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Speaker 1: I've ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show, Dominic. Fill us in, Man, what's

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Speaker 2: going on with you and this woman Jillian? How did

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Speaker 2: you meet? Tell us about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 2: and then what's happening right now for you guys?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So we met on Hinge and I was

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Speaker 1: so pumped, so I thought she was out of my

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Speaker 1: we went out and I thought it went really well.

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Speaker 1: You know, we got some drinks and I don't know

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Speaker 1: what happened because I thought I thought I did really well,

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Speaker 1: you know, and I thought she was into it, and

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Speaker 1: so now she's ghosting and I really don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, So you guys meet on the app, you

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Speaker 2: chat normal stuff. You wind up on this district state

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Speaker 2: and you walk out of the state and you're like, oh,

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Speaker 2: this is I'm excited about this. I'm gonna see Jillian again.

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Speaker 2: Your You're planning dates in your head and you know

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Speaker 2: you can't wait to that's the feeling.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I wanted to take like a minute to reach

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Speaker 1: out again.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, well no, but I'm saying, you know, you

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Speaker 2: leave the date with it was certain that you would

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Speaker 2: hear from her again and that there'd be a second date,

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Speaker 2: except you can't get a hold of her now, exactly.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and I'm I'm really trying to figure it out.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, let's call this woman Jillian. We'll see if

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Speaker 2: we can get her on the phone, and you'll be

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Speaker 2: on the phone as well. We'll ask all these questions

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Speaker 2: and hopefully we can straighten this out and set you

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Speaker 2: guys up on a second date and we'll pay for that.

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Speaker 3: All right.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I'm gonna play one song and we'll come back

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Speaker 2: and do it. So hang on, let's see what's going on.

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Speaker 2: Parts to you of waiting by the phone right after

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Speaker 2: a jogier Ian two minutes, we're back.

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Speaker 3: It's the Fread Show. Don't move here.

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Speaker 2: The Fred Show is on the radio on the iHeart

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Speaker 2: app live at anytime, starts for the Fred Show on demand, Dominice,

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Speaker 2: welcome back. Let's call Jillian. You met on a Hinge,

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Speaker 2: the dating app, and you had a great first date

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Speaker 2: except you can't get a hold of her now she's

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Speaker 2: ghosting you, and of course, like anybody, you want to

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Speaker 2: know why. Yeah, let's call her now. Good luck man? Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: is this Chillian? Jillian, good morning, It's Fred. The Fred

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Speaker 2: Show is here, the whole crew, and I have to

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Speaker 2: tell you that we are on the radio right now

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Speaker 2: and I need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Can we chat for a couple of minutes?

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Speaker 3: Day? I know it's weird and we do a lot

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Speaker 3: of these.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you've heard him before, but this is called waiting

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Speaker 2: by the phone and we're calling on your half of

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Speaker 2: a guy you met named Dominic on Hinge and I

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Speaker 2: guess you guys had a drink day Dominic, right, you remember?

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Speaker 2: Do you remember him?

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Speaker 3: I mean, is it?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Yeah, of course I remember him. He's a creep.

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Speaker 2: He's a creep. Okay, well, here's what we know. He

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Speaker 2: called us and said that he liked you and he

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Speaker 2: actually felt that your your date went really well. You

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Speaker 2: seem to have a difference theory. So what's going on?

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Speaker 4: Like he was recording me.

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Speaker 3: Roll? When was he recording you?

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Speaker 4: How everything was like uh, I thought everything was like

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Speaker 3: A phone memoir, a voicenoe or whatever. Yeah, like why

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Speaker 3: on Like I don't know, like Are you positive?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I am absolutely positive. Like I was so freaked

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Speaker 4: out that I just like I just needed to get

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Speaker 2: Ask him, did you so you see this and you're like,

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Speaker 2: I think I'm being recorded? Did you say something?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 4: It's just like really like I was weirded out and

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Speaker 4: I was like, what are He's like a private detective

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you've never heard this one. Let me

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Speaker 2: bring Dominic in. I forgot to mention. I'm sorry because

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Speaker 2: now that you're he kind of creeps you out. I

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Speaker 2: don't mean to do this to you, but dominic is

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Speaker 3: But oh are you doing? Why did you record her?

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Speaker 3: Were you recording her?

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Speaker 1: First of all, wait, I think there's a misunderstanding. I wasn't.

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Speaker 1: I was recording me, okay, like of you No, but

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Speaker 1: the reason, the reason like it wasn't. It wasn't a

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Speaker 1: creepy thing. I Oh my gosh, Jillian, I like you

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Speaker 1: so much, and I wanted to make sure that I

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Speaker 1: recording myself and I see where I was, you know,

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Speaker 4: Like game.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So like when you go home and review the film.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to hear myself on a date ever again.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: But okay, So but I read something that like, you know,

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Speaker 1: if you can measure what you're doing, you can you

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Speaker 1: can get better at it. So if I if I

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Speaker 4: And then yeah, like here's the here's the thing here,

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Speaker 4: like I really like aside from this very creepy thing

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Speaker 4: that you have died, like you.

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Speaker 3: Cannot do that.

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Speaker 4: You're very sweet, but like the facts that you think

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Speaker 4: that you need to like get better.

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Speaker 1: But no, no, it doesn't have to say you're in a different.

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Speaker 2: You know, Look, I appreciate what you're trying to do.

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Speaker 2: I guess for if that's your method, but you can't

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Speaker 2: So how.

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Speaker 1: Do I get how do I get better.

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Speaker 4: Yourself or something?

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Speaker 2: But it sounds like you were fine, Like I think

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Speaker 2: you would have been, Jillian, would he have been okay

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Speaker 2: had he not been recording you without your knowledge?

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Speaker 4: Acted like a serial killer?

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Speaker 1: Then see, I've never I have never hurt any any

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Speaker 3: I can't.

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Speaker 2: It. It's a weird thing to do. And it sounds

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Speaker 2: like you're fine. It sounds like maybe you have some

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Speaker 1: Or you're yes, yes, anxiety, yes to the home.

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Speaker 2: And decompressed in a lot of ways without recording somebody,

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Speaker 1: Doesn't everybody record everybody?

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Speaker 3: Now? Actually? No?

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Speaker 2: So okay, yeah, I think well, I mean, yes, your

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Speaker 3: That's totally different. Look, you're sweet man.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you had the best intentions, but it

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Speaker 2: didn't come off the right way. And also sounds to

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Speaker 2: So I don't think you should worry about you know,

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Speaker 2: I don't think you should overthink this. In the future,

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Speaker 2: you don't have to record your date, and it sounds

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Speaker 1: Well, okay, Well what if we just tried it again

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Speaker 1: and there wasn't any recording, Like I could just leave

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Speaker 2: That would be a good place to start. But is

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Speaker 2: there any way, Jillian, would you consider that?

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Speaker 4: Go to therapy?

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Speaker 3: Okay, chastise the guy.

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Speaker 4: I think therapy is great and I go therapy. It

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Speaker 4: just seems like you have like a crippling like anxiety

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Speaker 4: and you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, guys, guys, guys, We're not going to solve this

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Speaker 2: in this segment here, but you know, I sthing to

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Speaker 2: think about dominic. We wish you the best, Jillian. I'm

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Speaker 2: sorry you were freaked out. At least now you have

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Speaker 2: some answers and guys next for your time.

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Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.

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