WEBVTT - Either You Is or You Ain't 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.120 Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:20.560 and the Black Effect, And just like that, we're back 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:23.520 on the air. Welcome back to another episode of Carefully Reckless. 0:00:23.560 --> 0:00:26.200 I got my twin back. Say hey, prints, what's what's 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:29.760 up now? Listen? We played a lot and we we 0:00:29.760 --> 0:00:32.080 we had a lot of random ship that we talked about. 0:00:32.280 --> 0:00:33.879 I'm gonna be honest, we just ain't know what the 0:00:33.880 --> 0:00:36.360 fun to talk about last week. And um, yeah, you 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:38.400 know y'all been with me up until this point, so 0:00:38.479 --> 0:00:40.960 sometimes y'all can take a little fumble episode ain't nothing, 0:00:41.200 --> 0:00:44.680 but we are very serious this week. I want to 0:00:44.680 --> 0:00:47.600 touch on something that I feel like I can't touch 0:00:47.640 --> 0:00:49.320 you on a loan. You know what I'm saying. I 0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:51.880 can't touch on it by myself, you know what I mean, 0:00:51.920 --> 0:00:55.200 because I am not in the community. And then I 0:00:55.240 --> 0:00:57.320 have been canceled by the community. And listen, I know 0:00:57.360 --> 0:00:59.760 what y'all thinking. She keep on talking about gays. That's 0:00:59.800 --> 0:01:01.600 why one like I nailed, but like, no, I'm gonna 0:01:01.600 --> 0:01:04.160 really get into something that I really have a problem with, 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.880 you know what I mean, Not against y'all. I stand 0:01:06.959 --> 0:01:09.560 with y'all on this, so um and I want to 0:01:09.560 --> 0:01:13.399 bring my brother in because he is gay. It just 0:01:13.480 --> 0:01:16.920 seems crazy to say like that because he is gay. 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:22.440 Let me just say it better because he's gay. Okay, 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:34.640 he's gay, So yeah, gay gay, Like we are serious, serious, Okay. 0:01:34.800 --> 0:01:37.240 So this was a part of a conversation that we 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:41.920 were having. Prince and I it's harder for gay males 0:01:42.080 --> 0:01:46.360 than it is for gay women, and I do sincerely 0:01:46.400 --> 0:01:48.800 agree with that. I always, I mean, I've always felt 0:01:48.800 --> 0:01:51.960 that way anyway, that it's it's easier for a woman 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:55.520 to be accepted, you know, when she's gay versus a man. 0:01:55.880 --> 0:01:58.800 You know, that comes from that hits from different aspects. 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.360 It could be your family can be you know, friends, 0:02:01.400 --> 0:02:03.680 it can be you know, church, family can be your 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:05.680 platform if you have one, you know, if you don't, 0:02:05.760 --> 0:02:08.720 it can be your neighborhood. Whoever, how would you translate it, 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:10.760 how would what would you add to a prince? I mean, 0:02:10.800 --> 0:02:12.800 I stand with you. You You know how you said it. 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:16.800 Women can in fact choose when where the men can't. 0:02:16.840 --> 0:02:19.040 You know. It's like once you cross that line of 0:02:19.080 --> 0:02:24.880 that boundary, you're just gay. That's it. There is no 0:02:24.800 --> 0:02:26.960 no I was just doing this ship for fun. I 0:02:27.040 --> 0:02:29.360 was just doing this because I was mad at my bitch, Like, 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:32.000 what the nigga suck your dick because you was mad 0:02:32.000 --> 0:02:34.880 at your Like this is something you've been you thought about, 0:02:35.480 --> 0:02:37.760 This has been something that's in your mind, Like I 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:39.919 just need one more little thing that's gonna send me 0:02:39.960 --> 0:02:41.880 over the ass. It's gonna make me go see what 0:02:41.960 --> 0:02:44.560 this nigga throat about? Like hold up what you know 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:49.080 what that? Yeah, that's as crazy as a motherfucker because 0:02:49.240 --> 0:02:51.680 and I get it because a woman can do that 0:02:51.760 --> 0:02:54.320 like a woman back. I'm gonna let this eat my pussy. Oh, 0:02:54.360 --> 0:02:56.440 it's okay. And men was gonna like to see that. 0:02:57.000 --> 0:02:59.919 Ain't no woman excited to see two men? Yeah? Or 0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:03.840 or there are some, but I know it's it's very rare. 