaker 1: But yeah, okay, pay for it. That's right at the
Speaker 1: hotel room.
Speaker 6: Yeah, she was out of town, so it was a
Speaker 6: business that.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, Jeffery, you painted it. Yes, that was exaggerated
Speaker 4: for entertainment purposes.
Speaker 2: Okay, I was hoping that was perfectly accurate. But why
Speaker 2: don't you start from the beginning. Tell us about this
Speaker 2: girl you met?
Speaker 3: Well, you said solid seven. I agree, but you know,
Speaker 3: chatfash is really beautiful and.
Speaker 4: Does she have it?
Speaker 5: Wait?
Speaker 4: Does she have a name?
Speaker 6: Yeah, her name is Tiffany.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, how'd you meet her?
Speaker 3: So?
Speaker 6: We went on a dating app.
Speaker 3: We were just swiping, and I guess she was looking
Speaker 3: for something because she came from out of town.
Speaker 4: If you're like coming in from out of town and
Speaker 4: you're getting on Tinder, are you just bored? Are you
Speaker 4: looking for a one night like?
Speaker 2: Well, let's not sell our man short that like she
Speaker 2: just matched with him because she was bored looking to
Speaker 2: kill tom? I think I think she saw something that
Speaker 2: she liked on that dating press.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean that's what Yeah, that's what I'm going for.
Speaker 6: You know, I post a lot of like shirtless picks
Speaker 6: and stuff.
Speaker 3: So if anyone comes out from out of town and
Speaker 3: you know, they getting into wow, I think.
Speaker 4: She definitely was only looking for what if she swiped
Speaker 4: right on a shirtless dude and she's in town for
Speaker 4: one night kind of goes together.
Speaker 1: How did the date go?
Speaker 6: It was going it was going great. We're having a
Speaker 6: good time.
Speaker 4: At first, Where did you guys meet? Just like at
Speaker 4: her hotel, like at the bar.
Speaker 3: Yeah, just kind of like at the bar across the
Speaker 3: street kind of thing.
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought it.
Speaker 6: Was going well because she did. Eventually she took me
Speaker 6: to her hotel room.
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, not much, not much to do there, I
Speaker 3: think he'll I think.
Speaker 4: He's being sarcastic.
Speaker 6: I'm not. I'm not being sarcastic. There's not a lot
Speaker 6: of stuff to do in a hotel room.
Speaker 3: To do.
Speaker 4: The last thing, okay, doing there?
Speaker 1: Watch TV? Yeah, doing any of these.
Speaker 4: Wait, why did you go to the hotel room?
Speaker 2: Then?
Speaker 1: Please don't tell me to iron.
Speaker 3: No, I mean I thought things were picking up. I
Speaker 3: thought things were getting about to heat up, and I
Speaker 3: was curious to see what the decorn her hotel room
Speaker 3: look like.
Speaker 1: Oh I didn't tell.
Speaker 4: What to sarcasm and is what is not? He's serious?
Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean I thought it was going well
Speaker 3: and then she I think she tried to ditch me though.
Speaker 4: Wait in the room or where are you at?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about?
Speaker 5: She pushed you out of the elevator and then shut
Speaker 5: the door.
Speaker 3: We made it to the room, I checked out the decor,
Speaker 3: and then she left me for four hours.
Speaker 6: Yeah, son bought.
Speaker 3: I think she wanted me to go with her. She
Speaker 3: was going to go see a friend, but she made
Speaker 3: it seem like it was going to be real quick,
Speaker 3: like just to say hi.
Speaker 6: So I was like, oh, I'll just stay.
Speaker 2: So she left you in her hotel room to go
Speaker 2: meet up with a friend real quick and then said
Speaker 2: she was.
Speaker 6: Going to be back exactly.
Speaker 3: She asked me to come with her a couple of times,
Speaker 3: and I was like, no, I'll just chill here. You
Speaker 3: say hi, and I'll be ready when you're back.
Speaker 7: Oh, so you sent me, you stayed for four hours,
Speaker 7: you're committed.
Speaker 6: I mean she texted me a couple of times. I
Speaker 6: was like, hey, what's going on, you know? And she said, no,
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, I want to I'll be back soon. She
Speaker 6: wants texting me, okay.
Speaker 4: And she never once asked you to leave.
Speaker 3: No, she didn't ask me to leave. She did say like,
Speaker 3: if you want to leave, you.
