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Speaker 1: Imagine you just won the lottery.

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Speaker 2: Great, right, No, No, it actually will ruin your life

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Speaker 2: and your family. We're gonna take you on a journey

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Speaker 2: and tell you five stories of people who won the

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Speaker 2: lottery and paid the consequences because of its starting with

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Speaker 2: number five done. My family sued me right after they

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Speaker 2: found out I won the lottery. Should I go no

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Speaker 2: contact with them? This is okay, We'll be the home

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Speaker 2: of the craziest stories on the Internet. I'm Sam and Sophia.

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Speaker 2: Should OP go no contact with his family?

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Speaker 1: I think so.

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Speaker 3: I think if your family sues you, I think that's stenned.

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Speaker 1: If I won the lottery, would you sue me? Yes? No,

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Speaker 1: I would just make you pay for everything.

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Speaker 2: Red fly, Red fly, Sophia made me pay for what

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Speaker 2: do you make me pay for?

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Speaker 1: Today? A squeegee? You buy a squeegee? I just like squeegee.

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Speaker 1: Put it on your shirt.

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Speaker 3: I'll put it on your bullshit background information information?

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Speaker 1: Do you buy this squeegee? You're the only one that

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Speaker 1: will be using this. They didn't have any spices. They

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Speaker 1: didn't have We have a whole spice rack. We have

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Speaker 1: raction racks of spices. You do not. Did she take

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Speaker 1: all the spices. They're gone. That's so bitch. Yeah. I

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Speaker 1: bought all the spices, the spot, all the spe lady.

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Speaker 1: I'm the spicy girl. All right, let's get into the story.

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Speaker 2: So user deleted because I guess they deleted their account,

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Speaker 2: says backstory. I thirty six, male and the youngest of

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Speaker 2: five children. Boy, girl, boy, girl.

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Speaker 1: Oh Jesus by girl, boy, did you just exercise a demon?

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Speaker 1: I had no.

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Speaker 2: I had a little mini throw up in my mouth.

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Speaker 2: Oh but don't worry. I swallowed it.

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Speaker 1: Lovely anyway. And we grew up in absolute poverty.

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Speaker 2: Mom loved having kids, but she didn't work, and Dad

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Speaker 2: didn't make enough to support everyone. Poor enough that I remember,

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Speaker 2: as an eleven or twelve year old receiving a single

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Speaker 2: plastic slinky and being absolutely thrilled. I got anything that

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Speaker 2: is so adorable.

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Speaker 1: It's really sweet. But honestly, slinkies are pretty rad. Slinkies

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Speaker 1: are pretty cool. Slinky, you should be grateful we have

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Speaker 1: stairs in this place.

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Speaker 2: Slinky slinky, Yeah, simplething.

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Speaker 1: He is getting me cold for Christmas.

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Speaker 2: Because you deserve it. Growing up with that kind of

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Speaker 2: family was rough. Parents got divorced and dad lived locally

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Speaker 2: but didn't really do much to try to be a dad,

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Speaker 2: just support financially when legally necessary. And he let it

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Speaker 2: slip to me once that he never wanted any kids.

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Speaker 1: Slip to your kid. I feel like that's intentional. What like, hey,

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Speaker 1: little Jimmy, You're like, hey dad, what's up? I never

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Speaker 1: wanted you anyway, my dad, it's my birthday. Here's a

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Speaker 1: plastic slinky. Knocked yourself out. I love dad, live in

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Speaker 1: a single. All the characters, also the sun.

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Speaker 4: I love you.

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Speaker 1: I love this slinky. I have two kids. You about

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Speaker 1: two kids?

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Speaker 2: The kid pregnancy is or maybe.

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Speaker 1: Your kids are barely heavy.

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Speaker 2: And they work at the factory child labor.

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Speaker 1: Don't you understand the bit I'm doing?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 1: Is it my self? No?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 1: Who is it? Tell me? You guys know I don't

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Speaker 1: shrimp from Yeah, thank you? I just care. I haven't

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Speaker 1: seen shark Tails in ages.

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Speaker 5: I watched it on Sunday? You did, or Saturday Saturday?

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Speaker 1: Yep?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, no, keep going all right, I

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Speaker 2: haven't I will put I want you to listen to me.