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:06.680 The ratio is different. More men that enjoy watching two 0:03:06.720 --> 0:03:09.280 women than they would be women watching two men men. 0:03:09.360 --> 0:03:12.440 Yeah for sure, because listen, I can't even put myself 0:03:12.440 --> 0:03:14.919 in it, like you know, I know I don't want 0:03:14.919 --> 0:03:18.760 to see two men. Wait, this is going left with 0:03:19.040 --> 0:03:23.560 serious guys. Know at a at a young age and 0:03:23.560 --> 0:03:25.800 and I've touched on this um during the Catholic Reckless 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.440 episode before I messed with a female. You know, what 0:03:28.520 --> 0:03:30.880 I mean when I was like twenty one, you know, 0:03:30.960 --> 0:03:32.760 just right after I had ash and I just had 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:34.720 enough of his dad and I had enough of niggers, 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.200 and I was like, you know, I fuck it. I' 0:03:36.240 --> 0:03:38.480 musta see what's something. I was always attracted to this girl. 0:03:38.560 --> 0:03:40.240 She looked just like young low Wayne. So I was 0:03:40.320 --> 0:03:43.480 like ship, but I've only ever been attracted to that 0:03:43.560 --> 0:03:45.720 one woman in my whole life. And I tried it 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:48.640 and we had sex and ship, and then after that, 0:03:48.960 --> 0:03:50.800 I felt like I didn't know what I was doing. 0:03:50.840 --> 0:03:52.440 I was kind of weird. I didn't know what to do. 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:54.840 I felt like we was going to be like thrusting 0:03:54.840 --> 0:03:58.600 our like navels together. It was just like it was 0:03:58.680 --> 0:04:02.200 the sciss SCISSI know what I'm saying. I was like, alright, 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:04.960 bamn pow power, you know what I mean. And I 0:04:05.000 --> 0:04:07.640 just realized that I just couldn't do it. Then I 0:04:07.720 --> 0:04:10.520 was scared of the deal though. I was so scared 0:04:10.560 --> 0:04:14.240 of it because it was like I hate PEPs mans. 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:16.160 I hate anything going up there, and that's why I 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:19.000 don't like for Nikola finger me like, let me play 0:04:19.040 --> 0:04:21.680 with your pussy, what's your tongue? Like I I don't 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:23.520 want you to be up there with your two fingers. 0:04:23.520 --> 0:04:26.440 Just imagine your two fingers just going up there. She's like, 0:04:26.640 --> 0:04:29.800 did you find it? What? Then you're looking for joyable? 0:04:29.920 --> 0:04:32.200 You know what I'm saying. It feels like I'm at 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:35.440 the doctors, you know. So I never I didn't. The 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:37.760 only thing that I will allow inside of me, you know, 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:41.400 is a penis. That's just what it is. But I 0:04:41.480 --> 0:04:45.760 was still so fucking tracted to her, and you know, 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:48.520 to this day, like I said, it's never been anybody else. 0:04:48.560 --> 0:04:50.960 So that made me question, like damn, maybe I wasn't gay. 0:04:51.000 --> 0:04:52.720 Maybe it wasn't Maybe that was just a phase, or 0:04:52.720 --> 0:04:55.000 maybe I was just so curious where I thought that, 0:04:55.320 --> 0:04:58.000 you know, because you never really know. Yeah's And then 0:04:58.040 --> 0:05:00.280 that goes into like the different acronyms, like based on 0:05:00.400 --> 0:05:03.680 what you described, it would be like an