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Speaker 1: Come come on your baby now, huh, I sure will.

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Speaker 1: A good morning everybody, y'all listening to the voice, come

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Speaker 1: on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey got

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Speaker 1: a radio show man. God is in a blessing business.

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Speaker 1: I'm in the receiving line, man. That's a good feeling.

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Speaker 1: I thank God for waking me up in the mornings,

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Speaker 1: I really really do. I thank God for the spirit

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Speaker 1: that he wakes me up with because I finally, but

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Speaker 1: I finally figured it out. Such a blessing that shouldn't

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Speaker 1: be taken for granted. The fact that you are up

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Speaker 1: job to wake up too. Whatever it is the fact

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Speaker 1: whatever it is, it's a blessing. Man. I was talking

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Speaker 1: to a partner of mine lad night, and an analogy

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Speaker 1: came to me last night of what my life has

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Speaker 1: been like, just going over my story with a friend

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Speaker 1: of matter, all some of the things I had gone through,

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Speaker 1: the things I remember, and it's kind of equated to

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Speaker 1: would let me buy a jigsaw puzzle. Now, for those

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Speaker 1: of you, a jigsaw puzzle comes in a box that

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Speaker 1: it's simple. You're gonna dump the pieces out in a

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Speaker 1: is the d I would select a jigsaw puzzle based

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Speaker 1: if it looked too intricate, I didn't want that puzzle,

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Speaker 1: you know. And the thing was back in the day.

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Speaker 1: the jigsaw. Once you get comfortable and you don't mind

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Speaker 1: the key to it, though, if you put God in

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Speaker 1: your mix. See the picture that I saw for myself

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Speaker 1: putting God in the mix. And so now the picture

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Speaker 1: It's the picture that God saw. So what I'm saying

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Speaker 1: But man, he's a masterful jigsaw man. He's an incredible

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Speaker 1: That's what's amazing and exciting about a relationship with God.

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, man have your attention please. Uh it's

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Speaker 1: Monday morning. It's the beginning of a new week. But

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Speaker 1: bout it, dog gone it. Shirley Strong. We let Steve,

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Speaker 1: We live fun. That was fun. It's young people listening

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Speaker 1: even saying that no more. They say still saying we live. Said,

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Speaker 1: You know that way? I know, I know it's out

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Speaker 1: We let bla for rel what's happening? We bought that life?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? Junior? You got one? I just gonna say,

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Speaker 1: morning on my Tommy. You got one lit light lit,

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Speaker 1: keeping like that. It's all right, man, right on? What's

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Speaker 1: doing it might be to me. Yeah, what's up? What's up? Timmy?

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Speaker 1: the I was saying, mister Timmy, you lit, I said, baby,

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Speaker 1: with I don't know what you're talking about. Say what?

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Speaker 1: But it's so funny, Steve, You're right because we're at

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Speaker 1: an age now where everything we do embarrasses our kids.

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Speaker 1: There's nothing that we can do that where our kids

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Speaker 1: think we're cool. Nothing. All right, Listen, coming up in

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Speaker 1: thirty two, after the hour. We'll have more of the

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Shock right after this. Wait, let we

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Speaker 1: let turn up. You're listening to show. All right, guys,

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Speaker 1: it is time to start the morning off with the

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Speaker 1: nephew and run that prank back what you got for us? Now,

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Speaker 1: surely it is PSC, p s C. That is prostate

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Speaker 1: chuck off. Let's okay, PFC Prostate. Hello, Hello, I'm trying

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Speaker 1: to reach a Roger. Roger, my name is Greg. I'm

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Speaker 1: a PFC. I got you on my schedule. I'm supposed

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Speaker 1: to come by your house tomorrow morning about seven fifteen.

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Speaker 1: there about seven fifteen. From my understanding, you go to

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Speaker 1: work here, Oh you say you who? I'm a PFC, Sir,

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Speaker 1: I'll be there. I'll be there tomorrow. I got you

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Speaker 1: on my schedule for Monday morning, and I'll be there

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Speaker 1: at least about seven fifteen. From my understanding, you go

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Speaker 1: to work at seven thirty and uh, my procedure is

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Speaker 1: I will be by there tomorrow morning. What's the PSC, PFC?

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Speaker 1: What's just a pc PSC? Sir, PSC, I will be

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Speaker 1: there tomorrow. I've been in business probably for the last

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Speaker 1: I guess about thirteen fourteen years now. What is PSC Specialists?

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Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked by your homeboard? Who?

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Speaker 1: Your homeboard got me to prank phone call you, Chris

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Speaker 1: Deacon the Deaf jam and the gavel we contemply on

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Speaker 1: this statution called the JPJJ, that's the jack pot Joint

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Speaker 1: She would just listen to the but she gonna quit

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Speaker 1: We don't have a haunted house. We just had Brother

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Speaker 1: turned around. It's scared the hell out and his people

424
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Speaker 1: been coming back this four years of the row for

425
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Speaker 1: some people, so they've never been a scared the whole life.

426
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Speaker 1: He's a hide that boy, ugliest show enough look like

427
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Speaker 1: the most All right, here's some new news past that

428
00:28:13,280 --> 00:28:16,280
Speaker 1: this year. Let me take what's gonna add this year,

429
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 1: Brother Ernest. This year, it's not only gonna when you

430
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:22,760
Speaker 1: get in the backseat, he gonna turn around and he's

431
00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:35,040
Speaker 1: gonna try to choke you. What what we just pa?

432
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,240
Speaker 1: You really gonna scare these kids have the death fans.

433
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: That's Halloween is about scariness. But you're taking it a

434
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: bit far. Thirty seconds, do you have a shot one yeah,

435
00:28:55,880 --> 00:28:58,959
Speaker 1: the Hallelujah Helfer's Praise Dance Team have been asked to

436
00:28:59,000 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 1: come down. The Hollelujah Hemp's Praise Dance Team. They've been

437
00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: asked to come dance at Crafflow. Now let's change. He's

438
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,440
Speaker 1: sending his private gent but won't our church to pay

439
00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 1: for the field? Got a problem? You're listening to show?

440
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 1: This is for the ladies. We want to help you

441
00:29:22,760 --> 00:29:25,000
Speaker 1: get your get you to get your man to open up,

442
00:29:25,040 --> 00:29:27,200
Speaker 1: because you know they don't like to talk about stuff

443
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,400
Speaker 1: they don't you know, yeah, they don't like to talk

444
00:29:29,440 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: about their feelings and all that, and women as women,

445
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:36,239
Speaker 1: we love that. Yes, so yeah, so this is how

446
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:38,440
Speaker 1: to get your man to talk about his feelings. And Steve,

447
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: please see if you agree with this. Guys, see if

448
00:29:40,520 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 1: you agree with this, because they're not known to do this. So, ladies,

449
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:46,160
Speaker 1: if you're tired of guessing how your man feels, here

450
00:29:46,160 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 1: are some pointers for you to get your guy to share.

451
00:29:48,800 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 1: All right, Steve, let's see if you agree. Be trustworthy?

452
00:29:51,680 --> 00:29:57,160
Speaker 1: How about that for a guy to open up? What sweet?

453
00:29:57,200 --> 00:30:00,040
Speaker 1: Stop right there? So I didn't even are like I

454
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: understanding what you say for a guy that your man

455
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:06,280
Speaker 1: to open up? What okay? Yes, okay. So if you

456
00:30:06,320 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 1: want your guy to open up and share his emotions

457
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,800
Speaker 1: with you, he's got to be able to trust you.

458
00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,760
Speaker 1: Okay he said, that's what it means, Tommy. Okay, I

459
00:30:15,480 --> 00:30:17,240
Speaker 1: ask you to be Trea. Yeah you didn't even let

460
00:30:17,280 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: me get it out, Tommy, anything with the word trust. Yeah, yeah,

461
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:28,120
Speaker 1: all right. Treat him as an equal. Okay. So he's

462
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,959
Speaker 1: your partner, he's your husband, he's your man. You know,

463
00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:33,880
Speaker 1: he's your boo whatever. So don't treat him like a

464
00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:36,800
Speaker 1: tread And now I ain't had it. What do you mean,

465
00:30:37,800 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: you know, treat you like an equal? What hap? I'm

466
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,920
Speaker 1: just saying. I ain't saying who it was. I'm just

467
00:30:44,960 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: saying we didn't say who. Yeah, you're being treated equal.

468
00:30:48,120 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: Now I'm being treated equal. Now, you know, Okay, I've been.

469
00:30:53,760 --> 00:31:02,840
Speaker 1: I've been. I've actually been a slave. I mean, you know,

470
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 1: if that's the game you're playing, that was that the

471
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,360
Speaker 1: game you were playing or something? You know how people

472
00:31:08,600 --> 00:31:12,280
Speaker 1: roll with the role reversal. There was no game. He

473
00:31:12,440 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 1: was a slave, Give me my shoes. What are you

474
00:31:17,440 --> 00:31:20,360
Speaker 1: talking about? Rolls? You know how you role play with

475
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:24,320
Speaker 1: your mate, you role play when you talk, yeah, talking

476
00:31:24,400 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: low the whole time. Contact. You've been in such a

477
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:31,760
Speaker 1: bad relationship that they'd be sleep on your arm in

478
00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:35,760
Speaker 1: the morning, and you have a decision to make. Do

479
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,440
Speaker 1: I run the risk of pulling my arm out and

480
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:42,040
Speaker 1: waking her up? Or do I just chew it off?

481
00:31:49,640 --> 00:31:52,000
Speaker 1: I damn, Neil, I damn that had got it off.

482
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,920
Speaker 1: But I started crying, yeah, because I had been beaten

483
00:31:55,960 --> 00:31:58,920
Speaker 1: into my show. That blood was everywhere. She woke up

484
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 1: with blood all around him my mouth. What are you doing?

485
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:07,600
Speaker 1: I was trying to chew so this wouldn't happen, but

486
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: she heard me whimpering, How Steve, Why are you crack?

487
00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: Why are the blood on your head? Trying to eat

488
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:30,280
Speaker 1: something which obviously I didn't do. It blurred everywhere on

489
00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:32,200
Speaker 1: these sheets. You didn't mess these sheets. And why are

490
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:36,960
Speaker 1: you doing? Just trying to leave your ass sleep is

491
00:32:37,000 --> 00:32:41,959
Speaker 1: what I was trying to my bad Let me go

492
00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:46,160
Speaker 1: to the hospital and get these eighty five stitches. Put

493
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:52,240
Speaker 1: it in my shoulder I had. I had most of

494
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:53,960
Speaker 1: the meat in my mouth, so they was able to

495
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: pack it back on and restructure my shoulder. Go ahead,

496
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,520
Speaker 1: all right, you know, like compliment went him when he

497
00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: does something, well, that's a good way to get him

498
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: to open up, like yeah, like you know, compliment of

499
00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 1: the things he does. Well, you know, in case he's

500
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:11,080
Speaker 1: self conscious or something. You know, Oh honey, I like

501
00:33:11,200 --> 00:33:13,480
Speaker 1: the way you did this, or you know whatever. Whatever.

