Speaker 1: Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio
Speaker 1: and the Black Effect, And just like that, we're back
Speaker 1: on the air. Welcome back to another episode of Carefully Reckless.
Speaker 1: I got my twin back. Say hey, prints, what's what's
Speaker 1: up now? Listen? We played a lot and we we
Speaker 1: we had a lot of random ship that we talked about.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest, we just ain't know what the
Speaker 1: fun to talk about last week. And um, yeah, you
Speaker 1: know y'all been with me up until this point, so
Speaker 1: sometimes y'all can take a little fumble episode ain't nothing,
Speaker 1: but we are very serious this week. I want to
Speaker 1: touch on something that I feel like I can't touch
Speaker 1: you on a loan. You know what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: can't touch on it by myself, you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: because I am not in the community. And then I
Speaker 1: have been canceled by the community. And listen, I know
Speaker 1: what y'all thinking. She keep on talking about gays. That's
Speaker 1: why one like I nailed, but like, no, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: really get into something that I really have a problem with,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Not against y'all. I stand
Speaker 1: with y'all on this, so um and I want to
Speaker 1: bring my brother in because he is gay. It just
Speaker 1: seems crazy to say like that because he is gay.
Speaker 1: Let me just say it better because he's gay. Okay,
Speaker 1: he's gay, So yeah, gay gay, Like we are serious, serious, Okay.
Speaker 1: So this was a part of a conversation that we
Speaker 1: were having. Prince and I it's harder for gay males
Speaker 1: than it is for gay women, and I do sincerely
Speaker 1: agree with that. I always, I mean, I've always felt
Speaker 1: that way anyway, that it's it's easier for a woman
Speaker 1: to be accepted, you know, when she's gay versus a man.
Speaker 1: You know, that comes from that hits from different aspects.
Speaker 1: It could be your family can be you know, friends,
Speaker 1: it can be you know, church, family can be your
Speaker 1: platform if you have one, you know, if you don't,
Speaker 1: it can be your neighborhood. Whoever, how would you translate it,
Speaker 1: how would what would you add to a prince? I mean,
Speaker 1: I stand with you. You You know how you said it.
Speaker 1: Women can in fact choose when where the men can't.
Speaker 1: You know. It's like once you cross that line of
Speaker 1: that boundary, you're just gay. That's it. There is no
Speaker 1: no I was just doing this ship for fun. I
Speaker 1: was just doing this because I was mad at my bitch, Like,
Speaker 1: what the nigga suck your dick because you was mad
Speaker 1: at your Like this is something you've been you thought about,
Speaker 1: This has been something that's in your mind, Like I
Speaker 1: just need one more little thing that's gonna send me
Speaker 1: over the ass. It's gonna make me go see what
Speaker 1: this nigga throat about? Like hold up what you know
Speaker 1: what that? Yeah, that's as crazy as a motherfucker because
Speaker 1: and I get it because a woman can do that
Speaker 1: like a woman back. I'm gonna let this eat my pussy. Oh,
Speaker 1: it's okay. And men was gonna like to see that.
Speaker 1: Ain't no woman excited to see two men? Yeah? Or
Speaker 1: or there are some, but I know it's it's very rare.
Speaker 1: The ratio is different. More men that enjoy watching two
Speaker 1: women than they would be women watching two men men.
Speaker 1: Yeah for sure, because listen, I can't even put myself
Speaker 1: in it, like you know, I know I don't want
Speaker 1: to see two men. Wait, this is going left with
Speaker 1: serious guys. Know at a at a young age and
Speaker 1: and I've touched on this um during the Catholic Reckless
Speaker 1: episode before I messed with a female. You know, what
Speaker 1: I mean when I was like twenty one, you know,
Speaker 1: just right after I had ash and I just had
Speaker 1: enough of his dad and I had enough of niggers,
Speaker 1: and I was like, you know, I fuck it. I'
Speaker 1: musta see what's something. I was always attracted to this girl.
Speaker 1: She looked just like young low Wayne. So I was
Speaker 1: like ship, but I've only ever been attracted to that
Speaker 1: one woman in my whole life. And I tried it
Speaker 1: and we had sex and ship, and then after that,
Speaker 1: I felt like I didn't know what I was doing.
Speaker 1: I was kind of weird. I didn't know what to do.
Speaker 1: I felt like we was going to be like thrusting
Speaker 1: our like navels together. It was just like it was
Speaker 1: the sciss SCISSI know what I'm saying. I was like, alright,
Speaker 1: bamn pow power, you know what I mean. And I
Speaker 1: just realized that I just couldn't do it. Then I
Speaker 1: was scared of the deal though. I was so scared
Speaker 1: of it because it was like I hate PEPs mans.
Speaker 1: I hate anything going up there, and that's why I
Speaker 1: don't like for Nikola finger me like, let me play
Speaker 1: with your pussy, what's your tongue? Like I I don't
Speaker 1: want you to be up there with your two fingers.