a sexual 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:07.120 y'all ain't having sex, but you attracted to their personality, 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:09.480 you know, So I think that fault that will fall 0:05:09.560 --> 0:05:12.640 under that that acronym of a sexual whatever you want 0:05:12.640 --> 0:05:15.040 to say, whether it's a man or a woman. Yeah, okay, 0:05:15.080 --> 0:05:16.840 it's like you're not having you're not having sex, you 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:20.680 just attracted tonalities however that go or whatever one of 0:05:20.720 --> 0:05:24.160 the acronyms. You know that people have to make them 0:05:24.160 --> 0:05:26.839 feel comfortable with who they are. And then back to 0:05:26.880 --> 0:05:29.520 what we were saying to complete the thought. Look, after 0:05:29.520 --> 0:05:31.560 I had sex for her, I went to sleep, woke up, 0:05:31.560 --> 0:05:32.840 and then I was straight. I really, you know what 0:05:32.880 --> 0:05:36.320 I'm saying. It was just like, no, that's that's sex, 0:05:36.360 --> 0:05:40.200 and her want to sleep, woke up, Nope, back to that, yeah, 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:43.479 and then I never wanted it after that, So in 0:05:43.480 --> 0:05:47.000 my mind and to me, I'm not gay, you know 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.800 what I mean? And and when do I say I 0:05:48.839 --> 0:05:50.080 was gay? Or did I try it? You know what 0:05:50.080 --> 0:05:52.040 I'm saying, If you try it once, does that make 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:54.839 you gay forever? As a male? Yes, see, that's what 0:05:54.880 --> 0:05:57.680 I'm saying. For a woman, it's like, you can't explain 0:05:57.880 --> 0:06:01.120 a story like that as I'm man to a woman. 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:03.680 And they'd be like, you know, I was growing up, man, 0:06:03.760 --> 0:06:07.080 and my big mother got him a fucking nerves and man, 0:06:07.320 --> 0:06:11.000 my homeboy down the street looked like fucking Drake, you know, 0:06:11.120 --> 0:06:13.200 And I was like, you know, young Drake, you know, 0:06:13.680 --> 0:06:15.920 said Drake, like you know, and and you know what 0:06:15.920 --> 0:06:17.960 I mean, We just we just sucked each other dick. 0:06:18.040 --> 0:06:19.680 But I went to sleep and woke up and was 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:24.360 like this, ain't it eating pussy? Like you know, yeah, nah, 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:26.760 that's not like Nigga's gonna look at him and straight 0:06:26.839 --> 0:06:30.400 up be like, that's it. Where's the woman gonna be like, 0:06:30.680 --> 0:06:34.320 all right, bitch, let's go. Let's party, like bitch, what not, 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:38.640 Let's party and everything okay, and then walk up to 0:06:38.640 --> 0:06:40.280 you and tell nigger story. He gonna be like, oh, 0:06:40.320 --> 0:06:41.640 I don't hear what you're saying, but I mean you 0:06:41.640 --> 0:06:43.440 wouldn't try it again. What if it wasn't nigger in 0:06:43.440 --> 0:06:45.360 the mix and it was too yell like he's gonna 0:06:45.360 --> 0:06:47.279 try to finesse some ship because nigga's like to see 0:06:47.279 --> 0:06:51.159 two bitches together, the average nigga. There is some niggas 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:53.520 because I have a homeboy who doesn't like that woman 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:57.560 and woman action and right defensive when his wife like, well, 0:06:57.640 --> 0:06:59.320 dance with a girl in the club, you don't pay 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.480 and there are I mean that that's not every man 0:07:01.600 --> 0:07:03.719 does not think that sexy. Yeah he don't. You know, 0:07:04.040 --> 0:07:05.760 he don't play that ship. He don't like that ship, 0:07:05.760 --> 0:07:07.839 and he stands on that. Yes, I know that ship 0:07:07.880 --> 0:07:09.240 is not just to act like he stands and he 0:07:09.279 --> 0:07:12.640 don't like that ship. So but the average man is 0:07:12.680 --> 0:07:16.520 going to enjoy ship like that. Yeah, yeah, that's just 0:07:16.600 --> 0:07:20.840 what it is, you know. But nah as a man, no, Yeah, 0:07:21.000 --> 0:07:23.280 let me ask