502
00:33:13,840 --> 00:33:18,200
Speaker 1: That's all you gonna do. That's what you've heard. That's

503
00:33:18,240 --> 00:33:22,080
Speaker 1: what argue. That's what you get. Who told you to

504
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,479
Speaker 1: put that on? Told me one time you got on

505
00:33:25,520 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 1: four different blacks, them blacks, right, that's four different blacks

506
00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 1: you got on them pants. Gonna go with that jacket,

507
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:34,560
Speaker 1: that shirt, that's four different blacks. Yeah, that's ugly. That's

508
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: the shirts. Ryan, Where you going? Yeah? Yeah, all of

509
00:33:43,640 --> 00:33:45,160
Speaker 1: a sudden, you're just gonna put on a clean T

510
00:33:45,280 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 1: shirt now at the blue change your behavior, all right,

511
00:33:54,160 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 1: You got to pick the right time. Okay, don't start

512
00:33:56,960 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: asking him about his feelings when he's rushed or when

513
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 1: he's distracted or watching the game and stuff like that.

514
00:34:02,640 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 1: You gotta ease into it, ladies, right here, so you

515
00:34:06,880 --> 00:34:10,960
Speaker 1: just gonna sit down. Ain't gonna talk to me. I'm game.

516
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:16,000
Speaker 1: Oh the game is more important than me. Yes, yes,

517
00:34:18,160 --> 00:34:20,360
Speaker 1: before you go to work, we need to talk. Yeah,

518
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,719
Speaker 1: this game is pretty big. They're only gonna play this.

519
00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: Wats a year? Did you actually say those words? But

520
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 1: you're getting said, here's another one. What's your approach? How

521
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: you approach it? Don't just push it down his throat,

522
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, be gentle, be non judgmental. You know,

523
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,160
Speaker 1: you want him to open up. You don't want him

524
00:34:43,160 --> 00:34:45,320
Speaker 1: to run away from the conversation because you show it.

525
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,759
Speaker 1: Don't want to put that down your throat? Yeah, yeah,

526
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:54,000
Speaker 1: you don't want to put down after Hello, and watch

527
00:34:54,040 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: your body language, ladies, we're just moving on. We're just

528
00:34:56,840 --> 00:35:01,279
Speaker 1: moving on. Watch yes, watch your body language, you know. Yeah,

529
00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:04,040
Speaker 1: keep yourself cool, keep your you know, don't forget. You're

530
00:35:04,080 --> 00:35:06,880
Speaker 1: trying to make him feel safe and not judged. Okay,

531
00:35:06,920 --> 00:35:12,279
Speaker 1: so you know, be cool about it. Yeah you got

532
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: that one, Steve, You cool with that one. Watch your

533
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:17,160
Speaker 1: body language, Watch your body la. Do you hear me

534
00:35:17,200 --> 00:35:22,239
Speaker 1: talking to you? Is that nick movie? Ye? Turned around

535
00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:26,879
Speaker 1: everything you're saying. You're sitting over there with your arms fold. Yeah,

536
00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,000
Speaker 1: you gotta be cool about it, ladies. If you want

537
00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:31,080
Speaker 1: to get him to open up, you want him no, no,

538
00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:37,239
Speaker 1: but you cross your lavas fold. This is ugly conversation.

539
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:44,920
Speaker 1: Cross and yeah, good advice. If you want to come

540
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:48,560
Speaker 1: talk to me, Nikki, I will be wide open as

541
00:35:48,600 --> 00:35:50,360
Speaker 1: soon as you walk in and though talking to me,

542
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: nick Can I talk to you from here? Yeah? Unless

543
00:35:55,080 --> 00:35:57,480
Speaker 1: it's a game you really want? You picked now to

544
00:35:57,600 --> 00:36:04,440
Speaker 1: be naked? Yeah, every time to be naked. You're listening

545
00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:08,239
Speaker 1: to the sty Morning Show. It is time now for

546
00:36:08,360 --> 00:36:12,000
Speaker 1: a round of would you rather? Would you rather tell

547
00:36:12,080 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: your partner you're having an affair? Or would you rather

548
00:36:15,560 --> 00:36:19,399
Speaker 1: your partner tell you that they're having an affair? Neither?

549
00:36:19,680 --> 00:36:22,840
Speaker 1: And that's this way. I ain't wrong. Yeah, so this

550
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:27,520
Speaker 1: is about your you're Wait a minute, you ain't wrong.

551
00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:33,680
Speaker 1: You the one wrong. So hey, it's on you. J

552
00:36:34,560 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: Junior Junior, let's go Ji time. That's logic because I'm

553
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:41,160
Speaker 1: going with time. You're wrong, So I could I get

554
00:36:41,200 --> 00:36:47,000
Speaker 1: to cush you out? You got the power? You're wrong?

555
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:51,000
Speaker 1: Would you rather tell your partner you're having an affair?

556
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 1: Or would you rather them tell you they're having an affair?

557
00:36:54,640 --> 00:37:00,279
Speaker 1: You can't take that they're having an affair, be b

558
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 1: I'm going to prison. I'm gonna get my ass whip

559
00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: and lose everything. And I'll get that twice already. It

560
00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,160
Speaker 1: ain't neither one of them had a divorce before, and

561
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:19,279
Speaker 1: ain't either one of them had to walk in and

562
00:37:19,480 --> 00:37:26,479
Speaker 1: make that announcement. I have, I have experience at making

563
00:37:26,560 --> 00:37:33,160
Speaker 1: that announcement. Steve gonna go with a B. Final final

564
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: answer is yeah, B is two life sentences without parole. Yeah,

565
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:42,640
Speaker 1: so I ain't gonna need to me all right. Would

566
00:37:42,640 --> 00:37:44,800
Speaker 1: you rather live in the best house in the worst

567
00:37:45,000 --> 00:37:49,480
Speaker 1: neighborhood or the worst house in the best neighborhood. Yeah,

568
00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:53,080
Speaker 1: I'm gonna take the worst house in the best neighborhood. Yeah. Yeah,

569
00:37:53,520 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: you can feel how you want to feel about me.

570
00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:58,800
Speaker 1: That's the bottom of the rich. I take that. I

571
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:03,320
Speaker 1: believed in the best house in the worst neighborhood. Nobody

572
00:38:03,400 --> 00:38:09,680
Speaker 1: got sleep and nobody knew it until I went to

573
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,520
Speaker 1: other people's houses. I realized. I realized, Man, we got

574
00:38:12,560 --> 00:38:14,600
Speaker 1: the best house on the street. If you could drive

575
00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,399
Speaker 1: down the street, go look at all the ragged ass

576
00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,200
Speaker 1: I've already lived in the best house in the ragged

577
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:28,640
Speaker 1: as neighborhood. I've done that and no one knew it.

578
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:32,359
Speaker 1: All right, we could get to this one quickly. Would

579
00:38:32,400 --> 00:38:34,839
Speaker 1: you rather have a bell go off every time you're

580
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:38,960
Speaker 1: turned on or have to say all your thoughts out

581
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 1: loud during sex. Don't go off every time you're turned on,

582
00:38:44,640 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: or have to say all your thoughts out loud during sex. Yeah,

583
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:53,000
Speaker 1: you let that bell go off of men every time? No, no,

584
00:38:53,160 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: hell no, I won't get no damn sleep. All right,

585
00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:01,640
Speaker 1: say everything you think you do. Six that's what I do. Anyway,

586
00:39:03,120 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, it's time now for

587
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:14,200
Speaker 1: comedy roulette jay, please quickly. It's so easy to explain this.

588
00:39:14,560 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 1: You test out comedy ability every week. Yeah, tell you

589
00:39:18,760 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 1: what you do? Take five subjects. Put him on the

590
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 1: wheelspin the wheel around, we stop, say how good we are?

591
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: We take from them? All right, let's go put all right,

592
00:39:28,200 --> 00:39:31,440
Speaker 1: here we go. Here's the subjects. Number one, the Deltas

593
00:39:31,640 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 1: ain't all that you just just read us that read that.

594
00:39:45,440 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 1: Number two, your car smells funny. That's a good one.

595
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 1: Never number three, you try to act like you don't

596
00:39:52,760 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 1: know nobody. Alright, alright. Never Number four people who left

597
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:01,719
Speaker 1: their new pos Asians go to their heads. That's the

598
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,520
Speaker 1: real good one. Now, Yeah, and then and then number

599
00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 1: five skycat spending the wheel, put them up, spending the wheel.

600
00:40:07,800 --> 00:40:22,160
Speaker 1: Catt what far people who let their new positions go

601
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:26,200
Speaker 1: to their head. Have let me start off right then.

602
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: You know the people who get just a little small

603
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:32,120
Speaker 1: ass name tag on, they dope, ain't never had one,

604
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,879
Speaker 1: and all of them sudden they bidding you just because

605
00:40:34,880 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: they got a name tag. They're a little two cent

606
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:44,400
Speaker 1: raised who damn sent No not not not for neckli speaking.

607
00:40:44,600 --> 00:40:48,120
Speaker 1: That's all they got with two damn sins for check check.

608
00:40:48,800 --> 00:40:51,239
Speaker 1: How about that? Yeah? What you mean? What you mean

609
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 1: I got two cents more than you? Yeah, I'll tell

610
00:40:54,719 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: you what the tell them under about the positions when

611
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,840
Speaker 1: you go to their head. I used working fast for

612
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,240
Speaker 1: right man by potting on Fried. All of a sudden

613
00:41:03,360 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: somebody got called in sick. Now he gets to wear

614
00:41:05,760 --> 00:41:10,600
Speaker 1: a head set. Now he talking crazy talk. Now he

615
00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: ain't fotted the crew. No voice, Hey, I said, I

616
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:18,080
Speaker 1: need to fry up now, no talking. You ain't talking

617
00:41:18,880 --> 00:41:21,280
Speaker 1: because he got the head set on. Because the boss

618
00:41:21,320 --> 00:41:24,279
Speaker 1: that called in sick this show first day went he

619
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:28,520
Speaker 1: didn't even know how to control it. He he man,

620
00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 1: I take your order. But he comes on the inter

621
00:41:30,080 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 1: calm in the back when he's gonna press the other

622
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:33,959
Speaker 1: budd to go out to the order I'm just saying,

623
00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:40,360
Speaker 1: he just't no good and dog gone. Well, you ain't

624
00:41:40,520 --> 00:41:47,400
Speaker 1: posting on Facebook that you to lead vacuum cleaner operator

625
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: at the plant. Really, and now you got your picture

626
00:41:51,719 --> 00:41:59,000
Speaker 1: on now with the vacuum really yeah? Yeah, yeah yeah. Man.

