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Speaker 1: Hey, babes, it's La lat Kent with Ran. I'm excited

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Speaker 1: for today. I'm always excited for this day. I literally

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Speaker 2: If we went back on the last sixty five to

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Speaker 1: Would be like Groundhog's Day if you listen to just

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Speaker 2: But if you weren't excited, then we shouldn't be doing

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Speaker 1: I am because I discovered a new show. It's new

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Speaker 1: for me at least. It is called The Big Shot

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Speaker 1: with Bethany Bethany Frankel.

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Speaker 2: This is on a network that I assume is the

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Speaker 1: No, it's actually on HBO Max. Oh see, I ventured.

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Speaker 2: So you left Bravo and E and found another channel

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Speaker 1: I never watch em That's what show do I watch?

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Speaker 1: That tunny?

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Speaker 2: You used to watch Kardashians.

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Speaker 1: I've never finished an episode of Kardashians.

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Speaker 1: You should, because you're gonna lose. Okay, Well, I back

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Speaker 1: to HBO Max, so I discover this show. It's it's

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Speaker 2: Okay, don't tell me if she want or not, because

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Speaker 1: She also made for great television, Oh she did. She did.

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Speaker 1: Yes, and during this pandemic, we were planning on going

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Speaker 1: So everybody go to what Laala go to give them

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Speaker 1: November thirtieth in Dallas, Texas. December one, Austin, December two,

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Speaker 1: give them live dot com for your tickets. So before

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Speaker 3: Our first question is, hey, Lala and Randall.

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Speaker 3: Why do we not have any Lalla and Randall tour

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Speaker 3: Please please please add.

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Speaker 3: I would absolutely love to go.

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Speaker 2: All my friends would go.

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Speaker 3: Please add an La stop on your tour.

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Speaker 4: You guys are amazing, Keep up.

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Speaker 3: The great work. Love your podcast and hope you all

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Speaker 1: Have a blessed day. I mean I feel like we

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like this is our first coming out.

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Speaker 4: Mail Tayla and rand Love Love Love the new podcast.

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Speaker 4: I have a question, what is going on with the

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Speaker 4: If you have a new date set, bribe me if

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Speaker 1: I love someone who takes advantage of the voicemail, who.

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Speaker 1: I said to her, I said, Alice, I want you

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Speaker 1: So, Alice, let me get this straight. God is upset

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Speaker 3: Hey girl, how are you?

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Speaker 1: I'm so good. I have to tell you I binged

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Speaker 1: Bethany Frankel's show The Big Shot with Bethany. You give

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Speaker 2: knew subconsciously, maybe your maybe our brain, maybe our body

444
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:34,240
Speaker 2: prepares us like I think I'm I don't want to

445
00:21:34,240 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 2: say I'm prepared because that's a horrible thing to say.

446
00:21:36,920 --> 00:21:39,040
Speaker 2: But I know my parents are in their seventies. Their

447
00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:41,879
Speaker 2: health isn't great. I know I'm gonna have to face that.

448
00:21:41,960 --> 00:21:43,359
Speaker 2: So it's like one of these moments where I go,

449
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:46,439
Speaker 2: I've had a great life with them. I know that

450
00:21:46,480 --> 00:21:49,359
Speaker 2: moment's coming, like in my head, it's gonna be hard.

451
00:21:50,080 --> 00:21:54,160
Speaker 2: She was twenty seven and it was a phone call,

452
00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:56,720
Speaker 2: you know, And so I agree with you that it

453
00:21:56,880 --> 00:21:59,840
Speaker 2: was like, yeah, I never want to say I can't

454
00:21:59,840 --> 00:22:02,760
Speaker 2: even tell you. And I felt like I lost a

455
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,959
Speaker 2: parent because it's the closest thing. But you know, peeling

456
00:22:06,000 --> 00:22:08,280
Speaker 2: her off the floor for four months was you know.

457
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 2: So I appreciate what you say because you've lost a parent,

458
00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:13,640
Speaker 2: so you know, a heart that is. But yeah, watching

459
00:22:13,800 --> 00:22:18,320
Speaker 2: the sudden loss was was something I never wish on

460
00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:19,480
Speaker 2: anybody because.

461
00:22:19,560 --> 00:22:22,640
Speaker 3: So you know, what's weird, I actually like and there's

462
00:22:22,680 --> 00:22:24,399
Speaker 3: no beauty in any of this. But I love that

463
00:22:24,480 --> 00:22:27,040
Speaker 3: you said celebrate it, right, because it is like a

464
00:22:27,119 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 3: celebration of their lives. Like I try to, like drink

465
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:31,640
Speaker 3: a bottle of dom for it. And I was going

466
00:22:31,680 --> 00:22:35,040
Speaker 3: off with them amism on the day of his passing, right,

467
00:22:35,119 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 3: celebrating him going into heaven, like he kept it classy,

468
00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:43,600
Speaker 3: so I try try to did the same. But yeah,

469
00:22:43,640 --> 00:22:47,000
Speaker 3: but like I think in the the suddenness of the

470
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 3: value in that is that you were kind of living

471
00:22:49,640 --> 00:22:52,400
Speaker 3: every day with them, hopefully getting to see them and

472
00:22:52,520 --> 00:22:55,440
Speaker 3: just enjoying that time. Where It's like I think I did,

473
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,040
Speaker 3: like car carry around a lot of like anxiety about

474
00:22:59,040 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 3: his health ever since I was a young and like

475
00:23:02,240 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 3: that made me a total hypochondriac. My friends will tell

476
00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 3: you they're like a new kit to test some random

477
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:12,199
Speaker 3: thing about your health shows up every week. Wow, what

478
00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:13,000
Speaker 3: is this costing me?

479
00:23:17,680 --> 00:23:21,480
Speaker 2: I'm a hypochondriac period. I think I'm dying of everything

480
00:23:21,520 --> 00:23:23,640
Speaker 2: and I didn't even have to face the challenges you did.

481
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 2: So I feel you.

482
00:23:25,280 --> 00:23:28,760
Speaker 1: And I think with the passing of a parent or

483
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 1: anybody who who you just love unconditionally like you would

484
00:23:33,119 --> 00:23:37,000
Speaker 1: a parent, it makes you very sensitive to time. So

485
00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:40,080
Speaker 1: no matter what that means, you know, it's like this

486
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:43,400
Speaker 1: life isn't waiting for anybody, so you have to take

487
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:46,119
Speaker 1: every opportunity, whether it's spending time with your loved ones,

488
00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:49,199
Speaker 1: whether it's you know, creating a business. It's like this

489
00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,080
Speaker 1: life is moving. It doesn't care if you've lost someone,

490
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:54,520
Speaker 1: if you love someone, if you hate someone. You keep

491
00:23:54,560 --> 00:23:55,920
Speaker 1: it moving, you know.

492
00:23:56,200 --> 00:23:59,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, And I think part of It's funny that

493
00:23:59,520 --> 00:24:02,240
Speaker 3: you say that, because I'm having this like download right

494
00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,359
Speaker 3: now to myself that like maybe that's part of where

495
00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:07,920
Speaker 3: that kind of hustle mindset. I hate using that word.

496
00:24:08,000 --> 00:24:10,640
Speaker 3: I think obviously it's a little frowned upon now and

497
00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:12,960
Speaker 3: we shouldn't be driving ourselves to burn out, right, But

498
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 3: I think that's where some of the fire under my

499
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:17,800
Speaker 3: ass came from. You know, it's just.

500
00:24:19,480 --> 00:24:23,080
Speaker 1: I think, will you explaining how you were like, I'm

501
00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,480
Speaker 1: going to spend this time with my dad because there's

502
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:27,720
Speaker 1: no guarantee that he's going to be here tomorrow. You

503
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: learn that there are no guarantees in this life, and

504
00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:33,399
Speaker 1: no one's going to make things happen for you. So

505
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:40,680
Speaker 1: I'm wondering to shift gears into a happier, happier.

506
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:42,560
Speaker 2: A little lighter Monday. Yeah, we wed.

507
00:24:43,160 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 3: We people are like clicking this out.

508
00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: So how how did you land a spot on Bethany's show?

509
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:58,640
Speaker 3: So that's actually a funny story and I've barely had

510
00:24:58,640 --> 00:25:02,040
Speaker 3: the chance to kind of like tell kind of how

511
00:25:02,080 --> 00:25:05,680
Speaker 3: this all got set into motion, but I I saw

512
00:25:05,760 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 3: her in my I'm a little bit older than you.

513
00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,800
Speaker 3: I got a couple of years on you, not too much, but.

514
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 5: Not ondcast, and so I kind of I started watching

515
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,400
Speaker 5: her when she was really a couple of years into

516
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:26,240
Speaker 5: the Real Housewives.

517
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 3: She got like Bethany ever after write her own show,

518
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 3: and she was building things. She started building Skinny Girl.

519
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 3: Margarita and I come from a very traditional household. My

520
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:40,560
Speaker 3: mom's family was Italian immigrants. Both my parents are doctors.

