WEBVTT - Nicole Rose

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, babes, it's La lat Kent with Ran. I'm excited

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<v Speaker 1>for today. I'm always excited for this day. I literally

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<v Speaker 1>start every podcast by saying I'm excited.

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<v Speaker 2>If we went back on the last sixty five to

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<v Speaker 2>seventy podcasts, you say you're excited, but that's it.

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<v Speaker 1>Would be like Groundhog's Day if you listen to just

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<v Speaker 1>the beginning of the podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>But if you weren't excited, then we shouldn't be doing

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<v Speaker 2>the podcast. So I'm glad you're excited.

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<v Speaker 1>I am because I discovered a new show. It's new

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<v Speaker 1>for me at least. It is called The Big Shot

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<v Speaker 1>with Bethany Bethany Frankel.

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<v Speaker 2>This is on a network that I assume is the

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<v Speaker 2>home base for your show.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it's actually on HBO Max. Oh see, I ventured.

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<v Speaker 1>I ventured outside of my comfort zone.

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<v Speaker 2>So you left Bravo and E and found another channel

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<v Speaker 2>that has more reality themed projects.

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<v Speaker 1>I never watch em That's what show do I watch?

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<v Speaker 1>That tunny?

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<v Speaker 2>You used to watch Kardashians.

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<v Speaker 1>I've never finished an episode of Kardashians.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, I actually.

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<v Speaker 1>Pride myself on that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm want to let this go.

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<v Speaker 1>You should, because you're gonna lose. Okay, Well, I back

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<v Speaker 1>to HBO Max, so I discover this show. It's it's

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<v Speaker 1>a reality show, but it's competition based, which I like

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<v Speaker 1>reality shows that have a the the competition factor because

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<v Speaker 1>it just adds something like the steaks are really high, like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my gosh, who's gonna win. So today we have

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<v Speaker 1>Nicole Rose, who was competing to be Bethany Frankel's vice president.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, don't tell me if she want or not, because

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<v Speaker 2>I want to ask her. But I assume she did

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<v Speaker 2>really well because she wouldn't be on our show.

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<v Speaker 1>She did do well, and I was actually shocked by that.

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<v Speaker 2>With your shock she did well?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because when you watch the show Bethany, Bethany has

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<v Speaker 1>a strong reaction to Nicole. And I'm telling you, Nicole

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<v Speaker 1>like she kept her shit together the entire time, and

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<v Speaker 1>she was very like her bounce back was great, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like she'd get in trouble and then she'd bounce back

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<v Speaker 1>real quick.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh really really?

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<v Speaker 1>She also made for great television, Oh she did. She did.

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<v Speaker 1>So for those of you who don't know what the

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<v Speaker 1>show is the big shot with Bethany and those of

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<v Speaker 1>you who aren't familiar with Nicole Rose. She started off

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<v Speaker 1>as a DJ. She's gonna go when we have her on,

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<v Speaker 1>go into like her background and how she came to

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<v Speaker 1>be you know Nicole Rose. But the show is basically

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<v Speaker 1>Bethany Frankel bringing in a bunch of people to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out who is the best fit to basically be her

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<v Speaker 1>right hand man or woman.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh I like that. That's a really cool idea.

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<v Speaker 1>Is It's a great idea. So that's our guest for today.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, do you know her at all before this?

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<v Speaker 1>No? I just watched the show and was like, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, you have to get her on the podcast

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<v Speaker 1>because I have to pick her brain. Oh I love

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<v Speaker 1>that all of it.

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<v Speaker 2>And she's like an entrepreneur, it seems, which is like

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<v Speaker 2>kind of the theme right now we're on you know,

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<v Speaker 2>badass entrepreneurs.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I think a lot of people in this day

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<v Speaker 1>and age are like, fuck this, I'm going to go

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<v Speaker 1>do something I love and why the hell not?

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<v Speaker 2>And also I think, you know, the pandemic has kind

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<v Speaker 2>of probably reignited a lot of people's flames to say, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>you know what if I was doing something I was

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<v Speaker 2>really miserable doing, maybe time is so short and limited,

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<v Speaker 2>and they've seen this by the world that we're in

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<v Speaker 2>right now, probably a lot of people are pivoting to

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<v Speaker 2>find their passion again. So now I'm not saying she,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm saying I bet a lot of people have had.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, like, there was a lot of downtime for

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<v Speaker 1>people to reflect.

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<v Speaker 2>Correct And I think and I think in reflection, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>really reflect. Even myself I was reflecting, but because we're

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<v Speaker 2>in such a dark time. But but I think that,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, I think a lot of people are probably

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<v Speaker 2>refinding their passion. I think that's exciting. You know, if

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<v Speaker 2>anything comes from this tragedy that we've been in was

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully you know, kindness and passion.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you kind of rEFInd yourself during the pandemic?

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<v Speaker 2>No, no, I just know where I am all the time. No, No,

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<v Speaker 2>I you know that I had already started on the

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<v Speaker 2>journey of directing before the pandemic. But I would say

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<v Speaker 2>that what the pandemic allowed me to have time quiet,

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<v Speaker 2>time to really kind of be like, I really don't

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<v Speaker 2>want to do anything I don't want to do and

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<v Speaker 2>because time is so limited and life is so delicate,

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<v Speaker 2>and I think that I'm really owning that now if

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<v Speaker 2>I want to take a half day off, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because I've been working for twenty five years hardcore seven

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<v Speaker 2>days a week, it's okay to come home a little

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<v Speaker 2>early and hang out and you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>and take some time and not feel all the ankst

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<v Speaker 2>and anxiety like I'm doing something wrong by not being

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<v Speaker 2>in the office for twelve hours a day. Right, So

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's kind of where I'm trying to get

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<v Speaker 2>time back, you know what I'm saying, And it's okay

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<v Speaker 2>to like take the foot off the throttle sometimes. So

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<v Speaker 2>I think that's what the pandemic allowed.

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<v Speaker 1>Me to tell I. Yeah, I think for I do agree,

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<v Speaker 1>because that's one of our biggest things, is that Randall

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<v Speaker 1>For those of you who don't know him personally, the

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<v Speaker 1>foot never comes off the gas. It is. We're moving,

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<v Speaker 1>We're going. We're doing twenty four to seven, which is

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<v Speaker 1>great because I'm the opposite. I'm my foot is on

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<v Speaker 1>the break or would like to be on the break.

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<v Speaker 1>You know.

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes the key isn't even the ignition.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's how I prefer it.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was.

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<v Speaker 2>As long as the cable bills pay, then you're happy.

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<v Speaker 1>As long as I have my Hulu subscription, I'm completely okay.

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<v Speaker 1>And for me, for you know, the pandemic and just

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<v Speaker 1>the quiet, I have a tendency to let the outside

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<v Speaker 1>noise get to me. So when I knew that the

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<v Speaker 1>world was shutting down and it's like this was before

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<v Speaker 1>zoom or anything like that, I kind of it allowed

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<v Speaker 1>me to really have the quiet.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, you know, you were also I think lucky because

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<v Speaker 2>you were pregnant in the pandemic, which you know is

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<v Speaker 2>even like, in my opinion, just allowed you to First

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<v Speaker 2>of all, there was nothing we could do.

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<v Speaker 1>No we were four months into the pandemic and I

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<v Speaker 1>was then we got the pregnant.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, So I'm saying it's like that was great because

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<v Speaker 2>the world was quiet, and you were quiet, and you

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<v Speaker 2>feel like kind of really comfortable, and you were nesting

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<v Speaker 2>to bring ocean into the world. So I think it

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<v Speaker 2>was like perfect timing, you know, for you. For me,

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<v Speaker 2>I just started directing a movie and changing careers, and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then you took on pickleball. You found a new passion.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I became a world champion of the fifty year

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<v Speaker 2>old division.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and during this pandemic, we were planning on going

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<v Speaker 1>on tour correct, it didn't happen. But now we are

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<v Speaker 1>excited to say we are back. Give Lala with Randall

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<v Speaker 1>is going on tour, yes, and I'm I'm super excited

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<v Speaker 1>about the toys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>So everybody go to what Laala go to give them

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<v Speaker 1>live dot com. We are kicking the tour off on

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<v Speaker 1>November thirtieth in Dallas, Texas. December one, Austin, December two,

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<v Speaker 1>Houston December third, New Orleans December fifth, Fort Lauderdale December sixth,

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<v Speaker 1>Clearwater December eighth, Orlando, and we are closing it out

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<v Speaker 1>on December ninth in Hotlanta.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, if she said Clearwater, like all

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<v Speaker 2>of you are supposed to know, that is in Florida,

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<v Speaker 2>just in case. But I do want to say some

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<v Speaker 2>of these cities, it's filling up pretty quick and we're

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<v Speaker 2>getting closed to capacity.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't realize how many people were going to be

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<v Speaker 1>into the VIP.

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<v Speaker 2>We sold out on two of those three of those cities.

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<v Speaker 2>I think already we opened up a few more seats.

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<v Speaker 2>So I'm just saying, everybody, buy your tickets. If you

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<v Speaker 2>really want to come, we want to see you. It's

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<v Speaker 2>going to be the most fun ever We're just gonna

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<v Speaker 2>go off. I'm gonna make Laala sit in the audience

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<v Speaker 2>the whole time, fuck with you all. She's not even

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<v Speaker 2>a lot on the stage. That's the show, guys. People

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<v Speaker 2>are gonna ask you what the show is. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>tell you right now, it's a secret. Lala will be

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<v Speaker 2>sitting in the audience watching rand talk over her the

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<v Speaker 2>whole time. That is the show. Thank you. And by

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<v Speaker 2>the way, as Lala says, you're.

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome, oh my gosh, that's so funny.

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<v Speaker 2>That's not really the show. Lala is gonna be running

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<v Speaker 2>the show. But anyway, My point is Lala wants to

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<v Speaker 2>make it super interactive and she's going to be really

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<v Speaker 2>fucking with you guys the whole time, and it's going

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<v Speaker 2>to be a lot of audience participation. We are going

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<v Speaker 2>to have a lot of special guests, and we're just excited.

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<v Speaker 2>We have Jax, we have Brittany, we have James Kennedy,

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<v Speaker 2>we have Raquel, we have Hannah from Bachelor.

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<v Speaker 1>Hannah Godwin.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, this is just gonna be a vice fucking

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<v Speaker 2>filled with action.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna give them Lala with Randall.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, and we're gonna give them Lala more than Randall.

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<v Speaker 2>So you guys get what you want and what you

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<v Speaker 2>paid for.

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<v Speaker 1>I have a feeling that people are very excited to

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<v Speaker 1>see you. So okay, that's what's up again. Go to

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<v Speaker 1>give them live dot com for your tickets. So before

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<v Speaker 1>we take a quick break, I have a couple of voicemails.

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys do not know, yes, we answer your voicemails,

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<v Speaker 1>so you can call us and ask us whatever you

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<v Speaker 1>want at one eight six six La La Pod.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so here's our first question.

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<v Speaker 3>Our first question is, hey, Lala and Randall.

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<v Speaker 4>It smartie from Orange Crowning.

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<v Speaker 3>Why do we not have any Lalla and Randall tour

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<v Speaker 3>ticket dates for Los Angeles or.

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<v Speaker 4>Orange County or San Diego anything you're missing out on

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<v Speaker 4>the Great West Coast.

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<v Speaker 3>Please please please add.

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<v Speaker 1>An extra stop.

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<v Speaker 3>I would absolutely love to go.

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<v Speaker 2>All my friends would go.

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<v Speaker 3>Please add an La stop on your tour.

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<v Speaker 4>You guys are amazing, Keep up.

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<v Speaker 3>The great work. Love your podcast and hope you all

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<v Speaker 3>are doing well.

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<v Speaker 1>Have a blessed day. I mean I feel like we

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<v Speaker 1>this is just like a tour to see if it's poppin'.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like this is our first coming out.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like the first leg of the tour, right is

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<v Speaker 1>that what they call it?

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<v Speaker 2>I think this are I think those are like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty one tour. And then the idea obviously is if

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<v Speaker 2>Lala wants to continue, which I know you will, they're

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<v Speaker 2>already talking about a twenty twenty two tour. So, Meredith,

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<v Speaker 2>just so you know, they're talking about a twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>two tour, which, of course we'll start in California. We're

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<v Speaker 2>talking about Vegas, We're talking about La Orange County, San Diego,

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<v Speaker 2>town Ta, Salt Lake City. People are asking about there

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<v Speaker 2>are so many places we would love to go and

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<v Speaker 2>hang out and have some fun. So plan on twenty

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<v Speaker 2>twenty two you seeing us in California, our home state.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean, we're lucky that we're even getting to

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<v Speaker 1>do the cities that we're doing because this was not happening, correct.

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<v Speaker 2>So the truth is is that because of the world

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<v Speaker 2>that we're living in, we're doing a shorter kind of

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<v Speaker 2>kick off twenty twenty one tour, and then twenty twenty

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<v Speaker 2>two would be the bigger, longer stretch, right.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, if you look, we stay in Texas, then

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<v Speaker 1>we venture out to New Orleans, and Florida and then

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<v Speaker 1>we hit Georgia.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah it's quick. It's literally four states.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, we we in it and then we out of it.