627
00:41:59,040 --> 00:42:03,839
Speaker 1: That's how they do it. People let their new positions

628
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:06,120
Speaker 1: go to their head. I just have two words for

629
00:42:06,280 --> 00:42:19,200
Speaker 1: this one. Donald Trump will cut up. Man. He's acting

630
00:42:19,239 --> 00:42:21,360
Speaker 1: the food. He letting the new job go straight to

631
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:24,399
Speaker 1: his head. I got I got a part of mine

632
00:42:24,440 --> 00:42:27,000
Speaker 1: in the joint, right, so I go to see him.

633
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,040
Speaker 1: He worked in the furniture department right now. The people

634
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:32,320
Speaker 1: in the furniture department and make three cents hour. The

635
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 1: other workers make two cents hour. Do you know that

636
00:42:35,920 --> 00:42:39,680
Speaker 1: the three centers talk trash to the two centers? How

637
00:42:39,960 --> 00:42:43,239
Speaker 1: money are you making? Two center? You ain't making no money?

638
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 1: When you start to make some cash, talk to me.

639
00:42:48,840 --> 00:42:51,520
Speaker 1: Oh man, I feel a new position, go to head,

640
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,680
Speaker 1: let it go right to let it go right to

641
00:42:53,800 --> 00:42:56,920
Speaker 1: their head. And you know what when I can't understand no, man,

642
00:42:57,040 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: is that when you do get a new position, I

643
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:02,000
Speaker 1: comebody else got to call you by your last name

644
00:43:02,360 --> 00:43:06,840
Speaker 1: like you just you was Charles yesterday. Don't you expect

645
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:10,560
Speaker 1: us call you, mister Jakes. We gotta call you missus Jacks. Yeah,

646
00:43:10,600 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: not today was Charles yestern They just gave your hold on,

647
00:43:17,120 --> 00:43:19,600
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on hold. I know you ain't put

648
00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 1: a sign in front of your parking space at the job.

649
00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:30,040
Speaker 1: That's a Larry Jenkins lead bath room attending. I know

650
00:43:30,160 --> 00:43:33,160
Speaker 1: you ain't done this. Whatever, you ain't done this, Larry,

651
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:38,680
Speaker 1: how you lead bath room attended? Really? That what happened? Man?

652
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 1: It goes to their head. Oh you got a new position,

653
00:43:42,120 --> 00:43:44,120
Speaker 1: but you're still getting the ride to work with me.

654
00:43:45,719 --> 00:43:49,520
Speaker 1: Oh you don't even worse? Well, I thought you letting

655
00:43:49,520 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: you I thought you letting your job. Let the job.

656
00:43:54,160 --> 00:44:04,160
Speaker 1: He want to talk. You're listening morning show coming up

657
00:44:04,200 --> 00:44:06,320
Speaker 1: at the top of the hour, right about four minutes

658
00:44:06,400 --> 00:44:11,640
Speaker 1: after today's Strawberry Letters. Subject is if his wife's picture

659
00:44:11,920 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: is on the nightstand, His wife's picture is on the nightstand.

660
00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:19,359
Speaker 1: What you're doing over there, you'll find out, you'll find out.

661
00:44:20,280 --> 00:44:25,759
Speaker 1: But right now, tripping about that phone, you'll see you'll

662
00:44:25,800 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: see right now, nephew in the building with today's prank

663
00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 1: phone call, what you got for his nest? Bumping Graan

664
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 1: bump and grad. Let's go kid now. Hello, Hello, I'm

665
00:44:39,160 --> 00:44:43,520
Speaker 1: sorry Marcus. Marcus. Yeah, this is Hey. Can you hear me?

666
00:44:43,680 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 1: Can you hear me? Pretty good? Yeah? Hey, hey listen,

667
00:44:47,800 --> 00:44:52,359
Speaker 1: uh do now for a second. Hey listen, I live

668
00:44:52,440 --> 00:44:54,640
Speaker 1: in and I live in an apartment building that you

669
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,560
Speaker 1: just moved into. Uh. I live in twenty one A

670
00:44:58,200 --> 00:45:01,719
Speaker 1: and you live above me in twenty away Huh. I

671
00:45:01,840 --> 00:45:04,160
Speaker 1: actually got your number from the leasing office. I told

672
00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,399
Speaker 1: him I wanted to welcome you to the apartment building, man,

673
00:45:06,480 --> 00:45:09,080
Speaker 1: but I didn't want to really raise no outrowse. But

674
00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:12,160
Speaker 1: I was really calling about you know. You know, first

675
00:45:12,200 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 1: of all, let me go ahead and say welcome to

676
00:45:14,320 --> 00:45:16,160
Speaker 1: the building. Man. I hope that you and your your

677
00:45:16,640 --> 00:45:19,120
Speaker 1: is that your wife that lives with you? First of all,

678
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:22,480
Speaker 1: thank you, brother, I appreciate it. But why would you

679
00:45:22,600 --> 00:45:24,279
Speaker 1: need to have my number to do that? You just

680
00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:27,359
Speaker 1: came knocked on my door man, boy. Yeah, yeah, we'll

681
00:45:27,360 --> 00:45:29,359
Speaker 1: see whatever. The reason why I mean I really called

682
00:45:29,400 --> 00:45:32,160
Speaker 1: it got the number was kind of reach out to you. Man.

683
00:45:32,200 --> 00:45:34,000
Speaker 1: I don't be wanting to start no trouble with nobody

684
00:45:34,040 --> 00:45:36,239
Speaker 1: and nothing like that. I'd want to you know, I

685
00:45:36,280 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: want I want my neighbors to be cool with me,

686
00:45:37,800 --> 00:45:39,200
Speaker 1: and I want to be cool with my neighbors. You

687
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:43,160
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Yeah, so I was reaching out man,

688
00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 1: because you know the noise, Man, I was. I'm I

689
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:50,160
Speaker 1: work at night and I sleep during the day. Man,

690
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,239
Speaker 1: But it seems like that you guys moved in, man,

691
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,239
Speaker 1: in the middle of the day. It's just you know,

692
00:45:55,600 --> 00:45:57,080
Speaker 1: I mean, I know what it's like to have a

693
00:45:57,719 --> 00:45:59,719
Speaker 1: hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, you're here,

694
00:46:00,040 --> 00:46:03,000
Speaker 1: Norris is coming from my place in the middle of

695
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:07,359
Speaker 1: the day, right, I mean I'm hearing I'm getting I'm

696
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:09,319
Speaker 1: here and you're making love to you lady. Man, I mean,

697
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: huh now man, nah, nah, you know what he is.

698
00:46:12,960 --> 00:46:16,080
Speaker 1: You might be hearing something from a mother another unit. Man,

699
00:46:16,120 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 1: it's definitely not coming from month because I'm at work

700
00:46:18,640 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: and my you know, my girl is there, but she

701
00:46:20,840 --> 00:46:22,839
Speaker 1: on the computer. You know, she's looking for a gig

702
00:46:22,960 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 1: right now. He look, okay, okay, okay, wait a minute now,

703
00:46:28,640 --> 00:46:35,359
Speaker 1: So you live in a fire with twenty two A right, yeah, okay, see,

704
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:39,000
Speaker 1: I live in twenty one A. Your your bedroom is

705
00:46:39,080 --> 00:46:44,320
Speaker 1: above my bedroom where man, hold on holda. He's trying

706
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:49,120
Speaker 1: me that you're hearing marriages. That sounds like somebody is

707
00:46:49,560 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: making love coming from my cred at this time of

708
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:58,040
Speaker 1: day and I'm not there and only my woman is there. Dude, Man,

709
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:00,640
Speaker 1: you know, I get it. I'm not to be rude

710
00:47:00,680 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 1: or anything. I appreciate you calling and you know, neighbor

711
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: and all that, and there you shake you in right,

712
00:47:06,800 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: Uh yeah, yeah, you know what I'm man. I mean,

713
00:47:10,800 --> 00:47:13,560
Speaker 1: you called me, all right, So let's get to the

714
00:47:13,640 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: bottom of it. One time. You're seeing you hearing this,

715
00:47:16,640 --> 00:47:20,200
Speaker 1: What kind of is are you hearing? Exactly? Tell me, hey, hey, hey,

716
00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:22,480
Speaker 1: you know what, man, It's probably just a big mistake.

717
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,239
Speaker 1: I mean, maybe she just hanging some pictures or something.

718
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:30,759
Speaker 1: Broy know, I love you know pictures, man, we're even

719
00:47:31,320 --> 00:47:34,600
Speaker 1: pictures your You're calling me like you even black handing

720
00:47:34,680 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: bone after my CID you're talking about man, Hey, hey, man, listen,

721
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:44,520
Speaker 1: um Marcus apologize. I'm I'm you know, I'm gonna no,

722
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,839
Speaker 1: my man, you're telling me I'm man. Let you say.

723
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:50,160
Speaker 1: I'm saying I don't know what you are and I'm

724
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:53,960
Speaker 1: a man. No, I'm im me understanding man. You calling

725
00:47:54,040 --> 00:47:56,400
Speaker 1: me telling me you hearing what is coming from our

726
00:47:56,480 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 1: kid the sund like somebody. And now you're telling me

727
00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,040
Speaker 1: where we thought it. You know, Hey man, all I'm

728
00:48:03,040 --> 00:48:05,520
Speaker 1: saying is maybe it's just a legitimate mistake. I don't

729
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: tell may she hanging the pictures, the moves of furniture

730
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,239
Speaker 1: or something like that. Just man, I keep telling you

731
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:14,640
Speaker 1: that you know picture and nobody having this it shouldn't do.

732
00:48:14,840 --> 00:48:18,720
Speaker 1: Little moves coming from my said, Hey man, I ain't

733
00:48:18,760 --> 00:48:21,120
Speaker 1: trying to. I ain't trying to start no trouble man,

734
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:24,239
Speaker 1: And you started what you're telling. Man. All I was

735
00:48:24,280 --> 00:48:26,280
Speaker 1: in all and about was trying to get a decent,

736
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:29,200
Speaker 1: decent rest. Man. I work at night. Brother, It's all

737
00:48:29,239 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: I'm talking about. Man, I'm not trying to do it.

738
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:33,799
Speaker 1: If you like the great yard Ship, I don't care

739
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:37,680
Speaker 1: it you calling me telling me about I just move

740
00:48:37,760 --> 00:48:41,120
Speaker 1: this to you were amazing anyone going on like that.