521
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 3: My sister is a is a surgeon. Right, so it's

522
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:47,040
Speaker 3: like very traditional, like this is the way life is

523
00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:50,639
Speaker 3: and that's what we do. Kind of mindset in our household.

524
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:54,640
Speaker 3: And when I saw Bethany just taking off building her

525
00:25:54,640 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 3: own thing, it was really like pre Instagram era too, right,

526
00:25:57,640 --> 00:26:00,000
Speaker 3: So there weren't really there were bloggers, but there weren't

527
00:26:00,119 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: so much quote unquote influencers, although I don't really use

528
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 3: that term either, but but she was one of a

529
00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:10,840
Speaker 3: kind and I was so impressed, and I thought maybe

530
00:26:10,880 --> 00:26:13,239
Speaker 3: I could take what I was doing with DJing and

531
00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:16,200
Speaker 3: model it, you know, modeled parts of my career after

532
00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:18,320
Speaker 3: kind of what she did at TV wasn't like my

533
00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:22,000
Speaker 3: number one priority, but I was like, if opportunities come,

534
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,119
Speaker 3: I should at least suss them out right and see

535
00:26:25,440 --> 00:26:28,200
Speaker 3: what might be the right fit. I was very specific

536
00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 3: about being on brand that as I'm sure I'm sure

537
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,040
Speaker 3: you've had that exchange with yourself too, and I'm sure

538
00:26:34,080 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 3: lots of people have contacted you about tons of things

539
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,320
Speaker 3: that are right or not right.

540
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,320
Speaker 2: Right, but totally let me, let me, let me, let

541
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:44,040
Speaker 2: me aska, wait, let me ask question what wait? I

542
00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 2: just want to jump because I want to go backwards

543
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 2: before we get all so, just so somebody like me

544
00:26:49,119 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 2: who doesn't like the audience of people who are not

545
00:26:51,960 --> 00:26:54,920
Speaker 2: as hip as you two, let's go back a second.

546
00:26:55,160 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 2: So you're from the Midwest, born and raised, and you

547
00:26:57,760 --> 00:27:01,439
Speaker 2: started DJing out in the Midwest, and and and then

548
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:03,960
Speaker 2: you got onto the show just to give me like

549
00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,920
Speaker 2: the cliff note version of house.

550
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:09,880
Speaker 3: So cliff yeah, cliff notes cliff notes of how DJ

551
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 3: Rose was born, right, So, because she's like a whole

552
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 3: different right, this is very casual in Nicole, she's very chill.

553
00:27:18,760 --> 00:27:23,239
Speaker 3: But DJ Rose is like me on adderall right, But

554
00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:28,040
Speaker 3: I mean I don't take that on meeting, no she

555
00:27:28,359 --> 00:27:32,040
Speaker 3: for anybody that does. But yeah, So, so I was

556
00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,359
Speaker 3: I went to I grew up in Saint Louis. I

557
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,520
Speaker 3: knew that I was just not like a small town

558
00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 3: verse because I just I you can tell when you

559
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:39,800
Speaker 3: like fit in and don't. And I had my own

560
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,720
Speaker 3: crew and whatever. But I was like, I'm a little

561
00:27:42,760 --> 00:27:46,240
Speaker 3: weird for like this conservative small town vine, so probably

562
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,280
Speaker 3: going to need to spread my wings at some point.

563
00:27:48,560 --> 00:27:51,640
Speaker 3: I went to Emory University in Atlanta. It was very

564
00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:54,000
Speaker 3: New Yorky my goal. I knew as a twelve year

565
00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 3: old that I wanted to be in New York. I

566
00:27:55,600 --> 00:27:58,320
Speaker 3: didn't really know why. I just had this vision ever

567
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:00,879
Speaker 3: since my mom took me for my twelfth birthday. We

568
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 3: did like the Eloise thing and stayed at the Waldorf

569
00:28:03,280 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 3: and like did tea at the Plaza, like we did

570
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:09,560
Speaker 3: all of like the New York things. Yeah, and like

571
00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:11,840
Speaker 3: I knew that I wanted to be there. I first

572
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:14,679
Speaker 3: worked in social media and digital marketing for agencies for

573
00:28:14,720 --> 00:28:17,000
Speaker 3: like four and a half years. I'm like publishing a

574
00:28:17,040 --> 00:28:20,480
Speaker 3: couple of marketing books like that was the beginning of

575
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:21,879
Speaker 3: my career. And then I was like, you know what,

576
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 3: I have a skill. I can sell it. I'm making

577
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,320
Speaker 3: decent money selling this. It's going to take me a

578
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,400
Speaker 3: year or two to build back up to my salary,

579
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 3: but look it, why don't I do it now, right,

580
00:28:32,160 --> 00:28:34,000
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna do this when I'm thirty and trying

581
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:34,880
Speaker 3: to maybe.

582
00:28:34,880 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 1: Right, totally, I get it. I do get it.

583
00:28:40,160 --> 00:28:42,880
Speaker 3: Why. I mean, seriously, hats off to you. I don't

584
00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:44,680
Speaker 3: know how you do all the millions of things that

585
00:28:44,720 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: you do. It's incredibly I think you just.

586
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: Look at life like it's a hurdle race and if

587
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:51,120
Speaker 1: you look up, you're going to fall on one of

588
00:28:51,120 --> 00:28:52,960
Speaker 1: the hurdles. So you just keep your head down. My

589
00:28:53,040 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: mom always told me that. And I can't look at

590
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:57,920
Speaker 1: what other people are doing because then it takes me

591
00:28:58,000 --> 00:28:59,800
Speaker 1: out of what I need to get done and makes

592
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: me beat myself up for not doing enough. And who knows,

593
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: I could be doing plenty, but social media makes me

594
00:29:06,920 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 1: think that everyone else is doing one hundred times better

595
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: than I am, you know which real mindful?

596
00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:14,760
Speaker 2: Right? Okay, So now so now you go from the

597
00:29:14,760 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 2: social media thing working in four years to get to Yeah.

598
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 3: So I'm I'm djang And like I said, I kind

599
00:29:22,040 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 3: of I had this vision of Bethany. I was like, oh,

600
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:26,240
Speaker 3: I'm just gonna she's like my role model, right, and

601
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:28,880
Speaker 3: didn't nowhere at the time, but I was like, if, like,

602
00:29:28,960 --> 00:29:30,920
Speaker 3: if I could be anybody when I grow up, I'd

603
00:29:30,920 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 3: be her met like certain parts of her. I'd manufacture

604
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 3: my my best version. No, but she's great. But so

605
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:38,880
Speaker 3: I was like, I would this is what I would

606
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 3: model my career like. And you know, I started djaying

607
00:29:42,440 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 3: and growing that business, and you know, over time started

608
00:29:45,560 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 3: building just kind of an organic following over email and Instagram, right,

609
00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:53,920
Speaker 3: and you know we still use both obviously very much.

610
00:29:53,960 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: And so that you know, they've eventually found me on

611
00:29:57,120 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 3: Instagram randomly reached out to me, and I was like

612
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:02,920
Speaker 3: this crazy, like, if that's not manifestation, I don't know.

613
00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:07,400
Speaker 1: Wow, oh I still believe in Yeah, her idea, I.

614
00:30:07,400 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 3: Mean eight years late. I mean it was like it

615
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:11,720
Speaker 3: was a while later. But I mean if she would

616
00:30:11,760 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 3: have found me when I was first building, I don't

617
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,560
Speaker 3: I don't think I would have been qualified to No.

618
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,960
Speaker 1: Timing is a real bitch, you know, because it's everything.

619
00:30:21,200 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: So even though it was eight and you know, there's

620
00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:27,320
Speaker 1: no like Manifestation doesn't say if you manifest for two

621
00:30:27,360 --> 00:30:29,520
Speaker 1: and a half years on the dot, that's when it

622
00:30:29,600 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 1: comes true. You know, it's like who knows how long

623
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:35,560
Speaker 1: you have to do it for? Okay, so they approach you,

624
00:30:35,560 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 1: you feel like it's the And by the way, the

625
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:40,440
Speaker 1: second day that you step on I mean making the shots,

626
00:30:40,480 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: I was like, you and I would have had a

627
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: real fucking heyday back in the day. I'll tell you what.

628
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:47,880
Speaker 1: She steps on and she steps onto the scene of

629
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: the Big Shot with Bethany, right, and she's just making

630
00:30:51,520 --> 00:30:53,120
Speaker 1: shots at the bar that they have set up.

631
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:54,920
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, that's my specialty shots.

632
00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:56,320
Speaker 1: You were killing it.

633
00:30:56,400 --> 00:31:00,200
Speaker 2: I'm the shots specials. My partner doesn't drink anymore, but

634
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:02,240
Speaker 2: she drank enough for all of us for decades and

635
00:31:02,280 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 2: decades and decades. I did so she so she And

636
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 2: by the way, when I met her that we laugh

637
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,320
Speaker 2: about it today. It wasn't funny then, but we laugh

638
00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:13,400
Speaker 2: about it today. I used to be like and she's like, oh, yeah,

639
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 2: I can drink. And I was like, okay, light wait,

640
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 2: like sure, And then at two in the morning, I'd

641
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,560
Speaker 2: be like, we're going home. It's like, no, we're fucking not.