Speaker 1: Just imagine your two fingers just going up there. She's like,
Speaker 1: did you find it? What? Then you're looking for joyable?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. It feels like I'm at
Speaker 1: the doctors, you know. So I never I didn't. The
Speaker 1: only thing that I will allow inside of me, you know,
Speaker 1: is a penis. That's just what it is. But I
Speaker 1: was still so fucking tracted to her, and you know,
Speaker 1: to this day, like I said, it's never been anybody else.
Speaker 1: So that made me question, like damn, maybe I wasn't gay.
Speaker 1: Maybe it wasn't Maybe that was just a phase, or
Speaker 1: maybe I was just so curious where I thought that,
Speaker 1: you know, because you never really know. Yeah's And then
Speaker 1: that goes into like the different acronyms, like based on
Speaker 1: what you described, it would be like an a sexual
Speaker 1: y'all ain't having sex, but you attracted to their personality,
Speaker 1: you know, So I think that fault that will fall
Speaker 1: under that that acronym of a sexual whatever you want
Speaker 1: to say, whether it's a man or a woman. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: it's like you're not having you're not having sex, you
Speaker 1: just attracted tonalities however that go or whatever one of
Speaker 1: the acronyms. You know that people have to make them
Speaker 1: feel comfortable with who they are. And then back to
Speaker 1: what we were saying to complete the thought. Look, after
Speaker 1: I had sex for her, I went to sleep, woke up,
Speaker 1: and then I was straight. I really, you know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. It was just like, no, that's that's sex,
Speaker 1: and her want to sleep, woke up, Nope, back to that, yeah,
Speaker 1: and then I never wanted it after that, So in
Speaker 1: my mind and to me, I'm not gay, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean? And and when do I say I
Speaker 1: was gay? Or did I try it? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, If you try it once, does that make
Speaker 1: you gay forever? As a male? Yes, see, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm saying. For a woman, it's like, you can't explain
Speaker 1: a story like that as I'm man to a woman.
Speaker 1: And they'd be like, you know, I was growing up, man,
Speaker 1: and my big mother got him a fucking nerves and man,
Speaker 1: my homeboy down the street looked like fucking Drake, you know,
Speaker 1: And I was like, you know, young Drake, you know,
Speaker 1: said Drake, like you know, and and you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, We just we just sucked each other dick.
Speaker 1: But I went to sleep and woke up and was
Speaker 1: like this, ain't it eating pussy? Like you know, yeah, nah,
Speaker 1: that's not like Nigga's gonna look at him and straight
Speaker 1: up be like, that's it. Where's the woman gonna be like,
Speaker 1: all right, bitch, let's go. Let's party, like bitch, what not,
Speaker 1: Let's party and everything okay, and then walk up to
Speaker 1: you and tell nigger story. He gonna be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I don't hear what you're saying, but I mean you
Speaker 1: wouldn't try it again. What if it wasn't nigger in
Speaker 1: the mix and it was too yell like he's gonna
Speaker 1: try to finesse some ship because nigga's like to see
Speaker 1: two bitches together, the average nigga. There is some niggas
Speaker 1: because I have a homeboy who doesn't like that woman
Speaker 1: and woman action and right defensive when his wife like, well,
Speaker 1: dance with a girl in the club, you don't pay
Speaker 1: and there are I mean that that's not every man
Speaker 1: does not think that sexy. Yeah he don't. You know,
Speaker 1: he don't play that ship. He don't like that ship,
Speaker 1: and he stands on that. Yes, I know that ship
Speaker 1: is not just to act like he stands and he
Speaker 1: don't like that ship. So but the average man is
Speaker 1: going to enjoy ship like that. Yeah, yeah, that's just
Speaker 1: what it is, you know. But nah as a man, no, Yeah,
Speaker 1: let me ask you this. Even outside of you know,
Speaker 1: like being accepted by people, how else do you feel
Speaker 1: like it affects like your everyday living, like like when
Speaker 1: you go out into the world, like even in an industry,
Speaker 1: or if you like or if you try to get
Speaker 1: a job. Do you feel like it affects gay mails
Speaker 1: their their sexuality when trying to do anything in life,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean as versus a woman. Absolutely absolutely,
Speaker 1: And and see this is this is ah, it's it's
Speaker 1: a double standard when it comes to rich gay mail
Speaker 1: and regular gay mail. There's a double standard. Rich Gamel
Speaker 1: can do whatever you want, he can say whatever you want,
Speaker 1: he can act as is he want, He can do
Speaker 1: whatever he want and doesn't have to give a funk
Speaker 1: about people because he's in a position to be okay,
Speaker 1: you know, um, there's there's there's going to be a
Speaker 1: fan base that surrounds him because he's being thinking outside
Speaker 1: of the box. He's doing things above and beyond. He's