741
00:48:41,280 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 1: I don't del you got the right a dress when

742
00:48:44,120 --> 00:48:48,800
Speaker 1: you love that man? You live, yes, Man, an apartment

743
00:48:48,880 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 1: twenty one egg and your place as a mine. Man.

744
00:48:52,080 --> 00:48:54,640
Speaker 1: Hold on, man, hold on, he put it chuck over there.

745
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:58,359
Speaker 1: Hold on what second? Man? Because you're talking all through

746
00:48:58,600 --> 00:49:00,920
Speaker 1: Hey man, look, I'm not I'm not trying to hand,

747
00:49:00,960 --> 00:49:03,480
Speaker 1: no trouble, man, I'm not trying the handle, bro. Bro,

748
00:49:03,880 --> 00:49:07,720
Speaker 1: I can working there, joh, I do think the hours

749
00:49:07,719 --> 00:49:11,200
Speaker 1: a week while then like this, Okay, okay, though I'm not.

750
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: All I'm saying is man, I thought I thought you

751
00:49:14,360 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: was making love to you your woman. Man, That's what

752
00:49:16,600 --> 00:49:18,160
Speaker 1: I thought. That's why I called you to ask her

753
00:49:18,239 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: to keep the noise Downrusting my wife, I ain't right now,

754
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:29,160
Speaker 1: I'm here. You go. Trust you with it money way

755
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:34,160
Speaker 1: ain't and I'm come to waking him. I'm not on

756
00:49:34,719 --> 00:49:37,200
Speaker 1: the handler, dude. You're not coming to my apartment. That

757
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:38,800
Speaker 1: hit nothing. Man, I ain't got nothing to do with

758
00:49:38,920 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 1: this you make me. I ain't letting you in my house. Man.

759
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:48,040
Speaker 1: If I know, man, that you got going on upstairs,

760
00:49:48,400 --> 00:49:50,680
Speaker 1: you gotta control your woman. Man. It ain't got nothing

761
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:55,239
Speaker 1: to do with me. I me. Woman don't even know me.

762
00:49:55,880 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 1: I know he. I know this, I know leaving. I'm

763
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,560
Speaker 1: not wearing it out for the last two weeks between

764
00:50:01,640 --> 00:50:07,359
Speaker 1: twelve and two. I know that you got you're talking again. Man,

765
00:50:07,800 --> 00:50:11,000
Speaker 1: I'm coming to your hell. You ain't coming to my apartment, man,

766
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: I'm not ain't man, listen, No, I ain't got nothing

767
00:50:14,360 --> 00:50:18,759
Speaker 1: to do with it. I'm telling you trouble christ Man. Hey,

768
00:50:18,800 --> 00:50:20,839
Speaker 1: I got one more things I need to say you man,

769
00:50:20,880 --> 00:50:23,319
Speaker 1: did you're listening from my christ? I ain't the home.

770
00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:25,600
Speaker 1: I got one more thing I need to say? All right,

771
00:50:25,960 --> 00:50:28,400
Speaker 1: all right, you better listen. Better be telling me open

772
00:50:28,520 --> 00:50:33,000
Speaker 1: and don't are you listen? Yeah? Listen, This is nephew

773
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 1: timing from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got

774
00:50:36,600 --> 00:50:41,480
Speaker 1: prank by your own boy. Wait a minute, hold what

775
00:50:41,719 --> 00:50:47,520
Speaker 1: the iver? Twenty ain't there? Step away from twenty one?

776
00:50:47,680 --> 00:50:50,959
Speaker 1: Ain't please? This is not your timing from the Steve Harvey.

777
00:50:51,040 --> 00:50:57,520
Speaker 1: Want to tell your boy? Got me to break you? Man? Oh? Oh,

778
00:51:00,280 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 1: I damn are you at twenty one eight? Dude? I'm

779
00:51:04,080 --> 00:51:09,279
Speaker 1: right outside my apartment. Man, I'm Floyd. Hang up man

780
00:51:11,560 --> 00:51:15,319
Speaker 1: me this tell me? Man? How you doing? Brothers? Oh? Man? Man?

781
00:51:15,560 --> 00:51:18,279
Speaker 1: Tom me? You you had me going now? I was

782
00:51:18,360 --> 00:51:23,560
Speaker 1: coming to U. Man, I'm serious, man, I got one

783
00:51:23,600 --> 00:51:25,440
Speaker 1: more thing I got ask farn Let you go, man,

784
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:29,919
Speaker 1: what is what is the baddest radio show in the land? Man? Man,

785
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:32,800
Speaker 1: it's the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Without a doubt. A

786
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:38,560
Speaker 1: man step away from twenty one eight? Step step away?

787
00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 1: That was what you talking about? Huh? What little bundle

788
00:51:54,200 --> 00:51:56,640
Speaker 1: plays danger on your neighbors? Far Well, I was just

789
00:51:56,800 --> 00:52:01,800
Speaker 1: so mad at you. Yeah, between twelve and two. N

790
00:52:01,840 --> 00:52:03,680
Speaker 1: if it ain't you, it ain't you. But I'm just saying,

791
00:52:03,719 --> 00:52:07,120
Speaker 1: I'm telling you what I hear. Okay, between twelve and

792
00:52:07,360 --> 00:52:17,120
Speaker 1: tip he had to do though not his wife. I'm

793
00:52:17,200 --> 00:52:19,640
Speaker 1: just I'm just trying to get some sleep. That's all

794
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:24,120
Speaker 1: i want. I don't shoot the messenger. I just want

795
00:52:24,160 --> 00:52:28,480
Speaker 1: to get a little rest out of message. Tommy lit

796
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:31,879
Speaker 1: of messages and got shot. That's where the shot. That's

797
00:52:31,920 --> 00:52:39,960
Speaker 1: where the phrase come from. The meat of a man.

798
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: If you look at movies like back in the medieval

799
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 1: days where the dude would bring a message to the

800
00:52:45,280 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 1: other keys, they are sending the dude's head back in

801
00:52:48,480 --> 00:52:52,960
Speaker 1: the basket. Yeah, that's where that came from. Don't kill

802
00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:58,480
Speaker 1: the message. King asked me to ride the note over there.

803
00:52:58,600 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 1: The note never makes they say it, no key, All right,

804
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:09,239
Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Coming up next Strawberry Letters. Subject. His

805
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:12,880
Speaker 1: wife's picture is on the nightstand. We'll get into it.

806
00:53:15,360 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 1: You'll find out right after this. You're listening to Stry

807
00:53:20,280 --> 00:53:24,080
Speaker 1: Morning Show. Time Now for my Strawberry Letter for today

808
00:53:24,160 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: and if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

809
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:31,319
Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM

810
00:53:31,400 --> 00:53:33,880
Speaker 1: dot com and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be

811
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:37,040
Speaker 1: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

812
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: gonna read this one right here, right now. Buggle up,

813
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:42,440
Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you here. It

814
00:53:42,640 --> 00:53:46,319
Speaker 1: is the Strawberry Letter. All right, Thank you, nephew. Subject

815
00:53:46,600 --> 00:53:50,880
Speaker 1: his wife's picture is on the nightstand. Dear Stephen Shirley.

816
00:53:51,200 --> 00:53:54,399
Speaker 1: I'm a fifty three year old single female and I've

817
00:53:54,440 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: been casually dating a man for three years. His wife

818
00:53:58,200 --> 00:54:02,080
Speaker 1: died six years ago, and he's a single dad raising

819
00:54:02,120 --> 00:54:05,439
Speaker 1: a daughter. He lives in my complex and when we met,

820
00:54:05,920 --> 00:54:09,799
Speaker 1: we instantly clicked and started dating. After a few months

821
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:11,840
Speaker 1: of dating, he told me he wanted to take a

822
00:54:11,920 --> 00:54:14,960
Speaker 1: break so he could focus on his daughter. That was

823
00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 1: three years ago, and I showed support by cooking for

824
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:21,880
Speaker 1: him occasionally and showing up at some of his daughter's

825
00:54:21,960 --> 00:54:26,520
Speaker 1: basketball games. He was happy that I was so understanding. Recently,

826
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:30,000
Speaker 1: we talked about getting back together and I told him

827
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: that's all I ever wanted. We decided to be exclusive

828
00:54:34,080 --> 00:54:37,040
Speaker 1: and talked a lot about our future together. But there's

829
00:54:37,239 --> 00:54:42,560
Speaker 1: one thing, one problem, and I need your advice. When

830
00:54:42,600 --> 00:54:45,640
Speaker 1: I'm over at his place, I am bothered by the

831
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:50,160
Speaker 1: constant reminders of his wife. The kitchen is just as

832
00:54:50,239 --> 00:54:53,240
Speaker 1: she left it, down to the notes on the fridge.

833
00:54:53,680 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: Then I spent the night with him, and I was

834
00:54:56,040 --> 00:54:58,359
Speaker 1: shocked to see a picture of him and his wife

835
00:54:58,400 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 1: on the nightstand. The ure was not there three years

836
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,759
Speaker 1: ago when I stayed with him. I told him that

837
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,680
Speaker 1: the picture made me uncomfortable, and he said it had

838
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: been in his drawer for years, and his daughter found

839
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:12,359
Speaker 1: it and put it by his bed. I can't tell

840
00:55:12,480 --> 00:55:14,800
Speaker 1: this man how to grieve the loss of his wife,

841
00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: and I feel sorry for his daughter, but I'm not

842
00:55:17,280 --> 00:55:20,120
Speaker 1: going to act like this is okay. There are several

843
00:55:20,239 --> 00:55:23,279
Speaker 1: family pictures throughout the house, and I try to overlook them.

844
00:55:23,640 --> 00:55:26,000
Speaker 1: He's a great man. He loves that we can be

845
00:55:26,120 --> 00:55:29,000
Speaker 1: honest with each other about everything. So is this one

846
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:31,560
Speaker 1: of the things I should be honest about? How should

847
00:55:31,560 --> 00:55:34,800
Speaker 1: I handle this? Well, if you guys have that agreement

848
00:55:34,880 --> 00:55:36,840
Speaker 1: that you can be honest with each other, yeah, you

849
00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:40,520
Speaker 1: can be honest about it. I think you are right.

850
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:43,560
Speaker 1: You cannot tell this man how long to grieve. You

851
00:55:43,680 --> 00:55:46,960
Speaker 1: can't do that. It's his late wife and it was

852
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,359
Speaker 1: six years ago, so it's going to take however long

853
00:55:49,600 --> 00:55:52,640
Speaker 1: it's going to take. I mean, these things do take time.