642
00:31:21,040 --> 00:31:23,720
Speaker 2: Look at the fucking drink. It's not empty, and why

643
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,720
Speaker 2: would you waste a perfectly good fucking drink. I was like, Okay,

644
00:31:26,760 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 2: I surrender, I surrender. Can we go home now? Yeah?

645
00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,360
Speaker 2: She'd like, no, no, bar still open. We're gonna stay

646
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:36,200
Speaker 2: till three. No, she is, she was professional professional.

647
00:31:36,120 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 1: So what was what was that moment like when you

648
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: had no idea what was going on?

649
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 3: Right?

650
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: You like showed up, thought you were gonna have cocktail

651
00:31:43,400 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: hour and like work starts tomorrow.

652
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:47,800
Speaker 3: I thought I was at a party for sure, Like

653
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 3: that's a a joke, Like they were really like jokes

654
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,400
Speaker 3: on you, bitch, because this chip's about to get real.

655
00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:54,880
Speaker 3: But I was, you know, I don't regret anymore.

656
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 2: And wait, wait, just like, were you doing.

657
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 3: Shots my best life for a few minutes?

658
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,840
Speaker 2: Were they doing shots and they had to start working

659
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:01,520
Speaker 2: that night or something?

660
00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,000
Speaker 1: Basically, let me set it up Nicole for Rand basically.

661
00:32:04,680 --> 00:32:06,240
Speaker 2: For the rest of us.

662
00:32:06,240 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: Okay, if you haven't seen the Big Shot with Bethany,

663
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 1: you're missing out on everything. It's on HBO Max. So

664
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,120
Speaker 1: the setup is they have like a cocktail party, right, okay,

665
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:22,400
Speaker 1: first day, the first day, first night, they all lost.

666
00:32:22,560 --> 00:32:26,200
Speaker 1: Nicole rolls up Meloxi like all the people that are

667
00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: being put out like this, this position could be yours.

668
00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,760
Speaker 2: Oh so they're competing for the spot to work for.

669
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: Bethany vice president. Correct, Okay, but what they don't know

670
00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:40,840
Speaker 1: is that Bethany is watching them out the window and

671
00:32:40,920 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: she's like what each person is doing, and they have

672
00:32:43,320 --> 00:32:45,560
Speaker 1: no idea that she's going to come out at some point.

673
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,720
Speaker 1: She also has her team out there pretending like they're

674
00:32:48,760 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: up for the position a lot. Yes, yes, come.

675
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:59,520
Speaker 3: On, I'm just I'm making fun of one of the dudes.

676
00:33:00,040 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 3: Oh what, I meant it in a loving way.

677
00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:05,560
Speaker 2: And how many shots in?

678
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:08,040
Speaker 1: But you can tell that you're not mean, you can

679
00:33:08,040 --> 00:33:09,840
Speaker 1: tell you kind of poke fun.

680
00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:13,120
Speaker 2: Hold on, how many shots in are you before you

681
00:33:13,280 --> 00:33:16,520
Speaker 2: realize that Bethany is that we're that this is happening.

682
00:33:16,560 --> 00:33:17,160
Speaker 2: How many shots?

683
00:33:17,360 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 3: I only took like one or two out and I

684
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:23,320
Speaker 3: was making them for But my point was too, let's

685
00:33:23,360 --> 00:33:25,960
Speaker 3: like get everybody a little sauce. I can learn stuff

686
00:33:26,000 --> 00:33:28,200
Speaker 3: about it, and like I had a file where I

687
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:30,840
Speaker 3: write things down that I needed to know about people

688
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 3: in case for a rainy day. I mean, I don't know,

689
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 3: I've never done this ship before. I don't know all

690
00:33:35,720 --> 00:33:38,640
Speaker 3: these people. Some of them didn't necessarily have the best intentions.

691
00:33:38,680 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: Wait, you mean you mean every day you're not going

692
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: up against other people put on camera for a position

693
00:33:44,480 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: that's not your everyday life.

694
00:33:45,720 --> 00:33:48,120
Speaker 2: I have a question one who won this.

695
00:33:49,600 --> 00:33:49,760
Speaker 5: One?

696
00:33:50,800 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 2: Is she nice?

697
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:54,680
Speaker 3: Do you like Biloxi is an incredible human being? We're

698
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:56,520
Speaker 3: still best friends. We do every day.

699
00:33:56,680 --> 00:33:57,520
Speaker 2: Oh that's cool.

700
00:33:57,920 --> 00:34:01,640
Speaker 1: Does she still work with Bethany in that position? I

701
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,280
Speaker 1: tried to instagram stuff?

702
00:34:03,400 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 3: I mean, to my to my knowledge, yes, but I'm

703
00:34:07,160 --> 00:34:10,680
Speaker 3: not like super briefed on what's going on in deathany lands.

704
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:12,880
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know.

705
00:34:12,960 --> 00:34:15,160
Speaker 3: I just I do occasionally DM something.

706
00:34:15,239 --> 00:34:18,120
Speaker 2: How long was how long was the whole show filming?

707
00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,839
Speaker 2: How many weeks were you? Did you do this?

708
00:34:21,320 --> 00:34:21,440
Speaker 5: So?

709
00:34:21,840 --> 00:34:24,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it ended up being about like eight.

710
00:34:25,160 --> 00:34:29,279
Speaker 3: But it's a little hazy, likes we're just quarantining right

711
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,839
Speaker 3: and right film. The pandemic makes things tough. I'm sure

712
00:34:32,880 --> 00:34:33,080
Speaker 3: you know.

713
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:36,600
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah, No, it's it's like the sad

714
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:38,319
Speaker 1: thing is is you become used to it. You're like,

715
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:41,200
Speaker 1: I don't even remember a life that we didn't have

716
00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 1: to get tested and quarantine and not see anybody. I

717
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:48,680
Speaker 1: really don't remember without that. Okay, So you see Bethany,

718
00:34:48,760 --> 00:34:51,920
Speaker 1: she comes down and she tells you Elimination Round is happening.

719
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:57,560
Speaker 1: Day fucking won thisbody? I think they sent like four

720
00:34:57,640 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 1: people home.

721
00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:00,279
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like four or five. It's like half of

722
00:35:00,320 --> 00:35:04,319
Speaker 3: the crew just immediately got the axe, and I was

723
00:35:04,520 --> 00:35:06,279
Speaker 3: certain that her team was going to tell her I

724
00:35:06,360 --> 00:35:08,520
Speaker 3: was a total jerk off, and they I mean, and

725
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:11,560
Speaker 3: one of the guys did, right, yow get rid of

726
00:35:11,760 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 3: Nicole because I called him little Cory, but there was

727
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:16,840
Speaker 3: a tall Cory and in short Corey. I was just

728
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 3: trying to like, remember everybody.

729
00:35:21,600 --> 00:35:23,280
Speaker 1: Like little La La and big Lalla.

730
00:35:23,800 --> 00:35:24,319
Speaker 3: I love god.

731
00:35:24,360 --> 00:35:25,680
Speaker 1: I thought it was cute. I didn't think you were

732
00:35:25,680 --> 00:35:28,160
Speaker 1: poking fun at all. There were two Corey's. Whatever, this

733
00:35:28,239 --> 00:35:29,080
Speaker 1: is how we're gonna.

734
00:35:28,880 --> 00:35:32,279
Speaker 2: That's I don't think that warrants elimination. That's a little extreme.

735
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:35,959
Speaker 1: She didn't get a liliminate. You fucking rocked it until

736
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: the wills fell off.

737
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,520
Speaker 2: Wait, you stayed till when the last two last.

738
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 3: I was top four. There was only one episode that

739
00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:45,839
Speaker 3: I wasn't in. It was it's like, there's not really

740
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 3: a structure to how she eliminated people. But I was

741
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 3: in the first I guess like six or seven.

742
00:35:51,719 --> 00:35:54,520
Speaker 2: I forget how much that's great though, that's great. It

743
00:35:54,680 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 2: is okay, So.

744
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was definitely fine, and I got to know

745
00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 3: her more, right, Like at first, I think that's anything,

746
00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:04,239
Speaker 3: and I was just like totally crazy, right, but she

747
00:36:04,320 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 3: knew it was a work event, but I thought I

748
00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 3: was at it getting to know you party right, thinks what.

749
00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:14,320
Speaker 1: A great idea about it when you when you watched

750
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,200
Speaker 1: the show back, what are you most mortified of?

751
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,759
Speaker 3: I mean, like definitely, And when you're saying it back

752
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:23,680
Speaker 3: to me, I'm like, you're right, this isn't a big deal.

753
00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:27,839
Speaker 3: But when I watched like episodes one and some of two,

754
00:36:28,560 --> 00:36:30,600
Speaker 3: at first, I was just like, oh my god, like

755
00:36:31,600 --> 00:36:34,040
Speaker 3: like just I mean I literally think they sped my

756
00:36:34,200 --> 00:36:36,960
Speaker 3: voice up, like you are talking to me now, right,

757
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,520
Speaker 3: But it was like I was like, like the energizer, Bunny.