Speaker 1: representing for the community per sect, whereas though someone from
Speaker 1: your average neighborhood has to be mindful you know, they
Speaker 1: have to only act based upon what's appropriate to the
Speaker 1: limit of their neighborhood or with their neighborhood. Wow, because
Speaker 1: they grew up there. You know, the ship that little
Speaker 1: Nosx is doing, there's no way that average male can
Speaker 1: do that in his neighborhood. You just can't. You know,
Speaker 1: you can't. You ain't walking around as Snaked or making
Speaker 1: no even if you are like a local gay rapper,
Speaker 1: you ain't making no. You ain't making no no no
Speaker 1: as Snaked music video and the numbers going off the
Speaker 1: off the chain, you know what I mean, Like, that's
Speaker 1: not that's not gonna happen. Like so it's only you
Speaker 1: feel like yeah, if it's only if you rich with
Speaker 1: a platform or if you just have a platform. What
Speaker 1: I'm saying, because like a lot of people look up
Speaker 1: to Lord's accent, saucy Santana and you know, her Bobby lights,
Speaker 1: and you know they look up to them because that's
Speaker 1: who A lot of people wish that they can be
Speaker 1: just like that. But you know how many you know
Speaker 1: how many you know how many Kay Niggers in the
Speaker 1: hood want to do the ship that Santana do. Like
Speaker 1: they want to go to the to the street clubs
Speaker 1: and tork. But they're better to fuck note, you know,
Speaker 1: like get their bodies done. They want to get bbls.
Speaker 1: They better to fun not like you. You just can't.
Speaker 1: You know, they want to wear long hair with full beards.
Speaker 1: They're better to funck not like if you think he
Speaker 1: better to funk not. I keep telling them that ain't
Speaker 1: cute k and told him any time. But I love
Speaker 1: me some Santanta, but go in. Yeah, you know you can't.
Speaker 1: You can't. You can't do that in the hood. They
Speaker 1: can do that. They have platforms, are larger, they have
Speaker 1: people behind them that's bigger than them, that's supporting and
Speaker 1: pushing them. You know, it's like it's different ship. It's different.
Speaker 1: It's it's a double standard, Like you can't do that
Speaker 1: ship in your hood. You know, It's like you just can't.
Speaker 1: Like little nas X, I think some of the ship
Speaker 1: that he's doing is because of his platform. If Old
Speaker 1: Town Road didn't blow up the way that it blew up,
Speaker 1: I don't think that he never would have came out.
Speaker 1: I don't think he would have never really not even
Speaker 1: get into where he is. I don't think that he
Speaker 1: would have never came out and said, hey, y'all, I
Speaker 1: am identifying as gay or however he worried because I
Speaker 1: don't want to. You know, that's not verbat him. But
Speaker 1: in a sense he basically said hey, y'all, and it
Speaker 1: was he's extremely comfortable. Yeah, And it was like and
Speaker 1: it was like, damn, this song is rocking, like you
Speaker 1: got the whole everybody, everybody, everybody's singing Old Town Role,
Speaker 1: like I mean everybody, everybody, everybody. And then it was like,
Speaker 1: you know, the numbers, what it was. He made some money,
Speaker 1: he did what he did, and I was like, boom,
Speaker 1: this is who I am, this is what i'm, this
Speaker 1: is what I represent. Do you think these then stopped
Speaker 1: listening to Old Town Road because now this man is gay, absolutely,
Speaker 1: you know. But then it's then there's some people that
Speaker 1: be like, man, I listening to that because he is
Speaker 1: get this in the third but it's more because he
Speaker 1: has a platform and he has the money and because
Speaker 1: you know, everybody wants you know, whatever whatever that whatever
Speaker 1: the reason it is, it was acceptable because of where
Speaker 1: he was. He couldn't have done that on a regular scale,
Speaker 1: Like you can't just nah, that's that's that's not even
Speaker 1: performance wise, Like it's like speaking on his BBC performance
Speaker 1: where he kissed the guy tuned them down. It's niggers
Speaker 1: that's been getting the neighborhood for years, and the neighborhood
Speaker 1: knows and they dare not kissing nigga in the neighborhood,
Speaker 1: like kissing nigga in public period, Like you just you're
Speaker 1: just not doing that. You're just not doing that. But
Speaker 1: he can do it, Like who won't check them? Think
Speaker 1: about like honestly, who won't check them? Has it ever
Speaker 1: affected you in a sense where you felt like you
Speaker 1: couldn't do something where you got a harder time because
Speaker 1: of because I know I've been there since you came out,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, And I've seen and even
Speaker 1: things that I don't see. I haven't seen much change
Speaker 1: for you, but you never I didn't know that when
Speaker 1: I met you, you know what I mean, that you
Speaker 1: were gay, Like I I just I just didn't. I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: that's a very fashion forward nigga. He find you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like he can dance, He never across
Speaker 1: my mind that you were gay until you told me.