854
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:56,359
Speaker 1: But you can certainly help him move forward and find

855
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:59,800
Speaker 1: happiness again. You've been a supportive friend, you said, with

856
00:56:00,120 --> 00:56:03,399
Speaker 1: cooking and going to his daughter's basketball games and things

857
00:56:03,480 --> 00:56:08,040
Speaker 1: like that. But after three years, I think it's definitely

858
00:56:08,120 --> 00:56:10,600
Speaker 1: time to move the relationship out of the casual zone.

859
00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:13,920
Speaker 1: You guys have decided to do that, and that's a

860
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:16,520
Speaker 1: good thing. You want to be exclusive, because what you

861
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,560
Speaker 1: don't want is for another woman to come in and

862
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: just swoop him from right under your nose. You said,

863
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 1: he's a great man. You don't want that. I really

864
00:56:25,160 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 1: think you should, you know, not let the pictures bother

865
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:32,080
Speaker 1: you so much. Okay, it just considered a sweet memory

866
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:35,279
Speaker 1: of his late wife for him and his baby girl,

867
00:56:35,400 --> 00:56:37,840
Speaker 1: his daughter. I mean, you were gone for a while,

868
00:56:37,960 --> 00:56:40,759
Speaker 1: so they just put the pictures back out. I think

869
00:56:40,840 --> 00:56:43,520
Speaker 1: in due time, once you guys get closer, more serious,

870
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 1: maybe marriage, and because I'm sure that's what you want,

871
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:49,480
Speaker 1: you can move the pictures maybe to the office or

872
00:56:49,520 --> 00:56:52,960
Speaker 1: to the family room. Hopefully the daughter won't be offended

873
00:56:53,080 --> 00:56:56,239
Speaker 1: by that and she won't resent you for that. If

874
00:56:56,320 --> 00:56:58,239
Speaker 1: you still, you know, want to bring it up, I

875
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,560
Speaker 1: just say, you know, be kind about about it, be patient,

876
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:05,759
Speaker 1: wait for the right moment, don't say anything crazy. I

877
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 1: think it's a good thing that you're helping him move

878
00:57:07,840 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: on with your life. And I you know, I wish

879
00:57:09,560 --> 00:57:14,200
Speaker 1: you guys the best. Steve fifty three year old lady

880
00:57:14,360 --> 00:57:19,720
Speaker 1: casually dating a man for three years, casually dating and

881
00:57:19,920 --> 00:57:24,000
Speaker 1: takes this letter all out of focus for me. His

882
00:57:24,160 --> 00:57:27,480
Speaker 1: wife died six years ago. He's a single dad raising

883
00:57:27,560 --> 00:57:30,560
Speaker 1: a daughter. He lives in my complex and when we met,

884
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:34,200
Speaker 1: we clicked instantly and started dating. After a few months

885
00:57:34,240 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: of dating, he told me he wanted to take a

886
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,720
Speaker 1: break so he could focus on his daughter. What what

887
00:57:40,080 --> 00:57:45,440
Speaker 1: man tells a woman he gonna stop seeing her so

888
00:57:45,600 --> 00:57:54,680
Speaker 1: he can focus on his daughter? You fifty three? Howl?

889
00:57:54,880 --> 00:57:59,040
Speaker 1: Is this man? So let's see here? Was his wife

890
00:57:59,080 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: a little bit young girl? Maybe his wife was forty,

891
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: his daughter's twenty living at home. I don't know. I

892
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:09,520
Speaker 1: don't know, but I don't know. Nobody that tells a woman,

893
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,720
Speaker 1: y'all wasn't doing them occasually dating. You said that yourself,

894
00:58:13,040 --> 00:58:14,440
Speaker 1: he don't want to see you no more because he

895
00:58:14,480 --> 00:58:17,280
Speaker 1: want to spend some time with his daughter. Okay, cool,

896
00:58:17,440 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: it's over, But it wasn't really over then. That was

897
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:25,760
Speaker 1: three years ago, and you kept on hanging in there

898
00:58:25,880 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 1: by cooking for him, occasionally show him up some of

899
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 1: his daughter's basketball games. Okay, so she probably high school

900
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:35,600
Speaker 1: or college oneted the two. He was happy that she

901
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:41,320
Speaker 1: was understanding. Recently, recently we talked about getting back together,

902
00:58:41,960 --> 00:58:46,000
Speaker 1: and I told him that's all I ever wanted. Y'all

903
00:58:46,160 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 1: have talked about being together before. That's what broke y'all

904
00:58:51,400 --> 00:58:57,640
Speaker 1: up after the three years of casual dating. Huh, do

905
00:58:57,720 --> 00:59:00,880
Speaker 1: you understand what I'm saying to you? Dad's one problem.

906
00:59:01,000 --> 00:59:03,760
Speaker 1: I need your advice when I'm over at his place.

907
00:59:03,880 --> 00:59:06,480
Speaker 1: I'm bothered by the constant reminders of the wife. The

908
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:10,000
Speaker 1: kitchen is just as she left it. Well, he wasn't

909
00:59:10,040 --> 00:59:14,800
Speaker 1: in that cooking, so she left some of stuff. He

910
00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:18,000
Speaker 1: liked where her where she hung the pots she liked,

911
00:59:18,160 --> 00:59:22,760
Speaker 1: He liked where she put the spoons, He liked the

912
00:59:22,840 --> 00:59:27,720
Speaker 1: way the stuff is just habit. What swan she dying? There?

913
00:59:27,800 --> 00:59:30,360
Speaker 1: Let's change his kitchen round because it's too much like

914
00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:32,640
Speaker 1: your damn mama. What was he supposed to say to

915
00:59:32,760 --> 00:59:37,000
Speaker 1: his daughter? And then said, I spent the night with him,

916
00:59:37,040 --> 00:59:38,720
Speaker 1: and I was shocked to see a picture of him

917
00:59:38,760 --> 00:59:40,920
Speaker 1: and his wife on the knight stand. They slept in

918
00:59:41,000 --> 00:59:44,480
Speaker 1: that bed. That ain't bother the ass. Not a picture

919
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:51,200
Speaker 1: got you tripping. She looking at us, she is, said

920
00:59:51,240 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 1: that woman. She looking at us, she is well. At first,

921
00:59:56,160 --> 01:00:00,720
Speaker 1: two seves respond her bad. At twenty three minutes after

922
01:00:00,880 --> 01:00:06,120
Speaker 1: the hour, damn hospers. We'll be back at twenty three

923
01:00:06,160 --> 01:00:09,640
Speaker 1: minutes after the hours. Subject for today his wife's pictures

924
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:12,640
Speaker 1: on the nightstand. We'll get back into it right after this.

925
01:00:13,480 --> 01:00:18,600
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936
01:00:54,160 --> 01:00:58,440
Speaker 1: recap today's Strawberry letters. Subject. His wife's picture is on

937
01:00:58,840 --> 01:01:03,000
Speaker 1: the nightstand. This lady dating this man. Wife been deceased.

938
01:01:03,520 --> 01:01:05,880
Speaker 1: He raised his daughter. They broke up so he could

939
01:01:05,920 --> 01:01:08,680
Speaker 1: spend time with his daughter. That's what he told her,

940
01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:12,360
Speaker 1: which ain't true. They've been talking about getting back together.

941
01:01:12,960 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: You for the three years, been cooking for him. You said,

942
01:01:16,480 --> 01:01:20,080
Speaker 1: that's all you've ever wanted. And then y'all started talking

943
01:01:20,080 --> 01:01:23,200
Speaker 1: about y'all's future together. But here the problem she got.

944
01:01:23,720 --> 01:01:25,800
Speaker 1: When I'm over at his place, I'm bothered by the

945
01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: constant reminders of his wife. Oh you mean, like that's

946
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:33,840
Speaker 1: her house that wanted to remind us you talking about

947
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,680
Speaker 1: you come up, that's the cow she sent home, that's

948
01:01:38,720 --> 01:01:43,120
Speaker 1: her TV. That's what she arranged her living room. And

949
01:01:43,240 --> 01:01:46,080
Speaker 1: then and then she said, the kitchen is just as

950
01:01:46,160 --> 01:01:48,800
Speaker 1: she left it, down to the notes on the refrigerator.

951
01:01:49,760 --> 01:01:55,800
Speaker 1: Eat your vegetables, back up some milk. Yeah, I love you.

952
01:01:56,160 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 1: Have a nice day. Oh that's getting on your damn nerves.

953
01:02:01,480 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: When I spent the night with him, I was shocked

954
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,360
Speaker 1: to see a picture of him and his wife on

955
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:09,800
Speaker 1: the knife stand. She lived down. That was a picture

956
01:02:09,800 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 1: of him on the knife stand. Befoul now, she said,

957
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:15,400
Speaker 1: the picture was not that three years ago when I

958
01:02:15,520 --> 01:02:19,000
Speaker 1: stayed with it. But you've been going for a while,

959
01:02:19,360 --> 01:02:21,800
Speaker 1: he probably said to his daughter. I showed mission mom,

960
01:02:21,840 --> 01:02:23,480
Speaker 1: and she said with Dad, I'm gonna put the picture

961
01:02:23,520 --> 01:02:26,760
Speaker 1: back out for you now if you ain't bothered it

962
01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:30,600
Speaker 1: by being in this woman's bad What the hell is

963
01:02:30,680 --> 01:02:33,840
Speaker 1: this picture bug in you? Fall? I know why because

964
01:02:33,920 --> 01:02:38,280
Speaker 1: she looking because she's looking. Yeah, she's looking bad at

965
01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:44,200
Speaker 1: exactly now. It ain't bothered in his ass, but it's

966
01:02:44,280 --> 01:02:47,120
Speaker 1: bothered in you, you know, and it may And that

967
01:02:47,240 --> 01:02:49,720
Speaker 1: picture made me uncomfortably. He said it had been in

968
01:02:49,800 --> 01:02:53,040
Speaker 1: this drawer for years, and his daughter found it and

969
01:02:53,160 --> 01:02:55,280
Speaker 1: put it by his bed. So what he gonna do?