758
00:36:40,200 --> 00:36:42,680
Speaker 1: You're very different. You're very different now than what I

759
00:36:42,760 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: see on the show.

760
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:46,439
Speaker 3: Really, Oh yeah, I mean I think some of it's

761
00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:48,520
Speaker 3: the edit, right, And it's like also, I was like

762
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,279
Speaker 3: definitely a little bit nervous at first too, like I'm

763
00:36:51,280 --> 00:36:54,759
Speaker 3: sure you remember like your first day ever on sat

764
00:36:54,800 --> 00:36:55,520
Speaker 3: at Vander.

765
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,879
Speaker 1: Right, and I wish I was as cool back then,

766
00:36:59,120 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 1: Like I wish I was as cool now as I

767
00:37:00,840 --> 00:37:03,280
Speaker 1: was back then, actually, But I said very.

768
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,720
Speaker 3: A little nervous too, right, nervous.

769
00:37:05,840 --> 00:37:08,040
Speaker 1: I was nervous, but I was also so chill and

770
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,240
Speaker 1: were drinking. I was drinking and smoking a lot of weeds.

771
00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:14,440
Speaker 1: So I was like, she was, yeah, she was pay.

772
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,400
Speaker 2: Most of the time. Wait, but I will but I

773
00:37:16,440 --> 00:37:18,640
Speaker 2: find a funny story, Nicole. I will tell you. When

774
00:37:18,680 --> 00:37:21,040
Speaker 2: she got sober and she came back for her first

775
00:37:21,040 --> 00:37:24,600
Speaker 2: season of Vanderpump, she was petrified because you didn't know

776
00:37:24,640 --> 00:37:26,799
Speaker 2: if you would be yourself. You kept asking, are they

777
00:37:26,880 --> 00:37:28,879
Speaker 2: am I going to still be the Lalla? And I said,

778
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 2: You're better than the old Laala because you're ten times quicker.

779
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 2: You're ten times more vicious when people are mean to

780
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 2: you now because you're aware, but you're You're sweeter than

781
00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:41,359
Speaker 2: you ever were and more vulnerable. So I said, this

782
00:37:41,400 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 2: is like the well rounded Laala. Like. So, she was

783
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,400
Speaker 2: nervous when she got sober, but you weren't nervous in

784
00:37:46,440 --> 00:37:47,840
Speaker 2: the beginning the first season.

785
00:37:48,320 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 1: No, I was twenty three. I was like, this is

786
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:52,080
Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to do. I'm supposed to be drunk

787
00:37:52,120 --> 00:37:56,600
Speaker 1: all day. You know, what is anybody else? Like? In

788
00:37:56,640 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 1: my mind, I was like, I'm twenty three, I'm drunk

789
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,600
Speaker 1: every day, and hi, and I'm on a fucking television show.

790
00:38:02,920 --> 00:38:04,839
Speaker 1: If I'm not winning the game, then I don't know

791
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:06,560
Speaker 1: what winning the game is, you know.

792
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:11,439
Speaker 3: I mean very fair equation. Completely. I felt that way DJ,

793
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,880
Speaker 3: and I was like, I was like whatever. When I

794
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 3: really left in DJ full time, like twenty six, I

795
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:19,800
Speaker 3: had the greatest crew of like down ass chicks in

796
00:38:19,880 --> 00:38:22,480
Speaker 3: New York City. There are always like dressed to the knives,

797
00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,520
Speaker 3: but like, we're real friends, right. They weren't flaky pieces

798
00:38:25,520 --> 00:38:28,160
Speaker 3: of shit. They showed up, they came through every event.

799
00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:31,319
Speaker 3: They brought the fun vibes, you know. And and I

800
00:38:31,360 --> 00:38:33,200
Speaker 3: was just I didn't have to do anything. People just

801
00:38:33,239 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 3: called me and were.

802
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,600
Speaker 1: Like, we want you to DJ, and you're gonna You're

803
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: getting paid to party. So it's like the best of

804
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 1: both the worlds we got.

805
00:38:40,760 --> 00:38:42,239
Speaker 2: We got to take a break. We have to break

806
00:38:42,520 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 2: because I want to. I want to keep talking about

807
00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:45,840
Speaker 2: the DJ, but with take a quick.

808
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:47,799
Speaker 1: Break, I'm like, I love having you as a guest.

809
00:38:47,840 --> 00:38:50,279
Speaker 1: I just want to pick your brain for five hours. Yes,

810
00:38:50,360 --> 00:38:55,799
Speaker 1: you can take a break, We'll be right back and

811
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:59,200
Speaker 1: we're back. So I want to say this being a

812
00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: part you're you being on that show is much more

813
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 1: difficult than what I have to do every day, because

814
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 1: number one, you're being filmed, so you want it to

815
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:11,000
Speaker 1: be entertaining, but you're also up for a real life job,

816
00:39:11,080 --> 00:39:13,759
Speaker 1: so you can't act a damn fool because you could

817
00:39:13,800 --> 00:39:16,399
Speaker 1: go home. But if you act a damn fool, people

818
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: are gonna keep watching the show. It's like such a

819
00:39:19,040 --> 00:39:20,239
Speaker 1: mind fuck, you know.

820
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: Thank you? Yes, I hope everybody is hearing that right now,

821
00:39:24,239 --> 00:39:27,000
Speaker 3: because there were points where I was on that show

822
00:39:27,040 --> 00:39:30,200
Speaker 3: and I was like, Okay, sorry, what show are we on?

823
00:39:30,920 --> 00:39:32,680
Speaker 3: Can I have some show notes? Like is there anything

824
00:39:32,840 --> 00:39:34,640
Speaker 3: like are we on The Apprentice? Or are we on

825
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:38,480
Speaker 3: the Red Housewives? Or like ren percentage of both? Am

826
00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,240
Speaker 3: I supposed to be giving here? Like it's very unclear

827
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:42,480
Speaker 3: what is going on?

828
00:39:42,760 --> 00:39:42,960
Speaker 2: Yeah?

829
00:39:43,040 --> 00:39:46,600
Speaker 1: No, I would feel the same way like competition reality shows,

830
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:50,880
Speaker 1: especially one where it's your job is a job is

831
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:54,759
Speaker 1: at stake? You know, the it's it's very confusing. But

832
00:39:55,680 --> 00:39:58,800
Speaker 1: the time that you were on the photo shoot, do

833
00:39:58,840 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: you remember you were doing the sho shape where and

834
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:03,799
Speaker 1: you put her on the back burner, which I was like,

835
00:40:03,920 --> 00:40:07,880
Speaker 1: holy shit, this bitch is badass. Like I probably wouldn't

836
00:40:07,920 --> 00:40:10,840
Speaker 1: have done that, but like, props to her for being like, Bethany,

837
00:40:10,840 --> 00:40:13,520
Speaker 1: we're gonna do you last, We're gonna shoot you last.

838
00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:17,680
Speaker 1: I'm gonna model first. Just kidding, but like what was

839
00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 1: going through your head because your bounce back in Bethany's

840
00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,480
Speaker 1: eyes was legit, Like you went out unfazed, but then

841
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: you kind of lost it a little bit, like going.

842
00:40:28,560 --> 00:40:31,960
Speaker 3: Through all the things, like that was a day to remember.

843
00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:34,239
Speaker 3: I mean, I'll like never forget that day for the

844
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:37,440
Speaker 3: rest of my life. But like I'm proud of myself

845
00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 3: for like just keeping it together. Obviously there were many

846
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 3: moments where I was like I might have a nervous breakdown. Nope, Okay,

847
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:48,840
Speaker 3: I got this right. But yeah, I had planned to

848
00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:51,719
Speaker 3: really and I learned this about myself through filming the show.

849
00:40:51,760 --> 00:40:53,440
Speaker 3: And I'm sure you feel the same way that, like

850
00:40:53,840 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 3: doing reality TV is like some of the most growth

851
00:40:57,000 --> 00:40:59,640
Speaker 3: that you've probably ever like experienced as a human, right

852
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,880
Speaker 3: because like you're the greatest things about you and the

853
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:07,880
Speaker 3: worst things about you are reflected back to hardcore right people.

854
00:41:08,600 --> 00:41:09,160
Speaker 1: Yeah right?

855
00:41:10,120 --> 00:41:13,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, So so in that moment, I was like I

856
00:41:13,960 --> 00:41:17,040
Speaker 3: had I think that I learned that I had planned

857
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 3: an overly ambitious photo shoot with three different looks in

858
00:41:19,680 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 3: thirty minutes, which I'm sure you know as a content

859
00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,400
Speaker 3: creator and brand owner it's impossible to do that and

860
00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 3: get it all right. But I was just, I guess,

861
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:29,759
Speaker 3: trying to show off because this was in my wheelhouse,

862
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 3: right of things that I do for myself and for

863
00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 3: my brand and you know, in skating and whatnot. And

864
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,359
Speaker 3: then her throwing a wrench in that plan just made

865
00:41:40,360 --> 00:41:43,520
Speaker 3: it unmanageable. So I didn't have clothing that could fit her.