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, I'm like, oh ship, cool
Speaker 1: o ship. I'm like, okay, what changed once you came out?
Speaker 1: A lot? You know, a lot, a lot of things changed,
Speaker 1: but a lot of things because I'm an image person,
Speaker 1: I shielded in a mask, masked it away from you know,
Speaker 1: the world. Like I lost a bunch of clients behind it.
Speaker 1: You know, he is a barber. Yeah, you know I
Speaker 1: lost a bunch of clients. Man. You know I got
Speaker 1: a bunch of hate emails. You know, like you never
Speaker 1: told me that you lost I know you did get
Speaker 1: a bunch of hate messages and ship, but I never
Speaker 1: knew you lost clients. I lost a lot of clients. Um.
Speaker 1: But it wasn't nothing that you know, it didn't. It
Speaker 1: just was like for me, it was more of like
Speaker 1: a freedom of a mind thing like yeah, it's whatever
Speaker 1: now you know, like it's gonna be, It's gonna be.
Speaker 1: How what how much worse can get? You know, It's
Speaker 1: like okay, now, who's no more speculation? I said it
Speaker 1: like you know what I mean, Like I don't have
Speaker 1: a bun like definitely was like the wrong sound effects
Speaker 1: that that's giving, Penis, that's giving. Dick. Come on, I
Speaker 1: told you you're gay, and this is my brother and
Speaker 1: we play like this day. But you know, I lost
Speaker 1: a lot, you know, um and still lose a lot,
Speaker 1: you know. And I think that a lot of things
Speaker 1: that that I put together, even in my mainly in
Speaker 1: my city, you know, a lot of things that I
Speaker 1: may try to put together the orchestra. I think that
Speaker 1: people don't actually funk with me because of the fact,
Speaker 1: because you know, and it's just like damn like if
Speaker 1: I never said nothing, niggas wouldn't have known. But I
Speaker 1: never felt like I had to tell anybody because if
Speaker 1: I'm not interested in it, don't matter. You're my homeboy.
Speaker 1: You can be my home boy, I can be I
Speaker 1: can be gay with straight homeboys. And listen, that's another
Speaker 1: thing about you. I noticed, and knowing you for years,
Speaker 1: you don't hang with gay people. Gay man. You know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. You don't and why And they're gonna
Speaker 1: hate me for for saying this, but I mean it
Speaker 1: is what it is. You know. I don't like the
Speaker 1: stigma or the perception of groups that gay people hanging together,
Speaker 1: you know. And and let me explain generally when you
Speaker 1: hear gay, you know, faggy or whatever. You know what
Speaker 1: I mean, we're generally associated with them thieves, they still
Speaker 1: they do fraud, they do this, they do that. Like
Speaker 1: it's never oh he has a business, or oh he
Speaker 1: has he does real estate, or he's he's a doctor.
Speaker 1: Is always the negative about groups of gay people that
Speaker 1: hang together, you know, And I don't know he's selling
Speaker 1: ass or he's selling dick. He don't like na, no, no,
Speaker 1: no no. So I don't want to be a part
Speaker 1: of that. Like I'm a community supporter, but I'm not
Speaker 1: a community member. The things that go on in the community,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't partake in those things. Got a
Speaker 1: real life, no real real ship going on. And I
Speaker 1: don't have time for those general characteristics of that group
Speaker 1: of people associated with me because I don't move like that,
Speaker 1: you know. And there's nothing against how you get your money,
Speaker 1: get your money, how to fun you get your money.
Speaker 1: I don't want you to be like, oh, he's stereotyping us,
Speaker 1: blah blah blah, what he think he up and he
Speaker 1: gave nigga No no, no, no, no, I got calm
Speaker 1: and sense. That's just what it is. You know, like
Speaker 1: you know, get your money though, however you get it.
Speaker 1: What works for you works for you. Hold up, hold up,
Speaker 1: I know the ship getting good, but listen to just
Speaker 1: a couple of seconds of a commercial. If you love me,
Speaker 1: you'll listen. Now, do you know any successful gays? Absolutely,
Speaker 1: Lewis Baton, Oh ship. Yeah, all of these designers that
Speaker 1: we wear when the niggas in the hood got problem
Speaker 1: with gay niggas, but they're wearing around the ass but
Speaker 1: they're not ready for conversations and luxury brand. Yeah, you
Speaker 1: spend your last on to keep up. Absolutely, yeah, absolutely,
Speaker 1: you know you got you know, it's just and I'd
Speaker 1: be like, damn, you don't like gay niggs, but you
Speaker 1: win all those designer ship. These niggers were for sure
Speaker 1: gay and and and was out about it like yes,
Speaker 1: I'm out here sucking dick. That's just what it is.