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Speaker 1: Shrimp quote. I love how it's like Siri will know

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Speaker 1: what I mean. Shrimp Okay, ready, Ard, it's true.

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Speaker 4: It's truely. The other thing, my sister has a baby,

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Speaker 4: and I took it over after she passed.

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Speaker 3: Away, and the baby lost all its legs.

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Speaker 1: And arms, and now it's just a stump. But I

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Speaker 1: take care of it with my wife, and and it's

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Speaker 1: it's growing, and it's it's fairly happening.

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Speaker 3: It's difficult because I'm working a second shift of the

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Speaker 3: factory to put food on the table, but all the

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Speaker 3: love that I see in that little guy's face makes

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Speaker 3: it worth it in the end.

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Speaker 2: True story, Okay, shrimp baby back to it.

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Speaker 1: I would be very impressed if you knew that whole quote.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: He just loved my mom and she wanted kids, so

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Speaker 2: he went along with it. Obviously, with this kind of

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Speaker 2: great prior to the divorce.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't sound great. I was helping fix drywall at five

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Speaker 1: years old. Wait is it true?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Oh, my god, could only afford to live in a crummy,

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Speaker 2: run down house.

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Speaker 1: That's really hard.

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Speaker 2: I remember stripping paint with a steamer and a punny

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Speaker 2: knife at six or seven, and only I don't know

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Speaker 2: why I love it.

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Speaker 1: This is sad and recently that the house has lead paint. No,

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Speaker 1: that's not good.

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Speaker 2: The oldest sibling did even more housework and probably inhaled

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Speaker 2: a bunch of lead dust and talks substances. Couple that

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Speaker 2: with emotional abuse of our parents, and they didn't grow

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Speaker 2: up to be good people. So not only did the

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Speaker 2: parents suck, but now because of generational.

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Speaker 1: Trauma generational trauma, the children suck too. No good, no good.

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Speaker 1: Call me old fashioned, but I don't like lead paint.

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Speaker 2: But oh that is old fashioned. Liking lead paint actually

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Speaker 2: would be extremely old fashioned.

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Speaker 1: Old fashioned. I love the old.

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Speaker 2: Fashion, but I love inhaling lad pain. Call me old fashion,

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Speaker 2: but give me some asbestos.

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Speaker 3: Call me old fashion, but I like to buy those

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Speaker 3: tupperware with lead in them.

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Speaker 1: Coby old fashion, but I yearned for the mines.

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Speaker 3: Call me old fashioned, but I like to go into

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Speaker 3: those bunkers that prepare you for nuclear warfare.

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Speaker 1: Call me old fashion. I don't know what this bit is.

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Speaker 1: A bit a bit where we co old fashioned, but

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Speaker 1: I like to live in the bit.

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Speaker 5: Call me old fashioned, but I like to pick the

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Speaker 2: That it does sound old fashioned. That's really nice, rightly,

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Speaker 2: such a sweetheart. Oh Riley, oh Riley, oh.

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Speaker 1: Riley, Oh oh right out of parts.

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Speaker 1: Oh oh Riley. Okay.

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Speaker 2: My oldest brother I had anger issues and got kicked

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Speaker 2: out of college for fighting people. He also got arrested

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Speaker 2: ended up involuntarily committed for seventy two hours once. She's

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Speaker 2: doing a lot better nowadays, but still is an unpleasant person.

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Speaker 2: She's still an asshole. Next brother went on to just

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Speaker 2: be an employee. I mean, it sounds like he's an

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Speaker 2: might be a manager now. All three still live in

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Speaker 2: the impoverished town we grew up in. My next sister

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Speaker 2: and I are close enough in age that were very similar.

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Speaker 2: Both joined the military to escape the poverty trap of

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Speaker 2: our hometown. I joined the Army and she went Navy.

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Speaker 2: Even at both around the same time. While in the service,

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Speaker 2: a big sign that said.

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Speaker 1: Everyone in this family is awful.

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Speaker 2: She confronted them about it after her contract ended and

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Speaker 2: got kind of dragged into the drama all over again.