970
01:02:55,400 --> 01:02:59,480
Speaker 1: Take it off? You over there, lady, Come on now,

971
01:02:59,760 --> 01:03:03,160
Speaker 1: you roll now until this gets somewhere else. But I

972
01:03:03,280 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 1: can't tell this man how to grieve the loss of

973
01:03:05,520 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: his wife. Okay, so what we're typing his letter? Fall,

974
01:03:08,320 --> 01:03:10,880
Speaker 1: I'll tell you why, because I feel sorry for his daughter,

975
01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:14,400
Speaker 1: But I'm not gonna act like this is okay, okay cool,

976
01:03:14,800 --> 01:03:18,520
Speaker 1: But right now it's not your house. It's still his

977
01:03:18,720 --> 01:03:24,200
Speaker 1: house and his daughter is there and it's their house. Remember,

978
01:03:24,280 --> 01:03:26,120
Speaker 1: see you just got back in. See you're gonna mess

979
01:03:26,120 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: around to be out for you get back all the

980
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:31,680
Speaker 1: way in that what you're ass fing to do. I'm

981
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:34,080
Speaker 1: just telling you right now, your ass Finn to mess

982
01:03:34,120 --> 01:03:36,280
Speaker 1: around to be out. So you said something before, that's

983
01:03:36,280 --> 01:03:38,560
Speaker 1: why he said we need a break. Now you're gonna

984
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:40,560
Speaker 1: come back in that trip. Oh I'm trying to tell

985
01:03:40,600 --> 01:03:41,840
Speaker 1: you now you're gonna come back in there with this

986
01:03:41,880 --> 01:03:44,280
Speaker 1: little buffalo moved right here. I'm over here. I want

987
01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:46,800
Speaker 1: all these notes down out this kitchen and let's change

988
01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 1: why these blasts and stuff is. I don't want none

989
01:03:49,920 --> 01:03:54,040
Speaker 1: a hound here no more? What your ass Finn to

990
01:03:54,080 --> 01:03:56,800
Speaker 1: mess around and be out? Lady? Now, she said, there

991
01:03:56,840 --> 01:03:59,720
Speaker 1: are several family pictures throughout the house, and I try

992
01:03:59,760 --> 01:04:04,360
Speaker 1: to overlooked them. His family pictures. It's him, his wife,

993
01:04:04,480 --> 01:04:07,160
Speaker 1: his daughter. You know they got life together. You can't

994
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:09,240
Speaker 1: just throw that out the wonder because your ass want

995
01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:13,120
Speaker 1: to sleep with him. That ain't the way this work. Lady.

996
01:04:13,160 --> 01:04:17,840
Speaker 1: You trip it. Man, he loved this woman he married. Huh,

997
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:22,120
Speaker 1: you all are casually dating. This is your words and

998
01:04:22,240 --> 01:04:24,840
Speaker 1: your letter. He loves that. I could that. We can

999
01:04:24,920 --> 01:04:27,040
Speaker 1: be honest with each other and everything. So it's just

1000
01:04:27,160 --> 01:04:28,800
Speaker 1: one of the things I should be honest about. How

1001
01:04:28,880 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 1: should I handling run over there and say something that

1002
01:04:31,040 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 1: man about his wife. Go in there and say something

1003
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,000
Speaker 1: to this man about his family pictures up there on

1004
01:04:36,080 --> 01:04:38,840
Speaker 1: that wall and his daughters still live there, Going over there,

1005
01:04:39,920 --> 01:04:42,320
Speaker 1: going over there. Why don't you do this? Why don't

1006
01:04:42,320 --> 01:04:45,240
Speaker 1: you have stim and stay at your house until everything

1007
01:04:45,560 --> 01:04:50,160
Speaker 1: smooths out. Why don't you just do that? No, but

1008
01:04:50,280 --> 01:04:52,480
Speaker 1: you want everybody taking stuff down at the house because

1009
01:04:52,520 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: your ass is over there. I don't even know if

1010
01:04:55,320 --> 01:04:57,200
Speaker 1: you want to consider this right here, but I'm gonna

1011
01:04:57,200 --> 01:05:04,840
Speaker 1: just throw this head out. She ain't dead. What she

1012
01:05:05,000 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 1: coming home? I'm just gonna throw that out there. I

1013
01:05:09,080 --> 01:05:11,480
Speaker 1: don't want to put that in the mix. Why are you?

1014
01:05:13,640 --> 01:05:15,920
Speaker 1: I just want to just put that out there for you.

1015
01:05:17,400 --> 01:05:22,280
Speaker 1: She ain't dead. Hey, he ain't seen her. She broke

1016
01:05:22,360 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 1: it off. Hey, doc dog, she just over cousin's house.

1017
01:05:26,040 --> 01:05:32,720
Speaker 1: He's been working it out to get her sympathy vote. Okay,

1018
01:05:32,960 --> 01:05:36,320
Speaker 1: I don't know. Hey, I'm just throwing that out there,

1019
01:05:37,560 --> 01:05:42,080
Speaker 1: something for you to consider. All these notes are still

1020
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:44,919
Speaker 1: over there, and the notes to change you. You better

1021
01:05:44,960 --> 01:05:49,440
Speaker 1: start reading them notes careful. You're gonna to listen. A

1022
01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 1: note on the let me catch your ass in here?

1023
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:58,080
Speaker 1: How about that note on refrigerator? Tell the bee keep

1024
01:05:58,120 --> 01:06:02,880
Speaker 1: her hands out for my sugar, honey? I start reading

1025
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 1: Who hair was that on the pillowcase? You know you

1026
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:16,640
Speaker 1: better start reading these notes real careful. Now she hunt

1027
01:06:16,680 --> 01:06:19,560
Speaker 1: in the house. You got another damn problem. People do

1028
01:06:19,720 --> 01:06:23,640
Speaker 1: not do well. You're gonna be in the land one night.

1029
01:06:23,840 --> 01:06:27,960
Speaker 1: Just a broom handlestar whooping your ass in the ass. No,

1030
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:33,600
Speaker 1: we don't do well. She beating you cross the back. Wow,

1031
01:06:37,280 --> 01:06:45,160
Speaker 1: she's not dead? Here going another note? Did this note?

1032
01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:50,840
Speaker 1: Say booth? All right, listen, we gotta get out of here. Uh.

1033
01:06:52,360 --> 01:06:55,360
Speaker 1: Please post your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter at Stephen

1034
01:06:55,440 --> 01:07:00,800
Speaker 1: Hervey FM on Instagram and Facebook. Stupid Yeah, don't forget

1035
01:07:00,840 --> 01:07:04,200
Speaker 1: to check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demanding you're

1036
01:07:04,280 --> 01:07:09,320
Speaker 1: listening to show. Plenty of us love to sleep, But

1037
01:07:09,520 --> 01:07:12,200
Speaker 1: what if you didn't have to sleep? Oh? Okay, what

1038
01:07:12,320 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 1: if you know we were built like we didn't have

1039
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:17,360
Speaker 1: to sleep and our energy levels remained high. So what

1040
01:07:17,440 --> 01:07:20,000
Speaker 1: would you do? How would you say that time you

1041
01:07:20,080 --> 01:07:23,720
Speaker 1: want some sleep? I have the best dreams when I sleep.

1042
01:07:23,760 --> 01:07:27,280
Speaker 1: I'm really good good dreams. Like you gotta have a

1043
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 1: dream like okay, you know you're dreaming and you just say, okay,

1044
01:07:30,600 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 1: when I wake up, all this is gonna be over with. Yeah.

1045
01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:38,960
Speaker 1: I hate to have a great dream, wake up in

1046
01:07:39,040 --> 01:07:40,720
Speaker 1: the middle of it and then try to get back

1047
01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:43,720
Speaker 1: back and you never can part dreaming. That's a real

1048
01:07:43,800 --> 01:07:46,000
Speaker 1: good party you ain't. You ain't never had a part

1049
01:07:46,040 --> 01:07:51,400
Speaker 1: two to your dreams? No, no, no, I've never had

1050
01:07:51,440 --> 01:07:54,080
Speaker 1: a partner. I've had a party two. I've gone back

1051
01:07:54,120 --> 01:08:02,200
Speaker 1: to the same dream before. What what it can happen? See,

1052
01:08:02,480 --> 01:08:06,520
Speaker 1: we don't have a brain like he got, so his

1053
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:12,360
Speaker 1: ignorant as go back to sleep and pick his dream.

1054
01:08:14,480 --> 01:08:16,960
Speaker 1: You don't go back to Tony bra. You don't think

1055
01:08:16,960 --> 01:08:20,879
Speaker 1: I go back because if I can tell me everybody,

1056
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 1: I'm telling you everybody whole good place to nobody, Tommy,

1057
01:08:30,640 --> 01:08:33,720
Speaker 1: I've never heard anyone say that in my back to

1058
01:08:33,840 --> 01:08:40,000
Speaker 1: the same dream, and the people stood in y'all what.

1059
01:08:41,840 --> 01:08:56,880
Speaker 1: I can't quite he ain't all right Tom's party. There's

1060
01:08:56,880 --> 01:09:01,519
Speaker 1: a reason you ain't ever heard sure, no one. I know.

1061
01:09:02,080 --> 01:09:04,320
Speaker 1: People say it all the time. They were having a

1062
01:09:04,400 --> 01:09:08,639
Speaker 1: great dream, and then of the phone, people don't. Yeah

1063
01:09:08,720 --> 01:09:12,200
Speaker 1: the dream is gone. Managers go right back. He left

1064
01:09:12,240 --> 01:09:21,000
Speaker 1: off right, well, I left off movie like a movie

1065
01:09:21,040 --> 01:09:23,439
Speaker 1: with you. I can never do that. The people you're

1066
01:09:23,439 --> 01:09:25,760
Speaker 1: having like a great freak party or something. You wake

1067
01:09:25,840 --> 01:09:32,680
Speaker 1: up everybody gown. You can't get that great freak did

1068
01:09:32,760 --> 01:09:36,120
Speaker 1: y'all have Did y'all have bad dreams as a kid? Oh? Yeah, yeah,

1069
01:09:36,760 --> 01:09:38,680
Speaker 1: you don't have a dream you couldn't move. Yeah, I've

1070
01:09:38,720 --> 01:09:41,360
Speaker 1: had that dream, and I've had the scariest dream for

1071
01:09:41,439 --> 01:09:44,920
Speaker 1: me is someone chasing me. Oh that dream. I hate

1072
01:09:44,960 --> 01:09:51,000
Speaker 1: that dream. No falling. I was falling and waving at

1073
01:09:51,080 --> 01:09:58,320
Speaker 1: people that I remember every even don't even everybody. Way

1074
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:04,280
Speaker 1: out of here. Nice knowing you my mom. Okay, we'll

1075
01:10:04,280 --> 01:10:12,560
Speaker 1: be back. You're listening show. Our doctors are finding that

1076
01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:16,280
Speaker 1: the number of middle age, middle aged men who injure

1077
01:10:16,320 --> 01:10:20,639
Speaker 1: themselves while having sex is on the rise. Guys, okay,

1078
01:10:21,160 --> 01:10:24,360
Speaker 1: and they say adventurous sex is to blame for the spike.

