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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocates Law dot com.

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Speaker 2: Allegra is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up. She's getting ghosted by a dude named Harold.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes, we're going to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if you'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But first, Allegra, how

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Speaker 2: long has it been since you heard from him?

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Speaker 3: Oh? Man, it has been about twelve days already.

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Speaker 4: How many times have you tried to reach out to

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Speaker 4: him in the twelve days?

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Speaker 5: A few?

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Speaker 3: Like, I'm not going crazy, but I've spent a few

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Speaker 3: texts on a few different days and I haven't heard

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Speaker 3: a response since our first date ended.

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Speaker 1: Actually, okay, well let's go back to that. Want to

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Speaker 1: tell us about your date and how it ended?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I have quick a typical date.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 3: We decided to meet up for drinks, and we were

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Speaker 3: having such a good time that we actually ended up

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Speaker 3: getting dinner, had some good Italian food, then we had

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Speaker 3: a large drink.

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Speaker 5: So it was a good date.

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Speaker 3: Like it was definite hours.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that would make me feel like it was a

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Speaker 4: good date.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, right, okay, definitely liked me, like he was really

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Speaker 3: into it.

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Speaker 5: So how do you know that?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, first of all, you don't stay several

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Speaker 3: houries if you're not feeling someone, you know, and his

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Speaker 3: body language was into me. The conversation was blowing, like,

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Speaker 3: you know, he sent me a really nice text when

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Speaker 3: he got home at the end of the day. He

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Speaker 3: just hasn't been responded to since then, and that's why

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Speaker 3: I'm like, something's up, Like it's just not adding up.

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Speaker 4: So he texted you when he got home. What did

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Speaker 4: he say?

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Speaker 3: He guess said that he had a great time and

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Speaker 3: to have a good night, like very typical. You know.

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Speaker 1: Was there any talk about a second date while you

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Speaker 1: were on that date, like oh, that'd be fun for

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Speaker 1: us to try next time, or any kind of subtle

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Speaker 1: hints like that.

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Speaker 3: We said comments like that multiple times, like oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: you haven't seen that movie. I'll totally go with you again,

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Speaker 3: Like oh my gosh, that happened, let's do that together.

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Speaker 3: So we didn't specify like a second date, but we

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Speaker 3: definitely had the vibe of seeing each other again.

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Speaker 2: And there's nothing that you can think of on the

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Speaker 2: date that happened that could have been awkward.

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Speaker 3: I mean nothing was awkward. We are very different. He

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Speaker 3: you know, he's kind of like a buttoned up dude

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Speaker 3: that's taken life pretty seriously, and I'm kind of the opposite. Like,

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Speaker 3: don't get me wrong, I have my stuff together, but

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Speaker 3: you know, I'm care free. I like to have fun.

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Speaker 3: But I don't know, I don't really think that was

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Speaker 3: an issue. I feel like he was really into me,

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Speaker 3: and I made it clear that I am very into him,

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Speaker 3: Like very What.

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Speaker 4: Do you mean. I made it clear.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm basically attracted to him, but I let him know,

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Speaker 3: like he's my ideal type of guy. Like it's really

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Speaker 3: hard to find a guy that you're attracted to physically

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Speaker 3: that also has their stuff together, Like he is making

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Speaker 3: grew up in a bad situation and now he's made

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Speaker 3: a life for himself. And that's why that checks all

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Speaker 3: my boxes. That's what I'm looking for.

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Speaker 5: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Do you think maybe it was like too much for him?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 3: You know, I don't know. I mean that's why I

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Speaker 3: need your help. Like to me, we balance each other perfectly.

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Speaker 3: But you know, maybe he's feeling a different way, and

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Speaker 3: after he thought it about things, he decided I'm not

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Speaker 3: a good fit, but I really think that I am,

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Speaker 3: so I need your help.

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Speaker 1: Did you tell him that he checks all your boxes?

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Speaker 3: I didn't say that specifically, but I mean I did

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Speaker 3: let him know, like, man, this is impressive, like I'm

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Speaker 3: really digging what he's doing in life. He also kissed

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Speaker 3: me goodbye, and it wasn't something that I was encouraging, Like,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I wanted to kiss him, but I wasn't

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Speaker 3: going to force that on him. I mean, he pulled

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Speaker 3: me in and did not let me go when we

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Speaker 3: were hugging, and the kiss was excellent. So again the

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Speaker 1: Was it an open mouth kiss or a closed mouth kiss?