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Speaker 2: She moved to a city near the hometown, about one

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Speaker 2: hour away, and started working there right away. I cut

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Speaker 2: everyone else out of my life. I hadn't spoken to

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Speaker 2: most of them in years, and the others are cursorary

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Speaker 2: and obligatory in nature.

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Speaker 1: God, man, don't speak too highly of those.

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Speaker 3: Sam's cursory and obligatory in my life.

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Speaker 1: Damn, I gave you that hat.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I didn't want to wear this hat, but March

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Speaker 3: it's really cool hat. I just don't like wearing hats.

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Speaker 1: That was the worst sales base.

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Speaker 3: Sorry, sorry, I need to take that hat off.

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Speaker 1: Our contract. I did. I started tellege bill editors, take

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Speaker 1: that out and do it again. Lemeon Limean. I even

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Speaker 1: gave you that hot.

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Speaker 3: This This is a merch hot.

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Speaker 1: It's a really good Sam.

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Speaker 3: What's the merch tell us about this merch?

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Speaker 2: No, editors keep all of that in all right after

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Speaker 2: my contract ended, I started college using the GI bill,

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Speaker 1: Focus on school.

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Speaker 2: My family effing urgent that I was basically getting free

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Speaker 2: school to them. Couldn't explain that it meant giving up

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Speaker 2: have to drill every month in the reserves and part

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Speaker 1: Is permanently wrecked. It's an unfair advantage. It's an unfair advantage. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: because Op, he's getting school for free.

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Speaker 3: But how's it had to go through the military.

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Speaker 2: He worked for that? Yeah, gonna be s I mean

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Speaker 2: this family sounds awful.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry, Op.

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Speaker 2: Well, in school, I had a habit of buying a

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Speaker 2: said men in California have a higher chance of actually

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Speaker 2: being Brad Pitt than winning the lottery.

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Speaker 1: My dad would like that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my dad looks like our dad would like that.

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Speaker 2: I think it's just your dad, Dad, Despite how it

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Speaker 2: might look. Sophia is adopted.

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Speaker 3: I just found out that my brother isn't my real brother.

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Speaker 3: Am I?

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Speaker 2: Am I the asshole for telling him? Okay, am I

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Speaker 2: the asshole for disowning my brother?

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Speaker 1: After? Am I the asshole for suing my brother.

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Speaker 2: For not being related to me? The asshole for suing

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Speaker 2: my brother for inferior genetics?

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Speaker 1: Okay, what's the next?

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Speaker 2: My final semester, I won. I didn't win fu money

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Speaker 2: by any means. I won the type of money where

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Speaker 2: you could pay cash for a three bedroom, two bathroom

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Speaker 2: house with point three six acres in a county where

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Speaker 2: housing prices were below the national average and then have

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Speaker 2: nothing left.

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Speaker 1: Oh, that is very specific. How much money do you

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Speaker 1: think that is? I think it's like five hundred thousand dollars? Yeah,

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Speaker 1: which makes sense, Like.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like pay off mortgage, get the house, no money left.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it's specific because that's what I did.

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Speaker 2: I never told any family, including my cool older sister,

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Speaker 2: be obligated to tell the rest of them. The purchase

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Speaker 2: eleven years ago. Since then, I got married and had

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Speaker 2: She graduated summa cum lade. Not true, she graduated kum lade. No,

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Speaker 3: Is when we got there, I'm shocked.

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Speaker 1: I'm bambuzolz, I thought it. I'm right bad, Electra fat guy?

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Speaker 2: Was that one quote going.

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Speaker 1: Go grease sliding?

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Speaker 3: Story time about grease slightning?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: Is that okay? Story time? Okay, story okay, story time

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Speaker 2: About a year ago, the oldest sister was going to

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Speaker 1: Why didn't you tell her? Because she would the whole

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Speaker 3: Why didn't he op tell his wife that it was

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Speaker 1: Oh, that's a good point. That's a good question.

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Speaker 1: What was that mean? What was that mean? What's that mean?

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Speaker 1: Regular showlock on her hands. I'm not a dummy, dummy,

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Speaker 1: I got the magnifying glass. Unny, I'm going to look

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Speaker 2: I am not great at lying, improv or doing anything

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Speaker 2: for a hotel. Yike, I can't believe you got so lucky.