Speaker 5: Can, okay.
Speaker 2: So you didn't take that as like a hint that
Speaker 2: maybe you should go.
Speaker 6: No, I mean I don't know why I was. I
Speaker 6: made the hotel room. I'm gonna stay.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna wait it out this way for her to
Speaker 3: come back.
Speaker 2: I can't try to.
Speaker 4: Get rid of you or not.
Speaker 2: She is listen the fact that she invited him, like, hey,
Speaker 2: come with.
Speaker 4: Me out of the room. She tried out of the room.
Speaker 4: She wanted him gone, and then she was gone for
Speaker 4: four hours, just in hopes that he would actually be gone.
Speaker 2: She saw his hunky, shirtless body and was intimidated and
Speaker 2: was like, I need some more liquid courage in order
Speaker 2: to deal with this hunk of a man.
Speaker 4: What did she say? Did she say that when she
Speaker 4: came back into the hotel room now.
Speaker 3: With those words, No, she uh, you know, it was
Speaker 3: about midnight at that point. She got back, and at
Speaker 3: first she was apologizing.
Speaker 6: And she's like, oh, my friend, you know, we're just
Speaker 6: catching up. We had to talk, okay, yeah, no worries.
Speaker 3: And then she finally was like, well I have an
Speaker 3: early meeting and yeah, I think I finally got the
Speaker 3: hint at that point.
Speaker 1: Oh that's when you got the hints. Yeah, So how
Speaker 1: did you leave it?
Speaker 3: I just said, oh, yeah, no worries, and uh kind
Speaker 3: of left but I feel like we had a good
Speaker 3: time before that.
Speaker 6: You know, her friend kind of got on the way.
Speaker 1: Yeah, wait, what do you what do you want?
Speaker 4: Like you want to go out with her again?
Speaker 1: Yeah?
Speaker 6: I want to go out with her.
Speaker 3: I made it to the hotel room. That's the only
Speaker 3: time I've ever been invited to a hotel room because.
Speaker 1: It is kind of a smooth line.
Speaker 4: Though, I thought, what it's sincere Jeffrey.
Speaker 6: She could have said no.
Speaker 4: I think she realized that. Now have you text suitor
Speaker 4: called her? Have you talked to Tiffany at all?
Speaker 3: I texted her, I said we should hang out some time.
Speaker 6: Do you have her back? She just said sounds like
Speaker 6: a plan.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, well, think that's good.
Speaker 4: I don't think that's good.
Speaker 1: She could have said, no.
Speaker 6: Can I can I confess something? You all?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know if I want to.
Speaker 6: I just there's one thing.
Speaker 3: You know, people always ask like, is there anything that
Speaker 3: could have made it weird? I do sometimes photoshop my pictures.
Speaker 5: Okay, let's let's come back and try and get you
Speaker 5: a second date up date.
Speaker 8: Right after this hold on Second Date Update book, we
Speaker 8: have a listener who has come to us with a problem.
Speaker 8: He needs our wisdom, our encouragement, and what we don't
Speaker 8: need brook is your condescending signs.
Speaker 4: And oh honeys, I didn't say.
Speaker 2: Karen slamming his interest in hotel Decor's it?
Speaker 4: He called for honesty?
Speaker 7: All right?
Speaker 1: No he did not.
Speaker 2: He did not ask to get another take. You have
Speaker 2: a responsibility, broke to our listener.
Speaker 1: Here.
Speaker 2: We need to stand up and be an advocate for
Speaker 2: the photoshop shirtless men of this world.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Man, not a lot of guys would.
Speaker 2: Have the willpower, the mental fortitude to wait alone in
Speaker 2: a woman's hotel room for four hours after she excused herself,
Speaker 2: but Alex did, and we need to show him some respect.
Speaker 1: Gosh, darn it. Tell him how impressed you are.
Speaker 5: He's persistent, I mean, Alex at.
Speaker 4: Okay, Alex there, I don't think she did, buddy, But like,
Speaker 4: I think she was missing an opportunity because I think
Speaker 4: you sound like a nice person.
Speaker 6: You might want to go for a second date.
Speaker 2: Yeah, Alex, do you feel supported by Brooks words? There?
Speaker 3: I feel like she's.
Speaker 6: Being nice, but I'm glad she's trying anyways.