you this. Even outside of you know, 0:07:23.360 --> 0:07:26.360 like being accepted by people, how else do you feel 0:07:26.360 --> 0:07:28.920 like it affects like your everyday living, like like when 0:07:28.920 --> 0:07:31.400 you go out into the world, like even in an industry, 0:07:31.520 --> 0:07:33.160 or if you like or if you try to get 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:35.440 a job. Do you feel like it affects gay mails 0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:39.160 their their sexuality when trying to do anything in life, 0:07:39.200 --> 0:07:43.080 you know what I mean as versus a woman. Absolutely absolutely, 0:07:43.760 --> 0:07:48.120 And and see this is this is ah, it's it's 0:07:48.120 --> 0:07:51.160 a double standard when it comes to rich gay mail 0:07:52.120 --> 0:07:56.440 and regular gay mail. There's a double standard. Rich Gamel 0:07:56.920 --> 0:07:59.000 can do whatever you want, he can say whatever you want, 0:07:59.200 --> 0:08:01.120 he can act as is he want, He can do 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:02.720 whatever he want and doesn't have to give a funk 0:08:02.760 --> 0:08:06.760 about people because he's in a position to be okay, 0:08:07.400 --> 0:08:09.840 you know, um, there's there's there's going to be a 0:08:09.840 --> 0:08:14.360 fan base that surrounds him because he's being thinking outside 0:08:14.360 --> 0:08:16.680 of the box. He's doing things above and beyond. He's 0:08:16.720 --> 0:08:20.640 representing for the community per sect, whereas though someone from 0:08:20.680 --> 0:08:24.880 your average neighborhood has to be mindful you know, they 0:08:24.880 --> 0:08:29.280 have to only act based upon what's appropriate to the 0:08:29.320 --> 0:08:32.120 limit of their neighborhood or with their neighborhood. Wow, because 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:34.240 they grew up there. You know, the ship that little 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:37.120 Nosx is doing, there's no way that average male can 0:08:37.120 --> 0:08:39.360 do that in his neighborhood. You just can't. You know, 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:44.080 you can't. You ain't walking around as Snaked or making 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.120 no even if you are like a local gay rapper, 0:08:46.120 --> 0:08:49.360 you ain't making no. You ain't making no no no 0:08:49.440 --> 0:08:52.560 as Snaked music video and the numbers going off the 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:54.400 off the chain, you know what I mean, Like, that's 0:08:54.400 --> 0:08:56.400 not that's not gonna happen. Like so it's only you 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:57.839 feel like yeah, if it's only if you rich with 0:08:57.920 --> 0:09:00.040 a platform or if you just have a platform. What 0:09:00.040 --> 0:09:02.280 I'm saying, because like a lot of people look up 0:09:02.440 --> 0:09:06.400 to Lord's accent, saucy Santana and you know, her Bobby lights, 0:09:06.400 --> 0:09:09.160 and you know they look up to them because that's 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:11.080 who A lot of people wish that they can be 0:09:11.480 --> 0:09:13.839 just like that. But you know how many you know 0:09:14.040 --> 0:09:17.160 how many you know how many Kay Niggers in the 0:09:17.240 --> 0:09:20.600 hood want to do the ship that Santana do. Like 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.800 they want to go to the to the street clubs 0:09:22.800 --> 0:09:25.760 and tork. But they're better to fuck note, you know, 0:09:25.840 --> 0:09:28.600 like get their bodies done. They want to get bbls. 0:09:28.679 --> 0:09:31.000 They better to fun not like you. You just can't. 0:09:31.640 --> 0:09:34.040 You know, they want to wear long hair with full beards. 0:09:34.280 --> 0:09:36.160 They're better to funck not like if you think he 0:09:36.280 --> 0:09:38.400 better to funk not. I keep telling them that ain't 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:42.079 cute k and told him any time. But I love 0:09:42.160 --> 0:09:44.920 me some Santanta, but go in. Yeah, you know you can't. 0:09:45.040 --> 0:09:46.880 You can't. You can't do that in the hood. They 0:09:46.880 --> 0:09:48.800 can do that. They have platforms, are larger, they have 0:09:48.960 --> 0:09:52.400 people behind them that's bigger than them, that's supporting and 0:09:52.440 --> 0:09:55.640 pushing them. You know, it's like it's different ship. It's different. 