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<v Speaker 2>And by the way, Marath, we would love to get

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<v Speaker 2>in our car and drive down to San Diego in

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<v Speaker 2>Orange County and do that in three days and see

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<v Speaker 2>everybody from kind of the place that we live.

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<v Speaker 1>So yeah, but that's the hope. We will be in

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<v Speaker 1>all your city soon. All right, let's listen to the

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<v Speaker 1>next place.

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<v Speaker 4>Mail Tayla and rand Love Love Love the new podcast.

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<v Speaker 4>I have a question, what is going on with the

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<v Speaker 4>wedding planning. I know since the pandemic, thanks got put

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<v Speaker 4>on hold. Then you welcome to your beautiful little bundle

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<v Speaker 4>of joy Ocean, who is absolutely gorgeous. And I was

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<v Speaker 4>just wondering where you guys lived with the wedding planning.

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<v Speaker 4>If you have a new date set, bribe me if

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<v Speaker 4>you change that up at all since being on the

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<v Speaker 4>show and some of other previous cast members aren't on

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<v Speaker 4>the show, just curious as to how that's going. Love

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<v Speaker 4>you guys have a great one.

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<v Speaker 1>I love someone who takes advantage of the voicemail, who.

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<v Speaker 2>Really goes into the like like mean breaks it down.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like there's no limit on how many questions, but

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<v Speaker 1>ask us twenty in one voicemail, I don't give it. Damn.

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<v Speaker 2>That was a solid text. I could say that we

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<v Speaker 2>are still planning our wedding. We don't have a date

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<v Speaker 2>because we're in a pandemic and the pandemic is unfortunately

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<v Speaker 2>thriving again, so we have to wait till all that

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<v Speaker 2>settles down and the world is a safe place, and

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<v Speaker 2>then then we'll re begin that journey. But for now,

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<v Speaker 2>we are just loving ocean and being parents. I think

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<v Speaker 2>we're focused on being badass parents.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what I'm focused on. Yeah, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing locks you down quicker than a kid, you know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean this morning, this morning's activity was seeing if

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<v Speaker 2>ocean can reach the zebra. We put the zebra about

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<v Speaker 2>three inches in front of her and we're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>get her to crawl to it. So that's the focus

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<v Speaker 2>right now.

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<v Speaker 1>But she turned five months this week, so I think

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<v Speaker 1>she's like really killing it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think she's crushing and considering she's super small, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because she came out early.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh she's tiny, but.

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<v Speaker 2>But she's but she's ready. She's getting at it.

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<v Speaker 1>I think she's in the tenth percentile.

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<v Speaker 2>She's a little peanut.

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<v Speaker 1>She is a peanut to a baby peanut. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, I've in.

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<v Speaker 2>A real peanut. She's like half a peanut.

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<v Speaker 1>She's so cute. But I heard that they don't start

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<v Speaker 1>crawling until like seven months.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're only at five.

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<v Speaker 1>We're only at five.

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<v Speaker 2>She's trying, she's trying. She wants to.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, And I like to think when we decide to

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<v Speaker 1>get married, because it is, you know, a healthy environment.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't have to plan around a pandemic, and all

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<v Speaker 1>of our guests feel safe that she's going to be walking.

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<v Speaker 2>Ocean's going to be break dancing, I know. Can you

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<v Speaker 2>imagine her doing the worm down the aisle?

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<v Speaker 1>There was this woman rand I posted a video.

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<v Speaker 2>You just went right over it.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I can picture her doing her little, her little

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<v Speaker 1>bald head worming down. There was this woman and she

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<v Speaker 1>said in the comments section under my baby that you

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<v Speaker 1>and I will never experience blessings until we stop living

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<v Speaker 1>in sin and get married. She said that, Yeah, you

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<v Speaker 1>want to what I told her?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't want to know. I'm scared.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it was very very what nice?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you were nice? Yes to her.

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<v Speaker 1>I said to her, I said, Alice, I want you

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<v Speaker 1>to look at that Alice. Yes, oh boy, I said, Alice,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to look at that face. That is

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<v Speaker 1>nothing short of a blessing straight from my God. Your

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<v Speaker 1>God seems judgmental and his love seems conditional, so therefore

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<v Speaker 1>you can keep him. And what I have to say

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<v Speaker 1>to your comment is fuck that by Lalla skin. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I told her go by and give them laala skin.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you need to do. Don't worry about my blessing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at them right in front of me. You

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<v Speaker 1>don't need to worry about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you? Did you block her after you said that,

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<v Speaker 2>or you let her let because she won't see the comment.

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<v Speaker 1>If you blocked her, I didn't feel, honestly like it

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't like mean enough for me to block her.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you also told me back in the day that

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<v Speaker 2>you don't block anybody because thank you for following me.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, if they comment mean stuff and they're not following me,

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<v Speaker 1>then they're a troll and I block them. But if

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<v Speaker 1>they're mean to me and they follow me, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to lose a follower over a block. Like if

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<v Speaker 1>your day is so boring that you have to come

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<v Speaker 1>to my page to tell me that I don't have

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<v Speaker 1>any blessings when at my life.

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<v Speaker 2>But laala, these are miserable people.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what's sad? I mean, well, they don't even

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<v Speaker 1>realize that they're miserable.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, But why would you wake up go out

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<v Speaker 2>of your way to just write something so vicious? Like

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<v Speaker 2>do you now angry that person has to be at

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<v Speaker 2>their life? So I say, I used to get offended

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<v Speaker 2>two but.

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<v Speaker 1>Now well it's like, okay, so let me get this straight, Alice.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, here we go.

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<v Speaker 1>So, Alice, let me get this straight. God is upset

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<v Speaker 1>at me for creating a beautiful daughter with my fiance

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<v Speaker 1>who we weren't able to get married because of a pandemic.

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<v Speaker 1>But he's looking down on you, thinking, yes, write that,

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<v Speaker 1>I condone it. What the fuck are you smoking? Alice?

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<v Speaker 1>Put down the crack pipe?

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<v Speaker 2>All right? I think this episode is going to be

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<v Speaker 2>called Alice very good.

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<v Speaker 1>How how these people make sense out of their own

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<v Speaker 1>fucking fiction is crazy?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, you're on one boy, You are really

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<v Speaker 2>in it. You want to keep going.

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<v Speaker 1>I just think it's like how you could be like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what God doesn't condone this beautiful baby because

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<v Speaker 1>it was made out of sin, but he condones me

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<v Speaker 1>trolling her.

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<v Speaker 2>I think Alice, I think Alice is are you high?

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<v Speaker 2>I think Alice probably isn't happy hun and that's the realbum.

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<v Speaker 1>Alice needs to get laid.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, she needs.

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<v Speaker 1>To have a one night's stand and just like, come

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<v Speaker 1>off it already.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Alice, Alice, Lala has spoken. We're going to leave

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<v Speaker 2>it on that.

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<v Speaker 1>And with that, Alice, I hope you have a beautiful,

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<v Speaker 1>blessed day. Let's take a quick break and we will

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<v Speaker 1>be back with Nicole Rose. Hello, my love, it is

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<v Speaker 1>Lala Kent's with Rand and we are back. I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>excited we have Nicole Rose on the podcast today. Give

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<v Speaker 1>her a good clap and Nicole, what's up girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Hey girl, how are you?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so good. I have to tell you I binged

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<v Speaker 1>Bethany Frankel's show The Big Shot with Bethany. You give

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<v Speaker 1>me all the vibes. I'm telling you so honored. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like pretty addicted to the show.

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<v Speaker 3>I think it was good. I mean, once again, obviously

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<v Speaker 3>I am not impartial here, but I think it made

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<v Speaker 3>like Bethy and I kind of make some Riven and

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<v Speaker 3>TV together.

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<v Speaker 1>You made a great TV together, and you know that

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<v Speaker 1>that's what it is all about. So I know you

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot going on. Besides, you know just that

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<v Speaker 1>show you have a mentorship program. Was that something that

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<v Speaker 1>you had before you did Bethany's show?

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<v Speaker 3>So you know what's funny, it's I think you obviously

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<v Speaker 3>know this because you're like a quintessential entrepreneur, right, And

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<v Speaker 3>so I think when you when you start building your

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<v Speaker 3>own businesses and you leave corporate or whatever kind of

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<v Speaker 3>cush your situation that you're living in, you realize that

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<v Speaker 3>you need tools. Right, Like, shit gets real sometimes right there,

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<v Speaker 3>like bad days in entrepreneurship for television or entertainment, right.

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<v Speaker 2>Of course, and then there's break days.

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<v Speaker 3>But you need to be able to level yourself out

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<v Speaker 3>because that coworker that like saw the same clothes as

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<v Speaker 3>you is just not there because you're at your house

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<v Speaker 3>grinding by yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 3>So I started building this stuff like about seven years

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<v Speaker 3>ago now and then and also around the time when

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<v Speaker 3>I lost my father, I was like I need to

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<v Speaker 3>be regimented about my mindset and morning routines.

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<v Speaker 1>How long ago did you lose your dad.

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<v Speaker 3>So that was about six years ago.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, wow, okay, And does it still feel like it

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<v Speaker 1>was yesterday?

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<v Speaker 3>I that it always does, right. I think you went

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<v Speaker 3>through the loss of your father too.

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<v Speaker 1>Right, Yeah, what is it like three and a half years?

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<v Speaker 2>Three? I think you just didn't we just celebrate three years.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it'll be three and a half. Yeah, it

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<v Speaker 1>feels like yesterday. You still remember their their faces, what

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<v Speaker 1>they smelled like, their hugs.

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<v Speaker 2>Was you was your because I was there obviously through

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<v Speaker 2>her loss? Was your sudden or was it expected like

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<v Speaker 2>sickness like hers was obviously Scott of the Blue.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, So it's that that that's a different situation, right,

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<v Speaker 3>And I my heart goes out to you for that,

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<v Speaker 3>because I think that may be a little bit more

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<v Speaker 3>challenging for me. I'm not going to be like it

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<v Speaker 3>was easy. But I knew from the time that I

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<v Speaker 3>was eleven that he was battling cancer. I wrote cancer

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<v Speaker 3>and so but you know, like you really appreciate, like

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<v Speaker 3>I really appreciated the time that I had with him

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<v Speaker 3>because ever since I was a little kid, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know how much longer we would have, right,

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, it made me super invested in wanting

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<v Speaker 3>to go on trips with him, and you know, most

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<v Speaker 3>kids were like hang out with their friends, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, my dad wants to hang out with me.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, you guys, mom, like my dad's cool.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm doing that tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>Because I love that. You know, it's it's it's you

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<v Speaker 2>are right, And I'm somebody who's who's both my parents

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<v Speaker 2>still there in their set, And I'm very blessed because

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<v Speaker 2>I'm fifty. But you know, with her seeing friends of mine,

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<v Speaker 2>of a lot of my friends have lost their parents

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<v Speaker 2>in my age group now back in the day, and

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<v Speaker 2>I feel that I agree with you. It's never easy

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<v Speaker 2>watching anybody I know lose a parent, and I know

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna lose my parents and et cetera. But watching

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<v Speaker 2>her lose a parent suddenly, I think is catastrophic. And

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<v Speaker 2>it's catastrophic losing any parent. But like you said, you

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<v Speaker 2>knew subconsciously, maybe your maybe our brain, maybe our body

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<v Speaker 2>prepares us like I think I'm I don't want to

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<v Speaker 2>say I'm prepared because that's a horrible thing to say.

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<v Speaker 2>But I know my parents are in their seventies. Their

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<v Speaker 2>health isn't great. I know I'm gonna have to face that.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like one of these moments where I go,

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<v Speaker 2>I've had a great life with them. I know that

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<v Speaker 2>moment's coming, like in my head, it's gonna be hard.

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<v Speaker 2>She was twenty seven and it was a phone call,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, And so I agree with you that it

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<v Speaker 2>was like, yeah, I never want to say I can't

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<v Speaker 2>even tell you. And I felt like I lost a

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<v Speaker 2>parent because it's the closest thing. But you know, peeling

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<v Speaker 2>her off the floor for four months was you know.

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<v Speaker 2>So I appreciate what you say because you've lost a parent,

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<v Speaker 2>so you know, a heart that is. But yeah, watching

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<v Speaker 2>the sudden loss was was something I never wish on

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<v Speaker 2>anybody because.