Speaker 2: All Right, he knows that you can't do your job
Speaker 2: or you aren't willing to help him, but he's still
Speaker 2: going to stick through it, just like he's stuck around
Speaker 2: in that girl's hotel room. All right, let's call her
Speaker 2: and try and get you a second date.
Speaker 1: You ready, Alex?
Speaker 6: I'm ready?
Speaker 4: All right? What's doing?
Speaker 7: Hello?
Speaker 1: Hey, we're looking for Tiffany.
Speaker 7: This is she?
Speaker 2: What's up, Tiffany? You're You're on the radio right now
Speaker 2: with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, what what is this about?
Speaker 2: This is about something we do on our show called
Speaker 2: a second date update, where we try and help our
Speaker 2: listeners reconnect with people that they met up with online
Speaker 2: or went on a date with. Ye and you met
Speaker 2: up with a guy recently named Alex, right.
Speaker 4: Man, I bet it was a memorable night.
Speaker 7: Uh yeah, you could. You could say that.
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, sounded out pretty fun from our end of
Speaker 2: the conversation.
Speaker 1: That was our takeaway.
Speaker 4: I mean, I think the first half hour, maybe when
Speaker 4: they were actually hanging out.
Speaker 1: There was definitely good moments we've heard.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean, look, I was just trying to have
Speaker 7: some fun.
Speaker 8: You know.
Speaker 7: It was a work trip. I popped on the apps,
Speaker 7: thought maybe we could hang out, have dinner.
Speaker 1: Mission accomplished.
Speaker 2: Fun achieved, Okay, so what did you think when you.
Speaker 4: First saw Alex.
Speaker 7: I could tell pretty quickly that, like he was a
Speaker 7: nice guy, but we weren't necessarily a good match. And
Speaker 7: you know from even like in his pictures, he seemed
Speaker 7: like a kind of nice, wholesome guy. And when we
Speaker 7: met up, he was really nice and I don't know,
Speaker 7: he seemed really interest said my trip and what hotel
Speaker 7: I was staying at.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, he was mentioning that to us and that
Speaker 2: he wanted to see what the decor in your hotel
Speaker 2: looked like.
Speaker 4: And we thought it was like just a line, but
Speaker 4: it sounds like he was truly interested in the passionate.
Speaker 7: Wholesome Yeah, yeah, it wasn't a line. He like walked
Speaker 7: into the room and was like caressing the curtains, like
Speaker 7: the crown molding was mind blowing.
Speaker 4: Oh that was actually fancy. Sold I mean, what were
Speaker 4: you thinking when he's doing all this?
Speaker 7: I mean I mostly turned on. So just you know,
Speaker 7: when like you take a risk and you say, like
Speaker 7: I was bringing this guy into my hotel room a
Speaker 7: good idea and no, it really seems to be interested
Speaker 7: in this, but it wasn't anyway, it wasn't much really,
Speaker 7: and I was ready for the evening to be over.
Speaker 7: So I said, oh, like, one of my friends is
Speaker 7: also in town, so I'm going to meet up with
Speaker 7: them in the lobby. Do you want I come with?
Speaker 7: And he just said, no.
Speaker 2: Okay, it's too early to be meeting the friends of
Speaker 2: the people that you're dating.
Speaker 1: On night one.
Speaker 4: I think I want to get acquainted with this crown
Speaker 4: molding over the wait. So the friend wasn't made up?
Speaker 4: The friend was real?
Speaker 7: Oh no, the friend was entirely made up.
Speaker 4: Oh okay, you lied to him, the sweet innocent man.
Speaker 4: Why would you ask him to go with you then?
Speaker 7: Like what I mean? At this point, I was just
Speaker 7: trying to figure out a way to get him to
Speaker 7: leave the room because it didn't feel like he was
Speaker 7: going to So, you know, I thought maybe I'd get
Speaker 7: in the elevator and I jump off or something. I
Speaker 7: don't I don't know what.
Speaker 2: The solution was off in the hallway, not like down
Speaker 2: the elevator shaft.
Speaker 1: So he was. He was in there, he said, for hours,
Speaker 1: and you never came back.
Speaker 3: Yeah.
Speaker 7: I was trying to figure out what I was going
Speaker 7: to do to get this light free man out of
Speaker 7: my hotel.
Speaker 1: Room, trapped out of your own hotel room.
Speaker 4: And it's not because you felt threatened by him or anything.