0:09:55.640 --> 0:09:57.400 It's it's a double standard, Like you can't do that 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.760 ship in your hood. You know, It's like you just can't. 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:02.000 Like little nas X, I think some of the ship 0:10:02.040 --> 0:10:05.000 that he's doing is because of his platform. If Old 0:10:05.000 --> 0:10:07.360 Town Road didn't blow up the way that it blew up, 0:10:07.760 --> 0:10:09.160 I don't think that he never would have came out. 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:11.760 I don't think he would have never really not even 0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:12.959 get into where he is. I don't think that he 0:10:12.960 --> 0:10:15.240 would have never came out and said, hey, y'all, I 0:10:15.320 --> 0:10:19.440 am identifying as gay or however he worried because I 0:10:19.440 --> 0:10:21.080 don't want to. You know, that's not verbat him. But 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:25.079 in a sense he basically said hey, y'all, and it 0:10:25.320 --> 0:10:28.040 was he's extremely comfortable. Yeah, And it was like and 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:30.400 it was like, damn, this song is rocking, like you 0:10:30.480 --> 0:10:34.320 got the whole everybody, everybody, everybody's singing Old Town Role, 0:10:34.400 --> 0:10:37.440 like I mean everybody, everybody, everybody. And then it was like, 0:10:37.840 --> 0:10:40.079 you know, the numbers, what it was. He made some money, 0:10:40.120 --> 0:10:42.000 he did what he did, and I was like, boom, 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:43.840 this is who I am, this is what i'm, this 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:46.720 is what I represent. Do you think these then stopped 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:50.040 listening to Old Town Road because now this man is gay, absolutely, 0:10:51.000 --> 0:10:52.600 you know. But then it's then there's some people that 0:10:52.600 --> 0:10:54.440 be like, man, I listening to that because he is 0:10:54.440 --> 0:10:57.000 get this in the third but it's more because he 0:10:57.040 --> 0:10:59.720 has a platform and he has the money and because 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:02.559 you know, everybody wants you know, whatever whatever that whatever 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:04.960 the reason it is, it was acceptable because of where 0:11:05.000 --> 0:11:07.559 he was. He couldn't have done that on a regular scale, 0:11:07.640 --> 0:11:11.960 Like you can't just nah, that's that's that's not even 0:11:12.000 --> 0:11:14.920 performance wise, Like it's like speaking on his BBC performance 0:11:14.960 --> 0:11:17.680 where he kissed the guy tuned them down. It's niggers 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:20.360 that's been getting the neighborhood for years, and the neighborhood 0:11:20.360 --> 0:11:23.360 knows and they dare not kissing nigga in the neighborhood, 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:27.240 like kissing nigga in public period, Like you just you're 0:11:27.280 --> 0:11:29.400 just not doing that. You're just not doing that. But 0:11:29.480 --> 0:11:31.240 he can do it, Like who won't check them? Think 0:11:31.240 --> 0:11:33.600 about like honestly, who won't check them? Has it ever 0:11:33.640 --> 0:11:35.480 affected you in a sense where you felt like you 0:11:35.480 --> 0:11:37.600 couldn't do something where you got a harder time because 0:11:37.640 --> 0:11:40.360 of because I know I've been there since you came out, 0:11:40.880 --> 0:11:43.319 you know what I mean, And I've seen and even 0:11:43.360 --> 0:11:46.760 things that I don't see. I haven't seen much change 0:11:46.800 --> 0:11:49.959 for you, but you never I didn't know that when 0:11:50.000 --> 0:11:52.040 I met you, you know what I mean, that you 0:11:52.120 --> 0:11:55.280 were gay, Like I I just I just didn't. I'm like, oh, 0:11:55.320 --> 0:11:58.080 that's a very fashion forward nigga. He find you know 0:11:58.080 --> 0:12:00.560 what I mean, Like he can dance, He never across 0:12:00.600 --> 0:12:02.360 my mind that you were gay until you told me. 0:12:02.800 --> 0:12:05.480 You know what I'm saying, I'm like, oh ship, cool 0:12:07.679 --> 0:12:16.120 o ship. I'm like, okay, what changed once you came out? 