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<v Speaker 3>So you know, what's weird, I actually like and there's

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<v Speaker 3>no beauty in any of this. But I love that

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<v Speaker 3>you said celebrate it, right, because it is like a

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<v Speaker 3>celebration of their lives. Like I try to, like drink

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<v Speaker 3>a bottle of dom for it. And I was going

0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:35.040
<v Speaker 3>off with them amism on the day of his passing, right,

0:22:35.119 --> 0:22:38.520
<v Speaker 3>celebrating him going into heaven, like he kept it classy,

0:22:38.600 --> 0:22:43.600
<v Speaker 3>so I try try to did the same. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>but like I think in the the suddenness of the

0:22:47.119 --> 0:22:49.600
<v Speaker 3>value in that is that you were kind of living

0:22:49.640 --> 0:22:52.400
<v Speaker 3>every day with them, hopefully getting to see them and

0:22:52.520 --> 0:22:55.440
<v Speaker 3>just enjoying that time. Where It's like I think I did,

0:22:55.520 --> 0:22:59.040
<v Speaker 3>like car carry around a lot of like anxiety about

0:22:59.040 --> 0:23:02.040
<v Speaker 3>his health ever since I was a young and like

0:23:02.240 --> 0:23:05.199
<v Speaker 3>that made me a total hypochondriac. My friends will tell

0:23:05.240 --> 0:23:08.520
<v Speaker 3>you they're like a new kit to test some random

0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:12.199
<v Speaker 3>thing about your health shows up every week. Wow, what

0:23:12.320 --> 0:23:13.000
<v Speaker 3>is this costing me?

0:23:17.680 --> 0:23:21.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm a hypochondriac period. I think I'm dying of everything

0:23:21.520 --> 0:23:23.640
<v Speaker 2>and I didn't even have to face the challenges you did.

0:23:24.080 --> 0:23:25.000
<v Speaker 2>So I feel you.

0:23:25.280 --> 0:23:28.760
<v Speaker 1>And I think with the passing of a parent or

0:23:28.840 --> 0:23:33.120
<v Speaker 1>anybody who who you just love unconditionally like you would

0:23:33.119 --> 0:23:37.000
<v Speaker 1>a parent, it makes you very sensitive to time. So

0:23:38.200 --> 0:23:40.080
<v Speaker 1>no matter what that means, you know, it's like this

0:23:40.240 --> 0:23:43.400
<v Speaker 1>life isn't waiting for anybody, so you have to take

0:23:43.440 --> 0:23:46.119
<v Speaker 1>every opportunity, whether it's spending time with your loved ones,

0:23:46.400 --> 0:23:49.199
<v Speaker 1>whether it's you know, creating a business. It's like this

0:23:49.359 --> 0:23:52.080
<v Speaker 1>life is moving. It doesn't care if you've lost someone,

0:23:52.160 --> 0:23:54.520
<v Speaker 1>if you love someone, if you hate someone. You keep

0:23:54.560 --> 0:23:55.920
<v Speaker 1>it moving, you know.

0:23:56.200 --> 0:23:59.439
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Yeah, And I think part of It's funny that

0:23:59.520 --> 0:24:02.240
<v Speaker 3>you say that, because I'm having this like download right

0:24:02.240 --> 0:24:05.359
<v Speaker 3>now to myself that like maybe that's part of where

0:24:05.359 --> 0:24:07.920
<v Speaker 3>that kind of hustle mindset. I hate using that word.

0:24:08.000 --> 0:24:10.640
<v Speaker 3>I think obviously it's a little frowned upon now and

0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:12.960
<v Speaker 3>we shouldn't be driving ourselves to burn out, right, But

0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:15.520
<v Speaker 3>I think that's where some of the fire under my

0:24:15.600 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 3>ass came from. You know, it's just.

0:24:19.480 --> 0:24:23.080
<v Speaker 1>I think, will you explaining how you were like, I'm

0:24:23.160 --> 0:24:25.480
<v Speaker 1>going to spend this time with my dad because there's

0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:27.720
<v Speaker 1>no guarantee that he's going to be here tomorrow. You

0:24:27.840 --> 0:24:31.280
<v Speaker 1>learn that there are no guarantees in this life, and

0:24:31.440 --> 0:24:33.399
<v Speaker 1>no one's going to make things happen for you. So

0:24:34.119 --> 0:24:40.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm wondering to shift gears into a happier, happier.

0:24:40.400 --> 0:24:42.560
<v Speaker 2>A little lighter Monday. Yeah, we wed.

0:24:43.160 --> 0:24:47.360
<v Speaker 3>We people are like clicking this out.

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<v Speaker 1>So how how did you land a spot on Bethany's show?

0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:58.640
<v Speaker 3>So that's actually a funny story and I've barely had

0:24:58.640 --> 0:25:02.040
<v Speaker 3>the chance to kind of like tell kind of how

0:25:02.080 --> 0:25:05.680
<v Speaker 3>this all got set into motion, but I I saw

0:25:05.760 --> 0:25:07.399
<v Speaker 3>her in my I'm a little bit older than you.

0:25:07.400 --> 0:25:09.800
<v Speaker 3>I got a couple of years on you, not too much, but.

0:25:12.320 --> 0:25:23.440
<v Speaker 5>Not ondcast, and so I kind of I started watching

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:25.400
<v Speaker 5>her when she was really a couple of years into

0:25:25.440 --> 0:25:26.240
<v Speaker 5>the Real Housewives.

0:25:26.240 --> 0:25:28.960
<v Speaker 3>She got like Bethany ever after write her own show,

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:32.320
<v Speaker 3>and she was building things. She started building Skinny Girl.

0:25:32.359 --> 0:25:35.840
<v Speaker 3>Margarita and I come from a very traditional household. My

0:25:35.920 --> 0:25:40.560
<v Speaker 3>mom's family was Italian immigrants. Both my parents are doctors.

0:25:40.840 --> 0:25:43.200
<v Speaker 3>My sister is a is a surgeon. Right, so it's

0:25:43.280 --> 0:25:47.040
<v Speaker 3>like very traditional, like this is the way life is

0:25:47.080 --> 0:25:50.639
<v Speaker 3>and that's what we do. Kind of mindset in our household.

0:25:50.800 --> 0:25:54.640
<v Speaker 3>And when I saw Bethany just taking off building her

0:25:54.640 --> 0:25:57.560
<v Speaker 3>own thing, it was really like pre Instagram era too, right,

0:25:57.640 --> 0:26:00.000
<v Speaker 3>So there weren't really there were bloggers, but there weren't

0:26:00.119 --> 0:26:02.840
<v Speaker 3>so much quote unquote influencers, although I don't really use

0:26:02.840 --> 0:26:06.800
<v Speaker 3>that term either, but but she was one of a

0:26:06.880 --> 0:26:10.840
<v Speaker 3>kind and I was so impressed, and I thought maybe

0:26:10.880 --> 0:26:13.239
<v Speaker 3>I could take what I was doing with DJing and

0:26:13.520 --> 0:26:16.200
<v Speaker 3>model it, you know, modeled parts of my career after

0:26:16.280 --> 0:26:18.320
<v Speaker 3>kind of what she did at TV wasn't like my

0:26:18.440 --> 0:26:22.000
<v Speaker 3>number one priority, but I was like, if opportunities come,

0:26:22.440 --> 0:26:25.119
<v Speaker 3>I should at least suss them out right and see

0:26:25.440 --> 0:26:28.200
<v Speaker 3>what might be the right fit. I was very specific

0:26:28.240 --> 0:26:31.680
<v Speaker 3>about being on brand that as I'm sure I'm sure

0:26:31.720 --> 0:26:34.040
<v Speaker 3>you've had that exchange with yourself too, and I'm sure

0:26:34.080 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 3>lots of people have contacted you about tons of things

0:26:36.640 --> 0:26:38.320
<v Speaker 3>that are right or not right.

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Right, but totally let me, let me, let me, let

0:26:41.359 --> 0:26:44.040
<v Speaker 2>me aska, wait, let me ask question what wait? I

0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:45.800
<v Speaker 2>just want to jump because I want to go backwards

0:26:45.840 --> 0:26:49.000
<v Speaker 2>before we get all so, just so somebody like me

0:26:49.119 --> 0:26:51.879
<v Speaker 2>who doesn't like the audience of people who are not

0:26:51.960 --> 0:26:54.920
<v Speaker 2>as hip as you two, let's go back a second.

0:26:55.160 --> 0:26:57.679
<v Speaker 2>So you're from the Midwest, born and raised, and you

0:26:57.760 --> 0:27:01.439
<v Speaker 2>started DJing out in the Midwest, and and and then

0:27:02.000 --> 0:27:03.960
<v Speaker 2>you got onto the show just to give me like

0:27:04.000 --> 0:27:05.920
<v Speaker 2>the cliff note version of house.

0:27:06.000 --> 0:27:09.880
<v Speaker 3>So cliff yeah, cliff notes cliff notes of how DJ

0:27:10.040 --> 0:27:13.800
<v Speaker 3>Rose was born, right, So, because she's like a whole

0:27:13.800 --> 0:27:17.920
<v Speaker 3>different right, this is very casual in Nicole, she's very chill.

0:27:18.760 --> 0:27:23.239
<v Speaker 3>But DJ Rose is like me on adderall right, But

0:27:23.359 --> 0:27:28.040
<v Speaker 3>I mean I don't take that on meeting, no she

0:27:28.359 --> 0:27:32.040
<v Speaker 3>for anybody that does. But yeah, So, so I was

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:34.359
<v Speaker 3>I went to I grew up in Saint Louis. I

0:27:34.400 --> 0:27:36.520
<v Speaker 3>knew that I was just not like a small town

0:27:36.600 --> 0:27:38.159
<v Speaker 3>verse because I just I you can tell when you

0:27:38.240 --> 0:27:39.800
<v Speaker 3>like fit in and don't. And I had my own

0:27:39.840 --> 0:27:42.720
<v Speaker 3>crew and whatever. But I was like, I'm a little

0:27:42.760 --> 0:27:46.240
<v Speaker 3>weird for like this conservative small town vine, so probably

0:27:46.240 --> 0:27:48.280
<v Speaker 3>going to need to spread my wings at some point.

0:27:48.560 --> 0:27:51.640
<v Speaker 3>I went to Emory University in Atlanta. It was very

0:27:51.680 --> 0:27:54.000
<v Speaker 3>New Yorky my goal. I knew as a twelve year

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:55.600
<v Speaker 3>old that I wanted to be in New York. I

0:27:55.600 --> 0:27:58.320
<v Speaker 3>didn't really know why. I just had this vision ever

0:27:58.359 --> 0:28:00.879
<v Speaker 3>since my mom took me for my twelfth birthday. We

0:28:00.920 --> 0:28:03.240
<v Speaker 3>did like the Eloise thing and stayed at the Waldorf

0:28:03.280 --> 0:28:05.320
<v Speaker 3>and like did tea at the Plaza, like we did

0:28:05.560 --> 0:28:09.560
<v Speaker 3>all of like the New York things. Yeah, and like

0:28:09.600 --> 0:28:11.840
<v Speaker 3>I knew that I wanted to be there. I first

0:28:11.840 --> 0:28:14.679
<v Speaker 3>worked in social media and digital marketing for agencies for

0:28:14.720 --> 0:28:17.000
<v Speaker 3>like four and a half years. I'm like publishing a

0:28:17.040 --> 0:28:20.480
<v Speaker 3>couple of marketing books like that was the beginning of

0:28:20.480 --> 0:28:21.879
<v Speaker 3>my career. And then I was like, you know what,

0:28:21.920 --> 0:28:25.159
<v Speaker 3>I have a skill. I can sell it. I'm making

0:28:25.200 --> 0:28:27.320
<v Speaker 3>decent money selling this. It's going to take me a

0:28:27.359 --> 0:28:29.400
<v Speaker 3>year or two to build back up to my salary,

0:28:29.560 --> 0:28:32.080
<v Speaker 3>but look it, why don't I do it now, right,

0:28:32.160 --> 0:28:34.000
<v Speaker 3>I'm not gonna do this when I'm thirty and trying

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:34.880
<v Speaker 3>to maybe.

0:28:34.880 --> 0:28:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Right, totally, I get it. I do get it.

0:28:40.160 --> 0:28:42.880
<v Speaker 3>Why. I mean, seriously, hats off to you. I don't

0:28:42.880 --> 0:28:44.680
<v Speaker 3>know how you do all the millions of things that

0:28:44.720 --> 0:28:47.600
<v Speaker 3>you do. It's incredibly I think you just.

0:28:47.560 --> 0:28:49.440
<v Speaker 1>Look at life like it's a hurdle race and if

0:28:49.480 --> 0:28:51.120
<v Speaker 1>you look up, you're going to fall on one of

0:28:51.120 --> 0:28:52.960
<v Speaker 1>the hurdles. So you just keep your head down. My

0:28:53.040 --> 0:28:55.000
<v Speaker 1>mom always told me that. And I can't look at

0:28:55.000 --> 0:28:57.920
<v Speaker 1>what other people are doing because then it takes me

0:28:58.000 --> 0:28:59.800
<v Speaker 1>out of what I need to get done and makes

0:28:59.800 --> 0:29:04.440
<v Speaker 1>me beat myself up for not doing enough. And who knows,

0:29:04.480 --> 0:29:06.880
<v Speaker 1>I could be doing plenty, but social media makes me

0:29:06.920 --> 0:29:09.200
<v Speaker 1>think that everyone else is doing one hundred times better

0:29:09.200 --> 0:29:12.200
<v Speaker 1>than I am, you know which real mindful?