866
00:41:43,560 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 3: She's a zero, right or a double zero really if

867
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:49,319
Speaker 3: I had that, and I picked plus size models, so

868
00:41:49,400 --> 00:41:52,120
Speaker 3: I was like, just screw right. So I was like,

869
00:41:52,440 --> 00:41:54,759
Speaker 3: so we're gonna have to do like go take the

870
00:41:54,800 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 3: models down from their clothes, right, so I could do

871
00:41:57,120 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 3: them in the skinny roll clothing down to the shape

872
00:42:00,120 --> 00:42:02,279
Speaker 3: where and then put her in laugh. And it wasn't

873
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 3: because I wanted to put baby on the back burner, right,

874
00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 3: It was just that I like didn't know how else

875
00:42:07,880 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 3: to do it because I could not bring clothes from

876
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,880
Speaker 3: the loft for her that would fit her, and you know,

877
00:42:13,080 --> 00:42:15,520
Speaker 3: most people didn't even have clothes that would fit her

878
00:42:15,560 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 3: at the shoot or were busy using them in their

879
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:19,720
Speaker 3: own preparation, right.

880
00:42:20,600 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 1: No, I I was every challenge that you guys were given.

881
00:42:23,960 --> 00:42:25,800
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't know how the fuck I

882
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:29,319
Speaker 1: would do this. And then the grammar, the grammar on

883
00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,279
Speaker 1: the cards when she was like, we're doing the PSA

884
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: for Oh my gosh, how can you can't relate?

885
00:42:38,719 --> 00:42:40,600
Speaker 2: But I'm listening. But now I'm going to watch the show,

886
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:41,239
Speaker 2: so keep calling.

887
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:43,719
Speaker 1: I told you it's so good. Yeah, it's so. I

888
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:47,080
Speaker 1: actually learned a lot from the show. Really, I really did.

889
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,080
Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah, business wise.

890
00:42:49,200 --> 00:42:51,600
Speaker 1: Business wise and just to see someone in like how

891
00:42:51,640 --> 00:42:53,840
Speaker 1: things don't stop moving and how things are going to

892
00:42:53,880 --> 00:42:55,439
Speaker 1: be thrown at you and you may have a short

893
00:42:55,480 --> 00:42:57,239
Speaker 1: period of time, but you better make it look like

894
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: you had a really long fucking time to do. This

895
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 1: is what I've done. So I have to ask you

896
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:03,960
Speaker 1: about the crop top. Bethany really had a problem with

897
00:43:04,000 --> 00:43:05,720
Speaker 1: your crop top, do you remember?

898
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I'm five to five, so I probably

899
00:43:09,040 --> 00:43:11,520
Speaker 3: look taller on Instagram, but I'm not that tall. I'm

900
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 3: very average, and so like a crop top on me

901
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,680
Speaker 3: is really not like so sexual, like it's not that

902
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:20,800
Speaker 3: word for me. At a air crop up, I always

903
00:43:20,800 --> 00:43:24,040
Speaker 3: were highways advance. I thought that we were doing a

904
00:43:24,160 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 3: photo shoot, so I thought, okay, like I'm photo directing

905
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:31,839
Speaker 3: a bunch of models, this fits right. She was just

906
00:43:31,960 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 3: very invented.

907
00:43:33,400 --> 00:43:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm very on the DJ front.

908
00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 1: Randall's so into I love.

909
00:43:39,640 --> 00:43:41,680
Speaker 2: So many of my friends are DJs, which, like I'm

910
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:43,680
Speaker 2: not even a big music guy. But like, I was

911
00:43:43,719 --> 00:43:45,840
Speaker 2: just with Steve Ioki this week and we were developing

912
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:49,080
Speaker 2: a TV show with my friend Quavo, So like, I love,

913
00:43:49,600 --> 00:43:52,240
Speaker 2: I just love everything about music. I have no music

914
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:55,040
Speaker 2: musical ability, She'll tell you, like literally none, but I'm

915
00:43:55,080 --> 00:43:57,840
Speaker 2: kind of like enamored by like people that perform. I

916
00:43:57,880 --> 00:44:00,759
Speaker 2: just think it's really unique and different, the fact that

917
00:44:00,760 --> 00:44:03,800
Speaker 2: you have to produce music, go on a stage, perform,

918
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 2: and get all these people to buy into your creative vision.

919
00:44:07,000 --> 00:44:09,080
Speaker 2: I mean, I guess it's like movies, but I it's

920
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 2: what I know movies. So like, this is a very

921
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 2: foreign world for me. So I've always been intrigued by

922
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 2: performers and singers and all that. So it says that

923
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:21,680
Speaker 2: you've performed with Nelly, Diana, Ross, ryl Pro people like that,

924
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:23,160
Speaker 2: is that correct or incorrect?

925
00:44:23,840 --> 00:44:26,239
Speaker 3: No, it's correct, but it's like I'm opening in or

926
00:44:26,239 --> 00:44:29,000
Speaker 3: closing for them, right, these are the main the talents,

927
00:44:29,000 --> 00:44:30,520
Speaker 3: the main act, and I'm.

928
00:44:32,520 --> 00:44:34,120
Speaker 2: All right, let's not play that down. Let's keep it

929
00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 2: going along. So, so, what was the biggest venue you've

930
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 2: ever played that you that you can recall, Like, what

931
00:44:41,000 --> 00:44:41,319
Speaker 2: was I.

932
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 3: Mean the biggest venue? I guess I mean the so

933
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:47,640
Speaker 3: I did so Super Bowls party was the Maxim party.

934
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:48,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a big one.

935
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 3: And that was like before Cardi Bat went on. So

936
00:44:50,640 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 3: that was very like it's we were the whole building

937
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:58,759
Speaker 3: to forget how many people in that party or just

938
00:44:58,800 --> 00:45:01,880
Speaker 3: like I mean even like Archie, right, a marquee can

939
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:04,320
Speaker 3: hold two thousand people, and like I remember the first

940
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:06,640
Speaker 3: time it wasn't even like a really important event, but

941
00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:09,200
Speaker 3: the first time that those guys from Strategic were like,

942
00:45:09,480 --> 00:45:11,120
Speaker 3: come up, dude, we're gonna give you a shot, like

943
00:45:11,160 --> 00:45:13,520
Speaker 3: don't stuck it up. And I was like, okay, like

944
00:45:13,640 --> 00:45:15,560
Speaker 3: maybe so much like I you know, I knew them

945
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,680
Speaker 3: for a while, right, because I've been out, I've been

946
00:45:17,680 --> 00:45:19,799
Speaker 3: on the scene in New York, and I was just

947
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:22,680
Speaker 3: so grateful to have the opportunity. I was like scared

948
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:25,319
Speaker 3: shitless when I saw that many people staring up at

949
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,759
Speaker 3: me looking for their fun that night, right, I.

950
00:45:28,719 --> 00:45:31,400
Speaker 2: Mean that's what I mean that you mean it's fucking crazy,

951
00:45:31,440 --> 00:45:33,400
Speaker 2: And that's why I say, like, like friends of mine

952
00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:36,200
Speaker 2: who do that like you do, I'm blown away, Like

953
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:37,920
Speaker 2: I was. I called LOLLA this week and I was

954
00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:40,879
Speaker 2: sitting at my friend's club live in the DJ booth

955
00:45:40,960 --> 00:45:44,239
Speaker 2: with with Steve and these and even at fifty years old,

956
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:46,400
Speaker 2: which I've been in club since I was eighteen or

957
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:49,480
Speaker 2: you know whatever, looking out at two thousand and three

958
00:45:49,480 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: thousand people and watching them look up like and just

959
00:45:52,719 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 2: follow the music and dance, and they just want more,

960
00:45:55,320 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 2: And I'm like, I would lose my shit, Like I

961
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 2: would think that this is never going to work, this connection.

962
00:46:00,280 --> 00:46:02,360
Speaker 2: So I am an amor by by people that do

963
00:46:02,400 --> 00:46:02,719
Speaker 2: it well.

964
00:46:02,719 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 1: And the drinking can only do so much for you.

965
00:46:04,760 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 1: Like the music. If I go into a club and

966
00:46:09,160 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm sober and guess, I like, I can still hang

967
00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:13,000
Speaker 1: with the best of them at a nightclub. And if

968
00:46:13,040 --> 00:46:15,600
Speaker 1: the music is not popping and makes me want to

969
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,239
Speaker 1: like twerk my flatty, I don't want to be there.

970
00:46:18,600 --> 00:46:21,600
Speaker 1: You're responsible for everyone's fun. That's intimidating.