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Speaker 1: That's important to know, like.

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Speaker 3: It ten minute open mouth kiss?

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Speaker 4: Oh okay, so that was like makeout girl.

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Speaker 1: I would have already showed up in his house after

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Speaker 1: all of this twelve day I'll let your tongue in

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Speaker 1: my mouth.

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Speaker 4: All right, Well, we'll try to figure it out for you.

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Speaker 2: Then play a song, come back and then call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he tell us why he's ghosting you,

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Speaker 2: and get you another day if you still want one.

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Speaker 5: Okay, okay, Okay, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: All right, well, plas don't come back and get your

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Speaker 2: first day follow up next right in the middle of

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Speaker 2: your first day follow up if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: Alegra is on the phone, and it's been twelve days

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Speaker 2: since she heard from Harold, the guy she went on

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Speaker 2: a date with, and now we're about to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting her

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Speaker 2: and maybe get her another date. But before we do that, Allegra,

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Speaker 2: why don't you catch everybody up on your situation.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So, like you said, this guy Harold and I

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Speaker 3: hit it off. We had a great first date. It

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Speaker 3: ended with an amazing kiss, and I really think there's

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Speaker 3: potential for this to be something. However, Harold isn't responding

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Speaker 3: to text messages anymore.

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Speaker 2: All right, well you ready for us to call him

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Speaker 2: and see if he'll tell us why he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 6: Yes, all right, here we gold.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Harold, how are you? I'm calling from a radio show.

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Speaker 2: It's called the Jebel Show.

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Speaker 4: How are you, hi?

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Speaker 3: Harold?

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Speaker 4: The whole show's here too. My name's Nina, Hi, and

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Speaker 4: I'm Victoria. I'm pretty good. So did you hear where

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Speaker 4: we're calling from. Yes, okay, this is so formal. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: are you at work?

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Speaker 5: If I am, but I have a moment I may

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Speaker 4: We're calling from.

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Speaker 2: So it's a radio show called The Jebel Show, and

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Speaker 2: we do a segment on our show that if somebody

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Speaker 2: gets ghosted from a date that they went on, that

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Speaker 2: person can email them to get them on the phone

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Speaker 2: and ask why they're getting ghosted. And so we got

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Speaker 2: an email about you from someone who listens to the show.

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Speaker 5: And who is this?

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Speaker 4: Her name is alegra.

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Speaker 5: Yes, okay, yes, I understand.

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Speaker 2: All right, do you would you mind telling us why

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Speaker 2: you're not calling her back? She said, it's been twelve

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Speaker 2: days since you guys hung out, and she really.

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Speaker 5: A moment.

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Speaker 7: It's to be truthful with you. She was a wonderful girl.

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Speaker 7: I had a great time with her. Headed off, I

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Speaker 7: was attracted to her. I hope she was attracted to me.

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Speaker 7: But in the interim and in all said and done, honestly,

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Speaker 7: she was too hot. She was absolutely too gorgeous of

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Speaker 7: a woman. And I've learned coming.

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Speaker 5: Up, I please hear me out.

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Speaker 7: I've learned as a man coming up the way I

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Speaker 7: have from poverty to being an environment that the good

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Speaker 7: looking girls are too high, Makenance. It's almost like a dream.

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Speaker 7: That's that's too good. You cannot you can't. There's no

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Speaker 7: way to sustain that type of relationship with a good

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Speaker 7: looking woman. You need what they call back in my days.

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Speaker 7: And I'll go, I've married the one. You don't marry

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Speaker 7: the ones.

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Speaker 5: That you like. You marry the ones that like you.

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Speaker 5: It's safer. It's safer, unstimutely safer.

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Speaker 4: You Yeah, I don't know about that, sir.

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Speaker 1: This sounds a little bit old fashion, not even that's

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Speaker 7: And honestly, I'm looking for someone who is to be truthful,

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Speaker 7: to be blunt. It's not as high Matenance's she Okay,

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Speaker 7: you know what?

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Speaker 5: I ast you to.