0:29:12.280 --> 0:29:14.760
<v Speaker 2>Right? Okay, So now so now you go from the

0:29:14.760 --> 0:29:19.400
<v Speaker 2>social media thing working in four years to get to Yeah.

0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.000
<v Speaker 3>So I'm I'm djang And like I said, I kind

0:29:22.040 --> 0:29:24.000
<v Speaker 3>of I had this vision of Bethany. I was like, oh,

0:29:24.040 --> 0:29:26.240
<v Speaker 3>I'm just gonna she's like my role model, right, and

0:29:26.240 --> 0:29:28.880
<v Speaker 3>didn't nowhere at the time, but I was like, if, like,

0:29:28.960 --> 0:29:30.920
<v Speaker 3>if I could be anybody when I grow up, I'd

0:29:30.920 --> 0:29:33.600
<v Speaker 3>be her met like certain parts of her. I'd manufacture

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 3>my my best version. No, but she's great. But so

0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:38.880
<v Speaker 3>I was like, I would this is what I would

0:29:38.880 --> 0:29:42.440
<v Speaker 3>model my career like. And you know, I started djaying

0:29:42.440 --> 0:29:45.560
<v Speaker 3>and growing that business, and you know, over time started

0:29:45.560 --> 0:29:50.560
<v Speaker 3>building just kind of an organic following over email and Instagram, right,

0:29:50.840 --> 0:29:53.920
<v Speaker 3>and you know we still use both obviously very much.

0:29:53.960 --> 0:29:57.040
<v Speaker 3>And so that you know, they've eventually found me on

0:29:57.120 --> 0:29:59.520
<v Speaker 3>Instagram randomly reached out to me, and I was like

0:29:59.720 --> 0:30:02.920
<v Speaker 3>this crazy, like, if that's not manifestation, I don't know.

0:30:03.040 --> 0:30:07.400
<v Speaker 1>Wow, oh I still believe in Yeah, her idea, I.

0:30:07.400 --> 0:30:09.080
<v Speaker 3>Mean eight years late. I mean it was like it

0:30:09.120 --> 0:30:11.720
<v Speaker 3>was a while later. But I mean if she would

0:30:11.760 --> 0:30:13.680
<v Speaker 3>have found me when I was first building, I don't

0:30:13.720 --> 0:30:15.560
<v Speaker 3>I don't think I would have been qualified to No.

0:30:17.080 --> 0:30:20.960
<v Speaker 1>Timing is a real bitch, you know, because it's everything.

0:30:21.200 --> 0:30:23.240
<v Speaker 1>So even though it was eight and you know, there's

0:30:23.280 --> 0:30:27.320
<v Speaker 1>no like Manifestation doesn't say if you manifest for two

0:30:27.360 --> 0:30:29.520
<v Speaker 1>and a half years on the dot, that's when it

0:30:29.600 --> 0:30:32.360
<v Speaker 1>comes true. You know, it's like who knows how long

0:30:32.400 --> 0:30:35.560
<v Speaker 1>you have to do it for? Okay, so they approach you,

0:30:35.560 --> 0:30:37.360
<v Speaker 1>you feel like it's the And by the way, the

0:30:37.440 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 1>second day that you step on I mean making the shots,

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:42.400
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you and I would have had a

0:30:42.440 --> 0:30:44.280
<v Speaker 1>real fucking heyday back in the day. I'll tell you what.

0:30:44.800 --> 0:30:47.880
<v Speaker 1>She steps on and she steps onto the scene of

0:30:48.360 --> 0:30:51.480
<v Speaker 1>the Big Shot with Bethany, right, and she's just making

0:30:51.520 --> 0:30:53.120
<v Speaker 1>shots at the bar that they have set up.

0:30:53.280 --> 0:30:54.920
<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, that's my specialty shots.

0:30:55.440 --> 0:30:56.320
<v Speaker 1>You were killing it.

0:30:56.400 --> 0:31:00.200
<v Speaker 2>I'm the shots specials. My partner doesn't drink anymore, but

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:02.240
<v Speaker 2>she drank enough for all of us for decades and

0:31:02.280 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 2>decades and decades. I did so she so she And

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.280
<v Speaker 2>by the way, when I met her that we laugh

0:31:08.320 --> 0:31:10.320
<v Speaker 2>about it today. It wasn't funny then, but we laugh

0:31:10.320 --> 0:31:13.400
<v Speaker 2>about it today. I used to be like and she's like, oh, yeah,

0:31:13.440 --> 0:31:15.160
<v Speaker 2>I can drink. And I was like, okay, light wait,

0:31:15.360 --> 0:31:17.880
<v Speaker 2>like sure, And then at two in the morning, I'd

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:20.560
<v Speaker 2>be like, we're going home. It's like, no, we're fucking not.

0:31:21.040 --> 0:31:23.720
<v Speaker 2>Look at the fucking drink. It's not empty, and why

0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.720
<v Speaker 2>would you waste a perfectly good fucking drink. I was like, Okay,

0:31:26.760 --> 0:31:29.720
<v Speaker 2>I surrender, I surrender. Can we go home now? Yeah?

0:31:29.800 --> 0:31:32.360
<v Speaker 2>She'd like, no, no, bar still open. We're gonna stay

0:31:32.400 --> 0:31:36.200
<v Speaker 2>till three. No, she is, she was professional professional.

0:31:36.120 --> 0:31:39.680
<v Speaker 1>So what was what was that moment like when you

0:31:39.720 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>had no idea what was going on?

0:31:41.240 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 3>Right?

0:31:41.400 --> 0:31:43.360
<v Speaker 1>You like showed up, thought you were gonna have cocktail

0:31:43.400 --> 0:31:45.200
<v Speaker 1>hour and like work starts tomorrow.

0:31:46.080 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 3>I thought I was at a party for sure, Like

0:31:47.840 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 3>that's a a joke, Like they were really like jokes

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:52.400
<v Speaker 3>on you, bitch, because this chip's about to get real.

0:31:52.960 --> 0:31:54.880
<v Speaker 3>But I was, you know, I don't regret anymore.

0:31:54.960 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 2>And wait, wait, just like, were you doing.

0:31:56.560 --> 0:31:58.320
<v Speaker 3>Shots my best life for a few minutes?

0:31:58.600 --> 0:32:00.840
<v Speaker 2>Were they doing shots and they had to start working

0:32:00.840 --> 0:32:01.520
<v Speaker 2>that night or something?

0:32:01.880 --> 0:32:05.000
<v Speaker 1>Basically, let me set it up Nicole for Rand basically.

0:32:04.680 --> 0:32:06.240
<v Speaker 2>For the rest of us.

0:32:06.240 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>Okay, if you haven't seen the Big Shot with Bethany,

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:15.160
<v Speaker 1>you're missing out on everything. It's on HBO Max. So

0:32:15.200 --> 0:32:18.120
<v Speaker 1>the setup is they have like a cocktail party, right, okay,

0:32:18.360 --> 0:32:22.400
<v Speaker 1>first day, the first day, first night, they all lost.

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:26.200
<v Speaker 1>Nicole rolls up Meloxi like all the people that are

0:32:26.800 --> 0:32:29.880
<v Speaker 1>being put out like this, this position could be yours.

0:32:30.600 --> 0:32:32.760
<v Speaker 2>Oh so they're competing for the spot to work for.

0:32:32.680 --> 0:32:37.840
<v Speaker 1>Bethany vice president. Correct, Okay, but what they don't know

0:32:38.000 --> 0:32:40.840
<v Speaker 1>is that Bethany is watching them out the window and

0:32:40.920 --> 0:32:43.240
<v Speaker 1>she's like what each person is doing, and they have

0:32:43.320 --> 0:32:45.560
<v Speaker 1>no idea that she's going to come out at some point.

0:32:46.080 --> 0:32:48.720
<v Speaker 1>She also has her team out there pretending like they're

0:32:48.760 --> 0:32:56.400
<v Speaker 1>up for the position a lot. Yes, yes, come.

0:32:56.280 --> 0:32:59.520
<v Speaker 3>On, I'm just I'm making fun of one of the dudes.

0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:02.800
<v Speaker 3>Oh what, I meant it in a loving way.

0:33:03.600 --> 0:33:05.560
<v Speaker 2>And how many shots in?

0:33:06.040 --> 0:33:08.040
<v Speaker 1>But you can tell that you're not mean, you can

0:33:08.040 --> 0:33:09.840
<v Speaker 1>tell you kind of poke fun.

0:33:09.920 --> 0:33:13.120
<v Speaker 2>Hold on, how many shots in are you before you

0:33:13.280 --> 0:33:16.520
<v Speaker 2>realize that Bethany is that we're that this is happening.

0:33:16.560 --> 0:33:17.160
<v Speaker 2>How many shots?

0:33:17.360 --> 0:33:20.560
<v Speaker 3>I only took like one or two out and I

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:23.320
<v Speaker 3>was making them for But my point was too, let's

0:33:23.360 --> 0:33:25.960
<v Speaker 3>like get everybody a little sauce. I can learn stuff

0:33:26.000 --> 0:33:28.200
<v Speaker 3>about it, and like I had a file where I

0:33:28.400 --> 0:33:30.840
<v Speaker 3>write things down that I needed to know about people

0:33:30.920 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 3>in case for a rainy day. I mean, I don't know,

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:35.680
<v Speaker 3>I've never done this ship before. I don't know all

0:33:35.720 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 3>these people. Some of them didn't necessarily have the best intentions.

0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:41.800
<v Speaker 1>Wait, you mean you mean every day you're not going

0:33:41.840 --> 0:33:44.440
<v Speaker 1>up against other people put on camera for a position

0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:45.640
<v Speaker 1>that's not your everyday life.

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<v Speaker 2>I have a question one who won this.

0:33:49.600 --> 0:33:49.760
<v Speaker 5>One?

0:33:50.800 --> 0:33:51.320
<v Speaker 2>Is she nice?

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:54.680
<v Speaker 3>Do you like Biloxi is an incredible human being? We're

0:33:54.680 --> 0:33:56.520
<v Speaker 3>still best friends. We do every day.

0:33:56.680 --> 0:33:57.520
<v Speaker 2>Oh that's cool.

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:01.640
<v Speaker 1>Does she still work with Bethany in that position? I

0:34:01.720 --> 0:34:03.280
<v Speaker 1>tried to instagram stuff?

0:34:03.400 --> 0:34:07.120
<v Speaker 3>I mean, to my to my knowledge, yes, but I'm

0:34:07.160 --> 0:34:10.680
<v Speaker 3>not like super briefed on what's going on in deathany lands.

0:34:10.880 --> 0:34:12.880
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I don't know.

0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:15.160
<v Speaker 3>I just I do occasionally DM something.

0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:18.120
<v Speaker 2>How long was how long was the whole show filming?

0:34:18.120 --> 0:34:19.839
<v Speaker 2>How many weeks were you? Did you do this?

0:34:21.320 --> 0:34:21.440
<v Speaker 5>So?

0:34:21.840 --> 0:34:24.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I think it ended up being about like eight.

0:34:25.160 --> 0:34:29.279
<v Speaker 3>But it's a little hazy, likes we're just quarantining right

0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:32.839
<v Speaker 3>and right film. The pandemic makes things tough. I'm sure

0:34:32.880 --> 0:34:33.080
<v Speaker 3>you know.

0:34:33.200 --> 0:34:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, oh yeah, No, it's it's like the sad

0:34:36.600 --> 0:34:38.319
<v Speaker 1>thing is is you become used to it. You're like,

0:34:38.400 --> 0:34:41.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't even remember a life that we didn't have

0:34:41.239 --> 0:34:44.520
<v Speaker 1>to get tested and quarantine and not see anybody. I

0:34:44.560 --> 0:34:48.680
<v Speaker 1>really don't remember without that. Okay, So you see Bethany,

0:34:48.760 --> 0:34:51.920
<v Speaker 1>she comes down and she tells you Elimination Round is happening.

0:34:53.040 --> 0:34:57.560
<v Speaker 1>Day fucking won thisbody? I think they sent like four

0:34:57.640 --> 0:34:58.160
<v Speaker 1>people home.

0:34:58.520 --> 0:35:00.279
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it's like four or five. It's like half of

0:35:00.320 --> 0:35:04.319
<v Speaker 3>the crew just immediately got the axe, and I was

0:35:04.520 --> 0:35:06.279
<v Speaker 3>certain that her team was going to tell her I

0:35:06.360 --> 0:35:08.520
<v Speaker 3>was a total jerk off, and they I mean, and

0:35:08.560 --> 0:35:11.560
<v Speaker 3>one of the guys did, right, yow get rid of

0:35:11.760 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 3>Nicole because I called him little Cory, but there was

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:16.840
<v Speaker 3>a tall Cory and in short Corey. I was just

0:35:16.880 --> 0:35:18.760
<v Speaker 3>trying to like, remember everybody.