971
00:46:21,920 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 3: I agree, yeah, I agree, it does feel like a

972
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:26,680
Speaker 3: big responsibility. But you know what's funny, I think and

973
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:28,640
Speaker 3: it was the same thing with TV and you probably

974
00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:30,520
Speaker 3: you both can relate to this. I'm sure it's the

975
00:46:30,560 --> 00:46:33,280
Speaker 3: same thing with you know, building movies that make people

976
00:46:33,320 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 3: get really excited. But it's like once you you know,

977
00:46:36,040 --> 00:46:38,239
Speaker 3: you're nervous about it, and then you learn how to

978
00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 3: do it right. It's like burning a bike and you know, Okay,

979
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:44,000
Speaker 3: if I replicate the same formula, it seems to work.

980
00:46:44,080 --> 00:46:46,759
Speaker 3: Now I've done this ten times, one hundred times, and

981
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 3: so you move past that fear, right, So for me,

982
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 3: it's like it's funny. I can get in and maybe

983
00:46:52,239 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 3: you guys will be able to relate this. I can't

984
00:46:53,719 --> 00:46:56,799
Speaker 3: get in that creative flow state where it's like I'm

985
00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:02,719
Speaker 3: truly channeling creative energy. I did an event for like

986
00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:05,919
Speaker 3: what was the some fashion week thing with Jeremy from

987
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:10,879
Speaker 3: Mosquino and like Snax and Harper's bizarre, like a bunch

988
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,480
Speaker 3: of magazin there's a bunch of different people collaborating on

989
00:47:13,520 --> 00:47:18,160
Speaker 3: this townhouse loft, very exclusive experience in New York during

990
00:47:18,200 --> 00:47:20,440
Speaker 3: fashion Week when year and he said that when he

991
00:47:20,440 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 3: gets in a space of make, you know, turning his

992
00:47:22,520 --> 00:47:25,839
Speaker 3: art into fashion that he's like channeling from, you know,

993
00:47:25,920 --> 00:47:28,400
Speaker 3: a higher source or power. And when he said that,

994
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,959
Speaker 3: I was like, oh my god, this makes sense now,

995
00:47:33,160 --> 00:47:35,080
Speaker 3: Like it's it. I have to really like I can't

996
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:37,600
Speaker 3: drink too much, I can't be too nervous, Like you

997
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:40,120
Speaker 3: have to relax into it, right, Like it helps to

998
00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 3: have like a good environment with clients that I like

999
00:47:43,000 --> 00:47:45,880
Speaker 3: or have had experience with before and friends that are

1000
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:49,279
Speaker 3: supportive around, because it just like helps me ease into it.

1001
00:47:49,320 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 3: But you know, once you know what sets the conditions

1002
00:47:52,960 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 3: for that, you can recreate it.

1003
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:56,440
Speaker 1: When it happened to Nicole Rose.

1004
00:47:57,760 --> 00:48:01,680
Speaker 3: Exactly, I said, right, this goes off exactly.

1005
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:04,759
Speaker 1: I relate because on the day to day I'm just

1006
00:48:05,120 --> 00:48:06,320
Speaker 1: Laren from Utah.

1007
00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:08,799
Speaker 2: But like, I don't know if you're ever just learned

1008
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:10,640
Speaker 2: from me, it's all, but that I definitely am.

1009
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: When I'm with my daughter Ocean, I'm larning from Utah.

1010
00:48:13,880 --> 00:48:16,279
Speaker 1: Like it's very normal. We're chilling. It's a it's a

1011
00:48:16,320 --> 00:48:18,920
Speaker 1: whole vibe. But then when it's time to work and

1012
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:22,000
Speaker 1: you can't be affected by negative energy, you have to

1013
00:48:22,080 --> 00:48:24,960
Speaker 1: still keep that same hat on. You got to go

1014
00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:27,359
Speaker 1: into give them fucking l alat you know.

1015
00:48:28,280 --> 00:48:30,759
Speaker 2: I also think I also think people say like it

1016
00:48:30,760 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 2: takes ten thousand hours to be a professional. It's something

1017
00:48:33,760 --> 00:48:36,440
Speaker 2: you know literally, So maybe like for me, I've been

1018
00:48:36,440 --> 00:48:39,520
Speaker 2: making movies for my whole life, and I maybe even

1019
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 2: in a passion of mind, like poker, it took me

1020
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:43,880
Speaker 2: ten years to become good at it. Like when I

1021
00:48:43,880 --> 00:48:46,759
Speaker 2: first sat down, I was petrified if I got to

1022
00:48:46,800 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 2: a final table, I was petrified. I think, you know,

1023
00:48:49,160 --> 00:48:52,680
Speaker 2: you're a professional DJ. You've been doing this for thousands

1024
00:48:52,719 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 2: of thousand hours. So probably when you step up on

1025
00:48:54,480 --> 00:48:57,799
Speaker 2: that stage, the true artist kind of comes through, and

1026
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:00,520
Speaker 2: it's probably why you're so natural and good at it.

1027
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:02,880
Speaker 1: And Nicole, it seems like you're you do well under.

1028
00:49:02,640 --> 00:49:05,520
Speaker 2: Pressure from the show.

1029
00:49:05,640 --> 00:49:06,279
Speaker 3: Thank you well.

1030
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 1: She's saying that, like the people from Marquis, they were like,

1031
00:49:09,120 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: we're giving you a shot, don't fuck this up. And

1032
00:49:11,040 --> 00:49:13,160
Speaker 1: she's like, okay, like let's do it. Thank you for

1033
00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 1: the opportunity. Me I'd be like I need a couple

1034
00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:17,359
Speaker 1: of days to like prepare, maybe a week.

1035
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:19,399
Speaker 2: Oh, you don't even do well if if people ask

1036
00:49:19,440 --> 00:49:21,319
Speaker 2: you to come up on a tennis court and play

1037
00:49:21,360 --> 00:49:23,000
Speaker 2: for three seconds.

1038
00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:28,040
Speaker 1: I need preparation time mentally, so you you do well

1039
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:29,440
Speaker 1: just fucking winging it.

1040
00:49:30,840 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 3: So sort of I like I can wing it, but

1041
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:36,760
Speaker 3: also like, don't don't be fooled like that even within

1042
00:49:36,920 --> 00:49:39,680
Speaker 3: five minutes, right, if I have to go live on

1043
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:42,600
Speaker 3: something that I didn't know about, or even Bethany said

1044
00:49:42,600 --> 00:49:45,040
Speaker 3: this that I she noticed that my that I could

1045
00:49:45,040 --> 00:49:47,000
Speaker 3: like keep it together or pull it back together if

1046
00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:51,080
Speaker 3: I was like starting to lose it under pressure. And

1047
00:49:51,360 --> 00:49:54,240
Speaker 3: I mean part of that is like this mindset routine

1048
00:49:54,320 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 3: that I have that we teach in the mentorship too,

1049
00:49:56,880 --> 00:50:00,960
Speaker 3: that like just helps you ground your yourself and what

1050
00:50:01,000 --> 00:50:03,479
Speaker 3: the truth of you is. Right, Like we can all

1051
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 3: go down this tangent and tell ourself a bunch of

1052
00:50:05,960 --> 00:50:09,239
Speaker 3: why and let our negative nancy go off, right, But

1053
00:50:09,280 --> 00:50:12,600
Speaker 3: it's like having a process to talk myself off the

1054
00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:16,840
Speaker 3: ledge and then also visualizing success. Right, Like I hadn't

1055
00:50:16,920 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 3: DJed in a while because of the pandemic, and I

1056
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:21,879
Speaker 3: was like, I remember there was this event we were

1057
00:50:21,880 --> 00:50:24,640
Speaker 3: doing with Voove, and like I just you guys probably

1058
00:50:24,640 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 3: already have learned about me. I fucking love champagne for

1059
00:50:29,719 --> 00:50:33,040
Speaker 3: no reason, and I was doing this event with them

1060
00:50:33,080 --> 00:50:34,520
Speaker 3: for the fourth and I just hadn't done it in

1061
00:50:34,560 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 3: two years. I had been doing that same party in

1062
00:50:36,280 --> 00:50:39,680
Speaker 3: the Hamptons for like three years, but I just like,

1063
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,279
Speaker 3: you know, I didn't know who was showing up. I

1064
00:50:41,320 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 3: hadn't seen the clients in a while. I like just

1065
00:50:43,719 --> 00:50:46,120
Speaker 3: loved the brands that were involved and really wanted to

1066
00:50:46,160 --> 00:50:48,560
Speaker 3: be great, and you know, with the pressures of the pandemic,

1067
00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:51,279
Speaker 3: just didn't know what to expect and people were gonna

1068
00:50:51,320 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 3: show and and whatnot. And I just visualized all the

1069
00:50:55,360 --> 00:50:58,080
Speaker 3: positive energy being in the room, and before you knew it,

1070
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:00,839
Speaker 3: the party looked like what I saw in my head,

1071
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:02,720
Speaker 3: totally right, and like that works.

1072
00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:08,200
Speaker 1: So this mentorship program you have had it for how long?

1073
00:51:08,280 --> 00:51:12,000
Speaker 1: And what does it kind of consist of? Like how

1074
00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: do people come to you and say I need your

1075
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:16,239
Speaker 1: help to get through this, that and the other.