Speaker 1: And you're gonna wear my ship. You're gonna pay top
Speaker 1: dollar for it. But you won't even endorse a nigga. Hey,
Speaker 1: but you won't even endorse a nigga in your neighborhood
Speaker 1: who maybe don't even like you. But you just got
Speaker 1: a problem because you're worried about what your other straight
Speaker 1: homeboys gonna saying you don't gonna be friends with him
Speaker 1: because he gay. Why do you feel like straight men
Speaker 1: have such a problem or such such a negative guard
Speaker 1: up when you know it comes to even being around
Speaker 1: gays or being friends, not not not being around but
Speaker 1: being friends, actually having gay homeboys. If you're straight, it's
Speaker 1: like a rule you can't have a gay homeboy or
Speaker 1: something like that being together. Why do you feel it's simple? Twin, Like,
Speaker 1: it's real simple. The problem is that gay people have
Speaker 1: their own narrative on the friendship between them and the
Speaker 1: heterosexual and in a gay person's mind that if you know,
Speaker 1: the average gay person, if a straight guy is treating
Speaker 1: them like the homie or just you know, like like
Speaker 1: being nice to him, or you know, looking past the
Speaker 1: fact that you know what I mean, that they're gay
Speaker 1: or whatever, they automatically assume that now the heterosexual male
Speaker 1: is flirting with them, you know, and now it's like
Speaker 1: they're doing the most you know what I mean. Like
Speaker 1: one of the saying keep just doing is doing that
Speaker 1: the whole time. The straight nigger is just comfortable with
Speaker 1: enough with his sexuality to be able to be friends
Speaker 1: with your communicate with you, but you suck it up
Speaker 1: by making it seem like something is what in fact isn't.
Speaker 1: And now you're trying to explain to the hood that
Speaker 1: you ain't sucking this nigga, but he giving off the
Speaker 1: signs like a bit that she really is sucking them.
Speaker 1: And it's one thing that is hard for a straight
Speaker 1: nigger to get off of his off of his name,
Speaker 1: is that he's gay. Once a gay person say that's
Speaker 1: like they act like all the ship that gay people
Speaker 1: do or people in general. Dude, they act like straight
Speaker 1: gay people tell the truth when it comes straight people. Yo,
Speaker 1: you had like it's people that died that has died
Speaker 1: behind that ship, like all that type of ship, right,
Speaker 1: like people people get killed, like putting that type of
Speaker 1: m or But a lot of the times this should
Speaker 1: be true, and and it do be true, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, Not all the time. It's also a
Speaker 1: variation that that's not you know, the people are honestly
Speaker 1: everybody that I hang around straight up and down straight
Speaker 1: and they don't have a problem with being around. But
Speaker 1: you're not absolutely not. Man. It's like I move, I
Speaker 1: move carefully and respectably upon the people that I'm around,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. Like it's just like it's
Speaker 1: not that I'm hiding who I am. It's just certain
Speaker 1: things aren't permissible in certain atmospheres, Certain people can't go
Speaker 1: certain places. I'm not going to invite my straight friends
Speaker 1: to a gay event, which I really don't go to.
Speaker 1: But you know, I'm not gonna write my straight friends
Speaker 1: to a gay event. I'm not gonna write my gate
Speaker 1: friends to a straight event. I don't have no gay event,
Speaker 1: no friends. I don't have it. But I'm saying if
Speaker 1: I did, I wouldn't do that because that's just like,
Speaker 1: you know, you gotta learn how to entertain people appropriately.
Speaker 1: It's like you have friends, you know, just all subject
Speaker 1: because you have friends that when you hang with them friends,
Speaker 1: you don't hang with other friends because you know, they
Speaker 1: just don't mix. You don't put oil and water together
Speaker 1: and then get an attitude because it's not working the
Speaker 1: way you wanted to work, you know, And that's just
Speaker 1: how that's just how my mind set. But even the
Speaker 1: heterosexual or homosexuality whatever, I don't believe in public affection.
Speaker 1: I don't. It doesn't matter, you know, when I you know,
Speaker 1: I was dealing with females. You know, it's like, I
Speaker 1: don't got to do all this outside. We we spend
Speaker 1: time together behind closed doors. I just think that it's unacceptable,
Speaker 1: you know. I don't. I'm not I'm not going to
Speaker 1: do the most, you know, that's just I'm just not
Speaker 1: to nobody, absolutely not. What if you're doing something out
Speaker 1: in public and it's a kid around watching You don't
Speaker 1: even know this kid is watching you and his parents
Speaker 1: have to explain to him the birds and the bees
Speaker 1: or the bees and the bees and the birds and
Speaker 1: the birds, or whatever the case may be. And they're
Speaker 1: not even old enough to have this conversation yet, Like,
Speaker 1: you just gotta be and what's around you at all times.