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:23.280
<v Speaker 1>Like little La La and big Lalla.

0:35:23.800 --> 0:35:24.319
<v Speaker 3>I love god.

0:35:24.360 --> 0:35:25.680
<v Speaker 1>I thought it was cute. I didn't think you were

0:35:25.680 --> 0:35:28.160
<v Speaker 1>poking fun at all. There were two Corey's. Whatever, this

0:35:28.239 --> 0:35:29.080
<v Speaker 1>is how we're gonna.

0:35:28.880 --> 0:35:32.279
<v Speaker 2>That's I don't think that warrants elimination. That's a little extreme.

0:35:32.360 --> 0:35:35.959
<v Speaker 1>She didn't get a liliminate. You fucking rocked it until

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:36.719
<v Speaker 1>the wills fell off.

0:35:36.800 --> 0:35:40.520
<v Speaker 2>Wait, you stayed till when the last two last.

0:35:40.600 --> 0:35:43.920
<v Speaker 3>I was top four. There was only one episode that

0:35:43.960 --> 0:35:45.839
<v Speaker 3>I wasn't in. It was it's like, there's not really

0:35:45.880 --> 0:35:49.160
<v Speaker 3>a structure to how she eliminated people. But I was

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:51.680
<v Speaker 3>in the first I guess like six or seven.

0:35:51.719 --> 0:35:54.520
<v Speaker 2>I forget how much that's great though, that's great. It

0:35:54.680 --> 0:35:56.560
<v Speaker 2>is okay, So.

0:35:56.320 --> 0:35:57.880
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, it was definitely fine, and I got to know

0:35:57.960 --> 0:35:59.960
<v Speaker 3>her more, right, Like at first, I think that's anything,

0:36:00.040 --> 0:36:04.239
<v Speaker 3>and I was just like totally crazy, right, but she

0:36:04.320 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 3>knew it was a work event, but I thought I

0:36:06.280 --> 0:36:11.879
<v Speaker 3>was at it getting to know you party right, thinks what.

0:36:11.880 --> 0:36:14.320
<v Speaker 1>A great idea about it when you when you watched

0:36:14.400 --> 0:36:17.200
<v Speaker 1>the show back, what are you most mortified of?

0:36:19.200 --> 0:36:21.759
<v Speaker 3>I mean, like definitely, And when you're saying it back

0:36:21.800 --> 0:36:23.680
<v Speaker 3>to me, I'm like, you're right, this isn't a big deal.

0:36:23.719 --> 0:36:27.839
<v Speaker 3>But when I watched like episodes one and some of two,

0:36:28.560 --> 0:36:30.600
<v Speaker 3>at first, I was just like, oh my god, like

0:36:31.600 --> 0:36:34.040
<v Speaker 3>like just I mean I literally think they sped my

0:36:34.200 --> 0:36:36.960
<v Speaker 3>voice up, like you are talking to me now, right,

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:40.520
<v Speaker 3>But it was like I was like, like the energizer, Bunny.

0:36:40.200 --> 0:36:42.680
<v Speaker 1>You're very different. You're very different now than what I

0:36:42.760 --> 0:36:43.520
<v Speaker 1>see on the show.

0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:46.439
<v Speaker 3>Really, Oh yeah, I mean I think some of it's

0:36:46.480 --> 0:36:48.520
<v Speaker 3>the edit, right, And it's like also, I was like

0:36:48.600 --> 0:36:51.279
<v Speaker 3>definitely a little bit nervous at first too, like I'm

0:36:51.280 --> 0:36:54.759
<v Speaker 3>sure you remember like your first day ever on sat

0:36:54.800 --> 0:36:55.520
<v Speaker 3>at Vander.

0:36:56.040 --> 0:36:58.879
<v Speaker 1>Right, and I wish I was as cool back then,

0:36:59.120 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 1>Like I wish I was as cool now as I

0:37:00.840 --> 0:37:03.280
<v Speaker 1>was back then, actually, But I said very.

0:37:03.480 --> 0:37:05.720
<v Speaker 3>A little nervous too, right, nervous.

0:37:05.840 --> 0:37:08.040
<v Speaker 1>I was nervous, but I was also so chill and

0:37:08.160 --> 0:37:11.240
<v Speaker 1>were drinking. I was drinking and smoking a lot of weeds.

0:37:11.239 --> 0:37:14.440
<v Speaker 1>So I was like, she was, yeah, she was pay.

0:37:14.239 --> 0:37:16.400
<v Speaker 2>Most of the time. Wait, but I will but I

0:37:16.440 --> 0:37:18.640
<v Speaker 2>find a funny story, Nicole. I will tell you. When

0:37:18.680 --> 0:37:21.040
<v Speaker 2>she got sober and she came back for her first

0:37:21.040 --> 0:37:24.600
<v Speaker 2>season of Vanderpump, she was petrified because you didn't know

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:26.799
<v Speaker 2>if you would be yourself. You kept asking, are they

0:37:26.880 --> 0:37:28.879
<v Speaker 2>am I going to still be the Lalla? And I said,

0:37:28.880 --> 0:37:32.840
<v Speaker 2>You're better than the old Laala because you're ten times quicker.

0:37:33.080 --> 0:37:35.600
<v Speaker 2>You're ten times more vicious when people are mean to

0:37:35.640 --> 0:37:38.680
<v Speaker 2>you now because you're aware, but you're You're sweeter than

0:37:38.719 --> 0:37:41.359
<v Speaker 2>you ever were and more vulnerable. So I said, this

0:37:41.400 --> 0:37:43.960
<v Speaker 2>is like the well rounded Laala. Like. So, she was

0:37:44.000 --> 0:37:46.400
<v Speaker 2>nervous when she got sober, but you weren't nervous in

0:37:46.440 --> 0:37:47.840
<v Speaker 2>the beginning the first season.

0:37:48.320 --> 0:37:50.200
<v Speaker 1>No, I was twenty three. I was like, this is

0:37:50.239 --> 0:37:52.080
<v Speaker 1>what I'm supposed to do. I'm supposed to be drunk

0:37:52.120 --> 0:37:56.600
<v Speaker 1>all day. You know, what is anybody else? Like? In

0:37:56.640 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 1>my mind, I was like, I'm twenty three, I'm drunk

0:37:59.560 --> 0:38:02.600
<v Speaker 1>every day, and hi, and I'm on a fucking television show.

0:38:02.920 --> 0:38:04.839
<v Speaker 1>If I'm not winning the game, then I don't know

0:38:04.880 --> 0:38:06.560
<v Speaker 1>what winning the game is, you know.

0:38:07.600 --> 0:38:11.439
<v Speaker 3>I mean very fair equation. Completely. I felt that way DJ,

0:38:11.520 --> 0:38:13.880
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, I was like whatever. When I

0:38:13.920 --> 0:38:16.480
<v Speaker 3>really left in DJ full time, like twenty six, I

0:38:16.520 --> 0:38:19.800
<v Speaker 3>had the greatest crew of like down ass chicks in

0:38:19.880 --> 0:38:22.480
<v Speaker 3>New York City. There are always like dressed to the knives,

0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:25.520
<v Speaker 3>but like, we're real friends, right. They weren't flaky pieces

0:38:25.520 --> 0:38:28.160
<v Speaker 3>of shit. They showed up, they came through every event.

0:38:28.480 --> 0:38:31.319
<v Speaker 3>They brought the fun vibes, you know. And and I

0:38:31.360 --> 0:38:33.200
<v Speaker 3>was just I didn't have to do anything. People just

0:38:33.239 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 3>called me and were.

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:36.600
<v Speaker 1>Like, we want you to DJ, and you're gonna You're

0:38:36.640 --> 0:38:39.319
<v Speaker 1>getting paid to party. So it's like the best of

0:38:39.440 --> 0:38:40.719
<v Speaker 1>both the worlds we got.

0:38:40.760 --> 0:38:42.239
<v Speaker 2>We got to take a break. We have to break

0:38:42.520 --> 0:38:43.879
<v Speaker 2>because I want to. I want to keep talking about

0:38:43.880 --> 0:38:45.840
<v Speaker 2>the DJ, but with take a quick.

0:38:45.600 --> 0:38:47.799
<v Speaker 1>Break, I'm like, I love having you as a guest.

0:38:47.840 --> 0:38:50.279
<v Speaker 1>I just want to pick your brain for five hours. Yes,

0:38:50.360 --> 0:38:55.799
<v Speaker 1>you can take a break, We'll be right back and

0:38:56.040 --> 0:38:59.200
<v Speaker 1>we're back. So I want to say this being a

0:38:59.239 --> 0:39:02.919
<v Speaker 1>part you're you being on that show is much more

0:39:02.920 --> 0:39:05.000
<v Speaker 1>difficult than what I have to do every day, because

0:39:05.239 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 1>number one, you're being filmed, so you want it to

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:11.000
<v Speaker 1>be entertaining, but you're also up for a real life job,

0:39:11.080 --> 0:39:13.759
<v Speaker 1>so you can't act a damn fool because you could

0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:16.399
<v Speaker 1>go home. But if you act a damn fool, people

0:39:16.440 --> 0:39:18.960
<v Speaker 1>are gonna keep watching the show. It's like such a

0:39:19.040 --> 0:39:20.239
<v Speaker 1>mind fuck, you know.

0:39:20.920 --> 0:39:24.080
<v Speaker 3>Thank you? Yes, I hope everybody is hearing that right now,

0:39:24.239 --> 0:39:27.000
<v Speaker 3>because there were points where I was on that show

0:39:27.040 --> 0:39:30.200
<v Speaker 3>and I was like, Okay, sorry, what show are we on?

0:39:30.920 --> 0:39:32.680
<v Speaker 3>Can I have some show notes? Like is there anything

0:39:32.840 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 3>like are we on The Apprentice? Or are we on

0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:38.480
<v Speaker 3>the Red Housewives? Or like ren percentage of both? Am

0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:41.240
<v Speaker 3>I supposed to be giving here? Like it's very unclear

0:39:41.800 --> 0:39:42.480
<v Speaker 3>what is going on?

0:39:42.760 --> 0:39:42.960
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

0:39:43.040 --> 0:39:46.600
<v Speaker 1>No, I would feel the same way like competition reality shows,

0:39:46.719 --> 0:39:50.880
<v Speaker 1>especially one where it's your job is a job is

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:54.759
<v Speaker 1>at stake? You know, the it's it's very confusing. But

0:39:55.680 --> 0:39:58.800
<v Speaker 1>the time that you were on the photo shoot, do

0:39:58.840 --> 0:40:01.680
<v Speaker 1>you remember you were doing the sho shape where and

0:40:01.719 --> 0:40:03.799
<v Speaker 1>you put her on the back burner, which I was like,

0:40:03.920 --> 0:40:07.880
<v Speaker 1>holy shit, this bitch is badass. Like I probably wouldn't

0:40:07.920 --> 0:40:10.840
<v Speaker 1>have done that, but like, props to her for being like, Bethany,

0:40:10.840 --> 0:40:13.520
<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do you last, We're gonna shoot you last.

0:40:14.040 --> 0:40:17.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna model first. Just kidding, but like what was

0:40:17.719 --> 0:40:20.560
<v Speaker 1>going through your head because your bounce back in Bethany's

0:40:20.600 --> 0:40:24.480
<v Speaker 1>eyes was legit, Like you went out unfazed, but then

0:40:24.520 --> 0:40:28.759
<v Speaker 1>you kind of lost it a little bit, like going.

0:40:28.560 --> 0:40:31.960
<v Speaker 3>Through all the things, like that was a day to remember.

0:40:31.960 --> 0:40:34.239
<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'll like never forget that day for the

0:40:34.239 --> 0:40:37.440
<v Speaker 3>rest of my life. But like I'm proud of myself

0:40:37.520 --> 0:40:40.560
<v Speaker 3>for like just keeping it together. Obviously there were many

0:40:40.600 --> 0:40:44.480
<v Speaker 3>moments where I was like I might have a nervous breakdown. Nope, Okay,

0:40:44.760 --> 0:40:48.840
<v Speaker 3>I got this right. But yeah, I had planned to

0:40:48.880 --> 0:40:51.719
<v Speaker 3>really and I learned this about myself through filming the show.

0:40:51.760 --> 0:40:53.440
<v Speaker 3>And I'm sure you feel the same way that, like

0:40:53.840 --> 0:40:56.600
<v Speaker 3>doing reality TV is like some of the most growth

0:40:57.000 --> 0:40:59.640
<v Speaker 3>that you've probably ever like experienced as a human, right

0:40:59.680 --> 0:41:02.880
<v Speaker 3>because like you're the greatest things about you and the

0:41:02.920 --> 0:41:07.880
<v Speaker 3>worst things about you are reflected back to hardcore right people.

0:41:08.600 --> 0:41:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Yeah right?