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:19.720 A lot? You know, a lot, a lot of things changed, 0:12:19.720 --> 0:12:21.640 but a lot of things because I'm an image person, 0:12:22.160 --> 0:12:25.720 I shielded in a mask, masked it away from you know, 0:12:25.880 --> 0:12:29.160 the world. Like I lost a bunch of clients behind it. 0:12:29.360 --> 0:12:31.360 You know, he is a barber. Yeah, you know I 0:12:31.400 --> 0:12:34.600 lost a bunch of clients. Man. You know I got 0:12:35.240 --> 0:12:37.680 a bunch of hate emails. You know, like you never 0:12:37.800 --> 0:12:40.280 told me that you lost I know you did get 0:12:40.320 --> 0:12:43.319 a bunch of hate messages and ship, but I never 0:12:43.400 --> 0:12:46.640 knew you lost clients. I lost a lot of clients. Um. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:49.200 But it wasn't nothing that you know, it didn't. It 0:12:49.280 --> 0:12:52.720 just was like for me, it was more of like 0:12:52.760 --> 0:12:56.240 a freedom of a mind thing like yeah, it's whatever 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:58.280 now you know, like it's gonna be, It's gonna be. 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:00.959 How what how much worse can get? You know, It's 0:13:01.000 --> 0:13:04.200 like okay, now, who's no more speculation? I said it 0:13:05.120 --> 0:13:07.440 like you know what I mean, Like I don't have 0:13:07.520 --> 0:13:10.760 a bun like definitely was like the wrong sound effects 0:13:11.640 --> 0:13:16.360 that that's giving, Penis, that's giving. Dick. Come on, I 0:13:16.400 --> 0:13:21.000 told you you're gay, and this is my brother and 0:13:21.040 --> 0:13:25.720 we play like this day. But you know, I lost 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:29.280 a lot, you know, um and still lose a lot, 0:13:29.360 --> 0:13:31.320 you know. And I think that a lot of things 0:13:31.400 --> 0:13:34.400 that that I put together, even in my mainly in 0:13:34.480 --> 0:13:35.559 my city, you know, a lot of things that I 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:37.360 may try to put together the orchestra. I think that 0:13:37.400 --> 0:13:40.760 people don't actually funk with me because of the fact, 0:13:40.920 --> 0:13:44.440 because you know, and it's just like damn like if 0:13:44.480 --> 0:13:47.280 I never said nothing, niggas wouldn't have known. But I 0:13:47.360 --> 0:13:49.720 never felt like I had to tell anybody because if 0:13:49.720 --> 0:13:52.800 I'm not interested in it, don't matter. You're my homeboy. 0:13:52.800 --> 0:13:54.760 You can be my home boy, I can be I 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:57.240 can be gay with straight homeboys. And listen, that's another 0:13:57.280 --> 0:13:59.800 thing about you. I noticed, and knowing you for years, 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:02.439 you don't hang with gay people. Gay man. You know 0:14:02.440 --> 0:14:07.240 what I'm saying. You don't and why And they're gonna 0:14:07.280 --> 0:14:09.400 hate me for for saying this, but I mean it 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:12.600 is what it is. You know. I don't like the 0:14:12.679 --> 0:14:18.720 stigma or the perception of groups that gay people hanging together, 0:14:19.600 --> 0:14:22.400 you know. And and let me explain generally when you 0:14:22.520 --> 0:14:26.520 hear gay, you know, faggy or whatever. You know what 0:14:26.520 --> 0:14:31.400 I mean, we're generally associated with them thieves, they still 0:14:31.760 --> 0:14:35.400 they do fraud, they do this, they do that. Like 0:14:35.520 --> 0:14:38.560 it's never oh he has a business, or oh he 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:41.760 has he does real estate, or he's he's a doctor. 