Speaker 7: It's you is never mean, you know, he was was persistent,
Speaker 7: and obviously I made a mistake taking him there, but he,
Speaker 7: you know, was polite when I came back, and he
Speaker 7: didn't make a pass or anything. It was just kind
Speaker 7: of all in the morning.
Speaker 2: I mean, he's not good at picking up the hints,
Speaker 2: but overall he sounds like a nice guy.
Speaker 7: Yeah. I thought that until the next day when I
Speaker 7: checked out of the hotel. What oh yeah. So apparently
Speaker 7: he ordered a movie to the room while I was gone,
Speaker 7: and I was like, well, I didn't watch anything, you know.
Speaker 7: I saw the bill and they said, well it was
Speaker 7: rented at this time to your room, and I looked
Speaker 7: at it and it was I don't even know how
Speaker 7: to describe this movie other than it's titled Flutter Island.
Speaker 6: Hey, I have to say something here now.
Speaker 1: Earth like Butterfly Special.
Speaker 2: Hold hold on, Tiffany. That that was that's Alex. He's
Speaker 2: been on the other line listening this whole time to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 1: But what was the name of the movie?
Speaker 7: Flutter Island.
Speaker 8: Like Shutter Island, but that it was not a documentary.
Speaker 4: Why would you do that, Alex?
Speaker 3: First of all, I went down and I paid the
Speaker 3: guy with cash and I told him to take it
Speaker 3: off the bills.
Speaker 6: That should have never happened. Who like I wist, I
Speaker 6: would have never made you pay for that. That's on
Speaker 6: the hotel.
Speaker 4: No, gross, dude, you were in her brain.
Speaker 1: Anything and there he just watched a movie.
Speaker 5: We don't know what he did.
Speaker 6: I don't want to know even to happen.
Speaker 3: Nothing happened, and she it wouldn't have happened if she
Speaker 3: hadn't lied to me.
Speaker 1: He was up there for four hours.
Speaker 5: What else is he gonna do.
Speaker 3: That You were taking such a long time, and I thought,
Speaker 3: you know, I thought it maybe helped me get in
Speaker 3: the mood. And you know, in case something did happen.
Speaker 7: And it didn't.
Speaker 6: Nothing happen, which is fine.
Speaker 3: And that wasn't even supposed to be on your bill.
Speaker 7: It's not it being on my bill that is the
Speaker 7: problem here. You get that right?
Speaker 6: What did you want me to do?
Speaker 7: They said it leave? Leave it's not your space. Why
Speaker 7: would you think it's okay to rent a movie in
Speaker 7: the first place.
Speaker 5: Well, he thinks something's gonna happen.
Speaker 4: Though it doesn't. It's her room. It's not his room.
Speaker 4: It's her room, her space. You invaded it a little different.
Speaker 6: I was invited. But yes, oh my, he has.
Speaker 2: A point, and I think he's still interested in seeing
Speaker 2: you one more time, Tiffany, if you're up for seeing
Speaker 2: him again, we would pay for a date to go
Speaker 2: out wherever you live.
Speaker 6: I'll cover the play.
Speaker 3: I just you know, Tiffany, I think we did have
Speaker 3: a good time, and that part of it was weird,
Speaker 3: but I think, you know, communication wise, we'll get better
Speaker 3: at that.
Speaker 6: And we should. We should try again.
Speaker 4: How could you be that clueless?
Speaker 6: Alex?
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's called persistence, Brooks.
Speaker 4: It's idioticy, that's not even a word dumbness. I don't know.
Speaker 6: Hey, she wasn't even supposed to know about that. It
Speaker 6: was I asked the guy to pay. I paid him
Speaker 6: with cash. Where did that go?
Speaker 3: You have to we should make a complaint to the hotel.
Speaker 5: Actually it's an hotel's fault.
Speaker 4: Did you are not going to ask this question?
Speaker 5: Come on, did Alex one more chance? Don't let that
Speaker 5: hotel's mistake ruin a shot at love.
Speaker 4: We just say this time you can invite him into
Speaker 4: your apartment. You could just end up living there.
Speaker 1: Plus, I just googled it. There's a Slutter Island to you.
Speaker 5: Guys have to watch that together. We'll pay for it.
Speaker 7: Tiffany, you know, I think I'd rather sit in the
Speaker 7: hotel lobby for three nights straight.
Speaker 3: Wow.
Speaker 4: Hey, I don't know that that's clear to Alex. You
Speaker 4: may just need to say no.
Speaker 1: It's looking Jeffrey in the morning.