0:41:10.120 --> 0:41:13.920
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, So so in that moment, I was like I

0:41:13.960 --> 0:41:17.040
<v Speaker 3>had I think that I learned that I had planned

0:41:17.040 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 3>an overly ambitious photo shoot with three different looks in

0:41:19.680 --> 0:41:21.680
<v Speaker 3>thirty minutes, which I'm sure you know as a content

0:41:21.719 --> 0:41:25.400
<v Speaker 3>creator and brand owner it's impossible to do that and

0:41:25.480 --> 0:41:27.640
<v Speaker 3>get it all right. But I was just, I guess,

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:29.759
<v Speaker 3>trying to show off because this was in my wheelhouse,

0:41:29.840 --> 0:41:33.239
<v Speaker 3>right of things that I do for myself and for

0:41:33.400 --> 0:41:38.440
<v Speaker 3>my brand and you know, in skating and whatnot. And

0:41:38.480 --> 0:41:40.359
<v Speaker 3>then her throwing a wrench in that plan just made

0:41:40.360 --> 0:41:43.520
<v Speaker 3>it unmanageable. So I didn't have clothing that could fit her.

0:41:43.560 --> 0:41:46.120
<v Speaker 3>She's a zero, right or a double zero really if

0:41:46.160 --> 0:41:49.319
<v Speaker 3>I had that, and I picked plus size models, so

0:41:49.400 --> 0:41:52.120
<v Speaker 3>I was like, just screw right. So I was like,

0:41:52.440 --> 0:41:54.759
<v Speaker 3>so we're gonna have to do like go take the

0:41:54.800 --> 0:41:57.080
<v Speaker 3>models down from their clothes, right, so I could do

0:41:57.120 --> 0:42:00.080
<v Speaker 3>them in the skinny roll clothing down to the shape

0:42:00.120 --> 0:42:02.279
<v Speaker 3>where and then put her in laugh. And it wasn't

0:42:02.280 --> 0:42:05.440
<v Speaker 3>because I wanted to put baby on the back burner, right,

0:42:05.480 --> 0:42:07.839
<v Speaker 3>It was just that I like didn't know how else

0:42:07.880 --> 0:42:10.040
<v Speaker 3>to do it because I could not bring clothes from

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:12.880
<v Speaker 3>the loft for her that would fit her, and you know,

0:42:13.080 --> 0:42:15.520
<v Speaker 3>most people didn't even have clothes that would fit her

0:42:15.560 --> 0:42:17.759
<v Speaker 3>at the shoot or were busy using them in their

0:42:17.800 --> 0:42:19.720
<v Speaker 3>own preparation, right.

0:42:20.600 --> 0:42:23.880
<v Speaker 1>No, I I was every challenge that you guys were given.

0:42:23.960 --> 0:42:25.800
<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't know how the fuck I

0:42:25.840 --> 0:42:29.319
<v Speaker 1>would do this. And then the grammar, the grammar on

0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:32.279
<v Speaker 1>the cards when she was like, we're doing the PSA

0:42:32.480 --> 0:42:38.719
<v Speaker 1>for Oh my gosh, how can you can't relate?

0:42:38.719 --> 0:42:40.600
<v Speaker 2>But I'm listening. But now I'm going to watch the show,

0:42:40.680 --> 0:42:41.239
<v Speaker 2>so keep calling.

0:42:41.360 --> 0:42:43.719
<v Speaker 1>I told you it's so good. Yeah, it's so. I

0:42:43.760 --> 0:42:47.080
<v Speaker 1>actually learned a lot from the show. Really, I really did.

0:42:47.280 --> 0:42:49.080
<v Speaker 2>That's good. Yeah, business wise.

0:42:49.200 --> 0:42:51.600
<v Speaker 1>Business wise and just to see someone in like how

0:42:51.640 --> 0:42:53.840
<v Speaker 1>things don't stop moving and how things are going to

0:42:53.880 --> 0:42:55.439
<v Speaker 1>be thrown at you and you may have a short

0:42:55.480 --> 0:42:57.239
<v Speaker 1>period of time, but you better make it look like

0:42:57.239 --> 0:42:59.000
<v Speaker 1>you had a really long fucking time to do. This

0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:01.799
<v Speaker 1>is what I've done. So I have to ask you

0:43:01.800 --> 0:43:03.960
<v Speaker 1>about the crop top. Bethany really had a problem with

0:43:04.000 --> 0:43:05.720
<v Speaker 1>your crop top, do you remember?

0:43:05.880 --> 0:43:09.000
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean I'm five to five, so I probably

0:43:09.040 --> 0:43:11.520
<v Speaker 3>look taller on Instagram, but I'm not that tall. I'm

0:43:11.719 --> 0:43:14.880
<v Speaker 3>very average, and so like a crop top on me

0:43:15.040 --> 0:43:18.680
<v Speaker 3>is really not like so sexual, like it's not that

0:43:19.040 --> 0:43:20.800
<v Speaker 3>word for me. At a air crop up, I always

0:43:20.800 --> 0:43:24.040
<v Speaker 3>were highways advance. I thought that we were doing a

0:43:24.160 --> 0:43:27.200
<v Speaker 3>photo shoot, so I thought, okay, like I'm photo directing

0:43:27.239 --> 0:43:31.839
<v Speaker 3>a bunch of models, this fits right. She was just

0:43:31.960 --> 0:43:32.600
<v Speaker 3>very invented.

0:43:33.400 --> 0:43:36.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm very on the DJ front.

0:43:37.040 --> 0:43:38.879
<v Speaker 1>Randall's so into I love.

0:43:39.640 --> 0:43:41.680
<v Speaker 2>So many of my friends are DJs, which, like I'm

0:43:41.719 --> 0:43:43.680
<v Speaker 2>not even a big music guy. But like, I was

0:43:43.719 --> 0:43:45.840
<v Speaker 2>just with Steve Ioki this week and we were developing

0:43:45.840 --> 0:43:49.080
<v Speaker 2>a TV show with my friend Quavo, So like, I love,

0:43:49.600 --> 0:43:52.240
<v Speaker 2>I just love everything about music. I have no music

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:55.040
<v Speaker 2>musical ability, She'll tell you, like literally none, but I'm

0:43:55.080 --> 0:43:57.840
<v Speaker 2>kind of like enamored by like people that perform. I

0:43:57.880 --> 0:44:00.759
<v Speaker 2>just think it's really unique and different, the fact that

0:44:00.760 --> 0:44:03.800
<v Speaker 2>you have to produce music, go on a stage, perform,

0:44:03.880 --> 0:44:07.000
<v Speaker 2>and get all these people to buy into your creative vision.

0:44:07.000 --> 0:44:09.080
<v Speaker 2>I mean, I guess it's like movies, but I it's

0:44:09.080 --> 0:44:11.320
<v Speaker 2>what I know movies. So like, this is a very

0:44:11.400 --> 0:44:14.520
<v Speaker 2>foreign world for me. So I've always been intrigued by

0:44:14.640 --> 0:44:17.960
<v Speaker 2>performers and singers and all that. So it says that

0:44:18.000 --> 0:44:21.680
<v Speaker 2>you've performed with Nelly, Diana, Ross, ryl Pro people like that,

0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:23.160
<v Speaker 2>is that correct or incorrect?

0:44:23.840 --> 0:44:26.239
<v Speaker 3>No, it's correct, but it's like I'm opening in or

0:44:26.239 --> 0:44:29.000
<v Speaker 3>closing for them, right, these are the main the talents,

0:44:29.000 --> 0:44:30.520
<v Speaker 3>the main act, and I'm.

0:44:32.520 --> 0:44:34.120
<v Speaker 2>All right, let's not play that down. Let's keep it

0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:38.120
<v Speaker 2>going along. So, so, what was the biggest venue you've

0:44:38.160 --> 0:44:40.960
<v Speaker 2>ever played that you that you can recall, Like, what

0:44:41.000 --> 0:44:41.319
<v Speaker 2>was I.

0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 3>Mean the biggest venue? I guess I mean the so

0:44:44.120 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 3>I did so Super Bowls party was the Maxim party.

0:44:47.719 --> 0:44:48.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's a big one.

0:44:48.640 --> 0:44:50.560
<v Speaker 3>And that was like before Cardi Bat went on. So

0:44:50.640 --> 0:44:53.960
<v Speaker 3>that was very like it's we were the whole building

0:44:54.080 --> 0:44:58.759
<v Speaker 3>to forget how many people in that party or just

0:44:58.800 --> 0:45:01.880
<v Speaker 3>like I mean even like Archie, right, a marquee can

0:45:01.920 --> 0:45:04.320
<v Speaker 3>hold two thousand people, and like I remember the first

0:45:04.320 --> 0:45:06.640
<v Speaker 3>time it wasn't even like a really important event, but

0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:09.200
<v Speaker 3>the first time that those guys from Strategic were like,

0:45:09.480 --> 0:45:11.120
<v Speaker 3>come up, dude, we're gonna give you a shot, like

0:45:11.160 --> 0:45:13.520
<v Speaker 3>don't stuck it up. And I was like, okay, like

0:45:13.640 --> 0:45:15.560
<v Speaker 3>maybe so much like I you know, I knew them

0:45:15.600 --> 0:45:17.680
<v Speaker 3>for a while, right, because I've been out, I've been

0:45:17.680 --> 0:45:19.799
<v Speaker 3>on the scene in New York, and I was just

0:45:19.880 --> 0:45:22.680
<v Speaker 3>so grateful to have the opportunity. I was like scared

0:45:22.680 --> 0:45:25.319
<v Speaker 3>shitless when I saw that many people staring up at

0:45:25.360 --> 0:45:28.759
<v Speaker 3>me looking for their fun that night, right, I.

0:45:28.719 --> 0:45:31.400
<v Speaker 2>Mean that's what I mean that you mean it's fucking crazy,

0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:33.400
<v Speaker 2>And that's why I say, like, like friends of mine

0:45:33.440 --> 0:45:36.200
<v Speaker 2>who do that like you do, I'm blown away, Like

0:45:36.239 --> 0:45:37.920
<v Speaker 2>I was. I called LOLLA this week and I was

0:45:38.040 --> 0:45:40.879
<v Speaker 2>sitting at my friend's club live in the DJ booth

0:45:40.960 --> 0:45:44.239
<v Speaker 2>with with Steve and these and even at fifty years old,

0:45:44.280 --> 0:45:46.400
<v Speaker 2>which I've been in club since I was eighteen or

0:45:46.440 --> 0:45:49.480
<v Speaker 2>you know whatever, looking out at two thousand and three

0:45:49.480 --> 0:45:52.560
<v Speaker 2>thousand people and watching them look up like and just

0:45:52.719 --> 0:45:55.279
<v Speaker 2>follow the music and dance, and they just want more,

0:45:55.320 --> 0:45:57.480
<v Speaker 2>And I'm like, I would lose my shit, Like I

0:45:57.520 --> 0:45:59.880
<v Speaker 2>would think that this is never going to work, this connection.

0:46:00.280 --> 0:46:02.360
<v Speaker 2>So I am an amor by by people that do

0:46:02.400 --> 0:46:02.719
<v Speaker 2>it well.

0:46:02.719 --> 0:46:04.640
<v Speaker 1>And the drinking can only do so much for you.

0:46:04.760 --> 0:46:09.120
<v Speaker 1>Like the music. If I go into a club and

0:46:09.160 --> 0:46:11.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm sober and guess, I like, I can still hang

0:46:11.040 --> 0:46:13.000
<v Speaker 1>with the best of them at a nightclub. And if

0:46:13.040 --> 0:46:15.600
<v Speaker 1>the music is not popping and makes me want to

0:46:15.600 --> 0:46:18.239
<v Speaker 1>like twerk my flatty, I don't want to be there.

0:46:18.600 --> 0:46:21.600
<v Speaker 1>You're responsible for everyone's fun. That's intimidating.

0:46:21.920 --> 0:46:23.840
<v Speaker 3>I agree, yeah, I agree, it does feel like a

0:46:23.840 --> 0:46:26.680
<v Speaker 3>big responsibility. But you know what's funny, I think and

0:46:26.719 --> 0:46:28.640
<v Speaker 3>it was the same thing with TV and you probably

0:46:28.680 --> 0:46:30.520
<v Speaker 3>you both can relate to this. I'm sure it's the

0:46:30.560 --> 0:46:33.280
<v Speaker 3>same thing with you know, building movies that make people

0:46:33.320 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 3>get really excited. But it's like once you you know,

0:46:36.040 --> 0:46:38.239
<v Speaker 3>you're nervous about it, and then you learn how to

0:46:38.280 --> 0:46:41.120
<v Speaker 3>do it right. It's like burning a bike and you know, Okay,

0:46:41.160 --> 0:46:44.000
<v Speaker 3>if I replicate the same formula, it seems to work.