1079
01:10:24,640 --> 01:10:28,759
Speaker 1: I just heard myself the night. Oh did, I'm sorry,

1080
01:10:30,040 --> 01:10:32,799
Speaker 1: you're part of the statistics. My right leg be cramping

1081
01:10:32,880 --> 01:10:34,920
Speaker 1: all the time. When I hit a lock up pretty bad,

1082
01:10:35,320 --> 01:10:38,400
Speaker 1: I had to strand it out. Yeah, and you all

1083
01:10:38,600 --> 01:10:42,000
Speaker 1: comfortable with sharing that information. I had so much baby

1084
01:10:42,120 --> 01:10:44,320
Speaker 1: all on my hand. I was getting out to bed

1085
01:10:44,320 --> 01:10:45,880
Speaker 1: and have my hand on the edge of the knife.

1086
01:10:45,920 --> 01:10:57,960
Speaker 1: Then he slipped off out to bust my whole job. Yeah,

1087
01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:02,120
Speaker 1: most of the injuries are occurring in the showers, Steve.

1088
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:04,280
Speaker 1: That includes oh no, no, no, no, no, that ain't

1089
01:11:04,320 --> 01:11:06,880
Speaker 1: what they have. Man. One time, like a couple of

1090
01:11:06,880 --> 01:11:09,960
Speaker 1: weeks ago, I was coming out the bedroom fast, coming

1091
01:11:09,960 --> 01:11:13,599
Speaker 1: out the bathroom, real fair, and I dove on the bed,

1092
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:16,120
Speaker 1: but we had satin sheets and shot my ass straight

1093
01:11:16,160 --> 01:11:19,599
Speaker 1: to the other side. I slam dead into that day

1094
01:11:19,720 --> 01:11:26,479
Speaker 1: wall had too much speed, too much, Yes, trying to

1095
01:11:26,520 --> 01:11:29,960
Speaker 1: make a glorious like maybe y'all come ship right across

1096
01:11:30,080 --> 01:11:33,080
Speaker 1: the sheeting. It's hard to fall in against the wall

1097
01:11:33,160 --> 01:11:36,439
Speaker 1: when you make it. It's always a performance, man, Huh.

1098
01:11:37,920 --> 01:11:41,320
Speaker 1: You gotta perform huh. And then one time across the ball,

1099
01:11:41,479 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: walking across the bottom of the footbaard, you know, trying

1100
01:11:44,080 --> 01:11:46,040
Speaker 1: to do like I was a balance being because sometimes

1101
01:11:46,080 --> 01:11:50,760
Speaker 1: I do like individual performances before I start now. And

1102
01:11:51,000 --> 01:11:53,479
Speaker 1: I was walking across the bottom of the football like

1103
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:58,760
Speaker 1: a balance beams over my foot. I slipped off like

1104
01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:01,200
Speaker 1: I was on damn balance me. Well, almost were almost

1105
01:12:01,240 --> 01:12:07,439
Speaker 1: ruined my life. Yeah, you just fell off. That's where

1106
01:12:07,439 --> 01:12:11,400
Speaker 1: these stats is coming from. Wow. Well, anyway, I don't

1107
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:15,120
Speaker 1: worry about that story. And then the other and the

1108
01:12:15,200 --> 01:12:18,040
Speaker 1: other time I was. I was diving off the doknob,

1109
01:12:18,160 --> 01:12:22,360
Speaker 1: which is like one of my specialties do on the doknob,

1110
01:12:22,720 --> 01:12:25,640
Speaker 1: dive off the doknob, and I come off in a

1111
01:12:25,760 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 1: swan dive and I bust that into a jackknife, and

1112
01:12:32,080 --> 01:12:34,200
Speaker 1: I messed around and had locked the dough, but I

1113
01:12:34,280 --> 01:12:36,800
Speaker 1: had better on my head when I locked it dough

1114
01:12:37,840 --> 01:12:40,280
Speaker 1: and got from the top of the doknob with my

1115
01:12:40,479 --> 01:12:42,920
Speaker 1: right foot and tried to push off, and it slipped

1116
01:12:43,160 --> 01:12:47,120
Speaker 1: and I never made it to the bad injury Right there,

1117
01:12:47,160 --> 01:12:49,320
Speaker 1: I fell a knocking base over a cup of chess.

1118
01:12:49,400 --> 01:12:55,200
Speaker 1: Over you bleed. It wasn't bad, you know, just a

1119
01:12:55,280 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 1: little a couple of scars, you know. Uh, this past

1120
01:12:58,280 --> 01:13:01,960
Speaker 1: when I told all the drapes down in the bed room,

1121
01:13:03,120 --> 01:13:05,120
Speaker 1: I had put a lot of baby all on both

1122
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:07,000
Speaker 1: of us. That we was up against the wall and

1123
01:13:07,120 --> 01:13:10,200
Speaker 1: we started sliding and I tried to stop to fall

1124
01:13:10,600 --> 01:13:13,960
Speaker 1: and grab the drapes, but we kept falling. Yeah, and

1125
01:13:14,160 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 1: so I tore down two sections of drapes. Treatments are ruined.

1126
01:13:21,280 --> 01:13:23,640
Speaker 1: So you're never in pain or anything so much so

1127
01:13:23,800 --> 01:13:25,759
Speaker 1: that you can't you know that you have to cancel

1128
01:13:25,880 --> 01:13:28,719
Speaker 1: the night or anything. Hunh you know, you know sometimes

1129
01:13:28,720 --> 01:13:30,479
Speaker 1: I had to get you know, glass of scotch, you

1130
01:13:30,560 --> 01:13:35,360
Speaker 1: something to get get. Yeah, sometimes got to be willing

1131
01:13:35,400 --> 01:13:38,439
Speaker 1: to try to shirt. Okay, But I didn't know all

1132
01:13:38,479 --> 01:13:42,000
Speaker 1: this about Steve that. Yeah a lot doesn't it got

1133
01:13:42,040 --> 01:13:45,240
Speaker 1: a lot of yeah, yeah, a lot of baby all over.

1134
01:13:45,720 --> 01:13:49,720
Speaker 1: I did out the bathtub one time. Foot slipped huh

1135
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:53,800
Speaker 1: on that slick ass tie flow, and I told so

1136
01:13:53,960 --> 01:14:02,760
Speaker 1: much stuff down off of that vanity. Everything was are

1137
01:14:02,800 --> 01:14:09,360
Speaker 1: you fald? Is that go? Dude? I told a hot

1138
01:14:09,479 --> 01:14:20,760
Speaker 1: and cold Fawcett right after dope, you're listening to. A

1139
01:14:20,880 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 1: thirty four year old businessman from Fort Myers, Florida, was

1140
01:14:24,120 --> 01:14:28,280
Speaker 1: arrested on his wedding night, On his wedding night now

1141
01:14:28,600 --> 01:14:33,200
Speaker 1: for soliciting a prostitute. He and his wife honeymooned in Tampa, Florida,

1142
01:14:33,600 --> 01:14:37,639
Speaker 1: and just six hours, six hours after his wedding, while

1143
01:14:37,720 --> 01:14:40,880
Speaker 1: his wife was asleep, he looked online for sex and

1144
01:14:41,000 --> 01:14:44,080
Speaker 1: he arranged to meet a prostitute at a Tampa hotel.

1145
01:14:44,600 --> 01:14:47,879
Speaker 1: What when he got to the hotel, he was arrested

1146
01:14:47,960 --> 01:14:51,760
Speaker 1: by an undercover detective who would post as a prostitute online.

1147
01:14:52,200 --> 01:14:55,439
Speaker 1: The groom, Yes, the groom was one of one hundred

1148
01:14:55,479 --> 01:14:58,400
Speaker 1: and seventy six men arrested that night in the sting.

1149
01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:01,519
Speaker 1: Is that crazy? He's on his wedding night in jail

1150
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:06,040
Speaker 1: because because here was happening on a lot of wedding nights,

1151
01:15:06,160 --> 01:15:11,400
Speaker 1: the woman be so tired and exhausted from the events. Yeah,

1152
01:15:13,280 --> 01:15:15,720
Speaker 1: it don't be the night that everybody think it's gonna be.

1153
01:15:15,840 --> 01:15:17,960
Speaker 1: And so he got up and went on down there

1154
01:15:17,960 --> 01:15:20,519
Speaker 1: and tried to get himself tightened up. And then that

1155
01:15:20,680 --> 01:15:24,400
Speaker 1: when he got caught, what he tried to say was

1156
01:15:24,520 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 1: he was a part of the sting and went down

1157
01:15:26,439 --> 01:15:30,879
Speaker 1: there to show him how how people do help the police.

1158
01:15:31,800 --> 01:15:33,720
Speaker 1: You know, I'm just down here trying to show him.

1159
01:15:33,760 --> 01:15:35,880
Speaker 1: Look y'all to start looking out for this stuff, because

1160
01:15:35,920 --> 01:15:38,320
Speaker 1: this is how easy it can happen. Yeah, here I am,

1161
01:15:38,360 --> 01:15:40,960
Speaker 1: and you trying to handcut me. Pick your hands off

1162
01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:44,000
Speaker 1: for me. I was just down. I knew who this was.

1163
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:48,479
Speaker 1: Just trying to help y'all. But do you think he's

1164
01:15:48,479 --> 01:15:54,200
Speaker 1: still married Steve? He's in trouble because he can't get

1165
01:15:54,240 --> 01:15:57,639
Speaker 1: out of this one. We'll have more of the Steve

1166
01:15:57,680 --> 01:15:59,920
Speaker 1: Hartley Morning Show coming up in thirty three minutes after

1167
01:16:00,000 --> 01:16:02,040
Speaker 1: we'll play a round of would you rather? Right after

1168
01:16:02,160 --> 01:16:06,439
Speaker 1: this you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. It

1169
01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:09,080
Speaker 1: is time now for a round of would you rather?

1170
01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:13,519
Speaker 1: Would you rather tell your partner you're having an affair

1171
01:16:13,840 --> 01:16:16,080
Speaker 1: or would you rather your partner tell you that they're

1172
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:20,680
Speaker 1: having an affair? Neither? And that's just way. I ain't wrong, Yes,

1173
01:16:21,680 --> 01:16:26,360
Speaker 1: this is about your you're wait a minute, you ain't wrong.

1174
01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:35,040
Speaker 1: You the one wrong. So hey, it's on you, junior, Junior, Junior,

1175
01:16:35,400 --> 01:16:38,760
Speaker 1: let's go Junior. That's logic because I'm going with you wrong,

1176
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:42,559
Speaker 1: so I I get to cush you out. You got

1177
01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:47,920
Speaker 1: the power. Ain't You're wrong? Would you rather tell your

1178
01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:50,920
Speaker 1: partner you're having an affair? Or would you rather them

1179
01:16:51,040 --> 01:16:55,439
Speaker 1: tell you they're having an affair with a You can't

1180
01:16:55,479 --> 01:16:59,200
Speaker 1: take that they're having an affair. B B. I'm going

1181
01:16:59,320 --> 01:17:05,599
Speaker 1: to prison. I'm gonna get my ass whip and lose everything.