1076
00:51:16,719 --> 00:51:20,240
Speaker 3: Yes, So it actually started. I was already thinking about

1077
00:51:20,280 --> 00:51:23,600
Speaker 3: it when I was filming when especially when I had

1078
00:51:23,640 --> 00:51:25,239
Speaker 3: that melt down in the photo shoot and I went

1079
00:51:25,239 --> 00:51:28,200
Speaker 3: to the bathroom and like reaffirmed myself in the mirror,

1080
00:51:28,239 --> 00:51:30,560
Speaker 3: did my mantras, did my affirmations. I was like, you're

1081
00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,680
Speaker 3: fucking queen, get back out and pull it together, bitch.

1082
00:51:34,200 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 3: Like I was like, you can do this, and like

1083
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 3: went back out there after that pep talk, and I

1084
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 3: was like, Damn, this shit works. Like I knew this worked,

1085
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,319
Speaker 3: but this works like in a pressure cooker. Right. So

1086
00:51:44,800 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 3: that was kind of like the real test of do

1087
00:51:47,760 --> 00:51:51,239
Speaker 3: these strategies right quote unquote that I've been using for

1088
00:51:51,320 --> 00:51:55,480
Speaker 3: the last several years, do they actually work in extreme

1089
00:51:55,560 --> 00:51:56,840
Speaker 3: situations of stress?

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Speaker 5: Right?

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00:51:57,280 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 3: And I felt like they did. And so I felt

1092
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:02,360
Speaker 3: like that was really my sign to come forward. Like

1093
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:04,799
Speaker 3: I'd always taught the girls that are on my team.

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00:52:04,840 --> 00:52:07,160
Speaker 3: There's a bunch of girls that have interned or been

1095
00:52:07,200 --> 00:52:09,439
Speaker 3: my assistants or whatever. I've always taught them these things.

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00:52:09,480 --> 00:52:12,760
Speaker 3: I've always taught my younger sister. I've mentored other women

1097
00:52:12,840 --> 00:52:15,600
Speaker 3: that are now like successful and hire me for gigs, right,

1098
00:52:15,640 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 3: like one of my girls who's like high up at

1099
00:52:17,520 --> 00:52:18,360
Speaker 3: Aneheuser Bush.

1100
00:52:18,440 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 2: Right.

1101
00:52:18,600 --> 00:52:22,560
Speaker 3: But it's like, so it was about taking codifying the

1102
00:52:22,640 --> 00:52:25,000
Speaker 3: knowledge that I learned as a performer and how to

1103
00:52:25,080 --> 00:52:27,960
Speaker 3: keep together and grow my career and you know, my

1104
00:52:28,040 --> 00:52:32,360
Speaker 3: business as an entrepreneur and teach that making that teachable.

1105
00:52:32,400 --> 00:52:35,280
Speaker 3: And so I hired a business coach in the winter

1106
00:52:35,520 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 3: after filming the show to really kind of help me

1107
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 3: understand the process of doing that and give me some

1108
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,600
Speaker 3: of the tangible tools that she had used to build

1109
00:52:44,640 --> 00:52:48,279
Speaker 3: her program, which was very different. But mine is about mindset,

1110
00:52:48,760 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 3: you know, like basically going deep into your subconscious brain,

1111
00:52:52,719 --> 00:52:56,640
Speaker 3: your psyche, under unearthing all these limiting, shitty beliefs we

1112
00:52:56,760 --> 00:53:00,040
Speaker 3: all have them. Rewriting your story, rewriting your after me

1113
00:53:00,920 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: using your mantras, teaching people when to call in this

1114
00:53:04,800 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 3: work right, and then having a morning routine and what

1115
00:53:08,120 --> 00:53:10,840
Speaker 3: I call the manifest mindset tool that we build together.

1116
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,480
Speaker 3: That's a custom note in their phone that they can

1117
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,320
Speaker 3: read in two minutes, you know, or sixty seconds flat,

1118
00:53:16,400 --> 00:53:19,280
Speaker 3: anytime that they need to take a pause and reset

1119
00:53:19,360 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 3: and realign themselves.

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Speaker 1: I love it.

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00:53:21,280 --> 00:53:23,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's great. That's really really inspiring. I love that.

1122
00:53:24,239 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: I know. So is that like are you still DJing?

1123
00:53:27,880 --> 00:53:30,880
Speaker 1: Like what what do you feel? And I don't I

1124
00:53:30,920 --> 00:53:34,000
Speaker 1: always like to put all my eggs into different baskets.

1125
00:53:34,680 --> 00:53:37,440
Speaker 1: Would you say the hit most of your eggs are

1126
00:53:37,480 --> 00:53:40,719
Speaker 1: in your mentorship program basket? Or like are you still DJing?

1127
00:53:40,840 --> 00:53:42,000
Speaker 1: Like what are you up to?

1128
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:46,160
Speaker 3: Yeah? So I am DJing and I love DJing, right,

1129
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,239
Speaker 3: DJing is just like a big passion of mine. It

1130
00:53:48,280 --> 00:53:52,520
Speaker 3: always will be. But this business, I feel like is

1131
00:53:52,560 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 3: super aligned with my purpose. And I think my purpose

1132
00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 3: has shifted from my twenties into my thirties. And I

1133
00:53:58,080 --> 00:54:00,000
Speaker 3: know that you're building new things too, So you probably

1134
00:54:00,800 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 3: have felt that, right. It went from like wine and

1135
00:54:03,280 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 3: weed to like products done, you know, for lives of women.

1136
00:54:06,560 --> 00:54:08,279
Speaker 3: What I'd love to ask you this when you come

1137
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:12,240
Speaker 3: on my show. Yeah, so I think for me now,

1138
00:54:12,360 --> 00:54:16,000
Speaker 3: it's where I am in my life. I will always

1139
00:54:16,040 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 3: want to dj. I will always want to pull up

1140
00:54:18,120 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 3: to the Hampton's with my friend, Yes and a banger

1141
00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:21,720
Speaker 3: for my friends.

1142
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:24,440
Speaker 2: I'm going to hang out with your crew. You guys

1143
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 2: are inviting you guys, and that this is my vibe

1144
00:54:29,680 --> 00:54:32,239
Speaker 2: right here, pull up in the Hampton's just.

1145
00:54:32,960 --> 00:54:36,640
Speaker 1: Like that's a slippery slope in us because we will

1146
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:37,160
Speaker 1: show up.

1147
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:38,360
Speaker 2: We do show up.

1148
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,200
Speaker 3: So like you're invited, please come. We have room for

1149
00:54:41,280 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 3: you like you should, but but probably leave ocean at home.

1150
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:48,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's for sure.

1151
00:54:48,880 --> 00:54:49,640
Speaker 1: Mama's night out.

1152
00:54:50,200 --> 00:54:52,160
Speaker 3: I can share this with you guys. I guess this

1153
00:54:52,320 --> 00:54:54,480
Speaker 3: is something you know. The pandemic has been hard for

1154
00:54:54,520 --> 00:54:56,040
Speaker 3: a lot of people. I know that I'm not the

1155
00:54:56,080 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 3: only person who's like feeling this kind of second wave.

1156
00:54:59,000 --> 00:55:01,680
Speaker 3: By where it's like, are uncertain again and we're like,

1157
00:55:01,960 --> 00:55:05,399
Speaker 3: what's gonna happen now? Or is CALLI is Texas right?

1158
00:55:05,520 --> 00:55:06,719
Speaker 3: I'm in Florida right now?

1159
00:55:06,760 --> 00:55:09,440
Speaker 2: By I just left yesterday. I just left Miami yesterday.

1160
00:55:09,560 --> 00:55:11,080
Speaker 2: Part where where.

1161
00:55:10,800 --> 00:55:13,319
Speaker 3: Well, I mean, I go between Sarasota and Miami when

1162
00:55:13,320 --> 00:55:15,719
Speaker 3: I'm down here my family. I have family all over

1163
00:55:15,760 --> 00:55:18,160
Speaker 3: Sara Soda, Naples, and then obviously every fuck in New

1164
00:55:18,200 --> 00:55:20,600
Speaker 3: Yorker that could in Miami part time.

1165
00:55:20,640 --> 00:55:20,920
Speaker 6: Now.

1166
00:55:21,120 --> 00:55:23,480
Speaker 2: I'm born and raised in Miami, and I'm I go

1167
00:55:23,520 --> 00:55:25,759
Speaker 2: to Naples a lot because I'm big pickleball player at

1168
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:29,279
Speaker 2: pickleball capital of the world there in Naples. Yeah, but

1169
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 2: we're gonna be worth wild.

1170
00:55:31,000 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 3: We're gonna be We have friends in Naples that love pickleballs.

1171
00:55:33,960 --> 00:55:35,720
Speaker 2: They would know me because we have our own paddle

1172
00:55:35,800 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 2: lall and I and I'm a huge ambassador to the game.