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Speaker 7: Give you more information, and this is what both men

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Speaker 7: won't tell you. It is an insight into someone's insecurity.

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Speaker 7: I will admit this, but at the same time I

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Speaker 7: I can't sustain that I like her.

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Speaker 5: She's great. She's absolutely great. If this even makes sense,

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Speaker 5: she checked all the boxes on my side. It was wonderful.

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Speaker 7: But the glaring reality is that she is absolutely gorgeous,

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Speaker 7: possibly even too gorgeous for me.

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Speaker 1: Say that, so this isn't really about the high maintenance

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Speaker 1: so much. Is that maybe it's a way to protect

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Speaker 7: That is a great possibility, in great possibility that concerns me.

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Speaker 7: I'm not gonna lie to here.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, thanks for being honest. I appreciate it certainly.

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Speaker 5: Thank you for your time.

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Speaker 2: If you can hang on one second. Alegra is actually

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Speaker 3: I am.

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Speaker 1: With you.

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Speaker 5: Hello, How are you have you been?

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Speaker 3: I've been sad because I've sent you a few messages

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Speaker 3: and I've been over here thinking that I was not

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Speaker 3: pretty enough for you. Come to find out, I'm not

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Speaker 7: If you heard everything you it's no, it's no struck

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Speaker 7: against you. It's as I was man have to say.

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Speaker 7: It could be in the area of an insecurity upon

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Speaker 7: I don't want what hurts me the most it is

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Speaker 7: because I don't do.

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Speaker 5: Well with pain. I don't. I build up a wall

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Speaker 5: and I try to operate behind.

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Speaker 7: It, and you you shread it, you swead it.

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Speaker 5: I'm gonna get emotions. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 7: I know you don't know the part of me, but

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Speaker 7: that's that's pretty much how I have a right and

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Speaker 7: that's that's why I I.

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Speaker 5: I do. I would not be able to to.

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Speaker 7: To maintain myself adequately if someone I liked so much

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Speaker 7: and was so beautiful it hurt.

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Speaker 5: Me in that way.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, here's the though. Heroes like, I'm hoping that the

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Speaker 3: I'm not the type of person who thinks looks are

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Speaker 3: the way, you are so hot, like yeah, I don't understand.

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Speaker 3: Like woman, it's not just your look, it's the whole package,

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Speaker 5: Thank you, thank you. I appreciate that. I do.

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Speaker 2: You know, Harold, Uh, you shouldn't stay closed after stuff

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Speaker 2: just because you want to know, well, you think and

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Speaker 2: I go would be better.

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Speaker 4: It doesn't make it safer.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's always scary when you like nobody.

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Speaker 5: No, I agree, I agree, it's it's it's blue hard.

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Speaker 5: You know it's blueheard.

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Speaker 7: Have you seen a lot of you've been hurt before,

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Speaker 7: and you've seen a lot of betrayal from your friends,

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Speaker 7: and that what's happened to them.

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Speaker 5: Its kind of comes shut you down a little bit.

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Speaker 7: And and you're right, I shouldn't be that way. I

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Speaker 7: shouldn't because she's great. Shee great, Allegra, You're great.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well then Harold, would you like to go out

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Speaker 2: with Allegra again on another date?

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Speaker 5: We'll pay for it, Yes, I will say this, Alegra.

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Speaker 5: I don't need their money but to go on the

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Speaker 5: day with you, So.

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Speaker 2: We don't have to pay for it, but you'll go

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Speaker 2: on another day.

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Speaker 5: I definitely call them a man. You know, I have

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Speaker 5: to keep that image of.

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Speaker 3: I'm going to go on a date.

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Speaker 5: It was really nice to hear from me.

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Speaker 4: It's a ride.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think that if we go on another date, your

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Speaker 3: insecurities are going to go away. Like I'm I'm here

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Speaker 3: for this.

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Speaker 5: Good. I think I need some money to be here.

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Speaker 5: For that.

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Speaker 4: Oh yes you do, Harold.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't take something away from yourself because of things

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Speaker 2: that have happened outside of you, you know.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah, you're right, you're right.

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Speaker 4: But really you don't need to pay for the meal.

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Speaker 7: Put it.

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Speaker 5: I'll put it in writing. I'll put it in writing

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Speaker 5: as well.

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Speaker 4: You will the first date follow up