1182
01:17:05,760 --> 01:17:13,000
Speaker 1: And I'll get that twice already. It ain't neither one

1183
01:17:13,040 --> 01:17:16,160
Speaker 1: of them had a divorce before, and ain't either one

1184
01:17:16,200 --> 01:17:18,680
Speaker 1: of them had to walk in and make that announcement.

1185
01:17:20,720 --> 01:17:26,960
Speaker 1: I have. I have experience at making that announcement. Steve

1186
01:17:27,080 --> 01:17:32,719
Speaker 1: gonna go with a B. Final final answer is yeah,

1187
01:17:32,920 --> 01:17:37,840
Speaker 1: B is two life sentences without parole. Yeah, so, ain't

1188
01:17:37,880 --> 01:17:41,080
Speaker 1: gonna need to me all right? Would you rather live

1189
01:17:41,160 --> 01:17:43,680
Speaker 1: in the best house in the worst neighborhood or the

1190
01:17:43,800 --> 01:17:47,760
Speaker 1: worst house in the best neighborhood. Yeah, I'm gonna take

1191
01:17:47,800 --> 01:17:51,280
Speaker 1: the worst house in the best neighborhood. Yeah. Yeah, you

1192
01:17:51,280 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 1: can feel how you want to feel about me. That's

1193
01:17:53,600 --> 01:17:56,960
Speaker 1: the bottom of the rich. I take that. I've lived

1194
01:17:57,080 --> 01:18:01,080
Speaker 1: in the best house in the worst neighborhood. Nobody got

1195
01:18:01,160 --> 01:18:07,439
Speaker 1: sleep and nobody knew it until I went to other

1196
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,040
Speaker 1: people's houses. I really I realized, Man, we got the

1197
01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:12,200
Speaker 1: best house on the street, and you could drive down

1198
01:18:12,240 --> 01:18:19,040
Speaker 1: the street go look at all the ragged ass. I've

1199
01:18:19,479 --> 01:18:23,160
Speaker 1: already lived in the best house in the ragged ass neighbor.

1200
01:18:23,680 --> 01:18:27,640
Speaker 1: I've done that and no one knew it. All right,

1201
01:18:27,840 --> 01:18:29,960
Speaker 1: we could get to this one quickly. Would you rather

1202
01:18:30,080 --> 01:18:32,439
Speaker 1: have a bell go off every time you're turned on

1203
01:18:33,360 --> 01:18:37,080
Speaker 1: or have to say all your thoughts out loud during sex?

1204
01:18:39,439 --> 01:18:41,840
Speaker 1: Don't go off every time you're turned on, or have

1205
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:45,760
Speaker 1: have to say all your thoughts out loud during sex? Yeah,

1206
01:18:45,800 --> 01:18:47,519
Speaker 1: you let the bell go off of me? He didn't

1207
01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:50,360
Speaker 1: even every time. I rather had it? No, no, hell no,

1208
01:18:50,479 --> 01:18:56,000
Speaker 1: I won't get no damn sleep. All right, say everything

1209
01:18:56,120 --> 01:18:58,439
Speaker 1: you think and doing sex. That's what I do. Anyway

1210
01:19:00,040 --> 01:19:03,720
Speaker 1: out forty nine minutes after the hour. It's our last

1211
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:13,400
Speaker 1: break of the day, Steve Harvey, right, system you're listening

1212
01:19:13,720 --> 01:19:18,639
Speaker 1: to all right, guys, here we are our last break

1213
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,960
Speaker 1: of the day on this Monday. It's been a good Monday,

1214
01:19:22,280 --> 01:19:28,040
Speaker 1: Yes it has. Let's do it all right, Steve, it's

1215
01:19:28,080 --> 01:19:33,080
Speaker 1: time for your closing remarks. Um. Today I want to

1216
01:19:33,160 --> 01:19:36,240
Speaker 1: talk to you about a subject about how to succeed

1217
01:19:38,080 --> 01:19:41,759
Speaker 1: in spite of lack of support. Let me say that again,

1218
01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: how to succeed in spite of lack of support? You know, Uh,

1219
01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:56,080
Speaker 1: it's hard, it's hard, it really really is to make

1220
01:19:56,120 --> 01:20:01,479
Speaker 1: it without a support system. But it's doable. But even

1221
01:20:01,520 --> 01:20:05,120
Speaker 1: if you don't have support around you initially, you can

1222
01:20:05,240 --> 01:20:09,320
Speaker 1: find support because see, support doesn't have to be for

1223
01:20:09,479 --> 01:20:12,800
Speaker 1: your specific idea. It's just you just have to have

1224
01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:16,160
Speaker 1: someone to support the fact that you want to become better.

1225
01:20:17,240 --> 01:20:19,639
Speaker 1: So the best way to do that is surround yourself

1226
01:20:19,720 --> 01:20:23,320
Speaker 1: with some people who want to become better. You don't

1227
01:20:23,360 --> 01:20:26,800
Speaker 1: have to become better at the same thing or have

1228
01:20:26,960 --> 01:20:30,880
Speaker 1: the same interest, just the mere fact that everybody you

1229
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:35,680
Speaker 1: start associating yourself with wants to be better. That is

1230
01:20:35,800 --> 01:20:40,080
Speaker 1: plenty of support. The fact that nobody believes specifically in

1231
01:20:40,240 --> 01:20:45,280
Speaker 1: your dreams, nah, you don't need that. But the fact

1232
01:20:45,400 --> 01:20:48,240
Speaker 1: that somebody will support your dreams no matter what they

1233
01:20:48,280 --> 01:20:52,240
Speaker 1: are because you dare to dream them. That's what you're

1234
01:20:52,320 --> 01:20:56,080
Speaker 1: looking for. So don't get too bit out of shape

1235
01:20:56,160 --> 01:20:58,880
Speaker 1: when people don't support your dreams. A lot of times

1236
01:20:59,000 --> 01:21:02,920
Speaker 1: people don't support your dreams because they just don't. The

1237
01:21:03,040 --> 01:21:08,280
Speaker 1: first of all, they don't get it. God didn't give

1238
01:21:08,360 --> 01:21:11,320
Speaker 1: them the same vision he gave you. That's why sharing

1239
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:14,920
Speaker 1: your dreams with people is so tough sometimes, because if

1240
01:21:14,960 --> 01:21:17,080
Speaker 1: you want to kill a big dream. I've often said

1241
01:21:17,160 --> 01:21:19,920
Speaker 1: this many times before, But if you want to kill

1242
01:21:19,960 --> 01:21:22,920
Speaker 1: a big dream, didn't tell it to a small minded person.

1243
01:21:23,560 --> 01:21:26,519
Speaker 1: That's the fastest way to kill it. But you can

1244
01:21:26,640 --> 01:21:31,080
Speaker 1: also kill it by expecting them to see what you

1245
01:21:31,280 --> 01:21:36,840
Speaker 1: see because they're not. They can't see what you see.

1246
01:21:37,520 --> 01:21:42,519
Speaker 1: God did not place it in their imagination. See, your

1247
01:21:42,840 --> 01:21:48,559
Speaker 1: imagination is yours. Albert Einstein said, imagination is everything. It's

1248
01:21:48,600 --> 01:21:52,240
Speaker 1: the preview to life's coming attractions. One more time, Albert

1249
01:21:52,320 --> 01:21:56,280
Speaker 1: Einstein said, imagination is everything. It's the preview to life's

1250
01:21:56,360 --> 01:22:01,200
Speaker 1: coming attraction. But your imagination is also the evidence of

1251
01:22:01,360 --> 01:22:05,320
Speaker 1: things not seen, which is the second half of very

1252
01:22:05,439 --> 01:22:08,680
Speaker 1: very powerful scripture that says faith it's a substance of

1253
01:22:08,800 --> 01:22:13,320
Speaker 1: things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen.

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Speaker 1: Your imagination is the second half of that scripture. When

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Speaker 1: they say the evidence of things not seen, it's a

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Speaker 1: reference to your imagination. See, imagination is everything. It's the

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Speaker 1: previatialized coming attraction. But your imagination comes from God. So

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Speaker 1: it is the evidence of things not seen. And the

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Speaker 1: reason they say is evidence of things not seen because

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Speaker 1: your imagination, you're the only one that can see it.

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Speaker 1: You can't expect nobody else to see it. Because God

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Speaker 1: didn't put it in their head. But your imagination is

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Speaker 1: actually a preview of a coming attraction that God has

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Speaker 1: for you. That's actually what your imagination is. If you

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Speaker 1: could wrap your mind around that concept, folk, it would

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Speaker 1: serve you well. Because I used to did not understand

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Speaker 1: my imagination. Why does it keep going to all of

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Speaker 1: these places? Why does my imagination keep getting away from me?

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Speaker 1: Like this man? My imagination wasn't getting away from me.

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Speaker 1: It was taking me places. It was taking me places

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Speaker 1: through the form of imagination that I would dare to

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Speaker 1: dream of. My imagination was so explicit and so big.

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Speaker 1: It had me seeing stuff in myself that it had

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Speaker 1: me seeing stuff about myself that I didn't know about myself.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that my imagination would take me here.

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Speaker 1: And really, God has taken me further than my imagination

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Speaker 1: because He has this thing called grace. So what it is,

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Speaker 1: y'all is, Look, how do you succeed in spite of

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Speaker 1: lack of support? Your dreams, your vision, your imagination. Put

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Speaker 1: them in front of you. Let that be your motivation.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you're not gonna get support. I don't get support

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Speaker 1: for the majority of the things I offered to do,

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Speaker 1: But I do it anyway. I step forward, I step

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Speaker 1: out on faith, I jump, I take a leap. I

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Speaker 1: hold my breath, and as I'm falling, I start to breathing.

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Speaker 1: And sometimes when I'm falling, I have to hold my

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Speaker 1: breath because I feel like I'm gonna slam face first

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Speaker 1: into the ground. But here he come, like he always do.

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Speaker 1: He come getting me every single time. And don't he

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Speaker 1: come get you? Yes, he does. That's it. I don't

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Speaker 1: have no more today. I think that I just wanted

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Speaker 1: to say that to you all. How do you succeed

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Speaker 1: in spite of the lack of support? You just gotta

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Speaker 1: go through it, man, and get yourself around some like

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01:24:49,880 --> 01:24:54,400
Speaker 1: minded people and who want to be successful. Not exactly

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Speaker 1: what you want to be, but that's all you need.

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Speaker 1: That's always done. I hope that was good. Absolutely, that

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Speaker 1: was very good. That was very good, Very good, Sire

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Speaker 1: Dost Hey, that's it, y'all. Talk to God today, y'all.

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