0:14:42.080 --> 0:14:45.240 Is always the negative about groups of gay people that 0:14:45.320 --> 0:14:47.760 hang together, you know, And I don't know he's selling 0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:50.920 ass or he's selling dick. He don't like na, no, no, 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:53.600 no no. So I don't want to be a part 0:14:53.600 --> 0:14:56.000 of that. Like I'm a community supporter, but I'm not 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:58.520 a community member. The things that go on in the community, 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:01.080 I don't. I don't partake in those things. Got a 0:15:01.120 --> 0:15:04.680 real life, no real real ship going on. And I 0:15:04.680 --> 0:15:08.880 don't have time for those general characteristics of that group 0:15:08.880 --> 0:15:11.400 of people associated with me because I don't move like that, 0:15:12.080 --> 0:15:14.000 you know. And there's nothing against how you get your money, 0:15:14.040 --> 0:15:15.480 get your money, how to fun you get your money. 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:17.800 I don't want you to be like, oh, he's stereotyping us, 0:15:17.840 --> 0:15:19.320 blah blah blah, what he think he up and he 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:21.200 gave nigga No no, no, no, no, I got calm 0:15:21.200 --> 0:15:23.880 and sense. That's just what it is. You know, like 0:15:24.040 --> 0:15:25.720 you know, get your money though, however you get it. 0:15:25.760 --> 0:15:28.240 What works for you works for you. Hold up, hold up, 0:15:28.240 --> 0:15:30.200 I know the ship getting good, but listen to just 0:15:30.280 --> 0:15:32.320 a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me, 0:15:32.360 --> 0:15:41.000 you'll listen. Now, do you know any successful gays? Absolutely, 0:15:41.880 --> 0:15:46.800 Lewis Baton, Oh ship. Yeah, all of these designers that 0:15:46.840 --> 0:15:49.760 we wear when the niggas in the hood got problem 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:53.520 with gay niggas, but they're wearing around the ass but 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:57.760 they're not ready for conversations and luxury brand. Yeah, you 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:02.960 spend your last on to keep up. Absolutely, yeah, absolutely, 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:04.840 you know you got you know, it's just and I'd 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:06.280 be like, damn, you don't like gay niggs, but you 0:16:06.360 --> 0:16:08.960 win all those designer ship. These niggers were for sure 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:12.840 gay and and and was out about it like yes, 0:16:13.240 --> 0:16:16.040 I'm out here sucking dick. That's just what it is. 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.480 And you're gonna wear my ship. You're gonna pay top 0:16:18.480 --> 0:16:22.920 dollar for it. But you won't even endorse a nigga. Hey, 0:16:22.960 --> 0:16:25.080 but you won't even endorse a nigga in your neighborhood 0:16:25.160 --> 0:16:27.000 who maybe don't even like you. But you just got 0:16:27.000 --> 0:16:29.280 a problem because you're worried about what your other straight 0:16:29.320 --> 0:16:31.200 homeboys gonna saying you don't gonna be friends with him 0:16:31.200 --> 0:16:34.400 because he gay. Why do you feel like straight men 0:16:34.480 --> 0:16:37.880 have such a problem or such such a negative guard 0:16:38.120 --> 0:16:41.040 up when you know it comes to even being around 0:16:41.120 --> 0:16:43.440 gays or being friends, not not not being around but 0:16:43.840 --> 0:16:47.520 being friends, actually having gay homeboys. If you're straight, it's 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:49.880 like a rule you can't have a gay homeboy or 0:16:49.920 --> 0:16:53.880 something like that being together. Why do you feel it's simple? Twin, Like, 0:16:53.920 --> 0:16:56.720 it's real simple. The problem is that gay people have 0:16:57.160 --> 0:17:01.040 their own narrative on the friendship between them and the 0:17:01.040 --> 0:17:06.800 heterosexual and in a gay person's mind that if you know, 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:10.919 the average gay person, if a straight guy is treating 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:13.119 them like the homie or just you know, like like 0:17:13.200 --> 0:17:15.560 being nice to him, or you know, looking past the 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:17.320 fact that you know what I mean, that they're gay 0:17:17.400 --> 0:17:20.920 or whatever, they automatically assume that now the heterosexual male 0:17:21.840 --> 0:17:25.200 is flirting with them, you know, and now it's like 0:17:26.040 --> 0:17:28.000 they're doing the most you know what I mean. Like 0:17:28.040 --> 0:17:30.320 one of the saying keep just doing is doing that 0:17:30.359 --> 0:17:33.520 the whole time. The straight nigger is just comfortable with 0:17:33.680 --> 0:17:36.679 enough with his sexuality to be able to be friends 0:17:36.720 --> 0:17:39.120 with your communicate with you, but you suck it up 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:42.160 by making it seem like something is what in fact isn't. 