0:46:44.080 --> 0:46:46.759
<v Speaker 3>Now I've done this ten times, one hundred times, and

0:46:46.880 --> 0:46:49.640
<v Speaker 3>so you move past that fear, right, So for me,

0:46:49.800 --> 0:46:52.200
<v Speaker 3>it's like it's funny. I can get in and maybe

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:53.719
<v Speaker 3>you guys will be able to relate this. I can't

0:46:53.719 --> 0:46:56.799
<v Speaker 3>get in that creative flow state where it's like I'm

0:46:56.960 --> 0:47:02.719
<v Speaker 3>truly channeling creative energy. I did an event for like

0:47:03.000 --> 0:47:05.919
<v Speaker 3>what was the some fashion week thing with Jeremy from

0:47:06.000 --> 0:47:10.879
<v Speaker 3>Mosquino and like Snax and Harper's bizarre, like a bunch

0:47:10.920 --> 0:47:13.480
<v Speaker 3>of magazin there's a bunch of different people collaborating on

0:47:13.520 --> 0:47:18.160
<v Speaker 3>this townhouse loft, very exclusive experience in New York during

0:47:18.200 --> 0:47:20.440
<v Speaker 3>fashion Week when year and he said that when he

0:47:20.440 --> 0:47:22.400
<v Speaker 3>gets in a space of make, you know, turning his

0:47:22.520 --> 0:47:25.839
<v Speaker 3>art into fashion that he's like channeling from, you know,

0:47:25.920 --> 0:47:28.400
<v Speaker 3>a higher source or power. And when he said that,

0:47:29.000 --> 0:47:32.959
<v Speaker 3>I was like, oh my god, this makes sense now,

0:47:33.160 --> 0:47:35.080
<v Speaker 3>Like it's it. I have to really like I can't

0:47:35.120 --> 0:47:37.600
<v Speaker 3>drink too much, I can't be too nervous, Like you

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:40.120
<v Speaker 3>have to relax into it, right, Like it helps to

0:47:40.160 --> 0:47:42.880
<v Speaker 3>have like a good environment with clients that I like

0:47:43.000 --> 0:47:45.880
<v Speaker 3>or have had experience with before and friends that are

0:47:45.920 --> 0:47:49.279
<v Speaker 3>supportive around, because it just like helps me ease into it.

0:47:49.320 --> 0:47:52.920
<v Speaker 3>But you know, once you know what sets the conditions

0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:54.480
<v Speaker 3>for that, you can recreate it.

0:47:54.760 --> 0:47:56.440
<v Speaker 1>When it happened to Nicole Rose.

0:47:57.760 --> 0:48:01.680
<v Speaker 3>Exactly, I said, right, this goes off exactly.

0:48:01.760 --> 0:48:04.759
<v Speaker 1>I relate because on the day to day I'm just

0:48:05.120 --> 0:48:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Laren from Utah.

0:48:06.760 --> 0:48:08.799
<v Speaker 2>But like, I don't know if you're ever just learned

0:48:08.800 --> 0:48:10.640
<v Speaker 2>from me, it's all, but that I definitely am.

0:48:10.680 --> 0:48:13.799
<v Speaker 1>When I'm with my daughter Ocean, I'm larning from Utah.

0:48:13.880 --> 0:48:16.279
<v Speaker 1>Like it's very normal. We're chilling. It's a it's a

0:48:16.320 --> 0:48:18.920
<v Speaker 1>whole vibe. But then when it's time to work and

0:48:18.960 --> 0:48:22.000
<v Speaker 1>you can't be affected by negative energy, you have to

0:48:22.080 --> 0:48:24.960
<v Speaker 1>still keep that same hat on. You got to go

0:48:25.040 --> 0:48:27.359
<v Speaker 1>into give them fucking l alat you know.

0:48:28.280 --> 0:48:30.759
<v Speaker 2>I also think I also think people say like it

0:48:30.760 --> 0:48:33.640
<v Speaker 2>takes ten thousand hours to be a professional. It's something

0:48:33.760 --> 0:48:36.440
<v Speaker 2>you know literally, So maybe like for me, I've been

0:48:36.440 --> 0:48:39.520
<v Speaker 2>making movies for my whole life, and I maybe even

0:48:39.520 --> 0:48:41.640
<v Speaker 2>in a passion of mind, like poker, it took me

0:48:41.920 --> 0:48:43.880
<v Speaker 2>ten years to become good at it. Like when I

0:48:43.880 --> 0:48:46.759
<v Speaker 2>first sat down, I was petrified if I got to

0:48:46.800 --> 0:48:49.040
<v Speaker 2>a final table, I was petrified. I think, you know,

0:48:49.160 --> 0:48:52.680
<v Speaker 2>you're a professional DJ. You've been doing this for thousands

0:48:52.719 --> 0:48:54.440
<v Speaker 2>of thousand hours. So probably when you step up on

0:48:54.480 --> 0:48:57.799
<v Speaker 2>that stage, the true artist kind of comes through, and

0:48:57.840 --> 0:49:00.520
<v Speaker 2>it's probably why you're so natural and good at it.

0:49:00.560 --> 0:49:02.880
<v Speaker 1>And Nicole, it seems like you're you do well under.

0:49:02.640 --> 0:49:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Pressure from the show.

0:49:05.640 --> 0:49:06.279
<v Speaker 3>Thank you well.

0:49:06.360 --> 0:49:09.040
<v Speaker 1>She's saying that, like the people from Marquis, they were like,

0:49:09.120 --> 0:49:11.040
<v Speaker 1>we're giving you a shot, don't fuck this up. And

0:49:11.040 --> 0:49:13.160
<v Speaker 1>she's like, okay, like let's do it. Thank you for

0:49:13.160 --> 0:49:15.200
<v Speaker 1>the opportunity. Me I'd be like I need a couple

0:49:15.239 --> 0:49:17.359
<v Speaker 1>of days to like prepare, maybe a week.

0:49:17.480 --> 0:49:19.399
<v Speaker 2>Oh, you don't even do well if if people ask

0:49:19.440 --> 0:49:21.319
<v Speaker 2>you to come up on a tennis court and play

0:49:21.360 --> 0:49:23.000
<v Speaker 2>for three seconds.

0:49:23.040 --> 0:49:28.040
<v Speaker 1>I need preparation time mentally, so you you do well

0:49:28.160 --> 0:49:29.440
<v Speaker 1>just fucking winging it.

0:49:30.840 --> 0:49:33.239
<v Speaker 3>So sort of I like I can wing it, but

0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:36.760
<v Speaker 3>also like, don't don't be fooled like that even within

0:49:36.920 --> 0:49:39.680
<v Speaker 3>five minutes, right, if I have to go live on

0:49:39.719 --> 0:49:42.600
<v Speaker 3>something that I didn't know about, or even Bethany said

0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:45.040
<v Speaker 3>this that I she noticed that my that I could

0:49:45.040 --> 0:49:47.000
<v Speaker 3>like keep it together or pull it back together if

0:49:47.040 --> 0:49:51.080
<v Speaker 3>I was like starting to lose it under pressure. And

0:49:51.360 --> 0:49:54.240
<v Speaker 3>I mean part of that is like this mindset routine

0:49:54.320 --> 0:49:56.759
<v Speaker 3>that I have that we teach in the mentorship too,

0:49:56.880 --> 0:50:00.960
<v Speaker 3>that like just helps you ground your yourself and what

0:50:01.000 --> 0:50:03.479
<v Speaker 3>the truth of you is. Right, Like we can all

0:50:03.920 --> 0:50:05.799
<v Speaker 3>go down this tangent and tell ourself a bunch of

0:50:05.960 --> 0:50:09.239
<v Speaker 3>why and let our negative nancy go off, right, But

0:50:09.280 --> 0:50:12.600
<v Speaker 3>it's like having a process to talk myself off the

0:50:12.719 --> 0:50:16.840
<v Speaker 3>ledge and then also visualizing success. Right, Like I hadn't

0:50:16.920 --> 0:50:19.960
<v Speaker 3>DJed in a while because of the pandemic, and I

0:50:20.000 --> 0:50:21.879
<v Speaker 3>was like, I remember there was this event we were

0:50:21.880 --> 0:50:24.640
<v Speaker 3>doing with Voove, and like I just you guys probably

0:50:24.640 --> 0:50:29.680
<v Speaker 3>already have learned about me. I fucking love champagne for

0:50:29.719 --> 0:50:33.040
<v Speaker 3>no reason, and I was doing this event with them

0:50:33.080 --> 0:50:34.520
<v Speaker 3>for the fourth and I just hadn't done it in

0:50:34.560 --> 0:50:36.239
<v Speaker 3>two years. I had been doing that same party in

0:50:36.280 --> 0:50:39.680
<v Speaker 3>the Hamptons for like three years, but I just like,

0:50:39.960 --> 0:50:41.279
<v Speaker 3>you know, I didn't know who was showing up. I

0:50:41.320 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 3>hadn't seen the clients in a while. I like just

0:50:43.719 --> 0:50:46.120
<v Speaker 3>loved the brands that were involved and really wanted to

0:50:46.160 --> 0:50:48.560
<v Speaker 3>be great, and you know, with the pressures of the pandemic,

0:50:48.640 --> 0:50:51.279
<v Speaker 3>just didn't know what to expect and people were gonna

0:50:51.320 --> 0:50:55.319
<v Speaker 3>show and and whatnot. And I just visualized all the

0:50:55.360 --> 0:50:58.080
<v Speaker 3>positive energy being in the room, and before you knew it,

0:50:58.160 --> 0:51:00.839
<v Speaker 3>the party looked like what I saw in my head,

0:51:00.960 --> 0:51:02.720
<v Speaker 3>totally right, and like that works.

0:51:03.400 --> 0:51:08.200
<v Speaker 1>So this mentorship program you have had it for how long?

0:51:08.280 --> 0:51:12.000
<v Speaker 1>And what does it kind of consist of? Like how

0:51:12.000 --> 0:51:14.160
<v Speaker 1>do people come to you and say I need your

0:51:14.200 --> 0:51:16.239
<v Speaker 1>help to get through this, that and the other.

0:51:16.719 --> 0:51:20.240
<v Speaker 3>Yes, So it actually started. I was already thinking about

0:51:20.280 --> 0:51:23.600
<v Speaker 3>it when I was filming when especially when I had

0:51:23.640 --> 0:51:25.239
<v Speaker 3>that melt down in the photo shoot and I went

0:51:25.239 --> 0:51:28.200
<v Speaker 3>to the bathroom and like reaffirmed myself in the mirror,

0:51:28.239 --> 0:51:30.560
<v Speaker 3>did my mantras, did my affirmations. I was like, you're

0:51:30.640 --> 0:51:33.680
<v Speaker 3>fucking queen, get back out and pull it together, bitch.

0:51:34.200 --> 0:51:36.200
<v Speaker 3>Like I was like, you can do this, and like

0:51:36.360 --> 0:51:38.320
<v Speaker 3>went back out there after that pep talk, and I

0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:41.080
<v Speaker 3>was like, Damn, this shit works. Like I knew this worked,

0:51:41.200 --> 0:51:44.319
<v Speaker 3>but this works like in a pressure cooker. Right. So

0:51:44.800 --> 0:51:47.640
<v Speaker 3>that was kind of like the real test of do

0:51:47.760 --> 0:51:51.239
<v Speaker 3>these strategies right quote unquote that I've been using for

0:51:51.320 --> 0:51:55.480
<v Speaker 3>the last several years, do they actually work in extreme

0:51:55.560 --> 0:51:56.840
<v Speaker 3>situations of stress?

0:51:57.080 --> 0:51:57.239
<v Speaker 5>Right?

0:51:57.280 --> 0:51:59.400
<v Speaker 3>And I felt like they did. And so I felt

0:51:59.719 --> 0:52:02.360
<v Speaker 3>like that was really my sign to come forward. Like

0:52:02.400 --> 0:52:04.799
<v Speaker 3>I'd always taught the girls that are on my team.

0:52:04.840 --> 0:52:07.160
<v Speaker 3>There's a bunch of girls that have interned or been

0:52:07.200 --> 0:52:09.439
<v Speaker 3>my assistants or whatever. I've always taught them these things.

0:52:09.480 --> 0:52:12.760
<v Speaker 3>I've always taught my younger sister. I've mentored other women

0:52:12.840 --> 0:52:15.600
<v Speaker 3>that are now like successful and hire me for gigs, right,

0:52:15.640 --> 0:52:17.520
<v Speaker 3>like one of my girls who's like high up at

0:52:17.520 --> 0:52:18.360
<v Speaker 3>Aneheuser Bush.

0:52:18.440 --> 0:52:18.560
<v Speaker 2>Right.

0:52:18.600 --> 0:52:22.560
<v Speaker 3>But it's like, so it was about taking codifying the

0:52:22.640 --> 0:52:25.000
<v Speaker 3>knowledge that I learned as a performer and how to

0:52:25.080 --> 0:52:27.960
<v Speaker 3>keep together and grow my career and you know, my

0:52:28.040 --> 0:52:32.360
<v Speaker 3>business as an entrepreneur and teach that making that teachable.