1173
00:55:38,800 --> 00:55:40,960
Speaker 2: So if they play pickleball and you say my name

1174
00:55:41,080 --> 00:55:42,920
Speaker 2: or you say Lata's name, for sure, no way, I

1175
00:55:42,960 --> 00:55:44,160
Speaker 2: want to tell you we're going to be that, We're

1176
00:55:44,160 --> 00:55:47,279
Speaker 2: going to be there for her birthday September second. So

1177
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:49,680
Speaker 2: if you're in Florida, link with us, because that's the

1178
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:51,439
Speaker 2: only time law is ever going to go out. She's

1179
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:52,880
Speaker 2: never going to go out again. This will be her

1180
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:53,319
Speaker 2: only night.

1181
00:55:53,600 --> 00:55:54,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm coming.

1182
00:55:55,040 --> 00:55:57,759
Speaker 1: I'm on here, do it, do it.

1183
00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,280
Speaker 2: We're going to live September second. Make sure you're there, Okay.

1184
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,799
Speaker 3: I mean I can just fly in for the night. Yeah,

1185
00:56:03,600 --> 00:56:06,040
Speaker 3: go up. I was thinking, like Hampton's, we can do

1186
00:56:06,200 --> 00:56:08,680
Speaker 3: a pit stop in Miami and then and then go back.

1187
00:56:08,719 --> 00:56:13,040
Speaker 3: I've got the airport's luck, I know. Wow MacArthur, Like

1188
00:56:13,080 --> 00:56:15,160
Speaker 3: I've got my my rotation.

1189
00:56:15,480 --> 00:56:18,440
Speaker 2: Wow, you got it down, and I got it down because.

1190
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:20,879
Speaker 3: Like I mean, I never know, and people will be like, yo,

1191
00:56:20,960 --> 00:56:23,680
Speaker 3: can you come djaying in the Hamptons this weekend and

1192
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 3: you're going to open for Diplo or Nora or whatever.

1193
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,360
Speaker 3: It's like, all right, it's fine, what else? Am I

1194
00:56:28,400 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 3: really good? Right? I'm not doing anything?

1195
00:56:32,080 --> 00:56:36,200
Speaker 1: So never no, Wow, you always say yes.

1196
00:56:36,440 --> 00:56:40,480
Speaker 3: Yes, I love it usually usually, but also like you know,

1197
00:56:40,560 --> 00:56:43,960
Speaker 3: it's balancing with that self care, that down time, that

1198
00:56:44,120 --> 00:56:46,320
Speaker 3: friend time, and like eventually I'm going to have the

1199
00:56:46,360 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 3: start dating. You have it all figured out.

1200
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:51,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, we got you. I want to tell you that

1201
00:56:52,400 --> 00:56:55,239
Speaker 2: I run the alumni association of my performing arts high

1202
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:56,960
Speaker 2: school Miami called the New World School of the Arts,

1203
00:56:57,000 --> 00:56:58,680
Speaker 2: and I definitely want to invite you to speak to

1204
00:56:58,719 --> 00:57:01,600
Speaker 2: the kids at some point, you know, at the school,

1205
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,600
Speaker 2: because they would love to honor You're phenomenal and they

1206
00:57:04,600 --> 00:57:06,560
Speaker 2: would be totally inspired, and you have so much to

1207
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:08,879
Speaker 2: bring to the table. I think these young eighteen year

1208
00:57:08,880 --> 00:57:11,560
Speaker 2: old kids as they going to their senior year, they're

1209
00:57:11,600 --> 00:57:14,000
Speaker 2: super talented. They'll go off to Broadway or Juliard or

1210
00:57:14,320 --> 00:57:16,400
Speaker 2: you know, Cooper Union or Pratt whatever they could, you know,

1211
00:57:16,440 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 2: and I think you sharing your story and your journey

1212
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:21,280
Speaker 2: I think would be phenomenal. So I would love to

1213
00:57:21,320 --> 00:57:23,600
Speaker 2: invite you at some point this year to come speak

1214
00:57:23,600 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 2: to them. Thank you.

1215
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:26,760
Speaker 3: I would be honored to do that. So you just

1216
00:57:26,840 --> 00:57:28,400
Speaker 3: let me know that it is good and I will

1217
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:28,800
Speaker 3: be there.

1218
00:57:29,040 --> 00:57:29,440
Speaker 2: Awesome.

1219
00:57:29,560 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 3: That's part of my whole mission, right, is giving back. Right,

1220
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:35,160
Speaker 3: So they did the whole fun cool thing. I wanted

1221
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:37,640
Speaker 3: to travel and see the world and meet interesting people

1222
00:57:37,680 --> 00:57:40,040
Speaker 3: and play music and party and have fun. And it's

1223
00:57:40,120 --> 00:57:42,960
Speaker 3: like that's all great. I'm not going to give all

1224
00:57:43,040 --> 00:57:45,360
Speaker 3: that up. But I really love this point now where

1225
00:57:45,360 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 3: it's like, Okay, I've codified everything I've learned. Here's how

1226
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:51,080
Speaker 3: we can actually make this work a little bit of

1227
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 3: a better place, one person at a time.

1228
00:57:52,920 --> 00:57:53,080
Speaker 2: Oh.

1229
00:57:53,200 --> 00:57:54,880
Speaker 1: I love it. And you know what you have to

1230
00:57:55,040 --> 00:57:59,160
Speaker 1: I'm totally into. You have to find something that you

1231
00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 1: love and if you can make money at it, that's

1232
00:58:01,760 --> 00:58:05,760
Speaker 1: even better. But the giving back and you to be

1233
00:58:05,840 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 1: a full person. You have to be you know, thriving

1234
00:58:09,080 --> 00:58:12,400
Speaker 1: in your business, but also those parts of you where

1235
00:58:12,520 --> 00:58:13,960
Speaker 1: you kind of get back to your center.

1236
00:58:15,040 --> 00:58:16,240
Speaker 3: Yep, yeah, exactly.

1237
00:58:17,120 --> 00:58:20,120
Speaker 2: This is amazing. We're very grateful to have you on

1238
00:58:20,160 --> 00:58:22,600
Speaker 2: because you have so much light, so many amazing things,

1239
00:58:22,840 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 2: and I can tell you probably inspire a lot of

1240
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:27,960
Speaker 2: young people and a lot of young women, So that's awesome.

1241
00:58:28,160 --> 00:58:30,400
Speaker 1: Yes, thank you for being on our podcast. Thank you

1242
00:58:30,480 --> 00:58:33,720
Speaker 1: for shutting knowledge, and thank you for entertaining me on

1243
00:58:33,880 --> 00:58:34,480
Speaker 1: the Big Shot.

1244
00:58:35,640 --> 00:58:38,280
Speaker 3: Thank you so much, guys. You guys are amazing. It's

1245
00:58:38,280 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 3: been my pleasure.

1246
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,520
Speaker 1: Thank you, my love. Did I not tell you that

1247
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:42,680
Speaker 1: she was going to be a good guest?

1248
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:45,640
Speaker 2: I had no idea, By the way, what an inspiration

1249
00:58:45,800 --> 00:58:49,800
Speaker 2: for people like so happy and so positive? She reminds

1250
00:58:49,800 --> 00:58:53,960
Speaker 2: me of your assistant. Yeah, but no, but you know

1251
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,439
Speaker 2: what I liked about her, Like forget that the show

1252
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:58,160
Speaker 2: is so cool like you say, and I'm now going

1253
00:58:58,200 --> 00:59:01,480
Speaker 2: to watch it, But she's just like, has so much

1254
00:59:01,800 --> 00:59:05,520
Speaker 2: passion you could see to inspire people. And I love that.

1255
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:07,400
Speaker 1: Good energy, good energy.

1256
00:59:08,320 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 2: Great great guests, great choice.

1257
00:59:10,080 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: Thank you guys again for listening to another episode of

1258
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:16,320
Speaker 1: Give Them All AWA with Randall and we will catch

1259
00:59:16,360 --> 00:59:17,000
Speaker 1: you next week.

1260
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:19,000
Speaker 4: Hi, guys, cheating from Buffalo.

1261
00:59:19,200 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 6: Just wanted to let you know your podcast is amazing.

1262
00:59:22,400 --> 00:59:26,000
Speaker 6: First time listener today and I'm hooked. So you guys

1263
00:59:26,000 --> 00:59:28,320
Speaker 6: are doing a great job. I think you're an amazing couple.

1264
00:59:28,880 --> 00:59:33,680
Speaker 6: Keep brocking it, batcheous, You're awesome. Okay, I'm not on social,

1265
00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:35,280
Speaker 6: so I had to do it old school and calm

1266
00:59:35,360 --> 00:59:35,840
Speaker 6: leave the monk.

1267
00:59:37,720 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 1: Love you bye, Thank you so much, My loves. To

1268
00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:44,040
Speaker 1: everyone who has already called in to leave us messages,

1269
00:59:44,440 --> 00:59:48,000
Speaker 1: please keep them coming because we love hearing from you.

1270
00:59:48,000 --> 00:59:50,760
Speaker 1: Call us anytime at eight sixty six La La Pod.

1271
00:59:50,960 --> 00:59:53,919
Speaker 1: That is eight sixty six La La Pod. I mother

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Speaker 1: effing love you