Speaker 1: And do you think that is why they are trying
Speaker 1: to interject gay and everything in the world, okay, one
Speaker 1: time for the people in the back. I think that
Speaker 1: is the stupidest ship in the world. You are teaching
Speaker 1: these kids, And I don't want to say that it's
Speaker 1: okay to be gay because so many people have that's
Speaker 1: like a politic that's like a politics. It's very political,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like, oh, it is okay to beginning, Okay,
Speaker 1: Like I don't want to get into all that, but
Speaker 1: you're I think you're forcing the kids to learn something
Speaker 1: that wasn't taught to us instead of just leaving them
Speaker 1: opening to finding out you know later. What about this
Speaker 1: with somebody in the barbershop, It was like, you know,
Speaker 1: I felt She was like, I feel like the TV
Speaker 1: and and this generation is forcing the kids to be,
Speaker 1: you know, interested in this because if they don't know
Speaker 1: about it, what's gonna make them curious about it? And
Speaker 1: I get it, you know, I get it. But my
Speaker 1: rebuttal to her was, you know, well, also, I feel
Speaker 1: like it's not even just TV. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: social media. She like, what you mean? I'm like, what
Speaker 1: does your kid have fortnight? And all of that sudden
Speaker 1: she like, yeah, I'm like, you're not listening to what
Speaker 1: these people saying, or you're not listening. You don't know
Speaker 1: it's no age burriger on, what the funk? You know?
Speaker 1: It online and that's some dangerous ship. Yeah, just be
Speaker 1: so much ship going on. And nowadays these kids have
Speaker 1: because of social media and other things related to it,
Speaker 1: these kids have an option to have a personality. We
Speaker 1: had no fucking personality as kids. So you've got a personality.
Speaker 1: Now you become curious. You know, we didn't do it
Speaker 1: because our parents told us not to do that. Don't
Speaker 1: funk with the same sex because that's wrong. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's it. Now. If it was done, it was sneakily done,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. It wasn't. It wasn't niggers
Speaker 1: didn't even want to know if you was working with,
Speaker 1: better not to say that. And if your mother knew,
Speaker 1: she would tell you better not say that ship. You
Speaker 1: better not emburssed me around the family and let them
Speaker 1: find out. So whatever you're gonna do, you do it
Speaker 1: in private. And you see how everything is evolved from that,
Speaker 1: Like everything everything, everything we hands out out like Batman
Speaker 1: and robbing. They just made robbing gay. They robbing is bisexual.
Speaker 1: Why the first of all, saving the world has has
Speaker 1: to deal with why? And this is the thing growing
Speaker 1: up as a kid, and you watch this ship. You're
Speaker 1: not worried about who robbing fucking You're worried about who
Speaker 1: he's saving. You're actually we don't even see robbing enough
Speaker 1: for him to know he gay? How when then did
Speaker 1: he tell us this? What is he like? Kissing? Kissing?
Speaker 1: The kissing, the boy in the movie or something like
Speaker 1: what he's by. They don't have him as gay, but
Speaker 1: they have Miso. He was ready get up in something
Speaker 1: he didn't He mad as a motherfucking about rob because
Speaker 1: I don't like it. It's like, yeah, it's like I don't.
Speaker 1: I just don't like that. Man. It's it's it's like
Speaker 1: a brainwash mechanism, like, yeah, these things are an option.
Speaker 1: You know, this is the way, this is the way
Speaker 1: it's supposed to be, you know, but these things are
Speaker 1: an option. And then it's like, here are some more
Speaker 1: options if you don't want to be straightforward and just
Speaker 1: say you're gay. Now we have all these acronyms and
Speaker 1: half of the fucking alphabet, like you know, weird ship,
Speaker 1: like just to make somebody feel like that it's okay
Speaker 1: for what they're doing. If you're gay, you're gay period,
Speaker 1: you straight, you straight period? You know what I mean?
Speaker 1: If you mix with you know, both sex, cross contamination, period,
Speaker 1: Like that's what the fun it is like, it's there's
Speaker 1: no it's no ups and there's no downs. And I know,
Speaker 1: you know the community is gonna hate me for that,
Speaker 1: but you know what, Yeah, a matter of fact, I
Speaker 1: think they're gonnaht me to you. So now I take
Speaker 1: back that that second cross contamination. You can do what
Speaker 1: you want. If you like pussy on Winds, you like
Speaker 1: Dick on Thursday, do that. That's the nastiest ship in
Speaker 1: the world though. I just think that it's nasty, like
Speaker 1: you can't and yeah, yeah like that. That is crazy.