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Speaker 2: Imagine being mad about that. Imagine you won the lottery

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Speaker 1: I didn't tell you. Imagine I find out and then

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Speaker 3: I'd be like, that's why I didn't tell you, Sam, and.

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Speaker 2: I would be like, well, maybe if you told me,

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Speaker 3: Actually, this is like, if you ever win the lottery,

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Speaker 1: You're saying you wouldn't tell me if you won the lottery,

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Speaker 1: I probably would. I can't keep a secret. Who would

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Speaker 3: I'd probably tell mom because I wouldn't need her help,

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Speaker 3: and then it probably tell.

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Speaker 1: Oh, my god, and then it's a bell. I would

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Speaker 1: tell Choe.

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Speaker 3: Yeah you shouldn't get tell Lee, but no. But you're

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Speaker 3: You're supposed to keep a secret, and you're supposed to

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Speaker 1: Which is not what Op did. No the first mistake.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, all on you. What do you think Riley been

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Speaker 3: Awfully's silent?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're awful. Who would you tell if you won

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Speaker 5: Oh, if I won the lottery, I am putting it

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Speaker 5: somewhere safe, traveling for a year, clearing my mind, and

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Speaker 1: Would you tell anyone before you did that? Or no?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'd probably tell my family.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, tell you guys, you tell me.

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Speaker 5: I'd be like, Yo're gonna be gone for a year,

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Speaker 5: don't worry. I'll be back in the same exact spot.

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Speaker 5: Like I never loved Nike, I.

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Speaker 1: Never left, making never laugh. That's so sweet.

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Speaker 2: Who would you tell if you won the lottery? Put

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Speaker 2: hours later, two hours later, after the sister left, the

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Speaker 2: with even got angry at me for keeping it a secret.

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, so I guess the sister that came over

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Speaker 3: But she was still upset. The cool sister was still upset.

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Speaker 2: The cool sister was marginally upset, but not super upset. Oh,

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Speaker 2: he says, is the sister I got along with even

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Speaker 2: while family try to get money from me, not understanding

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Speaker 2: that there wasn't any left.

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Speaker 1: They kept saying that they're.

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Speaker 2: About to file for bankruptcy because of debt, and I

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Speaker 1: We've already gone no contact. They don't care about you.

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Speaker 1: They're literally just gave Yeah, they only want you, like

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Speaker 1: the fact that they only reach out because they want

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Speaker 1: something from you. Yeah, yeah, no, that's not on you, ESBs.

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Speaker 2: It's literally like the equivalent of showing up with a

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Speaker 2: squeegee and saying pay for this. What's the same thing.

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Speaker 1: They don't know if that's true. She's like only after

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Speaker 2: So after a week, lawyers got involved because my family

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Speaker 2: started threatening to sue me for damages? What damages? For

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Speaker 2: everything wrong in our family? They eventually did file what how?

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Speaker 1: What are the grounds on? What grounds? Sound on what grounds?

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Speaker 2: Every single thing that they could even remotely justify going

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Speaker 2: They even added up an estimated amount of gas money

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Speaker 2: I borrowed since starting to drive at sixteen, with verbal

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Speaker 2: agreements to pay you back later, taking into account inflation

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Speaker 3: If you're a parent, there are certain amounts of you know,

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Speaker 3: that's your child.

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Speaker 1: That's just how it works.

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Speaker 2: We did read one story where when the kid turned eighteen,

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Speaker 2: the parent had an itemized bill of everything that I

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Speaker 2: don't have a child. You had to like that kid

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Speaker 2: cost her and then gave it to the person saying like, okay, time.

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Speaker 1: To pay this back. I'm sorry, don't have a child.

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Speaker 3: Don't have a child, don't vest There is an article

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Speaker 3: about how much it costs to have a child in

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Speaker 1: Must be more, only three hundred thousand.

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Speaker 3: hundred thousand. You can fact check me, but it was

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Speaker 3: like the amounts up until they were eighteen.

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Speaker 2: I think, how much does it cost to raise a

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Speaker 1: In California? Give an estimate? Please, California.

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Speaker 4: You can vary widely in costs depending on various factors

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Speaker 4: like location, lifestyle, and education choices. As of my last

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Speaker 4: middle income families might range from two hundred thousand dollars

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Speaker 4: to five hundred.