0:52:32.400 --> 0:52:35.280
<v Speaker 3>And so I hired a business coach in the winter

0:52:35.520 --> 0:52:38.560
<v Speaker 3>after filming the show to really kind of help me

0:52:38.760 --> 0:52:42.040
<v Speaker 3>understand the process of doing that and give me some

0:52:42.120 --> 0:52:44.600
<v Speaker 3>of the tangible tools that she had used to build

0:52:44.640 --> 0:52:48.279
<v Speaker 3>her program, which was very different. But mine is about mindset,

0:52:48.760 --> 0:52:52.360
<v Speaker 3>you know, like basically going deep into your subconscious brain,

0:52:52.719 --> 0:52:56.640
<v Speaker 3>your psyche, under unearthing all these limiting, shitty beliefs we

0:52:56.760 --> 0:53:00.040
<v Speaker 3>all have them. Rewriting your story, rewriting your after me

0:53:00.920 --> 0:53:04.680
<v Speaker 3>using your mantras, teaching people when to call in this

0:53:04.800 --> 0:53:08.000
<v Speaker 3>work right, and then having a morning routine and what

0:53:08.120 --> 0:53:10.840
<v Speaker 3>I call the manifest mindset tool that we build together.

0:53:10.920 --> 0:53:13.480
<v Speaker 3>That's a custom note in their phone that they can

0:53:13.560 --> 0:53:16.320
<v Speaker 3>read in two minutes, you know, or sixty seconds flat,

0:53:16.400 --> 0:53:19.280
<v Speaker 3>anytime that they need to take a pause and reset

0:53:19.360 --> 0:53:20.560
<v Speaker 3>and realign themselves.

0:53:20.719 --> 0:53:21.160
<v Speaker 1>I love it.

0:53:21.280 --> 0:53:23.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's great. That's really really inspiring. I love that.

0:53:24.239 --> 0:53:27.600
<v Speaker 1>I know. So is that like are you still DJing?

0:53:27.880 --> 0:53:30.880
<v Speaker 1>Like what what do you feel? And I don't I

0:53:30.920 --> 0:53:34.000
<v Speaker 1>always like to put all my eggs into different baskets.

0:53:34.680 --> 0:53:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Would you say the hit most of your eggs are

0:53:37.480 --> 0:53:40.719
<v Speaker 1>in your mentorship program basket? Or like are you still DJing?

0:53:40.840 --> 0:53:42.000
<v Speaker 1>Like what are you up to?

0:53:43.280 --> 0:53:46.160
<v Speaker 3>Yeah? So I am DJing and I love DJing, right,

0:53:46.239 --> 0:53:48.239
<v Speaker 3>DJing is just like a big passion of mine. It

0:53:48.280 --> 0:53:52.520
<v Speaker 3>always will be. But this business, I feel like is

0:53:52.560 --> 0:53:55.480
<v Speaker 3>super aligned with my purpose. And I think my purpose

0:53:55.480 --> 0:53:58.040
<v Speaker 3>has shifted from my twenties into my thirties. And I

0:53:58.080 --> 0:54:00.000
<v Speaker 3>know that you're building new things too, So you probably

0:54:00.800 --> 0:54:03.239
<v Speaker 3>have felt that, right. It went from like wine and

0:54:03.280 --> 0:54:06.200
<v Speaker 3>weed to like products done, you know, for lives of women.

0:54:06.560 --> 0:54:08.279
<v Speaker 3>What I'd love to ask you this when you come

0:54:08.320 --> 0:54:12.240
<v Speaker 3>on my show. Yeah, so I think for me now,

0:54:12.360 --> 0:54:16.000
<v Speaker 3>it's where I am in my life. I will always

0:54:16.040 --> 0:54:18.080
<v Speaker 3>want to dj. I will always want to pull up

0:54:18.120 --> 0:54:21.080
<v Speaker 3>to the Hampton's with my friend, Yes and a banger

0:54:21.080 --> 0:54:21.720
<v Speaker 3>for my friends.

0:54:22.800 --> 0:54:24.440
<v Speaker 2>I'm going to hang out with your crew. You guys

0:54:24.480 --> 0:54:29.600
<v Speaker 2>are inviting you guys, and that this is my vibe

0:54:29.680 --> 0:54:32.239
<v Speaker 2>right here, pull up in the Hampton's just.

0:54:32.960 --> 0:54:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Like that's a slippery slope in us because we will

0:54:36.680 --> 0:54:37.160
<v Speaker 1>show up.

0:54:37.640 --> 0:54:38.360
<v Speaker 2>We do show up.

0:54:38.440 --> 0:54:41.200
<v Speaker 3>So like you're invited, please come. We have room for

0:54:41.280 --> 0:54:46.359
<v Speaker 3>you like you should, but but probably leave ocean at home.

0:54:47.000 --> 0:54:48.800
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, that's for sure.

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<v Speaker 1>Mama's night out.

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<v Speaker 3>I can share this with you guys. I guess this

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<v Speaker 3>is something you know. The pandemic has been hard for

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<v Speaker 3>a lot of people. I know that I'm not the

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<v Speaker 3>only person who's like feeling this kind of second wave.

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<v Speaker 3>By where it's like, are uncertain again and we're like,

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<v Speaker 3>what's gonna happen now? Or is CALLI is Texas right?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm in Florida right now?

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<v Speaker 2>By I just left yesterday. I just left Miami yesterday.

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<v Speaker 2>Part where where.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I mean, I go between Sarasota and Miami when

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<v Speaker 3>I'm down here my family. I have family all over

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<v Speaker 3>Sara Soda, Naples, and then obviously every fuck in New

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<v Speaker 3>Yorker that could in Miami part time.

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<v Speaker 6>Now.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm born and raised in Miami, and I'm I go

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<v Speaker 2>to Naples a lot because I'm big pickleball player at

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<v Speaker 2>pickleball capital of the world there in Naples. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>we're gonna be worth wild.

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<v Speaker 3>We're gonna be We have friends in Naples that love pickleballs.

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<v Speaker 2>They would know me because we have our own paddle

0:55:35.800 --> 0:55:38.719
<v Speaker 2>lall and I and I'm a huge ambassador to the game.

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<v Speaker 2>So if they play pickleball and you say my name

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<v Speaker 2>or you say Lata's name, for sure, no way, I

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<v Speaker 2>want to tell you we're going to be that, We're

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<v Speaker 2>going to be there for her birthday September second. So

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<v Speaker 2>if you're in Florida, link with us, because that's the

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<v Speaker 2>only time law is ever going to go out. She's

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<v Speaker 2>never going to go out again. This will be her

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<v Speaker 2>only night.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm coming.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm on here, do it, do it.

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<v Speaker 2>We're going to live September second. Make sure you're there, Okay.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I can just fly in for the night. Yeah,

0:56:03.600 --> 0:56:06.040
<v Speaker 3>go up. I was thinking, like Hampton's, we can do

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<v Speaker 3>a pit stop in Miami and then and then go back.

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<v Speaker 3>I've got the airport's luck, I know. Wow MacArthur, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I've got my my rotation.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow, you got it down, and I got it down because.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I mean, I never know, and people will be like, yo,

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<v Speaker 3>can you come djaying in the Hamptons this weekend and

0:56:23.719 --> 0:56:26.080
<v Speaker 3>you're going to open for Diplo or Nora or whatever.

0:56:26.160 --> 0:56:28.360
<v Speaker 3>It's like, all right, it's fine, what else? Am I

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<v Speaker 3>really good? Right? I'm not doing anything?

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<v Speaker 1>So never no, Wow, you always say yes.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, I love it usually usually, but also like you know,

0:56:40.560 --> 0:56:43.960
<v Speaker 3>it's balancing with that self care, that down time, that

0:56:44.120 --> 0:56:46.320
<v Speaker 3>friend time, and like eventually I'm going to have the

0:56:46.360 --> 0:56:48.799
<v Speaker 3>start dating. You have it all figured out.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we got you. I want to tell you that

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<v Speaker 2>I run the alumni association of my performing arts high

0:56:55.239 --> 0:56:56.960
<v Speaker 2>school Miami called the New World School of the Arts,

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<v Speaker 2>and I definitely want to invite you to speak to

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<v Speaker 2>the kids at some point, you know, at the school,

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<v Speaker 2>because they would love to honor You're phenomenal and they

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<v Speaker 2>would be totally inspired, and you have so much to

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<v Speaker 2>bring to the table. I think these young eighteen year

0:57:08.880 --> 0:57:11.560
<v Speaker 2>old kids as they going to their senior year, they're

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<v Speaker 2>super talented. They'll go off to Broadway or Juliard or

0:57:14.320 --> 0:57:16.400
<v Speaker 2>you know, Cooper Union or Pratt whatever they could, you know,

0:57:16.440 --> 0:57:19.280
<v Speaker 2>and I think you sharing your story and your journey

0:57:19.360 --> 0:57:21.280
<v Speaker 2>I think would be phenomenal. So I would love to

0:57:21.320 --> 0:57:23.600
<v Speaker 2>invite you at some point this year to come speak

0:57:23.600 --> 0:57:24.720
<v Speaker 2>to them. Thank you.

0:57:24.840 --> 0:57:26.760
<v Speaker 3>I would be honored to do that. So you just

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<v Speaker 3>let me know that it is good and I will

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<v Speaker 3>be there.

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<v Speaker 2>Awesome.

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<v Speaker 3>That's part of my whole mission, right, is giving back. Right,

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<v Speaker 3>So they did the whole fun cool thing. I wanted

0:57:35.200 --> 0:57:37.640
<v Speaker 3>to travel and see the world and meet interesting people

0:57:37.680 --> 0:57:40.040
<v Speaker 3>and play music and party and have fun. And it's

0:57:40.120 --> 0:57:42.960
<v Speaker 3>like that's all great. I'm not going to give all

0:57:43.040 --> 0:57:45.360
<v Speaker 3>that up. But I really love this point now where

0:57:45.360 --> 0:57:48.560
<v Speaker 3>it's like, Okay, I've codified everything I've learned. Here's how

0:57:48.600 --> 0:57:51.080
<v Speaker 3>we can actually make this work a little bit of

0:57:51.120 --> 0:57:52.800
<v Speaker 3>a better place, one person at a time.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh.

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<v Speaker 1>I love it. And you know what you have to

0:57:55.040 --> 0:57:59.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm totally into. You have to find something that you

0:57:59.240 --> 0:58:01.720
<v Speaker 1>love and if you can make money at it, that's

0:58:01.760 --> 0:58:05.760
<v Speaker 1>even better. But the giving back and you to be

0:58:05.840 --> 0:58:09.080
<v Speaker 1>a full person. You have to be you know, thriving

0:58:09.080 --> 0:58:12.400
<v Speaker 1>in your business, but also those parts of you where

0:58:12.520 --> 0:58:13.960
<v Speaker 1>you kind of get back to your center.

0:58:15.040 --> 0:58:16.240
<v Speaker 3>Yep, yeah, exactly.

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<v Speaker 2>This is amazing. We're very grateful to have you on

0:58:20.160 --> 0:58:22.600
<v Speaker 2>because you have so much light, so many amazing things,

0:58:22.840 --> 0:58:24.800
<v Speaker 2>and I can tell you probably inspire a lot of

0:58:24.840 --> 0:58:27.960
<v Speaker 2>young people and a lot of young women, So that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, thank you for being on our podcast. Thank you

0:58:30.480 --> 0:58:33.720
<v Speaker 1>for shutting knowledge, and thank you for entertaining me on

0:58:33.880 --> 0:58:34.480
<v Speaker 1>the Big Shot.

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<v Speaker 3>Thank you so much, guys. You guys are amazing. It's

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<v Speaker 3>been my pleasure.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, my love. Did I not tell you that

0:58:41.560 --> 0:58:42.680
<v Speaker 1>she was going to be a good guest?

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<v Speaker 2>I had no idea, By the way, what an inspiration

0:58:45.800 --> 0:58:49.800
<v Speaker 2>for people like so happy and so positive? She reminds

0:58:49.800 --> 0:58:53.960
<v Speaker 2>me of your assistant. Yeah, but no, but you know

0:58:54.000 --> 0:58:56.439
<v Speaker 2>what I liked about her, Like forget that the show

0:58:56.480 --> 0:58:58.160
<v Speaker 2>is so cool like you say, and I'm now going

0:58:58.200 --> 0:59:01.480
<v Speaker 2>to watch it, But she's just like, has so much

0:59:01.800 --> 0:59:05.520
<v Speaker 2>passion you could see to inspire people. And I love that.

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<v Speaker 1>Good energy, good energy.

0:59:08.320 --> 0:59:09.880
<v Speaker 2>Great great guests, great choice.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you guys again for listening to another episode of

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<v Speaker 1>Give Them All AWA with Randall and we will catch

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<v Speaker 1>you next week.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, guys, cheating from Buffalo.

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<v Speaker 6>Just wanted to let you know your podcast is amazing.

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<v Speaker 6>First time listener today and I'm hooked. So you guys

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<v Speaker 6>are doing a great job. I think you're an amazing couple.

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<v Speaker 6>Keep brocking it, batcheous, You're awesome. Okay, I'm not on social,

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<v Speaker 6>so I had to do it old school and calm

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<v Speaker 6>leave the monk.

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<v Speaker 1>effing love you