Speaker 1: Man like you gotta choose feeling the cross contamination. I
Speaker 1: love that. Got to choose, man like that ship. I
Speaker 1: think I think it's not fair to heterosexual relationships. It's
Speaker 1: not fair to homosexualations ships because if you're diving a
Speaker 1: dab and I guarantee you your partners don't know. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: you know. And that's that's that's where I get the
Speaker 1: cross contamination from. There's no where you're gonna stick your
Speaker 1: dick in the man's ass and then later that night
Speaker 1: or tomorrow you want to fun your wife with the
Speaker 1: same dick and like nah nah shout up to the
Speaker 1: movie cover said you got something in y'all you want
Speaker 1: me blow it? Nig movie not good game? Hold up, sorry,
Speaker 1: it means so much good good game, yo. That said
Speaker 1: you got something to y'all you want me blow it?
Speaker 1: First of all, sir, we are in the bathroom. If
Speaker 1: you don't back the something, I think you got something
Speaker 1: in your eye, but you want me blow it like
Speaker 1: that was like the pickup line to have like gay
Speaker 1: sex with the male while they were in the restaurants
Speaker 1: with their wives. Man, And this is ship that goes
Speaker 1: on day. I know multiple situations where niggas had lived
Speaker 1: with what you have a lot of time, niggas live
Speaker 1: with bitches and we'll sneak out the house to do
Speaker 1: ship with a nigga. I think that is the most
Speaker 1: disgusting and ship and you are in fact right that
Speaker 1: that is that is disgusting, you know, especially because you're
Speaker 1: not giving your made a choice. You know what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: You're not even right. And I'm telling you there are
Speaker 1: women that are okay with men being bisexual, just like
Speaker 1: there are men okay with some women being bisexual. But
Speaker 1: when you're sneaking around it like like the saying on
Speaker 1: cover when she because Leon played the master game, he
Speaker 1: was like the top. Yeah, he was the one, like
Speaker 1: shit Leon so damn sexy and smoothing them up. And
Speaker 1: in every movie, yes he was the ship and he
Speaker 1: ain't give a fuck, you know, what I mean. But
Speaker 1: he loved his wife, but he still loved men, you know,
Speaker 1: And she was like so stressed out. It's not even
Speaker 1: about him cheating. It's like, yo, if it was a woman,
Speaker 1: I can compete with them. With a woman, I can't
Speaker 1: compete with a man, like you don't want I can't compete,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So she felt like yo,
Speaker 1: like damn, like I'm I'm useless to this man because
Speaker 1: I'm not really what he wants, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: She probably feeling like I'm just an armed piece. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, so that really broke her hard. Like the
Speaker 1: movie cover, I'm just a cover. Yeah there you go.
Speaker 1: Hold up, I see what you did there? Cover? All right?
Speaker 1: Well that that's that's exactly. And it's a lot and
Speaker 1: and and and that, and it's again, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of people who live like that. You know. They have
Speaker 1: four families, four wives, but their side piece is a nigga,
Speaker 1: you know, or a male. I don't want to just just
Speaker 1: keep saying nigga. You say nigga, nip think you know,
Speaker 1: just black, but is a male you know? And I
Speaker 1: do think that it is discussing though, you know, but
Speaker 1: it is harder for broke gay niggers than it is
Speaker 1: for rich gay niggas. Man. I do understand, and I
Speaker 1: believe it's it's hard for men period as opposed to women.
Speaker 1: You know what I mean that is, you know, it's
Speaker 1: a double it's a double standard. That is literally the
Speaker 1: what what we wanted to address. Like I really wanted
Speaker 1: to have you on here to talk about that ship because,
Speaker 1: like I said, if I would have tried to do
Speaker 1: this episode, the topic by myself, oh no, like this
Speaker 1: bitch is off perfec. Like you don't have a you
Speaker 1: don't have a right to say, you know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: But I I just I see that and I know
Speaker 1: it like I have, you know, family members who I've
Speaker 1: seen and a lot of my church family, you know,
Speaker 1: they're not biologically related to me, but a lot of
Speaker 1: my church family. You know, I have a lot of
Speaker 1: you know, gay cousins who grew up in church and
Speaker 1: ship and they I watched people like this own them,
Speaker 1: you know, their dads and even don't come back to
Speaker 1: this church like crazy. You know what I'm saying. I know, cope,
Speaker 1: people that got kicked out of the house, you know
Speaker 1: after you know, moving in secret for so long and
Speaker 1: then at being axd like, you know, what is the truth?