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Speaker 1: Thousand dollars or more.

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Speaker 4: This includes expenses for housing.

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Speaker 1: I read two hundred thousand to five hundred thousand.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, or more, or if you averaged that three hundred thousand.

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Speaker 1: Yes, Sophia, she was right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, everything together they asked for would have just been

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Speaker 2: short of buying another house in cash. I'm able to

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Speaker 2: ninety percent of it dropped from being absolutely ridiculous and

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Speaker 2: showing that a lot of their claims occurred during a

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Speaker 2: time when I had no contact with them. Thank you

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Speaker 2: phone and email records. The remaining ten percent of what

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Speaker 2: they wanted with stuff that happened when I was seventeen

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Speaker 2: or eighteen, like denting one of their cars or injuring

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Speaker 2: leaving a permanent scar where the glass cut them.

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Speaker 1: Damn.

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Speaker 2: After a lawyer in court fees plus paying damages, I

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Speaker 2: lost a bit more than ten thousand dollars to the family.

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Speaker 2: The stress from the legal battle affected me at work,

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Speaker 2: for help financially what I got bad enough, people coming

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Speaker 2: to my home at night that I had to request

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Speaker 2: a transfer to a different branch where nobody knew me.

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Speaker 2: Now I'm having to sell the hole I bought where

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Speaker 2: my daughter was growing up in and moved to a

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Speaker 2: more expensive city where the other branch is all because

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Speaker 2: I let my family back into my life.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, And that is a rap.

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Speaker 2: So Sofia, do you think Op did the right thing

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Speaker 2: by not initially telling his family?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? And should he have done anything differently?

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Speaker 3: I guess he should have just told his wife that

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Speaker 3: it was secret, because that's not her fault.

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Speaker 1: She didn't know.

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Speaker 2: Literally, the wife. I'm not blaming her, but kind of

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Speaker 2: that one sentence imploded their whole life.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, but she didn't know. It's just like not

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Speaker 3: her fault. But like, yeah, that really.

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Speaker 1: Sucks, but it's not her fault. But like it kind

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Speaker 3: It really sucks though it sucks so much you just

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Speaker 1: That's the thing. Is like the lottery. The lottery is

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Speaker 1: kind of like a curse. The lottery is a curse.

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Speaker 1: It's like the monkey paw, Yeah, the monkey.

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Speaker 3: Pop baguely like sticking up No, no, no, you made it worse. Okay,

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Speaker 3: that's fine, you know the monkey pa Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Where it's like you get like you get to like

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Speaker 2: make a wish, but it always goes wrong.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's like that. It's like that the monkey paw.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, like you get this monkey paw and you make

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Speaker 3: a wish and any it like twists it.

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Speaker 5: Oh, I was saying exact same thing as I don't know,

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Speaker 5: it just made more sense.

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Speaker 2: Bullshit. You know what else is bullshit? Whatever is about

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Speaker 2: to say for this next story. Let's get into the

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Speaker 2: next one and see why the lottery is absolute dog

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Speaker 2: shit bad lottery.

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, don't I have I have a story time? Okay, well,

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Speaker 1: so what was the story? Oh yeah, story time about

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Speaker 1: Greece before we go into the next episode. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: it's time for okay, start thirty Okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: So Sam, when he was in eighth grade, was in

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Speaker 3: our school's uh production of Greece where he played duty

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Speaker 3: and he's saying a great rendition.

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Speaker 1: Of school drop out. Now that's not what you say.

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Speaker 1: He said, play and all the grad what.

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Speaker 3: You would do, because that's the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: And the great well play in all the radio.

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Speaker 3: But actually he was in Greece twice because he also

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Speaker 3: showed up when I was in sixth grade because we

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Speaker 3: didn't have enough guys and so he played.

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Speaker 1: Uh, that's it. That's all a lot to tell you.

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Speaker 1: Who did I play?

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Speaker 3: I don't remember the the the guy who comes in,

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Speaker 3: he's like the newscast or whatever.

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Speaker 1: Oh I barely remember that. Yeah, you played that guy.

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Speaker 1: But was that good?

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Speaker 2: Obviously not very memorable. All right, let's get to the

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Speaker 2: next story. Sophia hit me with it.