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:45.800 And now you're trying to explain to the hood that 0:17:45.960 --> 0:17:47.920 you ain't sucking this nigga, but he giving off the 0:17:48.000 --> 0:17:50.520 signs like a bit that she really is sucking them. 0:17:50.840 --> 0:17:53.760 And it's one thing that is hard for a straight 0:17:53.800 --> 0:17:56.040 nigger to get off of his off of his name, 0:17:56.760 --> 0:17:59.880 is that he's gay. Once a gay person say that's 0:17:59.920 --> 0:18:02.480 like they act like all the ship that gay people 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:04.760 do or people in general. Dude, they act like straight 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:07.159 gay people tell the truth when it comes straight people. Yo, 0:18:07.320 --> 0:18:09.920 you had like it's people that died that has died 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:12.479 behind that ship, like all that type of ship, right, 0:18:12.480 --> 0:18:15.840 like people people get killed, like putting that type of 0:18:16.040 --> 0:18:18.560 m or But a lot of the times this should 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:20.879 be true, and and it do be true, you know 0:18:20.920 --> 0:18:23.440 what I'm saying, Not all the time. It's also a 0:18:23.520 --> 0:18:26.199 variation that that's not you know, the people are honestly 0:18:26.240 --> 0:18:29.399 everybody that I hang around straight up and down straight 0:18:29.600 --> 0:18:32.159 and they don't have a problem with being around. But 0:18:32.240 --> 0:18:35.399 you're not absolutely not. Man. It's like I move, I 0:18:35.480 --> 0:18:38.639 move carefully and respectably upon the people that I'm around, 0:18:39.440 --> 0:18:41.520 you know what I mean. Like it's just like it's 0:18:41.560 --> 0:18:44.840 not that I'm hiding who I am. It's just certain 0:18:44.840 --> 0:18:48.320 things aren't permissible in certain atmospheres, Certain people can't go 0:18:48.400 --> 0:18:50.959 certain places. I'm not going to invite my straight friends 0:18:51.119 --> 0:18:53.199 to a gay event, which I really don't go to. 0:18:53.760 --> 0:18:55.480 But you know, I'm not gonna write my straight friends 0:18:55.480 --> 0:18:57.000 to a gay event. I'm not gonna write my gate 0:18:57.160 --> 0:18:59.720 friends to a straight event. I don't have no gay event, 0:18:59.720 --> 0:19:02.600 no friends. I don't have it. But I'm saying if 0:19:02.600 --> 0:19:05.360 I did, I wouldn't do that because that's just like, 0:19:05.400 --> 0:19:07.760 you know, you gotta learn how to entertain people appropriately. 0:19:08.119 --> 0:19:10.440 It's like you have friends, you know, just all subject 0:19:10.480 --> 0:19:12.760 because you have friends that when you hang with them friends, 0:19:12.880 --> 0:19:14.600 you don't hang with other friends because you know, they 0:19:14.640 --> 0:19:17.240 just don't mix. You don't put oil and water together 0:19:17.240 --> 0:19:19.119 and then get an attitude because it's not working the 0:19:19.119 --> 0:19:21.159 way you wanted to work, you know, And that's just 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:23.760 how that's just how my mind set. But even the 0:19:23.800 --> 0:19:27.480 heterosexual or homosexuality whatever, I don't believe in public affection. 0:19:27.640 --> 0:19:29.879 I don't. It doesn't matter, you know, when I you know, 0:19:30.200 --> 0:19:32.440 I was dealing with females. You know, it's like, I 0:19:32.440 --> 0:19:34.400 don't got to do all this outside. We we spend 0:19:34.440 --> 0:19:38.000 time together behind closed doors. I just think that it's unacceptable, 0:19:38.480 --> 0:19:39.840 you know. I don't. I'm not I'm not going to 0:19:39.960 --> 0:19:42.880