Speaker 1: Tell me the truth? And then you tell the truth
Speaker 1: and they still cut them to funk off. You know,
Speaker 1: he's come to you know, it's rough. It's rough. The
Speaker 1: community will say you're wrong for for hiding what you're
Speaker 1: doing behind closed doors, but then when you come out
Speaker 1: of these closed doors, now you're wrong for being it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, it's like damn if I do, Damn if
Speaker 1: I don't. And then if I try to act like
Speaker 1: I like women, I'm still gonna be looked down on,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. So it's like it's no
Speaker 1: because now you're faking. Yeah, you're pretending, or you're wasting,
Speaker 1: you're taking you know, you're taking pussy out here. That's
Speaker 1: for the straightening. Like, it's just so much ship that
Speaker 1: you get scrutinized about, and it's like, damn if you do,
Speaker 1: Damn if you don't, you just never right, you know,
Speaker 1: you just you just never right. As far as the
Speaker 1: like paying sexuals, a sexuals, intersex, like all those different
Speaker 1: you know groups or you know, committees, how would you
Speaker 1: colonies something mean, it's just they're all sub topics again
Speaker 1: to make people feel okay with what they're doing, except
Speaker 1: for intersex. Intersex isn't more so a sexuality. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: not sexuality. That's something that you're born with. This basically
Speaker 1: a hormorphoditeus when you're born with both, Okay, okay, yeah
Speaker 1: that so it's like you know, it's when you're born
Speaker 1: with both. So those that's something that you can't control. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you can't control that. So it's just like that's like
Speaker 1: you gotta pick and choose which one or not even
Speaker 1: then choose like whatever you feel you are. If you
Speaker 1: don't have it surgically fixed, you know you gotta so
Speaker 1: you can, you can, you can, damn. Some intersects are
Speaker 1: born with with with breasts and then some aren't. So
Speaker 1: I guess you can choose, like, you know, even if
Speaker 1: you are breast, but you want to be you know,
Speaker 1: a male, you know, you do what you gotta do.
Speaker 1: But the other things are just topics and make people
Speaker 1: feel better about this, make them feel okay what they're
Speaker 1: doing to make a scene less gay as a male.
Speaker 1: Once you cross that line, that's it. You just no
Speaker 1: matter what the funk, you don't you can't be like, Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm just gay today, but tomorrow I'm sure you like, yeah, Nah,
Speaker 1: It's just it's you get feel I feel you because
Speaker 1: a lot of people feel like, you know, like I'm
Speaker 1: attracted to Like for instance, I think Willow Smith is
Speaker 1: uh something where she is. She doesn't see man or female,
Speaker 1: she just sees love. So it's like then you buy
Speaker 1: like you like both, but she's like, no, I'm not
Speaker 1: by sexually. What the funk are you? You know what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, Like, I don't know. It's just like people,
Speaker 1: it's just like it's it's just an acceptance thing of
Speaker 1: my mind. It's a that's a mental thing, like I'm free,
Speaker 1: like like you got damn hippie. That's cool. But it's
Speaker 1: you know, why is it so fine? It's like, yeah, word,
Speaker 1: you gotta ask people in the community when you meet them,
Speaker 1: you know, how do you identify? What are your pronouns? Like?
Speaker 1: First of all, I'm not walking up to nobody said hey,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? What are your pronouns? Like like
Speaker 1: like a robot, I'm a person. It's just it's just
Speaker 1: extra because at the end of the day, like you
Speaker 1: just said, the first and foremost, you're human. Yeah, all
Speaker 1: that other ship it's irrelevant, and it's like, it doesn't
Speaker 1: it doesn't. I don't think I personally don't feel as
Speaker 1: though that it takes that much to identify yourself as
Speaker 1: who you are. If you gave you gaye, you straight,
Speaker 1: you straight. If you're a cross contaminated, you're a cross contaminating,
Speaker 1: all right, we're gonna end on that. Not if you
Speaker 1: are a cross contaminated, you are cross contaminated. That was
Speaker 1: Prince that said that, not me, So he's never been
Speaker 1: canceled before. Canceling him to see how you feel about
Speaker 1: that ship. It's like, no, no, no, But I did
Speaker 1: want to touch on this ship because it's a lot
Speaker 1: of it that people don't talk about and scared scared. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they're scared to talk about it. So I really really
Speaker 1: wanted to dig into it because it's what else but
Speaker 1: conversation and dig into it. Damn. Oh man, see you
Speaker 1: your gay game in there? You go digging into it?
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? Oh my god, listen, I
Speaker 1: love y'all while they are gay straight hermaphrodite or Prince
Speaker 1: said hermorphonite. But whatever, you know, we're gonna come back
Speaker 1: morphing time. And I love you, thanks for stopping by,
Speaker 1: No problem, I'm out, bitch. I thought it was gonna
Speaker 1: get on, because he definitely was like, bitch, if you
Speaker 1: ever thanked me for stopping by, Remember last week he said,
Speaker 1: I was not walking down the street. But look, we'll
Speaker 1: see who the funk we got on here. Next week,
Speaker 1: I might bring my cheat nests farther pits, you know, yeah,
Speaker 1: like niggas, hold on, what old on? Cheap faring this bitch?
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Holy, he'd be walking past
Speaker 1: like I'm just stopping the fun by. Make sure you're
Speaker 1: tuning in each and every Wednesday. That's hump Day and
Speaker 1: in my palm boys. Carefully Reckless is the production of
Speaker 1: I Heart Radio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts
Speaker 1: from I Heart Radio, visit the I Heart Radio app,
Speaker 1: Apple podcast, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.